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| 51 | men 30+ how well do you do with younger women like 18-25?The older you get, the more difficult it is to find mutual attraction with younger women. If you're 60+, you're not getting a young woman unless they're getting a check or an inheiritance. But if you're 40's, you might find some 25ish who might be interested. That said, if you look their age, than age is not your problem. Follow some of the advice already given here. Because one day you will be old. So try to enjoy youth while you can. | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 02:00 AM |
| 1 | First date ideas where she can bring her newborn?It's probably best to simply use her house. | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 08:11 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with your gf's nice guy friendA lot of good advice. The only thing I haven't seen being advised is set him up with a girl. You said you know some girls. And you're on this sub so you picked up some hints. See if you can set him up with a girl. If it works out, great. He'll be out of the picture. And even if it doesn't, he's likely to be thankful for the effort. Make him your bro. The same loyalty he has for your girl, can be loyalty for you. Guys in general are pack animals. So make him part of your pack and he'll defend you… | /r/seduction | 14/03/15 02:15 AM |
| 2 | A Paradigm Shift (Are We in The Community Emotionally Unstable?)Well said | /r/seduction | 07/01/15 12:12 AM |
| 5 | One thing I've never quite understood: Girls who take forever to text back, but still do.Like he already said, one undesirable feature doesn't make a person not worth your time. Everyone has undesirable traits. Plus, what is "manipulation"? I'd argue everything learned here in this sub is "manipulation". In fact, just about every human interaction is manipulation. The issue is not whether someone manipulates you or not. The issue is what the goal of it is. If the goal of it is to try to increase attraction, I hardly see that as a bad thing. It's actually charming they're going throu… | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 06:53 PM |
| 8 | I can't get over the racial barrier: is it because of me or them?Agreed, that it has to do with culture. But to expand a bit... their culture may matter on how they view and interact with you. Certain Hispanic-dominant countries are more sexualized and less prude. Women are less afraid of being forward, if they come from these cultures. Whereas whole-bread American may be more prude and flakey, for fear of the cultural perceptions we have here. Unconscious racism is also a prevalent problem. They may see a white male as a higher status than a Hispanic one, al… | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 06:18 PM |
| 3 | No, intelligence is not a turn-off. Yes, how you act IS a turn-off.It may have to do with expectations, really. A normal person going out to a club may expect those he/she meets there are one-night stands, unless proven otherwise. A normal person getting hit on by someone at a bookstore may expect such person to be looking for a long-term relationship. The context of the meeting place, may determine a person's default expectations. However, I do agree with you that normal people go to clubs/bars. They simply react accordingly to the context and develop certain … | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 08:02 PM |
| 5 | Q: Fake it till you make it + low self esteem ?A lot of advice has been given on the fact that "fake it til you make it" doesn't work. I'll be one opinion that says it does, but don't rely on it to produce miracles. If you smile often, you will feel better. Normally, people think that people smile as a result of emotion. But if you smile when you aren't happy, your physical response can trigger the appropriate mental state. So there is a little truth to the fake it til you make it. But its not something to rely exclusively upon. Exercise is … | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Filler Words like, "Cool!" and "Umm," Will Kill Your Verbal Game. Here's a tip.He wasn't being serious. (I don't think) What he wrote is a quote by Bill Cosby that's been making its rounds on reddit. That said, your source was worth linking. | /r/seduction | 27/04/14 05:42 AM |
| 6 | [Inner Game/Conversation Skills] How to learn about someone without sounding like you're interviewing them."I like Halloween because..." (statement) vs. "Do you like Halloween?" (question) The latter is an interview. The first, however, is a statement that invites commentary. Even though she is just as likely to respond to each question, the first one doesn't seem to force a response. Aside from that, the reasons you give for liking Halloween are all threads of conversation that she can latch onto in her response. You've given her material she can use to make her answer more indepth. | /r/seduction | 07/12/13 04:57 AM |
| 7 | Question about wearing my wedding ringPlus, Insurance and the ability to see your spouse in the hospital | /r/seduction | 22/06/13 04:26 PM |
| 5 | So I messed up big time...I don't think that's what he's suggesting. I think he's saying you should just stop now. Give it time. Can't give you a precise answer. Hrs, days, whatever it may need to be. | /r/seduction | 18/06/13 11:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] HB9 friendzoned me.I wouldn't read it as a scathing diatribe against the pick-up community nor a omg amazing review. It's something in-between. It's his view on the experiences he had. He didn't try to fluff it, he was being honest. And that meant showing the aspects he didn't agree with or thought were destructive. And I don't think he ever stated he wouldn't go back or would stop pick-up in the Game. In fact, with my copy of the Game, I got a Stylelife supplementary book. I think overall he found the experience … | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 07:25 AM |
| 5 | Girl's perspective: how to avoid needy/clingy girlsSome people view it as an implicit contract. And I don't think that even in the modern era, people view sex as attaching more strings to it. People's views on it can vary based upon the cultures and community they grew up in and the upbringing you've been given. It could very well be the norm that sex means relationship from wherever they came from, just like a handshake could very well be an agreement to a contract. Not everyone thinks like you, and enough people think this way that you should … | /r/seduction | 06/06/13 01:47 AM |
| 2 | This Cracked article is for online dating but I think it can be applied to real-life aspects of women too.Depends why you do it. Do you do it because you want to impress someone or you genuinely love the car itself? If its the latter, then it's just something you enjoy and like talking about. Not any different than any other interest. Though, you might want to cut back if you're boring the person. | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 01:51 AM |
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