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What’s more important, thinking you’re being offensive or wasting time dating someone you think has surgery you don’t agree with? It can be considered offensive but overall no time is wasted dating and playing coy. Some things are better dealt quickly like removing a band aid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:36 AM
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It’s different degrees of deceit. A more comparable one would be cosmetic surgery for cosmetic surgery. IE boob job and hair transplant. Deceiving for sex is done by men and women as well. Some women will deceive to get pregnant to be a baby momma. Thats not the same as them lying about their surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:33 AM
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This is part of it. Also how it extends to the real world is key. There a level of degree to where it’s healthy. It gets weird when others unwillingly learn about individuals porn habits. Being okay with one’s sexuality doesn’t mean everyone needs to know about it. Conversations need to be had and consent needs to be given
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:31 AM
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Sexuality is a spectrum. He can experiment and get laid or head. If it’s for him he can get laid a lot more than he does now. If not then look for other options
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:04 PM
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That’s what op is doing and I agree. But that’s on par with this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:16 AM
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That’s always context. If you care about someone and they ask if they’re fat you can say something but in a nicer way. Insecurities exist and it’s fine to share them with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:59 AM
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Nobody is. Yet you want an answer that is based on nothing. Genius move. If you want someone to lie to you just ask your family, not the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:57 AM
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She can join in on the fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:15 PM
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Put a wig on that man. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:30 PM
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Only one way to find out buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:23 PM
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They’re both spectrums. And there are many unaware they’re on either spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:22 PM
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Who do think gives better head, men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:42 PM
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Sexuality is a spectrum and the majority of this sub is already on a different spectrum. Anything is possible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:41 PM
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Human nature makes people hypocritical. And make bad choices. Ideally making the right choice every time would be more common than it is. But it’s not. Women have things they do and men have things they do that make relationships harder. On one side a woman can make a bad choice that you don’t agree with. One would think that would opt them out of your dating pool. But for some reason men can’t move on from women that aren’t for them and vice versa. So their bad choice is not moving on and telli…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:25 AM
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It’s not copying. It’s human nature. People make bad choices like you making yourself think it’s only women that make bad choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:37 PM
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Yeah and guys notoriously don’t do that. Like date toxic women that like to fuck. Only women date incompatible individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:34 PM
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You say providing, it’s coexisting. For the most part most people in relationships have to work full time to survive. So wanting a partner that can help would be nice for men and women. A man should also want a partner that will help and not drag them down. Find a compatible partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:48 PM
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According to the men that didn’t fuck or get in a relationship in their younger years. If you fucked them then it’s okay. But since you didn’t you’re no good anymore. It’s how biases work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:45 PM
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It’s almost as if you missed most of OPs thread. You wouldn’t want any of the women in the hood or trailer park. You would deny these women if they chose you. You have the power too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:34 PM
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I think for women in similar situations the advice is to leave. In both situations, a person in an abusive relationship is not quick to leave the relationship as the other comment said. Abuse leaves people broken. Both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:32 PM
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I feel like most people on this sub would hate an obnoxious person like this. These people do exist and they typically end up with a similar partner. Someone that is into the whole dynamic of “of course babe” because that’s what “men” do and she’s supposed to do other things that “women” do. For the most part it’s not for most modern men or women. Specially most redditors. Traditionalists still exist and that’s fine too. Just date what you want to deal with is the usual thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:11 AM
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Style is a way to express oneself and it’s also a way to appreciate others. As a guy I feel like dressing well or at least trying to dress well lets men and women give you a quick compliment. Not that I’m fishing but it is nice to get them. Finding cool clothes is fun and I feel like putting an effort in looks, not hyper focusing, can help in many ways including self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:45 AM
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People love to complain. Complaining is free. That’s what happens in this sub. Giving credence to every complain is a dumb battle. Specially when it’s people with unrealistic expectations. Not everyone is gonna get a movie perfect relationship or partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:59 PM
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It’s not. People simply have unrealistic expectations. Both men and women. Calling them double standards is giving these people a bit too much credit. People simply have unrealistic expectations expectations of dating. And their life and what they “deserve”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:05 PM
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Yes. And that is why it is fine to do both as the other commenter said. You should be picky in your vetting and you should also be able to vet someone that makes you feel like you’re not getting settled for. It’s just vetting. Not a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:59 PM
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Is it a double standard? Men always bring up they don’t want to feel like they’re being settled with. Men should also be picky as well. Being picky and vetting better is in their best interest. I feel like men pretend to be fine with any woman that gives them the time of day and just settle with them making men not picky and also easy to settle with. Having standards isn’t a bad thing. Specially for something as intimate as a partner and potentially kids and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:08 PM
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lol. It’s very important context or else you wouldn’t have brought it up. Sometimes people don’t write well or even proof read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:49 PM
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I feel like it’s easier for men to blame women but anyone that falls for holidays to spend money as the holiday entails, they’re also into it. I personally don’t like holiday stuff because shit gets packed and crowded. Any man willing to deal with that is into it as much as the woman. If a man isn’t in to it they wouldn’t deal with the whole song and dance about it. Sometimes couples share one brain and they like the same shit. Disney couples are another example. If a man goes on the trips to vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:47 PM
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It is. Women choose to go about a traditional misogynistic relationship. Their life choice is to do that. It’s a choice. A choice allowed by feminism. Feminism allowed women to make choices. It’s like saying feminism isn’t anti religious. It’s not. It’s pro giving women choice to partake in a religion on their own volition. If they want to be, say Muslim, feminists aren’t gonna try to get them to flee their husband and denounce their religion. If anything you’re confusing what feminists goal is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:41 PM
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It’s not. Having the right to do traditional things is part of having rights. Having the right to do as you please is the goal of feminism and men’s rights movements. It’s similar to how people think women doing onlyfans is against feminism when it’s not. Feminism gave them the right and freedom to do that as opposed to how some women are forced into it. The right to do it is different than being forced to only do it. If a woman wants a traditional “misogynistic” choice then that’s on them. Some…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:30 PM
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It’s not really a threat. It would be like you being a men’s rights activist and somehow men still end up being the provider in the relationship. Sometimes people just choose to do what they want in a relationship due to a number of reasons. Traditional societal roles and expectations is one of em. As much as I don’t think a man should be solely responsible for a relationships finances it seems many still end up with that on their plate. Ideally they would be getting help in other aspects of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:14 AM
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You’re conflating a lot of information. 1) Guys approaching more often isn’t what this thread is about at all or what my comment is about. 2) socializing with same sex versus the opposite sex is completely different. A lot of people think that because they have friends they can socialize well when I’m reality it just means they can socialize with those certain individuals. Socializing is a skill. Some can socialize much better than others. 3) you somehow missed the part where classmates can mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:56 PM
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There’s a lot to it. But if a woman sees you with another woman then women can assume you’re approachable, normal, not weird. Now if you’re an outcast, look and act like an outcast, then you’ll probably not be approached by men or women. Where do people approach each other normally? Work and school. It’s not just out at a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:27 AM
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This is such a funny take. At the end of it all what makes people approachable and likable is how sociable they are. If you’re a weirdo that makes everyone uncomfortable not many people will approach you. Now if people see you get along with others then they don’t feel a certain way about you and you are approachable. It goes for men and women. It always has to be some 4d chess moves with some of y’all that can’t comprehend social norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:59 AM
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Asexuals don’t have sex with anyone. Don’t have the sex drive. It could happen to you as you get older. You might develop and change for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:41 AM
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It seems there’s a lot you don’t understand
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:30 AM
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Don’t forget there’s also asexual. Wow. It’s so complex. It’s almost as if a woman could date a man due to the social norms placed on us, figure out hey I don’t like men, be asexual, find out they like women, and then be a lesbian. It’s almost as if people can navigate their sexuality like some sort of spectrum. It’s almost as if people are complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:27 AM
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Or a confused individual. Like yourself. People don’t always know what they want. They learn. Something you have a hard grasp at comprehending. Others learn and grow. It’s part of the complexity of life. It’s not as binary as you think it is. “Lesbian only like woman, gay only like man, straight is heterosexual, and nothing in between” is pretty dumb. There’s lots of gray in between it all. Which is why the concept of sexuality being a spectrum exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:16 AM
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It’s not about being regressive. It’s about being complex. It seems you simply can’t handle a complex topic. People can be born a certain way, and due to how we are raised we can follow certain rules that we see around us. Such as man and woman relationships. If that’s what you’re used to that’s what you mimic and do even if it’s not who you are. Just how you are lame but saw online trolls and thought you could do it but you can’t. You’re still lame. And dumb. Hard to tell which came first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:05 AM
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It’s not really arguing. It’s explaining something you don’t comprehend. It’s like saying I can’t be a vegan cause I had meat when I was a kid. Pretty stupid mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:58 AM
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This just sounds like some weird kink. I get you’re horny. But you don’t have to get everyone involved. Just go bust in your hand and go to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:55 AM
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Are you bad at math and refer to yourself as a woman when you do math? That’s interesting. One upvote for being weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:54 AM
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Sexuality is a spectrum. Something conservatives and you don’t seem to comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:42 AM
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I mean if that’s how you see your community then it’s a pretty shitty community. Just how this thread is about TRP, people are responding quite differently. It seems no one is aligned, yet they’re also right and everyone else is wrong. Like what you’re doing. Deflect when you can’t answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:20 PM
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It’s literally what people that are RP say. Every time a person that’s RP tries to give a definition about RP it’s always different. Which is common with the rhetoric. Just a bunch of BS for susceptible men to fall into. Better than a cult I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:54 PM
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It’s fun to participate in
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:51 PM
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About tree fiddy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:53 PM
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This is an extremely unhealthy mentality to have. A stranger isn’t gonna look at you as something depicted in a movie. If you think real life is a movie you are pretty removed from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:38 PM
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This isn’t really gonna fix anything. It’s just a new way to experience it. There is no intersectionality between men that are ostracized and women dating men. There’s always been people/men that don’t get a happy ending throughout history. There’s always been a history of men that work and die. What happens when you’re poor. As for the rich wealthy men that are also not good at interpersonal relationships, they will continue to pay for sex in poorer countries where they can buy it. A sex robot …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:49 PM
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Doubt it. It’ll probably just write your 3 sentences email, but slightly better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:11 PM
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Your username is pretty spot on cause I forgot all about you. And I can see how you being a fiction writer by that tall tale of “women” “paying” for your writing and you “touching grass”. Bravo my good sir. I applaud your efforts at pretending you’re somewhat interesting. An updoot to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:08 AM
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Oh wow. Nice trick. Now you’re “doing fine” and have “empathy”. That’s cool. No one’s ever lied online before I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:48 AM
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It’s perspective. You see it as “getting over it”. I see it as a comprehensive understanding of reality. Even if you are to get in a relationship you are still an individual. You can and should have hobbies and ambitions with or without a relationship. Fixating so much on a relationship isn’t healthy and holding men back in many ways. Hypothetically if I had a guy friend that was single and bummed about it I wouldn’t continue to reinforce the idea that it suck’s that he’s single and He should hy…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:17 AM
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Some men do by focusing on sex or a relationship and not other things that can be as fulfilling or even more so. It’s not about not caring. It’s about expanding one’s ambition. It really comes down to how you look at it and just how I can’t make you comprehend I can’t make you see it my way. You seem fixated on your point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:56 AM
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At the end of it there are multiple factors why women are happier single. Men should find them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:09 AM
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Well the thing is that women aren’t happy because of that. They enjoy being single. They find other things to do then chase the opposite sex. Men can try that too. There is a lot to be done by oneself or with friends. Travel. Hobbies. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:35 PM
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There’s more to just sex. As much as man would love to get to fuck some are wholeheartedly looking for a relationship. Sex would fulfill some but not all. And just how a woman can feel used a man could feel confused. “I had sex with a woman and now she ghosted me. I thought it was going well” people are complex and not linear. I was simply using the scamming as another example. It may not have been on this sub but I do recall someone on Reddit saying they don’t feel bad for people that get scamm…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:53 AM
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It’s not nice guy rhetoric. Not once did I say you owed him sex. I just said how it’s shitty to make someone pay for shit because you’re leading them on. The morally right thing to do is to not use people in any manner. Sexually or financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:38 AM
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I’d say I’m morally nice. I’m not an upstanding person but I also don’t take advantage of people. Which is what happens in situations when you white lie your way into making men pay for things or when men do white lies to sleep with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:36 AM
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I mean you said you made men buy shit and then ignore them. That sounds like you did use them. But you’re also purposely protecting yourself spinning the story like men do. You can’t paint yourself as a bad person. Most people don’t think they’re bad. But clearly this world has bad and good people. I’d say you’re bad for failing to empathize with people’s emotions. But it makes sense why you can’t. Because then you’d face the reality that you are also bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:22 AM
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I mean you can be a woman and still ignore it for some reason. Like you said, I can’t read your mind. I can’t comprehend why you don’t understand how leading people astray isn’t lying. But I guess if you were that type of person to lie to others you choose to not understand to defend yourself against criticism. As a guy I hate women that use men just how I can also hate men that use women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:15 AM
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There is more to it then just generalization https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/202412/4-reasons-why-single-women-are-so-much-happier-than-single-men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:08 AM
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Yeah. There was a recent study that proved this too. And it is nice to be single. It’s just men put more weight into finding a partner or getting laid than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:05 AM
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It is pretty odd how some men confuse desperation as something else. It can be helpful to comprehend one’s emotions and I feel like some men can definitely learn to be more in tune with themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:03 AM
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It really seems like you just want to purposefully miss the point. On one hand you understand how lying and “not being honest” is deceitful but on the other hand you also want to defend men getting laid by telling tall tales aka lying. I guess you’d understand in terms where the man is the victim so let me explain here. Woman lies to man about being into him. Says let’s go on date. Chooses expensive place. Tricks him into paying the tab with the guise of “maybe you’ll get lucky”. Girl is just fl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:52 PM
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Oh okay so I should just take your word. I don’t blindly believe liars. Maybe that’s the red pill way. 2/2 on red pillars pulling numbers out their ass. Commonality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:54 AM
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Why can’t you show me where you got your data? Or are these just random things you regurgitate online. I asked another guy that too under this thread and he just said he’s lying/ making it up. No real data. Is that what you’re doing too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:39 AM
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Didn’t read any of that now that I know you just go online and lie. Probably just a bunch of gibberish and more lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:36 AM
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Where are these studies? Any place I can read the study?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:34 AM
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Oh so you’re just making things up. Got it. Just wanted you to at least be honest. Hope this helps others realize you’re just making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:33 AM
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Socializing is still normal between people. That was more so a public announcement of respecting boundaries. Like don’t go flirting when it’s not being reciprocated. Some won’t mind but the general public is trying to help out those the quiet minority. And to push the idea of boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:32 AM
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Where are you getting the number from? Interested in the data
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:28 AM
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Where is this stat from?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:27 AM
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Where is this stat from? 10%?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:27 AM
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Where are these stats from? 20/60/20?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:27 AM
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I agree. It’s exactly why women feel used. The thing OP somehow comprehends but fails to empathize with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:23 PM
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Some men think it’s better to lie like OP mentioned. Honesty isn’t the best policy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:00 PM
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Oh you’re alive. I thought this was you since you’re obsessed with gooning. This is what happens when you give men the things you’re clamoring about. “Why can’t we have a sex robot brothel?” Just buy one and goon at home bro. Advocate for that. Don’t let this be you or other men. Go to therapy if you need help. Figure it out. It’s not too late https://www.tmz.com/2025/01/15/arizona-man-viral-video-drive-thru-ends-life/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:49 PM
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There is more to it than flirting. It’s deception. Like in your other response you said honesty isn’t gonna get men laid. What’s the opposite of honesty? Dishonesty. Deceit. Essentially the negative emotions one would feel when they feel deceived and used for sex. Trying to get laid isn’t always in good faith. You lie about future prospects like “yeah of course I feel a connection. Of course I like that too. No way you do that me too”. You understand it to a degree. You just choose to not compre…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 10:20 AM
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That is true but by saying honesty isn’t he best policy just shows how deceptive it is. Since in this case it isn’t. It’s better to lie. Also not a woman you dork.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 10:16 AM
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I mean maybe your experience with women that like to fuck has affected your perspective on not all women being that way. Just how not all guys are horn dogs. It’s just something that can happen to women. Guy wants to get laid. Finds woman. Knows the game is to be interested in them and be friendly or cordial and then get laid and then ghost. That is how women feel used. It can suck when you can’t tell if people have ulterior motives for you. For men it can be them paying for dates. Them doing fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:13 AM
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Just call him old. Dummy out he’s 49 on his thing. Clearly he’s deranged if he’s that old and doing all this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:34 PM
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Not really. I feel like I’ve just been there at the right place and time and gotten lucky. Sometimes women can be horny for the sake of being horny. Sexual desire is just hornyness. Plenty of men have slept with women they aren’t necessarily proud of. Same thing for women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:45 PM
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I mean that is a specific example of a toxic relationship. No one should be treated that way and the net positive is that it is now over. Unfortunately there are people out there using others, both men and women. All you can do is try to vet more in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:23 PM
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Men that are half a century old keep saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:21 PM
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This seems like it’s just based on your own experiences. There could be some issues differentiating them likening you and them just wanting casual sex. I feel like there have been times where I got laid and nothing other than sex was exchanged. No emotion. Nothing. Just how some men want that so do some women. Being horny is common in both albeit men get hornier more. I feel like the idea OP is pushing is that there is a lot of conflating desire and love. I’ve been in LTR and it’s not that I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:20 PM
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How do you know that? “Hey do you have high interest in me that will lead to sex?”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:15 PM
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I mean that makes sense to a degree. When there’s a child involved there should be some level of responsibility from the parents. Ideally
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:32 AM
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Bro I said the teachers failed you not me. You really can’t read. I get you don’t believe in god but at least believe in yourself and do better. Why not bring up sex at the park or at the grocery store? Oh that’s right cause there’s still rules to normalcy outside of religion. But you want to pretend there isn’t cause you’re gooned out of your mind and want to be a patron at a robot sex shop. I also didn’t say it was a religion lmao. You’re all over the place bro. Go back to gooning. The only th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:25 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/sexual-intelligence/201003/can-atheists-have-code-sexual-morality Sex and God: How Religion Distorts Sexuality by Dr Darrel W Ray. Examples you could read into. Comprehending it is a whole different thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:21 PM
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It’s a bad example. I’ve explained it to. Clearly your teachers failed you. Not much I can do with this interaction where you’re unable to take valid criticism due to your poor reading comprehension and writing ability. Both don’t feel a thing? I mean a man feels something. The toast doesn’t. The robot doesn’t. The toaster doesn’t. Notice that odd one out. Notice how the factor is simply the aspect of the man and the sexual relationship between it and the robot. Getting upvotes means shit and if…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:28 PM
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“No one is saying my example is bad, It’s just when people like you see one you just refuse to see the comparison.” I’m saying it’s a bad example that fails to make a comparison. And if you say others do it too then clearly others are saying you’re making bad examples. You missed the part where a sec robot is and the toaster are the comparison and the bread and the human are the other object going into the other machine. Even you forgot your own bad example. Crazy. You really need to work on you…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:23 PM
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It’s definitely a give and take. Being introverted isn’t bad. It is bad when your problems are somehow someone else’s problem that has no real connection to the person. I know a few introverted board game people and they’re not that mad at not having gfs. Personal time and hobbies can be pretty fulfilling but obviously not to all. And when people realize that being online a lot simply isn’t for them or if they find out too late then it can lead to negative outbursts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:13 AM
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Where is this from? If it’s from an actual studies I’d like to see it. I’ve seen numbers thrown around a lot and don’t believe it without proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:11 PM
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Can you find the exact details? Just curious and would like to see if it’s real. If you more the source it should be easy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:58 PM
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I don’t think it’s necessarily the success of it. It’s more so the super mild form of manipulation. Thinking it’s because it worked is the wrong mentality. Even when they spelled it out for you like I am right now. Even in your own story they said it was under false pretense and lying is immoral. But like I also said it is in the gray. If they really didn’t want to get bothered they’ll tell you. If they didn’t mind the mindless conversation then they are just chatty and open to dialogue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:57 PM
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It’s a rule? Based on what studies? Where are these stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:52 PM
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Where are these 20/60/20 stats from?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:28 PM
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I mean with that context it is weird. You are lying to me someone. On the other hand if they are responsive to that they probably don’t mind talking to you. If they did they’d just end the convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:28 PM
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Not everyone should be taking drugs. Horrible advice. That’s from someone that takes drugs. I can control myself, you can’t control others habits or state of being.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:26 PM
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Approaching people in person has always had stipulations. I think a big change in that is that people generally don’t want to be bothered when they’re about. As a guy I get irritated when someone tries to talk me for any reason and I can understand when that happens to women or other men too. Just cause I’m outside doesn’t mean I necessarily want to socialize. And I think people are understanding that more now. We don’t owe anyone kindness. At best we can be neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:25 PM
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I’d say it’s partly the internets fault. Which can be self inflicting when they want to be online more than offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:21 PM
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There was someone that dealt with child development and he differentiated boys and girls in that boys have found a lot of their outlet online. Boys like to compete and they can do that online. Boys get horny and can find porn online. Boys want to hang out and laugh and socialize at their leisure and it is primarily online. It is self inflicting in this way unfortunately. Clearly they can socialize but it’ll only be with other boys. Socializing with the opposite sex for dating prospects is comple…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:20 PM
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Nah. But maybe you’ll learn reading comprehension this semester lil man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:45 PM
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You’re the one that can’t comprehend the previous comment. I can copy and paste it again but I can’t help with your reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:16 PM
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There is. You shouldn’t subjugate others to your kink without their consent. “Aka tall, dominant, high status, rich, successful, good looking men with big dicks Women relish getting fucked by such men” I’m calling it a kink by the way you talk about it. It’s like erotic literature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:05 PM
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Is this an extension of your kink? This weird obsession over women wanting this chad character. Is Chad in the room?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:24 PM
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If you keep being told your examples are not good it seems you are at fault for simply making bad comparisons. Which so far you have in this conversation. I can explain more. Man fucking a machine is different than bread getting toasted in a toaster. Man is human. Toast is not. Not close. You could’ve easily said a man fucking a toaster or something better. At least make it make sense. Sex is taboo to people due to conditioning. Atheists aren’t fucking everything in sight and vice versa not ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:20 PM
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Women like attractive men. Next thing you’re gonna tell me is that men like attractive women. Don’t go blowing my mind buddy. Might blow my load.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:13 PM
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Shh. It’s his kink. Don’t reply. It’ll get him hard
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:37 AM
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There’s the morality factor. Sex is still taboo. It’s not like your toaster example at all. Having SEX with an object is still SEX.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:28 AM
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In every regard
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:27 AM
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Every time someone on this sub gives the definition of red pill it’s always different lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:09 AM
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Sounds like a kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:08 AM
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One aspect to this is also the honey moon phase. As much as a relationship feels like it’s going strong from the beginning due to infatuation, once that wears off things like this happen. You seem to be more cognitive over emotion which is why you feel this way. It makes sense and has some truth to it but it’s simply not for everyone. It’s just another thing with preference. The more time you spend with someone the more you’ll also find things that you either really like or really hate and that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:08 AM
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That’s a stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:59 AM
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I don’t think that’s it at all. Men just ignore things because they’d rather be miserable in a relationship than single.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:58 AM
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Oh okay. Thats not helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:51 AM
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From what I understand brothels are still illegal in most states. Just because it’s robots doesn’t really take away from the “pay for sex” aspect of it. It makes sense why.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:51 AM
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Why did you say MA? It was in Houston. Also not sure why you say it’s women that are against it when this article just says opponents. Not gender specific. I would think a conservative state like Texas wouldn’t want a brothel. Even if it is with robots it’s still taboo for a religious state.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:51 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:33 AM
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Careful or rational behavior like yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:28 AM
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Bro, you’re talking about necrophilia like it’s okay. You have a problem my guy. Get help. You need to go to horny jail. Or get a hobby. Or therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:40 PM
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Exactly. For both men and women. Sex can be fun. An orgasm feels great. Both are for the most part quick. You still gotta deal with your self after the whole ordeal. Being happy for less than 30 minutes a day isn’t a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:34 PM
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Involuntary erections are involuntary so what’s to say it couldn’t happen? Also if someone is in a senior home with an erection, why does it matter that they want to fuck and procreate. They’re at deaths door. This just pushed forward the narrative that you are hyper-fixated on sex. I’d look into it if I were you. It could be due to excessive porn consumption or some other psychological issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:45 PM
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OP sounds like someone that’s sex obsessed and never been in a relationship. Just has his focus on getting laid and procreating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:33 AM
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This mentality is definitely one of those that can’t comprehend an existence outside of reproduction and sex. Not everyone is like this. The hyper-fixation on both sex and reproduction could be a personal issue. There is other reasons get together and stay together. It is becoming more common to not have kids, which is partly why birth rate has decreased in many countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:32 AM
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Being present is one thing. Being as prevalent is different. If you’re mainly talking about within the US the US does differ from other countries in many ways. Being overweight along with the other things the other commenter said about how men have become more hermit like could be part of it. And as much as alcohol could be considered a negative it is a pretty commonly used for social gatherings. Something the hermit American isn’t doing, drinking as much or socializing. Drug use and drinking ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:28 AM
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That’s true. Those are all random variables that even though there is some control to them as the man, the other variable is the woman in front of them. Just how not every guy can be the same neither is every woman. It’s not bad advice, but it’s not good advice either since you’re not giving specific details someone can do to grow themselves. It’s too passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:32 PM
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I’m not believing it’s sarcasm. You’re the one that needs it all spelled out to you. You have no basis to any point and you’re just pretending to be retarded. Except you really are. You’re just good entertainment so I applaud you for that at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:43 AM
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Now you’re hiding your idiocy behind sarcasm. Bravo. Decent troll. You’ll get that much
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:32 AM
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Oh okay now you backtrack. You’re a troll with no spine. That’s rare. Die with the lie bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:23 AM
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The fact you think that someone that makes 50k a year and has 3 friends and doesn’t talk to women can just go to the club and it’ll magically getting laid is hilarious. You can lie and say it works for you, a lot of people lie online, but I’m being honest. You should try it. Oh wait you can’t, you oofy doofy troll
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:03 AM
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I’m pretty sure I’ve talked to this guy before on here and he’s some weirdo that will ramble on and will eventually say your way of thinking is “oofy doofy”. He literally used that somewhere in his shpeal. Definitely off the hinges lol. I’m guess his old account got banned. Not surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:00 AM
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How’s he learning game when he’s just going ball to the wall? That’s not really a learning mentality. Guess you can’t put a cohesive thought together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:57 AM
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He’s not gonna learn a thing except why he doesn’t go out to clubs or socialize. This will turn someone into a hermit. You really don’t know much about people. You should try socializing too bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:57 AM
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Oh yeah what’s gonna help this guy talk to women? By going balls to the wall, most likely just getting rejected for being so bad at it, and then getting even worse at talking to woman. Your suggestions will get men going backwards lol. You are a troll. At least be funny. You’re just dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:52 AM
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Such an oofy doofy mindset. You expect someone to just get laid when they can’t talk to women? You’re delusional and a troll. At least that’s in your username.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:51 AM
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It’s hilarious he thinks he and others can be so anti social and magically get laid by just going to a bar. Duh, why hasn’t every man just gone to the bar to gotten laid, are they dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:46 AM
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To me it reads as someone “asking for a friend” type of thing. Getting fit is helpful for a healthy life but not for dating. Neither is trying to be “efficient” in finding dates or getting laid when they have an overall issue with talking to women. It seems like the guy is trolling as his name says
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:44 AM
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What I don’t get about this convo is that it completely diverted from OPs situation. OP seems to have trouble with everything so thinking time efficiency is the main concern is interesting. Like most men he could try socializing first. Bro has only 3 friends and no woman friends. But for some reason the goody doofy commenter is making it about being efficient and getting fit? Completely missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:32 AM
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This guy completely missed OPs question just to ramble about himself lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:28 AM
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Being buff will only help his health and build. If he can’t socialize then he can’t get laid or get a gf. You gotta talk to women to get with them. Not just go to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:25 AM
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It’s funny to imply the obvious. Being blunt is for dummies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:40 PM
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Bro, in what reality are older men hot by default and younger women hot by default. Thats not how reality is bro. Look in the mirror. Look at all the women that turn you down. Ugly and pretty ones probably your age range or younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:13 AM
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But but but but all men become jacked when they’re 40
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:10 AM
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You’ve also edited it a lot. Made em forget what I even replied to. You sneaky little
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:09 AM
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Which is why I said it’s also a warning to men. Not just women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:05 AM
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People prioritize different things in their partner. Looks can be one. Looks is sometimes the only one. The tired myth is more of a tale of precaution to young women. Some women don’t care about being used for their looks since they get a benefit, which is usually financial support/ independence. If men had that as an option they would take it but they don’t. Instead some men happily use their established lives as a plus on their end when looking for a partner. As for dealing with baggage, some …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:51 AM
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I doubt you and OP have the capacity to even talk to women let alone manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:50 AM
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Yeah. It had good intention but forcing people to change a way of life like that will never work. Bars and alcohol will always have a place in human history. I was listening to something a while back that explained how even though we associate it with bad health now, in the past it was used a lot as ways to socialize as it is now. If you don’t want to drink and socialize with people that do simply don’t. But it can help some as a social lubricant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:05 PM
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Getting rid of bars is a good idea but then you’d just have drunkards everywhere else. Also one less third place for people to be in. As much as bars and drinking culture isn’t the best for people, people have decided they want to drink. Look at what happened a century ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:27 AM
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It’s not about victimhood. It’s just the reality. Women get advertised discounts, they go to a bar. Bar gets lots of women, now come in the men that want to get at said women. It’s a trickle down effect of what’s advertised. First cheap outing for women, then women for men. Ladies nights has always been a thing with this idea in mind. It’s suppose to be for people trying to have a drunk time. It’s not for the moral at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:02 PM
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This is how that practice has always been. It’s never been about sexism. It’s about getting women in the door that in turn will get men in the door. Bar and drinking culture is in general pretty stupid so this isn’t surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:00 PM
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The only people that need to talk about it are the ones in the relationship. I’m sure it gets brought up often like this thread but it matters most when it affects the relationship directly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:44 PM
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How is this a debate? It sounds like a statement that most people will agree with. “Preferences and compatibility, including sexual preferences and compatibility, will affect a relationship”. Bravo my fine sir 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:14 PM
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Because words have meaning. Saying things like “I’m not interested in anything serious” only conveys one thing. You just want to get laid. What are the chances you’ll get laid when you just ruined the date by being so brash about it. Probably zero since you just put it on her to decide how the date goes. Is it gonna end since she’s now put off by you expecting to get laid so easily or does she pretend that didn’t happen and just try to salvage the date because she kinda liked you? The other part…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:52 PM
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They are out there but it does take some level of game/ social understanding. OP bringing it up so brashly is not gonna work since it is off putting. “Don’t want anything serious” mid date is essentially saying “I’m just here to get laid, not be in a relationship “. Which is fair but at the same time how does that make the woman feel. “Oh awesome, someone just wants the date to end to have sex with me”. As a short man with a lisp I’ve gotten lucky just because I understand how to socialize prope…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:33 AM
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The bigger set up for misunderstandings is also not being able to read a situation. Bringing up that you don’t want anything serious is honest but when and how is it being conveyed can affect how it’s received. Saying that up front just says all you want is sex without being that explicit. It can be a turn off since you somehow feel comfortable enough to say that as if you’re expecting it. Saying it after knowing there’s chemistry enough to have a casual thing and not a serious relationship is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:28 AM
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Not much. But good thing you can get some help now. Never too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:33 AM
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In this made up scenario you’d be suspended from school and the rumor would just grow as the boy that sucked dick. Also getting that mad about it shows that you do care. If you didn’t care you wouldn’t react to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:00 AM
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I’m sure you’d care if someone made a rumor about you sucking dicks. Speaking of which i think i did cause this fucking thread blows.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:04 AM
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That shit is honestly wild. Some of the worst pain I’ve had was from cramps from norovirus. The fact women deal with that monthly is insane. Norovirus also fucked me up in general and not fun at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:03 AM
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Lmao 🤣oh no. Boo hoo. That might hurt you I guess since you’re so feeble minded. Thanks for the laugh dork.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:37 AM
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No need to pull myself back when dealing with a moron. “Oh my gosh, Ad hominem” of course you fall back on that. Typical loser shit. What are you gonna do about bitch? Cry about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:25 AM
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If you believe the world to be as narrow minded as you are sure. It’s all straight forward. You can paint anyone how you please since you’re narcissistic and always right in your world. But it’s not your world. Thankfully. Painting those you oppose as “communists”. Lol. Dummies want to bring the red scare back and ignore how stupid it was. Stupid is as stupid does I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:30 AM
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That goes both ways too. Political beliefs and sexuality is a spectrum. They could be left leaning in beliefs and do sex work while also voting politically right for certain things. Isn’t life great and complex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:45 PM
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That’s honest. And very true with many people. Shit isn’t as crystal clear as people assume. People are complex Some of them have online. Some post their thoughts and ideals and their real life and then on the same account their ads to make you pay for their OF or whatever. It was interesting lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:16 AM
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You’re telling me my guy. I randomly came across a few of them expressing their content over it. Not one was sad about the Dems losing. What does that say about porn stars and their ideals? I don’t know. It is just interesting. Maybe their so fiscally conservative they then adopt others ideals? No idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:08 AM
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That’s what makes it funny. Many are happy they trump won. Which is fine. It just makes it funny since you’d think they wouldn’t want that since they’re sex workers but it goes to show that people are complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:02 AM
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You can be conservative and still think abortion is okay. Many conservatives women do believe in freedom of choice. Just how you mentioned they can be fiscally conservative/ overall conservative they can also be left leaning in abortion. I’d still bundle them in as conservation based on voting record and many seem to have voted for trump. Doesn’t get more conservative than that. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2024/03/25/what-the-data-says-about-abortion-in-the-us/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:58 AM
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A lot of porn stars are conservative. I say that to also bundle in OF stars that dress provocatively and are also in the same camp. Regardless of things we notice, style is dependent on personality. Some people dress conservatively because they like the style, not so much the ideals. It also goes the other way. It’s based on style. Just how some gay guys can dress conservatively and others flamboyant. Why do they differ? They’re different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:48 AM
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G O D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:27 AM
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It may not be asking directly but their post sure makes it seem like it’s their goal. They word their arguments poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:16 AM
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A lot of it gets convoluted by people on both sides. People that subscribe to TRP or black pill and misconstrue the information as they talk to others online or to people that don’t care about it enough to look it up and get their info from others, wether it be people from those communities or people criticizing them. I personally read a lot of peoples post explaining their TRP when it’s really black pill. Typing that up also made me realize most normal people don’t know what either really mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:15 AM
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So you’re not a go getter at all then. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:52 AM
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How is faith proof though? It’s not tangible. We can’t make a model like we can off protons and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:46 AM
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You don’t believe in god and believe that atheism is proof of god? lol. As someone that’s agnostic that’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:40 AM
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No. Probably cause they get taken down for the same reason. But I guess if you want to feel attacked by misandry then you probably imagine it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:01 AM
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Faith isn’t proof there’s god. Faith is proof people are afraid of their own existence. Where is actual proof god exists. Can you take a picture of him and show it to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:59 AM
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The whole reason is they don’t want low effort trash on this sub. This comment bitching about the sub is longer than your post. Ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:30 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:29 AM
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I’m the idiot? The person that wants to comprehend your numbers you’re spewing around like a moron? I guess I am an idiot for trying to make sense of anything you say. Talking to you goes nowhere. Believing your observations are all that matter. Lol. Educate myself? Go find real studies and learn real things bro. Don’t go around pulling shit out your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:56 PM
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It’s a lie because statistics are numbers based off of studies. You’re just saying random numbers for no reason. That’s retarded. That makes you 95% retarded and a 5% moron. How’d I get those numbers? Out my ass like you gets yours. Hope that makes sense to your braindead RP mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:38 PM
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Oh so you just make it up. So everything you say is a lie. Typically RP. Consuming your own confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:13 PM
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It can be odd. Maybe get a pet or invite friends over. That can help fit the time being. Making a home homelier will help too. You will appreciate alone time when you are in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:47 PM
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Where do you get the stats from?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:29 PM
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I mean guys would do that too if they had it as easy. Get with someone. Fuck. Leave. Men are just scared of how long they’d be single for
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:28 PM
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The idea is to be happy on your own and not seek it along with validation. Finding love and affection is separate from being happy. It can improve your happiness but you should try to be happy on your own regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:27 PM
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Some can. Just like this sub. There’s good threads and then there’s this shitty one with bad discourse and no substance
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:41 PM
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You also lack the reading comprehension to understand why you’re narcissistic. And what saying bye means. Ad hominem aren’t bad specially when you’re dealing with a moron like yourself. It’s the only way to deal with people like you. Pretending that you deserve some sort of protection and decorum is hilarious because you are only putting up a front. You are dumb at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:43 PM
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It can be. Like this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:42 PM
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More narcissism. lol this sub never fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:24 AM
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That’s also true. It’s good for entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:11 AM
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It is nonsense when you change a definition because you think you’re so smart you choose what words mean. You’re just narcissistic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:25 AM
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There are levels to friendships. Not everyone is in the know level or emotional level. Some are just friends of friends but due to frequent interactions they think they’re closer than they really are. Interpersonal relationships are pretty intricate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:24 AM
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Micro trend is stupid. What’s new? Most small trends on Tik tok are stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:22 AM
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Bro said no ad hominem and also posted a dumb ass post.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:39 AM
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Bruh if someone takes their phone out to record you not paying just walk out and laugh about it. She made it easy for you to just leave. No need to be nice back. Also the likelihood this happens is minimal and non consequential.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:53 PM
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That is true. They were generalizing. Just how not all women try to get a free meal not every guy is indiscriminately taking out a lot of women with the goal of getting laid. It does happen and it is a waste of time for everyone and ruins it for everyone. But if you don’t do it then you just aren’t dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:51 PM
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Women support each other by saying “go girl” and men don’t so it’s demonized? I feel like the general consensus is you should be able to divorce for any reason. The main people that are against divorce are conservatives and TRP since it’s against their beliefs. Maybe you feel that way because of the people you surround yourself with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:30 PM
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The internet fucked everything up. We used to be more sociable and now we are less nice to strangers. I for one never was that nice to strangers since I’m an introvert but now almost everyone is an introvert but the difference is I’m aware of it and it’s due to my social battery draining as to where others behave like their online persona and are quite shy in person. Shits only gonna get worse with AI partners and sex robots. People having conversations with CHATGBT is so odd to me. Like why not…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:02 AM
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It’s not about worship. It’s about the statistics behind homelessness. Are you not talking about US stats? Then which ones are you talking about? Or are you just having us guess what you mean? Also if it’s not US related then you’d know why and that’s because most other countries already have some safeguards that the US doesn’t unfortunately like healthcare It’s a gendered issue if you ignore the other points. Somehow the economic issues isn’t brought up at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:19 AM
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The issue with homelessness isn’t a gendered issue. It’s about the systematic issue where people are priced out of a home. Economically houses and housing has skyrocketed. Secondly, support systems help. Women have more support than men for a multitude of inter social reasons so even though they are not homeless they are also not in a good position. How can men get more inter social support from friends and family as opposed to them ending up on the streets? Another reason is men have made up a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 09:47 PM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 09:38 PM
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Why is 4B in US bad and Koreas is not? Also isn’t MGTOW not just about marriage. It’s also about dating. At least from what others have mentioned on this sub that were part of it. A less aggrieved black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 08:19 PM
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Yes because I’m trying to get the point across that men can’t socialize in person. Socializing is a lost skill with how much people are online. Yeah you can talk but talking isn’t the same as keeping a conversation going. You could just go “hi how are you. Me too. Have a good day. Bye.” Conversing is another, making a conversation longer with talking point and fun relevant things to say. Men want an audience to practice with and here’s an audience of women to do that with and somehow it’s just n…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:55 PM
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Talking is one thing. Learning to hold a conversation is a separate thing. My audience is the men in this sub that most likely have 0 or at least 1 female friend to practice with. How you talk to your guy friends and women are not the same which is why any level of socializing with women would help. Being online and learning to debate doesn’t translate to IRL. A lot of people boast online, lie online, and just pretend to be a different person which is partly why OLD is extremely difficult. If lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:50 PM
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The YouTube videos are just reality TV. It’s not real life. If you just base everything from what you see online it’s no surprise you don’t understand the value of in person conversations. It’s exactly why I said that it’ll help men learn to socialize and converse with women. The men in this sub are predominantly online. You’re underestimating how much being perpetually online affects the psyche and in turn socialization and skills needed to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:20 PM
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That’s all pretty cool. I thrift. I like fashion. Keep doing you. Build yourself up. And when you try dating again it could improve since your confidence and mental fortitude have improved. Until then you’re still enjoying your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:17 PM
1

Is OLD better than in person speed dating? OLD where you just swipe and chat with bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:14 PM
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So what do you tell me to help them? Look better? Conversation skills and socialization are skills you can improve on and that’s not a good recommendation. So what is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:14 PM
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That’s a lot of words to say no source 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:58 AM
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Give me your source then to prove mine wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:32 AM
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That’s ironic coming from the man child making a moronic post. “These guys told me women are weird and I didn’t verify any of it. I just trust them cause they also like to complain about women like I do. Anyways, if you have any proof I need 3 sources for your evidence. My evidence is some dorks online”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:27 AM
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Did you forget about how I mentioned this sub? Men that go online to make themselves victims and get mad like yourself. A person on this sub. “Source?” 🤓 you guys are just debate lords perpetuating your own sadness through your ignorance pretending to be smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:24 AM
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They also fill their time with other hobbies and activities. Men on this sub just go online and whine about it online where they just get more confirmation bias from other lonely angry men ignoring other types of advice. It’s not my life I’m ruining. You guys can carry on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:20 AM
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Practicing talking to people as opposed to just swiping on a phone? You can swipe 10000 times and match 1 times and it goes nowhere if you don’t know how to talk to a woman. You go to an event and you can practice right there. Talking to women is a skill most men don’t seem to have. If I asked you, do you have many female friends the answer may be no or like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:18 AM
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What are these men humiliating events? Kickcock? You guys are so unserious it’s hilarious. The RP is only good for creative writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:16 AM
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I do have empathy which is why I want you to be able to process your emotions appropriately. If you are having a hard time I’m not gonna egg you on and tell you bias confirmation like other guys online would. You should do some hobbies other than gym too. When you do get in relationship you’ll still be your own being with your own wants and desires. Having hobbies is a forever thing. Like most men I game. I also cook. It’s fun to do those things for yourself and with/ or for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:15 AM
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Oxygen is needed for survival. Having a gf isn’t. Not a good comparison. Rejection is something you need to process mentally and emotionally , or don’t and just be another mad person online. Oxygen gets processed by the body for survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:04 AM
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It’s not. Swiping left and right leaves you alone on the couch. Socializing with someone is better even if it doesn’t go anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:04 AM
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Because women are okay being single. If women have no interest they don’t get mad like men do and get upset online. Women have a lot of issues too but this isn’t one of them. Being able to understand yourself, process your emotions, and learn from it is important as an adult. You should strive to do that for your mental health. I wish men would care about themselves and not seek external validation as desperately and as aimlessly as they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:03 AM
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I mean I’m sure your attitude plays a big part into it. When I had not luck I stopped trying because I understood my mental health was being affected and did other things. Being able to understand yourself, process your emotions, and move forward are pretty important for an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:01 AM
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If rejection is such an issue why not learn how to take rejection better? Why is rejection from a short interaction so heart breaking? You gained nothing and at worst lost some time. It’s not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:47 PM
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It’s different. You actually get to meet people not base it off a profile. Shit profiles can ruin a potential date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:45 PM
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That’s what they say RP is for but they love to troll and lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:06 PM
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What do you win? Are you that devoid of meaning in life that you reward yourself by posting nonsense? You’re definitely indoctrinated by the RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:23 AM
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You wrote a post in bad faith. Can’t tell it’s in bad faith until someone reads it. Are you surprised you got a respond after you made a post or something? Do you know how the internet works
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:08 AM
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I feel like 5) venting is fine but then it gets tied up with 3) where the venting gets treated as actual statistics which is not. Venting can also be negative and just be used for confirmation bias. “Women do this” “yeah they do, I hate when they do that” “yeah me too” Venting is definitely a skill that should be practiced with an appropriate audience but it is a skill that needs to be learned. I feel like I learned a lot from a therapist on how to vent and how to process my emotions. Obviously …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:56 AM
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A lot of issues could derive with how your parents treated you. A lot of men on here mention how mothers don’t mother them like girls and women get mothered so it affects their growth and development. Also anti feminist views make them look at their mothers and other women in a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:47 AM
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Typical RP response . Doesn’t agree with something and instead of using words just use emojis. You guys sure are child like
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:58 PM
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I understand what OP mentioned. I’m having a separate but relevant discussion with you about what you had to add to the thread. Even if you don’t date men, you can’t just bitch about women’s dating habits and not take into account the whole situation. For every action there’s a reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:45 PM
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Because you’re mentioning how men are affected by fat women. You’re missing the other half of the equation, which is men are also fat. People are fat. It’s not a stupid gendered thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:38 PM
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The stats are still similar to men aren’t they? So to complain women are fat and forget men are also fat is odd. That just says “quality men and women” don’t exist. According to your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:47 PM
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It can be good. Maybe it’ll give men that practice of a relationship that they don’t have so if they do get a real gf it’ll be easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:58 PM
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Why does the support only go one way? Why is the guy looking for an AI gf? Why does the guy not leave a relationship if it’s that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:57 PM
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I mean men aren’t happy either. The AI gf might help them though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:56 PM
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That’s what they said? Can you not read?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:55 PM
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That almost makes sense. Good job
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:53 PM
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I get how stupid you are so no point in making this conversation any longer. I have the baby what he wanted and now he’ll shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:51 PM
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my example- bad Your example- good
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:40 PM
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Because fat girl energy and fit girl energy aren’t a thing. Somehow my analogy is bad but you made yours up completely and somehow it’s good? Pretty stupid argument bud. I used real examples for the analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:31 PM
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I mean certain things are off limits when talking to strangers in general. It’s just guys can push certain boundaries on woman that they wouldn’t push on men. You meet a man at a bar and chat with him, it’s probably super blase. You meet a woman and if you think she’s cute you will probably try to get her number at the end of it. Treat people differently you get different results. If you tried to meet up with the guy for a beer at another bar he might be a little weirded out by the behavior just…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:49 AM
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It’s not hatred. It’s just generalized annoyance. Just how you’re annoyed at woman’s preconceptions, they’re annoyed at men’s. It’s why mansplaining became a trendy word. Women felt they got some condescending explanation about things “women know nothing about”. Even if it’s not meant to be condescending how you explain something new to a male friend versus a female friend would sound different. You may not be able to catch it but they could. I feel like the best interactions I’ve had meeting wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:20 AM
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I mean I didn’t bring it up for politics. I brought it up as an example for a male entertainer not getting repercussions for his actions. Bro broke the law and is in the highest office.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:53 PM
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I mean the South Park episode of Lizzo was funny. Jokes can be done well and poorly. If I don’t like a joke I don’t go up in arms. I just move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:51 PM
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You just think I’m a traitor cause I don’t follow your stupid idea of men’s rights. “Men’s rights only exist if feminist lose some”. How stupid is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:49 PM
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I mean as a guy I wish I could advocate for foreskin. I’m just lazy. And as much as sex organs aren’t our only organ system they sure occupy a lot of our life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:13 AM
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I’m not denying that either. Yeah real love is better. And guys paying for sex is a tale as old as time. Nothing new with either idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:09 AM
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Is that why the US president got elected after all his felony counts? Bringing him up too to compare tv personalities to tv personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:08 AM
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Apples to apples my comments have more context than yours. Yours is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:07 AM
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How am I a troll? When you go buy sex you can pick whom you fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:27 AM
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No. There are different types of love. I’m glad you realized that. Now understand you don’t need romantic love to live. You can get by with family and friends. Do you have a source to refute my statement or to prove you need romantic love? No. So why bitch about being honest? You are mentally unwell. You can tell by how you end your statements in some weird mantra about the red pill. Way to indoctrinate yourself into stupidity bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:27 AM
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How did my analogy collapse? You helped it. Etymology for the words changed in time. Bitch meant and means female dog. Dick was a name and definition for penis. Now things changed. That’s how language works. It evolves. You understand it to a degree but for some reason don’t to be offended. Keep doing that. You’re great at making yourself a victim for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:19 PM
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Because dick already had a meaning prior. Other than penis it meant rude. Small dick energy and big dick energy are recent phrases. They’re different. Same thing with bad bitch being a good thing recently. Before bitch could’ve been used as good and bad (dependent on tone and other factors) but not there’s a differential.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:57 PM
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Small dick energy. bad. Big dick energy. Good Bitch. Bad. Bad bitch. Good
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:53 PM
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How will attacking feminism work? Attacking others isn’t usually a good move. Also removing any positive from the feminist movement and declaring it as solely bad is also not a good move. Still attacking them for the other stuff like suffrage. The other more challenging course of action is creating a movement for men but no one wants to do that. Just like OP whining about “feminist are doing this positive thing for themselves, men aren’t so we should be mad at them”. You can answer your second q…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:51 PM
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Just the word bitch. I did answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:24 PM
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Oh okay. Helping men is not good. I need to go after feminist. This will help neither men nor women. Got it. It’ll in fact create a bigger divide. You’re so smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:23 PM
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I can feel the rage. It’d be better if you used that energy to help men. But that would be stupid I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:04 PM
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I’m not saying it’s good. A bad joke is a bad joke. It’s still intended to be a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:02 PM
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Oofy doofy is the other message. You seem lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:02 PM
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The government fails a lot of people. So you have to advocate for yourself and men. You hate feminism or you hate that you as a man feel unheard because those are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:00 PM
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Romance is different but you didn’t state that prior so I didn’t have to infer it. Romance isn’t needed either if you have a good support system. Friends and family. But again, you want to say it is without proof. Love is love. Romance is a different thing. I haven’t even thought about responding to you saying oofy doofy but I will now. It’s so fucking stupid you came up with that as a word to make fun of normal couples and people. You have a word for it? You are so removed from reality. Which i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:59 PM
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The word bitch has negative connotation. But add bad in front suddenly it’s good. Same thing with big dick energy and small dick energy. One word changes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:56 PM
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What’s the second part of Duluth model? Model. Meaning in time another will take place. How? By men coming together to prove their case just how women had to. It’s not about feminism. It’s about men’s rights. Two separate things. It’s not dishonest. You’re just so mad about dumb jokes that you can’t comprehend it. Bad jokes are common. If you don’t laugh that’s about it. If you want to cancel these women then guess what, you’re as dumb as other perpetually online people. https://www.tmz.com/2024…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:55 PM
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Are you going off of unreported numbers my guy? What if the unreported numbers proved your point wrong again? Oh no, unreported data only plays in your favor since you get to make it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:47 PM
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Why is “the view” being used as a common talking point for “women bad” as of recently? It’s so weird that they are somehow the pillar of womanhood when you guys don’t even watch the show just the clip that your red pilled online celebrity cuts up for your enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:45 PM
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Why do you have to fight feminism? Me helping you doesn’t require that. Me telling you to protect your energy and stop being online a lot in those subs doesn’t require that. You are looking for things to feel bad about. Don’t do that. It’s not about shaming actual men with small dicks my guy. It’s about the energy behind it. Again, “bid dick energy” and “small dick energy” derived from online culture and Pete Davidson. A man. I think people shouldn’t be online as much as they are. Men and women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:44 PM
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I mean if feminist are for their own well being why don’t men advocate for theirs? Why do so many men online have anti feminist rhetoric and their plan is always to bring down feminism and never to build up men? The Greta thunder example isn’t even about dick size per se. It’s about a feeling. Like “bad bitch energy” is. Like big dick energy (popularized by Pete Davidson, comedian). It’s not about the actual cock size. Also the rest are pretty dumb examples. Oh wow fred a cartoon character has a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:25 PM
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I mean if feminist are for their own well being why don’t men advocate for theirs? Why do so many men online have anti feminist rhetoric and their plan is always to bring down feminism and never to build up men? The Greta thunder example isn’t even about dick size per se. It’s about a feeling. Like “bad bitch energy” is. Like big dick energy. It’s not about the actual cock size. Also the rest are pretty dumb examples. Oh wow fred a cartoon character has a small dick. Jk Rowling insults someone o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:24 PM
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I’m sure that article I linked was too hard for you to comprehend. It’s pretty much just about how the lost lonely youth are online becoming radicalized into the RP since they have no community in person. Your hive mind is online. When you guys congregate in real life no one wants to hang out with you. You guys are your own worst enemy preventing yourselves from being normal. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:13 PM
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Love can be had with friends and family. You don’t need a gf to be loved. If you don’t feel loved without a gf it’s a you problem. Red pill exposes the dummies online. You are red pilled. You are dumb. Thank you for telling me you are dumb with your affiliation. Makes it easy. If you think being normal is dumb because you think you’re special you’re just too dumb. You want to be those guys that get thousands of women; a story another man told you and you did not verify at all. You’re not special…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:12 PM
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It really comes down to men that missed out on getting laid in high school that now want the opportunity again as late 20 year old or older. They can now impress a woman, and that’s one that doesn’t know any better. They set the bar real low.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:04 AM
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You’re using Spider-Man 2 as an example of someone being considered young? A movie with a movie script based off a comic book. You’re missing every ball OP. Phenomenal thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:02 AM
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It’s a pointless example to bring up if it doesn’t support your point. But then again it all seems poorly thought out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:00 AM
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Kendrick’s song was an anthem to pedos and he thinks only women feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:59 AM
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This isn’t one of the many double standards you claim. As a guy I find age gap relationships off putting on both ends. Men and women. Madonna and Cher both look odd next to their younger boyfriends that are just there for the same reason young women date older men, the lifestyle. As we’ve grown and learned about human nature we learned what age children should be at school. Yes girls can have kids early when they get their period but that’s fucking disgusting to think that you could just fuck a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:46 AM
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Did you not look outside? Or is your part of the west falling? The one in your head. Prisoners did something to lose their freedom. They had it. As to where men never had romance. NEVER HAD and LOST are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:23 AM
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You could look at a mirror. Also the other subs you and your hive mind go too. It’s mainly online since you guys don’t go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:22 AM
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This sub
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:07 AM
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I mean the west is still standing. Just checked outside. Check out your window. Touch grass. There’s wealth disparity. Country is rich. Individuals are not. Not hard to understand. The best thing lonely men can do is still live their lives. Get hobbies. Have fun. How can they be so sad of something they’ve never had? Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 10:41 PM
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They are my guy. Look at how you and other RP men behave online. You guys are so dense. Not sociable at all. Not likable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 10:39 PM
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Sure thing bud
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:48 PM
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Well yeah. They’re selling pussy. They know the customer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:43 PM
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So you choose to go off baseless “unreported” numbers that skew to prove your point. What a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:26 PM
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He probably looked like a local as to where the others look foreign. Foreigners pay for sex so they went for them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:25 PM
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That is typically how brothels go. You get to choose the one you like out of a line up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:24 PM
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One generation of birth decline isn’t the end of it my guy. Child rates are low cause of the economy and other social issues. If you can’t get laid just go find another hobby. Not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:45 AM
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Complaining can occur on everyone’s end and for different reasons. Men whining they can’t get dates is different than a woman whining about their date. Men whine and their solution is “date me”. Women whine after they don’t enjoy their date. At the end of it all women can enjoy their solitude and single life as to where men can’t and just become demanding and upset of women’s right to choose. Which is ironic for men that want a women to choose them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:44 AM
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One other lie that people say too is they don’t suck. I feel like the internet has made people in general obnoxious and unlikable on all ends so that is what it comes down to at the end of it too. As much as it sucks to be single it could be cause their personality and fake personality are just not good at all. But no one wants to admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:41 AM
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You can’t find a partner to be romantic with if you can’t talk to a woman to begin with. Use the information and apply it to the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:39 AM
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RP are such drama queens. “Death of society” lol. You’re just single bro. You’ll be fine. Society isn’t gonna die. It’ll take more than one generation and at that point it’s not even your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:20 PM
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What responsibility are you talking about? If women don’t want to date and are also okay with being single then the only ones complaining and not taking responsibility are the men like OP
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:18 PM
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I’m sure you and many other men feel that way because it puts the blame on you and that’s not what you want to do. You want to blame women. At the end of the day if you’re not likable it’s on you. Being this dense is pretty unlikeable. Blaming women while trying to date women is unlikeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:17 PM
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You can’t get into a relationship if you can’t socialize. If you can’t comprehend that you’re extremely dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:15 PM
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That’s good that she was honest about it to and you were honest back. It can be helpful to put your foot in the door but it’s not suppose to supplement who you really are. Being yourself is key to a healthy relationship and as played out as it is being yourself works a lot of the time. Even if it doesn’t end in marriage like you it can at least end in a good date make a new friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:13 PM
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It’s supposed to be primarily for your well being not for your partner. If you pretend on the daily it’ll affect your mental well being
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:32 PM
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The thing with the whole scenario is that it is reality. Unless you are an actor you are not gonna follow the direction or nuance you create in your head. Most men and people are just normal. It’s one easy way relationships end. On the other hand, a woman could pretend to like sex to please their partner but the drive dies out. In that case the man will not be happy. Pretending to be someone else on the daily is exhausting and not good in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:38 AM
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Faking it is primarily for confidence. Men that have not experience with women or are shy, etc need a boost. Faking they are not shy is the lie. Not faking the entire persona. Lying about your whole being will eventually come out when you spend more time with the person. As a guy we’ve all tried being the “cool stoic man” when we’re really just normal people. As you spend more time with your date/ gf and they see you in more scenarios you’ll break character and in turn the relationship. The dumb…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:27 AM
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The dumb part is men will also be happy to keep the lie going. They’re aware they don’t care about their partner but continue to stay in the relationship since being single is a death sentence when in reality it’s just a new beginning. Being single can be hard but it’s also better than being miserable with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:23 AM
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There’s many factors why some women wouldn’t want a ripped guy other than looks. For some reason the idea that all women behave one way is pretty stupid and common on this sub. But to give you other examples. The other aspect is living with your partner that is fit. Anyone that works out a lot has certain habits. They diet constantly. Not everyone wants to do that. Some people want to enjoy food not eat ground turkey and sweet potatoes everyday. Another is the physical attributes. Not everyone w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:43 AM
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The type of man you think of when you think of fit is though. The idea of a fit man that you’re attracted isn’t one that everyone else is. Attraction is a spectrum. Some women like dad bods or ripped bods. Some men like butts other like boobs. Preference is all it is. It’s not that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:33 AM
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I mean it’s still not a good optic. Why be in a relationship if you just want attention? For both men and women attempting or wanting to cheat, be single. It only hurts the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:31 AM
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I mean Kobe was also rich. Big difference there. A lot of people put up with bullshit for comfort. I mean men can stay with a cheating women but the relationship is dead. It’s not as if they trust them anymore. It might as well be and most likely will end in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:30 AM
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How someone dresses is a competition to some. Even men. Men wear gaudy outfits that are covered in high end fashion labels like balenciaga. Doesn’t look the best but it shows “I have money”. Also look at sneaker culture. Many men have more shoes than women to be part of a spending club.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:19 AM
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I asked a different question. Wouldn’t you consider an attempt as cheating? Hypothetically if your gf was out there trying hard to cheat and somehow failed and you knew would you just be okay with it? Probably not. Even though woman succeed more it doesn’t take away from the fact that a potential male cheater is still not much favorable. The attempt to cheat is enough for anyone to end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:17 AM
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Does it? I feel like that completely depends on the people. Ideally you’d put an continue putting effort into the relationship after getting together. Otherwise you, your partner, or both of you somehow tricked each other into a relationship with fake personalities if you just “take the foot off the gas”. Again, that is a good way to just ruin a relationship on both sides. Men complain about “no sex, why did it change” and women complain about “where’s the romance and spark”. There’s still an ef…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:15 AM
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The idea that you can take your foot off the gas just says you put less effort. Which is how relationships end. Putting no effort into it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:27 PM
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I mean if your gf was trying to cheat and you found out wouldn’t you still count her as a cheater?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:25 PM
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No. It’s you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:24 PM
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Not really. Again, lossless virgin is net zero. Meaning you can’t go anywhere else but up. Almost any effort, like falling for the RP or even BP stuff, could lead to a change. Either one is an effort placed into change. Now if the guy is at net zero and makes zero changes then they are more likely to stay the same. It’s all probability. Add changes get new outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:57 AM
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So you are racist. At least you’re honest
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:55 AM
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So you get to make it up. Cause that’s a whole lot of made up bullshit. Sounds like eugenics but for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:55 AM
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You’re the one doing the gender war thing. Being against feminist even thought they helped women in a way that the NIH did. Notice how the government stepped up for men with that study. As to where women had to use feminist movement to help themselves. Feminism isn’t bad. Just how a men’s movement would be good too. But you only find success in making it a gender issue. The problem is men need help. Your solution is defeat feminism. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:53 AM
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And who gets to decide the median? You? Or the RP that is a hive mind of men that suck at talking to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:46 PM
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I mean in time you’d expect some changes to work. If lossless virgin is net zero you could only go up from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:40 PM
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Doesn’t that go for you too?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:39 PM
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Having female friends that turn you down. The issue is some men just don’t comprehend that not every woman will fuck them and get mad that their girl friends are fucking other guys when there right there. RP men don’t look at women as people but just sexual gratification
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:39 PM
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Genetics is a factor. But exercise focusing on certain muscle groups can affect said muscle groups. There is some things you have control over, to a degree. You’re over generalizing by thinking not everyone can do it, maybe cause you can’t do it. Not sure. Either way, it’s odd to discourage exercise and health. But if that’s what you’re into I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:37 PM
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Is that what happens? Or is it that you see a woman getting appointed a job and immediately think “DEI”. You see how you are the one that’s racist or sexist in those cases?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:36 PM
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The sexual victimization of women was ignored for centuries. Although it remains tolerated and entrenched in many pockets of the world, feminist analysis has gone a long way toward revolutionizing thinking about the sexual abuse of women, demonstrating that sexual victimization is rooted in gender norms1 and is worthy of social, legal, and public health intervention. We have aimed to build on this important legacy by drawing attention to male sexual victimization, an overlooked area of study. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:35 PM
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Your proof is a story of a woman that got harassed? Not actual statistics? Got it. Also how I got feminist are hypocrites, according to you and your bias take. Which is just an opinion since there is no proof. Just stories. I can share stories of men harassing other men. I can share stories of men attacking women. I can share that new trendy thing of men saying “your body my choice”. They are all just stories. Nit picking stories doesn’t make you right. It makes you biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:39 AM
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Oh okay. So men are men. Women are hypocrites. Is there any statistics behind your question? Or is it unreported crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:04 AM
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Give me an example when it was racist. Teach me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:03 AM
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Oh okay. So when guys are morons it’s okay. When women do it it’s bad. Got it. Look into what a bias is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:56 AM
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The spin is simple. You get offended by a minority of women and associate them as feminists. Now you conflate “mean women” as feminist. On the other hand there’s men being morons going about saying “your body my choice”. Now will I be an adult with a mind and say all men are bad because these men are bad or simply understand that there is a minority of dummies in both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:03 AM
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You can do whatever you want. I’ve done it. Did I break the law or something? Too many hypotheticals not enough fun. That’s why you can’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:22 AM
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Swimming is a cardio but also chest/ body workout. It can give you a swimmer’s body. Obviously along with swimming there is the aspect of diet and other exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:21 AM
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Some women take the money. Look at the future First Lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:20 AM
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People like volunteering.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:19 AM
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I walk around with my bank statement, body count, and dick pics so I can get to the point with the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:18 AM
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The key thing in dating has and will always be personality. If you’re unemployed or broke and make a big deal out of your financial situation or are not confident you won’t fair well. Broke but want to take someone out: find out where they have specials or cheap alcohol. Do a cheap and simple date like boba or dessert. You can easily pull cheap dates if you’re into them. If you just let the fact you’re broke and unhappy overcome you you’re gonna have a bad date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:17 AM
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It seems you just decided to spin what feminism is. Which is interesting. If you try to spin things in any manner you control the narrative. It seems very narcissistic that somehow you create the definition of something you don’t like. https://www.britannica.com/topic/feminism If you want something to read. Unless you like your definition better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:15 PM
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Where did you read it? Or you just fabricated it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:50 PM
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So irreverent to race and skin is racism? Is that the new definition or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:50 PM
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From someone that has struggled as a guy but not as much as others online seem to it seems a lot is optics. After everything outwardly, we have control over our lives and happiness. People that aren’t happy or understand how they can be happy place blame on external factors instead of looking inward. It just depends on who you want to blame. The right blames DEI and immigrants and woke. Left blames racism and sexism. A lot of unhappy people online looking to pick a side.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:05 PM
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How is it racist? Isn’t the right against DEI?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:01 PM
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A lot of men that claim they care about men also don’t. It’s just the blind leading the blind in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:00 PM
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Is that so? Where did you read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:58 PM
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It’s not that. The right just gives “instant gratification “. Even though they don’t solve anything for men either they just like the optics and that makes men feel happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:57 PM
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I want to get multiple income flows through my children that may or may not return to me alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:58 PM
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It depends. If she hates nature he can still do his own hobbies. People are still their own person. He can go camping. She can stay home. Relaxing away from each other is healthy. It’s part of coexisting. You don’t have to do everything all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:00 AM
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Usually people like it when they’re shown interest. It’s not a gender thing. It’s a social thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:58 AM
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Do you work in construction and shes a teacher?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:58 AM
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It’s having a flair telling women to use words while you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:56 AM
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Because you need help with reading comprehension. I’m just helping you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:48 AM
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The difference is when I don’t have ideas I don’t make up lies. That’s what you do. Rather be boring than lie to make myself seem interesting to strangers online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:58 AM
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Why would I be jealous of a liar?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:47 AM
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First, it wasn’t my original comment. Second, it’s still ironic. Even if it was a good comment you’d still respond with a moronic zinger. Which again, makes your flair ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:46 AM
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In this economy when most men can’t be the sole provider, they must also do other things. It’s not that women are gonna do nothing. But women will also work for funds for the relationship, but they will also do chores, etc. Think about yourself. Do you see yourself having a job that you can have a stay at home wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:28 AM
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One thing people arguing dating issues online don’t comprehend is the number of dummies on both sides. Dumb men and dumb women just having kids cause raw dogging is awesome and abortion is against their morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:26 AM
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I’m not just talking about the Amish. I’m talking about the overall population. Why do you want to prove a point that only gives you a few percentages of the population? When shit sucks again, the pendulum will swing and people will vote for the opposite party. People, not just a small minority or groups of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:25 AM
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I googled something and it said you’re a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:21 AM
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It is if the person is performing. No one is asking that out of their partner. Sometimes, a guy or woman, would pretend because they advertised themselves as a certain person to get with someone. Maybe if there was no acting there wouldn’t be some mindless arguing in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:43 PM
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If it’s documented show me said documentation. Now. Or else you’re just making it up like most RP rhetoric. Find real stats and lie about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:39 PM
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Again, there is no proof it’s top 20. It’s just how you poorly infer the data since you’re dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:02 PM
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I mean that just goes to my other point. Things swing. If it is compounding on conservatives end now it’ll also do the same for liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:01 PM
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80/20 gets brought up because RP likes to misinterpret statistics to fit their narrative. “20% of men get laid. Must be the top 20 of attractive men since I’m not getting laid. They must be better than me. Only shot” Nothing in those statistics does it say top. You guys just add it for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:55 PM
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Every time you comment you just come off as narcissistic liar. “3 times” “160 dates” sure thing bud. I’m sure you don’t care about being called out about being a liar. You gotta die with the lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:32 PM
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No good. You got a billionaire in the office with another billionaire in his ear. Gonna be even more economic discrepancies between the rich and the poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:29 PM
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You named a small minority of the population. Negligible in the overall story. They make up a few percentage in totality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:27 PM
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I mean guys can lie to you in person just as easily. Lying about getting pussy is a tale as old as time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:09 AM
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I can lie online too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:54 AM
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So you’re saying women don’t just look for looks but other virtues? Interesting. Wholeheartedly agree. Just how men also have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:54 AM
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I mean lots of working class men didn’t get shit back in the day either. The men that traveled the US territories at the beginning of the nations history was primarily men that just worked and got killed off by Indians or Mexicans. Historically women got to live since they were needed for reproduction. Men didn’t matter as much. Slowly changing as we learn more about mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:22 AM
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Those people are the dumb people in the intro of idiocracy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:19 AM
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Makes sense. Back in the day the more kids you had the more labor you could get paid off of. Now we gotta respect kids smh. Send them to the mines
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:19 AM
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And with short men. I’m short and get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:16 AM
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Which only adds to my point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:15 AM
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Men can have that without a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:21 PM
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People fall for online traps so much. Men see a hot woman’s profile talk to them and don’t ever question if it’s a scam. Crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:19 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/living-single/202410/why-women-like-being-single-more-than-men-do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:18 PM
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Dudes need to be comfortable with each other. Men are typically other men’s social circles. It also helps with getting friends that are girls. Side note: also helps to keep friends that are girls if you don’t try to fuck them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:17 PM
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It’s a cycle. As much as religion is making a come back it’s already lost a good amount with previous generations. Unless they can regain and retain a good chunk followers the next cycle will make it more atheist/ agnostic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:15 PM
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Businesses lobby to not pay taxes. Big business usually wins. look at the people in charge. They get bribed to not pass shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:13 PM
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Things fluctuate. Just how people aren’t necessarily anti abortion now. Statistically people are pro choice. It’s just that the trend of voters are anti. There will be another wave later on. Couples with kids would also understand the reason of choice. Not everyone’s cut to parent. Single people would change there view if they get in a relationship Couples with no kids are probably doing pro choice options to keep it that way. Choice in the end is nice. When you have to look at yourself in the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:08 AM
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Western society is the way it is for its values. As much as some guys think reverting back will fix their problems, some other men will simply see their wives, mothers, and daughters attacked and they will vote to defend them. The men that feel like women are being mean are men that are simply far removed from reality. They think going back in time is the answer for them since they’re not having what they were promised. It’s not because society failed them, it’s because they can’t seem to realiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:32 AM
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They do say some things about how they hate women for not being able to be vulnerable and say some interesting things in those threads. It’s obviously different. What men’s rights have been affected recently versus women’s rights that have been altered in the last few years. Same thing how two x and ask men are not the same, neither is the topics or reason of outrage. Men have their own issues and so do women. If you want to date a woman as a man you’ll have to learn to empathize with both, not …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:08 AM
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I think they know how to get clicks. A lot of clicks from idiots on both sides. Dumb women and dumb men being reactionary. Welcome to hate watching. Just how they got their topic from a Tik tok, a big platform for watching dumb shit. Don’t want to see morons don’t watch dumb shows. I enjoy some bad tv here and there but I watch 90 day fiancé
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:06 AM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/living-single/202410/why-women-like-being-single-more-than-men-do They’re not wrong in what they said. They’re just being audacious for views and ratings. Who would’ve guess that a day time talk show host for women would have dumb things to say. On the other hand you have the conservative media saying dumb things on tv about women and minorities. Neither are good, but it is good for ratings. Just like the source you provided. Some guy grifting on the right…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:16 PM
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I think not lying liars is okay on the moral compass. Lying is the bad one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:06 PM
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That’s one of the main subs versus a niche one. A better comparison might be askmen
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:07 PM
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I’d rather you share with me exactly you mean. Unless you can’t. I know I can google something but when you allude to something you should be able to prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:39 PM
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So far yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:38 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with either movement. But I have an annoyance with MGTOW, that might also transfer to the 4B one. That is that as much as they say we don’t want women, they constantly rattle online about how women much their anti women and why they are removing themselves from dating. It would make sense to just use that movement to create a pro man movement. Get the fellas to have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:38 PM
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The other stuff is what OP mentioned. Another sub. Meaning online people. Do you have any clips where they say that on the view? I personally don’t watch it but if you do please share.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:14 PM
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Yes. This guy is fighting generalization with generalization. Too much irony on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:13 PM
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You’d be surprised how many grown men have a simple appetites. Chicken tenders can also be substituted for other simple foods like wings, pizza, burger (with nothing on it). It makes sense. Many people are unhealthy. Out of my social group I’m the only one that’s been going to the gym for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:11 PM
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Again, because they’re simply lying. I don’t like liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:09 PM
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That is a big issue. I take what happens on the internet as a faction and not as reality. Just how men can post those dumb memes “your body my choice” women also post dumb shit. Now do they mean it, that is harder to prove. It’s just internet bravado.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:10 PM
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Fines are just part of the business’s expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:05 PM
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But they’re not regular travelers. They’re traveling for women. Potentially for one to marry but it’s not as if anyone’s gonna hold them accountable to that. So again, what else would a man down on their luck abroad do if faced with a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:04 PM
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Because that is what it is. It’s a simple rebrand. Answer my question. What does a man do when they travel 14 hours abroad and have no luck finding a wife? Simply call it a day and just waste a trip or meet up with other PPB in the sex tourist areas and fuck? Isn’t part of being a PPB that you get treated like a model abroad as opposed to ignored at home? I wonder why the women of the night that end up charging you for sex are so nice to you guys. I wonder what really goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:28 AM
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The thing that’s killing civilization is that “geniuses” that can’t keep up with the time we’re in. A lot of tough talk from guys working in offices, never working a hard day of labor as they would have a century ago. When they would’ve died an early death on the job and no one would’ve cared. Keep living your comfy life and pretending you would’ve had a better life in a different time. It makes for great fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:43 AM
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Is your mom a whore? Was she sending pussy pics via mail?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:14 PM
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How is it specifically feminists? Feminists isn’t solely about sexual liberation. It’s a lot more than that. If you want to talk about the past, they’re the ones that helped with woman’s suffrage. Somehow you just think all they want is to be horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:14 PM
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Is this how you ignore the rest of the comment? By just pointing out one part? Good job. Ironic flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:10 PM
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I mean you can be fat too. You just realize you can’t get laid if you are fat so you change. Be fat and don’t get laid if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:30 PM
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It’s ironic RP always say this when you guys hate women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:30 PM
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I think the biggest issue is not only are men disillusioned that they can mimic and become a person that can achieve casual sex like they want but they also just mimic everything and lose their sense of self to this ideology. It had some degree of effectiveness but now that it is becoming more prevalent it will lose that effect. So now men are instead making it harder to get with women through said ideology. But obviously they’re not gonna believe anyone since they already drank the kool aid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:29 PM
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It can when it’s a gross act. Only some can allude that nothing else is going on. You’re certainly dying with the lie. Others can’t. And they simply remove the veil you’re trying to keep on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:21 AM
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https://www.ussc.gov/research/research-reports/2023-demographic-differences-federal-sentencing “When examining all sentences imposed, females received sentences 29.2 percent shorter than males. Females of all races were 39.6 percent more likely to receive a probation sentence than males. When examining only sentences of incarceration, females received lengths of incarceration 11.3 percent shorter than males“ Key thing when pointing things out like this is comprehension. Statistically yes men hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:18 AM
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I believe so. There’s been multiple nsfw subs shut down like it. I think some can exist if they are solely for promoting your OF and things like that. But not on how to get actual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:30 AM
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I’m sure that the PPB travel and don’t accidentally get flagged by sex workers and have some fun. It’s only adventure and fun. I unironically and unprovoked had an interaction with a ppb. He brought up his trip to Thailand and primarily mentioned women. I didn’t want to ask anymore cause that’s fucking creepy. Telling a stranger what sexual escapades you do in Thailand. PPB is simply a rebrand. Still the same demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:28 AM
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It’s not being nit picky. What sub are you in? PPD. What’s the d for? It’s not ignoring. I’m misreading it like you are. A lot of that on this sub. Only way I can match the energy. Unless of course you bring a better article for it. I could if you want me to. One that proves my point. I definitely missed the tax free part but I still mentioned the reason why. It’s because it’s a medical item for women. Kinda how other medical items are subsidized. Makes sense. Again, tax payer money goes to thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:25 AM
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Your TLDR is ironic. Look internally instead of blaming others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:08 AM
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Yeah. Some do mention sex tourism but rarely. I’m sure they DM each other often. As many said, soliciting on Reddit isn’t good. Could get a sub banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:06 AM
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They still exist my guy. You’re the one taking a phrase as the only way to exist. If you don’t like the role you chose for yourself, as the man that takes the helm, don’t. Clearly it’s not working. Nutrition is a whole different issue. My guy friends eat beer and tenders. Is that any better than a women that fasts and eats whenever the decide to? Id imagine no. At least what a doctor would say someone consuming alcohol that often. And if a woman doesn’t want to have lunch with you or make time f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:06 AM
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Oh yeah you’d just hang out. With who doing what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:02 AM
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Typically Wikipedia is a lazy way to prove anything. If you want to be taken serious you’d put more effort in sources. If you want to seem like you care you’d put more effort. Based on your own Wikipedia article, wouldn’t you think that the type of crime they commit makes it more likely they get sentenced? 80% plus physical crime is high. I’d imagine if you got assaulted by another guy you’d want to prosecute him right? Tampons are another women only issue. Like abortion. I feel like you’re just…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:57 AM
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I mean if the government ended up footing the bill than all men, and women, and tax payer would. We pay for kids that aren’t ours to go to public school. I’d like to stop that as someone that doesn’t intend on having kids but realistically not gonna happen due to how people vote. Gotta care for children and the community. Or at least put laws in place to protect kids. Is there a source that isn’t Wikipedia? That same Wikipedia post also points out they do a majority of violent crimes and homicid…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:50 AM
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And some don’t intend on finding a wife when they relish in the transactional sex. They just travel under the guise of finding a wife. Again, while in Thailand, might as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:40 AM
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The real reason is because sex tourism gives them a bad name. Rebranding themselves as passport bros is modern. Sex tourism is old. They claim they want to find a wife. But they also don’t share what they do when they don’t find a wife. While in Rome, or in this case Thailand, they take advantage of said sex tourism. They’re not gonna fly half way around the world for nothing. They gotta get something out of it. While they’re there they can easily find the sex tourism area since the sex workers …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:04 AM
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What happens when they travel and don’t find a wife? Just waste a whole trip to Thailand? Or do they then take part in sex tourism?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:57 AM
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What happens when they travel and don’t find a wife? Just waste a whole trip to Thailand? Or do they then take part in sex tourism? I agree sex tourism is a bad name. Which is why passport bros rebranded it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:57 AM
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What happens when they travel and don’t find a wife? Just waste a whole trip to Thailand? Or do they then take part in sex tourism?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:57 AM
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Oh nice. We can continue the last convo. We were talking about how women are upset that there’s something on the ballot about them and their rights and men got to vote about it and you mentioned that you wish there was one about men’s and how they shouldn’t pay child support. What is priority in those cases about child support? The Child. Why is the court making the man pay? Because people hate men? Or realistically, because a child’s livelihood is being affected. There’s also times when men don…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:43 AM
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The issue with taking the lead and having to deal with another person is taking the lead does disregard the other person. As much as the saying goes, taking the lead has a lot of nuances. Being in LTR you’ll deal with a lot of this. Why? Because dealing with another person isn’t as easy as many of the people online make it seem. And it’s not because it’s “women”. It’s because it’s another person. You’ll dismiss things to your partner too. Potentially emotionally/ being emotionally available, try…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:22 AM
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That isn’t about the man though. Child support payments are for the child. If a man doesn’t want a child they could simply have a vasectomy. The country, states, and people wouldn’t vote for a measure against the child. It has to do with the child Women’s reproductive rights and health have to deal with them directly. And just how the child is involved it’s why they took abortion away. They think they’re saving/ helping a child while taking rights away from the woman that could be affected negat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:43 AM
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I only come here for fun. I don’t need to be indoctrinated into any idiocy online. I get that’s what you did but that’s where we differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:37 AM
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Not meaningless , it’s specially true to the RP. The only way you can explain anything in the RP that goes against what you’re lying about is calling it gaslighting. So lazy. It’s why it only works on the most desperate, lonely, ignorant men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:48 PM
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Men getting the chance to vote on women’s only issues. There isn’t any men only issues they get to vote for. If there was one equivalent it would be something like forced vasectomies for men until they’re married. Something to align with the religious values that America holds dear. The reason men only issues don’t come up is because they are and have been the primary gender in history. Whatever protections are out there they get by default. Realistically what male only thing would you expect wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:47 PM
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RP does hold a monopoly on lying to men. Pretending they’re helping men. It’s just the blind leading the blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:40 PM
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Accountability in general is rare even for guys, specially for RP. All they do is bitch and moan about women while simultaneously hating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:43 PM
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Blaming both sides is fair, women blaming men makes sense too. My gf has been venting about how it’s stupid that women’s choices has been on the ballot for a while now while nothing about men’s choices has been. That’s the reason some women feel that way. Also the women you’re seeing complain are constantly online. People bitch and moan a lot online. In person they do too but less dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:42 PM
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If she wasn’t would you offer to help?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:39 PM
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Have you personally been in any LTR yourself? It seems you’re just running narratives in your mind where men are victims and to relationships. A relationship takes two people. Two people that drive each other and the relationship. If one half is lacking then why is that? You only see “flaws” in women as if men also don’t fail in relationships. People change over time. Just how a man’s dick can stop working due to ED. Wouldn’t that affect the sex life negatively? It’s not just one genders fault, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:38 PM
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A big stand out thing from this post is op states “from the outside”. A lot of the men on here have never really been in a LTR to even understand what you’re saying which is sad. It’s just someone making up shit for the sake of blaming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:34 PM
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Compassion is needed on both sides. Men only want compassion from women even though your social circles are primarily men. The compassion you mention doesn’t exist from men which is why they don’t get it. They think they’re “nice” but they’re fake nice. They’re “nice guys”. “Nice” to try to get to know a woman but not actually nice since they don’t see them as people. Not empathetic towards woman. They just seek women. You thought you had a point to prove but you don’t. Way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:12 AM
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Everything is false with yours. Means mine is correct now. Boo ya
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:09 AM
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I mean there are fines now. Tyson got caught hiring illegal teens working their factories. They just said “we didn’t know”. paid a fee, called it a day. Many companies pay fines as part of businesses
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:07 AM
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Coward
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:09 PM
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Coward
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:49 PM
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But why would employers pay employees more? There’s no need for that to happen. It’s not as if immigrants are gone tomorrow I get a raise for it. Tell me about how I hate Jews again?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:44 PM
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It’s the same griefs every man bitching and moaning on here does. “Women bad”. Novel idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:21 PM
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I’m sure you wouldn’t want to admit when someone pegs you down online. It’s much easier to pretend to laugh than be introspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:13 PM
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Wasn’t his whole lie to make things cheaper somehow? As if the president has control over prices. Now you’re saying it’s gonna cost more and that’s okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:42 PM
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How is less “DEI” gonna benefit you? Unironically a lot of immigrants that end up getting citizenship do end up voting conservative. Many countries are conservative due to religion or due to the politics of the previous country that they fled. Look at Latinos in Texas. How is less immigrants gonna help small businesses? Paying more money to actual citizens? That’s the benefit of an undocumented worker. You take advantage of them. Can’t do that to a citizen. Crime isn’t cause en masse by illegals…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:48 PM
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How is it gonna correct the price for the product? The product is already high even though the employers taking advantage of illegal immigrants paying them dog shit. How will the Americans take said jobs, get paid more somehow, and at the same time lower prices?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:42 PM
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You do. You just don’t want to admit what I said was right. Why else would you FEEL like you have to treat women like a queen. Why else are you trying so hard to get women’s attention. what’s the end goal? Why are to bitching about it online? Because you FEEL it’s hard and unfair for you as a guy. Men try so hard and women just have to exist. That’s how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:38 PM
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This is only true if you are biased in your views as a guy. Which is common on this sub. A lot of whining on this sub about how “woman hold power over men” simply because they aren’t getting attention from women. You feel defeated and it’s because women “broke you down”. In reality a lot of the distance that’s growing between men and women is in part of how extreme men’s views have been online. Go online looking for help, find other troubled men, in the hive mind agree it’s not all the lonely me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:02 AM
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They don’t want to fuck people they don’t want to. Just how you don’t but you probably also don’t fuck people you do want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:48 PM
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That’s honestly really funny. I mean if someone doesn’t want to fuck you for fitting a demographic they don’t like I don’t see the problem. Im gonna assume a demographic you don’t go for is fat chicks. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:47 PM
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Before when women couldn’t have bank accounts or many means to uphold a household? Feminism gave women rights to get things like said bank accounts and to own property. Feminism was to give women an equal chance and men for some reason misconstrue it as then trying to get more because instead of men being ahead by default now they have to try. Which just adds to my point about men’s apathy. Men don’t want to try for certain things and that’s why they’re losing. To think that a movement about wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:29 AM
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High body count isn’t seen as positive by most people unless they live in that same lifestyle but then they both wouldn’t even ask each other about it. Most people don’t get explicit about their sexual experiences and if they do they get viewed differently at times negatively. If your friends unexpectedly just told you about the details about their sexual adventures abroad where they paid for sex how excited or happy would you be for him? Probably not at all. It can be off putting to most. Payin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:46 AM
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Why do you think it’s so skewed? Is it because women are evil, or because men simply don’t put any effort. There’s a reason why there is a precedent. Again, not even saying men are bad, just apathetic to their kid in a failed relationship. Which again, I understand and I don’t blame them. If men don’t want to deal with the child themselves they shouldn’t. But they do have some level of responsibility for their kid. I’m apathetic to kids in general and as much as I get upset at my tax dollars goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:37 AM
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Fighting for custody is needed. When you add the courts to a divorce they need to prove why they are the better parent to gain custody. If one parents tries a bit and the other is blase about losing their kid then obviously the one that puts an effort will get custody. Sometimes a shitty mom can easily get custody if the guy doesn’t even try. Going to jail for not paying CS takes a lot. It’s similar to a bad driver without money/ insurance wrecking your car. You can go after them financially but…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:35 AM
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Based on what? Some men bail on child support. Men don’t pay child support. Some men can’t afford child support. Willingness and actually doing are two separate things. Most of the time the woman is left with the child anyways. Men could try to put up a harder fight when it comes to keeping the child but they also don’t do that either. Most men would rather move on with their life, which is fair. But then they also don’t want to help the ex which in turn means not helping their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:12 AM
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They don’t know how to socialize and instead of trying to deal with themselves and their emotions they blame others. It’s much easier to become a debate lord online than it is to admit you have issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:08 AM
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Yeah. I’ve never struggled in socializing with women. So I know how to explain it to young men. On the other hand RP does the opposite. Doesn’t know how to talk to women and believes they can help men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:07 AM
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They do hate it because of that potential possibility. It’s not as if many divorced dads are gonna have a good thing to say about their ex wife specially if they gotta pay them child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:38 AM
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RP is growing. https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/sciadv.adk2031 It’s not as niche as you think it is. With how covid affected how younger people socialize, the loneliness epidemic has pushed men to things like the RP for help. A lot of people are being more and more online than living a fulfilling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:37 AM
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No. Just saying RP men and their ideals are very male centric/ narcissistic. So if the woman isn’t naturally submissive they will try to make them so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:31 AM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/narcissism-demystified/202103/8-insidious-ways-narcissists-try-to-control-you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:19 AM
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Red pill. Way to confuse yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:18 AM
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Is that why RP men hate that there’s child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:17 AM
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Divorce is easy to obtain but divorce is also seen as a sin by RP. Probably why the guy in the story didn’t see any other out other than murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:30 PM
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Murder no since that is the most extreme but there are other ways for a man to make a woman submit and “make” their partner become submissive. Murder is just his way of ending a relationship he was too dumb to just end/ realize he had no chance of changing her. Murder of spouse was also much more frequent than it was now “back in the good old days” when divorce was rare due to laws and women couldn’t own anything. Man wanted new wife or tired of the old one, murder and skip town. Easy. Ironicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:10 PM
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The whole top percentile thing is dumb cause there is no proof they’re even top percentile. It’s just the dummies using the stats that only a small percentage of men are having sex. “Who must these men be, they’re clearly better than me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 07:34 PM
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Experience isn’t solely based on when they start doing something. It’s how long they do said thing. You can date early and also not date at all for a while. Doesn’t mean it’s x amount of years. Also how old are you and why are you so into 14 year olds actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 07:30 PM
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If he puts it out into the ether he can site himself as proof. Galaxy brain
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 07:28 PM
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It’s not coping. It’s just they understand that they don’t have to put up with something and can find fulfillment in other things. Men should too. It’s healthy to have motivations other than your partner. The whole manosphere is odd because it just makes you hyper focus on one aspect of your life that you’re no good, along with other men that are not good at it lol, when you could go enjoy the rest life has to offer. Get some life experience, be more likable, better luck. No gf, continue enjoyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:11 AM
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I think people in companionships tend to live longer due to the nature of taking care of the family unit. Living alone you kinda do whatever you want and that’s not always the healthiest thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:09 AM
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Because they think they found out something about women that most normal guys already knew. Women are people. People have standards and there are shitty people. To group women as all good or all bad and joining hive minds online where all they discuss is their distaste for women’s rights, behaviors, and decisions. That makes them jaded. A healthy mindset is understanding no two people are the same and using stereotypes or over generalizing the gender you want to date will only back fire on you. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:20 PM
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Boo. Be original with your comebacks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:03 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/living-single/202410/why-women-like-being-single-more-than-men-do Women are fine being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:40 PM
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Based on your bias opinions, do you think men have it easier or harder?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:39 PM
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“Oh right...that’s called heterosexual. When I say I may not like women as much as I thought I did...I’m talking about them as people, beyond their looks.” Literally your previous comment. So you have issues with your sexuality, women, and memory. Want to find out more about yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:36 PM
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No one can have it all. Men nor women. Women are just okay without having it all. It’s men, even more so RP men, that are upset about it since they aren’t getting any attention. https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/living-single/202410/why-women-like-being-single-more-than-men-do Men think that pointing out their distaste in women’s rights and their choices will fix their situation somehow. It won’t. You’re just being jaded, which will actually make it harder to get women to like you. Good jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:30 PM
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Are you having heterosexual relations when you masturbate? By yourself? Oh, you don’t see women as people. You have more issues than you’d probably like to admit online then. Good luck man. Get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:25 PM
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Arguing your experiences are more important than others is a pretty dumb argument. Again, unless you have real numbers we have no data to prove our points. Being defensive about over being told your anecdotal stories aren’t actual data is an interesting choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:02 PM
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When men have to end up paying for things and practically used for their wallets in return for a woman leaving when they see a chance it is. A person can be an idiot and a victim at the same time. An idiot for not being aware of woman’s true evil intentions, using them for money. And a victim for being left alone with the bill to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:00 PM
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I agree with both your points but I think they would affect each other. Not that OP has a legitimate point to make but I would think a woman would find their partner unattractive if they were into their opposing party’s rally’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:57 PM
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It’s how you feel. It’s what you’re seeing. You see men as victims to women. You’re just not content with people pointing it out so easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:54 PM
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I’d say a larger majority are normal. You are in fringe subs so that’s why you think this. Go out in the real world. Otherwise we have no data to prove our points
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:47 PM
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“Most men basically worship women. Most men don’t really see women as they truly are, especially if they are attracted to them. They idealise them, basically making them larger than life.” Men are good “This is why most men feel like it’s their role to pay for dates and allow themselves to be used as human atms by women. Many men know that if they don’t spend money on a woman, “ Men are good and spend they’re money on women “sooner or later she will lose interest in them, and this is actually a …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:42 PM
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Not necessarily. Some men treat women normally and not as some transactional thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:38 PM
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Most serial killers are men. I’m sure if men had some insane woman to simp over they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:37 PM
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You’re saying men are ignorant to woman’s reality. Women aren’t the angels. Men are because they look past all of women’s negative aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:32 PM
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An odd take for this sub where a lot of jaded men are mad at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:30 PM
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Your third comment is you being triggered. Again, learn about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:19 PM
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I’m guessing you’re not doing well as this player you know. If you were you probably would feel liberated and not resentment towards those that do get to have sex. Also using your one extreme example of one guy that fucks a lot and ignoring all the other people around you that are normal is an interesting choice. So one guy you know personally is making what you believe are bad choices and you now have some moral issues with hook up culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:54 AM
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“All these Q4Ms are making me stop and question whether I even like women anywhere near what I thought I did, at least beyond looking at them” This is what I was inferring from. Notice how there is no details about your libido but there is information about how you don’t even like woman as you previously have. Liking and being sexual aren’t the same. Just how you and the entire human species aren’t equivalent. If anything hopefully you learned that you are easily triggered when someone makes you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:52 AM
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I’m talking about you as a person, which you are. Somehow you are inferring yourself as an entire species which you are not. People behave differently like the 3 ways I mentioned. There are even more ways you could be different than others such as how dense you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:31 AM
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Not everyone reproduces Gay people don’t reproduce Sexuality is a spectrum. You could just be asexual You should learn about yourself. It will be helpful to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:17 PM
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I would apologize for hurting your feelings but I could care less about you as a person and your dumb RP Hive mind. In fact I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:11 PM
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Notice how I don’t make up numbers like you do when I don’t have them to use as proof. You on the other hand lie. That’s a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:09 PM
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These guys can’t be normal so they think normalcy is gone. Crazy. So many normal basic couples out there, not to throw shade at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:52 PM
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It’s always fun to ask them for facts since they think those made up numbers are real. In reality it’s just a bunch of dorks online that misinterpret data. The numbers they’re always misinterpreting are that a small percent of men are getting laid, 20%. They then just run with it and assume it’s the “top 20%” of men because only more successful men than this hive mind of dorks could possible get lucky, never accounting for normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:42 PM
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Where are these stats from
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:33 PM
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Where is this stat from
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:32 PM
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Where are these stats from?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:32 PM
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You may be asexual
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:32 PM
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Where are these stats from?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:01 PM
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It’s common for single men to just jerk off. Doesn’t mean it’s sexual drive. You’re just bored or desperate for some happy hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:18 AM
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How do you know you have high sex drive? Because you jack off a couple times a day? You’re just bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:10 AM
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Instead of acting, you could just treat them like people lol. But playing 4D chess in your mind is doing well. That’s why you get into such scooby doo predicaments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:09 AM
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I answer you at every turn but it’s always the same issues with you. Reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:13 AM
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The same one you have. You just can’t comprehend what you read. You spin stories to fit your narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:37 PM
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Oh are you experienced in it? I think you’re just experienced in whining online. You’re great at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:36 PM
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But why him specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:36 PM
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It’s what it infers. A skill you could have if you had any type of reading comprehension. It seems you also have a lapse in memory too. You’re a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:35 PM
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Well you mentioned how it’s sad and how he didn’t deserve it. Just wanted to know what you personally meant by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:42 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:36 AM
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What happened to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:29 AM
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Nope. You’re as wrong as can be. You’re ignorant in that you can’t comprehend how funding works. Look into it before letting your emotions dictate how you feel about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:19 AM
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There’s proof. You’re just being ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:17 AM
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If you cared you’d bring up men’s rights issues. Not just bring up earl to say “feminism bad”. I’d say you’re lazy but let’s add unoriginal to it too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:03 AM
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You don’t have to mention your feelings when you’re displaying them as such “💅”. Also that emoji doesn’t make the statement you think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:41 AM
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You really do lack reading comprehension. It’s the only way you can ever tell yourself you’re right. By simply being ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:40 AM
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If you cared about citations you’d have some. You’re only arguing your little feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:06 PM
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I don’t come to this sub for originality. I come to trigger sensitive men like yourself. Thank you for making it another successful story.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:42 PM
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You do have a good way at changing a story to fit your narrative. Did it with earl, doing it with me. Not your first rodeo there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:39 PM
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Standing, have a point. Which you’re only reinforcing with your child like comments. As soon as you start losing you go to lame phrases. Be original at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:38 PM
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Again it’s not evil. Funding is limited. If you cared you would do something like a fundraiser for men, you would learn how to get government funds for a non profit as you donate your time to said organization. What you’re doing is just being a child online pretending to care about men when you only care about your made up victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:37 PM
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The only joke is you and your comprehension skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:35 PM
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Again, you are being ignorant. Yes it’s competitive to get funding, but not evil. A lot of women rights are funded by sponsors and other methods other than government and have had way more experience in it than one single man has. Not surprising. Instead of using Earl as a proper learning experience you’re using him as a pawn to your “feminism” bad narrative. You don’t care about men. You only pretend to. Literal bad actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:03 PM
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Bro you have no standing. I called you out and the others that use earl as a way to be victims. Be compassionate and care about earl not use him as a pawn for your stupid online arguments, which you’re just bad at anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:21 PM
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One man killed himself over a failed men’s shelter, in which he blamed the government, and now you’re all dramatic about it. It’s not a zero sum game of support. You can support men and woman unless you have a limited capacity of empathy or stunted cognitively.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:20 PM
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You’re doing exactly what men that bring up Earl do, just being victims at every corner. That’s why people retelling his story the way you do are doing it injustice. You don’t care about uplifting men, you care about bringing woman down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:17 PM
2

Here you are again misconstruing his life and death to push your own narrative. If you cared about men you’d empathize with him as a victim. Victims are of any race and gender, not just one. It’s not a zero sum game. His death isn’t a story of men being taken down for uplifting men, it’s about a failure in the system. A failure in empathy that you encapsulate so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:16 PM
10

Unironically it’s exactly what you brought up. He gets brought up not to talk about men’s rights but to rather criticize feminism. The issues he faced weren’t solely from women, which is what you and others don’t comprehend. Even he didn’t blame feminism. He blamed the government. But you and other men like to make it as such. You use his death to showcase victimhood and paint women as the real monsters. Everything woman do to you now is an attack. Women don’t date you, they’re evil. Women don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 08:33 PM
1

I agree. Which is why therapy can help. Male groups could help but men don’t like to be vulnerable to other men as I’ve mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:48 PM
0

It can help some. Men aren’t good at processing emotions. Let things build up. This sub is a good example. Men having conflicting emotions about women. Longing to be in a relationship with one but also hating how they behave. Therapy wouldn’t be needed if they already opened up more often to their social group, which is typically other men. But it is looked down upon by men to be vulnerable. So yes, a therapist can be helpful for those that want to vent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 06:18 PM
4

Read the flair. Not only women think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 06:09 PM
-1

They can get help with the current system. Saying they could use therapy is seen as a joke instead of honest advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 06:08 PM
2

You can read about it. He gets brought up a lot like that woman feminist that dressed as a man and wrote a book on it. It’s common anecdotal evidence from men that don’t comprehend that whole idea but like to point to it as “see we do have it hard”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 06:06 PM
1

You definitely are. Other users on this sub realistically think it is solely “top 20%” because they read other users, which are other men in similar situations. Which was my whole point. OPs thread is an example of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 06:02 PM
1

Insinuating others will understand what you’re inferring is a wrong way to get your point across. I know what a statistic is. I was giving a generalization of how statistics are used incorrectly. Grab information and run with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:19 PM
1

What’s made up is the way you and others infer the data. To bring up top 20 but also not add the note “not exactly the top 20” is just lying but also others infer it as solely the top 20 and disregard “normal average” couples. You can acknowledge the top 20 isn’t the top 20 but you are misleading by me having to bring it out of you by questioning how you infer the data. The real statistics are people are having less sex. Less men than women. So you and others just run with it with your anecdotes…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:50 PM
1

You write horribly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:06 PM
1

That’s cool, the key thing is your values are as you stated, controversial and unhelpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:06 PM
2

It’s not that we are 2nd place. It’s that we are not in a fantasy. You can’t meet someone at their “prime” and vice versa. Things aren’t how you think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:05 PM
1

According to who? Other men? Other men that tell you anecdotes about how they dated down? You never heard of women doing that or dating a variety of options since you’re only hearing half the story. You literally said you don’t agree with the top 20% but your example before saying you don’t is the exact top 20%. If you did question it you wouldn’t be using the made up “top 20%” example to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:04 PM
1

I agree. That’s why I keep saying that is one key point that would help men. Personally I’ve never struggled with women, but when I notice men that do it is clear as day socializing is one part of it. I can talk to women like I talk to men, casually. You need to know your audience. For guys I can talk sports or manly topics. With women, you need to know what’s in the know for them too. I do like some more feminine hobbies and music so I can relate somewhat easy. Obviously we aren’t gonna sociali…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:01 PM
13

Why do you feel entitled to sex from strangers? Just cause one person wants to fuck someone else doesn’t mean they want to fuck you. Just how you have standards that you threw out the window, others have standards they keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:19 AM
12

It seems like you need to figure out how to deal your emotions man. You got that hurt over a relationship that never was. If you did care about celibacy, you could have potentially ruined your future prospects with a celibate woman if they know you’re not celibate. You also unknowingly or knowingly got revenge sex because you can’t process emotions. Like what does that accomplish? It was supposed to make it even in your eyes but now you’re just a mess with yourself and can’t trust women because …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:18 AM
3

So you just ended up getting sex out of revenge instead of simply finding someone else to date? Nothing wrong with it, just a lot of extra work for something that probably didn’t even end up happening. Or did you end up marrying said crush?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:15 AM
3

Bro you responded twice. You do have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:09 AM
2

The issue is that women want the top men like men want the top hot women too. Instead of just taking men’s anecdotes as true, try to question them how you question women. Men only go for a certain type of women too. Just how there is hot men there is hot women. It’s not just one sided where only women like some men. Also statistically it’s not just the top 20 of men that are fucking all the women. You and other infer it as such since you think only men better than you are fucking women. Plenty o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:08 AM
4

It’s not a disease my guy. It’s human interaction. You should stray from your attempts to help others. Help yourself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:04 AM
1

Is that what you tell yourself? Sounds like schizophrenia.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:57 PM
3

Women socialize off the web much more than men do. Specially for men that struggle with dating. They go online to complain and share anecdotes about their failed dating life they fail to realize a lot of their “advice” they’re getting is simply people that really don’t get it either. One person struggling with dating reinforcing stereotypes to others struggling with dating. Women can be chronically online too but they do socialize better than men, in that they are more open to be vulnerable. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:53 PM
4

Nowadays people are socially inept specially men. They are so chronically online they don’t understand how that affects their in person interactions. Learning about women from other men online isn’t gonna help, in fact it only makes it worse for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:48 PM
7

It also affects how you behave. Being fit affects your brain chemistry and your confidence. It’s not just others treating you differently cause you’re “attractive “. It’s you approaching people different because you think you’re “attractive”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:56 PM
-4

He’s not. Because he’s using made up numbers or just pretending to be able to interpret the statistics he found online. A lot of people online pretending to be some type of resource without really comprehending what they’re saying. Specially on this sub. A lot of lonely men trying to find an explanation for it but it really just comes down to how unlikeable people have gotten due to their chronically online behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:54 PM
1

It’s a crime to fabricate a crime. I’m making a joke that you never have had sex so you telling the cops about this “crime” is also a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:48 AM
1

“You can look for it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:52 PM
1

“You can look for it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:23 PM
3

Not necessarily. People have sex differently. It’s not for us to questions every potential action they can have. It’s for them to have the conversation between themselves. Like adults. Too many hypotheticals online
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:23 PM
1

“The conversation was decent”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:46 PM
1

“You can look for it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:08 PM
18

So you’ve never given feedback about your sexual experiences with a woman? Sounds like a skill you can learn to make your sexual experience better. If something feels good give some positive feedback. If it’s bad then bring it up. Be an adult about it. That’s what women that are bringing it up to their partner are doing. If you want bad sex continue what you’re doing. You’re doing great.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:56 PM
33

That’s a lot of words to say you’re bad at sex. It is a skill like many others. If you care about your partner you want them to try. As a man you probably have some prerequisites to your sex life like blow jobs. What if she gave a teethy one and never improved? Same idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:44 PM
1

“The conversation was decent”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:42 PM
2

I’m aware of how to make things up too thanks to you. I have another unreported statistic. Men’s std count is higher, they’re also not being reported. A copious amount of men are participating in homosexual activities and their STD rate is on par with women, if not higher. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:37 PM
1

“You can look for it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:52 PM
1

“The conversation was decent”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:46 PM
1

“You can look for it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:42 PM
2

I’m the one grasping at straws while you’re making them up with your fabricated unreported numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:42 PM
1

“The conversation was decent”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:32 PM
1

The men on this sub have never lived with a woman that wasn’t their mom and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:31 PM
4

So making things up to meet your bias is the smart thing to do? Kinda dumb. https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/yeast-infection/symptoms-causes/syc-20378999 Yeast infections affect most women. They are considered an STD since they affect their sexual organs. Doesn’t mean it’s necessarily transmitted. It can be. But not always. Maybe learning more instead of letting your fantasy take over would be better A lot of the men on this sub have never lived with a woman and it shows by the way…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:30 PM
1

You delete your comments bro. It’s one thing to be embarrassing online, it’s another to be aware of it. God you’re such a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:46 AM
1

Not that hard when the other person doesn’t explain their point at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:47 AM
1

It’s not. You’re just embarrassed to admit it. No one wants to be outed as an extremist. It just shows how far gone you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:43 AM
1

Real life stories from men online. No one’s ever lied online to prove a point right? Just like you that went from “oh I do get my info from women” to now “ I read detailed stories from other like minded men about their failures in dating”. I wonder where the bias lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:41 AM
1

You can reject it, again again. Doesn’t change the facts about the case. It’s a defamation case between two celebs. Is that really the hill you want to die on? If so then you care a lot about it. You are on one of the two sides, either the pro men or the pro women. You are part of the groups with extremist views on such a dumb topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:39 AM
1

You can. Doesn’t make yours right. The whole lawsuit was about defamation and a counter suit for defamation. It was a mud slinging show that ended in both winning and losing. Just how you are “believe men”, the other side is “believe women”. It became a bigger thing than it was. It was just a toxic relationship that could’ve ended if they weren’t toxic but they had to take it to court. Not abnormal. Happens with poor people too. Just not newsworthy. If you haven’t been in a toxic relationship or…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:37 AM
4

Oh so now you can just learn about women from other men on the internet. Back to my original point, talk to women. Seems like you don’t at all and you just lied. And if you do talk to them it’s not about these type of issues. You just gave more examples about how you just believe men and their stories on the internet. Pretty biased but you do you man. It’ll definitely not work out in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:06 AM
5

Yeast infections are STDs. That can happen from a number of reasons that don’t include sex. Instead of just learning about women from other men try talking to a woman. Might help you in the long run. If you’re struggling now about this issue boy are you in for a surprise with periods and other womanly issues like your partner getting an “STD” from you cause you don’t clean your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:03 AM
4

Safety doesn’t have to do with crime. I feel less safe on the road because drivers suck. Doesn’t make them criminals. What’s that popular phrase about feelings and facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:01 AM
1

Not what I said. I said the ones that are using it in online discourse are. Like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:00 AM
1

It’s still doesn’t make it correct since you aren’t fully aware of it. Pushing an uninformed narrative is why you’re biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:44 PM
1

The gray is in the detail. You only care about half the details. You only know half the detail. You should learn more about the topics you want to have an unbiased opinion on, otherwise it’s just biased opinion based on your feelings. Now that’s something to take to a therapist to. “Why do you care so much about Heard and Depp controversy”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:36 PM
4

So men that don’t talk to women somehow sleep with said women. Hot take.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:32 PM
1

You are because of how involved you are in it and what you took from it. You see it as black and white and not the typical gray that happens in most relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:29 PM
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If you talked to woman, you’d realize how their vaginas can change quite a lot month to month due to hormones and other factors. I feel like some of you guys are so far removed from reality since you never had certain conversations with women, you just have conversations about women with men and believe men instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:26 PM
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Not reporting doesn’t mean you can make it up lol. You’re like Joe Rogan when he says “unreported crime is up” lol. How does that make sense to you that you say it and don’t feel shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:24 PM
2

It’s the ones that see it as one sided and ignore the facts of the case. Like the fact you think she still shit the bed. The biased extremist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:47 PM
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It’s not the mainstream one. It’s the extreme one. You are extreme too. Normal people don’t care about it as much as you do. You think they do because you are in places like this sub that deals in extremist views.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:35 PM
2

Oh I see. So you are pretending to be as stupid as the poster. Got it. You do it so seamlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:55 PM
0

Again, it was an obvious portrayal of two polarizing sides. Most people don’t care. This sub does because it’s full of polarized people like you. If you want to talk about their lawsuit you should read more about it. You are clearly only aware of one half, the half you care about, due to your bias. Be aware, you are the pearl clutching for the other polarized team.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:49 PM
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The shit the bed thing wasn’t verified but definitely popular for those that were rooting for depp. It was most likely the dog that they’ve mentioned had issues. The whole she did it was because depps driver said it and he got his gossip from depp. Again, trashy couple has trashy break up. Not new. I don’t have empathy for either just because they’re celebs or because I had a horse in the race. A lot of lies thrown around. The most entertaining part was the internet’s most extremely online men p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:28 PM
3

It’s funny you got mad at their over generalization but then you do it right after pointing theirs out. If only you could comprehend irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:09 PM
2

The outlier of lib women usually get ignored by most normal people. The only ones that engage are the ones that have opposing extreme views. When the RP gets criticized for criticizing the lib women it’s usually because they then treat all women as said minority of extremist The Johnny depp thing was seen as a win for men that feel like the world is against them because they’re lonely but they also missed the point where that whole situation was just a toxic relationship of two trashy people mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:07 PM
1

“You can look for it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:02 PM
1

“The conversation was decent”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:28 PM
1

You can look for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:14 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:19 PM
1

If you’ve talked to adult women they also like them. Teenage girls grow up to be women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:57 PM
1

Aww you’re quoting me now. Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:57 PM
1

“I can understand how you can’t see how this conversation has come back around due to your mental disabilities but I have” This conversation is just going in loops. I already have a good comment for anything you say. I’ll probably use this comment later too to remind you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:40 PM
1

“You lack introspection. I can’t explain to you how to process your emotions but I can point them out.“
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:25 PM
1

“I can understand how you can’t see how this conversation has come back around due to your mental disabilities but I have. Still funny.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:19 PM
1

“The conversation was decent”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:16 PM
1

You need help. They’re there to help. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:05 PM
1

“It’s more that you’re a concern to those around you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:01 PM
1

“That’s not my fault, I’ve always been cursed with this popularity.” “It’s not due to popularity. It’s more that you’re a concern to those around you.” 22 hours ago. Change popularity with likability. I can understand how you can’t see how this conversation has come back around due to your mental disabilities but I have. Still funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:53 PM
1

“The conversation was decent… Just using you for entertainment”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:46 PM
1

“Just using you for entertainment”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:39 PM
1

“The conversation was decent, you saw the word “Maslow”, you got triggered and started name calling. No need to prove anything to such an emotional person. Just using you for entertainment“
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:34 PM
1

Sounds like another unfortunate tale of men not knowing how to socialize with women, just men. Both of you guys seem to have no women friends. Maybe try that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:28 PM
1

“The conversation was decent, you saw the word “Maslow”, you got triggered and started name calling. No need to prove anything to such an emotional person. Just using you for entertainment”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:17 PM
1

Got it. You lack introspection. I can’t explain to you how to process your emotions but I can point them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:09 PM
1

You tell me. Or your therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:02 PM
1

The conversation was decent, you saw the word “Maslow”, you got triggered and started name calling. No need to prove anything to such an emotional person. Just using you for entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:57 PM
1

I forgot, you need extra help with reading. “Stop reading bullshit losers feed you on the internet” Look at how upset you got lol. Conversation took the turn there. Thank you for continuing this hilarious conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:30 PM
1

You can go back at the conversation and see for yourself. You got so upset lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:13 PM
1

We already do and it’s already not being done well. Like you mentioned we are overpaying into that system but at the same time it would only cost a fraction of a percentage to pay for child support. So is the government paying for child support working or not? The reason it doesn’t is the government fails at a lot of budgeting issues. Same reason potential parents opt out of having kids. Budgeting for one isn’t easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:08 PM
1

It was one point and it triggered you. Not my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:59 PM
1

Who are you talking to? You or me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:11 AM
1

You talking to yourself again? You have a tendency to own yourself a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:04 AM
2

That’s really it man. It’s not for you. Not hard to comprehend. When you don’t like something don’t get mad when someone else does. It’s a leisurely activity. Whatever you do for fun is up to you. How weird would it be if someone got mad at you and told you to do something else instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:58 AM
1

That first sentence could use a comma. You definitely make it harder as a reader to respond to. That’s cute, you’re trying to take steal my insult. Would’ve been better if you said it first. Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:57 AM
1

Or proper grammar. No grammar. No punctuation. No facts. Not much of substance. Except entertainment. I do like trashy tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:12 AM
2

Well a salon is for you to get your hair done at. A club is to dance and have fun. Your home is whatever you make it out to be. They’re all different venues/ places for people to be at for a reason. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:47 PM
1

You could lie to yourself about it. You’re pretty good at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:46 PM
1

Seems you like being a victim even in your hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:21 PM
1

Oh there’s a chant too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:03 PM
1

The fact there’s a banner for it shows you guys do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:46 PM
1

You could say that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:41 PM
1

Notice how I didn’t say every guy. You did. I said you and your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:11 PM
3

How am I pulling it out of my ass? You failed at going to prom. You’re a failure at that. It’s all facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:07 PM
1

Eagles fan, you definitely help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:07 PM
1

It’s not baseless. You said it. “Yes, I don’t understand why that is such an impossible thing to believe, none of my friends even went to prom. How old are you? You talk like an older person which may explain the disconnect” I understand you and your friends failed at socializing with women so you think that means all men must also have that issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:02 PM
2

Give me real stats or else I’m still right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:55 PM
1

It is. You should look internally more to realize you are bitter at the world for your failures. Not everyone’s down bad like you or your friends. You could always do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:55 PM
1

It sounds like it’s a you problem if you and your friends didn’t go to prom. Doesn’t mean zero men from your class went to prom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:33 PM
4

You can ask but there is such things as a limitation to what is acceptable and what is not. Wearing shorts is whatever. Lots of men wear outfits to show off their muscles. Those weird tanks. Short shorts. They are comfy. Flirting isn’t seen as bad until it is excessive. If someone isn’t interested take it as that not as playing hard to get or whatever. Expressing yourself sexually in public is usually seen as weird. Unless prompted, typically in a closed environment like a club or bar. Otherwise…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:31 PM
1

You care to a degree. You’re still chatting with me on the PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:27 PM
1

It’s not due to popularity. It’s more that you’re a concern to those around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:24 PM
2

Unless you have numbers we’re both just making things up based on experiences. Do your experiences beat mine? No. According to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:19 PM
3

Seems like there’s a lot for you to unpack there my guy. If you tell your partner you’re gonna go out and have trust built on the relationship then they should trust you and vice versa. If there is no trust there is no relationship. Pretty much the whole point of this thread. Why be with someone you don’t agree with. Just don’t date someone that likes to party. Not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:18 PM
1

It was part of the original conversation. Now you’re the topic of the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:16 PM
4

It is. But people that party big with families usually like to party out with their family that is the same age at clubs. It is a similar demographic. Sometimes they can’t party hard with the whole family but with the cool cousins they can
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:31 PM
1

I mean wedding isn’t on the table for every couple so it’s not really the primary concern for men and women. Specially with how things are progressing: lower birth rates and less marriages/ dating for the average person. Also before you get married you need to get into a relationship. Who has it easier to get into a relationship? Women. So if they don’t feel a match to the man they move on. Who has it harder? Men, so they fake it to pretend they’re a good match.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:30 PM
1

I’m sure you have proven your point to yourself. Since you’ve been arguing with yourself. It’s really interesting messaging someone with schizophrenia. Exactly why I come to this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:23 PM
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That sounds depressing lol. I get if you don’t like going out to dance but it’s not the same at home unless you plan on buying a whole sound system and lighting equipment. Even then doing it at home alone is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:45 PM
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You need professional help. What is there to deflect? Your non existent question? You really need help in reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:43 PM
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Yes women can be desperate too. Not the question I was answering. Woman and men can both showcase similar behaviors. Who would’ve thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:41 PM
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Also no sound system or atmosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:34 PM
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There are stages to life but they aren’t all the same for everybody. Some women have careers off of thirst traps and all the “negative” stuff you mentioned. Things like parting isn’t something like signaling. Some people legitimately just like to go out like that. Just cause you take it as signaling doesn’t mean it is. I know lots of big families that party big because of the family aspect, not to signal “hey I’m single”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:34 PM
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It’s desperation. Men want a relationship and pretend they can date anyone because of desperation. Reality is they can’t. At least not a good relationship. They can fake it but once the woman realizes he really isn’t who he pretended to be relationship will probably end.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:31 PM
1

I mean, if you can point out the question with an appropriate question mark that would be a good start. Balls on your court pal. Can’t help you if you can’t even help yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:50 PM
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Yeah humans are just like animals. There is no level of cognizance that differentiates them and puts them on the top of the animal kingdom. We’re just like birds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:06 AM
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It’s a combination of that and also creating their own standards to look for a better partner. Pretending to be able to date anyone isn’t a good idea or realistic. Having an idea of who you can and cannot date is good. If you’re just trying to fuck then that is different but don’t pretend to be interested in dating cause that’s how you get called an asshole, for lying and leading on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:05 AM
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I really don’t get when men get bashed for having their own standards. The only reason I can think of it is if you just say crude things like “can’t date her she’s a fatty”. There is correct ways to talk about someone you don’t like and there are rude ways. When you do something rudely you’ll get looks and judgement. Women typically play it safe and just say “not my type” as a broad stroke to not offend anyone. On one hand men complain that women sleep around with other men except them and on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:03 AM
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Marriage isn’t the same thing as commitment. Along with divorce being more common in failed marriages so has long term relationships without marriage become a norm. Marriage is an idea that doesn’t necessarily solidify a relationship like you and many think it does. It’s just pageantry. Why involve the government when there is no need for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:56 AM
1

You didn’t ask a question to answer. One of your many issues is you don’t utilize proper grammar and punctuation. Part of the challenge I had with you to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:21 AM
1

You could always have more. And I was speaking for men as a whole not just you. You think more selfishly and just about yourself. Men pretend to be neutral to be liked. They don’t want to overstep boundaries because they want a gf immediately. Again, take anyone out of desperation not because they are neutral or more open. Don’t you think divorce could be high because men pretend to be okay with a woman only for the women to later learn more about the man that he was withholding to make the rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:29 AM
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I reply cause it’s fun. This sub is full of characters like yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:24 AM
1

I’m sure that was supposed to be a zinger but it flopped. Like most of your responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:12 AM
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Emotional support can help relieve it. It’s a solution that you and others ignore. But continue to ignore it and continue to be sad and depressed and suicidal. Oh okay. When men do a bad thing it’s good. When woman do it it’s the fall of western civilization. Got it. No fault divorce isn’t a bad thing. It benefits both men and women to get out a relationship they don’t want to be in. Big deal. You either allow divorce or you don’t. Stop trying to keep people in miserable relationships. You don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:11 AM
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I mean I can’t really argue with a delusional person. Good job at beating yourself I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:50 AM
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It’s not extra. It’s something that can help men in the long run. You don’t think that men lacking in the emotional department would help them in many aspects, including their suicide rate. Why do men give in to vices instead of having a healthy lifestyle? Because it’s looked down upon by men to be emotional by other men. Men need to push that boundary for themselves and their quality of life. Women worked plenty when they had the opportunity. They worked the farms. When they were needed in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:35 AM
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It’s something you brought up without reasoning other than your experience with others that have brought up Maslow. I didn’t bring up the sex aspect of it, you did. You’re just arguing with yourself. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:28 AM
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You really think you got an aha moment when I never even mentioned the sex aspect of it. You just keep trying to spin this cause that’s all you can do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:08 PM
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It’s not really holding each other accountable or caring. It’s the emotional aspect. Are you vulnerable with others to be able to communicate with at an emotional level? Most men just say they’re doing well instead of own they feel because of how they think they should behave. Nuclear family lasted because women couldn’t live on their own. No jobs. No property. Needed a man to be able to survive. Divorce between men and women is also higher than gay men. What about that? Blaming “nature” because…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:06 PM
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Interacting with men isn’t the key. It’s making more fulfilling relationships with their male friends. Most men are blase about themselves and other men. No care for them at all or how they are doing. Since like you mention they only care about women. But they can practice socializing more with men to then socialize better with women. The nuclear family also lasted because historically woman weren’t allowed to own property, have a bank account, etc. again, you try to use history as a point and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 10:36 PM
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It’s practice. Men interact more with men just how woman usually interact with more women. You have to learn how to socialize. By learning to socialize better with men, men can then learn how to do that with woman. Using the few interactions with woman as practice and expect it to succeed is possible but also much harder, statistically speaking. More practice is usually good. Men being okay to stick in any relationship isn’t also good for them. They should have their own boundaries and understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:56 PM
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Oh interesting. Either you’re looking at a different chart, are making things up, or just parroting something you read online to teach you how to disregard it. I also only mentioned it as one example but I love how it triggered you to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:43 PM
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Exactly. You read it as it’s “not accepted” and you took that and ran with it. Maybe you should read some more and not believe everything you see online.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 08:57 PM
1

Again, that’s your ignorance. You conflate emotional needs of people with astrology. It’s a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:55 PM
1

Because it’s not a scientific issue. It’s an existential one. Wonder why they don’t agree with it in the scientific community?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:31 PM
1

Again, it’s something you can’t comprehend so it’s wrong. You’re just ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:14 PM
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Again, you’re just offended by the truth of it. How often do you and your bros connect emotionally and are vulnerable with each other about your lives? Probably never, cause that’s lame right? Men not caring about who they date is because they haven’t thought about anything other than “I’d like a gf, I’d take anyone”. Not thinking about compatibility, future goals, etc. they just assume the woman will do whatever they want. As a guy that socializes with men and women there is a clear difference …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:12 PM
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It’s not that easy. Specially when they find a community to dig into/ become more extreme in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:04 PM
1

Exactly. Or what if the guy is broke. Can’t really get much out of him. Not every man pays child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:02 PM
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Yup. Life is hard but you gotta find something positive. But that’s what the internet has done, exploited peoples extremist views and normalized them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:57 AM
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That’s why they get mad when it gets brought up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:39 AM
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That’s a guy being mindful. We’re talking about how it’s not always the case. How rage and anger is an easier and usually go to emotion for men instead of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:38 AM
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That already happens lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:14 AM
1

Lmao you’re the first one that resorted to calling others losers. You just have thin skin and can’t take it like you dish it. Like most losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:03 AM
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That’s exactly why I’m not listening to you you loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:00 AM
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You deal in extreme examples instead of reality? The reality is people can’t stay emotionally stunted and expect to live a good life. Maslow hierarchy of needs is a good example of how it is needed to life a good life. Look into. Much better than making up fake scenarios. What if an ugly guy won the lottery for 200M and got 2 hot gfs, will he still be sad?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:39 AM
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That’s looking at one thing. Wanting a family. You’re more complex than that and so is the other person
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:25 AM
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The metric is quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:23 AM
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It is what’s needed for long term relationships. At least healthy one. Which is why I mentioned fulfilling life. Many people out there living unhappy lives in bad relationships just because they don’t know what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:52 AM
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Saying millions are happy when the population is at the billions isn’t much. I could say millions of bitter people too. Look at how people are when politics are brought up. The list differs person to person. It could be anything. Ability to take rejection properly. Ability to be supportive to your partner. Ability to be open about yourself. And so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:50 AM
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Socializing isn’t easy, specially to younger people that are online a lot. The issue is being chronically online which leads to becoming/ finding extreme beliefs to fall into. socializing and being normal are become less normal which is the issue. Unironically being online less will help. That and learning to process emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:28 AM
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You win or lose in a game.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:26 AM
2

Your advice is tell introverts to antagonize people? I’m sure that will only bode well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:26 AM
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Becoming fully mature. You’re an adult but can you comprehend your and others emotional needs to have a fulfilling life. A lot of bitter people out there that are stunted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:25 AM
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In public. Last time was a concert a week ago. Dude tried to fight anyone that got close to him. Angry drunk men in public aren’t hard to find if you’re out in a large crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:23 AM
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It depends on if you mean genuinely good or someone who thinks they’re good and that’s why they deserve a chance. Genuinely good people are just good in general due to how they behave. Due to their ethics and morality. I feel like genuinely nice men don’t get upset when they don’t get a woman’s attention since they get to just focus on their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:16 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/blamestorming/201612/5-ways-men-and-women-talk-differently There are articles you could read if you want to my guy. Being offended doesn’t change the truth behind my statements. It’s like when guys say “women care about looks”. It’s not a negative it’s just something woman do. Woman care about whom they want to date and men don’t think about it. Why? Because of they’re emotionally stunted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:09 PM
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It’s not blaming and it’s also not something they can’t change now. Knowing you can still develop and grow as a person in an area you haven’t should drive to you to change it. Not become defensive of your inability to be open and vulnerable. Just like anything else in life should we be okay with ignorance and be upset at those that are simply pointing out a weak point? Men can change but it’s also men that hold each other back. Most men’s social circles are mostly men so they are doing it to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:31 PM
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It’s not generalization. You’re just taking it personally because you feel attacked by it. Probably cause you’re part of the group of men that can’t communicate. Anger and rage is a quick response to those type of men that can’t participate in a decent conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:25 PM
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They’re not simple. You just treat them simple and disregard them. Most men ignore men. It’s why they’re emotionally stunted and therapy would be helpful for them. Not trying to go out and participate in a fight for simply going out into town.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:24 PM
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It is difficult. Why are they expressing themselves solely through anger at a fun outing. They need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:31 PM
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And that’s fine. That’s another skill, learn to take rejection. Not a big deal. Hey I like you I don’t Okay well I’m gonna continue with my day Why let a quick interaction ruin a day, a week, a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:25 PM
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Not really. I went out to have fun not be prepared for a fight. I’m trying to enjoy life not be on edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:23 PM
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Being said you men aren’t the best at speaking isn’t an insult. It’s help they need. If they can communicate better they’ll do better socially. That’s a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:23 PM
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Women being on social media like men doesn’t mean they are better at socializing. Specially emotionally. They can empathize better with other woman more than men empathize with men. Men try to be stoic and mysterious and lone wolf type archetypes which only creates a barrier instead of vulnerability that allows for more intimate levels of socialization. Being able to be vulnerable appropriately is a skill that men lack in due to being emotionally stunted compared to their women counterparts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:22 PM
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What people say is usually basic advice. Being fit is good for looks but also mood change. You get more endorphins. You get happier with how you look. Plus plus. Dressing better is good for the same reasons. Personal hygiene as well. They’re all things people that don’t do it can do and improve themselves in. Confidence is there, it just needs to come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:17 PM
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As a guy I’d say men in general are more difficult. Almost every time I’ve gone out douche bags are out drunk trying to fight. Why do they do that? Now that’s a bigger challenge than girl no talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:02 PM
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Attaining wealth and attaining love are not the same as much as you want to equate them. Maybe that’s why you have an unhealthy relationship with both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:24 PM
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It is to be sad. Enduring is all life is. You have to put up with its ups and downs anyways. They’re just tired of trying to be happy, which is be sad instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:28 PM
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What confuses me is how are you so desperate for something you never had? Makes no sense. So much more to live for and do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:25 PM
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Normalcy is a spectrum. What’s normal for you isn’t for all. People live in different levels of normalcy. Making the issue about women is problematic because you can be happy without them and you should. You’re right women shouldn’t be fixated on woman if it’s not healthy but they can still be happy and healthy. Lifting isn’t for everyone but you should be healthy. Eat well. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:22 PM
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Why is telling men to give up the next step in women have high standards? Why can’t men have a healthy good life. Why do they have to be sad because you’re sad?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:08 AM
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The point of the comment you’re disregarding is that it isn’t as black and white as you want it to be. People aren’t all struggling and at the same time people aren’t all succeeding. It’s a mixture.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:07 AM
1

How is it an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:05 AM
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I’m sure woman talk shit, but again, do they actually insult you to your face? Two separate ideas you’re trying to mash together
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:02 PM
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It’s also their clean androgynous looking face. But it seems you have your own narrative on looks that differs from the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:01 PM
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How do the below average girls get women? Just take what they can? But they’re below average. How do they do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:04 PM
1

Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:58 PM
1

Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:58 PM
1

It’s situational. Share more than, “ I got insulted, believe me bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:57 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:57 PM
1

Its not a gendered thing. It’s a situational thing. How do you guys, that are critical of women, end up in these situations. I wonder what it is. Or it’s a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:56 PM
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Oh you’re just a fragile man. Change your flair to RP bro. Stop pretending
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:43 PM
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You sure know a lot about woman behavior online. If only you talked to them in person and not pretend to be a psychologist online.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:43 PM
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Nope. Just don’t believe liars. If you believe people’s tale of “I don’t know what happened, she just called me short and small dick out of nowhere for no reason” then you’re just a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:41 PM
1

It’s not blame. It’s not believing the lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:40 PM
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Because there’s a lot more to it than what they said. “Immediately insult”. Takes a lot to be immediately insulted my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:40 PM
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I’m not a woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:39 PM
2

Different standards different countries. They’re effeminate compared to western societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:38 PM
1

Wrong comment reply
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:36 PM
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So which is it? Are woman trying to be STEM majors and girl boss or live traditionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:35 PM
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Not what I said. Just how woman don’t mock your small dick. You guys live in fantasy land. No one cares about your dick size more than you. Stop being outwardly insecure about it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:35 PM
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Still doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:43 AM
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I think the ones bitching about women’s freedom more often than not are men. Women aren’t desperate for a relationship as much as men are. Freedom isn’t bad. Sane people would rather be single than in a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:32 AM
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“Meme page” isn’t real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:29 AM
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Are they feminist or do you claim they are since the relationship failed and that’s your way of blaming them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:29 AM
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Most men find it demeaning and effeminate. Being the bread winner is “manly” to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:28 AM
4

Life priorities
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:27 AM
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You’re repeating yourself when you try to deflect like a common debate lord. Definitely unlikeable in person but you fit in on this sub perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:18 AM
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It’s suppose to make you understand it’s not a single answer. If you can’t comprehend that it is a range. You for in that range. No one’s gonna take their time to spell them all out for you until you’re content
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:16 AM
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Unlikeable online doesn’t matter to me as much as it matters to you. I meant in person. Which is an obvious yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:15 AM
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Do you go around being as unlikeable as you are online?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:53 AM
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It should help knowing woman aren’t as linear as you think they are. They have different preferences like you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:52 AM
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What are you talking about? Women are also just talking shit to your face or is it how the internet tells you to behave?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:57 AM
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I’ve met many women that are into them. If you talk to them about their fandoms you’d learn more than what the internet tells you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:56 AM
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If you talk to women they’ll tell you how they do like some of those. Not every woman likes the type of man you’re into. Your ideal man is your own, not the worlds. As an effeminate man that likes fashion that’s played to my advantage more than you could imagine. But that goes against your beliefs that I’m sure you got from the RP, a group of other men that fail at getting woman. Good luck. Change the flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:47 AM
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Never said it was fine. Just saying I don’t believe you. Comparing it to a racial slur makes you sound like you don’t want to be taken seriously at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:44 AM
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That’s interesting. Have you heard of kpop groups. A bunch of effeminate men that get women in their feels? Just because your idea of a hunk is a muscular dominant type doesn’t mean it’s everyone’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:21 AM
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If you’re getting insulted for your height or dick size there’s something else that happened in the conversation that led to that. No shot someone just insults either my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:19 AM
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Effort? What effort? You mean whining online? That’s not really hard. Money? Yeah getting tricked for money is your fault. You can go on reasonable outings. If you don’t know how it’s a you problem. Terms of commitment? What terms? What commitment? If you’re not getting dates there’s neither. The RP is funny because it’s a bunch of failures giving other men that are failing advice. And continue to fail. The only good advice is get healthy, which is common sense but somehow you need TRP to tell y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:17 AM
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I know. I also know what I meant. You’re conflating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:13 AM
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You can only move on. It’s how time works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:12 AM
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A yes. Male species. They’re all the same. Just like male sea horses. How’s the pregnancy going? Bringing up men was just to show you how you struggle to socialize with people you want to fuck, women. Not so much men. You don’t need men so you don’t care if you and them don’t hit it off. That’s fine. Go back to your echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:12 AM
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“Not liking” the term toxic masculinity is where you already became biased on your opinion. The reason you think women do it more is because you take their comments more serious than other men. You don’t care about men how you care about women so you easily brush off their toxic comments. Just boys being boys. But when a woman does it she’s whatever negative connotation you want to give her. She’s toxic when she has conservative values and calls men gay for being effeminate. The thing about open…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:00 PM
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Oh I see. You lack the reading comprehension needed to have a conversation. Notice how I said “you” to said individual. Meaning it’s not everyone that is a trick, it’s just those that pay. Pay monetarily. A man or woman getting taken advantage over money is a trick and it’s not the norm. A man and a woman that are in a normal relationship aren’t being tricks on each other. They’re the normal ones. Hope that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:53 PM
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Memories are all they are. And if you meet someone “older” than those are the memories you have and technically the person will be the youngest version they met if they grow old together. Time moves on. You should too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:49 PM
2

Where’s the proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:33 PM
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No. I lost it at a normal age. How? By not approaching woman and making it about me wanting to get laid to lose my virginity. You lead with yourself and you get what you put out. You can’t talk to someone why would they want to talk to you? You come off as boring, who wants to talk to you? You come off as horny and looking for pity sex for being and old virgin, no one wants to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:22 PM
1

With time you get experience. Not everything works one way. Time and age pass. Focusing on things you cannot retain is ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:20 PM
2

Big if true
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:19 PM
1

Correct. It’s how time works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:29 PM
1

Correct. It’s how time works. Time moves forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:29 PM
0

I’m sure that’s how you feel about people that don’t agree with you or you don’t agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:29 PM
0

It’s not really a duh moment. It seems you don’t comprehend reality and whatever you say online
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:18 PM
1

You mentioned younger in context to women. I’m explaining to you how time works and how meeting a younger version of someone works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:17 PM
1

That’s fine. The internet is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:16 PM
0

Settling is only seen as negative by those that can’t get someone to settle with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:15 PM
0

If I meet you today and another person meets you tomorrow I met a younger version of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:11 PM
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Not necessarily. I wrote what I wrote to explain how your mentality is wrong. But if you’re too far into it there’s nothing to do. You have to remove yourself from the internet, where you became like this. I can’t help with that and you don’t want to give up your online commmunjties
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:10 PM
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Pursue and get are different
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:09 PM
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I mean if you can’t see how you’re an unbearable person you’re pretty far gone and not worth helping. It’s not just women but also men you’d give the ick to. If your close group of friends and family knew how you talked online they’d probably try to part ways. Being unlikeable is a you problem my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:01 PM
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Time works forward
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:00 PM
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“Younger”. Do you not know how time works? You were younger when you started reading this sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:51 PM
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That assuming women fuck dickheads like as often as you think they do. Whatever weird fetish material you make up in your creative writing RP subs is just that, creative writing you guys share with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:51 PM
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Paying much less? If you end up paying a lot for anyone’s attention, man or woman, you’re just a trick. It’s you that is a sucker. Not every man is a trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:48 PM
1

“Douchebag”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:47 PM
1

That’s how you can take it. I’m simply explaining how your little “ignore YOUR past experience and not MINE” is pretty ignorant in itself. It goes both ways. I understand not every man is gonna be liked by every woman. That’s not statistically possible from the rip. Just how we also don’t like every man. Being liked by everyone in itself is impossible and you’re not suppose to. Most friend groups are small. Most people aren’t always out there trying to socialize with new people. It’s a hassle. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:45 PM
1

That’s good. You’re not my audience. If someone is so far gone to being unable to understand how they affect how they have power over how their interactions go with others then they are helpless. Learning things like “women don’t like virgin men” is just further proof learning is done incorrectly. You and others focus on virgin, the issue in general can just associated to men. Men aren’t the most sociable people. Most agreeable. They just want their needs and wants met without really trying. Mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:42 PM
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If they want to lose it it could help. If they’re doing it for religious purposes I’m assuming they’re looking for someone who meets eye to eye with them on virginity. It’s all dependent on the person that needs help. Making something bigger issue than it really is can affect the person negatively by how much they give it credence. That’s the power said man can give to their own virginity where it can then be seen as negative by women. Kinda like an egg or the chicken dilemma
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:13 PM
1

“Get”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:09 PM
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“14”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:03 PM
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Because a man can still do well against a deal breaker. How can a man overcome said deal breakers. By improving their socialization skills. One key aspect that differ men that do well with women and those that don’t is how they interact with women. Performing poorly will only lead to failure, and one can assume a virgin has failed to do that as long as they’ve been a virgin. If they want to change that they’re gonna need to improve somewhere to overcome said deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:02 PM
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The second point plays into the first. How is the interaction about being a virgin is brought up. It can go into many directions. A woman saying you’re inexperienced so you wouldn’t know x , isn’t necessarily a woman a virgin would want to potentially lose their virginity to anyways so that helps the man in moving on. What the man does have control over is how they bring up their experiences. On one end being a virgin can be a statement. How is it brought up? Is it brought up at an appropriate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:56 PM
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As much as men have. A lot of men that didn’t succeed in dating in high school feel left out of the experiences they feel is owed to them. An older male virgin is similar to a person applying for jobs that are asking for “x amount of years in experience” but how do you get such experience if you missed out on it? They reminisce on what should’ve been instead of focusing on what they can do now. The reason I mentioned high school mentality is it’s a non important factor for the man. They care mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:49 PM
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“Wife”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:44 PM
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Unless your expectations of dating was 100% success rate, it’s still the uphill battle of finding one person to date out of the potential millions in your area, if you live in a metropolitan area. I never understood where men got the idea dating in general is easy. Even those that do well don’t have 100% success rate. Additionally variables like virginity could play into it. What’s the stats looking if you’re looking at a religious woman take on virginity? Potentially higher? Change the variable…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:03 PM
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I can tell. It only helps in making you annoying online and in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:52 PM
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Majority doesn’t mean all. Dating has never been easy and another variable like being a virgin can make it harder. It still is up to the person that to put themselves out there in a good light and not let it be seen as negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:51 PM
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No. I’m trying to tell them how to behave like an adult. Why “learn” from other men who failed that can only teach you about their failures in dating and not from people that actually do well. Kinda odd. RP claims to help men. It doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:48 PM
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The things you mentioned are the basis to be an adult. Take care of yourself and you’re healthy. Learn to socialize with others well. It’s nothing new, it’s just something people have put off. The sense of normalcy is gone since most people are chronically online, like this sub, and can’t socialize well with others in person. Men think they can translate what they learned here or other similar subs and do it in person which is typically not possible. Some men also think now that they understand …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:59 PM
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Woah, people behave unreasonably? No way. I thought men behaved one way and woman another.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:52 PM
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If you think only men with big dicks are the ones out there dating and fucking women do an audit. Interrupt the date and ask the men out in public to take their cock out for you to verify. Make sure to make it hard to make sure, you could help them with that part. It’s almost as if porn has one main audience and it’s most likely men who like to see big cocks inside women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:47 PM
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It could be how you lead with it. It’s not as if a woman would think of that as a net positive or negative. You are being taken in as you present yourself. Your sexuality isn’t the forward most think unless you present yourself with a Chasity belt or something over the top. On the other end you think women look at guys with high body count as studs or whatever but why? How do you imagine those conversations go? “I fucked like 40 women” “wow I’m wet” Probably not. If a woman told you her high bod…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:44 PM
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The only ones obsessed with their virginity are the men that still have them. Whatever interview process that RP thinks dating is isn’t true. It’s not as if you have to go about and just spill everything like your virginity from the get go. RP guys are men that lack socialization skills and think dating some weird para social ritual when you’re simply just talking to a person and if it goes anywhere cool. If not move on with your life. RP men seem to never be able to do that. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:39 PM
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I’m having a conversation to you. You replied back twice before having issues about me not comprehending the thread so clearly I got something wrong you’re just not liking where I took it even though it’s relevant. If you have to convince a man or a woman to like you, what’s the point? Why do you think you can do that? Does being a debate lord online make you believe you can debate yourself into relationships? That’s not how it works. Interpersonal relationships are complex. It shouldn’t be easy…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:34 PM
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It’s funny how I am and you’re not. It must be because you think you’re smarter than most I’m sure. That’s why you think you’re always objective and have no preconceived biases towards woman. It’s another issue where you are not at fault at all, it’s everyone else. Yet I am the one who continues to not look past my experiences. My issue overall is how you and other men claim to be helping men and aren’t. You can pretend to be because you guys just blow hot air up each others asses in whatever ec…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:31 PM
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This is such a young person problem. Once you’re an adult and realize how people are different and grow up differently and have different values you’d understand being different is part of life. When you lose your virginity is one aspect people differ in. Also how important sex is to the relationship varies. A lot of variables other than sex. Very high school mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:25 AM
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It’s porn and being chronically online. Porn is aimed at men and it does promote the idea big dick is better. Also being chronically online where he learned all that weirdo rhetoric at whatever echo chamber he hangs out at.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:20 AM
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Says who? The other bitter men you talk to online? The woman I’ve been with are good to me if I am good to them. Typically how relationships work. If it’s a one sided relationship and you’re only hearing about relationships from those that do poorly in the Maybe look for help from those that do well. It’s relevant because on one hand men want women to be more agreeable with men but once men are with a woman they probably wouldn’t want that to continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:35 AM
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When the woman likes the man it works the other way too. Wouldn’t you want your partner to like you and also not lead on other men? It’s interesting you bring up population since I feel like we are over populated. Maybe naturally we procreate more when that occurs. No need to worry about the human race.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:10 AM
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But how is that a bad thing? If someone doesn’t like you why do you want to be with them? It goes for men too. If there’s men you don’t socialize well with are you upset you can’t be friends with them? Probably not. You avoid people too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:53 AM
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I have to see past my immediate experiences but you don’t have to? Why? Oh because you are a failure and expect nothing more of others. I see whomever raised you raised you with a failure mentality. Either parents or the internet where you got this lame RP rhetoric. Others don’t want to quit and if they fail they don’t find it aimless. Maybe it’s you who should look past your immediate experiences and see why there is benefit in trying and not quitting. Or if you do quit do it but don’t drag dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:48 PM
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Typically being in a relationship is a boundary that you can’t have sex outside the relationship. Unless you allow your partner to do that. There are lots of boundaries in relationships that are between the people in said relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:37 AM
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I’d say some men typically have a difficulty processing emotions and events. They’d probably say they’re fine but not entirely and it’ll eat at them. Some people just can’t process trauma or trauma like events so they take time and wouldn’t break up not knowing they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:35 AM
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Oh he’s Christian, how does he feel about the church’s history with child abuse? Is that why they hate abortion? Less kids to sexually assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:33 AM
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Spilling seed. So yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:31 AM
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You can see it as the woman being selfish, but it’s also being thoughtful. What if they can’t provide for the child, which is true in many cases. So many people are living check to check. Adding an extra costs and all the time to properly care for a child can largely affect how the parent parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:31 AM
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Who typically gets custody or left with the child?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:29 AM
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It’s not impossible. Just because you failed doesn’t mean others will. Loser mentality isn’t trying. Loser mentality is doing so bad your only advice to others is to not even try when the failure is you. Not others. In sports and in many regards of life, it can be an uphill battle if you’re bad or someone else is simply better than you. Trying is still worthwhile. Quitting is literally lame. You make people lame by telling them to not put any effort because YOU and other men failed. Other men wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:28 AM
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It varies. It’s a spectrum. It’s not as if women are just one column. They can change over time, depending on the scenario, mood. Etc. You mixed some good things with bad in the aggressive column. Calling them aggressive is an interesting choice. Mixing things men like getting asked out and paying for dates with being called ugly. The submissive column seems very agreeable across the board. I wonder what OP likes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:34 PM
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It is wrong. You don’t like how women behave and that is an issue. As much as you don’t want to state it’s a problem, why bring it up as an issue to begin with? Why keep talking so strongly about your position on it? How would you know what they want? You’re just inferring your failure to other men. You are a man. You failed. They are a man. They must also fail. That’s incorrect logic. So if a man is overweight that’s it? No need for them to lost weight for their health or relationship aspects? …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:56 PM
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You keep saying that but you do. Ideally you would. You wish you could. You’re just using semantics. Wishes aren’t real so you don’t. Whatever. Because it’s impossible for you doesn’t mean it is for others. If you want to quit then quit. We all have our lives to live. Why does someone like you get to dictate what women should do or what men should do? Just because you “solved” a hidden equation that men and women are different that hasn’t been secret. I don’t know if you know this they’re also p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:09 AM
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It seems the issue is the expectation. So you put yourself out there and expect to be welcomed and attended to by a strangers company? Do you have similar expectations when talking to men or just women that you want to date you? Isn’t that part of why you put risk, because you’re the one wanting the interaction to occur? So someone else should talk to you first simply because you want to talk to them? How does that work? What are the expectations you are looking for? Being yourself and talking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:02 AM
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You can be yourself. You just have to be able to talk about yourself. The issue is people can’t talk to people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:10 AM
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It’s the idea of wanting control. You wish you could so you could fix the problem women are creating for you and other men. Isn’t telling people that it’s pointless without trying also lying? How would you know and they know it’s pointless if they haven’t tried. Just because you failed doesn’t speak for everyone else. Statistically speaking you will be wrong with some people and wouldn’t them trying to succeed be allowed? Or simply because you find it pointless everyone should as well? Someone t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:01 AM
3

It will always up to the judge. The human factor. What makes your solution not possible
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:30 AM
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This would bode well if people were machines. Fine tuning this takes away from the human factor that is the judge and the representative parties. It’s never gonna be what you want unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:22 AM
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It’s no surprise. Shitty people exist. Shitty people have relationships with shitty people. He probably agreed to her being a gold digger because she’s hot or sex or both or who knows. The relationship was built on an agreement not each other. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:19 AM
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It seems the issue is some weird control complex. It’s only helpful for people like you who want to control the narrative. Tell men it’s pointless. Blame women. Seeing both as not negative. All because you are unhappy with others choices. If men want to try let em. If women don’t want to date someone let em. You have no say in what people do. You just want your opinion to be heard when it really doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:04 AM
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It’s still complaining. Whether they want a hot gf or ugly. And like most people usually they want a hot partner. Ideally. And what does whining do? Nothing. It makes you even more unattractive in fact. Which adds to me saying your knowledge is for nothing. It is judging woman because they are at the center of men’s problem. Men want a relationship, it’s women that don’t offer it back. Who is at the end of the predicament that men are facing? Women. You and your movement don’t like to “blame” wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:40 PM
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You’re simply misinterpreting the data. If that’s how you see it no wonder you and many are bitter. The other more healthy way to see it as is they are people with their own choices. If they don’t want to be with you then that makes it easier for you. Just move on. Instead you want to focus on the women that don’t want you and blame them. That’s where you are like the black pill movement. You don’t want to keep trying since you figured out the problem, women. You want women to change. That’s wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:38 PM
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It does matter. It all plays into each other. Get bothered by the trait, get bothered by women, blame women, you become like a lot of men online. Extremism views are norm now. Being normal isn’t. Being normal would be understanding woman and men are different and letting it be. Wow people are different. Whoopy Black pill is that nothing matters. You should look into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:52 PM
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Yeah that’s why they couldn’t get things like a bank account til the 80s. So many ways to manage their wealth. Your example isn’t even that far off either. 50s they were largely in the work force. That’s only a few generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:48 PM
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So between birth and them looking to date nothing changed. It’s been foretold they will be single. Sounds like you chose the black pill. Change it on your profile
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:59 AM
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It’s almost as if intentions differ from person to person and it’s not solely based on gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:24 AM
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If you do that then it isn’t rude to then call you a creep for staring.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:23 AM
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She has a good amount of men pegged right so she does somewhat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:22 AM
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Typically people put an /s. I tried adding the “huh” to sound goofy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:37 AM
2

It’s sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:16 AM
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That was sarcasm by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:16 AM
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Guess what, not everyone will like you and vice versa. You don’t need to do a study on that. I can tell by our conversation I wouldn’t want to be your friend. You know what this does for women? It makes you even more unlikable to them as well. Good job at making your situation worse and telling other men the secret to your secret technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:15 AM
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It was sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:35 AM
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I thought the huh would help out. The exaggerated dumb question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:34 AM
1

If you know that then you know the answer to your question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:33 AM
1

It was sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:04 AM
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Some people can’t comprehend two problems at once. When you add even more pieces to a the puzzle that is human interaction they fall apart and you get this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:04 AM
1

Doesn’t Cher got a young bf too?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:03 AM
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That would be true but a lot of people are simply unbearable. The idea that everyone gets one person is a weird lie people told themselves. When women had no rights they pretty much had to be married off to live and exist. If their parents had money then they would’ve inherited something to live off of. Also single men existed as well. Single people in general existed before us. More single people exist and child rate is down even within couples. A lot has changed. Nothing is promised
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:02 AM
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Why can’t a woman pick out the good personality from the photo huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:59 AM
1

What amateur league has groupies?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:58 AM
1

I’m sure bill could make a sugar baby scenario happen if he wanted. It’ll be cringe for people to see but he won’t have to embarrass himself. Fun times like that can entice most people. The thing that would solidify a relationship would be something more substantial than just moments. You can’t live off of moments. You get to experience them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:57 AM
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It’s clearly the one thing you’re lacking
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:54 AM
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That’s what I meant by people not being able to interact and why that in itself is a larger likelihood of men being turned down and not the “I have a bf” method op mentioned. Extremist behaviors and ideals are more common now and normalcy isn’t. So for some it’s easier to just avoid everyone than it is to vet people for normalcy. I’ve never struggled to socialize when need be but when I talk to people who do it’s no surprise some men struggle to talk to women (also men when it comes to friendshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:52 AM
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You can keep denying it’s not but it is. It’s a learned behavior you and other men learned by becoming debate lords online. You’re more into the idea of being right than you are into women. Which unironically only makes it harder to interact with women. But again, you can do you. Use your knowledge to your disadvantage by having negative preconceptions of women. I’m sure it’ll work like it has with other likeminded men, which it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:49 AM
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It is accurate, it’s just not how the men that have an issue want to put it as since then they’ll be the problematic. It’s easier to strike up so you have to make yourself the victim. As much as you don’t out right say “women bad” it shows in how you talk about them. As much as you may want to be with a woman you also have a distaste for their behavior and the way they are. It is the mentality of debate lords that want to win a debate with a woman to get in a relationship. Or at least that’s how…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:07 PM
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Meeting new people is always on the table, but the key thing is how abstract people are. The level of normal conversations are rare. People have become challenging to meet both for friendships and relationships because of the communication aspect. Most people can’t really have a normal conversation and this sub is no exception. Also most people go out in a friend group and a man trying to hit on one of the friends is clearly trying to shove themselves into an ongoing activity which is not necess…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:03 PM
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That still doesn’t affect how people can be moral or amoral. In the same way a woman could cheat, if the man knows she is taken he’s also being immoral. Being immoral or moral has a big range. It’s a spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 08:18 PM
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Another reason that is largely overseen is they don’t want to be bothered by weirdos. As a guy I will turn down most conversations in public that I don’t want to partake in since I don’t want to socialize with anyone at the bar or wherever I am. I’d imagine most women are also not as inviting to meeting strangers specially with how weird most people are nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 08:07 PM
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You’ve met women with good and bad morals. Same thing can be said about men. Tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 08:03 PM
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It is when it is a topic of conversation in this sub. Contextually it always gets brought up as an issue for women. If only woman weren’t so nit picky. It’s the reason we’ve been commenting for days. If it wasn’t a “problem” for you you wouldn’t have put that effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 08:01 PM
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It’s right there if you want proof
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:51 PM
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You can say create this mentality if you want and it’s only gonna affect you negatively. You do you man. It’s exactly what I was saying about negative preconceptions you have about women. “Women bad”. Well good luck dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:51 PM
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It’s getting feedback and a downvote so it’s working
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:44 PM
1

Because they answer incorrectly. That is based off how men answer and if men are the ones that are desperate for a relationship they would answer “all of the above” for women they’d date. Women have standards that they stand by. As where men they think they’re being “good” by caving in to theirs in order to make a relationship work because any resemblance of a relationship is better than being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:42 PM
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At least make it entertaining or good
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:40 PM
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That’s how you perceive it since you are a single dad. You’re still throwing yourself the pity party. It’s the usual conversation of “men are more open, women aren’t”. As a single dad do you want anyone to just settle for you and your kid? You don’t care who it is as long as they agree to just be with you? Men are picky too and wouldn’t jump at a single mom if they don’t want kids. They’d be with a single mom because they’d settle for it. They don’t want to be single and put up with a child beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:39 PM
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It makes sense. You’re not just dating for yourself. You’re dating for your child too since they’ll be a stepparent. Should be an additional challenge not easement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:27 PM
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They don’t hate the idea of you either. You’re not a thought to most until the idea of you being a single father comes up. Which is just the ones you date. Which is a handful of people. Putting yourself in the victim seat because you categorize yourself as a victim doesn’t make you one. You’re just throwing yourself a pity party.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:25 PM
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It really has to do with how men answer that question and when men are the majority of people whining about being single then of course they will answer “I’ll date anyone”. It’s desperation, not honesty. A women’s answer is more truthful than the man’s. Every man has criteria of a women they want but they do the thing they don’t want to be done to them which is settle. Why? Because they’re desperate. Not more open. It’s dishonest answering of that question by men that make it seem like men are m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:08 PM
0

It wouldn’t have been an option regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:06 PM
2

If it’s not serious then why did you post it? Why create a whole weird narrative about it? If its nothing then you should’ve kept it to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:06 PM
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There was no point to the story. Another man claiming “men never get help” and oh would you look at that he doesn’t help his neighbor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:21 AM
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I guess calling your story an anecdote is a stretch. It’s a poorly written story if anything. Because if you cared you’d want to help him. Because if you had a real conviction that men don’t get help or get abused without support you would be different and help your allegedly abused neighbor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:21 AM
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Men aren’t attracted to all women either. The idea men are more open to dating is wrong too and it’s simply because you are a man and during your time of desperation imagine being with just about anyone to not be alone. Men also have qualities that they look for but for some reason think they are blase and can date just about anyone. It’s not true. It’s why so many people end up breaking up. They pretend they can date someone they’re not compatible with and end up being miserable in a relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:18 AM
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I don’t think it’ll be much of an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:14 AM
2

If you’re not gonna do anything to help then why pretend to care about the situation? Don’t you care about men? Why don’t you help men? Oh because it’s easier to be a “victim” so you feel comfortable with your attacks towards women and woke culture. Using woke unironically just shows how extensively online you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:14 AM
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You saw a glimpse of his life and think it sucks. You could be fabricating a completely incorrect negative narrative about him just for your amusement when you could go talk to him if you really cared. But you don’t. You just like that you can use his life for online arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:38 AM
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If you think that’s what a typical marriage is then remove yourself from the dating pool or date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:36 AM
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Men have always done that too. Historically if a man doesn’t want to interfere in a confrontation between a man and a woman where the woman is losing a fight they just walk away. Men and women have historically left women be abused because it’s not their business. Shit people exist in men and women and other factions. Doesn’t excuse them either way but you can be triggered by it as a RP man if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:35 AM
5

Are you sexually attracted to Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:32 AM
1

You’re so good at responding back. Must be great with in person conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:26 AM
1

Socializing with men is easier for you for multiple reasons. It’s more laid back since you’re not trying harder to do more with them like be in an intimate relationship or have sex with them. The company you keep is up to you. If you have delusional women in there that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:25 AM
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The “fault” to many men struggle with dating is always “women” when in reality it’s their lack of social skills or they ruin dating with preconceived biases. You can’t go into a date with ideas of women as “bad” and not create a self fulfilling prophecy of them not enjoying your company when you are already not enjoying theirs. Its cycle you have to break but being a debate lord is more important to some of you guys than being normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:23 AM
1

One woman doesn’t speak for all women, wow you showed her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:19 AM
1

What is for fun? Casual fun. They are hard to get for casual fun. You really want her to be wrong but you are the ones that’s wrong my guy. Your comment thread with her is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:05 PM
1

You believe you are above having preconceived biases which is where your argument falls apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:02 PM
3

If he bends over backwards for a 9 he could potentially leave a relationship from a 5 to get it. Which means he doesn’t care about the 5 like you make it seem. You just write fiction of “women bad, men good”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:23 AM
1

There is a term called femcel. And she is right. Men complain about whores yet complain when a girl is too hard to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:22 AM
1

It can be recreational but it seems men hate that aspect since recreational activities can cost money and men feel like that is a cost they have to eat up. It is good to treat it recreationally if you don’t care too much about the person yet, but if you have high hopes making it objective is a better option. Obviously don’t overthink it to make it awkward and unpleasant but try harder than if you just want to potentially make a new friend/ have sex, casual encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:20 AM
1

If you can be Chad why not just do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:18 AM
3

Men want a dopamine hit too. In their pants. It’s not that different. People meeting people for fun. For relationships. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:18 AM
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The biggest change in the past few years has been the takeover of internet culture. Not just OLD apps but also just general socialization is done online which has created the challenge of men and women not intermingling in person well. As a guy that isn’t hot or anything I haven’t had much issues socializing with people I want to talk to and that has made dating and socializing in general easy. I’m not extroverted but I do like to have fun. All that to say that this sub has a lot of members that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:17 AM
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This can be said the same for men. If you date a 9 you’d put up with more than if you got with a 5. Many men would let them be a gold digger and lazy as long as they’re hot while someone that isn’t has to bring something else to the table. As much as you think men are more generous in dating, they’re not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:13 AM
2

Not all. Some just want it like it’s something you can order at a restaurant and some do when they travel as a passport bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:08 AM
2

I don’t think they can comprehend that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:27 AM
2

Is it beddy time?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:27 AM
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Isn’t the physical act of sex also feeling? It feels good so you like it. It’s sensational
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:05 PM
1

If you fall for your fictitious writing. Don’t get high on your own supply
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:00 PM
1

You didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:58 PM
1

That’s not how bias works
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:55 PM
1

Even in your “defense” you shame lol. You really do deserve to be mocked
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:53 PM
3

Is this what the RP man that sold you a class told you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:45 AM
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“Bs i Just care to not be the loser to marry a 304, get divorcie rape, cheated and stuck in chield support for decades and i would laught about bp guy that end in this scenario and keep thinking How It will be in fantazy land with the next “women of his life”” Notice how mad and bitter you are in this because you don’t want to be cheated on since that’s what women do. Or pay child support, since that’s what women make you do. You lash out because you’re insecure and now it’s everyone’s fault. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:37 AM
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So you’re telling me all the high value men are lying 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:34 AM
2

Getting help from RP lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:00 PM
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A 4ft person wouldn’t put themselves in that position to think about the nba. If anything you making that poor comparison just states how people are far removed from reality. Which they are. There is a lack of normalcy from most people. Interacting with other that way is good but when you start of with a strong bias due to preconceived notions, you are starting off on the wrong foot from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:54 PM
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That’s what you do with the RP. Can’t take what you dish out?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:51 PM
1

It’s worth it for them. Money pays for convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:50 PM
1

It’s worth it for them. Money pays for convenience
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:50 PM
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The one who’s butthurt is the one continuing the conversation through other threads lol. I can find other threads as easily as you did. It’s not hard to find biased opinions. Keep it up bro, you’re hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:45 PM
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I’m in no way encouraging that at all. Just stating how they navigate. If a man struggles with women, making poor financial decisions by flying abroad and paying for sex isn’t gonna improve those chances lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:33 PM
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They find success when they get to the passport bro level. Can’t get laid at home so they share tips and tricks of where and how to pay for it abroad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:27 PM
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You’re having a stroke behind the keyboard from being so mad my guy. If you hate women that much just don’t talk to em. It’ll make everyone’s life easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:23 PM
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That sounds like a kink lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:22 PM
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RP men are honestly fantastic at fictional writing. They create this persona they pretend to be online so well that they believe it. A lot of “high value” men on Reddit being debate lords at all hours lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:22 PM
3

The dehumanizing aspect is hard to comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:19 PM
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I didn’t mean you directly. Just men in general. And again, if your friends bragged about what they did with a sex worker would you be open to hearing it out or would it be off putting? It’s the same way of a partner, would they have to be subjugated to a story about it? No. It can be just a story they keep to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:16 PM
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How would you know when you ruin the chances you have by creating a self fulfilling prophecy of failure? Your advice isn’t advice at all. Like many others struggling to socialize with people, it’s easier to blame others. But when it’s always “women’s” fault that certain men aren’t getting moments, maybe it’s the men who are at fault due to their poor socialization skills. Some people are simply unbearable to talk to or just incapable of interacting with others in person, which can be the biggest…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:13 PM
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Yes and no. They’re answering safely here because there is a “morally” right way to answer this question. But either way it’s not really an honest discussion. It’s just fun to read deranged people that can’t socialize in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:08 PM
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It’s not really a good question nor is this the correct audience to ask that. OP even states he doesn’t want kids so how can he answer wholeheartedly. Its a bunch of debate dorks answering safely
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:36 PM
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Many men play chess in their brains about dating. Trying to think moves ahead while ruining the moments that are in front of them. While you throw your disdain of women thinking negatively about them: they’re materialistic, they only want top 1% of men, etc. you are simply making it harder to date them in general by disliking them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:34 PM
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Yeah, you are triggered by women that flake on you, you’re insecure as hell and turn to child like name calling, and call women who have flaked on you trash. Either you are still in school or peaked in school. Either way you’re fun to talk to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:33 PM
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Pot calling the kettle black
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:31 PM
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Its socialization. Incels and neurodivergent people don’t socialize or date as well as other more normal likable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:57 AM
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How do you bring up that you’re sexless? Maybe it’s not that you are sexless but rather how you talk about yourself and your sex life. All these hypotheticals where you are being interviews in a date and asked things that a doctor would ask “How is your sexlife” And they just look at you in disgust. What are you guys doing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:56 AM
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Unironically a lot of posters on this sub come off as undiagnosed and somehow wonder why they struggle in inter social relationships. Its baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:54 AM
1

Being normal is no longer in. Being extremely online and annoying is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:53 AM
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They’re popular amongst the equal part of a fuck boy which is usually an annoying chick. Most normal people aren’t fuck boys or dumb broads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:52 AM
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Sex work is usually okay with most, under the guise that it isn’t sexual exploitation. I for one don’t care if people use sex workers with that caveat. No passport bros going to find underage kids or sex slaves in third world countries. It’s also not something someone should know about you anyways. It gets weird when people are so happy about sex workers. It’s like a physical and outward manifestation of porn addiction. If your friend fucked a sex worker how much info would you want to be privy …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:51 AM
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I’ll cosplay as that too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:48 AM
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Being pro sex work and not its use isn’t as contrary as you think it is. You can like the idea of many things and not do them. It happens a lot in life. You could be okay with gay people but not be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:47 AM
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Are you not old enough to express your preferences or something? No one’s gonna hold you against them, it’s just something you have to deal with. If a woman has a high body count, move on. Don’t seethe in disapproval that no one cares about except you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:45 AM
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You sure love hypotheticals lol. What’s the answer you were looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:41 AM
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I’m enjoying responding to you. I don’t deal with delusional people in person but I do love to talk to them online.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:40 AM
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Clearly. How else would you have given them such an ingenious and unique nickname
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:39 AM
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lol your response time says it all bro. You spend your time seething in front of a keyboard, not doing whatever lies you tell on here. I love the lack of self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:25 AM
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Your proof might as well be anecdotal and if that’s how you type I guess you are overall helpless. Grammar and spelling seem to be a bigger issue for you than women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:22 AM
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lol you got triggered. The only one vouching for how cool and suave and not lame you are is you and boy is it an uphill battle. Maybe if you spent less time on Reddit it’d be somewhat believable. Keep dancing clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:20 AM
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Many men are preoccupied with the future and ruin any chances in the present to be a good partner. All you’re doing is setting yourself up for failure with this self fulfilling prophecy. You look at women with disdain that you’re gonna ruin any interaction with them and somehow it’ll be their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:36 AM
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Have you ever considered your experiences and life is only one of the billions on this earth and it’s extremely narrow minded? Specially if your proof is things you googled to fit your narrative which anyone can do. You can become some weird online debate nerd like the rest of the sub but just know you can’t debate yourself into a relationship my guy. That’s how you end up alone and stay alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:34 AM
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You think it’s disappointment but the way you write it’s as if you’re grinding your teeth because of anger towards them for ignoring you. But don’t be angry, be aware that most men probably ignore you due to your narcissism cause I’m sure you’re unbearable for everyone. In person. Online your a funny man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:33 AM
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That’s because you are told women only want that. If you ever date naturally and not how other bitter men tell you online you’ll realize people don’t go on dates with resumes and their bank statements. People get together when they chose to and grow as they are together and develop into something entirely different. It’s not as narrow minded as you make it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:01 PM
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I never said I “dumpster dive” lol. If anyone is projecting it’s you my man. You are everywhere on this sub claiming to be someone you’re not. You get to write all your fan fiction about how you “are” when I doubt you have a backbone in real life. But keep whining on here. Makes for good entertainment. I’ve caught you twice being an emotional mess about women. Excited for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:55 PM
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This is looking at a snapshot in a relationship. At the beginning it could be man makes more but in the future it changes and that’s when the man could be a stay at home dad. Looking at a relationship narrow minded is negative since it doesn’t allow for any other reality other than what you allow. Raises, promotions, etc can occur. And who knows, maybe a guy can do well in their sales job and with bonuses have a salary but if the woman gets a good promotion in their job then they could make more…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:53 PM
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Kids would eat up a lot of the “lounging” time. You’d only be free when they’re at school, which can fly by fast. And you’d probably want to do tasks so you can focus on your child when you get them from school. Unless you plan on being a hypocritically bad parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:19 PM
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This takes the other part of the relationship completely out of it, the partner. In some cases the women’s career can be more fruitful. With them going to school at higher rates than men this is more likely than not. But you only think from your perspective and not the whole picture. If you delved in reality you’d realize in many cases women can make more than the man but it’s not brought up since a normal relationship isn’t necessarily about “man must make more” to make it work. Men also wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:17 PM
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You’re so far removed from reality calling it dumpster diving lol. what would help most people is be normal but it seems being extreme is more popular now a days. Being level headed is no more. Being triggered by women to the point you call them trash is embarrassingly sad. If only you had the wherewithal to understand your behavior, but you just lead by being extremely emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:13 PM
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No nerve hit. You just are bad at lying that you’re unfazed and doing well in life. If someone flaking on you gets your little feelings hurt so bad you call them trash it’s pretty funny. It just adds to your continuous lies lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:45 PM
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It’s so awesome you’re whining about women online calling someone you don’t like trash. Sure thing bud. Same thing with you doing well with women. Lying online isn’t new and you’re doing it poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:43 PM
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You are a quitter based off your original comment. This additional context makes it more sensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:32 AM
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The people that don’t want them in the dating pool is other extremist red pilled men since they’re the ones condoning an extreme mentality of zero sum. Either you are “top” or nothing. No in between anymore for normal for you guys and that would honestly go a long way. But you can’t be normal anymore which is unfortunate but it’s also your doing. I don’t necessarily care about men going outside the country for sex workers. But I do have a moral compass where sex workers aren’t always providing s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:31 AM
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The people that don’t want them in the dating pool is other extremist red pilled men since they’re the ones condoning an extreme mentality of zero sum. Either you are “top” or nothing. No in between anymore for normal for you guys and that would honestly go a long way. But you can’t be normal anymore which is unfortunate but it’s also your doing. I don’t necessarily care about men going outside the country for sex workers. But I do have a moral compass where sex workers aren’t always providing s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:31 AM
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That’s true but he is saying that men have no power over anything. It’s up to the “market”. If they improve their “value” it’ll play in their favor but at the same time he says it’s up to the woman and men have to settle. So what is it, a manipulative market or a made up scenario where men have no say in the dating scene and it’s only in women’s control? It’s still aimlessly whining that he hasn’t been able to trick the type of women he wants to date him instead of you know, just being normal. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:19 AM
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Giving up is an option if you’re a quitter. You could always try.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:52 AM
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This is if you want to choose to believe what he says, which is that the dating market is exactly like the stock market. Which it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:51 AM
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This is too hard for most people to understand. They think that since it is the most ripe everyone must surely be dying to have it. It’s the whole reason they always argue top percentile of people on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:50 AM
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When passport bros talk about where they go it’s not European countries, unless it’s the ones that have legalized sex workers. Usually it’s Asian countries. Just go to the passport bro subs. It’s all Asian since they are cheaper/ more affordable for sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:49 AM
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Lmao I can’t imagine being this mad at someone flaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:48 AM
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Do you have to bring your dating resume when you go to a new date? How would someone know your dating history/ why would it be needed ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:47 AM
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Using sex workers as a basis is an interesting choice and it’s not necessarily a norm. Sex workers aren’t for most men, just the ones that are down horribly bad. It’s not so much about the quality but rather the access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:46 AM
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A handsome women is attractive and vice versa. The issue is most people thing an agreed upon consensus is the only answer which isn’t true. It’s like saying what burger is the best and the most voted one wins but it’s still not gonna be for everyone and tastes/ wants can easily effect the decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:04 PM
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You have to take context into consideration. That thread is trying to compare one woman to another man for similarities. Shes not gonna be a comparison to someone like Timothy but they do put up other women from other countries. Asian culture has a lot of men that are more feminine and they are comparable. There is also more femme men in the US like chalamet, Garfield, etc. you’re only looking to compare men you find attractive, not the entirety. And as for you not thinking women aren’t bombshel…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:33 PM
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Where is this thread of all female answers? That would be good to share and not simply fabricate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:27 PM
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Specially kpop bands. Completely feminine energy but they are adored by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:40 PM
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It falls apart as soon as you mention someone like Timothy chalamet. Op is naming men he thinks are traditionally attractive. Plenty of men that are similar to tiny Tim that women go in droves to watch in theaters and he’s not traditionally attractive to the male gaze like the ones op mentioned. Many “twink” styled men that are “hot” but men only thing someone like Hugh jackman who’s shredded is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:09 PM
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Is it truly disproportionate or is it just how you see it to poorly prove a point. Celeb culture isn’t as skewed, it seems you, like many other men, watch movies with primarily men oriented roles and can point out more men actors than women. The only women you point out are sex icons. You could’ve added Marilyn Monroe too if that’s all you’re adding. Plenty of other attractive women that meet or are higher on the attractive spectrum than the men you pointed out. You also pointed out the men that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:06 PM
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You can say that all you want, doesn’t make it true. Specially if you’re in this sub whining the way you are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:59 PM
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It’s really funny when people poorly use pop culture references to prove a point other than celeb culture is weird. Any rich person and their relationship is usually an abnormality. They delve in the true outliers of wealth and beauty that every RP guy in this sub thinks the average person deals with. For average women and men, like you and I and the majority of people, we behave normally. Attraction comes in a variety of ways and also not the only thing that makes a relationship last. It’s not …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:09 AM
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Another person isn’t gonna make it Al easier. It’s still “living” with another person and meeting in the middle over a multitude of issues which can make things harder at times. As much as expenses can be lowered due to it being split, having a roommate can have similar effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:16 AM
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And? If you’re not then just get something else to obsess over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:18 PM
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I don’t see how a partner will make your life easier. You should already work on that on your own, expecting to find some peace of mind in another person is where a lot of people fail in relationships. Happiness exists within you, not another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:15 PM
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There are still other women out there that are attractive and not getting “press” for some minor crime they did. The women liking serial killers is skewed to them being weird since clearly the majority of serial killers are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:13 PM
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If you feel this is true then you can vote them out. Or the judge that oversees it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:02 PM
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Being guilty of lying is illegal, not just an inconvenience. As for repercussions that are given by the judge unfortunately can be left to just the judge. Kinda how that guy Brock Turner got left off without much repercussions. It also has to do with how flawed the court systems are. It’s not a gendered thing, it’s a human thing. Law and order can only do so much and should be altered accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:01 PM
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There are plenty of red pillers that make sex a huge point of a relationship. Look at other threads in this sub as proof. Some men make sex a requirement in their relationships, which can be fair. Love, companionship and relationships don’t always have to be intimate and I feel like that is a big issue with some men that don’t know how to build any of those relationships yet demand they get what they want immediately. Someone else can’t love you if you don’t know how to take in that love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:26 PM
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This is true to a degree but at the same time some people simply don’t know how to love themselves or receive love from others as much as they say they “need” it. It’s not a need like thirsty and you drink. It’s a intersocial relationship between people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:23 PM
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That’s cool you like that game. Sex and relationships aren’t for everyone. It’s healthy to be aware of what you want and not want what you’re told to want. I feel similarly sometimes but I do enjoy being in LTR but if I am single I’ll definitely enjoy me time to the fullest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:10 AM
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Boundaries are important to have for various reasons but so is being able to be vulnerable and flexible. Things aren’t as rigid as you make them out to be. Life happens. If you can manage through life alone that’s great but most people need a support group to an extent. Not everyone is built to be alone as this sub shows. People long for relationships, wether it be friendships or LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:57 AM
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Big friend group isn’t needed. It’s a strong friend group and that can be as big as your bandwidth can manage. If you over exert yourself you could just end up burning your social battery up. Being a lone wolf is also exhausting as well. It can be a choice to be made but it’s still a choice. Work towards a relationship or work to being happy alone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:54 AM
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We agree more than you think. I also don’t get marriage at all but people do things I don’t agree with that isn’t immoral or hurting anyone other than themselves. That’s usually fine with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:52 AM
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Men are trying to find someone that benefits them too. If they weren’t then why are they doing all the work that they say they do? If you plan on being a epic cool lone wolf then yeah putting yourself first is important since there’s no one else in your life, but for those looking to expand their friends group, community, and be in a relationship, you need to collaborate with others. Flexibility is key in life since things can happen when you don’t expect them to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:35 PM
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It is a bit jaded. I don’t believe in marriage but I don’t second guess my friends who are married or those that are engaged. It’s their choice and I would only want to support their decision. If there is a clear indication of something off in the relationship I would say something but life isn’t necessarily a soap opera where there’s big drama to get people chosing sides or wanting people to split, etc. People can also be happy outside relationships and that’s a good thing too. You have to exis…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:31 PM
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Not really. If that were true we wouldn’t have things like order. It’d be much more chaotic than it really is. Like the people buying up toilet paper because of the ports closing. Some do it out of fear and down right lack of education but not everyone does that out of spite.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:07 PM
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Bringing up morality in this topic is key. If you oppose people being nice then you’re pushing for the opposite. Being nice is generally how we carry about as a society. It’s not as if I love everyone but I know if I road rage every time I drive or get bothered at the general public way to often I’m just gonna become an antisocial person. Which many people are but I don’t want that and I don’t want to make other people antisocial, specially when they’re already having hardships with socializing.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:03 PM
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I am above that and it’s only as bad as you make it out to be. Having a good friend group can be as helpful. Not a replacement for love but the idea of community is there. Also hobbies. At the end of the day you have to live with yourself with or without a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:59 PM
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Using context in a thread is what continues the conversation. If you can’t comprehend that then I don’t know how to explain how conversations usually work. The second part you conflated me talking to you when I mentioned “this thread”. You can have friends of all kinds, that’s not what I was inferring to at all. At the end of the day there are bad and good people on all sides. It’s not as if only women aren’t saints as you mentioned and it’s not as if all men are the devil. It’s a mixture of tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:56 PM
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It’s called inferring relative information. Why bring it up in context to the previous comment? Because you’re piling on to their “women bad” mentality. It’s not necessarily a neutral take if you’re agreeing with it. And you being blue pilled then turning more red isn’t new. It’s the idea of this thread. Why be nice if it doesn’t give you the results you’re looking for. If being nice isn’t the solution perhaps being a dick is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:25 PM
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Niceness is a much more different characteristic than attractiveness. They don’t equate because they’re not the same adjective. You can be nice and attractive, mean and attractive, nice and ugly, mean and ugly. All to different degrees. Not clicking and clicking is just part of reality. A lot of dating and social grievances just have to do with the fact that you’re not gonna like everyone and not everyone is gonna like you. Not many people have that type of bandwidth. But for some reason people …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:19 PM
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I honestly can’t answer the last one cause I’ve never been down bad to where someone needs to set me up with someone else. Hypothetically I would assume because they don’t know what your type is, why would they know that? They also don’t want to over promise. Maybe they don’t want you to ruin the chance by over preparing and ruining it instead of being yourself. Maybe they’re in a relationship helping their friend and they respect their gf so they don’t want to say she’s hot. Maybe they’re not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:19 PM
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That’s one way to look at it if you have a jaded idea of the opposite sex. Not everyone hates the opposite sex as much as the internet makes you think they do. It’s just a lot of people that lack social interaction skills complaining about their issues with others due to that problem. Lots of people still in happy long lasting relationships not complaining online
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:13 PM
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lol according to who? It’s always funny that people say this confidently yet we all have our own personal lives and have met shit women that we avoid whether it be an unlikeable family member or stranger. The only people that have that perception are people that don’t socialize outside of the internet and have weird para social interaction with women since it’s only online and not in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:10 PM
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This can be true for young people. Once people are older, mid to late 20s, in the dating scene they don’t want to put up with the dumb games you guys talk about. A stable relationship is much better than some aesthetically pleasing relationship. Less stress less hassles. No one wants to go home and deal with an asshole of a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:07 PM
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You seem to somewhat comprehend what you’re saying but what you fail to realize is unironically what you are told as a child. Treat others how you want to be treated. In a different scenario how happy will you be with a hot gold digger that doesn’t want to have sex with you and complains when you aren’t proving more and more? The nice girl scenario you made up only works if she’s ugly, but what if she’s nice and attractive? Then it’s all out the window but for some reason one person can only be …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:05 PM
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It’s depressing because it’s not really like that. It’s what you made yourself believe. You can be happy and find happiness. It’s never been easy or guaranteed. It’s work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:01 PM
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That’s hot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:35 PM
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Being nice is generally a better way to be more liked. I don’t see how doing the opposite and being rude or even indifferent to social situations will make you more likeable. Making friends and potentially making a relationship, you want to be amicable with the other person. Sometimes men get tired of being nice because they are what they believe is “nice” and nothing comes from it so you want to try a different approach. If you want to try that then you’re always welcome to, but at the end of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:34 PM
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Did you lose money because of the chiefs? Is this why you wrote this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:14 AM
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Bro thinks that’s HIPAA 😭 that’s hilarious. If he’s ever a parent is he simply never gonna talk about his child and things pertaining to his kid with anyone ever? Has he never had a conversation with anyone about personal issues lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:14 AM
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You should go ask next time you apply for one of those roles
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:12 AM
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I think OP mentioned her because in the NFL fan bases she is seen as one of the most annoying parts of the chiefs games. Before Taylor swift got all the attention she was getting a lot of screen time on prime time for simply being the wife of a hated top tier QB. She gets hated on like Skylar on breaking bad does if you get that reference. She can be annoying and hating her is part of hating the chiefs but sometimes people get too upset over non issues like OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:11 AM
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I’m replying because this is a discussion. Also don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:09 AM
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Calling what you’re doing research is pretty funny. My research about you shows you cannot do research.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:01 AM
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You wanna see non hot guys hook up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:00 AM
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lol, I’m the one using a Goldilocks response and there’s no research out there. Your level of ignorance is impressive. The exact entertainment I come to this sub for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:52 PM
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And this is my response.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:57 AM
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Then why pretend to have numbers if you don’t think they exist? Kinda pointless and makes your point completely baseless and fallible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:54 AM
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If you saw poor data would you entertain it at all? Probably not, so why should I? Does OkCupid have more than one data point? An established website can offer more information than one salty user on Reddit that uses one comment as their basis for an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:15 PM
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It is possible but it’s not preferred not a requirement to have kids. I think that is something people have come to realize. Some have a drive to have kids, some have them due to just having unprotected sex. The responsibility also doesn’t end in just caring for the child but also raising them. So many bad parents out there that make it less of a rewarding experience and more of a challenge. If you find joy in kids that’s cool, it’s not for everyone nor should it be. Just as many reasons to not …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:13 PM
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If you don’t understand how someone with poor socialization skills can do poorly in socializing with the opposite sex then you clearly are doing it wrong as well as others proving my point. You think you can get your foot in the door with a bad application? No, they’ll just move along without the interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:36 PM
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It doesn’t end, it’s just a responsibility I don’t think many want. Why take away from my free time for something I don’t want. It’s like getting a second job when it’s not needed. Just working yourself to the core.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:32 PM
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You gave one example. If you want to use stats at least gather more data points. Don’t be annoyingly wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:31 PM
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Your statistics is based of one individual? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:30 PM
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Having kids isn’t seen as fun to most. Why put up your best years raising a kid when you could enjoy your life as your own? Traveling is cool. Not having that responsibility of child rearing is amazing. I can splurge on myself when I can. Depending on where you live having a kid isn’t bad financially. You do get benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 07:53 AM
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If people are facing 98% rejecting rate, (again where are these numbers from), it might just have to do with inability to communicate with people. It’s not easy and simple to get the opposite sex’s attention but it isn’t impossible to make small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 07:50 AM
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The difference seems that you ignore their comments as to where they are acknowledging yours, albeit it doesn’t seem like you’re asking for a response. You can’t control how people react to your statements just how you can’t pretend to care when your female friends bring up a cute guy. You have nothing to add, they have something they want to add cause they think it’s supportive. Why do they get mad? The scenario you’re painting seems like they’re projecting their loneliness onto you. If only me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 07:46 AM
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I don’t know how the word “wingman” hasn’t been used in this thread. That’s all the friend is trying to be to a degree. Hyping someone up to build up courage is part of the fun of being a supportive friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 07:43 AM
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People can share opinions and people can respond to opinions differently. You figured out how conversations work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 07:41 AM
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You socialized with men and women. Something most men cannot do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 07:38 AM
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