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FundamentalsRoseTinted64/r/seduction02/02/21 09:39 PM
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LogisticsRoseTinted64/r/seduction20/03/22 10:23 PM
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LifestyleRoseTinted64/r/seduction05/12/24 01:20 AM
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The object of texting should be to meet up in person. If your in her phone, your competing with all the other dicks. The best text game is to leave a good impression in person, or seal the deal that night with greats sex. She enthusiastically reply if your her best option.
/r/seduction12/11/25 11:09 PM
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This is gold. The real "insecurity trap", is when people tell you your insecurity is a flaw, when in reality it is a feature.
/r/seduction12/11/25 11:07 PM
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Yes I get what your saying. What I mean to say is that she's probably seeing other people. Thats what I meant.
/r/seduction19/06/25 07:32 PM
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Of the countless things you will be assessed on by a woman, scent is extremely low on the list.
/r/seduction16/06/25 10:46 PM
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This one made me lol. Well said.
/r/seduction16/06/25 10:35 PM
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I would take what she told you with a grain of salt. Hasn't been on a date in a year but she's on dating apps? I don't believe that for a second. She met someone else or wants to meet someone else. Spin more plates my man.
/r/seduction16/06/25 10:33 PM
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You might not be an 8. Guys who have options don't generally "looks max" and surely wouldn't know wtf that means. Meet more women.
/r/seduction08/05/25 02:15 AM
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THIS. I've gamed a lot of different cities in the U.S. Nothing beats summertime Chi.
/r/seduction02/05/25 04:33 AM
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Yea man I hear ya. Don't get me wrong, Chicago is an awesome city but the mid sized college towns are where your gunna clean up. I'm considering moving to Austin in the spring, or might go back to Chicago. If I roll back up to Chicago i'll shoot you a message.
/r/seduction13/12/24 10:02 AM
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Cheetah print shoes?....I'm listening haha. Sounds like an awesome night!
/r/seduction08/12/24 06:37 AM
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Ngl, this is absolute gold. I would say this represents the majority of cases. Legit c-blocks do happen though. Grab her insta and dip.
/r/seduction08/12/24 06:32 AM
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Hey man, I hope all is going well for you since you posted this. I just wanted to provide a little insight as I lived in Chicago for 3.5 years. Chicago, as great of a city as it is, can be difficult when it comes to game. I lived in a small college town in northern California before moving to Chi and had a similar experience you did. IOI's became way less frequent, dancing/make outs did as well. The thing about large cities, is there are a lot of attractive guys. If a girl has any sort of online…
/r/seduction06/12/24 11:23 AM
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I was never a huge fan of day game. Much prefer night game. If you have a couple of wings that you have a blast with, it can be so much fun. 2 Nights per week.
/r/seduction06/12/24 12:30 AM
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Is that love reciprocated? If you don't have any other options, most likely it won't be. Love is important but it doesn't correlate with arousal much.
/r/seduction06/12/24 12:28 AM
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Yep. Did the same thing about 7 years ago. Best decision i've ever made.
/r/seduction05/12/24 08:54 AM
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Low investment isn't a "mindset" or "belief". It comes from having options and genuinely not caring about the outcome. Spin more plates.
/r/seduction05/12/24 01:39 AM
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Women make rules for betas, and break rules for alpha's (not a fan of the terminology but the idea stays the same). I'm not saying your beta by any means but she most likely put you in that category. She claims to be poly, but still isn't sleeping with you. Cope. I'm guessing she totally lead you on with this. "Feminine Energy", translation, "you'd make a great girlfriend". She's playing you. Go for a third attempt and if it doesn't happen, completely cut her off and move on.
/r/seduction02/12/24 11:12 AM
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haha
/r/seduction29/11/24 12:51 PM
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Agree to disagree. I don't think men who are widely selected for on dating apps (4.5%-7% of men depending on your source), are selected for because they have a sense of "entitlement" or "self esteem". How you present yourself is important yes. For instance someone who is incredibly handsome could be very shy which could set off a red flag for women but the data speaks for itself. Anyone who thinks "physical aspects" don't play a role in arousal is lying to you.
/r/seduction29/11/24 12:49 PM
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You don't. Move on.
/r/seduction29/11/24 11:29 AM
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No offense, but if you were a 9, you wouldn't be having to work so hard to meet up with them.
/r/seduction29/11/24 11:21 AM
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If your having to send more than 7 texts to get her on a date, shes probably not that into you.
/r/seduction29/11/24 11:20 AM
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Take a dance class. Dance floor game has given me some of the best memories.
/r/seduction29/11/24 11:17 AM
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This is fantastic advice!
/r/seduction29/11/24 11:14 AM
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OP should absolutely be hitting on women in there 20's. Theres nothing wrong with pick up artistry, although some guys take it way to far. It is not a cure all. Be handsome, affluent and fun. You'll be just fine. Get back up on that horse.
/r/seduction29/11/24 11:11 AM
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I've been in and out of the game world for 6 years now. No matter how you slice it, there is always a degree of chance involved. People don't like to hear this, but looks, affluence, and game are the largest pieces to build consistency. All of these joined together usually indicate some sort of status/social proof. The next pieces (imo) are timing and consistency (as you mentioned). Even after 6 years i'm still blown away by how erratic results can be. Sometimes you'll pull the first girl of the…
/r/seduction29/11/24 11:04 AM
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"Whenever I read threads about dating getting harder for women out there, it is always women complaining about a guy who clearly has casual sex with several women but has no desire get exclusive with them. About 95% of the time."....this is absolutely spot on. I would like to add that being a man with options but simultaneously ignoring all other options will directly benefit her. Not the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:05 AM
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gender and marital status "neutrality" is why threads like this exist hahah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:00 AM
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I agree! Great perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:42 AM
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He was trying to explain that since women have more choice in the market, the "double standard", doesn't actually exist. If women want to have the "party phase", they can absolutely do so. But that doesn't mean they are free from judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:52 PM
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I couldn't agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:05 PM
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This is great advice. I have a friend that tries to open sets verbally on the dance floor and it’s borderline cringey. One downside of the “game” advice is that if we get no results, we quickly wonder what we did wrong. Women are a demographic as well. She may have a boyfriend or doesn’t see you as a viable option. You can bet that if she is attractive, her online presence can source MANY potential guys. More volume.
/r/seduction02/04/22 01:58 AM
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There is already great advice on this thread so ill try and keep this short. First off, 5 girls really isn’t a lot. Second, clubs are probably the worst places to run game, but the most rewarding because girls are usually dressed up and looking sexy. The downside is that they are well aware of this, meaning the can punch well above their weight class in this environment. If you approached the same 5 girls in another atmosphere I wouldn’t be surprised if you got at least a few numbers and maybe a…
/r/seduction02/04/22 01:53 AM
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I’m a bit confused as to why you even had to ask her out if you guys have been hanging out on the weekends. How many times have you guys hung out? Also, if she is 19 and attractive, she is going to have a TON of dating options. You need to pull the trigger sooner next time.
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:03 PM
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I would agree with much of this post. But I think the answer is somewhere in the middle. Work on your life as a man AND meet women. Working on “yourself” will not help you to understand women. Only chasing women will not benefit in the long run.
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:57 PM
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I’m curious why you think it will take over a decade to get your shit together. Jesus dude. Either way, anyone who tells you to get your finances in order before meeting women has no idea what they’re talking about.
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:29 AM
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Stop looking at women as sexual objects and instead approach just to meet them. Also, stop reading/watching material on game. This shit is 90% balls. Granted, the other 10% is where the magic happens. Anyone who says otherwise is either lying or inexperienced. JUST SAY HI
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:23 PM
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Looks get your foot in the door…thats it though
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:08 PM
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Shes a cat and your her ball of string. Move on
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:03 PM
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It sounds like she met someone else my man. Chin up and press on.
/r/seduction27/02/22 09:57 PM
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It’s called social proof.
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:21 AM
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By the looks of this guys reaction I’d say he probably doesn’t get a lot of girls.
/r/seduction05/02/22 03:26 AM
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That’s why guys like you and me are on reddit leaving comments lol
/r/seduction01/02/22 05:44 PM
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He was making this point to show the contrast between men who have zero options and men who have many.
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:15 PM
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Texting should only be used to set up a date. She might not be that into you, but since you have a mutual friend she doesn’t want to ghost you.
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:22 AM
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I quit because it made me anti social. I would say in general, weed makes you worse with women.
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:20 AM
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Any one on here who doesn’t understand social proof does not have much experience.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:01 PM
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It is.
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:58 PM
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A man who is with other women is already vetted.
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:57 PM
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I 100% agree. Most men can’t view the market for what it actually is.
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:54 PM
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Start a conversation then transition into “hey, can I get your number?”
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:35 PM
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You don’t ask for consent. If she tells you to stop, then stop.
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:32 PM
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I think the answer is somewhere in the middle. You can’t expect a woman to attach herself to someone she does not view as her best option. But yes, this is mostly due to how shallow women are. Keep in mind, this refers to mostly young, beautiful women.
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:31 PM
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Absolutely
/r/seduction25/01/22 05:07 AM
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How about you stop letting them use you??? Next time it happens call it out and never contact them again.
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:41 AM
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She met someone else or knows she can meet someone else soon. This is the game. Press on and don’t look back. Please do not believe that she will “come back when she’s ready”. Move on and mean it.
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:35 AM
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Cold hard truth: It sounds like your very inexperienced. Women often play the victim in order to get men to comply with what they want. “Hasn’t been with anyone in two years”? Dude this is a major red flag, wether its true or not. You completely fell into her frame and now she knows she won the game. “Just wants to live her life”, means she moved on. I know it hurts but these are the moments we learn from. You can’t be a battle tested man without gettin a couple scratches in the armor. Start tal…
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:29 AM
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Only talk to hot girls
/r/seduction23/01/22 05:47 PM
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Yea its kind of a sad reality but it is true. Women only find a small percentage of men SUPER attractive. Like enough to walk over to him and say hi. Social circle will help a little bit. IMHO most guys try and absolve themselves from the burden of performance and this is the biggest mistake. It will always be up to you.
/r/seduction22/01/22 02:56 AM
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I could not agree more. Stranger to stranger almost always means you will have to approach. Women do position themselves and send signals pretty often. However, I do have a friend thats really good looking and he gets approached at least 3 times a night.
/r/seduction22/01/22 02:43 AM
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Anybody who thinks that women don’t approach men, doesn’t have a handsome friend. Statistically speaking there are WAY more men that find women attractive then the other way around. Most men fall into the average category, which means it’s up too you to take initiative. Anybody who says “you’ll find her when you least expect it”, does not have experience and you shouldn’t take this advice. Spin plates and pick the best one.
/r/seduction22/01/22 02:38 AM
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Yea man, like I said, they live in another world. The amount of men who can actually validate her is a small percentage. I don’t really buy the fact that shes never been in a relationship though. She probably has but likes to play the card that she just can’t find anybody (appeal to empathy). Typical hot girl behavior. This is so she can get men to play the “savior”. Which im guessing you probably fell into. Just another shit test.
/r/seduction21/01/22 04:28 AM
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This ^
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:11 AM
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Could you elaborate more on where you went wrong? If you type it out I’m sure you’ll get a better understanding. MOST IMPORTANTLY : women like this literally live in another world compared to 99% of men. If she’s as beautiful as you say she is, she can most likely have any guy on earth. Another thing to keep in mind, if you have dated a 10, than you can date another, its as simple as that. Most guys say they want a 10/10 but truthfully its a total fuckin hassle. They will constantly have guys hi…
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:04 AM
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Great post. Keep in mind: women don’t “lose interest for you”. They simply gain more interest for someone else. Any woman who is average looking or above, is absolutely spinning plates. You should too.
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:27 AM
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Answer: Stop trying to keep them interested. One of the best pieces of advice I ever got was “talk to her like shes already your gf”.
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:23 AM
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Put in the work, have options, exude confidence. In that order. Good post
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:21 AM
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Yes, there are bad BJ’s lol
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:19 AM
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I agree with Extra on this one. BTW I hope you can tell that this was simply a shit test to gauge your level of interest. She knows you weren’t checking put any other girls. She’s pretending to be jealous because that’s the only game she knows how to play. She keeps other men jealous to keep them on her tether.
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:14 AM
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If your a man worth pleasing, she absolutely will. It’s not about if she enjoys it or not. Not all men are created equal in the eyes of women.
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:08 AM
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I think the important takeaway from this is to always be aware of genuine desire. A woman who genuinely wants to be with you/bang you will never send “mixed signals”. She won’t flake on you or play games. She will do everything in her power to BE WITH YOU.
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:05 AM
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This reminds of some old school techniques. Thats awesome. Social proof is everything IMO.
/r/seduction02/01/22 07:08 PM
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Women are just as sexual as men, but WAY more picky. If women are not making the first move with you, your probably not a top tier male. Men make the first move because we are LESS picky. Do you see what I mean? This isnt socially created, its biology.
/r/seduction01/01/22 09:57 PM
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You need to change the idea of finding a woman to finding WOMEN. Please stop considering a serious gf before you’ve casually dated. Stop thinking of approaching women as “socializing”, thats a complete cop out. Your not going out to “socialize”, your going out to meet women and you have to own up to that. Hit the gym first and foremost, without experience you will have an immense weight on yourself and stop trying to absolve yourself of this, you will fail over and over. If this scares you, your…
/r/seduction26/12/21 06:03 AM
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Do you have kids as well? If not, you should absolutely not pursue this woman.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:54 AM
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Going to a bar alone is fine. Find yourself a group that is focused on meeting girls. Going out with guys who are not into game is a total drag, even if they are your close friends. Go to a bar.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:39 AM
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You need to take a step back here and realize how clingy you were being. I don’t mean to bash up my fellow man here but 3 dates in 3 months means she did not have alot of genuine desire for you. If you find yourself in this position again, the second she says she is tired say something along the lines of “yea i’m pretty bored too, we can always grab a drink at my place before we call it a night.” Never forget, rejection is much better than regret. Also, never text a girl more than twice without …
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:36 AM
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It absolutely has a major affect. But be careful, I don’t think it elevates genuine desire.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:29 AM
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LDR is useless. Pursue other women. Stop wasting your time.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:21 AM
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Simply put: women have what men want, and they know it. Keep in mind, a womens sexuality is her greatest weapon in the dating market. For her to just throw it at you would simply make her feel less valuable. Value is based on scarcity, a women who pursues men repeatedly is simply less valuable than her prudish counterpart.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:20 AM
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She is testing you. Don’t take the bait (i’m guessing you already did). You have two options : 1) Don’t care (this can’t be faked). 2) Keep her as a plate, and pursue other women in the interim. Your very young, I recommend you casually date her and other women at the same time. Women test men like this all the time. There is a good chance she was absolutely pursuing something with emotions but couldn’t find it, then you came along. Women test men like this all the time. She wants to know if a p…
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:11 AM
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Confidence cannot be faked. If you're speaking in regards to your confidence with women, you don't have it yet, nor do most men. That comes in time. Stop trying to be confident. Instead, try being sincere. ​ Good luck and god speed.
/r/seduction02/02/21 09:36 PM
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These are both great answers. One thing that I heard someone say before was....agree and amplify. Agree and make it worse. You will soon find out that when your being shit tested you have to be willing to lose her.
/r/seduction02/02/21 09:33 PM
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Man, I could not agree with you more. I've been coming to this conclusion after four years of going out and "gaming". I read so many books, watched so many videos, podcasts, and talks related to the subject of "game", I could not even tell you. I wish we could all make the shift in a different direction. "Game" is nothing more than applied interest in women. The Information Age has run it's course.
/r/seduction01/12/20 04:08 AM
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What's up man, First off let me tip my hat to your perseverance. You're an animal in that sense. Now for the good, the bad, and the ugly. The good part is that you sound like you are well on your way to becoming a seasoned veteran in the game. I would say only 3% of men actually have the courage and fortitude to stick it out and have the balls to approach the way that you do. The bad part that I see here is that you seem to have mechanized this whole thing. Now I do understand that this is me ma…
/r/seduction13/10/20 01:58 AM
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I agree that making game the focal point of your life is not a good idea. But you said something that worried me. The "I just want to be done with it" mindset can be very dangerous.
/r/seduction13/10/20 01:23 AM
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This is a common mistake that I see a lot of people (guys specifically) make. Just because you are in college does not mean that you are going to strike it hard with the ladies. The only difference between college and post-college is that while you are in college, there is a much higher concentration of attractive women. Unfortunately, this does not remove the fact that women still want the best option they can get. So unless your in the popular fraternity, sports team, or social club, your kind…
/r/seduction13/10/20 01:16 AM
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What's up man, 29 Y/O here, hoping I can help out a younger guy like yourself. The reason you are so scared is because your going into it with the mindset of "what can I get out of this". All men do it, including myself. Your scared to interact with girls because it has everything to do with you and nothing to do with them. Question: When was the last time you approached a girl without expecting anything in return? Now I do realize that as a lonely guy, this is impossible to do. If I was you, I …
/r/seduction13/10/20 01:03 AM
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I wish I had a better answer to tell you but the fact is, the scarcity mindset comes from one thing and one thing only.....SCARCITY. I think the community has gone down a bad path with he whole "mindset" discussion. In the realm of dating, relationships, sex, women, what ever you want to call it, what it comes down to is that it is lifestyle first! Change your life, then your mindset changes, not the other way around. In order to have abundance "mentality" you have to have abundance. This comes …
/r/seduction09/10/20 11:17 PM
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I could not agree more with "great date guy". In today's society it is frowned upon when men are talking to multiple women but this is absolutely ok to do. You probably already know but it is called "Plate Theory". Spinning multiple plates at once, in case one falls of and breaks, no big deal. This is absolutely the way to go and something I wish I would have known when I was younger. Women are masters at this, they do it all the time although they do not want to admit that they do.They are almo…
/r/seduction09/10/20 10:58 PM
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Whats up Man, ​ Thought I would give a little advice coming from a guy who's been in this for about four years now. I strongly agree with hunterpua, there is not one approach to this. There are several different ways you can go about it, bringing your own personality to the table. Trying to act incongruent to who you are is a sure way for a girl to lose interest very quickly and shrug you off as a try hard loser. Now, the first thing I would say is this, there is a huge difference between those …
/r/seduction09/10/20 10:46 PM
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It depends on the person. If your very photogenic and show and interesting lifestyle, you should do fine on social media apps such as bumble, tinder, instagram etc. I'm not a huge fan simply because of logistics. You have to understand that women get DM's constantly! This leaves the average guy at a huge disadvantage. In my personal experience, I can count the amount of beautiful women I've matched with on apps, on one hand. I have WAY better luck in real life. I can't exactly say why this is. M…
/r/seduction09/10/20 10:29 PM
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