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Being able to do the bare minimum as a parent and still get showered with praise? This is extremely subjective. And the others are benefits in life. What about dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:03 PM
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Then they should be more mature and not do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:52 AM
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I view anything more than 24hrs as them not caring or being disinterested. Everyone checks their phone at least once a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:06 AM
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I have update to this! She got a 20k bonus from her job and used it to buy a new car for him. Still not dating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 10:55 PM
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Hospitality industry (bartender, flight attendant, hotel concierge/manager) THIS. I live in vegas and it’s so hard to trust women in this field.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 06:08 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:40 AM
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Post history checks out
/r/PussyPassDenied20/12/21 05:27 AM
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I don’t plan on dating her lol just still getting over old feelings. Thank you though!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:32 PM
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I have actually been on both sides of this. Recently me and another girl got close but she had a lot of personal issues and told me she didn’t wanna date me because she would end up self sabotaging us. This led to her being very flirty towards me and being very jealous when I showed interest in other girls but every time I asked her about it she insisted she wasn’t doing it on purpose. One day I told her to completely stop with the behavior, we got into a big fight and she ghosted me for a while…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:59 PM
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Of course vetting can go wrong. I’ll give you a personal example. About 3yrs ago, an old friend and me reconnected (we’ll call her K). When I first met K, she had a bf and we were all part of a friend group in college, so although she was attractive, I never made a move. Eventually we graduated and went out seperate ways. Flash forward to to 3yrs later and K had come back to town and being a decent person I offered to hang out with her. She tells me the story of how her and her bf broke up, her …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:35 PM
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If you’re an ugly guy, (you feel) she must be desperate. Pump and dump her If you’re an average guy, hot = crazy/unreasonable expectations a lot of the time. Plus if she knows she’s hot she may be open to other guys and leave you for someone “better” when it comes. If you’re an attractive guy, there’s other options (back to my point for average/ugly guys) and this girl would need to separate herself from the pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:58 PM
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Come on bro. You’ve never given a friendly bj before? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:55 PM
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Women can go without sex and still feel validated because they get a lot of validation from numerous sources. That doesn’t happen with men. We don’t get compliments or anything that often. And sometimes when we do, it’s manipulation. Have you actually done anything to show this guy he is attractive? Or have you just talked about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:44 PM
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People lie all the time. For all he knows you’re just saying these things to get attention from him. A girl that likes me, that won’t have sex with me is basically just a friend or acquaintance. Basically, he just wants evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:28 PM
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So tell the guy at work you’re already seeing someone? Wtf lol A crush without any sex or dating is just a crush. It doesn’t really mean anything. Tell the guy what’s up so he can go do his own thing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:06 PM
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Not always obvious. that’s why he’s asking her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:34 AM
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Or maybe he really likes one of them and wants to ask them out for that reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:28 AM
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The vast majority of women also wear makeup. Does your argument take this into account?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:23 PM
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If by drugs you mean dick, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:52 PM
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Of course I do. But it’s gotten to the point where it’s affecting my mental health to try and help her. She is not blocked and can always contact me. I just need to set this boundary for my own mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:51 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:38 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:38 AM
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Previous comment explaining
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:38 AM
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What’s really crazy is, she’s only like this with him. If the rest of us even somewhat disrespect her or treat her badly, we get chewed out and never get to live in down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:36 PM
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Lmao yooooo it’s lowkey that actually. She said sex with him is great
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:33 PM
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Tried. She thinks we’re all jealous and being unreasonable. She says we’re asking her to give up her best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:32 PM
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We literally outlined all this and many other things for years. At this point she either doesn’t understand it or completely understands and is in denial
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:31 PM
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I swear it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:30 PM
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If you could somehow plant a seed of doubt in her mind, her neuroticism will likely take care of the rest. Oh man are you in for more disappointment lol So this guy is a SUPER anti vaxxer. I mean the full blown conspiracies about microchips and everything. Him and his family also make racist jokes all the time. He has no career (changes jobs constantly but never gets promoted/moves up), no home (floats between his moms and brothers homes), and has extreme debt. Im a 6’5 230lb black guy and he’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:30 PM
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Bought a girl a Christmas present and a Valentines present within four months of knowing her. We never ended up dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:31 PM
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I’d say more immature than anything. I feel like just about any and everyone would be open to someone doing this much for them while not asking for much in return. It’s just the vast majority of us are more adult than this, would realize how evil this is and also, don’t like to take advantage of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:21 PM
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I tried to help her. Everyone has for years. At this point all we can do is let her get hurt with him (AGAIN) and try to pick up the pieces
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:58 PM
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is she conventionally attractive? I personally don’t find her attractive but other guys do ask her out and stuff so I would say she’s at least a 5/10. is she educated? High school only. But in Nevada which is 48th in education so do the math lol does she have any friends? Yes. But not many. Not saying she wants more, she’s just an introvert. does she have special needs? No. I want to know more about this woman and what factors would make her so compelled to do that. So to make a long story short…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:54 PM
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I know. We’ve all tried to get her to understand that this behavior is very unhealthy and not good for her. We have tried for years, and recently I just couldn’t take it anymore and I cut all ties. I am still here if she ever needs me, but I can’t sit and watch her do this to her life anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:15 PM
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I have numerous examples of a friend with low self-esteem simping hard. For background, the guy she is simping for took her virginity 10 years ago. Yes she’s been simping for 10 years. Whenever this guy gets a real girlfriend, he ignores/blocks my friend until they break up and she comes right back to him every time. She is always giving him oral, but he has never even kissed her. Not once. Yes I’m serious She used to drive eight hours one-way every weekend just to fuck him but was rarely allowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:02 PM
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If guys here are really saying that, I’m just different from most of them lol we’re more or less on the same page
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:05 AM
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”Omg she had anal with ex once 20 years ago and now won't do it. Obviously she's not giving you her best" But your argument only applies in this specific scenario and ones like it. Now if we change it slightly and she did anal with an ex throughout their entire relationship, but won’t even try it with her current guy, I think the husband/bf stands to feel some type of way. Sex and sexual attraction is important, but if this is proof of "love" I'm calling bull. All of your examples were very spec…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:20 AM
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I'm not saying it isnt. I'm saying that tying sex to "love" and "treating you better" is absolute bul. Why do you feel this way? A dead bedroom would be a clear indicator of a relationship with issues Generally all of the above. Obviously if I had mental issues I wouldn't expect my partner to not have mental issues. I think the phrase you meant is “I wouldn’t mind mind my partner having mental issues if I have them” I don't need someone who has life figured out. I need someone to be on the same …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:47 AM
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⁠Apparently the metric of my love is whether or not I had sex with you early Sex is very important to some people. If you find someone like this I don’t think you guys would be very compatible anyways. Forget literally anything else about our relationship. It doesn't matter if I have emotionally supported you or built a life with you. I fucked some guy forever ago earlier than I fucked you. For me, this only applies if you were a hoe/cock carousel Or tried something with someone else that I now …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:52 PM
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Yeah this post made me cringe so hard
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:54 PM
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I was referring to OP‘s original comment. She stated that there’s such thing as average personality. By that measure there should be some sort of ugly/bad personality as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:12 PM
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Right that’s why you deleted your post lol you’re so open to discussion that you had to run away from it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:55 PM
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Then what exactly would one consider a “ugly” personality? Personality traits that can be bad for society can be beneficial in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:52 PM
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Anecdotal evidence is always hard to debate. I admit I have my own biases because I live in Las Vegas
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:50 PM
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Oh now I get it. Thank you. Most men are “assholes” to each other by the definition I gave. It’s just for the most part we don’t really care. To us that’s just honesty. Think of a chat room during a video game and how vulgar it can be. If you’re use to being insulted like that, this “asshole” behavior how I outlined it is nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:42 PM
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Who here is whining about being average? You’re the one who brought them up. It sounds like you’re assuming based on your own bias or you’re projecting. I’ve seen plenty of average (or people I would consider average) who are very interesting personality wise. What I’m getting from you is attractive looks automatically = fun/interesting while unattractive automatically = boring/self pity. Just admit you wouldn’t give anyone “average” a chance already and stop trying to gaslight us like it’s men’…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:40 PM
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Average to me means middle of the pack. They’re not super ugly nor attractive. I imagine their personality is a big factor but OP said that average people are boring too. I don’t understand how you measure “average” personality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:33 PM
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Yeah so I see the worst of women everyday because they flock here lol I have decent female friends but I’m overexposed to the BS
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:31 PM
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I’m not even sure what you mean. Could you elaborate please?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:30 PM
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My point is you’re not here to understand/learn. You’re here to be right. You’re the one that posted. You were looking to talk and debate. Don’t get mad because someone disagrees with you and you don’t like the way they’re talking. ^ ironically this was my exact definition of how women perceive what an asshole is and you’re just proving my right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:28 PM
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No I just live in Las Vegas.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:26 PM
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I’m fairly certain the men who get a second chance know what’s happening, they just don’t care. You’d be surprised how oblivious we are Because nobody likes average people. They don’t have many redeemable qualities. No redeemable qualities? You’re gonna have to elaborate. It’s a better trade off to bet your chances on somebody who’s atleast attractive and has some personality than somebody who’s as fun as bread. Are you saying average people can’t be attractive and they have boring personalities…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:59 PM
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Only self justified assholes think they can’t be in the wrong But here you are insisting you’re not wrong. I do find it hilarious you’d say it in a sub like this when the comments are usually incels with zero self awareness circle jerking each other and thinking they “figured women out” Doesn’t make me one of those incels lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:57 PM
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That’s a lot of assumptions being concealed under objective statements like “women can’t see themselves as assholes” so I’d prefer not to debate it out. “Women are never wrong” is literally a stereotype repeated by women. Maybe you don’t say it, but it’s a generalization that even most women agree with. It’s a perfectly valid statement/point by that measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:49 PM
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It’s easy to debate it out but a lot of women do give men lots of second chances and benefit of doubt if there’s even an iota of chance that he’d mend his ways, just for her. Yeah but the women keep it to themselves. They don’t tell the guy any of this. Then when she does break up with him, he feels blindsided but in her mind it was already established this was a possibility. Edit: this also sounds like something that only happens with chads. Date a guy, find out he’s an asshole? Give him anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:44 PM
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No it’s very much a gendered problem. We men call each out on our BS all the time. It’s not a problem for us for the most part. If I don’t like how Hank/John/Michael is treating me, I’ll tell him or not talk to him. He’ll either change or not talk to me. You tell Michelle/Amber/Jasmine you don’t like how’s she’s treating you, YOU are at fault for bringing it up and because she doesn’t feel like she’s being mean you are also wrong and your feelings are now invalidated. Women can’t see themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:39 PM
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An asshole to women is someone who says something they don’t wanna hear in a tone they don’t like. A lot of women will call you an asshole for speaking the truth all because they don’t wanna hear it/don’t like how you said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:14 PM
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It’s not going to sit right with some of you hoes but men in the past were actually glorious. They built civilisations, fought wars, died for the dignity and honour of their families. Ruled kingdoms and shit. And throughout all this history women were submissive. Wonder what changed Men in 2021: Broke, uneducated, sit on their fat ass and watch Netflix all day, chase pussy on online dating apps. Women in 2021: still make less than mem on average, just as fat as men (but society allows and arguab…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:20 PM
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Tell him the coffees gonna get cold followed by wake up bj.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:18 PM
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She’ll never see it that way though. She’s a prize /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:01 PM
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Or she doesn’t see her own faults and therefore doesn’t see the need/have the desire to break up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:21 PM
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True lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:06 PM
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Well it is entirely possible that all these guys were assholes. But then I have to question her decision making ability
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:32 PM
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The real question is, does Sarah blame all her ex’s for the breakup or does she take accountability for her actions that led to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:09 PM
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Yeah well her reasoning is that she has forgiven him and I should as well. She’s failing to realize it’s not his fault. It’s her fault for doing all those things without a title or any commitment on his end. This extends into her friendships as well. In her mind, she meant to do well and therefore can’t be in the wrong. But when it comes to any form of relationships, outcomes are more important than intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:55 PM
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Yeah well I’m her only friend who had it in himself to tell her how terrible it all is and how she’s responsible for nearly all of it and how she should definitely not let him back into her life even if it’s just as friends. Now she doesn’t wanna speak to me because I’m being “mean and not supporting her as my friend” lol no accountability for her actions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:47 PM
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Were they ever actually friends? Because if they were, he should lay down the fact he's never going to commit, so she eventually gets the message. Well that’s the thing. He’s never promised her anything beyond friendship. We have all told her the relationship wasn’t healthy. When she asked him why they couldn’t date he literally told her “you’re good enough to fuck but not good enough to date.” And then a few months later he got a girlfriend who told him that he can no longer be in contact with …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:33 PM
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Guy looks like Dan Bilzerian. I can’t think of anyone who looks like my female friend to be honest. But she is not very attractive. I think he’s the only guy who has shown her enough interest to be FWB and that’s why she latches on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:27 PM
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He only moved about 3 years ago. Met in high school. MySpace days. The reason this is all relevant is he just moved back to town so it’s all gonna start again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:32 AM
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He was your standard buff/stocky white guy with a full beard who wore oakleys and loved to work on cars. I hope that answers your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:14 AM
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100%. We all told her he was just using her but she insisted he wasn’t. He did a lot more but there’s so much to get into.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 08:44 AM
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She lives out of state now so I only see her/talk to her when I want anyway lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 08:23 AM
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I mean I understood that but the way she explained it was terrible and a huge turn off lol For example, she literally would drop her friends’ phone calls if he called, would drive 5hrs each way every weekend to go see him, put $5k worth of upgrades into HIS car using her own credit cards and flew him out to Texas when she was on a work trip. Then she gets to me and says she won’t put in that same level of effort?? And she expected me to still wanna date her lol And to make things crazier they’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:48 AM
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I rejected her and told her those reasons. According to her I wasn’t a rebound. It’s been about 2 years since then and she still likes to bring it up if/when we’re arguing so idk what’s going on in her head
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:59 AM
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I had a friend who had a long time FWB who she caught feelings for. I use to hear about this guy all the time and how he was great/terrible depending on the week. They were FWB for about 6 years and when she asked him to make it official, he rejected her. Less than a year later, she told me that she had feelings for me as well and asked me out on a date. She made a point to tell me she would never put in the same effort/dedication that she did for him. It felt insulting because I know she was on…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:19 AM
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Well it’s technically a societal issue so Asking either gender to fix it on their own wouldn’t really work. Plus the original comment you responded too said The whole world is waiting to help a woman in need. A man in need is an object of scorn that some other guy might well ridicule for fun. Women will also think you are unmanly which will further drive down your value in society. So for guys where is the incentive to actually become more sensitive? Yes it would make us “feel” better but it’s n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:10 PM
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We can reach out to each other to an extent. But because most men have never received the type of support you’re suggesting, it’s hard for us to give it to other people because we don’t know what it looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 06:59 PM
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You know what turns woman on? You know what is on every wattpad fantasy? Him spending an hour winding her up by being just so hot. so masc. Then telling her EXPLICTLY how she effects him to. So men doing all the work as usual?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:26 PM
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I'm going to blame the lying POS who chose to lie. Soooooo you’re gonna blame the women who lied to him before when they said they didn’t want sex? Awesome! Finally women holding women accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:25 PM
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I am a guy and I’m straight lol so this could be my bias being a man not seeing it as much in other guys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:32 AM
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Oh I know plenty of guys are this way lol I just notice in significantly more in women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 06:48 PM
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⁠Doesn't take themselves too seriously and doesn't have an ego. Especially the ego. I know so many women who always wanna say how they feel about every little thing, get the last word in, passive aggressive, etc. For some of them it’s hard to grasp the concept of not being the center of the universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:30 PM
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The examples she gave of people "using their openness against them" were literally noticing someone has a problem with fucking up, and calling them out on it. It wasn't, like "I told my gf I was insecure about my weight, so she called me fat in arguments to belittle me," it was literally remembering and caring about a person's materially relevant flaws. I didn’t really grasp that from the comments I replied to, but I get it from yours. were literally noticing someone has a problem with fucking u…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 01:05 PM
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What does this have to do with people opening up? How did you even answer OP‘s post?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:38 PM
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Men are paranoid about this because they think that their partner will lose attraction for them and he’ll no longer be able to have sex. There are so many stories of this exact thing happening to guys. It’s not paranoid if it happens all the time. The closest analogy for a women age is youth and beauty, which is why some older women are so concerned that their partner will cheat on them with younger women. I like how you call the men paranoid but you don’t call the women insecure. Your bias is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:36 PM
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The way you typed it you sound like a girl bro lmao Since you’re a man I fully expect you to know how to handle this like a man lol either tell them what’s up or don’t and lead them on and deal with the consequences of that (good or bad) when they come up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 08:16 PM
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It depends on how you reciprocate their actions. A guy buying you drinks/flirting with you and you accept the drinks/flirt back? Yeah then it’s wrong of you to entertain it. But if you set the tone at the beginning, then it’s on them to respect that. Ex: *Guy offers to buy you a drink, you could say something like: “before I accept this drink, I want you to know I’m not looking for anything romantic/sexual. I’m open to being friends though.” You might not make many friends though lol and some pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 08:01 PM
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Yes it’s that hard. I Put in my two weeks notice at a job and a girl I would sometimes say hi to but never really talked to, found out I was leaving and spent the last week talking to me every day whenever she could. She even made a point to share her interest and tell me how handsome I was. So on my second to last day, I gave her my number and offered an activity I thought she would like. She said she would let me know if she had time and took my number. Didn’t see her on my last day and never …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 07:39 PM
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Oh OK lol my apologies, I’ve I basically misinterpreted everything you’ve said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:30 PM
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Because why the fuck am I even alive if it's not to feel good and enjoy life as much as possible? Are you telling me you’ve never had a time where you had to disregard your short term/immediate happiness in order to have a long-term happiness further down the road? For example, someone might study for a week straight and not see their friends in order to pass a test in order to graduate college. But why would understanding be enough? Well the whole point is to fix whatever is making you upset. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:15 PM
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I guess that’s just where we differ lol I don’t ignore my emotions, they just don’t dictate my overall day. Why do you try so hard to feel good all the time? Isn’t it normal to experience the full range of emotion throughout a day? I am not saying that when I’m upset I just ignore it or reject it. I try and understand why I feel that way instead of just trying to make myself feel better. Is that just me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:35 PM
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Doesn’t it get tiring to have your every day dictated by how you feel very moment? Like yeah I have bad days but it’s more of a background feeling usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:31 PM
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You seem highly emotionally driven
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:18 PM
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I’m trying to convey a bigger point but I’m not doing it well lol I am asking you, why do any of it? Why do you just not feel good about yourself already without those things to the point where you don’t “need” the extra boost? For example, does it change your behavior? Do you act more confident after you do these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:09 PM
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Yes but why makeup? Why not your hair? Or nails? Or a nice shirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:03 PM
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I mean I don’t know your life and maybe you “need” that boost but I personally don’t need that extra jump every now and then. Sure it’s nice to feel that good but I usually feel good enough about myself to where I don’t “need” it. I must ask, do you feel good because YOU like your makeup? Or do you feel good because society has taught you that’s what looks good?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:53 PM
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It just seems like a lot of work if I already feel good without it? My point is I don’t see why go through all this extra work if you already feel good about yourself without make-up is all I’m saying
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:39 PM
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I feel good without make-up, I feel even better with make-up. I look really good in a suit. I feel good without a suit but I feel even better with a suit on. Therefore I should wear a suit out of the house…..often?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:36 PM
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“Herself” so she can get attention from others
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:00 PM
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guy says some stupid shit and cockblocks himself Yeah but like what constitutes stupid shit? Like I’ve been canceled by a girl because I said I like a certain type of music she doesn’t lol is that really where the bar is?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:57 PM
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Where did I make a generalization about society? All I did was point out that there are definitely cases were women was still fuck men with so called unattractive traits. When asked to be specific about how many, I gave a number that is significantly less than “mainstream society.” And even then I acknowledge that this number was based on anecdotal evidence from my own life so it’s probably wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 05:44 PM
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Plenty = a decent enough amount to where you could argue it’s a significant portion of the population. There is no number on it but if I had to give you one, I’d say at least 10-20%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:57 PM
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I mean plenty of women get into full blown relationships and have babies with men like this so they’re definitely fucking them at least once. How could we have this discussion without purely debating anecdotal evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:43 PM
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we would have fucked had he not said or done something unattractive Define unattractive here. I think we’ve all seen many men still get laid despite displaying many “unattractive” traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:16 PM
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Plugged in my own stats: -not married -black -at least 6' tall -not obese -earning at least $30,000 per year 0.47% of the population. Removed race & not obese: 5.1%. On paper I am drowning in pussy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:41 PM
1

My apologies. I should’ve read the rules in more detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:02 PM
6

Have you seen Honey Boo Boo’s mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 11:33 PM
5

This was me with a girl back in December. Now we hate each other and don’t talk. She’s in love with her idea of you, not actually you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:46 AM
2

Bro I live in Vegas 🙃
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre29/07/21 09:38 AM
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Pussy is more than men have to offer women. If that was true I wouldn’t be able to buy one off Amazon
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 09:17 AM
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Less people also = less resources necessary. Better for the planet as a whole if there’s less people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:57 AM
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Yeah I see what OP is going for but someone actually doing this would be super cringe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:14 PM
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you have to vet to find them by going through all the options, and it can be a large amount of bad ones. This is very time consuming and can even be dangerous (like getting drugged on a date). Men have to vet the bad ones as well AND it takes us muuuuch longer because they’re not throwing themselves at us constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:40 PM
1

literally meet all the criteria except the financial one but Im in college. So at least I know it’ll get better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:08 AM
1

I mean googling the subject matter pulls up a lot of results of various credibility tbh but this guy writes a lot about the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:56 PM
2

Actually this logic is supported by studies. Basically the higher body count you get, the Harder it is for those same people to form emotional bonds with their partners. Basically “you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife” is supported by science.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:19 PM
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Body count basically. How many people they’ve had sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:36 PM
3

Well I don’t necessarily agree with this woman, I don’t see how this post fits the theme of this sub.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 09:44 PM
1

Men bond from activities not feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:24 AM
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If you think it’s just relationships, try being friends with them. I had a female friend ignore me for 4 months because I asked her not to flirt with me while still hanging out with her ex (we were in the early stages of dating at the time). Now she wants to act like everything is all better because she said sorry but hasn’t changed any of her behavior. Smh
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre18/06/21 10:34 PM
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This 100%. What young me with high hopes wanted: a 10/10 body/face, college grad who made $100k alongside me and liked to travel but also stay in. What I’ll settle for now: basically anyone not fat/ugly who can hold down a job and I won’t get annoyed with after 2hrs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:26 AM
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I knew a girl who was like this. She told me “I am single, but my boyfriend is in a relationship.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 09:59 AM
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Then why are you having such a hard time acknowledging it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:19 AM
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Yeah exactly. But women don’t wanna acknowledge that he is pretty fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:14 AM
2

And the women on his show choose to listen. Do you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:44 AM
2

I never disagreed with you that Kevin was responsible for his own actions. But you seem to be under the impression that it’s his fault these women are getting berated by him. Nobody is forcing them to go on his show and talk. They’re choose to go there and get shat on. They know who he is and what he does and still choose to go on. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:41 AM
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Yes he absolutely is responsible for his actions. Just like the women who called and listen to him are responsible for their actions of not hanging up the phone. For example I could start insulting you right here and now. If you chose to respond to it, that would be your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:33 AM
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I'm only blaming Kevin for his actions, which are berating them. They are choosing to be berated by calling in and listening. Nothing is stopping them from hanging up on him. They choose to sit and listen to him. How is that his fault? It’s not Kevin‘s job to be nice to anybody. It’s not anybody’s job to be nice to anybody. If you choose to stay and listen to him talk shit about you, that’s your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:06 AM
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Nobody is being forced to do anything. They choose to call into his show. They know how he is when they call. You’re shifting the blame of women’s choices onto men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 12:43 AM
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This is such a bad take
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:20 PM
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I assume you commented just to feel heard lol it’s all good.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/21 03:52 AM
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Reddit is an American app with a primarily American user base and I’m American. It felt pretty safe to assume OP was talking about the US. Plus OP didn’t specify so it’s up to our interpretation.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/21 03:31 AM
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And percentage wise, white males are the dominant race and gender. Statistically speaking, they should have the highest percentage of suicides compared to other races and genders.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/21 03:25 AM
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Let’s assume that was 100% true. Maybe... and just maybe, it has to do with the fact that they’re the largest demographic by race and gender.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/21 02:58 AM
2

OK well then why would she be touching coils on accident over and over again? I mean how do you accidentally touch multiple hot stoves multiple times?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:11 PM
2

But in her example they keep touching coils on purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:22 AM
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In your stove example, the women thinks other stoves won’t burn her for some reason and keeps putting her hand on them, getting burned and then going “maybe the next stove won’t burn me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 10:30 PM
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I can’t tell you where to look but as an introverted guy living in Las Vegas, don’t come here looking for a relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 10:24 PM
2

From what I’ve personally seen you’re one of the reasonable ones lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:32 PM
1

What exactly do you consider great options? For me as a guy it’s: Not obese, not ugly, not crazy, and stable job
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:17 PM
2

Touché then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:59 PM
1

More short term options. Long term no. It’s the instant gratification in them/all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:33 PM
0

but I’m talking about single dads who have shared custody. Many single parents share custody of their kids but are still considered single parents. I read the statement wrong. My bad. What about those single dads?M The only thing I really have to say about that is, I don’t see single dad‘s posting on tinder with unfair expectations. Like, there’s no fat balding single dad‘s demanding that women have sex with them anyway. As far as I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:22 PM
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Not OP but I view single dad slightly differently. In order to be a single dad, the mom would’ve had to die or abandon her babies. That speaks more on the mother than the father. Sure he had sex with someone that was terrible, but she still chose to have the baby and essentially force it on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:57 PM
5

I love it when idiotic men like you tell women how they think and what they like. You are literally answering for her instead of letting her answer him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:33 PM
2

Thank you I appreciate the introspection
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:27 PM
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I work at night, 10-12hrs at a time in a warehouse, 4 days a week. I’m also a full time college student but do to covid, everything is online. And I live alone. So basically if I don’t meet someone at work, I’m screwed. If that makes me “below average” so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:07 AM
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I see what you mean. Thank you for clarifying!
/r/seduction26/06/20 02:45 AM
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I should’ve led with I’m a guy for clarification. But I we’re on 2 slightly different topics. When I think of someone being direct in their approach I think of it as respectful. Like “Hey, I saw you walking and I really think you’re beautiful. I’m on my way to work but would you be open to exchanging numbers?” Or something like that. I can see why your example is a HUGE no. But still. Anyone approaching me just making random comments about what’s around us is super weird to me. Like yes the weat…
/r/seduction26/06/20 01:35 AM
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I’m not trying to critique you I’m just confused. That seems inherently backwards. If someone came up to me and started just talking to me randomly about the weather, music or anything, I’m way more inclined to believe that person has ulterior motives. Why else would you walk up and try to be so casual? Who just walks to a stranger and says “How about This weather?” If someone’s more direct with me, I’m way more inclined to hear what they say because they didn’t try and BS me from the jump.
/r/seduction26/06/20 01:15 AM
1

Yeah that’s why this guys post sucks lol
/r/seduction09/06/20 05:53 PM
19

Oh great Lol now I’m super hot and still somehow lonely /s
/r/seduction09/06/20 10:42 AM
6

Lol I’ll become his hater and that’ll probably just make him more desirable.
/r/seduction09/06/20 10:39 AM
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Idk man. I make decent money, a car and about to get my own place. She still chose the 6’5 buff guy with the full beard and no job lol
/r/seduction09/06/20 10:30 AM
4

It taught me how to be a woman’s friend more than anything. And yeah that’s great but in the context of this sub, it made me less “seductive.” Even women i didn’t know started talking to me like a friend because that’s how I presented myself.
/r/seduction04/06/20 05:10 PM
3

Not all mY female friends played matchmaker. Sometimes it’s just not their thing. Think about it. Do you REALLY want you friends banging and dating each other? Imagine when fights and stuff come up or someone cheats. Now you’re thrown in the middle.
/r/seduction04/06/20 05:08 PM
1

You’re on a sub called seduction. What do you think the focus is here?
/r/seduction04/06/20 03:32 PM
13

I picked up some females tendencies and mannerisms that just weren’t manly lol
/r/seduction04/06/20 07:28 AM
13

Yes this exactly.
/r/seduction04/06/20 07:27 AM
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I am but I don’t see them as much. We all went separate ways and moved and stuff. Graduated college and what not.
/r/seduction04/06/20 03:34 AM
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Yeah mike I was explaining it was great at first but the longer I spent time the more I learned how to be a woman’s friend and not actually attract them. Don’t fall into that trap as well
/r/seduction04/06/20 02:14 AM
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Helped in the short run, hurt in the long run. It was great for all the reasons listed above. Great it gave me insight into how women think, how to talk to them and all that. But the longer I was their friend, the more feminine traits I picked up. It taught me how to be their friend, not their bf. The best part was they all had friends that I could try out different ways of flirting on. It was a win/win to because I was able to teach them about how to NOT attract and fall for a-holes. I also got…
/r/seduction04/06/20 02:04 AM
120

My female friends actually vastly outnumbered my male friends for about 3-4yrs. Immensely changed how I viewed approached women as a whole.
/r/seduction04/06/20 12:12 AM
5

Never heard the phrase before. Thank you I’ll look into it
/r/seduction28/03/20 01:15 AM
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This is actually fairly great advice. I look at hot women and automatically assume that they’re rude and possibly snobby. That allows me to approach them with more confidence, the belief that I might get blown off either way lol the “fuck it” approach if you will
/r/seduction27/03/20 10:07 PM
1

I grew up in a very old school conservative nuclear family household. Parents were strict. Father was very controlling and didn’t really let me experience stuff as a teenager. (No parties, girls, etc.) He was very much for “being a contributing member of this family” (whatever that meant). It didn’t help that we lived about 45min from school. I also wasn’t allowed to drive and there was no public transit nearby. I was also told that if i get a girl pregnant that i would automatically be kicked o…
/r/seduction20/03/20 07:36 PM
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Legendary
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