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Lemme guess… you’re a black woman?
/r/askTRP18/04/22 12:44 PM
2

Yeah OP, needs to do more teasing & be less “nice”. He’ll come off as too friendly. Women are frightened by inconsistency. You wanna touch her sexually, then you have to BE a sexual guy. Don’t let the date guy by without saying raunchy shit
/r/seduction29/03/22 07:29 AM
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Just follow the steps dammit
/r/seduction17/03/22 08:54 AM
1

You should probably consider seeking more healthier relationships. Not that you’re going to listen of course, because like most women you’ll probably learn the hard way that at the end of sleeping around is an emptiness and a feeling of being used that you will never shake off. If you keep going at the rate you’re going, you will never be able to have a serious connection with a good man ever again. But of course, you won’t listen. Most women don’t learn from listening, they learn from getting b…
/r/seduction07/03/22 09:51 AM
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I completely agree but most of these guys were raised by divorced single mothers or spineless fathers so they’re practically wired to be losers. No masculine guy who had competitive and confident men around him growing up is going to look at that list and start crying “its not fair!”
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:57 PM
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I’ve seen it happen, where a guy got a girl’s number off twitter. They facetimed and were talking for a while. They then met up for a date, the guy didnt like what he saw, so he told her then and there “im just not feeling it & i dont wanna waste your time”. They never even had sex, and a few days later she takes to twitter calling him a narcissist and claiming he assaulted her on the date. What is it with so many guys in this sub being such naive chumps. Is it just an age thing? Like are all y’…
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:36 AM
-15

Guys who are downvoting people who are telling OP to do a slow fade get ZERO pussy and it shows. The risks with an outright rejection range from the girl harming herself, you or even going down the “Me Too” movement route. You careless idiots are the same guys who hesitate to approach women because you’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment. NEVER outright reject a woman who has a very high interest in you. Just slowly engage her less & make things less sexual in your conversations and …
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:23 AM
-41

A woman cant tell a man what being a man means. You don’t know what you’re talking about.
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:20 AM
28

Just introduce her to a new guy & bounce.
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:19 AM
7

Girls in the US also see guys as a “lift me out of my misery and risk me off to paradise or else divorce grape” meal ticket, so I don’t see the point of that needing to be mentioned. Nevertheless, use that to your advantage. Its not your job to wife up anybody in Tijuana, have your fun and run game like you would in the US with the good knowledge that at the very least, the people are friendlier there.
/r/seduction27/02/22 11:12 PM
2

Giorno Theme - Jay D Remix Listen to it and you’ll immediately go “ahhh makes sense” lmaoo
/r/seduction27/02/22 09:50 PM
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Its never too late till you take your dying breath
/r/seduction27/02/22 09:25 PM
7

I respect every man that is ambitious & a hustler, but just don’t become bitter, be better
/r/seduction27/02/22 09:16 PM
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The issue is, hundreds of guys did that same thing. “Oh I was mistreated by my peers so I’ll show them, i’ll get rich and they’ll be fucked!” …Only you’ll come to realize that people either dgaf unless you’re some kind of social media personality with clout, and when they do care they either hate on you MORE or avoid you entirely to save their ego. Its better for you to move on from your current circle, order a book on Amazon by David Goggins called Cant Hurt Me & start improving yourself with n…
/r/seduction27/02/22 09:08 PM
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Yeah that won’t work in a group setting because ta-da men also have wild instincts that subconsciously tell them to protect women, so if you’re the “weak” guy in the group from months of not being confident, and you respond like that, best believe the confident guys of the group will put you in your place. That’s why its so important to make the right first impression from the jump & be the confident, assertive guy. Any early signs of weakness and boom, guys will actively sabotage you and bam, g…
/r/seduction27/02/22 08:43 PM
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My post is still there, it was the sub mods who removed it unfortunately
/r/seduction27/02/22 08:27 PM
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Sounding like an incel to me
/r/seduction25/02/22 08:46 PM
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You sound lame. Its always lazy guys who dont wanna put in the work to improve & get chicks that blame the seduction community instead of their own inadequacy. If you spent even half the energy you put into hating on the seduction community into… idk, maybe… lifting weights, dressing better, eating better, approaching 100s of chicks, improving your finances, developing an interesting social life and creating an online profile that showcases value… you’d actually be somewhere boning instead of co…
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:08 PM
3

How about do the work to be a better man instead of dick watching. Research how to build muscle, go to the gym and lift. Improve your dress sense. Increase your finances & build your social life.
/r/seduction25/02/22 06:56 PM
2

If you have to ask, the answer is yes. When a woman likes you fully, she makes it easy for you to get her not hard. Move on & put her on the bench list.
/r/seduction25/02/22 06:48 PM
3

Say you’re a loser without telling me you’re a loser.
/r/seduction25/02/22 06:43 PM
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It all comes down to masculinity. What we call being seductive, being attractive, being a “chad”. It’s all just modern day code word for masculine (or some feature of it), that’s what women are attracted to when you dont mince words and cut out all the bs. Black americans are more likely to come from an underprivileged environment (its just a fact). Discomfort breeds toughness, toughness breeds bravery and aversion to taking risks, this is a masculine trait that attracts women. They can smell to…
/r/seduction25/02/22 02:15 PM
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If you have low self esteem it’s likely because you have low value. There are cases when people have low self esteem because of childhood trauma and stuff, but give most guys 10 million dollars & the body of Jason Momoa, and I can guarantee that those self esteem issues will be a thing of the past to a considerable degree. Now while we can’t all have Jason Momoa’s stature or 10 million dollars, we can do the best we can to max out our social value and physique. If you’re not in shape (and you kn…
/r/seduction25/02/22 12:46 PM
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Exactly its another shit test to control you. Only the idiot nice guys will fall for it. It’s just like when a girl says I don’t date guys who use social media Translation: I’m intimidated by guys who have the capacity to have multiple options of women because then my mediocre pussy and thirst traps will have leas of an effect on him, and therefore he will not spend his time slaving away to my beck & call Funnily enough, women will still fuck the guy that uses social media and has clout on it ov…
/r/seduction25/02/22 12:14 PM
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No amount of witty conversation is a substitute for a great body, good dress sense & some form of social value. Every guy (imo) should undergo 1-2 years of not focusing on women, just working on those things above. If you have the above down & your conversation is doing poorly, you are right it’s a matter of calibration. But dont just talk to 10 chicks then give up because your conversation isn’t working. Come back when you’ve spoken to 100-200+ girls. Women are a numbers game and if you’re IQ i…
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:45 AM
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“Do i know you from somewhere?” He tries to remind you “Oh, its good to see you. Take care bro” Then start walking away with the girl. That signals that you are higher value, you don’t take him seriously, you change the subject and dismiss him quickly
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:17 AM
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Scarcity increases demand, surplus decreases it. It’s simple economics. To get rid of oneitis, you dont stop talking to chicks even when you’ve secured one
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:08 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction25/02/22 06:43 AM
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Another “nice guy” bites the dust lmao Glad you’re past that phase we’ve all been there
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:01 AM
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Read Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. According to Deida, every man needs a mission that’s bigger than his woman. He needs share a gift or bring value to the world in some way, and if a man makes a woman his mission, she will resent him and see it as weakness. This is a fact I’ve observed plenty of times. You need to figure what mission or cause you fight to build that takes priority over all else, otherwise you will struggle to keep women after the initial attraction. It reminds me of th…
/r/seduction24/02/22 10:12 PM
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Midgets get with other midgets, so even they have their own little (no pun intended) dating scene
/r/seduction24/02/22 09:29 PM
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This is awful game. Way too many compliments. It’s not what you’re saying that gets the girls it’s probably your height, your looks or a combination of both. The average guy needs to do more to signal value that comes from reserving his compliments.
/r/seduction24/02/22 04:12 PM
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This is the right mindset to have. If you keep this up, you’ll wake up one day and realize “hold up… IM A CATCH” and the confidence boost you’ll get from that will increase your success with women. I always tell my younger nephews, “go all in on gym & finances throughout your early 20s & your late 20s/early 30s onwards will be a BLAST” Too many guys get caught in trying to tie ONE chick down and waste years of their 20s in useless relationships, where the girl just wants to party and the guy’s v…
/r/seduction24/02/22 09:52 AM
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Due to your lack of experience it is ESSENTIAL that you read this blog: https://www.girlschase.com/
/r/seduction24/02/22 01:23 AM
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They keep going back to those guys because those guys dont put them on a pedestal and women naturally are wired to seek a guy who’s higher value than them. As much as your nice guy programming might not like to hear this, women like when you “kind of” dgaf about them because it subconsciously signals value. So while the nice guys think women should like them for treating them like princesses, women see those guys as low value guys who are using being “nice” as a masquerade for their low value. A…
/r/seduction24/02/22 12:49 AM
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Its not impossible. Dont say dumb shit like that, its weak af. Just eat more and lift weights, dont make excuses. Im not saying that to be rude, Im saying that to make sure you reach your full potential.
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:13 AM
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Some guys get it, and some guys just dont get it. You sound like you’re the latter and believe me, the dating life of guys who just dont get it is a miserable one. I dont know how old you are but if you’re young, I suggest you just get with the program and do what’s necessary to get chicks. You’ll find that as you get older, things will start to make more sense.
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:10 AM
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Ah yes, a woman who enjoys drama for the sake of it. I’m not surprised. Well I hope you get the satisfaction you’re looking for, although I doubt you will because deep down you know that the only satisfaction you can truly fine is in having kids and maintaining a home.
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:09 AM
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And yet here you are
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:06 AM
0

Well you can shove your disagreement in a kangaroo pouch for all I care
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:04 AM
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Then the kitchen is calling you
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:03 AM
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Get professional pictures taken for your instagram. Actually get a professional photographer to take them for you in interesting locations. Dont have selfies. Dont have blurry pics. Dont have cringe photos doing weird shit. Having high quality professional photos doing fun things separates you from the pack. My friend literally has less than 1k followers on instagram but he has professional photos of him on a yacht (not his), training Muay Thai at his gym & with a group of girls he met on a holi…
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:02 AM
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Learn from him. Watch how he talks and moves. Copy it and you’ll get the same results. A lot of the dudes here are gonna be mad at this post but most of them never had brothers that got girls, be glad you do.
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:58 AM
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There’s no women here to give you your “nice guy” pat on the head. Stfu please
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:56 AM
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Nice rant but what you feel like doesn’t change how the dating game works. You can sulk & cry, or you can accept it for what it is. Women LIKE mind games (wow surprise cats out the bag), women LIKE shit tests. They do it instinctively to test a man’s mental fortitude. This is very primal and you can observe this behaviour in other mammals too. It’s how women vet for the most competent, confident and attractive men. Either you internalize the attitude it takes to attract women (rather than call i…
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:45 AM
2

No. No. No. and No.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:46 AM
2

Only if you’re able to carry yourself like a man and not some naive shy, nice guy little boy. If you’re calm & laidback in your interactions with her, confident and seductive as well as well dressed and in shape, your age won’t matter so much in college.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:34 AM
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Great recommendation, most of the guys in this sub (especially the younger guys) need this
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:31 AM
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Your not allowed to be normal, that’s what I’m trying to get you to understand. When you have a deformity, or if you’re facially unattractive, if you want to get girls in this current climate you HAVE to be in elite shape. That might take time & you might have to ignore getting women for 2-3 years while you get your body right and just grind at work, but you HAVE to surpass normal. You dont have the privilege to just be normal.
/r/seduction22/02/22 10:53 PM
1

Eat his ass
/r/seduction22/02/22 07:28 PM
1

Erm… Have you tried hitting the gym, lifting weights & getting in phenomenal shape? For every disadvantage you have, you need to go hard on what you can control. Also, I don’t know what your deformity is but perhaps start look at other women with physical complications that can understand your struggle?
/r/seduction22/02/22 07:27 PM
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I think guys truly underestimate just how much girls get complimented from childhood, all the way to teenagehood and then adulthood. We project our own lack of validation (often because men stop getting complimented after they’re kids until they actually become someone of value) and think women appreciate compliments as much as we do. They really don’t.
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:16 PM
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It was vomit worthy
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:19 PM
1

That compliment was crusty. Maybe definitely means no in this case.
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:18 PM
1

No because you’re turning it into a joke which is kinda cowardly. It basically says “I want you to come home with me, I know you know I want you to come home with me, but I’m just gonna laugh it off because I ain’t got the balls to make it happen”. Its cool to joke sometimes but doing stuff like that too long just lands you in the friendzone. Eventually you’ve got to make your move
/r/seduction22/02/22 07:21 AM
1

You stay calm & you say “Sure it’s no big deal” and don’t giggle or laugh, or say “just kidding” like a nerd afterwards. Just keep it simple and act like you do this all the time.
/r/seduction22/02/22 07:12 AM
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If you’ve been ignoring her thus far, you can respond next time but keep it short and simple. Let her know within the first few messages that you don’t have much time for texting nowadays but if she wants to hang out she can meet you on [insert date]. Also, dont be a fucking sperg and get needy again. Women REALLY get turned off by that shit. The same nonchalant energy that you have during the early stages is the energy you need to keep THROUGHOUT.
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:56 AM
2

Even better than talking to me, you can go to the source of where I learn game. Go binge some of Fitxfearless’ videos on Youtube
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:42 AM
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That’s what I thought. Just because she chases you & touches you doesn’t mean she likes you. Women also do these things with their gay bestfriends. If a woman is bro zoning you, you call her on her bluff just like in the example response I gave above and then you move on. If she really likes you, she’ll chase and try to get your attention after noticing you ignore her and dont respond to her messages for a week or two. After that, you can tell her to meet up at your place and see if you can esca…
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:33 AM
1

Has she fucked you?
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:26 AM
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You be direct. “Thats good and all, but when I set out to get to know you it wasn’t to be your bro. If you can only see us being friends that’s fine, but don’t expect me to treat you the same as before” Then ignore any further messages & remove your time and attention from her so you can focus on girls that actually see you as a sexual being and not a gay best friend to vent their emotions to.
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:22 AM
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This is pretty much common sense for any man with eyes & a fully functioning brain. Women by nature seek out men of higher status. There are countless statistics that show that the moment a man’s earnings decrease or he loses employment, the likelihood of divorce significantly increases. On almost all major dating platforms, women find 80-90% of men unattractive (I’d be hard pressed to think this doesn’t apply irl although to a lesser degree). If you can boost your status & looks, you will be ah…
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:18 AM
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It wasn’t true that you came on too strong, she was just low interest. Don’t even think too hard about all the reasons why, just move on. That mindset has helped me so much. Before whenever a girl would lose interest, I would be thinking of all the different reasons I read about why girls lose interest. Then I said: Hold tf up… I lift, I eat right, I’m confident, I dress well… why TF do I care what this one girl thinks? Its her loss if she doesn’t see the value in me. Welp, onto the next. Once I…
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:31 AM
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If you feel like a clown it’s probably because you are. Wanna know how most animals learn to attract mates in the wild? They imitate the animals in their pack that attract the most mates. Humans should be no different, but the issue is sexless nice guys are convinced that they’re somehow virtuous for NOT acting like the guys that get women. PAY ATTENTION to how your friends & brother interact with women. How do they talk, walk, dress & think. Imitate! Also, maybe you’re not genetically blessed w…
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:28 AM
1

This! OP you need to level tf up & stop getting hung up one chick.
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:24 AM
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Exactly, whenever I see someone saying “just be yourself” I roll my eyes so hard because for some people they’ve BEEN being themselves and hasn’t got them any results. Being the best version of yourself is the real advice.
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:03 AM
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Only be yourself if being yourself is attractive. If being yourself is a passive geek who’s not confident, then don’t be yourself, be a better version of you. Don’t just give generic be yourself advice.
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:28 AM
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Dont delete it then. The likelihood you’ll be with your gf forever is 0% in today’s world. Enjoy the fun with her while it lasts but keep your dating profile active because you’ll need in it a few months lmao
/r/seduction22/02/22 01:35 AM
1

Marcus Aurelius’ wife cheated on him… i’m good lmao
/r/seduction22/02/22 12:58 AM
2

Maybe someone else brought it for her
/r/seduction21/02/22 11:40 PM
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You’re not dumb. You saw her trying to hide it in her purse. Always, always, always trust your gut. You KNOW what’s going on lmao, dont let these strangers in the comments distract you from what your eyes saw.
/r/seduction21/02/22 11:28 PM
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BECAUSE SHE DOESN’T LIKE YOU! Its not that hard. For every message of yours she doesn’t reply to, she’s double texting another guy asking if he’s okay. When a girl likes you, you’ll KNOW. Stop wasting your time on low interest chicks. Develop some fucking self worth & move on to girls that will actually reply to your message. If you sent your resume for a job application and the company read your resume & tossed it to the side with no response, would you take that as a sign you’ve been hired? No…
/r/seduction21/02/22 07:57 PM
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Don’t compare your options as a guy to a girl’s options.
/r/seduction21/02/22 06:29 PM
2

Bruh… bruh… GO AND APPROACH HER, INTRODUCE YOURSELF AND GET HER NUMBER!!!!!
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:06 AM
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You need to weed out the low interest chicks by taking the lead and being direct. You get the number or social media account whatever. After a day passes you call/text her & get a bit of small talk going before you get straight to the point & say “Hey btw next week, I’m going to [insert place] at [insert time] and you’re coming with me” If she says “no sorry I can’t” = no interest, she’s wasting your time. Bin her and move on. If she says the above BUT suggests an alternative time where she can …
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:02 AM
1

You tried smacking her ass and saying “we need to talk”?
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:24 AM
1

Download an app called Never Have I Ever & have fun with it. But as guy be confident and chill with how you respond to the questions & maintain eye contact with her throughout. Don’t be too giggly leave that to her.
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:25 AM
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I’d say approach women of other races who don’t walk around with a chip on their shoulder.
/r/seduction21/02/22 01:42 AM
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She called you the cutest. I don’t what you did or said on the date, being called cute in that way sounds like she’s talking to her little brother. Red flag number one. You double texted after she ignored you. Sign of desparation. This girl is showing all the signs of a low interest female. I’d let it go.
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:37 AM
1

You’re right however its a not as simple as that. Maybe you’ve seen this before, but a lot of guys start of chads in the relationship but then end up turning into complacent losers. Before you know it, wife meets that hotter ambitious guy at work while you’re at home “watching the game”, one thing leads to another and BOOM “I think we should separate” lmaoo So yeah Chads definitely get divorced, but its after they get complacent & become the weak “nice guys”
/r/seduction20/02/22 07:19 PM
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No I mean the loser (often a “nice guy” lacking in experience with women) she marries after she’s tired of hopping from one chad cock to another.
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:42 PM
1

Not before they find some sucker to divorce-rape
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:22 PM
1

Try out George’s hobbies
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:24 PM
1

If you knew the channel, she wouldn’t be calling you “nice” lmao. Go watch the videos and stop being defensive before she ends up on someone else’s dick
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:41 PM
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Yes they do in order to weed out the guys who just “dont get it”. Women dont want to advice you into their vag. They want you to effortlessly woo them. That shows them that you’re the real deal. https://www.girlschase.com/article/if-every-girls-bitch-youre-doing-something-wrong
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:36 PM
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Bro honestly I think you’re gonna cheated if you carry on how you’re going. Go & watch Hamza and fitxfearless’ channels: https://youtu.be/fnNq9NUFCsc https://youtu.be/l7KLsqtWwKA
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:34 PM
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I didn’t mention the job as having anything to do with it, I wanted to add context to how one earns more but still does worse than someone earns less on account of lifestyle.
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:29 PM
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Wrong. George is a black guy about 5’9. Ali is a 6ft Syrian guy, more on the whiter side than brown. Being brown and south asian doesn’t make you ugly. Being a fat/skinny, poorly dressed, shy, boring, creepy brown south asian guy makes you ugly. You guys need to stop looking for excuses to justify your pathetic existence and work on building the life you want. Of course looks matter, which is why in all my other posts I encourage guys to get in shape but that wasn’t the topic of this post so sta…
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:27 PM
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George gets good looking girls that cook for him & clean for him and like to sleep over at his house, as well as do fun activities with him.
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:24 PM
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This is the exact oneitis I was talking about lmaoo, some of you are beyond help
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:23 PM
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https://youtu.be/1zK5bmS7GFA
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:22 PM
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its always like a woman to come in and try to kumbaya shit lmaoo
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:20 PM
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Oh dont you worry, when all the women are done riding George’s cock because of how fun and exciting he was, Ali will get the leftovers once they’re in their early 30s and ready to “settle down” lmao That’s the only fate of a guy who’s not exciting, you get the leftovers after the chicks are done having fun with the exciting guys. Oh and don’t expect regular sex from her either, she done gave it all to the Chads.
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:18 PM
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A fun lifestyle without game will not work as much as a boring lifestyle. Both Ali & George can get girls to go on a date with them, its just Ali never goes past the first date whereas George has a whole rotation of chicks. George is in great shape AND has game to go with exciting life. If your game is low, listen to fitxfearless on youtube.
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:15 PM
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You’re right. Ali lives a boring ass life but complains that he makes all this money & girls dont like him past the first date or try to use him because they can sense he has some money by how he dresses.
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:10 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:08 PM
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If you’re happy being a basement dweller be my guest, this advice is for guys who want to substantially increase their options with women
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:07 PM
0

Yup, you were desperate. Create an interesting life and stop trying to make women your life. Also I’d advise you watch a guy called Fitxfearless’ channel on youtube to help fix your mindset: https://youtu.be/cSDIE7PGHL8
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:05 PM
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Watch fitxfearless channel on youtube if you really want to get rid of it
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:03 PM
2

Copy George’s interests and see how they suit you.
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:02 PM
1

It shouldn’t be. Just structure your life like George.
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:01 PM
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She’ll never find out because you’re “niceness” will put her off way before that even becomes a conversation.
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:01 PM
1

Obviously this isn’t the ONLY way, there’s much more to it but this post wasn’t intended to discuss everything needed to seduce women, just this one important aspect that is often underrated. George is also a smooth dude who’s jacked & takes care of himself through skincare & beard grooming routines.
/r/seduction20/02/22 01:59 PM
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you’re projecting son
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:33 AM
6

survival of the fittest
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:04 AM
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Most incels are just npcs that are aware that they’re npcs but dont want to do the work to become on of the main characters & they hate themselves for it. But it all starts with us at the end of the day. Men create, women settle in men’s creation. Such is the way of the world.
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:44 AM
1

When men actually had penises that worked, yes I love classical movies. And if you wanna go for an easier option watch The Tall Men on youtube starring Clark Gable.
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:06 AM
1

Yeah check out those 2 videos, they both address confidence within them but they’ll give you a good foundation for how to develop it
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:40 AM
1

Watch fitxfearless on youtube he has great videos for young guys on how to be confident and shit like this one: https://youtu.be/Ar7gWC3k2Ds and also listen to Hamza as well: https://youtu.be/l7KLsqtWwKA
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:33 AM
-1

You must be mentally impaired if that’s what you got out of this. Read it again. I literally stated that the guy who gets more girls earns LESS than the guy who doesn’t, the key being one enjoys life and the latter doesn’t. If you actually read the post instead of wanting to sound right like an autist you’d realize we are actually in agreement.
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:27 AM
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Read Way of the Superior Man by David Deida so you understand the importance of leading. Make strong eye contact with her, when she asks you what you’re looking at, say “nothing” and keep staring… eventually she’ll say “whattt~~~?” or some variation, and at that moment you gently put your hand on the back of her neck and pull her closer for a kiss. Then from there you can escalate to sex. This is the method I’ve used since forever once I have a chick I’m dating alone at my place. Don’t be autist…
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:24 AM
2

Well context matters. I live in a city with lots of beautiful women & they KNOW they’re beautiful. It’s an expensive city, so the average is competing with high rollers. If you live in a place where most of the girls are ugly, you being very attractive is very scary for them because they know they’re not at your level and they know the ball is in your court. Women have always craved security to some degree & as much as they enjoy a challenge, they don’t enjoy a challenge they truly believe they …
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:15 AM
5

Tell me you’re built like a walrus without saying you’re built like a walrus:
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:47 AM
5

Tell me you’re a virgin without saying you’re a virgin:
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:46 AM
4

That’s a good thing, thats called competition anxiety. When a woman is slightly guarded with you because she feels like you have options and you are a high value guy, she will treat you better. Better to be the guy she says “ugh I cant stand his ass” but she gives you a triple blowjob 3000 than to be the guy she says “awww he’s so sweet” then pats you on the head and tells you any girl would be happy to have you… except her of course lmao
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:45 AM
3

Yup Jotaro’s a great example
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:22 AM
2

tldr
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:21 AM
2

You assume being asshole means unzipping your pants and peeing on the biggest guy at the bar. You’re mistaken. And I don’t blame you because America today especially the West as a whole, has some pretty shitty masculine role models to look up to. But luckily for me I grew up in a country where old Western movies were streamed a lot. So how about you go & watch a John Wayne movie like Rio Bravo. Watch how John Wayne acts towards women and other men, then you’ll understand just what level of assho…
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:21 AM
1

wdym?
/r/seduction20/02/22 01:39 AM
3

Ohh and lemme guess, you’ll be right there to pick up the leftovers once all the Chads have nutted in her…? How noble of you lmaoooo
/r/seduction20/02/22 01:39 AM
1

Sounds like someone was prepping you for slavery or something. Glad you got clued up
/r/seduction20/02/22 01:02 AM
1

That too, but there’s no harm in lifting on a calorie deficit if you’re fat. It’ll tone up your body so when you lose the fat you don’t look like a matchstick.
/r/seduction20/02/22 12:53 AM
1

I try
/r/seduction20/02/22 12:38 AM
1

Lmaooo preach
/r/seduction19/02/22 11:59 PM
6

Its fine, the less guys there are out there that “get it”, the less competition their is in the dating game. I’m well aware that you can lead a horse to water but can’t force it to drink.
/r/seduction19/02/22 11:57 PM
0

If you’re a super simp, then yes, act like an asshole for a bit so your personality can eventually recalibrate and find a middle ground. No use telling wimps to be nice when they’re already nicer than a slave at the crack of a whip.
/r/seduction19/02/22 11:29 PM
1

You want a fucking SCOOBY SNACK bro? Listen if you’re in shape already, you’re on the right track. So read up on game. Do yourself a favor & go watch Fitxfearless’ videos on Youtube, it’ll all help: https://youtube.com/c/FITXFEARLESS
/r/seduction19/02/22 11:26 PM
0

Yes become one of them. Honestly the reason so many guys are lost is because there aren’t enough good role models. I want you to do this one thing for me, go watch a movie called Gunsmoke starring Audie Murphy on YouTube. You see the way the main character acts in that movie? That’s how you act with women.
/r/seduction19/02/22 11:24 PM
2

LMAO
/r/seduction19/02/22 11:06 PM
1

Appreciate the compliment, ive been trying to get more in touch with my emotions lately.
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:59 PM
1

You want a scooby snack for psychoanalzying someone you don’t know on an anonymous app?
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:50 PM
2

Shittt you’re right
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:49 PM
1

It’s definitely the 2nd one lmaoo creeps the lot of em
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:49 PM
-1

You want a scooby snack or something?
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:34 PM
1

I don’t care about your fweelings. Obese women generally are unattractive. The example is there to show the correlation between the excuses unattractive men & unattractive women use. You can feel however you want about what I said, its not gonna make obese people anymore attractive.
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:34 PM
2

All that just to say : have some balls & don’t let people walk all over you, don’t simp and stop acting like a passive little bitch women. No More Mr Nice Guy’s a great book though.
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:32 PM
1

Shut up man you haven’t been fit since you were 12. Get in the gym, lift weights, eat right & STFU for about 2-3 years, then worry about women.
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:57 PM
1

k
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:54 PM
2

Wanna know how I translated this in my head? I am an average guy, who at least had masculine drive energy in the past to make it for it, but now even that’s gone… Bruh. The dating market improves for men who improve themselves and that includes having that high test persistence & boldness. Read Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. Some of you guys are half assing life and women can feel it in your approach too. Penetrate the world, be something that happens to the world don’t be someone thing…
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:37 PM
4

Everyone has what it takes to get a woman, if you don’t believe me, go on google & type in “Nick Vujicic wife”. If a guy with no fucking arms & legs can secure a woman, what excuse do the rest of these bumholes with fully functioning bodies have. The reality is most guys are lazy, and their content with staying losers and historically women have always had the good sense to avoid those wimps in order to weed those traits from our human gene pool. But unfortunately we’ve tamed the world to such a…
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:24 PM
1

Depends what we’re defining nice as for one & secondly, the point you should take away from the post is that its so insignificant that it shouldn’t be your priority in seduction. A guy who’s good looking & high status could be the ultimate douche, he’ll still get way more women than a loser who’s “nice”. Focus on improving your looks & status, some of you are just looking for an excuse to be the wimpy pushovers you’ve always been because it’s comfortable.
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:19 PM
2

Exactly, its like telling your son “forget learning skills or starting a business kid, you just keep scratching at them lottery tickets & you’ll be a millionaire for sure”
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:10 PM
3

I agree
/r/seduction19/02/22 08:50 PM
3

https://youtu.be/HKAK_uxM5dQ Check this 4min self improvement video while you’re at it
/r/seduction19/02/22 08:48 PM
1

Exactly
/r/seduction19/02/22 08:29 PM
-6

Don’t forget to put your favorite “Male feminist” t shirt in the wash son, it’s dirty after all the sweating you’ve been doing by dancing like a slave for female validation.
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:55 PM
2

I guess. All women want guys who are confident, dgaf, have a backbone and take the lead assertively, some guys do it to a harsher degree than others but all women are attracted to this. If anything I’m more worried about chicks that date losers (i.e. spineless wimps), because it tells me they just want to use you, they don’t care about being attracted to you.
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:53 PM
1

I know plenty of women who were willing to date nice guys… of course, they never sexually desired them and did end up either cheating on them or divorce-raping them a few years down the line, but hey, I guess any woman who’s willing to date a “nice” guy is a good woman just on account of that right?
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:47 PM
4

Lmaoo that’s a fact
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:44 PM
1

Most nice guys are major dicks deep down
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:27 PM
4

Ahh the ole no true scotsman fallacy… “if she doesn’t react the way I want her to when I’m a nice guy, then she’s just a shit prospect. There’s no way that my perfect nice guy self could be compensating for my lack of physical attractiveness and social status” Yeah alright bud lmaooo
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:13 PM
4

Bruh just carry on and leave things as they are. Why do women always wanna mess shit up. If things ain’t broke don’t fix it.
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:12 PM
16

Get in the gym bruh then cold approach after a couple months of lifting
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:10 PM
16

Facts
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:05 PM
-1

Ahh and here we have a sexless white knight in its natural habitat
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:04 PM
1

I agree
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:04 PM
-7

I agree, but I only respect people who are kind because its what they choose to be. The majority of men however I kind because they HAVE to be, because they’re weak & they’re losers, and they hope if they smile just hard enough no one will notice.
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:02 PM
2

Why thank you good sir
/r/seduction19/02/22 06:34 PM
-83

Exactly but the autists cant seem to understand the difference.
/r/seduction19/02/22 05:42 PM
3

You messed up from the moment you said you treated her like a sis. You’re the gay best friend who’s suddenly declaring he’s straight and wants to fuck her (you may not have said those words but thats how she’ll emotionally interpret it). I’m actually so annoyed by reading this post that I’m literally shaking with rage as I type this because so many guys have the same attitude as you & makes me wonder what the hell your fathers were doing while you’re growing up. But look, chastizing you isn’t go…
/r/seduction19/02/22 05:42 PM
-7

And also dont worry about the bad boys, they get enough pussy on a regular to not have to worry about nice guys’ opinions.
/r/seduction19/02/22 05:38 PM
5

There’s a book that was designed EXACTLY for your situation word for word. Read No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover. That book will really address the root of the issue.
/r/seduction19/02/22 05:37 PM
-20

I dont care about being nice with women, I care about being seductive. Sometimes that can appear as nice, sometimes that can appear as being asshole. I doesn’t matter.
/r/seduction19/02/22 05:29 PM
1

Facts, the word nice is often used to hide the fact that a lot of these guys are physically unattractive (which they could change through exercise & fashion) and mentally weak.
/r/seduction19/02/22 05:28 PM
8

Always & the fact that dudes STILL haven’t gotten this in their heads is hilarious. Leads me to believe its just a Darwinistic inevitability that some guys just will never have what it takes to get women in abundance.
/r/seduction19/02/22 05:04 PM
1

Go on youtube search up fitxfearless, he’s the best guy for job. After watching some of his videos you’d see why: https://youtube.com/c/FITXFEARLESS
/r/seduction19/02/22 02:44 PM
1

& where both of them kissing those girls or just the taller one?
/r/seduction19/02/22 01:35 PM
1

What did those 2 guys who kissed up on those chicks look like in comparison to you?
/r/seduction19/02/22 01:17 PM
4

A lot of guys nowadays are pussies & feel like what you did is “mean”. A bunch of soy boys raised by overworked dads in sexless marriages, that’s why they’ll never be good with women. Good on you for knowing what makes women tick
/r/seduction19/02/22 01:11 PM
11

Great tips, especially the last one. A lot of guys are anxious around women because they operate from a pathetic subservient mindset (“how can i please you my queen” type shit). Women are repulsed by it and can sense that it comes from desperation. Nonchalance and outcome independence are the most attractive traits to a beautiful woman. Guys need to learn to internalize the two.
/r/seduction19/02/22 05:48 AM
5

I prefer Lord Farquad but to each their own
/r/seduction19/02/22 05:23 AM
7

The idea that we should use an outlier, who’s story is unverifiable, to give guys false hope into believing that they can be scrawny and broke & still have access to models is ASININE. This is the type of bs that holds guys back. The reality is most models are not going to sniff in your direction unless you have considerable social status let alone being in shape. And by models I’m talking about women who actually make money from their looks, not your neighbour whore who has 10k followers on ins…
/r/seduction19/02/22 04:58 AM
1

If a banana expired and you had to throw it in the bin because it was rotten & mouldy, but then somehow the banana slipped out of the trash bag… would you pick it up and eat it just because it’s presented itself again? That’s how you need to treat exes. They are expired goods. All that results from eating expired goods is you get really sick, the same applies with getting back with an ex. Move on & go get fresh, new interactions and stop crying over an expired banana.
/r/seduction19/02/22 04:53 AM
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It’s crazy how people will shit on the very thing that GOT them results in the first place. I’m starting to think guys on here are PURPOSELY trying to sabotage other less experienced men’s chances of getting laid. So let me get this straight, you’ve been lifting for a while and only recently stopped, since then you got laid. Cool. So all that lifting you’ve been doing in the lead up to you getting laid had absolutely nothing to do with it…? Hello? Like guys, stop posting dumb shit on here. Being…
/r/seduction19/02/22 04:47 AM
3

You can’t say you’re willing to explore and not do it. It’s like level 1 shit, but hey, if that’s too far for you how about just biting his neck and calling him daddy 🤷🏽
/r/seduction19/02/22 02:43 AM
3

Just eat his ass
/r/seduction19/02/22 02:40 AM
2

Word of advice, if you enter any dynamic with a woman with a long term relationship in the back of your mind, you’re in for a lot of heartbreak. Treat every woman as just a date until they prove themselves worthy of a relationship, don’t go looking for a relationship type of woman, they don’t just fall on your lap ready for commitment.
/r/seduction19/02/22 01:19 AM
1

Yessir
/r/seduction19/02/22 12:49 AM
1

He said he’s newly single, so he’s been able to get girls before after all he was in a relationship. But he’s rusty, the only thing he can do is practice talking to hundreds of girls & see what works and what doesn’t. There’s no set of lines we can tell him that will fit perfectly for every situation.
/r/seduction19/02/22 12:49 AM
1

Practice, practice, practice, practice. Learn from your mistakes. Adjust as you go along.
/r/seduction19/02/22 12:40 AM
1

Bro stop giving af and move on, you’re acting like a loser with no options which only going to make the girl like you less. Women use this tactic all the time and you’re acting like a rookie. Stop falling for it. Hold your centre and stay in control of your emotions, you’re like a drug addict. Relax & move on, if she wants you’ll she’ll make it clear, if she makes it difficult for you, you’ll be more than happy to call her bluff and leave her alone. The best action to take with women who show li…
/r/seduction19/02/22 12:30 AM
0

Just tell her to come to your place first & that you’ll make your way to the bar from there. If she’s not dtf, kick her out and don’t go to the bar. Works like a charm and saves time wasting.
/r/seduction19/02/22 12:04 AM
1

It means increase your attractiveness. Read Unplugged Alpha by Richard Cooper, that book literally gives you a step by step to become the ultimate chad
/r/seduction18/02/22 11:55 PM
2

Goodness me, men have truly become pathetic.
/r/seduction18/02/22 11:20 PM
1

Watch fitxfearless’ video on it: https://youtu.be/wOnQIV0D954
/r/seduction18/02/22 11:03 AM
4

Almost every women desires to feel like a lady in the arms of a man who’s more masculine & stronger than her. Alpha women for the most part, are jaded women (damaged). Something happens along their lives where they feel the need to put a hard masculine wall up & become more aggressive. They often dont trust men because they’ve been let down by the men in their lives. The only way to date an Alpha woman is to be more Alpha than her. Otherwise, she’ll chew you up and spit you out like a dog. If yo…
/r/seduction18/02/22 10:36 AM
5

What a legend
/r/seduction18/02/22 01:03 AM
1

Why would you not be attracted to men of your own race? Look, I’m just trying to be helpful. White & Asian guys (most not all, but a SIZEABLE majority) have a beauty standard that tends to coincide with their own group and dating choices are influenced by that. You feel like you’re ugly because you’re trying to compete in a market where you’re at a disadvantage. I’m simply telling you, you are not unattractive, you are just setting up shop on the wrong street.
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:54 AM
1

Relocate to a place where people are attracted to you. You’re mentioning Asian & White guys knowing full well that most guys who are such are generally more interested in girls of their own race. Go somewhere where you can be around men of your own race who’s beauty standards you can actually conform to. Stop trying to be a square fitting through a triangular hole when there is a square hole you’ll slip through easily.
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:46 AM
3

Act interested, don’t listen to that ghetto person who’s telling you to play games. If you like him, go for him, it’s very easy for a guy to assume the woman is the one not interested in him & move on.
/r/seduction17/02/22 04:36 PM
3

Start lifting weights in the gym alongside your cold approach journey, you’ll feel way more confident when you feel like you’re getting stronger and especially after the results start to come in.
/r/seduction17/02/22 12:13 AM
3

Your therapist is telling you the conventional bs advice that doesn’t actually address the problem. You need to address the problem. What is it that’s making you less attractive to women that results in a far higher likelihood of failure when dating? I’ll just go ahead and diagnose you myself. You are probably out of shape (for me that means either fat, skinny & not visibly muscular), lacking in confidence (the kind of confidence that the “bad boys” who always get girls have), and lacking a soci…
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:59 PM
13

You’re damn right
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:36 AM
98

You’re asking this because you’re a loser. Women reward men that display masculine traits with their attraction & affection. Weak men don’t get girls, that’s how its been since the beginning of time. And thank God for that otherwise we wouldn’t be where we are as a human race. Before you go and buy yourself the doll of defeat, I want you to ask yourself… are in shape? And by in shape I mean visibly muscular? Do you dress in an attractive manner (I mean look at the guys around you that get chicks…
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:16 AM
1

Try watching some approaches on YT to get a jist of seductive body language (TaySocial’s a good one). The more direct you are, the more likely you are to get the truth of the level of a woman’s interest. The higher the interest, the more she’ll be receptive to flirting (this will be explained in the book How to Be a 3% Man). On the flip side, to increase the amount of women who are receptive to your approaches you need to increase your own value (dress nice, get jacked, smell good, meet at an ev…
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:25 AM
3

Focus on what’s getting you numbers until you feel like its not working & then change. This opener seems to work so keep doing it. Although word of advice, dont text them that same day trying to set up a date. Wait like a day then text. Finally, read How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne, he goes in detail on how to approach women in different settings in the book.
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:14 AM
7

Do this x100 and you’ll start to feel the difference.
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:11 AM
2

You’re a loser to these girls. The moment they met you they saw how much you lacked confidence, they saw how out of shape you was, they saw how much you put them on a pedestal because of their looks & they DRAGGED your ass into the friendzone. With the powers vested in me I hereby diagnose you with “nice guy” syndrome. And unless you change, you are doomed to eternity to remain the “fruity” bestie~~~! who gets to hear about all their sexual escapades with Maximus Chadius. Or, you can read the Wa…
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:09 AM
2

Yup, I smelled your nice guy syndrome over my phone now imagine how it must’ve felt for that woman who saw you in person. You know women are wired to sniff weakness on men? It’s a survival instinct. If you’ve read NMMNG, then you’re already aware of the issues you possess. Self-awareness is the ultimate step towards strength. Now I’d recommend you to move to stage 2. I want you to read in your own time a book called the Way of Men by Jack Donovan. It will embolden you as you try to “man up” by g…
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:00 AM
2

Hey man its a certified method. Here’s the mating call: https://youtu.be/3KX3eyxonwY
/r/seduction16/02/22 01:57 AM
1

He’s tryna smash.
/r/seduction16/02/22 12:36 AM
3

Bro you need to read No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover. Why are you getting nerves like a teenager over getting head? There’s a deeper issue that you probably haven’t shared. I’m gonna go ahead & diagnose you with nice guy syndrome, you’ll learn what that is in the book. But anyways, I’ll just give it you raw (pause). If you don’t man up & lead her in a sexually experienced way which will let her embrace her inner freak, she’ll find someone else to do it and use you as a teddy bear to cuddle …
/r/seduction16/02/22 12:34 AM
7

Start shaking uncontrollably while screaming out a mating call, that normally does the trick!
/r/seduction16/02/22 12:26 AM
1

That might be it. When you do nasty shit often she doesn’t wanna feel like a whore afterwards so she plays hard to get. It’s normal
/r/seduction16/02/22 12:16 AM
1

Hmmm now that you’ve given more context it’s weird that she’d blow you off like that, nevertheless, it doesn’t seem unsalvageable just focus on other women & she’ll come along. Then you can tell her when she hits you up, you’re not with the games so if she wants to see you she needs to hit you up or she won’t hear from you.
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:10 PM
1

Next time give it couple days. If you’re already dealing with a couple chicks you’re on the right track, but bro, this is a standard trick. It’s the oldest trick in the book. Girls do this play hard to get after a hookup game all the time. Wanna know how to win? Dont call. If the sex was really that good (on her side) she sure as hell will reach out. I had this situation happen to me one time from a one night stand, got the number & everything. But never heard back for 3 weeks, until I got a tex…
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:02 PM
0

Are you girl? Why are you so clingy? She should be calling you back after a hookup not the other way around. Have an abundance mindset. Every time you wakeup, you say to yourself this affirmation “Vag comes to me in abundance”. Then go out and increase the amount of chicks you’re hooking up with. NEVER get attached to one chick. It’s called ONEitis and it never ends well for any guy. Take this as a lesson. Girls are REVOLTED by clingy guys. They want the guys who are so confident in their abilit…
/r/seduction15/02/22 10:32 PM
1

Even then, they’ll realize very quickly that girls aren’t genuinely pining for them but rather giving them starfish sex for money. Racism & lack of sexual prospects seems to go hand in hand, since both are operating from a scarcity mindset i.e. “These big bad foreigners are taking our women (caveat) which I never really had access to anyways”. Guys who get women in abundance don’t dick watch over races of men getting with women from their group because they have the pick of the litter. OP needs …
/r/seduction15/02/22 10:18 PM
1

Read part 6 The First Step page 131 in the book How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne. It’ll break that down to the tee.
/r/seduction15/02/22 08:45 PM
1

Happy Valentines Day. Good luck reading it though, you’ll probably start get “oh god how on earth did I not get this” moments as you go through the early chapters.
/r/seduction15/02/22 03:51 PM
1

No. Read How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne to learn game. Your need to say HVD to chicks who haven’t shown you they like you shows a lack of experience with women.
/r/seduction15/02/22 12:53 AM
1

I’d check this blog post out: https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-make-friends-master-key-new-friendships
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:35 PM
8

You’re not physically attracted to her, but it feels good to have someone that likes you. That’s it.
/r/seduction14/02/22 03:28 PM
6

In this day and age, most people dont know the difference but thank you
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:35 PM
-9

You sound like a nerd. Women love assholes
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:08 PM
1

The same women that spend their whole lives trying to look pretty because they know their bodies are 99% of what gives them value? LMAOOO
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:04 PM
1

You’ll only know if you read it and start applying it over & over until you’re a natural. I’m 5’8 and jacked & I do extremely well with women.
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:02 PM
1

No
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:01 PM
5

Whereas most of the girls I date seem to care about everyone’s feelings, I don’t. I speak my mind freely. Whereas most guys are so compassionate they let women walk all over em, I don’t. I maintain boundaries & if the women I’m with don’t like it “see ya”. That’s pretty much it, other than that I treat the girls who show me respect and affection very well.
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:57 PM
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Issue is, I feel a lot of these guys are young. Like early 20s young, and there’s a whole new wave with their generation. They’ve got the hottest girls in their college classes having 300k followers on Tiktok & 20k on Instagram, getting flown out to fuck “industry guys” or some DJ, while they’re just average dudes that can’t compete on the status level. They’re gonna have to both level up & slightly lower their standards. Unfortunate but very harsh truth.
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:59 AM
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I still think it’s possible to game chicks but it’s not gonna be the girls you see with fat asses & juicy lips on instagram. They just live in a different world due to the options they have with social media making them more accessible. But for your average to below average girl, if you’re an above average guy (which doesn’t take much since most guys are either fat or skinny, needy, not confident & hang with losers) she’ll pretty much jump through hoops to get with you, for as long as she sees y…
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:50 AM
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Everything on here was amazing advice except compassion. I’d say all tick all those boxes except compassion, I’m a bit of an asshole and I’ve always done well with women.
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:43 AM
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says who?
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:36 AM
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of course you’d agree, you’re a girl. It’s all about fweeelings with you lmaoooo
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:36 AM
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you’re lame
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:36 AM
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Fat girls always have hot friends because hot girls like chilling with ugly girls to feel better about themselves. Its fucking science
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:35 AM
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I literally saw an interview snippet where Kevin Samuels asked Future how much money he spent on women last year & future goes “millions”. A lot of these high earning outlier males (rappers, athletes, actors) spend money on top tier escorts. They don’t game chicks in Hollywood lmaoo
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:33 AM
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Read How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne so you can learn game. If you’ve “trying to show affection for weeks” you probably have no game and she definitely saw it and lost all attraction, then put you in the friendzone. If you read other posts on here from experienced guys, you’ll know that with girls attraction dissipates quick, within the first 2 days of knowing her you should’ve shot for the number. This isn’t a rom com movie, standing behind the wall dreaming a woman will notice you is what lo…
/r/seduction12/02/22 01:58 PM
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Keep reading
/r/seduction12/02/22 03:37 AM
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You’re misconstruing what he’s saying. He’s calling for men to be more masculine in all pursuits whether it’s their career or them approaching women. The point about how the American West was 80% men for a while, as ambitious men blazed new trails is a separate point to show men’s dedication to their purpose.
/r/seduction12/02/22 03:37 AM
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DEFINITELY! lmao some of the shit he discusses is insanse, it goes deeper than game. Check this one out for instance: https://www.girlschase.com/content/why-are-21st-century-men-so-apathetic-and-unmotivated
/r/seduction12/02/22 01:50 AM
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Ngl of all the methods I’ve tried and observed social circle game is the best. But not with girlfriends but with guy friends. And I don’t mean the lame shy guys or the loud, drunk dude bros. I mean rolling with a crew of like 3-4, chill, suave and confident guys and hitting on girl groups of around the same number.
/r/seduction12/02/22 12:27 AM
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What helped me was reading books & blogs on game. I’d start with How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne & the Girlschase blog: https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-get-girls-last-post-youll-ever-need
/r/seduction12/02/22 12:17 AM
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Facts
/r/seduction11/02/22 11:25 PM
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That was an awful compliment. It is both cringe and creepy. This isn’t the 1930s, trying to sound like a poet when complimenting chicks is a sure fire way to lose. I’d recommend you read a book called How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne just to put you on some game.
/r/seduction11/02/22 10:37 PM
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She’s not interested. Women know we just wanna hit, the whole I’m still getting over my ex means “I’m fucking somebody right now, and you’re not next”
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:50 PM
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Here’s my solution. Social media is the arena for elites. You’re not ready for the big leagues. Social media (in the dating world) is for showing “social proof”. That means taking high quality, full body pictures in nice locations (preferably exotic), while being dressed well and with a muscular lean physique. My solution to you there for is to leave it alone for a bit while you read the book and get your mind right. Also, listen to me when I say this, alongside that book I also need you to list…
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:47 PM
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I don’t blame you for talking this way, I blame the people that fed you a poor, low value mindset like the one you have. Men who have positive role models dont talk like a sissy like you do.
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:24 PM
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Life isn’t fair. Not guys are AS good looking as the next guy, but to say you’re ugly and in need of plastic surgery is delusional. Another issue you have is dick watching. Why tf are you dick watching. Comparing yourself to your friends when you should be focused on your own journey. Look, as angry texting at each other isn’t going help so I’m going to give you some homework to do on your own. Read a book called How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne.
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:23 PM
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Lmaoo yeah right, I’m lucky I came from a broken home and a community filled with drug addicts & criminals. Yeah definitely. Lazy people like you look at hard work, consistency and grit, then call it luck to make yourselves feel better about being bozos.
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:20 PM
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Nah I’m alright. I just say “we’re going to get this” or “we’re doing that”. I’ve tried the whole “How’s this?” when I was a rookie and it resulted in a lot of “Well… um… I think we should do this… oh, no wait… let’s do that…” and then after giving her the power to screw things up, when you then try to regain leadership which purposely gave away it results in resentment. “Ok since you can’t decide lets do this”, to which she says in resentment “But I dont wanna do that”, to which you then say “T…
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:19 PM
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Yes I was climbing the corporate ladder when I was 22. Not every 22 year old is an entitled lazy bastard with a silver spoon in his mouth. When you come from hardship and you’re the only child in your family with the drive to wanna make something of yourself, you dont goof off smoking pot in your early 20s, you grind. Im giving him advice that will make him a competent man, if you wanna coddle him and give him the “he’s just young he’ll figure it out eventually” bozo advice then don’t comment on…
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:14 PM
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Yes im calling it complacent. You’re 22, you don’t know shit, you haven’t lived life. You haven’t built anything. You’re not muscular & lean, because if you were you wouldn’t be posting this. You haven’t built a confident & abundant attitude/mindset, because if you did you wouldn’t be posting this. You’re lazy, and you’re spoiled because “daddy” gave you everything. Go grind & make a man of yourself before you make a life altering decision that could end up with you sucking on a gun when you rea…
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:04 PM
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You have a weak mindset & I blame your father for spoiling you. What you’re really suffering from is the fact that you’re lazy, you’ve never had to lift a finger to do any real grinding because your daddy dearest gave you everything. Now you’re complaining you can’t get girls because of your looks, when there are millions of “ugly” guys out there crushing it, heck there are homeless thug jigolos that get more pussy than your average 8 figure tech ceo. Go make your own name for yourself & actuall…
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:00 PM
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Exactly. My uncle was a 5’7, slightly overweight bald guy. But he always dressed like fucking james bond, smelled awesome, always smoked a signature cigar, had a bullish personality that made him seem larger than life (damn near took up the whole room). He dominated every social interaction and made great money. His wife won beauty pageants back in her youth & even with a wife like that, he still (not condoning it) had multiple mistresses. I heard stories about how she’d come home, go straight t…
/r/seduction11/02/22 08:49 PM
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Facts. There’s a certain “demographic” who also feel extremely terrible about their natural selves and tend to undergo intense surgeries & hormonal changes thinking they’ll happier in a more… “augmented body”. …Let’s just say they have some of the highest suicide rates post-surgery. I’ll let you connect the dots on that one.
/r/seduction11/02/22 08:43 PM
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Lmaooooo
/r/seduction11/02/22 08:41 PM
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One of these days you’ll look back on this with despair lmaoo
/r/seduction11/02/22 08:23 PM
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Lmaoooooooooo. You’re 22 & you’re asking your dad for money. Strike 1. You haven’t mentioned anywhere about you trying to lift weights and eat accordingly for at least 2-3 years in order to build your physical attraction. Strike 2. You also don’t seem to realize that the peak of male life actually starts from your late 20’s onwards (provided you’ve been working out, learning high income skills & building/connecting with a social circle of other ambitious guys). Strike 3. I’m afraid you’re suffer…
/r/seduction11/02/22 07:54 PM
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Well based off what you just said you’re on the right track, just keep moving how you move. Be the guy that’s kinda cool with everyone, but does his own thing. We all knew guys like that back in high school & they were respected because they still had the other traits (physical prowess, confidence etc.) to show they weren’t just a social outcast & pushover. Keep doing what you’re doing if its getting you results. Eventually once you’re cool with one group of girls all the other girls will wanna …
/r/seduction11/02/22 07:37 PM
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Women seek mates for two reasons. The passing on of good genes or survival traits, and resource/emotional security & provision. The dream of every woman is to hit the jackpot, meaning find a man that has both the physical prowess to pass on good genes, the mental fortitude to teach survival traits like strength and confidence, as well as the resources and promise that he won’t abandon her for someone else. But in this day & age, it EXTREMELY rare to find both in one man. We’ve tamed society in t…
/r/seduction11/02/22 07:32 PM
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She doesn’t even like you, yet you’re being defensive about not needing a moral lesson lmaoo. Wtf? Go for women that like talking to you, if you sense they’re not invested move on. With women it’s a numbers game, you dont camp in one spot & hope for the best. Just know that for every one word reply & single emoji a woman sends YOU, she’s sending another man nudes & typing shit like “Babeeee i miss you 🥺”. THEN GETS HER GUTS REARRANGED BY THAT SAME GUY.
/r/seduction11/02/22 07:04 PM
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High school is the jungle. It’s human nature fully exposed. After high school the world becomes more complex, but in high school it is simple. The most fit & confident guys get the girls, the weak guys with no confidence, don’t get the girls. Just like it was for most of human history. Whether you’re perceived as creepy or friendly is largely dependent on how you carry yourself. Do you dress with sense or do you try to be edgy, weird & “different”? If it’s the latter, you be perceived as a creep…
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:55 PM
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Where would you say you get most of your lays from. Cold approach?
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:37 PM
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Well 80% of divorces are filed by women so its not like its up to you.
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:56 AM
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The issue is just the current dating market. Most women just aren’t incentivized to be interesting because most men are weak losers who’ll tolerate any behavior just to get a piece of ass. Back in the day women in high classes would undergo entire schooling programs aimed at making them “cultured ladies”. They’d learn foreign languages & about history and shit. But back then men were also strict and had standards (probably because if they needed to get their dicks wet they’d hit a brothel & were…
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:00 AM
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No you wouldn’t. Most marriages are ass, and your friends wont tell you how they have to do chores to get sex lmaoo Your issue is you haven’t exposed yourself to enough women. 4 women is NOTHING. Wait till you’ve dated around 100 women & you’ll see there’s at least 20 versions of your ex floating around. As crazy as this might sound, most women are not at all that different.
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:55 AM
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You’ll be back in 10 years don’t worry
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:53 AM
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Learn to attract women. Look here’s the reality, some guys are raised around confident, strong men that are a good example of what women are attracted to. Some guys dont. You probably didn’t. So you have to learn on your own. The fundamentals are simple: 1) Theory - Seduction by Robert Green. How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne. These 2 books will give you the theory behind what makes women tick & what turns them off. 2) Fitness - Humans are creatures of the wild. This planet is wild and to surviv…
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:27 AM
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I would say “So am i, there can’t be two troublemakers in this, one of us is gonna have to fall back [laugh emoji]” Women like risky guys so when you make it seem like you’re even more of a hassle than her, she makes it her mission to try to win your approval. After that I’d flow with what she said next then say “this is one of the rare few encounters where someone just about made me laugh, i reckon more fun over the phone. Number?”
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:04 AM
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Game comes with experience. If you haven’t dealt with A LOT of women, it always feels calculative. And it makes sense to be so, women’s mating strategy from an evolutionary is to DISQUALIFY. They’re constantly bombarded with suitors, so women aren’t looking for things they like, rather they’re looking for things they DON’T like and whoever’s left standing gets given a chance. The point is eventually you’ll become comfortable with the whole process of what makes women tick & it won’t feel as calc…
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:00 AM
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SAY SOMETHING FREAKY.
/r/seduction09/02/22 11:57 PM
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Whether they brought out good or bad in you, they did not bring out the best in you because your potential isn’t limited by your connection with one person. No one woman holds the key to your best self. Every woman you deal with will teach you something different.
/r/seduction09/02/22 09:54 PM
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I think you just need a shift in perspective. Rather than viewing life as an assignment, view life like a video game. Start having fun with the journey of rising up in the levels of life.
/r/seduction09/02/22 06:36 PM
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Yes I’ve noticed this, and to be honest it makes complete sense. Women KNOW the difference between low value losers and the confident badasses that manage to bed them. The confident badasses who do manage to bed them are NOT the majority. Many guys are under the illusion that women have a lot of options. This couldn’t be furthest from the truth. You only have as many options as your standards will allow & in most Western countries, women are EXTREMELY selective for dominant traits which most men…
/r/seduction09/02/22 06:32 PM
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In that case a gift is fine, but no flowers or some sappy shit. The nicest gift I ever gave a fwb was a surprise day at a hotel spa. But that was something I enjoyed greatly for myself too.
/r/seduction09/02/22 06:03 PM
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I’m just gonna say this, for all the guys… YOU CANNOT BUY AFFECTION. Hold on, let me repeat that again. YOU CANNOT BUY AFFECTION. Women either genuinely desire you, or they don’t. If you haven’t slept with a woman & she hasn’t shown you significant interest, your gifts aren’t going to mean ANYTHING to her. Women CANNOT be bought.
/r/seduction09/02/22 05:17 PM
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That PUA coach is sh1t. Read a book called How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne, which lays down the foundations of game, then go practice with hundreds of women.
/r/seduction09/02/22 05:15 PM
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Going back to an ex in my opinion is a sign of your failure to grow as a man. The reality is, your ex will always bring out a side of you that is lesser than your potential. In order to become better you need to outgrow who you was when you was with your ex, so that your new woman will interact with you from the new position of self-improvement. Relationships aren’t meant to last forever, they’re meant to help you grow & teach you lessons before you head off to the next one and do the same until…
/r/seduction09/02/22 05:08 PM
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Move on. Kill your ego about “I dont wanna believe this ship has sailed”, what kind of BS is that? I’ll ask you the same question I asked my little brother when he experienced his first heartbreak: Did your mother risk her life carrying you around in her stomach for 9 months and then raising you for 22 years just so you could mope around, chasing after someone who doesn’t give a damn about your existence?
/r/seduction09/02/22 07:55 AM
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I’d recommend reading a book called How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne. It breaks that shit down step by step and put me on game. The issue with the guys commenting on this post is they don’t have game & rarely does it cross men’s mind that game has to be LEARNT, either from the men you grew up around who had success with the ladies or by reading.
/r/seduction09/02/22 12:37 AM
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cuck
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:50 PM
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Then stop growing hair
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:48 PM
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I’d say nip it in the bud. I definitely think this is a psychological tactic that if you guys end up more serious it’ll rear its head and turn ugly. A lot of women castrate men (unintentionally) with a death by a thousand small cuts. At the same time, take into consideration she’s a woman and needs time to get herself ready. Next time if you say “lets meet at 9” and she says “Is 10 ok?”, say “no its not. I’ll see u at 9 or not at all”. If she shows up later than that, literally walk off and don’…
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:46 PM
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I would err away from taking selfies and more towards taking full body pics in visibly nice locations. Secondly, I’d like to remind you that you’re a man, not a woman. You’re not valued because you’re “pretty”. You’re valued based off of your confidence, assertiveness, your ability to lead interactions with women in a laidback but purposeful way and your ability to subtly display status and physical strength. A skinny, shy pretty boy loses to rough faced Joe with muscular arms, a sleeve and conf…
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:30 PM
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In your mind, you have to act as though you’ve got thousands of women waiting in line to meet you. The attitude of a man with THAT level of abundance is what stops you from being needy. And “as a man thinketh, he is”. So by thinking from a place of abundance, you’ll act from a place of abundance and then eventually END up in abundance. Confidence in your ability to get women, gets you women, getting one woman opens the gateway to getting more women because women gravitate towards men who get wom…
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:15 PM
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NO, I repeat do NOT tell her you’re a virgin.
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:46 PM
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Bro she doesn’t like you, she just likes your attention. Put some value on yourself and cut her off. You should have the mindset that every hour of your time is worth $1000. If what you’re doing isn’t as good or better than getting $1000 that hour, then stop doing it.
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:38 AM
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You already know the answer to that, and it’s no. You said you already have a past with her. For her this was a curious moment to see “hmm, I wonder how much this guy’s increased in value since we last hung out”. While you seemingly did great on the date, you got too in your feelings and screwed up. As a man if you want women to love you, you have to be in your masculine so they can enjoy being in their feminine. That means being cool, calm and collected 99% of the time. A cool, calm and collect…
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:11 AM
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You blabbed your mouth and poured out your gooey feelings telling her you liked her. This was a MASSIVE mistake. She already knew you liked her by how you enjoyed each other’s time, you should’ve laid low and let the mystery fester. Eventually she would’ve reached out to you. But no, you tapped into your inner feminine and immediately turned her off. Women are the ones who are supposed to chase you after a date, not you. People are probably gonna hate that I said that but it’s true. NEVER ask a …
/r/seduction08/02/22 04:56 AM
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Fuck me, i’m just a stranger on reddit. The clarity you seek is in the book No More Mr Nice Guy, its based off the studies of a therapist and psychologists. It’ll even do you more good to read that alongside the Way of Men by Jack Donovan.
/r/seduction07/02/22 06:19 PM
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It’s crazy that men have reached such a low point that woman openly disrespecting them and expressing disgust at intimacy with them STILL leaves room for doubt. You value yourself lowly to even need to ask a question about this. You need to do some internal work to figure out why you allow yourself to be mistreated like this. Go and read No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover (there’s a free audiobook on Youtube). Either that or you can cry yourself to sleep whilst assuming you know all the answer…
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:57 PM
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Not really because men back in the day were more religious and they still confidently approached women. It’s feminism, beta male fathers and political correctness culture thats brought us here.
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:25 PM
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Its just a tactic to filter out the weakest men of society from the gene pool. Even the most ardent feminist secretly fantasizes about having a masculine, confident & slightly aggressive man. It’s very common for a leftist, suburban girl from a good family to chase “bad boys” from rougher backgrounds. It’s been like this since forever. As far as back in the 40s, there was a movie called “Angel and the Badman” where a Mormon woman falls for a confident, nonchalant gunslinger played by John Wayne.…
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:23 PM
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It’s not normal. Something must’ve happened to you at a young age that makes you feel that way.
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:19 PM
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It’s clear he’s bitter from rejection which is normal for any guy who’s first started trying to get girls but has been turned down every time. This is a good sign, its growing pains. But what he needs to do is channel that rage and aggression into improve in his fitness, style & reading about game so he can develop some fundamentals of attraction before he goes out and approaches more chicks. 8-12 months of straight self-improvement and no thought of girls will boost is seductiveness in the foll…
/r/seduction03/02/22 09:25 AM
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Question? Why don’t you just leave her or start dating other women at the same time?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/22 06:51 PM
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Facts, the book I mentioned above literally taught me this. Once you realize that you pedestalizing pussy is just your lizard brain developed through thousands of years of adaption telling you “Must procreate before die”, you really stop viewing women as the end all be all.
/r/seduction01/02/22 01:23 AM
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Read a book called How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne. I read your whole post, you have nothing to lose. Grab the book & it’ll teach you about how to get women and build confidence. Once you actually experience multiple women, you’ll realize they’re truly not that special and you’ll relax. While you’re reading that book, start lifting weights & figure out how to dress better.
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:32 PM
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Look him in the eyes, play with your hair & be flirtatious. That’s what gets me going from a man’s perspective.
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:18 PM
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Don’t sext. It puts you in the friendzone. Women enjoy flirting just for the phone of it, so its not uncommon for her to say nasty shit over text and then not want to sleep with you AT ALL in person. Focus on building sexual tension in person, only text to set dates.
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:17 PM
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You’ll date younger women. Trust me by the questions your asking, I know you’ll gain so much value from watching that video.
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:46 PM
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You need to read a book called How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne to develop your confidence & learn the steps to maintaining women’s attraction. You seem like a calculated person, so read that book so you can go into dating prepared. Then it won’t feel like this wild scary thing to do to approach women because you know the principles of dating beforehand. You can learn hard way by making all the worst mistakes yourself, or you can save yourself the embarrassment by reading that book.
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:46 PM
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Like I said watch that male advantage video from 1st Man on Youtube, it’ll explain everything about why relationships are actually better when you’re not in your 20s. Your 20s are the WORST time to get in a relationship.
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:43 PM
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Your mentality is AWFUL. Look up “1st Man the Male Advantage” and Youtube. You’re not washed up at 35 unless you allow yourself to be. Most stats show that your 30s & 40s are your peak years for the men who’ve been working on themselves. You’re also showing signs of low self-esteem. You believe that having a woman will make you happy but I guarantee you that mindset will cause women to lose respect for you. There’s a lot of inner work you have to do. Nothing wrong with wanting a traditional wife…
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:38 PM
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I’d also add that you grab a book called How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne & just binge read that sh!t. It’s all about the steps to take in dating, maintaining attraction & the overall development of confidence with women. Good luck on your journey.
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:35 PM
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I’d also grab a book called How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne. It breaks down a lot of step by step tips of getting women from the first time you meet them, all the way through to maintaining a relationship if that’s what you’re looking for later on.
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:28 PM
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Glad to hear that bro!
/r/seduction31/01/22 04:29 PM
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Facts!
/r/seduction31/01/22 02:43 AM
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Read a book called How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne. It goes into depth but the actual ways to attract women. There’s not a lot of content that genuinely gives you the raw truth on that. It’s worked for me & a lot of my friends so have a read and start implementing what you read.
/r/seduction31/01/22 02:21 AM
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ITS A TRAP. Dont bite the bait.
/r/seduction31/01/22 02:18 AM
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Feel free to do things your way. If you find that trying to own women & form deep attachments to them is the way to go, by all means do so. I’m not the one who has to live with your decisions. But I’ve found a way that worked for me & my interactions in the dating scene have been great ever since. So I’m sharing it and whoever sees benefit in it, can apply it if they want.
/r/seduction31/01/22 12:00 AM
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I’m not gonna read all that, but im gonna say the answer that you already know. Choose BOTH.
/r/seduction30/01/22 11:49 PM
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The easiest way to not resent women is to kill the belief that you can ever OWN them. Too many men have this view that just because a woman says she loves you or says she’ll be with you forever, that means she’s YOURS. But the truth is women are emotional. What they say on Monday, may change on Wednesday. Because they base ALMOST everything on how they feel in the moment, not on what they say like men do. A man will lose attraction for a woman but stick by her because he told her he would. A wom…
/r/seduction30/01/22 11:31 PM
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Don’t give up until you’ve read a boom called How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne. By the sounds of things you’ve got nothing to lose. Get the book.
/r/seduction30/01/22 10:59 PM
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The reality is they are like that to YOU because they don’t perceive your value to be equal to or higher than theirs. Women seek partners who are they perceive as either on par or above them in status. It’s just the harsh reality of the world. I used have to deal with all that bs too. But after I starting lifting weights, dressing better, being seen in circles of perceived status and developed the confidence to act like I’m the greatest thing since sliced bread, my results with women skyrocketed…
/r/seduction30/01/22 04:37 PM
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He’s 100% right, also read How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne. That nice guy shit is a facade and women can see through it the most.
/r/seduction30/01/22 04:20 PM
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Thats so out of wack with reality but I don’t blame you having such views. They allow you to operate comfortably in the world, so I get it. But people who are good, honest & care about others are actually more likely to attract people who want to use people. But I agree that in terms of being superficial like Dan Bilzerian, you’re definitely not going to be building any genuine relationships.
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:09 PM
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“Surrounded by liars & people who just want to use you” That’s pretty much everyone’s life. Has nothing to do with being rich or average. Maybe people want to lie to you for different reasons & use you for different reasons than they would Dan, but its still the same for everyone nonetheless.
/r/seduction30/01/22 02:49 PM
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Just tell her “I’m just dating & having fun right now” and leave it at that.
/r/seduction30/01/22 02:42 PM
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From your original photo, I wouldn’t be able to tell because you were loose sleeve t shirts. You’re lean muscular, so why its very aesthetic with your top off, it doesn’t mean shit if no one can see it cause your clothes are too big. Start wearing muscle fit t shirts, add jewellery with that like a chain with a watch & a ring. But the main thing for you is game, you’re not bad looking at all so its not your looks as much. You need confidence & game. Cop that book How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayn…
/r/seduction30/01/22 02:08 PM
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If you want an idea about what to say or how to build your confidence when talking to women, it will help a lot to read from experienced pick up artists who’ve wrote about what works & what doesn’t. Grab a book called How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne & just start practicing what you read in the first few chapters when you cold approach.
/r/seduction30/01/22 06:15 AM
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The only issue was when you say it’s okay for her to say no. While that may be true, you don’t have to tell her that. Silently maintaining eye contact after asking for her number is the way to go. Also there wasn’t enough pre-closing convo. You didn’t ask her about herself & see whether she was interested based on how cooperative she was in responding to your questions. But what I love the most is how when you noticed she wasn’t into it, you just walked off with no hard feelings. Boss move. Over…
/r/seduction30/01/22 06:04 AM
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Read a book called How to be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne, to learn game & how to develop your inner confidence and social skills with women. And also get in the gym. Face wise you’re not bad, but I guarantee you, with your face if you had a muscular physique, you’d 10x the amount of chicks you have access to.
/r/seduction30/01/22 05:52 AM
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His book changed my whole life. I hope it can do the same for most guys who have struggled with dating. The advice for men & women these days is terrible when it comes to dating, its no wonder most people are unhappy in relationships and the birth rates are dropping.
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:59 AM
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Not getting her back, but recovering from that feeling of being depressed over her. Once you learn the principles in that book, you’ll wonder why on earth you even bothered it about it.
/r/seduction29/01/22 11:01 PM
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Well you’ve got the Fitness down, sort out your Fashion. As for Finance (as long as you have money coming in don’t worry about that too much until your last year of college). And Network, you got that covered too. So what you really need is that book. Because you need game to pair with your looks to help you when you go out. The first few chapters will address how to talk to women, the mindset you need & how to tell if she’s interested or not. Practicing what you read will yield you great result…
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:41 PM
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The book covers this in detail with step by steps that I started applying. But i’ll say this. Your options increase when you have the fundamentals in place. Are you lean muscular below 20% bodyfat? How’s your dress sense compared to guys you see who have options? Are you financially stable? Do you frequent places that the kind of women you want go & know other women that you can befriend that can introduce you to more women? These are the fundamentals that increase your options. Fitness, Fashion…
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:33 PM
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There’s literally a book that talks about recovering from this and how to avoid this issue. Read How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne, if you REALLY want to get over this slump. The key though is to not go into interactions with women hoping to get a relationship or anything serious out of it. Just start having fun. Don’t take women too seriously. Explore your options ALWAYS.
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:24 PM
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It’s a mindset thing. Stop believing you have to be what’s called a dancing monkey for women. Start approaching interactions with women from the perspective that SHE needs to try to impress you. This often why you often let women do most of the speaking and just ask them questions with the odd flirtatious comment here and there. He who asks the questions heads the interaction. You can read more about this in How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne.
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:22 PM
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You maybe need to look deeper into attraction & dating dynamics. Read a book called How to be a 3% man by Corey Wayne. In the first few chapters of the book it breaks some of these issues down.
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:19 PM
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This is facts. Most guys fail with women because their foundations are ALL the way wrong. Out here worried about women & friends when you broke, out of shape and don’t have a plan for the next 5 years. Gotta spend 1 good year focusing on developing healthy habits & unlearning the bad ones. THEN go out like a beast and approach people.
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:42 PM
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I’d start by reading a book called How to be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne which is literally all about dating, avoiding the pitfalls following a breakup and developing confidence. Then I’d start going to the gym & lifting weights. There’s nothing more therapeutic and life-changing, like working out.
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:41 PM
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What’s pathetic is worrying about society when the only thing you control is what you do & how you react. There’s no use in complaining about society. Humans have always been cruel, discriminatory cvnts. It’s in our nature & it always rears its head. All you can do is improve yourself to become the highest caliber man you can possibly be with cards you were dealt. Fvck society.
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:36 PM
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Well for one your english is good enough that you can move to the UK, a country which from I’ve heard, is very tolerant and diverse. Rather than complaining all day about Germany, move. It’s what your parents did to leave their home country for a better life, now you can seek a better life elsewhere. Next, as I said before. Read the book How to be a 3% man by Corey Wayne so you develop some confidence and understanding of dating psychology. Finally, get in the gym & start working on building mus…
/r/seduction29/01/22 05:30 PM
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This is such a pathetic mentality. I’ve noticed its mainly Arabs & Indians that think like this. Other Middle Easterners I’ve met like Turks, tend be very confident and well-groomed. If you shaved, got in the gym & built muscle, dressed sharp, with a good cologne and was confident you’d have options. Being so insecure that you wish you were another race is such a weak mentality that it’s obvious why women dont want you. Women hate weak men. Read a book called How to be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne.
/r/seduction29/01/22 04:52 PM
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W!
/r/seduction29/01/22 04:07 AM
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Craving love isn’t something I entertain. That needy feeling often means there’s something else wrong & it’s selfish of me to try and use a woman as a plug to fill that hole. So when I “crave love” or feel myself needing affection, I meditate, I take some time to go on vacation, I go to a park and enjoy nature. Sometimes I’ll bring a woman along with me, but I don’t fixate HER as the cure to my emptiness, rather I find joy for myself and allow her to assist in that. This is one of those things t…
/r/seduction29/01/22 04:05 AM
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Well its like my uncle used to say, you can either have complaints or results. I’d say speak to your friends. Get them to help you be more appealing. It’s no different than when a skinny dude has a friend who lifts weights & asks to tag along, then eventually becomes a gym goer himself.
/r/seduction29/01/22 02:18 AM
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People get results by learning what works, applying it and then getting the results they want. You seem like you want a guy. From everything you said it sounds like your friends are feminine and femininity is like a magnet to masculinity. If you have issues entering your femininity, you need to address whatever trauma may have occurred in your past that made you tap so heavily into your masculine. You said your analytical so sorry if this isn’t the quantitative answer you wanted, but its the tru…
/r/seduction29/01/22 01:59 AM
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Bro women have A LOT of options. Often when they’re dating they’ll be juggling like 5 guys who are trying to meet up with them and then also be texting 3. Based on how much they like you, they might flake on you to meet another guy they like more instead. The game’s the game. What you need to do, is not get caught up on one girl. You need to be talking to multiple women too. That way if one girl flakes you won’t have to care because you can just call up another one that’s more interested in you.…
/r/seduction29/01/22 01:48 AM
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She doesn’t like you bro. There’s underlying issue here whereby you don’t respect yourself enough to pursue different women in order secure the ones that actually care about you. For you to spend 3 years on girl? That’s extremely unhealthy. But the fact that you’re asking this question means you’re realizing your worth & that’s a beautiful thing. If you walk away & maintain this self-awareness you have now, you are LITERALLY on the right track. All I’d say is, you really need to read a book call…
/r/seduction29/01/22 01:40 AM
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I’d start with reading a book called How to be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne. That book taught me everything I needed to know about dating, from approaching to maintaining interest. It’s hard to explain without you reading the book but I’ll try to keep it simple. It’s all about the mindset you’re going into the approach with. Most guys approach women with a “Will she like me?” type of mindset. But you should approach women with a “I wonder if I’LL like her” mindset. So when you walk over you should be…
/r/seduction29/01/22 01:27 AM
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In that case you’re good just be confident & you’ll be fine. Sure some women will have issue but from what I’ve experienced, women who are extremely picky about having really tall guys like above 6ft tend to be the bratty, masculine types. Because of their masculine energy, they require a significantly taller man to feel like a lady since they tend to try to overpower and compete with men. So I prefer more feminine women who don’t need Gigachad to remind them they have a vag. Might not be the ca…
/r/seduction29/01/22 01:16 AM
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As a guy who’s 5’9 I always say if you’re short you had better be a short muscular, badass with confidence and good fashion sense. The reality is most women couldn’t care less about the actually height metrics. What women REALLY want is to feel protected & SAFE. I’ve never had any issues dating because despite being shorter, I’ve also always been taller than all the women I’ve dated. Plus the fact that I lift weights & have a good stocky physique & wear clothes that show it, has always meant wom…
/r/seduction29/01/22 01:09 AM
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All the best bro
/r/seduction28/01/22 10:28 PM
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My cousin once told me “You can either be the guy that fvcks her, or you can be her phone buddy. Not both”. Ever since I adopted that principle it’s served me well. From now on, apart from the initial convo to get to know each other stop pillow talking on the phone with women. Only reach out if you want to set a date to meet in person or every once in while to see if she’s alright. Apart from that, no contact. Women don’t fall in love over text, they don’t fall in love over the phone either. The…
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:26 PM
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Sounds exactly like me. And to be honest I’m glad I stopped thinking about all that disney fairy tale stuff. It was all bullshit programming we were fed from media. The reality is the best way to get the best version of a woman, is to be a man who puts his own success above everything else. As well as a man who gets his love from within & not from outside. The issue is most guys don’t want to put in the work it takes to make yourself into somebody worth respecting. So they don’t respect themselv…
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:18 PM
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1) That is not your friend. It’s a competitor who wants your girl. It may sound like a harsh way to frame things but everything that’s happening here is typical primal shit. The moment he made a move on her whilst knowing you’re talking to her, he showed his true colors. 2) Don’t play yourself. If you’re not cool with the two of them talking, say it. “Listen, about Steven. You two can stay in contact if you want, but I’m not gonna take this situation between us seriously if that’s the case” and …
/r/seduction28/01/22 08:08 PM
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See youtube so you can get a visual on how to put one on properly so it doesn’t rip.
/r/seduction28/01/22 08:02 PM
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Excellent advice
/r/seduction28/01/22 07:49 PM
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Normally its your fathers that would teach you. But seeing as most fathers in the West after 1960 were either complete wussies, complete jerks or absent altogether, you learn by reading & experience. For me it was reading How to be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne (which delves deep into what makes women tick, what turns them off & how to develop confidence and know what you want in a woman/women). Then I read Way of the Superior Man (which delves deep into Masculine & Feminine energy, how it looks in da…
/r/seduction28/01/22 05:20 PM
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She doesn’t really like you. You’re a rebound. That’s fine. You enjoy your time with her & when she starts to act up too much & is no longer fulfilling your needs, you bounce. Or you can ignore this advice, fall in love with somebody who thinks so lowly of you that they actually TOLD YOU that they’re still in love with someone else & didn’t think for one second you’d leave. But that’ll end in you crying your eyes out like a biatch & her moving on with a guy strong enough to not take her seriousl…
/r/seduction28/01/22 05:12 PM
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She. Doesn’t. Like. You. Like. You. Like. Her. Move. TF. On. To. A. Woman. That. Will. Appreciate. You.
/r/seduction28/01/22 02:32 AM
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The cheat code to passing shit tests, is not giving a fuck in the first place. The issue with most guys is they DO actually care, so they have to pretend to not care when a girl shit tests them. But you have to unpack, “why do I care so much about how this one girl is acting up?”. Often when you break it down its for the following reasons: 1) You’re afraid that her bad behaviour will mean you have to leave her & you’re afraid that you can’t replace her because you haven’t got other options. 2) Y…
/r/seduction28/01/22 12:07 AM
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Congratulations bro, you did an awesome job. It’s always a mental battle with these things but it gets easier the more women you approach. Don’t stop here, make sure you’re approaching other girls too. Also, I always recommend this book to people because of how it transformed my game and understanding of what makes women tick. It’s called How to be a 3% man by Corey Wayne. Read through it while you’re interacting with girls, it will teach you the fundamentals of developing confidence, not being …
/r/seduction28/01/22 12:00 AM
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Once you have a mission you’re working on & you start to see results after a couple months of working out, then start approaching women. Personally, I would set aside 6 months of purely focusing on the new mission & working out. After 6 months, do the 100 women challenge, where you approach 100 women. Once you’ve approached 100, even if you get 98 rejections, the lessons you get from those rejections will fortify you for future interactions.
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:00 PM
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I have to disagree. Some of the questions I see get asked here every day are riddled with entitlement and simptoms. Yesterday I literally saw a post asking “why do women only go for bad boys”. While I do think most of the guys in this sub aren’t necessarily incels, I still reckon a lot of guys in this sub need that wakeup call or fire up their ass to improve.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:21 PM
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At 16, you’ve got a lot of time to grow. But you have to read about dating bro, as much as it may sound like that’s too much, it’s not. There’s a book called How to Become a 3% Man by Corey Wayne. When I read that book, it taught me all the ins & outs of developing confidence and what things attract women, what turns them off too. Grab that book and expand your mind. Don’t be like many people who have to learn the hard way after tons of rejection & hard break. That book is the cheat code.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:03 PM
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Yes, it does. But most men want young and beautiful women and I’m giving them the unsugar coated reality. Guys who aren’t willing to put in the work will end up single or with extremely low value women.
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:51 PM
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I agree with most of what you said, except the first line. Most guys have NOT worked on themselves in a myriad of ways. In fact I’d argue that 80% of guys are the simps & orbiters that you mentioned. This isn’t a white knight post. This a wakeup call to the losers who have a simp mindset thinking that just because they’re “nice guys” they should get women.
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:49 PM
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Check the thread, I mentioned an answer to this
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:47 PM
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What you’re doing is not going to help you get her. You’ve actually made her not like you at all. But of course this will sound crazy & harsh because you probably weren’t taught how to properly engage with women. My advice is to get a book called “How to be a 3% man” by Corey Wayne. The book breaks down perfectly what makes women tick. But all that “complementing” stuff you’re doing is just putting you into the loser friendzone category. Read that book above, stop talking to this girl for a few …
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:52 PM
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You need theory & practice. You’ve hit the genetic lottery with height so I don’t need to get into any other stuff. It’s simple. Read How to be a 3% man by Corey Wayne, then practice what you read. The book breaks down the entire process of getting women from a place of confidence & completely changed my dating life, and I’m nowhere near 6’5. So it will definitely work for you.
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:08 PM
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Read what you wrote & ask yourself if a woman would feel safe around a man who talks like that. All of that is negative self-talk. It’s all in your head. Descartes said “I think, therefore I am”. You are the thoughts you continue to push about in your head. You’ve been telling yourself you’re shy & scared for so long that your brain has gotten comfortable with it. You need to learn to ignore the voice in your head & just do what needs to be done. Eventually, you’ll start to become someone better…
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:51 PM
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Then change to a different shoulder workout that gives you less pain. Remember, no excuses. In the end it will all pay off. Use Youtube, there are plenty of videos showing plenty of different ways to grow shoulders.
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:24 PM
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Lmaoo have you ever actually done this when this situation occurred? If so, how did it go?
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:21 PM
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Think of a problem you’d be interested in solving or a transformation that you want to make in yourself. They can range from small-scale things to large-scale things. That’s up to you & what stage you are in life. Examples of missions include: “I want to create a X dollar business selling X to X” “I want to max out my genetic potential in weightlifting to see how strong I can become naturally” “I want to be the number 1 fitness instructor at my gym” “I want to become an expert in my industry” “I…
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:55 AM
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Yes. The first 2 do.
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:36 AM
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Thats the issue with men today. They don’t wanna put in the work even though they know they’ve got to change.
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:20 AM
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This is not sustainable. You’re not a teenager. You’re a grown man. It is essential that you develop confidence and social skills. It is essential that you get in the gym & get in shape. “It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.” - Socrates
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:22 AM
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You’re young. It’s likely you never grew up around male relatives who had game and actually showed you how to hookup with women. That means you have to learn on your own. But here’s some steps you can take to make your journey easier. 1) You need to read up on dating & self-improvement. As a 19 yr old you’re probably thinking “what!? Read!? It’s not that deep”. Yes motherf-cker it is that deep. Unless you’re one of those natural jocks who just grew with all the right variables to be a confident …
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:14 AM
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It’s important to note that you have to DO THE WORK to get to this point. A man can only do this when he has a genuine mission that he’s working on. This mission allows him to respect his time & as a result, he requires women to respect his time. What we often see as men who are constantly being used by women or being treated like shit, is men who have no mission. So they make getting a woman a mission. Women hate being the mission of a man’s life and so they disrespect these men. Find a mission…
/r/seduction26/01/22 11:57 PM
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Just keep this in mind. Women aren’t the disney princesses that just want a nice prince charming to come & swoop them to a happy ending. Despite what media and popular culture would have you believe, women are humans & the number one imperative of humans is to survive and create offspring, then protect those offspring so they can continue the cycle. Nature is a b-tch, to people that don’t have the traits required to survive its many tests. So much like with other animals, females of most species…
/r/seduction26/01/22 09:21 PM
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Tattoos have been a part of human cultures for thousands of years. Often they were given to warriors or men coming of age. They signalled masculinity. In the West, tattoos are symbol of edginess and rebellion, even aggression to some extent. And all those are traits that women have always been attracted to since the dawn of time because those are the traits that have kept them & their offspring safe.
/r/seduction26/01/22 09:15 PM
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Because women are humans & humans have primitive desires that are rooted in hundreds of thousands of years of adaptation. Also, most women are not attracted to gangsters per say, but rather strong, confident men who aren’t afraid to be aggressive sometimes. Only in degenerate cultures with a lot of poverty, are women attracted to criminals. Most men are sexually aroused by breasts, hips & ass. One might ask, well why not be attracted to elbows? Well because we’re not wired that way. We’re wired …
/r/seduction26/01/22 09:11 PM
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You’re very brave & that’s a good thing. But one thing many people downplay in this sub, is that seduction doesn’t work when you’re not the kind of guy that looks the part. One man’s seduction, is another man’s creepiness. So make sure aside from approaching women, you’re also going to the gym (lifting weights), dressing in a style that attractive men in your country wear & reading about actual dating psychology so you know what works & what doesn’t (a great blog for this is Girls Chase). Either…
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:40 PM
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You’re not unique. You said you “really liked this one”. So does every other joe schmoe with every other woman. What I’m saying to you is, just because you really like a girl doesn’t mean you should get attached to the idea of being with her. That way next time you “really like a girl”, you won’t get ahead of yourself and if she acts like she doesn’t want you, you won’t feel a need to post about it on Reddit. I’m on your side.
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:33 PM
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That’s why you never get too attached. As hard as it can be, you MUST apply logic to relationships the same way you would in other areas of your life. You wouldn’t get attached to one job, because you know you could get fired. You wouldn’t get attached to one house you’re renting, because you know you may have to move. It’s the same with women. You don’t OWN them, they will come and go as they please, so getting attached to one particular woman is dumb. I dont know why guys still think its the 1…
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:29 PM
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You’re 100% right, I have no idea why this guy is arguing with you. It’s this mentality that leads to girls getting killed and kidnapped. This inability to move on.
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:55 PM
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Bro you have too much of an ego. You’re not for everyone & that’s okay, just move on. Too many guys have an ego when dealing with women.
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:54 PM
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I think the guy was interested in you & his friend was trying to sabotage the situation by trying to embarrass him. This happens a lot in friendship groups where one friend tends to get girls while the other desperate losers don’t. They’ll try to sabotage the one that does. Just keep putting yourself in his vicinity & showing interest. Eventually, he’ll make his move.
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:02 PM
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No you’re literally a genius. Shit i’m almost cried reading this shit, I dont have a mission. I’m an animal. No matter what hedonistic pleasures I indulge in, it never fulfils me because I need something larger than myself! This advice wasn’t for me but i’ll take it & find a higher mission for myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/22 04:07 PM
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Well because most men today don’t have principles. They’re desperate losers who’ll disregard everything and anyone for sex. It’s very sad, but nature tends to filter out weaker men like this.
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:09 PM
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By acting how you act when you see a bird flying in the sky. You don’t wonder every time a bird flies “hey what are those things up to?”. It’s not your business & it’s not going to serve you in any way. So while you acknowledge they exist and do their thing, you ignore them and do your own thing. Treat her like a bird.
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:02 PM
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As an 18 year old, not only are you weird for paying attention to a 28 year old woman (like hello? you’ll have way more in common with a woman around your age), but you’re also extremely weird for even considering a married woman. A guy that doesn’t have principles, is a guy that will tossed side to side by the wind. Women will never respect a guy that isnt grounded in some sort of principles that he stands on no matter what SHE says. Focus on women around your age, focus on women who aren’t mar…
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:49 PM
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Have a read of this blog then: https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-get-girls-last-post-youll-ever-need
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:27 AM
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The issue is your mindset. This “oh I dont wanna bother anybody” mindset is a weak new age mindset. A lot of young guys in your generation have it and it leads to you being passive and passing up opportunities. As someone who was once you, understand this. In this world as a man, you must be proactive and aggressive (productive aggressive, not violent aggressive). You don’t wait for life to give you things, you blaze a furious burning trail in the earth and charge through like a warrior sacking …
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:19 AM
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Glad you improved yourself my man
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:04 AM
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Very true, stoic doesn’t mean emotionless. Stoic just means in control of your emotions. You’re not blurting out “I love you baby xxxxx” every day in her text messages, you’re not giggling like a fool around her or losing your temper when she doesn’t act how you want her too. Instead your fun but calm, chill and laidback. Much like a stoic, you’re not worried about what you can’t control and you’re willing to walk away at any time.
/r/seduction20/01/22 11:08 PM
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Yeah sounds like you’re not a goofball with women like most guys, you just need to reign it in a little in future. Also don’t say Ily until a girl says it first & even then only a couple times a year, otherwise it becomes much like a good morning. I’m sure when people say good morning to you, you don’t feel gushy & amazing inside. Why? Because it gets said so much it doesn’t really mean much anymore.
/r/seduction20/01/22 11:05 PM
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The proper understanding of that lazy saying is: Women will be MORE receptive to YOUR approaches when you become more attractive. And you dont get to decide what’s attractive to women, they do. NOT by what they say, but by what you can clearly see they respond well to. While every woman is somewhat different 3 things can be universally applied to all women as VERY attractive: Being in shape (lean, muscular). Being financially stable (you don’t tell them this, they will assume this by how nice yo…
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:54 PM
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Facts lmaooo
/r/seduction20/01/22 11:57 AM
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She became avoidant because you were most likely a simp in the relationship. We can tell just by how you’re reacting to losing her that because she was so pretty you probably worshipped the ground she walked on thinking it would keep her. No girl likes that. You probably need to read No More Mr Nice Guy & the Girlschase blog to get an understanding of female psychology. Whenever you’re dealing with a really pretty girl, the main thing is to be stoic, confident & firm as a leader in the relations…
/r/seduction20/01/22 11:57 AM
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Type “muscular men outfits pinterest” or “mens business casual outfits pinterest”.
/r/seduction20/01/22 11:51 AM
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OP with your physique & skin color, you should be dressing more like this: https://i.pinimg.com/474x/34/3f/f9/343ff94ec04ae88a257a30101dbfbd4c.jpg and this https://i.pinimg.com/originals/9d/e2/1a/9de21a88c314a9d0fc457dd1a4ff38cc.jpg To be frank you look great, but that style you wore with the beanie and baggy jumper & trousers was wack. Accentuate your best features, with a style like the ones above.
/r/seduction20/01/22 03:02 AM
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Also keep this in mind, the way you act when you’re talking to multiple women due to choice overload, is what women are attracted to. It’s like they can all tell that you have options & so having multiple women just attracts more and more. But the moment it becomes clear that one woman is your ONLY option, that one woman will leave you. You can’t ever stop acting how you act when you have options, which is confident, slightly selfish and most of all, not NEEDY.
/r/seduction20/01/22 02:52 AM
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NO! If you want to meet up just start a new convo like nothing happened & put the focus on your superiority. Example: Hey i’ve been very busy the past few weeks, hope you’re doing well. How about catching up for a drink this week? If she’s not interested, MOVE ON.
/r/seduction19/01/22 08:12 PM
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Well the same society that frowns upon men dating multiple women at once, is the same society that is struggling to decide whether there’s more than 2 genders. So quite frankly, I don’t think any guy should give a damn about what society says. But hey if there are mindless drones that want to appease the masses, they can go ahead. I wont though.
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:57 PM
2

Yeah im under 25, but luckily growing up had a bunch of John Wayne Western movies laying around to watch repeatedly in my childhood. It’s sad just how effeminate the men of my generation are compared to the men back then. I mean yeah they weren’t perfect & had some major flaws like bigotry, but in general they displayed upstanding character, tenacity, self-respect & emotional control. Nowadays, men in movies are either displayed as clumsy idiots, superhumans (that the average can never aspire to…
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:05 PM
3

Yes I do want an excuse.
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:05 PM
2

Haha, oh yeah Fresh Prince Will was legendary!
/r/seduction19/01/22 01:49 PM
1

I mean I never heard he was still banging Hollywood babes, all I see is his wife openly said he’s sh!t in the bedroom, openly says she was never in love with him, openly cheated on him with his son’s bestfriend & his family is an androgynous basket of weirdos that seem to not care about Will at all. Of course he’s more wealthy & successful than I’ll ever be that’s for sure. But he just doesn’t strike me as a man to imitate. Any other man in Will’s position would lose all credibility, but luckily…
/r/seduction19/01/22 01:28 PM
2

Yes that’s true, but I don’t care much for what people in my generation think. Most human beings are and were followers for the majority of our history. Followers are doomed to be ruled by others forever. All those effeminate bots that we call men today, serve a purpose. For those men who ignore societal pressures to act like a b-word, and act in accordance to their masculinity, they’ll often rise up the ladder. There’s studies done on this where in certain fields, testosterone & disagreeablenes…
/r/seduction19/01/22 12:53 PM
11

The game is the game. Losers will get used. Players will get sex, women’s cooperation and respect.
/r/seduction19/01/22 12:36 PM
5

That’s why I never complain about women’s behavior. Just accept the world for what it is.
/r/seduction19/01/22 11:47 AM
1

It’s over. I recommend going on YT, type in Wim Hoff Breathing Exercise. And follow along with it. It’ll help clear your mind once you do it enough times.
/r/seduction19/01/22 11:45 AM
4

Don’t base your actions on women’s approval. The issue is when guys do things and then try to explain themselves to a woman like an employee at a job. Women don’t like that. You have to act like the CEO of your life. If you make a decision that you think will benefit you, it’s final and if she doesn’t like it, she can kick rocks aka get lost. Dont be scared to openly flirt with other women after getting a girls’ number. And you speak to her later on that night and she says “I saw you talking to …
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:00 AM
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Women like men who get women. When you get other women it makes them think “what has he got that they like? Hmmm, I don’t wanna miss out, let me make him pay attention to me now”. That’s all it is. It’s their lizard brain. The same lizard brain sh-t that makes men see a fat ass or titties and go “oh what I’d do to have her for the night”. All you can do is use this wiring to your advantage & continue to flirt with other girls and date multiple women. If the girls that friendzoned you want your a…
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:55 AM
1

Might help to check out Girlschase blog on Google. Some great tips on there too on how to talk to women & understand women’s behaviors.
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:48 AM
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Keep approaching women like you did to build confidence & in the meantime you can also sign up to a gym, start eating a protein heavy diet in a slight calorie surplus and start lifting weights. You can also improve your dress sense by looking at what attractive indian men in your country wear & start dressing as such with haircuts as such. With confidence, muscular physique & good dress sense. You’ll be a chick magnet within 1 year or 2. Delayed gratification is essential to growth though.
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:38 AM
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Yawnnnnn
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:34 AM
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Your view won’t change the reality of women’s nature. They are going to continue to NOT be attracted to “nice/needy” guys whether you like it or not. You can call it emotional scars, you can call it abnormal. It’s not going to change the fact that women are attracted to men who are able to remain emotionally detached from them to a certain degree, men have a rough side to them, men who have a backbone and are slightly selfish in their behaviour, men who don’t constantly feel the need to express …
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:34 AM
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That’s good to hear, keep it that way. People are only as good as the stories we tell ourselves about them, but the reality stays the same. If she was who you’re telling yourself she was in your head, you’d never have broken up in the first place. But she wasn’t and she has a boyfriend now which shows how quickly she can move on. Don’t go digging in the trash & don’t let yourself get too sentimental. Many men have been destroyed by being sentimental.
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:18 AM
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Its not a matter of being better. Because then you’d be making a moral assertion, to which we’d have to understand where your moral assertion comes from, why it only applies to some and not others, who is better under this moral assertion, why it should be objective and is there such thing as objective morality, if so who gets to decide… I think you get my drift by now. So rather, just see the world for what it is rather than what you wish it were. The reality is the dating world is cutthroat fo…
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:14 AM
2

First of all, grab your nuts. Remind yourself that they’re there for a reason. Secondly, you’re 20 she’s 29. That’s a grown woman and you’re just about coming into manhood. There is nothing serious that will come of this. She wants to have sex. Period. So your job is to be calm, confident and relax. Keep the vibe flirtatious, initiate physical contact & let her do most of the talking, asking simple questions and remaining mysterious. Let this be clear; you are not to go over there and stutter, b…
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:03 AM
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Great work, never fall for the trap that other men of our generation have fallen into. Which is the assumption that women want an androgynous “friend”. No! Women want a manly man, that can make them feel like a woman. They all dream of that guy that will be assertive, confident and yet calm, like a purring lion and will give them that melting feeling of sinking into his embrace. If you’re not that guy, all you’ll be is a phone call buddy who she might go out with but not to escalate to sex.
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:53 AM
1

If you’ve really been improving like you said you have, why do you want to reach into the trash can and grab an old, rotten banana peel when you can get a new fresh banana? That’s how I view past relationships. Food that’s in the bin and to go back would be to be rooting in the trash. Don’t do that, it makes a mess of yourself.
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:47 AM
2

NO. Text her the morning of the date and tell her “my plans haven’t changed btw, i’ll see at (insert time here)”. Then wait for her response and when she confirms she’s on her way to the date spot, go from there. A lot of guys make the mistake of thinking they have to constantly text a girl, whether its constant good mornings & good nights, sending memes or asking “wyd?” etc. All of that is wack. Just chill. You get to know the girl in person, use texting to set dates to meet up that’s it. And o…
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:39 AM
1

A lot of losers here are giving you terrible advice. Just keep this in mind bro, women don’t like guys who are needy and initiating relationships or feelings is a woman’s job. You’re getting way too emotional and you’re gonna screw up ALL your relationships by being this way. Stay calm, stay relaxed and stay detached. Stop constantly worrying what she’s doing, or trying to spend time with her and definitely DONT tell her you like her until she says she likes you & even then don’t say it outright…
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:32 AM
3

Girls who go to lengths to post raunchy pics on social media, often do so because there’s nothing of substance to them at all. All they have to offer is the flesh they put out on screens for the claps & likes of horny basement neckbeards. Not saying a woman can’t post sexy images of herself on social media and not have a great personality, there are girls like that but they do in a way that’s tasteful. In general, boring girls generally have boring sex. Girls who are vibrant and have a personali…
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:23 AM
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Women do it to guys ALL the time. The game’s the game.
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:06 AM
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There’s no such thing as the one and there’s ALWAYS plenty of fish in the sea when it comes to dating. Don’t fall for that cliché rom-com life partner bs that we were all programmed with growing up.
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:05 AM
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Well in his action Western movies like Hondo, Angel and the Badman & Rio Bravo, he’d be really calm and speak with a slow firm voice. So I did so too. He’d also always maintain eye contact and whenever he liked a woman in his movies, he’d never seem too desperate & would never take women too seriously. Always focused on the mission, but also SHOWING her how he felt rather than telling her. So while guys my age were constantly complimenting girls & chasing them (ending up in the friendzone), I’d …
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:55 AM
1

Seeing as Will Smith is a cuck outside of his movies, I’d rule him out ENTIRELY lmaoo
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:07 AM
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From what I’ve read, by BEING the archetype he’d always admired. Even to the point of delusion, until he was no longer lying to himself or acting but had actually BECOME that guy. Many men do this throughout their childhood without realising it. But pick a masculine, charismatic man you admire and start imitating him until you become him. For me that was John Wayne from the old cowboy, gunslinger hero movies. His relaxed, firm and rugged demeanor is something I adopted into my own life until I f…
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:41 AM
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Ohhh you’re one of those “glass half empty” folks.
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:56 PM
12

I disagree it depends on the height. If you’re below 5’7 that’s where I’d say you’re on hard mode as a guy. But most women don’t care how tall you are as long as you’re visibly taller than them. Now does it help A LOT to be 6ft+? Yes. But a muscular, well-dressed & confident 5’7 guy will have no trouble finding a cute 5’1-5 woman. The issue is most shorter guys that complain about their height are also fat, poorly dressed, are simps with bad social skills and have a grumpy victim mentality. If y…
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:59 PM
1

There’s no way you’ve been lifting weights for two decades & haven’t got a single notch count by now. If you want to improve your life you have to acknowledge your issues. You’re probably not in great shape & have been on and off with regards to exercise. Own it. Get in the gym, get in shape. Also start reading the Girlschase blog which is great for learning pick up.
/r/seduction18/01/22 02:24 PM
1

Perfect example
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:36 PM
1

That’s how it should be
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:32 PM
4

Lmaoo, that’s sad. As a man I’ve noticed that being in shape makes certain others insecure but I don’t try to hide my muscles, I just give off the vibe that if anyone tries to do anything they’re not going to like the consequences. Wonder whether pretty women should do the same.
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:23 PM
3

Yes women are very jealous of each other. I’ve noticed unless a pretty girl is really strong-minded, other ugly girls will gang up on her VERY quickly.
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:02 PM
3

Yeah I’ve seen even on social media like Tiktok, fat girls will get tonnes of compliments in the comment section but pretty girls get a lot of hate like “who does she think she is”.
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:00 PM
5

aLpHa my ass
/r/seduction04/01/22 02:17 PM
5

With your financial freedom, I’d hire a personal trainer and get started on the best workout plan to give me a great muscular physique. I’d then study the outfits of clearly attractive men and buy as identical outfits as I can: https://www.pinterest.co.uk/taperedmenswear/muscle-fit-shirts/ Then I’d get me a reasonably nice car, and then I’d practice approaching women. I do recommend reading this blog by Chase Amante who’s an expert at Pick Up as a good foundation for what to do: https://www.girl…
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:53 PM
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DO NOT DEAL WITH HER FOR GOODNESS SAKE. Women like that hate men and make terrible partners. There millions of women is this world, move on and pick another one. Why do so many guys in this sub complicate their lives for no reason then come and ask the rest of us for solution? It’s like someone who walks into a jail cell with a key in his hand & asks “Hey guys how do I get out?”.
/r/seduction04/01/22 12:37 PM
3

Yes, but here’s a tip. The more you improve yourself, the more women will show you signs that they’re okay with you flirting with them and approaching them. You had better be getting in shape (i.e. lean and muscular), smelling good & getting a good haircut. All that plays a huge deal.
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:29 AM
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Yes but wait till late because her DMs will be filled with birthday messages during the day. That way your message will appear at the top.
/r/seduction03/01/22 04:02 PM
2

I agree, that comment wasn’t to the OP, it was to someone who said earlier that their friends don’t help them out with displaying social proof to women.
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:38 PM
0

This is why I don’t associate with guys who have issues getting women. These guys are so desperate they almost always try to throw other men under the bus to get some tiny ounce of validation from women.
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:06 AM
3

Spend occasional periods away from each other. That means where you don’t talk to her (call, text, in person) for a week or two. Don’t give her a reason why you disappeared, just tell you had some things to take care of. When she keeps insisting to know why you disappeared, change the topic and tell her you’ve got something special planned for her that week and that you’ll send the details later. Book a 2 nights at a hotel, send her the address on the day you’re supposed to meet up. I promise th…
/r/seduction02/01/22 08:08 PM
2

Women are not men. Don’t expect them to act or think like us. The “I have a boyfriend” trope can mean 2 things: a) I’m not attracted to you, leave me alone. b) I have a boyfriend but I’m not loyal, so in order to avoid feeling internal guilt, I’ve decided to respond to let YOU be the one to pursue me. That way if we do end up sleeping together, at least I told you I had a boyfriend so I musn’t be in the wrong right? Rather it was you that woo’ed me into bed with you & you can’t hold feelings acc…
/r/seduction02/01/22 07:30 PM
2

Yes i absolutely dont care about being respectful to guys who cower & worship women for no good reason. You’re cool with makeup as a form of deception but you have an issue with your fellow man coming up with creative strategies to get women. You’re goofy so of course I don’t respect you.
/r/seduction02/01/22 07:17 PM
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They’re losers that’s why. Real friends do whatever it takes to help their boys get results with women.
/r/seduction02/01/22 05:18 PM
3

Simp
/r/seduction02/01/22 02:48 PM
1

Being needy & too lovey-dovey is a turn off. You need to practice holding a masculine frame around women. In other words, show interest mildly and dont overdo it. Act towards women you like, how you’d act towards a girl that likes you but you don’t really like her like “that”. It might sound a lil backwards but it works.
/r/seduction02/01/22 01:48 PM
1

Asians who lift and have muscles, as well as dress well (muscle fit t shirt with jewellery & watch) clean up nowadays from what I’m seeing. But being a skinny, poorly dressed (sorry to say it) nerd-looking Asian is just asking to live life on hard mode. If you’re Asian, out of all groups, you are obligated to go above and beyond to have the same sex appeal as other groups that’s just facts.
/r/seduction02/01/22 01:18 PM
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So is makeup and no one seems to have a problem with that. Grow a pair.
/r/seduction02/01/22 01:12 PM
4

This article will be the stepping stone to your journey to becoming an expert at seduction. Have a read and browse through the blog’s archives for any other relevant content that addresses your questions on game: https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-get-girls-last-post-youll-ever-need
/r/seduction02/01/22 03:45 AM
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Bro… not even kidding, PLEASE PLEASE read this blog article. It’s literally the antedote to your problem: https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-stop-being-simp-10-steps
/r/seduction02/01/22 03:43 AM
3

Then LEAD. Be a man and initiate, if she doesn’t want to escalate then just let her know “Look I don’t know if I misunderstood what it is between us, but you’re not down then I don’t wanna mislead you or myself, we probably shouldn’t see each other. I’m not looking for a friendship out of this”. That firmly lets her know you’re not a friendzone material guy whilst showing you respect her decision to not wanna sleep with you.
/r/seduction02/01/22 03:09 AM
8

Facts, this is literally it.
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:59 PM
3

Mating season is 365 days of the year for in shape, well-dressed, confident & non-needy guys. It’s also 365 days of the year for most borderline-to-very attractive women. Everyone else? The holidays or a honeymoon if they get lucky.
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:33 PM
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1) Because the likelihood that you’re the only guy she’s going on dates with is slim to none. 2) It shows lack of confidence that you won’t escalate when she’s showing you clear interest. Don’t believe anything else being said here, those are the two real reasons. Listen, women have options. On social media they’ll get 100s of DMs a day, they are constantly having their attention occupied. If you don’t make your move quick (when and ONLY when she’s giving you indicators of interest) someone else…
/r/seduction01/01/22 07:35 PM
16

Bro I lost my virginity to a girl who was experienced, and while the first time was uncomfortable for both of us, because of my calm & confident demeanour that made it seem like I was just having a bad day, she wasn’t phased and gave me a second chance after which I knocked it out the park. Here’s a tip for virgins I wish I’d know (Warning : It’s a bit explicit)/ When you finally get in bed with a girl, start by spending more time on foreplay (i.e. fingering - this should be done with two finger…
/r/seduction31/12/21 06:00 PM
2

Why do you care what society thinks. Society would also have you believe that if you put on a wig & a dress today you could identify as a… let me not get started on that. Look, forget society. Rules are meant to be followed by the losers, those who break the right rules are often those that excel past the average person. If you’re in a location where you can see results coming from cold approach, keep doing it.
/r/seduction31/12/21 03:55 PM
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DO. NOT. TELL. HER. YOURE. A. VIRGIN. Please, dont screw things up. Act like you’ve done this all before, in your mind tell yourself that you’ve dealt with plenty of older women and this is just your casual walk in the park. This is no time to play son & mama. Older women like men with balls, make sure you have yours. Good luck.
/r/seduction31/12/21 03:50 PM
0

No one will be honest and outright tell you, but women prefer men who are more interested in having a good time than having a relationship. Stop caring about relationships & focus on having fun. Women will be more drawn to that care free energy than that needy Hollywood romance sh~t.
/r/seduction30/12/21 08:50 PM
8

Facts. Women watch for the guys who are already lit in their own section & then after the club ends, OUTSIDE is where the real action starts. If you were one of those guys just enjoying yourself with other guys & not being thirsty, it’s likely that the women who noticed you will be very receptive to your approach.
/r/seduction21/11/21 09:16 PM
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Bro there’s WAYYYYY more to life than women. I’m guessing you’re young. While you still can focus your energy and being in great shape, having a solid group of friends, engaging in hobbies and learning skills that will make you money. Women honestly are not that important in life. They should take up 10% max of your mental space. So if you can get laid in an efficient way that doesn’t require too much time investment, then do that. Leverage social media. The only guys who’ve got the time to play…
/r/seduction16/11/21 07:10 AM
1

You may be suffering from “Nice guy syndrome”. I’d say get a book from Amazon called No More Mr Nice Guy. Hey it sounds nuts right, but read the book first and see how fast your results with women get. I’m telling you the non-mainstream stuff that most guys don’t like to hear and most women like to hide.
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:57 AM
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whatever you say bud.
/r/seduction13/11/21 04:05 PM
6

Men should NEVER initiate dating. Your situation and his situation are not the same. If you want a sexual interaction with a woman you don’t mention dating AT ALL, you go with the flow, stay cool calm & collected and you most certainly dont act like a friend. Doing anything else will dry her up like the Sahara. And believe me the Friendzone is certainly the Endzone. So now that you’ve made this mistake you need to move on & ask yourself why you feel the need to ask girls if they want to date you…
/r/seduction13/11/21 03:14 PM
1

First take up a hobby. You could train jiu jitsu. If you’re young and able to play a sport at school try to do that. At your hobby, that’s where you can practice getting to know others. Also you could go to places like libraries or parks and just practice asking women for direction, then complimenting something about their outfit (not their looks) and then saying have a nice day and walking off. Then you can take it a bit further and start asking names and what they’re getting up to, whether the…
/r/seduction04/09/21 05:33 PM
2

Practice. That’s like asking how do I learn to count to 100 as a 3 year old. Practice bro. You’re not gonna be fluent in a week or a month, it might take several months or a year. Just speak to people and women, see what tends to get a bad reaction, see what tends to get a good reaction and act accordingly.
/r/seduction04/09/21 04:01 PM
3

Remember the lessons you learnt and know that it can happen to you lmaoo. A lot of people will tell you to just “trust”, but they probably have never been a side dude. Guard your heart and dont give it out to any woman without her proving herself over a looooongg period of time. Karma’s a bitch and you’ll likely receive it soon, especially for sleeping with another man’s wife let along girlfriend.
/r/seduction04/09/21 03:57 PM
1

She doesn’t like you bro. The moment I read that you hang out with her most of the time, I knew it was done. You’re a friend to her. You’re her “buddy”. The other guy, he’s a mystery. He’s more interesting because he doesn’t spend every hour of the day stuck on her like a fucking chewing gum on a shoe. Listen bro, you need game. The way you’re going about things is going to put you in the friendzone with every girl you interact with. It’s up to you whether you wanna accept this advice or not, yo…
/r/seduction03/09/21 10:42 PM
1

Cool directness is important, but just the overall response did not seem like an eagerness to hear what he had to say but rather a rush to get him off her back and avoid seeing him in person. She treated him like pest to be shooed. When she realised he wasn’t bunging she sealed the deal with the K. ANY time a woman responds with just the letter K, her attraction levels are at a minus. She didn’t like him. At all. Even if he was direct, in this particular case I think he would’ve been in for a ru…
/r/seduction03/09/21 10:28 PM
3

She said that because she doesn’t respect him or like him and didn’t want to see him in person. Unfortunately he was too horny to realise. I hope though that he’ll learn from this and not try to waste time on women who don’t show they like him.
/r/seduction03/09/21 09:42 PM
10

If she spoke to you like that over text, she doesn’t like you bro. When women like you they aren’t combative. Guys like you need to start respecting your time more and stop throwing it away at girls who don’t reciprocate. Women who like you are feminine and cooperative & actually try to make your life easier. Whatever you did to end up in your current situation with her turned her off you severely. I recommend you go learn some game from dating coaches like FitxFearless on YT before you get your…
/r/seduction03/09/21 08:25 PM
6

Read Unplugged Alpha. Order it on Amazon. Reddit can only do so much. I came from a similar situation a long time ago where nothing seemed to work, but reading that book laid out the blueprint. Keep your head up g
/r/seduction03/09/21 06:15 PM
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Its this whole pessimistic trauma bonding addiction thats passing through a lot of Western males as of recent. Social media has changed the dating game in the modern world. Women now have access to unlimited amounts of guys so the bar is higher for guys who want to be successful with women. But some guys haven’t evolved passed the old school “befriend the girl next door/college crush and get married” style of dating which just doesn’t work anymore. Nowadays just going to the gym or jogging every…
/r/seduction03/09/21 02:54 PM
4

Lmaoooo exactly!
/r/seduction03/09/21 02:49 PM
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That’s the problem with advising other guys. It’s like they ask only to have their current world view confirmed by others like them, rather than ask to ACTUALLY know how to improve.
/r/seduction03/09/21 06:35 AM
1

Facts. I think you’re an absolute unit. But you need to supplement your Cold Approach with other areas of self-improvement. In sports terms, you’re that basketballer with amazing speed but no technique. So you can move the ball on the court quick & fast but you can’t make the shots. You need to learn how to get the ball in the hoop. So I recommend those YTers.
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:02 PM
3

450 approaches 1 lay. I’ll admit, to keep going after 100 approaches with no lay is admirable and you likely developed mastery over your anxiety but here’s the thing. Those results mean a lot has to change. I dont if you go to the gym, but if you dont, get a membership and start lifting. Push-pull-legs, repeat this over 6 days in the week and rest on the 7th. Also your game needs to change a little. You’ve got the confidence to approach but now you need the skill to close. I recommend listening …
/r/seduction02/09/21 02:46 PM
2

3 months is nothing. Try a year.
/r/seduction02/09/21 02:22 PM
3

I can see why you don’t get women. You’re insecure and not confident. You have an inferiority complex towards Europeans. You need to grow a pair and learn to love yourself.
/r/seduction30/08/21 01:02 PM
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Bruh dont say you’re fit and socially savy if you’re not getting fit and socially savy results. The worst thing to do is to have ego. If you want to improve yourself accept that you need to work on yourself. The way you approach women is clearly not attractive to them and you need to go around men who DO get success with women, and see how they behave and start testing out their style of approaching things. It’s 2021, no one cares about race that much especially when it comes to sex. It’s all ab…
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:59 PM
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The best way to get women, when you don’t get women is to act like you already have a lot. That confidence is what gets you laid. That plus fixing up your appearance with well fitting clothes, a good haircut & a good body (i.e. Not fat, not skinny & if you have muscles it helps).
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:56 PM
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It is, if a girl likes you she’ll overly proclaim you to be her man right in front of the dude trying to make a move on her. If he still ignores you thats when you push him with full force and say “She told you whats good now back off”. Being calm and non reactive, but still being capable of sudden and ferocious violence is a quality that makes people respect you. Not just in relationships but in friendships & society.
/r/seduction28/08/21 11:27 AM
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Why the hell would you expect a woman to be able to tell you what a good man looks like. She was just saying what she felt like in the moment, if anything it’s likely that she’s attracted to the complete opposite. If you’ve ever read the Way of the Superior Man, the author talks in depth about how women will often say things just to test a man and see if he’ll stand his ground on who is and what he believes in. When you bend to her will and line of thinking, she knows you’re nothing but a loser …
/r/seduction28/08/21 11:11 AM
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Then leave her alone and move on. She doesn’t like you bro. People can get worried about people who they aren’t attracted to for a few seconds, before they move on with their lives. The mere fact that you spent hours talking to her on the phone during the pandemic, already decreased your attractiveness to her SIGNIFICANTLY. Believe me, talking for long bouts of time over the phone actually reduces women’s attraction. Takes away all the mystery and allows you to say shit that is goofy that may ca…
/r/seduction28/08/21 10:49 AM
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Go find a girl that likes you likes you and dont stop dating multiple women until you do
/r/seduction28/08/21 10:19 AM
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Bro if a girl likes you, you’ll know. There will be ZERO confusion. Stop wasting your time thinking about her when she’s likely not thinking about you at all outside of your minuscule interactions. Focus on yourself & interact with more girls, stop getting hung up one. Men who value themselves dont try to stay in touch with a disinterested woman because they know they’re worthy of greater affection.
/r/seduction28/08/21 01:08 AM
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Your interaction with OP has showed me why you shouldn’t take dating advice from 99% of people. Only a small 1% actually live in reality and know what they’re talking about, the rest genuinely live in a fantasy where everyone’s supposed to like you no matter how boring, ugly, shy & useless you are.
/r/seduction19/08/21 05:32 PM
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Shopping mall, sign up for a new hobby, library, park, college campus.
/r/seduction11/08/21 05:47 PM
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That sounds like solid advice thanks bro
/r/seduction05/07/21 05:45 AM
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Keep your standards high. The worst thing you can do is just get in a relationship because you feel empty from having casual sex. If anything take some time to focus on yourself. Pick up a new hobby like boxing or something, go to the gym, learn a new skill that could earn you money, start meditating or doing yoga. When women start stressing you out, take some time off and make sure you know where you’re going in life because you could just be compensating for the fact that you’re anxious about …
/r/seduction04/07/21 08:05 PM
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This is awesome, I love the fact that you own who you are, you know what you want in a woman, but at the same time you also incorporate essential traits like confidence, leadership & teasing into your interactions with women, unlike the typical anti-social “nerd”.
/r/seduction04/07/21 07:20 PM
2

Jocko Willink: https://youtu.be/lVKXGiBJ7i0 good luck warrior
/r/askTRP12/06/21 11:07 PM
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Stop, take a deep breath and watch this video: https://youtu.be/M8ZZadV9ilo
/r/askTRP12/06/21 10:58 PM
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Be mysterious & say less than is necessary. With women what attracts them is the vibe, not necessarily what you say. Speaking slow & calm with a smooth base in your voice, keeping eye-contact and initiating light touch, are all seductive cues that women respond to. Often if women like your vibe they’ll fantasise about you and the mysterious aura you give off. Just don’t talk your way out of the pussy by discussing politics or being to available to talk about things that don’t escalate sexual ten…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 10:20 PM
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We men are hierarchical. Much like chimps and other apes. We know that we are below some men and above others, whether we like to acknowledge that or not, or whether it’s subjective, there’s a hierarchy always at play. Now, those big guys don’t see you as a threat or anyone below them for that matter. Those guys who haven’t reached your level? They feel intimidated and also your success reminds them of how much of a long way they have to go. So they’re doing that as a coping mechanism to convinc…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 10:15 PM
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Start small. Just talk to people in general, random people. Get comfortable approaching strangers (within reasonable settings) and starting small talk. Weather this is a pub, gym, at your school, at work, in the line at a cafe. Get used to being witty and have short but positive conversations with people you don’t know. Once you get over that hurdle, approaching chicks won’t be so hard. Keep going to the gym, putting muscle on, having a good haircut, dressing well & smelling good. It’ll help you…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:59 PM
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In this situation I would tell you to humble yourself and here’s why. I get it, you was trying to be nice so how dare he respond with rudeness? Especially to a guy who works on himself and is “redpill” like you right? No. Remember, the way most people react has way more to do with them and than you. You don’t know what that guy’s been through or is going through. He could’ve been molested by a family member at 5 that crushed his trust, he could’ve been robbed or mugged by a close friend. His par…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:51 PM
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If you get to a point of earning good money, dress well and smell good, are confident and take the lead, go abroad. Decide to go somewhere in Central/Eastern Europe, Southeast Asia (i.e. Singapore, Malaysia) or Latin America where successful traditional men are still valued by many non-Westernised women. Once you decide on a country, learn a bit of the local language using some apps & travel there soon as you can. Travel there a couple times, see how the lifestyle is and make some friends by bei…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:30 PM
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You’re question is hilarious because it shows you’re confused that the red pill is working for you lmao
/r/askTRP28/04/21 11:53 PM
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Politeness without perceived power, is just begging for validation to most people. Are you skinny/fat? Do you have a high-pitched voice? Are your clothes shitty? Does your overall image scream “average” or “unsuccessful”? If so, politeness won’t get you anywhere. People respect politeness from those with status. Hit the gym, get a nice haircut, dress well in public (doesn’t have to be a full suit. Use Pinterest for inspiration) and talk with a voice that doesn’t go high-pitched when you talk to …
/r/askTRP25/04/21 12:42 PM
1

Watch these: https://youtu.be/Bmj19sK1yUY https://youtu.be/2bguEiUgDA4
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:35 AM
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There’s no need to keep a watch. You know what’s going on, don’t complicate your life or waste time any longer. Use that rage to build yourself in the gym and cut ties with that son of a rats ass.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:24 PM
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Watch this: https://youtu.be/TkuGW6GRSKA Meditate to this: https://youtu.be/tybOi4hjZFQ
/r/askTRP10/04/21 10:16 PM
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Train martial arts. Bjj, Mma & Boxing gyms are a good place to meet hard working people. Or travel. Travelling helps to make great bonds.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 09:36 PM
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Before I get into an LTR (which has to be initiated by the woman not me), I’ll tell the woman that in order to be exclusive with me she would need to put her Instagram or Twitter on private. If she doesn’t agree, then i’ll tell her she can never be my girl. If we are now in the LTR and she’s made her page public for male validation, then it’s over. Immediately.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 09:34 PM
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High school doesn’t mean shit in the real world. Grind it out. It’s the time for getting grades and laying the foundations for your early 20s. If you can start working out. Get a gym membership or start training a combat sport like BJJ or Boxing. Learn a new language or something. Learn how to make some money online. Unless you’re an athlete or genetically blessed so you are attractive early, then you’re not going to have much success with girls in high school. That doesn’t matter. Most ordinary…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 08:23 PM
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Meditating with my eyes closed for several minutes a day to this video helped me get over my insecurities: https://youtu.be/EDAJKN7hrWE
/r/askTRP10/04/21 08:20 PM
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Its just a typical case of daughter that doesn’t know what’s good for her. Most women are never satisfied and if you live in a society that tells you masculinity is bad in men and good in women, then even when a girl has a masculine father who the traditional mother approved of, she will rebel and attempt to be masculine because society tells her to. Women adopt the most dominant frame. The most dominant frame and authority for her mother was the Alpha male father, but for the daughter it’s the …
/r/askTRP10/04/21 08:19 PM
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Boom: https://youtu.be/Sls_eA-WU8g https://youtu.be/nYvkTrp3cNw
/r/askTRP10/04/21 08:16 PM
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For every hundred girls that reject you, there are thousands more that are curious to see what kind of guy you’re like. When you remember this, small rejections don’t matter. You just think to yourself “whatever, it’s her loss” and then move on with your life. Cold approaching is a numbers game.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 08:15 PM
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You say she’s the best plate you’ve currently got. I’m here to remind you that she’s still just a PLATE. She is not your wife. You do not need to mate guard her and if she does decide to talk to him, it doesn’t matter because you will replace her with another girl. She’s not special. She’s human. She can be replaced. Stop worrying about who’s liking this & that on her page, women are supposed to be worrying about shit like that. Instead focus on YOU. Dont you have money to make, hobbies to take …
/r/askTRP10/04/21 08:14 PM
1

Watch a guy called TaySocial on YT. Thank me later.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 07:55 PM
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There’s a difference between talking to a plate and talking to your girlfriend that you’ve been with for a while. With a plate it would be a simple no. With a girlfriend who most likely has done no wrong other than being overly emotional and worried for grandparents, she merits a brief explanation as well as assertiveness. You don’t have to treat every woman the same. Some deserve more respect than others.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 07:53 PM
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“[insert name here], I’m not going to have this conversation with you again. Don’t try to pressure me into doing something that I don’t want to do. There is evidence that the covid vaccine doesn’t stop you from spreading the virus. So whether I’m vaccinated or not your grandparents at a risk. If I decide to get vaccinated it will be on my own terms. Now if you mention this thing again, it’ll be the last time we talk”. Finito.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 07:23 PM
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You’re only 18. Learn a skill that will allow you to work remotely and go digital nomad after you graduate college. Go on YT right now and research the digital nomad lifestyle because your frustration is the same reason why many people have become digital nomads. You strike as the type of person that needs to leave your suffocating bubble and just be free. When you travel the world on your own backpack style you’ll feel liberated. In the meantime, hit the gym and lift as well as learn a new lang…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 07:19 PM
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I'm a black european lmao. Only a loser cries racism at the sight of any criticism. It seems the red pill doesn't cure some people's victim mentality.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 07:04 PM
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I don’t know enough to say, but its up to you to close on this.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:36 PM
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She doesn’t have feelings for the beta, it’s that women are empty on the inside. They need to be “filled up”. They’re very insecure and very uncertain, perhaps they evolved this way because of how vulnerable they were to danger back in the times before tech made the world safer. Either way, this insecurity & uncertainty is why the constantly seek validation. They want to feel like they’re worth something. That’s what it is. Women don’t “love” like men do. They don’t have the same “feelings” that…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:36 PM
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Its all shit tests. In fact, I guarantee she’s even more “sexually experienced” than the average girl. I’ve found that girls that try so hard to make it seem like “I’m not that kind of girl” do so because they’re trying to convince themselves aka projecting. In reality they always end up being that kind of girl and MORE. She heard you have a pool & immediately wants to mask how excited she is. Meet up with her, don’t act goofy or too excited. Act like you do this shit all the time, smooth like h…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:31 PM
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Watch this: https://youtu.be/c709rGYW8v0
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:20 PM
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Bro, you already got told women seek both validation and affection (beta) and the masculine confidence, assertiveness and authoritative energy (alpha). If they cant get both in one guy, they’ll use one guy for validation and affection & another for that masculine sexual energy and polarity that truly makes her wet. You are nothing more than an emotional tampon to her. She hugs you after she sucks off a guy who doesn’t need to ask this question on the sub. You know you want to have sex with her, …
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:17 PM
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Take baby steps. Start by just walking up to women and asking for directions, even when you don’t need them. Do this with as many different women in public until you no longer stutter, act awkward or get flustered by being next to one. Then, practice striking up conversations with women in public. Whether that’s in the library, at an event or on a campus idk. Shit go to campuses that you dont even study at if you can & just talk to random chicks there. Dont try to close them at first, just talk …
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:13 PM
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Bro... if you are interested in having sex with a woman, but you do not tell her that and act like a man about it, she will use you as a beta male gay best friend. The only reason she wants you to say it back is because she likes the validation. If she “desired” you she would’ve fucked you already, its 2021 not 1950. Women do not hold out anymore. Learn how to be a man by reading the sidebar and move on.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:05 PM
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We live in a world where men don’t even know their place and responsibility as being masculine leaders. You’re the fucking head. You said she jumps at you initiating things, so initiate something fun with her then you bloody egg. Honestly some of you guys are addicted to abuse. You WANT an ultra feminist, ultra masculine woman that will push you around. You learn how to get a woman in your frame and then you complain about just like a b*tch would. Stop complaining and lead the relationship. Or l…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:02 PM
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It’s because they’re mentally inferior to him & degenerate crack babies most likely. Feel sorry for guys who are just trying to do better and they’re held back by future prison fodder.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 02:54 PM
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When you’re older get stronger. You’re young now so it can slide. But when you hit 19-20, you had better get yourself in the gym and put muscle, as well as learn a new combat sport like Brazilian Jiu Jitsu or Boxing. And when its legal for you to do so, get a gun license and learn to shoot. Also, go to Google right now and type in “48 Laws of Power pdf”. Download the file and read the book. It will change your life.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 04:21 AM
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I just find it funny how African Americans complain so much about racism like they’re practically strangled by it, but a group of em would tolerate a white guy with sagging pants calling another black person the n word in front of them. I get the impression your life might be in danger if you react violently to this guy. I’d say let your parents know and see if they can do something about it. Or next time you go past & see him with the group of black people, perhaps try to appeal to the “hood” b…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 04:00 AM
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Facts and you can induce all those feelings by thinking of yourself as a the best creature on Earth, working hard on yourself improvement thus raising your standards & having a take it or leave it mindset. I’ve seen guys that look like mosquitoes with no jobs, no ambition but they somehow by some miracle have the mindset that they are hotter than a celebrity and carry themselves with a take it or leave it way, which fascinates women and gets them dimes.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:22 PM
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Follow the steps in this video: https://youtu.be/wJkQ5lzVcVU
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:40 AM
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Well I would just say that when you place your self worth on women who are highly emotional, unpredictable and as flawed as men are, and not a higher mission, to be honest you shoot yourself in the foot. Especially in this modern age. For men in the past it was easier to have missions because there was a clear enemy most of the time. For most of human history we were staring death in the face at all times, from enemy tribes to animals We’ve civilised the world to such a point there is no clear m…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:30 AM
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I mean that’s unfortunate but everybody reacts differently to different people. A lot of Rich Cooper’s advice on self improvement and pushing myself to be the best I can be, saved my life. He also got me out of my red pill rage by talking about how women aren’t to be hated but to be understood for what is true and not what the mainstream media has pushed for decades. Whatever you took from him is on you.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:14 AM
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He was described by Rollo as a contextual Alpha. To wider society, of course that was different. But in the context of that school he was perceived as Alpha. The point is Alpha is Alpha, to be desired by women you pursue and respected by men around you. How that context manifests itself is relative and there’s no one size or standard fits all because the world is different, especially culturally but those two things in particular have always been indicators that a man is of the highest in terms …
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:12 AM
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TRP isn’t a religion. As Rollo Tomassi says there’s no good Alpha or bad Alpha, there’s just Alpha. Alpha = A man that is, in general, desired by the women he pursues and respected by the men around him. That’s why one of the first examples of an Alpha that Rollo brings up in the Rational Male is a teacher who was an Alpha in the context of his school. The whole get a good job that pays money thing is mainly just advice based on how things are culturally in the US in 2021. Today women in America…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 12:22 AM
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Dont respond. When she’s ready to take you seriously she can always message you. “What’s the rush” right lmao
/r/askTRP07/04/21 12:10 AM
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It’s up to you, but life is short amigo. Every second you spend trying to fix someone, you miss out on somebody that genuinely would love to be with you. When it comes to women, it really is a numbers game. You can try to set her life in order by subtly encouraging her towards good habits. I recommend finding some self improvement/getting over emotional trauma channels on YT and watching those videos together with her. Make it seem like it’s something you’re interested and you want her to watch …
/r/askTRP07/04/21 12:07 AM
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You need to buy a book called Unplugged Alpha by Richard Cooper. He goes into deep detail about several red flags and from what you’ve mentioned these red flags match up to what he describes as women with Behavioural Personality Disorder (BPD). She’s likely scarred from her father & has been struggling with that ever since, tried to fill the emptiness with sex, alcohol & overall “fun”, realised it didn’t work then started to despise men as a result of it. But yet under all that chaos, she still …
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:52 PM
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For Gen Z girls social proof is everything. If you’re instagram looks good (i.e. high quality pics of you looking good or doing something excited) you’re pretty much set. Most girls in their early 20s or late teens nowadays dont have much personality just like the boys their age. They look to social media to see how they should live and think. Hence a girl doesn’t take the time to get to know you like girls who never grew up on social media do, instead they check to see how OTHERS on social medi…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 08:53 PM
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That’s because men subconsciously already know that women don’t care how handsome you are without status, social proof and masculine frame. Yeah sure, that guy might get girls that are like 18-21, but once women hit 21+, they mature a little more and their desire for men with status and masculine competence triples over night. Meanwhile, men’s desires pretty much don’t change from puberty until we reach about mid 30s, up until that point our mindset is pretty much “Nice body or nice face? I’ll s…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 08:48 PM
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Looks gets your foot in the door. Girls are not nearly as visual as they pretend to be, especially compared to guys. Social proof, resources and overall competency gets her wet. By that I mean being a guy who’s about his business, has his shit together and other people know him and like him. Masculine frame is what keeps her submissive. Women are by nature wired to sniff out weakness like a bloodhound and trample it. If you think men are heartless, just see how women treat guys that they perceiv…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 08:34 PM
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Best solution is to never get too emotionally invested. Always have women on the side, dont give up your hobbies, always stay on your grind. In a modern day LTR, your relationship must be a part time thing. That way, if she succumbs to the temptations of this short attention span world that we live in, then you can easily move on because you never stopped acting single.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 08:19 PM
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Yeah definitely, that’s why I also mentioned that comfort has killed the sexual tension that LTR. Hopefully him jumping on his grind and hitting the gym and going out to see other girls will remind him that having a woman all cooped up in the house with him ain’t all that.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:07 PM
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Bro, the world isn’t all gloom and doom and the world isn’t all about women either. The red pill isn’t something to ponder over for long periods. It’s an aha! type them, then go about your life and seek the best for yourself. You’re young and if you still live with your parents its going to be tough, see if you can go to the girls place to hit. Also talk to multiple women at the same time if you have the time. The 20s aren’t for settling down. You haven’t even got your shit together like your ow…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:04 PM
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I read all that. And I’m telling you, she’s attracted to him. You’re not her best option. When women truly believe they’ve secured a strong man, they do not make “some guy at work” such a big part of their life. In fact if you’ve ever seen how women act with guys they’re not attracted to it’s like they don’t exist, which is why women spend most of their time complaining about “players” and “toxic men” who get girls, rather than talking about “nice guys”. She’s using you as an emotional tampon to…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:57 PM
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You know the answer is no. If you LTR and get burned that’s on you. As Rich Cooper says, men like to complicate their lives then justify why their life’s hard.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:52 AM
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Don’t do that, if you read the Rational Male it mentions how lesser men aim to disqualify men they see as competition by emasculating them. Just focus on doing the work if you already have been. Soon a bunch of sexually frustrated chumps are going to call you bisexual because of all the pussy you’re attracting.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 12:21 PM
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When SHE initiates the fact that she wants to be exclusive then you tell her your boundaries. You do not initiate the LTR process. If a girl truly likes you she’ll try to tie you down, you want need to ask. When you ask a girl to be your gf you lose the power and ruin the dynamic for your entire relationship. People hate to hear this and often despise the idea of power play in a relationship but it is always there. In every aspect of human life, there is a power play at hand. Even in friendship …
/r/askTRP04/04/21 02:16 AM
0

Economic crash impending?
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:44 AM
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Also if you want real life masculine role models I only need to give you one name to change your life. Jocko Willink. Go look up his channel on Youtube. Great father figure.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:42 AM
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Tell her come through then invite your boy. Him and his ex can hash out why she’s reaching out to you. 9/10 its to be spiteful to him, she probably has no interest in you.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:34 AM
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You hit the gym. You hop on a diet. You improve yourself. And none of that extra shit will phase you.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:30 AM
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Only if she’s a plate. If she asks for commitment and wants you to LTR her and you’ve vetted her and things seem good so far, then laying down your ground rules are good. But don’t try to place rules on a girl that, 1, clearly hasn’t been relationship material throughout your entire time with her & 2, hasn’t signalled exclusivity. Until SHE asks you to be her boyfriend you do not give af about her as far as your sexual relationship goes, and even then, YOU now must decide whether you want to acc…
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:28 AM
1

Dark scarf and sunglasses but it might just be me.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 04:34 PM
1

Bro get nice muscles (especially on your arms and shoulders), grow facial hair if you can (use Jamaican castor oil) and dress nicer. Use pinterest for inspiration: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.pinterest.com/amp/jordanhaney32/urban-style/ There are plenty of 5’7 guys who get chicks. At least you’re not 5’ and below, there are a lot of guys going through that who wish they had a few extra inches like you. Stop making excuses, its hard I know, and its not fair that we’re not born to be 6’5 with…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 04:33 PM
1

Definitely great compared to like 80% of men lmao, just lose some weight though you can come across a lil chubby but to be honest, that’s a great page.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 04:28 PM
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Well, depending on what your status is right now this could be a great time for you to turn things around or could be a really shit time. So, if you’ve spent all this time building a career or business and you’ve got a nice amount of money on you? Get some nice outfits, for inspiration you can go to Pinterest: https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.pinterest.com/amp/simpsonpatrick/clothing-30s/ After getting nice outfits which will help you feel confident, get a nice haircut and some jewellery like …
/r/askTRP03/04/21 04:26 PM
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Follow the advice, dont make excuses. Nothing is beyond you. You’re a man, your ancestors survived up until this point through worse conditions.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 02:03 PM
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Facts, i’ve literally seen a girl tell her friends “No I can’t do such & such my boyfriend wouldn’t like that”. That’s what a girl acts like when your her Alpha at that time. Masculine frame is so essential.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 01:42 PM
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Watch this: https://youtu.be/lVKXGiBJ7i0 then this: https://youtu.be/A1WE7P7wc7k Then take action. You’ll be alright.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 12:52 PM
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Richard Cooper says it best, men like to complicate their lives and then justify why their life is hard. She clearly doesn’t see you as high value enough or best option. She doesn’t respect your authority, trust me if a guy that she was SMITTEN by told her he didn’t want her chilling around that dude, she’d cut him off in a heartbeat. I’ve seen A-grade hoes who were ultra-feminists, turn into the most submissive & traditional women for a guy they perceived as Alpha. Don’t catch feelings because …
/r/askTRP03/04/21 12:43 PM
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This was never an open relationship for you it was for HER. I dont know how wealthy, muscular or handsome you are, but the average man will NEVER be able to have as much options as the average woman. While it would take you a month to find 2 chicks that want to sleep with you just ONCE, it would take her 1 hour to find 40 guys that want to sleep with her, wine and dine and repeat. When a woman says she wants an open relationship, she is saying you are not her best option but she cannot leave you…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 08:41 AM
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The red pill is about understanding the truth about masculinity & femininity, how they complement each other and the realities of male and female heterosexual relationship dynamics that have been glossed over by Post-Modernism and Feminism. There’s not necessarily a red pill lens on raising children. However, we do know that masculinity comprises of strength and it is this strength that leads to confidence and this confidence that helps one achieve in life and gain status or achievements that le…
/r/askTRP02/04/21 03:41 PM
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Yeah. There’s no way you can see that blue pill shit isn’t working and then come here and say “Its a contradiction” lmao
/r/askTRP02/04/21 03:37 PM
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Let me put it to you this way. For a woman to go out just ONCE, she has to shower, then pick clothes, then do her skincare routine, then do her makeup, then handle her smell, then do her hair, then make sure her friends are going and won’t flake, then wait for her friends to do all of the above, THEN go out. You’re telling me your girl did this entire process 3x in ONE week, and you don’t see why she is not girlfriend material? Lmaoooo Look there’s nothing wrong with partying once in a while (wi…
/r/askTRP02/04/21 03:23 PM
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You’re definitely blue pill at your current stage. If you don’t figure out how women work, it’s going to bite you in the ass later. So let’s cut the bullshit. Go & buy Unplugged Alpha by Richard Cooper on Amazon and read this: https://heartiste.org/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ Save that link to your notes on your phone and go over it. Finally, break up with that women and start again. You’re 19, life hasn’t even started for you yet. Do not tie yourself down to one woman. She ain’t shit and …
/r/askTRP02/04/21 02:14 PM
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I mean that’s America for you. It’s a country that’s in decline, like every great empire they often go out with a bang or a whimper and America will go out with a whimper. The majority of American men are becoming effeminate and weak, morality in general in America is a thing of the past and so when your country’s morality is literally “Do whatever makes you happy”, well, you get weak men that buy an 18 yr old girl who got famous for being disrespectful to her mum’s Onlyfans. If you go back to 1…
/r/askTRP02/04/21 02:04 PM
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“I’m not gonna talk about this with you anymore, I said what I said”.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:33 AM
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Do not listen to him, foreplay is very important lmao.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 11:41 PM
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Confidence. Talk to women like they’re out of my league or like they’re nothing special “I see beautiful women like you all the time” kind of vibes. I am subtly flirtatious but not creepy. Perceived status. When I see a hot girl in the club or on vacation, I’ll tell her I’m creating memories and she’s looking fine so I want her to take a picture with me (using female nature’s thirst for validation against them - Uno Reverse). 2b. I’ll post that on social media and that will act as social proof f…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 10:47 PM
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Start pulling back slowly. Text her less, meet up with her less and gradually act colder towards her. Distance yourself from her. Start going out with friends more, start hitting the gym, take up a new hobby like idk training a martial art or learning a new language, take up more hours at work. Make her second place and then keep her there. She will definitely notice your change and either stop seeking validation from other guys like she’s probably doing right now, because seeing you distance yo…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 07:28 PM
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Its as simple as this, let her a girl know from the beginning BEFORE you cuff her and only if she has shown she is LTR material after several months. When she hits you with the “where are we going” or “You’re my boyfriend” shit, you say to her “A girl that I’m going to be in a relationship doesn’t do X or X, those are my boundaries”. If she’s not willing to comply then don’t cuff her, if she agrees and breaks the boundary you established in the beginning then withdraw all attention for a long pe…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 07:20 PM
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You’re a warrior. A warrior who’s striving towards excellence and such a warrior has no business thinking of the past. That was a good chapter of your story, now its time to move onto the next chapter and its going to be a GREAT chapter with a new set of women that will bring joy, laughter and fun.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 07:11 PM
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A lot can change in 5 years. Give yourself 5 years of just consistent grinding and I strongly believe you’ll come out of it as a BEAST. But also remember as a sidenote, never chase happiness. Happiness is an emotion, it comes and goes. Rather be consistent, success comes from doing the things that matter over & over again until they snowball. Chase inner peace instead.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 07:09 PM
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Look up a guy called TaySocial on Youtube. Hope that will help.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:28 PM
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Build up your value as a man first because thats most likely it. Hit the gym and start dressing better, see how you can get a better haircut. Focus on yourself, because right now that is the most important thing. A muscular man with confidence and his shit together has less problems with this kind of stuff.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:25 PM
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True but if the plate broke it broke. Dont worry too much about it, go on with your business if she comes to you directly then she will, if not, you shouldn’t care. On with your masculine duties of acquiring resources and building your physical appearance.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:18 PM
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Bro you’re developing too much of an attachment to this girl for starters. Also, you care way too much. The likelihood you’re going to marry this girl is small. The likelihood you’re going to last forever is almost non-existent. Stop caring so much. You’re a man, women are side dishes not the main course, you have other things to worry about like building your skillsets, making money and fitness. Enjoy the great times you have with her and don’t overthink it, she’s acting like a freak? So what, …
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:16 PM
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Your problem is you’re a quitter. Dont quit. Plan properly. Go on youtube and do proper research on a weight lifting routine to build muscle, stick to it. Go on Youtube and do proper research on a diet routine to gain weight & build muscle, stick to it. Go on Youtube and find a good video on upgrading your resume and cover letter, then apply for other jobs. Once you’ve done the WORK & not quit, you’ll be rewarded with the women that you seek. Remember this, to be a man is hard and painful. Most …
/r/askTRP01/04/21 12:55 PM
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He’s not talking about girls he’s trying to pursue though, his problem is whenever he sees ass on the streets, work or wherever his sexual urges get the better of him and it messes with his day. I’m giving him a thinking pattern that will allow him to have self-control. Now if he wants to pursue a chick who he finds attractive then yeah sure, show you have interest. But if you’re not going to pursue her, don’t validate her, that cheapens your attention not only to her but to yourself. That’s why…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 12:47 PM
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The brain works in such a way that it will align itself with whatever narrative we keep telling ourselves. Literally, if a guy looks at a blue sky and tells himself its purple enough times, it will literally be purple to him. You’re deluding yourself with a story of how great this girl was & how much you’ve lost by losing her. Kill the story because its bullshit, I don’t even need to know the girl to tell you that. Women are human. They fart, shit & burp just like men and their shit stinks like …
/r/askTRP01/04/21 12:43 PM
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Question is where tf do we find such people, knwi what I mean? Feels like social media doesn’t seem like it fosters strong connections imo
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:29 AM
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Alright, here’s practical advice. Everything you’re looking for is in this book: The Unplugged Alpha by Richard Cooper. You can get it on Amazon. I could give you an answer here but you’d forget it and it’d be too simplistic. You could scroll through the subreddit but it wouldn’t help that much either because you’d be looking at concepts by experienced guys who already have the foundations laid down. There’s nothing like the intimacy of having a book in your own possession that you can turn back…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:27 AM
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This is facts.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:23 AM
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It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a w…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:12 AM
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What you need my friend is a hard reset. Your soul craves challenge, but you can feel yourself dying slowly from stillness. My advice is to do something hard and drastic. First, start taking up new hobbies that are HARD. Like start training a martial art (i.e. Best recommendation would be BJJ or Boxing) or start hitting the gym & lifting heavy. Shit, learn a new language if it’ll help you feel that sense of movement. After doing that for a while, you should feel like you’re moving somewhere agai…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:09 AM
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Because someone who cares less about others in a society that prizes individualism is seen as free and having options. After all, you wouldn’t have such disregard for people if you didn’t think you could replace them. That’s American individualism for you. In other places in the world like Japan, China or pretty much any other Asian country acting like that creates enemies. Since those cultures are interested in the community’s good, or the family structure, they prize those who care for the rep…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:59 AM
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Gotta move on, you’ll be better off. Just remember to maintain your masculine energy and presence for next time.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:53 AM
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Make sure you’re doing foreplay before hand. It matters. Also, dont over think these matters. She’s not your wife so dont think of all these plots and such. As a man your job is to be an oak tree. Unreactive to the wind, no matter how hard it blows. Dont be controlled by your emotions, take a deep breath whenever you start having a panic attack and move on calmly with your day.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:46 AM
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Like Stephiscold on YT says “You care too much g”.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:41 AM
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If its taking you years to get over one girl, its not the actual breakup thats the problem, there’s underlying problem you have that has much more to do with some trauma or rejection/attachment issues you’ve developed in the past, whether during childhood or adolescence. You ought to figure that out and start working towards improving yourself (sincerely).
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:37 AM
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If you’re eating properly - lots of fish, eggs, steak, chicken breast, nuts, protein shakes, lots of water - and you lift heavy dumbbells you’ll grow. Just go on Youtube and type in dumbbell muscle workouts and you’ll find a variety of workouts targeting different parts of the body using just a dumbbell, although i’d advise getting kettlebells too.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:35 AM
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Women are water. They take the container of whatever jug you pour them in. The Western world has adopted sexual “liberation” & man-bashing as its new societal norm, women are simply falling in line with what’s constantly fed to them in the media. It’s a result of men becoming weak and allowing the state to control affairs in favour of women. Were men to become more masculine as a collective and rally around putting things back in order on a societal level, then the narrative would change and wom…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:30 AM
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Yup
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:25 AM
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https://youtu.be/L9AeCV1FxJI Watch till the end. I hope it helps.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:15 AM
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Every time you see ass, start telling yourself “I ain’t a punk to be giving this girl validation”. Thats what helped me, I stopped wanting to validate women I don’t have no connection with. Your gaze is validation and every time you give away your precious validation which girls literally chase their entire lives, you devalue yourself. Dont give them free validation.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:10 AM
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Come to terms with the nature side of it. Think of it this way. Humans tend to create shortcuts in order to survive. If we see enough people of a certain group act a certain way, we make generalisations because back in the prehistoric times that would’ve guaranteed our survival. See a sabre tooth tiger rip off human heads enough times and you’re more likely to kill the next one you see. We are creatures of pattern. We generalise automatically. Take it back 100,000 years ago. Its a harsh, brutal …
/r/askTRP31/03/21 12:04 AM
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Human life was never meant to be “not” depressing. The reality of life has ALWAYS been depressing. Consider the fact that most of our ancestors unless you descend from a long line of wealthy & powerful elites, were battling for survival in a harsh & brutal world from the moment humans existed. Just like our ancestors, you have to ADAPT to survive. Don’t dwell on it too much, just adapt and act accordingly. If you decide to get emotionally invested in a woman, do so, but if you haven’t vetted her…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 05:30 PM
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Its an attempt at boosting her ego. To know she can receive your attention at any given moment, whenever she wants to. She doesn’t like you, she likes the idea that you’ll come crawling back to her at her every beck & call like a slave. Attention is currency to women. If a woman’s not doing anything for you why would you pay her in the currency she loves most? Ignore her. Any attention you give her is payment.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 06:55 PM
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You took an L. But that’s okay, just stop hanging around her because that’s beta. You don’t need to be her friend. Here’s where you went wrong. Women are supposed to initiate commitment, not men. Men should avoid commitment and talk to as many women as they can, women want to feel like they had to FIGHT for your commitment because that means it’s something valuable. You’ll understand this as you get older. Read this short page about the dynamic between men & women, internalise it and it will hel…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 01:57 PM
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There’s a guy going viral on YT called Kevin Samuels. His shows regularly expose women with crazy high standards despite they’re terrible physical appearance. It has a lot to do with social media and the false sense of beauty it gives women (i.e. hundreds of likes from thirsty betas who are dying for a crumb of pussy even if it comes from 200lbs, the ability to use filters to alter appearance in pictures etc.) and the fact that the most attractive people in the world are just one click away on y…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 03:48 AM
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I just wanna say, shout out to you man. Keep going you’re doing great, soon enough you’ll begin attracting friends that match your ambition and goals. Put yourself in a position to meet those people though. Personally the most hardworking people I know are people who train martial arts. Hit up a local MMA or BJJ gym, and start going regularly. You’ll make some great friends there.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 09:15 PM
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A couple days before you’re about to leave the job start a convo with her about how its your last week on the job. She’ll probably express curiosity about why and what you’ll do after you leave, keep the responses short and snappy. Then invite her to hang out at your place.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 09:12 PM
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She’s just not used to being in the presence of an Alpha so keep being Alpha. But dont try to control, be nonchalant and set boundaries that she must fall in line with. I used to say something to my ex like this: “I’m never going to force you to stay with me or do what I tell you to do, you’re a human being and you have every right to move how you want to move. But a girl that’s with me as to be X, Y & Z and if you’re not willing to be that way, we’ve got no business being in each other’s presen…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 09:08 PM
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You just need game as you said. Look up ‘AMS game’ on YT and watch some of the videos (put em in your Watch Later playlist to come back). Make some notes and apply the advice when you can. Buy the ‘The Way of the Superior’ man on Amazon and read it. It’s a great book on understanding the dynamics between men and women & attraction. If you don’t wanna buy it, listen to the Audiobook on YT (it might still be there). Read the 16 commandments of Poon: https://heartiste.org/the-sixteen-commandments-o…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 07:00 PM
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When I give advice about the RP to BP men and women around me, it often comes up in debates about dating, marriage or sex. I never overtly talk about the RP or RP content creators, I simply package RP concepts in a way that they can be understood by regular BP people. Learn how to re-package the RP in a way that doesn’t put BP people into fight or flight mode and they’ll accept it. And for the love of God, don’t say the words RP & BP, or Alpha & Beta, or hypergamy or female nature when talking t…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 06:27 PM
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Withdraw all attention from this girl and start meeting other girls. You two are both looking for different things, best that she doesn’t waste your time and you don’t waste hers. If she decides to change her mind, then I’m sure you’ll be more than happy to “spend some time” with her again.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 06:16 PM
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Give me an example of how she makes you feel as though you have to assert yourself?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 06:12 PM
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You lost your frame because you got emotionally attached and that makes sense since you entered into a relationship. You no longer saw her as just a plate, but a potential wifey (don’t try deny it) that made you soft and more sensitive to her behaviour. Look, I’ve been there before. The key is to “kill the story”. Yes, that’s right. When we catch feelings we tell ourselves a story about the person we’re with: “She’s so amazing” “She’s the one” “She’d never do me like that” “That’s my girl” “I lo…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 05:23 PM
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https://youtu.be/66hfIV1ksAk Watch this. Dont let the title throw you off, if you watch this basically 15min video through to the end it will speak to you in ways that’ll help you come out of your depression in a masculine way.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 05:15 PM
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Facts. Our ancestors for hundreds of thousands of years were driven to compete for resources and self-improve in order to secure mates. Women are actually a hugeeeee driver of action & motivation for men. Hence why in war movies you often see the “pep talk” scenes about the enemy “Taking our women”, or the promise of “Women & treasure” in conquests. Porn tricks our brain into thinking that we’ve got an abundance of women, and instantly that kills hundreds of thousands of years of evolutionary dr…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:38 PM
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A lot of people are being harsh with you in the answers because they dont have a real answer to your issue. Let me help. Short answer: • Buy Unplugged Alpha by Richard Cooper on Amazon & read the whole book. It teaches you how to navigate the world as a red pilled alpha male. Long answer: 1) You’re going through RP rage. It is a very rough period where you become extremely bitter. Its like being on a ship and there is a huge wave coming, you’re trying to save people and wake them up, screaming a…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:27 PM
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Fresh & Fit are doing great things for the RP community such as introducing new concepts like social media game, and also getting to more young men out there. They also put the OGs on their platform & let them speak to a younger audience from Rollo to Coach Greg Adams, to Rich Cooper and even Kevin Samuels. They’re also on Tiktok reaching younger guys as well, so yeah, they’re making waves.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:07 PM
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Unconditional love is a bullshit lie rooted in Christian ideas on love, which in itself is rooted in Ancient Greek philosophy. It’s an idealistic discussion that doesn’t apply in the real world. No one loves unconditionally, not even parents. For anybody to love unconditionally would absolutely stupid, because everybody has standard requirements for what they like and how they want to be treated, when these standards and behaviours are not exhibited, people very quickly fall out of “love”. Women…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:02 PM
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Stress lowers testosterone, so make sure you’re not stressing yourself out too much. I would say go ahead, but start meditating
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:56 PM
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This short video might not be directly related to you, but it’s been amazing in helping me adopt some habits and life changes to break out of my shell & move towards being a guy with a stronger character. Hope you can find a gem in here that helps you: https://youtu.be/66hfIV1ksAk
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:19 PM
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Personally you’re a good looking guy but the shirts you wear give off beta bucks vibes to some chicks. Trying switching it up a little with the pictures. White muscle fit t-shirt, nice gold watch, gold chain, black sunglasses and black fitted jeans and white trainers. Maybe get an arm sleeve tattoo (up to you). Try to mix your wardrobe up so you also have a “bad boy” look. You’ll have more success. Also ponder on this Plato quote from the Republic on what the ideal man should be: "He who is only…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 11:18 AM
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Women are inherently solipsistic and live in their own world which is very self-centred. It comes from being validated simply for existing, which is something that happens to a lot of women. Best bet is to maintain dominance through masculine frame and calmly but sternly tell her “You dont deal with childish women and that she should act properly in your presence”. Or save your time and drop her ass. There’s plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:50 AM
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Rollo Tomassi the Godfather of the Redpill is married. Richard Cooper is also in an LTR. Stephiscold being in an LTR doesn’t mean shit about his character or the integrity of his message. If you knew better than him, you’d have the amount of followers he has and you’d be changing as much lives as him. But you’re not, he’s changing YOUR life, so ignore the gossip, and change your life by accepting a message that is clearly all about uplifting men. Anything else is just your blue pill defence mech…
/r/askTRP15/03/21 09:30 AM
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https://youtu.be/66hfIV1ksAk
/r/askTRP15/03/21 09:23 AM
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Western society is highly feminised today. Leftist feminist rhetoric which is highly centred around the “victim mentality” is pervasive among women. Its a result of decades of enjoying the privilege of living in prosperous societies and becoming spoilt. Men repeating the rhetoric are either effeminate or pretending like they care because they think it will give them brownie points with women.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 09:18 AM
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Step 1: Watch this video https://youtu.be/7DJM877qcl8 Step 2: Watch this video https://youtu.be/tdDXnIE94nQ Step 3: Break up with her because she definitely cheated on you. Dont ever get into a relationship after 1 month bro.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 05:59 PM
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She’s telling you what she’s good for (pump & dump only), so take the sign and use her how she wants to be used. She’s for the streets and is letting you know in advance, she doesn’t want to be saved. Just respond with a simple “Your friend should mind her business” then refuse to talk about that conversation topic any further.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 05:56 PM
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Congratulations, you’ve now made a her a business connection. There’s no more room to try to get with this chick or sleep with her. You dont eat where you shit. Take the offer and progress your life it & keep her as a good friend for her kindness. Dont mess with your money by sleeping with her and then getting emotions involved because it wont end well. Especially since she referred you.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 02:48 PM
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You need purpose. Life isn’t about happiness or being happy. Life as a man is about accomplishing things, no matter how small. That’s why you’ve got truck drivers who work hard everyday and are extremely happy, and wealthy millionaires who were born into wealth & haven’t accomplished a damn thing so they abuse others, take drugs excessively & use meaningless sex with gold diggers to numb the pain. Be a man and start accomplishing things. You could make it a vow to go to the gym 4x a week and lif…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 02:29 PM
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The worst thing a man can do is relinquish his own freedom to the world before him. Whether the world is against you or not, in its your blood & genes as a man to do something about your condition and fight for a better life for yourself. It’s the only reason the human race is still alive.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 02:23 PM
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Yeah, at the end of the day. It all comes down to what are YOU going to do about it. Women are biologically wired to be attracted to strength, confidence, status & men that other women like. What are YOU gonna do about it? Yes, the Western world is run by feminism and men are constantly bashed despite being the people maintain civilisation. What are YOU gonna do about it? If you’re a masculine man there’s only one thing that matters, that’s what you can control. And you most definitely in MOST c…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 02:22 PM
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Typical shaming. Its nothing new. Just a desperate attempt at stifling criticism and ad hominem. They’re too afraid to argue with the message so they assassinate character instead.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:56 PM
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I would just pull her from the group by saying “[insert name] let me talk to you right quick”, then walk off with her and start chopping it up by calmly saying with a smooth tone and maintain eye contact: “I’m going to [insert location] on [insert day] and I want you to come along? You down?” If she says no, be like “Aight no problem, we good” then go about your business and forget the fuck out of her. If she says she has a boyfriend, “Say dont worry about all that, I want you to come along. It …
/r/askTRP09/03/21 12:22 PM
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It depends. Sometimes, I’m joking arrogant af in a rapper type of manner but most of the time I’m nonchalant with a woman. Like one time, I went viral on a twitter hashtag because of a discussion that I had on an app called Clubhouse. As a result of that a lot of girls that were in that convo were posting tweets about how they wanted to fuck me. The girl I was with at the time said “Seems like all the girls want you huh?” to which I showed no emotion in my face and gave a clearly fake chuckle sa…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 12:13 PM
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Read full sentences before responding. I said on rare occasions. If you’ve been with a woman and acted as an Alpha for a long time, especially your wife (that ideally you should have imprinted) then you have more room for leeway as a woman is more likely to help bring you back on your feet if she’s attached to you. That doesn’t mean you can be weak all the time, but the way a wife who finds you Alpha & a whore who sees you as Alpha reacts to a man losing his “edge” for a split second, is differe…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 12:04 PM
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After you said “How’ve you been?” you should’ve at least let her respond then took a couple hrs before replying. After loosening her up a bit, then you coulda gone for the meetup. People say that a woman with genuine desire will cooperate regardless but thats not true. Certain things only work AFTER you’ve piped a woman down and proven you’re a confident, calm and masculine man in person over time. Just take things a lil slower, there’s not a rush. If you’re spinning multiple plates then there c…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:41 AM
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Another guy came in the picture & she did what most women do. Sabotage the relationship to get YOU to break with HER.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:35 AM
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If she mentioned her boyfriend several times, she’s most likely not that attracted to you. Dont invest too much time in her and move on to other chicks. A lot of guys like to pretend like they’re the only Alpha guy in the world and can steal every girl from their man, not realising that many women are in relationships with Alphas that they submit to at that time. Unless that Alpha becomes beta over time due to being Blue Pill, that woman is most likely not going to fuck with other guys except to…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:32 AM
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Women are bloodhounds for weakness in a man. They are wired to be revolted by weakness & this same wiring has kept the human race alive for thousands of years as prior to technology & civilisation, weakness meant the death of the tribe, its children and its women. Dont drop your guard for one second around these women, you can be vulnerable with your WIFE on rare occasions but NOT hoes you’re banging. Control your emotions and dont let them out for a woman like that again. Find other outlets, li…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:28 AM
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Go on the twitters of some of these Onlythots and you’ll see very quickly that they hate men lmao particularly the beta men that feed them. They are revolted by them and see them as idiotic fools to be manipulated for money. These women dont value Onlyfans attention and money as much as they make it seem. In reality these are broken bitches that are crying out inside for an Alpha to dick em down and set them straight so they dont self destruct, but alas they’ve made their bed and they’ll have to…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:24 AM
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Its sad. Taking the red pill & then looking at Western society is excruciatingly painful. We smell the smoke and we want to scream fire so we save everyone in the house but everyone’s ignoring the smell. By the time they acknowledge there’s a fire the whole house will be burnt down. That’s what living in the West is like. Our society is collapsing gradually and slowly but surely.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:18 AM
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Facts on facts bro
/r/askTRP08/03/21 07:32 PM
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One thing about women is that they are wayyy more insecure than men. After all, this is the group that spends hundreds of billions globally on makeup. More often than not if you’re masculine and confident but then all of a sudden dont physically escalate, she will internalise it as “Did I do something wrong? Does he think I’m ugly?” etc. which is good for competition anxiety, she may chalk it up to you already having had sex with another girl before you got to her. This will make her want to ple…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:05 PM
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A simple “Nah im alright, i think you kinda sexy and all that so i aint tryna do the whole friendship thing. Best of luck in life though” and move on. She’s seen you as Beta before so she will not see you as Masculine. Its only been 3 weeks, dont beat yourself up. Cut off that oneitis for good & start gaming other girls. Focus on confidence, smoothness and over nonchalant “I dont give af what she think” type Alpha energy when interacting with women. Keep working out, keep getting hobbies & skill…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 12:15 PM
1

Yeah insta & texting is only to make plans. I’m not advocating texting for months, ideally you want to get her number within the next few days and then facetime, escalate to a meet up immediately et voila. But social media is that social proof that makes having to take her on a date & do a lot of extra shit moot. Guys have to remember unless you’re absolutely stunning in looks you HAVE to prove social status & lifestyle. You have to. You dont get the same privileges that Jason Momoa looking guys…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 11:51 AM
1

South America is best imo or going back to Eastern Europe. Some would say Southeast Asia, but I’m a strong proponent of being able to learn & speak language because or have people speak your language.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 11:46 AM
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Lmaoooo
/r/askTRP08/03/21 11:45 AM
3

I 100% agree with you, but it just goes to show you the extent of the marketplace for the average guy in any big city. We cant blow smoke up the guys ass. Lifestyle matters. If you live in LA, Miami. New York, Atlanta, Houston etc. lifestyle matters. Thats why every man’s priority CANNOT be women, but rather becoming a high value man. Once you max out looks & social status from dedicating years to self improvement, this social media shit doesn’t seem like work but rather just showcasing who you …
/r/askTRP08/03/21 11:44 AM
1

In South America? Learn Spanish and in Colombia or Mexico, life could be great. But remember if you’re not confident, smooth, physically appealing and on your purpose with an abundance mindset then dont expect to be successful anywhere you go in the world.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 04:05 AM
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Im guessing you’re over 30. For those 16-25, growing up entirely immersed in the digital age, social media is king. Trying in real life is NOT pointless, but in 2021, you’re competing against people on social media not just people in real life. But both can be used like this: John is 20, he sees a hot chick on his college campus. Introduces himself and they exchange ‘Instagrams’. Hot chick’s name is Sarah. Sarah goes on to get hit on by 50 other guys that day. Later on, she goes through the soci…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 04:02 AM
2

I mean the Rational Male talks about Plate spinning. Social media is the new way of spinning plates & the key to attracting women is showcasing masculine traits and resources. Social media allows for this. Likes & comments acts as pre-selection. These are simply the steps. For many young people who’ve been on social media for years, these steps come easy. Being in the military perhaps you may have not come up on that. But of course your strategy works too, it just wont be as effective in 2021 in…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 03:22 AM
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I’ll end with this. Its either gradually, the 80% of betas will start to seriously ignore what women say in mainstream media and begin to act as the 20% do, in turn pounding down women’s egos and reviving the balance of the sexual marketplace as simping falls out of fashion and men decide to become men again. Or things will take a more sinister route. Of the 80%, many may give up on women all together and experiment with other sexualities from desperation, they will not be the same as biological…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 02:43 AM
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Its all about social media now. COVID has forced the world into the digital age. Women are more hypergamous than ever, with shorter attention spans than ever. Long term relationships seem like more work than just fucking without a label. In 2021, you must treat yourself like a celebrity because women want to see your lifestyle before they decide whether to fuck you or not. So first step? Get on social media if you’re not already. Do Market Research. Look at hot chicks pages, see the kind of guys…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 02:16 AM
3

Probably because her inability to value a male presence (due to the fact that the most important male in her life - the father of her kids - left her) meant that at the slightest sign of weakness she lost what little respect she was able to muster for you in the first place. That little respect came from your masculine frame but alas it was still only a little bit of respect, after all, she’s a bitter, resentful typical single mother who doesn’t value masculinity. Probably thinks she can do it A…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 02:00 AM
4

Yes, the more Alpha a woman perceives you as the more room you have to sometimes be less Alpha & it wont be perceived as weak because well, she’s seen you Alpha for MOST of your interaction with her. Its not too different from how men view each other. If a 6’8 hunk of muscle is violently pushed by a 5’7 scrawny idiot and he refuses to lay hands on the guy, a lot of us would call him humble. Why? Because we’re looking at the shere size of him and know he could obliterate the other guy if he wante…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:33 AM
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Although do keep in mind, some women are easier to contain than others. I.e. Single mothers, ultrafeminists and whores are extremely difficult to contain with masculine frame as they are masculine and do not respect men. Think of it as the difference between wet mud & water. They’re both liquids but they dont drip with the same ease do they. So be on the lookout for red flags that shows a woman is not as cooperative & continue maintain masculine frame, work on yourself and have an abundance mind…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:20 AM
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Here’s the thing. Women are shapeless. They are water. They have no form. Whatever container they are put in they become. Women are a reflection of you. Pour a woman into a jar with cracks in it (beta) & they will resent you the jar (you) for your weakness and inability to contain them. Pour a woman into a solid and unwavering jar (alpha) and they will reward the jar (you) with compliance & submission with the hopes that, that jar will hold them in it for long and not let another woman take thei…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:17 AM
0

You need to give the RP to your friend asap. Send him a Stephiscold YT video about Betas or the Friend Zone. Then watch how he reacts to that shit. If he lashes out at you, cut him off... with quickness. He already sounds unstable af, to me sounds like a simp raised by a single mother with a lack of a strong father figure since he doesn’t understand a concept as simple as Bros before Hoes. But the point remains, try to RP him. If he rejects it, cut him off. Him being separate from you will force…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:07 AM
1

All that BDSM shit is just a cover for her personality disorders and underlying mental illnesses. In reality she probably lacks a strong masculine father figure & saw this guy as beta. She gets off on treating you and the other betas who will ALLOW her to, like shit because she never had daddy in her life or worse, was abused/ignored by him. Meanwhile, the Alpha who respects himself and will next her if she tried that bullshit gets to fuck lmao. RP guys need to put more effort into thinking with…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:01 AM
3

The funny thing is you already know what you need to do lmao. You’re just too afraid to do it & you’ve built an attachment to a child that’s not yours. Its not fair on the child but thats how harsh the world is. Its not fair. That woman is a single mother for a reason. She’s reckless & was willing to give her womb to a man without fully securing him. A woman so reckless as to bring a child into the world alone without the protection of a strong father, is a woman who will cheat. Easily. You know…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 12:56 AM
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extra correction: appear temporarily
/r/askTRP08/03/21 12:50 AM
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Go on YT and type in TaySocial. Follow is techniques. Be smooth, calm and have the mindset of “I am a king” when you speak to women. And keep doing it OVER & over & over & over & over & over... you get my point... again. With women its a numbers game. When you finally get your body right & have a fresh haircut, you can take nice pictures in nice locations and post them on your social media. Then use your social media to pick up chicks which will be somewhat easier perhaps.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 12:49 AM
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The women that you’re dating are probably not doing this with malicious intent. For two reasons: 1) Women are shapeless. They are water. They become whatever container you put them in. This means whatever the predominant mode of thought is, they submit to it & propagate it. This is because in prehistoric times, women were EXTREMELY vulnerable. They relied on the protection of the TRIBE. Your “tribe” in 2021, is the USA. A predominantly liberal country (at least media wise) so women likely will h…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 12:39 AM
5

Also remember that women are not like this consciously. It’s in their evolutionary biology to be revolted to weakness because weakness is a bad trait for survival in the wild. Humans have only lived in civilised settlements for 5000 yrs but we’ve been around for 200,000 yrs. That means for 90%+ of human existence we have evolved towards surviving in the future wild & when seeking a mate women desire all the traits that make a man strong in these conditions. Confidence, masculine frame, resources…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 12:24 AM
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Women only have principles in so much as they are physically held accountable or in the frame of a masculine man. Unless the law prevents them from acting in a spiteful cruel manner (E.g. In countries like Saudi Arabia, the law is harsh on promiscuity so women control themselves more for fear of jail) or a masculine man forces them into a submissive role, women can REALLY REALLY be evil dude. Like really evil. So if a woman sees you as Beta she will have no remorse. This is why you’ll see clips …
/r/askTRP08/03/21 12:19 AM
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Women dont even know why they do 90% of the shit they do. Outside of a professional setting where they’re held accountable at every step, they are not rational beings and act off emotions. Even if you’ve figured women out completely with the RP, sometimes women are gonna do women shit even if that means fucking up something good they got going on because of how they “felt” in that moment. Guys need to stop caring. If you’re doing what’s good (lifting in the gym & dressing well, being confident, …
/r/askTRP07/03/21 10:05 PM
1

Not to mention the UK doesn’t have a codified constitution or legal system, so technically nothing is really protected or an integral right of any British citizen. Its all up to the courts to decide unlike in the US where at least a prenup will hold weight in many states because codified law guarantees citizens’ rights to a degree. Prenups in the UK can easily get tossed in the trash.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 10:40 PM
3

Totally agree. The way it was explained to be by the guy who redpilled me was “If you’ve ever watched the 007 movie series, James Bond is a man on his mission. He’s calm, charismatic & hardworking. Women thus cannot overpower his life & play the role of side characters that come and go on his journey to complete his mission. Be James Bond & make women the side characters of your movie”. That said, a lot of these guys need it. They’ll learn this gradually the more women they smash, the more they’…
/r/askTRP04/03/21 10:32 PM
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Actually thats MGTOW not red pill. Red pill simply is a way of achieving awareness about the true nature of Male & Female Interactions and Sexual Strategy. How that knowledge is used is subjective.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 10:01 PM
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Yeah nah she’s too cocky. Leave her in the past
/r/askTRP04/03/21 08:23 AM
5

Start looking for another job & brushing up that resume to include the new management experience you’ve acquired. Dont tell anyone & keep working. Leverage is key, once you have an interview. Have a serious word with your manager about how you’re feeling and let him know your worries and what solutions you have in exchange. If they cant handle it, then get ready to ace those interviews & move jobs swiftly
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:48 AM
5

Had you taken her out for drinks, you may have been able to hit. These queen bee types are transactional. They’ve used up they’re ability to pair bond or be seduced (unless the guy’s fucking Jason Momoa) because they’ve been ran through too many times. So sex is transactional to these women who tend to be older. “You do this for and i’ll open my legs”. It can possibly lead to sex but you can literally only fuck one time because its NOT genuine desire. You pump and dump chicks like that. Overall …
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:42 AM
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Lift weights, do a sport or martial art like MMA/BJJ/Wrestling and get a part time job if you can. Showcase the first two hobbies on social media to show how on your purpose you are. Then follow more people from your high school & talk to the high status guys in real life like they’re your brothers (but remember they are not) and make yourself known. Talk to girls and get comfortable doing so in a calm, friendly but masculine and non-goofy way. Overall, remember that high school is a tiny and mo…
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:34 AM
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Just gotta have that mindset of “She just missed out on the best dick of her life, oh well, onto the next!”. Then get right back to your purpose. Also remind yourself this is all recycled vag. These aren’t pure virgins or respectable women (most of the time though there are exceptions & they’re obvious) who’ve saved themselves for marriage. These are girls that have been ran through in high school, college and post-college life and most likely cant remember the names of some of the Chads they le…
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:19 AM
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She’s older than you, she DEFINITELY does it often. She just did not have genuine desire for you bro. Believe me when I say, move on. There’s PLENTY of other women out there. There’s a difference when its a younger woman than you, but an older woman pretending to be “pure” or whatever in the West lmao? Yeah right. She definitely maintains autonomy over her body, she is entirely within her rights to refuse & you’re a great man for not insisting any further after that. But you are entirely within …
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:15 AM
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Its your mindset. I just say “Fuck it lmao, she missed out on the greatest dick of her life” and then carry on about my business. Start being cocky in your mind and it will transfer in your daily life, and if it gets too much reign it in a lil bit. But its easier to reign in a wild horse than to push a weak horse to the race.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 02:55 AM
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I’d go with a year of vetting for Gen Z
/r/askTRP04/03/21 02:53 AM
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Dont let her pull you into her frame. You are the man, she must want to follow your lead. Tell her what you’re interested in & invite her to do what YOU’RE interested in. You like going on walks? Hit her with the “Hey, im going to be hanging out around [insert neighbourhood] you should come”. Dont change yourself for her. If she says she likes all that shit, TELL HER: “Oh word? Yeah thats not my thing, im more of a chill guy if you know what I mean”. Things like that signal to her subconsciously…
/r/askTRP04/03/21 02:44 AM
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Stop viewing women as these intimidating creatures. Like Casey Zander says on his YT Channel, you’re fucking man. You most likely outsize and overpower every women you encounter. She can do you know harm. It is in your blood, veins and balls to dominate so start acting like it. Be confident, be nonchalant and be her king when you interact with women. Lead the way and act like you’ve had sex a million times even if you haven’t. And the last thing... STOP WATCHING PORN.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 08:02 PM
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Say “Nah i just like the drinks they have there plus something tells me at some point we’ll run into each other again”. Then leave her alone for a week and if she hasn’t messaged you by then, hit her with the “Hey bighead what are you getting up to these day” with the intention of scheduling a meetup. If she declines say “let me know when you wanna link up” then never text her again UNLESS its to respond to a message from her to set up a date.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 07:53 PM
3

First. Working out & eating right is good but what you feed your brain matters most. Stop scrolling through social media because thats likely affecting your mental health. Studies have shown sites like Instagram, Snapchat & Facebook are major causes for depression. Rather than scroll through social media listen to podcasts on spotify that are motivational & interesting (like the Jocko Willink Podcast - he’s a navy seal) or the Joe Rogan Podcast. Also watch Men’s Improvement YT channels to motiva…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 05:30 PM
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The red pill isn’t moral or evil. It just is. Women are biologically wired by and large to be attracted to certain kinds of men with certain traits which are optimal for ensuring their protection and the passing on of the BEST genes for survival. If they cant keep a man like that, they will use & manipulate weak men who don’t possess those traits, using them as tools to provide for them while they fantasise or secretly sleep with the men that possess the traits mentioned earlier. This is isn’t a…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 05:21 PM
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Use what people are insecure about or pick out something about them that can be exaggerated or mocked. Start it off with a simple “Oh I know you ain’t talking to me with your [insert attacks on their worst features here]” Like one of my friends has a ponytail and I pointed that out during a roast sesh saying “He looks like he screams the word fabulous” and that he looked like a fashion designer. People found that funny because I made him look feminine. Or one time I roasted a Russian friend by r…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 05:10 PM
2

All you need to say was “Is this (insert name)?” and then go from there. Never act like you’re EXCITED. The way thats worked for me and my friends is to picture yourself as a rapper or a star & the girl as just one of your many groupies. Thats the type of dynamic you should picture when talking to women.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 06:08 PM
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I would start talking to other girls and prepare for a silent exit. Start meeting other girls & slowly withdraw attention from her, then break up. Its either you do it or she does it lmao, its clear from this story that this girl is going to cheat on you at some point. She’s TELLING you who she is, ignore it and you’ll end up punished for your own stupidity.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 06:05 PM
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Everyone else has pretty much knocked sense into you’re entitled white knight head but bro, as Richard Cooper says. You cant negotiate GENUINE desire. Doesn’t matter how much beta bucks you have, if women dont desire you they just dont lmao.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 11:09 PM
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