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| 1 | Guys who went from bad, to good with holding conversations, tell us how you did it.I worked in sales where we're constantly told to ask open ended questions and get comfortable for waiting for a response to those questions. Really just work in sales, keep interesting hobbies, keep up with the local news, and remember people's names. If one of your hobbies is fitness related and social you're golden. | /r/seduction | 09/08/14 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Out in a foreign city, what are some good ASD excuses to invite her back to your hotel room at the end of the night?I NEED TO RETURN SOME VIDEO TAPES | /r/seduction | 21/03/14 06:30 PM |
| 3 | You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started?I'm into the same sort of girls, how the fuck do you figure out who is and isn't before you get them home? For me I just have to wait it out until luck of the draw wins out. | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 10:53 PM |
| 4 | You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started?Because it is, if a girl is at all uncertain it will be too much. If a girl clearly is already into you sure, but at that point there's no need for such antics. It could certainly turn a maybe into a no though, just food for thought. Keep it up if it works for you though. | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 10:22 PM |
| 8 | Got invited to a sleep over this weekend, where it will be just me and three girls. Any tips on getting a threesome going, or at least a sexy truth or dare?Yeah, definitely just friend going out with them, they don't have a threesome in mind. See where the night takes you and hook up with one if the opportunity comes up but take it from someone who has fucked this sort of situation up and ended up with none, don't push your luck. | /r/seduction | 30/08/13 06:00 PM |
| 3 | I'm a freshman in college and I've become the campus creeper. How can I change my reputation to a positive one?New groups of friends, the party scene is now not a good place then go to the school clubs like photography or anything else you're interested in. Talk to older girls, meet people though classes, diversify. Once you've got a solid base in other groups maybe talk to other people in the party group and test the waters but if it still goes poorly then do your own thing with other people. | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 10:39 AM |
| 1 | "Let's find you a girl!" Response?I've used his to shittest girls and guys before that I wasn't into who were hitting on me/wouldn't leave me alone, sorry guys but I do it too. A line I would have used might be, 'hell why stop at one?' or 'You're right, worst case scenario I'm stuck with you for a little longer' with a shit eating grin. If you catch it earlier than that (before you said yeah of course) you could alter either of those to make it fit though. Mind you I'm an asshole and part of my game in the UK is playing up the A… | /r/seduction | 10/02/13 05:04 PM |
| 6 | Differences between British and American girls?I'm a US in the UK. I've definitely had more success here, but I've also been trying and going out significantly more here. That being said I've also been hitting up the bar scene a lot more here and definitely focused on picking up girls a lot more here and just generally following the plan outlined here. Shit works gentlemen. Doesn't hurt that I started working out 8 months ago, but I'm definitely having more success with Oxford girls that girls back home. | /r/seduction | 10/02/13 01:28 AM |
| 12 | Be Sober!Spot on. | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 10:26 PM |
| 21 | Girl starts to talk about another guy, what do I do in this type of situation?If she's going on I tend to yawn. Noticed it was a knee jerk reaction, doesn't always work, but it doesn't always not either. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 08:21 PM |
| 7 | Best way to get into a threesome with another girl?I've had two. Honestly, both were very close friends to my girlfriend/fuck buddy at the time. The fuck buddy and the other girl had done the same before though not fucked and all three of us were fairly intoxicated. The other one was a girlfriend's good friend from home and it was very awkward for them tbh. Mostly because the girl and I butted heads a lot and fucking her over my girlfriend at the time didn't really help the awkwardness. Of course this was in Paris after my first time legally bin… | /r/seduction | 20/09/12 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Forming a "social group"?Fraternity. You host parties with hundreds of girls every weekend. I know this will get downvoted, but if you're looking for a social group then you should probably join a social organization. Yes there is drinking, yes there is hazing, yes there are assholes. But the hazing makes you stronger and more interesting, the letters make you hold your head up high, the copious amounts of free alcohol draws in A LOT of girls and the assholes make you better at dealing with assholes in the rest of your … | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Prepping your bachelor pad for company. Feel free to add your 2 cents.I have one of those timer air fresheners that goes off every 36 minutes, mind you I like my room smelling fresh so it's more for me than for girls and I've gotten compliments on how my room smells, however I've also been told by a long term FWB that she thinks I'm farting every time it goes off. Others have told me it scares the shit out of them. It's a give and a take but it means I don't have to think about it. | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Stop getting into AFC/chode mood?My biggest problem with this is saying sorry too much. Makes me feel like people can walk all over me because I'm constantly apologizing for my actions that I actually stand by. I'm fixing it starting with texts in that the only way I'm allowed to say the word is if I'm actually apologizing (never over texts). One step at a time man, just remember assert yourself and be confident, the rest comes easy. | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 06:28 PM |
| 1 | What if I have to flake or reschedule on her?I disagree, to clarify my model uses a base 5 utility for neutral night where you don't have any plans. If she has no intention of gong at all then she automatically falls in the 0 category, which again is part of the game. Without specific detail it's impossible to be sure which one she is up until flaking/the date, and therefore there is a chance going either way to your knowledge (this is the basis of GT). The model assumed you had a gut feeling that she might flake, we have to use our knowle… | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 06:24 PM |
| 1 | What if I have to flake or reschedule on her?Well, actually approaching this with game theory says he's right. Let's break this down. Let's assign the PUA to letters and the girl to numbers. We'll assume that the person not intending to flake has no other plans and therefore benefits 0 directly from being flaked on. Further we'll assume that this is a game with multiple rounds and both players are capable of learning (sorry if my terms are messed up only a studied a bit). PUA Flakes= F PUA not flake=N Girl Flakes=0 Girl not flake =1 In sit… | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Probably a really beta question but... Is using your business card a good way to display status or am I just shitting myself?I've done this before, but only when I'm legit interested in photographing them, although if I'm trying to hook up I'll generally get their number I'll just mention that I'm a photographer and that I do mostly Fashion photography. Generally if they're 7-8 range they'll ask me to do a photoshoot with them sometime, if they're in the 9-10 I try not to mention it because it sounds contrived (though it worked once on a 9). Best bet is this get her number, then give her your card with your website an… | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Some general advice to guys just starting with this stuff from a "Veteran"Then get involved with stuff that eats time and let's you meet people. Fraternity, job, photography, road tripping, hiking, and conferences for different stuff plus keeping a 4.0 makes me damn near impossible to reach. Always have 3 sets of plans and back ups. Make her bend to your schedule not out of control but because she has to just to see you. More than just seeming hard to reach it makes you exciting and seem like you have your shit together. If she flakes you've already got other shit goi… | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 09:00 AM |
| 1 | The Value Of Having "Your Spot"No no, it's the cheap shit. It's the stuff you can buy at the supermarket for about 1/2-2/3 of the price, unless it's very expensive then i'm not sure, but I think it's marked up less percentage wise. Drinks are expensive man, and if you're getting cheap food it's REALLY easy to spend more on alcohol than on food. The price of having a good time. Another way of looking at it is this, how much does a good (not tap) beer cost in that sort of place? 4 or 5 dollars? 2 drinks each is 20 dollars. Bott… | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 08:51 PM |
| 1 | The Value Of Having "Your Spot"That's pretty reasonable for a cheap restaurant. Used to work at a crappy seafood place and our bottles ran 17-32 | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 06:23 PM |
| 2 | I've taken a step in stopping my tunnel vision, and I vow never to return.Same exact situation buddy, for the last 2 relationships though. Just have confidence and set out there man. | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 06:00 PM |
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