RosaDellaCasa Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	I’m worried he will cheat again		RosaDellaCasa	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/22 08:46 PM
8	To share or not to share, that is the question		RosaDellaCasa	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/22 01:16 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	I'd hate to come off as desperate, but I can't let him go. How do I drop a handkerchief? Actually it’s excellent advice. She’s had a glow up and wants him to see it without losing her plausible deniability. Messaging him directly with her photos would be in unfeminine, pathetic and desperate. Posting on social media is very normal. I’m a beautiful woman and I like to show it. Attention is the most powerful currency on the planet. You clearly need more confidence. Hiding away is not the answer.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/05/23 01:11 PM
2	Feeling guilt, what would you do? Tell him you gave a BJ to someone else and watch him lose his marbles. It would be very entertaining frankly. He sounds like a waste of space. I can’t understand why you would feel guilty. He’s in your past. Move on and this time have better taste when choosing your next bf.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/05/23 01:05 PM
5	I'd hate to come off as desperate, but I can't let him go. How do I drop a handkerchief? Yes it is your best shot. If he’s interested he will reply to a story or slide into your DMs. Men are so visual Instagram is perfect for catching attention in a subtle way	/r/RedPillWomen	11/05/23 03:34 PM
18	I'd hate to come off as desperate, but I can't let him go. How do I drop a handkerchief? Honestly if he had been interested he would have made a move by now. The only thing you could try would be if you have him on social media like Instagram - add some pics that show your glow up.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/05/23 03:18 PM
1	What music artists makes you most feel in your femininity? There is a song called Water Witch by the secret sisters. It instantly boosts my femininity	/r/RedPillWomen	23/01/23 10:21 PM
3	Why are some women obsessed with independence? You are an adult woman who can’t swim and is nervous about hiking? You sound like you think it’s 'cute' in an endearing and feminine way since your husband has to 'protect you.' No. This is very concerning. There is nothing attractive or feminine about being unable to function normally. Hiking is walking…why do you need your husband‘s help to walk? Feminine women receive. What you describe is incompetence. Quite different.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/01/23 11:44 PM
11	Help! Am I overreacting ? Fiance caring more about sales lady feelings than my own? I live in Europe and have Ukrainian and Russian friends. The communication style is very direct and can easily border on rude (to my perception, not theirs!). I think this maybe just be a cultural divide between you and your fiancé. Next time frame it more positively and you may notice that it’s easier to get what you want then if you say it directly. For example, “these are lovely but I was imagining a very elegant and thin band. Do you have more something like that?’” Or if you don’t have the …	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/22 01:28 PM
2	Upper class men marry educated women Of course they are his thoughts - that’s literally what we are discussing. Twitter is just as credible as YouTube shorts or whatever other podcast you watch him on. It’s all the same lmao I gave you proof of him advocating for men to cheat as a test to their woman’s loyalty. It’s wrong and you should admit it	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/22 01:53 PM
5	An Article About Dating For An Effect (or at least TB's commentary about it) In my case what I currently do - I swipe right only if I find him personally attractive (I get a match almost 100% of the time). Then we chat and if I like his vibe or energy I keep talking till he asks for a date. Whether it continues to a second/third date etc. depends on attraction/chemistry/compatibility levels for both parties. To be ruthlessly honest - If I was truly as desperate as the advice in this post and I cared more about marrying then who I marry, I would join a sugar site and marr…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/22 01:04 PM
1	Upper class men marry educated women Here he is actively encouraging men to cheat on their women: https://twitter.com/cobratate/status/1603394586885652481?s=46&t=kfQPZDsTTbE-vwaTCJZeEQ Causing pain to others for an ego boost is wrong, encouraging other men to do it also, is evil. Next?	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/22 12:41 PM
3	An Article About Dating For An Effect (or at least TB's commentary about it) This sounds pretty torturous. Honestly I would rather stay single then force myself to feel attraction when it isn’t there	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/22 12:35 PM
3	Upper class men marry educated women Tate said that men should cheat on their women as a loyalty test and if she stays then it proves she loves. He’s advocating causing huge amounts of pain, there are far better ways to test a women’s love without irreparably damaging the relationship. That’s evil.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/12/22 08:37 PM
1	A Sexuality Struggle, I Guess I was uninterested in men until 20 and didn’t lose my virginity till nearly 22. Now I’m 27 and love men and dating in general so don’t stress. Some of us just take our time :)	/r/RedPillWomen	29/11/22 12:13 PM
1	Do you offer to split the bill on the first date? This is extremely unattractive because your mindset is so unmasculine. I want a man who takes charge, a leader amongst other men! Such a man would never ever let me pay for his meal because he is far too proud. Letting me 'treat' him on the third date would make me feel like a lesbian	/r/RedPillWomen	29/11/22 11:38 AM
6	Am I a bad GF (25F) to my SO (27M) in a scenario? He sounds extremely immature for his age. That’s rude to speak like that to anyone let alone his girlfriend. Why does he think it’s acceptable to use such ugly language in the first place. I would not be able to maintain attraction to someone like that…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/22 09:06 PM
2	I find it difficult letting guys pay the whole bill Honestly for sugar babies it’s perfectly reasonable to not lift a finger for the check.. that’s kind of the whole point!	/r/RedPillWomen	02/09/22 11:21 AM
1	Trying to view men in a positive light: impossible I’m friends because it gives me a window into a world I would never otherwise know. It gives me an upper hand with men and the way they think. That’s smart.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/22 08:01 PM
13	Trying to view men in a positive light: impossible Actually my judgment is not clouded at all. It’s realistic. Of course, like OP, I have some great men in my life. They are men who have loved me, are actively in love with me or are related to me. The fact they personally care for me brings out their higher-self. Through my guy friends I get to see the way that men are towards women they don’t care about at all. It’s very ugly. As a woman it’s imperative to know this reality so you can protect yourself. Being aware has nothing to do with hating …	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/22 05:43 PM
26	Trying to view men in a positive light: impossible This is a really interesting observation and I’ve made the same observations about men my age (I’m 27). Like you I have a wonderful father and brother. However I have noticed what you mention with my guy friends. One of them will literally send me pictures of the girls' he is dating or having sex with and say really insulting things. The cold way he discusses them and their (objectively beautiful) looks is honestly upsetting because it’s so mean. When men are comfortable with you, the things the…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/22 04:51 PM
0	I regret that my first time wasn’t with my husband. Be happy about it! Obviously it’s good to be picky about who we sleep with. I think of it like how awesome that you also had sex with someone else and don’t have to experience the same dick only for the rest of your life. Think of all those women in history who would have envied you so much! Why feel shame and guilt? I’ve slept with 3 men and I’m currently single. If the next man I date becomes my husband I’ll be very happy that I experienced the other men. I would do the same all over again. I’…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/08/22 04:58 PM
12	HVM and sexual escalation Just so you understand what you are saying here is that you will have sex at the same time with any man… Does not make much sense. You completely misunderstood. 'Any' man is never even on the table. If a woman finds you unattractive she will NEVER sleep with you no matter what you do or how long you wait. There are no amount of rules you can pass to win her over. Unattractive = doesn’t count because you’re not in the equation. If she finds you attractive (subjective) she will sleep with you if s…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/22 10:08 PM
23	HVM and sexual escalation The idea that a woman will 'break her rules' for you if she’s attracted enough is an idea many RP men repeat ad nauseum. It’s false. A few years ago I was in love with a guy, found him so attractive that I fantasised about having sex with him at least once per day over the 2-3 months that we dated and yet I never once slept with him. He wasn’t the right man for me because he pushed sex before I felt secure in the relationship. This caused him to end things as he said he couldn’t deal with waitin…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/22 09:41 PM
1	Meeting men when you don’t know where you want to live? Europe is beautiful. Austria is stunning landscapes, mountains, lakes, old medieval cities, culture, class and and high quality of living. You also have Italy, Germany next door and the beaches in Croatia only a few hours away. Stop worrying about time. It helps no one. See this time as freedom and a new chance for the best adventure of your life. You are still young - use it to enjoy life. Take a month long trip through Europe amd see if Fall in Love (literally or figuratively) with any specifi…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/22 08:58 AM
1	Sex Premarital, Casual and Otherwise After many years on this sub under different usernames I can say that you have always given off very creepy vibes and finally it all makes sense! The way you sexualise children in this comment is beyond disturbing.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/05/22 07:13 AM
1	When to have s*x with someone you date? Wait till you have commitment then? It’s not that hard. Either you have sex or you wait. Depends what you prefer.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/22 10:21 AM
1	To share or not to share, that is the question Interesting. My dad has never ever questioned my mum on her spending habits ever. I believe you though thah this guy would. I think that we probably have completely different concepts regarding money.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/22 02:35 PM
1	To share or not to share, that is the question What’s mine is yours, but I still want to mdd add jd my small but stupid eBay purchases in private. Hahahaha this is perfect and exactly how I would envision things. Having to calculate and ask my husband to spend every penny feels so claustrophobic	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/22 01:56 PM
1	To share or not to share, that is the question Thanks. The idea of some shared and some personal accounts would also be something I consider. But he basically said that he would only agree to a shared account if both are really frugal and have the same investment goals. To me this sounds like every penny needs to be recorded and I feel pretty claustrophobic at the idea honestly.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/22 01:53 PM
1	To share or not to share, that is the question Yeah well this is the thing. It feels very much like he wants the benefits of marriage but wants to use all money he earns on himself. The idea of having kids gets really complicated then…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/22 01:46 PM
6	I’m worried he will cheat again Yes this perfectly encapsulates my feelings on this whole experience. Thank you for your very thoughtful response. I am seriously evaluating whether to end this relationship	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/22 10:03 PM