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| 13 | Approach outcome from today | Field Report | RoddyChooch | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 10:26 PM |
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| 10 | The one belief that turned me from “nice guy with female friends” into the guy actually fucking themWoah this is super specific and awesome. Can you expand | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 12:59 PM |
| 7 | I Hit It First: Why A Girl’s Sexual Past MattersThat 2nd last line bruh. Wow. Gold | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 11:42 AM |
| 5 | Dating (for sex) while separationThanks for this. This is tough and helpful | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/23 02:08 AM |
| 1 | getting the number..Hey listen up pals The “wow she likes me” is possible cause it happened to me a long time ago. And it happened like this. At a strip club. She was standing beside me. I totally ignored her (honestly she wasn’t my type haha) and she eventually asked for a light. I obliged. We chatted I got her number and I have a stripper “girlfriend” for a summer. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 04:46 PM |
| 135 | Girl sent me a picture of her in a bikiniWhat’s tfti | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks.You’re making the assumption that OP is turned off cause of a guy with a huge cock instead of the more accurate portrayal that she herself made that she was extremely promiscuous in college. Totally different and it’s totally ok to not be ok with dating someone that’ majored in cock riding at the university of dick | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 06:15 PM |
| 3 | How to become a fuck boy, female edition?Step 1. Breathe Step 2. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 03:28 PM |
| 9 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedHow? | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 03:11 PM |
| 9 | How hard do you push for 50/50 when it’s not the default?I told my x from the start that anything less than 50/50 would mean I would spend every last penny in court And I was serious, and she knew that | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | What are some things I can do to be around more women?What is this? | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | 50 / 50 schedule suggestionsThis is The one I use. Not nesting. Seems to work with young children. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Young guy balding solutionsGo to Turkey. They do hair procedures for a fraction of the cost. You’re young enough that whatever you pay will be well worth having hair. Start googling. Edit: don’t own it, shave it, etc. Go and get hair | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | When I should I report cheater to HR?This is fucking trash and consider yourself blessed to now be able to rid your life of a HUGE pile of garbage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/22 03:29 PM |
| 27 | How to get laid on vacation?Holy shit man this is gold cause a lot of people need these kinds of specifics badly (like me lol) | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you deal with an ex-wife who is hyper-permissive as a co-parent?Shit someone please have a better answer!!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/22 04:24 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]What you do doesn’t matter. How successful you are and/or how passionate you are about it, matters more. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 09:53 PM |
| 13 | [deleted by user]It’s unfortunate but true. Because a back up will allow you to be the carefree cool king you are around ur insta star AND also give you a soft landing if she makes the mistake of leaving u. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 04:01 AM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]Always have a backup | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 03:53 AM |
| 31 | [deleted by user]The biggest issue is you’re waiting too long Women don’t have time for all these conversations lasting a minute! do you think women just stand around talking?!?! Next time open with a physical move. I like the shirt coming off but i think you’re sending mixed signals. Women appreciate directness. And do t want to waste time. So as you approach a woman you should (mostly) nude and erect so she knows you mean business! Also, if you’ve only been working out since November might wanna start with sma… | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Considering leaving, but I was unfortunately born with testiclesLeave | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/21 08:40 PM |
| 14 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?You have taught me well master | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 11:59 PM |
| 4 | Was asking for her number a dumb move in a grocery store?Excellent post | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Building masculine confidence, winking at women.....I’d love to hear the results of 1 week of winking ! Maybe do it at a coffee shop where you’re not wearing a mask? How it made u feel If you spoke to anyone | /r/seduction | 10/11/21 12:25 AM |
| 15 | [deleted by user]I’ve seen a lot of people say that they like their partner to have similar views on sex and that body count is one of the determining factors on that sexual view. There are others of course, but that kind of makes sense to me. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Takeaways after having sex with 3341 womenGotta slay a few dragons to find the princess, right? | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | What do I do when a woman is ranting about her ex's on first date?The best and arguably only thing to do in this situation is to slowly begin to reveal the miniature red pennent you’ve had tucked in your sleeve. You don’t make a grand show of it, just a slow deliberate reveal to which you will not refer to until the tiny red flag is fully exposed. She will defiantly see this and maybe even begin to comment, but do not fail, only politely ask her to continue, if she wishes. If she continues to speak, be ready to display the flag and shake it for 2 seconds, and … | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | What do I do when a woman is ranting about her ex's on first date?….Especially with that kind of suction and water flow!!! You see the cans in there? | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 03:49 PM |
| 7 | She Waited 6 WeeksThis hate is some of the fuel that will launch the next better version of yourself into the fucking stratosphere. Meditate and face every feeling every goddamn time they come. Right now they come like a fucking typhoon and intrude any sense of normal life. But don’t turn away from the emotions. Turn INTO them. Feel them. Because all they are are temporary. Although they come frequently, they only last so long. And talk to a therapist asap. They will encourage you to reach out and create a networ… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/21 01:10 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Whats the financial situation? How much do U make and how much does a she make? Maybe she knows ur a good provider but doesn’t want to settle for only that? Sounds like you need to ignore her or pull ur attention elsewhere maybe. Who knows. I fucking don’t at all so take this and all other Comments with a mountain of salt knowing that everyone’s comment are extremely biased to their own experiences lol and without intricate knowledge of ur relationship about as useful as throwing a dart at a boa… | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 10:12 AM |
| 6 | Seeing people dieJesus Christ I couldn’t read the entire post because it was so traumatic. You are doing work I am incapable of. Thank you and find peace | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/21 06:44 PM |
| 6 | I Think She Just Trying To Get Us To 10 YearsListen to your gut. She’s not changing. Protect yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/21 03:31 PM |
| 21 | What are your fastest hook up stories?How can one man have so many heroes? Maybe hero is a strong word, but on these occasions gentlemen, you were superhuman power fuckers | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 09:49 PM |
| 22 | I have a hiking date planned how do I end it with a kiss or makeout?Right at the start of the hike pretend to be need her hand to help you up. Even if the up is a flat path. Be playful and hang back a step and reach out your hand for her and say “a little help here”. She’ll know you’re messing with her and she will reach out and grab your hand and pull you or she will sly eye you and smirk at your obvi attempt at which point you say “We need to know we got each other’s back on these hikes…” or something silly like that. I think the best approach is to consider m… | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 11:59 AM |
| 3 | I (29M) asked my spouse (28F) to come home during our separation due to loneliness.. I’m realizing that I was happier without her being here.. I don’t know what to do.Hurry up. Rip off the band aid. Be a big boy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/21 10:45 PM |
| 1 | How to become this new person?Hey man lots of people seem to be down on this. Fuck them. You have goals and aspirations and are working towards them. That’s it. Not every hit is a grand slam but that doesn’t mean you don’t get up to bat mofo. Keep on keepin on as long as you’re learning and growing. | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Are you transparent about wanting casual sex?Game like a business What are your main aspects and how do you optimize each? | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Are you transparent about wanting casual sex?Please expand | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 04:14 PM |
| 11 | Hypergamy Doesn't Care, Whatever You Did For Her.That’s one thing I find troublesome with some of the tenets of the red pill. Our double standards. Because like you, I think about doing better once I get a girl. It is absolutely HUMAN nature. Or am I reading this wrong? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/21 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Texting for logistics is outdatedI’m open to suggestions for first dates | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/21 10:58 PM |
| 11 | If you are comfortable being alone, at ease with rejection, and have abundance mindset, you will rarely act needy with othersI think having a tribe and a romantic companion are very different. I doubt OP means to say not to have friends. Of course have friends. And spend time with them and talk to them. And also spend time alone pursuing passions. And also spend time in romantic relations. Do all of it. But don’t over emphasize the importance of the romantic aspect of life. | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Women are not mysterious. They appear mysterious because we have the wrong fundamental truths about them. Because the first woman in our life was the all-kind mother.As I read your reply I couldn’t help but think of how that would sound if you were talking about a man. Because to me it sounds exactly the same. We get bored and want different pussy constantly. Why are expectations different for a woman? Why are we as men, expecting different desires from women? We get bored, they get bored. Maybe for different reasons, as you say, they can’t help themselves and we actively seek out a variety of women. Maybe it’s always everyone’s turn with whoever they’re wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/21 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Women are not mysterious. They appear mysterious because we have the wrong fundamental truths about them. Because the first woman in our life was the all-kind mother.Did you see that study that found more sexual partners increases future cheating or something like that. So numbers do matter. We feel it in an instinctive level. That why we even discuss it. There is something about the quantity. I agree that it doesn’t mean that 2 women with the same number of sexual partners doesn’t mean both won’t/will cheat or are/are not damaged, but I feel chances increase with number of partners. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Women are not mysterious. They appear mysterious because we have the wrong fundamental truths about them. Because the first woman in our life was the all-kind mother.Damn 6ish sounds like a goddamn unicorn 🦄 | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/21 07:48 PM |
| 1 | I dropped the "only text to set up a date" rule and my results explodedMy man | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | If You’re Worried About Other People Seeing you Hit on Girls…Love this. It’s about the journey not the destination in EVERY PART OF LIFE | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/21 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Women are not mysterious. They appear mysterious because we have the wrong fundamental truths about them. Because the first woman in our life was the all-kind mother.This is downright reasonable. What got me is how OP equated notch count to damaged. And do I want to spend time with a damaged person? I’m still grasping the ‘my turn’ concept fully. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/21 02:06 PM |
| 0 | Women are not mysterious. They appear mysterious because we have the wrong fundamental truths about them. Because the first woman in our life was the all-kind mother.But I’m trying to nail down a reasonable number before a woman is so called ‘damaged’. Obviously it depends on age, but let’s say she’s done with the ‘Ho’ phase, what’s the uppermost count before she’s beyond hope haha | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/21 02:04 PM |
| 9 | Women are not mysterious. They appear mysterious because we have the wrong fundamental truths about them. Because the first woman in our life was the all-kind mother.Any theories on reasonable notch count for a woman? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/21 01:18 AM |
| 1 | My best week so farWhere r U finding the best approach location to be OP | /r/seduction | 30/05/21 11:47 PM |
| 4 | If You’re Worried About Other People Seeing you Hit on Girls…On my way. Another month, prolly closer to 2 and I’m ripped lol. But this “anxiety” of talking to 20ish year olds as a 43 year old for guy gets amplified somewhat. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/21 02:12 PM |
| 5 | If You’re Worried About Other People Seeing you Hit on Girls…Who’s got the rules for over 40 years. That’s what I wanna know | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/21 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Hour of power: a morning routine that leaves you feeling like a king for the rest of the dayThis is a really positive and encouraging way to start the day. I don’t know the type of breathing technique you mention, so I substituted a Kung-fu breathe and movement that I know. (The only Kung fu I know) I am glad to learn about different music and there defiantly something there, feeling and primal soul. I was trying a intermittent fasting thing for a while and now I like the feeling of getting hungry around noon and I don’t feel like I need to eat. Btw I love to eat. Too much so losing 15… | /r/seduction | 15/05/21 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Hour of power: a morning routine that leaves you feeling like a king for the rest of the daySecond comment on this post. THIS MORNING I did 11/12 recommendations (not the bonus). I don’t eat breakfast except for an espresso with a touch of almond milk and a raw egg yolk Honestly felt great! Not sure I’ll keep the Nordic music, but the 2 minute cold shower was HARD. fucking felt great after. Got me ready for an early morning workout while doing laundry and general tidying. Fuck I wish that shower wasn’t so intense cause that was an epic psyche job I had to lay on myself to step into tha… | /r/seduction | 14/05/21 08:33 PM |
| 5 | Hour of power: a morning routine that leaves you feeling like a king for the rest of the dayThis is awesome. | /r/seduction | 13/05/21 10:37 PM |
| 12 | Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women?Yep | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 12:46 AM |
| 1 | [Field report] Got a number after jaywalkingThis guy fucks (on Thursdays) | /r/seduction | 05/05/21 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Could have picked a better spot but oh well.I’m next in line. That thing looks sweet | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 03:24 AM |
| 19 | Typical THOT encounterIs this a stupid question. What’s doublelist | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/21 04:02 AM |
| 2 | ?? Look her in the eyes??Wear sunglasses. Be busy. Stare at her nose. I can’t look at my ex either. I think for the same reason that you can’t. Mine said to me “you’re not even looking at me” to which I replied nothing. So if you get good advice on how to deal with this, I’m interested | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/21 03:36 AM |
| 5 | Approach outcome from todayThanks man. You are correct sir. The hardest part is the beginning. And the whole time before the approach you’re scared. But the moment you make contact, even tho it might feel like fear, it’s not. It’s excitement. | /r/seduction | 26/04/21 03:33 AM |
| 3 | Give 4-5 short bullets on what you think it takes to be successful with women, or to be successful in general. No paragraphs.This made me laugh | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Is the connection is starting to disappear?This sounds like you need a page from the mma rule book: ground and pound. Ok that’s obvi a joke so if you get upset fuck off | /r/seduction | 11/03/21 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Prenup for a pension?You wouldn’t get a portion of the house. You would be entitled to half the increase in price from the date of marriage. She would only be entitled to half your pension for your married years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | I’m at a lossI’m sorry. That sounds so bad. I think you know when it’s time. And you know what is keeping you from following through. Spend some time to consider what you want from your life. We’re you ignoring red flags all along? Is she going through something? You know the answer to your question better than anyone else. And if you need support in your choices and what that will bring, this is a great group for that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/21 10:42 PM |
| 4 | I’m newBetter now than 10 years from now | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/21 02:50 AM |
| 4 | Telling my Child!!As much as it’s hard and terrible, at least your ex is seemingly also putting the child first. It not always like that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/21 02:22 AM |
| 4 | Does it get better with time?I’m 42, we ended almost 5 months ago. Things are not yet settled in the separation. But I’m wondering if your twice a week times with your son is 50/50? If not, do it. I know how hard the beginning is for sure. Just day after day of uncontrollable emotions and pain. Keep reading and looking for ways other people have overcome this. You’re not the first and won’t be the last. And it’s not just getting used to a shittier life. It’s another chance to live. Therapy, exercise, hobbies and other stuff… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/20 03:51 AM |
| 8 | Gotta move back in with parents, sighIt’s not the end and not as bad as you feel it is right now. Focus on yourself and your kids. You don’t gotta move back in - you GET to move back in. Take all the love and comfort you can get right now. And re- emerge the fucking mounting LION you were destined to become. Yes. Mounting. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/20 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Depression is killing me after my breakup. I lost passion and purpose in everything. I feel that I need someone I can love and who loves me back, and to share our life moments together. I can’t live without it. What should I do?This is it. Doesn’t matter if she’s not even close to as hot as ur ex. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/20 03:49 PM |
| 3 | The Line Of Fuckability - Why It's Completely Normal To Get Almost No Results At First And Why You Should Never Get DiscouragedTexting game is not easy to get. I don’t have it down. But I find myself more cocky and assured when texting a girl that I don’t care what they think. So when a girl is hot, I trick myself into thinking she’s a pig and proceed that way. I’ll let you know how it goes. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/20 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Long and long-overdue: Escaping HerAre you a writer? That was clear and real. Poetry. I am so hopeful for your future. Grab that shit with 2 hands and ride on brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/20 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Wife wants me back, should I consider?There are really solid posts here. Your situation sounds similar to mine. And it’s recent like playing out now. I can already feel her softening and soon she will regret her decision. But I will never take her back. Never. And I know already how shit this is for me and just going to be shittier for a while, emotionally, financially etc. BUT anyone that would choose to cause me this amount of pain and hardship is someone that needs to be removed from my life as much as possible (we also have 2 ki… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/20 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Doubt sidebar, pay the price.Thanks. Can’t see a sidebar on my phone. But I will start | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/20 02:52 PM |
| 2 | How to stop being lazy/unmotivated/unfocused.Why the Star Trek metaphor didn’t use Data is a mind fuck I’ll never understand. For so many reasons. Firstly Spock is half human so even if he’s that logical, he’s still doesn’t compare to Data. Data is a robot. That would seem more in line with reporting on behaviours/thoughts Spock is from the 60s! Meaning people that watched Star Trek are at least 70 years old assuming they were in their 20s watching Star Trek. What’s the percentage of redditors on their 70s especially in TRP Spock is also h… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/20 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Doubt sidebar, pay the price.I need so many things in this post explained. What is study sidebar And what is frame | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/20 12:56 AM |
| 1 | I was a different man, and have changed thanks to this sub.So what’s ur top 5 takeaways from TRP? Let’s hear specific knowledge you took to heart from here. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/20 10:22 PM |
| 9 | I Feel Like I'm Choosing Between My Kids and a CarWhat you are going through sounds hard. I don’t have an answer but I can lend an ear. I’m so sorry for this new situation. From what I read in this group, things get a lot better when you make the right moves for yourself. If that’s getting in shape, connecting with friends, new hobbies etc. Message me if u want to talk. I’ve connected with a few guys going through the process and it’s helped me, and I’d like to think I’ve helped them too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/20 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Leaving, but ThanksLove to see people reach the next step of the journey. It gives someone just starting out, like myself, hope and a tangible example of a positive future. Good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/20 03:33 PM |
| 4 | Laid off yesterday and now wife wants me out by the end of the monthUpdate? Did you tell her to leave? Or tell her you’re not leaving? Both are fine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/20 10:17 PM |
| 2 | 4 simple Activities/Habbits to develop during quarantine in order to transform yourself.Thanks for this. Just getting acquainted and appreciate that a so called ‘basic’ post is here for guys like me that are just beginning. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/20 10:40 PM |
| 1 | It's been almost 5 months, it still isn't great, but it gets betterHey johnfoof In the same boat. If ur up for a chat let talk. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/20 09:37 PM |
| 1 | I beat the system! How ya like me now?!?!?Awesome to hear. You father the ever living sunshine out of those kids now!!!! | /r/MensRights | 11/05/20 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Pain and anger.Hey Johnsjustbsai.... I’m in the same situation. I connected with someone on reddit and we’re having another zoom meeting tonight to help sort through the pain. Be more than happy for you to join us. Just a couple of guys in pain starting the process. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/20 04:24 PM |
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