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I'm not saying women have it worse than men. Just that my life is in no way comfy and really, men and women have it equally bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 08:39 PM
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That last second is oppression olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 08:32 PM
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So you really think that if we tell women not to drink then rape goes away?
/r/MensRights27/12/20 08:25 PM
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Fine. You win the oppression olympics. Does that push the little switch in your brain that says "I'm happy now"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 08:20 PM
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You're telling them not to drink. I wasn't raped, but I woke up in my own bed to a guy from the party trying to kiss me and spooning me. I refuse to take full responsibility for that because he didn't do what he did because I was drunk. He did it to feel power over me. He knew I wasn't able to do anything because I was asleep. I don't think it's helpful to tell people not to drink because it's not getting drunk that causes the rape. Men and women often are raped while sober. Often by people they…
/r/MensRights27/12/20 08:09 PM
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Then your statement that women are more comfortable accepting help from the government and receive government assistance more easily is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 08:02 PM
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The standard high-school guy didn't talk to anyone for 5 years? I call bullshit. I have no friends waiting for me. Not talking fucked me up so much that even my speech is affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 08:00 PM
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I'm asking you what gives you the right to tell rape victims what to do?
/r/MensRights27/12/20 07:59 PM
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Have you ever been raped? Do you even know how hard it is to even talk about it?
/r/MensRights27/12/20 07:34 PM
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No. Rape is not sex. Sex is consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 07:13 PM
3

How many women use that exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 07:12 PM
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Some of them believe rape is just regretted sex with an ugly guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 07:08 PM
1

What government assistance?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 07:08 PM
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No, not disproportionally so. Just because you do it doesn't mean most women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 07:05 PM
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Nope. Only the men are innocent until proven guilty.
/r/MensRights27/12/20 07:05 PM
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Eggs are expensive because there is less of them. Sperm is less finite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:59 PM
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Resources mean jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:58 PM
3

Hahahaha. No. I am a woman and I have trouble with general life skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:56 PM
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That is false. Men are not more likely to commit suicide, but they do use more lethal methods (hanging, gunshot to the head),
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:55 PM
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My experiences with anxiety and depression are not in any way cozy. For one, when I was in eighth grade, having suicidal thoughts, and feeling so downtrodden that for months I couldn't even talk to my parents my father showed me no sympathy but said that if I wouldn't stop being depressed he'd give me something to be depressed about. And it wasn't about a guy. It was about how the closest friend I ever had left me for new friends. My parents try to be supportive, but whenever I tell them I am fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:47 PM
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But how do you know for a fact they are false? This post gives off the impression that high school girls actually did falsely accuse a number of boys. It did not specify that you were listening to the anxieties.
/r/MensRights27/12/20 05:35 AM
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This sub likes to say yes to preserve an image of diversity. But then some users will and do discriminate against you. I'm just warning you.
/r/MensRights27/12/20 05:35 AM
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So if you're treating autism and other mental disorders where do the "false rape accusations" (which would better be described as "unfounded", they have not been proven false nor have they been proven true) fit in?
/r/MensRights27/12/20 05:31 AM
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Okay but you say in your post you've only gotten a Bachelors in Science and in order to be a therapist you have to have a master's degree. How are you already getting clients?
/r/MensRights27/12/20 05:19 AM
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The women who do say that are only like 5% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:11 AM
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Honestly when I don't want to date/have sex with a guy I don't hate him. I just don't like him in that way. I will have casual conversations and joke with him. But I just don't want his body on my body. And I expect him to take no for an answer if he still wants to stay in touch. I only hate men when they don't take no for an answer. When they repeatedly poke me over and over and over and over again to get my attention no matter how many times I tell them "stop". Or when I try to break up with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 03:47 AM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 11:58 PM
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That's a statistic that you never cited.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 08:20 PM
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A psychological process that doesn't happen in every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 08:19 PM
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Why do most women have to be attracted to virgins? You only need to find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 08:10 PM
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No way. No how.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 08:04 PM
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It's your personal opinion. That's what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 08:00 PM
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It's not on me to change your view. You change my view.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:59 PM
1

Would it be better if I added a NSFW tag?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:59 PM
1

That again? Incel is not an insult towards your virginity, it's an insult towards your sexual frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:58 PM
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I get asked out about once a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:56 PM
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How can I not have been fucked properly if I'm a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:55 PM
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Virgin doesn't mean not confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:52 PM
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Literally no woman thinks that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:50 PM
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When you start with "I believe" I disregard what you say right there. You don't have a point. You just have a personal opinion that isn't supported by facts at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:48 PM
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It's something a lot of people on this sub don't know about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:43 PM
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Low N women want people like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:38 PM
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A peer-reviewed study. Not an editorial piece.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:38 PM
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No. We just want someone like us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:37 PM
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Cite a damn study.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:36 PM
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No. Cite studies that high value women like high N men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:35 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:35 PM
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Higher value men are low N men that aren't sexually frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:33 PM
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Inherent biological processes are eating food and drinking water. You saw one or two "high value" women sleep with high N men and thus you think all "high value" women are like that. You formed a personal opinion. My mind will not be changed by personal opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:33 PM
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You can't play the science card if you don't cite how it's true. Anecdotes mean nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:30 PM
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And your proof of that is???!?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:28 PM
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The only reason a man should want a low N woman is that he is low N himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:18 PM
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Well let me tell you as a 0N asexual woman if I ever will have sex it will be with a 0N man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:16 PM
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So become high N so you can avoid high N? That sounds hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 05:40 PM
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People are just salty they haven't had sex yet. That's all it comes down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 04:56 PM
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Like attracts like. If you are a 0N male you will attract a 0N female. Just be aware that if you are holding out for a virgin, you might have to deal with issues like vaginismus. She might be religious and expect you to be religious as well. She may have had trauma at a young age and you will have to support her as she works through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 04:54 PM
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Ain't no one settling for me. I'm 0N.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 04:50 PM
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I think I just threw up in my mouth a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 04:38 PM
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How can you recognize men with high N counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 04:00 PM
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Family with a beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 05:48 AM
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Well most of the men I've dated have been total pieces of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 09:56 PM
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Yeah, because only men on the internet know what women want. Those basement dwellers know me better than I know me!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 03:40 PM
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They can give you advice on how to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 03:38 PM
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Helping them move, fix things, and listening to problems is a friend thing not a girlfriend thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 03:29 PM
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Higher reward doesn’t mean easy. Higher compensation just means that on the rare chance an outcome is good it is GOOD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 06:51 AM
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Have you heard the phrase ”what you fear, you create”?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 06:40 AM
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I have not met a single guy who brought up their ex that wasn’t a total piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 07:41 PM
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The only thing I compare is how much of a jerk they were. And that is just called ”using your brain to see the red flags so you don’t get hurt again”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 07:40 PM
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Incel fanfiction? Where is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:27 PM
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I’d thought I’d troll the troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:26 PM
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No, OF is just another more convenient (for the seller) form of prostitution. Men paying women for sexual activities is even older than feudalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:14 PM
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Truth be told, never understood that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:12 PM
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It’s a minor. Literally no company gives a fuck about what a person minored in, unless it’s Spanish or other foreign languages. She has a major in business which will get her somewhere. She can take a minor in gender studies if she fucking wants, because it will have zero effect on her future.
/r/MensRights21/12/20 04:35 PM
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Well maybe people should explain better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 06:25 AM
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What does me being asexual have to do with this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 06:02 AM
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Why is that not the same for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:58 AM
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Most of the women I know (college aged 20-29) are either doing occasional casual hookups or are in an LTR with one guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 04:53 AM
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This reads like you took all of the incel talking points and put them in one paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 04:48 AM
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I find it funny that they fault women for having lots of sex, but not men. It takes two to tango, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 04:47 AM
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I think the ”all women are trash” joke is actually related to how radical feminists say ”all men are trash”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 04:45 AM
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Bruh it isn't purge week yet
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 08:55 PM
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Running everything in the world must be exhausting, physically and mentally. That's why they commit suicide.
/r/MensRights20/12/20 08:40 PM
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Shit talking an object (alcohol) is different from shit talking a group of people (women)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 08:35 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 07:35 PM
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No, I hate MGTOW because the original subreddit is full of men talking about how female nature is to lie and cheat. They are incels with a different name.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 06:53 PM
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Who the hell has 100 sexual partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 06:48 PM
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That's fine. Just don't be assuming women are sluts just because they had sex with one guy in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 06:47 PM
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No it's not going to be the case. You're letting your insecurities inform your perceptions of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 06:41 PM
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Oh so just because a girl loses her virginity when she's young she's obviously a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 06:32 PM
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I am not a liberal woman. But if you yourself are worried I may call it methodologically invalid or claim replication crisis, perhaps you know it isn't a good source.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 06:29 PM
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Lost their virginity doesn't mean the n count is over 5
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 06:18 PM
2

Oh really? How about you link that study?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 06:16 PM
0

Oh, I'm sorry. I am not good at reading sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 05:56 PM
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Yeah all of those places are misogynist shitholes. I'm not surprised they place arbitrary value on a woman's virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 05:53 PM
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Attractive, rich, and fit does not please a woman during sex. Foreplay and listening to what she likes does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 05:51 PM
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I'll say it again. I don't live there, don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 05:49 PM
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Yeah, and those sections of the planet I don't give a fuck about because I don't live there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 05:45 PM
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Hi, virgin woman here. If you want me, you gotta accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and personal savior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 05:43 PM
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"and completely blow away her expectations" Which let's be honest, most of the guys on this sub could never do. A lot of them care more about their pleasure then her pleasure and probably don't even know what foreplay is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 05:40 PM
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You know that the hymen breaking is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 05:37 PM
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My side of the story is that I am a quiet girl with zero self esteem. Aka a perfect target for assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 07:25 AM
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It's true. I'm a HSP with GAD, OCD, and ADHD who is never attractive or interesting enough for men to LDR.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 07:23 AM
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I am a low value woman. Every guy I've been with expects sex and when they find out they aren't going to get that they leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 07:21 AM
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I said most not all you doofus
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 03:47 AM
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To prove a point that onlyfans doesn't mean women are privileged
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 12:49 AM
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Other problems like what? Making money? If you have a car and money for gas you can make as much money as most women make with onlyfans by being a Doordasher.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 10:20 PM
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So free to make an account means women want validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 09:44 PM
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How do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 09:31 PM
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That's not true. Most women are considered fuckable by men (which really is more of an insult, considering that men will fuck anything), but aren't necessarily considered attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 09:30 PM
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Because people were telling me my title was misleading and to repost it with a new title
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 09:29 PM
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What's keeping you from selling ass pics to horny gay men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 09:25 PM
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What privilege? The ability to be seen as something to have sex with? By that definition, a body pillow is privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:51 PM
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You did that for your own pleasure, not for money. That is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:46 PM
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You a man also have that privilege. You are refusing to cater to the niche market of gay men just as I refuse to cater to the niche market of fetishism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:39 PM
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Ew. I am never going to try that. I am never going to sell my body for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:37 PM
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Is it economically feasible for most women to sell their bodies? Are most women making a living? Why don't you answer that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:32 PM
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You can't force women as a whole to be grateful for the "privilege" to cater to ugly men with fetishes either. Both men with fetishes and gay men are a niche market.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:31 PM
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Most women actually don't make that much money on onlyfans. Most cannot make a living. And sure you can hit me with the fetish for all body types bullshit but that's expecting women to pander to a small niche market while at the same time saying you can't do that because selling nudes to gay guys is a small niche market.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:29 PM
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No, the real reason is they don't want to sell their bodies to people who aren't women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:26 PM
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I do. I think people are making excuses why they can't when the real reason is they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:21 PM
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If it's so easy, then do it. What do you have to lose?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:20 PM
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No, you have the option. You just don’t want to do it. It’s okay to not want to degrade your body for money, but just admit it's because you don't want to not that you can't
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:19 PM
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Just admit that you can degrade your body for pay, you just don’t want to. It’s okay if you don’t want to. Just admit that you don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:17 PM
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How do you know how many men are straight and how many men are gay? You’re just making excuses as to why men can’t do only fans so you can keep saying MeN hAve It WoRSE.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:14 PM
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I don’t know. You tell me how many male prostitutes there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:12 PM
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It is not not more accessible. You have a dick, a camera, and internet, don’t you? You’re just making excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:08 PM
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Yeah it is. You have a dick, a phone camera, and access to the internet. Don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:06 PM
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No, but you can sell your dick pics to horny gay men. Not our fault us women are born with tits and ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:04 PM
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Men still have that option. They just choose not to participate in it. There’s absolutely nothing stopping a man from making money off his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:02 PM
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Because you put ”you”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:47 PM
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A convincing enough argument would.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:46 PM
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What do you want me to do about that? Edit it? I can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:46 PM
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I am not a modernthot. I am not a thot at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:43 PM
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Because women don’t buy or watch porn as much as both homosexual and heterosexual men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:42 PM
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I’m here to change other people’s minds and see if they can come up with a convincing enough argument to change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:39 PM
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Not interacting with ugly men. The idea of selling my body is what is repulsive to me. Don’t make my post to be about your insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:36 PM
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Is that really what most men think or is that just what you think
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:31 PM
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And a lot of men could make money off selling dick pics to horny gay guys, but they don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:22 PM
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I’ve met some good men while online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:22 PM
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I just don’t want random men to jerk off to my feet. It feels gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:17 PM
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I’m saying that not every woman wants to degrade themselves for money, whether it is onlyfans, selling nudes, or straight up prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:13 PM
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I was asked for feet pics by old men on Reddit and Hinge. Never had an only fans and never will. All I ever did was show my face (on Reddit) and say I like Disneyland (on Hinge).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:09 PM
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No, I was asked that on fucking Hinge. Just because I said I like going to Disneyland. Changed my bio and age preferences fucking quick after.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:06 PM
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You do realize that men also make a choice to have sex.
/r/MensRights18/12/20 07:06 PM
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Yeah, but one guy with a fetish unless that guy is a millionaire is not going to make her that much money. If onlyfans is so easy, then you should do it. I bet there's men who like dick out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 06:44 PM
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Why don't you do it if it is that easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 06:43 PM
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Does the "if you don't want kids don't fuck" also apply to men?
/r/MensRights18/12/20 05:30 PM
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I would never participate in abortion, because I think it is evil. But it is a necessary evil. It needs to be legalized. Making it illegal wouldn’t stop women from getting abortions, it would only lead women to try to achieve the same result in more dangerous ways such as poison and throwing themselves down the stairs. I’ll put it this way. Guns are used to kill people, and a lot of people suggest guns be banned entirely but banning guns won’t stop school shootings or homicides. To really stop p…
/r/MensRights18/12/20 06:45 AM
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Exactly. My first boyfriend was a simp. He bought me things and I always told him to stop buying me things but he wouldn't stop. And then he got mad at me for not immediately wanting to jump on his dick after he bought me things. And this was high school. I was 14 and he was 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 06:35 AM
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I think that if you are giving away your money to women who don't give a fuck about you, that is no one's fault but your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 06:33 AM
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To be fair, as a rich white women she probably has to deal more with the trumps ceos and Epsteins more than anyone on Reddit ever has.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 03:53 AM
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Well have you considered that the kind of men Marina is around ARE rich and powerful?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 12:09 AM
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We benefit in some ways, as do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 12:09 AM
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Yeah no shit. Also a man's world isn't "a world with men men in it" it means a world where men are in charge and benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 11:30 PM
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So you think women are less intelligent than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 11:11 PM
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By that logic are boy bands predatory towards teenage girls?
/r/MensRights17/12/20 10:49 PM
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So feminist=woman and MRA=man?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:34 PM
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The world around us is also built by women. Without women, your car would not have windshield wipers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:34 PM
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That is untrue. I have been told to bottle my emotions up. I've been fired for crying. I've been called out for not being pleasant enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:32 PM
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Why don’t you ask the people in power (lobbyists, congressmen, and presidents) that and not the people who have no power over that? I am just a middle class person. Not a congressman or president or even a lobbyist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:22 PM
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Women are actually twice as likely as men to be diagnosed with depression. And there hasn’t actually been a draft since the 1970s so stop acting like you’re as oppressed as a Vietnam War veteran. That is, unless you are a Vietnam War veteran.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:20 PM
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True. And men don’t understand what it is like to be a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:12 PM
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Just because men are oppressed doesn't mean women are privileged. Men and women are both oppressed, in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:11 PM
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I consider a fetus alive when it has a beating heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 07:49 PM
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Talking openly about how uncomfortable some men make us is not autistic screeching. You can do it too. Talk about how uncomfortable some women make you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 07:26 PM
2

Yes, and your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 07:24 PM
3

They never said OP's criticism is invalid, just that feminism has no leader. I feel you are deliberately misunderstanding their point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 07:23 PM
1

Feminism as a whole hasn't, but several feminists have made it harder for men. Some feminists believe men can't be raped and others think men should be erased from the human race. It deals with men's rights rather poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 07:22 PM
5

All I agree with is that feminism has no leader. I don't agree that feminism can't be damaging and looking back at rosmaskinen's comment I don't know where you saw them say that. They never said feminism can't be damaging just that it is not a freemason's society and that feminist spaces often have disagreements. Feminism is not perfect, but it supported me when no one else would. And for that reason I am loyal to it. I love what it has done for me and other women. I don't love what several femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 07:15 PM
7

For me it provides a safe space to talk about how I feel. Before feminism, women were scared to speak out about rape, especially maritial rape. We were scared to talk about periods. We were scared to talk about domestic violence. We were scared to talk about sexual harassment. Feminism gives women a voice. Without feminism I probably would have to keep my experiences with men (numerous instances of sexual assault) to myself. I would've internalized everything. One day I woke up to a guy in my be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 07:02 PM
6

You believe what you want to believe. I won't ever participate in abortions but the alternative to legalizing abortions is back alley abortions that kill women and women using desperate means (poison, throwing themselves down stairs) to induce abortions. Banning abortions will not stop people from aborting, it will just lead people to try to get abortions in more dangerous ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 06:55 PM
7

child: a young human being below the age of puberty or below the legal age of majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 06:49 PM
8

I won't be swayed by the "what about the children" argument. A fetus is not a child or a person. That's like saying an egg is a chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 06:45 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:24 PM
6

If people get joy and entertainment from watching abuse or non consensual sex, then they have other problems to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:21 PM
11

As a Christian woman, I think of sexual liberation the same way I regard abortion-a necessary evil. I don't participate in hookup culture and I will never get an abortion because I think both of those things are sin. But I will still advocate for them to be legal/socially acceptable, as having it be illegal/forcing all unmarried women to be sexless puritans would be worse. It's all about choice. When you give someone freedom of choice there is a chance they will make a bad choice, but the abilit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:11 PM
15

Exactly! Feminism has no leaders. Feminists don't follow one leader like political parties two. Each of us follows our own rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:06 PM
2

Well my first question would be why did he keep those pictures? People don't usually keep pictures of them with their ex up on social media after they break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:20 AM
3

Are you asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 09:38 PM
5

Do you, a man in his 40s, speak for young women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 08:57 PM
13

"I was not making an argument that all youth should be given puberty blockers. This was not an actual proposal, and it is not something I advocate or endorse," Jones said. Read the article.
/r/MensRights16/12/20 08:32 PM
11

Some asexual people do actually have sex. Asexuality is a spectrum. Some of us never felt sexual attraction. Some of us have felt sexual attraction but don't want sex. Some of us are repulsed by sex. Some of us are indifferent. I call myself asexual because sex doesn't really appeal to me, but I still want kids and know sex is a means to get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:58 PM
1

It's called sarcasm. Try it sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:49 PM
6

Are you really comparing women to Nazis?
/r/MensRights16/12/20 07:39 PM
11

Only after marriage will I "put out".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:36 PM
9

Then why am I going on a date with a religious man today?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:32 PM
19

Because insulting a woman's weight has become taboo but insulting a man's height is still acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:02 PM
12

I'd never date an redpiller in the first place anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:53 PM
10

No. That is an insult to young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:30 PM
11

If ya'll want a virgin, just be aware she might want to wait until later. Months at the least and until marriage at the most. You probably want a virgin girl who only won't wait for you. But I assure you, this girl does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:25 PM
8

And women should seek validation from God instead of men. I'm glad you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:06 PM
3

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:03 PM
11

Until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:40 PM
3

God in his true form can't. He lives through us to stop things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:39 PM
8

He is both. Everything that's bad results from Eve and Adam eating the fruit from the tree of knowledge of good and evil. He can't interfere in that, because it would mess with our free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:30 PM
20

I wouldn't even consider you as a prospect. I've seen your post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:28 PM
2

Please do. I hate how much virgins are fetishized here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:26 PM
17

God isn't a genie.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:25 PM
8

20.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:22 PM
3

You should put that in your Tinder bio. I bet you'd get allll the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:19 PM
41

As the kind of virgin you describe, I'm a virgin for religious reasons and I want a guy who is religious so most of you probably don't have a chance with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:18 PM
1

He asked her out, several times, which could've come off as aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:15 PM
-2

They didn't make fun of you for being a sexual assault victim. You told your story about being sexually assaulted by your mother and they expressed sympathy.
/r/MensRights16/12/20 05:10 PM
10

Let me just say this straight up. You are not going to find a girl who is a virgin and yet will have sex with you on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:46 AM
3

When has a man been kicked out of university just for asking a woman out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 12:00 AM
1

How much taxes do YOU pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 11:57 PM
1

Being called a rapist or molester falls under that umbrella of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 11:40 PM
1

Suicide does not cause aging and neither do work accidents. I understand homelessness can cause age, but that is also because a lot of homeless people are addicted to drugs and drugs age you. And for the love of God as a woman I have to pay taxes too. I pay taxes, and bills, and student debt and it stresses me tf out but I don't think you can link that to old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 11:36 PM
0

I'm obviously talking about when people use that when referring to sexual harassment (for instance snapping bra straps) and rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 09:15 PM
1

Well it's not our fault our bellies swell after giving birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 09:03 PM
3

I don't mind when men are vulnerable with me. I like people. What I like most about people though is learning what made them the way they are. What their story is. What has hurt them along the way. It makes me feel less alone in my vulnerabilities and insecurities. Before someone is vulnerable I am intimidated. I feel like they are just a collection of traits and not a person. It is your story, your interests, your passions that make you a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 08:50 PM
2

Well as long as men are the ones pursuing we have no reason to take the initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 07:57 PM
5

The expression isn't "negative masculinity" it is "toxic masculinity". I can't answer your answer on what constitutes as positive masculinity because positive is not the opposite of toxic. The opposite of toxic would be non toxic. And as for "non toxic masculinity" that is basically any time it is used to NOT hurt others. So in conclusion, do all the manly shit you want. If you hate crying don't cry. If you like lifting weights, hunting, drinking beer, you do you! If you like being sexually forw…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 07:50 PM
3

I think toxic masculinity is using masculinity as an excuse to do horrible things. E.g. "boys will be boys" or "I'm a man, I can't help it"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 07:34 PM
10

No, these people can get therapy and develop coping mechanisms for what is clearly GAD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 07:16 PM
13

Yeah. Men in general cause anxiety when I am around them, but I know that is due to the fact I am naturally neurotic and highly sensitive and have just happened to have a few bad experiences. I don't blame men for making me uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 07:11 PM
10

Us women feel restrained from expressing interest because we are worried about what men will think too. We are as afraid of rejection as you. We try to convey our attraction through hints because a lot of us are too scared to say "I like you." outright for fear of looking too forward or sexually aggressive. We've also grown so accustomed to men being the pursuers that we simply don't need to initiate. We've been told by our old fashioned parents and relatives and the media to wait for them to as…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 07:09 PM
2

I am 20. I dated irl once when I was 14 at once when I was 16. Dating does not have to involve sex. It all just involves going on dates, hence the name. I online dated when I was 17 and at a pretty low point of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 05:35 PM
1

I've dated 2 guys irl and 3 guys online (that was a low point of my life).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 05:31 PM
2

I actually am a virgin. I've slept with 0 dudes. But nice projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 05:29 PM
2

No. I have been asked out by "nice guys". But I reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 05:15 PM
3

I actually have. Doubt all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 05:14 PM
3

Yeah. Because you aren't a girl. There is not one girl I know who hasn't encountered that one guy who was nice only because he thought it would get him in her pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 05:10 PM
3

No. Being nice is not the bad thing. Now the situation I'm talking about is you ask her out, she says no, and you say "But I was so nice to you. Surely you want nice guys." OR you want sex, she says no, and you say "But I was so nice to you. Surely you want nice guys."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 05:09 PM
4

"Too nice" isn't about actually being nice. When us girls talk about "too nice" we are talking about the men who do nice things only because they think it will get them laid. These men get violently upset when we don't immediately have sex with them, and that's why we don't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 04:29 PM
-2

The thing is, unfounded cases aren't always made-up cases. They are cases where the woman had a rape kit done but the detectives haven't gotten to them yet because there are far too many of them. Or cases that are really, really hard to prove. Rape in itself is really, really hard to prove. In September I woke up to a friend of a friend kissing and cuddling me after my roommates threw a party. I'm sure he didn't rape me, but if he did I would have no proof. I would have no testimony because I wa…
/r/MensRights15/12/20 04:22 PM
3

Get that sexism out of here.
/r/MensRights15/12/20 04:07 PM
2

He looks better at 20 than 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 08:51 AM
1

Those people are called "asexual".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 06:25 AM
1

Suicide is not old age Work accidents are not old age Work accidents are not old age Being homeless is not old age Paying taxes is not old age I said "died of old age". Died of old age means died of certain injuries or illnesses that happen because of old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 06:18 AM
1

Well I am speaking specifically about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 05:13 AM
1

Let me guess, you’re an atheist?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 05:13 AM
1

I am. But my point is most men let themselves go.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 03:13 AM
6

Not any of the older men I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 12:59 AM
3

Yes there is. It’s a need to be touched when no one has touched you in forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 12:57 AM
3

Physical Attractiveness doesn’t exactly correlate to husband/wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 12:15 AM
2

Uh no. I didn’t make this post to say that. Sorry to disappoint you, but I believe both men and women suffer, in different ways, and thus neither really has an easier life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 12:14 AM
3

Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 11:23 PM
1

He has wrinkles. You said "black don't crack".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 11:18 PM
2

I don't know where you're getting at or how this is relevant to my post. Please advise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 11:01 PM
3

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 10:59 PM
1

You
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 10:53 PM
1

Morgan Freeman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 10:41 PM
3

Kate Winslet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 10:39 PM
3

You get attraction because we see you as wealthier and more emotionally mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 10:05 PM
3

Uh...please don't get a pet. They don't want you to touch them sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 09:27 PM
6

Older women can and do attract younger men. Otherwise, why would this article exist https://www.today.com/today/amp/tdna74731
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 09:08 PM
2

"but started lifting seriously" That's why you still get attention. Unlike most men, you never gave up on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 09:03 PM
2

So what do you think of a beautiful (as in supermodel looks) young woman who happens to be infertile? Is the beauty of her face and body negated by her inability to have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 09:01 PM
5

By then, my preference will probably be my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 09:00 PM
4

I am 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 08:49 PM
5

How am I projecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 08:22 PM
6

Nothing feels like the real thing. Nothing ever beats real human touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 08:12 PM
2

Yeah, but they are exceptions and often they put more effort into their appearance than the average person. The average middle aged woman is not Kate Winslet and the average middle aged man is not Lewis Hamilton.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 08:08 PM
6

What percentage of older men are skinny?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:52 PM
1

He's hot now, but he was absolutely stunning in his youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:51 PM
1

I'm not MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:45 PM
2

Those don't always work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:44 PM
4

They are attractive compared to other people their age, but they will never be as stunning as the most stunning 20 year old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:44 PM
4

Exactly. But I'm talking about physical attractiveness here. I'm saying men don't stay physically attractive any longer than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:43 PM
4

Yeah. But compare young George Clooney with George Clooney now. Which one is objectively attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:41 PM
10

Men may be fertile past middle age, but at the same time older men struggle with getting it up (aka erectile dysfunction).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:38 PM
3

Do you think that has to do with how older men are more physically attractive or that older men are more likely to both make more money and have higher emotional maturity?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:35 PM
10

I think there's a wall for men too. Unless they are Brad Pitt, Leonardo DiCaprio, or George Cloony most men are going to look their best ages 21-30 and then decline from there due to developing beer bellies, male pattern baldness, and aged (wrinkled) skin. Don't you tell me that men age like wine. It is very, very, very rare that a 40 year old man or woman will look as good as they did when they were 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:11 PM
22

Well first of all neither of those options provide the opportunity for physical touch. Which causes the men to become touch starved and depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:08 PM
3

Bruh this isn't r/JusticeServed
/r/MensRights14/12/20 07:06 PM
8

I think that argument is very demeaning towards both women and men. It assumes women are just luckier men and every single one of us WANTS to be used for sex. I hate that argument. I'm sorry, but being treated as a flesh light and nothing more sounds like hell. As a Christian girl, I believe sex is supposed to be enjoyable and intimate, and between two married people. So it means nothing to me that I can hook up whenever. To me, being able to hook up whenever is just an indication of how far the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 05:30 PM
3

Sorry to tell you, but places for slut shaming already exist. They're called churches.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 05:25 PM
-1

You probably don't mean to be transphobic but saying 'identifying' and 'transitioning' in air quotes kind of gives off that vibe.
/r/MensRights14/12/20 05:20 PM
0

I think both women and men shouldn't be imprisoned in droves for non violent crimes. What about wanting both to be protected when they are innocent and both to be held accountable when they aren't innocent. And by aren't innocent, I mean actually committed the crime. I don't mean "man accused of rape by woman for clout" not innocent.
/r/MensRights14/12/20 04:32 AM
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Women are also disproportionately affected by punitive drug policies, with 35% in prison for drug-related offences compared with 19% of men.
/r/MensRights14/12/20 04:24 AM
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