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You can also just take her away from the bar where you drink and take a walk, grab some food, etc. This means you would drink one drink and then perhaps some cheapo street-food, while having fun. 1) it's cheap 2) You'll be taking her around, making the date seem longer. 3) You get to establish kino easy, throw out some innuendo 4) you can go whenever you want. Either with or without her..
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:53 PM
1

Okay? And the question?
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:51 PM
1

Dress better.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:49 PM
9

"You are brave; approaching a woman so much higher in value than yourself" is what they mean.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:38 PM
2

I wouldn't.. Being too obvious in what you can offer will only attract the wrong women imo. You should breathe and vibe your high value, not pitch it. Women know within 5-10 seconds whether you are or not high value to them and this should not be based on your little sales pitch. This is where your frame comes in. Your frame is the way you behave, act and carry yourself. If you carry yourself appropriately, she'll follow.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:37 PM
1

Do anything really. You can do jumping jacks, passive hangs or whatever else comes to mind. I myself have moved to full body routines in supersets. It's effective and gets me sweating. But I'm a 33 year old geezer, so you might wanna add some running into it.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:34 PM
26

She wants YOU to be exclusive. Not you both. She doesn't want you to get laid while she gets her brains fucked out. I'd just hard next her. This is the kind of girl that will "save the right man for being a husband" while riding the CC till 30 and then expects you to have waited for her. Work on the abundance mentality and tell her to suck it.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:32 PM
1

So what? Go alone and own it if you can't find anyone. The only thing that scares you is the opinions of others, while that should matter the least.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:18 AM
1

A woman sending another man pics is never a good sign. Pretty clear she's considering or already trying to monkey branch
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:16 AM
8

lol she's your FWB, not your exclusive GF. If you wanted her exclusive, now you have the answer why you shouldn't. She is your FWB cause she doesn't want anything else. She owes you nothing. FWB =/= casual dating. Don't expect exclusivity from Plates and FWB that's where you went wrong.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:12 AM
2

Invite her on a date instead and you can set the conditions.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:09 AM
7

You have a car right? It happens to me almost weekly that I meet kids having sex in the car at night when I walk my dog. I think this is the common solution.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 03:10 PM
4

Haven't read it. Know a lot of guys (High SMV ones) who just say what they expect from a woman and they either comply or move on.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 03:07 PM
1

You don't have to. Unless you do not want to be seen as weak, or be abused or taken for granted or put into orbit, cheated on. Then yes, you have to.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:51 PM
2

What is your question? It seems more like a self-aware rant. I definitely do not feel guilty. Do you think a woman who cheats on you, or puts you in orbit feels guilty? No, it validates her. So she feels good.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:46 PM
1

Sidebar
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:27 PM
5

Yes going full RP doesn't work. Going full BP doesn't work either cause she'll lose respect. You need to pass shit tests, pass comfort tests, apply dread on the right times and take serious grievances serious. You seriously need to get to know your partner in that regard and being full on RP will definitely not that. As a married RP, I can tell you once you get the hang of this balancing, it gets easier. But especially inexperienced and too much on one side of the coin will get 1) estranged 2) b…
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:21 PM
1

I let plates call me. get enough plates on rotation that you get weekly invites. Most plates I had would call me between 2-3 weeks after our last meeting, without contact in between
/r/askTRP28/02/20 12:27 PM
1

Tell her to call you after she's done there for some action. too late now, but keep that in mind next time. You don't decline HER attention, just not in a group setting.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 12:18 PM
1

That's how you do it. "Punish" bad behaviour by reducing attention. This generally works best when women are whining, just to whine. If she has real grievances, it will bite you in the butt. But IMO, you dealt with this the way you should. Now when you see her again, try to refrain from lecturing her. She knows what she did wrong. Now keep this up and she'll often stop trying to make drama just for drama. It took my wife about 8 months to get to the conclusion she'd rather leave the drama and ha…
/r/askTRP28/02/20 12:17 PM
1

I'm actually considering doing some bare-knuckle boxing classes, cause it deals with the realities of real fights.. How to strike, where to strike, what kind of strikes. Blocking is different with or without handguards, etc. Check on youtube for bareknuckle and you'll see how different it is from most contact sports.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 12:13 PM
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FDS is the same for women as MGTOW is for men IMO. Most of them pretend to only want something specific, while they actually roleplaying.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 12:12 PM
9

Yes. Stop drinking so much so you will remember
/r/askTRP28/02/20 10:24 AM
5

you can only improve your craft by practicing. So you are standing your own improvement in the way. There are more effective ways to please a woman and you know it.. Practice makes perfect. Shying away from it cause you suck, will make sure you stay bad. In the end, most women I have been with got their kick from making me cum.. So whatever on how fast I come. Stop worrying, embrace the parts of sex you enjoy and relax. The more you worry, the less chance it stays hard. Even if you are a one-pum…
/r/askTRP28/02/20 08:40 AM
1

That's the issue I would be fine with. To prioritize family and loyalty over my dick. I think your priorities are off here bro.. But hey, not my choice to make. But I find the issue you care about cringy.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 08:36 AM
3

Yeah. But OP should have indicated that when bro asked. Not promise he won't tell and then spill the beans.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 08:20 AM
1

So, why is this problem with detaching even a thing, if you go and hamster it out when someone is making a remark about it?
/r/askTRP28/02/20 08:17 AM
1

I wouldn't even consider LTR-ing a woman that hasn't gone independent at that age. Fuck that, she has no idea on how living alone is or with people who are not her parents. That's a no go for me. Independency is high on my list of vetting criteria. Both emotional and financial.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 08:03 AM
3

So what's your question? And also, I don't actually see it on here that often
/r/askTRP27/02/20 03:58 PM
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hahahhaha.. This is why being a billy beta does not pay off.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 03:32 PM
8

Im pretty sure stopping smoking weed will do wonders..
/r/askTRP27/02/20 03:31 PM
135

Sounds like you worry too much. Nothing gets your dick softer than worrying about it getting hard..
/r/askTRP27/02/20 03:30 PM
6

But is it cause it was her, or the idea you had of her. Were you in love with her, or the concept of her? Probably the latter
/r/askTRP27/02/20 12:12 PM
11

Learn your lesson and continue, what else can you do.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 11:52 AM
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Realise it's temporary. It's the mourning phase we go through when we lose something we valued. Sit tight, keep focused on your work out and you'll get better.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 11:29 AM
4

Most hiring managers are women. Women like to brag about things they know squat about. Only one way to find out, thought lying is against everything I personally build my frame on and I wouldn't want to get a job like that.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:59 AM
14

Yep, cause a guy who knows his way around women is attractive to women. They do not understand it doesn't work like that the other way around.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:57 AM
2

Ok. He's telling you these sentences are indicators though. Take from it what you want. I don't care, in the end you came for advice
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:56 AM
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Talk to him. Good. Talk to her: Not good. Now we have established this, I'd tell him you see him as a friend, not a competitor, but if he keeps behaving as a competitor you can't be friends. it's about 50/50 in the sense of men fucking friends girls. I would never, I know some of my "friends" would. He can be attracted, all good. But acting upon it would mean he's not a friend. Ask him whether he'd think losing a friendship over a girl is worth it, cause it's not about the girl. It's about the r…
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:55 AM
1

Social proof is social proof. If one woman is on a date with you, you must have some value, according to woman. So yeah, it doesn't matter and will not hurt you at all.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:51 AM
1

Oneitis is what he means.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:50 AM
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no she isn't. Women will want what other woman have. That's why a wedding ring attracts women like shit attracts flies. She's trying to reverse the tactic that would make HER want YOU more. But she doesn't realise we men don't think the same way.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:50 AM
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Women want, what other women want. So they think if they brag about their sexual escapades, that you will want her more. She can't understand we men are not like that. She's trying to get you jealous, cause that's what she would be. Instead, most of us men are disgusted, but she doesn't realise this and never will. Cause women can't see out of their own perspective. She's hoping to gain more interest from you, for more than just plating, in completely the wrong fashion.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:48 AM
1

Be happy lol, it saved you shiploads of bullshit
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:46 AM
9

Work in a coffeeshop first to see whether it's actually something you'd like to do. Other than that, learn on basic restauranteur finances, management and more importantly cause you enter a highly competitive market: effective branding.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:45 AM
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First off, this is not an US only sub, so keep your silly politics to yourself. Second, I truly don't care.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:44 AM
1

rejection means that this one person in more than 3 billion did not like you romantically. There are still millions of women left to be rejected by, don't give up on the first try cause it hurts. Realise it's not the end of the world and continue trying. Perseverance wins
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:42 AM
0

They are checking whether your change is just physical, or also mental. The fact that you "ignore" it, makes it clear it's just a physical change and not mental. Instead, engage them into banter. You don't have to win, in order to be accepted. However, winning would be the best. I used to go to school and be in a group of 25 women as the only male. One guy really couldn't handle that and was always jealous and would always, always try to make fun of me. I always one upped him and after a year he…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 03:36 PM
1

Hey! Me too. But once my muscles started piling on, my genes at least helped me look really nice and lean. I lack strength though.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 03:28 PM
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1) she probably already did 2) she probably wants to imply you are untrustworthy for going out with her. 3) you don't owe her or your plate shit.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 03:19 PM
1

Internet history means browsing history? If so, stop lying
/r/askTRP25/02/20 04:07 PM
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It's not good looking, or their nerves. | 1st night approaching. Your game sucks. Any other idea you got out of this is delusional. Social proof helps, it doesn't get your laid in and on itself.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:45 PM
2

Hard next for me. Can't respect my privacy is the 1st amendment of me dumping her ass
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:43 PM
1

probably already found him, but wants to have a test ride before she decides.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:25 PM
2

Dude. The comment above is /thread. When women want a break, it's over. If it's not officially over, I can promise you her sexual attraction is gone, she fucked another guy and then realised you might not be so bad.. NExt
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:25 PM
20

Oh, the guy who can only neg for game. That's not how gaming works.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:24 PM
3

Sounds more like you are not sure how to make her feel wanted and comfortable and you are pushing her away.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:07 PM
13

Okay. So as a married RP dude, I guess I could add some to this. Never stop lifting. Great point from /u/britishhumourOnly not only do you want to keep HER interest up, you want to keep other interest up. You want to make sure your LTR knows you are there by choice. and that you have more than enough options should you get bored. Make sure to apply dread properly. Sometimes you want to apply dread, but you can overdo it, underdo it or not do it at all cause your mindset is wrong. You definitely …
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:03 PM
1

I'm preparing with a great deal of scepticism and realisation that this virus is mostly dangerous to people who are vulnerable in the first place. Preparing to keep my child (4 months old) in quarantine, but other than that I'm looking the cat out of the tree as we Dutch people so. It's probably not gonna end up killing most of the workforce.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 02:52 PM
2

Lol. Got eastern Europeans throwing themselves at me over the last year. Awalt. Around where we talking? I've had so many Bulgarian, Romanian and Hungarian women on my dick I can't really believe.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 04:02 PM
2

We hope not, but generally, I would. And still your entire idea of 1 ONS and not a virgin as a parameter for vetting is, laughable. God, how fucking delusional are you?
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:43 PM
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Lol.. Basing whether to next cause she's a virgin. Unless you plan to hit on 15-18 year olds, chances you'll find a virgin are minimal. Remember the phrase: It's not your girl, it's just your turn. This implies a whole different something. People who have Virgin as a criteria are out of this world and IMO, retarded.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:28 PM
8

"I am too alpha" - Yeah, probably not at all. You can hardly decide yourself to be the alpha and expect others to just follow on that. Being aloof and unreliable (to just fuck them and leave them alone) is not necessarily alpha. I wonder what your "natural dark triad traits" are.. cause this shit sounds cringy as fuck. Being a cringelord is not alpha fyi.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:27 PM
8

You can't "spin a plate" if you haven't fucked her yet. She's a prospect, an opportunity, but definitely NOT a plate.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:25 PM
4

I dunno man, as long as you hit your macro's, who cares? Beans are actually the main source of protein for most vegan people and are more than good enough. This about the quality being worse is, BS as far as I know. I personally hit my macro's with real food, rather than supplements, but everyone their own.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 10:10 AM
1

Well, what is it you normally eat? Any chances you can cheap it up with eating more beans for example?
/r/askTRP20/02/20 09:45 AM
1

I avoid it cause of addiction, price-tag and the 2-day down I have afterwards. What is the downfall? to not take your down as is and try to compensate it with more drugs. It's what people do: I felt good on drugs, now I feel bad Ergo I need more drugs. Not realising it's the drugs after effect that made them feel bad in the first place. Once you et into that pattern, you won't just get out like that.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:25 AM
1

Pick clothing that suits you, your style and your body. Not someting that looks good on a rack or has a brand on it. Fuck me, I'm mostly made up out of brandless clothes and medium range clothing. Find your own style and clothing, instead of following brand shit blind. At my work we have a guy who does this. Just throws brand shit together and thinks he looks fly. He looks funny most of the time. It's sad, cause I'm sure it was super expensive.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:22 AM
1

to get more girls home: Maybe a more sensual vibe, rather than fun. Make them want you. It seems to me you are the fun guy, rather than the sensual dude she wants to experience.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:18 AM
3

A girl with a BF that wants to hang, wants to fuck... IF not, you can always kick her out consequently.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:12 AM
1

Focus your anger towards improvement instead of to yourself or others. Let is be your initial motivation for change.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:11 AM
6

I never took dates out for drinks. Always something else, like a game of pool, darts, go-karting. Stuff that's active and doesn't need to involve alcohol to be fun. In general, most TRP-ers would advise you to not drink, or with restraint.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:10 AM
2

Alpha widowed probably. Ask her who ended it. Probably him. If so, she's pretty much always available to him. I'd be nexting her for the disrespect. She didn't pick up cause the tone of voice of the convo would piss you off. That's why she send a message, she doesn't want to disappoint him.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:08 AM
5

Take a shower right before, most women won't at first cause they think it's dirty.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:05 AM
2

Cause women don't wanna know. They want to think you just became like that, poof.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:04 AM
2

Weval - Half Age EP Great stuff to have on the background IMO https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y1Ciu6_SPs0&list=OLAK5uy_l05_eFtmrVkdMVbCS-RdICnfzySuwRD40
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:02 AM
2

I always walk around buttnaked in the gymlockerroom. Why would I care whether other people see me naked? I'm not extending my time naked, but I definitely not gonna hurry up so others won't see my dick. Find that a problem? Not my problem. Definitely not gonna go out of my way to hide my dick with a towel, or wear half wet underwear or other things I see guys do.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:01 AM
1

Lol, beta boy checking in. Still roleplaying here mate?
/r/askTRP19/02/20 09:59 AM
1

Why you don't escalate twice? That's as good as a rejection as it gets. You friendzoned her unintentionally cause you were too insecure to escalate... It's not a test, she's trying to reconcile herself with the fact that she wants more from you than you from her. If that's not what you wanted, why didn't you escalate?
/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:37 PM
8

Jealousy is the first step to oneitis. This is one of the reasons why the abundance mentality is important.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:32 PM
0

Lol @ your edit: in fact, it doesn't matter. If your frame and game is in order, the "state of the girls" doesn't matter at all. You complain about getting wrong answers, when your question is retarded to start with. In addition, I couldn't help but laugh at: "'m a STEM guy on the FIRE path. In 10-15 years I'll be a multimillionaire" Ok bro. How about you get there first instead of pretending and roleplaying the shit out of it here.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:24 PM
0

Never. Unless my wife specifically asks for a more tender lovemaking. Else, no.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 02:21 PM
5

Psychedelics are a much better alternative, and the probability of abusing them is much lower, as you build up tolerance and cannot take them frequently. It doesn;t do the same. It doesn't give you the dopamine rush that makes you forget about the outcomes, people's opinions etc. Psychedelics are great, but not the same. What OP should know is that this is gonna be the best time he ever had on coke and that every experience he's gonna have again, is gonna be less special and great. In the end, a…
/r/askTRP18/02/20 01:52 PM
1

Frame is not something that happens. It's what you build, if you can't "Keep frame" perhaps you should re-evaluate cause your frame should be your natural way of keeping yourself. Also, realise that the "nothing in life goes right" is a way to make yourself a victim rather than the captain. Beat those thoughts out, cause it makes someone else the blame for your decline, while you are the only responsible person. What do I do when life throws me curveballs? I persist, learn my lesson and continue…
/r/askTRP18/02/20 01:25 PM
2

You wait next time with suggesting a new meet. Look my rule for plates was this and it worked fine: Never suggest any meets. If you fuck them well enough and do not pay a lot of attention to them, they will come to you. Instead of worrying about when to do things right, start learning how to fuck them silly so they can't help but want to come back. For the girls atm, leave it. Learn the lesson and find the next.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 02:07 PM
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If you stop the Soda's and energydrink and replace it with water, you'll have money for decent food and start cooking yourself! I myself have actually worked out on a bad diet when I started and I gained about 15KG.. So I kind of disagree on that one, but hey whatever. Seems to me the top quote you have there is spot on and you know it. Stop bringing you down, it's the only person who can do that and you are doing a great job of it.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 02:05 PM
3

You might have seemed too eager and she backed off, cause an overeager dude is no good news.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 01:57 PM
3

Ok. So let's start with: Why did/do you behave like that? Was it cause you didn't know how to profile yourself in a different way? You make things better by communicating, pretty much always. Look, if she disrespected you without a reason, withdrawing attention might have been enough. But as you set this tone and never told her you are done with it, you can't do this without seeming salty and unfair. Perhaps before you do anything else, you should analyze how you come across and how you WANT to …
/r/askTRP11/02/20 09:26 AM
3

I understand. However, you set the tone for social interactions and if you don't like it, you'll have to communicate that. Also that you won't be doing it yourself anymore. If you do it to her, expect the ball to be returned.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 09:24 AM
4

Definitely. I was a bit like this and it took me a while to realise how true is what you said: I was accepted cause a few people in the group did like me.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 09:15 AM
2

Well you are right. However most women who get to that stage would already accept some things are different. I'd not get too much inside my head over that and let it come as it comes. He tried to change it, he can't.. Should OP sit in a corner and cry his sorrows away?
/r/askTRP11/02/20 09:15 AM
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Yeah.. Typical sign of insecurity. Trying to bring himself up on others back, but unwilling/able to carry that weight when put on himself.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 09:10 AM
1

You are young. Work on yourself, learn to create a mindset of abundance by ignoring these thots.. Learn to be happy on your own, find your own values and build yourself into the person you want to be. At this moment, that's easier than ever, though it requires thought and persistence. So, what are the values you want to represent, how do you represent them and build on an iron will that can't be broken by words. That would create a super strong frame that you will benefit immensely from in the f…
/r/askTRP11/02/20 09:09 AM
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Dude.. Nobody is perfect. Wear your skin issues with pride and when people ask about it, explain it's a condition and you can't change it. And then just continue doing what you are doing. Everyone can see your skin is not the best, everyone understands you'd be insecure. It's the situations that you project confidence that people will admire you even. Cause it takes guts to just accept the fact you have this and deal with it so casually. Take pride in how you deal with it in confidence. In the e…
/r/askTRP11/02/20 09:06 AM
59

Well.. you do it yourself. Stop doing it if you can't take a taste of your own medicine to be honest.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 09:03 AM
1

it's not your job to be a hero. Being the hero is more Blue pilled than red pilled to be honest. For me, based on all you say: You'll need to figure out WHO you want to be, how you want to be and what your values are. I would suggest to consider frame, consider what you want to be, how you want to be perceived and where you want to be. RP behaviour comes with experience and with knowing what you want to be or how. I was raised in a family where my right to existence, my usefullness and pretty mu…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:42 PM
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It really doesn't matter lol. It makes no sense to starve yourself, just to get stronger. When you get eat a little less and still build some muscle.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 02:57 PM
1

Even if competing, they will not maintain that BF throughout..
/r/askTRP10/02/20 02:56 PM
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Lol 40 mins.. No fucking way i'm gonna watch someone that takes 40 minutes to make a point.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 02:31 PM
1

LTR-ing isn't being Alpha all the time. Please read about LTR cause this is almost cringey. You need to adapt to the situation and read your LTR for what she needs at moments. At moments she needs Alpha guidance, at other moments, you just need to support her. Always setting up the hard face isn't the best solution. Also, another TRP mistake that I see (and even see TRP veterans repeat) is that your frame should be something to hold. Your frame should be your Frame of reference. THe way you hold…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 02:17 PM
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Yes. Do you want to give off the vibe of a friend? Or do you want to have a sexual vibe? Bro or mate is NOT sexual and definitely kills the vibe you should be giving off.. So yes, stop it cause it makes no sense. Half of getting women in your bed is keeping a sexual vibe, sensation. Bro or mate are not words for that vibe. Becoming friends with them will get you into orbit. Not into their pants.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 02:12 PM
1

Write down: "I love me. Loving myself is the basis for any affection I can give." on 100s of pieces of paper and hang it around the house. Celebrate yourself, celebrate achievements, milestones and compliment yourself. Realise you are the only person you can be sure that will be there your entire life and that loving and accepting yourself is key to happiness. Write down your great characteristics and celebrate it. Write down your lesser characteristics and find ways to reinforce them into stren…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 11:56 AM
2

calling them out on their behaviour. LOL. Unless you are in an LTR, calling out behaviour really is pointless and is super fucking beta. Cause you are trying to tell them how to live their lives, while you don't mean shit to them. And women taking responsibility? LOLK And god, get your head out of your ass. YOu aren't gods gift to women. I'm sure there are tons of guys who think the same, but have a 3/10 SMV. Base your SMV on your experiences, not your fantasy. Where is your abundance mentality?…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 11:31 AM
3

Don't worry too much bro. if you are in a 5 year LTR, you must be doing several things right. Really. No worries.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 11:21 AM
9

Comfort test are different than shit-tests, though often mixed up. A shit test are tests to question whether or not you are fit to be with them. Comfort tests are usually a sign that your woman sees you have having a significantly higher SMV than her. She is looking for reassurance that you won't leave her (and her offspring). If you are LTR-ing and want to keep it thta way, this is where the dance between Alpha and Beta starts. You want to keep her interested and see you as an Alpha, but you wa…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 11:14 AM
2

Regret is pointless. Learning from your mistakes, appreciating the experiences gained and applying both for the future is the lesson you learn here. Regret is pointless. Learning is useful.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 11:05 AM
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Get out of your head and into the world. Women and their attention are redundant and stop getting into your head about a few words said to a thot. Don't let your own fear of failure narrow down your life. Have fun.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 11:02 AM
1

I would always prioritize anything that benefits myself first. Self development, working out, getting healthy.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 10:58 AM
1

Sooo, stop gaming in the club if it doesn't work for you. In general, women in clubs and bars are already in defensive mode, so it IS harder to actually keep it going. Instead, game girls at your hobbyclubs etc.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 10:56 AM
9

It doesn't really matter. Just cause you dream of her, doesn't mean she has to be in your life.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 10:55 AM
15

I can honestly hardly imagine a guy who can't show affection being in a 5 year LTR. Perhaps what you see as "affection" is over the top for her. Perhaps your indirect or gruffy show of affection is already picked up by her. I am also not as affectionate as some others may be, but my wife KNOWS me and knows what counts as a show of affection from me. If you aren't bombarded with comfort tests at all time, it seems to me you hit the mark already. So the question is: HOW is your 5 year LTR? What wo…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 10:52 AM
1

Depends. I might go to an African, Eastern European or even South American country and get shitloads of IOI's. Depends on how you look, where you from, etc. When I moved to Eastern Europe, shit was easy as fuck.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 03:00 PM
1

Definitely true.. A bad dicking will absolutely make her find better
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:56 PM
2

What's the point of trolling guys seeking advice. For worst, they may pick your advice to try out and learn some people are assholes cause they are impatient with newbies.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:45 PM
1

The thing is that you are not around. She can easily meet a guy that makes her go all tingly and you can't stop that. She probably met a guy that can give her the attention she needs now. TbH, 24h is nothing, but keep this possibility in mind, cause it happens way more often than not.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:37 PM
1

I never return. They either come back to me, or not. No big loss.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:29 PM
1

Who cares. You imply you have more than 1 plate so 1 breaking shouldn't be too much of an issue. I wouldn't have fucked her in the first place I think. Hell No I wouldn't. thank you very much. Especially since I have more plates, I'd considered her broken. Dunno, don't care. Don't play their silly games. Again, I wouldn't be fucking these 2 women in the first place cause I like to keep my friends and sexual activities split up. Seems its fine if both are doing fine. Seems a long post for a humbl…
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:26 PM
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It was a comfort test, not a shit test. The issue for her is that she wants more and you basically told her: NO. She was fishing for another invitation and some validation and instead you told her she's redundant. Whether that's good or bad, depends on your own perspective on LTR-ing or plating her.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:21 PM
2

Depends on the cost of replacement. Who cares? Learn to accept we make mistakes and sometimes have to deal with the consequences and that it doesn't decrease your value. It's a mistake, it's human and it's fine as long as you learn your lesson.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:20 PM
4

Dude.. Stop making excuses. Most likely your "erectile dysfunction" is in your head. You think you can't get hard and its a fucking self fulfilling prophecy. If you worry too much, it won't work. Also, Abundance. You aren't official with her, no need to care too much. If she won't, you'll find another. You are the gatekeeper to commitment and in no situation should you show commitment until you had sex and even then I suggest to hold off. Read about One-itis.. You definitely have it and its not …
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:15 PM
2

Ok. How about "x" at "x"?
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:09 PM
11

YOu can only do one thing at the time and "stressing" isn't productive at all. Focus at the task at hand and continue till its done. For me that's the best way. I used to work at a super busy restaurant AND a super busy Fastfood-service. Focus on the task at hand, ensuring quality and just keep going. Just keep going. Don't worry about what's to come, that's wasted time. Just go go go go.. Like we say among my friends: Mind on 0.00 and go go go...
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:09 PM
3

"Look at me being edgy" Sit your 12 year old ass down and shut up. The fact that you think calling people names on the internet and showing how easily you get angry is "alpha" says enough. You are one of those kids that think being an absolute asshole to everyone is "alpha" while it just means you are an asshole.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 11:38 AM
1

projection is a wonderful tool isn't it?
/r/askTRP30/01/20 11:35 AM
11

It's an IOI, that's pretty much it. It's literally showing interest without any repercussion cause anyone could ask this. Take the compliment.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 11:35 AM
4

Funny how when you call out a role-player they always start screaming cuck
/r/askTRP30/01/20 11:31 AM
3

Stop playing girl games..
/r/askTRP30/01/20 11:29 AM
1

Guaranteed validation, love, attention and a guy going out of his way to make sure you are comfortable, what is not there to like if you can get it without much effort?
/r/askTRP30/01/20 11:26 AM
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The way you talk implies you've never touched a pussy. What the fuck is this cringy AF reply. Once you've had enough quality women, most men will want something more than just random, meaningless sex. Unfortunately, it's not always that easy. Why do some want an LTR? Cause many of us feel that there may be more than just having sex with women I do not know. Or indeed to find a solid mother to my kids. There are several options and most men who end up there as TRP's have already fucked enough wom…
/r/askTRP30/01/20 11:23 AM
3

A feeling of being not valuable enough, insecurity and just settling is enough for most men. We have all been brutally rejected at some point and enough Beta boys will settle for anythijg EXCEPT being alone. Being alone has been made into the biggest sin for men and Beta Boys actually believe this shit. For those men, I'd suggest this song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NdyV6NJJrqg&fbclid=IwAR13WLjtDWeSwfShQt-NA_7Jrgs_jIZ4XVjVc_AK6X6tb-FOUv-4ke-shyw Most likely it's not gonna be to your liking…
/r/askTRP30/01/20 11:19 AM
1

Attention, validation. Billy Beta then who is being prepared for becoming Beta Bux. She's with him for convenience, not cause she is attracted. Everything makes this painfully clear.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 11:16 AM
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What BS is that.. Changing your mind is more Alpha than stubbornly sticking to a wrong opinion. Even if that, he could still just indicate he could have been more tactful in his reply. This is why you are the bottom lobster and not the top
/r/askTRP30/01/20 11:14 AM
1

He's Billy Beta Bux
/r/askTRP30/01/20 11:10 AM
1

But still you read the post :D
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 02:48 PM
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Thanks, this is the one of the few valid responses to this
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 02:48 PM
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Lol.. nah.. i've seen enough shit to know the inherent behaviours of our female society members, enough to defuse it to the point that I can live my life. Tone Police? Nah, there is a distinct difference in observing that most of you are hurt cucks that will never get past the hate-phase and those that are actually deciding not to let standards allow to define them, instead, they define themselves. I honestly don't care two shits about your sorry asses that can't get past the hate, if thats how …
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 02:47 PM
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Its just as childish as long as you are cirlcejerking around. And focus is something you maintain, not something you can leave in the background.
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 02:29 PM
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That's bullshit assumptions and again, the fact that you and your dad were pussies to start with doesn't mean anyone else can't.. And yes, profiling yourself as a womanhater, does nothing but boost your own self-important ego. Instead, strive to be a better person outside of the standards that we have been applying for generations.. Wouldn't you want more people to realize its a mindset and a lifestyle instead of a group of circeljerking divorced dads who keep repeating how terrible women are? I…
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 02:27 PM
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Well. It's a shame to see a movement with great goals and great ideas to be fcked over by people who claim to be "This/that (MGTOW)" by posting only hate posts. I just wanted to remind everyone that its not about hate or being humiliated by women only, its about the journey to be a better person, to find your purpose and life without basing it on "added value" for females as we are unconsciously doing and are taught in every single way... I feel mostly its a sense of hate that seems to thrive he…
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 02:24 PM
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Lol. That's the only thing you pick up on. Seems we got exactly one over here, little girl... I wasn't talking about the "relationship" part, I really don't care about how bad you've had it.. you called it all upon yourself.. Must be hard to realize that there are people who do not let themselves get fcked before they take measures hmm??
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 02:12 PM
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Conditioning. We are made to believe that the female is the one that needs to do the attracting, but we all know, that's not true. We all know that men need to show perceived added value in order to be accepted as a potential.(Be strong, be big, have a good job, be dominant) it's the same birds do. So nothing is different, the ladies just pretend to be the desirable ones, eventhough I don't know many men that want to reproduce necessarily, its the women who start desiring kids and get desperate.
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 01:47 PM
1

Cause just as in the MGTOW movement, more than half of the people are hypocrytical bastards that only think of their own gain, not about being "fair" or realistic, no. It's kicking against the group that they can't reach (NOT GETTING LAID) and having a sense of revenge on that specific group.. Most femists like that are hypocryte manhaters, just as I've spotted many Women-haters here that are just here to hate, while being little girls themselves..
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 01:42 PM
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If you tell people you are MGTOW, it means you use it as a defining trait. If you use that to define you, you probably are a mangina.. go find out who you are instead of using a mindset as a tool to define yourself.
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 01:34 PM
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You can take your responsibility and work and not leech off society. Go educate yourself, find any job that will provide and get hobbies. "Never had a job" Geez, I had my first job when I was 12.
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 01:32 PM
2

I agreed with Nigel Farage.. That IS how we talk. Maybe they are tose politically correct degenerates that want to get pussy by pretending to side with the females.. cause they think that will get them laid
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 01:18 PM
1

Lol, you are like those feminists that find everything scary cause of rapeculture. You are one of those that will stick to the movement and speak on our behalf on how scared we are of girls.. shake it off little girl..
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 01:15 PM
4

Seriously? Well... You sound bitter cause he changed priorities and doesn't want to spend much time with you. So in fact, there are 2 little bitches in this scenario..
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 01:14 PM
2

I don't even think that MGTOW is about "not marrying". that's a silly way of dealing with women. It's about men who decide their own value and live up to that, not letting other men and women push them around and push them into submission. Instead, the MGTOW man is focused on his own path, needs and goals. If a women can fit in with a man like that and they can create a balanced situation (which is unlikely) than this should not be an issue. It's about the position of Alpha and Beta, the positio…
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 01:08 PM
1

You sound like the "feminists" who hate men for everything simply cause you can't get laid or need validation of your person from other people that you look up to.. instead of complaining about what others think or want, get off your ass and start appreciating yourself.
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 01:02 PM
1

ALL I know about picking up girls rely on me being a foreigner. I'm never going back.
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