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| 23 | The phenomena of single women dating married menThe vast majority do not do this. Of those dating a married man, i would bet most don't know he's married. If you know that many people doing this it most likely says something about you and the crew you hang around with. I understand you may feel smart talking about "selection bias", but that doesn't make women dating married men some widespread issue. Doesn't even mean that's why those women who are, are doing it. Not even for thrills. Like most relationships they like the person and got close… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 09:29 PM |
| 0 | The "quiet" male revolution.These men can get whatever they want, yet endlessly post about their loneliness epidemic, how they don't need no woman (MGTOW), complain about dating sites and endlessly post and consume content about women. They're incredibly loud and whiny. Some even violent. Never mind unmarried men have worse life outcomes on average (for various reasons). This is delusion. You think you're "sticking it" to women. But clearly this isn't working out how you thought it would as a subgroup. That's the thing, it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:13 PM |
| 6 | Males who are frequently the dumpers usually have standards and a high self-esteem.You're projecting what you want to believe onto these situations. Some men who break-up with a woman are doing it because they know they're being mistreated. Some know it's a bad relationship. I think if they break up with people a lot they likely have problems of some kind. Problems choosing, problems creating a healthy relationship, not knowing what they want, etc. Jumping around a lot is indicative of something wrong. I think though, that your thinking (what you described in your post) is a g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Do men derive their self-esteem and emotional state from womenI think they derive a lot of it from other men actually. They want women to impress other men with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Question: If a woman asks for a divorce over emotional needs, is it okay to divorce over physical needs?Most men don't meet their wife's physical needs though either, on top of the emotional ones. Can't complain if he's the cause, which he usually is. This isn't some new, "gotcha girls!" argument. It's because men think like you do, that they're entitled to sex, even though they are neither emotionally, nor physically pleasing, that they don't put in the effort, that ends up costing them the marriage and sex in the first place. Why get into a fight with your girlfriend over this and think that's a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 02:01 AM |
| 1 | If the blue pill is correct, why does the friend zone exist?LOL. I'll never understand how men come to believe this stuff. it's really simple, you might like people for some reasons, but not enough to want to be with them as anything other than a friend. it's like the difference between close friends and friends you only hang out with for certain hobbies, or only hang out with at work. Some women aren't looking to date. Some women don't want to even be friends but are too afraid to tell you. There's no magic guarantee to make any woman like you, or keep … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 06:52 PM |
| 7 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.This stuff is in your head man. Typing it out here doesn't make it true. Some women who are superficial expect a date to pay. That doesn't mean every women who does is superficial. But all this toxicity and trying to read negative things into other's intentions will hinder you from finding a good partner and making the relationship happy. These habits of thought usually bleed into other areas of life too. Don't let this screw up your life. If you've "saved" a lot of time/money/energy by only hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 06:13 AM |
| -1 | Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why?Men on average treat women and eachother worse. They commit more crime and have less empathy on average, less conscientiousness too, also more power (money, positions, means and places to abuse from). This is also why they'll complain about the "women are wonderful" effect as being a bias, rather than face the truth about gender differences in behaviour leading to others trusting them less and suspecting them more. It doesn't mean women never victimize men, but this doesn't happen with the same … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 06:02 AM |
| 4 | Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partnerWhat's best for children is to be raised by loving, caring, biological parents, a man and a woman. I love how RP types talk about the downfall of Western society being women working, or something, then talk about artificial wombs and surrogacy as a single "dad". You can look up testimonials of kids born this way and they're not so good, some are, but a lot aren't. It's sad seeing sperm donor children meet the donor years later and clearly want a relationship but get none. Men and women who do th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 11:56 PM |
| 6 | Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partnerYeah, I remember watching this video and some poor Eastern European woman might not be able to have her own kids with her husband after donating eggs. She did it for the money so they could start a life together, or something. Now she's maybe infertile, it can even kill these women. It's taking advantage of poor women who don't get the follow up they need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 11:52 PM |
| 3 | The redpill ruined my mental health and turned me (24, F) into a misandrist.I think there's misandry, which is very rare and then there are valid criticisms of men and their behaviour as a group at large, even if there are some individuals who are ok fellas. I mean, the religious people at the beginning of your story weren't wrong about pornography, nor were the feminists wrong about many things too. It seems like you don't want to accept they were right because you don't want to be labelled along side them as being bad, or stupid, or a "misandrist", or you don't want t… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/02/24 07:10 PM |
| 5 | What is actual abuse?Yeah this is crazy. You can't change a verbally abusive man through your actions and anyone telling you to take that on yourself is a deceiver and harming others. As far as the smashing stuff so that they don't smash you, again, that's absolute BS. A grown man should be able to control himself without getting physical like that and he's not doing it to protect you, he's doing it because he's in a fit of rage and wants to. these people you take advice from are wrong and horrible human beings, or … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/24 08:19 AM |
| 4 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Or why there's more men having trouble finding someone. Wanting to date a women in their 20s, doesn't mean they want to date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Not sure if this is appropriate to post here but posting because I have a more “traditional” relationship and having some issues. PLEASE helpYeah, he is abusive and you're making excuses. It's not severe yet, but it is abusive. You can choose abusive but be aware you are choosing it and that he is choosing to abuse you. You aren't responsible for his insecurities or feeding his fragile ego. you didn't do anything wrong, he did, he needs to fix it, you cannot. I'm sorry, yes, he is abusive. Saying that doesn't make me a boss babe, you putting up with it doesn't make it traditional, you talking about choice doesn't make it moral. This … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/24 04:01 PM |
| 3 | If women started approaching men, they would still end up approaching a minority of themWomen aren't dating the minority of men. Not all women have boyfriends, simps, secret admirers. Stop telling yourself victim sob stories that aren't real. You're your own worst enemy. It isn't women. Not to mention there's a lot of men complaining about approaching women, who don't do it at all, yet complain about how they would fail and be arrested. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and put that effort into self-improvement, the good kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 08:16 PM |
| 6 | The idea women are loved unconditionallyMen commit crimes at higher rates and usually do much less caring for children and family. Why, oh why would people be disinclined from helping men and more inclined, "biased", towards women? Gee, I wonder. Who's fault is it? Certainly not the men committing more crime, caring less for loved ones and posting nasty crap all over message boards like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 04:51 AM |
| 5 | Have tradcons taken over the redpill?I think some men aged out of being players, or wannabe players and now are looking for wives and status another way. I think Western countries are in trouble and men want to blame women. I think you have a lot of insecure men, also operating in insecure, difficult times and being able to control and blame women is more appealing, or necessary for them to get anyone. I think there are more people with personality problems alive now, than at any other time and they also influence otherwise healthy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 07:24 PM |
| -2 | Why do women pick the worst partners?You're messed up. Seriously. The majority of women do not choose abusive partners. The ones that end up in abusive relationships do not have some feminist super power to instantly leave them without repercussions. You not having the relationship you want is not because of women picking abusers, and therefore not being available to you, it's your messed up mind set and whatever underlying problems, possibly genetic, lead you to think in such a crazy way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe that religion is a necessary part of being traditional?To be traditional is to be religious and that's the end of it. To be "traditional" in the secular sense, is some soulless larp. You can have a "submissive" woman relationship, but it has no real grounding in tradition, just in things people pick and choose that suit them as individuals, it's individualist. Much like RP men's proclivities to enjoy pre and extramarital sex and still call themselves traditional. It's the same as as couple who don't believe in marriage and have a civil union. It's y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/23 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Most advice targeted at men here is to make them wait until they are too old to do anythingIt's bad advice, coming from bad people, to bad people. Because both the givers and receivers of the advice are the kind of people to delude themselves (psychologically prone to this stuff due to genetic traits,) it's hard to convince them they are wrong, even when they can sometimes see gaps in their "logical". Just look at some of the comments on your post here and see the true believers. They take bad advice, which they don't often even do, then give up when they don't get results and claim t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 05:33 PM |
| 3 | The wallIt's revenge, it's a tactic to try and scare women into dating them, it's a narcissistic thing, where they tell themselves things to make them feel they're above others (those lesser, older women for example). Also, a lot of them don't think for themselves and just parrot what they hear to fit in and feel smart. People do generally get less "attractive" as they age and the dating pool does shrink. but it is for booth sexes, not just the one. They also want to believe they can get a younger women… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/23 03:14 AM |
| 10 | My boyfriend keeps telling me how attractive other women find him and it’s starting to irritate meHe's trying to manipulate you. make you feel insecure, like you better stay on your toes and do what he wants cause there's a bunch of women lined up. He's trying to undermine your confidence, in your ability to keep him, to get you to do things for him. He's being emotionally abusive and most likely on purpose, going off of online tips. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/23 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Virginity and red pillThey're trying to prey on someone inexperienced to take advantage of them. yes it's creepy. Doesn't matter if in part it stems from low self esteem and fear. They're prowling for someone they're not approaching honestly and who's meant to be someone they're looking out for. A lot of them also talk about how women should marry young, even under 18. There is some desire for childlike qualities with a lot of them, even if 18 and up. Wanting to have sex with someone for such a reason is greatly cree… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/23 04:43 PM |
| 0 | Western Women are the luckiestMost men aren't valuable as life partners. I don't mean money or looks, I mean values and morals, knowing how to contribute to the health of a relationship. The way you try and dismiss this problem using sexual terms like "tingles" and actually believe many women are "sharing", is illustrative of how sick many men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Western Women are the luckiestThe sad part is that you believe what you wrote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 08:11 AM |
| 3 | Western Women are the luckiestYou say that like it's a realistic fear. Even if it was, you can thank other men for that. Don't whine when you do it to yourselves and use it as an excuse to harm other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 08:08 AM |
| 6 | Western Women are the luckiestYou mean easier to financially abuse, followed bysexual abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 08:07 AM |
| 7 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?They're doing double duty. Doesn't matter what the husband earns, he's not doing the parenting and cleaning and managing of the household. Too much work leads to stress. You see this with lower earning women and even SAHMs who's husband does F all. I'm sure lots of women would like to have a "wife" that does everything else for them, like the male doctors often have. Probably also just you choosing to perceive things that way. there's a ton of jerky male doctors. If you don't see them, or more l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 03:35 AM |
| 4 | Women get away with far more awkward and shitty behavior than menen behave more badly, more often. People note this, especially the extreme examples where people got hurt and so act accordingly. If you want to be treated with the same grace, give it to others and behave better in the first place. Don't whine after the fact when you are found out. Despite all this men get away some heinous stuff, even outright crimes. People fear talking back to them and like taking stuff out on women. Stop trying to revel in being a victim and how unfair you THINK your life i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Women get away with far more awkward and shitty behavior than menCause your own little world is representative of reality? The reasoning here is always so ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 06:42 PM |
| 1 | There is no correct way of approaching women which cannot at some point be construed as annoying or inappropriateSome of these people are autists, some have anxiety issues and don't want to seek help for it, others are narcs who think everyone should behave how they want them to but can't enforce it the way successful narcs do. Some are all of the above. What's important is that they never seem to learn and keep making this same post over and over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 06:08 PM |
| – | Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fearWomen want healthy kids too. Best time for that is men in late teens to early 30s. No point in having a provider for sick kids, if they even make it to that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 08:28 AM |
| 22 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app finds"a guy that likes you that doesn't watch porn" --- The number of men who don't watch porn is incredibly slim. how many of those are actually decent and compatible? Forget about it. Porn isn't the only thing sending women these messages and that both sexes consume. Women are insecure for good reason and all you can think of is the "poor guy" who wants to have sex with them (and he often does not like them as much as porn and is comparing them to it even if he does). All that matters are your want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 02:33 PM |
| 11 | Women don’t want men to have success in dating"in shape" is not a personality. That you make a comment like that hints at why you might not get much interest. You're focused on the wrong things and it will come out to women talking to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 05:51 AM |
| 7 | Women don’t want men to have success in datingUnwell men think it's always, some way, somehow, someone else's fault they're not getting the women they want. Here's just another excuse, complete with faulty video game reference reasoning, as to why it's everyone else but those men. There's no grand conspiracy. There are some people who take the misery loves company approach (mostly other men). But it's just men lacking in ability and having psychological problems to some degree, that they don't want to, or can't work on, and that's why they'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 05:49 AM |
| 13 | Do women use the adjectives "creepy" "weirdo" "stalker" etc., as synonymous of "unattractive"?In this case they're probably just jealous of your excel skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Do women use the adjectives "creepy" "weirdo" "stalker" etc., as synonymous of "unattractive"?Because those mentally ill women wouldn't want them, they're busy with the serial killers. Though, I have seen people say that certain abusive men and women do deserve each other. Problem is the incels don't want their psychomatch either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 07:15 PM |
| 8 | Do women use the adjectives "creepy" "weirdo" "stalker" etc., as synonymous of "unattractive"?Exactly. I believe there was a person(s) who escaped him because they thought he was creepy. Why ignore them? Doesn't fit the theory of why this guy has it so unfair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 07:09 PM |
| -1 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in personThey haven't been through rejections, that's the point. You can't succeed if you don't try. you can't blame others when you do nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 12:38 AM |
| 2 | This video explains what the red pill does get right but why it's useless ultimatelyThis seems to be what a lot of them are doing, pretend to be redpill lite or something. If he's posting stuff like that and into testosterone skincare products, he's a grifter and an RPer. There's good reason to dismiss him. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/09/23 12:31 AM |
| -2 | CMV: Red pill views of family law (divorce, custody, child support) have little to no basis in realityIt is common. That you deny it, say women want it, are oblivious to their suffering, is just another display of RP men's basic lack of humanity - and how delusional they are. Please don't sexually assault women, or encourage other men to do so, they definitely don't want it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 08:06 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Red pill views of family law (divorce, custody, child support) have little to no basis in realityLOL, that you can't understand how there are other reasons than cheating and beating that count as "grave", that you don't understand the negative impact of emotional neglect, or psychological abuse, or unwillingness to change and how these can severely impact a marriage. This is why so many men end up divorced. They just don't get basic human things. They can't put themselves in other people's shoes, they think "it can't be that bad for them". You don't get that what you're saying reveals so ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 08:01 AM |
| 1 | The orgasm gap would be smaller if women took the time to communicate their needs instead of expecting things to magically happen to themThis is a great answer. The reply is hilarious and an example of the excuses and blame shifting so many men do. It's really quite something. Putting some of that effort instead, into learning what women want, and how to take criticism, might actually net good results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 03:16 AM |
| 1 | What's the reason for why people need a 'hoe phase'?LOL, "perhaps men too". Men want to put out far more than women and usually do. Nevermind their porn usage throughout their lives. Lack of self control, pleasure seeking. They want a relationship later when they're not as young, or want a woman to raise kids with and keep house. But until then, when they need to be respectable and their friends are getting married, until then they want to try and sleep around. Lack of morals, evolution, fewer consequences, ego, all such things contribute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 03:05 AM |
| -6 | Double standards on the view of male victims of rape.You're comparing several things here. Generally speaking, female rape victims are not criminals. Comparing the treatment of criminals in prison, to innocent women going about their lives is ridiculous. In both cases it's generally also men doing the sexual assaulting and making the joke. The double standards are disseminated by men, though women help reinforce them. Stop things at the top of the chain if you want to stop them. I agree that prisoners should not be subjected to predations, by guar… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/08/23 08:45 PM |
| 0 | At what age did you first receive sexual attention from adult men?You give yourself away man, seek help. The majority of men in first world countries don't naturally creep on kids. Pornography has made it worse, but it ain't normal. If you have a problem you need to seek help before you hurt someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:46 AM |
| 2 | At what age did you first receive sexual attention from adult men?There's fast and slow life history strategies. There's differences in populations on average, and also within them. Some people in the third world behaving a certain way doesn't mean the majority in other countries, even other third world countries, do the same. It is rare. Pedos just like to rationalize it and think others feel the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Even PragerU is calling out red pill now.Dennis "Women Are Disproportionately Hurting Our Country" Prager isn't exactly someone I would look to for realistic takes on situations. RP stuff is evil. But I would question Mr. Prager, and his website's, motivations for criticizing it. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/23 06:21 PM |
| -2 | The number one cause of violence against women is the shitbag men they pick to sleep with. Men talking to each other on the internet and saying mean but true things about women is not violence against women.You must have lived a messed up life to come to that conclusion. Even someone with a half functioning brain and the internet could figure out that's not true. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/07/23 11:38 PM |
| 0 | The number one cause of violence against women is the shitbag men they pick to sleep with. Men talking to each other on the internet and saying mean but true things about women is not violence against women.LOL, and they say women can't take responsibility. It is the abusive man who chooses to abuse women who is responsible. He and he alone is responsible, not the person who "pick"s him. Many don't start off abusive but slowly isolate women and become so. Others start off quite abusive and women fear to leave from the get go. The only way to stop abusive men, is for men to choose not to abuse others. Capital punishment for certain criminals also helps weed the genes out of the population. Plenty of… | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/07/23 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedIf he's abusive, why shouldn't people know the truth? People like that thrive when they don't get called out. If someone hurt you wouldn't you want a little justice? For people to know what kind of person he or she really was? I think the best revenge is living well personally. but all these people whining about her possible motive, rather than on what actually happened are missing the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 11:25 PM |
| 8 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedThat's completely out of touch. Just because you can get someone to do something like that doesn't mean you should. It is misogynistic. It's on him. He should have learned to be a good person decades ago, rather than to find someone who will put up with his nastiness. Especially if he broke her down bit by bit, which they often do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 11:21 PM |
| -6 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedThat's just your interpretation of it. Considering that he mistreated her, she has valid reason to dislike him, that doesn't make someone bitter, it just means she wants justice. It can take time to realize yo've been abused, or to speak out over it. I don't know if the media has been painting him as a good guy, when he's not, because he had a baby or something. i could see that being upsetting. But regardless of him having a baby, if he did something wrong, he did something wrong. When the info… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedYou have to fix yourselves and not make it everyone else's problem. That's how you get out of this, not harming others due to your own troubles. Anyone can break-up for any reason. He didn't have to stay or something, that's crazy to interpret it that way. If you abuse people, even after the relationship ends, people won't like you. The break-up is not the only atonement, especially if they haven't changed or apologized. This isn't an example of men can't win. It's bad men can't get away with cr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 11:16 PM |
| -2 | Women: Dick size doesn't matter sweetie, it's just about the motion of the ocean! Also women r/BadDragonOr women are different, or some people just blather on in an attempt to make you feel better, or it depends. If RP men stopped generalizing they would cause much less trouble for themselves and the interwebs. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/07/23 05:29 AM |
| -1 | All Pills - What is your explanation for this woman's actions?There are R strategists and there are K strategists. They look for different things in partners, they have different genetic personality traits. You also have people who could go either way. It wasn't that she just couldn't control herself. Plenty of women can control themselves, it's not just a matter of circumstance and any woman will cheat. Men are more likely to cheat if the opportunity presents itself, not women and there are men who resist that too. It's a mating strategy. He may have also… | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/07/23 03:00 AM |
| -2 | A woman can be fat, annoying, smelly, stupid, short, no ambition, no future, no education, insufferable, broke and STILL get a boyfriendLOL, most of the men here are literally sick. What's worse is you all think you see reality for what it is. Of course women struggle. Stop being so self centered as to think you're the only one who ever suffered. Women just typically don't have the same standards as a lot of men. Men will have sex far too readily, it's an extreme moral failing. Women usually want more than that. Finding that "more", is difficult, especially with men like the ones on this sub out there. It's not delusional to not… | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/07/23 09:59 PM |
| -2 | Does anyone else get sick of watching females drool overSo let me get this straight. You're in a foreign country, trying to enjoy a meal, but RP thinking has warped you so much you are ogling a couple across a table and thinking about his "alpha traits" and ugliness and are bitter about, what you perceive, as her eying the waiter? Which you describe in a highly sexual fashion no less. Then, you think of how jealous it makes you, and at that point should have some self-awareness to know how pathetic it all is - but you post anyways? It's posts like th… | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/07/23 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Women who use these types of communities.Thank you Smurfie. A real range of emotions. Some tragedies, some think disaster averted. Also nice to see PPD people acting mostly decent. Well done conversation starter. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/07/23 05:19 AM |
| 1 | "Just Have a Good Personality Bro!"--Stories and ThoughtsThis is true of even "normal" (average) people. you can't keep up the facade forever. The thing is to accentuate your good qualities and learn to control the bad. It's much harder for autistics and they should be given some leeway but that doesn't mean they shouldn't try. For example, being extremely blunt, to the point of cruelty. Yes, they should try to learn which topics to avoid. There's also lots of "normal" people who'll say blunt, cruel things and then tell you they just tell it like it i… | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/07/23 05:12 AM |
| 1 | How many Men here, believe men invented built and lead humans in every way until modern times?I mean, the majority of inventions and leaders were male, but a handful of men. Other men and women helped build society and move it along. Those greats couldn't build it without other's help. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/23 01:59 AM |
| 1 | TRP Hates StepfathersI'm not a fan of remarriage for religious reasons, or step parents for potential abuse. But their hatred is generally to try and puff themselves up as better by denigrating other men and women, who may not even be aware they exist. I think a lot of RP/BP types have failed marriages (you can see it in the comments) and have versions of events where they were hard done by and like taking their rage out on single moms/moms with a new partner. I think some of them also have step-dad issues, or dad i… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/23 01:58 AM |
| 5 | Courtney Ryan and Alex(playing with fire)are 2 of the few dating coaches that deserve credit.She's clearly courting RP types and fanning their hatred of women. She's just more low key about it, I assume to try and stay more respectable, as her husband has a more respectable business. His watch videos are kind of interesting. But she's obviously grifter and very phony in her demeanor. The ire she got from fans when they found out her husbands networth was interesting. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/23 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Women who use these types of communities.Does this still exist anywhere? I would be curious to read it. You do still get reddit threads about people being asked about if they regret abortion and sometimes men answer, but not that often. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/07/23 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Women who use these types of communities."Black pill can't be untrue because that makes victim-men feel bad". This is the truth of the situation. You can't see it because you're sick and don't want to. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/07/23 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Women who use these types of communities.And do you actually understand why any of those things are potentially true? No you don't. You exaggerate things and take them as rules when often they are just theories and if they are true, only hold true for part of the population and for certain reasons. Men i see post on RP and the like boards don't understand evo-psych, psychology, human differences, sex differences, etc. They just parrot lines they read from some other equally unread male and think it's true. They internalize it because i… | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/07/23 01:50 AM |
| -3 | Women who use these types of communities.Men usually aren't asking questions here, they're posting about how they are victims. Men also dismiss criticism by saying women just think it's "toxic masculinity" or "patriarchy", when the women (and even some men) have valid reasons for disagreement. You can't empathize with people who are sick and incorrect - and usually insulting. The men here and in other similar spaces often have personality disorders, certain bad psychological traits that maybe aren't enough to qualify as disorder and ar… | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/07/23 01:39 AM |
| -5 | I really don't see any incentive for man to contribute to society that doesn't care.Lol, you think you don't rely on society to keep you safe warm and fed? You think you're dropping out by rational choice and not from some sort of dysphoria brought on by the modern age? Or just plain laziness. Sorry, the revenge fantasy won't come. We will see a collapse eventually, as all civilizations do. But it's not you "showing everybody" that caused it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/07/23 01:55 AM |
| 0 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakLol, this is a great line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Do women care about men's body count? (Just want your opinion)Personally I find it disgusting. Unless someone was being abused, or having a manic episode or something, it's a major character flaw and our philosophies and morals would not match. Research does not say good stuff about people, men or women, who sleep around, certain psychological traits. Generally people want those similar to them and not someone who's slept with large amount of people, as most people have not done so. Might find women to date but finding a long term partner would be difficul… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/23 02:07 AM |
| 2 | The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexualityNo. None of this do as thou wilt crap. Men disproportionately treat women (and children and animals) as objects and abuse them. If you didn't want to be judged more harshly then you shouldn't do such bad things as a group at large. Trying to suspend morality and guilt people into not judging you, is just a display of your own immorality. Now, there shouldn't be double standards and there in lies the problem. Men expect women to be attractive, while they are not. They demean women who don't look … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Redpill vs RealityYes, evil is real. It's not just some misunderstood person with a bad childhood. Some people enjoy harming others, by choice, and sometimes by genetics. But, it's true, that there are good and bad people, and I believe most people are good, or at least decent and not sociopaths. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/23 04:13 AM |
| -6 | Caring about women is pointless in 2023It's not worth it to you because your sick. There's plenty of healthy men out there, normal men, not just chad, getting into relationships. You've convinced yourself of all this, likely because you have certain personality traits, or even a full blown disorder. Spouting off like this on the internet won't make anything better for you. You need to get help from a legitimate doctor and stop telling yourself what you want to hear (excuses for why you are where you are, why it's other people's fault… | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/06/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Is there any reason to distrust Red Pill research statstícs ?They misread the stats, misrepresent the stats, plain don't understand them, have bad stats. These are people with a heavy bias and lack of skills necessary, generally, to come to valid conclusions. Most just repeat what others post, never bothering to check if true. An example is the Pareto Principle. They think 20% of men get 80% of women. When in reality, at least in the info they were talking about, it was something like 20-30% of men getting about 80% of the DATES, not women, dates. They di… | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/06/23 03:22 PM |
| -7 | Being a short guy is fucking horrible"Nice guys". That's exactly it. you can't even hide your darkness in this three line post and wonder why you're unsuccessful. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/06/23 06:06 PM |
| -6 | american womens obsession with height needs to be studiedWomen liking tall men has been studied. They generally have better attributes, hence women being attracted. Why certain men are obsessed with women and tall men? Insecurity, envy, bitterness, looking for excuses for their own failings. This trio is amusing. i'm not surprised people would turn and look. Same with a beanpole and a short fat pair. It's just unusual. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/06/23 06:05 PM |
| 5 | american womens obsession with height needs to be studiedLOL. It's true. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/06/23 06:02 PM |
| 1 | BLM in the streets, KKK in the sheetsWhite women are the least likely to be in an interracial relationship and when they are it's mostly with Hispanic men. The White woman/Black man thing is just something pushed by the media and certain angry White males. Most people look about average and are not "Dime status", not 30+ White couples, nor couples of any race. Hispanics and Blacks are also more likely to be obese than Whites. People trying to put down White women as being unusually fat reveals some inner nastiness. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/06/23 12:54 AM |
| 3 | BLM in the streets, KKK in the sheetsThere's nothing wrong with Whites wanting to date Whites. White people don't owe other groups anything, not their bodies, not anything. Trying to manipulate Whites into dating minorities by calling them KKK/racist is abusive. Liberals are Machiavellian, they don't believe what they preach, they're just trying to get ahead. Don't expect them to practice what they preach. Minorities are in it for themselves too. Don't expect them to notice any of their double standards. As for minorities wanting t… | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/06/23 12:50 AM |
| 1 | what do you say to women who use "women were not allowed the opportunity" or "women were forced to be pregnant or be housewives" when you bring up the fact most inventors or noble prize winners were menYou would have to go into genetics and in particular IQ and how few individuals there are on the right extreme and how they are mostly White Males. That would anger groups other than women though, so, tread lightly. There is some validity to them being barred from things. But that's not the biggest reason. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/23 04:41 AM |
| – | Most of the dating bitterness people have towards the opposite gender is a selection bias.I think it's mostly due to narcissism. Many men feel entitled to sleep around with hot women and when they don't get it, or get as much of it as they want, they start reaching for rationalizations on why it's someone else's fault. Men like to externalize blame. Then women see the vocal minority, along with mistreatment from even average men and rightfully get upset. You do have women who are too demanding and out of touch but they're a minority and men like to hyper focus on them to provide proo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 04:21 PM |
| 0 | Something I noticed about the recent anti-RP peopleThey've been been saying crap about White/Western women all along. They've fetishized Asians all along. Blacks are not some unique victim group. I agree they can dish out racial attacks but can't take them. Then they get upset. Then they use the power of PC to fight back with accusations of "racism". They're weak hypocrites who think they're special, what else is new? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/23 04:22 PM |
| 7 | Are they aware they are abusing women?This is a great, in depth answer. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/23 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Are they aware they are abusing women?They talk about it being amoral. Now, understanding psychology, people's weak points may be amoral for example, but actually trying to put that into action is immoral. So they misuse, I believe purposely, the word amoral, because it means they're not responsible and they think they sound smart or something. Also, they think they're entitled to hurt others. They feel they are victims, they are owed, they are special. They come up with a host of reasons for why they should get what they want by an… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/23 04:10 PM |
| 8 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketLOL, the things men tell themselves. AND THEY BELIEVE IT TOO! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 06:21 PM |
| 12 | Women are valued for what they doYes. Woman are a *uck object (and lucky for it!) while simultaneously (cognitive dissonance) have to cook clean, take care of the house, kids and him in a myriad of ways, not to mention often a job. But those things she does and not just is, are taken for granted, don't count and men somehow have it harder and earn their value and life is so unfair to him. Every few days men post that garbage and they never realize what awful things they are revealing about themselves and their delusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 06:23 PM |
| -1 | Women are valued for what they are, Men are valued for what they provideSo women are valued as objects and more accepted because they aren't as violent as men? You think this makes men look good and like victims? I love how men keep repeating this, thinking it's some new insight, and worse, something that puts them in a good light. It doesn't. It does exemplify a lack of goodness in so many men though, not all, but a lot of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 02:38 AM |
| 1 | I think that Postpartum Depression may be correlated with the father's looks.You're Dad was an alcoholic and drug addict and you think it's his ugliness that broke up the marriage? Oh boy. It's not the looks and it's not your fault. Addicts are awful to be around and wear thin real quick. Probably tried to make it work because they loved you, thought it was the right. You're Mom doesn't sound like a peach either, which might also have lead to trouble in the marriage and her kicking you out. You don't have to be like them if you don't want to though. You also don't have t… | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/05/23 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many men in White Nationalist groups have ethnic wives/girlfriends?It's the character traits (genetic) that go along with their political position, on average. Can't remember what they were off the top of my head. Low agreeableness, stuff associated with fast life history strategy? There's also reasons, that some men prefer East Asian women, and rate them as more attractive than women of their own race, that isn't just a gross fetish. East Asian women, on average, have facial features that appeal to men, I think it's the neoteny making them more feminine if I r… | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/05/23 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Here is how TRP is eerily similar to ScientologyThere's the religion itself, then there's people who claim to practice it, or pervert it. Lot of people practicing Christianity are practicing parts of it, when it suits them and blending it with 1950s social norms they take as a given part of the religion, when it isn't. Same with Hinduism. The men responsible for the group sex assaults may claim to be Hindu, doesn't mean they are properly practicing the religion. People also aren't perfect, even when they try to practice Christianity. The impo… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/05/23 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Here is how TRP is eerily similar to ScientologyI've been thinking of the similarities between the two as well. They even "fair game" people who disagree with certain figures, or who "simp". They have the whole secret knowledge thing going on, the rest of us are trapped in the matrix. When society becomes less religious, people look to fill the void. Shame they went for Xenu and the tramps. Guess looking East and getting all Zen is cliche now. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/05/23 07:49 PM |
| – | Sadly I have fallen back into the red pill. I have been watching the33secrets and better bachelor etc. I no it’s bad but for me it’s almost like a train wreck I can’t look away also when I get bored if I’m doing nothing I go back too those YouTube channels. I hate them.It's easier to replace a bad habit with a good one, than just trying to stop the bad habit. Delete the other channels from subs, tell YT not to recommend them and find other videos to watch instead, queue them up so they're ready to go. Or find another activity, perhaps something like exercise, something physical, to do. Any habit, just replace it and give it time. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/05/23 07:37 PM |
| 9 | No one ever seems to want to acknowledge that women consistently go for abusive, bad natured men. If you bring this up all they do is shame you to silence the discussion, and this is probably the most prominent example of gaslighting in dating/gender dynamics.Saves their ego. "I wasn't chosen because she was duped!", not "I wasn't chosen because she found me unlikable". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 02:56 AM |
| 1 | The truth about the red pillThey don't need to know about it. You describe your thoughts, explain why you have them, what your beliefs are and they can explain to you why they are not helpful and alternative things to try. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/23 03:21 AM |
| 1 | The truth about the red pill"It is outside of our control, it is preordained." Might I suggest working on changing your locus of control? Switch from external to internal. That you can control your life. I actually do believe in a lot of biological determinism. But that doesn't mean you can't still be successful in your own way, even if it's not as successful as others. Which is the other thing i would suggest. If you compare yourself to others a lot, look at social media a lot, stop doing that and step away from that part… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/23 03:19 AM |
| 3 | I recently found out that a guy I’m talking to has a high body count and I am repulsedI think this is probably what he's doing though. He hasn't had sex with you, but by selling a fantasy (if only in his mind) that you can count on his income to be a stay at home Mom and have kids, or whatever he thinks the Christian fantasy is, he thinks you'll have sex with him before marriage (and he never intended on marrying you) and he can brag about it when he inevitably moves on. He might be deluding himself, thinking he can move into a normal marriage, but I think more likely he's playin… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/23 03:02 AM |
| 2 | I recently found out that a guy I’m talking to has a high body count and I am repulsedDon't listen to people like this, they don't get why waiting until marriage is important to Christians and that it doesn't mean anything bad. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/23 03:00 AM |
| 1 | I recently found out that a guy I’m talking to has a high body count and I am repulsedDon't be unequally yoked. He's not a Christian, he's a hypocrite. Flee from evil, flee from him. Listen, it's not healthy to have that many partners. They're are underlying bad personality traits here. Break contact with him and don't start up again. Plus he's older than you. Better chance of a stable marriage with someone your age, your religion, your experience (plenty of guys who wait to, find one of them). This guy is a disaster and he won't likely be fixed. He's already talking about gettin… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/23 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Obsession with being seen as desirableAs others have said, narcissism, and, trying to fill a hole and not realizing that's not the way to do it. Being shallow, not knowing what's really valuable in life. Sorry you got sucked into it for awhile. Actually being valuable is much harder than having the illusion of being so. The illusion they're going for, having a bevy of women around, isn't the key to happiness, even should they achieve it. They're wasting their lives and don't know it and often can't be convinced otherwise, because ye… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/23 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Redpill is ruining young men.Narcissism, anti-social personality traits, being low in agreeableness, being less capable. In other words, having bad character is what drives them there. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/23 01:43 AM |
| 10 | Redpill is ruining young men.It does teach it though. Women aren't equals, they're not smart enough, unemotional enough to make decisions. I Actually JUST saw a comment yesterday about one guy complaining about living with his Mom like he was put upon. His attitude and the responses, about putting her in her place, getting revenge, were really sick. And now I hear about stuff like this? yeah, it absolutely teaches them to hate women, their Mom's are women. they also often blame their Moms for the lack of Dad doing his part.… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/23 01:41 AM |
| 16 | I crawled out of a dark place and was forced back inOr opening up made her anxious or embarrassed. I've opened up with people about anxiety and they were genuinely nice but it truly was embarrassing and I would rather not run into them again. Someone coming to your house one time does not mean they are in love with you and going to spend the rest of their life with you and fix your problems and build up your self esteem for you. You made too big a deal of what she said. You're also probably wrong about not meaning anything to her. She probably st… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/23 01:34 AM |
| 19 | I crawled out of a dark place and was forced back inYou weren't forced, you chose to go back. You have very unhealthy ways of thinking. It's not someone else's responsibility to give you meaning and happiness and save you, it's yours. It's especially not some girl's who you went on one date with? Don't blame others for things that are your responsibility. Not everyone will work out and them working out might be for a variety of reasons (sometimes they lie about the reason too, to spare feelings, or don't know themselves). You have to fix the way … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/23 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Redpillers and their mothersI think it's mainly just narcissism and other bad personality traits. I think it's largely genetic. However, there are some people who could be good, so long as they aren't exposed to bad influences, especially at the wrong time. Sure, some of them had issues with their mother. But her issues were likely genetic (negative personality traits) and passed on. I think more likely, aside from narcissism being the biggest thing I believe, some of these men actually have daddy issues. You see this with… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/23 02:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.Women don't tend to say that and the few that do often aren't in the same context that RP types try and make it seem to be. It's usually something said to say they're ok with a break up and being alone for a bit, that they are enough, that they can provide for themselves, that when they do want someone, they want that person to not be controlling. Yes, being an independent adult who can handle themself is the base level. That's why you have so many women complaining "the bar is in hell", because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 05:16 PM |
| -1 | Do you believe in making cosmetic surgery more readily available?Lot of bad plastic surgery out there, lot of surgery that doesn't age well. Not everyone will be happy in the end. We shouldn't spend tax dollars on it, that's for sure. Too many guys think it's looks, height and money and will be disappointed to find out it was just them and their personality, which takes more to fix. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/03/23 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Why do men who already have a girlfriend suddenly believe in Red Pill?I don't know man, openly testing people is nonsense and playing games. A test that's not a game is just setting your normal boundaries and then if they break them, you know. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/23 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Why do men who already have a girlfriend suddenly believe in Red Pill?LOL, "Proof". Average dude, you crack me up. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/23 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do men who already have a girlfriend suddenly believe in Red Pill?Being abused does not give you the right to abuse others. It does not diminish culpability. I sincerely doubt the majority of men in RP were abused. i would bet if you looked at traits like narcissism, sociopathy, disagreeableness and several others, you would find higher incidences of them, than in normal populations. I recall some research saying as much, though I can't remember what the negative traits were, it might have also been related to incels in particular, who also push this, "AWALT" … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/23 11:37 PM |
| 2 | If even Tom Brady can't preserve a marriage, what is it that are everyday folk going to do? Monogamy is incompatible with current society.There's more to marriage than being rich and good looking. You have to spend time, enjoyable time and connect with your spouse and kids. You have to have similar ideas about lifestyle, similar goals, not too demanding schedules that keep you apart, be faithful. Celebrities are human too and have problems, can be jerks, can be wronged, can have bad communication. The only reason anyone is surprised by Brady/Gisele splitting is people with an unrealistic view, a warped view, of what is important i… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/02/23 04:19 AM |
| 10 | Lost the love of my life to the red pill.He may feel like the love of your life now, but he's not. Your husband, who will appreciate what you do for him and treat you better, will be. The things you posted here speak to his worth, not yours. He was trying to make himself feel validated by having, or trying to have a "submissive girlfriend" (one he could abuse with impunity). you were a means to an end, him feeling better about his own lacking. He probably did lie from the beginning, putting his best foot forward, then revealing himself… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/23 12:48 AM |
| 4 | What are all these short kings doing that the rest of us are not?Personality. They have good personalities. Why don't the men here ever truly work on their personalities? A lot of them are real killjoys. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/02/23 12:45 AM |
| 2 | What is the red pill community's obsession with women with 'daddy issues'They want to make them feel like a ruined object. They feel it gives them power to turn others, particularly women, into objects, good or bad. They also want to hurt people and those who have been abused make easy targets. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/23 03:43 AM |
| 0 | When a woman asks you out on a first date at her place, is it wrong to expect sex?LOL, yes it's wrong. Never expect, don't ruin things with expectations, only in your mind. People shouldn't have sex outside of marriage and certainly not on first dates when they don't know if this person is carrying any STDs. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/02/23 03:11 PM |
| 3 | If lighter features on women aren't liked better on women compared to men why are pale skinned asian men lower on the sexual hierarchy than black menActually lighter skin, even within races, is more common in women, as darker skin is in men, within races. It's a sex characteristic of women to be lighter, men to be darker, so evolutionarily we may like it. But there are other characteristics too, like looking more youthful. East Asians on average look more youthful, neotenous, hence them rating highest for attractiveness, on average, among men, because that's something men look for. Women don't generally want soft, more feminine features in m… | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/02/23 02:55 PM |
| 2 | are women aware when they do the apex fallacy, or are they completely ignorant of it?It's all in YOUR mind, not theirs. You choose to interpret things this way because for some sick reason you want to. Not all, or even most women sleep around, most do not complain about "all men" or are not using the term literally and men from all walks of life can and have been abusers of women. Any reasonable, logical person understands that. Instead you have a chip on your shoulder and spin things in your mind to reaffirm that chip. You have to want to help yourself. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/02/23 04:14 AM |
| 15 | CMV: individual women take general criticisms of female behavior personally because they are solipsistic, invalidating the purpose of this subThere's nothing rational about a man who believes women are "solipsistic". If you say "women", then you are including the female respondent. If they don't do what you're saying it disproves your point. The real problem is you and most other men have no desire for discussion. You want state what you think is fact, but isn't, and have women magically agree and come over to your way of thinking. You think you are rational but anything but. Men post the same things here, over and over again. they ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Are normie women really that oblivious to the struggles of (below) average guys?Below average guys are oblivious to the struggles of others and think, they, only they, have it hard. They also hyper focus on dating apps, rather than meet people other ways, then wonder what the issue is. Stop waiting for people to acknowledge "how much harder you have it". Get rid of the chip on your shoulder and be more empathetic to others. It's unattractive to pity yourself and diminish the problems of others, especially for problems that often, aren't real, or as real as such men think it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 01:32 AM |
| 1 | The future is single fatherhood through surrogacy or adoptionToo costly for most men. Not ideal for the kids and if women do most of the childcare and housework, who's going to do it when it's only Daddy? Gonna hire a maid and nanny? The well to do guy who can pay for surrogacy, nannies and maids, probably also has good social skills and other desirable traits and wouldn't need to go with surrogacy. It's not the future, it's fantasy. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/02/23 05:53 PM |
| 0 | The top 5% of men have more sex than the bottom 50% combined:They won't read the study and they won't read your comment. There's no helping them when they've got Chad on the mind. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/02/23 05:43 PM |
| 5 | Is it true that on average women have less dating options once they are over 30 while men have more dating options as they gain wealth and status??I remember there is an uptick later for men, I believe in their 30s. Not all men, some men. That doesn't mean marrying or dating a 22 year old hottie. Your best chance of that was when you were near her age. People tend to be married to those within a handle of years of their age. As the dating pool thins out people's options, male and female tend to diminish. You also have a higher percentage of people with issues in that pool, then you did when they were younger, as the healthier ones are more… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/23 01:19 AM |
| 1 | What to do, if he tells me I am a terrible wife(story below)?This guy is being abusive and you're the only one talking sense here. Kudos. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/23 12:42 AM |
| 1 | What to do, if he tells me I am a terrible wife(story below)?If he's critical over all these things then it's him, not you. He has to want to change his behavior, or get treatment for some kind of condition if it's something mental that's causing this. It's not you. You're not a bad wife/mom/house-carer, whatever. I would ask in another forum for advice on how to fix this, if it's fixable. it's him, not you. You don't belittle people ever which way. Things wouldn't change if you were at home all the time and probably would get worse and he would get more … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/23 12:40 AM |
| -1 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.It's optional if he's bad at sex and lazy at home. Don't make her orgasm? Why would she let you use her body? Don't clean up after yourself? Why would she desire you, you're a child. Can't talk to you about being bad at sex without the guy getting pouty? You're being a child who can't communicate. Men all too often, not always, but often, create problems in their relationship and then *itch about it, when it was their own fault. You have to put in the effort to get the effort and no, a job is no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 02:52 PM |
| 4 | We live in a societyThey should be sued and do time and so should the school. He didn't deserve this. I will say though, that because men were not correctly punished for sexual assault and harassment in the past, and often still are not, you have had a tremendous push to believe "all women". If men had not, and would continue to not act wrongly, this never would have happened. It's not justice though to exact revenge on some group for the wrongs of others. It is not justice to let false accusers get away, or to let… | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/01/23 05:22 PM |
| 25 | “Just start a business, bro”A lot of them sell "courses" on how to start a small business. Probably about how to start a business, selling other people info on how to start a business. Like some Ponzi get rich quick scheme. None of these people want to put in the work to fix themselves, or start a business. so they just make empty remarks like this. Funny, they just say start a business, not start a successful business. Never stop to think of the fail rate either. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/23 08:34 PM |
| 7 | Why are some women obsessed with independence?Sounds like you couldn't take a minor comment, not criticism, comment, from your friend and are now trying to justify yourself, throw shade on her and are just blowing it out of proportion. It's not attractive for an adult to be incapable. You're going for a hike. You're husband shouldn't have to hold your hand the whole way (as in needing to, it's fine if you like holding hands as a couple in the romantic sense), you're an adult, you've walked outdoors before, don't act like a baby. You seem to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/23 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Normal, healthy relationships shouldn't require strategizingThese aren't good men, men at the top, or healthy men. If they're using abuse tactics, rather than care/provider tactics, he doesn't have a irm grasp on anything. He knows on some level he isn't worth it, he's insecure. Relationships shouldn't be a sham, personalities shouldn't be a sham and people shouldn't learn how to abuse others online to get what they want. Luckily few ever manage this, who knows how many keep it up. That they would attempt this in a marriage, make their kids witness this,… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | i noticed a lot of inceldom is due to guys(of all ethnicities) preferring white or light skinned womenToo many of them fetishize Whites. You can't talk about it though because "racism" only goes one way. Whites also are the only group who can't say they want to date people of their own race, all hell breaks loose if they do. People tend to like those genetically similar to themselves. If non-Whites insist on going for White women, they're going to be disappointed most of the time. You can't socially engineer attraction by the large, at least not to this extreme. I think they also go for who they… | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/01/23 03:31 PM |
| 1 | i noticed a lot of inceldom is due to guys(of all ethnicities) preferring white or light skinned womenEast Asian women edge out White women, at least in online dating. But outside of I think Black women preferring Black men, other women, online, prefer White men. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/01/23 03:24 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend of 3 months consumes Red Pill ContentHe needs help. If you want to get back together once he's gotten help, fine. But this guy isn't right. I'm also curious about the elaborate first date and him talking about marriage so quickly. Yes, there are people who do this because they think the person they just met is special. but it's also something people who are not psychologically sound, and who are abusive, do. State clearly you disagree with his behavior, that he needs to change it and get help. Don't get trapped in a discussion of h… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/23 11:57 PM |
| 0 | Why is it so hard to believe women can willingly date shitty men ?Of course some women willingly date crappy men. The key point is that it is SOME and not ALL. It is also not even that they are sexually attracted to them always, but that they are "attracted" to repeating bad childhood patterns. The problem comes when whiny men say all women think all "bad boys" are sexy, or that because they are "willingly" dating them, that any abuse is their own fault. It's not all, and nothing gives you the right to abuse another. An abuser is responsible for their actions,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 04:54 PM |
| -3 | Women actually hate ugly men despite what they sayYou have a serious complex of some sort. For your sake, I do hope you get help, genuinely. You are not hated by all women because you are ugly. A teen subreddit is not the place to get honesty. That you think it is, just shows how out of whack you are with reality. Women generally do sense aggressiveness from men who complain the way incels do, their hatred seeps through and more often then not, they openly say they hate and want to hurt women. It's a no brainer. People tend to treat less attrac… | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/01/23 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Why is Andrew tate so popular amongst people?That Matrix lined reminded me of something else. I think he's also playing the entertainer, which appeals to people, and, appealing to the stupid with such words. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/01/23 10:51 PM |
| 4 | Why is Andrew tate so popular amongst people?He tells people what they want to hear, and unlike many of the others, he appears to have more money. His fighting "career" and time on TV may also make him seem more "legitimate", like, he isn't just a guy online trying to sell you something, this guy "knows what he's talking about" because he's a celeb with money (they assume). He's more like what they think they want to be, flashy, famous and with money to burn. He also maybe seems more attainable, because he isn't an A-list celeb. Mostly tho… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/01/23 10:45 PM |
| 1 | The group photo of the Men's PPD Meet Up! Thanks for coming everyone! Great fun was had and interesting opinions on women were shared.Matching man shorts, embracing each other, half clothed. This is definitely hetero. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 10:57 PM |
| -4 | Lonely single men who get little to no sexual attention project their loneliness onto women about to hit the mythical wallThese guys are not just lonely. They have a lot of bad personality characteristics. I remember someone reading off a list and it was like vindictiveness, narcissism, machiavellianism. Stuff like that. They make themselves miserable and also people around them. That's why they can't get dates, for the most part. And, had they been born in a different time, would still struggle then. The traits they have also seem to make them blind to the fact that it's them and that they should get help. The Wal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Convicted criminal offenders had more children than individuals never convicted of a criminal offensePeople with lower impulse control and more willing to take risk have more kids, and you're surprised? Quantity over quality. Do you think those kids turn out as well as their peers with non-felon parents? Some people are fast life strategy and some aren't. It's pathetic for unsuccessful fast or slow life history strategy people to envy convicts. Just more evidence why that person is a failure, being unable to understand what's going on and wasting time feeling bad they're not the convict. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/12/22 07:44 PM |
| 3 | "You guys need therapy!", The Therapy:Plenty of therapists say messed up stuff. There's a lot of bad therapists out there who aren't trained properly, or, aren't following their training. i can believe the op. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/12/22 05:23 PM |
| 2 | "You guys need therapy!", The Therapy:Was it actually a doctor or someone who worked at some kind of addiction rehab? Often those people aren't actually properly trained. People think they're medical staff when they're often just former addicts who wanted to help people. Actual doctors do sometimes say messed up stuff to people, they are humans after all and not perfect. But if it's something as awful as that, they should be reported. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/12/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | "You guys need therapy!", The Therapy:A bad therapist might tell him that. Too many bad ones out there. There is some research suggesting older virgins have more sexual problems, but it's not definite. The point is to help him find ways to improve his life and they are there and it is possible and he can chose to be happy as is or get back out there. but $400 seems way too much per visit and for this crappy a therapist. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/12/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Her History MattersThe pasts of both men and women matter. Sorry to break it to you. This includes pornography use as well. You're never the same person. Doesn't mean you can't have a happy life, but we need to stop telling people, especially men, that it's ok. There should be no sex before marriage. I should point out to the posters here, that this scenario is not at all common. The only reason you think it is so, is because your mind has been damaged by pornography and things you read on the internet. The majori… | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/12/22 06:33 PM |
| 13 | r/IncelExit won't unblock me and are super toxicYou're creepy and entitled. I don't think you've given up RP or BP at all. Feeling young isn't being young. Expecting others to give you youth when you don't offer it is hypocritical. Some people get away with it, doesn't mean they should, doesn't mean all can. You can have all the preferences you want but that doesn't mean other people will want to fill them. This is an ex redpill forum, not advice on how to pick up young women, which is just RP. There are positive and negative rights. You don'… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/12/22 02:04 PM |
| 5 | Do you think being a male breadwinner is becoming less of a status symbol?Then the mostly male writers of those shows should write better male characters. The crappy female Mary-Sues aren't any good either for girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 04:34 PM |
| 5 | Do you think being a male breadwinner is becoming less of a status symbol?Yeah, the second hand clothes and not eating out thing is fine. but sometimes these people can't afford food, or they're fighting over money in front of the kids, when getting a part-time job may help. If it's a status, or religious thing, then it's bad. but if they're just not as into consumption and it's others only who have a problem with it, then it's fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 04:32 PM |
| 0 | Do you think being a male breadwinner is becoming less of a status symbol?It has prestige still. but the bar is raised. To be able to survive on one income you have to earn a lot more now. that usually requires longer hours and a lot more stress. depends on the job of course. But a lot the jobs with the prestige are high stress jobs. Along with earning that many comes a lifestyle too, and even debt. So if he loses his job, or wants to cut hours, change careers, he's in trouble. It can cause resentment between the couple, even if they're both doing what they agreed to,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | How to stop "spinning plates" and be faithful in LTR?You stop looking at it as a positive, like you obviously do from your post. You stop thinking of yourself so much and about what's good for others. I'll level with you though, from the research I've seen, people who sleep around have problems. Whether it's narcissism, or addiction, and often times it's genetic. In the end, it's very hard to break. That's part of the reason why these people have such high divorce rates. Talk to a specialist. Do what's right for your partner, don't just focus on w… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Is There a Reason for the Obsession Over Making Money Online?Yes, this is the latest version of "get rich quick". Many people hurting for money, having trouble finding a traditional job. Add into the mix this is associated with "getting women", well, a lot of desperate people to go for it. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Found out my (f23) bf (m26) was into red pillHe's fake at least. Says one thing to others and acts another with you (into redpill but to you he makes fun of them). Ultimately that's like hiding something. Sometimes people get angry and use words like that, when they shouldn't, or to sound tough. If he's changed that, then it might be ok. But if he's still looking at that content, still getting others into it. I don't know. It's so evil to me. I just think people who are fake like this, you never know about them. i think the best thing woul… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Ex-gf might have left me for someone else and lied about it. Help!"She even said she wanted a future together and get married with me." --- After 3 months? In almost all cases that is a big red flag. That's way too soon. You got too emotionally invested in a bad chick, that's all. Doesn't mean all women are like that. you don't need to talk to her to get closure, you need to stop your obsessing and negative thoughts. When they come up, do a different activity to get your mind off of it. Whatever her reasons, she's not the one for you. Learn from this and move … | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/22 03:39 PM |
| 0 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong."Research has shown that women are more likely to commit infidelity because they are unhappy with their relationships, while men do so simply because they were presented with the opportunity. So, Americans may believe women have a more defensible reason for committing infidelity than men."--- I recall hearing also that both genders have this gender bias. Men think it's more ok for men to cheat and women more ok for women to cheat. i wonder if they're playing some "Sleeping with the Enemy" scenar… | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/12/22 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Why are guys on incels is or looksmaxx so mean to unnattractive women?They're Narcissists and entitled and not getting what they think they're deserving of - a super hot girlfriend. No, it's not because (they assume) women are getting, or can get a lot of dates at the snap of a finger. It may also be because they're angry about their own looks and taking it out on others. but there are some studies on incels, the hardcore kind, and they do have real problems with personality defects like narcissism. And if you've ever hurt a narcissist, you know the kind of rage t… | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/12/22 02:02 PM |
| 3 | The myth of the "deadbeat dad" needs to end. Women are the ones who initiate 70%-90% of divorces and oppose joint custody. Men want to stay, its women who are breaking up families.Deadbeat dads are not a myth. If you're doing something that's causing someone to leave (and they may be doing things too), then you can't expect them to stay. Men all too often put very little effort into their marriages, often becoming like another child. If you break up and don't care for you're child, her breaking up wasn't the problem, you not putting the effort in is. The child doesn't cease to exist after a divorce. Men simply, often, don't want to care for them. They often weren't in the… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/11/22 04:13 AM |
| -5 | Courtney Ryan: "This Is Why Men Don't Approach Women Anymore"Men being cowardly is not women's fault. Most of them will not call you a creep or laugh at you. If you want to build that fear up in your head, so be it, but it is a you issue, not a female issue. Women do get creeped on, screamed at groped, though I would say it's uncommon, so they are on their guard a lot of times. But if you're sensible and don't freak out at rejection, it's not going to be a scene. People these days are soft and can't deal with rejection and things not going their way and l… | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/11/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.I'm so sorry that happened to you. People have posted stories like that here and I definitely believe them. This is why RP stuff is so bad, it doesn't help the men in the end, it breaks up relationships, makes them worse anyways. I'm curious though, was the group literally anti-RP like you mention red pill, or was it more about how the husbands got more "trad", or controlling, or something? I'm just curious because while I think quite a few people know about RP, there isn't actually that many pe… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/11/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.Yes, it's aim was to destroy the West. It's another product of the culture of narcissism and the decline of religion. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/11/22 07:20 PM |
| 0 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.It's not about population control exactly, it's about spreading Marxist philosophy, pitting genders against each other instead of classes. Women should have equal rights, should not be objectified and harassed, be equal under the law. But that's not exactly what feminism was actually about. That was some of the dressing used to get people to go along with it, then they started pushing more Marxist things after. It's like how Liberals were all about free speech, then once they got into power they… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/11/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | I might be wrong but I've come to the conclusion that red pill is actually a political movement. Set up to recruit more young people to have right wing views.Redpill views are not traditional. Conservatives are not evil. A lot of RP types gravitate towards Conservatism because Liberals will be openly antagonistic to them and Conservatives are a bit more "just let me do my own thing and you do yours". Young people are taking it on, particularly men, because they're narcissistic (more so), want sex, want excuses for why their life has gone wrong, are looking for answers, are considered evil by Leftists just for being White and male, looking for a commu… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/11/22 07:15 PM |
| 2 | ENCORE: 'Love wasn't safe' Rolling Stones author Neil Strauss, whose book The Game became a hot bed issue, believes his philosophy about relationships was wrong and destructive.Reading the reviews on Goodreads makes me think this guy is a narcissist, it's all for show and not a genuine, long lasting change. That is what I would expect, in general, about people who have problems like these, and from the sounds of it, are at the extremes. Not that there's no hope for them, or that milder cases can't change. But I think this is probably a rebrand to sell more books and at best he's trying something new, until another new thing comes along, and it will. People who flip flo… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/11/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Help my bf has become redpilledWhile it's possible she never knew him. It may have more to do with deception on his part, putting his best face forward until he had her. Plenty of people do this at first in relationships, then the true them comes out, especially with Narcs. Doesn't mean it's her fault for "not being in touch" with his emotions. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Help my bf has become redpilledUnless you're married or engaged, leave. Look, as a Christian I'm not "for" homosexuality. But the whole "real men" talk is ridiculous. You also don't act like other people are garbage, just because they're homosexual. The whole "mental health" is a woman thing? Ridiculous. The "all men think this way" not true. Andrew Tate is ridiculous and has admitted to grooming people. no good person would be duped by that guy. I think he's changed himself to fit in with his friends (how very alpha male of … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 09:06 PM |
| 3 | One negative experience is enough to send my down the hole againI'm not entirely sure what you're saying here. but it reminds me of alcoholics who use any excuse to fall off the wagon and blame others for it. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Women of this sub, what advice can you give me to move on in a healthy way?That behavior speaks of her lacking and not yours. Normal, good people, share their emotions. If other make fun of them, that's a black mark on those others. Don't let it sour you on sharing your feelings. Be a bit more careful on who you trust, try to gauge if they are trustworthy, not just someone you want to fantasize as being trustworthy. That said, it's still often painful, even if you didn't do anything wrong. It can take time to get over it and learn to build, and maintain self esteem, in… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 08:56 PM |
| 5 | Dating apps are Incel factories."First I have to make clear that I am a man who chooses to be celibate because of religious/spiritual reasons along with mental health issues, so the issue I am going to rant has no direct impact on me, so I believe this leaves in a position of objectivity from which I can formulate a more or less neutral and selfless opinion."----- You can convince yourself you are impartial but it's very, very easy to see through that you are not. You're red pilled and regurgitating the same incorrect stuff th… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | What’s the realistic chance an average guy can get a hot girlYou expect someone hot to love someone average, even though that average person would not love the hot person if they were average? If you don't see the value in average why should she? Because you're just magically special? If average isn't good enough for you, why expect it to be good enough for her? I think posts like this are very revealing as to why men complain about women supposedly only wanting 20% of guys. It's because a lot of average men only want hot women at the end of the day and a… | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/22 10:23 PM |
| 1 | I just got shadow banned on PPD, so posting a comment where I show how no one cares about men's sufferingI don't get it? You think your situation of being alone is the same to someone being raped? With omeone being raped, you have a victimizer. In being alone you have not been victimized, and, if you feel you are entitled to someone, you are more akin to the rapist, not the person being assaulted. It's not that people don't care about male suffering. It's that they don't agree with messed up males and their solutions to their "suffering". Again though, I am not 100% sure what you're trying to say h… | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/22 10:19 PM |
| 1 | For a man, is having a high body count impressive?This is due to anatomy. Same thing happens with homosexual men. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | For a man, is having a high body count impressive?He's got issues that likely won't ever stop. Not valuable long term. Not valuable short term unless you're into that. Might be attractive outwardly but that doesn't build a happy life. R strategists are only impressive for bad reasons. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/22 10:06 PM |
| 4 | The idea that women will hit the wall and will suddenly need men and give lower SMV guys a chance seems like a bluepill fantasy to meSo no, it makes it harder. If all the guys are going for women in their 20s, then they have to compete with men from multiple age groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 09:24 PM |
| 2 | The red pill has many truths but it will not improve societyYou are not a Christian if you believe Red Pill ideology is "mostly right". Sorry it absolutely contradicts the Bible and it's commandments. RPers are just the male version of feminists, Masculinists if you will. They absolutely do hate women, do not love their neighbour, do not love women as they love themselves, conform to the world not God, are fornicators, are hateful, lustful, hypocrites, pervert the word of God, do not love his ways. Nothing Christian about them, nothing Christian about pe… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/22 03:49 PM |
| 1 | What we men have lost.Modern living, schooling, food. They have taken a toll on men, plus the severe demoralization in the West. Men and women of the west have lost something (it was taken from us and is a result of modernity). I don't think kicking people while they're down helps. It is something though we have to fight to get back. RP is not it though. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/22 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Could having multiple partners make you happier?These people's personal lives usually are a shambles and sometimes they just don't care (narcissists don't) or care but can't stop themselves, they have addictive personalities, or trauma and trying to fill a void. Their kids lives are the sad part, not getting to grow up in a healthy, happy family, and worse, having that stuff played out in front of the whole world. With DiCaprio, you're dealing with someone who's worked in Hollywood since he was a kid. I would bet there's some real issues ther… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/22 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Could having multiple partners make you happier?Females had more than one mate as well if we're talking evolution and behaving like animals. RPers like to cherry pick things.. They also have this world view about how things should be between men and women, that it is what's right and what will make both happy. It's not right and won't make them happy, even if they could force women into it. Happiness is not the be all, end all goal of life (that is holiness) and happiness does not ultimately come from hedonism (what RP is a flavor of). Their … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/22 03:29 PM |
| 19 | Redpill, Blackpill made me gay.If you have untrue/unhealthy thought patterns and beliefs that are making you unhappy you can change them with therapy or by self help, something like cognitive behavioral therapy Sometimes it also just takes time away from these ideologies. So, it's not over for you, it's never too late, unless you want it to be. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/22 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Why shouldn't a man feel insecure?You remember and compare to those other women too. You want to sleep around, have that experience, while denying women that, so you can seem good in their inexperienced eyes, good because they are inexperienced. you slept with those women too, they're just throw aways? People should marry as virgins, non-virgins should marry people with similar "counts" to them and try to repair the damage they've done to themselves together. You wanting to be "the best she's ever had", is very revealing. It's a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 01:34 PM |
| 20 | I don’t want to believe in the redpill but I keep seeing some of the things they say manifest themselves in real lifeYou want to believe it, that's why you're seeing it. You choose the lens through which you view life. If you want to view it through a distorted one to make yourself feel better, that things aren't your fault, that you're free to hate women, or misbehave, then you'll choose to. But it is your choice. Women let men down and Men let women down. It can be hard to find good people. Doesn't mean they aren't there, or that RP stuff is true. It may also have to do with you. If you continue to pick a ce… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Let's say 7.9 billion alien women (the human population today) came to Earth looking for husbands and they had another Earth or giant worldship to absorb the doubled-up population as well.Depends on their in group out group preference - and how desirable the men are. Men in the West sometimes do, and more often just talk about "geomaxxing" but rarely do it. I am unsure of how often it works out. Seen some bad stories, some "good" ones, though I think these relationships are generally just transactional and unconscionable. So, yeah, some would go, some wouldn't. I think the kind of men who moans on the internet and is MGTOW would still be in trouble. I bet the women of earth would… | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/10/22 02:51 AM |
| 3 | Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place.They want someone they can manipulate and seem "big" to. Lots of young women are impressed by older guys who have a job and a car and some life experience, not realizing that that's how it is when you get older, they're not exceptional. Men do prefer the looks of younger women, not that they don't also appreciate older women, just that younger often is prettier, same with a lot of men and their looks. So, they try and justify lust in general, but they also want power over them. Not all the girls… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Girls say im very coldIt may not be you but the other person. They may have just interpreted you as cold. Or, they didn't even think you were cold, just for lack of a better word said cold. Maybe ask people you know if you actually come off as cold, or if you take time to warm up to people. You don't have to change your personality for this girl, even though you like her. You want someone who likes you for you. If however you are cold and you feel it's because you're anxious, or shy, or something, then work on that b… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/22 05:31 PM |
| 5 | Is redpill right about pair bonding?Thanks for your post, that was interesting! What's the name of your book? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/22 01:32 AM |
| 4 | Why are you trying to shame "women" into lowering their standards?This is exactly why they do it, to abuse them into settling for them. They also do it just to take out rage on them and feel superior. but they're hoping that some other woman in their area will realize that he a suitable sexual partner, not a partner mind you, a sexual partner. though they do want to settle later, with someone of a much "higher standard" then themselves. Basically these men live in a fantasy that they are upset they can't force and so try to with these repeated attempts at sham… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do ex red pill people say body count doesn't matter?Generally it matters. There are some people who change their ways and can make good partners. The problem is promiscuous men thinking they "deserve" virgin women. That they should be forgiven while women shouldn't and that they, being promiscuous and more likely to end up divorced and to have issues, are still in the right, even though, they are trying to pull one over on the virgin, even though they know by their own standards, that they are not a good choice. It's the hypocrisy and the idea th… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 04:31 PM |
| 9 | What are your thoughts on these studies and statistics?I think people shouldn't have premarital sex. I think people who have premarital sex should not demand their partners be virgins. I think men who post such surveys hoping it proves it's ok for them to want a virgin, while not being a virgin themselves, and who on top of it all look at pornography (and so are not chaste), I hope they know that, no, it doesn't mean it's ok for you to demand virginity when you re not one. No, it doesn't increase men's value because they "have to work at it", no it'… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 07:57 PM |
| 10 | Re-phrasing my last postwomen don't seem to take men's issues seriously and I feel often they prioritize their own emotions and needs first in pretty much every scenario, especially when it comes to loaded topics. You are guilty of EXACTLY this. You ignore, downplay, or don't think women's problems exist. You are concerned with yours and males first and foremost. What you are going on bout is a problem for both sexes, some individuals within each sex more than others. Not every man or woman is unsympathetic to the lone… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 07:12 PM |
| -1 | Why do men generally marry younger women?Evolutionary reasons. Takes them a bit longer to mature if I recall, good that they have some resources too. So, while men her age are maturing there's already mature men for her to marry, with resources to provide for a family. Not like a decade older mind you, just a couple years. There's also a social stigma, used to be quite extreme, people would lie often if the woman was even a bit older. The social norm comes from the evolutionary norm. Though it's not completely necessary, the norm does … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 03:29 AM |
| 3 | Women: why do you think being a male virgin is a redflag?Virgin and chaste no. Virgin and looking at pornography, yes. It's good to be religious. | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/09/22 03:13 AM |
| 4 | q4w: Why do some women think they are more valuable than men because you let men pump and dump you?LOL, it's posts like these that remind me just how bitter and out of touch RP/PUA/incels, whatever, are. That someone can post this and not know how bad this is, that they can walk around thinking like this, living a life like this, it's beyond me. I think premarital sex, pornography, the lo,t is disgusting, but this is even worse. You think you're making women sound bad here but you make men look like abject creatures instead, which they're not. You're post contains all the hints as to why it's… | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/09/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Do women experience same struggles as men?LOL, yes to all. Just search reddit and you'll find examples of everyone of these, yes, even friendzone. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/09/22 06:34 PM |
| 8 | Why shouldn’t women give up on dating if you guys act like a 25 year old is elderly?Or brains. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 10:51 PM |
| 2 | ONLINE DATING TRENDS: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9-to-1 in Europe and more than 7-to-3 in the US, with Grindr (primarily for gay and LGBT men) now having one of the highest rates of active user engagementMen are lazier about this. Putting up a profile with a crappy picture vs. having to talk to people, leave the house, get dressed up... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | What kind of man pays Rich Cooper $1,000 an hour for 'coaching'?Desperation. Same thing that makes people pay crazy money for diet pills, when all they need to do is the work. they really want something but not enough to put the hard work in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 05:34 PM |
| 4 | Beware, sometimes being alone and girlfriend-less is the lesser of two evils. For example, you could be dating someone like Miriam Nakamoto.I've seen this clip before and it's painful the people who don't get this. It's a matter of honor, of being a true fighter, not giving up, not backing down. She wasn't going to think less of him if he lost, it was how he reacted to getting hit, not having the "never say die attitude" and flailing instead. I think she maybe jumps the gun thinking that's what he was doing. As Rogan said at the end, maybe it was an involuntary reaction, I don't know, maybe his eye got hit the wrong way and he just … | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/09/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Do men need college to be successful and attractive to women?No, especially now with worthless degrees and graduates earning less. A lot of them would have been better just going into the workforce. They're earning the same as peers without degrees, in jobs that don't require degrees, but have student loan debt and lost years of earnings. Companies are waking up to graduates not being worth it and finding other ways to vet applicants. Top universities still have value mind you. But for your average school, the value is dropping. You can earn a good living… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Why people say they want one thing but do or go after the other.It's not necessarily subconscious. People sometimes say one thing, knowing they risk reprisal if they don't. Meanwhile, they feel differently and act differently. There's lots of stuff people pay lip service to nowadays due to cancel culture, that goes entirely against how they actually live their life. There's also people who want to do something, but are unable to. So someone says they want to lose weight then eats 1000 extra calories a day. You have to figure out if someone is being truthful … | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/22 10:39 PM |
| 2 | How do you get over the anger from being less than 6 ft? As in, how did you get around the incel-like rhetoric around women and height?Envy is the thief of joy. Stop comparing yourself to others. But if you want proof, want to look at others. Then see all those other dudes under 6 foot, married with kids, dating, hanging out happily with women? Yeah, you don't need to be 6 foot. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/22 10:24 PM |
| 10 | Men & Women differences in datingMost women are not thinking this after a week of dating. This may be more common in the 30 age range, people looking to start a family, or, it may be more common among female engineers, who would have a different personality than your average bear. But I think this is just anecdotal. Most people aren't too serious with dating nowadays. but once they think it's time to get married, they start calculating this stuff quickly, to see if it's worth their time dating people. Again, I think this is jus… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/22 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?Also a difference between wanting him and wanting the lifestyle he can provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?Would they date him? There's a decent chunk who would for fun? Would they marry him? Generally no and it's either going to be for money, or they will run into compatibility issues later that will make the relationship sour or end up in divorce. There are people in happy age gap relationships but they are rare. The men posting about screwing around with young women are far fewer than the men who don't. They stand out but are not the norm and make up a tiny slice of successful marriages, and I mea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | When is it truly over for someone ?"Many more". If you don't mean literally, then sure. If you mean literally, then no, the vast majority of people do not die virgins. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/09/22 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Nick Cannon having 9 kids with two more unborn is proof women would rather share a rich man of status than settle with "average"Very few women are Anna Nicole Smith (wonder if she and her husband had an "understanding", or polyamory?). Money won't do it for most, even with a fit guy of the same age. A bad personality/abusive personality is incredibly off putting, incredibly fast, and having to put up with it for years? Forget about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Nick Cannon having 9 kids with two more unborn is proof women would rather share a rich man of status than settle with "average"Exactly, these aren't average women with Nick Cannon, not even your average hot woman, who still wants commitment. The Arnie housekeeper thing was an exception. The average dude with multiple "baby mommas" is usually with average, or below average women (as seen on Maury). He got them by being likeable, or just by being anti-social and sleeping around a ton. He's not the average man though, which is what most women marry and are happy with. People like OP take a small subset, of a small subset o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 05:03 PM |
| 4 | Nick Cannon having 9 kids with two more unborn is proof women would rather share a rich man of status than settle with "average"Women don't want to share a man. they think they are special and with them he will stop. He doesn't, and onto the next, who will have to learn the hard way, until he maybe gets too old or too tired or too broke and stays with the last one, or lives alone. A lot of people also think having step kids is normal, that though he has kids with others, now, they'll be a real family. People also fall in love with others, or think they are in love with them, especially if they have attractive qualities o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | My Folk Theory on Hook Up CultureI think the majority of people who die from loneliness are almost certainly men, just look at the suicide rates. You do get more female widows and that would be the real, potential reason, for female loneliness, not being a cat lady due to hook up culture. People with addictive personalities are much more likely to sleep around and consume drugs, as opposed to hooking up causing you to become a an alcoholic say. I think it's silly to believe males are unaffected by sleeping around. Look at how m… | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/09/22 04:34 PM |
| 4 | Girls, How do you SHOW that your current SO is more special than your last?LOL, "If you REALLY loved me you would do even more sexually degenerate things with me than the last guy, and snappier!" (especially after you gave her gifts right?). This thinking is bad reasoning and transactional. It's not a competition to boost the new persons ego. you show you love someone by being loving, taking care of them, being encouraging, sticking with them. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/09/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | this sub has a net negative result, you guys have not helped at all.Some people can't be helped or don't want to be. Not everyone is equipped to help, or help certain people, or always giving 100%. But this is your typical RP thing. They have already made up their minds, then just find things to help justify their views and choices after the fact. You most likely never really wanted to be helped (probably just wanted women, however you could get them). You wanted to say "you tried" and go back to RP or some other negative ideology, and if anyone ever criticizes … | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/22 10:00 PM |
| 4 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.LOL, this is ridiculous. This, this is the problem, these dudes are so out of touch they can't even see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 09:09 PM |
| 5 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.So pump and dump really means love? Come on now, they do not use it interchangeably and if they do, then you can understand the confusion. Sex does not equal love and they don't treat it as such, except when in a relationship and feeling that sex is their love language but that's a slightly different thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Red-pill advice on how to attract women is actually textbook abuse tacticsYes, it's abuse. I think it's also important to note, that it's not just "someone using abusive tactics". Once you do this intentionally and consistently (more than just a not deliberate mistake, as humans can be petty and screw up now and then), you are an ABUSER. Not someone using abusive tactics, an abuser. This was the first thing I learned about RP, they are abusers who use manipulation, degradation and emotional and psychological abuse, to get what they want. They are abusers. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Red-pill advice on how to attract women is actually textbook abuse tacticsWell, there's appealing and there's manipulating and it can be a fine line. Corporations doing it is no excuse. You say you're not defending it but then proceed to use it as an excuse for their behavior. That's manipulative, and all too common, don't do that. Don't say one thing and do another (and then potentially cry foul and try and confuse the situation more after). And while they play a role in normalizing it, people have been doing this to each other for millennia. We have to learn to spot… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | How does manosphera four horses behavepick up artist | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Does Red Pill trick men into thinking women are Borderline by ways of giving them PTSD from the Red Pill system (dread game, affection withdrawal, use of fear tactics, etc.)?I think it gives them PTSD sometimes and causes other trauma, where they react, sometimes similarly to someone with BPD. But that would be a misdiagnosis. Like how they tell a woman she's being abusive for fighting back/lashing out, after much abuse and making her think she's guilty when it's human break after that much abuse. I think a lot of RP men have BPD, anti-social or narcissistic personality disorder, or tendencies, themselves and are projecting onto women and even when they don't have t… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/22 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Does Red Pill trick men into thinking women are Borderline by ways of giving them PTSD from the Red Pill system (dread game, affection withdrawal, use of fear tactics, etc.)?I mean, there's personality disorders and then there's mental illnesses. Mental illnesses are usually highly treatable, with the right therapy and effort. Personality disorders, the problem is more pervasive, a part of the person on a deeper level. They are harder to treat and usually not "cured". Genetics plays a role here, a bigger one than people are comfortable giving credit for. Early childhood abuse does too and yes, people can develop them later/be traumatized later. Neuroplasticity is re… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Does Red Pill trick men into thinking women are Borderline by ways of giving them PTSD from the Red Pill system (dread game, affection withdrawal, use of fear tactics, etc.)?Sexual attraction is a part of it too. Doesn't mean it's the only thing. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/22 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Question for the women and girls of r/exredpill. Do you call out your lady friends who are misandrist? Do you hold misandric women accountable?I doubt they hate men, probably just venting about relationship issues, all be it in a bad way that they shouldn't. Women do this too, so do heterosexual men. when they do it, especially if they were just in a bad relationship, I cut them some slack as I know they don't actually hate men or women. That's what people should do, try and figure out people's true intentions and emotions. RP people seem to have trouble understanding how nuanced people are, not all men, not all women are like what RP … | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/22 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Question for the women and girls of r/exredpill. Do you call out your lady friends who are misandrist? Do you hold misandric women accountable?There's being anti-male and then there's what RP and certain men say is anti-male but is just something they don't like to hear (usually getting called out on bad behaviour). There is definitely a problem with how men are treated in society, particularly White men. I hate seeing this and rail against it. Problem is most men aren't upset about this kind of mistreatment so much as not getting what they want, they use this mistreatment as an excuse to cover what they're actually upset about (not ge… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/22 06:59 PM |
| – | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherAnd then there are men like you who have no clue just how evil this mindset is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 04:38 PM |
| – | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherWomen shouldn't reproduce with deadbeats, assuming they even know they are such when reproducing. But, women get over their mistake and take care of their kids (single moms). The man shouldn't reproduce if he doesn't want to be a Dad, women aren't solely responsible for the baby. The men also shouldn't take off once the kid is born, they have a responsibility. It's men who fail these kids, not women. Yet it's single mom's people complain about and put responsibility upon for sex when it takes tw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 04:37 PM |
| – | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherYes, it's like a threat. Women aren't having sex with these men, aren't responding to them on dating apps, so it's women's fault if they commit mass murder. I think biologically all species want to reproduce, so there will be a disproportionate amount of attention given to the opposite sex. Some would argue all human action is related to securing mates, especially for men. I don't agree of course, but I get the fixation. I also think the fixation isn't even about evolution and reproduction, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 04:31 PM |
| – | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherThis isn't NIMBY, it's good advice. Where can they go? Multiple places. They can start with videos online and articles teaching social skills. They can get books from the library, they can see a therapist or teacher. Yes, there are people who teach these things. It involves work though, sustained effort and they don't want to do it. They would rather blame the world for their problems, see themselves as a victim (and they have been victimized in some ways, which is why it's a hard mentality to s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 04:24 PM |
| – | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherCan't fix it, it's genetic. Yeah we're in for some trouble. But these people won't have kids, or won't have as much. Future generations will be better. The conditions that created this problem are a result of too many irreligious and dysgenic people in the population. You need religion to keep your society functioning properly and keep out outside forces (who have a really bad impact on our economies). So the future will be brighter, after some really, really dark times. Problem isn't women on d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 03:49 PM |
| 2 | society always talks about nice guys? but never nice girls....I mean, different people have different standards, and of course, humans aren't product, so there's no "market value" or "leagues", but there are things the average person wants or values more, generally. There are people who meet conventional beauty standards, people who are wealthier. They will get more attention, in general, even if not always good attention. So when talking about the phenomena of people "wanting/dating out of their league", these things come into play and while discussing it… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | society always talks about nice guys? but never nice girls....This. There's nice guys and then there's "nice guys" (phonies who are after something). The same is present in women, some are generally nice, others are nice for manipulation. A lot of the ones nice for manipulation aren't average in attractiveness, they're either above or below average. I don't think as many women try this manipulation to be honest. I think they risk being more openly mean, because they can't help it, or can excuse it. I think the percentage of problem men is probably higher i… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | society always talks about nice guys? but never nice girls....Not exactly. Lot of them are only social over the headphones or if they still get together in the same room to play. not necessarily social in the normal way people are outside of that activity. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/22 03:30 PM |
| 9 | society always talks about nice guys? but never nice girls....Less picky for sex. We're also not talking about men in general, but RP men, a subset of the population that has far more anti-social tendencies. Narcissism, entitlement, pornography addiction, these things can make them more picky than average. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/22 03:29 PM |
| 7 | society always talks about nice guys? but never nice girls....Projection. Pure projection. What any RP man says about women, assume he's the one doing it. Men and women on dating apps tend to aim out of their league on attractiveness, and wind up getting disappointed. But RP men, I don't doubt that they are even more guilty of this than the average man. You'll hear them say stuff like, "Only 5% (or sometimes less!) of women are worth dating". Meanwhile they gripe about women "only going for the top 20% of men" (misrepresentation of statistic). Part of it's… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/22 03:25 PM |
| 2 | i feel like blackpill is reality and there is no "detox" from it.This person went above and beyond OP breaking it all down for you, listen to them. You're thought patterns are a problem and maybe you have depression or some other health problem affecting you - that can be fixed, with work. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) can help you change your thought patterns (distortion, catastrophizing etc.). But as the poster said, you have to stick with therapy and not put it off until later and keep working on it. You may think you get more satisfaction "being righ… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/09/22 03:14 PM |
| 2 | TRP statistics can be real hard to findThey keep pulling statistics out of thin air (lying) or misrepresenting actual statistics, or using crappy, small samples, or ignoring the other half of the equation (ex. they complain about women going for people out of their league on dating apps when men do the same). You'll make yourself crazy trying to keep up with their misinformation. Better to just look for stats on anything you're interested in, find the best source and be satisfied with that as the truth, rather than whatever nonsense … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/09/22 03:35 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend told me: WOMEN LIKE GOOD MEN MORE THAN ANYTHING.Ah, this is where you posted it. Yes, I think people often confuse aggressive/dominant with assertive/confident. The former isn't well liked, except by some women for flings, the latter is sought after. i think because RP men try to "fake it til they make it", they copy the former type, rather than the latter. They then get some results with women who have mistaken them for the good type, or who like abusers and think it's work, or have no success long term because women figure out they're the b… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend told me: WOMEN LIKE GOOD MEN MORE THAN ANYTHING."Saw themselves", and you seeing them as having strong morals, is probably what's up here. They probably did not have GOOD morals, even if they were strong. You probably only saw them as such. That's why they ended up alone. Also, if one is moral, one understands, that sometimes it is divine will to be alone and that it is a good thing. If they didn't surrender themselves to divine will then they were never moral. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/22 07:53 PM |
| 13 | There's no guide telling men to watch out for, and that hurts our views towards womenPsych channels can be really interesting. I'll have to check this out. I think a lot of RP men would benefit seeing the 90 Day Fiance stuff. It shows what often happens when you "shop" overseas for a bride and what they are really after. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/22 07:49 PM |
| 14 | There's no guide telling men to watch out for, and that hurts our views towards womenMen often pedestalize women rather than treating them as people with good and bad points. Men create a fantasy in their head of what they want their SO to be, that isn't what she is and are mad when reality, humanity, intrudes. Men want hot women then are surprised when they are narcissistic and abusive. I think there are good men who are taken advantage of but most don't see women as people, whether it's as sex objects, or impossibly perfect and then get hurt and wonder why. They also get hurt … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/22 07:43 PM |
| 3 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.Wait until the kid didn't inherit the plastic surgery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:35 AM |
| -1 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.LOL, people aren't moving for abortion. That's just hyperbole. Probably flooding red states still to escape California. Rape accounts for like 1% of abortions. An ectopic pregnancy is not treated as abortion. Stop trying to live some ridiculous Handmaid's Tale fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:22 AM |
| 3 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.They're not goldiggers generally, for their own men. The ones interested in Western cast-off men though do tend to be. Men who can't get women locally and go abroad are usually substandard in some way. They need the money to make up for it and that's what they attract, goldiggers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?That's for priests. Fornicators, adulterers, whoremongers are sinners. Men who sleep around, look at porn, sinners. They're not Levites going into the priesthood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?Working at being promiscuous, and you all actually say it like you think it's a good thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?The woman who wants that is just as bad as the tramp who thinks he still has the same luster he did before made a tool of himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?Guys want women shorter than them almost exclusively, unless they're a fetishist, or they just happen to click (but would prefer she had been shorter). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:03 AM |
| 8 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?Genders are different, but not in this way. A man who's slept around is no different than a woman, no matter how he and other men try and convince themselves, they're just as defiled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:01 AM |
| 5 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?Men who sleep around often do it because they quickly wear out their welcome in an actual relationship. They are more likely to be narcissistic, more likely to get divorced. Being a hypocrite, encouraging people to do something they themselves believe is bad (ie. getting women to sleep with them, when they feel women shouldn't be promiscuous) makes them a liar and untrustworthy. He may now have an STD, or a baby, or been party to a baby being aborted. He may have habituated himself to certain be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:59 AM |
| 11 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?Nothing wrong with it, if you haven't played the w**** too. Most men have, never mind all the pornography. Very few women have that many partners and even those who do haven't been "run into the ground". It shows the way many men think about sex and it's evil. Too many men think of women as w***** when the stats do not back that up and even when they are sleeping around, it doesn't make them sub-human, especially if they repent. Hypocrites, do as I say, not as I do, men, are what you are almost … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:51 AM |
| 10 | "dick is low value and abundant""Dick" is low value but a good man is rare and priceless. I hate to even speak of men broken down into a single body part like that. It's true that many, not all, women, could get someone to sleep with them. But that someone is almost exclusively not a good guy I mean genuinely good, not rich, 6ft, etc, but good), not interested in pleasing them sexually, potentially lethal and not worth the trouble at the end of the day. Just because men think being able to have loads of casual sex with below a… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/22 01:25 AM |
| 4 | If you have multiple Red Pilled men practicing their repackaged operant conditioning on you without your consent, can it lead to your brain being 'confused' and break if every man is using a varied reward system?The brain itself can change, it's called neuroplasticity. So even if you've fallen into negative thought patterns say, with cognitive behavioral therapy for instance (which you can do alone), you can change your brain and fix the damage done. Make sure you have a GOOD therapist and do any exercises they tell you to, follow through. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/22 12:42 AM |
| 4 | If you have multiple Red Pilled men practicing their repackaged operant conditioning on you without your consent, can it lead to your brain being 'confused' and break if every man is using a varied reward system?Unfortunately there are evil people in the world who will try and manipulate us to varying degrees and in various ways, and without asking for consent. They are evil to do it, it's not our fault if we have trouble protecting ourselves, but, we have to try and protect ourselves. I would really talk to a GOOD therapist and get a proper diagnosis and ask for books that can help you understand how to deal with your trauma, protect yourself against new trauma (learning what's healthy in a relationshi… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/22 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Are romantic relationships even worth the trouble in the modern age?This is it, and the future. The religious are getting married and having kids, the non-religious, except for the low IQ/criminal, are not. Marriage and kids just wasn't as much of a priority to them. MGTOW and RP/BP types are a minority and always will be, they don't reproduce. These middle of the road types who would "like" marriage, but it's not a top priority may skate by, with some of them getting married and having a kid or two, some not. But mostly they'll just be sort of dissatisfied with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Are romantic relationships even worth the trouble in the modern age?If you look for the negative, or are the negative, you'll get the negative. Unless you want to be celibate and single for religious reasons then marrying is good. Plenty of people out there doing so. I think the problem is, if you're making posts like this, you've already lost, or are likely to lose. it's possible you're just temporarily down in the dumps. But most healthy, positive people know life and marriage is not that bleak. So many people are looking for and doing the wrong things and won… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Are romantic relationships even worth the trouble in the modern age?Foreign women don't want weak, degenerate western men - except for a green card (if you can afford to woo them). Women under 25 don't generally want your average older, damaged, surplus man. Move on with your life, MGTOW, you missed the boat unless you have money, at least, with the evil personality you're displaying here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Men & women think “I got what I wanted”You don't know that's what she's thinking at all. Most people did not want to get divorced, most women are not thinking that. That's what men are thinking, they are thinking, because so many of them think something similar in getting sex. You see it in all the RP language, that they want sex and view women as losing something when they give it up. They view it as winners and losers. There are women who view it this way, and men who don't. But I would say this is far more common among men. Health… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | 5 Books that have saved me thus far. What are 5 books you'd recommend to someone trying to dive into the deeper end?Lol, you think the book of Job has anything to do with female hypergamy? People should read the Bible though and stop looking for casual sex and mistreating one another. They should also read it in good faith and not looking to "reinforce" their preexisting, evil ideologies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:13 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Wanting a virgin/low body count woman isn't about pussyNo, expecting monogamy when it is agreed upon is not the same thing as a non virgin wanting a virgin. It's not hypocrisy to expect someone to not cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:55 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Wanting a virgin/low body count woman isn't about pussyThey're more likely to stay married and have happier marriages, just like the women. Male virginity is important for good marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:49 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Wanting a virgin/low body count woman isn't about pussy"Trauma" is getting overused here. I think partners who are healthier mentally, physically, emotionally, are generally better bets. There's nothing wrong with wanting this, if you are one yourself. Most men are not. They then try to reason that men and women are different, so it's ok that they are not virgins and have been around the block and then some many times, and have serious baggage. That's all ok they say. It's not. Hypocrites, people who want others to accept them as is, while demanding… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys think redpillers lack morals?Yes. Morality is objective and what they are doing is not in line with that morality. I guess you could still say they have "morals", just incorrect ones. But are they without proper morals in regards to at least male female relationships, then yes. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/22 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Realistically asking, but to those who come here to throw shade at Red Pillers that are coming here to ask questions, do you really expect them to be responsive to your opinions afterward?Don't ask for opinions if you don't want to hear them. don't expect people to coddle you or agree with you to try and win you over when you're being a bad person. You can only rarely change a person's mind and most of them do not want their minds changed. Rather, they came here to try and change are minds, or thought their reasoning was just SO good, and SO unique, we would have to agree with them the way their RP echo chamber does. They are all the same on some level. They've all taken in the s… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/22 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Redpillers claiming that young (18-29) women are **sexually** attracted to men in their 50s/60s: are they really this fucking delusional???Is that what happened to his eyes? I think it's more than botox sadly. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/22 06:12 PM |
| 9 | Redpillers claiming that young (18-29) women are **sexually** attracted to men in their 50s/60s: are they really this fucking delusional???Professional trophy wives want the best deal they can get. If they could get the young (or at least close to them in age, maybe not younger), handsome, wealthy guy they would. They don't necessarily all want "older", certainly not 20, 30 years older. Maybe there are some hoping for the old guy because he'll die soon and won't have any libido left but that's getting kind of dark... | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/22 06:11 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand hypergamySome would, some wouldn't and this goes for men and women. Most love the person they are with and have built a life together, have kids. They don't care what the other man (or woman) has, they actually love their spouse. Social mores and personal values also keep people in line. Most do not even get the opportunity 9nor take it if they could). This is like some boogeyman tale. Many know the grass isn't greener. but I'll reiterate, most love their other half. I think people who worry about this a… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/09/22 07:28 PM |
| 8 | I don't understand hypergamyMany mid-life crisis men say yes to the trade in for a younger woman. It's specific type of person who does this, not all men, or all women. I think it reveals more about someone's insecurities and desires than about women's in general. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/09/22 07:23 PM |
| 2 | We are dating but she still wanna meet her ex Boyfriend, is it a red flag?You should not get that emotionally invested that quickly. She's not over her ex, or at least not had enough time to get over him. Maybe try again in a few months but save yourself the heartache and don't talk to her, don't be friends for now. It's fine not wanting to date someone who isn't emotionally available, or who talks about how much they loved their ex. People think being friends with their ex is a good, modern thing, but it causes a host of problems. She hasn't been broken up long enoug… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/09/22 07:19 PM |
| 7 | exposing myron gaines from fresh n fit. why hes the most delusional.While I'm skeptical that men are punished as much for sex before marriage there (rather, I think they cover it up. See the left behind children of middle-easterners studying abroad). I do think these RP men are delusional thinking they'll suddenly be religious or that religious people would want them to marry their daughters. I'm sure there are people willing to trade for money, as there are everywhere. But if they're willing to make that trade off how religious are they really and how happy is … | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/22 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenHow about you teach men not to be promiscuous? How about you teach men women can be fearful rejecting someone and so give wishy washy answers. A lot of the problems you're discussing stem from men's bad behavior. Women fear telling men no because they've been snapped at far too often. I think we need to teach women to respect men in that they shouldn't be abusive towards them, no hitting, emotional, verbal abuse, non means no, women can be abusers/perpetrators sexual assault too. But People shou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 04:13 PM |
| 5 | The shameful Natasha Aponte experiment, "The Tinder Trap", shows just how desperate men are and how much choice women have.The lesson here is not that "men have it so bad", but that men want bad things and are willing to do try and get them in bad ways. No one should debase themselves like this, yet they do for casual sex. You see guys who send out hundreds of messages at random than are upset with no response. You put bad effort, or little effort into something that requires good effort and then are upset with the results. Or, they want something unrealistic, the super hot girl while they themselves are underemploy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think MGTOW/Red pill men hate single moms so much?Narcissism. Doesn't matter that they would never meet, interact or have a chance with these women in real life, or already have a woman of their own. By having a kid they are no longer "available" to them, undesirable. They look at women in relation to their own wants and needs. They want a single, young, sexy, childless, virgin and those women obviously aren't it. They're offended that these women's lives don't revolve around him, a random stranger, that they aren't living up to what he wants. … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/08/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Partner market and competitionSo you want someone who is rich and attractive to accept you, despite you yourself not being rich and attractive? You're worthy of love as you are but they are not? You need to change your values and not be a hypocrite. Whenever I see men talking about getting the partner "they want", they mean the way hotter girl, who's personality they know nothing about, nor care about, while they of course are average looking. it's like asking how to make a lot of money fast with no effort. You value the wro… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/08/22 09:20 PM |
| -2 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceWomen do not get offers thrown their way simply for existing and certainly not good offers. That "whoa is me, I have it so hard" attitude is part of the reason so many men have trouble getting women, or friends. No, there is not always some taller, richer dude. Most men are average, stop envying and resenting a small percentage of other men, also unattractive. If you don't have the skills to have a social circle, you probably don't have the skills to get or maintain a relationship. this is the p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 08:38 PM |
| 3 | You will never be a high value man.Just like people can put their efforts into bettering themselves, they put their efforts into tearing down others. I think this is the problem with most RPers, they're the type you describe who tear down rather than work on themselves in a good way. Sadly I think they can't switch to be the good kind, most of the time. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 11:38 PM |
| 2 | You will never be a high value man.Actually genetics tend to trump environment, twin studies and all. I'm not into genetic determinism as an absolute, but genetics count most for most things. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | You will never be a high value man.I think this is part of the cultish appeal, them being able to tell themselves they're a "high value man" and have convinced themselves of it through "the literature". It tells them what they want to hear and makes them think they have secret knowledge, plays on their desperation. Meanwhile, poor and middle class live good lives, as do the rich. And average and even "low value" men, more often than not, have women. you don't have to be the top to eat, or have a partner. Also preys on the hierarc… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Where's the best place to meet good people, and avoid toxic men/women?I recall that story. Sometimes you just can't prevent these things from happening. Sometimes you can do everything in your power and they still happen. Life is risk, a tree might come down on my roof while I'm typing this and take me out. The good news is, that this stuff is very, very rare. I remember vaguely remember that case. I guess make sure someone always knows where you're going and who you're going with, or at least if you do something out of the ordinary like go to some guys house. Wri… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Where's the best place to meet good people, and avoid toxic men/women?LOL, I love Mr Ballen. I only watch his paranormal stuff though, or "sad accident" stuff, leave the rest, too disturbing sometimes. Taking in too much media, especially negative media is unhealthy. The risk of falling victim to such people is generally slim. You can find such people anywhere, though they do concentrate in certain professions, areas. You can't let fear rule you're life. There are professionals you can talk to about it who can put it in perspective, probably a book on it too. But,… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 10:51 PM |
| 3 | I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory"Cults" and MLM can happen to almost anyone, especially when they're in a bad spot in their life. A lot of people don't even realize they're in one until it's already a ways along. They use very good psychological tactics and people in general don't like to upset others and want to feel like they belong. They take advantage of that, isolating, pressuring, "love bombing" different stuff. I think women in particular are people pleasers and more likely to fall victim to them. I don't think red flag… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 10:33 PM |
| 5 | I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theoryLOL, you already cheated. You also psychologically and emotionally abused your girlfriend. The children of God thing at the end is odd too, what with you shacking up and thinking other people's feelings don't matter. You're just learning now women have feelings? you also make it a point to brag how you fooled around more than her. You seem to be more worried about what YOU almost lost, rather than how you hurt your girlfriend. You also seem to be blaming Tate/FandF, "they accelerated it". No, yo… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Are men unable to secure relationships with women due to their misogyny? A look at the data.Simple, but necessarily easy. Especially if you're narcissistic, entitled and lazy and most RPers seem to be. They want the moon and they want it their way and only with what effort they are willing to put in. When this doesn't occur, or doesn't last, they have RP to rationalize their failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Can Women give accurate dating advice to men?Some can, some can't and sometimes it depends on the situation. Same with men, some can, some can't. You can see plenty of stories here who left men because other men gave them RP relationship advice. You have to discern what's good advice on a case by case basis, or what is good advice, but just didn't work with a certain person. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/22 06:51 PM |
| 5 | If the wall is undefeated...doesn't that apply to wives too?I can only assume this is how they came up with the bright idea that HVM can cheat on the side and the wives, hags that they now are, have to accept it. Everybody ages, wives and husbands too. To people as concerned with looks as RPers are I don't think having kids and tending house are gonna make their wives physically attractive, make them suddenly want someone not 21. They can't comprehend that people can be attracted to and love someone older, or they don't want to have to do it (while any f… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/22 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Andrew Tate and the Loser Economy - How to Profit from a Lost GenerationIt's weird, they're lost but also really narcissistic. Also kind of lazy. That someone is selling them a quick fix to their problem, telling them they can live their hedonist fantasy, well, I can see why people get taken in. What happens when they realize they've been had? Well, dunno. I guess it's a good point, in the comments. I've thought of this before, self-help trends go in cycles and it seems like RP is a new flavor of something old, repackaged. I think our society is a lot less healthy n… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/22 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Do women truly prefer men with high body counts or who have been with alot of women?People marry people similar to them, generally. Most women have only slept with 3-5 men, and most men 4-6 women, or something like that. Women tend to avoid promiscuous men, certainly for marrying. People are generally clued into the fact that past behaviour predicts future behaviour. No one wants someone who will cheat on them or leave. Also, quite frankly, there is something wrong with people who sleep around, psychologically. It usually comes out in other ways too. These people are bad bets f… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/22 06:39 PM |
| 1 | My ex girlfriend (untreated BPD woman) made me redpilled.You made yourself redpilled. Being abused doesn't mean you get a pass to abuse others. Plenty of people get wrecked by BPD people, who yes, are a nightmare more often than not, and I'm sure it's no fun for them either, and they don't become RPed. it was a choice you made, an evil one. Take responsibility for it. You don't turn around and judge 50% of the population because you had a terrible relationship. you don't throw common sense out the window either. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/22 06:32 PM |
| 6 | What Do You Think of the phrase "Men love unconditionally; women love conditionally?"Some people do and some people do not love unconditionally. One should also keep in mind that loving someone does not mean staying with them if they're abusive say. It's a false platitude that paints them in a good light a denigrates women. That's what most of what they say is about. People have already mentioned the much higher rate at which men leave their sick wives. But you also have men with a laundry list of things they want in a woman, those are conditions. How many of them complain women… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/22 06:28 PM |
| 13 | The online popularity of redpill is just weird and kinda creepyThere's a reason the popularity is mostly online. These people do not generally do as well in the real world, hence them gravitating to this stuff online. i truly believe these people, most of the time, have anti-social tendencies and other issues. I think these people are also prone to fantasies and narcissism. They don't fully get that others have feelings and dreams too, that real life will not go as their fantasy, and, that the fantasy in their head, when it turns into a nightmare, a deeply … | /r/ExRedPill | 17/08/22 11:35 PM |
| – | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillThat;s not amoral it's immoral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else think that red pillers are hyper sensitive to criticism?Narcissists with narcissistic injuries lash out. It's also something people in general do when losing an argument, call names. These people think very highly of themselves with no reason to. It doesn't take much to push back and hurt their false sense of value, thus, they lash out. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/22 09:59 PM |
| 3 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.They were most likely abusing each other with Amber doing the bulk of it. The women saying Depp's abuse makes it ok are wrong. The men who think he was only a victim are wrong. I like Johnny generally but he seems to have substance abuse issues and those people get abusive. I believe he was emotionally and occasionally physically abusive, but nowhere near what Amber was. The majority of women are not in that sub, they do not represent the female population accurately, so don't act like they do. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.I'm reminded of some study that said yelling, or emotional abuse was as bad as spanking a child, both left psychological scars. Never underestimate the scars emotional and psychological abuse can leave is my point, even on adults. I know a black eye, something we can see looks far worse, and men are more likely to injure and when it goes that far, kill a partner, and children. So people fear it more. But men are not as able to talk about emotional or physical, or sexual abuse as openly as women.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.It's frustrating because there are threads on reddit of men discussing being sexually assaulted and women are very supportive, men too actually. In real life though men not so much, women often not too. We should support each other, women supporting women is common, it's also not uncommon they support men. But men supporting each other is very uncommon, en support women pretty well though. I think the dearth is men helping other men and I'm afraid women can't do anything much about it. Though Er… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:33 PM |
| 3 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.In-group preference is a good thing actually, helps you win actually. But both men and women have a bias to their own sex. There's nothing unique to women favoring other women, which they often do not. Nor is there anything stoic about men not helping other men, though they often do stick up for them. Men don't however put as much effort into organizing help groups as women. That's not a plus, that's a loss. Men and women should care about and rectify this. Not type on the internet foolishly thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.The waiter is silently cheering for them as are the people at other tables watching the trainwreck, or the cabby, or the friends he tells about it later, or the people who read his post on the internet. Your average person hates jerks, male or female and is happy to see someone stand up to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.The majority of relationships were reciprocal and men were more likely to seriously injure the woman. The poster said men are more likely to seriously injure women as the study YOU pointed out said, they weren't wrong on that. Only when the relationship was one sided violence, then it was likely to be a woman 70% of the time. So women are not the perpetrators of 70% of domestic violence let's be clear, they're 70% when it's one way. I also looked at the study referenced and it's heterosexuals be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:23 PM |
| 0 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.And this is how RP thrives. Men misrepresenting data or making up their own and trying to sound scientific while doing it. Erin Pizzey found that a lot of the women reciprocated their abuse, they were not sole abusers, men abusing them, them abusing men. Men make up something like 70-80% of violent offenders, same with robberies, rapes. It's not just the top 1% of violent males committing crimes, men from all walks of life, though concentrated more in lower income groups. Though it's true, the w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.As far as rape goes, no. There's an old comment on a purplepill or mensrights thread that breaks this down somewhere, went through studies and their flaws. The numbers of false rape convictions are very low. The majority of false rape claims never even name a perp. Despite this, men keep going on about how "men are regularly convicted of rape". Not happening, sorry. Keep telling your urban legend though. As for DV, well studies have shown plenty of couples are both the perps and women commit DV … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:44 PM |
| 22 | And they wonder why the real world doesn’t take them seriously. They act like radical Twitter feminists and convince themselves they’re not the same.This is what I've noticed, they're rad fems only male centric. And what does it say about men who want to sleep with tall "children"? It does remind me though of those sitcoms, where the mom treats the dad with disdain and like he's another kid. I think there's this toxic message that one spouse or the other is the adult who has to deal with the other rather than them being a team. It's antagonistic and not how it's supposed to be. It breaks down relationships, and keeps people from getting into… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/22 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Is it really over for women over 25?I think trying to cover your redpill opinion as "unique" is a bit lame. I do think people who are family oriented (want big families or marriage is their main life goal) tend to indeed be gone in mid twenties. Saying that there's something wrong with 26 year olds not being married when the average marriage age is higher than that is ridiculous. When you consider the divorce rate of people in their early 20s too, you realize that's not exactly a marker of good choice. The pool decreases as one ge… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it really over for women over 25?If you're worried about your skin go look at the skincare addiction subreddit. It's not over for women, that's just something they tell themselves to feel better about themselves. "All those women who passed on me got theirs and I'm laughing now". Meanwhile they're married, going to get married, happily single, never would have considered him ever, or some are single in an unhappy way because sometimes that's how life works out. You have to look at redpill as cope/rationalization for maladaptive… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Why are Many Men Not Close with Their Fathers?I've never seen any stats on how many RP men come from divorced childhood households. but from what I've seen from kids of divorce in general., there's a disconnect because they weren't there often, or at all, moved on. There's anger at the parents, Dad, or Mom, for not staying together, so they keep their distance from their parents, or if the parent tries to "make up for it", well, when you're being aggressive towards someone you can't really get close to them emotionally. I think problems wit… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/22 07:46 PM |
| 2 | I hate the worldYou value the wrong things, feel entitled to them and suffer accordingly. The problem is you not the world, not capitalism, not women. You have to decide you want to change and do the work to do so. you sound very narcissistic, very envious, seem to dehumanize others, like e-girls are something you "want one" of, like an item, see others as corrupting, do not apply the same rules to yourself, are materialistic. i don't know what to say other than find someone who can help you work through these … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Should men's looks be largely based on their face? Why include body type?I don't know how much you really talk to those guys at the gym who are absolutely ripped. Certainly some or even most of the guys who are just "quite fit" are healthy psychologically and often are displaying some good traits, though they can be shallow and materialistic too. But as for the really ripped guys? Lot of body dysmorphia/bigorexia and other problems, steroids, orthorexia. Lot of the smaller guys are on their way there too. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Should men's looks be largely based on their face? Why include body type?What matters is compatibility, having similar goals and values. I think you find redpillers going on about how bodies and money make up for not being facially attractive because they are not facially attractive AND because so much of facial beauty is based on symmetry. Why is that important? Because facial asymmetry may mean bad genes, bad behaviors, which these people tend to be rife in, the hardcore believers, not people who "accidentally" slipped into it as it were. These people are not pro-s… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/22 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Since I spent nearly 20 years with a Red Piller and suffered greatly from the damages of Reactive Abuse, I think it's vital for other survivors here to learn about what a HUGE part of what Red Pill relationships are REALLY like behind closed doors:THAT's what it's called, reactive abuse. Even outside of redpill stuff that's very handy. So many people do this crap now and then but narcissists have a special talent for it and making you feel at fault while you struggle to explain what's going on. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Red-Pillers Hate Monogamy?Some people are fast life history strategists. Scattershot approach, sleep around, invest little in offspring, others are the opposite. Many have personality problems, narcissistic personality disorder, dark triad traits. Addiction problems. Some easily influenced by others. My guess is it's largely genetic and then some people who can be persuaded into things if hit at the right time. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/22 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Women who don't sleep around before their wedding have happier marriages - but men can play the field without worry, study finds | Daily Mail OnlineI believe this is by Galena K Rhoades and Scott M Stanley. "The study also found that couples who had more than 150 guests at their ceremony had the greatest marital quality down the line." I mean, ok if true, but that probably has more to do with finances and IQ than how many guests you had at the marriage. But it's a good tidbit for an article. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Women who don't sleep around before their wedding have happier marriages - but men can play the field without worry, study finds | Daily Mail OnlineBoth men and women have increased odds of divorce with additional partners. I believe there's a slight tick up, like 3 partners is less likely than two or 6, but it's mostly downward. The same went for happiness, but women started off lower and maybe declined more. Sleeping around most definitely has consequences for men as well. There's the issue though that maybe it's not that sleeping around causes the break-ups, but that people inclined to sleep around are also less inclined to stay married … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/22 11:26 PM |
| 5 | When did Andrew Tate start gaining attention for his red pill ideology?There's "masculine", like a caricature, a machismo kind of guy and then there's masculine, virtues. You're conflating the two and so do the people who watch this kind of thing. It doesn't just stem from the demoralization going on, but also from an evil urge to have power over others and believing that is the natural order. i believe the current political climate made society ripe for this kind of thing. But that doesn't mean this is the answer and that he's teaching/exhibiting masculinity. Domi… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 05:37 PM |
| 5 | Rich COOPER DESTROYED MY MARRIAGE. I HATE HIM AND I HATE ALPHA MALES/RED PILLThis is all I could think about. Close the lid people, the flush leaves particles in the air or can spray like 6 feet, and your tooth brushes are in the bathroom too... | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Rich COOPER DESTROYED MY MARRIAGE. I HATE HIM AND I HATE ALPHA MALES/RED PILLLosing a job is very hard, generally more so on men, as they often make it an identity. Covid has also been very hard on people. It's no excuse to fall into what he did, but I can see how it happened. He was in a vulnerable place and susceptible to the BS. Regardless of how it happened, he has no right to treat you this way. You have every right and reason to get away for your own health, happiness and wellbeing. I don't know your situation but as a Christian who doesn't believe in divorce (I kn… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 05:23 PM |
| 2 | I keep referring myself as a beta male…Low self esteem, or sometimes the more pernicious inferiority complex. It's not uncommon, redpill or not. It's not that you're a Beta, that's just what RP has labelled a myriad of normal human things. You get over it by building your self esteem, by not comparing yourself to others, etc. Sometimes talking to a therapist helps, but there are plenty of books and videos about how to build self esteem and not worry so much about what others think. setting goals and accomplishing them helps a lot. Bu… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 05:13 PM |
| 7 | Anxiety over my (36F) upcoming wedding and my red-pilled brothers (41M &38M)If you can, I would talk to a therapist about this. Sadly sometimes people do have to cut out family member for their own health and sanity. It's sad that this happened to your family and that you have to deal with this when you have a wedding, which should be a very happy and special day, coming up. That whole primadonna "I won't go if he's not", trying to force you at YOUR wedding, is wrong. A therapist, a good one, can tell you how to handle this conflict in a way that suits you. You might no… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/22 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Despite post wall women being exaggerated by RP dont they exist?So you're redpill, trying to water down your redpill beliefs and posting them here hoping no one would notice? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/07/22 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Despite post wall women being exaggerated by RP dont they exist?Did she have trouble before? I don't think it's so much that being single causes mental health problems, but mental health problems lead to being single. Sometimes you don't notice them but they're exacerbated at a crisis point, like realizing your biological clock is ticking and then freaking out. People get married later now and depending on where she lives, getting married after thirty may be the norm. Encourage her. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/07/22 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Despite post wall women being exaggerated by RP dont they exist?It's called aging. Women, and men, age. They won't look the same as they did at 23. This often freaks people out and they get ridiculous. It can happen at any age, like the quarter life crisis. It doesn't have to be centered around age either, can just be a complex. you get 18 year olds who have had multiple plastic surgeries because they think they're not good enough. It's RPers trying to label normal aging, plus not uncommon issues that can crop up in people's lives, as being a woman only thin… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/07/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Does a man with a high body count impresses you?The kind of women who would be into kind of man that would not be good women. Most women would find it abhorrent, as I do. There's something wrong with people who sleep around that much, makes them a bad bet for marriage and parenting. You'll be 1501, or 51, or 41. It speaks to their values, and probably to a lack of skill in maintaining relationships. it's often not so much that they're good at sex, as that they're bad at maintaining relationships. They have to move on before they're kicked out… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/07/22 11:46 PM |
| 5 | My (Woman's) take as an observer of the red pillThat's something that gets me. It really isn't most men. They try and make it seem like it's men en masse, but it isn't. The majority of men are decent people, the majority will find someone to be with. I think there's probably some cult/salesman psychology here, and projection/narcissism. They think because it affects them this way, that it must affect everyone else this way. They want to make vulnerable men feel like they're the odd one out, when the reality is different. I think it also has t… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/07/22 11:43 PM |
| 5 | Why this misconception that less attractive men will treat women better?Not necessarily. They can be so afraid they'll lose her, they abuse her to get her to stay, break down her self esteem bit by bit, make her think no one would want her, or that she has to stay or he'll suffer and it will be her fault. Or he has trouble getting women because he's a nasty person and can't change that overnight, if ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Why this misconception that less attractive men will treat women better?I think men push this idea themselves, "I would treat her better". But women also think, "Well he's desperate so he wouldn't try anything, he would be thankful". Someone being attractive or unattractive doesn't mean they will or won't have serious personality flaws. Often times unattractive ones have chips on their shoulders and attractive ones can be arrogant. It depends. But i would generally agree that the more attractive are more well adjusted than the lesser attractive and treat women bette… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Modern Dating and the Giffen ParadoxIn other words, buy a bride, a prostitute at the end of the day. It's not that they have more value, it;'s that they're a big fish in a small pond. Ever see the sad sorts on 90 day fiance? Some American getting hitched to someone from a developing or former USSR country? Out of their league, but in need of money. You don't shop for a spouse, and if they do, well, they need to stay in that poor country. There's a reason it is poor and they had better not bring it here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Modern Dating and the Giffen ParadoxI think this is partly true. The other part is that the majority of people are average/below average, yet these men all want above average women. There aren't enough to go around, and as you said, it's harder to trap one now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Modern Dating and the Giffen ParadoxThis is a well thought out comment. At it's core, this is the problem with RP, it's all about looks and sex and not the multifaceted desires of humans, normal humans, I might add. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Modern Dating and the Giffen ParadoxAs if the men aren't leftovers too. their porn sick before they reach 18. They're done before they even began. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 06:40 PM |
| -1 | Modern Dating and the Giffen ParadoxLOL, like Marxists RPers seem to want a mass redistribution of wealth, or "goods" as spoken of here. And just like Marxists, they don't get why this is immoral and impossible. Envious too, just like Marxists, never taking responsibility for their failures, or the inherit differences of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 06:38 PM |
| – | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingIt's because evolutionary speaking he needs to prove he's worthwhile. Not, you know, some lazy dude who thinks he should be able to put in no effort and get what he wants, while demeaning the girl for being average (ie. beneath him). Bunch of lazy entitled guys looking for excuses for their failures. This is where the hamster thing comes from, you guys project, always some excuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 07:48 PM |
| 26 | Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coinEvery single day, usually multiple times a day, there's a man who comes on here wanting to *itch about how hard he/men have it, and with reasoning he thinks is original. This is the most pathetic, irritating thing I think I've seen on reddit. It's like the repost from hell. This is why RP men have trouble finding women. They're far more pathetic and narcissistic than your average guy. They can't see reality for what it is and think they are somehow special, with special insight or have been espe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 07:46 PM |
| 1 | How Would The Legalization Of Prostitution In The USA Affect The Dating/Sexual Marketplace For Men & Women?Yeah, cheapskates that they are! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | How Would The Legalization Of Prostitution In The USA Affect The Dating/Sexual Marketplace For Men & Women?The abuses exist because you're buying another human being as product. it's dehumanizing. The type of people who use such services are also not going to generally be good people. Legalizing it, as they have in the Netherlands, only increased trafficking. You can't make something inherently evil good, nor should you try and "destigmatize" it. That's ridiculous, like all the people trying to normalize STDs. The only thing I'll say that should change is that the Johns need to be vilified far more a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How Would The Legalization Of Prostitution In The USA Affect The Dating/Sexual Marketplace For Men & Women?Criminals want their crimes legalized. No kidding? It increased problems in the Netherlands, not made it better. Sex Workers with kids, quaint you pull that out. They're risking their kids lives, legal or not. Lot of bad people visit strippers, which is perfectly legal, stripping. Lot of drugs in that industry too. Not good for kids to have such parents. They need to switch jobs and adopt some morals, not try to bring society even further down with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | How Would The Legalization Of Prostitution In The USA Affect The Dating/Sexual Marketplace For Men & Women?Didn't help the Netherlands, it even increased it. People will do bad things, that doesn't mean we should encourage it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | men have 100% control in whether or not a woman gets pregnant, overturning roe v wade gets rid of any responsibility a man has in these situationsCause these extreme IVF cases are the norm. Brilliant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | men have 100% control in whether or not a woman gets pregnant, overturning roe v wade gets rid of any responsibility a man has in these situationsMen are human adults who can get someone pregnant. it is their responsibility too. And, it is their responsibility to take care of the child when it comes and not *itch about having to take the time to care for the kid or financially support it. Plenty of single moms out there, not a lot of single Dads. Lot of men shirking responsibility while also having time to whine on message boards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | men have 100% control in whether or not a woman gets pregnant, overturning roe v wade gets rid of any responsibility a man has in these situationsBoth parties are 100% responsible for conception, I agree. Don't have sex if you don't want to potentially have a kid. Both are responsible for not spreading disease either. Men should wear condoms and get tested and women shouldn't sleep with men who won't wear them or get tested ( and men shouldn't pressure women to go without). Men are even more careless with STDs. Really, no one should be having sex outside of marriage. But if a kid is produced, a man needs to take 50% of responsibility. All… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | men have 100% control in whether or not a woman gets pregnant, overturning roe v wade gets rid of any responsibility a man has in these situationsYou shouldn't have been having sex outside of marriage and you should have been using a condom to prevent the spread of disease. You could have been in charge of you're own fertility, in as much as condoms are successful, but were too lazy to or didn't like the feel, etc. Your fault, and hers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 07:24 PM |
| -1 | Guys cannot claim they have low standards if they wont date overweight women.Media influence trying to destroy the West. Not a natural thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 06:42 PM |
| 2 | For those who hook up/have casual sex often with different partnersThat's so sad for your wife man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | For those who hook up/have casual sex often with different partnersLOL, look at the comments of all these promiscuous men. But they'll turn around and tell you sleeping around doesn't affect men at all, only women. Disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | For those who hook up/have casual sex often with different partnersIf men are wired for polygamy then so are women. Males get replaced and their women go to the new man/me. Men always making excuses for male *luttery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | For those who hook up/have casual sex often with different partnersSorry, but there are definitely studies that show it messes up men too. Cute how you pick and choose though. A *lut is a *lut, male or female. It may be however that people who do this were never going to be good in relationships to begin with, rather than their sleeping around making them not good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 04:17 PM |
| 2 | I see a lot of "call outs" where women wish men would share their emotions more, and now men are pushing back saying when they do, it's weaponized against them. What's the healthy balance?Best answer here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | The average man does not "overestimate" his own attractivenessGotta be a bit delusional to prompt them to go out and pursue mates. Nature's way to help them try, even if they are not in fact as attractive as they think. Female of the species doesn't need to pursue as much, so does not suffer from this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 02:51 AM |
| 25 | Women ‘initiate’ 70% of divorces because women do most of the households admin tasksMen are better off in marriage. i think it's like, how men leave their sick partners at a higher rate when diagnosed with cancer. They lose the benefits of her and her support network and now have to take care of her. while she stays and has her support network to fall back on. A woman can leave and still has her family and friends to take care of her if she's unhappy. He does not. I think men live longer in both happy and unhappy marriages while women only in happy marriages. Have to double che… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 10:50 PM |
| 9 | The average men does not want the average women (in the US)The average is 5. Men do not want 5s, even thin 5s. It also depends on the age range you're looking at, race, education attainment, income. The number of dating age people who are overweight is not the same in all groups and it's about 40% not 80%. Looking at porn, instagram, etc. has also warped male expectations. Males overrating themselves also leads them to believe they deserve someone "out of their league". The average woman is average, not obese, but not the 7-10 they are after and believe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps make misogynist men"people who I wasn't always physically attracted", "Being treated as a disposable option" sounds like you gave as good as you got. Not getting women should not turn men into misogynists. If someone feels entitled to female attention, and not getting it made them mad, they already had a problem. They are mean too because they often deal with harassment on these apps. It's enough to maybe make them feminist/man haters. This is also the internet. People are a lot less nice. The point is, There's no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 03:02 AM |
| 5 | If the bar for men is low, the bar for women is even lower.Men having low "dating" standards in general, makes men in general bad. It doesn't mean "woe is men, we have to work harder than you". It's pathetic to have such low standards, immoral even. Men complaining about having to work harder should realize their real problem is their own low standards (which they don't actually adhere to, certainly for relationships, but even often times for casual sex). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | True or false, women on this sub are more likely NOT representative of the majority of the population but the men on here AREIntellectual stuff. Not Intsellektuaal stuff though, too hard to pronounce in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 01:32 PM |
| 2 | True or false, women on this sub are more likely NOT representative of the majority of the population but the men on here AREBeen in the media plenty that social media makes people unhappy, partly due to warped expectation. Yet still, they don't get offline. i would say it's because it is a certain, vocal niche of males here who don't have as much outside the internet. So they won't leave and are obsessed with a Tall chad ideal that most women are not after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 01:29 PM |
| 0 | True or false, women on this sub are more likely NOT representative of the majority of the population but the men on here AREPareto Principal applies to both sides. I agree society is victimizing (White) males, just not in the sexual sphere. No one is entitled to sex/a partner and most men get someone when they are reasonable about it. You just have more men now who are unreasonable, anti-social and taking longer to get it and blaming everyone, and their mother, especially their single mother's, for not having the highly promiscuous sex life they feel entitled to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 01:27 PM |
| 8 | True or false, women on this sub are more likely NOT representative of the majority of the population but the men on here AREI think they're not only seeking validation from women, but just in general. They are so, so desperate to believe they are hard done by and it's the world at fault for their predicament that they go on and on about some variation of who has it harder, putting their case that it is them every time and wanting to hear people cry "you're right, poor soul, it's not your fault" back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men?I think it's also interesting to note, that they feel this way about cheating, tells you how big a betrayal it really is when they physically cheat on women. try and dismiss it though they might as "different". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 11:14 PM |
| 4 | Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men?Men want to believe that because it suits them. Then when their partner is dissatisfied with the substandard effort the man has put in the relationship he can claim she was just pretending the whole time, when she was probably asking them repeatedly to change, or too nervous to bring it up. When you look at the low rates of women having orgasms, especially vs. the number of men who think they are good in bed, anyone can see there's a lot of unhappy women out there and their partners are not up t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 11:13 PM |
| 8 | Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men?And men belong to the women they are with? She's usually not his first and he's also off looking at porn. More male projection. You're the unfaithful ones, far more than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 11:04 PM |
| 9 | Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men?I think women are just as badly hurt by it, they just don't want to admit it and rationalize it away/blame themselves. Men also want to believe it to excuse themselves. I think we need to stop perpetuating the myth that women don't mind the sexual cheating as much, nor do men mind the emotional cheating as much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Black woman in tech: I can't date interracially and black men in tech want white and Asian womenYou're genuinely pretty. Date guys outside of tech, easy answer. You just need someone you can connect with and talk to, doesn't have to be about your job. Look in other "brainy" fields with more men if you want a smart guy. But be open to dating guys without a degree too. Plenty of smart guys taking up trades. Don't limit yourself to a specific field and it really opens up to you. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 09:29 PM |
| -19 | TIL about an 1898 speech given by prominent feminist Rebecca L. Felton that justified the lynching of black men on the basis of false rape accusationsIf you think falsely demonizing White women/Whites is good for men's rights, especially White men's rights, then you are a fool. Till should have had a fair trial, but there's no proof at all that he's innocent. Tawana Brawley, now there's someone caught in a false accusation. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 11:26 PM |
| -1 | Female rapists faces additional charges| people in comments are saying that getting raped is a teenage boys dream.Lol, you were just low key making the excuse "in fact you could argue that unlike boys, it's not uncommon when girls initiate successfully". It's rape. Doesn't matter who initiates it. A kid is a kid. Don't be evil. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Female rapists faces additional charges| people in comments are saying that getting raped is a teenage boys dream.We spoke with a mother of one of the victims, who says her son told her Melissa Blair would reach out on social media and offer items, like vape pens, in exchange for sexual favors. She apparently didn't even work for the school, was a club member? Reminds me of an old story that apparently Karla Homolka had volunteered at a school after her release. Gotta screen people better. So many of the comments there are people saying rape is rape, whether or not it's a male victim. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 11:16 PM |
| -3 | Ex-wife of Microsoft exec who was shot and killed in front of his two-year-old daughter allegedly asked a tattoo shop worker if she knew anyone who could "shut him up"People with tattoos are all ex-con bikers? Getting a tattoo makes you tough? Watched a lot of 70s and 80s movies probably. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 11:07 PM |
| 5 | Ex-wife of Microsoft exec who was shot and killed in front of his two-year-old daughter allegedly asked a tattoo shop worker if she knew anyone who could "shut him up"Not enough evidence. Yet. You should hear some of the vile things people say during a divorce. Doesn't mean they would actually go through with killing their spouse. I wouldn't be surprised if she did, given what sounds to be a bitter custody/support battle (arguing over their son's breathing machine even?) and the stuff described in the tattoo shop. But there is a certain burden of proof required. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 11:05 PM |
| -8 | Ex-wife of Microsoft exec who was shot and killed in front of his two-year-old daughter allegedly asked a tattoo shop worker if she knew anyone who could "shut him up"Because the killers were male. Those men had no right to do that. In the Russian case I believe it was several men and a woman. I agree those false accusers need to be held accountable for lying too, especially if they intended it to lead to murder. But those others took the law into their own hands and deserve what they get for violating other people's rights to a fair trial and trying to be vigilantes. If men and women don't fly off the handle and murder someone just because someone else says … | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:59 PM |
| -7 | Ex-wife of Microsoft exec who was shot and killed in front of his two-year-old daughter allegedly asked a tattoo shop worker if she knew anyone who could "shut him up"I think it's something like 3% of murders are contract killers, the majority of those are gang related I believe. There's not a plethora of scheming women driving up those stats and at the end of the day a man still murdered another man and that statistic should be counted as such. I believe however the person who hires them is also convicted of murder, might be murder for hire as well or instead, guess it depends on if it goes through and the state/country's law. Don't make-up/lie about facts a… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Matt Walsh says we cannot become a society that drafts our daughters at 23:06 in this video. But drafting sons is OK?I don't know if Walsh wants men drafted or not. But women do not have, for the most part, the physical capabilities of men. Putting them in the army, police force and on firefighting teams is asking for trouble. This isn't misandrist, it's basic biological facts. I don't believe men should be drafted, but I also believe we should not be asinine and pretend Walsh, who's generally pretty good about issues, is anti-male. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | What do you all think of this women on a University Anonymous Facebook ForumMakes sense. She doesn't want the inappropriate attention, or to feel like He thinks she's something that can be used and thrown away. It's not hard to grasp, though I understand how it can seem a contradiction. This guy is giving unwanted sexual attention, not good, then acting like that person isn't human and expendable for some new girl, also not good. It's one of those things where the person would say "it's the principle of the thing". She wants the man to not view women as sexual objects p… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | The crime of 'Femicide' has passed through parliament. It is now a more serious crime to kill a woman than to kill a man.It sounds like a hate crime law, giving more weight to certain groups. I can see how it might sound good in practice, especially in countries known for killing infant girls. But it makes things unequal under the law. Sounds good, isn't, manages to sneak by, then you're screwed with an unequal law and a precedent for more. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Why her history mattersMen having more partners also decreases marriage stability like the women's and happiness. The happiness just doesn't go down as starkly as women's. I believe people should not sleep around, male or female. They should especially not be hypocrites, sleeping around and then wanting a partner who hasn't. People only seem to think this double standard is ok for men though. It's not, never mind the pornography use and addiction rates. Men who have not slept around should not be guilted into being wi… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:29 PM |
| -6 | Dissolving swim trunksGuys wanting to prank guys but this is women's fault? I agree, no one should do this to anyone else, but this is caused by feminists how? | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:24 PM |
| 14 | A vulnerable man committed suicide after he was let down by the 'system'.He was on bail at the time after pleading not guilty to the attempted murder of his wife, Rita in January, when he had attacked her with a chisel and left her in hospital for four days. He was a paranoid schizophrenic. There are so many cases of normal, good men being let down by the system and this is what you highlight? Having someone with Schizophrenia in my family I know it's not an easy thing to deal with. It's likely the community did not let him down. It's just not an easy thing for a fam… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Couple trafficked more than 40 Slovakian 'slaves' to work in Bristol car washThey don't mention it because no one wants to admit immigration is a huge problem, especially human trafficking which has mostly female victims being raped. It's not about the victims being male, it's to cover up the problems flowing into the country. Same with the case in New Jersey a bit ago with the, I believe mostly, or entirely male, temple builders. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Resolved: Feminism is evilFeminism IS communism. It's a branch of it. They are not good ideas and were intended to make people suffer. I wish people would learn this. It was always about destroying the West. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Man must pay maintenance even if daughter earns well: Bombay HCIt's Indian culture, you take care of them until marriage. If this was the US this wouldn't be ok. They want to have the marriage system they have, this is how it is. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Men have the right to have boundaries in a relationship without being labeled as “controlling”There's a difference between boundaries and preferences. A man not wanting to date a woman who crosses a line, like revealing personal information, who makes demands of him, like money or something, setting emotional boundaries that keep one safe and protect mental well being, that's boundaries. Now a preference for dress. If you try and guilt someone into it then no. If it's their natural dress, or you become more conservative and believe it is then wrong and say you are no longer comfortable w… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:07 PM |
| 6 | Women constantly shame men for lashing out when rejected, however the other side of that coin is that women are insanely picky when they have very little offer themselves, and flake over frivolous nonsense at the drop of a hat.She's using him for sex too. Guys never get this, but they're being spent with everyone they sleep with too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Women constantly shame men for lashing out when rejected, however the other side of that coin is that women are insanely picky when they have very little offer themselves, and flake over frivolous nonsense at the drop of a hat.The other side of it would be women lashing out at men for rejecting them. Thinking someone is below you and should have to accept you is disgusting and evil. It's no wonder such people get rejected. Men also overate themselves. They think they're above those women, when they're not. Some people also just don't want to date anyone, or want to date someone from their own culture, or subculture, or maybe they had a bad day. If someone says no, don't freakout like a baby, shrug it off and leave. Be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ?It applies to both. No abortions (except like ectopic pregnancies). It's your God given responsibility to take care of your child. The contract is with the child, not the mother, not something you can sign away. This of course is also part of the reason so many women get abortions. They know men won't be responsible, if they don't outright ask the woman to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 04:58 PM |
| 0 | Red pillers at their core have an issue with Western gynocentrism. This is too fundamental of a culture clash. If you don't like it, you just have to leave your countryThey wouldn't be happy under traditional society either. Their problem is they want to sleep around, can't, or can only a little, or really have to work for it (in comparison to that evil chad!) and resent it. In a traditional society they couldn't sleep around either. They're selfish, narcissistic and anti-social. Sleeping around is not pro-social, traditional societies, like we used to have in the West were pro-social. They're unhappy because they're individualists, it's all about them. So the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Women LOVE to throw out the classic “it’s not your ____ it’s because you’re a misogynistic asshole” yet misogynistic assholes are consistently the ones getting laid. This alone proves that women are unable to have an honest conversation about dating and discredits anything else they have to say.They're incapable of "addition", otherwise they would realize they are the problem. That's too painful and would require work to fix. So they vent their rationalizations online. Sadder even are the ones who get what they want (to sleep around) but still hold this view, bitter that they had to "work for it more than women/chad". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 04:51 PM |
| 5 | Women LOVE to throw out the classic “it’s not your ____ it’s because you’re a misogynistic asshole” yet misogynistic assholes are consistently the ones getting laid. This alone proves that women are unable to have an honest conversation about dating and discredits anything else they have to say.Some women like this, for a certain length of time, then get tired of it and leave, or try to. There's also some who will give it a whirl but would never want to marry them. Most of these are under some "I can change him" delusion. They have more sex because they are taking more shots. They also have to keep moving on because women won't tolerate them long. There really are so many men, the majority on RP forums even, who don't understand that relationships are work and effort is required. They … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do men tend to have a more varied taste in the opposite sex?I think men probably do dress more similar than women, but that's because there's less variation in their fashion, especially business attire, and they're more utilitarian. But both men and women dress similarly within their groups, in general. I think as far as faces are concerned there's as much variation in each group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it fair to say that BOTH men and women hit an "Epiphany" stage in their 30s?Cause it's either a promiscuous man (worthless) or one nobody wants? Why do you people always think in such extremes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Are women's standards that high, or are men just lying to themselves?Men overate their physical attractiveness, women are more in line with reality. They're delusional by the large, especially the ones who don't have someone. They're also projecting. They say women are entitled because they are entitled and can't wrap their mind's around anyone else's viewpoint because they are also narcissistic. They want the moon but are offering astroturf all too often. There are some out there having trouble, just like there are some good women (good, not just career, but fem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Can "intentionally settling" ever work in anyone's favour?No, some young men are checking out and some young women, and it has to do with genetics and societal dysfunction. Many are not and leading good lives, especially the very healthy ones (which isn't necessarily the same as being the most wealthy/attractive). This isn't a majority problem, though it might be an increasing sizeable minority. It's the men too who are coming up short on their end, lot of dysfunction and sadly it does seem to be genetic and nothing can be done about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Can "intentionally settling" ever work in anyone's favour?lol, your self esteem should not be tied to how desirable your partner is. That is not how most successfully married men think. That's valuing the wrong thing and looking for self esteem outside yourself(never good). I'm amazed, even still, at some of the ludicrous things men post here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Majority of TRP people want a familyBut they're not virtuous themselves, they're promiscuous hypocrites now looking for a "virtuous" (virgin, or near) wife. You can't be a leader, a truly good one, in the community and family, without being virtuous and these men aren't it. They destroy society looking to fulfill their own lusts, then to save their image and get the next thing they want marry a virtuous women, and, produce, presumably, kids with their less than stellar moral genetic traits. RP isn't virtuous at all, these friends … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Majority of TRP people want a familyLol, RPers go on about women only wanting 20% of men and now you're saying suitable women are 0%? You aren't the first to say things like this. Obviously there are suitable women, and suitable men marrying them. Shows how out of touch RPers can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Bf admitted to losing respect for meHonestly marriage often takes a lot of compromise and endurance. That he's getting petty over something like this is bad, especially when it's something you worry about. It's such a small thing for him to think it's a dealbreaker. To me that's a bad sign, of him, not you. And don't worry, most people probably don't notice you mixing up words. People tend to be self conscious about this stuff when no one else really notices or cares. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore?"I don't trust women like I once did. I now see women for what they are" --- and you think women are emotional and jaded, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 01:18 PM |
| 1 | If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore?I don't doubt that virgin men also have lower divorce rates (only seen one study where they looked at male virgins as well as females and this was true, wish we studied virginity in males more and it's value). Sadly most men are so lacking in religiosity that they aren't virgins and hypocritical despite that fact and want virgins themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 01:14 PM |
| 4 | Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised.I can only assume that since you didn't mention sunscreen that your moisturizer has it. Sunscreen can go a long way to keeping people looking good as they get older. I also have to buy more of that duo today as this post made me realize I'm almost out... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 02:10 PM |
| 0 | Men who “defend” women in comments on social media and virtue signal by shaming men are only doing it seeking validation and women’s favor, and women do not find this attractive at all despite what they sayI think they despise it because they know it's disingenuous on some level. People hate phonies, especially phonies trying to get something from them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 08:31 PM |
| 2 | If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date.Your average overweight guy isn't a weightlifter and doesn't have a six pack. Some of the strongmen type can indeed be muscular but have a lot of flab too and plenty of women don't find that attractive, doesn't matter that he's a bodybuilder. BMI isn't perfect but it's not terrible either unless you're really short or an athlete. this is the same excuse morbidly obese activists use to say there's nothing actually wrong with their weight "BMI isn't acccurate!". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Most men who don't have "success" with women are a-social. Lack of social skills is a far bigger hindrance than the aspect of looks.They don't have to turn to those things and it is never set in stone It's that mind set that kills them. Like depression, it can be hard to get the motivation to get out of it. But you have to want it enough to do it you can. It's this bad mentality, and others, that keep them stuck, and most people in some area of their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Most men who don't have "success" with women are a-social. Lack of social skills is a far bigger hindrance than the aspect of looks.If you have them and don't use them, it's the same as not having them. Sucks their anxiety gets in the way, but it is what it is. I wouldn't hire someone with the skills I want if their anxiety kept them from performing the job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Most men who don't have "success" with women are a-social. Lack of social skills is a far bigger hindrance than the aspect of looks.You don't have to be an extrovert or someone who isn't you, that's misrepresenting the reality of it so they don't have to do anything. Women aren't "living it up" by the large. That some men think that way and use that belief to breed resentment causes them even more trouble. There are books, Youtube videos, therapists, etc. that can help someone be more social. Being social doesn't mean social butterfly, it can mean having just a few friends. Plenty of introverts have relationships, maybe not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Most men who don't have "success" with women are a-social. Lack of social skills is a far bigger hindrance than the aspect of looks.I had the same kind of problems you had and it is definitely something, with some work, that you can fix. I found it takes awhile for the mood to catch up and be happy with the weight loss (and in that time you might give up and regress). Sometimes the mood is hampered by something else though, but you'll still probably be happier without the weight. The thing is not to waste any time on regret about the childhood, or young adulthood stuff. You've already proven you have what it takes by losing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Most men who don't have "success" with women are a-social. Lack of social skills is a far bigger hindrance than the aspect of looks.There's nothing wrong with that if you're happy with how things are. If you aren't you can always work on it to get to where you might want to be. I see a lot of girls/women like this, mostly they age out of it, but some have to work on it eventually. Even young women with "It Girl" looks have trouble getting any attention, romantic or as friends sometimes. It is a personality thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Most men who don't have "success" with women are a-social. Lack of social skills is a far bigger hindrance than the aspect of looks.Not the majority, and not the majority that last. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Most men who don't have "success" with women are a-social. Lack of social skills is a far bigger hindrance than the aspect of looks.Those are movies, MOVIES. Victims get roped in and then don't leave out of fear, or because some times are good, or because they have kids, or because they don't think there's help, not because the man is hot. They might still love their abuser on some level but usually no longer like them. It can be a mutually abusive relationship too. Looks can work to reeling in victims but that won't make the victim like it, plenty of ugly abusers too, it's the psychology of victims. People selling their sou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Most men who don't have "success" with women are a-social. Lack of social skills is a far bigger hindrance than the aspect of looks.Lol, I love how people like you are posting this stuff and serving as great examples of what the OP is talking about. Yes, having a social circle, doesn't have to be a huge one, proves you invest in others and they invest in you. That you don't get and value that shows how out of touch you are. Looking down on "normies", is very egotistical. You want something but don't want to do the work, just like the type of person described here. Even if such people got a women, their personality would driv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Most men who don't have "success" with women are a-social. Lack of social skills is a far bigger hindrance than the aspect of looks.There's a difference between not getting what attractive people get and getting nothing. RP people focus on the looks and income aspect to the exclusion of others and so they never actually have to work on their substandard personalities. Meanwhile healthy, average guys are getting dates, girlfriends, marriages and families. If RPers would stop being terminally bitter about not getting the attention of as many mates (or in their minds, partners to sleep around with, cause that's what they really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Most men who don't have "success" with women are a-social. Lack of social skills is a far bigger hindrance than the aspect of looks.This is the biggest thing. So many people these days lack basic social skills, have anxiety disorders, are narcissistic, risk averse, so take less risks, don't have family and friend social networks and don't work to build them. They lack the basics and that is also why they turn around and blame women. They're just lacking so badly they don't even have the ability to recognize they're massive shortfall. It should be glaringly obvious the evil things they boldly say and want on here. But they do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Do regularly unmated / unfathered men have any incentive in gathering surplus resources and sustaining their communities?Women will not and cannot become the primary builders. Such men definitely can have less motivation, maybe even often. Doesn't mean they have no motivation. Can be for their own enrichment materially, can be altruistic, or to help people with similar genes and so live on that way, can have an interest or obsession and invent new things just to satisfy that. It is a problem, disaffected men, and women too and has negative ramifications for them and society. but there are reasons some keep going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: How commonly do you think people (especially men) who are obsessed with dating and relationships are lacking fulfillment in other areas of life?I think "needing" a relationship is inherently unhealthy. However, i don't think that these people don't necessarily have anything going for them, they often do. They're just lacking in the department of being ok alone, which is important. You can't look to other to be ok or to have value, cliche, but it has to come from within. Some definitely had bad parents and are seeking someone to fill the void. But even they often have a job, hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Dating is 100% a numbers game for men, and it is inherently humiliating.Not really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Dating is 100% a numbers game for men, and it is inherently humiliating.Look at the rates of unhappiness, mental illness, addiction and suicide in that community. Lends credence to the idea that players have problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 04:58 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on the “Karen” phenomenon?Neither. It's about racial hatred. These women do exist, like almost all stereotypes there is a basis in reality. But it's not patriarchy or about women's sexual desirability. It's a personality type. You can't make fun of other groups like this, so the emphasis is on Karens (Whites). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Men are just expected to accept that they not only cannot get someone as attractive as them, but that they will have to WORK for someone less attractive. If they question any of this they are called entitled or told they are overrating their own appearance despite confirmation from most.Men overate their looks and other people being attracted to them. They've done studies on this. Sorry, it's you guys not being as attractive as you think. You value looks too much? Ok, live by the sword, die by the sword. You're not as good looking as you think gentlemen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Lesbian women have an easier time getting women than most straight men do.Now the straight guys are jealous of lesbians? Lesbians having an easier time of dating (supposedly, though given the small pool I would say no) means what then? what do you hope to gain from acknowledging this? What can be gained other than pity? How will pity help men get women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Men are frequently referred to as entitled yet no one talks about the way women behave when they don’t get what they want or how often the ugly friend cock blocks when there is a genuine interest between you and a girlSome women do this, some don't. RPers zero in on these cases as if it's all or the majority of interactions. It isn't. Never mind the men who get rejected or just not smiled at or whatever it was they want and then turn on a spout of expletives or assault a woman. No one should get away with abusive behavior. I think men and women also need to realize that sometimes their friend really has been asked to intervene. Especially with women who are people pleasers, they may say to your face they are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 05:06 PM |
| 0 | Most men nowadays are afraid of approach and ask women out because they fear that women will think men are stalking and sexually harassing themMen are more cowardly nowadays and get told by other cowardly men that they'll be thought of as harassers, making the problem worse, so they don't approach women, then blame it on women. The majority of women will not call you a stalker/harasser. Just make sure you're capable of taking no for an answer and don't start insulting her once you receive the rejection. Brazilian women may need to be more wary as it is a higher crime country. Even then, I doubt they assume everyone is a harasser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | The 80/20 doesn’t mean only 20% of men are having sex and relationships…it means 20% are having the interactions and relationships THEY WANT with womenYOU would rather HE never had HIS KID? The disgusting arrogance. And even after you admit your friend isn't exactly a catch. I wouldn't be surprised if he puts as little effort into his relationship as he does himself. Not that it excuses any abuse, but she's obviously not happy either. Others have already broken down how RPers misrepresent the 80/20 thing. But no, everyone has to work at getting and keeping a relationship. And even if this mythical 20% of men were real (they're not), what's it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 03:48 PM |
| 5 | The 80/20 doesn’t mean only 20% of men are having sex and relationships…it means 20% are having the interactions and relationships THEY WANT with womenThis is the thing. IRL. If people are on OLD they're already kind of signalling they're a failure, or at least below average socially. Healthy people tend to meet in real life and have a network, be it work, family, friends, hobbies, that helps them meet people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Fds is now gone, thoughts?One of the few places that was anti-porn, very rightfully pointing out it's evils, but those women were generally otherwise anti-male. They and the RPers are the exact same people, only each puts their own gender first. It's nice to have more of a balance and to have them sort of hold a mirror up to RPers, who I guess were never likely to see themselves reflected their. So, sad it's gone and it was kind of amusing too. It also did tell women they don't have to put up with abusive sexual behavior… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 01:41 PM |
| 2 | If you are 30 and marry a 30 year old man then there's an 99 percent chance that he is settling.Most men are not attractive though. They're average. Plenty of the attractive ones mess themselves up on booze and drugs and plastic surgery too. Hard living partying with younger women. Average Joes shouldn't compare themselves to those guys. Not just because they're not the same in looks, but because it's not looks that are most important in a human being, male or female (or money for that matter). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 12:43 AM |
| 5 | If you are 30 and marry a 30 year old man then there's an 99 percent chance that he is settling.And yet you see people on second marriages, marrying people their age, in their social circle (income) including the middle and upper class types. so no, a 40 year old marrying a 40 year old isn't settling anymore either. As an older married guy you should know that by now. There's more to marriage than looks and money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 12:40 AM |
| 7 | If you are 30 and marry a 30 year old man then there's an 99 percent chance that he is settling.Some men do. Many... Do not... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 12:38 AM |
| 4 | If you are 30 and marry a 30 year old man then there's an 99 percent chance that he is settling.I'd guess they have been on a date. Once. It went badly. And now they're analyzing the whole thing to death to put themselves in a better light and hoping it will help date number two go... better... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 12:37 AM |
| 2 | If you are 30 and marry a 30 year old man then there's an 99 percent chance that he is settling.Lol. Don't encourage them, telling them RP will give them PSYCHIC powers, cause they may actually believe it, considering half the stupid crap they already believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 12:35 AM |
| 1 | If you are 30 and marry a 30 year old man then there's an 99 percent chance that he is settling.LOL, this is a myopic view. Best years are not behind you. Viewing humans this way is twisted. The reason some men sit on the couch is apathy and laziness and something lacking inside themselves, not their wives. Most men thankfully don't do that. Trading in also rarely works out. You have to stop viewing others as something your buying in prime condition. There's so much more to people than that. And, in case you were unaware. You and any poor woman you convince to marry you will hopefully.like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Women don't age like MilkIt's true, generally. Women take better care of themselves and hair loss can really, really have an effect on a man's looks. You'll get all these comments about 20 somethings being more attractive, and that is generally true. However, that doesn't mean the 30 something is unattractive, or even much less attractive. The other thing is about how "women want resources". BS. These attractions evolved back when we lived like animals. Older men got supplanted by younger, just like you see in every oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | A different perspective on why a woman's n-count absolutely matters and why a man should never commit to a high n count woman.Virginity is best for both women and men. The problem is hypocrisy. Certainly if one is Christian and thinks this way then you'll be judged as you judged other women and be found wanting (damned). More research needs to be done in men and number of sex partners. But the one smaller study that the RP used to like to trot out, showed the same sort of stats for divorce and marital happiness among men and women in relation to their number of partners. This "separation of the physical" is actually th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Is obesity a primary factor in dissatisfaction with the “economics” of dating?No. The problem is RP men wanting a hot girl, feeling entitled to it, not getting it and then whining about it like some injustice. Doesn't matter what they look like, or even if they're successful, it's not enough, they feel entitled, they're narcissistic, they overrate themselves (as studies have shown) and react badly when they don't get what they want and start rationalizing and projecting it. They're only truly interested in the hot ones (top percent) but try to rationalize they're lack of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 11:33 PM |
| 16 | Men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex, and perhaps not a great deal more"If women would stop sleeping with jerks, men would stop being jerks."--- No women need be involved. Men can stop being jerks, when men want to stop being jerks (and not all of them are jerks). This idea that they have no control, that it's someone else's fault, it's pathetic. They have agency, to act, and moral. They need to use it and stop blaming women for their bad behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Emotional connections and relationships.People have to be willing to work on themselves, and unfortunately, most don't. They just end up recreating their unhappy childhoods. It can be a tough thing to work through but I've seen it done and it's worth it, especially for your children. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/22 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulateYou ask these girls's fathers and they wouldn't want these men around their daughters either. The Dad's know full well their daughters are being taken advantage of for sex and that they're no good. It's not jealousy, it's looking out for more vulnerable people. Mom's too. I wouldn't want my daughter dating an older man. I would assume there was something wrong with him that he was hanging out with people so much younger, and wasn't married already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulateYouth = inexperience, more easily taken advantage of and that's part of what they like about it. It's not moral to take advantage of people, that's why it's predatory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulatePeople abuse people their own age all the time. Why is it so hard to understand that they might have an even easier time doing it with someone younger and with less experience so that they are easier to take advantage of. People will consent to stay with abusers all the time, to do things not good for them. Just because someone consents doesn't make the thing they are doing good. It doesn't need to be all out abuse, it can just be something that's not good for them and they don't know because th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 08:40 PM |
| 19 | Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulateIt's that they (the women in question) are more attractive to these men generally, the men look more impressive (because the younger has less to compare it to/people they're own age are still getting established) and yes, easier to manipulate. This is why age gap marriages fail at higher rates, they're not healthy and breed unhappiness for the younger. Women do not age faster than men "exponentially". A woman doesn't suddenly lose all her worth at 26. Unhealthy men just say these things to justi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Telling men that relationships aren't a source of happiness is bad advice and invalidates their feelings.I think you've warped a lot of what you heard to fit what you think is true. Relationships can bring happiness but there's no guarantee (and no, not everyone has a honeymoon period, most, but not all). There's also no guarantee you will get a relationship. You can and should work to be happy without one. it comes from inside a person. Too many people get into this mindset that if they just had "X" they could then be happy. No, you should work on being happy now, easier said than done, but possib… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Feel like I messed up in lifePlenty of female doctors (of all fields) get married. I know mine all have kids. I don't know about being able to be a stay at home Mom or not but you can definitely still have a husband and kids. I get the immigrant parent push is frustrating. But rather than focusing on blame and what ifs, focus on what you can do now an also don't put your life on hold until you're done your training. Start looking now for a spouse. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/22 07:44 PM |
| 4 | What to do when your husband prefer things you don’t have?He shouldn't be saying such things. I don't think insulting him in return is the way to fix this. I'm not sure how to. i would discuss with him how it makes you feel. You say it's you who gets jealous when you see a short chubby girl. As long as he isn't checking them out then that's you and so something you can change. Some people have a type but then they meet someone who's different and that far outweighs whatever their type was. The hair thing may be for another reason too, just utility he m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/22 07:41 PM |
| 11 | What to do when your husband prefer things you don’t have?Most women don't look as feminine as her or Jean Seberg when they have short hair though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else worried about the state of “love” today?There was not rampant cuckoldry. They've done studies and estimates of this and the number of men in the past and present raising other men's kids is a tiny, tiny fraction of the population. All this chad baby talk I see gets ridiculous. The point about brothels and mistresses is true enough. though wives did sometimes have lovers if they were more upper class, it was mostly men being unfaithful and even cuckolding the wife, having kids outside the marriage. Lot of famous bastards out there. I t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else worried about the state of “love” today?I think the "love is a choice" thing is good, if you were truly in love with them at one point. Then you should work to get it back and stick it out as it ebbs and flows. It's bad advice though when someone is dating a person they don't love and think it will come after marriage and often doesn't and they end up disappointed and divorced, except in rare occasions when it does happen. but yeah, the choice, the work that comes with it. People just don't want to put in the work. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else worried about the state of “love” today?The decline of religion is indeed the root cause but social media and the media in general are probably the biggest things that exacerbates this mindset. Now they can see and compare what others are doing and be sold to and manipulated. There's a reason people are happier and their mental health even, I believe, improves when they unplug. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else worried about the state of “love” today?I think you have these two extremes. People say they know the romantic fairytale is a myth but still hope for it and see it on social media vs. people being disposable, for sexual pleasure/status and they see that on social media too. They go back and forth between these two extremes in their minds now and then for fear of missing out and just whenever they're unhappy they wonder. People are also more narcissistic and entitled nowadays and it means they have trouble doing what needs to be done t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/22 03:55 PM |
| 4 | Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful?Is he putting in the effort to sexually satisfy her though? Lot of women not having orgasms out there. If these men want sex they should provide incentives, that means sex that''s good for both partners and also being decent outside the bedroom (this goes for women as well, though to a lesser extent). Address the underlying issue and they would get more sex. The majority are unfaithful though and look at porn. that's one of the biggest things women want them to stop. They create their own proble… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | TONS of male sex symbols/A-list celebrities date and marry down, and many get with women significantly older than them. This proves that no amount of power, looks or success will truly give a man the upper hand and that ultimately women have most if not all of the power in dating.Most male celebrities do not date/marry older women. They date/marry people near they're age or a bit younger, just like the majority of the population. How do people get this view so twisted and focus in on a few niche celebs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | TONS of male sex symbols/A-list celebrities date and marry down, and many get with women significantly older than them. This proves that no amount of power, looks or success will truly give a man the upper hand and that ultimately women have most if not all of the power in dating.Lower value in the mind of RP losers. Here's the high status men they go on about picking them and yet RPers say they're low value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | TONS of male sex symbols/A-list celebrities date and marry down, and many get with women significantly older than them. This proves that no amount of power, looks or success will truly give a man the upper hand and that ultimately women have most if not all of the power in dating.It's not all about looks and money, it's not all about looks and money. Say it with me now. And still, the majority of men marry younger by a year or two, more when we're talking about a lot of these Hollywood types. You're looking at this as if looks/age are all that matter and they aren't. And again, most wealthy men marry younger, you're hyper-focused on a handful of examples. Also, I think "Kick-Ass" may have gotten groomed ad shouldn't be on this list. You also seem to be looking for some u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | The idea that Will Smith is a "beta male" is ridiculous and shows how delusional the manosphere isThey live in this unreality where they should be having sex with whoever, they're young virgin wife only them, and then, and only then are they "alpha". They don't get that their vision is not reality, that women don't like men who cheat, no, no even "high status men" and that there is sexual morality and that it applies to them. They think they should have whatever they want without any repercussions cause they want what they want, because they're entitled. Will is not beta. He's almost certain… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Globalization and technology creating inequality is the reason for increased polorization in both the sexual and economic marketsHyper individualism and hedonism. It may suit them now but it won't in years to come. There's what they say and what they will really want, in the end, and what really is good for them. This isn't. It's only a rare few, male or female, who is suited for not being married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Globalization and technology creating inequality is the reason for increased polorization in both the sexual and economic marketsGlobalization (immigration) leads to most of this, yes. Lowers wages, raises housing cost, causes social strife, natural inequality, reduces social cohesion, have to delay marriage to afford better area, have to go to school (so they think) to afford that, all kinds of problems. But, globalism is a branch of Marxism. gotta call it what it is, properly identify it so you know how to fix it (and not foolishly ask for more of it like so many anti work types want). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 08:08 PM |
| 2 | What makes men date women with mental illnessess?They grew up in a similar situation and are repeating what they are "comfortable" with, even if it hurts them, it's what they know. They were good at faking normalcy until the man was in too deep. They're being abused and don't know how to get out. They want to save them. They think they are hot and overlook it. They have rose colored glasses on and can't see it, think it will change. they have a mental illness and think they should work through it, would want someone to do the same. Mostly it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 08:02 PM |
| 0 | Men who believe in RP ideologies and/or believe that men have disadvantages in the dating world, what is your relationship with your mother?I think it's more the absence of a father, ironically, that makes them hate women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Divorce attorney says that in 13 years of practice, the women who were her most difficult or litigious were the SAHMs.We have to stop being so anti-SAHM. It's good for the kids and society that they are until the kids are out school, then yes, part-time or full time work, if they're not still running a big household with grandkids, have sick family to care for, or doing community work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:46 PM |
| 0 | Divorce attorney says that in 13 years of practice, the women who were her most difficult or litigious were the SAHMs.Yeah, you could let the kid get indoctrinated in school. OR you homeschool them and give them a better shot at living a decent life. I know plenty of SAHM don't homeschool, but they should, and taking care of a home can still be a lot of work. A part time job should be on the table though once the kids are gone, if not a career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:42 PM |
| 2 | How common do you think these petty women are?I think when women do something like you described in your imaginary scenario they were often already looking for a way out, or were lukewarm, or it's like, that honeymoon, rose colored glasses phase vs. reality. Some men get blindsided and don't realize that her keeness up to then was the rose colored glasses thng. I don't think this ridiculousness is that common, especially as people age. Howver, I think generations now, and to some extent people going back into the dating pool from older gene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Your partner gets paralyzed from the neck down, do you stay?Christian, divorce not an option. I'd stay because I love them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Most men aren't bad, they just lack a good example.Oligarchs (male) who don't have society's interest at heart, not male or female members interests, not anyone but themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Most men aren't bad, they just lack a good example.They don't seem to be. They seem more depressed, suicidal, certainly plenty of them are b****ing on RP sites about how bad things are. Obviously more than a few need help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren't bad, they just lack a good example.Rampant individualism (selfishness, not the rights kind), not caring enough about the group's well being (ironic because these individuals like to push socialism to get ahead), it's a societal wide trend in most of the West and it will be our downfall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren't bad, they just lack a good example.They really aren't getting the help they need though. I think this was the actual finding with male suicides, they sought help but it wasn't given. I think these men, while not suicidal, are in need of help and not getting it. Something needs to be done but I think it mostly needs to come from other men and that women should support it the best they can. The focus on the exterior, muscles, income, looksmaxing, whatever, is not good. They're being pushed into the same vain stuff women are and it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Most men aren't bad, they just lack a good example.Best answer. Glad you broke the cycle. I had some good examples but I too looked to books and movies and historical people to fill the gaps and I've read of others doing the same. I think they did have more good role models in the past though, cause when I looked for role models there, I found many more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren't bad, they just lack a good example.Everyone is more miserable and Marxism is the cause. It's fractured society and it can no longer be fixed. Yet everyone runs around misdiagnosing the problem and thinking it can be fixed, all the while calling for more poison and getting their hopes up when we're living through the collapse of Rome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren't bad, they just lack a good example.What's that stoic quote... something about evil being the result of ignorance? I've always thought this was a copout. Sure, they don't have good examples, but the evil comes from within all the same, and it is evil. They do need better role models (and talking about abortion being more acceptable is not something a good role model would laud). If they can't get it in real life, from a Dad, relative, or mentor, then they should look for it in books. Luckily they seem to crave and look for it, hen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | A month ago, Scientists managed to reverse aging in Mice, What will happen to the human male/female dynamic when this applies to Humans?Haven't you heard? We're all Gods in our own right, blank slates who can overcome such things. "Technology" (and ideology!) will save us from this creepy, mouse utopia like place we are finding ourselves in. Don't worry, eventually, Darwinian selection will come back, hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 06:57 PM |
| 2 | A month ago, Scientists managed to reverse aging in Mice, What will happen to the human male/female dynamic when this applies to Humans?Well when you make it sound that cool... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | A month ago, Scientists managed to reverse aging in Mice, What will happen to the human male/female dynamic when this applies to Humans?It's not overcrowded, that's just fear mongering. Even the most populous group (which from projections will be Africans) have plenty of land and resources. The problem is them clustering in certain areas (or in the West), and not being able to properly utilize the resources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | A month ago, Scientists managed to reverse aging in Mice, What will happen to the human male/female dynamic when this applies to Humans?Our IQs are declining, our societies are breaking down. This future won't happen, we're not going to be smart enough to fund/create the tech. The religious and the stupid are having kids. The religious won't go for this, the stupid won't be able to support themselves after the collapse, leaving mostly the religious to dominate. The future will belong to the religious and it will take awhile before they climb back to this level of tech we have now, if ever. No super, poly, hypergamous civilizatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 06:47 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?I agree that non-sex worker women are saved from them. But the women (SWs) who have to deal with them are not. It's wrong to call it a need and I'd say it enables them to be bitter/hostile towards womens free will, knowing they can basically circumvent it with money, rent a human. Mail order bride stuff is bad for those women too. Men should learn to be decent people, not buy women (and children). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 06:40 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?You should be concerned with those things though. With the sex worker, you would be hands on raping her if she's trafficked. You would be guilty of the crime. No good women really wants someone who's paid for it. you'll either have to lie to your future spouse or end up with one with a bad moral compass. It's consigning yourself to someone who doesn't know and therefore doesn't love the real you, or someone who is immoral, or, continuing to do something immoral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 06:36 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?Cause everyone always follows regulations to a T right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 06:25 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?She could be trafficked and you're raping her, definite con. never mind if you have any concept of morality, but hey, it's 2022. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 06:25 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?You can't be sure. You may have already raped a woman or child. No one should visit a sex worker, no one. If these people wanted to have sex with you, really wanted to, you wouldn't have to pay them. Buying another human being like this is evil. it is not moral, not healthy and it's ridiculous if you can't see what actual relationships provide Vs. this. Relationships are a two way street, not just your wants being met like a paid customer. A real relationship has give and take. but that's not my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 06:23 PM |
| -3 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.You're unaware and won't fix them 9and obviously can't if you don't know what they are). I can tell by what you typed that you have problems and don't want help. It's the world's fault, it's women's fault, it's unfair, others have it so easy. and if I say i have shortcomings I'm off the hook (while you secretly think it isn't you and you are deserving). No, you don't get it, and I doubt you ever will. Look for the truth, not what makes you feel better about yourself. Then, do the work to make yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.Because they don't get that a lot of what they want to do doesn't feel good, is degrading, hurts and is just a porn induced fetish. They have trouble with entitlement and seeing women as human beings who don't like being hurt like that. They have trouble because most women do not want this. I'd argue the ones that do are severely damaged (as are the men who want this). but it's like an addiction, they can't let go of it and this also affects how they see their status, so they go on about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 03:44 AM |
| 5 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.He's free to change his mind, but it takes two to explore. You don't get to force it, that's rape., or he cheats or they agree to open the marriage, or they divorce. None of these are good scenarios. People shouldn't be "exploring sex acts". This mindset ultimately comes from porn and is why so many people are dissatisfied (and deservedly so, wanting to engage in degenerate acts). The thing to do is realize right and wrong and do the right thing. Not pine over evil acts they didn't get to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 03:40 AM |
| 0 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.I think this is RP fantasy. But if someone doesn't want to do it, they don't want to do it. No one should try and coerce their spouse into doing acts they don't want to. It's usually some act no one should be doing either. That the spouse has learned it's not something they should be doing is good. they don't have to keep doing it because the husband wants to be a degenerate. It doesn't mean they love you less. Well it does mean the husband loves them less, wanting to dehumanize them like that, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Pregnancy positivity - where to find it?Join an expectant parents group, or a mommy group. I think it highly likely that you'll end up seeing less of these childless friends anyways once your kid is born, just too different lives. And that's ok, you'll find positive people with better values who match yours more. I think you've outgrown them. They may change, especially once some of their clocks start ticking. But if you tell them to stop the negativity and they don't, just find new friends, which as I said, is likely to happen anyway… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/22 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Whit's true, both genders have let themselves go. That's why I love looking at old photographs. Sure you had some bad days but people took care then. Clothes were also better quality too though and people fitter, so, it was easier in those and many more respects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Genuine question for women. When you see this do actually recognize what is going on?I don't think you need any training in warning signs to see how uncomfortable he is and how disrespectful she's being and ignoring what he wants. You see this too in just your average female, but sometimes male video, with a partner who doesn't want to be filmed. People just don't respect people. But this one in particular, you can tell by his word, expressions, body language, that she needs to stop. A passerby intervening probably will not do anything though and might make it worse. Also, abuse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | What will happen when technology reaches a point where you can choose your baby’s gender?Society collapse will come first, don't worry about it. but if sex selective abortions in India and China are any indication, you will get a disproportionate number of males, which would not be good for society, or the leftovers, and maybe other societies they might try and enter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 05:42 PM |
| 5 | The deteriorating relationships between men and women discussed in this sub are indicators of a society breaking down and about to eat itselfThat's really fascinating and I have seen some data on this before. But I was curious if you remember any sources from where you got this info, as it is something I have wanted to look into. All I have, somewhere, was like census data from early 1900s US. There's the Hajnal line theory too, though I don't think that was proven, effectively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | The deteriorating relationships between men and women discussed in this sub are indicators of a society breaking down and about to eat itselfCivilizations rise and fall, it's a cycle - that cannot be escaped. The genetics of the society change and cause this, with more sick people surviving due to modern medicine. Maladaptive people influence society in a bad direction. They let in "barbarians" (like Rome) who destroy social cohesion and hasten decline. There are absolute truths, right and wrongs, so we can definitely say how people should live their lives. We cannot however force them to. They also shouldn't be able to force us, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 03:40 PM |
| 9 | The silencing of TRP on Reddit and social media as a whole proves how enormously biased our culture is against males nowSleeping around isn't Right wing ideology. I find RPers see their views as one thing, when they really are another. They think they're complaining about "disadvantages", when they're really just blaming everything on women and being whiny and entitled. "Realities". Yeah, some men seeing it one way doesn't make it so. Now, these sites are definitely culling anyone who doesn't agree with their dogma, and that can be very evil, though in some cases, it is their right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | What makes men gravitate towards Redpill? What got you interested (if you are interested) in redpill?I'm interested in the science of human differences ll around and that includes gender. Also politics. So this comes up frequently. Plus I'm a Christian. I care about truth and having a free, functioning society. Sex differences are of interest and how each sex fits into a society. The movements around sex differences, or the denial of them are of interest to me too. As a Christian also, and just not liking seeing people hurt., the RP "interests" me, because I see a disturbing trend of people usi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:05 PM |
| 0 | What makes men gravitate towards Redpill? What got you interested (if you are interested) in redpill?Manipulation and projecting a false self are tools, but not for good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | What makes men gravitate towards Redpill? What got you interested (if you are interested) in redpill?"The reality is that your parents should want you to be sexually successful, they should encourage you to have as many women as you can" --- No they shouldn't. Sleeping around is bad for those involved and society. Any parent who did that is a terrible person, member of society and parent. That leads to chaos in their lives and society, and if you're a Christian, you understand it leads to hell. No one should raise their child to be a *lut, male or female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | The logistics of dating as a man."Do not include direct friend group". This is the problem, people not having friends and family, community, not being socialized properly. On top of that a lot more mental illness so they can't be socialized properly. Got to get back to basics, if you can, build a friend/community network. If you can't do so, well, there is, I'm sorry, probably something wrong with you (not you but the hypothetical) and that's why you haven't been successful and don't really have the greatest chance of being so.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | In your experience, what are the signs that somebody is unhappy in their marriage?Lot of silent treatment. You can feel it in the air and see when they're with you that they're not talking to each other but at each other, if at all. Nagging, being critical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Are bluepilled man still more redpilled / based than women?It's the few, not the many, who think they are great, or say that they think it. Don't rip into the majority because the minority is trying to sell some lies no one is buying. And they can be great/good too, just not in a physical way. Being fat doesn't make you garbage, just means you're not physically as attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Are bluepilled man still more redpilled / based than women?Were? Still are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Are bluepilled man still more redpilled / based than women?It shows you how similar the sexes are. The RP men and basically the same as feminist women. Two extremes that want what they want and by golly they deserve it, while that other sex is crazy and the cause of the whole mess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Are bluepilled man still more redpilled / based than women?You have to understand that a lot of people who proport to believe such things, do not actually. So figuring out who's more redpilled is difficult, because some of what may seem the most liberal women, have the most cutthroat of redpill beliefs underneath. I would say men are more logical on average though, and so the most redpilled of the two sexes. Are bluepilled men more so than based women? Dunno, again, people don't always believe what they say, or don't believe it applies to them, cause th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | People that define themselves by their independency make for unstable partners in LTRsYes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 02:52 AM |
| 1 | What quality did you want in a partner until you experienced it?"psychopathically cheap", I wonder what that looks like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleThis is the thing though, you're both divorced. Divorce *ucks up kids. You aren't as good as you think you are and society will have to pay, along with your kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleRace has always mattered and always will. Racial differences are very, very real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleThat's Channing Tatum though, not your average 40 year old man. he's better looking and wealthy, and famous to boot. They would probably make an exception for him, but for the vast majority no. All these RPers using exceptions thinking they're proving the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 02:13 AM |
| 4 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleDepends. Sometimes you can live the healthiest lifestyle possible, but if your genetics are bad, they're bad. It can mean you get sick or have poor sperm quality, even if you are doing everything right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 02:11 AM |
| 10 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleIn their minds, they're all Brad Pitt, or capable of being so. Brad Pitts are very, very rare though. He's the exception that proves the rule, and probably has had some work done, or can at least afford a very healthy lifestyle to keep himself looking good. And wealthy and skilled to boot. They use such men to try and prove their point, not realizing they've proven the reverse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleYes, the majority of people in their 40s are set in their ways and won't change. They could, but won't. Half their life gone. it's sad, most are locked in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleRace is more than just skin color. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleRaises the chance of divorce, divorce damages kids, damaged people damage society. Dating someone from another race/culture than you means more likely to divorce (except in certain pairings). There's other problems with interracial dating that can't be gone into here, but your conflating the two tells me something about how far you are willing to go to look at scientific facts. Sperm quality goes down with age, more sick kids. The happiness of the younger partner goes off a cliff. There's plenty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 02:02 AM |
| 4 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionAnd they deserve it then. If what they value at the end of the day is looks, then they're crappy people. The majority of people are average. Men's idea of good looking are wildly out of whack with reality. RPers just say a woman needs to be young and not overweight. Not so. They're dissatisfied because they are being completely unrealistic and cannot see that they are. Let them go through life that way then, with the miserable attitudes they have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:44 PM |
| 2 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionIf they were above average then they likely wouldn't be there. This is the thing, they overrate themselves on the most superficial stuff. They need to fix themselves, particularly their attitude. Negativity and entitlement and envy and bitterness are hideous. Doesn't matter how tall you are and how much money you make if you're going to be a pill to be around. They need to stop looking at what they think others are and are not getting, stop having unrealistic standards, while thinking they are p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:40 PM |
| 2 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection"I’m a great believer in luck, and I find the harder I work, the more I have of it." Quote is indeed true. People would rather believe it's luck and not have to work though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Fiancé Didn't Get Me a Birthday PresentYou said it was important to you, he should care about what's important to you, even if he doesn't personally care about whatever it is, because he cares about YOU, or should. That he lied about it is... bad. It sucks to feel like you made someone get you a gift, it defeats the purpose of it. On the one hand I don't think gifts should be that important, or manditory, a gift should be a gift in the truest sense of the word. But if this is how you feel cared for and he knows it and doesn't do it, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | I’m worried he will cheat againGuys with female best friends are a no. They like getting attention from other females rather than getting it from you. That he's also trying to guilt YOU, when he's the one in the wrong, when therapists will say you know, not to be around the affair partner, when it's common sense not to try and rebuild trust by returning to the scene of the crime. It just says he hasn't taken responsibility and changed. Don't waste your time. He's likely going to keep you guessing with his female friends too i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Need help to not end in a sexless marriageThis. This guy is abusive. He's emotionally manipulating you into doing sex acts that hurt you, enjoying it sometimes and making you feel bad for not. Abusive. If he feels he's missing out or not doing well at work that's on him. Can't look for happiness comparing yourself to others, or porn, or placing the blame on others. Sounds like an awful person but you've been with him since your formative years and just can't see it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/21 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Boyfriend wants me to have more hobbies and I feel like I've gotten complacent with being a "boring girl"If university reading hasn't tired you out, read for pleasure and discuss what you're reading, maybe read the same thing as him so you two can talk about it. Try reading books that cross over your two fields as well. Knitting, exercise, a recipe. Or just expound on your day. There's an art to conversation, you want to give sort of open questions that require more than a yes or no, to get the person talking, and likewise give answers that aren't so simple. There's youtube videos on this, search "… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/21 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Woman dumps her great boyfriend in her 20s because she thought she could do better after he built her self-esteem. Now few years later after dating shitty men she regrets what she did! Classic case of hypergamy gone wrong.She was 25, he was 40, sounds off. Her life has gone off the rails since? Usually they're into the same kind of guy again and again and I think she would have likely gotten the rug pulled out from under her with the man who "physically and financially" invested in her too. And maybe he might have gotten a NASTY financial shock one day as well (if she figured out how to clean him out or got pregnant). Sounds like a sugar daddy kind of thing, or hoping she would be a trophy wife. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/08/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | If women prefer high testosterone men why have male testosterone levels consistently dropped?Lifestyle changes, genetic changes over the past couple hundred years, with more and more sick people surviving to breed, leading to more maladaptive mutations. R and K strategy, different women want different things. But a lot of the males we're left with now fit into neither, or are K trying to be R. And just because women may be having sex with one or both groups, doesn't mean they're producing offspring to pass on those men's genes to the next generation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 07:11 PM |
| 13 | This single mom has been to 4 wedding this year by herself. All she wants is a husband/step dad who would be considered a DILF.This was the saddest thing about the picture, she's making her kid obese. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/07/21 03:36 PM |
| 6 | The life story of many single moms.Oh, you'll save her, tax dollars and all. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/07/21 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Delusional, morbidly obese Wiccan seeks intelligent, respectful, exciting and stable man for her and her spawn. A good sense of humor is a MUST, as she's going through a divorce, and at 37 somehow thinks her obtuse requirements are realistic.I was about to say he did and his name was David Spade, but that was Chris Farley. Wrong funny fat guy. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/04/21 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Delusional, morbidly obese Wiccan seeks intelligent, respectful, exciting and stable man for her and her spawn. A good sense of humor is a MUST, as she's going through a divorce, and at 37 somehow thinks her obtuse requirements are realistic.That sounds like something a Scorpio would say. My horoscope said never to trust Scorpios. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/04/21 07:23 PM |
| 5 | I'm going to go out on a sturdy limb and guess this 34 year olds 'children' are more mature than she is. She is tired all the weirdos. Are you tryna be loved correctly men? Start the line here she is ready for youShe may also have injected construction grade silicon in her rear. Fair warning, really may have injected something when it looks like that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/04/21 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Woman, 33, is sentenced to 40 years in prison for murdering her 31-year-old sister's boyfriend in Valentine's Day incest plot set up so the younger woman could marry their father.You need to distract from this. Get a lawn chair and some helium balloons and God speed. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/04/21 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Woman, 33, is sentenced to 40 years in prison for murdering her 31-year-old sister's boyfriend in Valentine's Day incest plot set up so the younger woman could marry their father.I think she killed her sister's boyfriend so the sister would then be unattached and could marry their father. But I'm not sure.... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/04/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | VIDEO: Women arrested after stripping naked to pose on balcony in Dubai 'publicity stunt'Cause they don't have plenty of degeneracy of their own? Ask the slaves. These women too, what the men there are into. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/04/21 07:39 PM |
| 1 | VIDEO: Women arrested after stripping naked to pose on balcony in Dubai 'publicity stunt'I feel sorry for them too. They are stupid and likely didn't truly know how serious the punishment could be. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/04/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Illegals when asked to show citizenship papers in India.overpopulation and resource crisis? And the Indians somehow don't want them! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/04/21 07:33 PM |
| 0 | Lolo Jones, 38F USA Olympic hurdler, RANTS about dating in her 30s vs 20s...'You give up hope'I definitely believe her when she has options, celebrity alone, don't know if she actually has money. I think it may be more of a fear than a lack of options, even very good ones. I wouldn't be surprised at all if she is still a virgin, and good for her. But she may have trouble with long term relationships and be covering it with this single girl, potential cat lady talk. She puts up that front at least she's fitting in with the rest of them and doesn't have to feel the odd one out for dealing … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/04/21 06:24 PM |
| 56 | Lolo Jones, 38F USA Olympic hurdler, RANTS about dating in her 30s vs 20s...'You give up hope'She's a hurdler, if anyone can "jump" the wall she can. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/04/21 06:18 PM |
| 5 | BINGO!!Is that what women are doing? i thought I just had different tastes.... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/04/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | BINGO!!"Mum"? "Lad"? Probably has bad teeth too. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/04/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Happy Easter single women over 30!Exactly. She starts earning 6 figures and her dating pool will shrink even more. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/04/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Men ain't sheeet. Ain't there no good men left for a cysta?!?! 🤧I thought they rub the dye off magazines or something for rouge. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/04/21 05:49 PM |
| 1 | [43-F] Thousand Cock Stare Karen wants to feel like a princess at your side, so treat her like that, but it doesn't matter because the real men don't exist in nature...Those eyebrows take a long time to draw on so whoever does date her better be prepared to be late often. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/04/21 05:48 PM |
| 6 | Come correct! Maybe she should learn English first.It's a tool of White Supremacy if the universities are asked. not that I think she went to university. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/04/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Come correct! Maybe she should learn English first.on the plus side, she hung those pictures really level. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/04/21 05:41 PM |
| 13 | After chasing Chad's commitment only to get abused and dumped, Carol finally accepts spinster status.Not necessarily a Chad. Women lie, or change the definition of abuse to garner sympathy, it can also be verbal. It's not uncommon for women, or men, to be hung up like this, sometimes decades later, even after they get married. It seems that seeing other people move on and get married has woken her up. If she's in their bracket then it's not too late for her. However, people damaged like this get addicted to the roller coaster and remembrance of the high/extreme feelings even when it is not a ch… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/04/21 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Hispanic-American single mom looking for a 6foot tall, white, blue or green-eyed, country boy to take care another man's offspring and buy a whole bunch of land in Texas to settle down on. Any takers?Those kissy faces lack any real enthusiasm. She's fighting a losing battle and I think she knows it. Should just focus on Batman. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/03/21 09:51 PM |
| 5 | “LVM with money” AKA - Not spending any on her.I think it's probably more they aren't "sexy", too "beta", even though they are, sadly interested and she wants, nay, deserves the whole package. Probably doesn't even think of her career, wants to be a SAHM once she lands the next sucker. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/03/21 09:42 PM |
| 1 | SEXY men only for this unemployed single mother. Looking for Chad but NOT looking for sex BTW!How is posing with a guy like that supposed to help? Make other men jealous? Show them she can get fit men? What? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/03/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | [38-F] serial divorcer doesn't understand why you don't swipe right.She already tricked four somehow. Why not a fifth? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/03/21 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Woman Destroys Misandrist Feminist Responses to Male Suicide (Feminists Try to Make it About Women)Whether or not you agree Homosexuality and "transgenderism" in and of themselves are mental illnesses, these groups are more prone to other mental illnesses, making them more prone to suicide, not bullying. Holding people hostage saying "accept me or I'll kill myself and it'll be all your fault" (your quote on quote rejection of humanity) is evil and their own fault. No one has to accept you. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/03/21 07:12 PM |
| 28 | You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-offIf you're going to be shallow don't complain when they also pull out some stupid behavior. It's the type you are going after, the promiscuous behavior you are wrongly pursuing. Do bad stuff, get bad stuff. Quit whining, or behave better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 04:36 PM |
| 9 | Single moms learn early on that most men don't want their baggage, so many will hide the fact that they have kids hoping the man will accept them after getting to know each other. But when it backfires, the man is somehow the asshole. See the comments on the OP for insight into single mom mentality.Sounds more like the little niceties most people do to be polite, rather than treating mom like a mental defective. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/02/21 06:05 PM |
| 14 | Single moms learn early on that most men don't want their baggage, so many will hide the fact that they have kids hoping the man will accept them after getting to know each other. But when it backfires, the man is somehow the asshole. See the comments on the OP for insight into single mom mentality.It's not even about hoping you'll accept them. It's that you'll be too attached, in to deep and have trouble leaving without suffering some heartache. People always think their kids are awesome and the exception. Then when you point out they're not, you insulted their precious and you have to pay. Plus, yeah, they know their market value is down and don't like to face facts. Childfree people need to watch it because it's like single parents take them as a challenge. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/02/21 06:01 PM |
| 1 | I mean he’s not wrongThat is why she screwed the guy. He had a nice car. Didn't translate to a real relationship though. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/02/21 05:45 PM |
| 4 | Do you regret "settling" for a man you never truly loved?A lot of women could do that. But would they put the effort into it? And people were built for companionship, having a spouse. Even if they can do it, doesn't mean they want to. Sounds like you found a great guy (and one who isn't porn sick). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 08:42 PM |
| 15 | No amount of job success is the same as being in a healthy meaningful relationship with children. Straight from the OP’s mouthDon't know if she wasted it. Could have been sick, shy, taking care of a sick relative, etc. Some people are just awkward, not entitled and holding out. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/02/21 08:18 PM |
| 2 | No amount of job success is the same as being in a healthy meaningful relationship with children. Straight from the OP’s mouthOnce married people often drift from single friends though, make friends with other couples, especially if they have kids, just different places in life. She might not be bonkers - with her friends anyways. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/02/21 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Biting badThat's what Lector masks were made for. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Oh shitTweakers are crazy, diseased, possessed, gross. Definitely self-defense. Hope you washed that hand well. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 09:30 PM |
| 2 | This guy had enoughRunning out of places to move, plus there's busing, vouchers, lotteries, even a movement to outlaw private schools. Homeschool or die. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Chicago teen shot her sister’s boyfriend in the back of the head when he asked to be repaid the bail $$ he posted for her, both girls then burned his body, stole his Camaro & went on the run. Charged with premeditated murder.Never trust a woman who's eyebrows are that thin. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | A rural Japanese town voted its sole female councillor out of her seat after she accused its mayor of sexual assault. The public referendum over whether she had damaged the town’s reputation highlighted the backlash against women who come forward with allegations of sexual abuseMy guess is she was telling the truth. They don't like causing trouble in Japan, even when they are wronged, better to just take it, so that if she came forward it was probably true and she would be the one to take the heat for bringing negative attention to the town, for speaking of it openly, rather than the mayor for doing it in the first place. Japan is not the West, women aren't throwing around false accusations the way they are here. This is likely an injustice. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Real oppression- 6 years for doing what she does in Canada without penalty. Go to a different country, experience different laws.While I don't want her to be hurt, it is her country and she needs to stay there. No coming to the West and making it like the place she came from and that is exactly what immigrants do in the end. I'm sorry for her but it's their responsibility to fix their country not parasitize and destroy ours. We're not going to save them at our expense. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Apparently this happened in Chicago(Sorry for the poor quality)Works for buying a home but what about day to day in a place you don't know. Whatever happened to those local crime apps everyone was calling racist? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Apparently this happened in Chicago(Sorry for the poor quality)This is one of the things I like about gay men, they are not putting up with crap from women, not in a fight either. This guy was hilarious, like some spirit took over speaking in insults and kept them flowing. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Police stopping a big fight on a bus by removing everyone. One customer doesn't like it and pushes back, and then throws a tantrum because how dare they arrest herLuckily here in North America, we only have to clear one deck when we clear a bus. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | "If a product, service, or company is built by either all men or all white people... don’t use your platform to champion it...". Please, go ahead.Guy looks pretty White. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Funny how the thief is the only one without a maskIt may have taken 4 or 5 of them, but the nerds won the day. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 06:42 PM |
| 1 | PPD: Muslim woman shutting down feminists - great talkBoth are poison. Not a lot of Feminists running grooming gangs or beheading people though. Feminists do help import them however so... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Woman Charged With Attempted Assault, Robbery After Tackling Black Teen Over PhoneThey assumed she was white at first, then it came out that it can't be racist cause she's part Latina or something and how only whites can be racist and on. Whitey not involved but still the devil. And They would have most likely not reported or hid the race had it been a brown on white crime, so it factors in. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | The Brazilian women's soccer team faced 16-year-old children in a friendly closed to the press and tried not to divulge the result of the game, but sources revealed that the children won 6 x 0. In the pic is Marta, the best in the history of women's football, who is an activist for equal payIs that a child with tattoos? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | FOUR TIMES that Men and Women Faced Off in Tennis (McEnroe about 8 minutes in us the highlight for me but the whole thing is worth a watch)This was really interesting, thanks for posting! I always assumed the first guy must have thrown the match but hadn't researched much. Even if he legit lost, that would still make it 1 to 1, you would need a tie breaker, how can women claim victory? And what is it with tennis players and gambling? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | FOUR TIMES that Men and Women Faced Off in Tennis (McEnroe about 8 minutes in us the highlight for me but the whole thing is worth a watch)What did she say after you humiliated her Herb? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Kevin Samuels lays out the brutal truthAnd you can find videos on Youtube to teach you how to fix your car and fix your plumbing to boot! But the cooking videos are bountiful and even easier to get into. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 05:02 PM |
| 0 | Girl from LinkedIn wants me to attend her online coding challenge for herPlenty of male South Asian coders who do this crap too. Western companies hire these posers, then can't figure out why their products are s*** and end up hiring Westerners at a normal salary to fix it. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 04:59 PM |
| -3 | Props to the US for taking out some gold digger trashNot a lot of sympathy for the creepy old guy to be honest. That was obviously the nature of the relationship: her young and pretty and willing, him, decrepit and paying cash. The psychic is a nice twist though! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 04:56 PM |
| 1 | The rest don't matterThat's LA, like 50% of the population is homeless. Have you seen the footage, it's grotesque. I'd be curious to know how many of these women suffer from TBIs. So many males are homeless because they legitimately can't hold a job, how many of the women can say the same? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 8 | The rest don't matterOprah would agree. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Must be awkward when cousin Jack wants to order dessert afterBlue shirt in the background is just like "oooooh". Love it. I thought this was going to be some horrible public proposal, those should be private, this though, the world needs to see. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 04:17 PM |
| 17 | Must be awkward when cousin Jack wants to order dessert afterNo, bring back stoning. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/21 04:15 PM |
| 12 | When shes barking mad! FYI bloood. Thk God he was recording. If any one has an artical related to think plez link.Save a trip, I think they can do stitches at the mental hospital too. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/02/21 11:53 PM |
| 1 | A typical FDS poster and the proper responseI think this was what "The Millionaire Nextdoor" was about. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/02/21 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Pass denied to slappy slapperson.You don't fight by a riverbank, or near a bunch of banana cream pies. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/02/21 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Chinese ticket seller scolds woman for cutting queue - YouTubeDepends on the Asians. Don't see the Japanese pulling this. Chinese who were born in the West don't either. There was a video of some Chinese rushing a queue at an airport and a Westernized Asian complaining of getting trampled having waited in lineproperly. Depends on the country and the circumstances. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/02/21 11:40 PM |
| 6 | Take me Out tata ball game!Female guards had to drag her out lol. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/02/21 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Halle Berry sees the Flaws in Child Support after being forced to Pay Child Support.Heh, he's who first came to mind. Dude doesn't have Halle Berry level success either. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/02/21 11:20 PM |
| 2 | A former Worthing High School teacher's aide has been sentenced to 14 years in prison after she was charged for having a sexual relationship with a student.14 years, I'm impressed. I remember a list of female on male sexual assault cases and the resulting sentences and how few did any time and I don't think any got anything near 14 years of the ones that did. Him being a disabled child probably helped drive home the severity of it all and should help keep her away from vulnerable populations when she gets paroled in the next decade or whatever. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/02/21 11:15 PM |
| 10 | A former Worthing High School teacher's aide has been sentenced to 14 years in prison after she was charged for having a sexual relationship with a student.Even unconscious guys can apparently get an erection and ejaculate. Some women have sperm burgled/raped guys that way and of course even paralyzed guys can do the same. Basically if a man or woman is raped and orgasms there are idiots who think they liked it. Education needed. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/02/21 11:10 PM |
| 3 | "You get nothing for Valentine's day"Can't tell if it's the accent or he's a bit tipsy and that sent him philosophizing but I worry his girlfriend will find the video and he's a dead man. And man, take me to toysrus, they still sell video games don't they? Used to have model kits... I'll take you there on your birthday too. Romance and gifts both ways. Got to stop the sex is something women don't like and do for men attitude. Both spouses should enjoy it, not a chore, not an exchange for material goods. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/02/21 11:06 PM |
| 0 | "You get nothing for Valentine's day"You give your wife sex 3 times a week, so where are your flowers candy card and stuffed toys man? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/02/21 11:02 PM |
| 4 | What turns people into feminists?Indoctrination, envy, wanting something for nothing, to be excused from their mistakes and life's problems. Some guys do it thinking they'll get laid, male feminists, go figure. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/02/21 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Gotta blur name but I promise this is completely unironicOh why didn't you go Dutch. She could have been cleaning dishes the next few nights. It would have been so sweet. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/02/21 10:49 PM |
| 8 | Gotta blur name but I promise this is completely unironicThat's crazy. The stupidity is amazing too and that's all it took to ruin her? Did you like the 12 pound cake at least? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/02/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | My dad got full custody in the divorce after my mom falsely accused him of molesting my little sister. Now she waits outside like a creep.It's not their fault but it is their responsibility, or something like that. Plenty of non-bipolars throw around accusations too. At least if she did it because of her mental illness then it makes it slightly less evil than someone who did it to be petty or get revenge. Either way, no one should have to deal with this and the person should be punished the same. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/02/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | What makes a positive male figure for children?Classic Christian virtues. Exemplify being hardworking, kindness, love, god-fearing, patient etc. Women are not meant to lead a household, so even if they do these things there's always something "missing" and it's so rare they do this. Women are also naturally less assertive; being shrill, being demanding, is not being assertive, entitlement is not assertiveness. So without a man being there to fill the roll of leader, you just don't have that sense of safety, that foundation humans subconsciou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 07:30 PM |
| 10 | WOMEN "HITTING THE WALL" IS NOT BASED IN REALITYLOL, women are not superior. The West has become decadent which allows them to succeed and think they're doing it by merit. Women didn't build society, nor do they maintain or make the biggest contribution to it. Couldn't even apply for a credit card, and look how much debt women have and how they make up the bulk of student loan debt, which is a big issue now. So many of the jobs women fill are make work jobs and many are bad for society, doesn't matter if you make more than men if you don't ad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 07:21 PM |
| 3 | WOMEN "HITTING THE WALL" IS NOT BASED IN REALITYIVF rarely works, even with young eggs. Adoption is not right for everyone and good luck getting a baby. Both are expensive. People generally want and should have their own genetic kids. If you can't offer that your pool of partners goes down, as does your ultimate enjoyment in life, if you wanted kids and never had them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 07:08 PM |
| 16 | WOMEN "HITTING THE WALL" IS NOT BASED IN REALITYUsually men are talking about looks though when they mention the wall, judging photos, not fertility. Even if that is what the wall represents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Is ANY contact with an ex unacceptable?People think they're enlightened being friends with their ex. But unless it is someone you had kids with you really shouldn't be in contact with them as this is someone you once had romantic interests in and it is only natural that your new romantic partner would be jealous. Not insecure, natural. Your attention should not be going to your ex. Say hi or something if you pass them on the street but don't hang out with them, even for closure. I do hear people trying to get over exs by saying how t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 2 | She Still Lives At Home If You're WonderingHealthy at any size/body positivity/fatavists are toxic man. Don't want one raising your kid making them fat. Bad mom, fat wife, no. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/02/21 05:02 PM |
| 4 | The societal role of mother kills the sex life not the kidSee how easily you solved the long hair issue though? You put it up in a bun, or braid it, etc. Women don't have to lop it off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 04:57 PM |
| 2 | The societal role of mother kills the sex life not the kid0.0001%? Come on now, more and more household chores are split pretty even between the sexes, and men help with childcare too and bringing in the money. Women just tend to think their contribution is worth more and don't acknowledge what men do, often aren't even aware, they're so oblivious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 04:56 PM |
| 0 | The societal role of mother kills the sex life not the kidA lot of people change after marriage, well before any kids though. Seen this complaint a lot, one partner, probably more frequently the female, but men too, just stop the sex. Like, got'em, now I can be myself. And get fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 2 | The societal role of mother kills the sex life not the kidWhat are these cultures with a "village mentality"? Are they first world or third world? Yes, let's imitate third worlders. I also sincerely doubt these "village culture" mothers are taking time to pamper themselves. They're taking care of the kids, or working, or doing both at the same time. You have an idyllic view that just isn't reality There are plenty of Westerners with grandparents and aunts/uncles who will take the kids, the nuclear family isn't against extended family (and ideally grand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 04:48 PM |
| 5 | Poor choice makerSo was she in the army? That would make the tattoos slightly less awful and explain the look in her eyes. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/02/21 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Single mom STILL IN RELATIONSHIP with baby's father says she MAY leave him if you come "rescue" her.Tattoos eh? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/02/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | 42 year old career woman wants marriage and kids, "someday". Will you Man Up™? Or will you tell her it's #TooLate for that, and she's stuck with "Some Stupid Tomorrow" with all her pets? (forums.red crosspost)They won't leave the employer. IVF is rarely successful. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/02/21 09:09 PM |
| 2 | "I like tall guys and im 5’4. Thats right i said it, come at me bro"....... And then I checked her IG, and would you look at that. Guess who forgot to mention she is single mom on her dating profile?Hey, if that little chick could get The Mountain then any woman can - and is entitled to it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/02/21 08:55 PM |
| 2 | She says she’s toxic and we should support her illegitimate childThis is the word, not "illegitimate" - bastard. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/02/21 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Maybe I'm not up to date with dating. Is it "normal" for a girl to mention the job she wants you to have in her dating bio? "A stock market boyfriend"?Probably pictures those old stock market movies where people are yelling to sell, sell, sell in some crazy pit. But I think now it's basically all done on computers and that opening bell stuff is just for show. Or if this is recent then she's advertising for some of that gamestop money. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/02/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Virtue Signaling Single Mother ScourgeThis isn't what virtue signaling generally means, a bit literal here, but I get you. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | What Feminism Forgot: The Glass Floor is Far More Important Than The Glass CeilingI'll never understand how a man can recognize sex differences but not racial differences. How feminism has helped catapult us to destruction, but not "diversity". Then use faulty logic, faulty understanding of economics and individual rights, see the current social situation and still try to make positives negative and vice versa. Some of what you say is true, a lot isn't. Both problems have their core in the same thing, Marxism. If you stick to what you're saying about Feminism and not try to i… | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 05/02/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | This is why you should never open up to women they’re turned off by itShe does bring up a good point for men and women, on dates and in general, not to dump a bunch of negativity, especially when first meeting. The PTSD one I sympathize with, maybe it's best to be upfront, but when you have any type of mental illness people will probably judge you and it's best to hold off saying it. As for her husband, spouses should be able to open up to and support one another, probably why the marriage failed. Same with friends, friends talk to one another and discuss problems… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Delusional female claiming "Men fake entire relationships" ignores her own deception, all the while accepting multiple dates and gifts for months knowing she wasn't into the poor fella... and is now MAD at HIS DECEPTION! You can't make this stuff up...You can't fire me, I quit! Save the ego, save the ego. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/21 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Haha, it's funny cause girls really date guys just for free food. 🙄Has a pretty face and didn't show cleavage in her pic. That is a rare bird. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/21 04:25 PM |
| 1 | [43 - F] She has a simple question: "Where are the good guys hiding?"Lots of Feminists deride writers like Bukowski (and Hemingway) but then claim to like him to seem edgy. I doubt that half have even read him that claim so, or Vonnegut for that matter, Leftist though he was. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/21 04:20 PM |
| 2 | [43 - F] She has a simple question: "Where are the good guys hiding?"Cops are humans, you get good and bad ones. They do a necessary service. When they actually commit a crime, then yes, we need to investigate and punish, same sentencing as any other human being would get. But if you think the deaths of people like George Floyd were grave injustices then you have a serious, serious problem. The criminality in the Black community is the real problem. Just look at all the rampaging afterwards, the skyrocketing murders and gun crime, cities burning. You get mad at c… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | She Admits Committing Every Sin Except Murder and Now Wants a Man to Put A Ring On ItThat depends. "Go and sin no more". It does remove the sin, just not necessarily it's effects (the effect of having multiple partners is lifelong, even though God has forgiven her). So i wouldn't say she's necessarily a heretic. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/21 04:10 PM |
| 2 | She Admits Committing Every Sin Except Murder and Now Wants a Man to Put A Ring On ItWasn't familiar with the modern Nazarenes. If they include women in church positions then that's a problem. If they're into following rules then why wouldn't they follow that one? Which Bible do they use? The acceptance of female pastors seems to be pretty common now. The church nearest me has one, not my denomination. I don't think it's correct saying the newly converted appreciate it more, it's just that so many grew up in a wishy washy faith, never attended church, that they may as well not b… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/21 04:08 PM |
| 1 | She Admits Committing Every Sin Except Murder and Now Wants a Man to Put A Ring On ItSee, if you repent you are supposed to be forgiven. Forgiven is not the same as being entitled to a husband, or being marriage material any longer mind you, don't let them catch you in that trap cause some rediscovered religion girls will try it. But on the plus side, no kids, no ex-husband, owns a home, seemingly religious now and she is pretty. Not anywhere near as abysmal as the usual here. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/21 03:59 PM |
| 2 | After her divorce, Carol climbs back upon the cock carousel in an attempt to capture commitment comparable to what she'd discarded. No, sweaty, of course you're not the problem! You go, gurrrl! (forums.red crosspost)Those poor "last ditch effort" men. Could she ever fathom that she's wasting their time too, that it has value, that they deserve to be loved by someone who finds them desirable. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/21 03:55 PM |
| 4 | She is ready to settle down. However, she can't have anymore kids, so you'll just have to settle for raising her child as your own. Be a man!How many men actually send dick pics? I mean really. Are these women preemptively saying that to stroke their own egos, that they'd receive such, or is this a real problem? I think it might be a positive that the doctor made sure of it. Better to stop the dysgenics train early than never. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | There's truth in every joke. Humor eases us into being open to hear painful truths. Happy weekend to all 😁I wish it turned out that way. But instead the lonely guy marries her, and then the rest of the population of the Western country he's in has to deal with her and her immigrant family slowly destroying it. All for a little sex and affection. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/21 03:45 PM |
| 1 | The last coke in the dessertI was thinking it was either digital manipulation - or injections gone wrong. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/02/21 09:17 PM |
| 43 | Let me show you my tits 1st, mother of 2 & too busy but now wants a LTR. Warning possible alcoholic/ drug addict & also don’t forget to wash your handsI hate when these people call them "sperm donors". You know they're bad mouthing the Dad to the kid and the kid is internalizing it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/02/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Women bully each other into hypergamyThis is just women belittling other women and it extends to more than men. She's trying to hurt her friend, she may do it even when the guy is attractive (or because he is and wants him for herself, or has a man but doesn't want the friend to have better). Not all women do this and there's no rhyme or reason to it, so you can't say it pushes women towards better guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 08:13 PM |
| 5 | Are all women disgusted whenever a man opens up or is vulnerable? Like subconsciously?She really could. May take it as a personal insult too, you blaming her for not raising you right and having this trouble. Also, if women think you "cry to your mom", that's not a good look either. Men should be able to talk to their Mom's, just something to consider first though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Are all women disgusted whenever a man opens up or is vulnerable? Like subconsciously?Might have resented doing the driving, feels she should be taken care of by you, not the other way around. Not even out of a tradiotional mindset, but a childish, spoiled one. It depends on what is being shared and with who. Sometimes it can be to much information and sometimes the person won't be equipped to deal with it no matter what the information is. Or they would be ok with it if it was someone they liked more. It's a very case by case situation. I do however think that most women want me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 06:22 PM |
| 5 | Wanted: Long term ATM. Here are my liabilities. Here are my demands. I’m a *prize*I had a cat who would play fetch like a dog. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/01/21 09:42 PM |
| 6 | Titanic chadPart of it is the fantasy though. Even had she married an alpha she might be pining for an earlier boyfriend who was less alpha because she never had to experience him warts and all. Lots of people do this, women especially, when expectations are unrealistically high, thinking they should be happy all the time. Even women in happy marriages still daydream about past, non-chad guys. It's escapism. Childishness. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/01/21 08:59 PM |
| 2 | What is the psychology of women who lust after serial killers?Women have the indirect fantasy because they take less risks and don't want to do the work, they're also physically weaker. They'd rather fantasize about being married to a billionaire than fantasize about doing the work to be one. It's like with violent crime, men commit more but I believe only because they will take the risks, can take the risk (they can physically overwhelm people women cannot) and also will take the time to do the work required to commit the crime, planning, learning how to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 07:06 PM |
| 2 | What is the psychology of women who lust after serial killers?If it's rape, then by definition they don't want it. It's play rape, like play fighting. It's controlled, it's about assertiveness and control on the male's part. People read stuff like that and really do believe all females want to be raped and that is just not the case. They want a man taking charge, or at best the illusion of rape. And when you take out the influence of the media and get to what women naturally want, and are not just brainwashed into wanting, because they are sheep and also w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | What is the psychology of women who lust after serial killers?Considering the rise in popularity of rape porn, maybe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 06:57 PM |
| 3 | What is the psychology of women who lust after serial killers?It's common for prisoners to have multiple "girlfriends" writing them, visiting them, giving them money for commissary, who don't know about those other women. Prisoners are great con artists and know how to game people. Same with female inmates. I looked up a prison penpal website out of morbid curiosity and man, a lot of goblins. But the twisted, desperate or controlling would be into that. Women definitely like the danger of it all, bad boys, until it becomes too real, then they just get hurt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 06:56 PM |
| 3 | What is the psychology of women who lust after serial killers?They may be good looking but that only goes skin deep. The majority of good looking women want nothing to do with Manson either. You're looking at a small subset of women, over-valuing them purely on looks, then trying to say all women are like them, when they clearly are not all into SKs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 06:50 PM |
| 0 | What is the psychology of women who lust after serial killers?I always thought this too! Maybe it was hot back in the day or this is some mass delusion people didn't invite me in on. Same with Bernardo and Homolka (the "Barbie Couple"? Get out of here!). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 06:49 PM |
| 2 | What is the psychology of women who lust after serial killers?That's the Us. I remember watching a video of this girl who married a serial killer in Russia years ago. I looked it up and it was Serhiy Tkach. This wife is a great example of how screwed up women can be. I know in lots of Latin American countries they let prostitutes into jails, maybe even live in there, can't remember. So, depends on the country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 06:44 PM |
| 2 | What is the psychology of women who lust after serial killers?He's probably dead by now or really, really old. They apparently solved one of his ciphers finally a little while ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 06:40 PM |
| 9 | What is the psychology of women who lust after serial killers?That's pretty pathetic man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 06:39 PM |
| 5 | What is the psychology of women who lust after serial killers?Sorry to burst your bubble but contrary to what seems to be an increasingly common male belief, women do not like being raped or forced, I repeat - WOMEN DO NOT LIKE BEING RAPED OR FORCED. Another reason people need to cut the porn, they actually come to believe this. It's true a lot of women fantasize about assertive lovers. This way they don't have to do the awkward work of speaking up and figuring out what they like, as they are too cowardly or embarrassed, and because it displays masculine t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 06:38 PM |
| 10 | Their money is doing the talking now.What is this originally from? Are they running for clothes or Jimmy Dean or something? Anyways, attention back on the women boys, narcissists that they are. Particularly yous guys with new money, you owe them your attention. They can't believe you could possibly ever think of anything else. They sure don't... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/01/21 03:08 PM |
| 18 | 32yr old single mother with a 2nd child in the way now wants to be a housewife but won’t date you if you have kids of your own so take care of hers instead. Plus wants more kids as wellEducation systems in the West are full of indoctrination, but when it comes to the US system and people decrying it (usually gloating Europeans) when you separate the races, the outcomes for Whites is basically on par with European countries (who are shifting demographically now too and seeing scores drop accordingly). But it does account for the discrepancies really. Americans aren't a bunch of illiterate yokels. "Americans" on the other hand, well... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/21 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Single mum with record number of WAATGM, from some Disney fantasy. Which we all now actually never works for the men in real life. Translation from french bellow the main image.doesn't want, or can't have anymore? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/01/21 06:12 PM |
| 16 | We need a real man to step up and be a father. Anyone here volunteers?There was an AMA of someone who worked on the show. It was funny. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/21 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Daily mail have finally caught upIt's not, keep pushing those black pills. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/21 08:39 PM |
| 10 | Daily mail have finally caught upIf I remember correctly children of divorce are likely to end up divorced themselves. The cycle just keeps on going. So I don't see the single parent thing stopping anytime soon. And since kids raised by single moms are way more likely to be damaging to society in a myriad of ways, well.... way more than 40 years, these people and generations after will need to die out, because heaven knows they will object anytime someone tries to talk about the evils of single parents, lest it hurt their feeli… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/21 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Daily mail have finally caught upNever date a single parent ever, EVER. They're the worst. That's why I don't like the nutella one, hypocritical too. Single Mom's especially mess up their kids. Just say no and don't let them guilt you with that garbage. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/21 08:31 PM |
| 8 | Totally cliche profile: single mum of 41, nice meals out and travel, no games, tall man wanted. WAATGM? Director at her own business.They have an etsy shop. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/01/21 04:37 PM |
| 4 | A quick reminder on some predictions.the second is a lot like what women call "nice guys". These Nice girls will gaslight you and guilt you and destroy your self-esteem. If they try to make you feel guilty for not wanting them, are trying to manipulate you like that, it's a big red flag. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/01/21 02:01 PM |
| 1 | 33 year old "artistic soul" with expensive hobbies is looking for a charismatic (and rich) gentleman to settle down and start a family - as long as he PROVIDES HER WITH THE STANDARD SHE DREAMS ABOUT...Stop making fun of her guys I think the "r" in "artistic" was a typo. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/01/21 01:55 PM |
| 11 | 33 year old "artistic soul" with expensive hobbies is looking for a charismatic (and rich) gentleman to settle down and start a family - as long as he PROVIDES HER WITH THE STANDARD SHE DREAMS ABOUT...Stop squashing people's dreams of a socialist utopia! How else are Leftist Americans and Europeans supposed to be condescending if their paradises by contrast aren't really as good as they make them seem! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/01/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | "My presence is not gift, it is loan. And I expect my investment back plus interest. If not I will cease your assets." She's not yours, it's just your turn.Are you saying the Stooges were really refined gentlemen? But seriously, it's because so few women are inventive/clever, making it hard to be funny. There are so, so few truly good female comedians. None in fact that I think are still alive. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/01/21 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Alpha fucks... beta bucks! *On a side note always paternity test your kids!To be fair, there are some African immigrants who have been slaves - to other Blacks, or were indentured maids in the mid-East which is nearly as good as being a slave, certainly still can end up beaten. They come to Western countries to escape only to tell the Whites there how racist and awful they are. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/01/21 05:19 PM |
| 5 | The “genuine” guys that want to be last in line, after her dogs, will hit it off with this single mum of 48. Can you also make her laugh?For someone nearing 50 she does have a decently smooth face at least! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/01/21 04:52 PM |
| 9 | The “genuine” guys that want to be last in line, after her dogs, will hit it off with this single mum of 48. Can you also make her laugh?Is this actual Goonies lore or your cleverness? Robert Davi himself had an interesting life after Goonies anyways. What a singer! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/01/21 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Spoiler: The real complaint is that not all of the guys were Chad or Tyrone.Yes. They only object because they can't do it. They don't care a wit about morality or anything else. Girls want to be with them, guys want to be them, but won't admit it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 03:00 AM |
| 2 | I am the "other woman" , involved in an affair with a married man. AMAAt least you're not cohabitating before marriage! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:58 AM |
| 1 | TINFOIL HAT THREAD:What conspiracies do you believe in?Dependent on government handouts, so they'll vote for more government. Lot of people out of jobs due to lockdown, or like being so because of the pay out vs. what they would get on minimum wage. We have huge fines here, encouraging neighbours to report offenders. It's nasty, breaking down bonds get people depressed and isolated can't socialize, even suicides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:56 AM |
| 1 | TINFOIL HAT THREAD:What conspiracies do you believe in?Is that you Babushka? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Would you marry a divorced man? Any reservations, deal-breakers, questions he must honestly answer?No. Damaged goods. Even worse if kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:42 AM |
| 2 | The Racists on this sub showed their noses and I’m glad because atleast now we know who they areWhen you start learning about the biological/behavioural differences between males and females, it's not hard to also learn about the racial differences as well, which also intersect with gender differences, and the differences between hetero and homosexuals too. Evolution comes in to play in all of this. You get into studying that and you'll ultimately realize racial differences are extremely real to. You can't get into it because it tells you things you don't like. Same reason most can't, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:37 AM |
| 1 | 2 weeks in prison, reputation destroyed, women are all angels, believe all victims of rape.Women can do anything a man can do. They can fix their own cars. More female mechanics and STEM. Rosie the Riveter! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:29 AM |
| 2 | 2 weeks in prison, reputation destroyed, women are all angels, believe all victims of rape.For your own women, Mom's, wives, sisters, yes, but any outsider, no, not worth the risk alas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:28 AM |
| 1 | 2 weeks in prison, reputation destroyed, women are all angels, believe all victims of rape.Better than that poor guy who was beaten to death in I think Russia, when some girl(s) accused him of rape. I think he drove them home in the cold or something, parents got a little gang and even raped him. False accusers need to be recompensed whatever the victim would have gotten in prison and then some, plus damages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Most serial killers, maniacs and rapists were sex havers, had families and children rather than being incelsThey don't even need to come out to get women. Plenty of people writing to serial killers. Which goes to show how bad some women can behave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Most serial killers, maniacs and rapists were sex havers, had families and children rather than being incelsIncels aren't dangerous really. They're just trying to puff them up to be to take attention away from the groups that really are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Best and worst looking people by country according to acceptance rate to beautifulpeople.comWhy does Canada always come behind the USA. Can't we do anything right!? Norway and Sweden? Blondes do have more fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Male rapists should have their penis' guillotined offDole out the punishment they'd have made their victim suffer by falsely accusing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Male rapists should have their penis' guillotined offChinese will buy it as an aphrodisiac, human horn. I'm personally for executing sex offenders, you just have to make sure the person is telling the truth. Too many women lie and never get punished for it, not the majority, but more than people will admit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Being homeless is much worse than being sexlessA lot of homeless have brain injuries too, not just mental illnesses. Have you scene pics from Vancouver? Where the homeless congregate is nasty and dangerous. It's not fun at all. Same with the safe injection sites/shelters here. It's rough, not a great gig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Being racist will get you canceled quicker today then being sexistIt can get you jailed here in Canada. Not a fan of slurs, but even just posting HBD stuff, scientifically backed, will get you excommunicated. It's funny how many people on this forum ignore such things but are keenly aware of gender differences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:12 AM |
| 5 | I kNoW mY wOrTh!!Guys chase those girls all the time, other girls notice and act the same. Stop encouraging women to be sluts men, ignore the bad behaving ones or you'll just get more of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Expecting sympathy or empathy from women is a fruitless pursuit and a waste of time.What you had there was an abuser. Glad you got rid of her, martial arts are more fun anyways and a lot women will definitely find it masculine. Women say they want you to show vulnerability, but it's usually not true, or only in certain ways at certain times, too hard to calculate. Unless they're a decent sort, then they understand that men can show emotions, nay, need to. Don't be afraid in the future, just vet them better. And man I hate backseat driving nags... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:07 AM |
| 2 | What’s in it does the women?Some want control, think they are entitled. But mostly deep down they just want a relationship, it's kind of the living organisms goal to reproduce and humans especially like having close, personal relationships, need it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:03 AM |
| 1 | What’s in it does the women?Pointing out negative qualities isn't the same thing as hate. I hate when people conflate these two, and they really just do it to stifle discussion of things they don't like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 02:00 AM |
| 7 | Women hate the Black Pill because they hate Incels. NOT because they don't agree with it.Women believe they are special. They are smart, moral, deserving, desirable etc. They wouldn't do anything so calculated, shallow, slutty, as trying to bed alpha's just because they are alphas, or not get an alpha to commit because they couldn't be ugly. It's purely about wanting to avoid the not so nice truth about some, or most women. And when people are talking about women, as far as any woman is concerned, they are talking about them specifically because women are extremely self-centered. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Post nut clarity is real and 90% of pumps and dumps were not premeditated.The majority are. Men don't like sluts. They get it quick then they know you're a slut and are going to likely turf you. That's why it's ridiculous for men to get upset when women don't give it away to their boyfriends (even when the screwed around before) because it shows they are low value. If the guy got it fast, he figures other got it fast, so he knows once it started that it's not going to last, and probably before that, otherwise why try for sex? He's testing her in a way, if she goes for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Most normal attractive young women in the US who are single and sexually active have a high N countI disagree with the math. I'd say some of those years they are in long term relationships and not adding on more partners. The normies would get married around 30 too. A lot of the younger generation are also sort of "cocooned", they're not getting out there as much as you think, hence the increase in virgins in some studies. Even so, the male average is almost certainly the same or higher, and has been in surveys. Pot calling the kettle black. Don't like the behaviour, set an example, lead by i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:44 AM |
| 4 | Now that she's knocked up it's time to get $erious.Male and female parents in general think this. That's part of why dating someone with kids is a nightmare, they can't see how their offspring aren't really that great and could use some discipline. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/12/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | *NSFW* She's ready to settle after 10 years of... discovering herself! Raw Turkey is looking familiar... 😂Kegels can probably only do so much. i think there's surgery but it's almost certainly brutal. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/12/20 03:35 AM |
| 5 | *NSFW* She's ready to settle after 10 years of... discovering herself! Raw Turkey is looking familiar... 😂Some people are sluts, some people are different sizes, some people have damage, some have given birth. Not necessarily the product of promiscuity. Not that it would fix the problem in bed - if it's not pleasurable for the guy, then it's just not pleasurable. It might be no one's fault, but if it's a dealbreaker that's ok too. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/12/20 03:34 AM |
| 26 | *NSFW* She's ready to settle after 10 years of... discovering herself! Raw Turkey is looking familiar... 😂Actually there's a huge variation. It sucks when men, or women, get told they aren't normal when they are, just because people only see the ideal http://www.labialibrary.org.au/photo-gallery/ | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/12/20 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Dear man, women don't owe you anything. Don't play with her heart. Close your eyes and imagine your daughter, because women and children and stuff. Now man up and make her dreams come true. Unlike the last 50 guys who just used her for sex."Deserve ain't go nothing to do with it". That's true for even good people. But when you behave badly "deserve" really means "I'm entitled", indeed. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/12/20 08:59 AM |
| 3 | Oh no! Of all the kings horse dicks and all the kings men cocks who drank my free milk, none were interested in buying the cow!!!Guys assume if she had sex so easily with them, then she's done so before (and she has). She's therefore a slut and less valuable, not worth pursuing further. Makes sense to withhold, should have always withheld and not been a slut, same with the men. Just because people want to do something doesn't mean it's good or moral for them to. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/12/20 08:56 AM |
| 5 | A 6'2 business executive making 6 figures compiles notes from over 500 matches and 100 dates. Note that most of his first date conversations were single moms needing a Bailout and women complaining about abuse from an ex.Also married and divorced with kids. That's a lot of baggage. The full sleeves are only attractive to certain types too. That being said, all the lying and craziness on the part of these women was still ridiculous. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/12/20 08:33 AM |
| 7 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?Not healthy or moral, even when it doesn't have a criminal element which it usually often does. It's basically ruined the last few generation of men, irreparably. and worse, they all think it's normal, and many women do too. It really is a tragedy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 05:25 PM |
| 0 | Q4Women: You find out that your boyfriend treated his ex better than you. What do you do?Rape is a way more serious trauma than being cheated on man. Even just having sex you don't really want to have, it's your body being used, and your emotions, it is different, not that cheating doesn't hurt, but it's a different type of hurt. She's not punishing you, it's about her being uncomfortable. As opposed to him punishing her for something his ex did. Now, if he's more guarded with his heart, sure, that makes sense, taking time to trust again. But if he's taking out past frustrations the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: You find out that your boyfriend treated his ex better than you. What do you do?So this is obviously a try at a "gotcha", of how men complain women who used to give it away quicker and do more degrading sex acts, now won't, are being unreasonable and even hypocritical, if they want the perks an ex-girlfriend had in such a scenario. This actually illustrates why these men's thinking is so screwed up. because while there are many women who'd reason they should get the same treatment, a reasonable man or woman would say how ridiculous this guy was acting and that no woman shou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 07:31 PM |
| 7 | " yes size matters, no 6" isn't big haha", per this 23 year old busted pillsbury biscuit can.She has unfortunate proportions and an unflattering swimsuit, but I can believe she's 23. Still has a chance to shape up and not pull this entitled crap, looks like a genuine smile. It's all fun and games wanting 6" plus until it hurts to go in and your sex life goes kaputsky. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/20 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious?I'm sure they have options, but then there's a matter of the marriage lasting. That older guy who looks good now will be recognized as average once she reaches 30. Then the disconnect will start to grow wider. The younger spouse in these May December romances sees a bigger drop in dissatisfaction, and we all know women are the most eager sex to divorce. So marry a young woman, when you're not young yourself, and you're more likely setting you and your family up for failure. Plus there's the mora… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 08:21 PM |
| 8 | Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious?They think they can buy her, in the end, or have a severely swelled head. And if they got what they wanted they wouldn't like it because even people who go into big age gap marriages with the best of intentions usually have trouble. Plus if he's whored around it'll most likely prevent him from forming a proper attachment to one partner and increase the risk of divorce. it's a fantasy, a delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Carol travels to Australia to fuck around with surfer Chads. Gets knocked up and blogs about her dating struggles as a single mom: "I returned home with a little Aussie souvenir in my tummy."We shouldn't judge because she is NOT the average person. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/12/20 08:58 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselvesSo if I work really hard to rob a bank I'm entitled to the money? Or let's choose something not illegal: if I spend a lot of time manipulating someone into letting me be abusive, by wearing down their self esteem, being manipulative, so I can take their money, have fun belittling them, is that ok? Putting work into immoral activities is no badge of honor, no justification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 06:11 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselvesIf there was deception, leading them to believe there would be a relationship, then obviously when they get the bait and switch they will be upset. But even when they go in knowing what it is, I think a lot of them are upset on a subconscious level morally, because it is wrong, to be sleeping around, though they are guilty of it too (and a lot of them don't actually just want sex, they secretly do long for a relationship, so there's a mismatch). For men to so often be cavalier about the whole th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 06:09 PM |
| 10 | Post wall regret and cats. Sounds about right.She probably genuinely means adult life. A lot of women are like children and want to be taken care of, or at least have the option to take the pressure off. A lot of them really would prefer to be stay at home moms, they'll just never, ever admit it, especially if that's passed them by already. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/12/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Post wall regret and cats. Sounds about right.The West is definitely in decline, other countries too. You can manipulate statistics to make it seem better, but when you investigate, not so much. That's not to say we are doomed and should give up. But we first have to acknowledge a problem to deal with it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/12/20 05:42 PM |
| 7 | Are women telling their truth when they say: “ I don’t care how much money a guy makes, as long as he can support himself “ ?SAHMs aren't obsolete, it's what's best for kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Are women telling their truth when they say: “ I don’t care how much money a guy makes, as long as he can support himself “ ?They may mean it, but I think all of them would like it if you earned even more, a lot, a lot more even. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Are women actually better off in the modern sexual marketplace than men?I'd guess they put on the appearance that it's happy, but are really still unsatisfied, empty. Hence trying to convince people on the internet. There are probably more women in relationships then men though, I see it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 12:06 AM |
| 4 | Woman divorces her husband because he is just perfectThis could potentially mean being a pushover, or a people pleaser, or not voicing your real opinion, which are all bad things. Most likely though she wants drama, akin to what she grew up with. Doesn't know how to be happy. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/12/20 11:44 PM |
| 5 | 30y old gold-digging thot wants a serious old-school tall dominant gentleman to finance her expensive posh lifestyle. And if you have kids "f*ck off!"Nothing wrong with women not wanting to be cucked either. Step families basically means divorce. Not that this is a classy dame, though she tried to class it up with her love of music. She's cultured I'm sure, knows all the luxury brands. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/12/20 09:05 PM |
| 1 | What is a righteous, or a "good" woman in your eyes?Come on now, men commit more violent crime than women, they also have more sexual partners on average. Males do not have it in check more than females. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 01:07 AM |
| 2 | What is a righteous, or a "good" woman in your eyes?Are porn stars good people? Even if you don't think sex outside of marriage is immoral, a heck of a lot of the porn industry helps fund criminals and their abuses. Helping them in their business, assuming they are there willingly, would therefore be highly immoral. And why wouldn't they make good marriage material if what they're doing isn't immoral? It's precisely because the sex they are having is immoral, isn't good for them, or viewers, that makes them bad for marriage, and society even, bro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?If he wasn't her first choice she was damn stupid to get pregnant by him and is no catch, expecting the guy she really wants to be put through that. 20 years sounds like being stuck holding the bag. Most second marriages don't last that long though when one of the parties has kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?Being a step parent in general is awful, and unless you're marrying a widow, it just shouldn't be. Step parents get a raw deal, most of these marriages fail, especially if there are kids involved. The biological parent is divorced for a reason, there's something wrong with them, they won't treat you better, you'll likely be playing second fiddle cause "their kid comes first", which is not how a healthy marriage operates. The kids rarely if ever truly accept the step parent, especially step mothe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Why does TRP sphere celebrate bachelors but acts like being a spinster is the worst thing ever? (even RPW)There are a lot of nutty, older, childless women, who do seem to be that way because of the family they lack. They cause trouble politically without having a family to occupy their time, resent others who do have families. There's a certain type of woman who is really suited to spinster life and chose it, they're fine. But the others who thought they could have it all, or thought they didn't need or want it, then did when it was too late, they cause trouble. More trouble than their male equivale… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 12:48 AM |
| 3 | What does it mean for someone to "live life on easy mode"?Have you ever been followed or received too much attention? Were worried for your safety? Did you ever feel something was expected in return, or worried you hadn't earned something you'd actually worked hard for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 12:40 AM |
| 7 | Woman in her late 20s with a history of partying, sex, drugs and alcohol now looking for a stable marriage and to settle down isn’t exactly breaking newsI have some sympathy for ones that were put through the Hollywood machine and it's abuses so young. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/12/20 12:30 AM |
| 1 | CMV: She didn't dump you for confiding in her about your insecurities; she dumped you for being dishonest with herNope. I was looking for someone that would be unable to attract someone like me or better than me. The easiest way to achieve that was getting money and dating someone homeless. If anything that was a green flag. Come on dude, she deserves better and if you don't pull stuff like that you do too. Don't date someone to have power, date them because they are right for you. And a lot of homeless people are mentally ill mind you. Doesn't make them bad, just may mean they are not the greatest relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: She didn't dump you for confiding in her about your insecurities; she dumped you for being dishonest with herAt least if they think it's a dream the anger should abate. If they think they are intuitive, have some sort of "psychic", female power, then well... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: She didn't dump you for confiding in her about your insecurities; she dumped you for being dishonest with herWomen will say it's the dishonesty but no, it's that they view men as weak once they open up like that. They'll ask for it and when they finally get it often, not always, can't handle it. Women still, generally, instinctively want a protector and any weakness is a no, no. Can't be human guys, just like women won't admit it's a failing in moral character when they're repulsed, not "dishonesty". Men are people too, have weaknesses, it's wrong to make them feel they need to bottle it up, causes A L… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Is there a shortage of "quality" marriage material men out there?Bigger city, especially New York, there can be a skewed sex ratio and men take advantage of it. Men also have longer, or think they have longer, biologically to start a family, and today's generations are more... infantile. So it takes awhile for men to "catch up" to women there age, maybe. it may also be the men are out there but not "alpha" enough and so overlooked. Depends on the place and demographic, ages and income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 09:49 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean to live a good life, as a woman?Doing your best to keep God's commandments and love him. That's it for men and women alike. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 09:46 PM |
| 1 | What are the effects of gender differences in political intolerance on relationships and the relationship & sexual markets?Maybe it should also be noted that married women tend to vote conservative. I don't know if it's that Conservative women are just more likely to marry, or that Leftist women change once married. But maybe actually being in a more "locked in" relationship can help the divide down the road, once you're trying to build something together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 09:44 PM |
| 2 | What are the effects of gender differences in political intolerance on relationships and the relationship & sexual markets?That first paragraph has a great observation. Focusing on solutions. Solution focused people are also more successful and have better relationships. It's people who play the blame game that sour stuff. But I disagree that people necessarily all want the best outcome, or rather, to some the best outcome may be wiping out other people, while others may actually be interested in human rights, even if they differ in how you secure them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 09:41 PM |
| 1 | What are the effects of gender differences in political intolerance on relationships and the relationship & sexual markets?Tribalism isn't necessarily bad. It's pathological altruism for the "other" that has gotten identity politics to this point. You SHOULD value you and yours first. That's why White females attacking White males is so destructive to relationships, society. edit and vice versa, White men attacking White women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 09:37 PM |
| 2 | What are the effects of gender differences in political intolerance on relationships and the relationship & sexual markets?I'd have to search but there's been research showing Liberals have less empathy, more mental health problems, and a slew of other negatives, vs. Conservatives, with few positives over them. Women being more Liberal and being afflicted with said problems will make relationships more difficult and hurt society at large too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 09:36 PM |
| 1 | What are the effects of gender differences in political intolerance on relationships and the relationship & sexual markets?Well it's the differences that lead to intolerance right? So you can't discuss one without the other. It makes relationships more difficult is what. I'm not surprised at all women are more intolerant and I think a lot of people aren't. It means women will have more trouble compromising and relationships need compromise. Especially since what most women believe is even more ridiculous than what most men do. They have more trouble functioning in reality and if you can't see things for what they ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Who/what is to blame for the problems affecting your gender?So do you believe in biological determinism or lean more to free will? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Who/what is to blame for the problems affecting your gender?Biology and Marxism. But the latter is a result from the former and human nature in general. Original sin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 09:27 PM |
| 1 | If you were a woman, would you want to have male friends?Ha! I just watched a video where all the women said they could be friends and all the guys said men and women can't. Then the interviewer got the women to admit their male friends probably wanted to sleep with them. I used to get along with boys better as a kid, but get along with both genders. i probably have more interest in stuff that's typically male though. So if I wanted to talk about my interests men would be better, especially given my politics. But that they might think I'm interested, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Couples who have partners less sexual with them.I still think a lot of people who obsess over this don't take into account changes that come with age, and whether or not what they want is moral to begin with. That said, I understand their upset, not so much for the type of sex acts but the dead bedroom stuff. Short of an illness or some agreed upon break, that's something women especially need to work on more, they don't get how important sex can be to men, and vice versa, sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 09:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If not getting married is a deal breaker for you, you weren't really in love to begin with.If you're not religious why even get married? Why make a mockery of something you don't believe in? If you are religious, then marriage is the only way and anything less is a dealbreaker. The majority of the world is still religious of course. Laws of men don't matter. Sure there are a lot of fakers, but that's on them, I'd have to take the chance, won't change my beliefs. You could turn it around in your version and say if you really loved them you'd happily give everything you have for them. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 09:17 PM |
| 2 | What's with the stigma against tattoos and coloured hair?I'm curious, why disgusting? I'm no fan either but it's more aesthetic, not revulsion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 09:12 PM |
| 1 | What's with the stigma against tattoos and coloured hair?I love tattoo art, but it looks much better on a page. It's unattractive on people, why put something on your flesh forever, especially something so common place as a cartoon character or a rose etc. ? Makes the person seem like an idiot to value that in such a way, impulsive. And a lot about beauty is symmetry, tattoos through that off. A lot of people getting tattoos and dying their hair are unstable or trend followers, neither make for good relationship material. I think people exacerbate the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean for someone to "live life on easy mode"?White Beckies? Whoa is Shaniqua. The top 9 billionaires in the world are self made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 08:51 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean for someone to "live life on easy mode"?Because they usually mean it as an attack on the person with the good life. That they don't deserve it, should be punished, taxed, or worse. edit, and it's usually not objective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 08:48 PM |
| 4 | What does it mean for someone to "live life on easy mode"?It usually means envy plain and simple, and a lack of knowledge in genetics, biological differences between groups, and ultimately a misunderstanding or lack of morality. People using the term is a red flag, even in cases where men are using it on women. Not that they're necessarily wrong that there's an inappropriate bias in many ways for women, but the spirit in which they use it, the scope, and how they think things should be. It's something to devalue the other person, manipulate them. Watch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 08:47 PM |
| 8 | Feminists lied, her womb dried.This always gets me. Like they can't figure out how to pool their resources? Someone (gov.) has to help them out. Yes, one of you watches the kids, the other two work and pay her a bit. They'd probably be stuck squabbling over who stays home and who pays what if they even miraculously got to that second step. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/11/20 06:40 PM |
| 19 | Feminists lied, her womb dried.There's actually a sex and the city episode where they mention how the dating pool becomes a wading pool in your 30s. So even those shows accused of leading so many astray drop a little realism in there now and then. If they would but listen... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/11/20 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Feminists lied, her womb dried.They are the exception, the rules do not apply, they are special. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/11/20 06:11 PM |
| 10 | Not having sex outside of marriage(anymore lol)All the better if people are upfront if they have kids. That can be a dealbreaker, so why waste time only to have them spring it on you later? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/11/20 02:59 AM |
| 1 | How single moms and carousel riders are getting mass-produced.*immoral, not amoral. Poor people have poor ways. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/11/20 02:05 PM |
| 1 | How single moms and carousel riders are getting mass-produced.No, they can't choose. Birth control is not 100% effective and many still hold the opinion that abortion is wrong. By your logic men can 100% control if they get a woman pregnant by wearing a condom they maintain control of, yet you get all these "whoops" babies. Birth control isn't 100% effective, women and men especially need to know this, lest they be saddled with a psycho baby mom and paying for it the rest of his life (and financially for 18 years or more). | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/11/20 02:04 PM |
| 2 | How single moms and carousel riders are getting mass-produced.No. Each person is their own gatekeeper, you're trying to shirk accountability. Also, women don't naturally have low sex drives and men high ones. On average yes, the male sex drive is higher, but women's isn't low and there are men with low drive, women with high. This is often used as an excuse for bad behavior by both genders. Eggs are expensive and sperm is cheap, that's true, the women is more likely to have to raise the kid (and the guy child support and alimony in this day and age) but ev… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/11/20 02:01 PM |
| 6 | How single moms and carousel riders are getting mass-produced.This isn't true really, even just based off of what's posted on this sub. Think about it, a lot of women are sluts, easy, hence the posts here. It doesn't actually require that much skill to sleep around, guys are intimidated and think it does, but it's a numbers game, ask more and they would get it (not that they should). Also, we know women value the wrong things. So if a woman values a man who's been promiscuous, that should tell you he's screwed up. That study about divorce, showing an incre… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/11/20 01:55 PM |
| 1 | How single moms and carousel riders are getting mass-produced.I don't even think most of it is about being insecure, though they are, they just hate to see others live a good life and want theirs destroyed too, it's about being brought down to the promiscuous one's level, not having to see others be happy. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/11/20 01:48 PM |
| 7 | At 43 I am grown up, now thinking about real relationship. Enough frog kissing, need my Prince.Mostly it's a joke that's been overdone. I don't think any, certainly not most people, who make the joke, know about swingers and pineapples. That being said, if they ask if you want extra pineapple and wink at you, then maybe, maybe you're being propositioned. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/11/20 01:31 PM |
| 3 | At 44 I can finally have impossible standards. I want a classy cosmopolitan athlete that owns a yacht. And definitely not short. Because now I have plenty of time.I don't think teachers are paid enough to own a yacht. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/11/20 02:27 PM |
| 7 | At 44 I can finally have impossible standards. I want a classy cosmopolitan athlete that owns a yacht. And definitely not short. Because now I have plenty of time.They think they are special and can win them over though, because they are just THAT special. It might not have worked the first few times, but they still think their unicorn is due. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/11/20 02:26 PM |
| 7 | At 44 I can finally have impossible standards. I want a classy cosmopolitan athlete that owns a yacht. And definitely not short. Because now I have plenty of time.Herpes? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/11/20 02:24 PM |
| 5 | At 44 I can finally have impossible standards. I want a classy cosmopolitan athlete that owns a yacht. And definitely not short. Because now I have plenty of time.It reminds me of that episode of Seinfeld where George poses in front of another guys car. With a woman the deception must be even more obvious, unless she's trying to land a spokes model job. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/11/20 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do men fuck ugly women ?What's depressing is that Whites are looked at as trophies, as objects, and not people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 09:31 AM |
| 5 | As many American men report being "forced to penetrate" each year as women report being rapedWe know women commit domestic violence almost as much as men, something like 40% vs. 60%, and that Lesbians are more likely to experience domestic violence than any other group. Yet we still think of females as being disproportionately victims. I know there's questions as to whether or not some of these assaults counted are male on male due to wording, but given the other stats, I don't think this report is far off. Like with lesbians, I think maybe women just have less opportunity to commit cri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 11:32 PM |
| 9 | As many American men report being "forced to penetrate" each year as women report being rapedPeople can have their lives destroyed by rumors, even without the cops getting involved, obviously this guy almost did. Seen people alienated from friends, family, communities, school by this, physically attacked. I guess one wouldn't want to pursue slander charges, lest they believe the girl's lies. Put it behind them. Glad he did, a happy ending. Suicide seems a good idea in the moment until you realize all you'd miss out on. Again good on ya :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 11:10 PM |
| 1 | As many American men report being "forced to penetrate" each year as women report being rapedI don't think he's suggesting they're "for" rape, just semantics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 11:01 PM |
| 3 | As many American men report being "forced to penetrate" each year as women report being rapedThe higher rate among POC isn't because they're vulnerable, it's because POC commit crimes at a higher rate (minus East Asians). And people tend to commit violence within their own race more often then not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 10:53 PM |
| 1 | As many American men report being "forced to penetrate" each year as women report being rapedI want to re-word that, I don't think people who are raped are "weak", I guess sometimes more easily victimized. Like, they'd go for people they think are less likely to put up a physical struggle, or have more introverted personailties, or can be threatened. But from the female on male rape stories I've heard, even just on reddit, it can happen to anyone, and I don't want "stronger" men not to be believed. Especially if alcohol and drugs are involved. There's also a lot of women who target kids… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 10:52 PM |
| 11 | As many American men report being "forced to penetrate" each year as women report being rapedThat's horrible. And I assume she never did any jail time for the false accusation? A little dark humor can help in these situations. I'm glad you saved him, you're a hero. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Female PredatorsMate poacher. Predator sounds, you know, like a rapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.Men are definitely bigger sluts then women. Doesn't matter the effort, if you're used goods, you're used goods. They just can get away with it more, even be congratulated a lot. People should be shamed for bad behavior and it does frequently work. Shame on sluts, male and female. edit *women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 10:19 PM |
| 1 | As many American men report being "forced to penetrate" each year as women report being rapedI doubt it has to do with hypergamy, I'd assume they target people in their own group or weaker. There are reddit threads where a few men actually talk about their experience of going to the cops after the rape and a lot of times they aren't taken seriously, laughed at. I wonder what the numbers would like for both genders if people consistently reported these things. I know women don't like reporting it either, but they still come forward more often than males it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 09:17 PM |
| 13 | As many American men report being "forced to penetrate" each year as women report being rapedWhile the women doing that are evil and violating those men's rights and deserve to do time and no financial support, that isn't rape, the sex is consensual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 09:12 PM |
| 36 | As many American men report being "forced to penetrate" each year as women report being rapedThey think the man must want it, because men want sex all the time. and that they are doing HIM a favor, whatever the level of unwanted touch. Were you able to save that poor guy with the vicoden? Sorry you had to see that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 09:08 PM |
| 2 | The reason r/WAATGM is offensive is because we make women uncomfortable about marrying the top 10% they think they deserve. If we "NiceGuys™" and "incels" don't want women with depreciating looks, kids, and a promiscuous past, then what does that say about the high-value men with better options?aren't you cute thinking it'll be only 18 years. A lot of kids live with their parents into their 20s, even 30s. And they may still need help financially in today's economy, may have to move back in with your step grand kids. It's not 18 years, it's forever. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/20 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Help!! I told my husband I was a virgin and he found out I was a complete slut. Now he wants a divorce and I don't know how to lie to him better to regain his trust.You never consummated the marriage? Is that normal? What excuse did she use for not sleeping with you? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/20 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Help!! I told my husband I was a virgin and he found out I was a complete slut. Now he wants a divorce and I don't know how to lie to him better to regain his trust.I'm so sorry that happened to you. Male virginity is just as valuable too. That she screwed you over multiple other ways only added insult to injury. But I hope, in the end, it's made you stronger, you learned from it, and will get the good partner you deserve. And that you get to enjoy time with your child. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/20 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Help!! I told my husband I was a virgin and he found out I was a complete slut. Now he wants a divorce and I don't know how to lie to him better to regain his trust.Come on now, you can't see the hypocrisy? It IS exactly the same. Men shouldn't be slutting it up either. It does affect them long term, in many ways, they're just more able to get away with it and block it out, at least for a time. People shouldn't be whores. You can't encourage it in the one without encouraging it in the other, who will want the other's attention, see that they like sluts and so become that (not that it's mens fault women sleep around; they shouldn't cave to this, and most jus… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/20 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Help!! I told my husband I was a virgin and he found out I was a complete slut. Now he wants a divorce and I don't know how to lie to him better to regain his trust.That's the worst part of this. Here was a decent man, who saved himself, wanted the same, thought he got it, but didn't. Now he can never have that with someone else as she stole his virginity. It's so sad. And that he thinks he should have just slept around. I think he'll be ok, he has a good job, can attract decent women. But he'll never get what he worked so hard saving him self for. Not that she'll ever understand that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Help!! I told my husband I was a virgin and he found out I was a complete slut. Now he wants a divorce and I don't know how to lie to him better to regain his trust.Actually there are increasing numbers of virgins in their 20s and 30s. The Millennial generation did suffer from feminism and if it feels good do it. But it also caused a lot of people to close in on themselves and not come out until later in life. So they re there and not just "technical" ones either. They just don't tell people because they'll be shamed, especially if they are male. They are seen as undesirable. And, a lot of the people who desire them usually aren't virgins themselves, it's h… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/20 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Help!! I told my husband I was a virgin and he found out I was a complete slut. Now he wants a divorce and I don't know how to lie to him better to regain his trust.Sounds like demonic possession. Since he's a doc he may be too smart to buy it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/20 10:31 PM |
| 2 | After 2 divorces and 3 kids, Sharon Stone has ‘had it’ with the dating games. Why can’t she find a serious, good man at 62??Is focusing on friends and family code for tapping out? A lot of women complain about the diminishing attention of men as they age, but for someone like her who was the height of sexy at one time, it must be pretty rough. Especially since all her roles were really predicated on sex, how's she supposed to be cast now? Don't think I've seen her in a movie in ages. Still have to watch "Fatal Attraction", see what all the hub-bub is about, outside of the leg crossing. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/20 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Horse Pilled Alpha Widow Left Over fakes orgasms for BetaAt least his taste in systems is great. Leave her to someone who prefers x-box. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/20 10:03 PM |
| 2 | "It's been...84 years...and I can still feel the deep illicit thrusts...of the ocean."lol, the Titanic as a "boat trip"... I really do wonder how many people go through life, and death, thinking about "the one who got away", no matter how bad the break-up. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/20 09:30 PM |
| 2 | The fastest swipe for financially stable men.You see her in the rear view mirror chasing you like she's Terminator II. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/20 09:17 PM |
| 39 | Just like The Titanic, they think this is a what a good love story is.Oh yes they can. And don't call me Shirley! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/20 08:29 PM |
| 4 | I won’t cook for you ! I won’t do any chores ! I won’t hang out with your friends !😡😡 *few years later*... Where have all the good men gone ? 😰Has anyone with the beauty or talent of Monroe ever said this? I wonder if they realize the chasm between themselves and her. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/10/20 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Sassy Sister Says: There is a shortage of black marriageable bachelors because...wait for it...they're all in prison.They should rat them out. If you know someone who murders, robs, rapes, steals, assaults, please tell the cops. This whole anti-"snitching" thing is evil. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/10/20 08:49 PM |
| 2 | 27, tatted, SM with 2 kids from Tyrone. She is mad and wondering where her husband is? Can't forget the astrology bs too. Now that shes on the bad side of 25, and has 2 kids, she is now tired of her own generation and hook ups. Didn't have that outlook before the kids? Where is her husband? Waatgm?3-5 years and she'll probably have more than just the two kids. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/10/20 08:43 PM |
| 2 | At 42 none of the refined older guys match with me, I only get matches with young dudes. Can anybody explain me why???That was stone cold of you. But I like to believe in miracles and hope she will somehow reform. Small dogs that can fit in a purse are great too though! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/10/20 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Well that's one way to lose a boyfriend.At least it was a dog and not a kid. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/10/20 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Dear men, stop being such jerks. Accept our rejections gracefully and praise muh vuh Gina!I think she's coming to us from Africa judging by her accent and the catcalling, following, and rape rate there is a serious, serious problem. She probably really isn't safe. Not a fan of slam poetry but I wouldn't dismiss this one lightly. I wouldn't lump her in with your average Western woman in this case. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/10/20 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Are we truly to believe that 3 kids by 22 can qualify as "gently used.""mental health awareness". Be advised men, be advised. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/10/20 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenYou're friend ditched you while you were abroad? That can be dangerous, for both of you. Stupid, stupid, stupid. Not a good friend, and for some strange men? please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | How do women treat their casual sexual partners better then their bfs?Sorry, no, most men are not raring to go all the time. They are a little more diverse and multifaceted than that. That can be a really harmful myth and heaven knows women have used it as an excuse for sexual harassment/assault on guys. Men do not think bout sex every 7 seconds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 01:25 AM |
| 2 | How do women treat their casual sexual partners better then their bfs?I think if a lot of these guys had to be pegged each time to get anal they'd be a hell of a lot less vocal. Do unto others and all. They expect women to do things they themselves are uncomfortable with or hate, it's hypocritical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | How do women treat their casual sexual partners better then their bfs?Wanting someone to "endure" sex they don't like is disgusting, it's evil, they don't truly care about that person. People, good people, should not want to do that to others. If you believe you're partner doesn't like you as much as their last SO, is settling, then dump them, you deserve someone who wants to be with you. People shouldn't whine and try to manipulate another into doing a sex act they don't like, that's abuse. They should suck it up, she doesn't like you as much, accept it or leave.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Would you women be offended if your boyfriend took you to Macdonald’s when he took past hook ups to Morganfield’s?I know I've read threads about girls complaining a guy treated their last girlfriend better. Women most definitely care and are upset. It sucks to find out the person you're with liked their last SO better, or at least gave them more. But just because they were willing to do something they didn't like/couldn't afford/hurt, for the last person, doesn't mean they should continue doing it to prove they like this person as much. They should have not done it in the first place, for the first person. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 01:01 AM |
| 4 | High notch count redditors who were successful at finding desirable partners...Did you disclose?Whores of either sex are shameful, but you thinking another human being is "disposable" is abominable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Would you date man who "cheated" his way to good looks?Depends on what it was. Some people for instance really hate and fixate on their nose, sometimes because they broke it and it healed wrong. Then they get it done and are happy. Something "minor" like that is fine. But if they were getting multiple ones then it seems superficial, or maybe insecure. It depends on the surgery and why and how it looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 12:32 AM |
| 3 | An explanation of female intrasexual competition and why its importantDepends. I think most older women complaining about guys dating young are doing it because they then feel lesser themselves. That doesn't mean that because some women's motives are impure that dating younger women because they're younger is therefore moral. It seems like rationalizing what men want, it's ok, other women are just jealous and I'm free to do whatever. Got to look deeper at the man's own motivations, not some jealous woman's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 04:25 PM |
| 12 | There is a “Men Are Wonderful Effect” inherent in TRP beliefsI think a lot of men really do need to be clued into the fact that they don't necessarily age well and that while they can have kids later in life, their sperm quality is going down. the rates of erectile dysfunction are also pretty bad. Men have a definite wall too, even the super rich who pull it off still look rough and seem like a joke. A male who sleeps around is still a slut, with the same value morally, he'll just get away with it easier. Men are wonderful though, just need a bit of a rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Men judge women on their N-count because women judge men on their sexual prowessDefinitely judge people on their past, it's the best indicator of future behaviour. But prostitution is far worse. Do you have any idea how many of them are being forced, are underaged, were abused, have diseases, support organized crime? People who visit sex workers are scumbags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 03:45 PM |
| 5 | Men judge women on their N-count because women judge men on their sexual prowessA lot of women don't even have orgasms solely from PIV and men don't like hearing that or doing anything about it, or so it would seem from forums. Heaven help the woman who brings its up constructively because she'll still end up hurting his ego. Being open to honest discussion, without being critical, would solve so much of this. Instead everyone seems to want to skirt around it. Also, a lot of successful men really do work crazy, 100 hour schedules. And they're so exhausted sex is maybe, mayb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Men judge women on their N-count because women judge men on their sexual prowessDo not practice hypocrisy while at the same time denouncing it Guy had better be low n count too then hadn't he? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Men judge women on their N-count because women judge men on their sexual prowessUnless his bride doesn't like the same things those girls liked, then he has something new to learn after he's unlearned some bad habits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Men judge women on their N-count because women judge men on their sexual prowessDivorcees may remarry but those new marriages are more likely to end up in failure, especially if they have kids. I'd say men remarry more because it's a bit easier for them, they have more prime years and women have less options when remarrying, especially if they have custody of kids. But the hormones, brain chemistry is a big thing in women AND MEN and people don't seem to like to talk about it, especially since in a lot of cases it's too late. Everyone is better with few or one partner. The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 03:36 PM |
| 5 | Men judge women on their N-count because women judge men on their sexual prowessWell it's like the 10 000 hour rule (not that 10k is required even). It's not just practicing a lot, it''s practicing the right things. So a lot of these guys sleeping around may think they're experienced, but when you ask women about how frequently they're satisfied and having orgasms, I'm thinking these guys don't really know the truth of where they stand. A smart guy like Bezos could probably read a few books, put in some trial and error time and get it right, if he wanted to. Work smart, it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 03:30 PM |
| 6 | The lack of self awareness here is little muchCause she's on the prowl. Pray for the guy she catches. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/09/20 11:02 PM |
| 1 | The combination drugs,dating/casual sex needs to be questionedIf you have to, or want to be intoxicated when you do it you almost certainly shouldn't be doing it. They're doing something soul killing and even if only subconsciously, they know it, so they dull the pain. It should be examined, but won't be. What are you a prude narc? ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/20 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Female insecurity 101. I want him, but if no one else wants him, do I really want him?lol, reminds me Betty Broderick. Though you somehow kept your cool. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/09/20 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Women make up a majority of the dating over 30 subreddit but why?Because women in their 30s are more desperate to settle down with the clock ticking and so are looking for advice post haste? Maybe dating over 40 has more even posting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 02:49 PM |
| 3 | You were not her first choice ...discussMen totally do this too, settle. Sometimes it's because they aimed in the stratosphere, and other times they realized they were after the wrong thing. Either way, nobody deserves to be second choice, to not have someone who really desires to be with them and it's cruel to do it to someone. And yes, they'll rationalize it to absolve themselves of any wrong doing and how it's really a great choice. I can't say if women do it more than men, if so, I'd say only by a little. There's an old saying how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Why are there seemingly more women who don't get along with other women than men with men?That kind of woman is generally toxic, the one who has only guy friends and can't get along with other women. I find women are generally narcissistic, in some kind of way, not necessarily textbook and that this is why they compete with each other, not patriarchy. And these type of women can't stand other women, the competition for attention, more so than your average woman, and so only have male friends generally. They like the male attention, without necessarily having to give back as they woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 02:43 PM |
| 1 | The prenup myth - why does it exist?I think it's due to people not getting proper pre-nups that can be thrown out, and yes, the justice system not taking them into account even when valid. We still have this idea that women can't make decisions for themselves, mistakes even, and need to live with the consequences. It's also about not burdening the taxpayer, catch the man closest to her and make him support her. I can see why even average men can need one, a divorce and alimony could leave them destitute. Being a high earner isn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 02:35 PM |
| 1 | The prenup myth - why does it exist?You think there are really a bunch of billionaires marrying and raping poor women? And not that I condone rape, but if you marry some guy in exchange for material goods you are a whore, not some innocent poor person. It's immoral. They have no right to lay a finger on you, but don't expect a lot of sympathy for parasitic people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 02:30 PM |
| 2 | If men want a woman to love them for who he is and not what he can provide, he should go for younger womenEven assuming the young woman had an idealistic view of love, the man who pursued her with this in mind sure doesn't. It's extremely calculating and genuinely creepy. It's going after someone because they don't know better. They'd say it's for love but it's because you want something young and hot who's not jaded, when the guy is being hypocritical and clearly jaded himself. Now, there's nothing at all wrong wanting someone of the age who can bare children, who isn't overweight, or has a nasty (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 09:10 PM |
| 6 | Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriageIt's still the sperm is cheap, eggs are not thing. Women want to know the guy and his resources are invested in her. And sure, they care what other women think, and many of them still have big budget wedding dreams and it's traditional. But it's a need to know, or to feel he's committed. I'm sure lots of guys don't want a commitment even if the courts wouldn't screw them because they want to spread their seed, at least subconsciously. But I think studies have shown men want to marry more than wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 09:01 PM |
| 100 | When she comes with kids and an attitude.It's the perfect excuse to show them off though! Nothing trampy here, she's just feeding her kid, not flashing the goods. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/09/20 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Should men start to put as much effort into appearance as women?But didn't you know Marilyn Monroe was a size "16"? ;) Vanity sizing and obesity is so out of whack these days that people balk at a 25 inch waist it's true, and it's sad. Not to mention people with a 25 inch waist can eat a burger. Like "average" people think slim people have to have a disorder or are missing out or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/20 01:09 AM |
| 1 | It's funny cuz months ago before I knew about this sub i would laugh when I see such a video but now i just feel so disgustedNow that you mention it I can't stop pondering Brain. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/09/20 08:00 PM |
| 3 | It's funny cuz months ago before I knew about this sub i would laugh when I see such a video but now i just feel so disgustedNever sent a text in my life and don't own a phone anymore. Happy days. Except for the fact that I don't have a new DS :( | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/09/20 07:59 PM |
| 13 | It's funny cuz months ago before I knew about this sub i would laugh when I see such a video but now i just feel so disgustedTo be fair, sometime women will laugh it off to avoid confrontation or escalation. Woman like to say they are strong and independent but a lot of times they're too scared to speak up for themselves, or too afraid to seem "uncool" somehow. So it's possible she didn't like the attention, especially in a server job, you put up with it a lot from what I hear. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/09/20 07:58 PM |
| 5 | I'm sure this will turn out wellWe don't want them, stop spreading that around, we're full! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/09/20 11:26 AM |
| 8 | Bear paw is still single 😱. Try making sense of her explanation for why she's still single 🤣 I wonder.... 🤔I'd bet some of those people were more attractive when they hooked their mates though. But it's true, unattractive people do get married. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/09/20 11:08 AM |
| 1 | No ugly guys allowed. Apparently that eliminates 99.99% of you guys. And don't break her heart either. She's going to have a lot of cats in the near future.She's into Disney, and unsolved crime... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/09/20 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Looking for my forever love to take care of another mans kidOh, it's also called "A Supposedly Fun Thing I'll Never Do Again". I wanted to read one of his collections and this has intrigued me enough to do so. Thaks! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/09/20 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Looking for my forever love to take care of another mans kidFunny you should say this because I was just thinking of the "Always Sunny in Philadelphia" episode that was on a cruise ship - "The Gang Goes to Hell". Hell indeed. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/09/20 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Scott Pilgrim vs. the World Ruined a Whole Generation of WomenThe kind of guys on this forum are not the type with whom it would resonate with, at least not anymore if they learned some sense. There are plenty of hipster Millennials who would still think the author knew they're deepest fantasy. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/09/20 10:49 AM |
| 3 | r/dankmemes knows what's up.Just get really, really rich. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/09/20 10:46 AM |
| 6 | Why does she think a pregnant profile picture is what is going to bring all the boys to the yard? And of course the basic sm quote of "my babies come first"Now when she says momma of two little boys, is she including the ones she's currently carrying, or?... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/09/20 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Fiance not supporting of me being a SAHM after seeing his ex-girlfriendYou mentioned student debt. Remember, you don't necessarily have to go to college to get a good career or job. There are so many free resources now. So many people are finding that out the hard way. Figure out what you really want to do career-wise first before going into debt. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/20 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Fiance not supporting of me being a SAHM after seeing his ex-girlfriendI'm so sorry he wasn't more forthright and that you're going through this. It's like his ex said, stay at home moms are amazing. That's an extraordinary dream, an ambition. At least you found out before marriage and kids. I hope things work out for you, whether you stay together and find a solution or find someone who's on the same page as you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/20 10:56 PM |
| 1 | The sad tale of Caroline (aka "She Will Be Fine")Racial diversity has everything to do with it. Save for East-Asians non-Whites commit rape at higher levels. People love to lay into the US but when you adjust for race, taking into account only Whites, a lot of the stats are comparable to Europe, for crime, literacy, etc. Norway and Sweden have a grossly disproportionate number of rapes committed by non-Whites and it's about the same elsewhere in Europe. There are also cover-ups like Rotherham. Don't turn Blue now and pretend Race isn't a HUGE … | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 30/08/20 07:23 PM |
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