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Get a domestic violence protection order against her and have her removed from the house
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/24 04:15 AM
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He's giving her equity in the house in exchange for no alimony/spoual support. This is totally separate from child support.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/24 10:02 AM
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The less she does the more they will give her
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/24 05:38 AM
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I'm pretty sure at that point it becomes marital property, similar to putting it towards a house
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/24 03:30 AM
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Unfortunately gifts from wills / inheritances are generally not considered marital property. I've never really understood that one.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/24 12:55 AM
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"left with nothing when I leave" You haven't looked into divorce laws have you? She is going to get half of everything that was accumulated during the marriage. Things like: House value or equity gained on the house Stocks Retirement Accounts Checking & Savings Accounts Vehicles Etc
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/24 01:33 PM
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Don't contact them, I didn't like we that they're not going to take her side especially cuz you don't have control over what she's been saying. You're the risk of what you say being used against you. Good luck man
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/24 05:47 PM
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How did you become a rock star at this?
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/24 04:50 AM
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Oh hell no they won't just apply that to a new property. Understand why in this situation you would like that, and I can't blame you. But that would be a dangerous unacceptable thing if Courts started just applying specific contracts to things that they don't define
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/24 10:42 AM
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I hope you don't live in North Carolina which has a one year separation requirement in order to get divorced and there is no legally separated status that exists as a result of filing paperwork. At least from that small amount of information, it sounds like you could be in North Carolina. That would be unfortunate, because of North Carolina to be legally separated if they live in a different residence for a year with no intention to return, you aren't allowed to just live in different rooms of t…
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/24 08:19 AM
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I won't say what I think about the 33 year old wife fucking the 60-year-old boss
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 06:22 AM
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Also, do not let her become aware that you know what's going on.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 06:22 AM
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In some states like North Carolina, adultery can have a big impact on Alimony specifically. Zero impact on equitable distribution.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 06:18 AM
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That lesson of believing what she tells you being a bad idea, learn that now. Don't make that mistake during divorce proceedings, whatever she's been telling you about the divorce, I want to do it peacefully, I want to be fair, blah blah blah, those are also lies
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 06:13 AM
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This could very well be a difference in the personality trait of conscientiousness. It's not hard for a small difference to cause problems. It ends to go like this: Person A: The house is always such a mess and I have to always clean it, why won't you help out more? Person B: it's totally fine, it is not a total mess, why are you always making such a big deal about it. If this is the case, it's not that she doesn't care or doesn't want to help, it's that we all have a threshold at which a certai…
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 06:10 AM
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I would bet she will weaponize your daughter's as her justification for her disgusting behavior. Saying she doesn't want your daughter's exposed to your family's evil ideas and needs to protect them.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 09:03 PM
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Has anyone ever heard of Republicans trying to cut ties with someone because they're a democrat? I have disdain for both parties, but the left is exceptionally disgusting with their identity politics and automatically judging someone's moral character because of their political affiliation.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 08:09 PM
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Trump has not broken your family. Your wife with her self righteous intolerance is doing that all on her own. I'm sure she sounds super badass laying down her "boundaries" with regards to Trump to her liberal echo chamber. People like her are exactly why Trump's able to win so many people over. I can't believe you're not holding her accountable for this absurd behavior
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 08:04 PM
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Look up "Sexual Market Value" She is likely in the downslope for her sexual market value You however are probably still gaining value every year
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/24 07:28 AM
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It's shocking to me that she's so blind to what her liability is here
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/24 05:27 AM
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Maybe I missed it. You said you've been together for 15 years, how long have you ever been married?
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/24 05:27 AM
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In my experience the more loving and supportive you are the worst you'll do. I literally, 100% believe if I start treating women that I have romantic interests with shittier, I will get better results snd I will retain more status with them.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/24 05:04 AM
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I guess I would say this, if I try to think about that situation objectively, I would never expect someone to no longer see their family if their family did something that I felt was absolutely uncalled for and unacceptable to me but I would expect them to confront them about it. At least speak up and say something that aligns with their own sense of right and wrong. I'd be disappointed if they just stood by and let it happen and said nothing. To be clear, if your wife started treating your moth…
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/24 05:02 AM
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It's interesting to me that her family ignored you, wasn't there when you arrived, and your wife wasn't pissed about you seeing your mother until it was time for her to pick you up. I'm thinking her family also really hates your mother and may have actually instigated this whole thing, I'm not saying they told her what to do but they kind of drew attention to it and lit the fire underneath her about it
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/24 04:56 AM
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Oh damn. And whatever, I'm throwing a temper tantrum and not picking you up, so obviously not going to come and drop your wallet off. But then to deliberately make the choice to leave with it instead of leaving it with her parents, that's the fucked up part. Did you mention the wallet to her parents at all? That's something I was wondering about, when trying to call her and thinking you're blocked trying to reach out to her family and have them reach out
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/24 04:41 AM
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There is an element here of critical importance. Was your wife aware that she was leaving you without your wallet or did she assume that you had it?
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/24 04:08 AM
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It was weird he said since I live in California she gets 50% of my 401k, I don't know of any state where she would not get 50% of the accumulated 401K during the marriage. That being said I think it's total fucking bullshit, paralleling all those standard arguments for alimony. If it's the rare case where she sacrificed her career so you could further yours blah blah blah blah then sure. It both people are working full-time during the whole marriage then it's fucking bullshit
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/24 03:43 AM
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There is no "winning her back". Get that idea out of your head. It's not an option, it's not possible no matter what you do.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 06:49 PM
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This is my knee jerk reaction which is probably a projection of my own feelings more than anything. Just got divorced from a long term relationship. Not feeling so fantastic. The need of having someone want to be with you is no longer being met. Run into girl, text all week long and go to dinner. Dinner goes really well. You feel a connection and start imagining a future with this girl and it feels really good to have someone want you. Then you learn that she is in an open relationship and is op…
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 06:40 PM
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I see two possibilities. I believe both have been mentioned already. She never liked the video games, but tolerated it and silently resented it all these years. Now that she's thinking about exiting the marriage, she no longer silently resents it, but openly regrets it is a significant force in her leaving. If this was never argued about all these years, it's highly unlikely it's the reason she wants to leave, but it's the reason that makes her look the best when stated out loud and publicly. Sh…
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 06:15 PM
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Someone once told me not to look for a relationship from a place of "lacking". Complete yourself, stop "trying" to find a relationship, be social and it will happen all by itself with much better results. I know, easier said than done. Hang in there. Give it time.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 07:36 PM
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I suppose it is me who needed to do due diligence
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 05:23 PM
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Why are you making assumptions without any due diligence on your part?
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 03:22 PM
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Don't assume the kids aren't suffering with the current situation. Divorce does not mean an automatic increase in suffering for children.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 11:57 AM
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Yes. And that is something that warrants discussion. That would likely be upsetting to most people, make and female. it's not an indication of a healthy marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 04:16 PM
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You are glossing over one of the most important aspects of the rejection '..... Which had become a common theme lately"
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 04:03 PM
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He never said sexual attraction. From his account of what was said she never said sexual attraction either. The only person saying sexual attraction is you. Then you ask why they would take offense to the word you just introduced that no one else was talking about. If you don't substitute words that you are thinking for words that were actually said then being upset makes sense. You should be upset if your wife never loved you.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 03:23 PM
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This is an unfortunate and painful situation, but it has an obvious solution. Lies and secrets are complicated. Honesty is beautifully and torturously simple. Telling the truth about difficult things usually goes the same way in general. Things IMMEDIATELY get worse, which is why people avoid it. After that though, things get resolved and the issue goes away forever, you don't carry it around as baggage. If you get your wife not to tell anyone, she may agree. For now........ She will always have…
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 12:20 PM
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I want you to post that very badly. She deserved some blow back. People telling you not to post it are giving good advice.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 09:30 AM
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When you have a fight at marriage counseling, does the issue get resolved? You likely have years and years where unresolved conflict has accumulated. I view fights at marriage counseling that are resolved as a good thing. Only if they can be resolved though.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 02:40 AM
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I can't believe people are giving you shit for being a few minutes late. Now if you skipped a test, that would be different.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 11:25 AM
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