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Yeah I always say this and the men on here don't believe it, but this is the best its going to get for you guys. Sorry. Women's standards for men are leagues lower than men's standards for men. If you can't stand women's freedom to choose their partners and think that enforcing a more patriarchal society is going to benefit you in this regards, you've got it completely twisted. Your grandpa had to approach your great grandpa and get his approval AS A MAN, he had to prove he had a good income, he…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:10 PM
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No, I'm just someone who's been around the whining and crying about how hard it is to date while simultaneously juggling one hell of a roster filled with fuckboys enough to be fed up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:05 PM
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I'm not a weak woman with low self-esteem who chooses enough nightmare dates often enough to make going to shitholes on the first date my norm, but more importantly, I'm not someone who's easily pressured into staying or doing things I don't want to be a part of. I also don't treat people I don't "like" off an app like shit and bounce after 15 minutes. That's an asshole thing to do. Give people some dignity too, shit. If someone is being disrespectful on a sit down date, I can - and have - gotte…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:01 PM
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You don't have to, there are plenty of women who are down to meet a guy for coffee and plenty of women with really low standards for you talk to. They're out there. I mean, there's a solid space between spending hundreds of dollars on a perfect stranger and a basic ass coffee date, but I get it, you want to be dramatic. The ironic thing about this is that...the kind of girls going on the coffee dates ARE the ones posting up with tons of dudes. They're the ones plowing through 2/3 guys a week. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:00 PM
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I can only speak on what I know, which is the US system. I don't doubt that marriage has its legal, financial and medical benefits in other countries too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:25 PM
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Good for you, you don't speak for everyone in that regards :) My observations remain the same. I don't have a problem with dive bars, not when you're in a relationship or after you've started dating often. But dive bars on the first date is not my vibe, and that's for self-preservation reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:51 PM
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FMLA, for one. I use an example of this often: Example 1: Coworker's boyfriend of 10 years needed invasive surgery. She had already used all her PTO. She requested to take 2 weeks off in order to take care of him. She was asked "does he not have a mother?", had the request denied and was told if she took the time off, she wasn't going to have a job available for her. A job can do all of this legally. There is no protecting your job when your boyfriend needs help after surgery. FYI - he had to fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:48 PM
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First - men are not the only ones who take on a risk with marriage. It is not 1932, we all work, we all earn and income, we're all capable of coming into a large inheritance or receiving a massive bonus. This idea that men are the only ones to lose in divorce is laughable. Get a grip. Most of the time, this is a fear expressed by individuals with nothing to their name, so its even more laughable when you consider that they'd have nothing to "take" in case of divorce. Those that DO have assets an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:40 PM
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Probably not. Like I told someone else here, the thing is that I'm very, very, very selective when dating and I tend to talk to one guy at a time. If I matched with you, I like you, and I want to establish a connection and I sense that my excitement is reciprocated, then its gonna happen. I make it exceedingly clear that I'm willing and wanting of a serious relationship, and that going out with them is not something I take lightly. I trust my judgement though, I have an excellent picker. I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:52 PM
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I mean, if he doesn't get it, then we aren't compatible. You're navigating under the impression that I have to give every guy who approaches me a chance - and it doesn't quite work that way. Out of the pool of hopefuls, I go after the ones that can realistically offer me the best and have the most positive attitudes - positive guys who have their shit together are surprisingly easy to like, get along with and date. Are you willing to put in as much effort, planning, and intentions for him as you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:48 PM
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I'm sure the Gigachads love a cheap coffee date with a woman that's starved enough for male attention from a guy hotter than her that she's down to settle for one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:06 PM
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Coffee dates are for girlfriends, old work colleagues and business meetings IMO. What I don't like is low-effort. Resorting to a coffee date is low effort, its just....basic. Zero thoughts, zero intentions, zero planning put into that. And personally, if you don't see the difference between walking around a museum and a park, well, unfortunately that would spell out a big incompatibility off the cuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:03 PM
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You do you, I'm just saying that in my personal experiences and observations, the guys who are typically attractive enough to ask a woman out on a coffee or a happy hour date are doing it with a slew of other women. I personally wouldn't go but like I mentioned elsewhere, the guys that I end up talking to don't typically ask me out on a low-effort date like that in the first place so I think it really boils down to how good you are at establishing a good dynamic and connection with someone you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:01 PM
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These are excellent points! Yes, it is different when you're a lot younger and not established but even then? I was wary of the coffee dates or anything too generic and low effort in my 20s too. It doesn't necessarily have to have a price tag attached to it - for example, I would consider a date to the museum followed by boba to be a nice one, especially if I expressed during conversation that I love art and boba. I would consider a picnic date at the park to be high effort. There are lots of wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:19 PM
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I mean, I'm not like a raging bitch that's out here castrating men left and right, but I have a healthy distrust of strangers, I'm not a weak person by any means, and I DO believe that one of the perks of being in a relationship with a person is that you get to experience a side of them that no one else does. And yes - some behaviors ARE earned. Its not safe to be vulnerable to just anyone who's willing to have you, and I mean, honestly? That's kind of a huge turn off. I think that as a whole, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:13 PM
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There's zero problems with this approach. The biggest piece of advice that I give to women in regards to dating, but especially dating online, is to figure out what they want to get out of dating and behave accordingly. Yeah, sure, its easy to have a lot of sexual fun on these apps and if that's what you're looking for, go you, but you can't be out here and getting your back blown out by every fuckboy in town and crying about love. It doesn't work that way, surprise surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:49 PM
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Most women do, I think most women - at least those with a shred of self-respect and dignity - would have a major problem with the guy they're talking to fucking other women. I personally don't engage in low effort, low investment dates because those are the guys most likely to engage in that kind of fuckery.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:47 PM
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Oh buddy you're gonna end up with burning or bumpy genitals if this is your attitude....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:46 PM
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If a girl is seeing multiple people during the coffee date stage, I'm okay with that. The top 20% of men on these apps have convinced all of you that coffee dates are normal and the way to go. IME, they're reserved for men who are good looking enough to actually get away with asking a woman on an extremely low-effort, low-investment date because they're lining up as many low-effort, low-investment women possible. Every single women's forum or sub that's filled with women crying about how men don…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:44 PM
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IMO the whole concept of multi-dating is stupid and keeps you single for a long time. The only people who benefit from this are whatever dating app you're using to meet these people, and the coffee shops, bars and restaurants that you spend your money at getting to know them. If you were to ask anyone NOT influenced or familiar with Tinder culture that you see between 20-50 strangers a year for a first date, they'd think you're an utter failure at dating. But for some reason, people - particular…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:42 PM
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Nope, we’re monogamous! He’s European and doesn’t have American views on sex. A lot of guys eventually realize that women who like sex have an extensive sexual history. Sure, wanting women with low body count is fine, but the issues start when they reveal to have a low interest in sex, or who have a sexuality that is not sustainable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:55 PM
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Actually No!! He’s someone who openly likes sluts because he doesn’t want to end up with a frigid bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:47 PM
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It just isn’t through 😂 literally most of the women I’ve known would be call sluts by this sub and most of them ended up dating or married high quality guys, lots of them with kids. Doctors, business owners, etc. they’re happy. I am a self admitted slut who’s engaged to an amazing man in a senior position in tech - smart, tall, talented, social, big dick with an even bigger brain & salary. It’s a fallacy men like to tell themselves but in all reality, it’s the good girls that I’ve seen struggle …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:42 PM
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Maybe if they're young. The 30+ crowd doesn't give a fuck. I can't recall the last time I heard the word slut used by a guy for having sex with a woman early on past college, but women typically hold out for a wide variety of reasons. And...I mean, you're pretty wrong on your last point but again, I recognize that believing women who've given pussy to everyone BUT you will end up miserable is a coping mechanism. Regardless of whether or not you like the guy, we had a former President that marrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:36 PM
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That's not how language works <3
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:22 PM
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Slut shaming on behalf of men doesn't work. Y'all cried wolf on that one, I've seen girls who've only slept with 3 guys get called a slut, I've seen women get called sluts despite having only one partner, I've seen girls get called sluts for having the audacity of being extremely sexual with their prude of a boyfriend. It's lost it's effect on women and I highly doubt its a power you'll get back. Sluts get married, they have kids, they live happily ever after lives, despite the masturbatory leve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:20 PM
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"hey have you tried not being a bitch?" *writes a 5 paragraph essay in Little Bitchanese* My advice for you remains the same. Try not being a bitch lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:06 PM
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If your experience with women is that of them being constantly bitchy towards you, perhaps its time to consider that you're the bitch and they're just matching energies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:57 PM
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Sex work will always exist. I may not agree with it, but under no circumstances have I suggested or implied that I believe it should be kept illegal. I don't. I believe sex workers have the right to make it legal. I'm just saying, the people who are supportive of sex worker's rights is majority female because we care about the humanity and the dignity of these women as PEOPLE.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:25 PM
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Exhibit A on the type of man who does not inspire this within women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:08 PM
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SURE BABE - the one gaslighting is me. Listen, I get it - believing that you're the smartest person in the room is way more important to you than it is to me, so how about this - I'll let you have it. Now please, for the final and last time - buzz off and go act like a tampon and crawl up someone else's pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:55 PM
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By all means, link me to the post where this was labeled as rape because I can all but guarantee you left some major details out of your "trap card"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:53 PM
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I wouldn't call this rape unless he says no again and she forcefully grabs his genitals in an attempt to get him hard, or threatens to dump him if he doesn't do it, or starts doing things like calling him a pussy or going really hard into coercing him. The example you provided isn't rape. I've been in that situation where I was a little scared to do it but he was like "we'll be quiet" and I went ahead and did it - it certainly wasn't rape. It was consensual and it was great.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:46 PM
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NO, see I KNOW sex workers personally, this how I know what I am saying. The next time you want to know, try asking directly what you mean as opposed to trying sneak diss with a thinly veiled accusation. I don't give a shit what's in your pants, a coward that can't say what they mean and mean what they say and resort to slick little comments is just that - a coward. Now buzz off with your pretend outrage here and go act like you're too stupid to realize what you're doing somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:40 PM
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I have to agree. I've had my share of boyfriends with really big dicks, and I have to say that a solid 50% of them had a story where "word got around" about the size of their member in college or at some point in their 20s where heavy drinking and partying was the norm, and a woman who they initially rejected drugged them a party to get a taste of it. Men can most definitely be raped too, I do think that men are significantly less encouraged to go to the authorities over it because they're afrai…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:37 PM
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No, they get it. If that same girlfriend held them down or waited until they were black out drunk to shove a dildo up their ass, they would instantly acknowledge it as rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:33 PM
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Oh I'm the one that attacked you after you tried to insinuate that I'm a sex worker? Say what you're trying to say with your chest bro, this is very weak behavior coming from a man. You were stereotyping all men who engage with sex workers as not having a basic degree of respect for them. Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence. Ab-so-fucking-lutely. Men on this sub and online in general have a problem with sex workers being treated like regular women. Bring up the possibility of dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:25 PM
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Uhhh Jason Statham is fine as FUCK what are you talking about?!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:22 PM
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Oh yes they do. I think the fear of getting called gay by other men for having the audacity to wear moisturizer, style your hair, wear cologne and get some nice clothes is stopping you. I have literally never NOT seen a guy who takes care of himself NOT get any play.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:22 PM
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What is stopping men from putting effort into their appearance/artificially inflating their beauty? It's an exclusive American/Canadian problem. If you go to other countries - Italy, France, Latin America, etc, men are significantly more interested in their fashion and appearance, in a way that is extremely noticeable. I'm Latina, and Latino men in the US put A LOT more work towards their looks than say, White American and Asian men, regardless of what subculture they participate in or their age…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:19 PM
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This is unfortunately true. I'm a part of man women groups online, on and off Reddit, and the amount of women in their 30s, 40s and 50s who are still chasing the fuckboy that won't commit is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:12 PM
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I think that it is very sweet that you have this view of men who sexually objectify and consume sex work/sex worker content but the reality is that a lot of men's respect for a woman is contingent on her sexual history. While sex workers are the only group of women who are permitted to have high numbers of sexual partners, its at the cost of their humanity and basic dignity. There's a big reason why sex worker allies tend to be non-sex worker women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:09 PM
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Very piss poor attempt to slut shame me or insinuate that I'm a whore beloved, lets not act like we aren't part of this sub where men have regular meltdowns at just the *idea* of a woman having a rich sexual history while simultaneously consuming porn like starved animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:05 PM
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I know you think you did something, but that is not how that word is used. "Women solipsism" is not a grammatically correct phrase. In this case, it would either be "female solipsism" OR "the solipsism of women". Perhaps try doing a quick google search on how that multisyllabic word you pulled out of your ass is ACTUALLY used?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:03 PM
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That's not being led by men, for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:51 PM
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This. They're under the false pretense that men who engage with sex workers or consume their content have a basic degree of respect or even dignity for these women, much less care about them enough to fight for their right to work legally. The ability to discard of them as people is part of the sex work process.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:50 PM
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What I think you and a lot of people do not understand is that there is a caste system to women according to men and it is intrinsically tied to sex - at the top, the women that come from good families, that are viewed as potential for motherhood. Low sexual partners preferred. In the middle - which is where most women lie - somewhat decent family history or background, maybe a few traumas, but otherwise good enough. Has a good job, may have had a sordid past at one point but got her shit togeth…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:49 PM
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It’s a whoooooole lot of men too, let’s not pretend that that tik tok didn’t launch Andrew Tate into the mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:08 AM
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You're not going to force attention and validation from people who don't want you. This is how it goes for everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:03 PM
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Yeah, it goes both ways. It always surprises me when people have no idea where they actually stand in the social hierarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:33 PM
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You're telling on yourself and the objectified manner/entitlement that you personally feel. In other words, the narcissism that you express in your mind doesn't align with the reality you live, and it shows. You view relationships or women as something to be owned, because they are things you are entitled to - hence why you compare single people to an individual working minimum wage, and single people to riding the bus vs having a Ferrari (a relationship). But being single ISN'T the equivalent t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:32 PM
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Absolutely, it is. How you do not see the plethora of revenge fantasies expressed on here, tik tok, youtube, etc where the guys practically masturbate to the idea of a woman being lonely at 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:27 PM
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Idk. It's been my opinion that this is typically the widely held opinion of trash men who treat their girlfriends like crap and get angry at the fact that she has the audacity to have a strong support network. And maybe, just maybe, a lot of men who end up used, abused, dogged and treated like crap by their girlfriends/wives would've gathered the strength to leave sooner if they were a little more open with their friends about it. While I'm not for spilling every little bit of intimate detail in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:19 PM
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There’s no need to compare yourself to extremes you have no business comparing yourself to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:34 PM
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I bet you're a riot at parties
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:17 PM
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It's about resources. A basic google search shows that in animals that require many years of raising - such as humans - it's very common for the female to take into consideration the amount of resources the male can lend her offspring. In our current world and dynamic, our resources can be purchased.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:15 PM
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Look I get the point that you're making, but are we discussing tech billionaires or accessible levels of success and money here? I'm not talking about people who become billionaires, or shit, even millionaires. But people who have their house in order - a solid education, a job they've worked hard for, a decent social network, who are seeking a great relationship to complete their existing milestones as a means of kicking off some new ones. You guys talk about money, jobs and success as though t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:12 PM
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it always felt sad in a way she cant just be attracted based on his looks and personality matching hers. Uou struggle together and build a life together, trough bad and good times. But that was always a romantic naive thought. I've been through this. It's wonderful when you're both young and being poor/struggling is normal. But after a while the struggle gets horrible, especially if the man is not satisfied with his own career growth or starts to depend on the more ambitious/driven woman. A man'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:54 PM
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And yet, the majority of the world isn’t rich, neither are the majority of men in relationships. Why do you all insist on comparing yourselves to people you have no business comparing yourself to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:26 PM
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Do you know who also loves men with power? OTHER MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:37 PM
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The sex we have intrinsically carries more risk. If you had a pussy and a uterus, you'd make sure you weren't wasting it on bottom of the barrel of society. There is nothing dumber that a woman can do for her life, her body, her baby's future and her overall family lineage like having a broke man's baby. If you don't come to the table with superior genetics - looks, height, body, strength - then you need to come with resources. Top women land men who have both. But landing an average guy with re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:34 PM
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It's useless to talk to these people about things that are painfully obvious to those in the real world. They've dug their heels into reasons outside of their control to blame for their being single as a means to avoid doing the personal work to get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:32 PM
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Yeah it’s weird how the desperation for male approval extends to anonymous spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:42 PM
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and if that's who you're comparing yourself to, you're a lost cause and not because you're not rich
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:33 PM
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It’s not a fair race for people LIKE YOU - Nigerian prince’s robbed of their birthright & wealth, who’s mental narcissism does not align with the reality of their life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:16 PM
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if he blew his knee out in HS and never was drafted but was instead selling insurance, no woman is chasing that dude. Idk man according to this sub, he'd be swimming in pussy by virtue of being 6'8
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:16 PM
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Mental illness? Bruh who's the Nigerian Prince comparing himself to Lebron James right now?? 😬 I don't give a fuck - it does not negate the fact that I GUARANTEE that man has drive, ambition and discipline that you as an individual will never come close to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:58 PM
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This is not something you understand, because you do not share the type of qualities that high status men have achieved. To a person like you, it is extremely easy to reduce desirable qualities in a person - such as drive, ambition, discipline and dedication - to money, because everything listed here is foreign to you and not something you understand or relate to. You are telling on yourself here. There is no fairy that grants meek losers the type of success that someone like Lebron James has ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:55 PM
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I hope that one day, you'll realize that you struggle with women and life in general, not because you weren't rich and didn't inherit the wealth of your slave trader ancestors, not because you're not famous, not because you're not outrageously good looking or charismatic - but because you probably, honestly, most likely just suck. I don't even think you're aware of the fact that you're telling on yourself and how your reality does not match the narcissistic fantasy in your mind. Lebron James is …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:42 PM
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I think that you're a dude who's probably not very interesting and getting in his feelings at the realization that he's probably just a basic guy who likes basic girls. Which I said, is all good. It's fine. But like, its not much deeper than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:39 PM
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I fully envision half of you exactly in this way, t-rex arms and all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:38 PM
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Men with those traits and history very rarely have the confidence, social skills, ambition and respect from other men required for success. Successful men tend to be the guardians of continued success and wealth, they're only willing to share it with guys they like or deem worthy of it. I won't say impossible because never say never - but I will say highly improbable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:37 PM
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If you are a self-made man who is utterly clueless about women, you never had a fighting chance in the first place and probably, most likely, autistic. So far, there's a Nigerian Prince and apparently, Jeff Bezos in these threads 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:24 PM
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I think the thing that has been missing significantly in the lives of a lot - if not most - men these days is the positive camaraderie of strong, social, well-respected men that can offer support and positive examples of masculinity to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:22 PM
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Sure bro, whatever you say internet guy. High status men aren't on here whining and crying like little bitches about how hard it is to get girls, like this place is the complete antithesis of what strong, smart, self-made men respect in other men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:20 PM
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I guarantee that Lebron James has drive, ambition, dedication, and levels of discipline that you will never achieve in your lifetime. Most people won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:18 PM
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Thank you, a lot of these guys are missing the point for the sake of being contrarian. The point is that success, wealth and status isn't something that occurs in a vacuum. There's no fairy that takes a meek loser and blesses them with good looks, muscles, friends and career. That's a fairy tale. That's the synopsis of Cinderella. Yeah, of course you've got your people who inherited a lot, and its not fair that they've got what they've got but if they did not inheret - or were taught - the same …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:17 PM
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I mean, I'm laughing at the fact that you're so low status right now that you're clinging out to your ancestral past of tRiBaL MoNaRcHs in like, fucking Nigeria of all places. That's actually really sad man. Inherited wealth is one thing, there's a reason why movies and the media tends to portray the self-made millionaire or mob boss's son as such a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:13 PM
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Yes, and I mean, there's nothing wrong with being basic but call a spade a spade here. You had to invest as much as you did in your look just to get some female attention because personality or status-wise, you didnt really have what it took to be captivating without the muscles. It's all fair and good but basic people have to do a lot more to stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:10 PM
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No, I actually date men with status. I promise you, the majority of you guys do not know what status actually is because you are so far removed from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:08 PM
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No, they don't. They fuck hot guys, they fuck rich guys. Do you understand the definition of indiscriminately?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:27 PM
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Because you're probably a very basic guy that appeals to very basic women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:21 PM
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Yeah, because they're confident. They're men who have the validation and support of other men - and not just regular men, but other athletic, successful, strong, rich men. They're social beings, they're team players, they're individuals with status. You guys are so out of touch with what it means to be human that you insist on reducing men's success to their looks or muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:19 PM
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Men do not understand that money and power DO NOT HAPPEN TO A MAN OUT OF THIN AIR. There are personality and physical traits that are often rewarded with money and status. In fact, I'll go as far as to suggest that social status comes first, followed by the money. Money is often a reward for having achieved significant status.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:18 PM
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Yeah, I've tried to explain to the guys on here that their style and status matters more than they realize. And they keep suggesting that you need to have money in order to have both and don't get it when I insist that no, I mean social status and style within a niche group. An alt guy that looks like a wet cigarette is going to be leagues more successful with women than a basic guy with buff arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:13 PM
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Metalheads and tradgoths are notorious for being extremely restrictive and close minded when it comes to other genres and people who aren't like, walking cartoons, so it's not really unusual to read that. As for being style over substance....yikes that might be a generational thing. I'm older and...no. It is a music based subculture, people who look the part but don't necessarily listen to the music or participate in the scene are, for lack of a better word, posers. IMO women are a little less s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:09 PM
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I'm a little on the alt side myself, not as strict or restrictive as you on it being specific to two genres, and it has always baffled me when someone who clearly has no alignment with me whatsoever on music, lifestyle or fashion tries to hit on me. Like be for fucking real, if you're the kind of guy who regularly listens to The Weeknd and Drake, no hate to you, but the appeal of having a big titty goth girlfriend is not something you are actually ready for or will tolerate for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:02 PM
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Sexual compatibility is extremely important to most women who enjoy - and have - good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:59 PM
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I don't have one singular filter. I have multiple filters put in place, so think of it as a funnel. I'm also not going to sit here and copy paste 26 different traits into people, get a grip. Top funnel (What will get them through the door) Intelligence Money/Career/Ambition Physical attractiveness (to me, this is important to note. has to align with an alt style or interest of some sort) Their expressed interest level in me Middle funnel (What I discover about them during the dating phase_ Sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:57 PM
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As they should. If you had a pussy and a uterus, you'd be a whole idiot to take on dating an individual that would be more of a risk than a benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:48 PM
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This is a really great takeaway tbh. One of the things that I see on here and the internet in general is that people who have zero to little success with dating are....under the impression that they HAVE to be attractive and desirable to people on a mass scale and will go into a full blown meltdown when you suggest they figure out their niche. In other words, if you're a nerd, aim for a nerdette who's probably, most likely, going to actually like you for you. Don't aim for the instagram model wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:47 PM
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I mean, this goes for general human connection. Wow you meant to tell me that interesting people tend to do better on a social level? Ya don't say!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:42 PM
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What men think is hot in a guy is often leagues different from what women think is hot in a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:40 PM
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My epiphanies come from the perspective of a woman, for women The average guy wants as many women at the least amount of effort, time and money. It doesn't matter if he actually gets these women, it is what the majority of them want. Note I said most, not all. If you're a woman and you're dating someone you really like but you notice that he puts in little to zero effort in all three areas, that is intentional. He thinks of you as bottom shelf pussy. I repeat: he thinks of you as someone who exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:37 PM
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Not as indiscriminately
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:09 AM
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Realistically, its usually average/unattractive girls who engage in the most casual sex. While attractive women engage in it from time to time, there's not as much of a need because they can get into a relationship much easier than average/ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:42 PM
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What....my guy I'm not the one complaining about having a hard time landing casual sex lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:27 PM
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Are you some kind of expert in taking dick? No? Then shut up about what pussy needs/doesn't need. If a woman wants to get fucked by a thick, beautiful, rock hard cock, by all means she should go out and get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:25 PM
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Kind of. I'm someone that's not really ashamed to say I've had a wonderful, rich sexual history and that I happen to love men with giant dicks but I also don't really seek the validation of total strangers online and a lot of women are honestly really sensitive to being slut shamed, even by strangers, so they keep quiet about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:23 PM
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To start, women DO enjoy casual sex as easily as men. You have to keep in mind that most women just keep their sexual lives private. Yeah yeah, on these subs you find lots of women who insist they'd never and while I believe a few of them, there are lots of women that are straight up *lying* about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:21 PM
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Its also indicative of your choices, though. You probably choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:19 PM
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So, when the arrives that you get you actually experience a pussy, you'll be surprised to know that it actually experiences sexual pleasure if you fuck it right. Just, you know, a little bit of insight on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:17 PM
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And I'm telling you - you aren't an actual communist. You're a cosplayer, one who enjoys the luxuries of the country and government that you currently reside in while bitching endlessly on the internet. I'm sure you LIKE communist theory, I'm sure you've read a few lovely books on it, I'm sure. But a communist? No. Relocate to an actual communist country and quit being a coward about it if you're going to call yourself that. There are plenty of them for you to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:10 PM
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Its ALWAYS someone who calls themselves a communist (who isn't, but who just read a few books on communism) that insists on discrediting the real lived experiences of people who escaped such governments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:06 PM
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I don't feel like taking a ban and saw the err of my insulting ways towards you, beloved Sincerely, A person with ACTUAL real-life experience and first-hand accounts of people from ACTUAL communist countries, who knows all too well the kind of shit holes you're rallying for
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:57 PM
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Absolutely, because the life and autonomy of the full formed human being that would be responsible for carrying that baby to term and birthing that baby is a more important individual, in society and as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:53 PM
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Oh okay. Communist is ALL you had to say lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:51 PM
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By all means, name them. Personally, I can't help but imagine that ensuring an even bigger population of children end up fatherless is going to be anything BUT amazing for our society, our culture, our nation and our country's general well-being as whole. I mean, this sub is proof alone of what fatherlessness does to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:34 PM
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Are you down to pay child support on behalf of every deadbat dad in America in the form of increased taxes, if not a whole separate tax period, for the sake of potential getting to skip out on your own?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:33 PM
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The same guys who say they don't want to be personally held accountable for child support are basically down to pay the child support of EVERY deadbeat dad in the country with increased taxes - if not an increased tax, period. The US government is not going to hold 167m Americans, as a whole, responsible for the child support payments required of a few able-bodied men who can cough it up. It's never going to happen. That support has to come from someone, and its going to be the person who made i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:28 PM
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You shouldn’t question my sexual privilege - it comes at a major, major cost. You’re almost at the point of saying what you want to say. Spit it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:37 AM
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So then you DO feel entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:30 AM
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And what, because you struggle to get play you feel like you’re more entitled to it?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:03 AM
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No. If you can’t handle participating in this forum, there are many others on Reddit you can choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:12 PM
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You missed the part where I called you the cheerleader for men that do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:54 PM
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And yet, I’m talking about Latinos in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:53 PM
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I'm just saying, if you're the kind of guy that's in his 30s or 40s and trolling the community college for a girlfriend or lay (or in your case, cheerleading for the men that do), at least own that its for the money. Sex and looks are not on the side of most men in these age groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:47 PM
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Beloved, I am so sorry to be the one to say this to you, but if I'm going based off your profile picture a) You look older than 30. I honestly assumed you were in your mid 40s. Like this has nothing to do with square shaped jaws or baby faces, you are not an objectively attractive man, you honestly look a little worn out. A lot of men make the mistake you make in assuming that looking older = looking better, but if you were not attractive in your mid to late 20s, it is highly unlikely that you'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:43 PM
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Nothing beats the abs, stamina and rock hard dick of a man in his mid-20's 😂 Young women tend to aim for older men because they have financial and family planning goals that will be easier to meet with a man that's a bit older than them, but make absolutely no mistake, your physical appearance and especially your sex has nothing to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:37 PM
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Personally, I don't have it out for age gap relationships after a certain point. After 23/25, it's all fair game. If you're 30 and you feel like your soulmate is 50, enjoy. I will say that if the older person in question is a complete loser with no money, then it's most definitely one hell of a red flag but love is love and I'm not really invested enough what strangers do with their genitals to put a lot of genuine care into their relationships. I will say there are SOME agendas at play, but its…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:33 PM
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Okay. Do you think your father would be proud of how you’re being right now? Like do you think you are a great representation of him and his raising of a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:37 PM
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How often you see cheating happen is indicative of a few things, but namely socio-economic factors. This isn't to say that people who are well off don't cheat, we all know they can, but whether or not it's socially acceptable to be anything BUT discreet about is pretty much indicative of your social class. If you see people around you cheating left and right, you're not in meddling with an elevated class of people and should probably do something about it if you don't want to make it your norm. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:09 PM
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One thing that becomes very clear and obvious as you get older, is that the idea you're fed of love is dramatically different from the truths of it. The truth is that love isn't about finding some cosmically pre-destined individual who will be the ying to your yang. Its not about meeting someone and having some sort of epic cosmic transformation. I'm 37. Do you have an idea how many guys I've "connected with in a way I've never connected with anyone"? How many guys I've aligned with in terms of …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:00 PM
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This is the thing about "stoicly accepting to be single" - you can't be doing it with revenge fantasies in mind. That's not stoic, that's on some little bitch crybaby shit. Whether or not I'm single should be a non-issue to you - what I do with my life is none of your business. You really need to practice centering yourself a little more, and put this "stoicly accepting to be single" business into genuinely practice. No one cares. If no one wants you while you're available, they're not missing y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:50 PM
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Then those are needs that they need to take it upon themselves to secure. I have a need to get eaten out twice a week, it would be insane of me to suggest that because I have the need to receive oral sex twice a week, that people of a certain demographic absolutely MUST give me oral sex twice a week regardless of the state of my pussy. Its MY need, so I've done the work to: a) be attractive to the men I am attracted to b) weed out the men who don't like to eat pussy c) make my pussy presentable …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:50 PM
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Yes, I think a lot of women would be content with this. This is not the threat y'all seem to think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:46 PM
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I honestly think more women would feel relieved if a lot more men grew comfortable with being single because much of the crazy shit being spewed by incels and redpillers is clearly the result of them being angry at not being desired by women. You do realize that this increases the amount of effort you need to attain the man that you want and it increases the chance of the man you currently have to leave justifiably or unjustifiably. You have no idea what you're talking about or just how much att…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:46 PM
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I think that if this is a repeat situation you're experiencing, it might be time to start taking accountability for your choices and work on choosing better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:25 PM
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Men like to cry and whine about not being 6 ft, but I would like to introduce you all the world of Latinos, where 5'6 men routinely have girlfriends, wives, and even side bitches. I think its cultural. Insecurity and having low-self esteem isn't coddled in our circles the way it is for Americans. I think that American culture has a major element of begging for oppression in it's cultural DNA, which leads people to dig their heels into their victimhood as opposed to doing the work to change it ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:22 PM
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You think this way because that's what you would personally do if you were a hot girl, because you probably use similar arbitrary rules on how you date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:19 PM
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Being a hater and a negative person is a full time job. You can't save stupid, and people who are convinced that they struggle for a very specific, arbitrary reason believe as such because they're avoiding facing reality and doing the real work. One of the things I've noticed is how people unwillingly tell on themselves and how narcissistic they really are with this style of complaint. People think that individuals struggling with their self-esteem or insecurities can't be narcissistic, but I'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:15 PM
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Because men who get no pussy routinely aim for “baddies” due to being brainwashed by porn, and then clutch their pearls at the realization that they’re sex workers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:04 AM
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Oh man is your IQ a 6 too???????
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:26 PM
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Ya and clearly you also got about 6 brain cells because you missed the entire point of the reply lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:12 PM
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25-30 wouldn't be *as big* of a difference. The changes start around 32-33
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:51 PM
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Literally all of the comments I'm seeing are talking about how they do not orgasm whatsoever lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:04 PM
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Out of all the men you've had sex with did you sleep with more men that were smart but not tall and well endowed or more men that were tall and well endowed but not super intelligent? To start, to men who like a particular niche of woman, I'm prime rib....How do I put this gently...but if you want access to what is probably the body part that sticks out the most on me (my ass), you need inches. So the majority of men who approach me in the first place are well endowed men. The smallest While I'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:44 PM
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I didn't make the claim baby, the men on your team did. Y'all like to get your panties in a twist when a woman encourages young women to play your game in her favor, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:32 PM
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YUP, absolutely but in all fairness, there needs to be kindness on behalf of the men's camp too. Anyone who goes against the hivemind gets piled on or made fun of for their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:06 PM
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Yeah by teenagers lusting over 20 year olds, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:45 PM
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I'm not disagreeing with you on anything, I think people should aim for what they want and if they get it, so be it! The issues come in when they believe this then gives them the right to be awful and disparaging about anyone who doesn't fit their ideal. I idealize a SMART man (I put intelligence above all other qualities) who's good with money, has a great heart and is quirky and full of awesome interests, and if he happens to be tall with a big dick it's just the icing and the cherry on the pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:38 PM
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They sell pussy and a fantasy, beloved, old men are their #1 demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:23 PM
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I encourage everyone to do the best they can tbh, I do not like this idea a lot of men push that they're beggars left to accept whatever scraps get thrown their way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:22 PM
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Oh most definitely. I've known a few sex workers, they've ended up marrying their rich clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:54 PM
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being attractive to teenagers isn't the flex you think it is LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:53 PM
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Is that 1 wealthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:52 PM
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I'm assuming he's 40+ , that's what "a bit on the older side means" and hell yeah, I stick by what I say. If you're a young woman and you know you're the prize, aim high, darlings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:52 PM
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or dick if we're going to be quite honest
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:50 PM
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I don't condemn men for going after younger women at all. If they're old enough to land her because he's got the money for it, get your bag sis. It's just not as common as y'all seem to think it is. Also - going for dick for the sake of sex is one thing, aiming for wealth because I'm not an idiot who gets into relationships with men who've got nothing to offer BUT dick is another ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:49 PM
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Yes my love, this is part of the fantasy they're selling. Old men make the big bucks to keep them on retainer. Use your noggin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:47 PM
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Most wealthy men marry in a similar class
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:47 PM
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That you have no idea what these men are like, because you aren't them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:46 PM
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You're free to treat people however they want, they're not obligated to tolerate it or you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:46 PM
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Nah, its not that. Your dicks just aren't as good. A lot of men seem to think that there's a magical "fuck good" switch that gets flipped on the eve of your 35th birthday, but very few older men have the stamina, body, and rock-hard penis that can compete with that of a young man's. Sure, working out and eating right has something to do with it, but its just basic biology. You're not built the same. When I was single and looking for a great lay for the sake of it, a young, hot and fit 27 year ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:54 PM
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Two consenting adults are free to do what they wish, but good luck finding a sexually inexperienced young woman to give up her highly prized cookies for an old fart with limited sexual and romantic experience if there's no money or benefit to her that could in some way compensate for the fact that she's gonna be sucking on saggy nuts. His best bet would be with an age appropriate woman in his same boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:49 PM
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Brutally rich men do not become brutally rich by being weak little men. Do you know how I know you don't know anybody with actual money? You're under the impression rich guys are like regular guys, just with more money. They are not. Especially the self-made ones. There are personality traits that lead a man towards wealth, and it would be the exception, not the rule, to meet a rich man who wasn't ambitious, intelligent, confident, social, educated, determined and most importantly - disciplined.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:36 PM
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Yep, I was going to say just this. If you're talking about a regular, beautiful 18/19 year old, she's not going to be in the proximity of wealthy men in their 30s.... I mean not unless she's sugaring or tricking. A lot of guys fail to realize when they see a super young hot girl hanging out with an old rich fart, she's being paid to be there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:30 PM
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Jeff Bezos married a woman who was a multi-millionaire business owner in her own right independently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:28 PM
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I've worked directly for two billionaires. They were both married to age appropriate women. This idea you guys have of how rich men move is laughable, and do you know why you think this way? Because you are not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:28 PM
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If you know missplay you‘re hand and proceed to just jump around till you‘re 30 you won‘t be able to bag those HVM. This is where i agree. 👋 Hi big ol' whore here who bagged a HVM (6'2, big dick, great social life, $300k a year) at 34. Most of the women I know also had full and rich sexual histories and ended up extremely well off. I think this idea men have that rich men are absolutely clamoring to get together with a hot 18/19 year old just isn't true. I was 18/19 and way hotter then than I am…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:26 PM
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Men don’t have hundreds of choices at their fingertips, women do hot women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:19 PM
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To start, we've hit economic times where earning less than six figures makes it really tough to have and support a child, much less several, while still hitting your other financial goals such as savings, retirement, college fund, yearly vacations, etc. Whether its single income or joint, you need to earn more than ever before to have a family. A lot of people think that having a child means having a baby. Baby is the easiest phase. You are raising an adult, and you need to be able to offer them…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:46 PM
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Because I'm sure fucking him feels like one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:18 PM
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And most guys are even happier when they live in a house where someone cleaned behind the toilet without telling them. The thing about men like you're describing is that ultimately, you enjoy living in a clean house and most of you actually have pretty high standards for cleanliness. If you didn't, you wouldn't be attracting or being in relationships with clean women. You like organization. You like cleanliness. All of that is reflective on a woman's appearance and way of being. If you liked slo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:17 PM
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Pro-tip: not doing shit around the house is likely the source of your not getting fucked by your wife. What is your solution, to force women into having sex with you despite your not wanting to be tidy around the house? I mean, you're acting as though demanding that there be more of a shared labor to keep a clean home is the equivalent to putting shackles on you and demanding you clean lest you get taken outside for a whipping. There are people right now, even with kids, who live in messy houses…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:14 PM
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I think that as a whole, both sexes are tolerating the most just to say they aren't single. I've known many women who are expressing the same thing you are about your friend, so its not limited to men accepting less. I think that people with low self-esteem and self-respect have always been a part of the dating pool, but I think that post-COVID lockdown, the number of those people has grown exponentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:16 PM
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I think that you're projecting what you would want to have happen if you were an "alpha" vs what actually happens IRL. It's genuinely very sad that you think this way about women and that you entertain these kinds of fantasies, because they're not normal. Please seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:44 PM
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No. Y'all want to use and fuck loads of women, but then whine when there's massive populations of damaged women, more than you realized.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:42 PM
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I don't really use gay as an insult, but there have been many times where I've suggested that someone on here might actually be gay because I've believed it was something for them to genuinely consider. I've known a lot of men who came out as gay later on in their lives, and many of them came to realize that they were gay, not because they had this burning lust for dick and male body parts, but because they came to the realization that they did not like women physically or romantically. They tri…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:12 PM
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Literally, the entire comment is about holding women ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS. The die mad is directed at the women who this may offend. My god you guys are like that fucking bart doll that has 6 cool sayings
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:44 PM
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I think that there are lots of women who are bald or intentionally rock buzzcuts that still get laid and have relationships. Your hyperfocus on appealing the majority is worrisome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:41 PM
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My love, this is all you. I've had a pixie cut, I've had a bob, I've had hair down to my bra. If you are pretty, you are pretty. If a man wants you, he's going to want you. If you want to wear short hair but are afraid of how it will impact your dating opportunities then sure, its wise to reconsider that, but on the flip side, doing so might actually limit your pool to the point of success because you've met a guy who likes you for your style. Now if you look bad with a certain haircut and choos…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:40 PM
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Why are we out here assuming that men operate as a hivemind?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:39 PM
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No. They're not losing, they will never lose. Natural pretty will always be desired and there are enough men who like textured hair to go around. Secondly, textured hair IMO isn't a turn off, men love a beautiful head of curly hair. What they DON'T like is unkempt hair. There is a big difference. Very few women are born with naturally smooth hair, the majority engages in some kind of heat styling in order to achieve beautiful results. The hyperfocus you guys have on appealing to the masses while…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:37 PM
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What do you personally tell a woman who has a baby with a broke guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:33 PM
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Woman who fights for equality, against homophobia, that has openly dated bisexual men in the past for serious relationships - Some of you really are just gay and in serious denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:33 PM
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I am actually someone who worked in the beauty industry, and here are my thoughts on all of this. The industrial revolution is to thank in regards to makeup and skincare being deemed shameful for men. Prior to that, men wore makeup and were very concerned about their physical appearance and beauty, at a level that was almost equal TO women. However, here's the kicker: to working class men, leaning into feminine behaviors such as skincare, caring about your hair and fashion is deemed weak. Rich a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:32 PM
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Again you are missing the point. Let's say its a nice round 500k. Then narrow down to those who are single, in the right age bracket, that are physically attractive to you, that live relatively close, who share similar values to you, who are looking for a long-term partner, etc, etc. The number will be vanishingly small. How many people do you feel you need to plow through before you meet your one? Surely you don't think you're so fucking incredible that you absolutely need to choose from a pool…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:45 PM
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I came to this realization when the same women who cry this hard about men are the first to pile on a woman who suggests "well, have you tried standards?" to another struggling woman. They haaaaaate a woman who says she enforces standards of any kind on the men they date, like sis, encouraging other women to be easy like you isn't going to magically make him want you more. Its the anger they express when women suggest more traditional, reserved dating strategies to young women that are strugglin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:39 PM
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I mean, you don't know what your actual number is, either. Its entirely possible that all this time, you're only attractive to 1-6% of the available female population but you haven't realized it because its a big enough number when put into context. Also by selecting from such a reduced pool You're missing my point. To you, its a reduced pool because I'm saying 1-6%. In all reality, 3% of the American male population is a cool 495,0000. That's a lot of fucking people. Most people choose from red…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:55 PM
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a long term, committed, monogamous relationship is going to be very difficult if the man knows about her past. No, it actually hasn't been for them. And no, there's no hiding - most of them met their spouses with working. What happens in subs like this is that you live under the impression that the majority is what matters to people. Most people aren't interested in marrying a majority of people, and they niche it to success. For women who are sex workers, strippers, etc, they attract a pool of …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:40 PM
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That 30 year old woman is the result of redpill, if y'all hate her so much, I recommend you stop making 'em. As a woman, I agree, and I say this AS a woman in my 30s who was not only a part of that chorus once, but who still deals with it amongst my friends to this day. The issue with a lot of those women is that they're still stuck in Cool Girl mode. Cool Girl is what you do in your teens and 20s, before you've learned a thing or two about self-respect and its basically a way of making yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:22 PM
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I know a few sex workers in my 20s.....and they all eventually went on to get married, and rich too. I know you seem to believe what most men think, but I promise you, they're just fine. It's totally fine if you don't want to marry or be with a sex worker, but you have no idea what that realm is like and the amount of men who are not only okay with it, but are actively turned on by it. It's wild, but it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:11 PM
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Right, well they're telling on themselves and what/who they like. The OF/sugar baby girl is a definite type and if you think she's out here investing -$30k in a BBL $30k on a boob job $1k every 3 months on lip injections $30k on veneers $150 a month in lashes $200 on nails and pedicure $800-1k every 3 months for hair GOD ONLY KNOWS ON CLOTHES & SHOES She's not doing it for her health. She's a sex worker. A lot of men are consumed by porn and mistaken the sex worker/baddie aesthetic for what regu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:09 PM
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Nah, I've had some amazing boyfriends that were IT guys. I always liked intelligent men though, if I was going to risk getting my pussy torn to smithereens by someone's fat headed baby, it's not going to be a broke idiot's child that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:03 PM
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I went with what OP posted, perhaps hooked on phonics would serve to help you read a little better
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:57 PM
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They described an investment analyst. I'm describing one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:07 PM
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Yes, because they're stupid and a lot of them think resources don't matter. Then they grow up and realize its wayyyyyy more important than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:05 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:51 PM
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I AGREE. And this is the point I keep making to people who insist they struggle with dating because they don't embody an ideal. You don't have to embody an ideal, you just have to appeal to someone that fucking likes you. Learn to appeal to a smaller/niche group, don't worry about appealing to the masses - find your fucking tribe, so to speak. It's just amazing to me when people who haven't achieved an ounce of status, popularity or attractiveness grow upset at now having achieved those things a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:52 PM
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I agree but to be fair, $80-100k is a good enough salary for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:32 PM
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Right, see from my perspective, Dan would have no problem landing a girlfriend. I've known Dan, I worked with about 20 Dans when I was at a hedgefund - all of them had great looking, smart, high-level and high value girlfriends. You don't become an investment analyst with extremely poor social skills, there's a reason why finance is left for the cream of the crop of society, and why women who are cream of the crop in their careers will likely aim for a finance guy. They are confident, smart, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:13 PM
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Well first, I wasn't really interested in a relationship or love in my 20s. I wanted to have fun, and fun I had! Secondly, the quality of your surroundings, overall, greatly improves in your 30s and beyond because at this point, people start to solidify the "category" they belong to. Are you poor? Low status? High status? Your connections and friendships have also had at least 10 years to develop so you have strong allies and relationships. At least....you should. Secondly, I always leaned more …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:41 PM
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But it has also been pointed out a lot about how when women reach their 30s, they feel that almost all the good men are taken, if not all, and I have noticed women in their 30s I know, act like this as well. As someone who was also single in her 30s for some time, consider that the problem may be the women in this situation. A LOT of women in their 30s are there because they have poor choosing abilities in the first place and ironically, its been my observation that its often because they have v…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:12 PM
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Yeah this is true. I think a lot of men on here don't understand that there are bioligical drives at play, and its not in a woman's - or humanity's - interests to procreate with weak men and that means physically, mentally, socially and financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:47 PM
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I am grown, I can read, unconditional love isn't owed to you unless we're talking about your mama or your child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:42 PM
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I think this post is almost arriving at the point. Men who struggle with romantic relationships should focus on establishing, developing and nurture platonic friendships with other men first and foremost, then work towards establishing, developing and nurturing at least one platonic friendship with a woman BEFORE they go out into the world on the hunt for a girlfriend. 1. The guy gets friend zoned. And she likely has friends that could express interest down the line. Friend zoning is only a thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:34 PM
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okay, so groups of women you consider unworthy of love struggle to land it with men you think deserve better - I mean, personally, I've seen and known lots of fat girls with boyfriends that love them but again, if this is the revenge fantasy you cling to beacuse it helps you sleep at night, do you. PERSONALLY I'm under the impression that even the least desirable women have an easier time landing sex, love and commitment than her male counterparts and that's the source of a lot of the rage and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:39 PM
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Well, you'll probably die mad at the realization that there's loads of fat women who've managed to land commitment and sex from someone who loves them, but I'm well aware that engaging in weird revenge fantasies on groups of strangers that think nothing of you is par the course with the people in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:34 PM
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Right, but considering how women often do get the sex AND commitment, I'd say that's the source of anger and bitterness for most individual men who are neithet attractive or charismatic enough to treat women how they want and feel like they're forced to settle for commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:29 PM
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Welcome to war
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:28 PM
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Absolutely. Can 90% of women get a reasonably quality guy to commit to them long-term? Not really, no. When comments like this make an appearance, I don't think many of you realize that you're fantasizing out loud about how you would personally treat women if you were a "high quality guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:25 PM
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I bet you're the type of guy to whine and cry about men not receiving real love
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:23 PM
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I’d argue it’s the women who don’t understand that getting laid has a different (higher) value to men!! Oh we know, but it's not our problem. Nobody owes you sex they don't want to have just because you have a drive that demands more of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:21 PM
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It's amazing to me how at the end of the day, all incel/redpill rhetoric ultimately reveals itself to be interested in some kind of mass murder or mass enslavement movement
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:19 PM
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TL;DR - hey guys have you tried not being desperate and basing your self worth on a population of strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:23 PM
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Services do not involve having to ice your asshole for a week or wash cum out of your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:20 PM
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Newsflash the only people who are loved unconditionally are CHILDREN. Grow up and get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:19 PM
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And if a woman is attracted to you based on your looks, turns out she was just shallow. The moment a good looking guy with a little more to offer shows up, she'll disappear. This is what happens when you choose partners who are shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:11 PM
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Using that as an argument is further telling that those women see no value in those men until they prove they are valuable. Yes - because having a baby with a loser is an absolute FAIL. Men recognize it and constantly tell women to choose better, and amongst quality women, risking it all for a nice smile and a six pack is a dumb bitch move. Being good looking is not enough for most women, especially after a certain age - and if you think its because they've "struck out", think again. Men who off…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:00 PM
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Or maybe she's not a fucking idiot and isn't willing to risk her reproductive health and future with a man who can offer a crumb of dick and fuck all anything else. I mean, the fact of the matter is that you're placing yourself in a no-win situation here. You're not winning because you weren't born with superior genetics (newsflash, most men aren't) or socialized with the kind of charisma needed to be a fuckboy, and even as an individual with his shit together in a way that IS attractive to wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:42 PM
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Right, because you somehow think that being wanted exclusively because you're good looking as opposed to being valued for being a quality guy with lots of offer is somehow...bad? What exactly are you mad at - that you're attracting smart women who value qualities outside of the physical in a man? That you've built yourself up to have lots to offer and that its working? I have news for you beloved - lots of good looking dudes struggle with establishing long term relationships because at the end o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:31 PM
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I think you'd have a lot more success convincing people that bitter isn't the only alternative when you find a way to communicate in a way that isn't bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:21 PM
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The porn and sex work industry is made out of corporations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:05 PM
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I mean, if you want to be bitter and angry in a way that affects nobody but yourself, by all means. Do it. Lose whatever progress you've made in dating and go back to being a lonely, angry, bitter person if that's the persona you are most familiar and comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:00 PM
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I think the point is that women have no excuse to be lonely. Any woman could have a relationship tomorrow if they wanted. And there are lots of women who don't want to be lonely but still struggle to have a relationship because men come with their own set of issues too, but also? Some women just suck. You probably only quantify women who are attractive to you in this statement, most people can understand how or why some women would be single despite really wanting a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:03 PM
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Full offense, but if you're truly this blackpilled, that would make you "social circle" all of what, like 5 people strong? Even then that's really generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:02 PM
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Yeah I stopped dating men who were a work in progress due to this. Halfway through, they see you as a way out of their hard work because they think they can just lean back on you while they "figure it out" - aka dick around, gaming all day. Come established or get going.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:00 PM
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Shameless?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:58 PM
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Then clearly, you've come to an understanding of how and why sex work is much different than any other job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:58 PM
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Which is a symptom of having a personality disorder. Your mom describes a few people I grew up with who were later diagnosed with bipolar disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:52 PM
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I mean, this is more indicative of you coming from a line of trash women that choose trash men, than it says anything about women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:50 PM
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They think they'll change you. I had an SO of 2 years refer to me as the "breadwinner" when I was 27. I had expressed my goal of being a SAHM when we had kids for at least the first 3 years of their lives throughout the entire relationship. He thought I'd change my mind about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:46 PM
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I'm sorry but regular jobs don't leave you icing your asshole and cleaning nut off your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:43 PM
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I mean, this goes well beyond negative stereotypes. There is a massive human trafficking industry, and guess who's their primary target?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:42 PM
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Its honestly somewhat inspiring to read what very young and naive people have to say about these things. I really wish you were right about any of the things you're talking about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:41 PM
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Slavery and child labor does not exist in a vacuum. It exists because there is a growing market and demand for it - most of it sexual, by the way. You're talking about sex work, slavery and child labor as 3 separate entities when these 3 tend to flow into each other, a huge part as to why sex work/prostitution is often deemed as reprehensible as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:40 PM
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Everyone's acting brand new to fucking Earth about this. The majority of the harm in sex work is in regards to the amount of human trafficking it produces, regardless of it's legal status.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:37 PM
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Sex is neither a service nor a product. That would make raping a sex worker theft.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:35 PM
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No. Making something illegal won't make it go away and while I find sex work reprehensible and the complete opposite of female empowerment or feminism, I understand that the people in those routes - whether it be by choice, economic pressures, drug addiction, etc - still deserve the dignity of safety, healthcare and taxes without fear of legal fears/repercussions. The issue does not lie in sex work itself, the issue lies in men who've created the sex industry to be as big, powerful and as dark a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:34 PM
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Absolutely - and its interesting when people who have 0 action act like they're hopeless because they don't have EVERYONE'S attention. If you are looking for your one, don't worry about being desired by many.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:44 PM
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A+!!!! This is it. When I first met my boyfriend, he was swamped with work due to having an incredibly important convention in a few weeks where he was presenting. We hadn't even met and I offered to look over his presentation with fresh eyes, and even if I didn't really understand the context of what I was reading, I have excellent writing skills and experience as a copywriter and was able to give him some basic feedback. He was able to take a quick dinner break even though he was crunching on …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:28 PM
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Absolutely. Men are constantly told that the secret to finding a mate is a numbers game, and I wholeheartedly disagree. This is why online dating is such a shit show, you've got people who've managed to convince others that going on 50 failed first dates is somehow indicative of success, when to anyone who's not exposed to Tinder culture, that's THE definition of dating failure. I see so many young men on here claim that they aren't selectors, and its disheartening because yes, you are. Men choo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:16 PM
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This is how it goes with relationships in general and why people value certain degrees of relationship/sexual experience in a partner by certain ages. Dating while you're young teaches you to spot who is using you, who is wasting your time, and who isn't. At least it should if you aren't a complete goober. I want you to treat dating as a survival skill. If you were to go out and hunt, you're only going to learn what works and what doesn't through experience. If you were to go out and forage for …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:14 PM
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It's been my experience that beta/feminine men like this tend to gravitate towards strong women because they're looking for a woman to take care of him financially. I used to think it was a compliment when the guys I was dating loved how "strong" and "boss" I was until I realized they were pandering to my feminism for the sake of getting me to be the one to financially take care of them. Some of these guys even had careers. The moment the met me, saw I was ambitious and had a good job? They'd st…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:01 PM
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They're attracted to you because they assume you'll take care of them financially. I used to run into the same issues when I was younger and realized that being applauded for being "strong" and a "boss" wasn't a compliment if it was coming from a weak man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:59 PM
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What I've seen play out is more like you'll have an "alpha" woman (or at least someone who fancies herself that) who will financially support someone she thinks makes her look good because he's hot and/or cool, despite lacking ambition or making any real money himself. A lot of these guys aren't feminine in appearance whatsoever, but they are in demeanor. Even though she's the one who makes the money, he's usually the one who runs the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:55 PM
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I dont think two high paid pro athletes would want to be a part of a harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:24 PM
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Depends on what you mean by "guy they want". I'm going to talk about this as though feelings aren't involved and go for the practical reasons why poly ANYTHING usually doesn't work. The financials aren't there. The hottie who works construction and pulls in $100-120k a year? No. He's not getting two wives. What he brings in is a valuable resource needed for a family - just enough, not too much, but not too little. We're talking quality of life with a decent home, decent school zone for the kids,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:23 PM
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If they're good looking, yes. Some young women don't care about things like money or ambition yet because they haven't been an adult long enough to realize how it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:15 PM
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The entire comment backed up my own assertions. If you can't read, I recommend hooked on phonics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:58 AM
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I do, tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:57 AM
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Work on that, because as a man you are most definitely in charge of selecting too. Don't fall for that BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:47 PM
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You're either saying that I'm making this up, it's not real, or that it's my fault. No, not at all! I'm telling you to choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:40 PM
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While I agree, the whole ass washing phenomenon is something I've seen play out with friends IRL too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:28 PM
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And he's getting no play because he doesn't know how to talk to women. I mean, its one thing to secretly harbor redpill thoughts and beliefs on women, but holy shit, if you want to get some pussy maybe try not offending every woman you meet 😂 Its just amazing to me that these guys don't get the memo. Step one on getting women to like you - make yourself likable to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:25 PM
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Because they talk like a bitch. It's really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:22 PM
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As a man on a date, the first thing I get asked is what my job title is and where I work, then it's - do you rent or own? then it's - what part of town? Then there's other lifestyle questions such as randomly proposing spur of the moment travel ideas and pondering the purchase of a major investment. This is happening because you are pursuing a certain "type" of woman - a "baddie", most likely, the type that's made a significant dollar investment in her looks and is not going to be ashamed to ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:21 PM
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Most females really believe their shit don’t stink compared to men. Considering the recent revelations on men's ass washing and wiping habits, it truly doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:11 PM
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Well, that was on you. I know so many people who game together, to the point where I've had coworkers that have call of duty nights with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:55 PM
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Alright honey, I'm going to break it down for you because I'm actually with the kind of man that I know you wish you were and he gets the kind of treatment out of me that I know you want from a woman. Hear me out, because this is for your own good. You do not come across as confident and based on the few interactions I'm seeing you have with women, you are hard to respect. You mentioned running two businesses, and it's honestly not believable because there is not an ounce of leadership coming th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:49 PM
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I'm sure that blowing in a bottle and hearing that hollow "whooo" is the same sound his bank account makes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:33 PM
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I mean, consider that maybe its because you are. Traditional women and the kind of woman that you describe you want are going to be attracted to confident men who take care of business in a calm and stoic way, not someone who's going to be annoying, whiny and bitter. You're honestly not coming across as either of these things, and since your current techniques aren't working for you, maybe its time you consider working on developing a more attractive persona.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:30 PM
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There are women like this that exist but I'm gonna real with you, they don't like crybabies and you're coming across as one. If you want a warm, loving and nurturing woman, you need to work on being a lot more stoic, cool, calm and collected.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:27 PM
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You bring up wanting a feminine woman and to feminine women this is honestly such a little bitch ass question. It already tells me all I need to know about the kind of annoying princess you're gonna be in the relationship so personally, I'll nope out. I'm sure you'll find someone that will tolerate you, but as a general rule, if the sex you're trying to date doesn't like something you're doing, its probably in your best interest to stop doing it. Just a word of advice. I think you'll have better…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:23 PM
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Oh yeah, the amount of men on here that have meltdowns when I tell them that good looks in a man really isn't enough for a long term relationship, at least not for most women, is hilarious. They want princess treatment so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:16 PM
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I mean, why in the world would I mess with an inexperienced man when there's more than enough men who have sexual experience to go around? The issue isn't that women don't want a man who is sexually inexperienced, the issue is that the type of women YOU want don't want to be with a sexually inexperienced man. I think its time you adjust your expectations and standards and maybe make some changes so that your wants can align a little better with what's realistically possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:15 PM
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And, when he's a complete loser. Its fine, the kind of women who propose tend to believe they're empowered by proposing to a man they have to financially support half the time and I'm glad we're living in times where they can be afforded the types of careers to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:32 PM
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Dude just say you want princess treatment and go
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:31 PM
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You're missing the point of why the type of woman who wants a man to lead and provide needs him to get on one knee and do the proposal - this is something HE has to actively want more than anything in this world in order for that type of set up to work out. You can't strong arm or pressure a man into providing, leading and protecting you and giving you a potential family, its going to be a lot of work and it is something he does because he absolutely wants to. There's nothing wrong with you if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:30 PM
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Oh I'm sorry are you an expert at getting dick? Are there a few tricks or tips you'd like to tell me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:18 PM
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Colombia is a beautiful, lively country. Go for the travel, if something sticks, then it sticks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:14 PM
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I don't, beloved. Nobody includes me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:54 PM
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I mean duh, of course we want to be with someone who's attractive to us physically, but him being physically attractive doesn't necessarily hold the same weight for long-term relationship success and consideration, not in the way that it can determine that for women who date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:02 PM
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Most men who fail horrifically with women tend to fail with men as well. A lot of guys are somehow under the impression that they have the skills to establish and manage a romantic relationship while not even having the ability to establish and manage a PLATONIC relationship. Secondly, you greatly underestimate how much young women love a man that is not just accepted, but validated and upheld by strong, male peers. Its not rocket science why guys who play sports, skateboard or are in a band ten…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:58 PM
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Nobody wants a baby raised by a daycare employee or a man who weaponizes his incompetency on basic domestic obligations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:55 PM
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Eh, I disagree. Video games are extremely social these days. If your kid likes gaming, encourage them to connect with other kids that are also gamers and host gaming parties at the house with snacks. The types of games kids play have changed and believing that there's no way to be social with games points more towards your own ignorance on whats out there. I personally don't have a problem with it, video games encourage abstract thinking, problem solving and team dynamics. (nevermind that previo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:53 PM
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For one, I live in Miami where the trope of an old decrepit overweight rich man with a yacht surrounded by beautiful women exists. Those young beautiful women are strippers/sex workers - they are quite literally being paid to be there, its their job lol I think a lot of men forget that buying pussy is an option
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:45 PM
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For one - big dick energy is very, very, very real. I can tell you right now that the majority of men I've had sex with are between 7-8", and that could be chalked up to coincidence, but I personally choose men who exhibit a certain degree of confidence that quite frankly, only men who are packing seem to possess. Secondly, you missed the point - women who are high value enough aren't going to be in a relationship with a man who's good looking if all he has to offer is good looks and some dick b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:43 PM
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Well, you've arrived to a huge point of contention that many women have with men. Men knowing that they have friends who are creeps/capable of assaulting a woman but insisting on remaining friends with him is a big ol' mystery to most women, but it happens more often than you'd realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:37 PM
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You arrived at the point. When it comes to daughters, most men live by the belief that most men are dangerous/have ill intent until proven otherwise, and quite frankly, I don't think that's necessarily wrong. Great men exist, but most men know what their peers are like and this is why certain dating customs and standards exist - they have to prove themselves and their intentions to a woman first and foremost as a direct result of how the rest of them operate when they're not seeking a meaningful…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:35 PM
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By most women. Dating exclusively for money/status elevation is pretty crappy too but at least there's an extremely valuable benefits to doing so - moreover, guys with money and power are also likely to have amazing social skills and charisma, so I dont even think its possible to date someone exclusively for those two things without actually liking him. Dating a guy just because he's good looking is likely to leave you with herpes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:27 PM
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the age of consent where I live is 14 and people don't consider it abuse, we're not Americans. Funny, because I come from a country that's the same and there is no shortage of parents to a 15 year old - both male and female, but mostly female because creeps are more likely to come after them - that will not hesitate to execute a beat down of an adult fucking around with them because even in countries where the age of consent is 14, people know what is and what isn't fucking creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:19 PM
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Most men know which of their friends are fucking creeps or sexual assaulters. And I agree, it does. Thank you for arriving to the point of the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:14 PM
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Of course - its easy to fall in love with someone who's got his shit together and can treat you to nice things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:44 AM
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I feel like you guys really overestimate anyone's ability to vacation with someone they don't like
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:43 AM
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One can argue that a big part of what makes them rich - confidence, discipline, commanding respect, intelligence, strong work ethic, strategy, financial literacy, having a healthy and impressive social network - is also what made them attractive to women. It's all part of a package, not stand alone. Secondly, there's a lot of misunderstanding about what status actually means in this sub, and its because a lot of people here don't have it. Social status is earned. There's no buying into it. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:39 AM
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its almost as though sex workers are people who are capable of having wonderful relationships and raising beautiful families when removed from the circumstances that put them in sex work
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:18 AM
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Unless you are being critical of billionaires or multi millionaires, there is no such thing as a class traitor. There is no virtue in poverty. With that said, the idea that there's enough wealthy men to go around like this is laughable. Most men who do have great incomes don't even marry bimbos, so even if bimbos are doing it in pursuit of a better life, it's a misguided attempt at sexually objectifying themselves for male consumption. The sexual objectification of women for male consumption wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:03 AM
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Feminism isn't about choice. It's a one liner that a lot of feminists resort to because people don't put any actual critical thinking behind why they say the things they say. Saying that feminism is about choice doesn't address the fact that choices don't exist in a vacuum. There's a reason why many women "choose" to go into sex work, and if it were so fucking empowering to women, why isn't the female CEO of Only Fans shoving dildos up her ass on camera to subscribers? Why aren't her female fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:45 AM
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He's 6'2 and wouldn't want me risking my physical safety to attack a man who is more likely to overpower me in an instant :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:37 AM
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This is honestly really sad. No...you don't "learn" how to raise a man using the internet. I know that you think that the path to manhood can be found on the internet, but that's not reality. The value of having same-sex authority figures that leave a good impression and teach you how to be a functional member of society is not something that can be found in a manual or the internet. It requires real life exposure. It's like saying a father couldn't teach his daughter about how to use bras and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:36 AM
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Self-esteem is the esteem of the SELF
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:30 AM
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You can be a loser while still being great on paper. Your sister is successful, but she basically had to pay a man to be by her side and that's what would make her a loser to other women. I mean, to be blunt, it would probably be laughable if she were a man who was doing this. At least gold diggers and stay at home wives/girlfriends are held to strict standards and domestic obligations. I'm sorry about her trash taste, though. Do you have any idea why she doesn't aim for men at level? It can't b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:29 AM
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Oh okay, so we're playing "put words in somebody's mouth because i don't have a good argument". My love, at no point in this convo did I suggest that men can't and deserve to get raped. I mean, seriously, nowhere was that implied. Just answer the question - If an adult man's friends were guaranteed complete anonymity and security in the event that they were to cross a line with their friend's 15 year old daughter, how many of them do you think would go for it? We're talking about why fathers are…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:57 AM
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Uhhh the dude talking about having his daughter's butthole getting plowed in graphic detail wasn't me, beloved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:55 AM
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THAT PART!! A lot of them are sold coaching classes and things of that nature, its all a scam. And yes, everybody ages. No, just because you're 45 doesn't men women will be clawing at the chance to be with you. If you weren't attractive in your 20s and 30s, you're not going to be attractive in your 40s. If your only advantage is that you're making more money in your 40s, good for you, but if you spent the majority of your life crying about gold diggers, then you're just being a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:54 AM
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Of course sexual assault on men by women happens, and its abhorent when and if it does....but that is not the statistical likelihood and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:51 AM
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It's a prejudice that is true. Men do always want sex. Sometimes they want love too, but they will always want sex. It's not a bad thing until it gets predatory, which it often does. I was once a 15 year old girl - I know how adult men looked at me at that age. Do you recall being a 15 year old boy? In fact, I'll up the ante. If an adult man's friends were guaranteed complete anonymity and security in the event that they were to cross a line with their friend's 15 year old daughter, how many of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:45 AM
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Well, you have to provide someone with something in order to justify their bankrolling you. Amongst women your sister is considered a loser, btw. Like, amongst women with status that is basically considered a desperate woman's move. She's probably also getting cheated on left and right but that's none of my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:40 AM
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It's not that deep IMO. As men get older and they have their own daughters, one thing becomes abundantly clear - men's standards for other men are significantly higher than women's when it comes to sex and dating. When men have a daughter, they are hyper aware of the value his daughter brings and how easily not just her life - but his entire family unit's life - can be destroyed by the introduction of the wrong man. Nobody wants their daughter pushing a deadbeat loser's fat headed baby out her b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:37 AM
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Lol you're not at all familiar with boy mom culture
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:29 AM
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Please realize that the one sexualizing their daughter with such a graphic scene here is yourself, and its not normal. Normal people do not talk about their children this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:27 AM
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Oh, of course. Here's an example. Ask most women if they would trust their female friends in a room with their 15 year old son. All alone in a room with their 15 year old son for 24 hours. Most women would say absolutely, in fact, we're pretty much used to having teen boys alone with older women who aren't family members. Now ask most men if they'd trust their male friends in a room with their 15 year old daughter. All alone in a room with her for 24 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:26 AM
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This. It's not rocket science - men know what men are like, and they do not want their daughter potentially knocked up by someone's loser deadbeat son or worse, a violent man. It's that simple. Anyone with a present father figure that loved them knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:23 AM
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Well, men recognize that they're problem
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:22 AM
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It's because most men will only acknowledge and downright admit that men are dangerous towards women until they prove they're not, and that the majority are straight up garbage to date because they only want sex, but only once they have a daughter. It's easy to complain about women's standards when you're the loser that doesn't meet them. When you have a daughter, you don't want her getting knocked up by someone's loser son who doesn't meet your standards for her. As men get older and they have …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:17 AM
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It's a weird revenge fantasy a lot of the guys on here use to cope with when they struggled/struggle with dating in their 20s. They want this "Gotcha!!!" moment where they fantasize about the hottie that rejected them their sophomore year in college dying old, haggard and alone. It's honestly very cringey. They're also sold this idea that they're going to be more desirable in their mid 30s and above when: 1) Sexually, this isn't true. If you weren't making legs shakes and bodies quake at 27, it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:14 AM
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I never searched for a Henry Cavill because I'm not an idiot stranded on dumb bitch island. Whenever people like you suggest that the majority of people "settle", what you are actually telling us is that you do not have the ability to differentiate between fantasy and real life, a problem that's likely rooted in piss poor socialization. Read that again, it applies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:02 AM
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Absolutely. Its definitely obvious that these are guys who do not know how to treat a wife and family because their mom was not a wife, and they did not experience a family unit with a strong or present father figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:43 AM
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The majority of people earning $150k a year are not millionaires after a decade because they: 1) pay taxes, and lots 2) enjoy a decent quality of life Being smart with your money does not mean being a miser. You can definitely have a lot of savings, but you're not going to be a millionaire on $150k a year, not unless you are putting what you are savings in stocks or some kind of investment portfolio. Even then, it will take a whole lot more than 10 years for those assets to grow past the million…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:30 AM
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No, the thing that people in these subs fail to realize is that the average person is healthy enough to know the difference between reality and fantasy and in the case of dating/relationships, having ideals vs knowing what's actually attainable. An example of an ideal, a fantasy: Henry Cavill. An example of what is actually attainable: My fantastic SO who has me absolutely smitten. Whenever people like you suggest that the majority of people "settle", what you are actually telling us is that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:13 AM
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Beloved, as a woman who had no problem securing attractive men, I'm telling you how it goes. Are you a better expert at getting dick than I am? No? Then shut up. Looks is not the only thing that leads to status. If you have any status - which by your own admission you have none - you would know. Women are not like men, we do not necessarily gain status by being with a good looking man. It gives us nothing, he can be as good looking as he wants to be but if he's broke or has zero ambition, then h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:05 AM
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My SO is European :) A healthy mix of progressive but not too pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:02 AM
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I think nothing of them. I don't sit around wasting mental energy on people who don't really matter to me. Do you respect the ones who choose to stay alone What they do with their time and lives is none of my business. It doesn't matter to me. and dislike the ones who think they deserve companionship the way they are? I will never dislike someone for believing they are worthy of love. I only judge those who feel entitled to people and their bodies. Listen, there are tons of low value men who've …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:57 AM
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Looks is only a part of the equation. Your social status is a much bigger drive for women to put in the effort. Women value status. And big penises. When you see women actively pursuing a man, there's a high chance he has a really big dick or exceptional sexual skills. Much to the dismay of redpillers and incels, good looks lose their novelty very quickly, especially to a woman who has no problem securing men that are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:46 AM
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A lot of good looking men ARE monogamous and will choose a woman to be with. Happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:44 AM
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Yes but I would say the father has more to blame than the mother in this situation. A lot of the issues with men today stems from the lack of strong and positive father/masculine figures being present in young men's lives. A mother cannot teach a boy how to be a man, but a father can teach his son how to be a man, treat a wife and be good father.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:39 AM
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Dark-haired twink trying to masc maxx checks out absolutely everything I've said
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:36 AM
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Yeah, Colombian men in specific have such a massive macho culture that a "machista" political party is a thing there. Like, a relaxed "progressive" man over there would be considered a misogynist nightmare over here. They might be short, but they're short dudes with a short fuse who are prone to physical violence and doing whatever it takes to get money. There's a reason why Colombians make up a big part the drug industry, and why they're able to hold that down. It's not a good thing, but it is …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:25 AM
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yup. cheating ex of mine who was weirdly obsessed with other men's dicks and their size came out a few years ago lol 🌈
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:11 AM
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Well, I'm old enough to have seen a few things play out.... and the guy in his 20s who struggles with women romantically due to his insane physical standards/excuses to guy in his mid 30s that discovers he's actually just gay isn't just a pipeline - its a whole highway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:07 AM
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Probably because their mother is one and instead of blaming their father for leaving, a lot of them blame her for choosing a shitty/deadbeat guy in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:01 AM
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Good for you man, I'm happy you got what you needed and wanted out of it. But quit it with practically masturbating at the thought of strange women's misery, its weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:24 PM
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Well, there's nothing more unattractive in a man that a shitty self-esteem that's for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:23 PM
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I mean, some people are just shit at dating. You were, that's why you joined redpill. It's a fact of life, some people are just going to generate better choices and options than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:22 PM
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Personally, the PPB movement doesn't bother me at all. At the end of the day, it's the women who are winning. If they happen to meet someone and genuinely fall in love with him, everybody wins. I always say that people always underestimate how great and easy it is to fall in love with someone who's got their shit together and has the resources to treat you to nice things. I do think that the men who are doing this for the sake of a serious relationship or even marriage do need to be made a lot m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:21 PM
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I'm a part of startup team for a company that was sold for $500 million. Whats your claim to success? I am not mincing my words about anything, glorified freelancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:16 PM
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Exactly - the irony of redpill is the amount of effort being put into being a HVM, when the reality is that real high value men wouldn't be caught dead hanging out with bellyachers who center their life around women. Yes, focusing on becoming one of those men is a great goal to achieve, but a lot of these guys end up taking the easy route gain their external male validation by other crybaby losers on the internet as opposed to doing the hard thing and generating that respect by real HVM out in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:14 PM
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As a loser defined by my life situation Dude - we live in times where there is no shortage of women who think its empowering to brag about financially supporting their loser boyfriend. Waltz on into r/TwoXChromosomes or any other feminist subreddit and you'll find plenty of women who are aching to make the virtuosity of dating a loser their hill to die on. Go find you one of them. They may not be as attractive as you'd like, but they're around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:12 PM
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Actually TRP men often cuck themselves. Yep, to the point where I've often wondered if the majority of redpill/incel networks are largely made up by men struggling with suppressed homosexuality, because I have *never* seen a group outside of gay men go into great detail to describe the physical beauty and sexual behavior of attractive men, not the way in which the men on this sub do. The graphic details of the fantasies that play in their head is pretty gay. The obsession with dicks as supposed …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:09 PM
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Absolutely. From an outside woman's perspective who was actually raised by a strong, self-made father, its very obvious to me that most redpill men are the direct result of flawed parents, more specifically, a failure of a father. A lot of the guys on here would never measure up to a real "alpha" with their incessant whining and complaining, the fact that they were not raised with a strong male authority figure is glaringly obvious and instead of working towards seeking the validation of other s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:06 PM
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A lot of the men on here who like to say these things simply project what they would do if they were this desirable older man with resources. And its not a surprise to anyone but them that they're completely wrong about who "high value men" choose to date - of course they're wrong about what men like that want, they're not those men in the first place lol. They actually don't have an idea of who older, successful men pursue because they're not successful, nor are they surrounded by successful me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:03 PM
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And yet, they were still willing and wanting to date me in my 30s. Again - Die Mad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:54 PM
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Are you very young and entry level?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:54 PM
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Lordt that is not exploitation if you stick to your ONE job and deliverables. A real business owner would fold like a lawn chair in laughter at the insinuation you're making here, as though running a successful business and all its moving parts is somehow easy. Plenty of business owners sell their companies and go back to collecting a paycheck because its a breeze in comparison. Glorified freelancer. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:52 PM
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Oh honey if you think "he has to make 6 figures" makes a gold digger, you have no idea what gold even is. Six figures is an okay amount for someone to demand, again, especially if they're looking for a relationship and they have the ability to provide that salary or close to it themselves. It's not that crazy of an ask if they know they're a woman in high demand. I would say a gold digger is anyone looking for a millionaire or close to it. Anyone trying for a family while earning under six figur…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:42 PM
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One of those 2k men is my current SO - a handsome, funny, smart man who earns a lot of money with a high level career in tech. A way better option than anyone who ever made themselves known to me as a 20 something year old, that's for sure. So once more, you're wrong. And he wasn't the only one. Before I met him, I met up with many other men - great, career oriented, awesome guys who were interested in a relationship. Those didn't work out for one reason or another but they were present and they…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:39 PM
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Being an owner can mean many things - are you a solopreneur? Do you have 1 or 2 employees? Do you run a mom and pop? Do you have investors or have a board of directors? Telling me that you own your own says nothing, there are loads of "business owners" that are nothing more than glorified freelancers. Moreover, not all valuable, high performing employees are good business owners. Of course my SO generates more value for the company than the company generates him, but all he has to worry about is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:12 PM
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they will have a much more difficult time attracting the men that they want and that they might (shudder) have to settle for men in their league. I'm going to paint a picture for you on your percieved "difficult time" The last time I was on a dating app, I was 34. Prior to that, I was on the apps at 24-26. When I was in my 20s, I would get around 10k likes in a matter of 3 days. In my 30s, I amassed 2k likes in a matter of 2 days. Did the amount of men who expressed interest in me drop? Sure. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:50 PM
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Their presence is attractive. Your "entrepreneurial" experience on this is laughable, I've been a part of several successful companies from their inception and entrepreneurs are the WORST in terms of hiring valuable, qualified high level performers after a certain point. You may be telling on your own incompetence. He earns the money that he earns due to being highly educated and being one of the few professionals that have the set of valuable skills that are now in high-demand for technology, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:17 PM
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Because you're probably poor
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:06 PM
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Oh I know of those women and I'm laughing at the idea of you thinking its at a conversational level
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:40 PM
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asking for resources hardly equates to gold
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:39 PM
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Of course women, especially young women who are seeking to start a family, will consider a man's resources. What kind of a fucking idiot doesn't? Men love to remind women constantly that young women are valuable due to their beauty and ability to have and be the caretaker for children, they are allowed to uphold men to a certain financial standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:20 PM
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The thing that's absolutely wild about this is the belief that giant paychecks assigned for very weak and meek men. Part of the reason why women are attracted to high earners is not just the type of lifestyle he can provide you with, but the type of person he has to be in order to obtain that large paycheck typically makes him attractive af. My partner earns close to $300k a year. When I first met him, I could tell he was a high earner despite being in jeans, t-shirt and new balance sneakers. Im…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:20 PM
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That's not who pp bros are aiming for. If you're aiming for someone who is socially awkward, why would you make it worse by now having a language and cultural barrier between you and a potential partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:03 PM
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You're speaking to a Colombian woman here. You would get eaten alive by the men there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:02 PM
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No, I don't care. I went what was best for me at the time, every time and I have no regrets. Do you even understand the damage you caused to these men Men cause damage too. Grow up and do what most women do and get therapy. This is indicative of your poor choices in women, not women as a whole being a poor choice. Or the implications that has caused to women now in their 30s who didn't do what you did? Men in their mid30s who aren't looking to start a family date women in their same age group. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:00 PM
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the standards for masculinity are actually a lot more relaxed in westernized countries....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:49 PM
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They aren't. They're painted in a negative light for objectying women sexually, there's a key difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:45 PM
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Men care more about the quantity of sex, women care more about the quality of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:42 PM
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Yeah and they typically have a boyfriend/pimp that's aware of everything and even helps her manage these guys. People have no idea the level of viciousness you can find in the people in these countries. They are not pandered to, they have to survive by any means necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:40 PM
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Lol no. You do not know or understand the ruthlessness of men in these countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:03 PM
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To an extent women are gold-diggers everywhere. Absolutely. If you are seeking to date a young woman who can provide you with a family, why wouldn't she take the resources you're capable of providing her and a child into account?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:01 PM
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* who are likely sex workers. Colombian here - the majority of women passport bros are going after are sex workers and they typically have more than one pp bro on the books who sends them money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:59 PM
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I don't think there's anything necessarily wrong with men seeking women to date internationally, however particularly otherwise successful guys who are a bit socially awkward or shy with women. Please realize that if you plan on seeking a wife that ISN'T westernized, this is seen as the absolute worst a man can be and they will not hesitate to laugh in your face or call you a loser for not being macho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:58 PM
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In reality, with the current economy, we know thats not posible without a serious downgrade on lifestyle. within certain economic brackets. Which is totally fair but there comes a point where you can earn so much money that you can literally spend twice as much and it won't make a difference to your bottom lines or your goals. My SO earns about $300k a year and we live very modestly so it doesn't matter that he spends as much as he does covering the bills for both of us because money is very dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:47 PM
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Tattoos are masculine and hot as fuck. They get men laid constantly. Many guys are average at best but put some tattoos on them and they're suddenly very attractive to a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:06 PM
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You are getting these feathers ruffled by describing a strong hottie that loves you and its making them lose their shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:05 PM
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Because she's his partner and he's aware of there being a size and strength inequality between her and an aggressor. Are YOU mad you don't have a strong man who's willing to protect you because he loves you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:05 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/science/2015/may/14/early-men-women-equal-scientists https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legal_rights_of_women_in_history This isn't even touching on women's roles as spiritual leaders before Christinanity, the reason for the gynocide centered around "witchcraft"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:26 AM
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Which isn't happening. Women have forgotten that taking a man's income into consideration when having a baby with him is important. The number of women pushing broke dude's fat headed babies out their pussy without so much as a wedding ring, and then complaining about men being deadbeat dads is too damn high.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:22 AM
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and you do realize that much of the misogyny that we've faced as women is relatively new, historically? there is a lot of evidence pointing towards cavewomen having significantly more power and choice in their tribes and communities than the rape fest you seem to believe it was. Do not confuse our short history with a largely Christian bias in its recording with that all of all of humanity's.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:56 PM
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Like yeah, sure, they are "satisfied" with normal sized, and it's negligeable in a relationship I mean, same with money. Most women are satisfied with a man who makes average income and as long as she loves him, his money matters to the point where it can cover bills and participate in a nice vacation once a year. But the ideal? Hell yeah, who doesn't want to hit the jackpot and get themselves a millionaire? At this rate, you're an average guy with an average income, moping about and crying that…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:38 PM
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My love, the perpetual victimization that you make of women is not feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:33 PM
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6.5 inches is pretty sweet! I personally prefer bigger, in the 7/7.5" range but I'm a graphic designer/artist who's had A LOT of true to size mockups I've had to build for packaging, so I have a better gauge for size and circumference than the average woman. Almost all of them thought their partner's were smaller than they actually were. Well, what's interesting about this is that unless there's a lot of back and forth between penetration and oral, most women will not see their partner while he'…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:47 PM
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Not really a unicorn dude. Like, I'm an admitted size queen but I have a huge network of female friends and the women who are like me that actively seek out and desire big penises are the actual minority. Big dicks aren't husband material to a lot of women. Their anatomy cannot handle taking that on a daily/weekly basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:41 PM
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Historically, women had children that did not belong to their husbands. Women have been sexual beings throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:27 PM
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Funny how women have been brutally judged for superficial, intractable characteristics since the dawn of time. THAT PART. And most men insist that women can control what makes them attractive/unattractive by assuming that weight is the end all be all, when...not even then, plenty of dudes actively love fat women. Women cannot control their body shape. The cannot control their waist to hip ratio. They cannot control the shape or size of their boobs, or the shape, color and size of their areola an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:25 PM
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All it takes is one. My first was an Italian-Cuban. Even as a virginal teenager, I KNEW it was huge just by looking at it. It wasn't until a few years later that I slept with someone who was "average" sized that I realized what an average penis even looked or felt like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:22 PM
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I'm a woman, and I'll say that I definitely do know women who prefer smaller men and genuinely cannot take a bigger dick. I have one friend, for example, who turned out slept with the same guy I did. To me? Oh he was magic. A big ol' penis. It was fun! To her, he was one of her worst sexual encounters because she couldn't handle it at all. Men have different sized/shaped penises, and women have different sized/shaped vulvas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:21 PM
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Well, I mean, for many women, it is. I've definitely not continued a relationship further with someone because his anatomy just didn't align with mine. It's all a part of the big picture regarding compatibility. The good news is, you're not hopeless if you're small. It just means that you will have to find someone with an anatomy that better matches yours. I can take big dick, and I happen to love it. But I see women recoiling at the idea of an 8" monster, and to me? Oh man, that's Christmas, le…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:19 PM
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Women are routinely shamed for expressing any modicum of standards. Want a man that is at least college educated? ELITIST AND CLASSIST Want a man who meets a financial standard? GOLD DIGGER Want a man who looks a certain way? SHALLOW BITCH Most women have these standards, they're just afraid of voicing them because they've been conditioned to believe that expressing a desire for good genetic material from a man with resources to care for offspring makes them a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:14 PM
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It comes from how men deep down know most women are bullshitting about size not mattering. I agree. And there's science behind it. Bigger birth canals are needed to fit babies with bigger brains - bigger penises and thus needed/more desired. Human beings have much, much, MUCH larger penises than the rest of their ape cousins. It's not by natural design, its the evolutionary result of our intelligence. In other words - humanity has big dick to thank for our big brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:13 PM
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Eh, there's a lot of evolutionary talk about big brain sizes were facilitated by women finding pleasure in bigger penises. Bigger penis - bigger birth canal - bigger heads for babies. Human beings have outrageously huge members in comparison to any other simian. The worship of a bigger penis isn't something that is limited to men, and it most definitely isn't new.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:09 PM
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Whenever a guy mentions how he doesn't want his partner to dress in a vulgar way or post bikini pictures or go to night clubs pretty much naked ect, he gets labelled as being toxic, controlling and insecure. No, this is what happens when a normal guy bags a "baddie" who he found attractive due to these types of pictures in the first place. There are loads of women who don't engage in this behavior.
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