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Relax, it's a numbers game and you just haven't gone out with the right people. Talk to more people, in different places, different situations and you'll get there.
/r/seduction21/12/25 02:05 PM
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Relationships come and go. I think it's ok to give yourself a shot with someone you find amazing every once in a while. I went through that and it was fun while it lasted. If you do intend on having a girlfriend / wife one day, I do recommend writing a page or two on how the best case scenario would look like, in case you do find that person.
/r/seduction08/12/25 01:41 PM
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If you think it's fun, by all means, learn how to dance and enjoy the expereince. As you have defintely already seen, dance clubs are always filled to the brim. Everyone loves to dance, find your style. I've danced salsa, forro, sertanejo and samba (Brasil), also want to try zouk and bachata soon. Is it a way to find portential partners? Honestly, kinda? That shouldn't be the focus though. Dancing should be a safe space for everyone. Will it eventually happen if you're out in the field, talking …
/r/seduction07/12/25 01:04 AM
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I totally get this eye contact thing. Though from my experience, to most people in general, you are invisible until you approach and open. Don't wait to be seen to appracoh, just approach and have fun.
/r/seduction07/12/25 12:55 AM
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Yeah, people be peopleing, just say sorry, leave, move on.
/r/seduction07/12/25 12:54 AM
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Hey, some women/people are like that. Stop being uncomfortable. If she wants to get you a gift, let her. You think you need to get her something expensive as well? Dont, you dont have to. She's with you because she likes you and who you are. Also, people are organic and they change their mind sometimes. She might not get you anything at all. So chill, meditate or something. WARNING: start preparing to be the happiest person alive if she does get you a gift. Prepare to express all your positive e…
/r/seduction07/12/25 12:52 AM
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Read Models, by mark manson.
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:48 PM
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Focus on in real life people always
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:39 PM
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Just keep doing the work
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:39 PM
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Hey, what exactly is your question?
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:37 PM
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Ok, so hear me out... There is this therapist/ hypnotist guy who really opened my mind about some things. His teachings have allowed me to have some bizarre crazy wonderful adventures in my life that I will always cherish. Of course, I am always seeking the next big adventure and helping the people around me to 'get their fix' also. This is something you share with others so that everybody can have fun. https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=mark+cunnigham+renegade This is the youtube page…
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:13 PM
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Hey, thanks for reading! And yes, I do speak fluent portuguese! Please let us know, stay in touch! And if you need anything, just send a message and let's chat! Gratidão!!
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:10 PM
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'Hey, I'm R_A, you seem interesting!'
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:34 PM
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Hey, this is interesting. I would suggest just moving on, rejection is part of the game. I have recently started working with sales and I get rejected about 90% of the time BUT it's the 10% who do close a deal with me that make it all worth it. Just keep going, keep opening more sets, meet people in real life, make new friends.. ​ If you feel like you need to learn more, feel free to send me a message! Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:33 PM
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Let's say you have an EXCELLENT relationship, how will you know? What will you be doing? how will you be living your life, from sun rise to sun down? Also, how are you helping OTHER PEOPLE get their dream relationships? Remember: we receive what we put out into the world, so maybe start helping those around you to achieve your dreams and maybe, just maybe, you might suddenly realize that all your dreams are coming true as a bonus. ​ If you feel like you need to learn more, feel free to send me a…
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:30 PM
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Hey, this post is very interesting. What exactly is your main goal? What is your desired outcome? Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:29 PM
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Hey, great question! A primeira coisa é sempre definir exatamente o que você quer. Qual a melhor possibilidade, caso de repente você se torne um deus na área social e sedução, o que você vai fazer com isso? Digamos que tenha 100 mulheres querendo você, como decidir qual delas é melhor? Primeiro escreva em um caderno exatamente o que seria a melhor possibilidade para 1 noite, 1 semana e claro, 1 vida. Depois disso, dê prioridade sempre para o seu corpo físico, sua saude mental e os seus objetivos…
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:28 PM
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Hey, great question! Just out of curiosity, let's say you learn a new line right now, a very good one. Than you go out and you score! What will be the BEST possibility in the world? how will you know that the line worked? What exactly is your desired outcome? Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:27 PM
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Life always finds a way
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:02 PM
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Hit the gym, do some sports, join a club! Have fun
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:52 AM
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1) Write down the best possibility with each one of them. This will take time. Remember: it is not just your d1ck that is going to go through an experience, these are human beings, they deserve respect and you need to have a well thought out plan. 2) Which of these people allow you to focus on your A) health B) friends, family, social life and C) career and finances? if anyone of them are a threat to these categories, back off - you may not like the results on the long run 3) Just do what you wa…
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:51 AM
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Keep going! Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:52 PM
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I think it's important to be authentic and allow fun to be created. ​ Send me a message if you are interested in learning more! Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:52 PM
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Depends on her. I have had second dates that were kinky and sexual. Also have had second dates that were 100% neutral like walking in the park. It depends on the person, the mood. And about sweaty, I have taken people on dates hiking that ended up in full-blown crazy freaky seksy time after. Just depends on the physical fitness of the person, I guess. ​ Send me a message if you are interested in learning more! Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:51 PM
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Be honest!
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:49 PM
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I think the important thing in your question is 'what am I dong right?' You are approaching, you are opening sets, this is the most important part. If you want to give up after opening 5-6 sets, than just remember that even warren buffet gets 99 no's before 1 yes, so just keep opening more sets. Also, write down for about 4 pages on exactly what would be the best possibility ever for a 1 night stand, a 1 week fling and of course, a relationship. you need to have your goals clearly set before app…
/r/seduction05/08/22 03:00 PM
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safety, security, curiosity, playfulness, care, love, peace. this is the base, the fundamentals. after this, you can go into pleasure, bliss, etc ​ edit: also adding intrigue, comfort (based on comments)
/r/seduction05/08/22 02:58 PM
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What exactly is your goal?
/r/seduction05/08/22 02:57 PM
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Just focus on you, your breathing and keep living your best life, you are in this for the long run so just keep focusing on your goals
/r/seduction05/08/22 02:56 PM
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TINDER IS A FOR PROFIT COMPANY. just do you daily swipes and move on, focus on real life sets
/r/seduction05/08/22 02:55 PM
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Move on, open more sets, meet new people, give time to those who value your time and end of story. Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction04/08/22 07:44 PM
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Just out of curiosity, you do not have to answer this to me, only yourself. If you were to write about 4-5 pages in a notebook with EXACTLY what you want in a long term girlfriend (not this person you are talking about, I am talking about the most perfect incredible person that could every be with you ever), what would you write? This is important because sometimes, you THINK it's the right person but there are many things that are not compatible.... So please, even if you do really like this pe…
/r/seduction04/08/22 07:42 PM
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Until I find something better, I'm gonna continue doing it and talking about it. If someone can find a better method and prove it to me, I'll pay them! Thanks for your input! How has journalling helped you??
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:06 AM
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Always open sets, with a positive expectation. I have received money from people who I thought I would date, so always be on the lookout for the next best opportunity! ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:51 PM
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Would you trade lives with him? If not, move on
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:50 PM
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That is very interesting. You are saying alot of things in this post. First) Define what you DO want, in details, and have it WRITTEN on paper. Do not ignore this step or assume the risk of having this pattern going on forever. Second) Be HONEST. Just say that you have other interests in mind and let the person decide if they agree with you or not. By assuming the scarcity model, you will constantly subject yourself to less-than-optimal circumstances, so just state your ground and make the best …
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:48 PM
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Hey, this is interesting. I would suggest opening some new sets, meeting some new people, just keep making new connections and allow those who do value you to enter your life. Not everybody is like you or likes the same things that you like, there are some kinky people out there (and also some people with mental illnessess) If you are not feeling comfortable, just move on and give space to the next person who will make you feel good! ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:46 PM
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Tell us your opinion, what do you find special in this person?
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:44 PM
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Remember: girls and people in general have moods swings. Some humans even have mental illnessess and pathological diseases like psychopathy. just ignore those who do not value you and open more sets, meet new people. move on! There are at least a billion girls who do not do these kinds of things, look for them and ignore the rest, let them become extinct.
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:44 PM
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Yes! Also 'models'
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:42 PM
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Hey, great question! I'll give you my personal experience. It was after doing exactly this that I began to go on some crazy adventures, which eventually led me to finding my soul mate! 1) Get a 200 page notebook. Write down exactly what you want in your life in the following categories: Health&Fitness, Spiritual life, Romantic life, Friends & family, Financial resources, Career and Lifestyle (things, places, events, etc) Also, write down what you want to have in your life in 5 years (assuming ev…
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:42 PM
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take many deep breaths and jus feel grateful
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:25 PM
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Open new sets
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:24 PM
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They can create sincere fun, they respect people
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:24 PM
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Move on, meet new people, open new sets. Remember: even warren buffet, one of the richest people in the world, get's 99 no's before 1 yes. Keep taking care of your body, mind and your life. ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction31/07/22 02:20 PM
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Maybe it's culture? Also remember, you have a reticular activating system that only pays attention to what you believe. We also call it 'cognitive bias'. There is also a big quantity of men who do the same thing, and treat not women but everybody badly. Maybe these specific women who you saw have traumas and psychological disabilities? Of course if you do not like women anymore, you can always try men, or just go meditate for a few years. There are some hetero men who make too hard an effort to …
/r/seduction31/07/22 02:19 PM
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Hey, great question! This is my personal suggestion, it worked for me First define exactly what would be the best possibility for this person (What if it last 1 night? what if it lasts 1 week? or 1 lifetime?) Just write down on paper the best possibility (remember: there are no rules on your paper, so just write down what you want, from the truth of your heart.) ​ after that, remember the A.B.T.- always be testing! What do YOU like to do? do you have money? if so, take her to a place that you li…
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:07 PM
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Or just join a meditation retreat for 10 years, that helps also.
/r/seduction29/07/22 06:55 PM
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This is 100% percent my opinion: I have never had to add girls to any story BUT i do have a strong circle of women who i participate in (my friends and family) but this is just who I am I would say people can sense if you are full of B.S. or not, so it is easier to put yourself in a circle of powerful people and be one of those powerful people too (it takes time but is worth it) and then just tell your honest fun stories and people will know that you are authentic (my own opinion) If you do not …
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:28 PM
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Hate is such a strong word
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:25 PM
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yes! call her to your adventure, so it will not seem like to obvious. Remember: if she is cute and sees people all day, she probably gets about 1000 flirts per day, so just take your shot and call her to do something fun like 'hey, I'm gonna go walk in the park this week to chill my head and relax a little, it would be nice of you to come along! ' 'hey I gotta go to 5th street to buy some pet toys for my cousins dog and it would be fun to have your opinion, its wednesday at 5 o clock' and see he…
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:03 PM
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I think you should tell a cooler story. Remember: nobody knows you until you tell them about you. Just make up a cool story. Keep in mind: You are not focused on the 99 stupid people who will scoff at you, you are focused on finding that 1 10/10 person who will just melt when they see you and hear your story, so stop focusing on the 99% and start focusing on finding the 1%. ​ As for a script, I'll give you 2 options 1) Let's bug her brain, say that you have at least 200 fotos and make her think …
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:00 PM
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You are living a wonderful life and having fun, ask her to tag along! ​ 'Hey, I am going down to the XYZ park to clear my head this week, it would be nice if you come along! ' Remember: if she doesn't want to, just open new sets, meet new people. We have to keep in mind that we have a 99% chance of failing and if we don't take the risk, we will never meet that 1% that are willing to make our life amazing! ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:53 PM
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I did derek moneyberg's 10 commendaments of game process and also missy&jon butchers lifebook process. i also follow dr. david snyder's cpi model, they all have 1 thing in common: KNOW YOUR OUTCOME! Define exactly what you want in a relationship. You are wasting your time and more importantly, this person's time by not knowing what you want and leading them on thinking that something beautiful is happening when it's not. Be honest with your partner, she is helping you, making your life wonderful…
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:50 PM
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You are living your life and doing cool things. There is something that you need to do, ask her to come with you. "hey, listen, I need to go to 5th street to pick up some things for my guitar, come with me! what's your insta? linkedin? whatsapp?' just allow her to join your adventure ​ 'hey, i'm going walking in the park tomorrow to relax my head a little, at 15hrs, it would be cool for you to come with me! you could give me some opinions on a project I'm working on, you seem like you are good a…
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:29 PM
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this!!
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:27 PM
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take her to somewhere that you would like to go! if she is a match, she will love it. she wants to go out with YOU and not some kind of version of you. show her who you are, you were authentic enough to get the date, now continue to be your best self! what matters is you, your personality, your ability to chat, have fun, feel good! if she doesn't like it, move one! open new sets!
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:23 PM
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dude you are a master! ability, makes sense, you gotta do the drills and get the skills! body, please take care of your body! physical strength, endurance and of course, style! charisma is beautiful, you gotta be authentic and just create fun! makes total sense! thank you for sharing!
/r/seduction28/07/22 07:42 PM
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number 1 makes hella lot of sense, I just finished a story game and I had that exact thought while going to a job interview! number 2 is essential, we need to value each others time and health! number 3 is the last nail in the coffin, makes total sense, everything needs to be fun or else forget it! thank you for sharing!!
/r/seduction28/07/22 07:30 PM
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Thank you for reading! I know this is a stretch, if you find yourself interested, at least try it fully and see what you think This is a meditation that helped me learn to deal with 'the unknown'. this was my way of dealing with it, I imagine you will find your own way! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9OgKESytWk0 it is a meditation of a guy who has done some cool things, many have opinions on him but still at least he is doing the work, so try it out, let me know, maybe you'll find something bet…
/r/seduction28/07/22 01:46 AM
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Yes, you are 99% right. you will continue to suffer until you decide to not suffer and then, you will start to live in the 'unknown', the uncomfortable and this will allow you to linger in not so pleasant situations and work your way through it! Remember: if you are feeling like you are going through hell, just keep going, don't stop!
/r/seduction28/07/22 01:37 AM
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Ok, hear me out... First, you gotta get your inner game tight and worked-out! Write down on a few pages what your #1 goal is for your life Also , write down what would be THE BEST possibility in the world for a 1 night stand, a 1 week fling and of course, a lifelong relationship. I mean THE BEST, not so-so, write down the number 1 best possibility for the most amazing mind blowing experience ever. Then, make sure you are living an excellent life, taking care of your body, making money (or trying…
/r/seduction28/07/22 01:34 AM
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take deep breaths, count from 25 to 1 and then see if something good happens. if not, just leave and go somewhere where you feel better Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction28/07/22 01:30 AM
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just send them an audio wishing them an excellent week, tell something good about your week or life that you feel very proud of. Remember: the person who likes you and is interested in you will love anything you send them. So just make them feel good with a good story. Some people will receive your message and ignore you. Some people will send you a message back and share with you a little story also! it may not be hard-core-mind-blowing-seksy-time but still, a few seconds or minutes used to giv…
/r/seduction28/07/22 01:28 AM
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Hey, great question! I believe you are doing a very good job, please recognize your hard work, your effort and your learnings! Remember: even warren buffet gets 99 no's before 1 yes, o keep opening more sets, meeting new people! Also, be sure to write down (on a few pages) exactly what would be the best outcome for a 1 night stand, a 1 week fling or a lifelong relationship. You talked about the apartment, let's say that this was not a problem, what would be the best possibility? example: the bes…
/r/seduction28/07/22 01:23 AM
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how has that been fore you? what are the results?
/r/seduction27/07/22 08:56 PM
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Amazing! have you still been using it?
/r/seduction27/07/22 08:52 PM
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i always keep pushing forward to create fun because A) I am the owner of my life and nobody has the right to make me feel less (of course, I am always following the law, etc) and B) if somebody does not want to have fun with me, i don't care and just move on to the next person. I have had crazy stories come up with random people who I just stated chatting with unconsciously on a day to day basis so just keep pushing, keep living your life, focus on those who do want you to feel good.! If somebod…
/r/seduction27/07/22 01:03 PM
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Just continue to create sincere fun! In the mean time, just take care of yourself, keep living your best life and opening more sets, meeting new people. If you keep using energy thinking about these little wierd moments, you take energy away from the next best moments! Always be looking for the next best moment! I recommend reading richard branson's biography, he's a crazy dude ​ If you would like to learn more, send me a message! It is an honor and a privilege to be of service. Stay grateful, R…
/r/seduction27/07/22 01:01 PM
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Hey, great story! I think every good gamer has had catastrophic failures in their life (i have had a few) but I have also had a few very transcendental crazy adventure wonderful moments. You just gotta learn to surf the tides! Keep going strong, keep opening more sets, keep creating fun and of course, take care of your physical and mental health always. Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:59 PM
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I believe that is good! of course, some people need the 'text game' to get started, but if you are looking for someone who doesn't really care for that (I really don't) then just go for the date, the important thing is the in person meeting. people who focus too much on text tend to be kind of disconnected from reality and might get you trouble later. then again, I may be wrong. just have fun, send memes, I focus mainly on audio (sending 20-30 second audios are justafiable and not cumbersome to …
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:58 PM
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Keep us posted! This 'technique' has got me the exact results you are after, just be careful because sometime,s you will be feeling VERY GOOD and everybody you talk with will get kinda excited, so i reccomend also meditating daily to keep your 'energy' in a contained space
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:50 PM
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It seems like you are doing good! Be wary of your thoughts, you are doing and excellent job and it would be a shame for you to not focus on these wonderful aspects in your life. i am here to remind you that it is okay, you are doing great and I believe that the tendancy is to only get better. Keep doing what you are doing, keep making your body strong and getting smarter, making more money, etc, it will be worth the wait. i have gone through so many crazy good and bad adventures in my life, they…
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:47 PM
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send a picture of a cat, chicks dig cats. but seriously, is it through text or in person? what exactly do you want with this person?
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:02 PM
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humans be humaning.
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:56 PM
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I think you should continue living your life, doing your things, taking care of your body. Open some more sets, talk to some more people, remember: even warren buffet gets 99 no's before 1 effective yes so you gotta keep pushing. I reccomend seeing a video from this list and checking it out Always be testing! https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=david+snyder+attraction ​ If you would like to learn more, send me a message! It is an honor and a privilege to be of service. Stay grateful, Ro…
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:54 PM
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Hey, great question! I believe you will only change when you had enough. If you still haven't suffered enough, you will continue to go thorugh the same things. May I suggest therapy, a good therapist, or maybe participate in a group of strong confident people and surround yourself with people who are being productive, taking care of their health. I also reccomend working with sales, it teaches you to just approach people. Also go to the gym and workout, become strong, learn to deal with stress. …
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:48 PM
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I think she is a little crazy but hey, just feel grateful
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:46 PM
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Hey, great question! I would reccomend using dr david snyder's cpi model So first, define your outcome, what do you want to happen? What is the best possibility? Write it down beforehand Second step, just control your state, and start feeling flirty and playful before hand and see where the talk goes Remember: before we can feel pleasure and flirtatious, we must first feel safe, relaxed and then feel curious, playful, so start with that and see where it goes. If that doesn't work, move on! Open …
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:46 PM
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Remember: if you are opening more sets, having fun and just living your life, these things tend to have 0 negative impact on you. Just continue living your life the best way possible, meet new people, make new friends and let those who actually want to be happy with you come into your life. Make space for those who do value you and forget the rest. ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:37 PM
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You can always get better, the important thing is to take care of yourself (physical and mental health) and then just meet new people. It doesn't matter if you are a sex god or a virgin, what matter is you are curious, playful and always open to learn new things. If your main focus right now is to game (considering that there are no health issue,s money issues, anything personally bad going on) than I can confidantly say that if you focus on opening more sets, getting the reps in every day, you …
/r/seduction26/07/22 03:05 PM
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hey, just open more sets! try other venues, other places, make new friends! ​ If you would like to learn more, send me a message! It is an honor and a privilege to be of service. Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction26/07/22 03:03 PM
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Yes! that is why you must constantly be opening more sets, even wareren buffet gets 99 no's before 1 yes! keep pushing on, meet new people and make new friends! ​ If you would like to learn more, send me a message! It is an honor and a privilege to be of service. Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction26/07/22 03:00 PM
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Hey, good question! A good conversation depends on 2 people wanting to chat. If the person you are chatting with is not engagin, just open more sets, meet more people, participate in new groupes with interests that suit you! I reccomend anything Dr David Snyder talks about (youtube) ​ If you would like to learn more, send me a message! It is an honor and a privilege to be of service. Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:59 PM

'Don't be afraid to get personal', that is amazing, when the talk get's perosnal, you know it's gonna be good! It also helps you to steer away from crazy people ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:57 PM
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Remember: dating apps have only 1 goal - to make money. the real progress will be made in the real world, opening more sets and talking to new people, participating in new groups with similar interests and of course, just creating sincere fun for all people around you! ​ If you would like to learn more, send me a message! It is an honor and a privilege to be of service. Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:56 PM
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Ignore her and open new sets, use your precious glucose and energy on those who are worth it. Revenge is pointless, useless and is bad for your health. Move on, make new friends, open more sets and just focus on you and your fun.
/r/seduction25/07/22 10:20 PM
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I believe there is no diferrence! Go somewhere where people will be doing things you like, maybe sports, martial arts, some kind of hobby. There you can easily meet people who have the same interests as you. Also, just open more sets! Remember: even warren buffet gets 99 no's before 1 yes, so meet more people, make more friends, create more sincre fun for people!
/r/seduction25/07/22 03:19 PM
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Second, just crreate sincere fun! tell stories, make food, play some sports, allow people to feel safe and secure. By wanting to 'bang them' you are already soiling the safe space and that screws up the dynamic. By allowing everybody to feel safe, secure and know that you are there to create sincere fun (and of course, you are up for grabs for sexytime), you maximize your chances of something excellent happening. Thank you for your comment! It is helpful comments like yours that allow us to beco…
/r/seduction22/07/22 07:07 PM
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Texts should be just to make each other feel good and have fun. You are worrying on a possible disastrous future: that is how you set yourself up for a disastrous future. Keep taking care of your own life, having fun, studying and training your body. Send messages wheneve ryou feel comfortable and keep opening more sets, meeting new people, making new friends. Create sincere fun and just continue on with your life. If you let 1 perosn define all of your life, than your life will be defined by 1 …
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:28 PM
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Hey, good question First, focus on you, keep living your life, having fun, feeling good, taking care of your physical body, your mental health, etc Second, just crreate sincere fun! tell stories, make food, play some sports, allow people to feel safe and secure. By wanting to 'bang them' you are already soiling the safe space and that screws up the dynamic. By allowing everybody to feel safe, secure and know that you are there to create sincere fun (and of course, you are up for grabs for sexyti…
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:26 PM
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If you are doing your thing correctly, they will tell you or ask you. If you have to ask, maybe you should focus on something else first.
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:24 PM
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Anxiety disorder, nuff said. Just do therapy, meditate and do phyiscal activity, done.
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:23 PM
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You must be sincere and honest, you must create sincere fun. At the end of the day, the only thing that matters is, did you feel good? did you have fun? did you get the results? remember: even warren buffet gets 99 no's before 1 yes, so keep opening more sets, keep meeting new people, making new friends and create sincere fun.
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:58 PM
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You can attempt to be honest. "Hey, my name is NoInflazione and I am a little nervous and shy but I really wanted to say good morning to you." You could just train talking to people who have to talk to you, like bartenders, or people at supermarkets. There you can do a 'social workout' and train just saying hi, how are you, good morning, what was the best part of your day (always ask positive things, to elicit positive emotions). I would suggest checking out these videos: https://www.youtube.com…
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:44 PM
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Gotta be street smart haha
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:37 PM
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Haha I like this one! Or another might be, "Hey, I really need to brush up on my pu$$y licking skills, can I use yours real quick?"
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:00 PM
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I would say the main sign is that she is spending time with you alot and of course, having sexual interactions with you constantly. Also, if you are having a lot of sex in the world, having a wonderful life, taking care of your physical body, keeping mental health optimal, I guarantee you that in one moment or other, your friends will want to fornicate with you. Remember: this is just a seasonal hormonal thing. EVERYBODY and I mean EVERYBODY has mood swings, phases and hormonal transitions, be i…
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:59 PM
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I would suggest talking to as many older woman that you find an interest in as possible. Remember: even warren buffet gets 99 no's before 1 yes, so the more you train, the more gains you get. If you talk to 100 women who are the type you like, I guarantee you at least 1 or 2 will want to get to know you more. By talking to more people, opening more sets, eventually you will find yourself being whisked away by your dream person ving a crazy wild fantastic adventure and this will allow you to gain…
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:53 PM
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hey, please start meditating regularly. Get you mindful meditatoin game going on a.s.a.p. for the health benefits. use this time to heal and to feel grateful. I suggest dr joe dispenza, dr david snyder or vishen lakhiani from mindvalley. Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:49 PM
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Thank you for reading! you can also search all of them on youtube if you are interested in going deeper down the rabbit hole and to see if you get any other kind of understaning. All of them are to do 3 things: 1) get the SUBJECT/TARGET out of their own mind and into YOUR world, by following your rules (in your rules, everybody has fun, everybody maintins health, everybody has consenting orgasms [insert your own rules here]) *mind you, I wrote down 3 pages of exactly what I allowed to happen in …
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:48 PM
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Mind you, I had many very good excellent delicious moments, but I also had many very sh1tty moments (as everybody) In school, I had many excellent adventures, but also some catastrophic failures. I hooked up with many excellent girls and also had some very disastrous relationships. Same thing in high school, same thing in college and same thing after college in my work life. The thing is if you are focused on yourself, studying, noticing patterns by watching documentaries and biographys, reaedin…
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:37 PM
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makes sense! we need to make people understand that they are hurting us by being untruthful to their word. ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction21/07/22 12:29 PM
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meditation. self hypnosis. guided meditation. life book process (search on youtube). read more. train more. talk with more people. do more work. do charity work. ​ remember: non verbal presance comes from your memories. are your memories cool? would people find value if they dived into your head and started navigating through your best memories? Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction21/07/22 12:27 PM
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It means alcohol. If you are interested in her, ask her questions about fun times and tell her cool stories from your life. If not, just open new sets, meet more people, take care of your physical health. ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction21/07/22 12:25 PM
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Yes. You can have amazing sexy adventures any time in your life. It doesn't matter if youa re single or in a loving relationship. You just gotta go out and do it, like everything else in our life (money, health, etc) ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction21/07/22 12:25 PM
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Great question! ​ Hypnosis route: "I am already proving myself, that is why you are here" Erikson hypnosis route "You know, you remind me of a story from when I was a little kid... (just tell some stupid story to see her reaction)" Dance route: "I want to dance with you right now" david snyder questions route: "Tell me, what was the most fun you ever had in your life?" ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction21/07/22 12:23 PM
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This!
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:54 PM
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Hey, great question! Out of curiosity, if you received 1 wish to make this go the exact way you want it to go, what would you choose? Remember, she is working, this is a work place, she just wants to work and make money to pay her bills. I think it is important for you to ask yourself, what is the best possibility? and just notice what happens. Maybe, she has an even hotter friend or sister or cousin that would be dtf with you or whatever you're interested in. Maybe she has 10 friends who want t…
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:53 PM
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Like skiing! or fly fishing.
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:53 PM
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just say whatever, girls who actually are interested in you do not care about the content of the message, they care about you. remember: even warren buffet gets 99 no's before 1 yes so keep opening more sets, takes care of your physical health and just make new friends! ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:47 PM
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Hey, I would suggest opening more sets, meeting new people, taking care of your physical health and mental health. Focus on what is around you, focus on those who are willing to reach out to you. Don't allow anyone to play any games with you that you didn't sign up for. You are an amazing person who deserves amazing people around you so just meet new people, make new friends, create sincere fun! ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:46 PM
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Yes, always take deep breaths and show that you are in control of your body. remember Mike Mandel triangle: always talk with CONFIDENCE, CONGRUENCE and CONVICTION (INTENTION) with the added ability to always be CALIBRATING to see if your story is having impact. ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:45 PM
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Just out of curiosity, since you are in a commited long term relationship, what does any of this have to do with your partner? Did you talk to your partner about this? I highly reccomend it! ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:43 PM
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Remember: we are creatures that suffer influences in groups. She is doing this to you because she believes it is correct and it is part of her objective in life (consciously or unconsciously) The thing is: is this productive for you? is it helping you to feel better and become a better person? Did you give her permission to be like this? I do not allow any person to pick me to be mean, because I am a light hearted and very positive person. The women that were able to get near to me were the same…
/r/seduction18/07/22 09:07 PM
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everywhere possible, there are no bad places to say hi
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:42 PM
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Remember: all of this is happening inside of your mind. It is your perception that makes the fact good or bad. Notice the good thing: you are paying attention to yourself and noticing feelings of envy. You must first deal with these feelings before attempting to move on. Maybe, he was once where you were, maybe he went through some tough times in life and the only thing he has going for him is girls. You never know, cuz the grass on the other side is always greener. ​ Focus on yourself and move …
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:35 PM
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If she doesn't want to go out with you when you ask, then move on and open more sets, meet more people. We must use our energy wisely with people who are willing to create a sincere connection.
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:34 PM
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Remember: keep your cool, if they are giving you a rough time and not making you feel good, you can keep going at it to get some experience (keep your state under control and just keep at it until you feel like it's time to leave). Either this or just open another set
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:33 PM
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Wow that is a lot of things to think about! Good luck! ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:21 PM
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Do what you feel is comfortable! When in doubt, open more sets, meet more people! ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:21 PM
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Out of curiosity, what would be the best possibility? Let's say you get 1 wish, to have the best 1 night stand, the best 1 week long adventure and the best life/family/etc with someone, in the highest and best manner. What exactly would yo choose? ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:18 PM
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Out of curiosity, what would be the best possibility for you? ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:17 PM
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Let us please know how it is going! ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction11/07/22 10:03 PM
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We are all on the same boat my brother, or shall I say, the same tiny little piece of space dust floating through the galaxy, the more we can help each other, the better
/r/seduction11/07/22 06:10 PM
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It all depends on your point of reference! Who inspires you?
/r/seduction11/07/22 06:09 PM
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The answer you didn't know you needed! ​ You see, when I was about 11 years old, I made a very big change in my life. I was removed from a culture and inserted into another. In america, we don't hug and kiss people, we used to wave hello from afar. But in South america, we hug, we kiss cheeks, we give big long loving hugs with the people we like and admire. This was very wierd to adapt to, as I was an 11 year old american boy now living in a totally different culture and having to adapt to this …
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:54 PM
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What would be your #1goal and how will you know after you achieve it?
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:44 PM
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I would say the local market. People always want to chat and are feeling good at your local amrket. Not the super market, I mean those local ones where you buy organic food and whatnot. Also, of course, business events. There you will meet highly focused high acheiving people of all ages, colors, backgrounds, etc. Book reccomendation- The buddha and the b@dass - Vishen Lakhiani ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:44 PM
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Hey, nice to talk to you! Focus on your physical fitness, your mental health and your own goals first. Then, just open more sets, talk to more people, make more friends, always be on the lookout for the next best opportunity. Book reccomendations- The Art of Selfishness: David Seabury ​ Saty grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:43 PM
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Hey, nice to see you! First, you need a goal. What is your main goal? -Do you wanna have a wonderful fun day/ week/ month with this person? -What kind of activities do you want to do together? What kind of s3x do you want to have? ​ By opening more sets and talking to more people, while having a clearly defined objective, you allow yourself to easily gain more experience in opening, managing and enjoying wonderful moments together with high qulity people. ​ Book reccomendations: The way of the s…
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:41 PM
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Hey, how are you? I would advise you to just open more sets. Even warren bufft, the richest man in the planet, gets 99 no's before 1 good yes. Book reccomendations- No excuses - brian tracy ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:39 PM
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I advise you to focus on your physical and mental health and then, just open more sets, talk to more people. If you are in doubt, move on, open more sets, make more friends. Book reccomendations- 6 pillars of self esteem - Nathanael Brandon ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:36 PM
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It means you have a great hug! You shoudl use that story in your next set that you open. 'Hey, did you know a girl hugged me once? Why is that?' and let the girl answer. ​ Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:35 PM
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That's right!
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:27 PM
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That makes sense
/r/seduction09/07/22 08:46 PM

I would advise you to focus on your physical fitness and mental health first, and then just talk to more people, make more friends, open more sets. There is a perfect experience out there just waiting for you to live it, forget this person and move on. Or just text her and ask her out, plain and simple. The focus is always to get the 1 on 1 connection, the in person meeting. If she is down for that, perfect. If not, NEXT...
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:39 PM
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This is very good, it shows you are conscious and self-aware. Continue the good work, take care of your physical body, your health, your mental health and open more sets! Create sincere fun and just live life like a boss.
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:37 PM
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That's right! Out of curiosity, what would be the best possibility, in detail? Let's say everything worked out perfectly, how would you know? (You don't have to write it here, but write it down, in detail, somewhere, so you have a north, a guiding compass to take you exactly where you want to go) ALso, when did this 'perfect' thing happen before, or something similar? How did you know it worked out? ​ Let's say she suddenly changed and started acting ina wonderful perfect way, what would that lo…
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:36 PM
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You are assuming that you are a supernatural being who is in control of this human being. I know some humans who do this, they are locked up or taking medication. She is a human being with a life and feelings and the sooner you be sincere with her, the sooner you can live your life the way you want to, instead of forwarding toxic atitudes and emotions with this type of game you are playing. Just because stupid humans in stupid american usa movies do stupid things in relationships, it doesnt mean…
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:27 PM
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I second this but do it with style, like writing hima poem. guys dig poems.
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:17 PM
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the real hero
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:17 PM
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First: take care of your physical health, every day Second: take care of your mental health, every day Third: just understand that humans like to have fun and so the more fun you create, the better chances you have of actually finding someone who wants to have fun with you
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:16 PM
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Remember: even warren buffet has 99 bad experiences before getting 1 good yes. Open more sets. Take care of your physical health and your mental health first. When going out, if the people you are with do not want to create sincere fun with you, get the hell out of there. Waste your precious time with groups that do want to live life in a high positive way.
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:15 PM

Physical fitness and mental health must always be your priority. I highly reccomend joining a gym, a martial arts group or even seeking a good therapist.
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:14 PM
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All shapes and sizes. Really depends on the mood, the amount of hormones in the system and the quantity of psychotropic substances or alcohol.
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:13 PM
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Always focus on your physical healtha nd fitness, your mental health. That must always be your #1 priority.
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:13 PM
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Makes sense! I would suggest you get a piece of paper, or a notebook, or even open up a document on google docs or word and just write what would be the #1 best possibility for you and your partner (it can be a partner for just 1 night or a partner for 1 life) (you are the only eprosn who will see this, so be sincere and have fun. when you are writing, you do not need to be 'realistic', you only need to sincerly write exactly what you want) Also, please write donw what you DONT want, write down …
/r/seduction09/07/22 03:49 PM
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Tell us, what is your main goal?
/r/seduction09/07/22 03:18 PM
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way Makes sense! create sincere fun, show the person that you are worthwhile and *poof*, magic happens
/r/seduction09/07/22 03:17 PM
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If you want to kiss, just go for it. If you don't want the kiss, just make her feel good and treat her as your best friend. Or try to sell something, just have fun with the process.
/r/seduction09/07/22 03:16 PM
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What exactly is your main goal in life right now, just out of curiosity?
/r/seduction09/07/22 03:15 PM
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Out of curioisty, let's say the best thing happened, let's say you got a 1-night stand that went PERFECT! or you got a companion for life that is just PERFECT: How will you know? You don't have to answer here, but have a notebook somewhere where you write down EXACTLY what you want and how you will know you got it
/r/seduction09/07/22 03:06 PM
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You will always find moments of dark nights of the soul, where you want to find better ways to get things done. Keep focused, if you are going through hell, don't stop, just keep going till you get to the other side.
/r/seduction09/07/22 03:05 PM
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So remember: even warren buffet takes 99 no's before getting a nice yes, so keep opening more sets, focus on your purpose, your mission or whatever you wanna call it. Also, always focus on 1) your health and fitness 2) yout mind and psychological health and 3) your inner personal development work (reading, writing, working, art, etc) You see, by understanding that the apps are only 1 way to open more sets, it is easier to focus on yourself and the ones who are around you who actually like you an…
/r/seduction09/07/22 02:54 PM
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If the sex is happening, what woudl that change in your life? What is your #1 outcome desired goal in this situation?
/r/seduction09/07/22 12:23 PM
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Hey, how are you today? First, I would reccomend always taking care of your 'ecology', which means taking care of your health first. Your fitness, nutrition and mental health have to be on par! Second, I highly reccomend you talking about less-than-positive feelings (sadness, mourning, rage, anger) with people who are trained to talk about this, like therapists, psychologists or a group support system. ​ Third, and the most important, what exasctly are your INTENTIONS in a social interaction? Wh…
/r/seduction09/07/22 12:22 PM
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It's just a suggestion, that has helped me I wrote down in 3 pages exactly what I wanted in a 1 night stand, a week long fling and a life long relationship (in details) I also wrote down everything I loved in all my past partners, every single little crazy adventure I had and why it was so special ​ explaining myself a little bit: when you go to college and get a degree in engineering (example), you get really good in thinking about engineering and big companies will hire you and give you money …
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:37 PM
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I would reccomend not classifying a culture as a seperate type of human being, I have met 'hispanic' people who love death metal and others who are classical music fans, so there isn't one formula fits all ​ i suggest watching some videos like these ones to up your own game https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=david+snyder+attraction
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:31 PM
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i reccomend watching these videos, they helped me alot https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=david+snyder+attraction ​ on my experience, it is important for you to have fun and feel good, remember, even warren buffet hears 99 nos before he get's 1 yes so you just gotta 1) open more sets 2)create fun
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:29 PM
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First of all, do you even like clubs? Is that where your ideal partner is? Second, most people at clubs ar heavely posined by alcohol, are you willing to go down that path? Third, is there any other place you can go to meet new people who are more alligned with your principles and values?
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:28 PM
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Bear with me here for a moment... 1) Please have your intentions very clear in your head -Take a peice of paper and write down exactly what is THE BEST possibility for an interaction be it 1 night, or 1 week dating, or maybe somebody you want to marry (this is very important) -Remember and talk to yourself (or write down) all the times everything went right in an interaction (so you can remember that you can always create something wonderful) ​ last, watch a few of these videos and tell me what …
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:27 PM
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Blush could mean that you need to take a deep breath and maybe go a little slower, be a little more calmer, if somewhen feels a sudden rush of emotions, we tend to get antsy, so take it slower, take deeper breaths, focus on your outcome and your own emotional state. Remember that if they blush, it means that 1) you are attentive and paying attention and 2) you allow to calibrate your own internal emotions to create a stronger rapport
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:23 PM
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Location does matter if you are feeling comfortable and confident in the location, but then again, an adventure always is good.
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:21 PM
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Are you focusing on you personal development first? Always make that a priority before focusing on game, in the long term, there are more benefits.
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:21 PM
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Yes I do! Check out this video and if you are intrested, I can send you the reading list for one of his best courses (reading is mandatory) https://youtu.be/yGENiEjAgi4 ​ Also, you can start learning with this guy and see if it resonates (mind you, he is a professional of many areas, he is dor those who really want results).He helped me with depression and anxiety and I am very grateful for his teachings https://youtu.be/-bNxTh11JCo ​ And then, of course, you need to express yourself and have fu…
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:00 PM
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set = the context of talking to new people and creating a 'scene'. When I walk up to a group of people and introduce myself, that is 'opening a set'. In a business event, I walk up to people and join their conversation, that's opening a set also, etc etc etc
/r/seduction20/05/22 12:46 PM
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'that line you just sent me makes me want to eat a delicious bruguer with you. i'll pick you up at 17hrs, be ready'
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:49 PM
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best luck, good fellow!
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:47 PM
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CPI model, david snyder https://youtu.be/ui7h8CTSD_8
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:47 PM
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just a cute way of writing sex
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:44 PM
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Remember: people who are interested in you and want to see you, they are interested in you and want to see you. The ones who don't, don't. So... Open more sets, meet new people, always be testing, take excellent care of your physical fitness and mental health, learn how to make more money and just repeat forever. Don't waste your time with people who don't care about you. Focus on finding the person who is interested in you and create sincere fun, invite them to your adventure and of course, mak…
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:07 PM
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The video was very cool! I like people who just wanna help everyone have a good time. Derek Moneyberg impressed me with this concept also in his 10 cmdt course https://youtu.be/JoKwNUhIJlU The idea that cold approach is something out of this world is ludricous. We are just people creating experiences for each other! I liked what you said about Calibration, which is awesome, I love mike mandel's triangle (confidence, congruence, conviction and calibration) https://youtu.be/XMtiIW4Aawc Cold approa…
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:04 PM
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Wow I love these lists, been answering the questions for about 20 minute snow, thank you!
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:53 PM
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I second the motion "Ignore bad behavior, reward good behavior." u/SmellMyFingerMel Also, open more sets, meet new people, create sincere fun. Take excellent care of your physical and mental health always, focus on making more money.
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:50 PM
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Thanks for the report! Create sincere fun, invite people to your adventures and always make the seks happen.
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:49 PM
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thank you! glad you enjoyed it
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:36 PM
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I think this video may be of relevance: https://youtu.be/qvXO5fDmmS0 You may find it easier to become who you really want to be much easier than you think....
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:02 AM
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this has to be one of the top 3 answers
/r/seduction19/05/22 01:59 AM
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I guess one of the consequences is some people will be left behind in your life because they do not want to come with you on the journey of self discovery, evolution, self improvement, etc. You end up quitting having conversations and stop hanging out with people who say 'I hate reading, i dont like going to the gym, i eat everything i want, let's get hammered on alcohol!,' etc Some friends, family and even people who you 'fall in love' with will have to be sent-off to have their life with other…
/r/seduction19/05/22 01:58 AM
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Everything starts with a dream https://youtu.be/qvXO5fDmmS0
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:44 PM
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the thing is you can't get strong with 1 repetition in the gym per day. same thing with social strengthening
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:33 PM
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meet more people , open more sets, go out on more dates, find other people who better match your financial needs (or just make more money)
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:31 PM
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What is your main goal?
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:30 PM
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text just to create physical real life experiences. use it only for logistics. always be opening more sets and meeting new people
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:30 PM
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you do need to make money, that's for sure. not for her but for yourself.
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:28 PM
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i would bump that up to 10. it's quite easy to say hello to 10, maybe 1 of them will start a conversation and go from there
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:27 PM
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try it, have fun, be polite and cordial, be respectful! ask them to do something like 'let's help each other study!' and then actually study with them, i guess that's what they are doing at the library (they mus have important things to do). Remember: augment the life experience by creating sincere honest respectful fun for those who you find important!
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:26 PM
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Just continue to have sincere fun, continue to offer true value, continue being your best selves, being honest, open, truthful. Communication is key. If you feel good, continue! If not, than communicate, resolve and move on or go into a different direction! Please read the way of the superior man, please!
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:44 PM
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Be straightforward. You are the person responsible for being truthful, honest, open and sincere. The best way to talk about this is by talking about it.
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:42 PM
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Anything is possible if you believe and are willing to put in the effort! Remember: this is your life, your goals, your beliefs, your success (not hers)
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:39 PM
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I would open more sets, meet new people, make more friends, before that
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:18 PM
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Perfect, remember: you have the responsibility to find something that you do like and stick with that! Your are the one who is going to take a deep breath, decide your outcome and take action! Have fun!
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:04 PM
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Have fun, don't take yourself so seriously. Life is but a dream, make it the best you can.
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:29 PM
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Consider it a gift from God, taking out of your path people who will not make your life better. When someone goes, let them go and bless them.
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:28 PM
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Excellent!
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:27 PM
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Ok so try this one for a spin, I'm gonna be your harry potter - wand selector but with books The 6 pillars of self esteem - natanael brandon ​ Read the first chapters and tell me your thoughts
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:41 PM
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ask her out, if she says no, move one, open more sets, meet new people, make new friends, take excellent care of your physical and mental health. Suggested reading: "No excuses - brian tracy'
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:40 PM
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I would recommend renting an airbnb for 1 or 2 days and reading. Like a lot. Just eating, sleeping, reading. Reading gives you a kind of modern day super power called 'pattern recognition' which will allow you to make better choices and avoid troublesome people. Are there any topics you specifically want to work on? I'll give you some recommendations.
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:34 PM
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REMEMBER: You are not a therapist NOR a scapegoat/ cats paw for people to dump their negative experiences on. I highly reccomend you read 'The way of the superior man'. Also, talk to more people, open more sets, make new friends, ask people out to lunch with you or to the park or to just have a walk. Just like warren buffet says 'You gotta get the 99 no's before the yes'
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:14 PM
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REMEMBER: Our R.A.S. (reticular activating system) makes us only focus on what benefits us in the moment according to our intention. Since you have expressed interest in this person, I can say that you are giving us your version of the story with only the facts that lean toward your desired outcome (confirmation bias). Out of curiosity, what is the highest and best possibility for you two? Let's pretend that everything went perfectly, how will you know? What are the benefits for this working? Al…
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:13 PM
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I would recommend you learn how to tell wonderful stories in your own native language, it might not matter if you know how to speak the language or not, but if you can create sincere fun with the person you are interested ​ I would also suggest learning the classic 'hello, nice to meet you, my name is XYZ,i am from ABC, how are you? and maybe a variation of 'do you want to chat a little bit? would you like to walk with me? can you show me around?'
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:00 PM
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Anyone of these videos can be useful: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=david+snyder+attraction
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:17 AM
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-Start doing a sport or martial arts in your neighbourhood (if you have no money to do so, than go do some free classes and make friends if you can) -Start going to church (seriously) if you don't like the church, you can just leave -Start going to free events in your neighbourhood (check out facebook or some other website that hosts free events)
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:17 AM
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Let's say you approach and it goes perfectly, how will you know? ​ What have been some excellent approaches you have done before? ​ What are the benefits of going to sleep at night knowing you did an excellent approach?
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:15 AM
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you can always get better. start here and see where it goes from there: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=david+snyder+attraction
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:43 PM
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People who are interested in meeting you, are interested in meeting you. They will go out of their way to meet you. Like drug addicts, they will do everything possible to get their fix, that is what you want (in a more romantic and beautiful healthy way) When they are not, they do everything possible to not meet you. So, open more sets, meet more people, make more friends, ask more people out, have sincere fun. make your physical health and mental health your priority, capitalize your gains in m…
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:42 PM
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Were there any drugs involved? Things get kinda weird with drugs, especially when talking about these things. I found that my biggest insecurities came out with drugs, which made it easier for me to fix them by doing therapy, reading books or studying courses (or changing habits, etc) If pickup and all those things are a sensitive topic, it is best to just spark up conversastions and make yourself feel good, tell some stories, have some fun. If things happen, they happen.
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:39 PM
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This video really helped me https://youtu.be/yGENiEjAgi4 his 10 commandements course was golden for me (you can still find it if you search ) ​ Maybe if you cut ties with her, you will free mental space to find other people. Remember: your brain is a computer, if you fill up your RAM with crap, you will constantly get sub-par results. Sometime she is not as high-performing as you and she is dragging you down. Than again if you have high-quality people around you, it's a good chance you might end…
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:23 PM
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Approach alone. Than call them to have fun with you and your friends. Or just use the 3 magic questions, find out if they are compatible and get out of the club in 80 minutes or less and 'make the sex happen' if that is your goal. Video for reference: https://youtu.be/_WpG4j-o9L0 Also '10 commandments of game' from rsd derek moneyberg ​ https://youtu.be/yGENiEjAgi4 ​ tell me if they ressonate with you! thank you
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:21 PM
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makes sense!
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:18 PM
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As long as you are 1) Taking EXCELLENT care of your physical health (nutrition, physical activity) 2) Taking EXCELLENT care of your mental health (meditation, yoga, therapy) 3) Taking EXCELLENT care of your money-making skills (investing, studying, working) ​ than I guess it's ok. Than again, if you open more sets, make new friends, ask more people to go out, I guess you could find someone better and just move on. ​ Also, stop calling the person your 'ex'. It doesn't help anybody. The person is …
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:18 PM
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Get the number or the social media account and ask them out. A coffee, a walk in the park, or just going to get groceries together. Invite people to do stuff with you. people on social media and using apps who are interested in meeting people NORMALLY they accept your offer. If they don't want to meet you in person, MOVE ON. open more sets, make new friends, meet new people. focus on your physical and mental health always.
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:16 PM
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While texting, it is always different, Using apps and social media to find people should be only to create face-to-face interactions. Get people to see you effective immediately, be it a walk in the park, a coffee, get some hot dogs, whatever. People who want to meet people, they always want to meet people. Read that again. So if you find someone and they want to meet people, if you tell them to meet you, they will want to meet you. That is because they actually want to meet people. That is what…
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:14 PM
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Yes, always approach immediatly. You will either get a good response or no response. open more sets, meet more people always, create sincere and honest fun
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:08 PM
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watch this and tell me if it helped! https://youtu.be/_WpG4j-o9L0
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:08 PM
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always be testing, use the 3 magic questions. https://youtu.be/_WpG4j-o9L0
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:07 PM

Cold approach is essential for dating, sales and everything else really. Just go to 1 music festival, you will learn cold approach
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:06 PM
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ORGASM BAZOOKA https://youtu.be/wVddQCATGPs ​ But seriously, having a profound conversation is exciting! ​ Also this: https://youtu.be/7p9wYVXLbTY have fun!
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:58 PM
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meet more people, open more sets, make more friends, focus on your self and your physical health.
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:42 PM
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Please focus on you and your health first. Your physical health, your mental health and your own goals and dreams must always come first. I highly reccomend you reading The Way of the Superior man, not everything there is mandatory but there are a few golden nuggets that changed my life forever! Remember, people in general are like waves, we have tides and we sway depending on the mood of the day. So learn how to surf the waves and have fun with the process! ​ you will never have a relationship …
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:41 PM
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PLEAASE READ 'THE WAY OF THE SUPERIOR MAN' ASAP. THIS IS NOT A JOKE. You need to be CENTERED. ​ Also meditation (or going to the gym) or just do 30 min of any training before that. You need to be focused and alligned with yourself. ​ FOCUS ON YOURSELF. REPEAT. FOCUS ON YOURSELF.
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:37 PM
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You just gotta open more, make more friends, talk to more people.
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:36 PM
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I would advise you to join a gym and just focus on your body health. Also therapy.
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:36 PM
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Open more sets, talk to more people, always be testing. Check this out https://youtu.be/rrNpl88T_7M
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:35 PM
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Yes. 2 book reccomendations: Why women have sex (cindy meston phd) Sex at dawn (christopher ryan)
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:33 PM
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Remember, atitudes are worth more than words. Texts are cool and very practical, but remember, if your sole interest in a person is to have the sex, you must be willing to use texting only for logistical purposes. Leave day to day texting to your friends and family, or just write in your journal and skip social media all together. ​ Take care of yourself, your physical health and your mental health. Also, open more sets, talk to more people, go out on more dates. Even warren buffet says you need…
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:32 PM
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Out of curiosity, what exactly do you want? What is your goal?
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:41 PM
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Drink a cup of coffee, eat some chocolate, take out a new 200 page notebook and some pens, and spend 48 hours writing about exactly what you DO want in your life (it is forbidden to use negatives, ex: instead of 'i dont want this', you have to write 'i DO want this and that') Focus on yourself, on your way of living, on your wants likes and needs, focus on your physical health, your mental health and of course, your business and money making skills watch this (you don't have to buy it, just unde…
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:40 PM
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Derek Moneyberg https://youtu.be/WI01iC0lZFY David Snyder https://youtu.be/ZaUw0_d_lj0 Mark Cunnigham https://youtu.be/MsUhJJU8W88 tell me what you think!
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:38 PM
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Say hi, ask how they are. If they stop and talk to you, continue. If not, just go on with your day. you are probably gonna get ignored 99 times (and this is perfectly ok) and suddenly, you will spark a deep conversation with 1 and have a wonderful time together. Focus on your health and fitness, your emotional health, your money making skills and talk to more people.
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:37 PM
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Read the Way of the superior man. It's a blessed book. People are different every single day. What matters is ACTIONS! If somebody is confusing you, LEAVE. They are probably going to continue to be confusing forever. Open more sets. Make more friends, talk to more people. Focus on yourself, your health and fitness, focus on your emotional health and your money making skills, this will automatically make people need to be around you. Learn how to filter in people who value your life, your time an…
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:35 PM
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It is a life long process! Congrats for understanding the importance of focusing on what YOU want and what YOU need in your life! Your future self is jumping up and down with glee and happiness! I have done the process 3 times already and each time, you give better answeres. HAVE FUN!
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:33 PM
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always be testing, open more sets, focus on your health, fitness and emotional health, and money making skills
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:32 PM
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Focus on yourself in this moment. I do not think she is in a very healthy mindset to be able to fully enjoy all you have to offer. Look for people who aren't going through emotional sh*t (they need therapy, not more men). Focus on your health&fitness, your emotional health, your intelectual health and money making abilities. And also, meet more people, talk to more people, just say hi and see where it goes. Open more sets. Make more friends. Have fun!
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:31 PM
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Focus on your health, your fitness, your emotional health, your intelectual health, your money making skills, your charrecter, than focus on her.
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:29 PM
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I will give you my honest oppinion: I know that texting is cool and all but remember, people have emotions and are volatile beings. We have a lot of happy hormones at some times during the day and a lot of stress in another. It is better to chat with people in person. Also, some people have crazy mental details (not to say mental illnesses) so they will talk to you one way one day, and another way at another day. Not to mention people who drink caffeine and get irritated after the caffeine wears…
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:28 PM
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Perfect! That is a start! If you can, buy a chocolate bar and drink some coffee, get a 200page notebook and write for 2 days straight on exactly what you want in this area of your life! ​ And if I may give my 2 cents, remember: you have many areas of your life to take care of first, before giving priority to other people in your life. ​ Health&Fitness, Your emotional life, your intelectual life, your spiritual life, your character and then, only then do you talk about love relationships. Check o…
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:17 PM
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Open more sets! Talk to more people! Use the 3 magic questions! This video explains it in detail: https://youtu.be/Hy6stznv2Qs
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:04 PM
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Open more sets! ​ By constantly thinking about why something went wrong, you focus on the wrong part of dating, which is you and your ability to be yourself and create fantastic experiences for people! ​ Remember, you don't have time to be thinking about that. Talk to more people, make more connections! ​ Some video material to help you out: https://www.youtube.com/c/WomenofImpact/videos ​ https://youtu.be/Hy6stznv2Qs ​ thank you!
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:04 PM
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Hey, thanks for your post! ​ Out of curiosity, if you were to write down on a few pieces of paper exactly what you want in a person for 1 night stand, for 1 week dating, for 1 month dating or a marriage (or something like that), what would you write down? If the universe, god, or the higher power that you may believe in appeared out of nowhere and said 'I will grant you exactly what you wish for', in detail, what would you wish in this area? Check out these videos and tell me if they resonate wi…
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:02 PM
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