RokuroOkajima Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
103	Psychological (childhood) roots of AA	Inner Game	RokuroOkajima	/r/seduction	22/11/12 07:26 PM

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5	[FR] What Just Happened? I agree. At this point, you can only be hard to get I think. She wanted some male attention for whatever reason and she got her comfort. Don't chase her at this point. It'll make things worse. Just play cool and let her chase you if she wants too. I really don't like this type of girls, who want the attention but don't wanna pay for it. They are like attention-leechers without seeding.	/r/seduction	03/12/12 07:28 AM
5	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/26/2012 I also think it's a good idea to ask something along the lines "Hi, do you mind If I sit here?". It works as an opener, it's indirect (you are in a bus I don't if you wanna use a direct opener there) and you can start to chit chat immediately.	/r/seduction	27/11/12 01:22 AM
1	Why do girls flake? the age old question. I had 2 girls who I interacted with really well that thought I built attraction with flake on me in the last two weeks...advice please Never tried this but makes a lot of sense.	/r/seduction	25/11/12 03:06 AM
1	Psychological (childhood) roots of AA I agree that Bradshaw is a little too much showbiz for what he's doing. But he has legit points. There are a lot other people in the literature pointing to the same thing. Harville Hendrix and Arno Gruen (he doesn't have too much English translations tho) are the first coming to my mind. I don't think psychoanalysis is useful if you solely rely on it. But if you combine theory with action, that's when you get results.	/r/seduction	22/11/12 10:30 PM
10	Psychological (childhood) roots of AA Thanks for bringing that up. Yes, I am approaching it from a psychoanalysis point of view and PUA is more CBT. In my whole life I tried both approaches and always got the best results with a combination of both. I believe picking up is no different. My idea is once you know the reason behind your AA, whenever you are about the approach a girl and start to get the anxiety you can be more mindful and remind yourself that you don't actually need that girl's acceptance for anything. Her acceptance d…	/r/seduction	22/11/12 10:25 PM
6	Psychological (childhood) roots of AA YW man. I've been struggling with a lot myself. I am more than happy if I can help anyone.	/r/seduction	22/11/12 08:18 PM
6	My Experience With Being Approached This is a great post and gives more in-depth view of girls' selective process. Thanks. Nice that you also mention looks and physique don't matter as much as having connection and standing out.	/r/seduction	21/11/12 02:23 AM
5	Unsure how to continue practicing, none of my friends like to go out. Flying solo is tough in the beginning, but you learn a lot by doing it. One thing though, you most possibly won't get that much results as you would with your friends. So don't beat yourself up. As always YMMV. I'd suggest continue the day game and start to go out solo on weekdays. There are more loners at the bar enjoying their drinks after a hard day on weekdays than weekends. Once you have enough comfort with flying solo go for weekends. Just simply go out, no excuses.	/r/seduction	18/11/12 06:04 PM
8	Where can good video material of the game being played be found? r/Seddit seems to be lacking video here's the link	/r/seduction	18/11/12 05:47 PM
1	success last night with a hottie. My opener and close within....need advice. I am not sure about calling. If the girl is not too comfortable with you yet, they typically send you to voicemail. It might work on the same night you got the number tho, when the interaction is still hot. I would text her today I think. They usually advise you to text in the first 24 hours. But no pics. It might come as needy, cause you may seem to be too much invested in the girl. I am in no way a master in text game so here are two links which I thought might be useful: 1) http://www.simplep…	/r/seduction	11/11/12 06:38 PM