RosieLalala Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Mom Could Go to Jail For Keeping Kids Away From Drug-Dealer Dad		RosieLalala	/r/MensRights	09/02/12 02:33 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-5	I love how the whiny feminist morality brigade upvotes a user named "ICumWhenIKillMen." This was a triumph. I'm making a note here, great success.	/r/MensRights	08/02/12 09:32 PM
-5	Agent Orange Files Released I was talking about you, silly!	/r/MensRights	21/12/11 10:40 PM
-10	Agent Orange Files Released Sometimes it's tough being the voice of reason, isn't it? Especially when emotions get involved, and it becomes all about the escalation.	/r/MensRights	21/12/11 10:35 PM
2	As a man, this is how I demonstrate the insanity of ‘blaming’ and ‘slut shaming’ rape victims! How do you feel about men who are raped?	/r/MensRights	10/06/11 07:18 PM
2	Mensrights: "It was created in opposition to feminism." Why does men's rights have to be in opposition to feminism? What about equal rights for all? 48% of the species, I believe. Having spied on r/MensRights for a while, it'd be hard to prove that there isn't a sense of marginalization.	/r/MensRights	18/10/10 08:08 PM
2	Mensrights: "It was created in opposition to feminism." Why does men's rights have to be in opposition to feminism? What about equal rights for all? Which is why you fine folks would be in tune with third-wave feminism - equality for all! ;)	/r/MensRights	18/10/10 01:32 PM
1	Mensrights: "It was created in opposition to feminism." Why does men's rights have to be in opposition to feminism? What about equal rights for all? Exactly. Which is why when male survivors and female survivors are living in the same shelter having the other gender around can trigger the post traumatic stress.	/r/MensRights	18/10/10 01:24 PM
1	Mensrights: "It was created in opposition to feminism." Why does men's rights have to be in opposition to feminism? What about equal rights for all? Abused people are at risk for post traumatic stress disorder. One of the triggers can be staying with folks of the gender of the person that abused you. This is the logic behind segregated-gender shelters.	/r/MensRights	18/10/10 01:14 PM
2	Mensrights: "It was created in opposition to feminism." Why does men's rights have to be in opposition to feminism? What about equal rights for all? ((it's because the mensrights subreddit is really a place for certain people and their buddies to spout off.)) You might want /r/equality instead.	/r/MensRights	16/10/10 03:38 PM
5	Mensrights: "It was created in opposition to feminism." Why does men's rights have to be in opposition to feminism? What about equal rights for all? Here's where it gets tricky. I'm a feminist and I agree that it's also an issue. I'd suggest that it's one of equality - shelters exist because inequality remains. Shelters should be equal opportunity and this is somewhere that men and women and transfolk can work together because, yes, government lags. But because I want this to be an egalitarian issue I consider myself feminist. See?	/r/MensRights	16/10/10 03:36 PM
8	/r/MensRights: did you ever go through a phase of grief/depression upon realizing your betrayal from being circumsized? My parents had the plan of "if we have a boy, he should look like his dad." and that was the entire logic they had on circumcision. You'd think that they'd think about it a bit more, though, no?	/r/MensRights	13/08/10 09:56 PM
1	Today's featured wikiHow article: a condescending set of instructions on "How to Get Your Boyfriend to Read" It's because women were historically taught that the best catch (economically) really was the best catch in all ways and any unpleasant behaviour could simply be changed. The tendency stuck. Yes it's very high school to want to 'change a man' but some women need their egos stoked more than others, I guess.	/r/MensRights	13/08/10 09:53 PM
3	Today's featured wikiHow article: a condescending set of instructions on "How to Get Your Boyfriend to Read" XX here. That list is simply stupid. I do the bike repairs (no car here) and the home improvement. As for sexual... if he doesn't do the sex right and doesn't read as much as desired, why stay? It's because women were historically taught that the best catch (economically) really was the best catch in all ways and any unpleasant behaviour could simply be changed. The tendency stuck.	/r/MensRights	13/08/10 09:51 PM
2	This the sort of thing that the next generation of women are growing up on. Always nice to know when you're not operating in a vacuum, eh?	/r/MensRights	31/07/10 03:31 AM
1	This the sort of thing that the next generation of women are growing up on. Many women will agree with you.	/r/MensRights	31/07/10 03:15 AM
1	I won, but at an unfair price. Not an ask, but a suggestion. On CBC radio 1 they have a show called Asunder and it's about divorce. It's also a podcast. There are stories like yours - so many, that books have been written about them. I cannot remember the names, but maybe they'll help. EDIT: correcting my grammar, now that I'm sober. Glad you got the message anyway :) I'm so sorry.	/r/MensRights	29/07/10 08:59 PM
0	The foolish feminist: Be careful who you call a misogynist, you misandrist Yes, the movement rather splintered, didn't it? What can I say? Every movement has its extremes.	/r/MensRights	09/07/10 07:49 PM
2	The foolish feminist: Be careful who you call a misogynist, you misandrist No. That the rules should be institutionalized to be the same regardless of gender, thus eliminating gender bias.	/r/MensRights	09/07/10 07:22 PM
8	The foolish feminist: Be careful who you call a misogynist, you misandrist The current status quo is not entirely friendly to women - who work outside the home, and then do the work inside of it as well. Were the men able to get the same time as women (for say childcare, postpartum, eldercare to name a few responsibilities) then the division of tasks would be more equal.	/r/MensRights	09/07/10 06:07 PM
8	The foolish feminist: Be careful who you call a misogynist, you misandrist Third wave feminism is about egalitarianism. Welcome to the club :)	/r/MensRights	09/07/10 03:16 PM
5	The foolish feminist: Be careful who you call a misogynist, you misandrist What about feminism as an egalitarian issue? As in, I consider myself a feminist because I want single (male) parents to have exactly the same rights as single (female) parents. I don't want the divorce courts stacked in a woman-takes-the-kids favour; these courts should never take parental gender into account. And I consider myself a feminist for saying so.	/r/MensRights	09/07/10 03:15 PM
1	This is what female empowerment looks like This is why feminism has largely been replaced by egalitarianism. It doesn't matter the gender of the single parent; they need support for being a single parent.	/r/MensRights	20/04/10 12:47 AM
7	So, I told her I was active in men's rights.... It's called third-wave feminism. Its trademark is "egalitarian" for example fighting for support services for single parents (mother or father) rather than simply supporting all mothers.	/r/MensRights	20/03/10 07:07 AM
1	Men do far more housework than they are given credit for, according to research that claims women do not notice because their male partners "don't make a fuss" haha. May I posit that many women are so harried that they don't notice the change? The eyes see it, but the brain doesn't process it?	/r/MensRights	14/03/10 09:26 PM
1	After listening for a while, he asked what facilities the organization had for abused men. The presenter was taken aback, saying, "Well, none, men are always the aggressors in DV cases." :) My grandmother was arrested for being a feminist; she taught my mother well. My mother had two daughters. Thank those above me.	/r/MensRights	05/02/10 11:36 PM
15	After listening for a while, he asked what facilities the organization had for abused men. The presenter was taken aback, saying, "Well, none, men are always the aggressors in DV cases." ... and that's why, when asked, we should say we're egalitarian.	/r/MensRights	05/02/10 06:56 PM
1	My Heart Sank When I Remembered that No One Thinks Men Can be Abused Find as many feminists as you can. The whole logic behind it is gender equality. Yes there is a systemic bias right now (and it changes depending on where you are?) but there is help and support out there for you! Message me with a geographic location. My way of judging abuse is if I say "Rosie did xxx to Paul" is it as wrong as "Paul did xxx to Rosie"? Again depending on country (and State, if you're in America) the definitions of abuse are all slightly different.	/r/MensRights	04/02/10 07:51 PM