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Oh fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 10:30 PM
1

How are you defining masculinity? Because men who participate in ballet get puss like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 03:49 PM
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From Merriam-Webster, definition 3a: "high or special regard". Well this is the kind of person that thinks respect is owed therefore shits on everyone for no reason. Thinking respect is earned is not equivalent to treating everyone like garbage. Respect for a person is a mindset, not a behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 03:47 PM
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Most women? No. But are most men attracted to masculine women? And I was talking more about societal expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:54 PM
1

God I wish we would get rid of expectations of behavior based on genetalia.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:45 PM
3

Condescension or demanding respect because he thinks it is owed to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:44 PM
8

Oh boy, the ever fun "women's sexuality is bad, but men's sexuality is good".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:01 PM
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If a woman is stupid enough to have sex with you the night she met you, the fact that it was you who fucked her doesn't change the fact that she's a slut, Doesn't seem to matter to him. You fuck a guy the day you meet him, you're a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 03:15 AM
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There is a perception that women's sexuality is somehow superior to men's, thus women get away with criticism that, when leveled at women, is somehow misogyny. Really? Because all I've ever seen is how I'm a terrible person if I sleep around. The field reports suck That's literally all I'm criticizing. I don't care if a man has a string of ONSs. Good for him! But if he calls every one of those women bitches or whores, then that isn't right. If women are allowed to fuck around, complain when they…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:20 AM
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How am I putting words in his mouth? He literally said any woman who fucks a guy she met that night is a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:14 AM
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What is a DNS or TNS? And Jesus Christ, at waht point does it become leading a person on. You guys criticize women for doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:14 AM
1

You know what? Everyone's a piece of shit. Who gives a fuck? Clearly no one cares about how their actions affect others. I'm a cunt. You're a cunt. And everyone can just die.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:13 AM
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I can get off better by myself than any man can give me in a ONS and so can most women. So I'll ask you again, why would a woman sleep with a guy if he's just going to tell all of his guy friends that she's a piece of shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:07 AM
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, the fact that it was you who fucked her doesn't change the fact that she's a slut Interesting. So if a virgin has sex the night she met you, she magically becomes a slut. Oh man, I'll have to try that one of these days. make her any more worthy as a serious relationship prospect. I don't care about that. Casual sex isn't supposed to lead to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:06 AM
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No. I don't hang out with stupid women. Who expects commitment after a ONS?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 12:34 AM
1

Not criticizing the people. I'm criticizing the action. It's not my fault an action reflects upon the person performing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 12:33 AM
1

Because if this what guys aren't going to say about me as soon as I have sex, why would I bother? If I have sex with them, they'll think worse of me. Better to never have sex then. Why would a woman ever put out if a guy is just going to criticize her afterwards for doing so?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 12:16 AM
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No to all. As long as you aren't leering, you're good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:14 PM
3

No. It's wrong to shit on them afterwards because they had sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:55 PM
6

You don't see why people might have an issue with you criticizing people you barely know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:55 PM
0

For being terrible human beings? I don't ever see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:53 PM
2

Anyone can learn seduction/charm with time and practice too. Even aspies?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:18 PM
2

Yeah, they care more about their looks. If you moisturize regularly, you won't age as fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:41 PM
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for criticizing women they sleep with FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:28 PM
2

plus charming A sperg can't be charming. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:28 PM
2

Oooooh 6. That's so much better. I can get at least 10 more guys than I was getting before.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:08 PM
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Good men will care about you and its your job to make them care about you and keep them caring about you. Ah, so the pure love of a man I've been hearing so much about is contingent on how much I make them care? So pure and selfless!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:07 PM
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Yep. Seems to me I should use men as much as possible, make them buy me expensive things, use them up and throw them away. I mean why not? I don't have to date care about others if they don't care about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:56 PM
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Woman are not entitled to relationships. I'm well aware of that. But there are so many field reports criticizing the women they sleep with. And for what? To make themselves superior?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:54 PM
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It was probably removed because this is more rant than CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:53 PM
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Oh, I'm well aware no one cares. I used to, but I don't see why I should have to anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:52 PM
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Not trolling. I've been using the same approach against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:51 PM
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When it's a standard for women to have been asked out at some point in their lives, what does it say about the women who never have been? Clearly I'm not attractive because even landwhales have suitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:39 PM
2

Well, clearly the solution is to become angry at women. Start lifting and care about no one except yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:30 PM
5

Because very few people can discuss race civilly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:28 PM
5

Good feminist men are not sexually attractive, not even the handsome ones because of their behavior. Really? I find Tom Hiddleston and Benedict Cumberbatch very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:27 PM
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They're not shamed for the sleeping around, but how they treat the women they are sleeping around with. No one could give a shit about how many women TRP sleeps with. That doesn't stop TRP criticizing the women they do it with and that's what most people have an issue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:18 PM
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Here's the thing. You think so. But clearly I'm not attractive enough for the men around me. I'll stop this nonsense when someone actually wants to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 04:51 PM
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Nah, it's all bullshit. Some people are just fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 04:39 PM
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When done right, it can. You said it yourself with the porn star example.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 01:51 PM
2

Virginity can either mean she's waiting for marriage or no one wants to fuck her, so it can really go either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 01:47 PM
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Well, 0 guys asked me out before I lost the weight and 0 guys have asked me out after I lost the weight, so clearly my attractiveness hasn't improved.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 01:44 PM
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What personalities are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 03:07 AM
2

Doesn't work for some women. Didn't work for me. Losing 40 pounds did nothing for my attractiveness. Lifting now, but if losing weight did nothing, I don't see why toning would.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 01:37 AM
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Mama needs a megathread for this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:44 AM
2

Nah, Red Pill holds nothing for me. I'm my only own special brand of asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:40 AM
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I'm not saying you personally. However, men as a whole encourage women to wear makeup by only going for the most attractive women. What do you think unattractive women are forced to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:32 AM
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Oh man, why didn't you guys tell me we were doing this? You assholes leave me out of all the fun stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:57 PM
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I went from blue to purple, but that has less to with the red pill convincing me it's right and more to do with me realizing both sides are equally stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:31 PM
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You're a special case then. Most people go for looks first and fuck all the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:06 PM
2

So you're saying that when I'm 35, I'll actually be desirable because people have grown up enough to realize looks aren't everything? Yeah, that's horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:58 PM
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Men don't even glance at the ones who don't wear makeup. It seems like you're reinforcing bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:40 PM
2

But my point is that the bluepill side is equally guilty of this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:31 PM
1

People start with faulty assumptions all the time. Just roll with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:23 PM
1

So are you agreeing with me? Or no...?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:11 PM
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Women don't enjoy men's faces or appearances I don't know about you, but I appreciate a well sculpted man. I may not be attracted to him per se, but I enjoy the aesthetic. I think the issue you see is not that many men put the effort into their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:52 PM
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I don't to know to what end. All I know is that people are shallow bastards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:44 PM
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People value attractiveness above all regardless of what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:22 PM
1

So either be willing to take what the market will pay for you That appears to be only men in their 50s or men who are 100 pounds overweight based on who has asked me out. get more attractive That's what I tried doing. I lost 40 pounds from a size 14 to a size 6, but it appears to have done nothing. I've spent hundreds on clothes and makeup, but it appears to have done nothing. My only other option is to get plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:09 PM
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Fuck if I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:33 PM
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Why is reducing fat shaming a female issue? Why is LGBT acceptance a female issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:30 PM
1

The rest of the body including the personality. I'm attracted to the man, not the dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:24 PM
1

Fair, fair. I don't really keep up with the modern stuff. What are we supposed to be fighting for?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:02 PM
5

A greedy wife is not the Problem. The existance of alimony is. Really? It sounds like if the greedy wife didn't spring for that much alimony, she wouldn't have gotten it. Just because you are used to a way of living doesn't mean that you are entitled to it. No one is entitled to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:01 PM
7

Yes, having my own job and supporting myself is one huge shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:37 PM
4

Well if it can be a woman's fault for choosing an abusive husband, it can be a man's fault for choosing a greedy wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:35 PM
1

Eventually since I didn't find her very attractive I stopped talking to her. You can always message men, if they aren't interested it means that you aren't looks matched. So basically what I was saying. I'm not attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:26 PM
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Because the silly wimen don't know what they want. We need the big, strong men to tell us what we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:04 PM
2

Yeah, but how many of those are there? 10? Regardless of religion, she's probably saving herself for marriage. Since sex is all important to redpillers, they wouldn't last that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:39 PM
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How exactly did it ruin your life? It seems to me she did you a favor by freeing you from being married to a cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:26 PM
8

Jesus Christ. Then stop getting married if you're so worried about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:20 PM
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Only a problem for attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:07 PM
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The threat has been eliminated, because policing has become so thorough. Oh so people don't murder each other anymore either?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:03 PM
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Women have always been pretty brave to go on dates with men, in the middle of the night. Alone. I don't know any woman who would do this for a first date. Maybe after she's gotten to know the man a little bit better, but someone she barely knows? Not only has that threat been practically eliminated, (In b4 "what about rape culture?!), male behavior has been criminalized to the point female interpretation of male behavior is worthy of investigation. If you say someone stole something of yours, do…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:43 PM
2

Hence the probably. Not a definite thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:24 PM
1

I lost 40 pounds so that I wouldn't have to date a fat guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:16 PM
2

If you are using techniques, people can identify those techniques. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:02 PM
2

They don't actually want a virgin. Anyone who id a virgin into their 20s is probably undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:58 PM
1

Maybe I should just get plastic surgery. Seems like it would have better results.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:56 PM
1

It's a generic hey, but most guys swipe right on everything, so it doesn't matter. and swipe right on a guy that doesnt have a 6 pack and you'll see more interest. Those guys usually have the douchiest pictures so I don't swipe right on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 12:29 PM
1

My matches never actually talked to me on Tinder. What is OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 12:17 PM
1

Wonder what it says about me if no one will settle for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 12:14 PM
3

So sick of this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 12:13 PM
1

So everybody settles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 12:05 PM
2

None actually. Men only want women in the HB7-10 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:36 AM
2

Went from a size 14 down to a size 6. Guess how much that helped?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:29 AM
2

I was always told men would value me for my intelligence. I need a red pill for women goddammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:15 AM
2

Like men would date someone they don't find physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:12 AM
1

Not really, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 11:26 PM
1

Oh my god, men are only after me for my money. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 11:09 PM
2

Depends on the woman. For me, it includes a person's personality because I have a really hard time becoming attracted to someone based on physical traits alone. But other women have ONSs, so they probably can do based off the full package physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 11:02 PM
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Basically disembodied body parts don't do it for us. A guy can see tits or ass and get turned on regardless of what it's attached to. A disembodied penis doesn't do it for us. We need to see the full package.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 10:54 PM
1

I'm just on here because I hate myself more than I hate all of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 09:36 PM
1

I know I'm working on it. But I've only got like 7 years left and it feels like most people have paired off by this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 09:13 PM
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"Or lack of"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 09:08 PM
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Make $95,000 a year. Can't give a fuuuuck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 08:56 PM
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Physical appearance is always first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 08:45 PM
1

In my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 06:51 PM
5

I'm sorry, but I'm going to have to agree with LambBanana. We are always going to be doing something whether we are on our phones or shopping or hanging out at a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 05:33 PM
4

Yes. Whatever topics we keep beating to death. N-count, Chad, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 05:31 PM
1

Heyyy. It's my future self.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 05:30 PM
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I'm only 23, so I can't attest to knowing yourself better at 35 than 25, so I'll go the opposite direction. I am a lot more introspective now than when I was 15. I may not know myself better per se, but my capacity to analyze myself, to know what I want, to know what I should do, is much greater now. I imagine the same is true from 25 to 35. Sometimes it's hard to know what you want though. Have you ever tried something you thought would be fun and went "wow, this is really isn't for me"? Now ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:58 PM
4

Just be a DD. Everybody loves the DD and nobody is going to question you not drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:03 PM
2

I hope that it will help you in the long run. Probably not. Clearly I wasted my early years when everyone was shacking up together getting a college degree and a steady job when I should've been making myself more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:53 PM
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Yeah, but how many women looking to settle down in their 20s? I might be the exception and it doesn't help me any because men only want attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:33 PM
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Guess I'm just not attractive enough then.¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 02:06 PM
3

I think I'll just skip to the second part if that's cool with everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 02:04 PM
1

Ehh. It's like riding a bike. You may have to look up a couple of things, but you don't ever really forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:27 AM
2

It might be something I would want to try with a SO if he was down with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:25 AM
0

I'm getting kind of sick of these threads. We don't have enough Transpeople to answer this for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 01:40 AM
1

So I'm just double-checking, a woman who never get approached by any men is simply just too ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 10:25 PM
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Right? Except I'm smart enough just to suck it up and make myself more attractive. No point being bitter about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:44 PM
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Wouldn't this just vary from person to person? Some people feel it more deeply than others. Some people get attached easily. Some people bounce back quicker. I don't see why this is gender-specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:31 PM
1

You know what? I don't even know anymore. Clearly I'm not cut out for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:24 PM
6

Sadly, there are men who have the same issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:15 PM
1

Probably not. A person's ego might be inflated by the sudden boost and go for someone more attractive than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:07 PM
13

Enjoy having a financial dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:06 PM
5

Women feel like because they went to college that means that their opinion must be taken more seriously, has more weight to it, Are there women who who don't want their opinion taken seriously? I find it hard to believe that there are people who enjoy being ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:05 PM
1

I mean I do lift. But I get comments here and there about "aren't you worried you'll get bulky"? And it is intimidating at first for anyone since you don't really know what you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 06:35 PM
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All those people though? Bleh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 05:27 PM
1

A lot of men do, but the pretty one will always be their #1 choice. Adjusted to the cowardice of men (particularly non-Chads and less pissy manosphere types), the prettiest they can land. Basically the looks matter a great deal. So a woman who never gets approached is simply not pretty enough for anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 05:23 PM
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First of all, ouch. I enjoy lifting. Second, muscle mass burns more calories. When it comes to it, calories in, calories out is all that matters. It's a hell of a lot easier to maintain a diet of 2000 calories a day than 1200.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 05:22 PM
3

You want a neighbor who plays the violin well though, I imagine. It won't sound so great when I first start out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 01:09 PM
1

Because society treats transpeople so well right now...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 01:07 PM
5

We're told not to lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 01:06 PM
3

Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 11:01 AM
8

As much as we talk about this on PPD, I don't think I ever want to date a guy named Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 03:47 AM
1

Oh, right. I always thought that was stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 02:07 AM
3

Because they repurposed the word to mean that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 01:55 AM
3

Can't have your heart broken if you don't let anyone in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 01:54 AM
1

I feel like "doesn't want a big wedding" is out of place here, but that could just be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 01:53 AM
2

I'm 23. Not rude, since I imagine you're trying to gain perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 01:50 AM
2

Cool, thanks! And it's too late to overthink it since I already bought one off of Amazon. Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 01:49 AM
2

Why would that be intimidating, unless you were going to cold call her and mention sex in the first sentence? I don't know. I'm just trying to figure out why people tell me to act dumb to be less intimidating. It is the other way round. It is women who are usually intimidated. I would not argue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 01:40 AM
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Good idea. I wonder how the transition from that to a real wood violin would go though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 01:26 AM
2

A woman is never intimidating. It's not that the woman herself is intimidating, but the thought of approaching her. Tell that to the smart land whale I married so many years ago. You're different than most men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 01:23 AM
1

It doesn't matter anyway. No wants to ravish me to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 12:45 AM
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I thought RP didn't care about the average woman. They just want the hottest chicks, who might exhibit some of these behaviors. The issue is that they extrapolate behaviors of the attractive to the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 12:44 AM
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If they think a girl is pretty, they'll go for her. Always? There's never a time where they feel intimidated by the woman and won't go for her? In my experience, the "smarter" women who lament about this tend to be the undesirable ones. Probably because there are men who say that intelligence is sexy and then pick attractiveness every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 12:39 AM
3

Am I crazy or is there no automod?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 12:09 AM
2

Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 12:05 AM
3

But she is one of the many women who dated above her league in her 20s until at 30 she realised that none of them would commit. And how are you determining this? Did she tell you this was the case? Because I feel like the way things are going, I'll be single well into my 30s just to be abused by men who are pissed at what other women have done. Well in this case I wouldn't say it's a revenge fantasy, because it sounds more like actual revenge. Okay, so you admit then that you aren't equalizing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 11:13 PM
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By that time he will be irreversibly in the friend zone If I'm dating someone, I'm dating them. They aren't a friend, they are my boyfriend even if we aren't at the point of using labels. Wouldn't you prefer a man who wants to ravish you? I would prefer a man who wants to ravish me, but also has enough understanding and patience to be okay with waiting because I'm not ready yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 11:10 PM
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dated hot assholes before now want to settle with an average but nice and willing guy How is dating hot assholes abusive to men? If she was leading men on and using them, I would understand. But it looks like you're just enacting a revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 11:05 PM
1

I don't know how that would work over the internet. I suppose I could give you a humane society gift card. (Do they have gift cards?)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 10:39 PM
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But really...I don't know anybody who has the same ambitions to be an equalizer who tries to bring balance the force. But you aren't equalizing. You aren't abusing the women who abuse men, you're abusing indiscriminately. You are punishing women for the few that are shitty because you had a bad experience. This is like if you were to be a robbed by a black guy and you started robbing black people. You aren't equalizing anything. You're just justifying bad behavior with a bad experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 10:09 PM
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No, because most of these guys are in no place where they could treat women badly (on the dating market). So there isn't a single woman that is attracted to them? Women don't give a shit about how an unattractive or average looking guy (who whines on the internet) treats them in real-life. You're close. Women don't give a shit how men they aren't attracted to treat them in real-life. A man doesn't have go be a "Chad" to have women attracted to him. It might not be a large subset or the women he …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 09:45 PM
3

See my other comment, but it's less like a gender war and more like a cycle of abuse that gets traded between genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 09:03 PM
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I was partially being sarcastic. There is no war between the genders per se, but abuse only begets bitterness, which only begets more abuse. This is what you see happening here. He was treated badly by women, which led to bitterness. This bitterness has manifested into treating women badly, who will more than likely see it as a reason to treat men badly. It's a cycle rather than a war.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 09:02 PM
1

So basically if I wanted to wait for several months before having sex, I should just not bother dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 08:58 PM
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And so the war between genders escalate as we use each other up ad infinitum. I love it when people justify their own shitty behavior because other people are doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 08:24 PM
2

So marriage is only good if a woman is planning to have kids basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 08:21 PM
2

Okay. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 08:14 PM
4

Yes, yes. Feminists are somehow conniving cunts who plan the destruction of all men while being incapable of rational thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 08:05 PM
2

I want to learn how to play the violin, but I know it's going to sound terrible at first. Any ideas how to go about this without pissing off my neighbors?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 07:56 PM
4

Similar note. It pisses me off when people try gift a pet to people they haven't discussed this with beforehand. Don't gift people a financial responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 07:50 PM
1

So you would tank a perfect relationship because she wanted to wait a few months before having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:54 PM
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The debates would stop if everyone realized that anyone can be shitty regardless of gender and shitty behavior isn't exclusive to what's between your legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:06 PM
1

How can a woman love a man for his money? That's just weird to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:04 PM
1

There is no way to know if a guy will pump and dump her if he waits or not. There is a way. Most guys who are just going to pump and dump a girl aren't going to wait around a few months for it. There a more likely chance he will just dump her. Then he valued her for nothing more than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:03 PM
3

You are still talking about success. I'm talking about doing things that give back to the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:00 PM
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It's not a just-world fallacy. That's what they choose to do with their smarts. I'm saying if you want to give back, smarts are gonna help you a lot better than being beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 05:53 PM
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How is it manipulation? She isn't doing it to get anything out of it. She's waiting to make sure the guy isn't going to pump and dump her. Would you fault a woman who waits a few months to have sex and then puts out regularly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 05:37 PM
3

He seems to mention that only after a divorce is hard on women, not a lack of marriage. If women achieve economic stability on their own, there's no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 04:37 PM
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Why do we have to get married in the first place? It seems like a meaningless practice if half of them end in divorce anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 04:06 PM
1

Then he didn't value her for anything more than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 03:41 PM
3

Yes. The domestic abuse thing. Men should feel safe calling the police if their girlfriend is throwing shit at him. He shouldn't feel like he should defuse the situation himself because he might get arrested for abusing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 03:27 PM
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If you just want to take from this world, then sure being beautiful is great. If you want to give back and contribute, then being smart will get you a lot further.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 03:25 PM
2

That's a weird looking booty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 07:19 AM
2

Yeah, I'm well aware of that. Trying to figure it out and fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:31 AM
1

I'm curvy in all the wrong places. Somehow I've managed to lose weight everywhere except my stomach, but my body got rid of my butt first. Stupid genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:12 AM
2

By what? Haha. It doesn't matter anyway. They are the gatekeepers of my LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 03:40 AM
2

I'm not talking about the child's decision. Who brings the child to school, who volunteers for anything extra at school, who shows up at any extracurriculars? That sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 03:33 AM
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No, I think it should go to the parent who is more involved in the child's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 03:26 AM
2

Haha. Like I said, women always seem to think so. Men, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 02:43 AM
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Haha. Only women seem to think so. I even went out all tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 02:19 AM
1

I don't even know anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 02:12 AM
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That's the point, isn't it? A guy who only wants sex isn't going to wait around several months while a guy who wants a LTR probably will.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 02:04 AM
1

What woman would say this after several months?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 01:53 AM
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If you can't tell which is which you're not very bright. Lucky for me, I don't have to tell. They don't want me for either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 01:51 AM
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Because some women want an LTR. To someone looking for an LTR, leaving after sex is a slap in the face. This man has pretended to want an LTR just because you are wet hole he can fuck. He didn't care about you at all. Can you not see how we might want to avoid that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 12:53 AM
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None of those protect a woman against a man who will leave as soon as he has sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 12:43 AM
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Or she's cautious?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 11:49 PM
3

And is it okay if she says that to every guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 09:17 PM
1

Because RP is for men, so while women are horrible creatures, men have no flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 01:34 AM
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If this had any basis in reality, this would mean that a woman who is hated by other women would not be attractive to men. I don't really see that happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 12:00 AM
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Nope. Granted I insist on paying for everything myself, so I don't think I would attract one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 11:23 PM
2

Okay, so you want a girl who is intellectual who has never been about booze or drugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 10:03 PM
1

Look at the girls in STEM. You'll find most of us are not like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 09:04 PM
1

I'm having trouble finding the article right now, but a lot of it stems from the fact that ESFJ is the most desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 08:46 PM
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A man's masculinity in essence enables a man to create and destroy for work and family, to achieve his goals and purposes, and draw other men to support his goals and purposes. Manly men are who built traditional societal structures used by the patriarchy, including enforcing what women see as oppression, in order for civilization to flourish. And in a society that views masculinity this way, what happens to men who are not masculine? Clearly, in your view, they have no purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 08:43 PM
2

Smart. No one may love me, but at least I could do some good for this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 08:39 PM
2

See, you had me until the last paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 07:26 PM
1

Ohhh. No, I don't care about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 01:36 PM
2

I am an INTP. Not great. I think they did a few studies and basically INTP is the least desirable personality in a woman in the US. As for the specific perceiving portion of it, I think it's only affected me giving up from time-to-time aspect of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 01:34 PM
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Because it's interesting to see other places, try different food, and learn about another culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 01:31 PM
1

Because they probably have similar sex drives or similar views on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 01:28 PM
0

Ouch. That hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 02:57 AM
1

It is fun! And lots of fun! Training another human being is fun? I'll have to take your word for it. I'm sure I could have fun with you. I'm gonna have to pass. You seem like one of those guys who is only in it for the thrill of the hunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 02:55 AM
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A key contention is to keep your woman having fun and feeling good, how would disrespecting her achieve that? Then explain negging. You do want to train and condition your partner, haha I guess I'll have to pass on the whole dating thing then. It doesn't sound like it's for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 01:09 AM
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To think all BP men are respectful too is wishful thinking. I don't think that, but RP men are more likely to be disrespectful from the get-go. If you show your boundary of not allowing disrespect, you shouldn't have issues regarding it. Jesus christ. Am I dating a human or raising a dog?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 12:43 AM
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Some women have it too. It's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 12:41 AM
2

I think the internet in general attracts unconventional types, not just PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 12:37 AM
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But if you hardly are, then why worry? If a man disrespects you, you give him hell or find a new man. Or I can just not enter into a relationship with such a man in the first place. Seems like a better use of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 12:22 AM
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Which is weird, no woman wants to be treated that way, what does that have to do with rp men? I dunno. Maybe because rp men are the "all women are children" men? You think they'll make you feel inferior and that's part of how to keep a serious relationship going? How does making me feel inferior keep the relationship going?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 11:50 PM
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I'm not scared of anything. I just don't want to be treated like an inferior person by virtue of what's between my legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 11:04 PM
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To the first statement, I can find men that are more attractive than me attractive. That does not mean I want to date them. To the second, it's easiest to find pictures of celebrities. I could try and hunt people down on Instagram, but from what I've seen, unattractive don't post a whole of pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 09:55 PM
2

Embrace the day you become invisible. Hopefully, you weren't too used to the good life. Like anything else shitty, you cope any way you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 09:26 PM
2

Here's why this thing no one said is true is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 09:25 PM
1

Yes. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 09:13 PM
1

Guess I'll need to shoot for that 20% then because there's no way in hell I'm dating redpiller.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 07:41 PM
3

That seems more like up with current events than reads.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 07:40 PM
3

I'm really attracted to hipsters for some reason. I don't know if that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 07:27 PM
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How often would a woman have to read to have you consider that she reads? I apologize for that word salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 07:26 PM
3

Ben Wyatt from Parks and Recreation. He's serious when he needs to be, but can completely geek out in a moment's notice. He's absolutely adorable. Another similar characters is Dr. Reid from Criminal Minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 07:25 PM
2

I think if you understand anything enough, you could argue from that side.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:52 PM
2

I'd prefer someone around my height, 5'2". I don't like a whole lot of height difference so maybe a guy who's like 5'5"? I'd say 5' is the minimum though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:51 PM
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Higher N-count people should never enter serious relationships with low N-count people. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:48 PM
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Or it's an insecurity thing and has nothing to with what's between my legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:37 PM
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Not really? Who would I replace him with? Someone more attractive than he is? That would be a narrow margin to try and find a replacement that is more attractive than the current SO but also less attractive than me. Besides I get attached to people I've had around for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 05:16 PM
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I wouldn't start dating someone if I wasn't attracted to them in the first place. Just because they are less attractive than me doesn't mean I'm incapable of finding then attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 05:00 PM
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This is why I don't really want to date anyone hotter than me. He could do better, so why is he with me? He's probably just waiting until someone better comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:42 PM
1

the 20% of women who don't are probably xNFx or xNTx Shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:40 PM
1

It hasn't seemed to make a difference in my dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:22 PM
1

I wouldn't end up getting married because every man I would try to date would dump me for "not putting our".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 12:12 PM
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Well, I wasn't there for that thread, so I apologize. But I don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 12:11 PM
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My ideal relationship is where we go out, learn together, discuss, and then don't go out for a few days. I want a partner I can bounce ideas off of and who will bounce ideas off of me. I don't want to stagnate in an LTR, I want to grow and learn with someone. I want someone who will remain their own person while expecting the same of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 11:59 AM
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It's almost like not all women are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 11:36 AM
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Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 11:36 AM
3

Ah, that delicious cited research. Mama knows what she's doing this weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 02:30 AM
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So basically a man faces the same thing as women who try to trap their SOs with a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 11:01 PM
2

How is having a man care about my pleasure not sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 10:46 PM
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There is no winning, is there? Too low and you're unmarriagable. Too high and you're unmarriagable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 10:34 PM
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God, if this is what relationships are really like, I'm not sure I want anything to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 10:31 PM
3

Next time little LiLi.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 10:29 PM
1

Jesus christ. Well, I think he's attractive. You can be bitter about all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:55 PM
2

He's a good-looking dude, why you gotta hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:21 PM
1

I'm sorry I wasn't aware I should only be attracted to "real men". Who's the hottie in your picture though?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:07 PM
1

In my other comment, I explained it better. His body looks way younger than his face which is deeply unsettling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:05 PM
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Ha. Checkmate men. You can't say a negative number.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:04 PM
1

I'm not really sure. It probably depends from person to person. Some people carry their awkwardness well, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:50 PM
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Sure, sure. But his face says 40, while his body says 20, and that unsettles me a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:40 PM
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Feels uncomfortable and wants to run.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:37 PM
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Haha. I feel like we might lose of the 80% of PPD posts if people realized that shitty behavior belongs to that person alone and not the gender they happen to belong to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:30 PM
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He has a very old face. There's something off about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:28 PM
1

Oh absolutely. They won't see it that way though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:03 PM
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Sorry, but I'm one of those people who derives happiness from other people's enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 07:54 PM
2

I don't think they care if they are an asshole or not as long as they see results.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 07:41 PM
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Women by nature are not as competitive. It'd be more likely that you would see women go their own way if it wasn't working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 07:39 PM
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I mean I'm a virgin, but a quick "Does this feel good" verifies that they are still into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 07:21 PM
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I haven't ever been hit on by anyone period, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 06:35 PM
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Do you like fixing your own mistakes? Yes. I don't like making people do work that results from my negligence. That's pretty shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 06:34 PM
2

Their bitterness is their own then. They are the only ones holding themselves back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 06:03 PM
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By making it harder to control your image and avoid power loss, create power gain. Wtf. Who thinks like this? Maybe a psychopath or a narcissist, but normal people? Yes, that can be effective too, appealing to pity. That's not why I do it. It's a lot easier to admit you fucked up and fix your own mistakes. Plus, people trust you more. I think. But typically I would expect you to admit fucking up but also believe that it wasn't your fault that you did. Well, that's up to you, since I can't convin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 06:02 PM
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How does it make life harder? I've found that people are more willing to help if you admit you fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 05:33 PM
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I'm working my way towards a spinster, but I will not go gently into that good night. I've lost 40 pounds. I plan on losing 20 more. I'm slowly learning how to apply makeup. I'm buying better fitting clothes. I'm not trying to generalize, but have these people tried everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 05:32 PM
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So, are these men that try to improve their situation or do they just sit around and bitch? It's hard to feel sorry for a man who is 400 pounds overweight that he can't find anyone. Same thing applies to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 05:20 PM
2

So, if I'm a sperg, does that mean I'm not really a woman because I'm lacking this fundamental characteristic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 05:18 PM
2

So is this a discussion or CMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 04:41 PM
2

Except that's only in the areas they have competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 04:22 PM
1

Noooo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 04:16 PM
1

I was talking about having sex. It seems like a lot of risk for very little reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 04:02 PM
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I don't want to be dominated and manhandled.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 04:01 PM
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That's my point though. If I'm going to be so brutally hated for being unlucky, why would I bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 02:48 PM
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That's the price you pay when Satan bring you free WiFi, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 02:46 PM
1

And when birth control fails?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 02:37 PM
2

Fuck what alphas are supposed to. Anime is great!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 02:25 PM
2

Why? Gintama is the shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 02:10 PM
2

Oh man, what's the catch?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 01:01 PM
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Regardless of whether the gender ratio is great or not, it's always going to be this way. Men typically want sex more often than women do. Even if the female:male ratio was 2:1. If women want sex 1/4 as much as a man, it isn't going to matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 01:00 PM
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Yeah, that sounded cheesy. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 02:53 AM
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Stick skinny. Usually has dark hair and eyes. Has a few awkward mannerisms to make him endearing. Think Ben Wyatt from Parks and Recreation. My heart starts racing and I feel deeply uncomfortable. My psychological reaction is to run. I don't. I don't do ONSs. Looks to get in the door, but after that personality and wit is key. Same as 6 + time, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 02:46 AM
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The primary purpose in anyone's life is to find what makes you happy. I apologize if I have trouble seeing why needs a greater purpose than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 02:42 AM
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you may feel that maybe guys tend to be more respectful and gentle towards you (especially when it comes to consent) Oh no, the horror. though at the expense of guys taking the initiative for hot passionate sex, leading and dominating. Not all women want this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 12:03 AM
1

This is super off-topic, but is it possible that a woman be charged for fraud if she knows the kid isn't his, but tells him anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 10:25 PM
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And so why can't people who aren't given a purpose from society do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:18 PM
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And for those who don't fit into what society has in mind? Should they just kill themselves because they have no purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 04:57 PM
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Purpose isn't given to anyone. It's something you create yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 04:42 PM
1

I don't think I am. It doesn't seem like I was born with the same unconscious social skills as everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 04:17 PM
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Oh, I haven't really been sending out any "attraction cues". I thought men didn't approach me before because I was overweight. Then I lost the weight, I couldn't figure out what I was doing wrong. I was always under the impression that if a man found me attractive enough, he would approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 03:49 PM
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If no man ever comes up and tries to talk to me, I can be pretty sure that no one is approaching me. Edit: Also, attraction cues?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 02:39 PM
1

It's only too much for me because there's so much hatred for single mothers. Why would I even take the chance if I'm going to be despised?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 01:59 PM
1

Do you think hatred cares about circumstances?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 11:09 AM
1

That doesn't guarantee he won't bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 11:06 AM
1

And if I adopt those foster kids, then I'm a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 03:15 AM
1

I'll be a single mother. How is that any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 03:07 AM
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Then you might want to tell everyone here who think single moms are the scourge of the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 02:30 AM
2

Going through my shit at any point. If you're looking for something, just ask me where it is. I like my organized chaos the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 02:29 AM
3

Ah, that's our token ISFJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 02:26 AM
1

Well, that is the plan. If I'm not married by 35, I'm going to start taking in foster kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 01:50 AM
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Do I care about the majority of single mom's? No. I care about myself and how I am perceived. On the off-chance that I get pregnant and my boyfriend leaves me, or hell because divorcees don't seem to be any different, my husband leaves me, I will be hated for reasons out of my control.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 01:40 AM
5

But birth control can fail and being picky doesn't guarantee a man is going to stay with me upon getting pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 01:31 AM
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What I'm gathering is that I should never have sex on the off-chance that I get pregnant and my boyfriend takes off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 12:56 AM
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No one ever needs to lower their standards. They just can't bitch when they can't find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 09:30 PM
2

It's a general misconception by those who don't work out though. I've had people ask me if I was worried about getting bulky when I told them I enjoy weightlifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 08:01 PM
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Ick. I follow the age rule and I don't fuck with married men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 05:35 PM
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No. The issue is that most people use the Internet as an echo chamber for their own thoughts and ideas. Very few people are going to hang out in areas where their mindset is challenged all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 04:58 PM
2

Women in this thread, go workout. It will make you more attractive, don't use stupid excuses like women don't need it. Being fit will make you more attractive? Absolutely shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 10:25 PM
4

I'm wondering how much of this has to do with the fact that women are told not to lift, otherwise they'll get too "bulky". It's hard to be super fit with cardio only or light weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 10:23 PM
3

This looks like the one I took a few days ago, so I'm just gonna repost my score. 28 / 50. And I'm purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 07:47 PM
2

What's our go-to Myers- Briggs test? The tests all kind of suck. It's nice to get you in the ballpark, but none of them are super accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 06:18 PM
5

Nothing women say, either here or on surveys or in public, should be taken seriously. TIL I should just quit my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 09:11 AM
1

Someone else has said I'm a 5.5
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 01:01 AM
6

I don't really ever want to be picked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 12:43 AM
2

Yeah, at this point, I'm just keep myself busy so I don't have to think about how lonely I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 10:13 PM
2

I'm just bummed. I always thought I wasn't attractive because I was overweight. Well, I lost 40 pounds and no one wants me still. What was the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 09:58 PM
2

Maybe I can build some faith for people. 4 / 10
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 09:11 PM
1

I am well aware of that. I'm saying that a 5'8" woman is going to carry the weight better than someone who is 5'2" at the same BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 04:26 PM
5

It's in the flair. I wanted to give myself a lower rating, but based on people's answers, I'm just below average. It has negatively impacted my love life. As someone with bad social anxiety, I need men to approach me. Since I'm below average, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 03:36 PM
1

If they suffer from weight gain. Women are also told that looks matter more than anything else more so than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 04:19 AM
2

Well then, I don't know what it says about me when men don't want me for either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 03:26 AM
3

Ok, but a 5'8" woman is going to carry being obese better than a 5'2" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 03:20 AM
3

Honestly, it depends on genetics and height. Genetics determine where the fat goes. Height determines how well you carry it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:14 AM
3

From what I've seen from my friends, not much casual sex. They have sex with their boyfriends, and they stay in those relationships for quite a while. I was also in STEM major with STEM friends so I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 11:16 PM
2

I don't really know what's attractive to me. The only common theme I've seen is that they're all skinny white guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 04:59 PM
5

People are hypocrites. More at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 04:31 PM
2

I'm not evaluating them based on their utility. I'm basically looking for a friend that I'm attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:53 PM
1

I think I'm gonna get a professional opinion first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:13 PM
2

Ah, so I should befriend men, and if I don't end liking them, they can just bitch about the friend zone instead. Or give a first date to every man and deal with any consequences from not giving them a second date? I'm not really sure what your approach entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:11 PM
2

They aren't requirements. That falls under the "I want someone who enjoys what I enjoy doing" umbrella. The intelligence thing I admittedly left out. Apologies. Can't be overweight falls under being attractive to me. are not particularly diverse in any way. I like lean men. I always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 01:39 PM
1

28/50
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 01:27 PM
1

30 / 80. Maybe I should go get tested for Aspergers at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 01:17 PM
2

you proffered a set of specifications which you require in a potential relationship partner Point me to where I did this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 01:08 PM
2

I'm not sure where you got really any of this from. My frustration with the dating scene is that I have bad social anxiety so I have trouble approaching men and men don't approach me. That's it. I'm just looking for someone I'm attracted to who shares common interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 07:03 AM
1

What. Sorry, but you're gonna have to explain this to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:51 AM
2

It's a little harsh to say that men's sexuality is worthless...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 01:52 AM
1

Not my thing. I know how painful it is to be around someone you have unrequited love for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 01:51 AM
3

The loneliest I feel is with other people. Does it make you less lonely to be around people who don't understand you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 01:50 AM
1

Well, I was fat. Now I am depending on what you look at? It's kind of confusing but my body fat % is a healthy weight while my BMI is overweight? I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 12:49 AM
1

Your hair is red so don't go with a real pink lipstick. I was planning on going back to this color soon. Do i need to go even more red with my lipstick if I do that? Also you are very fair so I wouldn't do a black but a brown or maybe navy. Does brown look good with gold? That's the reason I chose black. I have hazel eyes, and I was trying to make them more green than brown. Dab some shadow on top of it. On top of the liner?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 12:46 AM
1

Try a bit redder shade I like this lipstick. Is there a shade you would recommend? Go get a professional style!! Or a blowout at least. I have to get my hair done professionally every time I go out? Try pencil ✏️ Instead of liquid. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 12:12 AM
1

Because I've tried. It doesn't do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 11:48 PM
1

I've tried it hasn't helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 11:44 PM
2

No, because people who want sex make time for it while also having high priority goals. You literally can't understand that someone might not have sex as a priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 09:33 PM
2

I was trying to make an easily understandable example, which didn't work. So let's start from the beginning, do you believe people may put off looking for sex for, what they believe to be, a higher priority goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:42 PM
8

Gross. If it works for her, good for her, but I'm gonna have to pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:39 PM
2

Do you not understand that placing priority on something else does not necessarily equate to having a hard time getting sex? If a 10/10 male decides to focus on getting a PHD and nothing else, does he have a hard time getting sex? No. If he chose to, he could pick up any girl at a bar to have sex with, but he chooses not to. That is the distinction I'm making. Just because someone places a higher priority on something else does not mean they would have a hard time getting sex if they tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:32 PM
2

Because that is his choice, not because he has a hard time getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 08:21 PM
2

Haha. So close. I live in Wisconsin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 07:31 PM
2

How did you read avoiding entanglements as a hard time getting sex? One is a choice, the other is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 07:12 PM
8

Oh for fucks sake, there is no subtext. Plain and simple, I want a guy who enjoys doing what I enjoy doing. Can you read that loud and clear?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 07:08 PM
4

I just want a guy who is physically fit, Yes. Because I spent the better part of a year getting into shape. He doesn't have to be super fit, but he can't be overweight. is fun and outgoing enough to be the life of the party Not sure where you got that from. who is intelligent enough to do well at trivia nights Didn't say he has to do well at trivia nights, just that he should like doing something like this. He just needs to be intelligent enough to keep up with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 05:58 PM
1

Congrats on upgrading your self assessment from 0/10 to HB4, btw. It's because people kept giving me shit about not being a 0. Since so many people ranked me as below average, I figure HB4 should sate them. You could easily go higher just by putting on a warmer expression and doing your hair or having it done for you. Yaaaaay. Look at how pretty I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 05:26 PM
4

I don't want Chad. I want someone who will go bouldering with me, but also likes things like karaoke and trivia nights.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:40 PM
9

TRP told me it would be easy to date as a woman. It's not. Thanks TRP!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:34 PM
8

They are very important. They may not be 100%, but it's closer to like 80%. And if you are very attractive, it won't matter what character flaws you have, you'll still be able to find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:24 PM
2

Because they are ugly, inside and out. That's why I keep trying to tell people and they just keep "Oh, honey"-ing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:20 PM
3

Mental fortitude is completely different from strength. The former is limited by nothing while the latter is limited by the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:45 PM
1

Brains. Beauty doesn't create anything by itself. It may not be sexually attractive, but it's more valuable to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:31 AM
5

You do realize there's two ways of saying someone deserved something, right? There's the "you caused this" and "if you weren't a certain way, it wouldn't have happened". Are you honestly telling me that if someone said to a man who just got divorced "if you weren't fat, she wouldn't have divorced you" isn't placing some of blame on him? That he didn't in some way deserve it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:50 AM
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I'm being genuine. It must be horrible to have someone you care about go "well, you deserved it really. You should have saw the signs."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:16 AM
2

Ah fuck. You got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:05 AM
11

Then I deeply hope no one you care about marries an abuser. Clearly, you have no sympathy nor understanding of how these things work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:55 AM
11

Because abusive people are very good at hiding who they are? Case in point, my mom's first husband was abusive. Did things like punch my older brother when he was a baby and threw my mom's cat at the wall. When my mom left him, my aunt and uncle couldn't understand why she would do such a thing. Even today, they really haven't forgiven her for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:24 AM
6

Ah, so people marry abusers because they're easily deceivable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:00 AM
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And what if she felt safe with him until he started expressing more aggressive behaviors once they were alone together?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 12:33 AM
2

A woman will never have a man's strength, but many great martial arts are about using an opponent's strength against them. Anyone can be brave. You just simply don't give into fear. Since when does confidence have go do with strength? especially without monthly disruption. Not all of us have it that bad. I bleed out of my vagina, but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 12:26 AM
1

FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 12:17 AM
3

Or she could become strong herself....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 12:11 AM
1

Age 23 Pill Color Purple Score 70 MBTI INTP Do you think you'd have an easier time if you were more/less feminine? I would have a way easier time if I was feminine. Is femininity something you actively try to cultivate, or just something you come by naturally? I dress the part, but it's a lot harder to change your personality. I didn't include it in the quiz, but are there any traits in Spaceboobs' masculine personality profile that you identify with? TL;DR For the funsies, that's a lot longer, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 11:38 PM
2

I don't want to get laid. I want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 08:59 PM
1

I mean I'm 23...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:11 PM
1

Ok, so I'm just unattractive. I'm not sure how making my life "more fulfilling" helps with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 02:45 PM
1

It's hard to believe that no one wanting you is not a mark of a bad character.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 02:04 PM
1

have used online dating And how many of those people are no longer active because they didn't like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:50 PM
2

Ok. And this is also on the internet where the male strategy is to message everyone who they find remotely attractive. How about in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:43 PM
2

The people who are different and don't conform to society's arbitrary demands are outcasted Gee, I wonder why I would want to conform.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:29 PM
1

Because I have crippling social anxiety. I could probably approach you and then promptly throw up on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:28 PM
1

However, that doesn't take into account that many women will not send messages. You are working off a relatively smaller sample size compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:26 PM
1

I just really don't like that word.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 02:54 AM
1

Not so many subreddits sadly. There's /r/forearmporn, but you don't get a good sense of what they look like. This is what I found trolling instagram: This guy actually reminds me a lot of an old friend of mine. This guy's a bit trashy, but I like his body type. Yes, I realize it says twink. He's cute. Also cute. I'm sorry if any of these guys are celebrities. I'm not really that hip with it. As a side note, there is a lot of gay shit on Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 02:04 AM
1

Then clearly I'm broken in some other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:42 AM
1

Society expects certain things from people. If you don't fit, you're broken. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:10 AM
1

These are masculine expectation, not sure if you realize that? Yeah. I've known for a long time that I'm a broken female.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 11:41 PM
7

Yeah. Waitressing sucks donkey dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 10:40 PM
4

People are more likely to marry someone within their circle. If you are surrounded by high status people every day, you are probably going to end up with someone high status.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 10:39 PM
4

I know, but it's their reasoning. They want a virgin girl who only has sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 10:11 PM
8

How very manly of you. It's not manly. He broke a promise to be faithful to me. How can I trust his word on anything else? And you will demand it even more than him. You seem to think I'm some type of woman that I'm not. I don't require people to dance for my amusement. I just want a companion to join me on my adventures in life whether that be climbing, hiking, camping, movies, etc. Do you require your friends to entertain you as well? Do you ditch them if you get bored? But for some the effort…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 10:10 PM
3

They want a woman who only puts out for them. How that makes any sense, I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 09:41 PM
11

Infidelity isn't necessarily fucking a woman over. Not that it's nice. It is fucking me over because at that point our marriage would be over. The one ironclad rule I have when it comes to relationships is that if you cheat on me, we are over. Period. The end. Dont let him fall out of love. Ah, I see. It's my duty as a wife to keep my husband entertained lest he gets bored of me and trades me in for a newer model. If this is the way men view a marriage, I am never getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 09:35 PM
11

Doesn't seem to stop most men. And what happens when that love fades?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 08:52 PM
9

I distrust everyone equally. The fact of the matter is no one really gives a shit about you and will screw you over if it benefits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 08:35 PM
2

I suppose that's easy enough. After all, they don't want to fuck me so I get to watch from the sidelines.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:23 PM
1

Women aren't really even people unless they're attractive. Can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:15 PM
4

Ah, my poor sweet INFJs. You're too good for this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:14 PM
16

Yeah, I'd rather die alone than depend on someone financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 06:43 PM
3

Hiddles! <3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 06:38 PM
11

That guys really only look at the hottest women and only really approach women in the HB6-HB8 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 06:17 PM
5

Ah, so you're gonna pull the "you're too stupid to see my real argument" card. I'm gonna pass. It's no fun to debate when the other person is only interested in "winning".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:56 PM
4

No, I would chose the first girl. Because I know that men want an hourglass figure with huge tits and a huge ass. What is your point? Because women don't know what men want that they incapable of understanding their own desires?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:30 PM
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If they are that retarded when it comes to the female perfect body should we then listen to them when it comes to the perfect male body? Because we know what we are attracted to. How the fuck are we supposed to know what men are attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:26 PM
8

No, not a non-sequitur. There are quite a few comments in here about how women are lying about what they like. In all of the "men, post what you are attracted to" threads, have you seen women go "yeah, no you don't like that"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:10 PM
2

Or get a beta bux to pay off their debt. The great thing about being in STEM is that you don't need a beta bux! Also, I'm wondering which women in STEM you are looking at. Every every other software developer girl I knew is dating another software developer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:01 PM
3

As someone who has a lack of social confidence / skills, it is hard. I can't say it's as hard as if I was man because I've never been one. But I don't just get a pass because I'm a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:58 PM
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Also I am pretty sure that women are retarded when it comes to choosing the perfect body Yes, but we aren't the ones telling men what they actually like instead of what they are telling us they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:56 PM
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We post famous actors because I know I sure as hell wouldn't post pictures of my friends that I got from their Facebook. That's an invasion of privacy. I love Tom Hiddleston because he's an adorable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:52 PM
1

How do you know it wasn't by merit?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 11:50 AM
5

I thought that shit was ridiculous when I was 13.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 02:49 AM
1

Oh I just read the alpha traits/ beta traits thinking they were standalone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 11:22 PM
1

Thanks for worrying about me, but I'm not the type of person who would be comfortable having sex with someone I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 11:08 PM
4

I don't think anyone cares if you go your own way. However, it's one thing to go your own way and another to start trashing on the people that caused to go your own way. Because it seems that women will attack anything that even seems misogynistic. There are a lot of crazy chicks out there, and I'd appreciate it if you didn't lump me in with them. Actually, there's just a lot of crazy people in general. When did this happen? I feel like it's gotten way worse in recent years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 10:18 PM
3

Wait guys have eggplants? The things you miss out on as a virgin!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 09:16 PM
1

I'm not gonna lie. Neither option sounds great. If I had to chose between the two though, I would chose the guy with the beta traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 09:15 PM
3

Also I'm super curious. It seems like the biggest issue people have with single mothers is living off of welfare. So, if I, as someone who makes close to 6 figures a year decided to have a kid a la sperm bank or something, would anyone have an issue with that? Or is just that these women are living off of welfare that you have an issue with?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 02:45 AM
1

Right. People aren't always in touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 01:13 AM
2

If it's any consolation, some women are garbage too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 11:41 PM
2

I feel like we have had this discussion on this subreddit about how surveys aren't that accurate because 1) of potential bias, whether that is the people sample or the wording of the questions or 2) people tend to lie to make themselves look good (usually brought up when discussing n-count).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 11:40 PM
7

I was under the impression we wanted a person not a dick. I'm really behind on my women manuals though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 10:37 PM
1

I appreciate your naive optimism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 07:03 PM
1

I have no idea what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 06:39 PM
3

If guys didn't like makeup, it wouldn't be so mandatory to wear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 06:11 PM
4

Love me some Hiddleston. 8 year old me also had a mad crush on Ewan McGregor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 06:08 PM
3

Maybe pay attention to who is framing the argument instead of lumping all BPers together? I bet you'll find the view is consistent from person to person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 05:25 PM
3

I never said terpers are autistic virgins, so I don't know what you are on about. The fact of the matter is that if they believe TRP really works, they are probably having sex with lots of chicks since that's the end goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 05:13 PM
3

Then both parties to blame. It takes two to make a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 05:02 PM
5

No, no, not you. I was talking about the red pillers who berate "sluts" for having high n-counts while having high n-counts themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 03:20 PM
7

I think people who have similar n-counts should end up together. To berate someone who has a similar n-count as you is also pretty shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 03:04 PM
2

Possibly, but no one wants me out in the real world, so I think I'll just stay here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 02:51 PM
1

Diet didn't change, but I became less active because I was working on getting into college. Technically, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 02:47 PM
1

That doesn't seem like the definition of a bitch to me. Bitches are usually really mean to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 02:39 PM
5

You know what would really stop this? Stop having sex outside of marriage. Boom. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 02:36 PM
6

Weeee! Time to figure out what's wrong with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 04:07 AM
7

I think it falls under the discussion umbrella.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 04:01 AM
2

I think like attracts like, but they still have to find each other. That's why you often see an extrovert paired with an introvert because the extrovert approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 03:05 AM
5

if you need liquor to be social you suck Ah fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 12:34 AM
2

Where do you live? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 03:52 AM
3

I thought he kept her around to use her. She does anything for him after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 03:49 AM
1

No? As long as he wasn't looking at them while he was with me. I'm also a bit biased because I use similar guides for social interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 03:47 AM
7

It's hard to say. I know I was skinny as a teenager and then my metabolism plummeted when I get turned 16-17. So it might be worse for 20-30 years old girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 10:34 PM
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Yes. Close to 2/3 are overweight. This from like 7 years ago, but I can't imagine rates have changed that much. That being said, close to 3/4 of men are overweight. I don't think it's pretentious to want to date someone who isn't overweight if you aren't overweight yourself. You just gotta be careful how you phrase it, bud. Try "I'm looking for someone with a similar lifestyle."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 10:16 PM
2

Oh, for sure. And society / the legal system doesn't look too kindly upon these people. Edit: I always fuck up the contractions for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 09:59 PM
5

Sure, as long as the same consequences apply to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 09:45 PM
2

Welllll
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 09:41 PM
3

It wouldn't matter if you were 10/10. There will always be some guy who looks at you and goes "Eh, I don't see it. You're a 6 at best."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 09:21 PM
1

I've realized both sides are equally stupid in the way that they argue (barring a few specific people).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 09:18 PM
3

The great thing about being human is that we can put off immediate pleasure either because of potential negative consequences or because we can plan to use that time to get an even greater pleasure in the future. We shouldn't indulge bad behavior just because it's "natural". The natural thing to do is indulge the immediate pleasure center and do what we feel like doing. Go to work? Nah, fuck that. I like my neighbor's car. I'm fucking taking that shit. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 09:17 PM
1

They aren't ugly, but they aren't usually the type to put much effort into their appearance either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 05:17 PM
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this is a guy that she finds physically attractive Bolded the important part for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 11:27 AM
3

Yeah. I got my BS in Math and Computer Science.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 03:13 AM
9

Basically, anecdotes are fine to point out things happen or exist, but you can't extrapolate to a whole. Remember kids to prove that for a set A ∃x∈A such that P (x) is true, you only need to show one such x exists. To prove ∀x∈A P (x), you need to prove P(x) is true for every x in set A.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 01:52 AM
1

I'm not anti-feminist, but I'm not a feminist either. It's not some sort of weird dichotomy where you are either for or against it, you can just be indifferent. I like some stuff about feminism and I dislike some stuff about feminism. Would you say someone is a Democrat if they agree with things the Democratic party stands for even if they vote non partisan?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 10:55 PM
3

It seems like a lot of guys like dominant women. Do they actually approach dominant women or how exactly does that relationship come to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 09:20 PM
3

There was a war? I must've lost it hardcore then because I joined the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 09:18 PM
5

Because what a movement stands for and what a movement does are two entirely separate things that don't always coincide with each other. I support movements when I believe in what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 07:25 PM
5

You can support what a movement ideally stands for without supporting the movement itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 06:22 PM
1

Hmm... maybe it's intuitives in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 03:59 PM
4

My Chad is always skinny or lean. Too much muscle is bleh. Think like a biker or a climber in terms of max acceptable muscle. As for a specific type, my Chad has taken many forms over the years. Punk or emo is still attractive to me, but there seem to be less of them around these days. I like hipsters now for some reason. I have a theory that these types are typically NTs, but I have yet to confirm that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 03:12 PM
2

It's got to be balanced. Too much confidence? Probably arrogant. Too little confidence? Probably clingy and needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:17 PM
1

It's probably what I deserve at this point because I can't stop my fat piece of shit self from gaining weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 01:20 AM
1

I'll try that. There's a karaoke bar down the road I'm going to try this Friday / Saturday. Is there a good way to look for small, casual bars?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:08 PM
1

Hot men put a lot of time and effort into their appearance. They are objectively good-looking. Cute men are attractive to me personally and usually includes personality traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:01 PM
1

Everyone else seems to think I'm below average, which is a nice way of saying ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 06:46 PM
2

I'm 2 pounds from being a healthy weight. I'm sorry I can't lose weight over night. I could stop eating. Maybe I would finally be beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 06:34 PM
2

The consensus here has been that I'm "below average", which seems like a nice way of telling me that I'm ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 06:27 PM
2

I lost 40 pounds and am still losing weight so that I wouldn't have to date someone fat. Who would boulder with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 06:24 PM
1

No. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 06:15 PM
1

I tried it for awhile, but any matches I got were from guys who swiped right on everyone. They would unmatch me after I would say something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 06:15 PM
3

I've started hanging out at bars on occasion. Hasn't seemed to help at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 05:33 PM
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Everyone seems to agree that even average women get approached, so I must be ugly as fuck. Edit: I'll add a full-body pic when I go to the gym later night for you all to dissect and tell me what's wrong with me. Edit 2: Me in all my fat fuck glory.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:09 PM
4

His slut tell is any woman dating after 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 03:30 PM
2

I'm just following DarkLord's definition...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 03:25 PM
1

Ok, so some people are hardwired to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 11:41 AM
9

Considering the way things are going for me right now, I guess I'll be the first virgin slut!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 11:13 AM
1

No one cares about anyone. You really think that shit is gender-specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 11:10 AM
1

I think the issue comes from that the movement has gone the way of the occupy movement. It wants to do a lot of things, but doesn't really stand for anything. This means any asshole can claim they belong to the movement. If you define clear goals / principles, people can more clearly discern who and who doesn't belong to the movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 03:04 AM
1

Like it matters anyways. Guys aren't going to date some girl just because she's educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 01:19 AM
4

It's almost like women aren't one big hive-mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 08:50 PM
6

Do they really care? It seems to me RPers only care about their own satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 02:09 PM
1

Sure, it may apply to feminists. However, that doesn't concern me, now does it? Go complain to someone who is actually being hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 01:38 PM
0

This is a typical feminists reply. I'm not a feminist, so your analysis is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 01:14 PM
1

I think it's because a lot of old people are conservative, and they are the biggest consumer of TV news.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 12:05 PM
1

a lot of women subtract considerable points from me just because I'm like 1 or 2 inches under 5'10. Many will just outright reject you and there's no amount of charm or having other stuff going for you that will change that. A plurality of women will "tolerate it" if you're spectacular in every other way (no room for mistakes). It just sounds like there are a lot of shallow women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 11:02 AM
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A movement for women focuses on women? Shocker. But seriously, if we could have some less muscular male models, I'd be down for that. 5'8" or whatever, I couldn't care less. I'd also raise the question of who the audiences for the models are. Female models appear to be aimed at men or women, depending on level of sex appeal. I'm not in the know, but aren't male models more aimed towards women? Probably just a marketing thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 03:09 AM
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Sigh. The sooner we realize each issue is important to each gender and no one problem is worse than the other, the sooner we can work together to maybe fix some of them. But no, we are just going to bitch at each other until the end of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 03:00 AM
3

I'm not loud, but you can't deny the audible plopping sound in a quiet bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 12:04 AM
3

Honestly, this sounds amazing for me. I hate those chicks that are gossiping in the bathroom. Meanwhile, I'm in the last stall waiting for them to leave so the dogs of war can be unleashed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 10:59 PM
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Can't. It's been removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 09:59 PM
2

Oh, I see. So if a man drugs my drink and has sex with me while I am unconscious, it's okay because it's non-violent?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 08:16 PM
1

Jedis have too many rules. Sign me up for being a sith. Poiple pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 07:10 PM
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0, and I don't give a shit what they do with their genitalia so long as they don't judge for what I do with mine. Edit: I'm going by OP's definition of sexual contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 03:28 PM
1

Probably not. Women have reasons of rejecting men outside his prospective choices. It doesn't matter if you can do better than her if she doesn't like guys with dark hair. (That was a really shallow example, but I hope you get my drift.)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 03:28 PM
1

Purple 23 Female Raised Lutheran, but I'm not great with rules. 3 I don't think they affect them one way or the other. One hundred duck sized horses.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 11:51 AM
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I'm not saying that any individual man deserves violence. However, pulling the "men are the biggest victims of violent crime" card goes hand in hand with "men are the biggest creators of violent crime" card . It's disingenuous to bring up one without the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 11:48 AM
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Yum. Missing cat ears though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 01:21 AM
0

Men are the biggest perpetrators of violence so it's a "reap what you sow" kind of deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 12:56 AM
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Wealthy male.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 12:51 AM
2

Is this like the new topic that maybe we should banish to a weekly megathread? This is getting ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 10:46 PM
1

I just think you made your argument weaker with the ad hominem at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 09:13 PM
1

The less self-aware BPers deny the existence of such people because they're generally a more middle class group. I agree with the self-aware ones that claim TRP is slightly more prole than they are. I see. So if I don't agree with you, I'm less self-aware. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 08:51 PM
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Or some women get nasty side-effects from using birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 08:34 PM
4

Why would perceivers be more bleeding heart liberal types while judgers are cold hard facts types? That seems like something that would be split along the thinker / feeler line.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 08:33 PM
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I think the women that worry about "all guys being cheaters" have been cheated on. There are men who believe the same thing about women for similar reasons. I'm not sure what you are on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 07:46 PM
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I wonder if that's because women are lessmore risk-averse and will travel in groups at night. Edited: For grammar because I'm dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 07:00 PM
3

Ok, so short-term, yes. Long-term no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 05:44 PM
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It seemed like some of your sources touched on this, but it in the short-term, psychopathy and narcissism are indistinguishable from confidence. There is no way of knowing someone is a psychopath or narcissist upon first meeting them. Yes, most women are attracted to confidence. The question then is how many women leave upon realizing the confidence stems from narcissism or psychopathy. Edit: Did OP remove all of his links or am I going crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:36 PM
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I took myself off the online market because it was too overwhelming on sites/apps where anyone could message you. On sites/apps where they couldn't, I felt like there was zero information on people. There's this tiny bio of 500 characters and that's assuming the person bothered to fill it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:32 PM
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Or some women are just weird. Honestly, I'd love to find a bisexual guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:43 PM
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most women won't date them if they found out. I wonder if this is a remnant from the AIDS scare. Hell, they even have a question about it when you donate blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:31 PM
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I'm not really wanted anywhere, so I just hang out and make people uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:47 AM
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5) I'm addressing this issue because I see guys pointing to "well this small guy isn't afraid to the roam the streets". The average woman is about half as strong as the average man. Even against a larger man, a smaller man could have a fighting chance since the differential in strength is not as large.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:28 AM
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I don't think the issue is so black and white. The basis of paying child support should be weighed on a case by case basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:34 PM
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I don't think there's a way to fix the problem. Assuming there is someone for everyone in the single dating pool such that there is a one-to-one correspondence, the likelihood of that person being close by is almost nothing. Most people wouldn't be willing to date someone who isn't in their area, let alone move for them. Even that assumption is a hefty one to make since a lot of people are shallow and don't want to date someone who is like them in terms of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:32 PM
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I'm not the OP, but I understand when someone is asking a hypothetical question. Hypothetical questions are always in the extremes. The point of this question is to see where men's priorities lie. Would they rather have a beautiful girl or a girl with personality? Not everything has to be taken apart and examined.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:13 PM
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This is not a realistic question. That's why it starts with "Imagine you have two choices". Do you respond to the "What if you were stuck on an island" question with "Well, I would never be stuck on an island because I don't like boats"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 10:20 PM
1

Agreed. I don't think this applies just to inceldom though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 09:40 PM
3

I feel like men in their late 20s /early 30s are just more attractive in general. I don't know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 01:57 AM
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I thought people knew this was the case regardless of gender. The rules don't apply to the rich. It's always been that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 11:08 PM
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You really see just how much of it is praise for men. Remember that the first step to self-improvement is to know you are perfect with no flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 04:38 PM
1

Even at my ideal weight, I won't be thin though. I've always had monster thighs. I might lose my belly, but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 03:34 PM
1

Except it isn't. I've seen 0 difference in male attention since I've lost the weight. It might be different at my ideal weight of 60 pounds lost, but I sincerely doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 12:53 PM
1

The healthy part or the guys focusing on the number part?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 12:50 PM
1

Which is why I never pursued it. It doesn't matter now. I may be 40 pounds lighter but he has a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 12:14 PM
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Because life sucks and that's always a bitter pill to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 11:17 AM
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I think she's talking more about the fact that under 120 is underweight for any woman above 5'4". Guys tend to focus on the actual number instead of what's healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 11:15 AM
2

Sorry, but I think you replied to the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 02:50 AM
2

Dear god, this guy's right. We've been going about science all wrong! Just ignore the holes in the theory, it will be fine. Science!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 01:15 AM
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Because that isn't how science works. People don't go "Well, this is what I've observed so we're done here".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 01:12 AM
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I honestly don't know. I hated the guy at first. He seemed like such a condescending asshole. As I got to know him, I realized he was super smart and a nice guy that layered his soft spots with cocky bullshit. Still hated him when he was being ass though. Loved being around him when he wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 07:56 PM
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Average woman here. I've never been asked out. In high school, guys only talked to me because I was really good at school and was "one of the guys". In college, it was exactly the same, only I was fatter. But my experience won't matter because you're going to tell every woman that tells you about their experience "you're just upset that Chad didn't pay attention to you". It won't matter to you that I just wanted that skinny nerd in my ACM club to ask me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 04:16 PM
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They were just themselves and that happened to be masculine. It wasn't something they strived for because they thought it was the way they needed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 04:10 PM
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It's because they don't have to be masculine. The whole idea behind religion is that God is in control. With masculinity, it's the idea that you are in control. They kind of conflict a bit. That being said, I knew masculine guys in my church, but it was more of a lifestyle and less of a doctrine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 02:33 PM
1

So you'd be totally okay with a woman saying "you're too ugly" when you asked her out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 11:38 PM
3

It's sweet of him to remember what my favorite candy is. Sex all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 10:20 PM
1

So it sounds like from these answers like there's no difference between low n-count women and high n-count women. Hmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 01:20 PM
1

It's not about needing the approval of others, it's about needlessly trampling on other people's feelings just for the sake of being honest. When a girl rejects you, does she say "I'm not interested" or does she go down the laundry list of everything that's wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 01:13 PM
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Yeah, that's basically what I was telling the other guy. You don't have to sugarcoat it, but you don't get to act pissy when someone calls you out for being rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 02:46 AM
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You don't like the sugarcoating? Well, here it is straight for you: Like it or not, society expects you to sugarcoat things. Otherwise, you're an asshole. You think I like having to sugarcoat shit all the time? It would be so much fucking easier if I could just say the first thing that comes to mind. But guess what? People don't like that. You don't get to act pissy when you say something rude and get backlash from it. We all have to do things we don't like, so suck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 02:15 AM
1

Nope. I'm horribly monogamous. Hell, I was stuck on a guy I worked down the hall from for the last six months until he left the company.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 10:47 PM
1

If you don't like it, don't use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 10:44 PM
1

This breaks it down a little better than I can, but the main thing for me is being able to see who likes you without opening a conversation. Also, Tinder is viewed as being an app for casual hookups whereas Bumble is more for serious relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 09:05 PM
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You give them a simple reason and move on. There's such a thing as social tact. High n-count women "They don't share the same views on sex as I do." Instead of: "They've obviously lost the capability to love." Overweight women "We don't have similar lifestyles" Instead of: "They obviously have zero control over their lives if they are at that weight." Single moms "I'm not interested in having kids yet" Instead of: "I think they are source of our country's problems." You don't always have to shar…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 06:15 PM
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Because it doesn't usually stop with "I don't want to date a high n-count woman". I think everyone could agree no one could give a shit about that. However, there's usually a tirade following about how she's broken or something stupid like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 01:28 PM
2

And that's why apps like Bumble are a godsend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 01:22 PM
3

People actually watch that show?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 02:20 AM
2

Yes, but out of the hundreds of beliefs a person might have, how many of them are "wrong"? How many of them are "right"? What if I just simply don't have the information that that person has to make those beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 02:18 AM
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No? The only time I would probably care is if the person in dating has much different beliefs than me. Otherwise, other people's choices / beliefs are their own. That being said, my beliefs are aren't super rock solid. I go where the evidence leads me. Edit: I have a serious issue not negating things when I mean to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 10:44 PM
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I'd consider myself conservative. I don't think it's right, but people make their own choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 10:33 PM
3

They've both made their choices as consenting adults, so who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 09:36 PM
3

Because I need to get to know someone before I'm attracted to them. It's the way I've always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 08:44 PM
5

You can still easily get dick. I don't think you understood how busy I was in college... You don't have to let a guy in, just his dick. I'm not really interested in sex outside of a relationship. I want close intimacy, not just to be a hole for someone. Do you go to therapy? I used to, but it felt like the therapist didn't really understand my problems. Lately, I've been using the Happify app and I feel much better about it. I may try online therapy at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 07:52 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 06:34 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 03:44 PM
3

I was. But it turns out that you don't have much energy starting out on the whole30. I'm going to go back to it this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 03:43 PM
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Yes and no. It's due to a variety of factors: Being overweight Wanting to focus on my degree and getting a job up until recently Never being asked out Extremely low self-esteem until recently Unhealthy fear of letting people in I'm working on changing all of those, but it's slow going.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 03:13 PM
3

23.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 02:26 PM
6

Well I mean you have to have sex before to know what your dry spell would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 01:20 PM
5

I have social anxiety. It's so bad that I get panic attacks in really thick crowds. It is a character flaw as with any form of anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 12:18 PM
2

I'm starting to feel more attractive as I lose more weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 12:13 PM
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Because as a society we push people to get college degrees to get good jobs and that's considered "the norm". Society typically views trade jobs as lower class no matter how much they pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 12:31 AM
2

Mmmm. I can get behind dating a man who likes to crossdress.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 12:27 AM
1

What's hotter than getting your man off? I hear orgasm from prostate stimulation is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 12:24 AM
1

Don't be silly. I bet you're hot. You just need to put yourself out there and guys will show up. I've had several people on here tell me that I'm below average, which judging by the way men judge women is the kiss of death. Well, I mask my low self-esteem quite well, but thanks. But masking it means it's still there to some regard influencing the decisions you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 08:32 PM
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Why do you think women that reject men based purely on their height quality? Then why would they reject men? Because we don't have 10/10 Brad Pitt in his prime aesthetics?? Sorry I asked that poorly. Why do you think women that reject men based purely on their height quality women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 08:30 PM
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It's what you make of it. I have spent a long time blaming my weight for my being unattractive to men. Even 30 pounds down, I'm still not attractive to them. The fact of the matter is nobody is attracted to someone with low self-esteem. If you have the chance, I would highly suggest The Six Pillars of Self-esteem by Nathaniel Branden. It's helped me a lot with my feelings of self-worth. I haven't gotten any dates yet, but I feel okay about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 07:51 PM
1

These are the only women that exist. Two girls literally just replied to you that they are looking for shorter guys. You appear to be deliberately only looking at the women that have height requirements or you are blaming your height every time you get rejected. Are you saying I have an automatic way of avoiding the quality women? Why do you think women that reject men based purely on their height quality? If you want a shallow bitch, then by all means just keep complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 07:47 PM
2

5'2"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 07:39 PM
1

Is there a women's version for what men look for?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 06:26 PM
2

And again, why are you focusing on those girls? You have an automatic way of sifting out shitty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 05:59 PM
1

When did I say 3-4? I've said plenty of times greater than or equal to my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 05:58 PM
2

Hey, fellow short girl! I also would like to date similar to my height. Maybe OP should try for shorter girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 03:49 AM
4

Sorry, I'm just gonna comment on 1 because that's the one that is interesting to me. Assume every man was super good-looking, let's say hypothetically in the exact same way (otherwise the new attractiveness might depend on tiny details about the man's physique). Women would still have criteria for what she would want in a man. Since she is still looking for the male with the best genes, the criteria might shift to something like "how much can he lift?" or "how fast can he run?". Men would still …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 03:44 AM
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Because there have been some incel posts about keeping women on farms for breeding and other awful things. They might not all be awful people, but the subreddit itself is a bit of a cesspool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 03:29 AM
1

Because everything is bound to work on someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 12:36 AM
1

I would say that's a good approach for all women with the caveat that not every women is going to like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 11:57 PM
1

Being sincerely interested in getting to know them as a person. Non-conformists are typically no bullshit types.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 11:49 PM
1

Probably not. Most outliers are probably non-conformists. Non-conformists can range from the severly mentally ill to highly independent people, so it's really hard to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 10:51 PM
2

I would probably clarify and say that women don't find the masculine gay men attractive. I've been attracted a few times to the more metrosexual gay guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 10:19 PM
1

I mean considering what happens in that episode, probably not...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 10:16 PM
2

I'm not obsessed with height, so I can safely say not every woman. I would actually prefer someone around the same height, but it's not a priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 08:41 PM
2

Why are you focusing on shitty women who only care about height?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 07:36 PM
2

If it's a deal-breaker for a LTR / FWB, they'll just leave as soon as they see it anyways. How long would attempt to keep the persona up just to keep them around?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 01:31 PM
1

I would be curious to see how many women would be into pegging.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 03:40 AM
3

I always took it to mean not to fake being someone else because it comes across as insincere. Personality-wise, be yourself. Physically, make sure you're the best you can be, whether that's diet/exercise or fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 03:39 AM
2

Because some of us do things because we like doing them, not because they're attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 01:51 PM
3

I think intelligent people are more accepting of reality. They may be "critical of being objectified for her beauty", but they probably know that there's a certain baseline of conformity required to getting what they want. No one wants to die alone and so a certain amount of personal tweaking is required. The most logical choice to make yourself attractive to the greatest subset.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 10:50 PM
1

Why the fuck would i care?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 03:39 AM
4

The other thread from a day ago might interest you. Some people apparently do need to be told that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 03:37 AM
2

"Oh, she's gonna give me another fitness test. Better watch out." You gotta watch out when women ask you to drop and give them 20. It's a trap!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:24 AM
3

Maybe to a small minority of women. The majority of women are not going to be attracted to be someone who is obese. It's probably close to the same percentage of men who are attracted to obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 04:02 AM
1

Yeah, RP says a lot of things that aren't true. I'll pass. I've already resigned myself to dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 05:57 PM
1

Well it's pretty simple, isn't it? Guys ask out girls they find attractive, so I must be ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 05:23 PM
1

No, but why should that matter. Almost every friend of mine was asked out while they were working on in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 04:03 PM
1

Ty!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 03:19 PM
1

Well put. Also, what is "teetotal"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 02:20 PM
2

Aside from men more than twice my age, nope. But let's be honest, those guys will hit on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 04:34 AM
2

Asked me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 02:00 AM
1

Nope. No guy has ever done this to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 12:57 AM
1

Former fat chicks start partying when chicks want to fuck them??!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 07:27 PM
1

So when fattos lose weight, is there a certain threshold that they hit where they can't help themselves, they just have to party?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 07:04 PM
1

God no. I want equality in a relationship. The moment that a guy tries to turn our relationship into some grotesque power struggle, I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 03:27 AM
8

Making $200k. The boyfriend may not last but I'll still have my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 12:53 PM
2

Female. I don't even have a primary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 02:57 AM
2

I'm all about the skinny / skinny-fit. Yum yum.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 02:45 AM
1

Can we wait until I lose more weight if this is gonna be a permanent thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 11:42 PM
1

Because a lot of women don't party?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 04:02 AM
1

Guess I'm just ugly then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 03:26 AM
1

Haha, no worries. I think it just helps, so someone doesn't come along and go "hurr durr, what if he was shredded?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 01:00 AM
2

I'm very introverted. For the most part, I'm happy to be on my own for weeks at a time. I'm stubborn. I'm independent. I like debates and will argue things endlessly for fun. I'm not feminine in the slightest. I'm incredibly self-sufficient. I don't like going out. (Unless it's somewhere with no crowds.) So there you go, I'm unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 12:59 AM
1

You really should include full body pics if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 12:49 AM
3

It turns out shitty people aren't always shitty when you first meet them. This is shocking, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 01:17 PM
2

Another female INTP? There's dozens of us!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 01:00 PM
5

I'm sorry, but we can't chastise TRP for the same thing you're doing here. You can't extrapolate anything from real life from modern media. Not from Disney movies and especially not from comedies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 02:36 PM
1

I don't know. I don't really care if a guy has tried stuff before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 02:26 AM
1

Where did you find this rendering? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 01:38 AM
4

I'm sure that attracts women, just not the women you want I imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 11:57 PM
1

And why do redpillers desire women that expect to be controlled?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 11:54 PM
2

You beautiful human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 10:12 PM
1

Then why does Redpill place so much emphasis on controlling their women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 09:35 PM
2

Well shit. Doesn't this put me above average? Can I have loves now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 08:18 PM
1

That I've never had one. Overcoming it by losing weight, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 08:11 PM
1

I still don't think that one should just defer to their partner because it happens to be their area of expertise. Every major decision should be a discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 04:57 PM
1

It depends on how important the issue is to me. Most battles are unimportant and if he can show me that it's a logical decision, I'll probably agree with it. As for things that are important, why would I be with someone who isn't at least willing to try to compromise? I don't want a relationship that is like the Republican and Democratic parties where nothing gets done because of the "I am right and you are wrong" mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 04:48 PM
2

I'm a female INTP. Probably the least aggressive female type.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 04:43 PM
1

Okay, but having your outside be feminine still requires certain mannerisms to pull off. I dress feminine, but that doesn't get me anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 02:48 PM
5

No gay sex For some reason, this one was really funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 02:36 AM
1

I'm not in the habit of labeling myself, so I don't know. I just want to be able to do what I want to do regardless of what is right, appropriate, or allowed for my gender
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 12:43 AM
1

Doesn't everyone need to feel attractive to feel good psychologically? Very few people that go "you fat piece of shit" in the mirror are going to be in a good place. As a prime example, I never feel good about myself, never felt sexy or attractive in my life. So it should come as no surprise that I suffer from bouts of depression from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 12:30 AM
5

Because I'm a woman who makes $95,000 a year doing what she loves. I'm not a child. I don't want to be treated like a child. I don't need a captain. I want a partner. Since RP believes (or at least takes the approach) that AWALT, I naturally have to be BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 12:19 AM
1

Depends if I could get someone smarter who isn't also condescending about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 11:17 PM
5

Yeah that's why no man ever in /r/loseit gets upvoted. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 02:41 AM
2

I'm guessing it's a play on the dark triad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 02:36 AM
1

I guess face and cock?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 01:35 PM
1

I guess? I still wouldn't consider it hot, it's just what I'm attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:37 AM
1

But it seems like feminine men still gravitate towards feminine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:41 AM
1

I don't really subscribe to the whole alpha / beta thing, but I don't see why they would be any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:35 AM
1

Because men don't like masculine women, and NT women are by and large masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:23 AM
2

Like, for instance, the guy I'm currently attracted to looks like Ben Wyatt from Parks and Recreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:20 AM
2

Because I prefer guys that I think are adorable / cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:10 AM
1

Won't happen. Nobody goes after NT women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:08 AM
3

I tip $5 or 30%, whichever is higher. But I was also a waitress and I know how much it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:07 AM
1

Aww. That's adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:06 AM
3

I don't know because I don't go for the hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 03:10 AM
2

Fuck if I know. I was working that weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 03:27 PM
1

I got a well-paying job so I could date a guy just because I like him and enjoy having him around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 04:46 AM
3

The first guy is super good-looking. What are you even on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 04:17 PM
1

Has... has this happened to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 03:44 AM
3

Can do Stalk me. Invade my personal space. Hover when I'm at the gym. (I'm wearing headphones for a reason. Leave me be.) Wear If you're wearing clothes that are clearly dirty, I'm gonna have to pass. Look like I don't like overly muscular men, but I also don't like someone who is very overweight. Where my skinny men at? Even act Act like he's too good for me. Great, then go talk to the hottie at the bar instead of wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 02:22 PM
2

Imagine the delicious chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 11:12 PM
1

There are women who see AMALT as a thing. There are some who don't. Again, we are people who believe different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 11:11 PM
4

It's almost like we've been saying women are people this whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 04:17 AM
16

Ok, are you looking for debate or discussion? Because this seems to be a rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 04:13 AM
2

Hey man, we're all just people looking for a little sugar.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 08:28 PM
3

Yeah. :( The issue I think is that everyone wants love, but no one wants to get hurt, which causes people to do some shitty things to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 04:17 AM
1

Attacking OP's character instead of debating. A++
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 04:11 AM
2

So RP can make up definitions now, huh? Here is what the rest of the world uses. It doesn't appear to be gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 03:56 AM
1

Really? Because all I see her is asking for men to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 10:29 PM
5

It really isn't clearly defined. You're one of 2-3 wives of Chad. It doesn't say anything about what would be allowed in the marriage .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 05:26 PM
11

I don't like competition. Sign me up for the beta. Can I get him in the skinny variety though?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 02:41 PM
10

Wait. So if a woman wants pleasure from sex, that makes her narcissistic???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 02:27 AM
7

The thing is, even if you have good sex, your girl will be bored by you if you lack the ability to provide that giddy feeling of perpetual unfolding adventure and novelty Im pretty sure most women know how to entertain themselves. We don't need to be "shocked at every turn" to be happy in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 10:07 PM
1

Its actually incredibly hard to not get nervous around women we are attracted too. They've done studies on this. Our brains literally short circuit. To which I responded that I'm pretty sure this happens to women, too. You provided a study that only talk about men interacting with women in general. This study states that women experience no such cognitive decline. It says nothing about people interacting with others they are attracted to. Edit: men interacting with men should be men interacting …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 06:13 PM
3

That study doesn't talk about people interacting with people they are attracted to at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 05:40 PM
2

I'm pretty sure this applies to women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 03:53 PM
3

Yep. I'm always gonna pick someone with similar interests over a party boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 03:44 PM
1

Oh man. Does this make me a beta bucks female?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 01:26 PM
1

Not at all. I believe they just haven't found the right person yet, or maybe they aren't putting themselves out there enough. You can't catch any fish if you don't throw out your hook. That being said, I think how people react to not being able to get sex or relationships more determines their value as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 01:24 PM
2

The hard line is whatever is healthy at that height, not one weight across all heights. Take a look at BMI chart some time, will you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 04:28 AM
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Yeah. It's smack dab in the middle of the healthy weight range. What is he talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 12:17 PM
12

Clinginess. I'm a very introverted person. Sometimes I just need to be alone, and that has nothing to do with you. Narcissism. These guys usually have the "I'm doing a favor by dating you" attitude. Controlling. Self-explanatory. Low self-esteem. Some people are fine, but most end up needing constant validation. Unwilling to learn / try new things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 12:15 PM
1

I'll pass. It's not worth compromising my morals for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 02:35 AM
1

It's gonna differ from woman to woman. I personally like the skinny, introverted nerd type since that's closer to my personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 02:34 AM
2

Why can't we just be done with this and say some people have preferences and others couldn't give shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 02:33 AM
8

I would probably actually have casual sex if I knew I could get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 02:21 AM
2

That's purely subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 02:09 AM
10

Yep. See this article. A guy can almost always guarantee (barring some issues) that he is going to get off during a sexual encounter. Women, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 02:00 AM
5

I wonder how many of these guys would change their tune once they've been penetrated just once.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 10:48 PM
5

Basic survival mechanism: assume everyone is going to fuck up your shit unless they prove otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 10:22 PM
2

I don't care for guys with high partner counts. I'm looking for someone who has a count closer to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 01:28 PM
4

I would've thought he would be Mr. MacArthur.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 01:24 PM
1

It can be a huge health risk though. (NSFW link)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 03:34 AM
2

Blue pill isn't a state of being or even an ideology. It was created as a satire subreddit against the red pill. By being against red pill, you're automatically blue pill. (Or purple, if you're just indifferent.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 01:01 AM
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I don't care either. I was arguing against your point about hourglass figures: Maybe rarer, but actually attainable if you eat properly and train/exercise. Breast size is genetic. Hip size is genetic. Waist size is mostly genetic. Butt size can be improved on with squats, but again the limitations lie in your genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 05:46 PM
6

Push up bras don't magically give you full-sized breasts, which is what is required for an hour glass figure. To give you an idea of how small my breasts are, the only way I have cleavage is if I forcefully push my boobs together from both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 04:57 PM
1

This is the correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 12:50 PM
8

No it really isn't. I suppose I could get my breasts enlarged, but aside from that, I'm strictly pear shaped. Edit: changed a future tense to present tense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 12:48 PM
1

The question is not will a woman date an ugly guy (ugly=feminine. handsome=masculine,not pretty guy wearing make up shit) the real question is will a woman tolerate an ugly guy the same as she tolerate a handsome guy. Oh for fucks sake, this isn't even a gendered issue. An attractive person will get away with more shit than an unattractive person. This is true of men. This is true of women. People in general let attractive people get away with more shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 03:39 AM
2

You're not even that BluePill. This is too good. Are redpillers gatekeeping the blue pill now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 03:34 AM
3

Yeah. That's super weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 03:30 AM
1

Why can't people just do what they want to do, regardless of gender, without people getting all up in their business?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 04:01 AM
1

No. I can't real flirt either though, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 03:54 AM
3

I'm 5'2". If he's greater than or equal to my height, I honestly couldn't give a shit as to how tall he is comparatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 03:52 AM
2

Looks like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 01:33 PM
3

Yep, but it's no different than any other people in positions of authority. Sadly, the people who don't want to "rule" are the ones who do it the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 03:28 AM
2

Who's to say those type of women are running in the first place? I think it requires a certain type of person to want to be in a position of authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 03:08 AM
6

If I find someone, I find someone. If I don't, well, the world spins on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 02:28 AM
1

Well yeah, 75% of men are overweight or obese
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 02:57 PM
14

Considering close to 75% of men are overweight or obese, it is a high standard since they themselves are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 04:14 AM
7

I'm glad someone has a sense of humor in this place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 10:36 PM
1

Did you message first? I did. Nothing interesting, but a simple "hey" should work if a guy is interested, correct? Did you unmatch any of them after not getting an initial message or response? Nope. I just left it. Try another 10, if you have another 5 minutes. What have you got to lose? I'd have to re-download the app and set everything up again, not to mention take new pictures since I lost a significant amount of weight. Plus it's just hook-up culture at this point and that's not what I'm int…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 10:16 PM
1

I'm going to start doing that when I hit my weight goal. Right now, I don't want them to recoil in disgust when I approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 10:14 PM
1

Really? Then why do all those other fat girls have boyfriends? At any rate, I've lost 10 pounds since that picture was taken and guys still don't approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 09:56 PM
1

Some of your matches might not mean much I'm telling you that this was my whole experience with Tinder. I matched with guys and they wouldn't talk to me. But it's still attention, a hell of a lot more than the average guy would get. It's not attention. It's just guys playing the numbers game. What's the point of matching with someone who won't talk to you? It would only take you another 5 minutes to get another 10 instant matches. Ok, so now I have 10 more guys that won't talk to me. Fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 09:48 PM
2

Ok, but then you can't base anything off of it. You can't go "look at all the attention these girls get. They get 10 instant matches!" When those 10 matches most likely don't actually mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 02:27 PM
1

Women tell you what their experience is. No, no, no. Let me tell you how women really are...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 03:59 AM
2

I tried Tinder for awhile. Those 10 instant matches were from guys that swiped right on every girl. They never replied to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 11:18 PM
1

To be fair, that might be true of some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 05:32 PM
2

I sincerely doubt feminists give a shit about the friendzone. But I doubt anyone really wants to hear people whining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:28 PM
1

I'm sorry I'm stuck on the logistics. The obese black man doesn't seem that big, so why does his stomach sag like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 03:11 AM
1

There are pictures in my submission history.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:59 AM
1

What do you look like? There are pictures in my submission history. Do you live in a city or the middle of nowhere? I live downtown of a city of roughly 200,000 people not including college students. How often do you go out? How often do you go out to specifically social gatherings like bars, clubs, parties, etc.? Never. My point was that many men on this subreddit act like men fall into my lap merely by existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:59 AM
2

Because it's a new "concept" for something that been around for ages. It's no different than any other form of unrequited love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:09 AM
7

Dude. Women's suffrage? Surely you can't be this dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:07 AM
3

Yeah. It always make me laugh when guys talk about how many men are supposed to be throwing themselves at me. I've never been approached, so where does that leave me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 09:58 PM
3

A moderately attractive woman with these attributes will have a long, long, line of suitors. TIL I'm unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 09:03 PM
3

Gender expectations. Men are expected to be sure of themselves and stoic at all times. Women are allowed to be unsure of themselves. It's interesting that you think it's infantilizing. I think men would be better off if they propped each other up like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 03:16 AM
2

I'm just awkward around people I don't because I have pretty bad social anxiety. If I continue being awkward after I know you, then yes I probably like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 05:20 PM
2

Damn it, I do this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 03:44 PM
1

Sorry. I'm uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 03:55 AM
2

Yeah. It's only been a matter of tracking what I eat, but that was a lot harder to do in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 03:43 AM
2

The average American is overweight and just 10lbs or so from being obese. Guilty of this, but I've lost 26 pounds since July, so that should change. The average American household income is $51K. The average American worker makes $30K annually. I make a little over three times that. The average American household is 2.6 people. Just 1. The average American lives paycheck to paycheck, in fact 3/4 do. I live paycheck to paycheck currently because I'm aggressively trying to pay off my student debt.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 01:58 PM
3

You have to remember though that women have to weed out the guys that are just going to use her for sex and bounce as soon as they get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 02:51 AM
3

That's a very sad point of view, but I've never loved anyone, so I can't dispute it with my personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 12:58 AM
2

I actually see this idea more from men than women. Work if you have to while you have to, otherwise, don't. It doesn't seem like women who want to work fit it into this worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 12:57 AM
2

You seem to have missed my point. My criticism is of other people's criticisms of women. If women don't work and seek out a man to provide for her, she's seen as lazy and a gold digger. We can't win.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 11:43 PM
3

Marrying for love is dumb? That's such a sad way to live. You're basically just buying a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 11:39 PM
3

Perhaps, but I see a lot of stigma against women for dating a man for his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 05:23 PM
3

Women work and we're taking away a pillar of men's SMV. Women don't work and she's lazy. Not sure how we can win here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 03:03 PM
2

This looks like a tabloid. Tabloids are usually written for the purpose of generating shock or outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 12:19 PM
1

So then you agree with OP's number 1 point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:02 PM
1

Actually I would say that I have the most right to "logically comment" on it, since I have no emotional investment in the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:01 PM
1

Then why are you continuing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 03:31 PM
1

You said that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 03:22 PM
1

Again, I'm not married and probably won't ever get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 02:50 PM
2

Anything, since you seem to know me better than myself without ever meeting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 02:44 PM
1

This is the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 01:49 PM
1

Yeah. Most people are hypocrites about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 01:24 PM
2

I wasn't aware you could read my mind. Tell me, what else am I doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 01:07 PM
2

Sorry. I'm not really one of those girls who will shame people for having their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 01:05 PM
3

I've always been attracted to skinnier guys. I don't really know why though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 12:41 PM
3

So? Despite what RP says, I've always liked skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 12:40 PM
4

But it's fun though. The guy I was arguing with a couple of days ago stopped replying to me, so I need a new challenger. It didn't burst his bubble though. He just said that I must be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 03:38 AM
2

So then, I'm not hunting for Chads? What happened to AWALT?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 03:28 AM
7

Ok. Then explain to me why the guy I'm attracted to down the hall is probably a beta. (Short, skinny, pale, looks away when I catch him staring)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 03:18 AM
6

Interesting. So explain to me then why I don't date, don't go to bars, or do anything outside of my usual hobbies if I'm so desperately looking for a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 02:54 AM
1

Haha true. Point made.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 02:53 AM
3

You are correct. Why does that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 02:49 AM
1

If it's so easy, then why are we facing a nursing shortage?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 02:47 AM
1

Oh my god. I graduated with a BS in Math and Computer Science, and half the fucking College of Science ceremony was goddamn Psychology majors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 02:45 AM
5

Fuck that. The type of man that has to pay to keep his woman around is probably not one I want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 02:42 AM
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Because it's something you can easily point to showing that you're a high quality person. It's probably not something she did specifically so she would attract a man. Working out is much easier and yields better results.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 02:40 AM
1

Alright. You have a much more emotional view of marriage than I do. To me, a marriage is a contract for better or for worse. You enter into a marriage with a set of expectations, for instance, financial stability or children. If those expectations are not being met, then the contract is void.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 04:51 PM
0

Again, you're talking to someone who is probably not going to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 03:58 PM
0

Nice appeal to emotion. Sorry, but I probably won't ever get married so this doesn't really apply to me. But if I had to argue, you're promising to marry that person, who they are on that day. If they change, like changing their mind about kids or some other major life decision, or it turns out they have some major mental illness that didn't rear its ugly head until later, they are no longer that person you married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 03:01 PM
1

So, I don't have a partner and I've never had a partner. I guess I would just continue on with my life oblivious that anything happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 03:30 AM
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We aren't talking about RP. We're talking about AWALT. However, AWALT describes the behavior of all women, but according to you, biology doesn't solely define a person's behavior. But, AWALT is describing biology. This seems contradictory, does it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 02:52 AM
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No one is describing behavior only based on biology. AWALT is just their biology But no woman is above their biology, and most women are not self aware enough to even know when they're acting on instinct vs not. It kind of sounds like you're describing behavior only based on biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 01:42 AM
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AWALT is describing things created by biology, so yeah, describing billions of people. But you can't describe the behavior of everyone strictly through a biological stand point. Pure biology dictates that every human's (or animal's) goal is to reproduce or pass their genetics on. If everyone acted strictly to biological goals, there would no homosexuals or asexuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 12:42 AM
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Well then, I can't argue with you. You have somehow convinced yourself that you know exactly what is going on in the minds of 3.5 billion people. Even if they aren't exhibiting a behavior, it doesn't matter because they are suppressing it. By that same reasoning, I could say all men are rapists. The ones who aren't raping are just suppressing it, but still are rapists. Am I getting the logic right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 10:29 PM
6

Interesting, so when a woman isn't demonstrating AWALT behavior, she's still adhering to AWALT?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 10:05 PM
4

I'm not the one trying to say something applies to all woman. All I need is one example to disprove a universal statement like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 09:52 PM
2

That applies to pretty much any woman in my experience. Ok, so confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 09:30 PM
0

So you would stay married to a woman who made you miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 08:24 PM
1

I wouldn't consider "hey baby nice ass" as a compliment from anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 03:54 AM
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How do you know they haven't tried? It's not always as simple as attraction issues in a marriage. Maybe their future goals didn't match up as well as they thought. Maybe someone changed their mind about having kids. Maybe they feel responsibilities aren't distributed fairly. Some issues aren't so easily reconciled.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 03:40 AM
0

If a situation makes you unhappy, do you continue to put yourself in that situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 03:14 AM
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Because there is something about their relationship that they're unhappy with. If something is making you unhappy, do you wait until something better comes along or do you just leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 03:08 AM
4

Recreational divorce? Google isn't giving me anything except recreational activities for divorcees.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 02:51 AM
5

Interesting that the female trading up aspect is predicted by mathematical models, but the last real world sample doesn't show any statistical difference between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 02:08 AM
1

I'm not an emotional woman, so I don't really want an emotional man. If his emotions / vulnerability happen in reaction to something bad, I can handle it. If it just happens at random intervals, it's too much for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 12:01 AM
3

Having the preference of not wanting to date a single mother is vastly different than calling them scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 11:57 PM
3

Nothing is wrong with that. I just think that's the crux of your issue rather than mandatory paternity testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 11:04 PM
2

It sounds like the bigger issue is that you would rather have laws in place that would allow him off the hook financially the moment he finds out the kid isn't his. Would that be preferable?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 10:07 PM
1

I didn't say invisible to men. I said invisible to red pillers. There's a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 09:44 PM
2

Could you give me some examples I could work off of?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 07:01 PM
1

Anything specific I should be looking at?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 07:00 PM
1

Alright. Name some "truths" about all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 06:25 PM
1

I'm just saying that if TRP is going to claim that they have truth about how women are, they should strive to be more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 05:36 PM
1

Which is fine, but then red pillers talk about how all women act a certain way, while still only looking a minority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 04:55 PM
1

What qualities are you thinking of?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 02:00 PM
2

Then why are you talking about settling down at 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 01:52 PM
1

It wasn't rhetorical, but if you're gonna be an asshole, I'm just going to drop this Time article .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 01:34 PM
6

Who is settling down at 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 12:46 PM
2

Aww. Little Loki no :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 12:41 PM
2

Ok, so we are talking about attractive women, which probably amounts to 20% of all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 04:03 AM
2

99% of women are under constant barrage of attention Might want to lower that percentage a little, bub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 04:03 AM
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I have a theory that red pillers only observe what the most attractive women do because that's who they notice. They then extrapolate that information into AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 03:59 AM
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submissive, feminine women Thank god. I don't have to worry about red pillers any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 03:55 AM
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And where are the spergy nerdy girls that presumably exist (there is someone out there for everyone)? I was indoors reading books and playing video games. Go outside? Are you mad? There are people out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 03:49 AM
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I will! I just want to lose more weight first because I'm self conscious about it. It will be a lot easier when I'm more confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 06:20 PM
1

I'm 5'2" so he's probably 5'4", 5'5"? I'll go out with him when I have the guts to ask him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 06:00 PM
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Taller than me. I'm not too particular otherwise. The guy I like at work I think is only a couple inches taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 04:36 PM
2

I don't go on the defense when male on female rape is talked about. This is not even remotely the same thing. With male on female rape, you can point to an action and say "I don't do this, so it doesn't concern me." However, when you say women love to be groped, that's an action that gets done to me. This concerns me. Can you differentiate between women who "love to be groped" and those who don't? If not, it means I get groped under the guise of "Women love to be groped".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 01:40 PM
2

It takes two to create a single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 01:33 PM
1

Like this. Most of the guys that I've had crushes on had this type of build.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 01:31 PM
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No. If I'm not in a relationship with said person and he gropes me, I lose all attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 03:33 AM
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Groped by a boyfriend? Sure. Complete strangers? Fuck no. I'd slap somebody if they did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 02:48 AM
2

Our criticism has never had anything to do with the men follow TRP, just what those men do while following.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 02:32 AM
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The lighting isn't very good, but yes. Although when I say skinny, that's still more muscular than I'm thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 01:27 AM
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I think in his mind it had more to do with how long it would take to get that muscle development. I think the more controversial thing is that I do like actually skinny as well like Ben Wyatt in Parks and Recreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 12:53 AM
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Yeah! But he obviously has muscles, so I don't know what the other guy was going on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 12:46 AM
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It happens often enough that I felt the need to mention it. It's not always pottery, but some people shit on certain interests because they have some sort of stereotype in their head of who is interested in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 05:29 PM
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I thought I was picky before coming to this thread, but damn. My biggest behavioral turn-off is when a guy shits on my hobbies. I like to do pottery, goddammit. Don't make fun of me for liking what I like to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 01:45 PM
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I don't have a man! That is just what I'm attracted to. Unless you're biologically broken, this is Bullshit. It's true, so I guess I'm broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 01:02 AM
2

So you're just gonna go with the fact that I'm a "broken" female because that's what helps you sleep better?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 12:39 AM
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Oh, my apologies. I guess as a silly female I wouldn't know what I'm attracted to. The big muscular men are supposed to tell me, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 11:02 PM
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We have very different concept of what constitutes muscles, but then yes, I don't like muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 10:39 PM
2

I watch gang bangs, but I never want to have sex with more than one person at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 09:32 PM
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So you wouldn't describe him as having muscles and being skinny? I also said skinny / lean in my original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 09:03 PM
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I never said I didn't like muscles. You can be lean and still have muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 08:21 PM
5

Why? Because I want to be treated like I'm a human being? That's the only reason I'm blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 07:36 PM
7

I'm not a feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 07:07 PM
1

Yep, that's exactly why. It's still up to the mods to remove the garbage threads though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 03:25 PM
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The body type. I like skinny / lean guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 03:02 PM
2

This reads like an incel pity thread. I would be surprised if it didn't get removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 01:54 PM
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None. I haven't been with anyone actually, but the stereotypical jock turns me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 12:49 PM
5

Cue the incels. Edit: used the wrong que.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 10:01 PM
1

Absolutely not. I would just ask that he start wearing guyliner on occasion because I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 10:53 PM
1

Haha that's too perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 10:50 PM
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Yeah. I'm not sure why they don't just move to a Muslim country. You apparently can treat women like that there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 10:40 PM
2

Ich.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 02:33 AM
1

Ask out that guy I like that works down the hall from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 11:30 PM
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Guy number 2 because he doesn't just look like one big block of muscle i.e. still cuddleable and because I like a little hair on my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 11:27 PM
1

If that's what red and blue amounts to, I guess I'm purple?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:02 PM
3

Does it have statistics on who fought for custody?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 11:04 PM
2

I completely agree with the last couple of sections, though I'm not fond of the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 09:17 PM
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Out of genuine curiosity, do you have statistics for custody?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 09:10 PM
2

Again, what makes you assume these women are divorced? It's true that people who have had one divorce are more likely to get divorced than someone who has had none. But why do you think that the women who are complaining about men not committing to them have gotten divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 09:06 PM
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It's not that they stop living their lives, but it's a dramatic shift. Having a family is a huge time investment, and you're not as free to do the things you want. Even something as simple as seeing a movie could require planning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 08:15 PM
2

If there's nothing wrong with them, then what would make them any different than a 25 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 06:20 PM
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I suppose you wouldn't believe that there are women who were just busy living their lives and are now ready to settle down? Or there are women who just got out of a LTR? I agree with everyone else. It's such a massive generalization to make about women >28.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 05:35 PM
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That works for some women, yes. Not all of us have a canal deep enough for 8 inches to feel good. Edit: Also pushing out a baby is incredibly painful...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 05:18 PM
2

Don't worry about boys until after you get your degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 04:09 PM
1

That doesn't change how deep a girl is...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 03:58 PM
2

Yeah... I still struggle with the social thing, but I've learned that I can get away with putting exactly 2 things on my face in terms of makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 04:25 AM
2

Blue pill INTP woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 04:23 AM
1

Isn't lox pink?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 08:05 PM
2

It's interesting to me that other women have to have their own kids. What's wrong with adoption?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 08:03 PM
3

I'm the same way (minus the man). People are just so exhausting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 08:02 PM
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I don't know about other women, but I'm content being alone, and I have zero friends. It just works for some people, but not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 08:01 PM
1

What's up my extroverted sister?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/16 04:52 AM
1

Sorry, I didn't know that. It's been corrected.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 02:56 PM
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Biology is how we procreate, yes. Attraction is in the mind though, which is psychology. Because despite what feminists without basic biology education will tell you I'm not a feminist, nor do I listen to feminists. Since you clearly think I'm uneducated, I don't really want to continue this debate since you'll just devolve into insult throwing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 01:59 PM
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It literally takes me one look That's great. But you aren't all men, are you? How do you know every single male has an attraction that's instantaneous? Getting to know someone a little is a female thing to do, but not all women are like that. I know plenty of women who can be attracted to a man instantly, I'm just not one of them. So, if women aren't all the same, why would men be?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 01:41 PM
3

Wow, you know every single man alive right now? That's impressive. You should hook me up some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 12:37 PM
2

Yeah, I've never had that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 11:47 PM
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Or maybe, we're people. Gasp. There are some women, like me (and maybe OP, I won't speak for her) that require knowing someone a little to be attracted to them. I imagine there are some men out there that are the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 11:46 PM
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My height or taller. Just a few inches taller than me is preferred. I don't really want someone who is super tall
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 01:56 PM
1

I mean that you pay all of your bills on time without assistance. I don't care if you have a car because I have one. I don't care if you have to live with roommates (as long as they aren't your parents) because I have a place of my own. College educated is a bit trickier for me because I personally want someone who will learn stuff with me. Usually, that comes from someone who is college educated but it is isn't limited to someone who is. What do you mean by career? Because I would say having a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 01:52 PM
2

That wouldn't be "without assistance"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 07:13 PM
2

He needs to be able to support himself without assistance, so that's probably somewhere between a quarter to half of my income?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 03:12 PM
1

I guess. I just made the choices in my life so that I could marry for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 01:41 PM
1

I know that guys don't like me paying for them, so I always offer to go Dutch instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 12:55 PM
1

Yeah. I don't do that. If you have your life together that's enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 12:55 PM
1

I bet you do, as do most women. Thank you for invalidating my life experience. I don't care. I live comfortably on my own salary, and any more than that is just icing. I will, however, say that I want someone who has his life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 12:49 PM
1

I don't care if my man makes more than I do. From my personal experience, guys don't like making less than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 03:59 AM
1

I'm going to keep working at my job. If I find someone along the way, great. If not, that's cool too. Either way, I'm just gonna do me and keep trying / learning new things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 03:52 AM
3

Aww. That's a little mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 04:13 AM
2

As a girl, no. As a person, yes. I was that weird kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 01:16 AM
3

There's another one: being a woman and not fitting the idea of feminity. Not in the slightest. I go for the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:12 AM
3

Periods are a pain. People expecting me to get married and have kids in a few years is a pain. Makeup and clothing are a pain. Gaining weight easier is a pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 11:49 PM
2

It's all kind of a pain to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 10:48 PM
1

Life experience isn't proof, but you're trying to use it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 01:08 PM
5

Tinder is a depressing app. I actually hate the damn thing because it can cause a man to to want to commit suicide after realizing how catty and shallow EVERYONE is. You're surprised that people are shallow and catty on an app where you literally accept or reject people based on a few pictures? I'm not sure what you're expecting. Use a different app if that's your issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 04:18 AM
3

Because I'm a woman. And if anything on Redpill is to be believed, I don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 03:55 AM
1

I don't think my great-aunts were lesbians. They just had each other and that was all they needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 05:44 PM
3

My two great-aunts never got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 06:18 AM
2

The vast majority of heterosexual women want a bf. They get lonely. How exactly is this only specific to heterosexual women? PEOPLE get lonely. It's in our nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 03:36 AM
2

Women rely entirely too much on the state to go their own way Tell that to my $95,000 a year job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 03:31 AM
1

I swallowed the RockinSocks pill: "Everyone is a shitty human being!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 01:43 AM
5

Nothing would change for me. Hahah...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 02:19 PM
6

A lot of people are just hypocrites. It has nothing to do with gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 09:51 PM
10

It might just be possible that the women who are saying they want a man who won't bail aren't the ones bailing? Naaaaah. AWALT, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 09:46 PM
3

I pay for myself. Period. The end. If we're doing multiple things, I'm willing to let him pay for one thing on the condition that I'm paying for the next. I really think everyone should just pay for themselves. That way no one owes anyone anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 08:59 PM
2

For me, I think it's just a remnant from my punk / goth phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 03:33 AM
7

You know, it's not women that say that it's gay. It's other men. Women either don't care, or think it's great that you take care of yourself. True that. I love me some guyliner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 01:34 PM
1

I can do both. I just need more aromatherapy candles for a nice massage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/16 01:52 AM
6

I don't know about other women, but I give a mean massage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/16 12:50 AM
0

I would love to be asexual. I could get so much done if I didn't have to spend time maintaining myself / trying to get into a relationship. Unfortunately, that doesn't make societal expectations go away. I'm only 23 and my dad is already harping on me getting a boyfriend so I can give him grandchildren.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/16 12:51 PM
2

I would say there has to be some attempt to achieve that desire in order for it to be a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 07:45 PM
1

Why is not getting something you want considered a failure? It happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 01:00 PM
3

most women can't get sexual release I'm not sure this is correct. Most women can't get sexual release from PIV sex, but once you rub that clit, they're good to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 09:31 PM
9

I get off just fine with my dildos, thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 02:07 PM
1

Based on the way I play almost every video game, I'm definitely Vorthos. I even went so far as to attempt to collect every book in Skyrim so I could read them all. Since there isn't a healing class, I'd probably be the wizard. I don't like being near the action.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 01:02 PM
5

Then your girl is lucky. Most attractive women put a lot of effort into their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 06:34 PM
4

It's not difficult to look good, especially for women. Haha. Sure, it's not difficult, but it takes a fuck load of time. You're probably the same type of guy that complains his woman is taking too long to get ready, but then will complain if she doesn't look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 05:49 PM
1

There's lots of female-centric porn and if you want porn that's realistic, for lack of a better word, there's amateur porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 02:04 PM
8

Why would I spend money on something that exists for free? That's just bad business sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 01:04 PM
1

Oh the physical side, I like guys who are greater than or equal to my height. (I'm 5'2" so it really isn't ruling anyone out.) I like my guys on the leaner side, whether that's just straight up skinny or a lean sort of muscle. Finally, I shouldn't have to say this, but I want someone who showers every day and doesn't dress like a slob. I don't mind t-shirts and jeans, but if they're stained to all hell, that's just gross. On the personality side, I'm not really sure what I'm attracted to because…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 12:52 PM
7

Or you could just be nice and say you're not interested...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 01:52 AM
1

Like many others have said, Tom Hiddleston. I'll also throw in Ioan Gruffudd. I like my men slender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 05:21 PM
5

Hiddles! <3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 05:16 PM
1

I love me some Hiddleston.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 05:15 PM
5

Nobody understands women, just as nobody understands men, because you can't understand everyone in a whole gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 05:22 PM
3

You just cherry picked that statement of the analogy, which changes the context. Nobody is saying that most women aren't attracted to muscular men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 05:20 PM
3

Well if you're going to toss out something as absolute as "universal traits that all girls love", then all I need to disprove it is one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 01:15 AM
1

Dork is teasing. Condescending is like when you act like I'm too stupid to understand something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 01:13 AM
2

Jesus christ. Teasing is not even remotely the same as being condescending.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 10:35 PM
2

Because it's possible to have fun without being a dick to people?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 09:55 PM
2

You're still doing it. I hated it any time a guy I knew in real life was playfully condescending with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 09:24 PM
1

It doesn't have to be exaggerated behavior for someone to notice. It can be something as small as just a condescending tone of voice when speaking to someone you think is lower than you. Most people don't act like the assholes on TV, but it comes across in small behaviors / actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 08:41 PM
1

Really? Because I would consider being condescending as treating people badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 08:36 PM
1

As I told the guy below me, someone who treats people badly with no rhyme or reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 08:35 PM
1

I am capable of speaking for myself. What I mean is someone who treats someone badly with no rhyme or reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 08:32 PM
1

It's going to vary from girl to girl, but I will dump someone immediately if they're too aggressive or an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 07:58 PM
2

It's going to vary from girl to girl, but I will dump someone immediately if they're too aggressive or an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 07:58 PM
3

I think what Red Pill seems to forget is that these things will never be enough to override other bad traits. These traits aren't the be all and end all that TRP seems to think that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 07:02 PM
3

I would probably ask him why and see if i can help with the other problem instead of sexy times. For example, if he was sore from working out or something, I would offer a massage instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 02:15 PM
2

He said nothing about being a single mother. It's perfectly possible to create a family with an unmarried couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 09:37 PM
2

Finding your own sources doesn't help you find where someone is getting a particular piece of information. If someone tells me the sky is purple, I know it's not, but I'm usually curious to see where they got that information.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 12:36 PM
4

Smart people ask for a source. Otherwise, you're just taking any amount of bullshit at face value. I could tell you that the moon is made of cheese and without a source you would have to either accept or reject that information based on zero context.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 12:01 PM
3

To be fair, it's supernatural, so everyone has a touch of homosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 12:59 PM
1

For sure! I have a reward system in place for every 20 pounds I lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 09:21 PM
1

Thanks! 80 % calorie counting, 20% exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 02:53 PM
1

Are you male or female? Female BMI 30 Where do you store fat? Mostly my butt, thighs, and stomach. Are you happy the way you look? God no. Have you tried losing weight and if yes what did you try? Yes. I'm trying right now. Lost 13 pounds so far, used to have a BMI of 32. If you have a SO could he/she be considered skinny, normal, skinny fat, muscular, overweight or obese? Single as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 01:54 PM
3

And how is this different than AWALT?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 12:09 PM
10

Who love the woman for who she is As long as you're hot enough I think you missed the point there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 12:02 PM
8

Could it be that you're mostly talking to outgoing girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 03:05 AM
2

I mean I'm a fan of /r/happytrail. I think what turns us on is a bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 07:43 PM
1

Well, that's just abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 05:13 PM
2

Yes. There are intelligent people in STEM. There's also a lot of stupid people in STEM as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 01:24 AM
5

In general they may not be bad to women, but the mindset that women are inferior to men (literally children according to the new stickied post) can't be good for a healthy relationship. You can never have a partnership if you think your partner is incapable of taking care of his or herself.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/16 01:52 AM
8

Or she was attracted to him because he felt more confident. I will hand it to you that TRP does give men the confidence to approach women, but the way they treat women is horrendous.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/16 12:56 AM
8

Sure, there's correlation, but correlation != causation.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/16 05:44 PM
2

As an INTP, no. There are ways of sytematizing the world that doesn't dehumanize people. Given a subset of people, they aren't always going to react the same way in the same context. And given this system, it seems like women come out inferior to men in all respects. (I'm not delusional enough to think that women are always equal to men.) That's the bigger issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 07:15 PM
1

Who gives a shit? As long they're attracted to me and not cheating on me, I could care less about who else they're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 03:49 AM
1

What about women who work on their careers? Women who don't want to date yet, but are essentially good girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 04:27 PM
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