Rohan98k Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	I got burned after 2 years, how do I grow now? She starts disrespecting me more and more, eventually even my parents. I tell her at a breaking point to get the fuck out of the house. And then its just done You failed to nip it in the bud then when you lashed out at her she knew she had successfully managed to destabilise you. A strong guy. I am a strong guy. Strong guys don't go around saying they're strong. I sent her like a fucking wall of text of how she is fucked up Now you reassured her that she was right about you all along. Take this …	/r/askTRP	21/12/20 07:23 AM
4	Girlfriend became "asexual" after 4 years of relationship "Okay, can I help you? I understand you, but you're not alone in this relationship. I have some needs too. You can't just look at yourself." This is probably one of the reasons she's asexual towards you. With this statement you chopped off your balls and handed it to her saying you're the only source of sex for me and I 'need' you for that. You can't get comfortable with a woman no matter how long you've been with her for and expect her to constantly stay attracted to you. Chances are you haven'…	/r/askTRP	20/12/20 07:04 AM
3	Red pill is illegal depending your country? Because I almost got into fight from talking about red pill. (I live in UK) and we argued This is exactly the opposite of what Redpill stands for. You don't argue with a woman. You talk rational and they only understand emotional. There's no way the odds will ever be in your favor. Then I started explaining them about red pill. Lead by example instead of explaining rp stuff to other people. Even if you were to explain it to others , it makes little to no sense to do it in front of other women. Then I got mad. I said that they only agree with the girl because they are li…	/r/askTRP	02/12/20 03:33 AM
0	How common are flakes/let downs for you guys? Probably the girl you were with had her interests heightened after she saw some other chick blow up your phone. Ideally keep it on dnd. If she's flaked before have her do all the heavy lifting and then you just show up whenever you're free. Flaking on girls gets them chasing even more, a few times i overslept and made her wait at a spot , however she was happy to see me regardless. Use their game against them You Ideally want to cut people off who don't respect your time, but blocking is a littl…	/r/askTRP	19/11/20 11:48 AM
8	Bald guys, is being rich and jacked required to even exist in the dating market? It's only a problem if you show It's a problem. Sure being rich and jacked are good but even if you're far from it, I'd say dont let it stop you from working on your dating life. If you think you can pull it off, you can. Women can smell insecurity and weakness from a mile away, unless you really accept yourself for who you are and be confident about it (also improve in areas that you can) it'll always be something that would be a scapegoat for you throughout your life. Dont put yourself at the …	/r/askTRP	19/11/20 10:53 AM
6	Extreme LMR: WTF?? Is this girl nuts or did I do something wrong? I'm sure it'll be one of the best experiences ever. But it's not at all worth risking your life over. The potential rape accusations and drama that usually follows along with it will ruin your life at that young age. She either has some rape fetish or bpd and if you've read anything about these on trp , it's that "Don't stick your dick in crazy"	/r/askTRP	08/11/20 02:19 PM
1	My GF hasn’t had sex with me for 3 weeks. She also hasn’t been physically affectionate with me. I need help. I doubt you're going to get the answer you're looking for here. At 5+ years together you're almost married to her. You're better off finding ways to "fix" this on MRP. What i can conclude from this however is that she knows she's got you by the balls. You have in some way or another made it very clear that her denying sex flips you off. Now that's never the dynamic you want in a relationship. There's a lot of improvement you need to do on yourself before you go and try to "fix" this relationship…	/r/askTRP	06/11/20 01:55 PM
7	Great weekend away with a girl, but I'm sick to my stomach She'll make a good plate for a while but ltr , definitely not. She said they young couple reached out to her again and said that they talk about her all the time. She replied, "I think about you guys ALL THE TIME as well" This is something you'll face again in the future getting into an ltr with her and again you'll be on this subreddit asking others, how to handle it? The simple answer is you don't. Of all the lifestyle choices this girl has made and the crazy times in her 20's...this is what I…	/r/askTRP	02/11/20 06:00 PM
18	Broke up with ltr, found out later that she hooked up with friends wife while we were together. That's cheating for sure, regardless of the gender. Consider yourself lucky cause you saved yourself more issues down the line.All I see are red flags (just acc to me)She wasn't ltr material to begin with, neither did you screen her properly. Next time screen her well and lay down proper rules before you get into an ltr.	/r/askTRP	01/11/20 07:48 PM
1	No matter how happy you may be with a woman, forgetting TRP will leave you burned. What I can sense off of your post is that , it's like you're walking on egg shells all the time trying to limit yourself and constantly dreading her losing attraction for you. You've definitely swallowed the pill but you lack the frame and mindset to hold it. As for this woman , if you're on this sub and you watch those channels you mentioned, chances are you didn't do anything wrong as such. You need to just accept the fact that , that's how women are. I could be super into a 10 but in the back…	/r/TheRedPill	01/10/20 06:29 PM
2	What’s the point of being alpha if betas get so much play? Alphas get to choose whom and what they want to spend their time on. Everything for an alpha is a matter of choice. Alphas operate from a place of abundance in every way not just pussy. The beta dude gets the bare minimum. A lot of betas even in their adulthood get sex from their wives but it's once in a blue moon and usually they all end up on forums talking about how their bedroom is dead or how they their wife is seeing other men. Simping for some dudes might get them laid but it's usually fr…	/r/askTRP	26/09/20 08:46 PM
4	How to deal with feelings of resentment towards women and society Firstly, you should get off dating apps , most women on dating apps are usually there to boost their ego. Even a girl who's a 3/10 would get matches because, well we have men who have no standards whatsoever. They would literally smash anything that has two legs and a vagina. Secondly, if you're actually a high value man like you say you are, you wouldn't have time to worry about petty shit like this. A lot of you think trp is all about getting laid, no it's about how men in today's day and age …	/r/askTRP	25/09/20 06:38 AM
4	Do you raise your kids to become red pill? Children learn more through actions , you'd ideally want your kids to learn how to hold frame , workout, work ethics , about money management etc. I'd not focus that much on teaching my kids redpill secrets early on in life as much as I would in making sure they are raised well and have a healthy and supportive environment. Usually this ensures your child will not have social anxiety or self esteem issues and what not growing up and even into adulthood. A lot of people who have this can easily l…	/r/askTRP	19/09/20 07:19 PM
3	Do women care about men platonically? To an extent but it's more about how they're benefitting from the platonic relationship, you obv are offering her something (even if it's just time) that's of value to her. It's not completely wrong if she's offering the same in one way or another, it's basic human nature. It's however a problem when men in general buy and do shit for her but are deep down expecting her to fall in love with him it never works. Yeah sure you can have a lot of female friends but make sure you genuinely are disinte…	/r/askTRP	19/09/20 06:54 PM
3	Is this plate broken? Op you're too available, idk if this one's broken just yet but you need to withdraw your attention and probably have other shit to focus on. The way I see it she cancelled once , rescheduled you went along with her indicating you're available anytime. She flakes again and surprisingly you're the one who reinitiated meeting again. This is basic sidebar stuff. You ideally should've been like yeah cool and should've cancelled her rescheduled date and be like we'll plan some other time. And for her …	/r/askTRP	19/09/20 06:38 PM
1	My LTR (7 years) Just Moved Out I can understand the place you're coming from. it'll sting like a bitch because she's someone you've spend 7 years with her. Doesn't matter what caused the relationship to end it's not worth begging someone to stay or do the whole last meal that's just her way of making herself feel better and reassure her decision. Just pick yourself up and get ahead in life. Focus on your purpose in life , if you haven't found thay yet , now is the best time to explore things. Although some would suggest you t…	/r/askTRP	16/09/20 03:42 AM
0	When a woman say she was/is in an abusive relationship or marriage, Abusive is a Code world for women. Due to the rise of feminism what would ideally be mutually established boundaries of a "proper relationship", are twisted only to call the dude as controlling, toxic and insecure. The only way around this would be to lay down your rules long before you get into anything serious with a woman and she can either accept it and ride along with you or y'all part ways. Does go without saying I've seen a few cases of physical abuse in relationships where it was clear the chick wasn't in the wrong. But m…	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 08:59 PM
8	In the end, what's the point of relationships ? Interesting point , but if you've actually been in a healthy relationship you'll see there are things you can learn from your partner in terms of skills , eg yoga , painting etc. Apart from this you get someone to share the all your experiences with, travel , concerts events etc. You get invited to a lot more events and parties and your social circle does increase in a way. And at the same time it's about finding a good worthy match for your legacy / future generations. Point being ,there still …	/r/askTRP	01/09/20 12:16 AM
2	Women are not like a equation. It rarely works that way , if you're put in the friendzone chances are all her friends already know you want to sleep with her but you can't. What you end up doing is offering her social proof so the other ladies get jealous of her for having you by your balls (the higher your SMV , the higher the social proof for her). Friends are only good if they add value in your life regardless if they're females or males. So unless she's doing that by maybe teaching you a skill , helping you out with work …	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/20 10:22 PM
2	Why do girls claim they want a LTR if they are going to cheat anyways with a fuck boy they ALSO claim they DON'T want? Don't listen to their words , pay attention to what they do. They monkey branch when there's a better option available AWALT. Also if you ever decide to be an ltr come into it from a place of abundance where it adds value to your life in any form or way. If you do decide to get bored it's better you cut her off and do your thing. It's super low value to cheat , it just shows you'll fuck anything and everything that comes your way. Your goal should be to become the most attractive version of your…	/r/askTRP	24/08/20 03:32 AM
1	LPT: If ur talking to a girl and some other dude approaches to hit on her just interrupt and say “I’m sorry, is this a friend of yours? Hi nice to meet you” I'd usually just not even acknowledge that dude at all , he can do all he wants but if you refuse to even acknowledge it , that lowers his value down almost instantly. He'll most probably leave if he has any self esteem but if he doesn't , the girl you're with ,would perceive you as higher value.Also if something like that happens you're not really establishing man to woman that well , there's always that odd one out who'll barge in even if you're making out with your woman but you get the point…	/r/seduction	14/08/20 03:51 AM
20	Such on point advices are what we need! Women usually don't throw themselves at a guy because they are worried about getting judged or coming off as easy /slutty. They do however communicate in ways that are way more subtle , you have to be able to read it and escalate. Also unlike you if someone is that direct with me I usually lose interest quickly, subconsciously I think the only reason she's making it so easy is because she thinks I can do way better.	/r/seduction	20/07/20 12:17 PM
51	Such on point advices are what we need! Not accurate , most of the time women themselves don't know if they like someone or not. They test the guy to see if he's actually what he claims he is. Men on the other hand atleast the vast majority are never able to make the first move	/r/seduction	20/07/20 09:35 AM
1	How would you view this LTR situation I agree with you here. But I guess it's a classic example of losing frame/ showing weakness at some point . Disrespect of any sort should be nipped in the bud or else it will cause issues like these. I think being away from op for a while caused his ltr to kind of reset all the bad memories. Unless he really mans tf up and turns down even the slightest sign of disrespect she's going to come back to this same state after a while to see what more she can get out of him. Easy thing would be to next…	/r/askTRP	17/07/20 05:32 AM
5	She’s coming over but also “sorta has a boyfriend” Maybe they're not exclusive , you might want to figure this one out by yourself , but it's probably not worth the whole trouble that could possibly follow after her "sorta boyfriend" finds out and puts on a show. If you're pursuing her for something more than just sex then time to move on.	/r/seduction	18/06/20 10:37 PM
3	Everytime I send a face pic to a girl she gets dry, why? You're either not photogenic or you're not attractive enough to be sending random snaps like that. Why would you even want to play games like this over the phone , feed her ego and get your time wasted ? Meet her up directly	/r/askTRP	18/06/20 10:17 PM
90	How do I start flirting and for a lack of a better "signal" that I'm interested in them as more than a friend I asked a few times again whether she would be interested in dating me or not This is kinda where you went wrong , this isn't something you should bring up again and again. If she was interested she would've happily agreed the first time you told her.	/r/seduction	14/06/20 12:26 PM
2	Balding at 18 You should probably visit a dermatologist and check if something's wrong with your body instead of embracing it right away and shaving your head. I've personally known people who thought they were balding at the age of 16 or so and then it turned out to be some other problem altogether. Vitamin deficiency , stress, dermatitis, alopecia, etc. can be causes of the hair loss and let me tell you all of them have a head full of hair now after undergoing treatment. You'll most probably have to undergo…	/r/askTRP	15/05/20 05:28 AM
1	Is it OK to pay for taxi during quarantine to bring girl to your house on the first date? Let her earn her ride back home	/r/askTRP	14/05/20 12:30 PM
11	How do you deal with being ghosted? Don't focus on this too much . Just go on and continue doing whatever the hell you were doing . 90% of the times she will come back and drop a text to see if you were actually bothered if she left , just act like nothing happened and continue smashing . If she doesn't come however , why do you think she was a plate in the first place ?	/r/askTRP	06/06/18 07:40 PM