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| 2 | Fair feminists exist and they get hate from both men and many feminist womenI see. I think it's so odd how feminism is talked about in these spaces as though it's a word that means women. Anecdotally for a moment, my male friends all openly identify as feminists and champion both men and women's rights and opportunities, and I think I hear them use that label more often than my female friends (who being women are more likely to suffer social consequences). From that point of view, I always do a double take when I end up in these discussions. Not anecdotally, it has been… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Fair feminists exist and they get hate from both men and many feminist womenThree of these are so vague they can't be discussed, so I can't say anything about them. If you want to I'm happy to engage with better specifics. Shelters for women have been pushed for particularly from a DV perspective and from a sexual violence perspective. So many factors stack together to put women in particularly vulnerable positions in these situations and I'm really glad shelters are available, as should you be. Even when it's not about DV, giving birth and caregiving regularly puts wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 03:15 PM |
| 4 | Fair feminists exist and they get hate from both men and many feminist womenWhat arrangements are feminists holding onto that benefit them, that men don't have access to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Fair feminists exist and they get hate from both men and many feminist womenAnyone with any views can be uninformed. The movement of feminism was born out of women moving from property to equal human beings. It is necessary once equal rights in theory are achieved for mutual respect to be established between genders so these equal rights can actually be accessed (the current issue, apart from some lingering legal disparities or even just practices). It is completely necessary to address rights and access to opportunities that men want, and the support for men to take on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.Unsolicited is a wild thing to say in a debate sub, are you lost 😭. If you don't want responses you're welcome to talk to yourself in your own head. As for the relevance ... I do sometimes worry for the level of reading comprehension I find here. With that out of the way, this boils down to your philosophy and moral judgements being irrelevant to groups of people with other perfectly prosocial and functional philosophies. They're not interested in what you're selling, which is why it bothers you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.Probably getting downvoted because this is a nonsensical take that sounds like it swallowed a thesaurus that got jammed in the oesophagus on the way down. The idea that your principles are defined by your friend group but also that you only would remain in the group if you endorse the behaviour of the members is contradictory and fundamentally bad reasoning. Further, associating with people who do/do not partake in casual sex means zilch if you're not judging either one as good or bad. Pasting y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 04:25 PM |
| 3 | How do redpillers explain attraction to blue pilled behavior?Like what prey tell? Freudian slip perhaps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/19 09:25 AM |
| 3 | How do redpillers explain attraction to blue pilled behavior?I agree with previous commenter and would add that no, we're not just disgusted by trump behaviour. You think a woman isn't going to notice your weirdass beliefs about her and yourself and dating as you get to know her? You're boisterous by the very fact that this is your core as a person. Alpha guys are not only horrifying, they're boring as all fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/19 09:17 AM |
| 15 | So is not being Harsh or critical of women sexist? I feel like not treating them like a man in the aspect is bad as well.Is the nature of men to go easy on women and be nicer and coddle them sexist?I'm not sure what you mean when you say "treating them like a man". The way adults treat other adults is always calibrated to the context of their relationship. If the way you speak to and behave towards a woman is the same as the way you would speak to and behave towards a man with whom you have the same relationship, then that isn't sexist and it's fair. And vice versa, they should not be treated differently provided you have the same relationship. This covers not just romantic relationships, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/18 01:00 PM |
| 1 | r/TheRedPill quarantinedIt matters how people see it when what they are doing is not a crime. I don’t really know what’s up with the American laws in an up to date way so I can’t comment much on what you’re talking about re: Wade vs Roe except to say that the whole world isn’t the US and doesn’t hinge on the validity of that case. People in power decide what’s right and wrong with the input of and pressure from the people they serve if you’re lucky enough to live in a democracy. Anyway I invoke science here because if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 10:15 AM |
| 1 | r/TheRedPill quarantinedObviously people who support abortion don’t see it as murder and obviously no one thinks abortion is a great time. A difference in opinion about what point a bunch of cells becomes a human is basically determined by how science-based vs superstitious your system of thinking is. Fortunately we can all agree that rape, abuse, violence towards and murder of people who have actually developed into humans is horrifying and that certain ideologies increase the likelihood of these acts occurring. This … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 06:49 AM |
| 1 | The Gender War Is On! And FakeI am not talking about the economy in general. I know in Australia it’s really hard right now because our workforce is being casualised, minimum wage is not longer a liveable wage, jobs are moving offshore or being automated. With the amount of poverty and the gap in the US between rich and poor the youth must be feeling a pinch. Here there’s a culture of uncertainty and fear about the future. I didn’t think we were that unique. I’m gonna tap out of this now because I just don’t see you acknowle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/18 02:45 PM |
| 1 | The Gender War Is On! And FakeYour personal anecdotes don’t match the data, which is fine. My personal anecdotes do match the data though - you can't erase the other 42%, a larger percentage of which is made up of women. There was an increase, not a unanimous lump. That's why I brought it up, to point out there are other expectations and they are represented right there on the graph. Men aren’t receiving the respect they desire I guess it's not the thread for it but I'd love to understand what you guys mean here by respect, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | The Gender War Is On! And FakeThanks for asking. I meant that I have certain needs and certain desires. I don't want to pick a person and say, "you need to be this!". I want to find a person (and have) that meshes with what I'm looking for in most ways, which are reciprocal, and the rest is compromise and negotiation. I have no interest in choosing gender roles for another person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/18 12:59 PM |
| 3 | The Gender War Is On! And FakeMen and women are not free to do whatever they want; some divergences from normal gender roles/expression carry a major social risk. I think this is a lot harder on men than it is on women, and I think that everyone has a responsibility to question the signals they send people performing different roles. From what I witness, however, men are particularly harsh to other men, far more than women to other women, or even women to men. This of course isn't a revelation, guys know they often don't hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/18 12:50 PM |
| 3 | The Gender War Is On! And FakeI think one of the core tenants of feminism is an abolishment of all gender roles. The major failure of feminists is their unwillingness to entertain the idea that traditional roles, to a certain extent, makes for happier relationships. I don’t think we’ll ever get to the point where a feminist admits that, unfortunately. If you promise not to take me out of context, watch closely: I, a feminist, agree that traditional gender roles to a certain extent make for happier relationships. Magic happen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/18 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that MRA (Men's rights activism) is so ineffective compared to feminism? An attempt to look at and explain this phenomenon.Interesting that you mention child support and alimony money from men. These things are required and I'm glad they exist, and I don't know how they work in the US but I do see them as problematic for feminism. Fortunately the courts are shifting slowly to a more even-handed and enlightened view of child custody, but that's going to take a long time. This is why I see feminism as encapsulating men's rights as well: Because it's about equality, and it should mean that if we are fighting for equali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 01:31 AM |
| 1 | How many women are actually worth men's commitment?I just want to make it clear that you're not speaking from a male perspective. You're speaking from your perspective, which is shared with a certain subset of men. I'm sure that's what you meant by "my male perspective" but it's important to lay out how I've interpreted what you're saying so we're on the same page. From a female perspective, just mine, a man being overweight is a huge issue depending on your values. It's an issue for me. I don't care how much a man earns. I have no interest in a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 03:44 AM |
| 1 | How many women are actually worth men's commitment?Of course the discussion is subjective. There's a difference between having a discussion using your own opinion, stating your opinion as though it were fact, and even more extreme than that, assuming certain aspects of your opinion are universal and beyond question. That's the vibe I got from this. The comment I responded to was fairly devoid of reasoning so I'm not going to make any assumptions about what it meant. The only reasoning given was that 70% of women are "never going to be what a goo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 03:19 AM |
| 3 | How many women are actually worth men's commitment?It's not meaningless for men, it's meaningless for fit people. Men in general have more muscle mass but if I go by BMI as a fit lady I'm overweight too. However if you want to look at it from a "who's fat" perspective then my point still stands; obesity in men and women is roughly equal and apparently still climbing in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/18 02:08 PM |
| 3 | How many women are actually worth men's commitment?Given that it's 70% for men it actually increases the pool, because you've got 30% of men with 40% of women available. It's a goldmine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/18 01:41 PM |
| 3 | How many women are actually worth men's commitment?I think there's a problematic assumption in this question, and it's that women can be "worth" the same amount across a whole range of men. Worth is not an objective quality, of course, and measuring it in terms of value to another person, especially a random other person, is inherently not useful. A person's worth in a relationship can only be measured by a person they choose to measure it, who they see as a good partner. Not a random internet observer. So you're talking about what a particular,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/18 01:35 PM |
| 7 | How many women are actually worth men's commitment?Where are you getting those numbers from? Also just to nitpick, you can't presume that women's role in a good marriage = children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/18 01:16 PM |
| 6 | Type "My girlfriend helped me through my depression" into Google, you won't find a result that properly fits the searchI think that's just not what people write when they're expressing gratitude for someone coaxing them through a dark time. I just typed "my girlfriend saved my life" and that had a tonne of hits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/17 03:09 AM |
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