RodVerga Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	What the "Pills" Get Wrong . . . You go with the hook up culture, instead of fighting against it and hold ppl accountable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/24 05:01 AM
–	Games and Goals? Look, this is not for you. And you might want to turn around. This is why the red pill says, "don’t red pill your friends." Which is a perfect example here. If you wanna help these guys you have to do it. If these institutions would actually help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 09:18 PM
–	Games and Goals? Yea, i can see why you’d think that, and i'm sure you’re right that it doesn’t work, and i'm sure you’re right about relationships, and how things work and so on. It is about doing it, and not needing it. I was sincere, TRP is just not for you and that’s just ok. You can argue here, and in reality it’s just guys, minding their own business and finding solutions to their problems, get their act together, pull themselves up, and who actually can blame them for taking the responsibility into their …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 08:59 PM
–	Games and Goals? And? The red pill sidebar is mostly free and mostly anything game related is free, problem is though, although it’s free and guy’s sharing notes with it each other which is also free. Guys still walking to those grifters, i guess if it almost doesn’t cost anything, it’s just not valuable enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 08:16 PM
–	Games and Goals? Nobody forces anyone to learn game, but also nobody is going to take the time to teach codependent guys a few things about how to cope with other people, and have human interactions. Usually the red pill approach is to make a nice guy aware of his dysfunctional behaviors, then he learns to assertively cope, and eventually game, he writes down field reports that help him to analyze his behaviors. It’s not for everyone, and i don’t want to talk down on you or belittle you, but it’s not for you. Yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 08:03 PM
–	Games and Goals? Understand that your typical pick up artist follower comes from a family with one codependent and one narcissistic parent. He grew up in a way to carry on this codependency which developed him into something you might think about a nice guy or a people pleaser. His personality won’t attract anyone, although everyone told him just to be himself and the right one will come. He has a total lack of boundaries (because he’s scared the girl would leave him) literally anything that makes him attractive…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 07:15 PM
–	What the "Pills" Get Wrong . . . Look it that way, if you casually date and don’t commit as soon some red flags are there, if you don’t commit if the girl doesn’t do something that isn’t a relationship skill. And then one girl does it, just because she likes you so much, and after the honeymoon phase she’s still the same. Then you probably have something close to the right girl. You’re not mad at the dating market, you just go with the flow, nothing is forced you don’t attract someone with a good job, being a good father, you j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 05:20 PM
2	If two guys go for a woman at the same time, what could you do to make her choose you? Open up to her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 02:30 PM
–	Most 50 / 50 LTR's will fail if you are the guy, if you want it to work, you have to exploit a power dynamic Imagine you brand yourself as an luxury item. Now, there’s a lotta tism in all of the spaces, don’t dress yourself up covered in gold dust like a slice of meat, and having some random asshole in sunglasses salt you up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 07:17 AM
3	Women are just as redpilled as men. I doubt that women or men can see behind their self deception by just reading a few books. The red pill after all puts yourself into a postion of harsh introspection and you alone being able to see the world in its blunt honesty and act in a way that is beneficial to you. Now everything discussed in the red pill is seen as sexist, misogynistic because there’s nothing that operates in our perceived morality. Men also face harsh realities themselves when their ego investment and build up fantasy o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 04:41 PM
1	What do you consider cheating? That’s one way you can deal with it. In case she never mentioned anything that she’s a party girl early on. I would personally go with just asking her "oh, is that’s what you wanna do tonight?" When she says yes, would just say "you have a wonderful outfit, have fun." Nothing more. When she goes, i disappear for a weekend somewhere or start looking for an exit plan i can’t sometimes decide on what’s better there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 09:53 AM
1	What do you consider cheating? That depends on your boundaries, and the early frame announcement. If she’s telling you early on "i like to go out to nightclubs." Then she’s going to nightclubs, so she won’t drop her habits just for you. You can then say that you usually don’t date girls who do this, and the rest isn’t in your control anyways. You might not want to judge, complain or negotiate your boundaries while dating, but you can always decide to give her freedom to screw it up if she wants to. And when she does something…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 09:29 AM
1	Any advice for how to read the sidebar with a degree of privacy? You’re reading this shit for years, and you still didn’t figured this out? Did you ever asked yourself.. What’s the worst thing that can happen when she reads your stuff? Like, the nature of the shittests will change and she’s getting in your way to get your shit done. Maybe just own your shit then, instead of mentally jerking off to the sidebar.	/r/askMRP	22/01/24 04:15 PM
2	How can a "nice guy" truly become a cocky, playful asshole ("bad boy")? Getting rid of Covert Contracts and Validation Seeking has to be the biggest bang for your buck. You want to become cocky funny because girls like you? That’s already your first covert contract. A guy here on reddit stating how secure he is in his masculinity, when a girl is venting about her boyfriend for being insecure while she’s actually done with him and wants to a girls night out and let it happen, but she has to resolve her from all blame? Validation seeking right there. Seriously, a nice…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 03:16 PM
3	Which side criticizes the other side more - "Red Pill" criticizing "Blue Pill" or "Blue Pill" criticizing "Red Pill"? One of the things i had to accept was not to red pill my friends. One is in a dead bedroom and his wife owns everything in his house, he works his ass off every day, goes home and works his ass off, he became a hollow shell from the guy he was before. He became a super nice guy because he is so afraid of his wife’s emotions, and i can’t understand how he thinks that this is normal. "She’s happy" he said, yea sure SHE is happy. He often makes jokes that they don’t have sex, but marriages are like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 09:39 AM
8	Women tell men how to be attractive not sexually attractive and men struggle because of it Interesting post. It’s a gigantic"i'm not like the other girls" flex, and typically men are problem slovers and think "oh women are more trustworthy than those evil assholes they complain about." It’s also a naive covert contract on the guy's side. Don’t we believe men who are a bit more self interested and aren’t ppl pleasers are assholes, just because women tell us these things all the time? Women talk negatively about the men their with sometimes, but these guys did something to attract the g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 01:06 AM
–	Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do? We buy basically into the self delusion of women, that resolves them from any blame. It’s not a bug, it’s a feature. In our time as ancestors, cave miranda didn’t had enough upper body strength to swing a club and was dependent on the tribe and hunters who brought food. The better she could hide the blame the safer she was in the tribe. We also protected women, or women manipulated us into protecting them doesn’t matter. And this is how we basically evolved as a species. I guess this sticks arou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 09:26 PM
1	Texting a girl: Keep it short and simple or she will run! Unintentional inconsideration is the thing you’re trying to explain here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/24 07:14 AM
1	What is love after swallowing TRP? "Red Pill Aware" Fucking red pill aware for several years, you’re not even aware of your own codependent traits, dude. Are you sure you "took" the red pill several years ago, and not just a little bit and then puked it out right afterwards? Right now i could link you at least 5 posts about 5 different issues you have, and none of it would work, because you don’t want that answer, all you want is some feel good emotions and let us know that you actually know jack shit about this stuff, because yo…	/r/askMRP	30/11/23 05:56 PM