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| 1 | Women don't receive a benefit in dating by 'waiting'Username checks out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Attractive women who have trouble finding good men / potential husbandsMost have been on the apps, but a few in person I met recently have done this. It’s usually the second date. They start asking what my sexual kinks are. I know when that question comes there is going to be disappointment. However, you must find someone you are compatible and I am so happy people are forthcoming enough to tell me what their relationship desires are. I would hate to date a man for two years and then find out he had sexual kinks he was doing with someone else because he knew I woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 10:29 AM |
| 0 | Attractive women who have trouble finding good men / potential husbandsEvery single guy I meet or try to date quickly escalates into, wow you’re sexy you could just do any only fans we will make so much money. You don’t have to show your face. Or just demanding extreme sex acts. I think it’s just the way I look, because it doesn’t matter if they are super attractive or not whether they have money or not. I do not comply. I’ve been single for a year and a half and stopped having any kind of sex or sexual relationship without commitment. I’ll find someone eventually … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill delusions when it comes to college and young men.To me red pill is like an ice cream sundae topped with poison. Some of its good but the bad parts ruin the whole thing. As a woman with a graduate degree in philosophical logic, I’m noticing most of the red pill types of men aren’t actually financially stable, don’t have any ambition, and struggle with substance abuse. Any redpill guy I talk to says a philosophy degree is brainwashing, but I remained conservative and Christian. ( i understand this isn’t Reddit demographic here, but I say this to… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/10/23 11:19 AM |
| 1 | I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of itWow this is deep. I’m a woman so of course I don’t have this experience, thanks for clarifying. What you’re talking about is men who want the details not because they are obsessed with porn and over sexualized maybe even can’t get it, but because they want to think about their male friend in a sexual context. It just reminds you that men are also capable of being sexually harassed, for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 01:34 PM |
| 1 | I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of itNo I’m saying from personal experience. I really liked a guy and I just couldn’t anymore because he wouldn’t stop doing the my dick is too small for every woman on earth they’ll never like me as much as chad. It sucked because I liked him a lot and he was the first guy I had been with in a long time and he wouldn’t stop acting as though I had clearly had sex with 300 men, when I hadn’t at all and never have. I just stopped liking him. And I haven’t been with anyone since. Talked to a few of my g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 12:14 PM |
| 6 | I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of itIt’s the porn. It’s ruining society. Sorry. Back in The 90s people had to do a lot to collect the porn. they had to hide to watch it because it was a big long fucking movie with scenes. We have raised an entire young male generation on this new wave fast paced environment porn hustle and it’s become a huge problem with their psychological development. Now every single person is a chad or a Stacy. The problem is it’s becoming an ideology. There are like 5 hour long wojack lectures on dudes coping… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?I think it had a lot less to do with anyone’s age and had more to do with his twin who was a drug addict. Remember twins are sometimes really inseparable, I was fine with this and playing second fiddle, but i don’t think we had any malicious intent, it was a red flag in the beginning. We all lived together and the situation was complicated to say the least. It was gonna come down to either me or the twin and because we hadn’t been together for over a decade it just wasn’t something I wanted to e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?We grew apart. He started to want to party much more than when we first met and developed a cocaine habit he never had!😂 He had a twin that I didn’t get along with a lot, and his family was really controlling. His dad had access to his bank and kept withdrawing money whenever he wanted and caused us rent issues. We decided to take a break because we were arguing about these things. I moved in with my mom took a job further away and a few months in we agreed to cordially end things. I’ve talked t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:11 PM |
| 5 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?It’s hilarious to me that people are downvoting this. Literally, nobody in my life had issue with this. Neither of my parents cared that he was younger. None of my friends did either. I lived with him for 3 years we were a real couple. On Reddit there is a liberal slant so I’m always surprised that young adult can vote, drink, do porn, but as soon as they actually connect with someone older it’s now I’m predatory. I don’t only date younger guys, we really just clicked. The reason why you are hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 08:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersI don’t know, some of these nerdy ass engineers seem hotter because they build the buildings and bridges I use everyday. It’s actually really hot if you’re like a civil engineer, because you’re keeping me safe. Super attracted to that. I’ll make this guys coffee for sure. 😍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Discussion : I’m starting to see the first wave of attractive hit forty voluntarily singleI’m 35 and single and childless. Here’s the deal I was in an 11 year relationship and then a 3 year, which means since age 18 I have been single like 4 years max, about 2 since 20. So even though I count as single now doesn’t mean I was always single or never going to partner again. I’m finding a lot of men who want to remain childfree and unmarried too. That doesn’t mean they are failures or won’t partner. Plenty of men have great attributes, but upon further inspection are hardcore alcoholics … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 02:22 PM |
| 7 | Older childfree women are rarely miserableAs a single childfree woman at 35, I actually agree. I do tend to see this, especially if the employee they are trying to destroy is a young man. Our workplaces treat young men like shit. I’m always really nice to them because they need to learn too. I am of course not miserable, I’m the fit happy version, but I’m not childfree because I don’t want children, none of us can afford them. Who knows I could still have a baby in the next year or so, I’m just not gonna rip my hair out about it. I just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 02:01 PM |
| 0 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?I’m 35f, I dated a 24 year old for years. We got together when I was 32 and recently split, but we had a blast. And yeah he paid most the bills when we lived together. I mean I bought him jeans and socks and underwear and I also paid for all the food and extras, but I would say yeah he was the man and was writing the checks to keep a roof over our head. That wasn’t because I was 30s or he was 20s, it’s because young men are still men. 😍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | It’s crazy how often you hear the argument “not all men” when men everywhere demonize women and everything about women as wholeIt’s my job as a woman to be open and accepting. To forgive and be nurturing. If some guy wanted to attack me I would just be like, “I’m not like that” and then just demonstrate the behavior that I’m not. Usually works like a charm. If some guy attacks me and I attack him back, I’m not as successful. 🤷🏻♀️ I can assure you it’s not all men. Just the ones you claim. Also this is a really generalizing statement. Almost like you are committing the SAME exact offense, but are just doing it as a woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | How successful must a man be to have the same options as an average womanI’m 35. I’m telling you this internet male/female stuff is coming from the internet. I was raised rural conservative I don’t even like Reddit. 😂 but most of the women my age aren’t sluttin it up out there, but they might be getting used. I’m also not noticing a ton of younger women sluttin it up out there. Honest. My 22 year old sister has been with only that one guy for 3 years. I dated my first bf for 11. That’s not slutty behavior. It’s a failed relationship from not having a ton of stable op… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 09:17 PM |
| 1 | How successful must a man be to have the same options as an average womanNo. Not at all. I never cheated and neither did they. I also was single in between. I broke up with my ex over a year ago and I haven’t been with anyone sexually since, but I went on some dates though. Look, I’m sorry, especially if you are going through something, but I came on Reddit to post my experiences because I’m seeing a lot of doomsday stuff about dating and I really believe this is a psy op to get Americans not dating and constantly fighting. But none of the men are asking to marry and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 08:45 PM |
| 2 | How successful must a man be to have the same options as an average womanI lived with the older guy for 11 years and the younger guy for 3. I consider that dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 08:34 PM |
| 2 | How successful must a man be to have the same options as an average womanLook I dated a man 16 years older than me for 11 years he started treating me like shit and doing this red pill crap after I turned 30. Wouldn’t marry, wouldn’t work, wouldn’t give me a baby. Then I broke up and yes I had another relationship that didn’t work, but I’ve only been single for 2 years of my adult life. I think that sometimes you have to put yourself out there to get a partner and maybe the guy I was with wasn’t the right guy, but going on dates with men who are 26 isn’t a waste of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 08:22 PM |
| 2 | How successful must a man be to have the same options as an average womanMy ex was 24 when we got together and I was 32. We lived together for 3 years. You are a jaded internet virgin who talks about how no one likes women over 30 on the internet. I have dated 2 gen s men since then. Both took me places without sex. You internet doomsday people are trying to rewrite reality online. I am dating these men. I am absolutely dating them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?The answer is, not c. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problemI’m a straight woman and I don’t like it at all so this isn’t weird . I usually seek these men. Not always easy to find. Dated a guy who loved it and I wasn’t comfortable, ruined the sex for me. Likes* blow jobs. Thanks OP this is super entertaining adult content thread now. It’s like a live romance novel littered with serious clinical responses and witty trash talk. 👍👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 03:49 PM |
| – | If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problemThis is hilarious! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Why Should Men Get Married?If I’m dating you for four years and you don’t ask me to marry you, if you acquire a gambling addiction you didn’t used to have, start doing cocaine you didn’t used to do, or get in a bad accident and need round the clock care, I’m leaving. If you asked me to marry you I will spend decades helping you cope with your gambling addiction, helping you get the rehab you need for your cocaine problem, and I will literally jelly up your nub and attach your prosthesis myself! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 01:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.I’m not having any problems being attracted to average men. What I do notice is that the average man who is absolutely good enough is looking at me like “can I do better? I want to have sex with more women. Maybe I’ll wait.” The fact that men are attracted to all the women makes me less likely to care about a having a partner anymore. It says you are one of 1000 women in my area I want to have sex with. It’s boring. I’m looking for a connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:15 PM |
| 2 | How successful must a man be to have the same options as an average woman35f, almost exclusively dates men in their 20s. I don’t like or need casual sex. I don’t really care how much money they make. I think men at 25 look way better than men at 35. They also treat me better. Do I get younger guys asking for sex, yes, but I also get men my own age asking for sex. Younger guys also don’t freak about financials like older guys do. So I find on the internet that men supposedly don’t care how much a woman makes… blah blah blah. I stopped trying to get dates with older me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Where do girls go to meet guys?It was last week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Where do girls go to meet guys?I notice that the men over 30 seem to be very concerned about how much I earn. I had a guy I talked to for 2 weeks tell me if I could just get a second job or make as much money as him I could carry his child. We had never met. I’d rather make a connection with someone first. I became irritated and was like well if I’m carrying a baby and stuff I probably won’t want to work for a while. And he said I could work two jobs while pregnant, that his friends wife did it when he lost his job. And I wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 05:36 PM |
| 25 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way.I’m 35f and I get tons of attention from 20s men. By i attention I mean dates and my ex was 9 years younger. I also don’t think it’s weird for men to be attracted to 19 year olds or even 16-17 year olds. They are close to adults. Sorry it’s just not that weird to me. The reason why women get mad about this is usually because they are freaked out about aging. I also think young men are sexy like 19-20 year olds. So I don’t think it’s weird to be attracted to younger more fertile people. Leonardo … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Hey, men: You should stop expressing how hard it's to be single.I think we keep attacking the men and then wondering why they aren’t receptive or trying hard enough. I think they should be allowed to rant about not having human contact and affection. It’s not self absorbed it’s a natural basic human instinct. No wonder men are feeling defeated nothing they do is ever right anymore. Sometimes it’s helpful to not always be so critical and maybe just listen. I get so much perspective from these rants. I feel like this is by design and it’s designed to keep us d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Since the dawn of time women were berated for being promiscuous. But I never understood why.But I thought you asked about why people don’t like sexual promiscuity in women. I think if a man has a smaller area for infection to spread. For lack of a better description if you smeared a little syphilis on the side of a penis it’s unlikely to cause a syphilis infection. It needs to hit the male urethra. But if you smear it inside a labia it’s a breading ground because it’s warm and moist. I’m not saying this is 100% accurate or my view, but I used to be pretty red pilled and this was an ans… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 05:50 PM |
| 4 | Where do girls go to meet guys?I do get approached in public, but not that much. I can tell if someone wants to approach me by their demeanor and I usually smile to confirm I’m approachable. This sometimes works. A lot of time when I go in public men seem to avoid me and scurry out of the way though. It’s sucks because I do like for them to approach me, but these days most of the men who do are vulgar. The dating apps are worse the majority of people are usually talking about sex within first three lines or couple conversatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Since the dawn of time women were berated for being promiscuous. But I never understood why.I think it might have to do with the nature of female vs male genitalia. Females accept their partner and are more likely to contract disease. Back in the day especially, syphilis was a scarring horrible condition with no cure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 05:17 PM |
| 1 | What was the moment you realised The Red Pill is garbage?It seems that these red pill guys aren’t actually conservatives. Noticing in person when I meet someone more liberal my traditional values don’t actually clash that bad, and he’s more willing to wait for intimacy and let it naturally progress. So basically how I was being treated by red pill types vs. regular conservatives and liberal men. Also the Anti-Semitism. 😒 I’m just not impressed by this. I’m all for conspiracies and willing to entertain any of them, but it seems unfounded and racist. As… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/08/23 04:31 PM |
| – | Why do older women (35+) raise their standards and think shaming men their age into meeting them or dating them will work?I’m a 35f here. I had two previous relationships one for 11 years, one for 3 years. Both relationships were good and ended on mutual terms. No proposals. Both men under six foot and under 35k a year. I’ve pretty much been coupled my whole entire adult life save for a few years. What I’m finding is that when I do online dating it just doesn’t work and all of this standards stuff is ridiculous. A lot of the men my age have their own outlandish standards. I’m also finding a lot of construction work… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 02:18 PM |
| 3 | As an exredpill, what's your stance on this recent Internet drama involving Dillion Danis, Logan Paul and his fiancé?This is what I was trying to say, it’s the internet. If I meet a man in the library he isn’t like “so I’m just looking for a hookup” straight to my face. It’s much easier to attack people online. Some of this is bleeding into society at large but most of this doomsday stuff is just for views. I also think there are a lot of men out there who are low self esteem from this redpill thinking, and really there is nothing wrong with them at all except their attitudes. You got a whole group of disenfra… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/08/23 01:52 PM |
| 3 | As an exredpill, what's your stance on this recent Internet drama involving Dillion Danis, Logan Paul and his fiancé?I argue that all of these problems are economic. The men are being actively emasculated more and more. So we do tend to see, especially in the redpill movement, men who are actually weaker than their more liberal counterparts. My mom doesn’t even bitch and complain as much as these guys do. Most people do not make enough money to support a wife and family. This is directly where it’s all coming from. I’m also noticing that when I match with someone online, let’s say I swipe 25 on bumble I usuall… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/08/23 11:25 AM |
| 7 | As an exredpill, what's your stance on this recent Internet drama involving Dillion Danis, Logan Paul and his fiancé?Here’s where I think this comes from… 35f here. (For prospective) The manosphere internet doomsday men value swimsuit models so much. The fact that she is desirable in itself is what makes them attack. It’s a way to get at Logan before the fight, but also to bring down his perceived masculinity. Like if she’s a slut then it trumps the fact he got a swimsuit model?!? Something along these lines of thinking. Something I’ve noticed when trying to date a redpill guy is that he was constantly complai… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/23 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”?Just be careful because sex worker can mean sex trafficking victim. I’m not suggesting this is something you want or are into, just remember it’s a possibility you wouldn’t even know. You don’t want to contribute to someone’s suffering unknowingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 02:08 PM |
| 3 | "just be skinny" doesn't workI’m 35. I’m 5’5 150lbs I have zero problems attracting men from 18-59. I have crooked ass teeth, dudes love my smile. I have graduate degree debt, my credit is higher than most without debt. I work at the grocery store with graduate degree debt, dudes want a grilled cheese. People need to stop this doomsday internet shit. It’s not real. Plenty of awesome redpill conservative men who literally have no problem with me having all these “problems”. Most men just want a companion. Im talking good qua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 01:46 PM |
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