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I've been there man. I'm married now, but I've definitely had my ups and downs when I was single. The good news is 2-3 dates a week is upper echelon. You just don't feel that way right now cus you're frustrated, but I promise you the more you stick with it and make adjustments where needed, you're gonna be good. About that particular girl, who knows. Part of the game. Ghosting is an unfortunate part of society that we just have to accept now. As a man, you're just gonna have to take that. And ju…
/r/seduction23/05/24 10:57 PM
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Good on you bro. You saw a woman who you found attractive, and you did your best to get over your fears and talked to her in a manner that's not weird/creepy like some people would try to shame you into believing. It's 100% a W. Even though you stumbled through nervousness and acted like a dork (which most people would too), she's even texting you back and maybe you'll set up a date. Good luck with her, but also if you plan to talk to more women, as you refine your game, don't lose the best thin…
/r/seduction31/01/24 09:58 PM
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I think you gotta reverse this and go to places where the women you find attractive will be.
/r/seduction12/04/23 06:17 AM
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You the man, bro. Keep doing you. You got a great attitude for life, and that's what I think is bringing you happiness and success
/r/seduction08/10/22 06:28 PM
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If anyone's reading this, don't be discouraged by what this guy's saying. You come off as an overthinker. It's not that complicated. I met my soon-to-be wife in a gym parking lot lol just be calibrated enough to let her know you're a normal guy after you've expressed interest. Be respectful. If she's not feeling it, it's really all good. Thank her for her time, wish her a good day, that's it. ​ And I think it’s fair to say that 99% of women would prefer to not be hit on at a grocery store. Wheth…
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:03 PM
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Yeah I feel you. I'm the same way honestly. I think it's admirable to a point, but if you're really in need, don't be afraid to open up to one of your closest friends. If they're really a genuine friend, they'll hear you out and you'll both feel closer after. ​ If it hasn't reached that point, it's fine imo to stay a little stoic, but I think they can help your confidence in other ways. If they share any of the same hobbies, it can definitely help your confidence to partake with them. Or even ju…
/r/seduction11/03/22 04:49 AM
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For sure man you seem well adjusted. You don't need to search for a new hobby like it's a magic pill or something, but I know doing things that I can be proud of gives me more confidence than playing video games for instance. And I love video games. I just play significantly less than I used to. ​ Do you have a good friend group to fall back on?
/r/seduction11/03/22 03:23 AM
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Hey man I looked through your profile a bit, and you seem like a normal, cool guy. I'm 33 and still struggle with confidence at times, but it's gotten much better with constant work on whatever hobbies and goals are important to me. Some people, whether nature or nurture, didn't grow up believing in themselves and that's ok. Build up integrity with yourself by never quitting on whatever it is that's important to you (you can walk away by choice but that's different than quitting when times are t…
/r/seduction11/03/22 02:30 AM
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100% agree. Work on yourself and be bold yet respectful with your approach. That's really it at its core. Congrats man and keep spreading that positive advice.
/r/seduction06/08/20 01:24 AM
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I agree with this sentiment. Something seems off with your interactions, even just reading it. I don't say that to discourage. It's great you're putting in consistent work to improve yourself, but it sounds like you're coming off a bit awkward. Let me know as well in a PM if you want an outside perspective.
/r/seduction27/06/20 12:17 AM
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Honestly this will work better than some of the elaborate material posted here. I wouldn't do it every time because depending how often you do it in a certain area, you might get known as the guy who hands his number out and says the same line to every girl lol but anecdotally, I've gotten dates from something similar. Mostly at coffee shops or restaurants where it felt awkward to just sit down and have a convo.
/r/seduction26/06/20 06:11 PM
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I get that you're just expressing your feelings with that last sentence, but I have a good sense that you'll be fine. You're attractive enough to have guys compliment you on it and bold enough to strike up conversation and ask for numbers yourself. A rarity in my own experience. Good luck!
/r/seduction18/06/20 05:43 AM
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Landed one woman ever as in you've had one girlfriend? Been laid once? If you feel like sharing more about yourself, maybe I (or someone else here) can point something out for you that you'll find useful.
/r/seduction18/06/20 05:37 AM
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Nothing's ever going to be fair, that's just the truth, man. But as far as opportunities, we have the most we've ever had. I'm not saying that's not always a good thing, but there are so many great women out there honestly. You can fuck it up hundreds or thousands of times, and if you get it right once, it'll feel worth it to you. Or mess around and learn how to pull hos like the guy in your story lol it's your choice, and most people can find value in both. Maybe myself or some other knowledgea…
/r/seduction18/06/20 05:35 AM
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Ah I see. I know you probably don't want to hear it right now, but at least you're putting in work. Analyze some of those approaches and see where you could've tried something different to spark their attention. Maybe you could've added some humor or maybe you could've made plans to see each other before going for the number. How did you approach the girls who were alone?
/r/seduction07/07/17 11:01 PM
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How'd the rest of it go?
/r/seduction05/07/17 08:12 PM
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Yup. Hopefully I provided a place to start at least. Ultimately, each situation is up to your discretion though, player
/r/seduction30/06/17 10:50 PM
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You're right it depends on who he's approaching. If it's some girl in cosplay with her ass and titties out, gonna have to switch it up.
/r/seduction30/06/17 10:17 PM
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Is that not out of the blue? It's less awkward since you're putting your intention for talking to her out there. You could also just make a passing comment about something going on around you guys if you're in line for something. See if she latches on and if you can continue the convo, but if not, just let it go. Find her when she's about to leave you and be like, "Hey, I had to be honest. I think you're really cute..." and go from there. Point is, at some point, it's going to feel awkward forci…
/r/seduction30/06/17 07:30 PM
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There's not really much difference as to how you'd approach anywhere else during the day. Go up to someone and say excuse me. Smile then be like, "hi sorry didn't mean to bother you. I'd just be beating myself up all day if I didn't talk to you. There are hundreds of people here, but you're definitely the cutest one." Something dorky and cute like that can work if it comes across as genuine. The "no game" game is what I call it haha then after some intro, you could ask her what she's there for a…
/r/seduction30/06/17 06:03 PM
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I mean there's a difference between not being the best looking guy and looking creepy. As long as you're not looking out of place at the bar, it's fine. I'm just wondering if that's the case, though. So first of all, make sure you clean up your look. Well groomed, simple clothes that fit your body type, and not too try hard. Second, what you say and how you do it depends on the situation. In the group interaction you talked about, the girls were probably all looking at each other thinking, "who …
/r/seduction30/06/17 05:28 PM
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What do you look like man? And can you give a bit more background on yourself? From your descriptions (and your username), it sounds like your vibe could be killing the interaction before it really gets going. You don't have to be the most attractive guy, but you should be conveying a vibe of social competence when you're out there. It also kind of depends on what type of venue you're at.
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:49 PM
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Do not listen to this guy. Look up guys on YouTube who are fat, ugly, and/or short and see them pick up women. They all have confidence/swag and that's what's most important. Looks aren't completely irrelevant of course, but if you at least make an effort to look your best, it will be attractive. Are you playing on a harder playing field than guys who were born attractive? Yes. But you're more than capable of picking up beautiful women. Again, do not listen to this guy. BS advice.
/r/seduction12/06/15 09:56 PM
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While I agree with a lot of your post, I can't say that I'm with you on this one. It's hard to understand how you show up in the world and who you're attracted to if you haven't spoken to many women because your social skills are lacking. That's where the "numbers game" mentality comes from. Meeting a lot of women as sort of a journey in finding yourself as a man. That and the fact that you will get turned down many times in life by women. That's ok, though, because there are plenty of fish in t…
/r/seduction10/04/15 06:35 AM
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Not sure where you're getting at with the last part. To me it just sounds like he's a photogenic guy, and you're telling him not to be... But everything else is true in my experience. Hot girls would need a reason to try online dating (they just moved, got out of a relationship, looking for a particular type, etc.)
/r/seduction20/02/13 10:23 PM
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Some of you guys need to relax. Success with women probably starts with not being so angry all the time Could an overweight guy with acne get laid in 2 weeks? Of course, but it's undeniably more difficult. The guy would have to have some serious game. When there's a guide for fat guys with horrible complexions and no game to get laid in 2 weeks, let the world know
/r/seduction17/01/13 12:05 AM
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Seems like a fun (and realistic) night for the OP and said girl. The style advice is subjective, but "terrible advice" would imply that this would never work
/r/seduction16/01/13 07:21 PM
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what up pauly d
/r/seduction15/07/12 09:03 PM
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regardless of what anyone else thinks, this takes balls. just being a normal dude with huge cajones will get you laid...don't think you need to keep challenging yourself like this when you seem ready to me
/r/seduction09/06/12 09:58 PM
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Usher- U don't have to call always gets me in a good mood, especially if you've seen the video haha
/r/seduction29/04/12 12:04 AM
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