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I have better clarity on this now. I am getting a hard no most of the time because she is so pissed. My improvements have no impact on that. But I've come to realize that all I can do is improve myself. She may or may not change and things may or may not improve between us.
/r/askMRP03/03/16 04:09 AM
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I've made the decision not to. She is so pissed off at me that I get hard no all the time. So any personal improvements I make have no impact because they won't overcome how pissed she is. But I've realized that all I can do is improve myself and she may or may not change as well.
/r/askMRP03/03/16 03:58 AM
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No, she is so pissed at me for not wanting a 3rd that she gives a hard no all of the time. So improvements are making me better personally but it has no impact on her. Which I guess I should have realized already - I can become better but that doesn't mean she will make any changes.
/r/askMRP03/03/16 03:55 AM
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If you want to lose weight & body fat, you should do HIIT. You want three things: Strength (resistance training with free weights) HIIT (best way to burn calories - way better than traditional cardio like a treadmill or elliptical) Caloric deficit (macros matter, but you need to be at a deficit)
/r/askMRP12/01/16 11:54 PM
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What is your diet like? How many calories and grams of carbs/protein/fat do you get? HIIT or tabata is the key to fat loss. Do something like 20 seconds all out and 10 seconds of rest repeated for a total of 4 minutes and then take a minute break. Repeat for a 30-45 minute workout. Or 40 seconds of work, 20 seconds of rest. Repeat. You need to elevate your heart rate. HIIT is much more effective than "traditional" cardio like running or cycling or using an elliptical. And you can do a different …
/r/askMRP06/01/16 12:46 AM
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I discipline kids and enforce the rules too. It's more that she flips out at little stuff that I don't care about. That doesn't bother me. And when I come home, my phone goes away. I'm trying to spend quality time with the kids, not screwing around on Facebook.
/r/askMRP17/11/15 12:04 AM
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That's the thing - I don't want to look like a verbal punching bag. If it's minor I try to use A&A and make it into a fun situation. It is more the power play with a really strong tone in front of kids that I'm concerned with. There I've started to confront it directly. I don't have a lot of data points but as you could imagine she didn't take that well.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 11:57 PM
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If it's minor, I'll try to use A&A to just lighten the mood and make it a fun situation and a non-issue. If it's more major, I'll be more assertive. As an example, the other day she and my 5 year old were basically yelling at each other. I walked downstairs and calmly said, "I'll take care of it. Why don't you go outside and get some fresh air." She was really pissed and started to raise her voice at me with a shitty tone in front of my son. In that situation, I just strongly told her to "Stop i…
/r/askMRP16/11/15 11:55 PM
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That's part of the issue. She views herself as the bad cop and I'm the good cop who is the fun dad that kids want to play with. That doesn't bother me at all.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 11:47 PM
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Oh yeah, she'd go nuclear. I'm doing way better at controlling my attitude and not flipping out and reacting to her shit. If she does try to initiate - which doesn't happen - I'll just politely decline and do my thing.
/r/askMRP06/11/15 10:38 PM
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She could be scared after a previous miscarriage. She typically has a really tough cycle - full on migraine, bleeding for 7 days, etc. Right now just miserable to be around most of the time.
/r/askMRP06/11/15 10:21 PM
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That is my plan. It's been 3 weeks since we had sex. I'm not going to reward her bad behavior. I'm not going to orbit and take it whenever I can get it. She can continue her normal Netflix/Facebook BS and I'll take care of my own shit.
/r/askMRP06/11/15 10:20 PM
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Hard rejection on the other two weeks.
/r/askMRP06/11/15 09:19 PM
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That's my plan. I'm just going to get my shit together.
/r/askMRP06/11/15 09:18 PM
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