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If the worst a man can do is send an angry text, they aren't dangerous. Just mean. Blocking numbers are 2 maybe 3 buttons away. You don't have to be amazing at turning a guy down. You just need to explain why and be polite. Just like how guys should act when approaching someone - explain your attraction and be polite.
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:40 PM
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Yes, but this whole context was about texting. They're safe. Any guy who would become crazy after rejection via text would also become crazy if he got ghosted. Rejection sucks. It's literally a judgment on his existence. The guy should be allowed to feel down or sour about it. If not, congrats you've helped contribute to a toxic male culture where men bottle up their emotions and release them in unhealthy ways because "they just need to learn how to take the L". Which leads to... guys shouldn't …
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:11 PM
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I'm saying there should be a baseline of respect. A person going out of their way to say, "Hey, I think you're fun, interesting, and kinda cute. I'd love to get to know you more." shouldn't be met with silence and avoidance. If you don't want to hang out with them, that's cool. Tell them why. It's the kind/respectful thing to do. It's then if they show those red flags of bad intentions or yelling that you swallow it, say bullet dodged, and move on. By not saying anything, you're not giving them …
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:47 PM
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If it got to the point of exchanging numbers in person, I think it’d be polite to explain what’s up. It can take a lot (especially for an 18 - 22 year old) to approach and put themselves out there. Not sharing why there is a lack of interest is disrespectful (he put himself out there/was vulnerable for you), it can make the guy emotionally spiral (questions if what he did was cringe or offensive or wrong in someway, and prevents growth) Not vibing? Cool let him know. Don’t like guys with long ha…
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:40 PM
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Why do you need to facetime her to ask her out? Just text her to grab a drink or hang out.
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:20 PM
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As someone who took a short break and returned to the dating scene at 30, it really seems to have gotten worse. A mix of “the grass is always greener” syndrome is huge.
/r/seduction16/06/22 04:50 PM
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I’ll agree that everyone woman has unique wants, but to say that the 3.5 billion women don’t have any overlapping wants or desires from a man is ridiculous. Why do you the top 5% of men on Tinder get something like 80% of the matches?
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:15 PM
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Putting yourself out there is literally marketing yourself as a potential mate. Everyone has preferences, but there are common traits that people find attractive.
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:16 AM
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Source?
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:11 AM
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That’s the thing, I guess it’s less book cover and more first impression. For me, taking improv classes helped a lot. It can be cheesy, but it forces you to get out there, fail, be ok feeling ridiculous, and helps show you ways to keep conversations naturally flowing. Plus, it’s a good way to meet people and then have the excuse to be like “hey all, we’re grabbing drinks after.” to then grow your natural social circle.
/r/seduction03/06/22 04:54 AM
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As someone who works in marketing, I take this to mean: most guys are great dudes, just the way they present or advocate for themselves isn’t great. Your content is good. Just your book-cover needs work.
/r/seduction02/06/22 01:09 PM
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I get that! I’m the very same way. I like the comforts of home and the escapism of video games and movies. I spent years over-indulging. It sounds like you may need some therapy though. Too much escapism and your self-described squalor isn’t good. Therapy helped for me. The key is balance. Don’t beat yourself for taking time for yourself to relax. However, self-care isn’t just doing the activities you like - it’s also cleaning, flossing, cooking, etc. It truly sounds like you’re killing it. You …
/r/seduction09/05/22 09:32 PM
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Those seem contradictory. What about how you live life don’t you like?
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:23 PM
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Do you like yourself? If not, then you’re not the person you want to be. If you like yourself, there is someone out there who will like you too. At the very least people who will like you for knowing yourself.
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:54 PM
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Don’t be perfect. Be yourself.
/r/seduction08/05/22 08:01 PM
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This is really good advice as an anxious man.
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:56 PM
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So, you did stop when you realized they were underage.
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:15 PM
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Please tell me you stopped as soon as you realized they were underage.
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:02 PM
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May I ask how often you rest your hand on the thighs of your friends?
/r/seduction13/02/22 10:41 PM
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17 at 29? That’s cringe. Also, the fact you called the people who think so in your town “incels” because of it, all major red flags
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:06 PM
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Holy shit, I think thats the first time anyone has ever said that on Reddit.
/r/seduction06/07/13 04:29 PM
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How would you guys want to act around a girl who currently has a boy friend but you would like to date later? I'm thinking like you have been friends with her for awhile just she has always been taken.
/r/seduction29/07/12 04:25 AM
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Story time?
/r/seduction27/06/12 04:36 PM
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YES!
/r/seduction03/06/12 06:36 AM
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I agree. Quality is kinda crappy (but hey, it's 5+ years old and i'm into movie making for a career so i'm pretty biased) But other than that he talked about how his ex got him into the community.(which I liked) But he really didn't really give any advice or tips. It felt like he was making it for himself and hopefully for his ex to see so he could show off and brag.
/r/seduction09/05/12 01:05 AM
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You don't need to escalate the kino with me. ;)
/r/seduction05/04/12 03:43 PM
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I love you.
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:48 PM
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he has the "He is hot so I will laugh at everything he says." spell on them
/r/seduction22/01/12 10:58 PM
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What do you guys do when a girl says maybe to hanging out?
/r/seduction07/12/11 02:09 AM
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TL;DR Numbers are nothing now compared to the pre 2000's. If you want to show you have talent get a same night lay or hook up.
/r/seduction29/11/11 08:46 PM
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