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Looking for the Why are you gay meme… Fuckin guy can’t even tell when the pussy is wet.
/r/askMRP21/10/23 11:50 AM
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Don’t ever… EVER use mental illness as an excuse for her behaviour and accept her back. You posted in the wrong place, but you’re in the right place. You’re just a few years too late. Do. Not. Chase. It’s done. Protect yourself and take care of your boy.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/22 08:00 AM
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Will do, thanks. You’re right they need to be measurable. Those are important to me and I do see them as obstacles currently which is why I’ve listed them. I’ll determine exact measures.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 07:24 PM
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This is a shitshow. Thank you for making some of us feel better about how far we’ve come. You’re caffeinating the hamster. Keep at it. You’ll know when you’ve Rambo’d too far. The better you do, expect more shit and comfort tests. All part of the game. You’re being intentional, she’ll just do what her biology tells her to. Keep tugging on that rope. Ignore everyone’s reactions, they don’t matter right now. Oh and circuit training is for fat women. Lift.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 03:57 PM
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Don’t think for a second she’s not thinking the same thing. Is this what she wants? A man she can walk all over, bends to her will and is always always around? You work together. That’s going to make things difficult. If you’re who you need to be, she might come around. Might not. doesn’t matter
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 03:44 PM
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OYS #7 Properly owning my shit today… 34 W 33 together 14 years two small kids. STATS 6’7” 244lb B210 S285 DL 335 OHP 130 - Down a bit from the summer, being a lazy fuck only getting to the gym 2-3 days a week. No reason other than laziness and complacency. It is starting to show, too. READING TWOTSM, The Game, WISNIFG, Pook, Fuccfiles, The Way of Men, A More Complete Beast, plenty of material in here, plenty of personal dev books and leadership books. Currently working on The Rational Male and …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 02:10 PM
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This is an interesting point. I bet a lot of guys don’t even know what fucking without being in your head feels like. Not caring about performance. Especially if they’ve dealt with PE for a long time.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/21 07:31 PM
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I’ve read this one and several of your other posts/replies about this. It’s been very helpful. Thank you. It takes strength to nuke based on suspicions. It takes even more to decide that it doesn’t matter. Move On how you will anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 11:17 PM
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Damn dude. Good for you. And good for her, you both seem to have clarity. You just saved yourself decades of hidden (not open) resentment. If more couples would take the time to clearly write out their vision and compare the two, proper divorces would be more common. Congrats on the hopefully clean break.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/21 01:42 AM
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Holy shit dude. There’s a lot of faggotry in here for sure. Bro you need someone else to talk to other than your wife. But if your friends don’t also tell you you’re being a faggot, then al you have are these lovey bunch. Nothing dries a pussy like talking about feelings. Get a fucking journal. Did you buy a set of weights so you wouldn’t get banned? Or so you can get some muscle on and stop being a squishy fuck. Do you think your wife is proud of you? Are you proud of you? What would a YOU look…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/21 10:52 PM
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OYS #6 STATS 34 W33 married 12y 2 kids under 4 6’7” 252lbs 18%BF BP 240 SQ 285 DL 330 OHP 150 READ: POON, POOK, WOTSM, MMSLP, WISNIFG, The Game, 48 LOP, plenty on leadership and plenty on personal development. Currently still Listening to Enlightened Sex. PHYSICAL Enjoying adding in some new movements with this deload phase, loving the variety. I admitted to myself that I’ve been skipping more leg days than I should, purely because I felt like a pussy some days and would do chest instead. That s…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/21 02:13 AM
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So her non-confrontational method of turning you down for sex without you showing your butthurt is working. Good for her.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/21 12:59 AM
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Holy shit you guys might be on to something. I’ve never considered this, never even considered being physically aggressive with her when I’m upset. She’s been with me since I was a 200lb bean pole, so I’m not entirely convinced but it’s absolutely worth considering. Genuinely after doing a lot of thinking/journaling on fear that’s definitely what’s showing up in these cases.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/21 12:00 AM
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Thanks for your feedback
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 11:34 PM
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Old thinking and old habits. Habits I’ve known were there and haven’t halted enough for them to stick. Take this lying for instance. Given some previous history, I do not accept lying. I live with integrity and expect my woman to. Yet I have no way to fight back. Bitch about it? Get upset about it? Lecture her about it? Nah. Won’t do it. Wouldn’t work anyway. She’s just reminding me that AWALT. She needs strength to follow, as she is a strong person as well. I see a direct result of my leadershi…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 09:19 PM
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Thanks for pointing that out. I mean I’m close on the physical attractiveness part. Part of that is lucky genes, which I’ve relied on far too much in my life so far. Life is easy, outside of my marriage. My frame at home is flimsy at best. Needs work.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 08:47 PM
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While typing that, that is what I was thinking. Having it pointed out now, I’m not so sure. Im definitely tied to this one and not OI at this point.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 08:43 PM
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OYS #5 STATS 34 W33 married 12y 2 kids under 4 6’7” 252lbs 18%BF BP 240 SQ 285 DL 330 OHP 150 READ: POON, POOK, WOTSM, MMSLP, WISNIFG, The Game, 48 LOP, plenty on leadership and plenty on personal development. Currently still Listening to Enlightened Sex. HEALTH Starting into a much-needed deload week, also starting to transition into a cut. Looking forward to not being bloated all the time. Made great gains the last 3-4 months, time to reveal it all. Will likely cut for 8-10 weeks and do it all…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 07:22 PM
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JERRY! You got a job. Congrats. In regards to not telling your wife… you’re nervous? Trying to have everything in place so she sees you’re handling things as the leader? What’s taking so long? Is this job and relocation an important opportunity for you? Is it moving you toward your next level? If it is, then she would be following her man, being led toward growth. If she has to give up all her friends and home just because her man couldn’t get a bummer of a job closer to home and there’s the pro…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 03:07 PM
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Ok I’ll put it on the list, thank you
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/21 12:39 PM
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This post right here is why this sub and OYS are valuable. Dude’s read the whole sidebar twice and still places everything in his wife’s hands to change things.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 11:12 PM
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You’ve probably already read this https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/ab7vt5/validation_needs_that_can_poison_your_sex_life/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Read all the way through this rabbit hole and see if it applies anywhere else in your life. Think about how you feel when someone is fishing for your validation constantly and how repulsive it is. I’ve realized I’ve been on the other end of it in other relationships (work) and easily explains why sometimes I …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 10:07 PM
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Perhaps it was worded too nicely. Being talked to like that would have her bags packed.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 09:12 PM
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Holy shit. Dude’s on OYS #15 and doesn’t know how to initiate sex. Do you have enough frame to actually just caveman her? Even if it were out of character. Today: start telling her what you’re going to do later. Doesn’t have to be filthy, especially if she’s not used to it. You know what you want. Declare it then make it true.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 08:09 PM
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Holy hell dude. I’m not sure I could handle being yelled at like that without leaving. You’re stronger than I. While it’s smart to not be phased by it, what was she actually concerned with? You not working? Her stress? Are you leading? Why? Perhaps it’s time to address the things that you’re dropping the ball on that you’re in control of. All of them. HINT: you’re in control of all of them.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 07:59 PM
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THIS. People are literally fucking crying for employees. Work a job for money Work something else for education or opportunity. This never ends until you make money from doing what you love. Doesn’t matter if you make $20/hr or $2000/hr.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 07:52 PM
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How did the OpSec fail play into the main event? Did she see behind the curtain?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 07:46 PM
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I’m on the other end of the “needs tailoring” spectrum from you, but once you see how well a button-up shirt should look on you you realize how fucking easy it is to look good. Even a few t-shirts and pants that fit perfectly go A LONG way in polishing your style. We guys have it so easy.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 07:44 PM
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OYS #4 34 W33 married 12y 2 kids under 4 6’7” 252lbs 18%BF BP 240 SQ 285 DL 330 OHP 150 READ: POON, POOK, WOTSM, MMSLP, WISNIFG, The Game, 48 LOP, plenty on leadership and plenty on personal development. Just started listening to Enlightened Sex, enjoying more of Deida’s straightforward wisdom. PHYSICAL/MENTAL Wrapping up this bulk at the end of the month, looking forward to refreshing my meal plans and adding some extra discipline. 4300cals/day for the past while has been a bit of a chore. I’ve…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 07:33 PM
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Why not fuck when you actually want to fuck? Like when she might be awake enough to participate?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 06:45 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ I want Rule 9 back. “She this, she that, she she she” whew that’s exhausting. Also OP I’d like to know how you let yourself be sucked into marrying someone who clearly doesn’t like Sex unless you don’t like it either. Good sex is your responsibility. And you have a huge mountain to climb there. Might be worth it, might not.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 06:38 PM
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God damn dude! Comparing with your OYS #3,4 this is progress. To many dudes get started and then get pissy that their woman doesn’t immediately respond. There will be setbacks and bad weeks, but it seems like you have the confidence to figure out what’s caused them. Enough gloating. Back to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 06:35 PM
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I don’t know the story about the eggs… but your height and weight are firmly in the “ready to gain weight” territory. Even if you gained a bit of fat. You could up your calories and add a training day or two. If your shirt were tight around your shoulders and sleeves hugging your biceps, I’m sure nobody would hassle you for eating whatever the hell you need for more gains. Chicken, rice, broccoli, oatmeal and egg whites are damn cheap
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/21 05:26 PM
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At my height and at the point where I started, cutting leads to beanpole status. Focusing on mass has given me far better physique improvements than digging deeper into skinny fat territory. Nearing the end of my bulk shortly actually.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 06:35 PM
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Needing constant sex to be happy and fulfilled…. Sounds familiar. Good on you for recognizing it. 6’3” is a bit tall for 165lbs, CrossFit isn’t going to do much for that unless light functionality is more important than physique.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 06:44 AM
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It sounds like MRP is coming to you just in time, really. You’ll be able to understand your previous fuck ups and build new mental models. Your future relationships will be far better for it. EDIT: gaming right now might be just what you need. Abundance. Time to embark on a post-divorce fuckathon.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 06:40 AM
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It sounds a lot like you’re barely with this girl. Sounds like she would love to be fucked. You talked about ED with her? Soo you gave her a comfort test? (You still love me when I can’t please you, right?) Bloodwork. Cardio everyday. Cialis and viagra on hand at all times. Get the damn injectable boner juice if you have to. So far it sounds like she’s calling the shots and is great at keeping you in her frame. Thank FUCK you’ve found the RP at 26. That said, the STFU loses sometimes. I’m guilty…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 06:37 AM
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Man I was going to comment on that. You overdelivered on the comfort there. You’re tugging on the 1000ft rope, she’s feeling the pull and you’re like, “nah babe you’re good.”
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 06:02 AM
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My man here really dropped lifting days to build a fucking shed. I don’t remember seeing “building a tool house” in the sidebar. Building a body? Sure. Building strength? Yep. Building self respect and confidence? Definitely. All those happen in the gym. Not the shed.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 05:57 AM
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Jerry, brother… Yes sir get a job absolutely. Your wife wants you to go to school because you don’t have another good plan. Time to put Jerry first. Jerry provides. Jerry fulfills his promises to himself first. Jerry has integrity. While you’re finding someone who will give you a job, is there anything else you can do to provide some value? Learn something new? Move toward a career path that you’re most interested in? If you had no money for groceries today what would you do? How many years go b…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 05:51 AM
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“including such phrases as, “I don’t feel loved anymore,” and, “I can’t keep living like this!” (these statements are nothing new to me, just the standard, every 3-4 months, nuclear confrontation that I have lived with for 15+ years.)” Count yourself lucky that you’ve had the opportunity to hear these more than once. Many women (if they’re not prone to opening up their feelings freely) will give you one chance. “I’m bored with how things are.” “I’m lonely.” “I’m not feeling loved.” There’s are t…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 05:31 AM
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OYS 3 34, W33 married 12 years. 2 kids under 4. 6’7” 252lbs (+1) 18.5% (mirror) Lifts: BP 235 OHP 150 etc etc Read: TWOTSM, MMSLP, The Game, The Way Of Men, Lots of books on leadership and even more on how to make a marriage work… Reading: 48 Laws of Power, WISNIFG Personal: This week I seriously dogged it at work. I was fresh off vacation and should have been ready to go, but I chilled pretty hard. This week I didn’t have much on my plate, could do it in my sleep and just coasted. Basically I m…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 05:22 AM
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OYS 2 34, W33 married 12 years. 2 girls under 4. 6’7” 251lbs (+1.5) 18% (mirror) Lifts: BP 225 OHP 145 etc etc Read: TWOTSM, MMSLP, The Game, The Way Of Men, Lots of books on leadership and even more on how to make a marriage work… Reading: 48 Laws of Power, WISNIFG Personal: Today wraps up three weeks of vacation for me. Stayed home as I live in my favourite vacation spot. Lots of family time, exercise, reading, and most importantly time to think without distraction and pressure. I’ll be headin…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/21 10:14 PM
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Thank you for this. My next stage of growth being on the other side of those shitty feelings is a great way to put it. I’m well aware that not dealing with them has kept me stagnant for far too long. I know what you mean about indulging in them. It’s tempting at times but it’s like a black hole. Not helpful at all either.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/21 12:55 AM
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OYS #1 STATS Age 34 Ht 6’7” Wt 249 (+1.5) BF 18% (mirror) W33 married 12yrs, 2 girls under 4 Status: Drunk Captain READING: WOTSM, MMSLP, Pook, Poon, WISNIFG, Last week read all of Horns’ OYSs and man it’s inspiring. PERSONAL I’ve put off writing my first OYS post for a few weeks now. I very nearly took the RP back in 2010 and god damn would it have saved me a ton of trouble over the years. I stumbled upon Athol Kay’s blog back before he wrote MMSLP and read every post. I didn’t want to do the w…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/21 10:08 PM
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Right on. An HJ is something, especially if she puts some good effort into making it good for you and not like another chore she has to complete.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/21 06:13 PM
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I like your approach to the attitudes and shouting at home. You’re being the oak. I know you’re focused on yourself, but I don’t know how you can go without sex for a month! You said no PIV. Are you doing something or someone else?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/21 05:04 PM
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