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IMO most women are worried for younger women b/c they’ve been there, know better, & want to protect them from going through the same. Are there individual cases that are great relationships? Yes. Are there many cases of the older man purposely choosing a younger woman because of their naïveté & therefore easily manipulated for their own wants & needs only. Also yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:45 PM
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Oh yes. The 0-7 yrs out by 3 for rape is “fully supported.” “Society” is still run by men & you’re trying to “woe is me” men? Lmao The amount of false allegations are insanely less than actual assaults so you can put that inaccurate argument back on the shelf. Also sir, the OP specifically asked us what we’d do if we could be the opposite gender for a month so me answering what I would knew as the opposite gender is not hating on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:12 PM
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Except it’s NOT irrelevant who harms you. One gender is more of a problem than the other violently & that gender can defend themselves easier. It therefore is relevant women do not get to live life to the fullest due to having to worry about it all the time. If it was just a “human issue” then women would harm women at the same rate men do & they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:16 PM
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What. My last comment remains. I don’t see the relevance in what you’re saying here to physicality differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:00 PM
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Oh yes. Women not being safe due to men to be able to “live” at full capacity is hilarious. Way to out yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:59 PM
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You cannot use the fact that your own gender harms you. Men ARE the most likely to harm women, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:53 PM
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???? What happened to women when they first started movements for women’s issues? Did they give up? NOPE!!! Sit down lol. EDIT: “VeganSoyMilk” Men don’t try hard enough/stick with advocating their issues. I’ve never heard of “Mike’s party,” never seen media on it, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:44 AM
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No In reality they do. Statistics prove it. You do not. Again, pointing out men are in danger of men is not an argument. You’re just circle jerking at this point. Also, saying women can’t handle stress well when they’re still doing the most over men multi-tasking is just nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:41 AM
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You can defend yourself better than a woman physically tho. It’s not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:34 AM
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I didn’t read your whole rant here. You do not get unwanted inappropriate comments, suggestions, or requests like women do from men, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:27 AM
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Awe…. Where do you think they leaned this? Hmm…. Who created the “rules” of society? It’s a group that starts with a “P….” “Men are in danger of other men” is not an argument unless women were the biggest danger to women too & they aren’t. MEN ARE. EDIT: Many_Dragonfly4154 blocked me, but I can still see your hilarious answers. It’s the Patriarchy (men). Women didn’t create our society norms. They weren’t ALLOWED to. EDIT: AdEffective7894s Women have internalized sexism due to the Patriarchy. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:10 AM
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Not at all. Men are the biggest threat to both other men & women. You can’t use your OWN gender here lol EDIT: Many_Dragonfly4154 Your reply is incredulously ridiculous lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:07 AM
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No it’s called being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:06 AM
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Sir. Men approach me when I’m minding my own business. Whether I’m walking by them, they see me in a store, at bus stops, in lines at stores, at work inappropriately, & more. Does this happen to you daily? I HIGHLY doubt it. EDIT: “AreOut” who blocked me: I am being real. You don’t have to be a “10/10” for that to happen. This is what most women go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:05 AM
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Sir. It’s common sense women have to worry more than men in public. 1 in 3 women are raped & most don’t even get reported to assess much more than that. Stating that “most get raped by their own partners” isn’t a flex. It’s still men. Also, stop trying to use “neuroticism” in your argument. It doesn’t prove your side. It proves mine lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:46 AM
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I knew you were going to try to go there lol. I observe it everyday as do most. Their mannerisms, actions in ease, etc. as do most women. Men have never been oppressed as a sex to know what we go through. Most oppressed people are hyper aware of the privileges they don’t get as another human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:43 AM
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Start a movement to bring better awareness to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:30 AM
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Men walk around outside without a care in the world. They get to be extremely spontaneous with minimal risk compared to women. If you aren’t a woman you just can’t know. I would love to experience that for a month. I don’t understand what you mean about “socialized to believe that’s the cost of doing business.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:28 AM
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Oh STOP. It it’s NOT the same. Women are at higher risk for rape. I also didn’t say only the night. I literally cannot be outside day or night without an unwanted encounter with a man. As for “mentally weaker?” Pls….strap on a period or labour simulator & you’ll be at my knees on level one while I “ chill” at level 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:24 AM
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I’m a short woman & literally every time I step outside I encounter a problem with a man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:10 AM
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Wow. Well…my mind (as a woman if I could be a man for a month) directly went to being outside daily & travelling alone not having to worry about my safety lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:28 AM
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Um…what…. Misandry is a reaction to thousands of yrs & generational oppression & has nothing to do with involuntary celibacy nor do women have sex with men because they “hate” them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:52 PM
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“Incels” aren’t necessarily virgins….. they are simply men who are involuntarily celibate. A man can choose to be a virgin if he wants. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:45 PM
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Because it’s NOT TRUE. We have our own money now….
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:51 AM
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LMAO It’s NOT on average. You clearly are living a lot of decades ago sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:31 AM
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Join us in 2023 mmmkay….
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:29 AM
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No it’s not. “Incel” does mean “involuntarily celibate” but it directly means men who are resentful & misogynistic of women because of it. Not that they’re merely virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:14 AM
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Finding a dating profile is a dealbreaker for me & she 💯lied about her friend making it. Don’t let her get away with this. It’s disrespectful AF & the lying also is as well as another red flag. For context I’m a woman saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:00 AM
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Lol you think the “total dickheads” are only the men blatantly visible about it all the time? Broooo…..the “behind the scenes” “total dickheads” man is scary worse than that!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:43 AM
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LMAO well…most men haven’t “strayed” from “traditional” tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:00 AM
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Um…older people pay taxes too. They also paid taxes from when they were young to old. People who don’t have kids pay taxes helping to raise people’s kids. People pay taxes for all in some way. The way to increase population is for employers to actually pay employees what it’s costs to live & be able to have children if they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:03 AM
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For some ya. I think life experience helps a lot. You learn what to watch for. That’s another subject really tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:49 AM
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They do that once a woman is hooked. They start to get distant. She’s now confused because she sees him as he presented himself for, a lot of time, months. This is exactly how trauma bonding starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:34 AM
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It’s the majority of married women & men this is happening. No age limit. That said, it’s entirely possible for a woman to have this attitude. It’s just not the norm. For you I suggest don’t put up with that from a partner. She did you a favour breaking up with you if she wasn’t going to be an equal partner & adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:32 AM
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Lmao yes!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:29 AM
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That’s a hard reach. Most people wouldn’t intentionally do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:40 AM
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That’s a hard reach. Most people wouldn’t intentionally do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:39 AM
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A wise woman once said “anyone who goes out of their way to comment nonsense against a person who speaks of dogs not equaling people because they can be horrific is a triggered person who likely is whom she was talking about.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:38 AM
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Lmao I don’t think so bud. That’s all girls are taught to do growing up that we’re trying to balance out instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:30 AM
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And it’s predatory…yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:22 AM
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Men can & will lie for months & yrs no matter how much one “vets.” Now, I will say at some point their mask may fall off, but my then the woman is likely trauma bonded.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:33 AM
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I never compare dogs to people. No idea how that started a zillion years ago, but dogs are 💯better than most people lol. Anyway….yes. Men who lie etc are coercing women with uninformed consent to access their body sexually. It is predatory & sadly acceptable in our society. Then women have men telling them to “choose better.” How when they lie about anything & everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:21 AM
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I think it comes from movies & tv. Women literally grow up watching shows with the “brooding, mysterious, emotionally distant guy” who they go to the “ends of the earth” to “reach” & “fix.” When they do, the guy chooses them & “fairytale” ending ensues. It’s a load of crap young girls grow up with & when women follow this plot in real life the guy doesn’t choose them. He just fucks with them & moves on. It takes young women quite awhile to realize real life men are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:24 AM
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There’s support because men are being super slow in evolving themselves to an equal level emotionally maturity & intelligence to women. Seen in areas such as domestic labor, life planning/scheduling/executing, & parenting now that women are also in the workforce. (I say “now” but really, it’s since the 1970’s - 50+ yrs ago)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:17 AM
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I think a man & woman in a relationship should be each other’s rock. Respectful, valued, balanced partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:09 AM
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I disagree. As men have been taught to push down their emotions they don’t get how to receive them well either & often feel like it’s a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:17 AM
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Yet they still rarely do. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:10 AM
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The answer is simple. EQUAL. Yes open up to us; but also listen when we need it too. It’s the give & take in a relationship being as even as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:05 AM
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It’s a men’s group. Not the guardian. I’m not “crying” “I have read it on the internet!” When I asked that person about it he literally told me to look it up lol. I asked him now, but can YOU also provide me with what you feel are reputable links on red pill then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:42 AM
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It’s a men’s group article. Are there links you can provide me that is actually what it is? Because that is all I was finding.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:41 AM
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No one is even talking about single parents bro, so that’s moot. Lol. Those men had no choice too. “Whataboutisms” (your Halloween ex) are also moot. We’re talking literally about every day tasks all adults need to do. The fact remains (in this era lol) it’s what’s still happening for women tho working in the workforce too, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:13 AM
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”Human understanding, personal growth, being your "best you." ”It provides guidance on human interactions with men and women. There's plenty of information on the Internet available to you.” Um…this isn’t AT ALL what you’ve described….: ”The red pill movement claims that men taking the proverbial red pill are able to open their eyes to the damaging ways of women and free themselves from falling prey to their grasp. The group claims that once you take the pill or join the movement, you will final…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:53 AM
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Join us in this era: ”Having to do household chores and take care of children, on top of a job outside the home, significantly adds to women’s workload. It increases stress and reduces their well-being, relationship satisfaction, and sexual desire for their romantic partner.” https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/finding-new-home/202203/why-women-are-much-more-likely-men-initiate-divorce ”Women also tend to gain fewer emotional benefits from marriage, which could make single life seem more app…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:35 AM
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What does it teach men about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:28 PM
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As I woman I don’t see anything wrong with what he said. I’d say the comments are probably no different than when insecure men do the same just this time it’s insecure women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:24 PM
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Yes. It’s something else. The statistics on the imbalanced dynamic is high AF for women still. Something that was supposed to change in the 1970’s when women entered the workforce. Statistically women are still “doing it all;” cooking, cleaning, laundry, life planning/scheduling, 90% parenting of one or more children which includes getting them to all their activities & etc all while working a part or full time job in the workforce. Husbands are still working their 9-5 then coming home to “relax…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:19 PM
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I’ve never read that nor seen the movie, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:01 PM
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Knowing what you want is learning from any & all relationships you have so I wouldn’t say it’s “typical” women “don’t know what they want” nor would I say that about men. It’s about living & learning, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:58 PM
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What… sir first of all you realize there are male prostitutes too, right? Lol Second, no one cares what you want to do to a robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:53 AM
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There has been studies on it. It’s b/c hormones are altered when on the pill of course. Like basically the pill “tricks” a women’s body making it think its pregnant. I highly doubt those two understand it well & were just being a little silly about it tho lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:40 AM
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What does the “red pill” teach exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:35 AM
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What are you at all talking about…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:29 AM
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Ya because it’s INSANE that in 2023 one HAS TO…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:26 AM
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“Tell me you don’t think women are human beings (& not objects) without telling me you don’t think women are human beings….”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:13 AM
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Sir, women are “obsessed” with true crime because they’re learning how to survive if any of the scenarios happen to them. It’s not about “salivating” over serial killers, smh….. Also, you do realize, that just anyone can create a wiki article & most often anyone can edit them too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:58 AM
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What did we have “handed to us?” “Cry & whine?” To be able to vote, have bank account, a credit card, the right to work? Rights to our own body? (Tho in America women have had them taken away again) Or should we go back further & say we had to “cry & whine” not to literally be PROPERTY? As for support from men, of course, but they didn’t START IT FOR US. Sit down with your privileged but angry/sad comments because you can’t start things to help yourselves. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:22 AM
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I’m telling them in this sub all the time. “We can’t save you.” It’s true they want us to do it FOR THEM. Like do they not see what we had to do for ourselves? Lol It’s mind-blowing they’re still largely in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:03 AM
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Why should women? It’s not “back in the day” anymore; women also work in the workforce. The reason for 80% of filed divorces are women is because men still expect them to do everything when they ALSO work full time. This includes all the housework, cooking, cleaning, laundry, parenting 1 or more children (including the husband they didn’t birth!), & scheduling all life events & keeping up with them when the man works his 9-5 then comes home to “relax” in front of the tv, etc. Also, the child sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:39 PM
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I think they need to get that fresh water themselves instead of expecting others to do it for them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:34 PM
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Lmao you’re literally just proving my point here with your last paragraphs. “Oh they do it less, BUT.” —-EXACTLY!!!! Smh….
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:19 AM
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Do men really think Pearl is on their side? She literally doesn’t believe what she’s talks about at all & laughing all the way to the bank lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:52 AM
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I think people should stop listening to dating app statistics, surveys, articles, etc. They’re literally a scam to make money & I cannot believe people still use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:09 PM
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”National Human Trafficking Statistics 24.9 million people are victims of forced labor. (ILO, 2017) 16 million people are trafficked for forced labor in the private economy. (Private economy includes: private individuals, groups, or companies in all sectors except the commercial sex industry). (ILO, 2017) 4.8 million people are trafficked for forced sexual exploitation. (ILO, 2017) 4.1 million people are trafficked for forced labor in state-imposed forced labor.It is estimated that 20.9 million …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:59 PM
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If that is your question common sense is just as confusing for you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:47 PM
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Yes. Monogamy isn’t natural & neither is selection of mates. In the animal world the reason the males are so much “prettier” is in the hopes that the female will choose them to mate. But here we are, men being able to select mates & many people choosing monogamy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:33 PM
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This happens all the time. Trafficking is a huge problem. But stay in your male privileged little bubble. Must be nice lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:25 PM
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I just did in another comment. Tho it’s just common sense & doesn’t need “backing up.” It’s still men sir. It’s still men. Men kill & assault women the most. Women don’t to other women or men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:21 PM
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Lmao it’s from OTHER men tho so that’s still on MEN! “Look up who kills women the most.”It’s not other women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:19 PM
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It would be cute if there weren’t men out there who lace paper & put them under windshields to kidnap women, yeah. But sadly there is. It’s cute when someone does something “different.” It’s more interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:09 AM
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You cannot use your own gender against you. It’s is NOT the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:03 AM
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Right?! The privilege of some of these comments is MIND-BLOWING. Even in Western countries women can’t just “freely walk around without a care in the world” without having to worry what a man will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:03 AM
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I think it’s both.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:00 AM
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“Group of people?” Lol “men.” It’s men who are this “group of people.” It’s so bad that morgues & mortuaries don’t like hiring men because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:59 PM
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I mean… I see what you mean…it depends. You have to “read the room” I guess. If it really bothered someone they need to stand up for themselves I suppose. Generally, it’s supposed to be considered a nice thing when someone insists to pay. It’s not supposed to become a conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:11 AM
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Considering your rude responses we know you aren’t a gentleman. Thanks for coming out shining a light on yourself lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:08 AM
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Ireland has the same custom I stated. You are the odd man out here. EDIT: To: El_Don_94 who blocked me after replying…. : That’s not the custom for dates. That’s friends paying for rounds. Lol Also, she went on a lunch date with food involved. EDIT 2: El_Don_94: well I can’t answer you in reply: Literally a GUY THERE insisted on paying for the date & you’re still saying people don’t. I think it’s just you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:07 AM
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Now you’re just contradicting yourself. Which is it? Being a gentleman & paying for all or splitting checks for you? LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:54 AM
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I said “MANY” countries. I did not say “all.” As well, dating etiquette is not the same as going to dine with friends etc. It literally has been the etiquette forever for what I said it was; to be polite with other humans. I’m sorry if you aren’t one of them & are triggered lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:52 AM
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You did what you should. He decided to be a gentleman & pay for all instead. It was to impress you. Very rare for men to do that these days. I’d take it as a compliment. Next time when you pay say “hey, I’m a woman!” It might be cute to do so. Lol He likely said what he did as he’s being “old-fashioned.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:22 AM
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Basic: whomever asks/plans pays UNLESS spitting the check is discussed during the ask/planning. If someone insists to pay (like the date you had) after you have suggested you want to pay your half (or pay all) then let them pay & thank them. The end. These are the basic custom in many countries for decades to simply remain polite & respectful with other human beings in each other’s company. How it’s got people “lost & confused” in today’s “dating culture” is alarming. It’s not just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:11 AM
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Look up dating etiquette. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:57 AM
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I think it’s because men will literally have sex with corpses.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:43 AM
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What did it mean for women for decades? Lol Maybe this will mean finally levelling out & equality eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:55 PM
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It can change. There just one small problem that hinders it — men themselves. Men have refused to evolve emotionally & domestically since at least 50 yrs ago along with women. Women are just done. Not having it anymore. The only ones who can help lonely men are men themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:54 PM
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Most women are killed by men. That’s not “irrelevant” whatsoever, period. You literally have ZERO idea what it’s like to be a woman having to “navigate” men on the daily in this world, period. Your privilege must be nice to think this way lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:46 PM
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LMAO —MEN killing MEN doesn’t count “FYI” because most people who assault & kill women are MEN! Also your statistics mostly include drug-related homicide. Not “annihilating” their bodies…. ”And yes, most of the perpetrators of those murders are also men, about 90%, but that is pretty much irrelevant” I cannot BREATH I’m laughing so hard right now! BAHAHAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:22 PM
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You’re the only one who isn’t going to get my comment because you have tunnel vision & can’t read full sentences properly. I’m over it. It’s just hilarious at this point. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:48 AM
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LMAO “excuse women” for having to fear for their safety daily & hope they don’t get raped or killed due to men making YOU feel “embarrassed, dumb & stupid.” How INCONVENIENT for you…..!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:43 AM
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It’s bad that it’s facts & that you can’t understand actual logic? Mmm…okay then… maybe others can spell it out for you since there are a couple of English words you’re missing there. It’s literally so easy & you don’t get it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:35 AM
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Yes. You used the word “dumber” wrong. Lol it’s “more dumb.” Not “more dumber.” You didn’t look through it all is what I pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:20 PM
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Well you can’t correct fact sir. That’s all I was spitting including having used your “Cambridge definition.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:10 PM
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Um…any intelligent person can see that was a counter argument. I can’t help you if you can’t comprehend the ACTUAL logic pointed out to you & all you “understand” from it was “see the links say I’m right” because that is not what I was pointing out. LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 10:55 PM
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Lmao totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 10:51 PM
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Again… I explained the logic & you are still trying to make the “secondary” definition the “primary” & tho it’s true it’s not MORE than women being objectified due to the primary definition & statistics I provided earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 10:42 PM
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The logic that the number one definition of “objectification” is “degrading someone to be treated like an object?” (With examples of women being objectified) Then, the stats that women are more “objectified” — sexually, which would indicate, therefore, women are more objectified than men in any instance. Even the definition from Cambridge OP chose has examples mostly of women being objectified.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:11 AM
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”In study after study, findings have indicated that women more often than men are portrayed in a sexual manner (e.g., dressed in revealing clothing, with bodily postures or facial expressions that imply sexual readiness) and are objectified (e.g., used as a decorative object, or as body parts rather than a whole person) ...” https://www.apa.org/pi/women/programs/girls/report-summary.pdf https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6707629/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6707629/ ht…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:55 AM
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As someone else already pointed out, men do this all the time casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:26 AM
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No. They are having these responses to casual sex because, as you even point out, a woman’s sexuality is still heavily shamed by a patriarchal narrative in society about it. It’s not the sex part. It’s the treatment & internalized sexism surrounding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:40 PM
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It’s like this for both women & men for college. I don’t get why you think it’s just a woman’s issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:31 PM
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LMAO women aren’t “digging a hole they can’t get out of.” They’ve realized men aren’t a benefit. Men are still expecting “1950’s behaviour” from women instead of treating them like another respectful adult in 2023 who also works in the workforce & has a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:26 PM
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Why don’t we equate this with an STI then lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:03 PM
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It’s not a deal breaker for women either. Everything you’ve said is the same the other way around too. This is the world we live in. Women just don’t “tell it to the world” all mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:07 AM
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Being short doesn’t stop men from getting dates either. Lots of women don’t mind shorter men especially those shorter women as most men will be taller than them anyway. My point is it’s the same for both, but you move on to someone who is fine to date short men & short women. No one has to make it a “huge atrocity” that anyone has a preference. If short women did that they’d never date either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:57 AM
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That is why the modelling industry has its standards….
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:53 AM
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Lmao who do you think created the beauty standard for women….?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:22 PM
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Try telling men that men prefer tall women too & you don’t see short women crying all over the internet about it lol. Literally statistics show that generally men & women view taller people as “attractive.” Women models HAVE to be tall. Most actresses are on the taller side. Yet look at all the short women “surviving & dating” just fine without a “woe is me” mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:31 PM
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I don’t get this reply in relation to the topic, but I can tell you I’m never contacting an ex; especially for money lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:04 PM
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Um, you can be both shy & confident. You can also be shy & disloyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:35 AM
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I get what you’re saying & that does happen & it sucks too, but it’s not the same & nowhere near as bad as lying/using to gain access to another person’s body.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:26 AM
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Weird….
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:18 AM
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I don’t know any women that have that issue. My friend bonds are family even if any have a man in it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:14 PM
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LMAO it’s men TOO! I cancelled dating apps in like 2012. I see the SAME men from then posted in those “are we dating the same man” groups asking if a guy has any red flags. That’s almost 12 yrs ago!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:51 PM
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I think just being a woman is a red flag in a red pill man’s eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:48 PM
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Ohhh it was supposed to be light-hearted when I said they’re an “enigma.” Lol To each their own. It’s just a dealbreaker for me. But as for insects, they aren’t animals tho I’ve had arachnophobia my whole life I’ve tried hard to work on it & can at least save spiders these days lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:41 PM
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This sounds like kids too. Or some adults lmao. But yes, animals are cuter!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:38 PM
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No I’m not. You’re lying to yourself thinking everyone has the same opinion as you. It’s ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:37 PM
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Um, going bald has less side effects than medicine & that is bs. Just because it’s YOUR preference that men aren’t attractive without hair doesn’t mean bald men aren’t attractive. Accusing people of “lying about it” being attractive when you can’t even use common sense with science is ironic too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:10 AM
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YES. I say this all the time. They need to be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:36 AM
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Unattractive traits: -doesn’t like animals — Especially dogs. I find people who don’t like animals an enigma. Don’t get it lol. -not being an “adult” literally “adulting.” — (He needs to know how to cook & clean, do laundry for himself & anything else adults can do for themselves) -too many insecurities — (we all have some I just don’t want it to be their whole personality lol) -selfish -bad temper -jealousy -lazy -procrastinator Attractive traits: -loves animals; especially dogs. That’s a must.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:23 AM
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Um no…. One gets paid for a job and the other is a personal life choice to engage in. What people do before they date someone tho is their own business, period. That includes men. Neither women or men are obligated to disclose their sexual past to any partner they don’t want to tell. My comments were more about a women’s sexuality & prostitution aren’t the same thing. One is a personal life choice. One is a job. We all know jobs & personal lives are separate & this is no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:00 AM
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The choice of profession isn’t high compared to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:31 AM
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Women seek healthcare more than men. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5013347/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:30 AM
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Then that’s her choice. Tho it’s not a usual choice at all so it can’t be compared to a woman’s sexuality as a whole either. A person’s work & personal life are two separate things. I think maybe the issue is more what a man can catch from being with one for the women who naysay them doing it. There’s men prostitutes & promiscuous men too. I as a woman wouldn’t compare the two nor would I care about what a man did sexually before me. It’s literally none of my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:03 PM
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Usually I have more opinions on this due to so many variables that can come into play here, but from this story, you were right to do what you did. Ordering something extravagant then drinking half a glass & making up bs to excuse yourself expecting someone else to pay is just ignorant AF woman or man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:01 PM
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Because sex work for money & a woman’s choice in her sexuality in her private life are two different things…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:22 PM
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You should have high standards for yourself. Yes. Women aren’t asking you not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:12 PM
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WHY is it on the woman only in this scenario? Why is the man even lying? The woman could do all the research she wants & find nothing. The point here is men shouldn’t be lying to get sex like a woman isn’t another human being, period. Same if it was the woman the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:02 AM
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It’s not 1950. Women can have sex as much as they want just like men. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:43 AM
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So you’re coercing women to access their body like a predator?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:43 AM
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This isn’t the early 1900’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:42 AM
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What. There’s literally is no accountability when a woman is being a serious adult & a man is lying specifically to get access to her body. Yes. It’s 2023. Women are “allowed” to have sex. They can only make this decision however, with the information given to them by men. If a man is “lying all over the place” women aren’t mind readers to know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:42 AM
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Huh? Many do on dating sites tho…lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:38 AM
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Agree to disagree. I think it happens too often to just be that. Also, I’ve heard a lot of “locker room” talk when men think you can’t hear them over the years of giving high fives for just banging & manipulating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:31 AM
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It happens to WAY too many women for that to be true most of the time. My theory is men like the chase & purposefully pick the woman who wants a relationship over the woman who wants casual just for the challenge. It’s disrespectful AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:30 AM
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Maybe men shouldn’t lie to gain access to a woman’s body? Also, this scenario could include many dates & bonding. If a woman puts in her profile she wants a relationship how is she accountable for a man lying to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:26 AM
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Nonsense. Men absolutely do not have to lie. How is it the woman’s fault to literally state she wants a relationship & the man lies to get sex only when he could have picked the woman who wants casual?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:22 AM
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And that man can find a choice of a woman who wants a relationship & a woman who wants casual on dating apps. He picks the woman who wants a relationship, tells the woman he wants a relationship too, but he really he just wants access to her body like a predator & could have chosen the woman who wants casual, then he dips, & then he’s on to the next woman to start over. That woman who wants a relationship constantly gets re-traumatized because she’s trying to seriously date another adult, but me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:15 AM
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That’s really not a flex tho lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:07 AM
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I mean…of course. Same here on ours lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:45 AM
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They are in charge still. It’s not a conspiracy theory. The majority of the world has men in charge. Therefore they have the power to create change for themselves. Or do you think it’s up to women to “save” men in their issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:32 AM
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Lmao where’s this “conspiracy theory/propaganda piece?” Do you mean the history of society that’s just literal facts in history papers & books anyone can find in seconds?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:54 AM
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It’s a man’s responsibility to put other men in check legally. Have they? Nope. Yes it is your responsibility to make the world safer for women as men are still largely in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:52 AM
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Lmao “society” is still run by men. It’s men who are treating themselves “bad” on the largest scale as women aren’t even equal yet to do so on that level. Misogyny is men hating women. It is a chosen action 99.9% of the time because women simply won’t do what a man wants & that’s a ridiculous thing compared to why women would hate men. Completely privileged. Women aren’t here to just “do” what a man wants as they are human beings too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:50 AM
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Why do you think it’s up to women to make men happy? Also, why are you assuming the majority of women hate men? It’s not “on” women that men are a threat to them causing some to hate men. That’s on men. And for men to fix for the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:25 AM
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No. It’s what I said it was. It’s literally due to what women fear men will do to them because men do bad things to women at an insanely higher rate than the the other way around. (assault, rape, murder) Your theory is a entitled & privileged one that women wouldn’t think of in the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:44 AM
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Misandry is a REACTION. Misogyny is an ACTIVE CHOSEN ACTION. Misandry stems from thousands of years of oppression & patriarchal narratives that are ingrained generationally that is still very much alive today. Misandry is a reaction of women hating men because they fear what men WILL DO TO THEM. Misogyny, is a active chosen action by men that hate women because they WON’T DO WHAT THEY WANT them to do. It’s not about denying one & not the other. It’s simply not the same issue that can be “tackled…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:45 PM
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They don’t “need it,” but they still do. It’s internalized sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:58 PM
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What. Lol ya you can do all that with casual hook-ups too. I say practice makes perfect, but you’re also learning new things by not just being with one person. Then, when you feel you’ve learned enough pick “one” person (if monogamous relationship is your thing).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:54 AM
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It’s actually not. The only difference is men also make shorter men feel inferior & women don’t to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:11 AM
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Why do you assume Millennials & Gen X aren’t dating tho? Dating apps have made dating pretty much the same pro & con-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:18 AM
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Lots of men prefer tall women over short women. Short women just don’t publicly “cry” about it. In general, both men & women find taller people attractive as based on what is projected as the standard & presented in movies & tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:07 AM
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Men actually have a “fertility wall” of sorts too. Yes they can father children longer, but their sperm can contribute to birth defects & they produce abnormal & less viable sperm after age 35 when they start losing testosterone. Most men don’t even know any of this as they grow up just gaslighting women on their worth & concentrate on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:00 AM
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”A lot of women make fun of guys for paying for sex and saying they aren’t good enough.” A lot of men make fun of men paying for sex (which implies they aren’t good enough). So I wonder how some women think that way too…..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:04 AM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:00 AM
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“Boy math.” LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:06 AM
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LMAO you know what “paternity” means, right? There’s only ONE option of who the dad is when a guy is with a woman who doesn’t cheat. Therefore ZERO need to do a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:05 AM
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Lmao I never thought of your side of it! Hilarious! You all probably looking at the sad Vegetarians “ignored/uncared for/unseen” in the room being like we feel you.” Hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:43 AM
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I’m a vegetarian who has never once done that, but have the luxury of when I tell people I’m a vegetarian I get all eyes “on me” at a table (if no one knows me at it) as if I just announced I “killed someone” or something, then, “guilty-looking” faces then, “whataboutisms” & accusatory remarks at me for being one. Also, if this is a breakfast, lunch, dinner, where meat is preplanned as the meal to be, obviously they’re making me a vegetarian meal instead, & when it’s brought out, I get “stares” …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:24 AM
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Almost any “minuscule” thing some men use to vilify a woman about sex is jealousy that women can get sex whenever they want & men can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:45 AM
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Very well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:20 AM
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Normal people don’t think this way at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:05 AM
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I think both men & women should have high standards for themselves & that people should stop paying attention to what’s projected as “conventionally attractive” as it’s proven that beauty is SUBJECTIVE anyway! The disconnect is that dating apps have shredded humanity for both at this point. Until we (both bio sex’s & other) realize this is a huge problem & work together to get them cancelled/banned then it’s never going to change. Before them, people got together & stayed “still” for a minute or…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:43 AM
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Obviously the women that do that have issues such as internalized sexism & internalized misogyny due to patriarchal teachings for thousand of years creating generational trauma that’s hard to stop. Women can’t “sense” misogyny. It’s in actions & words that expose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:16 PM
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Was it up to OP? Lol It certainly IS “up to me” to speak on behalf of myself being a heterosexual woman & as someone who reads & has a background in psychology. I think the post is an issue for lesbians as well. It’s stereotyping them too & I will speak on it. Also, I have posted MANY links in another comment here by experts that discredit the OP’s “theory” with there “Wikipedia links” that anyone can create.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:28 PM
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It’s “up to me” to speak on behalf of myself being a heterosexual woman & if someone who reads. I think the post is an issue for lesbians as well. It’s stereotyping them too & I will speak on it. Also, I have posted MANY links in another comment here by experts that discredit the OP’s “theory.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:26 PM
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It’s like you forget that women weren’t treated like human beings. Now that they are (for the most part) they have requirements that get “shit all over.” Women haven’t been conditioned socially to think of men as objects. Men have been conditioned to think they’re entitled to a woman for what they can “do for them.” They also objectify women’s bodies far more than women do of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:19 PM
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This “goofy way” has a word, but we’ll get in trouble if we say it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:12 AM
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It’s because “average, mid, etc” & rating on a scale like an object is not how the majority of women make decisions on attraction and if they do, it’s because of internalized misogyny. Most women don’t look at men like objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:11 AM
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It blows my mind so many people have no idea when their posts are literally “showing us” without “saying it” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:05 AM
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Right? Lmao they also didn’t account for the fact of the many women alive and well living & shit without men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:18 AM
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Who is “we” first of all I just see you…., but here ya go! Just a “few”: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201710/are-same-sex-or-heterosexual-relationships-more-stable https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-makes-same-sex-relationships-succeed-or-fail/ https://www.nbcnews.com/health/health-news/research-finds-differences-lesbian-brains-flna1c9468415 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7259589/ https://www.bps.org.uk/psychologist/comparing-lesbian-and-gay-and-hetero…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:06 AM
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Yes. It’s largely how people grow up & other social factors, & culture. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:58 PM
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No it’s not. I didn’t specify if it was heterosexual women/men or lesbian women/gay men because we all can present either trait more or less & I didn’t say it was the only variable either in my last reply. I too have plenty gay friends. You just need to comprehend sentences better & not jump to conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:56 PM
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Excuse me? Shouldn’t OP be “careful about stereotyping” if this is your logic? Because as a heterosexual woman I’m within my right to say “no I, as a heterosexual woman, am different than a lesbian women” lol. And when it comes to gender comparisons “what else can you do?” You can compare heterosexual women to heterosexual women & heterosexual men to heterosexual men. That’s what “you can do.” The way people behave is largely how they are socially nurtured & minimally biological due to our domes…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:53 PM
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Except lesbians are interacting with other women & heterosexual women are interacting with heterosexual men. The variables are completely different just because of dynamics such as “masculine & feminine” dominance/submission for any, culture, etc. Same with gay men interacting with men vs heterosexual men interacting with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:37 PM
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LMAO Wiki “stats” are not reputable. Anyone can create Wikipedia content.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:31 PM
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The dynamics of women with women & women with men are completely different. As a heterosexual women, should I be pondering that heterosexual men & gay men act & think the same in their relationships & that’s why I have problems dating? Tho I’ve never dated gay men (obviously)? NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:08 AM
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OMG… I literally explained it as easy as I could in my last reply & it’s still going way over your head. It does not matter that heterosexual women & lesbian women are both women! Most people commenting on your post are trying to tell you the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:05 AM
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I’m saying we are NOT the same. Heterosexual women & lesbians cannot be the “common denominator” in relationship issues with heterosexual men as they are completely different both sexually & intimately & as men & lesbians don’t date & as heterosexual women & lesbians don’t date. If we could do this I’d want to date a gay man over a heterosexual man hands down. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:54 AM
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Exactly….
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:44 AM
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It’s think it’s because women don’t have equality yet from those who’ve always been “built up” & encouraged to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:43 AM
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Simply: why do you think lesbian women are the SAME as heterosexual women? Are you then saying heterosexual women should compare heterosexual men & gay men as the same in terms of how sexual & intimate relationships with them are? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:06 AM
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What are women taking accountability for? That they can get sex easier than men? Lol Also, women have been asking men to evolve especially in the last 50 yrs & most refuse to budge & still not seeing us as equal people to respect in relationships. Statistics reflect the imbalance in dynamic of husbands & wives tho women have been in the workforce too since the 70’s. It is not on women that men won’t work on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:15 PM
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Because it’s one thing to talk about your struggles with dating due to what you feel are because your looks & quite another thing to blame the gender you’re interested for it. Which is what happens most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:24 PM
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You did not read the conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:03 PM
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Where did you find that divorce lawyers say the messiest divorces “usually involve STAHMs?” Can you provide links to stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:15 AM
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There’s just as many men doing the same thing out there. That is a minority of both genders. Most women are out there working hard AF. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2022/09/26/women-now-outnumber-men-in-the-u-s-college-educated-labor-force/ https://www.mckinsey.com/featured-insights/diversity-and-inclusion/women-in-the-workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:04 AM
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You didn’t say you were talking about a “traditional” household. But again, it’s not the norm anymore. It’s not what most women want as most work in the workforce too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:34 AM
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Women work all day too tho….. Cooking & cleaning are just basic adult tasks that should be shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:27 AM
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No they don’t. If they did then 80% of divorces wouldn’t be filed by women. Women don’t want to be doing “traditional” roles all by themselves AND working in the workforce the same amount as their husbands. They don’t want to have to “mother” another adult. It’s killing married women bro they don’t get a break lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:13 AM
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FACTS/PREACH! I will add that the term “traditional” is actually just a gaslight word by the patriarchy because those roles were actually forced on women. They didn’t get to choose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:47 AM
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Nah you’re trolling. How could it be a “general statement” with just me tagged. Bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:12 AM
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Except they are. Short women just aren’t “blasting” it everywhere. I’ve also posted links to studies in this thread in similar comments to yours that are actual facts that “tall” is seen as more attractive to both men & women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:20 PM
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You literally told me to stop lying in your reply previous to this one. Research studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:03 PM
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Are “boys & girls” the right terms tho? Lol I think women who don’t have internalized sexism, but it also is in part to women still not making equal pay for the same positions, or many jobs that mostly women will take don’t pay as much as the ones men do, & possibly pink tax (their basic needs items cost more than mens).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:01 PM
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No it isn’t. It’s a consensus that both men & women find “tall” more attractive. https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20150928-tall-vs-small-which-is-it-better-to-be Article quote: “Study after study has found that taller men and women are generally considered more attractive.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:54 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:44 PM
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It’s literally no different for short women that men don’t like due to being short. The only reason women who like tall men are even in the “spotlight” is because of men who “cry” about those women having a preference about that & short women don’t do that to men who like tall women so you don’t hear about it as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:43 PM
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Maybe research things before you cry “liar!” Lol I’m not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:40 PM
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You have. By suggesting woman won’t make an “exception” due to visuals. Studies show that men value looks more initially as well. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4011637/ https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0250151 https://academiccommons.columbia.edu/doi/10.7916/D8DR31Q9/download https://academic.oup.com/qje/article/121/2/673/1884033
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:39 PM
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I summed up the rest with “conventionally attractive”. I wasn’t only saying tall & thin. Conventionally attractive is easily determined to mean what we see highlighted publicly in modelling & celebrity, & etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:17 PM
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I see many women with men under 6’0 height. It’s anyone’s prerogative to like what they like. Short women aren’t up in arms at all the men who like tall women or what’s projected socially at them that tall is more “attractive.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:15 PM
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I don’t feel the need to go on with him based on how he speaks about women, so, no. There’d be no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:53 AM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:43 AM
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I love how you’re telling people they “have no idea” as if you do tho lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:42 AM
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No they’re definitely objectively unattractive — weird haircut or balding with a bad comb over, belly hanging out a too short shirt. Looking dirty &/or sweaty, terrible skin, etc. Meanwhile the woman is dressed trendy & clean, beautiful skin, hair, manicured nails, etc. You’ll see a majority of couples walking around like this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:38 AM
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Lol oh I guess to me they look “conveniently attractive,” tall, thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:33 AM
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I have no idea why or what you’re talking about here. It seems you’ve gone on a aimless rant at this point, but it has nothing to do with the discussion I was having with you. Good day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:28 AM
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Oh well, women like who they’re attracted too just like men. What a crime! Lol They also don’t “owe” men an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:59 AM
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You’re literally making things up in text. Only you are thinking & saying “all men” here. Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:57 AM
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I haven’t “blamed all men” anywhere in my responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:55 AM
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Women are accepting of different height too. It really isn’t different. I can promise you short women hear men talk about tall women all the time. Most actresses are above 5’6/5’7. Models have to be tall too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:54 AM
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I mean…so were women (& worse) in everything we’ve tried to do for ourselves, but we didn’t let it deter us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:47 AM
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Just describing women in that way is a big red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:43 AM
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Not really. Most of you are jealous about the sex & could care less about the actual women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:42 AM
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How so? How are you determining how it’s scrutinized?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:41 AM
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Your whole comment is largely why there’s a problem & literally every point you made here is disputed by men in the comments of this sub as “false” to their actual intentions near daily when women call it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:26 AM
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Sadly, the men who complain are just jealous women can have sex whenever they want therefore blame women for it under the guise of “wanting a relationship” & will not heed this advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:24 AM
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I think it is. I can’t see any reason otherwise a woman would be upset about porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:10 AM
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I literally used the actual definition of gorgeous & posted a link to what the term “mediocre men” are. It ain’t my opinion. It’s just facts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:09 AM
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You can’t say my comments are pointless because then yours would be too!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:26 AM
1

Totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:25 AM
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That’s just called an insecure woman. It’s not really rocket science to deduce that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:20 AM
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Lots of men don’t like short women. How can you think they aren’t rejected as well!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:19 AM
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I didn’t know it was a huge thought, but why is that a big deal? Men can cheat because of it or even if the “wind blew the wrong way one day.” Like it wouldn’t be a stretch for that to be true at times lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:58 AM
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Of course not, but I would assume men are taking the initiative for their own gender in combating that issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:54 AM
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Why would I “say” anything? You simply said it’s “all in America” & I said it isn’t. I didn’t ask you to provide further info on your answer & I don’t owe you more in my answers than you gave.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:52 AM
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What. That has no baring in this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:49 AM
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Women work in all trades & many careers that require “great skill/are dangerous lol as well as. women are now more educated than men so I’m not sure where you’re trying to go with this….
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:48 AM
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Nah because you see, I’ll still reply like a respectful adult & they come back all “up in arms.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:42 AM
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It’s not the majority I’ve seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:39 AM
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So can you tell me why so many men prefer tall women over short women & why short women aren’t “all over the place” posting stats, studies, & complaints about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:35 AM
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I saw this in your posted link already. Then I replied.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:34 AM
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Why don’t you answer this first since it was you who said so?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:33 AM
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Yes of course it’s still the case. Men still get paid more than women & many low paying jobs are often filled by women that men won’t do. I was saying just that it’s growing each year that couples are making relatively close to each other in income. The amount of women breadwinners is also increasing each year.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:31 AM
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Lol I see. Well i don’t know how I would actually believe in those stats. Many men swipe to match all presented then go through later to see if they actually matched with someone they’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:28 AM
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I mean okay, but statistics are showing couples are making relatively the same income more & more so that wouldn’t work out mathematically to the majority of these men I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:25 AM
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I’ve never heard this. Lol. Tho it is true that a man can get addicted to porn & then has trouble performing with a woman & without his hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:23 AM
2

What? What in the world is a “granny pill?”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:18 AM
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I believe it’s both.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:17 AM
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So you’re saying the majority of men I see have money & a “status” of some sort but are walking around with gorgeous women looking like bums? LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:14 AM
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Probably because men don’t think they have to “try” to look good & often think they’re better looking than they are due to the patriarchal narrative of being “entitled” to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:13 AM
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Their wording of things. Like if they talk about body counts, “average looks,” anything that involves a scale, the way they may use the word “female” and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:24 AM
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Um, no. It’s also other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:23 AM
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https://thesocietypages.org/socimages/2011/01/22/examining-the-new-mediocre-man/ gor·geous: adjective beautiful; very attractive. I’m not sure why you would need that defined either. It’s self-explanatory really.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:22 AM
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Literally 99.99/10 men whose post here that I’ve replied to tells me all I need to know in his next response tho often even his wording in a post gives it away too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:41 AM
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So do women, but we’re surviving lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:39 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:38 AM
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It just isn’t true. I see ton of mediocre men with gorgeous women just walking around a mall. Go take a look around lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:18 AM
1

Same with men swiping women….
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:15 AM
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They didn’t say “personality” first. Charisma (charming/ confidence) is key & then who he is all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:14 AM
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Lmao just proving their point with this rant bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:11 AM
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Yes to everything you said. That’s exactly what happens when you try to converse with people here too. It becomes apparent right away why they’re single & they still don’t want to hear it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:10 AM
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Again, if women statistically start offing men at the rates men do to women then you can come back and say “I know you are, but what am I.” Until then, your deflection just appears silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:22 PM
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When you don’t have to worry about stepping outside daily without fear we’ll have more sympathy. How about that? No. The same cannot be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:20 PM
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No sir. Men simply having disadvantages from other men is not the same as oppression that women have faced & still face. Your argument is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:16 PM
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If a big movement of men with women came down on shitty men YES I do think there’d be a difference! That is how we have always made change. United we stand, divided we fall. But even you said it. You’ll call it out unless harm will come your way. But so too does it to women & tenfold to what it would be to you. Then we have men telling us they’re “protectors” but most times actually won’t worried about harm to them. There’s just not enough effort all around socially & lawfully by men as they’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:04 PM
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That would be good if there weren’t more bad men as a literal mortal threat compared to women being a mortal threat to men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:58 PM
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No there doesn’t. There needs to be more agreement on the issue & progress by the “good men” stopping the “bad men.” Not “good men” diminishing a woman’s experience by “waving a hand” being like “don’t worry I’m not one of them!”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:30 AM
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This is literally why women get so heated in debates. Men cannot speak to what we go through on a daily basis due to men. They have no idea what it’s like. Yes; it has zero to do with looks & everything with feeling entitled. They think they’re entitled to our attention & to give us their unsolicited opinions. Mortuaries don’t like hiring men because they literally will fuck corpses ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:57 AM
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Women don’t give a flying fuck if a man is bent about her having past partners. If they do, then a woman will say “see ya” & find a real man. It’s literally not hard. Men are lucky if women will marry them these days. Many are now choosing to be single lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:23 AM
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So? Lol my point was that women desire sex, period. 🤷🏼‍♀️ It also doesn’t HAVE to centre around ovulation. Women want sex at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:19 AM
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I have no idea why you keep trying to separate women from different countries first of all. Doing this is trying to say “western women have it good & should now just shut up.” No. It’s not “good” when we’re still not equal HUMAN BEINGS no matter where we are in the world, period. Your comparison to women’s struggles vs men is just laughable at this point. Men “died for women’s rights.” Lmao As if women weren’t assaulted, raped and killed by men trying to get any rights. Who would have killed men…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:18 AM
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It’s not. No idea where you got that from. Also, just because a woman’s sexual prime is in their 30+ it doesn’t mean they don’t desire sex beforehand or have high libidos. I was just mentioning “especially.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:10 AM
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Lmao because it is! You have no idea what it’s like being a woman to state we’re “paranoid” when statistics show that men kill women more than women kill women nor can you comment on our daily experiences. Literally daily women have to diffuse at least one situation with a “bad” man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:51 AM
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I did address it. I said it’s amazingly hilarious. You’re trying to deflect that men physically are more of a threat to women than women are to men by trying to put men in the same space.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:03 AM
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“Entitled & coddled?” As opposed to what? Being a human being just like men lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:01 AM
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No one is proving your point as it’s simply untrue. Men have NEVER BEEN oppressed by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:57 AM
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Sir, women were the property of men as any history books will tell you. I don’t have to prove what exists literally everywhere one looks in books & historical websites. Do you think racism & slavery were feminist construct too? If feminists created history of women then how do you explain men still being in charge today?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:57 AM
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I can see why you’re handle is “long jumping” because your “reach” here is amazingly hilarious lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:52 AM
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Men are jealous that most women can have sex whenever they want. It’s really that simple. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:46 AM
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Maybe you shouldn’t be on a Western owned website if you can’t stand the western worlds views?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:45 AM
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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with age gaps as long as the elder of the two isn’t doing it because they can’t get away with shit they do from someone their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:42 AM
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LMAO women desire sex. It’s just men usually don’t view sex as for the pleasure of two…. Women especially desire sex 30+ as it’s in their sexual prime. Hormones are going off like that of a teenage boy then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:40 AM
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”The feminist historical narrative in our culture is that women have been oppressed and sexually controlled for most of human history” It’s just history bro. Feminists didn’t create its narrative. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:37 AM
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This is literally a good example of men not reading the room & being oblivious to what women go through daily due to them. Of course it was “creepy” because she was cornered by a stranger who could cause physical harm regardless if that was his intention or not. Part of the issue is “good men” don’t proactively think before acting due to the way women have to live because of “bad men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:32 AM
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I don’t think women care about this at all to be honest. Lol. Just like men don’t care about women’s dating struggles. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:24 AM
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I’ve never seen the beauty standard talk much about men because men (patriarchy) created it for women who have to “jump hoops” to keep up with it because it’s always been the narrative that women need to please men & men are just entitled to women no matter what. Now that it’s 2023 women have broken out of that narrative & men are finding out they aren’t the “bees knees” who can just “have” a woman if they wish despite their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:01 PM
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Men are willing to be in a relationship where they aren’t attracted & don’t even like the woman. So I’d say yes to your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:23 PM
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Usually it just means “read the room.” If a woman is engrossed in an activity such as jogging, reading, working out, etc that’s not the time to approach lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:25 PM
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You men that you’re trying to “promote” men are “protective” when it’s literally protection from other MEN that is the answer therefore making it moot?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:38 PM
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Both do for different reasons. The main issue is a disconnect in respect for each other due to dating apps & that it’s made people a product instead of human beings. Dating apps were never intended to work. They’ve always been intended to make money. They keep men in low margins of being “seen” by the women they swipe on because they KNOW men are their biggest target. That said, dating apps have “vices” that men tend to fall for (statistically) more than women. When they were created, many men s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:35 PM
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🎵” One of these things are not like the other; One of these things just doesn't belong, Can you tell which thing is not like the others 🎵 by the time I finish my song.”🎵LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:04 AM
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Nope. Completely opposite. Women are literally picked apart in looks from young girls so they never feel adequate while men are constantly talked up about theirs since boyhood including when they’re older. “Silver fox’s” vs “women will be cat ladies.” https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6428027/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:29 AM
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What….lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:08 PM
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Lol how about men just don’t attack women? It’s literally not on the woman to have to alter herself for a man’s behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:45 AM
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Women have been asking men for 50 yrs now to change in this way. It’s not new. There’s literally no excuse that men are still acting like children for adult tasks. Their partners are not their mothers. If the men you know are like this then their parents failed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:36 AM
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It’s called statistics bro. That’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:31 AM
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Um…no…. It’s not rocket science nor is it the “1900’s.” It’s been DECADES since it was just “girls being required to help around the house.” Men are just assuming women will do it as well as work outside the home, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:09 AM
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The domestic labor you’re describing in the home is simply called “adulting.” It’s not a “woman or man thing.” As human beings, it’s safer to be hygienic…. ”If something. Was unfun, traumatizing, expensive, and didn't hold a future of a lifestyle you yourself value, would you be inclined to give a ton of effort just because you're SUPPOSED to want that?” Um…yes; “welcome to what women have had to do for centuries with men” & why more & more are choosing to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:14 AM
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Most men would pick a conventionally beautiful nitwit over a smart pretty woman. What is your point? Blame men’s preferences too then? Why is it okay for men to have preferences & women can’t? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:38 PM
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Bahahahaha. Literally studies & statistics are “random things” when they don’t fit your narrative, hey? Sir those are reputable sites & only a mere few to prove you wrong. Also, there are MANY forms of negging & yes that’s what you’re trying to do & it’s giving me life laughing my ass off over here LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:35 PM
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That last part isn’t an argument. Just like men, women will fuck who they want when they want & don’t see every man as relationship potential. It’s not exclusive to who’s considered “conventionally attractive” either because attraction is subjective. Of course tho, both women & men who aren’t that physically attractive have to work a bit harder on other areas to project more attractiveness. If they can’t get someone it’s something they’re doing. Not the ones they pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:27 PM
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LMAO of course they make most of the purchasing decisions. As I said, they “do it all.” Also the “wild ideas” you speak of (that not at all are gender based & can include “many” an expensive time consuming hobby a man has) is nowhere NEAR comparable to being the one who: 90% parents one or more children, cooks for everyone, cleans the house, does all the laundry, does all the family life planning, does all the grocery shopping, etc DAILY while working a part or full time job in the workforce up …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:49 AM
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Men will have sex with corpses. I think it is fair to say they do weigh sex differently than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:04 AM
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Women benefit from not being in a relationship with a man because statistically they’re still doing “it all” when in a relationship with them even though they’ve also been in the workforce for 50 years now. There’s insanely less stress without one & they’re finding fulfillment in their careers & bonds with their women friends more satisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:47 AM
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The majority of men are still like this statistically, never mind Boomer men. Also women couldn’t have a credit card or own a home on their own until the mid 1970’s. There weren’t “choices.” Lol Today tho it’s why 80% of women file for divorce. That’s their “choice” they finally get nowadays & they’re taking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:00 AM
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Lmao it’s the fact you keep trying to neg for me when I literally provided receipts to my argument. Sit down 🪑, you’ve been schooled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:22 AM
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Please join us in 2023 bud lol. Women don’t need men anymore, but they would like a decent partner. Couples are making similar incomes & many women are having kids past 40. Also, hate to break it to, but as women start menopause around age 50+, you go through andropause staring at 35 where your sperm quality & viability starts decreasing. The amount of abnormal sperm increases & contributes to birth defects. As you also start to lose testosterone increasingly after age 35, your muscle mass start…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:59 AM
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Why is that? “Droughts,” I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:52 AM
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Exactly….There’s no quality lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:51 AM
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Yeah…I’d “bow out” too if a person came back with facts I can’t deny either lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:49 AM
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How has their quality expired? When do you think men’s “quality” expires?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:46 AM
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Bro. It’s the QUALITY that’s hard to find. Not the QUANTITY. LMAO just hilarious reading these comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:25 AM
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LMAO YA….I don’t think so bud. Women aren’t having issues dating at your same age whatsoever if they want to. Quite the opposite of what women have been told would happen for decades. “The gig is up” lol. It’s the quality that’s the issue, not the quantity. If you need to tell yourself what you posted to feel good then more power to you in fantasyland haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:23 AM
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Lmao you’re SO RIGHT!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:49 AM
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What are you even talking about? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:17 AM
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“Invading your space?” You mean “existing.” Lmao Just told on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:30 AM
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Yes for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:29 AM
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“Men ignored for decades.” Bahahahaha Statistics prove you wrong. https://www.npr.org/2023/04/13/1168961388/pew-earnings-gender-wage-gap-housework-chores-child-care https://www.ucl.ac.uk/epidemiology-health-care/news/2019/nov/women-still-doing-most-housework-despite-earning-more https://archive-yaleglobal.yale.edu/content/should-women-stay-single https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:24 AM
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Totally. I cannot believe most of what I see in comments here. When I joined this subreddit I thought intelligent debates would occur, but it’s a lot of ranting of sad, delusional, feeling entitled men (who should just stay in red pill) mad & completely against women being human beings & not existing just for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:07 AM
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Okay? Women have the right to be with men they’re attracted to just like men with women. Not sure how you think that’s a point. I also disagree about them being “vast majority” emotionally intelligent when you look at the vast imbalance once they couple in workload. Women go into dating looking for a partner. They aren’t looking at men deciding if they’re average” or below average” as if they’re a product. Saying any of these things in an argument just highlights your problem dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:02 AM
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Everything benefits men lol, but also we were talking specifically about misogyny so no idea why you answered this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:49 PM
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Unless they want to. Any hobby of theirs is a perfect example of all they will do for that over a relationship with women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:46 PM
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So since we don’t “live 200 yrs ago,” you must also think racism doesn’t exist? Misandry is not an active action like misogyny. It cannot be systematic. It’s reactive to thousands of years of oppression that has generational trauma & systemic obstacles that still happen today & just because “women in the west” have more than women elsewhere is a horrible & demanding argument. Women are women. When any suffer at the hands of men it’s ALL OF US. Misogyny is men hating women because they won’t do w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:45 PM
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Well we can’t be sure, can we? I personally think the opposite. As a woman, we see men not making any effort in this way just assuming their “money & muscles suffices” when we’re “screaming” it’s not what we want or need & have been for decades now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:25 PM
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You cited “white women from affluent families wanting for nothing” as if generational & systemic trauma doesn’t exist nor the fact women are still not equal today (yes in the western world). I find it strange that “everyone” accepts racism, homophobia, & other oppressions, but many men think women should just “get over it” when it’s still rooted in everything today like all the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:23 PM
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If they were “adapting to reality” the way to go would be to work on emotional intelligence & maturity as an adult seeing women not needing them to be providers any longer & want someone they don’t have to mother (and often along with their actual birthed children. (P.S. the only reason women needed them that way in the first place was because THEY HAD NO CHOICE & wouldn’t literally survive otherwise) But no, young men are choosing to be “red pill” taking things back to 1950 instead of being a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:31 AM
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Tell that to the women in the United States who have no rights to their own bodies. Slaves were owned. Property. SO WERE WOMEN. Both were not seen as human beings. It’s systemic & generational trauma that continues today. It most certainly IS comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:22 AM
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Who are the men “protecting” women from….?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:17 AM
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Lmao that’s not what misogyny means….
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:16 AM
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They like to blame us for their problems tho. They somehow really think we should be doing the men’s issues work FOR them. Typical & ridiculous at the same time lol. When you tell them things like you have the typical response is: “we tried but “they” made fun of us.” (You know, as if women didn’t have WORSE trying to be seen as human beings….)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:16 AM
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“Woe is men.” LMAO “no one (men) cares” about the problems men have.” -But men do nothing to help themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:13 AM
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Boomer women will be the last generation that’s going to put up with men’s weaponized incompetence. I don’t blame them being bitter having to live their whole lives taking care of them like they’re their mother (major ick btw), 90% parent their actual children & work full time outside the home, but also doing all the domestic labor & life scheduling for the family, while their “man” works his 9-5 then comes home & “relaxes” in front of the tv lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:08 AM
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Normally I’d agree with you, but have you seen men trying period or labor simulators “go down” at level 2 while women don’t even flinch at level 10? Therefore can a man fathom giving birth? No. Women aren’t weak bro lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:04 AM
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No it doesn’t. I literally posted the definition of the patriarchy. It’s men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:59 AM
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Women aren’t used to men being nice to them. Those who recoil from it need to realize why & work on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:39 AM
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How do you think she got that way…..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:24 AM
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Lmao! Sir who do you think the PATRIARCHY are!? It’s men. Men are the patriarchy. 🤦🏼‍♀️ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:19 AM
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Women are assaulted, sexually assaulted & killed by men more than women. You cannot use “men killing men” as your selling point. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:17 AM
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You literally can “walk outside daily” & not have to fear for your life. You’re just moving goalposts. Misandry is not bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:06 PM
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This makes zero sense. It has nothing to do with being “bad.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:01 PM
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The OP has to do specifically with understanding misandry. Not “bad” or good.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:00 PM
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Women have never oppressed men. It’s that simple. Men are misogynistic because women aren’t doing what they want & feel entitled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:59 PM
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Men have never been oppressed by women sir. Would you tell POC to get over slavery? Jewish people to get over the Holocaust? Women were literally PROPERTY of men. They were raped at will even by their own husbands. Women of all colour are still not equal today. Money means absolutely nothing here. We don’t get the same medical treatment, women in the United States doesn’t even have rights to their own bodies. Men are still the most “gender” to assault, SA, & kill women today as well. Pick the ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:57 PM
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You might as well ask “how is racism different from other forms of bigotry in a way that makes it acceptable?” Misandry is a reaction (to 4000 yrs of oppression & more); not a chosen active action as is such with bigotry. People (men/women/other) choose to be racist, homophobic, etc, Women don’t choose to hate men. Men do choose to be misogynistic, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:46 AM
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It’s the cost of living bro. The 1% can’t gaslight us anymore. It’s come to a head. People can’t afford to eat let alone have kids. The cost of living has been extremely imbalanced since early 2000’s when tech took off & the pandemic finally exposed it to the masses so the few who saw it all along aren’t shouting in the dark anymore. I remember jobs being dissolved, or cut & doubled up, “replaced with” because “it’s all easier now” (due to software & systems). I knew then it wasn’t going to go w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:34 AM
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Hun, this is a tale as old as time - but in the reverse situation. If it’s happening for unattractive women too now then more power to them lol. But also saying they’re “settling” is giving “shallow.” Fine to say you see attractive men with unattractive women, but you don’t know any of them to make a “settling” judgement. It’s only so much about looks & needs more eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:07 AM
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I’ve never heard “women are “magic.” If we were, I’m sure we’d be worried about more important things than men lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:28 AM
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He doesn’t get change won’t happen until short men create a movement on this issue. He’s blaming women & expecting we’re the ones to do it for them when we ain’t their mom lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:31 PM
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You do get that the latter you speak of lie & manipulate the women they target, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:22 PM
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You can’t have empathy or sympathy for people who won’t actually “do” something about their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:20 PM
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Lol you say this as if there’s not women out there who have to do the exact same if they don’t have “conventionally attractive” looks. It’s not a competition to create some “power imbalance” within a relationship about that at all. You aren’t supposed to think about who you can attract outside a committed relationship lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:45 AM
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If someone has “average looks” then they need confidence & personality to up their chances, no? It’s unlikely that women are lying that they have a bad personality. In my experience if a guy isn’t that conveniently attractive he’s too in his own head about it & that’s why it doesn’t work out for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:41 AM
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We don’t owe being attracted to what you consider an “average man” lol, but also, personally I don’t need any validation from men & will “pump & dump” with the best of them all by myself. Don’t you worry lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:20 AM
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Oh they got “bullied” hey? That’s exactly what I’m talking about lol smh…..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:49 AM
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Here’s a newsflash: we can sense it in “good looking” men too….lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:48 AM
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Having an attitude of “below average” women is likely why those “average men” don’t get laid really lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:35 AM
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Um, no you didn’t lol, but also that is our issue. We made a movement. We put in effort for change. YOU (men) need to help yourselves first —just like we do….
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:21 AM
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If women ran away at everything that “came at them” like “name-calling” & “not being taken seriously” we’d not be where we are today (which isn’t perfect by ANY means, but we have a lot of rights we never used to as human beings nevertheless). We literally used to be a man’s “property” ffs lol. Men, in all their issues, need to stop using “but they called us “this” “but they did that” to excuse why “nothing is done” for issues just so you all can continue to complain about it. It’s as if y’all a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:29 AM
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I think it’s because when a group is marginalized it takes them to step up & start doing something about it. That would mean that short men need to form a movement for their cause so it’s them that needs to be asked your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:21 AM
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No. The patriarchal narrative of women’s options diminishing is false likely first constructed to keep us “down.” Because everyone is taught this it’s like a secret women don’t know until they’re there completely shocking them. I can’t speak to men’s options.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:24 AM
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Pls. “Threaten us”. Threaten not wanting us then. We beg you…..lmao. Smh….
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:45 AM
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Lol you take what they said about being a partner & SHOW a woman that. With ACTIONS. Even upon meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:41 AM
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The “handbook” would be asking women you know & reading comments from actual women all over the internet on what they want. It’s everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:25 PM
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When the incels out themselves like that guy we know a nerve was hit. They’re so clueless at how dumb they look commenting shit like that. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:16 PM
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YES!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:12 PM
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Everything you’ve said here is COMPLETELY false. That “video evidence” you’re talking about wasn’t even THEM & the police BULLIED the victim into saying it was. Someone completely traumatized & a people pleaser. Many of the actual suspects weren’t even QUESTIONED. One got to go to casually fishing & come in for questioning “when they could.” The victims were treated like shit, some accused falsely of false reporting having their faces plastered on the internet then proof of the rape surfaced. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:10 PM
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It doesn’t “suck” for everyone. Not everyone needs another person to make them feel “whole” or “validated,” period. Not everyone gets lonely either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:30 AM
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He’s just delusional on this. Women don’t want to be a side piece & “share men.” Lol The things men come up with…smh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:28 AM
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The crap the victims of rape have to go through is not something anyone “normal” would want to falsely go through. It’s estimated 63% of SA goes UNREPORTED due to SO many obstacles & RE trauma a victim has to go through just with police, never mind, a trial (if it even gets there). Many victims are treated as suspects by police when they report their rape. There’s a documentary on Netflix about it called “Victim/Suspect” & it’s just OUTRAGEOUS. I can’t believe it’s not being talked about everywh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:03 AM
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I see. Well I get that. I’m short too, but I don’t think of it sucking even tho so many men don’t go for short women. I pointed out in another comment to someone else that on tv & in movies short women are either “comedic relief” or “evil AF” sidekicks. Lol Anyway, your feelings are valid & I hope with life experience it changes for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:37 PM
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I don’t want to deny your feelings. I “used” this subreddit as “proof” (in the tongue & cheek way I was) because men in them often complain about women “caring about a man’s height” do just the same saying “all over Tiktok, Twitter, etc” in their complaints. I think men who have deep rooted feelings about their height need therapy to work on it rather than blame women “caring/not caring” about it or it will always haunt them & be a detriment to their success in many things even besides dating wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:10 PM
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My dad is 5’6 & never had a problem according to all his girlfriends photos I saw in photo albums when he was younger. Lol I’m a wee 5’1. LOTS of men don’t like short girls. In tv & movies we’re either “comic relief” “or evil AF” sidekicks, but I’ve never “felt the need” to “blame others” for it lol, you know? Yes people have preferences, but most women don’t look at or think about it like men do with “averages” & “scales of 1-10.” What we subconsciously weigh is a man’s character & personality …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:25 AM
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Women don’t look at everything as a competition & we don’t look at men as objects. That is why when you talk about “averages & scales of 1-10” you think we do to. No. We do not. We tell you we don’t & you refuse to listen. Also, “breadwinner?” Lmao this isn’t 1950. We all work for money making close to the same (save for the wage gap). I’ve dated both short men & tall men. The longest relationship of 13 yrs my partner was 5’8. I’ve also dated men up to 6’4. Height wasn’t the problem. Their emoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:31 AM
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I see your point about sympathy. Tho here your point isn’t showing whatsoever as men in this thread are dragging the short OP whereas women wouldn’t be dragging women over their weight. We’d empower her. Again that’s the difference & goes back to my original point once again. Most women I know irl don’t care if a man is short. We’re more concerned with them being a proper adult, kind, & respectful because as simple as that sounds it’s near impossible to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:25 AM
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Again, STFU & sit down 🪑 with your delusions you sad excuse for a man. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:19 AM
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Sir. Women were property, as I’ve said. We haven’t ever had power. As for hard labor & etc - women literally weren’t ALOWED to WORK in the workforce & needed men to survive. Tho women didn’t have the modern conveniences for laundry & more back then too so their labor was just as hard. Never mind LABOR OF BIRTH. STFU. Lol Take your incel behaviour & cry elsewhere. You’re full of shit with historical inaccuracy in all your replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:26 PM
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My point was men seem to always blame women for it when it isn’t just women (as evidenced by this thread). As for “empathy/sympathy.” Women understand how it feels to be “oppressed.” Most men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:24 PM
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Women don’t sit here thinking they’re “average anything” desiring “above average” anything. Both women & men deserve anyone they meet if that person is attracted to them & likes them, period. It’s not a competition & we aren’t a “herd of sheep” who explicitly most follow “scales & averages,” period. Stop trying to blame women for your own failures with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:15 PM
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Sir, men created our society. Women were PROPERTY. You cannot say they internalized it by women! LMAO Part of how men created domesticated society was deciding what was “masculine” & what was “feminine.” They also looked back on cavemen days where “bigger, taller, stronger men” would dominate “smaller, shorter, weaker men” for food, shelter, women, etc. Men have internalized what men created for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:11 PM
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“I don’t see” any of the bs you’ve just tried to peddle here on Twitter or Tiktok. Only the EVIDENCE OF THIS THREAD I’m speaking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:03 PM
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Totally. Even if you try to discuss it with them they still want to be mad at women about it in every reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:00 PM
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Ya I’ve been saying this forever. Men started this “way back when” for “dominance” of each other then it trickled into domesticated society that was also created by men, in which, women internalized. Yet men constantly blame women for its origin somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:58 PM
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The whole reason it’s done is because of men tho! For thousands of years. In which, some women have internalized. If you “bring down” your own gender for something you think it’s not going to affect others? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:55 PM
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No. We don’t. Men do. Women don’t think of this bs daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:53 PM
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I love that a short man posted this & it’s all men in the comments coming after him calling him “little fella” & shit. Just proving it’s not actually women who “bring short men” down. It’s their own fucking gender; a tale as old as time….lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:46 AM
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Women don’t “sit there” thinking what a “high value man” “is.” Just men do. Literally MOST OF US don’t “sit there” with some “stupid shallow checklist” at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:59 AM
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I said it twice. The second time because you asked what I meant. I haven’t posted “links” because all one has to to is type “rape statistics” & “murder statistics” in the fucking Google search bar & a PLETHORA of reputable & legit links will appear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:42 AM
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I did answer your question. Google what I told you. There will be tons of reputable results. You do know how to type words in a search bar, no? Anyone can see these results are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:47 AM
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”You’ve had/got the entire society behind you, protecting you.” Rape/murder statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:23 PM
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Literally “Google” “rape statistics.” 1 in 6 women will be raped within their lifetime & a SA happens every 68 seconds. This does not include that MOST assaults aren’t reported. As for killing women, do you think it’s women killing more women than men killing more women? Because no. It’s not. Again easy to “Google” “murder statistics.” While men are the most killed (by guess who? other MEN) the majority of the reasons for them being killed is drug/gang related. For women the majority is intimate…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:21 PM
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Today’s men statistically are still “at large” raping & killing women. When I said for “4000 years,” sadly, I’m including up to today.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:33 AM
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Oh no. It is. It’s far from not putting women on “pedestals.” It’s dehumanizing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:31 AM
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Lmao literally history immediately discredits anything you’ve just said along with statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:29 AM
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The red pill tells men what to do to get women instead of asking women what they want. It’s a place that attracts the saddest men possible instilling misogyny & patriarchal views that’s have been outdated to attract women for at least 50 yrs now. Since they are entirely wrong, it then creates an environment of incels blaming women for why they “can’t get them.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:50 AM
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I’ve already made the argument, long ago, in which, all you’ve done in reply is repeatedly try to blame women lol. Sit down 🪑
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:14 AM
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You aren’t “telling” anything, but that you blame women for your short comings. As for the anti-depressants, that study was done about 5 yrs ago & found it was mostly Boomer women (60+), which, duh!!!! Their whole life was basically led by men. It’s no fucking wonder lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:49 AM
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It’s not at all. Taking that view from what I said is part of your problem right there. Stop blaming us for your lack of effort!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:31 PM
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All your comment is doing is proving my point trying to blame women yet again as well as making remarks trying to “neg.” It doesn’t work on us like it does on you lol. Stop worrying about us. We’re living our best lives thriving while you’re wallowing in yours still waiting for things to be “handed to you” due to male privilege which isn’t “it” anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:26 PM
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It has been flipped for literally CENTURIES & we turned it around for ourselves. It’s still a work in progress, but we’ve come a long way. Men have refused to budge for us & themselves in many areas such as domestically in partnership, emotionally, & parenting for DECADES now. It’s all just “woe is me” & “but women will call us names” when we suggest they make a movement for themselves to say “be able to show emotions without backlash, etc.” Look at what women have been through at the hands of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:41 PM
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Unemployed no. Less money, yes. It all depends on his personality & ethics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:53 PM
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Just that men can really like a woman, but when she displays “green flags” they will worry how long it will take that woman to see all their “flaws” & dip thinking she’s “too good” for him. Sometimes, when a woman is on “equal ground” (per se) in most ways (values, careers, intellect, etc) it intimidates a lot of men, I think, because it seems to have been “wired” in men to “always be competing” in some Internal struggles of insecurities like women just the same. It’s usually underlying issues f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:26 AM
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I think it’s more that when men see women are green flags they don’t feel “good enough” for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:40 AM
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Most women don’t care to ask men about their sexual past because they know it’s none of their business what men did before they existed with him in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:29 AM
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LMAO! Women cannot have “externalized” sexism. Sorry, men created ALL OF IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:06 AM
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Bullshit. Women don’t think like this. MEN do. Talking about “keeping her insecure” and “lower than your level” is why you have problems with them. My exes are my exes. I don’t give a shit about them or think of them when I have a new relationship in these ways you’ve described. The only thing I bring into a new relationship is experience on what personality traits to watch out for. That is what I’m doing. Hands down I would see right through a guy like you & dip.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:00 AM
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I literally said it was up to women with internalized sexism to fix it for themselves. It’s just the reason for it was created by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:48 PM
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It’s not “acting.” It just “is.” No one can cancel out what’s been beaten into us for literally thousands of years, but it has evolved a lot. You’re just bent this can’t be blamed solely on women. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:34 PM
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There’s no “or.” That’s exactly what I’ve said - internalized sexism. But who do you think “made up” what “masculinity” & “femininity,” for thwt matter, “are.” Men - the patriarchy; as I’ve said. Both men & women have grown up with that narrative. It’s up to those women who’ve internalized this narrative to work on themselves to realize it’s just “human” & not be “turned off” by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:35 PM
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Women who you’re describing have internalized sexism. It’s from growing up with the patriarchal narrative pushes on “what a man is.” These women need therapy to work out that conditioning. ”Any time it’s brought up that this reinforces toxic masculinity and that it scares men into trying to be more stoic and defensive of their masculinity it gets shut down.”. Women would be nowhere today if they worried/let what “so & so said” about them deter them. Why are men? Why aren’t they out there with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:11 AM
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You’re wrong. Men are “hornier” in their teens & 20’s when their sex drive is highest. Women are “hornier” near age 30 & up when their sex drive is highest & like that of a boy to man in their teens & 20’s of “intensity.” Its the norm/majority (with exceptions as always in anything), but it’s all about hormones. Science.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:34 PM
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Ya you are a joke. I hope you have the day you deserve in whatever 3rd world misogynist country you’re in on a Western world owned site.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:30 PM
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Ask American women. They literally don’t have the right to their own body ffs. Your ignorance & entitlement are showing. “LMAO”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:57 PM
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LMAO no need to read past the title. We already ARE treated this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:46 AM
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https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health https://archive-yaleglobal.yale.edu/content/should-women-stay-single https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20220511-why-women-file-for-divorce-more-than-men Also. STOP with this “women tingles” crap. It’s creepy AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:53 AM
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It’s not men’s primal nature in a DOMESTICATED SOCIETY. They can control it & chose not to. You obviously do not have any science background to discuss abortion or babies either if that’s your answer to that. It doesn’t even have to be that they chose an abortion. Women’s lives are at risk if the pregnancy isn’t going as it’s supposed to, but they’re made to carry it out. Even if it’s KNOWN the baby won’t survive, be deformed, have no developed brain/or other, or has died & the woman has to carr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:03 AM
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It’s not women who act like “wild animals.” Who do you think is responsible for the MAJORITY of violent crimes? And the majority of raping & murdering women? 🤔 Also, tell the women in the United States about their “great power” too when they literally have ZERO rights to their own bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:54 AM
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Statistics show the happiest people are women without children & married women die earlier than single women. Regardless, you AGAIN left out women saying it worked for “men & children.” You don’t see women as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:49 AM
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It’s not a dating sub, but everyday is a post here by men about dating. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:18 PM
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“What worked for most people.” You mean men. You just cannot fathom putting in effort that isn’t money or building your muscles. That is the problem. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:13 PM
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It’s sad you base your life on what other people think. I don’t. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:02 PM
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Um…because OP brought it up with their cheese comment? 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:00 PM
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Keep being lonely.✌🏻😂No one is talking “biologically” here. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:57 PM
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They’re either hot (just like a hot woman gets attention from many men) or they lie & manipulate which is just “normalized” even tho it’s predatory, coercion, & uninformed consent to gain access to someone’s body.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:50 AM
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As a woman you sound like you have internalized sexism with some of your words here. I don’t think anyone should take this advice tbh lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:33 AM
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It’s been a long-standing “faux pas” at a restaurant date to talk about prices because obviously if you’re at a restaurant prices are higher than a grocery store. It’s poor taste; & it left her with…. “a poor taste” of that man’s personality. 😂 As for “ghosting” that goes both ways in dating today, in which, I don’t agree with at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:24 AM
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That’s BS. There’s men complaining of even buying their date a “hot dog” out there for god sake. LMAO There’s plenty of “non-chads” thinking they’re just entitled to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:43 AM
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The lack of success for men stems largely from the lack of effort to evolve emotionally & domestically being a true equal partner with women that should have made way more progress since the 1970’s by now. We also still have a problem with many men not seeing women as human beings so the advent of dating apps has created chaos. They’ve made people a product & no one given an inch/takes a mile like men do. Never any patience to get to know any one person & addicted to swiping for more. It’s like …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:29 PM
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Women do not benefit at all being with a man. They never have. They didn’t have a choice before or they wouldn’t survive. They were made to take on certain roles. Now that women make their own money & men refuse to evolve since at least the 1970’s by way of domestically, emotional intelligence, & emotionally maturity to be an equal & fulfilling partner with women it’s become even more that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:10 PM
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I don’t see any data provided by you to support your claims here. It seems like just another sad rant that has been posted many times from “woe is me” men here constantly. Attraction comes in many forms & with many variables as it’s subjective. No one said it’s “rational” because it’s not just one type of “way” to define it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:16 AM
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The “spark” is your gut warning you as you’re likely feeling something for a person that your body recognizes feeling for a past partner that triggered your issues within yourself. It’s an adrenaline stress response. It’s why people say people “have a type.” The common denominator is you. People can become more attracted to someone over time even if they weren’t “feeling it” initially, therefore. Many men here make up those “numbers, levels, etc,” to try to rationalize their failures with women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:37 AM
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I don’t get why so many men on here equate perceived attractiveness as having to be with a person who’s “equally attractive.” People like other people for all sorts of reasons. It’s doesn’t mean it has to be what’s projected to us what “beauty is.” We all have different preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:10 AM
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It’s not lying when it’s none of your business. Lol The overuse of the word “goalpost” doesn’t apply here. A criminal past is in no comparison to what someone does with their own body as a human being. That’s ridiculous. When you’re lying to someone specifically to get sex it is coercion & uniformed consent, period. It cannot be disputed. You’re lying to gain access to someone’s body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:51 AM
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Not it’s not. Not when it comes to human beings. Human beings aren’t material things to objectify.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:36 AM
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Your whole post is just one big ‘ole objectification of women telling us you don’t see them at all as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:37 AM
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Except there haven’t. There’s literally been WAY more rape than anyone who’s lied about it. It’s not even a comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:31 AM
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It’s literally statistics & is not “discredited” just because of one company (Google). If you want to talk about “discredited” then you can say that about your last two points. Women have worked now for 50 yrs & don’t need men to “provide” for them which we’ve been telling them for just as long. As for kids. There’s a huge jump in childless women by choice. So no, they aren’t all “running out to be “teachers.” Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:27 AM
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We aren’t equal yet. In the United States women don’t even have the right to their own bodies. Statistically women get paid .83 to a man’s $1.00. Also, dating is short-term. The relationship is long-term. Statistics show that women are still doing the majority of domestic labor (cooking, cleaning, laundry, family life planning) & 90% parenting while working part time or full time hours in the workforce while men work their workforce job then come home & “relax.” So you’re suggesting to save “$5.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:24 AM
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LMAO ….well thanks for coming out.👋🏻👀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:18 AM
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Um lol no….it’s none of your business what people do in their lives before you know them or you’re committed to them. Unless a woman lies to you about their feelings for you & wanting a relationship just to get sex from YOU it’s not coercion or uninformed sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:50 AM
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All you can do is be honest. They will ask why you never wanted to be in one before. Yes, it can be a red flag, but with good communication about it, it can reduce the colour. Women want men to “tell their story” so to speak & be honest. It’s how we feel close to you/get to know you. Also, 9.9/10 we find out everything no matter how a guy tries to hide shit. Just remember those odds. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:24 AM
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You mean predatorily coerce women with uninformed consent to get sex? No it’s not acceptable. It is wrong & it would mean you’re a rapist. Yes, I know men do it all the time & it’s rape that’s normalized in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:01 AM
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Men should have a personality more than “money & muscles;” be emotionally mature/intelligent, be an adult domestically & see women as another human being treating them with kindness & respect or their looks do not matter to us whatsoever in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:06 PM
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They just want to cry together. Lol Never want to actually listen to women. ….Who actually know what women think & want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:01 PM
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Almost every day on this sub is a post of a sad AF man complaining women only want “attractive” men. And almost every day reading their replies to comments (& the comments agreeing with the OP) prove why they’re really single. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:24 AM
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Not me. I’d love dating a gamer. But also weed & beer is a must too lol. 😁 The rest listed? Hell no. I’m an Ambivert tho. (I like my alone time with “spurts” of extroversion here & there)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:47 AM
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“Body count” is not a standard. It’s an act of human discrimination that has been against women in particular for decades. If any woman felt that way toward a man she has internalized misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:39 AM
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OMG I read this as ”do women resent men who are late BOOMERS?!” & my answer was, “yes.” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:12 AM
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Probably because if it weren’t for men, women wouldn’t have to constantly jump hoops to “be” what’s expected in beauty standard of them that changes all the time. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:06 PM
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Ahh well I can confidently say women are actually in their prime 30+ despite what the patriarchy puts out. It’s like a “hidden secret” women learn when they get there. They aren’t expecting it (due to what they’re told since a child), but men of all ages come out of the woodwork. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:54 PM
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Women 30+ don’t “tend to settle.” They STOP settling. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:11 AM
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🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ every day….stop obsessing about height men….smh…..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:10 AM
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Because they will put in all the effort in the world to try to make women not expect any effort from them instead no matter how simple it actually would be to put in the effort for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:04 AM
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I’m asking because sometimes it’s about age or fertility or both with them & I have scientific answers. Fertility obviously is prime when younger (early 20’s) as a woman still has most of her eggs. When they mean “physical attractiveness” a woman’s prime sexually starts near her 30’s & on, but also attractiveness is subjective. Either way the Red Pill men are mostly men who have no scientific, psychological, or medical background & often are just being misogynistic is what they say is “prime.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:52 AM
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Of course they do. It’s because they’ve been taught since boys the “world is their oyster” just because they’re “men.” It’s a sense of entitlement that manifests delusions lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:49 AM
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I mean do you just mean “young” as in “prime,” because there’s many things that can be “prime.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:46 AM
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What do they mean by in their “prime” tho? Can you break it down how they “judge” a woman’s “prime?”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:18 AM
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How do you not get how disgusting & stupid you are? Lol Just openly outing yourself like an idiot. Lmao EDIT: to “Admirable-Horror-817” You can block me, but I still saw your last reply: Who the fuck said anything about “owing” us? Give your head a shake. The trauma in you is talking to itself out loud here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:12 AM
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Because men also have “body counts” & sex is a natural human need & want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:57 PM
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No it’s not because it then shows that man doesn’t consider women human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:30 PM
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FACTS.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:01 PM
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Of course it’s Western. The site you’re on is a WESTERN owned site. No one cares of the “plight of men” in Afghanistan (other than they should all be jailed lol); never mind their “warped & sadistic” view on women. You aren’t even on Western women’s level to be even remotely debating them with your nonsense.. Be gone! Shoo!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:31 AM
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Many women pay for themselves on a date. Regardless, men can continue this custom as it’s short term effort because what do men do for women long term? The majority if them don’t do much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 12:47 AM
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Women can get surrogates or adopt too. Lots of women regret “married motherhood” too as most husbands (according to statistics) are like a child they didn’t birth & say single motherhood is therefore less stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 12:45 AM
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I don’t get why you keep saying one thing, but then contradicting yourself the next. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:02 PM
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Of course they are. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:45 PM
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Totally. I’ve always known since a teen I never wanted to be a mother to human children. Never had the “biological” anything or maternal instinct (other than to dogs lmao).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:32 PM
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Men grow up being told they’re entitled to women. Women grow up being told to marry & have kids. Hmm….🤔 I wonder whom would actually be the one to have such “picky” standards? Have a seat.🪑🤏🏻 🎻
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:05 PM
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Saying this goes against you’re post entirely. If we were “equal” then women would still not be “flocking to men for resources.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:51 PM
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The hypocrisy should give you the answer you seek…lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:50 AM
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What….women didn’t “flock” lol. This was never a “natural instinct.” Women were literally forced to be with a man to be able to survive. Literally his property; & it wasn’t their “choice” to “share” him either. Not to mention in most cases it was rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:00 AM
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I don’t get it… OP is saying men “like that aren’t red pill” & I’m just commenting my opinion which is merely opposite (that they are & why). How is that “circlejerking?”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:22 AM
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So what does the presence of testosterone do? The hypothalamus & the pituitary gland are important in controlling the amount of testosterone produced by the testes & male puberty traits that includes facial hair, deeper voice, libido, & aggression possibilities. So one could then say that since men can be “overly aggressive” at times it clouds their judgement in making ANY decision whether short term, long term, or difficult? Men do not “actively feel less.” They just hide it. As I’ve said l, we…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:15 AM
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”Of course, this does have its downsides - a lack of focus on the bigger picture, less of an ability to make difficult decisions, a lack of focus on a potential larger creeping issue, an increased chance of emotional manipulation and so on.” You can’t be serious here. You think these are “downsides” of women appearing “more emotional?” Men & women both have the same emotions. They equally can be manipulated. The only difference between men & women’s emotions are, in general, one hides them (unle…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:24 AM
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I cannot stand the term “high value man…” For who? Other men? Because I’ve never once heard a man’s reason for being a “high value man” be a trait women want from them whatsoever so I can only assume men are getting these “definitions” of it from each other instead. It’s 2023. Women have their own money so that’s why the “women in your neighbourhood” aren’t “noticing” yours. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:36 AM
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Oh I see what you’re saying lol; yeah true, but I had heard she was asking them & they were saying “what are we supposed to have done?” Or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:49 AM
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Citing factual links isn’t being “triggered.” It’s just “debating add on’s.” The fact you seem “triggered” about Canadian women IS obvious tho & fucking hilarious telling me everything I need to know... 😁🇨🇦👋🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:47 AM
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Men stood around, saw it, & did nothing. That is not debatable no matter how “gray” the story is. Any men (& women for that matter) I know would have jumped that fucker the instant the brick hit her regardless of anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:37 AM
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Ya you say that now hey? All you do is run around saying your job is to “protect” & then don’t because you’re all pussies when it comes to each other. Lol weak…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:35 AM
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Statistics trump your “nuh uh.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:33 AM
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No they aren’t & by “people” you mean men. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:32 AM
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Not just that, a bunch of men all stood around while it happened doing NOTHING! & when she called them out for it they were like “what are we supposed to do?” Yet those same men would be the ones saying “men are protectors!” all over the internet. No you aren’t. You’re just as scared of men as we have to be. Just useless all around. No reason to keep one whatsoever in your life lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:30 AM
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I hear your group (red pill) has been abandoned so now you’re all here just sad AF trying to validate yourselves. “I don’t know much about Forbes” but you feel you can then use it? Then you have the audacity to try to speak on one of my links right after you admit you don’t know about the links you post? LMAO!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:20 PM
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Citing Forbes is LAUGHABLE; & by a “pick me” weirdo of a “woman” with internalized sexism too! 🤣Some men like you are way too easy to lap up “false praise” by a woman with an agenda like her. Lmao https://www.epi.org/publication/what-is-the-gender-pay-gap-and-is-it-real/ https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/03/01/gender-pay-gap-facts/ https://www.aauw.org/resources/research/simple-truth/ https://canadianwomen.org/the-facts/the-gender-pay-gap/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:25 AM
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You know women don’t actually need a man to have kids right? Lol They only need sperm & that is easy to “come by.” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:09 PM
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No it’s internalized sexism. The patriarchy created the dating custom. It’s a response to oppression because women have been oppressed for 4000 yrs?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:07 PM
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You’re still trying to blame women for grown ass men being “bad.” It’s ridiculous. You think men don’t lie about who they are? LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:06 PM
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Women do not have equal rights nor is there pay equity. Men with the same degrees often get paid more. Also, in the U.S. women don’t even have the right to their own body ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:04 PM
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Bullshit. Where are your stats? It does not make sense that women “carry” the partnership especially when your argument is men “do it all.” Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:57 PM
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Ya & they don’t need yours to spend. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:56 PM
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No they don’t. As I’ve said, women make their own money. You don’t get the bs is men think they only need money as a personality in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:55 PM
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About the same danger as believing most people on Reddit….
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:13 AM
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I speak with statistics in mind, in which, is a MAJORITY, so your “I know you are, but what am I” attitude can just take a seat. 🪑 LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:09 AM
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Lmao no they don’t. Women make their own money. When you become a couple it’s not expected the man pays or initiates sex all the time. But also, that “effort” is the bare minimum, isn’t it? Statistics show women are still doing the majority of things within couples 90% parenting, cooking, cleaning, laundry, scheduling the whole families activities & appointments while also working a part-time or a full time 9-5 job outside the home & the man works his 9-5 then “signs off” once home “relaxing.” S…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:47 AM
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No. What do you do in relationships with women long term? (Once the dating/courting phase is over as that is short term.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:10 PM
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Good! Lol what else do you do “everything” instead of women when it comes to relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:59 PM
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Keep sleeping in your hive then & being part of the problem. If men actually loudly & publicly took action against the “problem men” things would be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:58 PM
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We never like the patriarchy. Make no mistake. OP’s post actually refers to two different issues here that are independent of each other. Certainly in a well-established relationship it shouldn’t be expected for the man to always initiate. Yes, in this case the woman is in the wrong & I have no issues saying it as another woman. Now, regarding the initial meeting & a man most often doing the initiating - to that I say “for the LOVE of GOD let us have this ONE thing we don’t have to do for you lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:13 PM
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Yes it is MOSTLY MEN who are endangering us. We literally can’t go “outside” without having to be vigilant in our surroundings due to men. Statistics prove it. The majority of women attacked, raped, &/or killed is by MEN. Also, your “choose better” is part of the problem. Do you not think that men lie & manipulate about who they are to get us “hooked?” We aren’t stupid. We’re merely “out there” trying to interact with another human being expecting they’re being a mature adult meaning what they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:58 PM
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It’s self explanatory if you read the thread? The post is about normalizing escort & sex work & my stance is why it doesn’t work which is largely due to men’s behaviour towards women & their refusal to control it 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:41 PM
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Oh yes they are. You’re trying to dumb down a man’s intentions when they are grown adults who know full well what they’re doing. We see it all the time even on Reddit; young women post “clueless” to what their older partner is getting away with. I also had said “often” & you’re trying to “not all men” it to deflect from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:35 PM
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Ya it’s definitely not “pedo,” but when it’s older men going for younger women it’s often because an 18-24 yr old is easier to lie to & manipulate than a woman their own age with any of their bs treatment. Older women aren’t thinking “as they age they’re less attractive.” (That’s a man’s narrative older women don’t give two shits about lol) They’re being protective of the younger women not wanting them to be manipulated & treated like crap because they don’t know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:41 AM
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Lol um, no. Men not controlling their behaviour is a problem they need to stop themselves because they CAN & just won’t. Having “access” to women with the “normalized thought” to “appease them” is not the answer. Women are human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:40 AM
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No I’m saying exactly what I wrote. Men cannot control their behaviour so work in which they won’t be able to control it is not going to be normalized. Also, because guess what? Men rape sex workers & escorts too. 🤷🏼‍♀️ It’s not going to help “stop it.” Men need to stop themselves ffs!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:37 PM
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No it’s because men still attack, rape, & kill women constantly so sex work, escorts, etc won’t be normalized until men can control their behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:20 PM
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No it’s not. It’s literally just over HALF! That means almost HALF are WOMEN. 🤣 The pay gap is real. Math doesn’t lie. Also no, the reason why women initiate divorce more is because their husbands aren’t being real partner’s emotionally & as an adult. I submitted receipts for you. You have not; so who is “using words to distract” here? YOU ARE. Take a seat. 🪑
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:51 PM
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I love this. Dating apps are just laughing all the way to the bank for both men & women. Tho I don’t even have to scroll the comment section here to know you got a whole bunch of men with their “whataboutisms” on approaching women in public when women have SPECIFICALLY SAID timing/reading the room is everything to approaching women in public! None of which would be a problem, mind you, if it weren’t for MEN themselves endangering us in the first place, but instead of speaking up & doing somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:44 PM
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Men are only just over half in being the main breadwinner now (55%). The amount of women who are the main breadwinners in a couple goes up every year quite substantially (currently 16%) many couples make around the SAME amount of money. Now, women are still making 0.83 cents to a man’s $1.00 an hour (despite women are now more educated than men) so if the pay gap was closed the statistics would be higher for women. Therefore divorces do not just effect the man financially & this “provider bs” ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:29 PM
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You think there’s not men who do the same? Lol No. Most women are not after a man’s money because most have their own that they do not need money. The majority of women have been working since the 1970’s now. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:34 AM
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Lol Your misogyny is showing all over the place & no, that’s the problem. Men are with women for what women can DO for them & not because they think of them as another human being. There are no “levels.” That’s objectifying women. If most men are alone (as you say) then they’ll be dying early because statistics show that married men live longer than single men. The OPPOSITE it true for women. So those “middle-aged” women you speak of on “anti-depressants” are probably married & doing everything …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:26 AM
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I think you need therapy. Women are staying single because men treat them like they aren’t a even a person STILL. If more “simps” don’t start “appearing” then the epidemic will be lonely men. We do not need men anymore to survive. We choose them; so start being a decent respectful adult or die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:17 AM
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Who knows? I’d doubt it tho; it probably would just “send” many women “to the slaughter.”😏 How about we put the responsibility for women’s safety on men instead because it’s men who are the reason that women aren’t safe.🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:49 AM
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👁️👄👁️ I’ve never seen anyone just “out” themselves with their own post before. Lol You’re talking as if you know what women even want (when you aren’t a woman) by even saying what they want is “unrealistic” & “superficial” standards. Everything in your post makes sense as to why you were banned from those groups . You are a misogynist who tries to hide it by calling it “standards.” Standard: “an accepted or approved example of something against which others are judged or measured.” When people h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:39 AM
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Because they do. What you’ve been sold, what young girls are sold too is a bs lie that what older women discover around age 33 has been a hoax. It’s our confidence, maturity, intelligence, & experience…..that are high on the list. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:33 AM
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BS…. & so sad….lol If women have “bastards” it’s because of deadbeat dads. Talk to them about getting ZERO child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:30 AM
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This is ridiculous. Men are allowed to be shy & every other emotion they have because they’re human too. Being a woman & saying they’re “weak” if they can’t talk to women works completely against what women have been trying so hard & hoping to get men to do for so many years: recognize their emotions & knowing we’re okay with them & want to help them through what they need just like we want with ours. Shame on you. This is bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:00 AM
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Nearly every man I see “walking around” “anywhere” are with beautiful women I’m surprised to see them with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:40 AM
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Cheating happens because a person is insecure In many areas, or they could not be getting needs met, a strong need for variety/boredom, falling out of love/attraction, or anger, etc. That said, EVERY SINGLE REASON it could be is SELFISH & WEAK AF, period. Leave the person if you’re unhappy, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:15 AM
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If a woman isn’t getting orgasms with a man it’s because he’s not doing it right. Either by not knowing what to do or she’s showed him & he still can’t get it or he doesn’t care to pleasure her at all because men grow up thinking sex is just for them & porn is what “it’s all about.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:20 AM
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By “fair” I think you may mean people treated each other like human beings with more respect & not like a product that’s easily replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:14 AM
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Lol what? There’s more men than you know being supported financially by women. Also, part of the reason 80% of women file for divorce is because they don’t want to take care of their husband like he’s a child. Statistics literally show that married men live longer than single men & married women die earlier than single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:07 AM
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Our whole societal make-up was created by men for men….
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:13 AM
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I mean…so can men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:12 AM
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This is true. When it started happening to me I’d be like “excuse me, I’m a decade older than you.” 😂 But for me, at that time it was younger men or quite a bit older. So if I didn’t give younger men a chance my other options were men who looked & acted 30 yrs older than me & I’d never date. I gave one younger guy a chance. It was surprisingly good at first mentally & physically. We had similar interests. I ended it after 3 mths tho because of traits in him I was seeing that had nothing to do wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:37 AM
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It isn’t a problem. I assure you. Around age 33 tons of men came out of the woodwork for me (despite the narrative that it’s “going down hill” for women). Men of all ages, but especially younger men & it only continues. It surprised the fuck out of me because of what is pushed down on us since girls & I’ve seen, heard, & read many same experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:31 AM
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Your whole comment belongs in 1950. Join us in 2023. Women don’t need men to take care of them. Lol EDIT: whomever downvoted. You aren’t supposed to downvote here. MODS- if you don’t start reprimanding the downvoters then why are the rest of us “refraining” from doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:26 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 lol this is nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:25 AM
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Most older women are very selective on any man by that point b/c they’re seen it all & aren’t buying the bs they’re selling. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:23 AM
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I guess it’s too bad so many fathers take off leaving mom’s to be single mom’s then, hey?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:52 PM
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OMG just STOP with this bs. It’s not true. Men grow up thinking they’re entitled to perfection in a woman & women grow up being told they won’t be validated until a man marries them. Therefore, it is literally IMPOSSIBLE to make the statement you & many other men are currently trying to sell.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:38 PM
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You’re probably bald along with delusional too. Lmao You’ve been proven wrong. Not me. Better go exercise & keep your T levels until you’re boobs start sagging. 👏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:38 PM
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🤏🏻🎻Sir; I have a medical background & you clearly don’t. You’re a misogynist sad old man. No one is listening to your hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:35 PM
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Wow a misogynistic old man so triggered. 😂 It’s also obvious you do not have any medical background & are full of bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:28 PM
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I see nothing but a triggered geezer. I meant that your testosterone rapidly declines compared to ours. You do, in fact, start producing more abnormal sperm that can contribute to birth defects & less viable sperm. There is no evidence that supports restoring your testosterone levels once it starts declining will keep your muscle mass intact. You will NOT STAY as fit as a man in his 20’s once you hit 35. Beauty, is NOT tied to fertility & menopause doesn’t start until between 45-55. That means w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:16 PM
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No. Is not “culturally accepted.” It was forced on women because they weren’t allowed to work in the workforce & were property. Lol That said, it’s literally been 50 yrs since most women entered the workforce so why are men not evolving & still expecting them to do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, parenting, & life scheduling for everyone when they work outside the home too? As for “men paying for everything on dates” that is part of a culture custom of dating etiquette. They don’t have to pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:39 PM
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WHERE IS YOUR EVIDENCE!? You’re full of shit. There’s also receipts like pay stubs, testaments, job duties, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:37 PM
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I still have yet to see you provide evidence. It’s complete bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:35 PM
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Yes it has been scientifically proven & as a woman, no, it’s not exaggerated. Lol You literally replied to my comment which states it has to do with hormones. Which is science. Just like for men it’s the teens & 20’s due to hormones. Then it start changing around age 35. https://www.allohealth.care/healthfeed/libido/sudden-increase-in-libido-female-30s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:18 AM
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“Misandry” is often used as a false equivalence to Misogyny when misandry is actually a reaction to oppression, it’s not a decided action. But for example of what I see, they can have friends that are girls & their GF’s can’t have men as friends. Gatekeeping what they wear. Most especially when it comes to even having had past sexual partners. Posts like “how can I get over my GF having sex before she met me” posts, meanwhile he’s had plenty himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:08 AM
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You know…. I saw a show the other day from 1988 where a teen was rating a model posted in his locker “a 10” then made fun of a couple teen girls “saying they would be a “0.” The teen girl calls him a “chauvinist sexist pig speaking of women like objects.” I literally cannot believe 35 YEARS later men are STILL rating women on a scale like an object. It was so heartbreakingly sad to realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:00 AM
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You pretty much out yourself when you call us “females,” but also, talking about “age 35.”we’re still good; no worries. It’s actually men who start declining before us. You start losing your testosterone rapidly at age 35 & producing abnormal sperm. 🤷🏼‍♀️Read about your andropause sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:56 AM
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Whataboutism does not negate that women & men in the specific subject I was speaking of -that you aren’t - grow up feeling entitled to one gender over the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:52 AM
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Men in couples are statistically doing less work than the woman. It is not my opinion. It’s just statistical fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:50 AM
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**we can’t do it all.” You don’t, as I’ve said. Lol You’ve also provided no receipts to back up your claim about “over & under reporting.” It’s also not just reporting, it’s scientific study statistics. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:48 AM
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The reason you hear less of your “whataboutism” is because statistically it’s the MAJORITY of women in relationships with men who are expected to be like a 2nd mom & women looking fora “daddy” in men is MINUSCULE in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:41 AM
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Yet they do hide shit all the time. Men will lie & manipulate woman just to get sex with them for “fun,” you think they wouldn’t hide more? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:36 AM
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We can survive on our own. We do not care about you having money that we already have. Statistically couples make close to the same wage. I literally just said how women vs men grow up & you’re still trying to say men are less picky? It’s just ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:33 AM
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OMG… LMAO 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:31 AM
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Nope. It’s literally statistics & under 40 still have these views & other regarding women. I see it on Reddit all the time. Men in their 20’s pissed at their GF’s or wives for sexist shit. It blows my mind we’re “still here” in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:16 AM
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Lmao this is so twisted. “Most of us are going to have to “live with” the fact we aren’t “exceptionally attractive.” SO ARE MEN! Really tho…which one of us gets to grow up being told we’re entitled to things because of what gender we are & nothing else & which one of us grows up being told we need to “marry & have kids” STILL? I wonder then, whom out of these two would feel MORE ENTITLED to “nitpick” preferences & standards. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:14 AM
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Yes they do. MOST women want emotional intelligence & maturity Women who do have internalized sexism & it’s abnormal to feel that way. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/lifetime-connections/201806/15-things-women-want-the-men-in-their-lives
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:37 PM
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Lmao it’s science. Tho for men that’s interesting because they aren’t in their sexual prime at those ages and, in fact, start their menopause (but called andropause) at age 35 when they start losing testosterone rapidly eventually leading to losing muscle mass, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:51 PM
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You think women in their 20’s aren’t looking for a mature adult. Lol it’s literally what adults are supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:44 PM
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No it doesn’t. It’s not “age specific.” You think women in their 20’s aren’t moms & working outside the home with men like I described? LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:18 PM
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“Treat them right?” As in a second mother, you mean? Women do not “go after the top until they realize they can’t lock them down.” They simply search for another respectful adult who doesn’t expect them to care for them like a child they didn’t birth & will actually co-parent if they have children. They’re staying single because statistically they’re still having to do this in a relationship with a man (cook, clean the whole house, laundry, secretary duties for life planning, etc), 90% parenting…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:45 PM
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Tell that to women when they hit their 30’s and their hormones start to mirror a teen boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:35 PM
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??? Not with sex as I just stated. As a woman….
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:03 PM
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Yes we do. Women have sex to just have sex just like men. We’re human too. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:31 AM
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Ahhh. Yeah I’m in Canada. All provinces & territories have common-law laws - except Quebec - probably because they always felt they needed to be “special” & don’t like the rest of us. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:45 AM
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You might want to get therapy to understand why you need another person to be happy at all. You should be happy with yourself first to be able to then accept a partner in your life or the relationship won’t be healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:08 AM
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Just because women are happier & live longer being single doesn’t mean there aren’t still women who want a partner & commitment tho. Some people in general just cannot be alone. Sad as that is. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:28 AM
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It may even save you in some instances because there’s “common-law” laws near everywhere now with the same benefits as marriage but less specifics in writing so you can get possibly screwed more than getting that piece of paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:52 AM
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Do you think there’s benefits for women to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:49 AM
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It’s not us who grew up being told we were “entitled to have a man regardless of anything we say or do just because we’re women we can.” Lol It’s the opposite; you guys grew up being told that (about women instead, of course) so who do you think would be the more “inclined” to have the “audacity” to be more “choosy” about standards? 🤔 It’s a no-brainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:53 AM
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Lol nah it’s the other way around. Men live to impress other men. Women don’t care about that crap at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:13 AM
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It is equivalent because it’s not about sexuality. It’s about the “feeling.” It’s about how uncomfortable men make women feel when they didn’t want/didn’t ask for the attention they’ve giving them. Heterosexual men often feel this uncomfortableness too if gay men give them unwanted attention they didn’t want/didn’t ask for. The “uncomfortable” feeling is actually intimidation which is rare for men to feel & this analogy is the closet way to try to get men to understand the problem for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:58 AM
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