Rouan1234 Archive

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1	Do men derive their self-esteem and emotional state from women This is mostly correct. Of course that people with healthy views of life can regain control and dont need to validate themselves, but men and women falls in this category. I dont see it as a man problem at all, women too mostly validate their ego in this way. Its something social and affects anyone. But since woman in general can find this kind of atention easier, they instead focus on other aspects, i guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 05:57 PM
1	Is it true that most people cannot lower their standards biologically? Nah. I find this some kind of lame excuse for lame behaviour. In the bare minimum, people change and what they are looking for, too. The very idea of what a standard is can shift from time and person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 05:36 AM
12	Do men not care about having female friends? I do understand the diference between ''you are just orbting me in the hopes that i will bang you and if i don't you will leave'' and the ''we are friends and enjoy each other but also i find you atractive''. One is objetifying and bad, and it's hard to know each one is in each case. Also, having sex casually with a friend requires a lot of emotional maturity, not for the faint of heart, not gonna lie. But there is room for conversation and possibility. I don't get why people see it as some kind…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 05:07 AM
11	Do men not care about having female friends? I'm a man, and i do have female friends. Yet, they lies in a spectrum of atractiveness. They are some that i see as a great potential partner, or not. And are others i find very atractive and i would have casual sex or don't. The diference is that i'm not pursuing any of that, I'm not waiting for then to be single or horny, but i do find strange when people seems to be very ofended that you would bang someone you know and enjoy. i"m not a native english speaker so maybe it's a cultural thing. Fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 04:20 AM
1	When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language? Is about virtue signaling i think. To women, saying that something matters can come off as shallow personality, so they say that is doesn't matter even if they know it does. Both genders are right: It does matter but not so much. You CAN date someone even if you are short ou ugly because your other qualities can make up for it. But if you have more desired traits, of course you can go farther. When woman say that ''love conquers all'' i guess they are thinking about small examples where a guy de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 07:15 PM
2	Is it common for women to have been "Alpha widowed"? Do women have trouble "falling for" new men that havent met the standards of better looking or higher status men of thier past. Do these men have to "work harder" to make up for the failed comparison? Both sexes do this. I've known women who would orbit around a guy for years but those weren't chads at all. Just average plain dudes and nobody would understand why this amazing girl willing sacrificed so much time and energy in this particular person who was a piece of garbage. Same to men. I guess there are people who love that hard and can't easily forget. Go figure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/22 08:26 PM
1	Do women you’re not attracted to you mean anything to you at all? Do you look up to or admire any women? Yeah, mother, aunties, actually there are a lot of woman who shows a great deal of love and persistence in a cold and harsh world. For me is quite the oposite, i can more easily admire a woman when i'm not attracted. When a hot chick does something amazing i can admire too but my mind is clouded by the fact that she is attractive and keeps foccusing in that detail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/22 02:49 AM
5	Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex? Everybody wants sex. Humans desire and strive for a lot of things. Money, health, power, love, anything. But the things you desire the most are the things you have the less. A very rich man cares little for money. This happens to anybody. When you just finished to eat you care less about food, but when you are hungry this becomes one major concern. Sex is no diferent. This is not something about being a man or woman or straight or gay. You can meet sexually frustrated women talking hours and hou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 09:03 PM
1	Women have a greater return on investment (ROI) than men do when it comes to appearance The hot ones ? I mean any woman past 18 need to maintain or achieve beauty. Beauty products, clothes, gym, make up, takes time, money and effort	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/21 12:26 PM
2	Would you be ok with a masculine physique women that is feminine? People are not like this alwais. When they look like this they train and dehydrate themselves, a female bodybuilder will have a prety "normal" appearance if they are not aiming (and very close to) a competition. Just look any fitness model and you will see that they have incredible and toned bodies but they are not masculine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 09:40 AM
1	Women have a greater return on investment (ROI) than men do when it comes to appearance What are you talking about ? You give the impression that most men are well dressed gentleman but in my experience a majority of them dont even shower that much. Woman give so much time and money trying to level up their appearance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 01:52 AM