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Yeah, she sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:24 PM
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Maybe I just don't get why they have to divorce over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:14 PM
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If it were me, I'd say "Let's get your parents to chip in" which was one of the suggestions. Also I would downsize, or rent out some room. Then both people can work dream jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:40 PM
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Preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:38 PM
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So don't say anything and start immediately gagging and retching on the food to spare her feelings? I'm kidding but sheesh, eggshell walking sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:10 PM
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I mean, call it what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:53 PM
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Or....hear me out....she should let him pay if he says he wants to pay. Maybe offer to split the bill and when he vehemently says "No! I got this!" back down and accept the gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:07 PM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:32 AM
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The leverage my wife had in the relationship when we were younger has evaporated after 20 years. Does she know this? Is she crying at night?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:52 PM
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"Find a woman you hate, and buy her a house" has never been truer than in modern society. Wha...? I have never heard this. What does it mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:51 PM
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It's like these guys really think that if no one likes them, they must be virtuous and superior humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:38 PM
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So attractive = asshole ???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:10 PM
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Neither have i.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:55 PM
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EXCEPT there's terrible street parking. Oh dude, I know all about parking in LA. Pass. Keep looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:14 PM
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"if 100% of your needs are being met, then seek better' (as the OP posts). What if one of my needs is sleeping a full 8 hours at night? Like, sleep deprivation will cause my medical problems to flare up and I could die young? Is this person really worth not meeting this need?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:11 PM
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BMW is not that great, I would want a Mercedes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:09 PM
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but once you find that person don't be stupid and keep comparing them to others out there or keep raising your standards and expectations. This is called "scope creep"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:09 PM
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If you compare it to buying a house- why move into a crappy shack that needs a lot of work? Suppose you could get a really cool house for the same price- why pick the shit shack? And to push the analogy even further- you do not need to buy house at all, you could continue living as you are until you die rather than move into a shit shack where the roof caves in on you as you sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:08 PM
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Agree. If your life is worse with that person then you settled. Why would anyone want to make their life worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:38 PM
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I left him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:21 AM
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I would have been impressed with his looks, sure. But the extreme emotions I felt were a result of his personality beforehand. His charm, his voice, all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:21 PM
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It was like being struck by lightning. Granted, we had been talking on the phone for weeks before we met. Then when he walked into that restaurant it was like meeting a rock star.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:18 PM
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Yes, when I met my current boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:11 PM
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But you also cheated on your wife. What percentage of men are unfaithful?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:03 PM
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now washed up 40-somethings, watching helplessly as the proverbial rising tide of colour washes over them. Is there something wrong with more brown people?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:38 PM
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Why didn’t you leave ? Would you say your reasons for staying were self worth related? Or related to thinking you could fix him by not abandoning him? (The love it out approach) I did leave, but we did not live together or anything so it was easy to end it. The reason I did not dump him sooner was emotional attachment...but he chipped that away every time he was mean to me. By the time I dumped him flat, I was done. No regrets, no longing to reunite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:52 AM
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I doubt that OP is a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:33 AM
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I would not call the hit traumatic, but the emotional abuse was significant and left long scars. For years afterwards I was angry that I tolerated what I did, and why didn't I leave sooner? By the time I found out (much later) he got married I felt SO sorry for the wife. Like...what horrible crap does she endure all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:31 AM
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Good. Now if black pill could die out...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:19 AM
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Wait, so a celebrity sports figure has a trampy wife and this applies to everyone else HOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:18 AM
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Also, how does this apply to paying for friends or family? Are they all my whores now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:49 PM
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Exactly, what is this supposed to look like if not yucky duty sex with a guy you'd rather see as a friend? And the guys here HATE that, so why push for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:36 PM
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I was hoping to be 19-21st.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:02 PM
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Super controlling behavior escalated into all sorts of cruelty, even once he hit me in anger because I made a joke about him picking his nose. I left him shortly after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:01 PM
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Same here. The divorced women knew exactly what they did to contribute to the divorce. Everyone knew. Only one case where she was legit crazy and unmedicated delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:45 PM
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Not a single woman out there divorced and went "what was my part in that marriage failing?" And sure as hell nobody in her family asked her that either. Do you know any divorced people?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:47 PM
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Apparently we are supposed to see marriage as a job, and spouses are coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:32 PM
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Or maybe the other dudes did not follow through and she was left feeling like a burden? Or maybe she did choose those other dudes but nothing worked out? Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:33 PM
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I rarely can get through to you guys. Average dudes can be seen as Chad by a woman who loves him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:08 PM
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But he benefits, yes? So can you!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:56 PM
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Yeah, that's the whole point guys here keep missing. When a gal is in love, that man becomes a Hero to her. Chad. Even if everyone else sees him as an average shlub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:08 PM
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but their boyfriend is just some regular guy and theres absolutely nothing special about him. But they see him as Chad, that's the key. Average guy who is her sun moon and stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:07 PM
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I dated this one guy who would get pissed off if I looked out the car window and happened to see another dude. Literally just staring out the passenger window and a dude walks by, was apparently enough to elicit an acid "Was he cute?" and angry side eye from this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:35 PM
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That guy is still around?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:50 AM
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he MIGHT be called creepy for no reason whatsoever? Why can't you admit there is a reason? He is behaving in socially weird ways, not making people comfortable with his interactions?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:51 PM
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Because she is flattered by the fact someone likes her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:25 PM
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Because he flirted with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:53 PM
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It's pretty grim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:48 AM
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there's a reason why women all over the world are interested in American men Use use use use use use....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:21 AM
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They are mostly young larpers nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:21 AM
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And she replied by doing that list of things you made up?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:34 PM
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Have you ever had a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:26 PM
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That's what most of them are already doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:25 PM
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This may be the first time I have agreed with you. Protestant work ethic, checking in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:18 AM
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She's done for, practically handicapped. That poor woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:16 PM
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That's fine for you. Other people have other priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:12 PM
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Ah, so you think falling in love is not a reason to do anything different with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:03 PM
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I upvote every comment you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:26 PM
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Just my experience. I live in the same area and I see all types of people coupled up, myself included. Extremely demanding people must be a minority, or you just focus on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:17 PM
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Don't you people ever fall in love???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:15 PM
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I could only read the abstract, the rest is behind a paywall, and so far it looks like correlation with money and income is the cause of unhappiness. Not being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:56 PM
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Most men are at least partially bisexual. Lots of straight men experiment with other dudes after puberty. They never consider themselves bisexual but they have gay experiences in their youth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:37 PM
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I am friends with artists and people are more open about these things in art circles. Lots of gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:31 PM
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Most of my male friends are bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:26 PM
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Does it say All Women? That is what you implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:24 PM
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What studies? I am straight, most women I know are too. If all women are gay/bi, lots of things would be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:24 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:09 PM
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I was just thinking that!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:05 PM
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As a hottie myself, I never considered this question because I never thought in these terms. I don't care about height or whatever guys on here value so damn much, I like what I like and personality goes a long way. Does he flirt with me? Is he charming? Is he skilled? Does he dress well? Is he masculine? These things matter, and the baseline for looks also matters but it's not some 6 foot Chad trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:42 PM
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Do you know a lot of bachelors who never married? I sure do. They have no one to remind them to take care of themselves or see a doctor, so the cancer is missed and the heart disease is ignored. One friend had a stroke all alone in his filthy apartment and would have died if not for his (female) friend calling that morning at random to see how he was doing. She heard his slurring his words and called 911 and saved his life. I know so many others like this, and if they don't have close friends or…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:35 PM
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but they simple don't age as well as men. Beg to differ. I am 52 and just last week another male friend died and the list keeps getting longer and longer. The number of friends and acquaintances who die at age 60 is staggering but only one or two were female. It's the bachelors who die, of heart disease or cancer, and alone in their homes. It just keeps happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:20 AM
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Household income under $100,000 In a professional position (doctor, lawyer, etc.) Does not compute,
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:17 AM
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Also, single women are less happy and more likely to be mentally ill. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:03 AM
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By that logic, people who are attracted to underage humans do so because those kids are high value. See how stupid this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:48 PM
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I sure don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:03 PM
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Quetiapine That is hard stuff. Made the insomnia vanish, but so did all my emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:02 PM
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That only leaves attraction. And attraction when broken down comes down to rarity and value. If a man meets the qualities of a rare man that women would crave over that means he is a catch. That is not how individuals are attracted. It's childhood experiences and their parents, combined with other aspects of the brain that have nothing to do with "value" like some housing market.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:04 PM
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Time to buy a motorcycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:38 PM
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I think so too. I have known people living large with RVs and big houses and nice neighborhoods on teacher salaries, and it was massive debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:35 PM
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Time to dress goth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:33 PM
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He had no family or friends left. All dead or gone. No women knocking on his door. No idea his body count but he was divorced too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:14 PM
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I am sorry to hear that about your country, but I was talking about sexual abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:25 PM
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Where do you live? Western country?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:23 PM
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Very rare these days but they do exist out there, and even rarer still, not the sexy kind of broken man but the actually broken man that no one wants at all. Surprising, really. But nowhere close to representative enough to argue that most men’s complaints on women’s preferences aren’t valid Do you know many people who were abused as children?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:22 PM
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Lowest on the totem pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:13 PM
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Again you can't compare this with height for men, at all. Yes I can. You have a preference that most men don't share, and I have a preference that most women do not share. I like short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:13 PM
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They were on their forties when they married. Her previous husband was a felon. Not a chad felon either, an omega. No boyfriends to name. She was one of those girls who just never got male attention, so she married the first guy who came along. And no, she was never fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:11 PM
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Clearly you have never been into the Renaissance Faire. People that work there are very slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:09 PM
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No options as in no woman wanted him and he would be seen as unattractive by the vast majority? Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:06 PM
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You've never see a woman with a manly body? Broad shoulders, no waistline, narrow hips? I have. Not trans, just android in shape by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:05 PM
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It went like this (bear in mind I was young and dumb): "Hey, so why don't we go out? You and me? I think you are really cute." "uh, yeah, you are cool and all but I prefer a different type." "Oh? What type is that?" "Bigger breasts, more goth, and more conservative, more submissive, ya know, not like you." At this point I am confused because I was (at the time) conservative and submissive. "So...you don't want to go out with me?" "Well, I mean we can still hang out but not as a couple."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:59 PM
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My best friend is married to a guy who had no options and makes less than she does. A lot less. Hypergamy is just something I read about on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:55 PM
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You know me! I was told SO MANY TIMES that I was not a "real woman" due to small boobs. Rejected due to small boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:47 PM
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most women who don’t desire all of these things want at least two of those boxes checked, I want the following: Sexy confident masculine personality Dark ethnic features, big nose Lots of body hair Deep voice Good smell
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:42 PM
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As hard as it is, you are better off never talking to him again. He will ruin whatever happiness you have, and even if he can't help it, he will traumatize his children and all other loved ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:21 PM
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Happy? Yes I am :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:17 PM
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and they're interested in the debate But are they really?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:17 PM
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No. I can think logically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:16 PM
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You see how this makes no sense? People with loads of free time and no job will do their civic duty, and thus hog the votes. People with jobs and responsibilities beyond Soldier or Juror will not get to vote. So guess what will get voted in?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:16 PM
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Because you hit them with a dart gun and they are unconscious?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:42 PM
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a trade that directly effects and maintains our infrastructure in some way. So should I pick up trash next to the freeways for four years so I can vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:40 PM
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We are not angry. This question gets asked all the damn time, and here we are again, so the feeling is boredom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:36 PM
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I think a civic duty of 4 years should be required and completed for anyone to attain the right to vote. Civic duty like jury duty or like serving in Afghanistan?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:32 PM
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Autistic people are more prone to being tricked or manipulated. Should we take away their right to vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:23 PM
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Correct. The problem here on PPD is they are locked into this 6 foot Chad person in their heads, which is not what I want at all. I like very different characteristics and seek them out, but then I get told I am lying and would rather have a tall man with whatever traits. The guys here don't believe women have types.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:18 PM
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This explains so much. Thanks for typing it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:03 PM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:21 AM
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Social skills are a big part of the content.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:26 PM
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you may have resolved your issues with your partner (or tried) and took a less fatalistic view than the one you did. I mean, you have no way of knowing it was “going to end anyway” because you dumped him. Oh I know for absolute SURE it never would have worked. We stayed in contact over the decades and a lot came out that confirmed my decision. Holy crap. As to the part about society judging me, go ahead. In reality no one disagreed with my dumping him since they thought he was a know it all litt…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:20 PM
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Do you think these sad lonely guys just want you to fuck them? Do you really believe that's all they want? That's all you guys talk about!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:41 AM
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This world built by other people, that you have no interest in maintaining Do you mean men? Do you mean maintaining men? Are we supposed to be fucking those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:18 AM
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I am autistic and have trouble vetting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:56 PM
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Mostly women. But I had a couple boyfriends who criticized the hell out of my appearance, all the damn time. It was a negging tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:41 PM
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It's better to work on your fears. YES. Had to overcome fears by facing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:38 PM
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I don't get that because the vast majority of women get daily reassurance they are attractive to the opposite sex. You are not a woman. We are regularly told how we need to improve our skin, hair, clothing, body, posture, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:35 PM
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I think it's lack of life experience combined with being indoors playing video games too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:12 PM
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this sub is choke full of bad faith trolls, including paid shills to disrupt conversations. You guys are getting paid??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:11 PM
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I agree. Even in Christian circles I push back against the modesty trend as I see exactly what it's all about. Bikinis are awesome, ugly clothing is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:09 PM
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Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:42 PM
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This matches my experience with younger coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:42 PM
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Same. The guy and I were not getting along, it sucked, and then I noticed his friend was nicer. So I nicely dumped him and started dating his friend instead. No overlap. It was going to end anyway, so I fail to see how this was immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:07 PM
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Why have your girlfriends divorced? Adultery of the husband, criminal activity of the husband, husband turned out to be gay, and mental illness on Both sides. Also addiction issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:57 PM
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Most divorces occur because of abuse, adultery, and alcoholism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:56 PM
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This is objectively false.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:08 AM
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::checks for the wrong one::
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:27 AM
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Have you stopped to wonder why Houston is so cheap? I lived in Texas and everyone knows Houston sucks. Hurricanes every year, horrible traffic, swampy humid weather, no zoning laws, just bad. So yes, you can live in Hell for under 200,000.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:15 AM
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::checking for my aura::
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:12 AM
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We don't know why that house is selling for so cheap, but it's very abnormal. Maybe someone was murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:11 AM
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Time to get off the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:14 AM
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Seems like a lot. How do they study for exams?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:05 AM
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I imagine it must be terribly sad and depressing being a bluepill woman. Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:35 AM
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When women hit that last wall they really start to understand what life is like for men at default. That little 99+ notification thing you ladies have with endless guys trying to court you? Yeah around 35 that starts to decrease quickly cuz you don’t have any fertile years left With all due respect that makes you useless to any man that has dreams of a family or a proper relationship. No guy wants to start off with a menopausal woman. I met the love of my life at age 44. We have been together no…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:22 AM
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Please enlighten us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:13 AM
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You are 19 years old and you have dated 20 woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:36 AM
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Dude, I lived in Texas. You can’t bullshit me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:04 PM
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Provide proof for anything you said
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:51 PM
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You just made all of that up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:50 PM
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You are twenty years old and never married so you know this how?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:48 PM
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You are twenty years old and never married so you know this how?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:47 PM
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Why is she with a guy she does not like?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:45 PM
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Could you please Google? It's so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:44 PM
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honest LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:43 PM
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They are more sex positive, so more sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:42 PM
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From what I see, average guys get girlfriends and eventually marry one. Average guys have kids. Average guys get divorced at the same rate as everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:07 PM
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All a man needs is chicken, rice, meat & protein powder. You are going to be soooo constipated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:30 PM
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I want to buy a car wash and run it with my spouse. This guy with thick eyebrows might sell me one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:29 PM
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You hit the nail on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:21 PM
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If a women is mildly dissatisfied in a marriage and wants a divorce ( many such cases) Dude, tell me you are young without telling me you are young. Most divorce is not due to "mild" issues, it's alcoholism adultery or abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:18 PM
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Why was chaos and drama necessary? What chaos?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:13 PM
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Dox myself? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:25 AM
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But if you are focused on weight loss, skip the weights. Swim laps for an hour. DUDE I have been doing this for a year and it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:00 PM
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They’re still human and build muscle with the same mechanics men do Sure, I did that and lost no weight whatsoever. I lifted and lifted and only got fatter. It turns out that calorie restriction is the real deal, and I got on pills and lost 30 pounds due to no hunger drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:49 PM
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But your initial mistake was saying that if someone only eats when they are hungry, it's almost impossible to get fat. You were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:48 PM
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I found this out the hard way. Boy howdy did I ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:44 PM
2

It's roughly 1 in 10. That's not rare. And there are plenty of other disorders that can jack up your hunger drive- I had one myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:42 PM
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In this thread, fatties demanding men being attacked, as they desperately try to derail the question. In addition fatties making excuses for being fat. I am nearly underweight. Not fat. Not making excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:40 PM
5

More women are on diets or go to women-only gyms. Like pilates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:38 PM
1

Uncommon? PCOS is incredibly common. You just need to study more biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:34 PM
4

If you eat based on hunger alone, it's almost impossible to get fat PCOS and Cushings beg to differ
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:21 PM
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::shrug:: It's your own hormones that want you to put on fat, and all the systems in your body urging you to eat more. Biology. As you age, it gets harder to maintain a slim cute figure and stress produces cortisol which makes you gain weight. Lose the stress, it's easier to slim down. Is it really so hard to understand the hunger drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:09 PM
3

For fuck's sake, is there really such a thing as a "pick me!" woman? Yup. I used to be one, so I know all about it. Throwing yourself under the bus to please man, it's stupid and humiliating. Also rarely works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:26 PM
2

Being a Pick-me is being manipulative. It's pretending you are happy with something in the hopes that he will eventually do the thing you secretly want. Exactly, it's all pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:24 PM
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I hang out with a ton of artists. Most of the men are bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:20 PM
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Actually, yes. I used to believe that pro life men cared about unborn babies and wanted to protect them, that was why they hated abortion. Red pill men showed me this was not true- most of them hate babies even if they fathered them, and loudly proclaimed that if a girlfriend "baby trapped" them with a pregnancy, they should have nothing to do with their own kid. Atlas be Shruggin also pointed out this truth, and she is red pill. I changed my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:40 PM
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$200,000 and child support would be separate from alimony. So she would have a decent place to live there is not a house or condo for sale at less than half a million, and that is in the cheap area of California. She will blow it all on rent in less than ten years. back to living in her car.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:21 PM
2

just an alimony ceiling of 20% of the man's accrued wealth is probably enough. So she can live in her car and raise the children on the public welfare?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:08 AM
1

They clearly think you are good looking enough to date some girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:55 AM
1

I like small hoop earrings on men. My boyfriend wears these.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:53 AM
2

For example I don’t recall seeing an Indian male. Maybe all the women just have a preference for Indian men I sure do. I like what I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:49 AM
1

. they act as if getting a girlfriend is so easy for people like us Like you? In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:46 AM
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I am deferential and he seems to prefer that. So I let him lead. Notice that it's performative.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:45 AM
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And it doesn't mean they're having more sex than bisexual women. Trust are, they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:55 AM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:08 AM
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Most men I know are bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:07 AM
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Women have a much higher body count than men do Source on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:45 AM
2

Men have no idea how huge of a commitment marriage is for a woman. She's betting lots of things and her life will never be same after this decision. She can potentially live the remaining life in poverty if this one decision goes wrong. If she loves you, she will marry you for sure one day. Rushing it will only create doubts in her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:16 PM
2

Draw furry porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:10 PM
1

There were many tidbits of his that helped our relationship life exponentially, and our relationship is by no means traditional. Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:27 PM
2

My apologies It's cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:30 PM
1

No, I dated him because he flirted with me at a Renaissance Fair. Height is not some magic spell, it was just height. I left him for a guy as short as myself. Oops! Red pill disproven again!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:04 AM
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The most abusive guy was a DnD nerd with no chin. He was tall, maybe 6'2" but in a goofy way with no muscle. Not chad. Balding at age 20. Cried and pouted in public. Not manly. He was insecure and thus lashed out in order to put himself above other people. Hit me in anger once. I dumped his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:59 PM
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But I was taught that nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:57 PM
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OK, buddy. I am game: There was an attractive guy who was a dick but I broke up with him anyway DESPITE him being hot. Oops! Red pill is wrong I guess. Want more anecdotes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:37 PM
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Don't believe me huh? Because you have so much more wisdom? Point out to me all the hot men you dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:32 PM
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Friend circles, church, other RL social places, nerd hobby groups- you sometimes think about dating people you know and it's not infinite. It's "Who is the cutest guy here?" not "Who is the cutest guy in the universe?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:24 PM
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It's kinda hard to believe in this day and age, when women can all afford to have higher standards and competition amongst men is tighter, that an average joe or loser would treat a woman badly fully knowing it's going to be hard to find another one. Well the best looking guys I dated were not the assholes, the insecure ones usually were. The way it seems to work is "I better tear her down a peg" and then he tries to put me in my place with verbal abuse or negging. You know, so I will have low s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:22 PM
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There is less reason for an average woman to cherish and value a man's attention and company Why? Maybe she loves him? Maybe she thought he was better than this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:20 PM
1

She should leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:16 PM
1

i’m reading wuthering heights next That one is grim. Let me know how you picture Heathcliff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:15 PM
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So most or all of these complaints are just women chasing Chad, assuming you agree with the logic. Dude, no. You can even ask gay men about their dating stories. Some dudes just suck, regardless of how they look or if they have "options" and some women are manipulated into dating assholes who hide their crappiness for the first few weeks or months.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:05 PM
2

The boyfriends who treated me badly were NOT chads by any stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:03 PM
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You've got it backwards. Women and loneliness create redpillers. One doesn't become redpilled when all is going well for you. The redpill is bitter, and we frequently refer to redpill moments. A moment where you realize how much you've been lied to. So the Red Pill is all because women hurt some guys feelings, and thus dudes invented manipulation tactics as revenge. So what if a woman has her feelings hurt by men? Is she supposed to go all Female Dating Strategy and Jezebel some innocent men as …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:21 PM
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yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:48 PM
5

have you ever been told that you need to be more understanding of your husband or boyfriend because he is just more emotional? I was taught that the Bible says men are better than women and thus should be obeyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:17 PM
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This is the correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:16 PM
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How exactly are women mistreating men? You already know what these guys will say to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:15 PM
1

WHo was the Queen Bee she referenced?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:12 PM
3

Yup, it's projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:44 PM
1

::shrug:: How would I know? Never married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:13 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:12 PM
1

Best ironic answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:07 PM
3

What religion are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:07 PM
1

Why would I want to be celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:06 PM
2

Because fornication is a sin?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:55 PM
3

In my case, religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:50 PM
6

I know right? The jokes just write themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:54 AM
2

but plenty of good news for 21 year old men of 2100. Arranged marriages and global warming?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:50 AM
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A lot of the guys here want super skinny women, but then complain about anorexia? Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:15 PM
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5
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:36 PM
2

She was nervous shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:35 PM
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church gossip is toxic as fuck. Can confirm. One reason I left my last church.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:17 PM
1

Would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:17 PM
2

I think a lot of women just can't comprehend male directness in both conflict and regular conversation, and assume there must be some multi-layered interaction going on all the time. WHAT DID YOU MEAN BY THAT???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:07 PM
3

Are you infrastructure?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:20 AM
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Yep, that's me- upending families and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:47 AM
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Every gesture, smile, idea or laugh about anything is all fake because they are incapable of guilt and remorse. Who is "they?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:45 AM
2

Is the bear racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:40 AM
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Could this be more racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:26 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:41 PM
3

It was a gross Jordan Peterson quote they shared around. When I pointed out it was disgusting, I was downvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:40 PM
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Personally? Don't care. I never have to worry about this issue so it never comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:55 PM
1

Some of us are prudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:51 PM
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Most women do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:46 PM
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I'm a flat chested lady and I grew up when big tatas were the rage. Sure. It sucked. Same. I was regularly reminded that I was not a real woman and shamed for something I could not help. Oh well. I just date leg men and ass men instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:46 AM
1

But as a man who doesn’t have much of a sex drive, possibly asexual, and prefers gender role reversal Would it even matter if you don't date?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:44 PM
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A small proportion of men are having all the desirable sex. And you know this because you fuck men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:38 PM
1

Why would anyone? Low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:35 PM
2

I put my earrings in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:58 AM
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How does this person drive a car???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:37 AM
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Alcoholism is more common in men than women. If women are catching up, what does that mean? Plenty of drunk dads out there. I for one do not wish to see more drunk moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:36 AM
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I am picturing a grown ass man wearing a onesie and holding a teddy bear and his face bears a sheepish grin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:28 AM
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Like do you make yourself smaller to pass a woman then just shoulder check tf out of dudes? For real, this cracked me up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:25 AM
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If some dude came up to me and wasn’t making eye contact, fumbling with “non threatening items” and talking in a high pitched whisper, I’d think there’s something wrong with them. This.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:23 AM
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So they are alcoholics, and should not be having kids. Seems wise for them to reman childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:10 AM
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Are those women all single and childless?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:44 AM
2

So what should depressed people on anti-depressants do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:41 AM
2

Most people are not hypergamous. They date and marry their peers. Red pill grifters lied to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:56 AM
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Omg my shameful despicable choice to be with my boyfriend. What punishment do we deserve for dating men? Basic math is one to one gender ratio in most countries and most people are monogamous. So for every boyfriend there is a girlfriend. For every husband there is a wife. Cheating is bad and cheaters lie but that does not throw off the number of monogamous relationships. According to you, nearly 100% of women are all Bouncing on Chads and acting as a harem. Yet that is not realized in stats or …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:26 PM
3

So many fallacies, so little self awareness…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:52 PM
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What makes you think someone who Is single and childless made poor choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:07 PM
1

You just made all that up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:02 PM
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Matching sex drive. You might have a hard time finding this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:42 PM
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All three.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:19 AM
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The inkwells have nothing else to do on weekends
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:03 AM
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Am I still allowed to pick someone I genuinely want? Or is that being policed?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:26 PM
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Oh dear, I forgot to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:14 PM
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I said where is your monogamous man who “doesn’t get women”. Why are you lying through your teeth? I have receipts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:13 PM
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If you really cared so much about monogamy, where is your monogamous men. There is so many men here on Reddit who say they are lonely and look for no other girls, yet you aren’t with them Literal WHAT??? UH...you need to put down the gin and switch to coffee this early in the morning. I have a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:07 PM
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"All I see around me everyday is dudes making effort to be better versions of themselves and girls literally doing the exact opposite, the whole fitness movement for example was pretty much carried by dudes" Do you not have sisters or female friends? Women are constantly dieting and exercising and talking about how to improve their looks. It's the whole beauty industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:05 PM
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Please factually prove it’s not true You are the one making whackadoodle claims, so the burden of proof lies with you. As for apes, which apes? Chimps are all about free love for both males and females, lots of sex for all. Orangutans are not social and only come together to mate and then leave. Are you talking gorillas or gibbons? Which apes? See how silly it is to cite claims that have nothing to do with your argument? You have no proof of anything you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:59 PM
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None of what you wrote is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:12 PM
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Patriarchy is rule by fathers, not rule by any man that happens to shack up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:39 AM
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Hypergamy is marrying up, by definition. This has always meant higher social standing or money, and was traditionally arranged by the parents and not the woman/girl. She did not choose, the family did. Later when people were allowed to pick their own partners, they picked based on who they actually liked- assortive mating. So most couples are looks matched and roughly the same intelligence and social standing. There are outliers who marry for money and that is hypergamy. But finding a hottie is …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:53 AM
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Both. Lots of emotional pain but also strict work ethic and values. Still undecided if this was a good parenting choice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:27 PM
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But to answer your question, yes. My father was like a drill sergeant
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:55 PM
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I am really hoping that you are not being dirty
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:44 PM
1

Oh that . I figured anyone over the age of 20 was too mature for such games
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:33 PM
1

How is asking questions a shit test unless you are doing it in a passive aggressive manner?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:23 PM
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So you just made it all up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:22 PM
1

I have absolutely met this type
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:22 PM
2

I can relate to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:19 PM
1

What happens naturally? Manipulative games? Psychological warfare? Pretending to forget your wallet? Does any of this sound honest and direct to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:16 PM
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Facts? What facts? All I hear is opinions. Where is your proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:53 PM
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Are men raised by wolves? You learn values from your parents, it is human. Women are no less moral than men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:47 PM
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You would filter out all the red pill dudes by making them wait for sex. They would show their cards pretty early.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:48 PM
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most fathers are weak, pacified, and scared to say no to their daughters. Those daughters then grow up in in an environment where morals aren't stressed, so morals aren't a strong consideration Opposite of my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:24 PM
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my shit tests. Why shit test? I want a guy who is direct and honest. So be honest and do not shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:20 PM
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a very helpful book called why does he do that, strongly recommended to all women with concerns about this. I loved that book, and it's free online.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:43 PM
2

I want to date an RP guy Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:03 PM
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Or…maybe the conspiracy theories are fake
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:51 PM
3

Yes, he had agency and is allowed to not want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:42 PM
10

Is it ok to prefer a woman with bigger boobs than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:20 AM
1

Would you hit it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:31 PM
1

Is that a Stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:29 PM
1

Lovely romance right here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:06 PM
1

52
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:36 PM
1

I never did
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:21 PM
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Access to sex. Let her know you phrased it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:17 PM
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This is a hard lesson for some of us
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:10 PM
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None of my friends did that. We were all prudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:56 PM
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Sure, why not. But most people are monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:54 PM
1

I am not peering into their bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:53 PM
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It's really the key to everything. Only in pillosphere. IRL I don't know a single person who does AFBB.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:51 PM
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I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:49 PM
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Are you sharing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:24 PM
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"They are actually just looking forward to taking care of obese, saggy single mothers, tatted up and wrinkled, with over a decade of accumulated emotional baggage (no offense). Tale as old as time." What is your mother like?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:21 PM
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Hard pass on polygamy. Most women would not want to share anymore than men want to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:18 PM
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Do you not love anyone in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:44 PM
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Yup, I dumped his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:42 PM
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Ask her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:42 PM
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Stick with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:41 PM
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his height made him desirable compared to shorter dude who shares similar features. That is what you got from OP? Maybe she passed on the others dudes because they smelled weird. Maybe she passed on the other dudes because they were not interested in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:34 PM
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In pill world, the most important factor is height. Just...makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:33 PM
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Thanks for the r/im14andthisisdeep
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:31 PM
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I dated a tall guy once, who had no chin and was a massive DnD nerd studying electronics. Was he a Chad to you? He cried and sulked like a kid at the Renaissance fair when he did not get his way. Is he High Value?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:30 PM
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Seriously? You think every tall dude is a Chad who slays? Even if has a face like a boot and he laughs like a hyena?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:28 PM
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In pill spaces, there is no love. Only SMV and "status" and such things. So you pick a person based on an Excel spreadsheet of data like you are betting on sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:23 PM
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Orcs ranting in real ife?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:21 PM
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My coworkers and I would rant about work with each other, and really go off. One of them (a dude) would even get emotional and throw things in his venting state. It was fine, we all knew him and he was not violent. But if he had been ranting about "women" and how we are all whores, then threw a chair across the room, I would be frightened and back away. Just stick to safe subjects like work rants.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:18 PM
2

Are you ranting to her about work or your personal life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:15 PM
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He is blind to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:14 PM
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Orc Logic: I read something on the internet, it must be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:06 PM
2

This does not describe anyone I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:57 AM
2

No idea. All types.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:55 AM
2

How would you know? He might have women on the side how would you know? I dated nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:52 AM
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Personally I think what's actually happening is that women's narrow preferences are causing them to date the same small percentage of attractive men who are dating multiple women. I never did this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:50 AM
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Maybe they were in a relationship and it ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:44 AM
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"And lastly, do women undergo the same process of behavioural remoulding and suppression as men to fit desirable mens preferences?" Yep, 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:02 AM
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Relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:10 AM
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Interesting article, but every single one of those women were "content creator" entrepreneurs? Uh...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:44 PM
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not being willing to make any sacrifices. What sort of sacrifices? Goat blood?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:35 PM
2

I tanked my chances with eyeliner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:34 PM
1

Men better be on the grill I was planning on grilling bratwurst, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:09 PM
1

I never felt attracted to men based on the traits you listed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:33 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:35 PM
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the child is in non maternal care for more than 20 hours a week (less than 3 hours a day)have really bad outcomes. Hear that, Sublime? Your kids are going to be thugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:58 PM
7

Not relevant. I'm well informed on the literature here. So is everyone on Reddit!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:55 PM
5

So how many kids do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:39 PM
15

Trust me Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:30 PM
13

This post feels like it's just trying to argue for limited educational (and by extension, career) opportunities for women under the guise of "think of the children". You nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:24 PM
13

Oh trust me, money means a lot to a kid's life. Little Lisa gets braces or little Timmy gets special tutors or hey, maybe we just don't live in a van down by the river?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:19 PM
18

Fuck the career. Fuck money. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:03 PM
11

Oh shoot! I guess we should all pack it up and become trad wives because you said so. It's your talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:00 PM
8

Have you heard of this new thing called Remote Work?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:59 PM
17

Some women value the arts, their careers, their hobbies, etc. more than being a mom. Not according to OP. Our wants do not matter to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:58 PM
12

Women's "careers" aren't even that well paid most of the time. Not that many become doctors. Weird. I guess no one ever gets a good career or anything in your world. I wonder how my sister managed to become a doctor? Must have fantasized that or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:56 PM
12

Your rules would mean most women would not bother at all with getting pregnant since they would not be allowed careers or financial independence. This puts them in a vulnerable position. What happens if shit happens? No money. Everyone starves. Why would people agree to worse lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:43 PM
3

are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:37 PM
5

Gilead is beautiful this time of year....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:35 PM
15

Enjoy your falling birthrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:34 PM
4

but i think that childless people should be paying much higher taxes. Should infertile couples suffer more, ya think? Really rub salt in the wound?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:32 PM
24

OP is mad at his mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:32 PM
2

Ditto. I am always the one who ends things, since age 19. Why watch Rome burn?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:31 PM
1

Heathcliff was dark and ethnic so maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:30 PM
2

If you want anecdotes, I was always super youthful in appearance. I was in my thirties and people all assumed I was a college kid. In my forties everyone at work thought I was 27. It was confusing and honestly made me uncomfortable because when they found out my real age they seemed to act weird around me. Disappointed. Now I am 52 and finally showing some aging on my face and neck and it's a huge relief that no one thinks I am 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:28 PM
15

What if they don't want kids? Or they like the idea of being a working mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:23 PM
2

Forcing anyone to be drafted, carry a pregnancy to term, forcing violence, forcing suburbanites to mow their own lawn instead of hiring someone, forcing jail sentences for minor crimes, etc. Sounds like prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:21 PM
1

So you want a Sharia society where people get burned at the stake or stoned. Nice. Great examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:15 PM
1

Society would be more fair. Right, because its sounds like communism to me. Force people to do things, no more freedom? Awesome. Good talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:12 PM
1

Force women into those roles. Not just give women cozy nice jobs. Genuine LOL, how old are you? Why would you want to force people into jobs they do not want and would purposely fail? Have you ever been forced into a job? Also, who is giving women cozy nice Jons that they did not earn? Do people in your country get jobs from some lottery system?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:10 PM
6

what you deserve How does one determine what one deserves?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:59 AM
14

Where do I go to cash it in?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:39 PM
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How is this different from the current way of doing things? I pay taxes and my bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:26 PM
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No, once a woman has lost attraction it's over This is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:10 PM
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Do they even WANT love? Healthy relationships? A friend? It all sounds like war.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:09 PM
4

Good summation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:13 AM
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I'm always open to find a woman who is straightforward and honest. That should be easy. Will you still accuse her of lying and manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:40 PM
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although many women here will lie and say that's not their type. Why would we lie on an anonymous forum?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:32 AM
12

This one genuinely cracked me up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:56 PM
2

Absolutely same answer, What is the point if you are not in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:46 PM
1

Ugh, same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:13 AM
2

Hormones are a big one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:10 AM
1

I don’t know her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:21 PM
5

I too have asked this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:49 PM
3

So what would happen if a fat girl developed a crush on you and started giving you attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:45 PM
2

Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:33 PM
1

Vague. I look inward and am full of self doubts and self deprecation already.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:24 PM
2

I am trying to understand what people mean when they say things. For years I have been hearing this one accusation against women never being "accountable" and the answers are always vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:14 PM
2

It was not a gotcha, it was a genuine question. Why are you upset??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:09 PM
1

and I'm leaving the country in 2 weeks anyways So what is the goal here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:07 PM
9

He wants to be allowed to spit in your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:00 PM
3

So is accountability all about who women are attracted to? Is that what this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:43 PM
2

You can read his whole manifesto for free online, but be warned- he is insufferable. He thought he was a hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:35 PM
1

He was literally planning on killing his family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:34 PM
3

See, men on reddit are always accusing women of "not being accountable" and how women have no "accountability" but when pressed what the means it always comes down to empty words. So she just says she's the one who fucked up? Is that all guys want? Easy and cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:33 PM
1

Not his mom, just his dad, stepmom, and sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:31 PM
2

It’s refreshing to see them take some accountability In what way? Blame themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:28 PM
7

I read his entire manifesto. Never once did he try talking to a girl or asking one out, he expected women to all approach him for sex. He had a massive ego and thought he was too good for most things, like jobs, and the entire mindset was self-absorbed and hateful. He hated anyone who was not white, despite being mixed race himself, and he was planning on killing most of his immediate family after the attack. Just a sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:26 PM
3

Incorrect. Assets acquired prior to marriage are not marital assets and will not be divided up in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:37 AM
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Cook Indian Food
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:13 PM
5

I own my house, I'd be horrified if some woman came along and legally stole it from me via divorce. How? Just how does one legally steal a premarital asset like a house??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:43 PM
16

If that's such a swell idea, try doing it with your roommate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:18 PM
23

You nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:15 PM
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Good thing is that most women that think like this end up literally drooling over sume stupid dick that agrees to whatever they say just to have sex, and kids, and everithyng. Have a nice wedding! Huh??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:04 PM
2

my opinion on divorce it should be severely restricted by the government and stigmatized by society, but serious exceptions may still justify it. I assume your "serious exceptions" would have to be proven in court? Thus adding to the burden of the abused partner to litigate their relationship and document evidence over time? And all that stress and all that strife while deceptively maintaining the status quo so that the abusive partner does not murder them? There is a reason we have no fault div…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:28 PM
1

My boyfriend smells amazing and he rocks my world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:13 PM
2

Soooo....divorce should not be allowed because people need to place limitations on themselves? So the government outlaws divorce? Great.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:58 PM
3

If the main thing entitled men offer is misogyny and misery, isn’t the incentive strong for normal women to avoid LTRs, especially when the man hits his 30s and starts getting fat and ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:55 PM
2

Empirically the orderly societies outcompete and extinguish the disorderly ones so feel free to select yourself and your culture out of existence. Freedom bad. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:51 PM
2

If your argument is that divorce is inevitable No, we can keep people in prisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:48 PM
0

No one is gong to approach him, so it's safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:44 PM
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He is morally comfortable with leaving the mother of his kids high and dry after divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:42 PM
2

divorce basically didn't exist for most of western Have you read the Old Testament? Hebrews could divorce way back when. Western civ is built on Judeo Christianity and the Roman Empire, both allowed divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:38 PM
1

Good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:00 PM
2

Sounds like prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:59 PM
4

Because she is his property, duh /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:52 PM
1

I've gotten this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:51 PM
2

He admits to being a sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:46 PM
0

A surprisingly large number of men want to make marriage a prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:45 PM
-4

You’re going to get a bunch of men who aren’t actually that interested in you, but go along with your interest for validation/sex since you made it super easy and asked them out. Yup. I learned this in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:30 PM
5

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:44 PM
2

Women will get a sanity check on what level of social ass kissing they get and we'll reach a golden age of harmony between the genders. A world where we do what we were taught in preschool, to share and be fair. What exactly does this mean? Free love? Marriage is all open marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:34 PM
-4

Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:14 PM
1

Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:34 PM
1

You might have the wrong idea about me asking guys out in high School. It was dorky and not sexy. I had no idea I was doing anything wrong, but later someone told me it made me look easy or desperate. Ouch. But that also explains why those guys didn't;t seem to like me very much, and just went along with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:32 PM
2

I would question why a party boy wants to be with a nerd like me. I am also quite the prude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:30 PM
1

I am pretty honest. My boyfriend knows how awkward and weird I used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:28 PM
2

It would depend why he had a high N count. If he was molest4ed as a child and was acting out because of this trauma, it would be a lot different than him being a gigolo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:22 PM
1

For me it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:21 PM
2

Those are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:17 PM
2

You are on reddit too much if you believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:47 PM
2

5-7
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:44 PM
1

He won't let them date, so they will rebel and leave once they hit 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:44 PM
6

Constantly arguing with my partner to debunk her ignorant and/or hateful ideology, before we can even start to have a functional relationship, does not sound like a good time to me. Right, which is why women do not want to date red pill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:33 PM
4

The necessity for a divorce is for many good well behaved people the worst thing that has ever happened in their life and it is disgusting that other people think it's fair or reasonable to expect them to have to fight and hurt and publicly destroy the person they once loved to get that divorce. If you've been badly wronged you deserve to be able to just leave. No fuss. It's over. Finished. Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:37 AM
3

He wants to be the one with Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:06 PM
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Maybe he's not tall but is he taller than you? Nope. I have a Napoleon fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:22 PM
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If a women had the option to pick betweem short and tall shes never picking a short man. I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:38 PM
4

Best show ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:05 PM
3

Women just like violent men, I've been in the purple pill spaces long enough to know OMG we have an expert here, guys! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:58 PM
7

These guys can't be that low SMV can they? What do they look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:40 AM
0

Women kill men in large numbers indirectly So like...they nag him to death?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:33 AM
9

Where did she say they were bad boys? I have seen dorky nerds turn violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:27 AM
3

Love. We have to pay with love. Isn’t that what your tax forms say?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:49 PM
1

When I get home from work, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:26 PM
1

Because being lonely is far worse than being with someone who dislikes you Ramp it up a bit. The person who dislikes you is also creating problems in your life, and you are unhappy all the time because of them. Is lonely still worse??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:54 PM
1

Not trying to be rude, but have you been on this subreddit awhile? Lots of guys here want rules for thee but not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:50 PM
1

"You guys" refers to the men here on PPD, not just you. They hate women for sleeping around and yet...also hate one just partner for life. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:41 PM
6

Oh, I thought this question was about cannibalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:40 PM
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I am baffled why they think asking is the default. Just go get the test, why humiliate her?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:39 PM
1

....wow. And you guys...shame women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:36 PM
1

or is he doomed to commit to one partner Why is this a doom??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:29 PM
11

wants to touch a book I too want to touch a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:14 PM
11

U SuCk At HaNjoBs No, that is a different "job"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:13 PM
11

2 minute handjob??? Do you guys really think it takes two minutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:01 PM
4

Not so different from her parents
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:48 PM
1

Yes that is expected
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:12 PM
2

He will nickel and dime any woman he marries
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:09 PM
1

No, the proper etiquette applies to friends as well as dates. If I invite you, I am paying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:07 PM
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-subsidy for women who agree to bang beta males or low tier males. How does the government rate men as low tier or beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:35 PM
2

I was weirded out to find that some families think it's normal to yell and scream at each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:25 PM
2

He wants you to beg all men for forgiveness since you didn't blah blah blah who cares, he just wants to blame you for anything at all. Red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:42 AM
15

Shit, that is horrifying....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:01 PM
1

They literally do. They act manipulative from the very get go. They lie from the very beginning. Guys chase after girls like this because they're "perfect." They seem like such a good person because any unfortunate circumstance they're in, they're completely blameless for. And then they act completely shocked when after getting to know them better, turns out they're someone who refuses to ever take accountability for their mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:10 PM
1

They call us NPCs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:09 PM
1

A better question would be is that why do men hate ugly women so fucking much because half of the time, the hate is unjustified. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:08 PM
1

So....stay inside all day and night? Searching for that Logos?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:24 PM
30

Men in past generations had friends, hung out in bars, elk clubs, bowling alleys, whatever. What is missing in younger men? Socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:37 PM
1

It works because negging puts woman in self doubt Never worked on me. If a guy started backhanded compliments or playfully insulting me, I would just get pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:33 PM
1

Upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:03 PM
1

women are more jealous and controlling, even Freud said it Oh sorry! Freud knows nothing about women. His own family said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:00 PM
1

being jealous and controlling I thought that was mostly dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:58 PM
1

It's regional, but the south is deeply religious and parts of the west too. I live in a very Christian part of CA and everyone goes to church.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:56 PM
15

Right there, I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:40 PM
35

The stereotype is that French men all cheat. Is this still true?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:31 PM
-1

They found that monks live 5-6 years longer than the general male population, and they lived as long as women. Because they get health care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:03 PM
2

I know a LOT of bachelors in their sixties. If there is no woman in his life telling him to go to the doctor, they never bother. Dead in early sixties by cancer or heart disease that would have been caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:33 PM
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I don’t want to lose my health insurance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:19 PM
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I dated broke men, yes. Would not marry one unless he had a good reason
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:22 PM
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There's so much more at stake when a man marries a woman Yes, and it goes both ways. But how often is someone playing the long con? For many years? In the western world everyone dates and lives together for so long, you ferret out any lies and inconsistencies. So how would a con artist get one over on you if there is no bankroll?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:15 PM
3

Well yes, in India where arranged marriages are normal I expect this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:52 AM
2

Date someone and get close to them for 6 years and share every aspect of your lives and then WHAMMO it was all a ruse so she could steal your midrange SUV?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:51 AM
4

Most? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:24 PM
2

Why would it terrify you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:24 PM
1

These guys are all armchair experts
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:26 PM
3

Do you have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:01 PM
1

But you can see how off putting it is? High shrieky childlike voices and giant glittering eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:59 PM
5

::sighs in relief this is not my life::
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:49 PM
1

I guess Choice 3 is least likely to give me an STD so I would pick him? But not gonna lie, I would leave the room when he watches anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:22 PM
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My boyfriend is Indian and he is the hottest guy I ever dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:56 AM
3

For a few years my crazy Ex wife refused to file her taxes. The more I bugged her to file her back taxes, so we could get the tax rebates, the less likely she was to do it. This would drive me through the roof. How can anyone live like this without the IRS hounding them down? I would go nuts with worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:38 AM
2

Just fighting the good fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:39 PM
6

Who the hell chooses a mate based on logic??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:37 PM
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They are naturally hypergamous and opportunistic. No more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:12 PM
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I picked a short guy. Easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:06 PM
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genuine LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:06 PM
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I certainly dated enough broke guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:51 PM
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that she is a closeted lesbian I got this vibe from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:57 AM
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Naw, we can be just as playful
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:21 PM
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The part where he needs reddit to tell him to go to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:05 PM
11

ReSouRces
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:02 PM
11

All those Denny's Grand Slams....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:59 PM
10

That twenty bucks is SUPER important.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:56 PM
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1/3 I guess we might eke by in this relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:55 PM
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but then some slag That's 'Oily Hag' to you, mister.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:44 PM
33

One moment, I have to go crazy right now from all the power....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:38 PM
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Then I'm going to resent you for the rest of my life until you pay me back for the dinner money I spent. Get a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:19 PM
1

How is she a dependent?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:27 PM
4

I am sure not getting married out of “duty”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:44 AM
4

Great comment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:21 PM
4

Love is the only reason I would ever marry
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:05 PM
3

So you are being abused when someone on Reddit disagrees with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:34 PM
2

How is she a bully?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:03 PM
1

Don't be rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:36 PM
1

As opposed to countries that refuse to treat them at all??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:06 PM
3

In India, the expectation is that a woman's brothers will beat up her husband if he beats on her. But it does not always work out so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:00 PM
1

Wrong, anyone can pop into the hospital and get treatment without having money. Homeless people do this all the time. Since they are broke, the hospital cannot collect payment and eats the cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:58 PM
5

I just cannot wrap my head around anyone wanting an arranged marriage. Male or female, if given a choice, who would not prefer love? Horrifying that these dudes do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:52 PM
3

Exactly! What if the woman is a lesbian and she has to marry some guy?? Just imagine the horror of having to submit your body to someone you do not want. Really put yourself in someone else's shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:37 PM
1

Nope, you have to marry the rich man. What? Is there a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:30 PM
6

then whats the problem of marrying a rich dude that u are not attracted to Would you like to be married to a rich man whom you are not attracted to? He will be requiring use of your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:26 PM
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I think they’re doing pretty good. Uh huh. No social safety net AT ALL. If you wind up in the hospital in India, you have to pay first before they treat you and if you cannot pay....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:56 PM
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California (and other Blue State) taxpayers subsidize most of the states whose residents demonize California. It irritates me to no end. They should be thanking us and praising California for its hard work, but noooooo....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:53 PM
2

Does not compute. If I like a guy, I want an LTR. There is no casual sex for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:48 PM
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I know, just reading this made me want to join a convent. Bleh!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:46 PM
11

Same here, these guys have odd ideas about our self esteem- it's like they never want to church.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:29 AM
25

child abuse was much lower in those traditional marriages. Um, what???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:18 PM
9

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:17 PM
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I was like that exactly, for about the same number of years. Maybe more, who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:12 PM
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Sounds like a drag. Better not bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:06 PM
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LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:05 PM
1

Did you even read her comment? She bent herself into pretzels to make him happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:00 PM
1

I am upvoting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:53 PM
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women because they always make the argument that they have thier own money now so they don't have to settle which insinuates that they were getting with men don't like as a means to an end. f they don't have to settle, then they are not settling. Where is your logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:48 PM
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Who the hell is marrying people they do not want??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:41 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:35 PM
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Why would you assume that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:53 PM
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I am on the spectrum and I speak literally. No need to be dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:51 PM
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Why was I downvoting for stating a fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:15 PM
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I have to assume that you are fairly good looking People tend to live in bubbles. Attractive men tend to be friends with other above average men and women. They tend to socialize and party, meet each other fall in love etc Why do you assume so much about him? He could be average and just good at telling jokes, or just has normal expectations about life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:14 PM
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Is this a euphemism for bestiality as a horse girl No, why would you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:11 PM
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Yeah, their information is all theoretical.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:11 PM
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That makes sense. Some relationships need to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:10 PM
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This is not the trajectory I see per se, more like disillusionment at realizing he is not who she wanted. The star shine fades and she sees he is nothing special and even if he loves her, she feels like a chummy best friend. That or he has been casually cruel with her. At this juncture she must decide if he's worth it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:08 PM
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So she should buy a horse and spend time at the stables instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:04 PM
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I get the best of both hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:58 PM
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Meaning what exactly? Manage her expectations?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:54 PM
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He just wants peace. Peace and quiet without thinking about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:53 PM
12

Just get better at picking. We are on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:19 AM
4

::snort laugh::
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:15 AM
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This is all made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:28 PM
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Exactly, they whip out their phones and show off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:22 PM
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Yeah, his Walmart example backfired.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:12 PM
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You asked for examples and I offered. Men who never date men have no idea what it’s like because they imagine everything being chill
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:37 PM
2

A lot of men make cool roommates or friends or coworkers but make nightmare partners
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:41 PM
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I am loving baby reindeer so Much. Great recommendation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:38 PM
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They usually say ban online dating, or force women to settle for shlubs, or something else that will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:11 PM
2

We've all been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:42 AM
0

One exceptional act? One?? Buddy, please get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:04 AM
2

You are one of the more sensible posters here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:03 AM
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Why is your life more real than mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:57 AM
2

LOL oh buddy :D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:40 PM
0

By now we all should be used to not getting what we want. It's just life, not some slight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:50 PM
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Why do you think this? I am a middle aged woman and I have seen it all- evil and good people doing all kinds of crazy things. But usually people are kind and want to help others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:48 PM
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but don’t for a second act like it’s not mutually enjoyable. Sometimes? But the ROI is low if you are not in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:46 PM
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you just need to believe his obliviousness is actually proof he is a master manipulator to rationalize all the bullying you have done to men like him. I did? When?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:45 PM
1

we can all taste your bitterness through the screen Does it taste like cardamom?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:44 PM
1

So he was going to abuse her?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:31 PM
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I was with a group of friends and a friend talked about how she helped her ex with his job search and every man in the room was surprised. I have helped out a dude I never even dated to get a job. Fill out the resume and application for him. Just to be nice. This is not rare, your friends are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:11 PM
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men who get rejected and moderate their relationship with women. Why taking it out on her?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:06 PM
3

About being rejected when I was ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:02 PM
2

Maybe youre just fine with patriarchy and toxic masculinity Where did you pick that up??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:59 PM
2

being used by someone who only pretended to care about him when they needed to be walked home Irony. He pretended to care about her until she turned down sex or romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:58 PM
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one of whom wanted a romantic relationship, the other just wanted someone to walk them home when it suited them They were friends for three years and he changed the script.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:57 PM
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Your understanding of mental health is concerning. In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:49 PM
2

Maybe this girl was sapiosexual you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:49 PM
6

The mask is off- they do not care about fellow human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:45 PM
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I remember feeling sad and ashamed, because I was a nerd girl before it was cool, and the rejections made me feel even more socially unwanted. But I never took it out on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:43 PM
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That dude who wrote that does not care about being a moral person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:42 PM
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Yup! I used to be the ugly girl and I got shat on a LOT. Strangely this did not make me bitter against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:37 PM
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A cashier came and literally paid for her groceries and even used his employee discount and just let her Venmo him back. So kind!! See, you and I understand this is decent human behavior ....but the guys here will say that cashier wanted sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:36 PM
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Hint if it's not obvious, someone walking you home every week is trying to fuck you. That should be clear, but apparently it's a man secret. So you are admitting with your whole chest that men only do nice things to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:34 PM
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Just an average looking woman can easily get sex and physical intimacy, from most men. Regardless of whether they're friends or not. Score! She must feel like such a winner after being used for sex, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:31 PM
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I cannot count how many times I helped strangers out just because, or cut a guy's hair for free just because, or baked cupcakes from scratch and gave them all away to people who eat carbs...just because. Nice people are nice. No need to Get Something For It.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:29 PM
10

And then wonder why he is so lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:27 PM
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I'm sure he'll walk her home again when he feels like it, till then she can find her way home the way ugly girls do. And there it is. You guys really think she is a Stacy? You really think he is some wonderful relatable Buddy who would be just like You? You really see yourselves in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:26 PM
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He can end a social contract anytime he wants for any reason So can she. Friendship over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:24 PM
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The point he's trying to make is dudes shouldn't expect their gal friends, to take on girlfriend duties. Lots of men think their gal friend who they're not physical with and will never be intimate with, should accept being a placeholder until he finds a girlfriend to replace her. Girls don't like being used like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:23 PM
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And if you didn't know why did you assume it would be acceptable? Exactly, you assumed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:20 PM
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I didn't know being friends meant doing regular one-sided unpaid labor How do you know it was one sided? Maybe she does a lot for HIM that he failed to mention. Like make snacks and remember birthdays and listen to him talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:18 PM
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What she thought was that he'll always do whatever she asks. No, just this one thing. For the last three years, he never wavered and now he stopped. Friendship over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:17 PM
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She was operating under the belief he was a friend. She now knows otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:14 PM
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And why did she ask him and not someone else? Because she expects him to say "yes". Predicated on FRIENDSHIP. Are you missing the point? She thought he was a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:14 PM
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Oh trust me, she has already fixed the problem. She will never rely on her fake friend again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:13 PM
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Friendship between a man and a woman is never real friendship in the first place - men only see women as a means an end, regardless of the label applied to the relationship between them; he’ll only ever pretend to care about you for as long as you have something to offer him - you’re dead to him the second you no longer serve a purpose. see the irony?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:09 PM
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She's the one using him at this point. Using. She asked for a favor. That's just cutthroat manipulation to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:08 PM
3

So in your planet men are all sound and sane and no one drinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:07 PM
2

Could you Google it yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:03 PM
5

So if a friend in need is a friend indeed, what does that make him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:02 PM
3

Stop thinking about what would be fair and correct And there it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:59 PM
5

So in the post, he is politely rejected and he says he is totes fine with it and they are still friends, but he lied. He wants to dump her off and not walk her home since who gives a shit, she is just an annoyance now. What a prince. HEY guess what! You can still do nice things for people and not just friends! I help strangers out and I would walk that girl home to make her feel safe just to be kind. He refused.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:57 PM
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It's just so OBVIOUS that OP's coworkers are all party girls who ride the booze bus to Party Land and then do lines. Clearly they are having a blast in their youth, it's what the internet said!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:53 PM
2

You mean the statistic with how many women are diagnosed with mental health issues in comparison to men? Because men won't seek treatment does not mean they are mentally healthy. They just drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:49 PM
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Because men are robust individualists who need nothing but work and a good moral compass, but women are needy clingy relationship-driven saps who need chit chat and comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:47 PM
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young women will reap what they have sown Fulfilling lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:15 PM
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So you don’t deny that women view the whole world and their place in it through the lense of relationships - unlike men? Oh I forgot! Women all live in communes and sewing circles and men are all untamed hermits living in the desert in separate underground pods.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:00 PM
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Exactly, no matter what you choose there are downsides. I for one wish I had fun in my youth instead of studying and working so hard. What spring break adventures? oh right, the one where we handed out Bible tracks in Palm Springs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:57 PM
2

Exactly. It sucks for women, the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:06 AM
3

I'd probably get beat and cheated on by my wife for being 5'11 anyway ....what??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:06 AM
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I can answer this one first hand. I talked nonstop about how I hated my weight gain, I took measures to fix it, and I fixed. it. He was inspired to do the same and now he lost his extra weight too. Boom. Loving couples love each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:08 AM
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I have done this. Once the stress and crying and exhaustion is over, you feel happy for the first tine in forever and the cortisol levels are low and you can lose weight finally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:02 AM
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Exactly what I was picturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:54 PM
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Because I live in reality and see both red and black disproven on a daily basis
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:01 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:33 PM
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He kisses so goooooood.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:20 PM
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both people pleasuring themselves Also weird wording.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:19 PM
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Excuse me, I am marrying a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:18 PM
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What if men wear clothing I find sexy and it tempts me? Are they being deceptive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:18 PM
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A bowl of dust, maybe an air salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:13 PM
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Who is saying this? Women here claim to be married or in LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:12 PM
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Yeah, sorry, that was me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:11 PM
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You honestly think it's how women process this? Instead of feeling pissed or disappointed at their partner and thus not smiling or feeling affectionate?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:59 PM
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For withholding a commodity? Because seriously, this language use is weird. Do you withhold hugs or eye contact or smiles?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:51 PM
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It's just bizarre to me how men here describe an act of love as a commodity that can be withheld from someone. Like withholding kisses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:48 PM
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withhold sex Like withholding a paycheck?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:45 PM
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This is why I'm not so sure lying to women is immoral. Women lie all the time. They perform mental gymnastics. They're deceptive Because she wears a cocktail dress????
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:43 PM
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I often hear how women range from unreasonable to boderline abusive around that time of the month. What if PMS makes her say something that'll crush the baby in me? How do men in relationships manage this? In all likelihood she will just cry. No abuse, no insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:42 PM
3

Muslim women are having sex silly, its with their husbands and LTR... And affair partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:41 PM
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Are muslims women ACTUALLY just as slutty "inside" as white western women. Adultery is the major passtime in Muslim countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:40 PM
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I have a preference
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:03 PM
2

Your advice would help women who struggle but how would it help men? "OMG women all hate short men!!! There are no women who like short guys! He is never their first choice!!!" "I like short men, and I am a Stacy." "You don't count."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:54 PM
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You can gender flip this perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:43 PM
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Not me. I have a Napoleon fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:41 PM
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Just as someone well versed in poverty finance can give advice. I know what it's like to date and be in relationships so I am better able to advise than someone who can't manage. Who would you trust with your portfolio- Steve who lost all his money in crypto? Or Uncle Bob who made bank?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:40 PM
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You have to remember that women do not practice open, constructive communication. They hide behind virtue signalling, or whatever makes them look good. Then, you point out what's happening out in the real world and they are like how dare you not consider a 35-year-old with 2 decades on a CC? They act outraged, yet they are the more shallow, hypergamous gender. See, this is why you guys do not get taken seriously. You say stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:19 PM
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Why would a woman who is in a relationship frequent this sub? They dont relate to anything being talked about. I never understood this stance. If I am someone who escaped poverty, why can I not post on Poverty Finance and give advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:17 PM
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Agreed, the women here are just happier people and sound glib at times. Incels get pissed at curt responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:47 PM
1

My boyfriend is super hot and high value, is he imaginary?? Do I need to get checked for schizophrenia?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:39 PM
2

So good looking = douchebag Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:35 PM
1

Anything but onion bagel. BARF.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:33 PM
1

Case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:33 PM
2

Got it. Never trust anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:32 PM
2

I am able to speak with authority for small boob women, yes- there are most def guys who pass up cute thin girls like me for big gals with huge racks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:22 PM
4

Comments suggest otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:01 PM
3

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:01 PM
2

First guy sounds like the introvert's dream. So obviously him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:41 PM
2

In the west Women face no social consequences for any type of behavior Are you sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:19 PM
2

HAHAHHA dude :D
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:04 PM
2

this cracked me up, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:45 PM
1

Sure, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:20 PM
1

Home visit vet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:22 PM
5

I read that one, it was wild. She nagged this guy on and on and never shut up about needing marriage, yet bought a house with him and combined finances and all the works. They did everything but have a kid. How is he supposed to care about marriage after all that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:27 PM
1

It’s something I’ve never understood about the place people upset at people who they don’t want to date. Because she's pretty and he doesn't want a chaste Becky instead. He could lower his standards and get a sweet but plain girl and this pisses him off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:21 PM
1

Eh, it varies. I have been with my man for 8 years and now he wants the sparkly ring and white dress wedding thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:11 PM
2

I feel like people don't talk enough about dick game. Gay men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:10 PM
3

the holocaust is also just a bunch of internet stories I have no words. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:09 PM
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Yup. My friends and I were all good Christian girls who did not put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:07 PM
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How is that AFBB if the middle eastern guys were mid?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:06 PM
2

and yet have a lot of evidence to believe it happens regardless The internet stories? That's your evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:05 PM
1

So IRL you never saw a woman conduct the great and terrible AFBB strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:49 PM
1

I myself would play the opposite. Like at the Renaissance Faire where the rich people roll up in Mercedes Benz and emerge dressed as scrubby peasants, but the old beat up VW bus pulls up to unload a lot of "nobility" in their finest velvet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:48 PM
2

Have you ever actually seen someone do this? IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:44 PM
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You know what I’ve never seen? A woman just choose to go sexless and dateless and just spend time in quiet solitude and “work on herself” after a break up. I did this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:30 PM
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They really project their own horniness a lot. "She MUST be fucking tall jacked handsome dudes!!11!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:29 PM
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is it because you never saw it happen in anime? Once again, you nailed the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:40 PM
1

He is so cute he gets away with anything. Wicked hot boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:58 PM
2

Someone better inform my best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:20 PM
0

It really comes down to women will do ANYTHING when they are attracted to a man. Women have different rules for attractive/unattractive men. So....exactly like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:06 PM
2

Not rare at all. Default setting in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:52 PM
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Women are a time and money suck. You don't like sucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:26 PM
7

TIL I am an unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:17 PM
1

Agreed, I am hardly worried about money if things go south. When I left an 11 year relationship in another state, I abandoned almost all my possessions and he sold them off. I simply do not care about that crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:03 PM
1

I don't think that' why.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:59 PM
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what makes you think you shouldn't be approached by them? To the point , what makes you better than them So if a hobo follows you around asking for sex you are rude for thinking this is gross?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:23 PM
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And that's a problem to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:20 PM
4

Solid agree. No one needs Gilead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:41 PM
6

If my options were 1) pair up with a man I do not want or 2) celibacy ...I would be celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:39 PM
2

When America is willing to pay like Israel dishes out the welfare, then we can discuss this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:44 PM
6

This is it exactly. Nora was cosplaying as a dude, and who knows what mental conditions she had that lent her to depression. Her case is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:16 PM
5

He really thinks this is a natural cycle??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:52 PM
5

Because their government pays for them to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:40 PM
1

Same. My boyfriend is South Asian and he is the hottest dude I ever landed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:19 PM
1

How to deal with being a guy from an undesirable race? Find a girl who likes Indians. I got mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:17 PM
16

Spot on. Also, none of these red pill dudes actually care about society anyway. They care about getting laid. This whole trope of "ON NOES! The future!" is just them blaming women for damn near everything again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:58 PM
12

They live on welfare in Israel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:52 PM
1

She will get stalked
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:17 AM
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You have a way of getting to the heart of the matter
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:00 AM
2

Exactly. The most patriarchal countries are the most backward ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:25 AM
2

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:58 PM
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People commit suicide due to depression and mental illness. No one makes anyone do this. You think my life was a bed of roses?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:27 PM
1

You honestly believe people operate like this? Bitchy women driving men to suicidal extremes? En masse?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:40 PM
5

So you are planning on abusing her?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:36 PM
0

But your comment also proves my point that she will pay the price dearly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:34 PM
1

Vehemently. Mental illness is no joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:34 PM
1

Why are you being rude?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:40 PM
1

It was implied that if men commit suicide, some woman "drove him to it" in large numbers enough for you to mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:37 PM
1

The experienced partner is going to pay the brunt of your lack of experience. Hoo boy this is SO true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:34 PM
1

Does everything have to be a woman's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:33 PM
1

That's not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:23 PM
1

Every guy I know built the pyramids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:23 PM
5

So....what is this mystery woman supposed to do with your rage and FOMO?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:12 PM
11

I have picked both of these guys. It makes zero difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:07 PM
3

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:06 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:21 PM
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Mudshark I thought racism was not allowed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:29 PM
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Exactly my experience. Why have a one sided relationship? What in the world for? So I ended it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:19 PM
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Bullying and being mocked and teased and openly declared a “freak or loser” were not only way more accepted, even some teachers would be in on it because “maybe it would make them more normal”. I am glad you brought this up. Anyone who was different or didn't know something everyone else knew? Mocked and teased until they got it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:17 PM
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I am Gen X and social scenes were better, since you had to go out and have fun in person. Lots of roller rinks and bowling alleys and camping trips and silly house parties. It was fun. But dating? Bleak. You only had whatever you could find at church or school, and it was limited. I like dark ethnic men but I had only white boys around me. Online dating changed that and I was able to finally fall in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:49 PM
1

For reals. If these guys were not all going for Stacy, this incel problem would evaporate overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 05:49 PM
2

but girls should ask him out so he can dump her for an upgrade.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 03:45 PM
1

I just don't get the obsession with height. Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 03:48 PM
2

but if you don’t want to date someone below 6 feet it’s your preference I fail to see the problem here? Just get with the person you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 03:02 PM
1

What’s a Gemale?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:26 PM
1

How would I know? They never get out of the truck cab
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:25 PM
3

Or…. Just date people you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:33 PM
4

Honestly, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:18 PM
1

Holy shit look at all the rich neighbors and rich crap all around me. Rich rich rich. Feel better now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:51 PM
1

Aw you’re no fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:50 PM
1

Withered crone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:31 PM
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So where do you live? I am in a rich neighborhood
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:30 PM
6

Where do you live? Alabama?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:13 PM
2

Chad is all about looks. I am dating a Chad, so I know. He is not rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:11 PM
1

OMigosh, this is brilliant!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:08 PM
2

Fair enough. I amend my statement for third world nations: "Women in these countries will pick up trash by hand." Happy now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:06 PM
1

This is literally not how nuclear power plants operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:04 PM
4

None of what you said is true. If women are presented with a buffet of slop, they will leave the restaurant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:02 PM
5

Becky isn't going to sacrifice herself and ruin her fake nails by dragging garbage around You know, I never see garbage collectors doing this. The truck lifts the garbage cans. The men pretty much never get out of the vehicle,
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:57 PM
4

Sounds healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:18 PM
1

She never said he was good looking or wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:52 PM
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So men are all robust athletes and women are all land whales and the poor men just have to sigh in despair and date women they don't find hot? Is that reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:45 PM
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Because we respond to how we are treated. If everywhere you go, people curl their lips and noses in disgust, you come to believe you are disgusting. Imagine that is how you grew up. Dad treated you like an irritation or mom treated you with disdain. You would believe you deserved that. Then pick someone who did that to you, since it's all you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:42 PM
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In yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:25 AM
2

Next he will tell you that women are attracted to different men during their menstrual cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:10 AM
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Surely no men have said that to you, right? I was a virgin til almost 30. I absolutely heard it was weird and awkward. The only people who approved were religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:01 AM
0

You think they were dating him?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:50 PM
1

Only one of the women met him in person for one date. The rest were online interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:50 PM
1

She could be religious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:47 PM
7

This is my experience as well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:46 PM
3

Every woman???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:38 PM
2

I am Taller than most women and this is a non issue in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:50 PM
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Most 6'5 men have a rotation of women they use to masturbate in to. And all of them think that he is their BF. Where do you live? All the super tall men I know are either monogamous or have no one. Like any guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:57 PM
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Never had a FWB or a hook up. Is this assumed now?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:43 PM
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I promise you, the kind of shallow guys who are judging women for being single are not looking any more kindly upon women who are divorced (no matter the reason), and if you're divorced with kids, you might as well not exist. So any pressure we might feel to marry young is counterbalanced by the pressure to make sure we're getting it right the first time. Perfectly said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:38 PM
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Lot of guys are not bad people, they are just not marriage material. Women passing them up is not immoral, it's life. If I had told my dad I was going to marry one of the unemployed guys back in my twenties he would have blown up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:36 PM
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Dude, what even is your point? Everyone has a type, and if they meet someone who fits the bill they are thrilled. It's not gendered. But in your youth there are very few adults who qualify for marriage and attraction aside, they are just dips. How is anyone supposed to settle down when no one is ready? Chad or no Chad, it's pretty normal to be unmarried in your thirties now. I could move heaven or earth for a guy I like, but if no one can afford to move out of your parents' house what is there t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:15 PM
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I find it hard to believe that you'd pass on a guy who's exactly what you wanted, wants to move at the same speed into commitment that you do, all because, let's say, you have a big work meeting next week so you can't go out with him this weekend. If I had met anyone like that in my twenties I would have been over the moon. Instead I met guys who were crazy, immature, or unemployed. Emphasis on the immaturity. At one point I even dated a 34 year old when I was 24 and as hard as it is to believe,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:55 PM
2

Did you misread my comment? I said the exact opposite of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:35 PM
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with a quality that is apparently repulsive to the women I find attractive Snoring?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:29 PM
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The reason we gals need to point out the difference is because men here think we all have the same standards for "better" and it's some mythical Chad. Maybe we just have types and some guy is not my type?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:23 PM
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Who benefits from this terrible advice? Not any woman, clearly. She would be dumb to run out and get married to a men she does not love just to avoid hitting some magical Wall. She would be divorced by age 30, even worse. Only you would benefit from young women taking this advice. Theoretically. No one else would be better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:58 PM
6

This sums it. up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:56 PM
2

Why would anyone be triggered by the Boogeyman we know is fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:45 PM
1

Why would her standards change unless she raised them higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:43 PM
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This is exactly it. Women are not riding some mythical cock carousel, they are in LTRs or focusing on their education, and end up single at age 30 for the same reason men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:42 PM
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This place is weird. I met the love of my life at age 44, so glad I did not settle. He wants to marry me. So much for the Wall, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:38 PM
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She is a mod. She used to go under a different name.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:05 AM
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I'm not saying they're not human lol You think this is a LOL question?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:55 PM
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This is them displaying how well they understand “female nature” They ...don't even see us as human...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:54 PM
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It is very concerning , if he is genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:53 PM
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But this is super rare right? No, this is the default setting. Where did you grow up?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:52 PM
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real life stories I doubt this. People are hurt and angry after most breakups but they usually loved that person and are genuinely sad, even if they act like they don't care. It's not gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:50 PM
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"This question is an extension to women not really caring for their boyfriend / husband's mental health. If they do care, there is usually a self-presevation reason. For example, many women who write about them worrying about their man's mental health usually append the fact that they cannot deal with his poor mental health. Another reason this question comes up is because women never seem to care about the guy after the breakup - they instead become vindictive and would destroy him if they coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:39 PM
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Even animals have a form of emotional attachment we call love. Love is super primitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:42 PM
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It's pretty obvious they don't care about the backwards reasoning. In a sci fi world where everyone is sex positive these guys might get laid but nooooooo....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:17 PM
2

This is exactly it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:05 PM
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Attraction had nothing to do with it. Their parents married them off to older men for money and advantages to the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:05 PM
1

Is it a creepy doll collection with good/evil switches on the backs?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:23 PM
3

But an ass with lash extensions and bronzer?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:02 PM
2

Why do you care if randos believe you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:00 PM
3

They look gross without makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:58 PM
2

I have Photoshop too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:54 PM
2

He's trying to say that all women are hideous without makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:48 PM
1

He goes to Applebee's.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:45 PM
5

I met her in a bookshop In 2024? There are bookshops????
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:44 PM
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I met a Leprachaun that is an 8.5 in looks. He said yesterday that he could murder anyone I hate for a small price. He wanted a used Kia for his troubles. So guys! Save money on your hit man and find that Leprechaun! Despite me driving an even shittier car.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:35 PM
1

This is good food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:58 PM
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Homeschooled children have a reputation for being weird, and it’s true. They’re weird, in the meaning of being abnormal, because they don’t know the unspoken social rules, and commonly break them. You don’t need tact when talking with your siblings who are close in age. But you sure as hell do when you’re talking to your new colleagues for the first time. Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:51 PM
1

I wholeheartedly agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:50 PM
1

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:48 PM
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She very rationally assumed it meant he was either cheating with someone already, or was planning to. She broke off the engagement immediately. She did the right thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:24 PM
1

Wrong on all counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:37 PM
2

Having lived in Miami, it is a mosquito and cockroach farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:50 PM
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Wouldn't anyone? Wouldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:42 PM
1

So if someone needs help what should they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:59 PM
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They already are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:47 PM
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Not in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:44 PM
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Accurate info which comes from my own personal physician? You mean that type of info?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:40 PM
2

Hormones exist, but they fluctuate in weird ways. That is why women are more depressed in general. Testosterone is a huge mood booster
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:32 PM
5

So if a man is depressed and a pill can keep him from self harm, why shame him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:53 PM
13

Do diabetics on insulin incur the same scorn from you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:48 PM
7

As a result, men learn to deal with personal conflict better out of sheer necessity. Comfort breeds weakness, You mean Southern Comfort? Men who are depressed hit the bottle instead of prescription meds. How is that a win?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:54 PM
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The anti depressant usage rate among women would also disagree with idea that older single women are happier. Women are on anti depressants regardless of marital status. Menopause makes women depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:53 PM
1

Could you gender flip this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:17 PM
1

Let me know if the dog gets gas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:17 PM
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the most famous guy on the sub, GLO, wrote a 1,000 word thesis on how to throw a house party. The thing read like a high schooler drinking for the first time. This is hilarious. I remember his essays.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:11 PM
1

Does your dog get gas from eating that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:07 PM
1

Before I click on that, is it cats?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:07 PM
3

Are you just talking about your ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:48 PM
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Again, what makes you think she isn't doing any work? That is kinda the whole point of this. She is tired of the whole thing but she does not quit until she has tried everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:32 PM
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Because it smells like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:25 PM
3

How is she draining his time and energy? Are you draining our employer's time and energy by thinking long and hard before quitting?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:22 PM
3

Maybe they are sick of each other but he just doesn't bother ending things. Usually the woman is the one to pull the plug. He should be thanking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:21 PM
2

How is it leeching?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:19 PM
4

No one has to be bad or mean, sometimes you're just not a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:18 PM
2

under the general belief that a bad relationship usually takes two people to make it bad Why would it require two people to make a relationship bad? One person being an asshole is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:24 PM
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video game spectatorship, LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:22 PM
3

This is my experience too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:20 PM
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the person who leaves the relationship and is relieved and moved on quickly, is the person whos been wronged and has been trying and already gave up Exactly. She tried her best and nothing worked, so she left. Why villainize her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:18 PM
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LOL you are the best commenter here :D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:35 PM
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I guess women will have to learn accountability the hard way. By....marrying men they like??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:05 PM
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Not always. I have heard older women tell men how relieved they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:03 PM
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