| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 378 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist". | Field Report | RonnieTheDJ | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 01:07 PM |
| 129 | Apparently “man caves” are sexist, according to my girlfriend | Feminism | RonnieTheDJ | /r/MensRights | 29/03/20 01:19 AM |
| 17 | Help with shit tests. | RonnieTheDJ | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 03:28 AM | |
| 16 | If you tell a girl that you prefer to meet girls "the old-fashioned way" (i.e. in person), you will experience more success | RonnieTheDJ | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 10:31 AM | |
| 6 | Seddit, I lose my voice very quickly in a loud club/bar environment. Any advice? | RonnieTheDJ | /r/seduction | 14/03/12 09:19 AM | |
| 4 | Looking for a decent wingman in Auckland, New Zealand. | RonnieTheDJ | /r/seduction | 13/02/13 12:42 PM | |
| 3 | Seduction Tip: Bringing a girl home for the first time. | RonnieTheDJ | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 10:55 AM |
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| 48 | Apparently “man caves” are sexist, according to my girlfriendAgree completely. I was like wtf are you talking about. Wealthy women literally have whole rooms just for their shoes. This guy made a fortune and lives in a $50 million house so he can do whatever the fuck he wants with his money. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/20 01:25 AM |
| 4 | [FR] 30 seconds from approach to k-closeLink? | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 12:48 PM |
| 7 | Fun field-tested opener from last night (and more)Self-amusement is extremely attractive to women of particularly high value - love the opener. Another routine I love is to ask her name after a few minutes, then say it's crazy that she's called "Amanda/XYZ" because your parents were going to call you that if you were a girl. Then you can spend a few minutes teasing her about her "boy" name. Another step is to then get her to "hit on you" (role playing) as if she was this guy, then tease her more for being rubbish at picking up girls. Excellent … | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 10:27 AM |
| 1 | I'm in Vegas over the weekend, and need a guide.What about if I am staying in the Cosmopolitan? There are 4 guys but we could split up into pairs. We will be gaming girls during the day and hopefully trying to get them to come out with us, probably our best option. | /r/seduction | 29/03/13 11:49 PM |
| 1 | I'm in Vegas over the weekend, and need a guide.Bro - I'm staying at the Cosmopolitan in July - so you reckon this hotel is the place to be? I heard good things about Marquee so that's why I booked. | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 11:02 PM |
| 10 | A girl went thermonuclear AFC on MEBeing outcome independent is an excellent way to weed out girls you wouldn't want to date. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 03:26 AM |
| 1 | How do I learn to tease/make fun? I want to learn this instead of just being super nice.Push/Pull | /r/seduction | 15/03/13 11:29 PM |
| 1 | In daygame how are 2-3+ sets different to open than a 1-set?OK, indirect not necessary here. Best way to do it is when you open the group, you deliver a compliment to your target, e.g. "Sorry, I literally just saw you from over there [point] and I had to come and tell you I think you look really nice". At this point, her and her friends are going to be quite shocked that you had the balls to come up and say this to her and it might make her friends feel slightly uncomfortable. The target may also feel a bit strange because there is pressure on her as you… | /r/seduction | 15/03/13 11:26 PM |
| 0 | How Do I flirt with someone through text?Honestly, the most spectacular way to flirt via text/phone is roleplaying. For example, when you meet her you create a scenario in which she can be your secretary (and you're obviously the boss). Then when you text her, you can tease her that "she shouldn't be texting me because she needs to complete the reports I asked for by tomorrow" and "buy me some ties" etc, being playful/humorous. | /r/seduction | 14/03/13 04:30 AM |
| 7 | Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations.Isolate, isolate, isolate. | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 09:14 PM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent to seddit?Savoy, Ronnie from New Zealand here. Firstly, I fucking respect you man and your material has changed my life. I literally just got home from the club now with a solid Day 2 setup for tomorrow. Will be buying this book for certain. PS - try and distribute it through New Zealand book stores (there is literally no pickup material in this country) - Whitcoulls is the company to contact. I know it would be popular here. | /r/seduction | 13/02/13 12:18 PM |
| 2 | I need some advice on which direction I should be working towards.If you're getting a high number of flakes, you obviously need to adjust some aspect of your game because something is not right. Most commonly, it's because she isn't in the same attracted state the next day when you text/call her as she was when you met her in the club (and therefore feels uncomfortable about the thought of talking to you). From what I've experienced, setting up friends with benefits is not actually overly difficult, however your game (or seduction technique) has to be tight fr… | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 06:18 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".Agree with all your points - and at the end of the day this manager has social value, so it's best if I try and make friends with the guy. | /r/seduction | 20/01/13 08:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".Thanks bro. I'm thinking I'm going to try a less hostile route first and aim to befriend this manager (because ultimately, it will help if he's on my side). But certainly will pursue a complaint if he tries any bullshit again. | /r/seduction | 20/01/13 08:09 AM |
| 3 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".Keen. I'll be in NYC this June/July and also going to Vegas with mates afterwards (I live in New Zealand). Sold. | /r/seduction | 20/01/13 04:13 AM |
| 3 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".I used to DJ at a bar and he was my boss, so I know the GM well. | /r/seduction | 20/01/13 04:11 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".Good call - that's the only risky part of using that. But it has an undertone of dangerousness to it which is cool (and obviously I'm not a drug dealer). Next time I will make sure no staff are around (if I use it again). Also, I like using it because I say a girl outside asked me for drugs, so I have a solid grounding coming in. | /r/seduction | 20/01/13 01:18 AM |
| -1 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".The issue is that if a girl actually did complain against me, then the GM will side with the manager and I will look like a loser trying to say I'm not bothering anyone. Better to leave it for now I think. | /r/seduction | 20/01/13 01:16 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".Nah mate, I live in NZ. | /r/seduction | 20/01/13 01:14 AM |
| 3 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".Love that - AMOG techniques are fun. My favorite one is when you're talking to a girl and he comes up and tries to push you out. You say to the girl "Wait, this guy is trying to pick you up! Let's see what he's got!". You then stand next to the girl (us vs. AMOG) and say "Come on bro, we don't have all day! Show us your best move!". He will be flustered, lowering his value, and he will (most likely) leave. | /r/seduction | 20/01/13 01:12 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".Option e) | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 11:54 PM |
| 5 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".He was - he said so. He said he listened to what I was saying, how I asked girls whether they "thought I looked like a drug dealer" etc. Pretty sad he is memorizing this. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 11:53 PM |
| -1 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".Thanks for your great input. As I said earlier, I'm not going back there for a while but when I go back, if he still gives me hostility, I may pursue some of these options you mention. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 11:51 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".This is utterly magnificent. Going to put it in my edit if you don't mind! Love it. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 11:48 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".The plan is that I will cool it for 2 weeks (I'm going overseas anyway for work) and go back - if he gives me shit again, I'll go to the general manager (who I'm friends with on Facebook and know really well). Pretty sure he would have my back because I was there on Thursday with a personal trainer I picked up at the gym and introduced her to him and he offered us some drinks. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 11:45 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".I said that's the most ridiculous concept I've ever heard. Pretty much goes against the fundamentals of evolution, where the male attracts the female mate. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 11:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist"."Don't be yourself. Be your best self". As I said in the post, I only run routines at the start because THEY WORK! And they're interesting. Sure, natural game is the ultimate goal, but you don't get there immediately. We're all going to the same place, but not necessarily on the same train. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 11:39 PM |
| 14 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".Definitely - after I was kicked out I went to another bar across town and picked up a girl on a hen's night, so we're all good. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 11:34 PM |
| 6 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".Bet the set that they can't name all of the five oceans - if they lose, they have to buy you a drink. This is fantastic for attraction, plus you can tease them for having poor geography skills - "OMG - did you even go to school?!" etc. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 11:31 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".Similar situation here. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 11:30 PM |
| 11 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".I would spend at least $40 per night (so, say, 4 decent vodka sodas), which is fair enough, right? And I never buy girls drinks (unless it will benefit the set). Plus, in a huge club like this, I doubt one guy is going to be sending them into financial distress! I think this guy is just jealous and trying to display his power over me, which tells me he has weak inner game and is insecure. He also had the most toe-curling, repulsive body odour stink. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 11:28 PM |
| -2 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".You're totally correct - I can never be entirely aware of how I'm perceived in a club. Truth is, my inner game is solid and I don't really give a shit. If people think I'm a player and respond negatively to that, then so be it. Girls want a player. Nobody wants a loser. However, there's a difference between player and creep. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 11:23 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".Like I said in another comment, the blondes actually came over to the manager and I and asked how long I was going to be. It was right after he said they didn't want me there. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 11:22 PM |
| 5 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".Extremely large city - different people every night. Huge club too. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 11:21 PM |
| 8 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".I was pissed when he did that, no excuse for that shit. It was hilarious because while we were talking, the two blondes came back over and asked how long we were going to be. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 11:19 PM |
| 0 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".Thanks for your input dude. Totally agree - his actual words were that he has seen me talk to lots of girls and he doesn't want a pick-up artist in his bar. Obviously has zero game. EDIT: However, I think building social proof in the venue is spectacularly important, hence me vibing with girls (and then escalating emotionally and physically with the ones I choose). Plus this generates enormous preselection, which is extremely powerful and something that I enjoy. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 11:13 PM |
| 15 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".Excellent point - and I was just going to edit and say I think this may have happened. At the end of the day, one's game can't be 100% successful and rejections are bound to happen. I think he overheard someone say I was a creep or something, which is unfortunate. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 11:09 PM |
| 6 | [FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist".I have a wingman - but I couldn't get a wingwoman to come out with me every night I go out gaming. Plus this guy knows me because I go there regularly. Bit niggly. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 01:28 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012The way I see it is they are probably willing to have sex with you at some point, provided you are in a committed long-term relationship. Not really worth it if you aren't seeking a serious commitment. But it sucks because those "churchy" girls are often stunningly beautiful and caring, in a "girl next door" sort of way (if that makes sense). | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 03:39 AM |
| 4 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012Pretty much my thoughts. Religion is heavily involved here (within her culture), best if I don't try and change her beliefs. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 01:45 AM |
| 10 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012If a girl is extremely attracted to me and vice versa, but she does not believe in sex before marriage, should I back off or consider the possibility that she might change this belief for me? | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 12:56 AM |
| 7 | You never regret getting out there.Easiest way to open a set: "Are you a robot?" | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Video Example of Advanced ApproachingYou're correct with Cajun, very textbook. But in other episodes they have real crazy shit, like this guy walks around the club with a huge hamburger and picks up girls while eating. And this Portuguese guy picks up (literally) this girl by her bum and hooks up with her after being there for like 25secs. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 09:01 PM |
| 12 | Video Example of Advanced ApproachingA lot of game rules and techniques go out the window on this show due to the various challenges, but still very entertaining. The contestants have a lot of balls. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 12:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Making the best of a quiet night, my smoothest pickup yetNever ever lean into a girl when engaged in conversation. You lose all your social value and you will eventually be blown out. | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 12:57 AM |
| 13 | [FR] Making the best of a quiet night, my smoothest pickup yetIt's called "pecking". The person leaning in loses social value, while the other holds a stronger social position. If others observe the girl leaning in when you're talking, it pre-selects you because you hold the power in the conversation and are actively engaging the girl. It demonstrates to the club her interest in you. | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 12:21 PM |
| 1 | [FR] funny coffee meet F-close [NSFW]Perfect. Thanks. I will test this theory out and get back to you. My initial thought about it was "I need all this space and I'm not concerned with what others think by me using it" kind of mentality. It's subtle, but effective (apparently). | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 01:41 PM |
| 2 | [FR] funny coffee meet F-close [NSFW]What's the (psychological) significance of "taking space"? Keen to find out why it's a good thing to do. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 10:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Lorded the wedding reception; threesome F-close with the bridesmaids.Boom! Epic night my man. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 01:22 PM |
| 1 | 5 Things That Will Get You LaidAwesome post, #5 is so important. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 12:00 AM |
| 4 | How Seddit changed my life, and landed me my perfect 10."...my time with her is ecstasy" - can't wait to say that one day. That's why I'm here. | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 11:32 AM |
| 19 | Turns out I'm not a very good kisser. Help me seddit?Kissing is easy. Make sure to hold her when you kiss her. A good kiss can seal the deal. Read this: http://www.scribd.com/doc/17312272/Kissing-101-Your-Essential-Guide-to-Kissing-Tips-and-Techniqes-Malestrom | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Help with shit tests.I usually just say yes and don't play it. haha | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 01:20 PM |
| 7 | Help with shit tests.Fuck, this is tight game. I like it a lot. Especially the concept of her convincing me why I should play the song......that way she is qualifying herself to me. Thanks bro. | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Help with shit tests.HAHA....my boss would kill me if I played that. 150+ people inside would be like wtf. But I love it. | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 06:09 AM |
| 1 | A mistake I realized I was making / word of advice to othersPerfect! | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 12:03 PM |
| 5 | A mistake I realized I was making / word of advice to othersCallback Humor. Also related to investment theory, i.e. using techniques which will make the girl invest time and thought into you when you first pick her up. Example: "...let’s say that I recently met Katie, a banker. During the initial meeting, I playfully teased Katie about being an evil corporate type. Using Callback Humor, the first text would read something like this: “Katie the banker! Don’t stay out too late, you have to be up early to foreclose on that orphanage of blind kids, you’ll ne… | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Seduction Tip: Bringing a girl home for the first time.^ Haha exactly | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Seduction Tip: Bringing a girl home for the first time.GREAT ODIN'S RAVEN! | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Seduction Tip: Bringing a girl home for the first time.Definitely a really valid point. I think if you make your life interesting then you won't have to place items around your place at all. But it doesn't hurt to show her you are worth it by putting some cool stuff out that is actually relevant to your life. Plus these things make her feel more attracted to you and that is why we are all here. Boxing gloves......so good! | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, I lose my voice very quickly in a loud club/bar environment. Any advice?Peacocking level 99. | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, I lose my voice very quickly in a loud club/bar environment. Any advice?What about alcohol? Does that affect your voice? | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, I lose my voice very quickly in a loud club/bar environment. Any advice?Might look into that, thanks. I actually have a very deep, resonant voice, so maybe it's just harder to hear in louder environments. | /r/seduction | 14/03/12 12:32 PM |
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