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2	Seemingly hopeless situation The main thing now is owning your side of the mess without trying to control hers. What helped me in a similar spot was getting specific instead of vague: I wrote down what I actually need (respect, basic affection, time together, some physical intimacy) and then asked her, calmly and once, what she needs from me that she’s not getting. Then I shut up and listened, even when it stung. No defending, just “okay, I hear you.” I’d also do this work outside the marriage: solo therapy, a men’s group, …	/r/Divorce_Men	24/01/26 03:51 PM