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From one alcoholic to another: if you are mandated to breathalyze with your kids, there's no way you don't have a drinking problem. Stop drinking. The shit is liquid death and will ruin your life, single or married.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/24 11:47 AM
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Union trades
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 03:03 PM
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Hate is quite reasonable and normal in many of these divorces. Better to just experience it (without acting out of course) than the whole thing of trying to sweep it under the table. There's no such thing as "vacationing" in hatred. You're either living it like a grownup, or you're gritting your teeth and fooling yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 02:33 PM
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Dudes always got some robot/cyborg shit going on when it comes to their emotions lol. "processing" beep boop 🤖 I prefer "feel" or "live".
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 12:06 PM
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Married redpill subreddit. A self help sub with ppl who poast here alot. They have a "house style" that is very recognizable. They have a lot of good stuff there but it also caters to a certain kind of emotionally stuck individual. It's the kind of place you should pass through on your upward spiral, take what's good and leave the rest behind.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 12:02 PM
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And there's a lot of dudes trying to hide from the suffering with stoicism and weightlifting and dating apps and self help books. Just fucking feel it. Feel it all.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 08:02 PM
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Absolutely, brother. We all define ourselves by our net worth. Hell, I do it. That's the way our society is set up. But when time comes for the speakers to stand up at your memorial service, none of them are going to be talking about "he had 8 figures in liquid assets" or "he had a very comfortable retirement and owned alot of Berkshire Hathaway". If you're lucky, they'll shed a tear because you were a person they miss. Book of Job comes in handy in times like these.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 08:00 PM
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Sometimes you have to suffer, and there's no way around it. Your suffering is 100% valid and relatable. You are not making this up....you got hosed. Many here will give you boilerplate about a "man's burden of performance" and that's all fine and good, but before you begin bootstrapping yourself yet again, take a good long time just to suffer genuinely, authentically. Really feel it, and don't rush it. Let it move through you. That's life itself you are feeling.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 04:25 PM
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A lot of them are. It's a good self improvement sub, if a little bit up its own ass at times.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 12:59 PM
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It's all good man, it's the same advice & lingo. It just cross pollinated. Keep on keepin on.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 12:58 PM
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Can always tell the MRP guys.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 09:58 AM
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My wife also blocks path. NEVER LAY A HAND ON THEM FOR ANY REASON. ANY reason. If attacked, block & move away.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 11:32 AM
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The joint account is some necessary part of the shared business? I wouldnt share an account with my wife for any reason whatsoever.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 03:30 PM
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🙏
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/24 04:46 PM
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Kind of genius setup imho. All the good & none of the bad.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/24 04:44 PM
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And adult male ADHD.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 01:47 PM
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Dont care. This is like something written by a chatbot. What is YOUR hate story?
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/24 04:13 PM
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You already know the answer. Stay strong.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/24 12:13 PM
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It's just a line that they're all taught. We'd be doing it too if we could get away with it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/24 04:30 PM
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Personally I do russian hot banya (200°+)->cold pool, back and forth.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 07:19 PM
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I could say a ton here as I have extensive experience with a rage inducing wife who at her worst baits me, but I will only say this: I have never once won an outcome after acting out. Every single win has followed from keeping icy control.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 06:37 PM
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I don't know, brother. We've got rapid good change (men sharing notes via social media) and rapid bad change (app dating) springing from the exact same technology. Who knows which will win. Only thing for sure is, it's going to be chaotic and there's going to be a lot of collateral damage.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 03:58 PM
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We're unfortunately living through a historical interlude of misery because our systems of law and mores, which change at glacial pace, have not caught up with rapid pace of change in marriage, relationships, gender relations, employment, family life etc. Its kind of like the early 19th c. when millions of ex farm workers crowded into the British industrial cities which in terms of housing, hygiene & public services were still in the Middle Ages. Nearly a century of hideous misery ensued, which …
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/24 01:32 PM
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You have no idea how bad untreated adult female ADHD can get.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 11:50 PM
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Very strong probability of some underlying issue such as untreated ADHD.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 02:53 PM
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How the hell did this wise comment get under the radar here lol.
/r/askMRP03/05/23 02:23 PM
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Back to basics. Sidebar, lift, stfu. Sorry to hear about your ilybinilwy speech.
/r/askMRP01/05/23 08:04 PM
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Now read Esther Vilar "The Manipulated Man".
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 02:05 PM
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Why is it so important to get back to your original (lost & gone forever) dynamic with this particular female? Is it validation?
/r/askMRP27/04/23 04:07 PM
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Don't worry...you'll be tested and then some-in due time. Adamantium frame is forged in the fires of adversity.
/r/askMRP24/04/23 12:55 AM
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So nice to have a chaotic spouse out of the picture so the kids can have a solid routine.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/23 12:05 AM
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Facts. These are exactly the guys who fall for the wrong one because they have the illusion that theyve seen it all. 25 lol. At 25 you're a punk kid. You aint seen nothing boys. As long as you have a functioning set of testosticles, there's some female out there with the ability to go through you like a pavement saw.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/23 03:16 PM
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Frame>logic. You better start at the beginning again. WISNIFG. NMMNG. edit: 150 lb deadlift after 6 years? Never gonna make it.😑
/r/askMRP19/04/23 02:31 PM
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There are big regional facebook groups where women ask other women for intel on guys they met on the dating apps. A lot of info gets exchanged.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/23 09:24 PM
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NMMNG
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/23 03:25 PM
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found mrp 3 weeks ago Field Report gtfoh
/r/askMRP10/04/23 09:32 PM
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You have to take Rollo etc with a grain of salt. His books are good but most of the content from that part of the internet is aimed at a certain subset of people.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 06:03 PM
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My theory is, if your heart says marry & reproduce, then vet as best as you can, be the best man you can, always be improving, & let the cards fall where they may.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 05:59 PM
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Probably. You can't win. Just try & keep married, if you must get married. Married Redpill subreddit is good.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 05:55 PM
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I have no attraction whatsoever to the career feminist type. For me, it's submissive SAHM types or the ol 5 finger shuffle.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 04:47 PM
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Next, read Manuel J Smith "When I Say No I Feel Guilty" and Rollo Tomassi "Rational Male".
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/23 05:15 PM
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I could have written this.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/23 12:14 AM
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MRP🤜🏻🤛🏻
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/23 10:55 PM
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