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Exactly. The content of The 48 Laws of Power is priceless IF you are intelligent enough to understand, adjust, and apply them within certain contexts. If you take no action, then the "laws" are useless. If you have no situational awareness or social intelligence, then the laws are harmful.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/23 02:38 PM
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Adversity makes men, and prosperity makes monsters. ~Victor Hugo Sorry for the loss. I felt the same way when I lost my grandfathers. They were the two best men I ever knew.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/23 02:25 PM
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Seems you are worried about what strangers on the internet will think… which is weak frame. Not really. When I said "many would point out" I was trying to demonstrate an anticipated reaction, not how I felt about it. I don't care what people think in terms of judgment because I know I am genuinely trying to better myself and am going to make several mistakes along the way. Harsh words on an internet forum from people I will never meet don't keep me up at night. That said, I do care about what pe…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/23 02:42 AM
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I respect your input, but I disagree. This is a Catch 22. If I discussed the specifics of everything I was doing with her along the way, many would point out that I was asking permission, creating covert contracts (e.g. if I show her that I will make more money then she might sleep with me more), or DEERing like a "betch" (someone has already said that in this week lol). On the other hand, if I make a plan to improve my situation and follow through to the best of my ability without her knowledge…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/23 11:04 PM
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Lol. I see your point, but I did not update her at all about looking for a second job, ask what she thought about any of this, or ask for her permission before signing the offer. My text to her basically said "I did this, and we are going on a vacation together in July." She shit tested me later about just keeping the first job, then quitting the first job for the second, but I said I was going to do both. I want to make more money to pay off my debt and go on a vacation in July (I fucking need …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/23 09:58 PM
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OYS 5 35 LTR 4.5 years | Married 9 months | No kids yet 5'9" | 182 lbs | 24% BF (lbs) BP 220 | OHP 155 | ATG SQ 255 | DL 295 ​ PURPOSE AND MISSION Purpose/Long-Term Goal: Obtain complete financial freedom so I can pivot my life into science and art, use the gifts God gave me to discover and create, and enhance the lives of myself, my family, and my community. Current Mission: Make More Money and Dominate Career ​ READING Current: MAP Done: Praxeology, TRM1-4, NMMNG, WISNIFG, TWOTSM ​ CAREER I si…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/23 05:58 PM
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This is a bit of a red flag. You are used to women who create drama. Why is that? In all honesty, I think I always liked the challenge of these women, and the sex is usually better. ​ I’m not sure if I’m right here but instead of labeling her, you have to seriously examine what in your behavior creates these patterns. 100%.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/23 01:45 PM
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If you convince yourself (or worse her) that she has a certain disorder that she in fact does not it can be quite damaging. I agree wholeheartedly.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/23 03:34 AM
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She may or may not have BPD, Attachment Disorders, NPD, OCD, whatever - but before you worry about any of that shit sort yourself out. It's funny how anxiety and resentment can disappear when you get your shit together. I definitely need to work on myself, no doubt. ​ According to who? People demonstrate all sorts of traits to suit all sorts of labels all the fucking time. Have a read of the Psychiatry DSM books and you'll diagnose yourself with at least half a dozen "disorders". According to th…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/23 11:53 PM
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Fixing the fridge is great but do you have an actual diet plan? I have been eating at least 180g of protein every day, consciously eating less, and avoiding gluten (makes me bloated) and sweets, but I have not started tracking all of my macros yet. You are right. ​ So you married this chick without working that out? Are you sure you're not using that label as an excuse for your shitty behavior/leadership. Both. I was with my wife for years before this, but some of the behaviors I was not aware o…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/23 12:43 PM
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OYS 4 • 35 • LTR 4.5 years | Married 9 months | No kids yet • 5'9" | 182 lbs | 24% BF • (lbs) BP 220 | OHP 155 | ATG SQ 255 | DL 295 Update is for 2 weeks. ​ PURPOSE AND MISSION Purpose/Long-Term Goal: Obtain complete financial freedom so I can pivot my life into science and art, use the gifts God gave me to discover and create, and enhance the lives of myself, my family, and my community. Current Mission: Make More Money and Dominate Career READING Re-reading sidebar. Current: TRM3 Done: TRM(1,…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/23 05:21 AM
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Yikes. u/ToMeIn20Years- Lift.
/r/askMRP01/05/23 03:10 PM
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I have to OYS post consistently at this point, I'm clearly still choking on the pill. No excuses. Lift, STFU, read and apply the sidebar, and post an OYS every week. I just started doing this again, and writing down my successes and failures every week keeps me on track. The critical feedback from other men in the comments is invaluable because it is honest and from an outside perspective. I actually just got a two-week ban for writing without frame and being a bitch, and it is exactly what I ne…
/r/askMRP01/05/23 03:08 PM
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OYS 3 (PART 3) Reflection What do I Need? Want? I am still thinking. Drafting a list of needs and wants is easy, but distinguishing between and simplifying them has been surprisingly difficult. ​ ACTION ​ Stop doing things fat people do and keep lifting Apply for jobs until I get a second remote job (ongoing) Finish the big things at work I have put off Continue defining my needs and wants in life, and determine which must come from my marriage Work on my writing project for at least an hour thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/23 07:12 PM
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OYS 3 (PART 2) RELATIONSHIP Misc. Highlights Wife has been at her parents’ house for two weeks with her extended family. I was there all last week. Went no contact for 3 days after she left following a nuclear shit test. I STFU and did not respond until her texts got nicer. I “Loved” her nice texts and completely ignored all of her shitty ones. Failed one comfort test, which set her off and reminded me to be more mindful to positively reinforce the good and ignore/negatively reinforce the bad. T…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/23 07:11 PM
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OYS 3 ​ 35 LTR 4.5 years | Married 8 months | No kids yet 5'9" | 184 lbs | 24% BF (lbs) BP 215 | OHP 150 | SQ 245 | DL 285 Out of town last week. A lot happened, so this is long and for two weeks. ​ PURPOSE AND MISSION ​ Purpose/Long-Term Goal: Obtain complete financial freedom so I can pivot my life into science and art, use the gifts God gave me to discover and create, and enhance the lives of myself, my family, and my community. Current Mission: Make More Money and Dominate Career ​ READING R…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/23 07:04 PM
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Good point. In all honesty, I had to re-write this because I almost wrote out the exact same fucking thing as before. I appreciate the reality check. I won't end my marriage when I am still the cause of most of its problems. I need to own my shit. If I don't, I will become a drunk captain again - whether it is in this relationship or a future one. Choosing to confront and overcome these personal challenges before ending this relationship helps me in every scenario because I will restore my self …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/23 02:59 PM
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It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. ~ Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 I went through a TRP journey before eight years ago, years before I met my wife. We are in a bad place right n…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/23 07:00 PM
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OSY 2 (Part 2) RELATIONSHIP ​ Highlights Wife was nicer, cooked me more food, and we had sex once with enthusiasm and no LMR. Things were a lot better until a few days ago. Wife put off buying a ticket to visit her family (again) and was about to waste a ton of money. I offered a solution and she exploded, yelling for several minutes straight, flailing her arms and crying. I DEERed at first, but after she interrupted a few times I did the right thing for the first time in years: I STFU. When she…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/23 02:44 PM
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OYS 2 35 LTR 4.5 years | Married 8 months | No kids yet 5'9" | 184 lbs | 24% BF (lbs) BP 210 | OHP 145 | SQ 235 | DL 275 ​ PURPOSE AND MISSION Purpose/Long-Term Goal: Obtain complete financial freedom so I can pivot my life into science and art, use the gifts God gave me to discover and create, and enhance the lives of myself, my family, and my community. Current Mission: Make More Money and Dominate Career ​ READING Re-reading entire sidebar for first time in 8 years. Current: NMMNG Done: WISNI…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/23 02:43 PM
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LOL Out of curiosity how so?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/23 09:59 PM
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OYS 1 (PART 4) SOCIAL LIFE AND HOBBIES We moved to a new city right after we got married about 7 months ago so she could go to school. I work remotely and LOVE the new city. I didn't know anyone, so I started doing BJJ and joined the Freemasons. These have both been awesome experiences and I have met a lot of really cool people. Even though I am a lower belt, my BJJ school wants me to become an instructor for the kid's and basics classes. I passed the first test to do this, and will start certif…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/23 04:29 PM
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OYS 1 (PART 3) - couldn't post another sub-comment for some reason. ​ CAREER I work in tech and am good at what I do. A few years ago I got fired for the first and only time. My boss was a brilliant engineer, but was a fat, immature, narcissistic beta who was too scared to rock the boat. I was hired as a Lead and worked long hours 6 days a week, also handling on-call issues from people all over the world by myself. Everyone, including upper management, recognized my hard work and made me employe…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/23 04:29 PM
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OYS 1 (PART 2) RELATIONSHIP (CONTINUED) Sure, the finances and bad shit that had happened to us were very stressful, but what she really needed was to know that the old me she fell in love with was present, taking care of shit, and that anyone and anything that shit tested me would be handled. It sounds weird if you haven't read the sidebar, but I also think she needed to know that I wasn't workout out again and finding new hobbies to leave her or fuck around. I wasn't showing her love in the wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/23 03:15 PM
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OYS 1 (4/3/2023) 35 LTR 4.5 years | Married 8 months | No kids yet 5'9" | 185 lbs | 24% BF (lbs) BP 210 | OHP 145 | SQ 235 | DL 275 First one is very long for me to track. This isn't just for you. RELATIONSHIP My wife is my favorite, and I love the shit out of her. She has added a lot of value to my life. 80% of the time there is no one I would rather be around, but 20% of the time she transforms into a childish hellspawn and I feel like leaving and going to South America for an Archer-inspired …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/23 03:11 PM
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OYS 1 Long-time lurker. This first one will be more broad. I was a lot more RP'd at the start of my LTR, but have gotten too comfortable in the last two years. Big fucking mistake. Please tear my ass apart. ​ STATS Age: 35 LTR 4.5 years / Married 5 months 5'9" 184 lbs at ~25.6% BF Bench: 215 lbs OHP: 145 lbs Squat: 225 lbs (coming off knee injury) DL: 255 lbs (coming off knee injury) ​ HEALTH Have been consistently losing weight and getting strength back for last five months, but am still fat. S…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/23 10:39 PM
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