RoninOnBananaLeaves Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	There's a difference between falling for a long term friend gradually, and befriending a woman you have a crush/lust after in the sole hope that your "friendship" will make her sleep with you. It's a joke. But a wierd one😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 10:27 PM
11	There's a difference between falling for a long term friend gradually, and befriending a woman you have a crush/lust after in the sole hope that your "friendship" will make her sleep with you. I befriended a girl who I had a crush on. Had nothing much in common with her when we started talking. Later I got over the crush, learned she had a boyfriend quite soon (although it still seems weird the number of guys who told me the "if she is single you are competing with all the men, but if she has a bf you are just competing with one man" thingie, although it was after I had cleared my head about the crush I had) Als turned out we had a lot in common we didnt know about. And I no longer wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 10:16 PM
8	Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women. I dont find anything wrong with what my mother taught me. I dont know why people are suddenly hating on their mothers. I don't understand what they want their mothers to tell them. My mother told me to not run behind girls, period. She literally told me there is a time for everything. And that's exactly what I see most men doing throughout their teen years. Like what do people want. Dont think about your career and become a pro spor star to get the girls? Looks are still more dependent on exores…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 03:31 PM
1	If you could pick your child’s gender, given what you know of the world, which would you go for? Quantum Tunnelling Gender.🙂	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 02:26 PM
1	Men are entirely lacking in knowing how to sexually satisfy women So,a high body count is key. But do you and OP then support high body count for both genders? Also, then all the long term relationships I see atound me, which are also their first relationship, are all those women unsatisfied?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 02:23 PM
1	Men are entirely lacking in knowing how to sexually satisfy women So, how to know these things? Telling people they dont know something is a little useless if you dont tell them how to know those things	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 10:33 AM
-1	I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy... It was weird for me. I have OCD and right about the time it qas most severe I went into Jordan Peterson and all the masculinity bovine excrements. I got out that but it still stayed in my head. It was after therapy and treatment I realized, mom was right🙃 I still don't thing some specific "qualities" are attractive to women. Sexual attraction is a thing, but relationships are more about individual people. There will be men who dont like you, there will be women who dont like you and so on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 07:56 PM
1	The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards. That depends on your definition of easier. It is easier to get a bf/guy to hook up with, because men are horny and will say yes to anything f&$kable. It is still difficult to get meaningful relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 07:13 AM
1	Have you experienced mental illness in your dating life? I have no dating life because of my mental illness😂 I have OCd and it was really severe a couple of years ago. Never even tried, although eill try in the near future as I'm much better now, therapy and medications did work for me🙂	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 07:08 AM
4	Why men must never open up to women. True. But people still won't accept that. Why? Because they are afraid to lose their image. But guess what, try finding the answer to why they don't want to lose their image? and you'll see it's because they have nothing else. Also, I think it is better to have a few real friends who you actually connect with rather than having social 'circles' and 'support systems' of people who are just their for their own benefit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 07:24 PM
10	Men and Women's opinions on porn/engagement It's a weird industry. Like cigarettes. Makes a lot of money, destroys lots of lives, some people think it is cool, some think it's alright, and no one can actually say it has any proven benefit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 06:45 PM
1	Q4Men: Would your son and daughter have different curfews?🤔 Same curfew I would be afraid for both of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 06:34 PM
0	How do you believe that the dating world is working? Dating never worked in that sense. Before the internet, people only dated people from work, etc or tell friends to make them meet with their friends. Or people who met at social gatherings. Amd there is no we, we ont follow books and podcasts like religion, everyone has to find their own way because everyone's life us different. If you think you are right, change the social norms yourself, don't ask for my support.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 04:57 AM
3	How do you believe that the dating world is working? But imo those are things people should just do those things regardless of dating. Keeping your mental, physical health all right, getting a job, having friends, having a hobby, thinking a bit about self presentation, hygiene, being aware of stuff around you, educating yourself, learning how to communicate, talking with new people, is just living your life and basically loving yourself, you don't need to be a "red piller" , "looks maxer" to do these things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 05:23 PM
8	How do you believe that the dating world is working? Everything depends on luck in the end. I can die in an earthquake tomorrow, nothing between me and that, other than luck. You can never force relationships. People have long term relationships with people from different cities, states, countries, who wouldn't have met without luck. Also some people marry their highschool , college lovers, and it is only luck that they went to the sane place for school, or college. Even in dating apps you cannot ask a homeless person living 10000 miles away from …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 05:17 PM
10	How do you believe that the dating world is working? I personally believe, dating doesn't work. If you are lucky you find a person you can share your life with. That's it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 05:09 PM
4	Sex is really only a physical need... True But very few people accept it, or maybe very few people actually understand itm	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 04:01 PM
6	What exactly is the "blue pill" solution to solving a deadbedroom? Discuss the problem with your wife/gf Get a health checkup for both. There could be a billion medical conditions causing it. Then use your brain to decide the best course of action. Breaking up, working out, treatment for hormonal imbalances are all viable solutions, but that depends on whether you know what the problem is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 05:32 PM
1	If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love. Yeah but splitting the bills, splitting chores is not transactional. Transaction would be as OP said, that the man pays for the date and in return the woman gives him sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 11:48 AM
1	If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love. Finally someone said it🙂 Just some additions, some things like women needing a safe space for me is not transactional but more circumstantial because women are generally not safe, everywhere in the world, and it will be there even in unconditional type relationships like with family. Paying for dinner though, is transactional, like if people just want a living free wallet, good for them, but I dont accept it as a good standard practice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 11:36 AM
1	Why do other men support societal delusion? They want 'it' at any cost and have nothing in their life to live for except 'it' Where it refers to sex and also to the social validation that they are man enough to 'hit a girl'	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 11:32 AM
1	Men here only think they have low standards because they are blind to most things Women do as default Although what you are saying is correct There is still no meaning in saying there is more societal pressure while at the same time fully accepting the societal standards as 'logical'. Just look at the number of women in dating subreddits strongly sided in shaven vs unshaven, and short vs tall debates. Also considering youtube and what celebs say. You can't say it is both good and bad at the same time. Like 'we are better at adjusting to oppression' is not an achievement.'	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 07:32 PM
1	Men here only think they have low standards because they are blind to most things Women do as default complaining about their height, philtrum length, epicanthic folds, the angle of your eyes, the shape of your hairline, the shape of your chin, jawline, etc. First of all this is a first time I'm hearing about philtrum length. Never heard any boy, even the stupidly rich ones talking about it. And people who do care, apart from a stained shirt, and a bad haircut, even the original post doesnt talk about stained shirts, it's just a convention, like not wearing half-trousers to office, it has nothin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 07:26 PM
0	Men here only think they have low standards because they are blind to most things Women do as default However, women are more naturally attuned to focus on looks, like the million feminists saying, "we don't look beautiful for men". This would just mean that women would put in the effort irrespective of what guys found attractive, unless OP actually accepts that women try to look good for men to like them. However, other than sexual attraction, men don't care that much for looks unless it is a very superficial man. Hygiene and looks are not the same, things like body hair have nothing to do with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 05:43 PM
1	Do some red pill podcaster bro’s have legitimate points? (context below) True. Women still look for providers. Men still look for a woman to look good in pictures with, have sex, and maybe for some emotional support.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 05:34 PM
1	Sexless men should honestly take their chances and approach as many women as possible Or just don't think about sex that much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 05:31 PM