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GeneralRoubandoMerdina/r/MensRights25/08/22 09:34 AM
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At least you know it is a male. congratulations, you're finally making progress.
/r/MensRights11/10/22 08:02 AM
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Can't complain about this. Gender is bs pedophile propaganda. What should be complained about is having these same politicians make us all pretend men can be women and vice-versa and whoever doesn't agree is a bigot. No. It's a mental illness and I'm not going to pretend being equally ill just to accommodate your rainbow "reality".
/r/MensRights11/10/22 12:39 AM
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where did feminism go wrong? Feminism - as I understand it - shouldn’t be about man bashing. Quite the opposite! It ought to be concerned with gender equity for everyone, but instead it’s lead to combativeness. It never was about equality. It was about equality of rights, not responsibilities. It's easy to demand more rights when you are the ones who get priority in evacuation/safety when shit hits the fan. Traditionally, men had more freedom but also had accountability. They'd be going to war a…
/r/MensRights06/10/22 03:49 PM
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No. Leave her.
/r/MensRights03/10/22 12:37 PM
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it’s a nonessential point since good teachers aren’t dependent on gender. Ah, I see. "gender" Well, keep hating on women, you are part of the problem, along with the feminists, all powder from the same bag. ​ Some people can work and take care of their children. Sure, how? You tell the boss "well, bro, I'll be spending half the working hours making sure the kid doesn't fuck up, you still pay me in full amirite?" ​ As for your statement concerning law and anarchy, that’s all wrong and I’m not eve…
/r/MensRights03/10/22 12:26 AM
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That's dumb. When you go to work, who are you trusting with the kids? Who's spending their time educating the new generation? The state? The grandparents? The mother? Do you work from home and do both? The males dominate in an anarchy, where there is law, the law dominates and everyone follows the fules. I do believe that a complementary society works the best and I'm pretty sure I've seen enough evidence of it.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 11:55 PM
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Why would you care? I see it as a win. Men are shamed for being virgins, for not wanting to fuck hole without criteria (hence the incel). Women are shamed for being whores, for not being selective enough with what poles they stuff inside their holes (hence the hoe). Anyone calling me an incel for making an argument against modern culture is just appealing to my reasoning and agreeing that men and women are viewed differently by society, especially in those who preach we are "equal". We aren't, w…
/r/MensRights02/10/22 10:50 AM
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Well, I've kinda done that in the sense that I've stopped looking for relationships with women. I'll have female friends, I'll have a bit of fun, sure. But no penetrative sex, no dating. The only woman of value in my life is my mother.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 02:37 PM
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It would. Most men are logical beings, if women were entirely honest, we'd study their behaviour and come up with a logical approach to "pass all the tests". It's by being misleading and confusing that they manage to separate the actual manly men from the ones that learn "game" on youtube.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 09:01 AM
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Most women do, it's just that they either don't speak the truth or haven't figured out what they like in men. There's a reason why the stereotypical "Chad" has success with them. He's not a dick to women, at least not to the ones he's interested in. But he doesn't put them above him in any scenario and the results are evidence.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 08:54 AM
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And of course the parts i dont like are the pick up artist and sexisty things . What if he's right? I had this italian friend, he'd meet girls, touch their hands, randomly dance with them. He wasn't flirting, he'd do that to any woman. With guys he was very friendly and approachable too, just not in the same way. That guy had many women into him and talking about him. Trust me, he wasn't a physical specimen, he's average. Watching some Andrew Tate short clips where he describes interactions with…
/r/MensRights19/09/22 01:19 AM
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I've seen many "cuck" dads so this has a chance of being true. Were she my daughter, she would be sleeping with the dog outside and that's only because I deem the streets too unsafe to risk her having a night out in the cold. The best way to teach these idiots how important men are in the family is to remove them out of any comfort provided by said men. It's instant learning.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 08:58 AM
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Well, for music the same principle applies. Practice makes perfect, right? So yea, get out there.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 02:41 PM
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Edit: yea…I can’t express it enough. Feels so fucking good to be called bro or dude. 😌 Do you straight guys feel some kinda way too when you use these terms on each other? Yep. Having friends is great! I do also use the word "bro" to some female friends of mine. As for you and your friends, just make sure you don't make moves on them. There's dating and there's friendship. Some straight dudes won't like having a gay dude who they've considered to be a friend, a bro, to suddenly hit on them (espe…
/r/MensRights03/09/22 02:40 PM
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The major difference in the last couple decades is the rise of radicalization online. I agree, along with a change in the societal narrative. There wasn't a "believe all women" back in 2002. Or a "1 in 3 women are raped during college". That comes with the rise of the internet but we had a few years where we had internet but none of that bs. ​ Teenage boys looking for dating advice online easily stumble into forums designed for radical misogynists, where they're taught that women are shallow bea…
/r/MensRights02/09/22 04:01 PM
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You are reading me through the wrong lenses. I have no trouble getting women in bed with me. I just don't want it. The remorse of having sex outside of a relationship is higher than the pleasure I get from fucking a random girl. The last relationship I had, she wanted 3 kids by the age of 30, she had decided the city she wanted to live in and was extremely unflexible with her ideal scenario. It was either "A) join me and accomplish my dreams for me or B) I'll find another dude who'll pipe me and…
/r/MensRights02/09/22 03:09 PM
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Check the JPFA survey (2016). Are japanese men all grumpy with a shitty attitude? I've seen other studies done in Europe and the US, percentages aren't as high, but they are still concerning. It's not 5% or 3%, it's much higher.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 06:21 PM
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You misunderstood what I wanted to convey. It is common to have sex when you are in a relationship at that age. So you can pretty much infer from those surveys that many men aren't having relationships at all. I agree with what you said but I'm past that and I don't find it an interesting topic. It was never a trap for me as I've always seen sex as a part of the relationship and never felt the need for having sex without feeling the desire for a relationship. Both things are, and always will be …
/r/MensRights01/09/22 06:16 PM
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So... statistics show that after each year, young men (aged 18-30) are not being able to get into relationships, have never had sex and lack romance in their lives (feelings of solitude). Are you telling men that it's all a problem with their attitude? Nothing else has changed? I wouldn't be part of that statistic as I'm aged 26, had multiple relationships (but not a lot, neither the right one), however, I also feel lonely sometimes. So I believe that many more than the reported 20%-ish are not …
/r/MensRights01/09/22 04:36 PM
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But mostly, I feel like a fucking failure because I feel like I cant provide enough by myself for my wife and daughter. I cry myself to sleep every nights and not gonna lie, I am having suicidal thoughts now. Afterall, the life insurance that I have would give her enough that she wouldnt have to thing about money anymore. The only joy I have is my daughter. But the stress is starting to get me and I feel like a shitty dad because of it to. What a retarded thing to say. Your daughter needs a fath…
/r/MensRights27/08/22 09:39 PM
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"If a couple is comfortable with this dynamic then they probably shouldn't be together." No, that's my opinion. I also stated that one should do whatever they want. What a dishonest attempt to mask what I've said into what you wanted me to say so you could hold high moral ground. Unlike you, I've never said that everyone should be or think just like me. You won't find that quote from me, but feel free to keep trying. ​ a 16 year old trying to be an edge lord on the internet. Your own colors are …
/r/MensRights27/08/22 01:28 PM
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Yea, I guess we managed to talk at lenght while agreeing to disagree on certain points and focusing on the key points in which we ended up getting to some agreements. It doesn't happen often, thank you. You've got another follower.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 12:10 PM
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I understand that men don't even have that (...) Again, maybe I'm spoiled, but as I said I grew up in a rough town and because I'm a different kind of person, I never identified with my surroundings so I lived in a drought my whole life lmao. I agree that the world is full of unworthy people, I share a similar experience to yours despite being of the opposite sex. Regardless, I've quoted your understanding of our big difference. Men don't have an excape, our life is "lonely" until we make it. I …
/r/MensRights27/08/22 11:09 AM
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If a girl is posting photos of herself on social media for positive affirmation but doesn't like it if her boyfriend likes pictures of other women, I'd say that's hypocritical. I'd say actually commenting on and messaging girls you think are attractive is not okay, unless your girlfriend is engaging with guys commenting on her posts and you two are comfortable with this dynamic. It's the same thing. You message the cute girl with "nice photo, good looking girl", you aren't engaging in a convo un…
/r/MensRights27/08/22 10:52 AM
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Women fall into broader categories than super accomplished ice queen and ditzy pretty damsel. Well, yes, but it's like I have them queuing for me. I might be on the top 15% of income in my country for my age group. I might be taller than average men, fitter than average men. Well. I'm not that exposed to women as I don't have the time to waste on frequent nights out and my academic and career path led me to many years without female colleagues. I also have conservative views which are pretty muc…
/r/MensRights27/08/22 02:39 AM
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The key is that the prefences are obviously different and men's preferences are more easily explained. The rest I already told you I was more or less in agreement.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 02:15 AM
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Well, you don't see me here saying that women choose drug addicted gigachad because he's violent and beats them around the house. Women tend to like dominant men, however sometimes they overlook the drawbacks and choose an inbalanced dominant man who is/becomes dangerous. In my view, it is important to clearly separate the desirable from the undesirable and to understand that some undersirable traits might be overlooked because a desirable one took priority. It is vital to understand the choice …
/r/MensRights27/08/22 01:54 AM
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If it's purely with the intention of marketing themselves to men whilst in a relationship I'd of course disagree with that, but people like validation and I'll cut them a little slack. Alright. So then so they also allow me to like photos of women I find attractive while on a relationship with them? Most women will find that very offensive. Double standard? How about I message and comment on those women's pictures the same things other guys comment on her pictures? It's not like "well, if I'm po…
/r/MensRights27/08/22 01:50 AM
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In the modern society, such an attitude is obviously a disaster, and leads to criminal behaviour. It also creates a lot of social problems since many of our criminals are probably the descendants of these aggressive men to a much greater extent than the average person. But civilization in any form has only existed for about 5000 years, and this is not enough time for evolutionary pressures to leave their mark, and as such women remain rooted in Stone Age preferences completely incomprehensible w…
/r/MensRights27/08/22 01:31 AM
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men choose emotionally/mentally volatile women who go forward to further the brokenness of the system. (...) But yet, men choose for boobs and hip to waist ratios lol. You are right on the 2nd take, not on the 1st. Men don't choose crazy women. The reality is that men might overlook a woman being crazy because she's attractive. They might prefer a crazy but stunning women than a kind housewife who's fat and unattractive. How many men are queueing for the crazy emotionally volatile women who's al…
/r/MensRights27/08/22 01:25 AM
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However, like men who fantasize about the hot slut having only eyes for him, it’s all fantasy and not likely to happen. Which men? Nah. This doesn't happen. Trust me, otherwise Mia Khalifa wouldn't be bitching on the internet about men not taking her seriously, among other adult actresses. ​ Women want that strong dangerous man to be able to conquer other men/the world, but want him to be different with her. Edgy enough to imply that he is able to use that strength as he pleases, but safe enough…
/r/MensRights27/08/22 01:20 AM
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I may be misreading, but are you saying men get disgusted that a woman has options? So let me give you an example. You are in a commited relationship with a woman and she's keeping dudes in the subbing bench, you don't find that disgusting? A women who's commited to a relationship keeps acting friendly towards dudes who've shown romantic/sexual interest in her, it's all fine? Why do girls post pictures on instagram whose focus is on them? Is it not to seek attention and validation? If it was "fo…
/r/MensRights27/08/22 12:01 AM
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In american numbers I'm 5'10 (178 cm), I weight 167 lbs (75 Kg) at around 13% body fat. The average male height in my country is 5'7 (172 cm). I wouldn't say I'm jacked but I have abs and I look decent under a shirt. I'm not exposed to women nowadays, being an engineer kinda ends up with having only men as working colleagues. Regardless, more or less an year ago I met a girl and we just clicked. I wouldn't rate her facial features in the top end, I've dated cuter girls in the past. But physicall…
/r/MensRights26/08/22 11:41 PM
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Good luck with that. Keep chasing as hard as you can pal. I'm out of the game.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 11:21 PM
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You are 36. In 2016 I was 20. We are a generation apart. Trust me, things have changed a lot. I also have a 15 year old cousin and she's completely different from what I was (and what girls from my generation at that age were). Back then we'd see 1 or 2 girls with eye liner in the class and that's about it. Now my cousin is putting on full adult makeup and her classmates are even worse. They post videos doing erotic dances on tiktok, shaking their ass through their phone. My generation started o…
/r/MensRights26/08/22 11:19 PM
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perhaps because I’m a straight woman, I can see the red flags in other women who I wouldn’t want any of my male family members coming within millimeters of. However, these dangerous women tend to have traits that while unattractive on paper to me, seem to draw men in like a fly to a trash heap. It's the same for us. I believe the only difference is that we can logically explain to you why we feel attracted to such women while I have yet to find a women who can logically explain to me why she fee…
/r/MensRights26/08/22 11:08 PM
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People know what qualities attract themselves so sometimes they tend to replicate those qualities expecting to attract others. when there are any number of men that would never cheat on them, treat them like a princess, etc. This is what many men expect and what gets them attracted. A woman that would never cheat on them and treat them with utmost respect. The guy will find disgusting that the woman has men flocking around being options and competition. Some dudes still go after those women but …
/r/MensRights26/08/22 11:03 PM
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Well, put yourself in a big city and you will notice the many average dudes being invisible. I agree with what you are saying, I have much more demand from women when I'm at my mom's hometown which is a small village, than I do where I usually live which is the 2nd biggest city in my country.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 10:50 PM
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I cannot rebute your arguments without knowing who you are talking about. You gave a personal example based on your experience and viewpoint. Do your ugly ass friends view you as the attractive friend?
/r/MensRights26/08/22 10:47 PM
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Is it? He mentioned social media for dating and even using Tinder to meet his wife. He mentioned the struggles of meeting women personally and those still exist. Most young western women will resort to clubbing/partying and will be looking up for hook-ups with randoms. If you see data about sexual relationships in young adulthood, you will notice that currently a big percentage of young men have never even been to a date, let alone having sex, while this percentage for women is at the lowest it …
/r/MensRights26/08/22 08:11 PM
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Now the dating issues are simplified in two major points: Are you attractive? Are you not unattractive? If you answered "yes" to both questions and your personal rating is agreed upon by women, you will get all of it. Otherwise you get none of it.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 07:50 PM
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Tell me you've never had sex without telling me you've never had sex. Unless you stop at some time and say "babe I'll be right back" and you bring a cactus so she can use it as a toy or something equally stupid, how do you think normal sex works? Humans are programmed to enjoy sexual intercourse, there's no way she'll be wanting to stop in the middle of the action if she was horny for it just a few minutes ago. I don't fuck a lot but when I did, I wasn't told to stop, ever, quite the opposite in…
/r/MensRights26/08/22 09:41 AM
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Also, your boyfriend is an idiot because you can withdraw consent at any point through your sexual encounter and that video would be pointless. Lads, this is the top comment there. If there's a woman saying this to you, get away, as far as possible. Leave her to the worms.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 12:47 AM
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I'm not saying you did, but the message of your post is related to that. What? So now you are arguing against my points based on what you assume my message is? ​ Which is true, but it shouldn't be that way. And I've asked for a concrete solution in this chain of comments, see: Violence should NEVER be a resort. That's where you are wrong. But unless you want surveillance cameras on every corner and robots with fireweapons in the streets making sure nobody uses violence as a resort, or unless you…
/r/MensRights25/08/22 04:30 PM
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I mean, considering the situation that poor guy is in, he probably has at least one mental illness. What? what you are trying to explain is basically true but not right. What? Yes, you should be careful about what you say when there are people around you that can hurt you because of it. However, that doesn't really make that violence 'justified'. Where did I say it was? I even said that some people don't care about the law and will still break it to break your face, that's the main reason why yo…
/r/MensRights25/08/22 01:08 PM
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I’m contemplating going gay but I’m not sure how I can convert myself from a straight man to a gay man. That's what they want. And by they I don't mean the couple of girls who are rude to you. I mean the society in which these girls grew up and absorved moral values from. I'm pretty sure those same girls wouldn't say the same thing to Kevin Hart but he's shorter than you. Why is that? Give it a hard thought and if you find some answers I'm happy to discuss them with you.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 10:33 AM
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I'm commenting on the content of the thread, not on hypotheticals. He didn't mention any mental illness. In my country we don't have the word n*g***, but my understanding is that is isn't socially acceptable to call that to people on the street. If you are doing so without any mental illness then you are asking for a negative reaction. The mentally ill are another subject as they lack the capability to measure the meaning of their own words, but those are kind of easily perceived and are not the…
/r/MensRights25/08/22 10:24 AM
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So, the other day, I've come across a video on two separate subs. A man that looks to be around 4'9 - 5'0 and have no arms, allegedly calls a woman the n word and another black man who is at least double his size both height and weight wise violently kicks him into the floor from his back while he is walking away. ​ Why would a small and frail dude not have the awareness of his own safety and provoke a random person like that? Why didn't he keep it from himself? A jackass who's 7'0 tall will pro…
/r/MensRights25/08/22 09:16 AM
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google "what are your thoughts on andrew tate mensrights reddit" and you will see the 857454645 weekly posts about it already.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 06:23 PM
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I didn't learn any of this in school. In fact it was quite the opposite. I just had the fortune of having a strict dad that made sure this mindset never got corrupted. He ingrained this in me since my birth and fortunately it led to all my current success even though it isn't much.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 04:05 PM
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Why do you feel like you need to label everything? Can't you just be happy with having the option to forge your own path? Nobody is forced to bear children, to marry, to live according to X or Y norm. What matters is that regarding the law, men and women are equal. I tend to have conservative views on society. For example, I don't find women with tattoos, colored hair, promiscuous behaviour and disregard for the familiar institution attractive in the slightest. However, my views will never chang…
/r/MensRights19/08/22 12:30 PM
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Example?
/r/MensRights19/08/22 08:32 AM
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I also have a bachelor's degree in Social Science. Nice bait. Not falling for that. Take your ass and your social sciences out of a sub where people are talking about FACTS. Kind regards.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 10:15 PM
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I'm not against it.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 10:46 PM
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This isn't an issue, fuck pedos, get them locked up or castrated.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 03:56 PM
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Anyone who is saying this: You'd rather have the kids die in the war? Leave them orphaned without a primary carer? Really? But then bashing a society with traditional values doesn't seem very smart in my view. You're also posting with the title "why this sub lacks intelligente discourse" which by itself is very telling as it conveys your perspective of own superiority. In the end you have two perspectives, a conservative and an anti-conservative. The conservative will remind you of the obvious. …
/r/MensRights14/08/22 03:37 PM
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Yea would be amazing but impossible to do. All the simps would give them double the attention just to protest against these toxic men that mean to harm women by not interacting with them for a month with a 2nd intention under it. They would also create an hate movement towards these men and trust me, if you group up 50% of the western men, more than half are simps, you don't win the battle of numbers. Most men that eat the pill or turn into these kinds of spaces in the manosphere aren't exactly …
/r/MensRights14/08/22 11:42 AM
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Ye man, I'm both experiencing solitude and loneliness. It isn't fun getting that all the time and there's no way out. Male privilege ftw!
/r/MensRights13/08/22 05:57 PM
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"men need to address skills deficits to meet healthier relationship expectations" hard pass.
/r/MensRights13/08/22 02:02 PM
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This post also indicates low quality. It used to be full of informative posts and interesting discussion topics. Now it's full of kids crying about the content and kids crying about Andew Tate or someone else.
/r/MensRights12/08/22 11:50 PM
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I don't care if his word is spread tbh, so I'm not exactly being played. But I see where you are getting at.
/r/MensRights12/08/22 04:32 PM
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There's a post exactly like this one each 12 hours in this subreddit.
/r/MensRights12/08/22 12:53 PM
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Ye dude, I try to not feel pity on myself but it's hard. No friends and no way of meeting new people unless I go out alone during the times where I'm not working. The city I live in is woke asf. I'll be doing remote work back in the village I grew up half my childhood, hopefully there I'll make some connections with likeminded individuals, 1 or 2 are enough. If that doesn't work I guess I'll attempt moving outside this country and look for other options. What doesn't change is the fact that I'll…
/r/MensRights11/08/22 09:10 AM
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I read this and felt so disgusted. You don't own the movement, in fact, you don't own a thing in this world. ​ Peterson is OK but i disagree hard on his tradcon and religious stuff. The man articulates and explains himself pretty well, he's not "OK", he's exceptional whether you agree with his points or not. Besides, you didn't specify a single argument of his that you disagree with. Same with the other names. I'd say, let people be themselves and you can pick what you agree with from them and n…
/r/MensRights11/08/22 09:06 AM
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modern feminism is rooted in post modernist thinking Modern? That crap is over 100 years old at this point. I'm 26 and I feel old. It ain't "modern" anymore. Just call it feminism. The 1st wave before the 20th century has nothing to do with what came next. ​ they reject the concept of objective truth in favor of simply competing power structures/narratives True. Same with most current leftist ideology. That's why people who originally are pretty central but never stopped thinking are now leaning…
/r/MensRights10/08/22 05:54 PM
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Well, feminists don't like you and don't want to be around you. Seems like a plus to me. You'll have plenty of men who'll appreciate you and most women will resonate with you (outside of school/college campus plague ofc). Now try to be a man against feminism. Most women think that by saying that you are wishing for the return of the XVI century and despite not caring about feminists, will become one just to argue against you. Most men will turn on you for the same reason. I've have friends of mi…
/r/MensRights10/08/22 04:18 PM
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As I said in another post about the dude. Sometimes it is necessary to fight fire with fire. Most people are too distracted/dumb/uninsterested to read/watch long videos about these topics explaining things in detail and need short and direct people to get the message. Andrew Tate will surely have a positive impact on some men, a negative impact on others that will serve to counter the same negative impact feminism has on women. However, he also says things like "every single organisation that is…
/r/MensRights10/08/22 04:13 PM
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All male role models for boys today are hated because feminist being the loudest voice on the internet paint them evil. Right. But such isn't the case for Andrew Tate. He paints himself evil in some things he says. Now... nobody in this world is always 100% correct. Some articulate themselves in a convincing way on top of being highly thinking and educated and they tend to be right about most of the topics they talk about because they ONLY talk about such topics. A good example of that would be …
/r/MensRights10/08/22 04:08 PM
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his response to this is rational, at the very least. It stops being rational when he is presented statistics that contradict his points and he keeps making the same arguments. Additionally, he tends to argue in a way that invites reflecting the poor treatment he got from some women on all women, that's why I said he's the male version of a femminist. They also view things as "the fuck boy made me crazy for him and treated me like a dog, now I'll have revenge on all men". That's not the way. I ma…
/r/MensRights10/08/22 03:56 PM
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I don't understand your question. Are you implying there are only two extremes as in simping or treating like trash, or are you actually asking that? I'll respond to it literally because otherwise it's just a waste of time. Treat women you don't know the same way you treat men you don't know. Treat your female acquaintances the same way you treat your male acquaintances. Do not make female friends unless they are unactrattive to you or you are with someone you view as more attractive, otherwise …
/r/MensRights10/08/22 03:51 PM
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It doesn't matter. Keep making noise to the ones next to you. Eventually there will be more people making noise. Universities are becoming useless and uncredited. Nowadays it is pretty much as hard to get a degree and thrive than to not get a degree but rather a good mentorship and thrive. Tomorrow the tables might turn. These clowns will get what's coming for them, it's up to us to stop listenning to them and making them useless.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:52 AM
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Welcome to planet Earth. Nobody cares if you are right, whether your facts are correct. There's one truth and nobody owns it, but sometimes you are siding with the truth, it should be important but nobody gives a fuck unless it matters to them. In the end, people mask themselves "in their own truth", make concepts for their fantastic world in order to avoid accountability and responsibility. What happened to you is a reflex of it. Nobody cares if you are right about that woman in particular, the…
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:50 AM
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Don't like him because I don't agree with some of his viewpoints. He's the same as a feminist but from a men's point of view for a men's point of view. However, sometimes fire needs to be fought with fire, not water. I'd say he's a necessary fire for today's generation of effeminate men who simp for any and all women. He's controversial enough to become popular in today's social media and spread some words that are necessary for any male teenager and young adult to help themselves. He isn't a ro…
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:43 AM
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Well, if you are not then obviously it isn't meant for you. I also remember saying... I know you have nothing to do with it as a single citizen, but I started writing and ended up getting some of it out of my chest. The thing is, you said: Why do you imagine that debates such as you outline have not been held? So I assumed you were from there and had knowledge of it. I wouldn't know, I don't watch american live TV so I assumed you'd know because you do. You aren't being blamed by me just like fe…
/r/MensRights29/07/22 08:43 AM
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They don't solve anything, because to those ideologically wedded to involuntary euthanasia, the facts aren't important. Tbh mate, I'm not american, I just commented from what I've seen here or heard on the news. Did my 5 minutes of google research to understand the basics of american law and formed a semi-solid point of view. Abortion laws aren't an issue in my country, the only thing here I don't like is that they are included in the national healthcare system which means they are paid with tax…
/r/MensRights29/07/22 12:15 AM
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I do, but I'm not sexually attracted to any of them.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 11:56 PM
4

All my mom does is sitting on the couch all day on her phone, i swear to god she doesnt even move. Doesn't she work? Does she work on her phone from home? ​ By doing stuff around the house I didn't exactly mean chores, more like cooking and stuff. Cooking is part of the chores category, at least the way I see it. It isn't fun to cook every day especially if I have to cook for the whole family every day, it's a chore. ​ But yeah, I do believe I can prove my worth and I can't wait to leave and be …
/r/MensRights28/07/22 04:38 PM
1

I hate that term as it diminishes and disparages the idea that men and women can have really good, fulfilling friendships without both being able to maturely address or silently put aside any sexual attraction that may arise, as it well may. "silently put aside any sexual attraction" What? dude, if you are without options, at home using your hands and you have a female best friend who you are sexually attracted to, you are either a coward or a simp. You can make that case for people who aren't s…
/r/MensRights28/07/22 04:34 PM
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Mom does nothing in the house, she only works. So you are telling me the provider of your house should also work at home while the non providers watch? Kid, next year you can get your independence and prove the world and your family that you were right all along. You managed to hold it up to this point, you are almost there.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 03:49 PM
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I just don't think it's clear enough to say she is flat out lying. I'm not saying she's lying. She described the situation, based on what she said I'd say she made a mistake calling him a sexual predator/abuser. ​ 25 year old female here with some sexual trauma. For the past 5 years I’ve been saying that my male best friend at the time had molested me You are telling me that an adult human female (25-5=20) can't cut off a "best friend" from her life if he doesn't understand the meaning of the wo…
/r/MensRights28/07/22 03:46 PM
2

What should happen is a debate where scholars are invited to detail the pregnancy process since conception to birth and then intelligent people on both sides should discuss the stage at which human life exists. I'm not an expert but I've heard some arguments. ​ The building blocks for the nervous system appear at week 3 and nervous system activity starts on week 7/8. Life begins at week 6/7 when the heart starts beating. Sounds like a plausible way to define the beginning since no human can live…
/r/MensRights28/07/22 03:38 PM
1

It is implied despite me removing his hand about 8 times Do you think someone actually trying to force himself onto her would get his hand removed? Plus... he's touching around there and she's just moving his hand away? Nothing else? Sounds fishy... When I don't want physical contact and someone does it twice after the first "casual removal", the 2nd time I'm making sure there won't be a 3rd... let alone 8 times... But you can just go all #believewomen and keep downvoting whatever logical interp…
/r/MensRights28/07/22 12:34 PM
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well, I'm only basing myself on the info given on this topic, nothing else otherwise we'd be speculating all day.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 08:39 PM
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Then again when a woman tells you she was out at night and got assaulted you don't imagine a dumb idiot trying to touch her leg 8 times and getting shoved back 8 times while keeping his stupid grin on his face and being oblivious to being rejected. I believe "sexual harassment" and "assault" should be definitions applied to cases where people are actually in danger, otherwise we'd be just lowering the meaning of those words which could actually have the opposite effect for actual victims of sexu…
/r/MensRights27/07/22 08:21 PM
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Forcefully touch someone against their will. Based on her description, where did he apply force? She was always able to remove his hands whenever she wanted. He's a dumb idiot and she shoud've been more assertive towards him, but calling him a sexual predator based on that example is too far fetched. It puts him in the same category as those who forcefully touch someone and no matter how hard they try to escape, it's a futile struggle, it puts him in the same category as people who actually rape…
/r/MensRights27/07/22 07:31 PM
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They don't, but when (if) they want to make some moves towards a girl and touch them even on the shoulder or something and get called "sexual predators" they instantly learn the difference. I'm not defending the guy here, if it were me, the first time she removes my hand and denies any advances is when I get up and leave. Trying to repeat the act is just desperate and shows lack of self esteem or awareness, even though some guys get it done by being persistent. However, he didn't force himself o…
/r/MensRights27/07/22 07:26 PM
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I'd let her crash lol.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 10:10 AM
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She convinced me to get in her car as "I'm a guy and could rape/kidnap her". And you got in? I read the whole thing and it seems like you are well aware of what happens to men who have to deal with fake rape accusations so you heard her saying that and didn't immediately get out of the situation? Sounds like bs my dude. Plus, what's your dog doing there on a 1st date? Didn't you say in the comments you met her on Tinder? She starts recording and threatening you and you don't pull out of your pho…
/r/MensRights26/07/22 11:19 PM
2

Nah, red pill isn't the way. Take the black one instead.
/r/MensRights26/07/22 11:41 AM
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Hi all, I have a 10 month old baby and live with her and her mother, my partner. Our relationship has been very toxic since the start two years ago. Seriously? DON'T STICK YOUR DICK IN CRAZY! Aw man... ffs. These women don't deserve to reproduce, why would you give it to them for free? For now, seek legal advice and try to record everything. Basically, do to her the same as she does to you, as soon as she starts recording, you record too. Start recording even before she resorts to that. I'm pret…
/r/MensRights23/07/22 05:30 PM
2

yep, that's why men need to focus on getting back there
/r/MensRights20/07/22 10:55 AM
2

Trust me, that wasn't an issue a few years ago. Accused of staring? People would just laugh at the accuser and tell her to get a life.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 10:27 AM
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Possibly, but not in my country. Probably in other countries male only gyms also exist. I don't think it is an issue worth talking. Men and women can share a gym without an issue. The issue is something else.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 10:05 AM
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Where I live I don't think so. Not to my knowledge. But I also don't know "women only" gyms.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 08:42 AM
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My workplace only has one woman out of 40 employees. The engineering field isn't a dream world for women so I can work in peace. I haven't even met her in the office, I just know she exists from teams meetings. But at the gym it is a different story. I don't look. I don't touch and I only talk to if I need to use the machine/bench they are using. It's always a "good morning/day/evening how many sets do you have left in that machine/banch" "thank you". If I notice headphones I put my hand in fron…
/r/MensRights19/07/22 06:54 PM
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So let me see if I can understand. You came to rMensRights to talk about how your wife abused you and called the police on you lying and saying you were the abuser. You came here and got to know that many men in your place but with less luck got jailed for the same thing. Now you decided to ignore every advice about leaving your wife and protecting yourself and instead looked for therapy, something that pretty much everyone here told you not to do while explaining their reasoning. Mate, if you s…
/r/MensRights19/07/22 06:40 PM
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The only extreme I see is your lack of intelligence. What's the threshold that separates humans from apes? I'll text it once more. The only women who deal with me are the ones who like me enough to do so. I don't date and I don't waste time being social with people like you. To put it in other terms. I date women and I am social with women. I don't date feminists and I avoid being social with feminists. I don't consider them women, just adult female kids who only managed to mature physically.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 02:53 PM
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For someone who feels offended often and not by much, you should know that "offence" is actually spelled "o-f-f-e-n-s-e". Don't get your hopes up. The first message was indeed texted to you, in my innocence. Now that I know that you are woman only on the exterior, feminist on the inside, I'm just replying to make sure actual women understand how warped, attention seeking and unpolite feminists are by using you as an example. You assumed I have little interaction with women but in reality I do ha…
/r/MensRights17/07/22 02:50 PM
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On the male migrant population, to be precise. I think there should be a preference for female refugees (women and girls) coming from war-torn countries, as, like you said, male refugees from countries like Syria and Afghanistan have caused so much mayhem in Europe. My view here is that every person should be able to escape from war (except the ones causing the war). Europe did well opening its doors to war refugees but the process of doing it was terrible. They had the technology to later have …
/r/MensRights17/07/22 12:40 PM
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A world with 100% equallity of opportunity would need to make us all exact clones. A person born smarter will have more opportunities than others who aren't so smart. If people believe we are all equal at birth, explain to me the existence of "gifted children". Even with clones, equallity of outcome isn't likely as there is a lot of randomness in life which affects the outcome. Despite our natural diferences, we should strive to make a world where the only factor determining the hierarchy is mer…
/r/MensRights17/07/22 12:11 PM
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What the fuck did I just read? Look, my comment wasn't meant to be especially mean to you, I just dealt with enough life to smell bs when bs is in front of me. Do you really think most women on the UK get "harassed or come on to by maybe 10 different men a day on average"? Do you think being cyber stalked by not one by "maybe" 2 exs or men who've become obsessed with you who are also web security experts to know more than reddit's web security experts, meta's (Facebook, IG, Whatsapp), Google's, …
/r/MensRights17/07/22 11:43 AM
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Mate, your answers to the perspective of my comment were on point and your analysis here is also very good, you deserve all the upvotes!
/r/MensRights17/07/22 11:25 AM
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You come off as apart of the problem for woman. Naw, don't worry. Apart from convos I have on reddit and relationships with my childhood friends and family, I don't deal with women at all. My working field is 99% men. The only women who deal with me are the ones who like me enough to do so. I don't date and I don't waste time being social with people like you. ​ But no. This attitude won't get you anywhere, you're clearly not showing empathy or seeing me an equal human being. This is your issue,…
/r/MensRights17/07/22 11:12 AM
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We get seriously assaulted, raped or just pestered by people stronger than us, who society often sees as more credible, subconsciously atleast. No, they don't. That's why #metoo got popular, because society sees women as more credible, especially subcounsciously. People just started believing women without proof and cancelling men. Some cases were real, but how many men got cancelled without having done a thing? I'd buy the "I'm afraid of being assaulted, raped or pestered", but then again, most…
/r/MensRights16/07/22 07:54 PM
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Well, I'm not much older. I'm guessing that by "this form of social media" you mean reddit. I'd say the best option, if you want to expose certain situations of your personal life looking for advice, would be to create a throwaway account and anonimously inquire about your situation in subs about that topic. However, as reddit is becoming more and more known and the platform is being administered by radical globalists, take what you get here with a grain of salt. Nowadays everything becomes poli…
/r/MensRights10/07/22 06:53 PM
3

Compliments are rare but much appreciated! Thank you for your kind words.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 06:41 PM
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I see where you are getting at. But I didn't say I don't look for advice. I talk with my parents (who fortunately are still around and have always been my main source of wisdom) or other friends about what troubles me and get advice from them. Sometimes I even request the help of random internet opinions. There may be a comment there that makes me reflect about some fallacy in my reasoning or behaviour and when I do find it I'm the first to apologize. However, some situations, like the one OP de…
/r/MensRights10/07/22 05:44 PM
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Well I'm confrontational in these kinds of situations and I'm not one to apologize when I'm not feeling like I'm in the wrong. So unless there's regret on the other side, the friendship is as good as over.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 05:31 PM
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I've ended friendships for similar reasons. These people will only learn when they get dropped by everyone and start feeling loneliness.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 10:26 AM
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Keep the baby. Drop the dude. Sign a paper and record a video saying that you both agree that he has no ties to the kid and that you will never wish to force him to become a parent through court. Heck, talk to a lawyer asking for a way to give him the guarantee that he will never be bothered by you or your kid. But as soon as that is solved, make sure you don't ever see that man in your life. Your values just don't align and you should've never been in a relationship with him but what's done is …
/r/MensRights09/07/22 02:56 AM
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Like these guys only brought up mens rights as an opponent to feminism, but didn’t seem to actually care about real issues plaguing men today(I.e Men getting sexually assaulted, men getting fucked in divorce proceedings etc). So do you guys try to always keep these important discussions happening or is it more of a reactionary thing? Divorce proceedings are issues well debated here. If you peek around, you will see one of two posts about it per week, if not more. Men getting sexually assaulted i…
/r/MensRights09/07/22 02:47 AM
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Feminism is garbage fed to sheep. It was never about equality and it didn't achieve many "major wins for women in the fight for equality" as feminists like to claim. People need to start studying the origins of feminism and knowing about some key names like Simone du Beauvoir and what they used to say. It's just another tool used to destroy tradicional western values, tackling the traditional family the most. Now, I'm not a conservative, nor a liberal. I'm somewhere in the middle where I think s…
/r/MensRights09/07/22 02:47 AM
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Wait a second. Can we now call these women incels? uh, how the tables turn ahaha
/r/MensRights28/06/22 08:58 AM
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It is an issue that affects men, but it isn't a question of rights/obligations. The way I see it, the dating market currently only benefits women and a minuscule percentage of men. It never benefitted (and probably never will) unattractive people (be it men or women), but it used to be 50/50. Nowadays it is far from 50/50. However, the way to change it doesn't depend on women but rather men. It is always a matter of supply/demand. Women demand highly because they have hundreds of men lurking in …
/r/MensRights27/06/22 07:56 PM
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Mate, it happens because you are not on the top percentile of men. Those are loved and put on a pedestal. This will happen until the men stop putting every woman on a pedestal and start treating them just the way they treat other men. By that I mean initial indiference to strangers, regular basic politeness and nothing else. Only those who graduate to acquaintances get a bit more and from those, only the friends get the full you. Going the extra mile only for the closest friends and family. Many…
/r/MensRights26/06/22 01:13 AM
1

So, generally: ​ Abortions should be always possible whenever there is a potential risk of medical harm for the mother or if the doctors discover some kind of malformation, or the fetus is the product of rape. In the case of rape, the woman needs to file a report to the police and it can only end in the guy being proved guilty and charged, or her being proved a liar and charged. This is to ensure no woman will file for rape with a fake story just to get an abortion and then withdraw. The mother …
/r/MensRights25/06/22 10:22 PM
1

So I can interview 2% of your country's population and ask them if they would like it in the ass. I carefully pick people who hold a certain flag in the air as those have a higher chance of favouring my question. Then I make statistics about that survey and conclude that you like it in the ass. How does that sound? Familiar? Surveys and statistics aren't factual, they indicate probability at best.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 10:37 AM
1

I'm not disagreeing with you or replying to OP. I replying in a chain of comments giving tips about maximising condom efficiency. That's all.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 09:44 AM
1

Well, yes, but they aren't factual.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 09:41 AM
1

Doesn’t seem like you are in any environment. I don't care about what you think. The wall in my room has degrees hanging, not a poster with you in there. ​ Pulling out is not even considered a contraception method, that’s how reliable that is. I meant pulling out while using the condom. ​ That would need monitoring like ovulation tests, or are you talking about the theory on paper? You don't need monitoring to have a rough estimate based on the menstrual cycle. It isn't perfect but even a rough …
/r/MensRights22/06/22 12:46 AM
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Ye mate you can show the academic paper, I've been in that environment. You can use statistics to prove whatever you want if you put the scope in the proper view. ​ In general, the failure rate for perfect use (i.e., a condom used correctly at every act of intercourse) is approximately 3%, and for typical use (condoms not used for every act of intercourse) the failure rate is 12%. So you are telling me the WHO is wrong? Overall, the World Health Organization says condoms have a 2% failure rate w…
/r/MensRights21/06/22 11:55 PM
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When they aren't used properly, yes. With proper use they don't fail. Check the rubber after applying it and after sex. It's kinda easy to spot holes if you contract the sperm inside of it against the walls. If nothing comes out it should be well sealed. Tie a knot on it and throw it away. Before taking the condom out of the plastic plastic packaging, press it slightly, it should have a bit of air trapped inside. If there isn't any, maybe someone poked the packaging and it is escaping. If you ar…
/r/MensRights21/06/22 11:10 PM
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Interesting that you don't care about US statistics while commenting on a post about US statistics. It sounds more like a disagreement angers you and less like you "don't care." Interesting armchair psychology. Still wrong tho. ​ Do you know what else is unfortunate? The violation of one's bodily autonomy. Damn right. Being treated like a criminal because I never wanted to vaccinate against a virus I never caught with a vaccine that is shady af and still is underdeveloped. Oh wait... wrong bodil…
/r/MensRights18/06/22 02:13 AM
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Listen, I don't give the slightest crap about your US statistics. I have never stepped foot in that country. That's why I said "can someone make a new account and post there...", it is not my issue, I'm not from there so I shouldn't talk about it like I know about it. But I know enough to realise that feminism is and was complete BS. Crazy like Simone de Beauvoir started the movement, people who actually dedicated their lives trying to solve the problem like Erin Pizzey got kicked out of it by t…
/r/MensRights17/06/22 12:13 PM
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Can someone make a new account, get to these same sources and post on feminist sub-reddits these sources, accusing them of lying and gaslighting? Make it about them and about how even this data is misogynistic and racist. I'm pretty sure you will get up-voted and praised even though you show no basis or proof of it being false data.
/r/MensRights17/06/22 11:34 AM
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You can't. Women don't care about weak men. Weak men talk about their issues. Men care more about women than about other men. Most of them because they seriously believe that it maximizes their chances at getting laid or a girlfriend. Do you see where this is going? Weak women crying about their problems? You get the women showing same-sex solidarity. You get the men who want to be their crying shoulder to, hopefully, get some of the coochie. Then you add some other men who'd actually find their…
/r/MensRights13/06/22 10:43 PM
4

It's like "I want to shove this down everyone's throat and get all the attention to me, but then I wonder why people get mad at me, they must be somethingphobe". Nobody likes the loudest kid in the room, no matter his sexuality.
/r/MensRights13/06/22 10:24 AM
1

No. He can walk away. None of his business. But I'd say everyone should have it in their minds to try and help those who are truly in need, whenever possible. Be it men or women. When that is lost, society becomes a fked up place.
/r/MensRights12/06/22 02:31 AM
1

If the person chooses to not to provide sex in exchange for money, and their child starves as a result, are they morally right or wrong? Wrong in both scenarios. Do something else to provide for your children. Starve yourself first. ​ By this reasoning it's entirely possible to have a society that is completely morally right yet full of starving children. Well, let's consider the Holodomor. In 30's Ukraine, who was morally wrong? They were victims of a communist dictatorship. It's not like you a…
/r/MensRights12/06/22 02:29 AM
1

What's worse, providing options based on a disparity or providing no options based on morality? If the man wanted to truly help her family, he'd just give her the money. Or maybe he could give her food for her kids? He wanted the sex with a mother of children. In my book that's a no. But I guess nowadays people do whatever and it's all good. Then they wonder why some stuff starts happening (i.e. increasing violence, etc). Breaking families apart has a lot to do with it.
/r/MensRights12/06/22 12:13 AM
1

Or if taken as separate entities the person paying is morally wrong, while the person providing sex is morally right in the first possibility. This, yes. The person paying is taking advantage of the other. ​ In the second, the person not paying is neither morally right or wrong and the person not providing sex is morally what? What? Can you clarify what you mean?
/r/MensRights12/06/22 12:08 AM
1

And the choice to take advantage of a desperate person is also to be made responsible. No need to be black or white here. Both sides can be in the wrong.
/r/MensRights11/06/22 04:45 PM
2

Would you blame a man for paying a poor married woman for sex, taking advantage of her financial situation? If her kids are starving, should she choose to not open her legs and remain faithful to her family or to use that money to feed her kids? It's a specific scenario and not reversible to this example in the thread, but would you say "can't blame the guys from taking advantage". There's a morality to it. Women who take advantage of desperate men are to blame, just as men who take advantage of…
/r/MensRights11/06/22 02:47 PM
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Don't be angry at the foolish woman. Be angry at the simp that paid it. Those are the ones enabling that kind of behaviour and they are the majority of the modern men. Until men stop acting like that, things will never change.
/r/MensRights11/06/22 03:27 AM
1

Oh, don't worry about reddit downvotes. Most of reddit's users are little kids (some "trapped" in the bodies of adults). They will downvote anything they don't agree with, regardless of it being prejorative or not for a topic.
/r/MensRights08/06/22 12:14 PM
0

That doesn't seem reassuring
/r/MensRights07/06/22 12:28 AM
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So you are saying we can safely go back to considering spiders and snakes to be the Australia's biggest threats? ​ And let's be honest, the biggest problem to mens rights aren't women, its men simping for women and pushing all these feminist agendas. You are 100% right here.
/r/MensRights06/06/22 11:37 AM
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This Sam Seder dude needs a slap across his face.
/r/MensRights05/06/22 04:17 PM
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There you go seeing men's rights bend over for the female who made the claim without any proof (to this date) because Musk has recently been right-leaning. Most of the community here are male feminists (meninists?) and one can tell by the way they talk and behave. It's just like feminists but with the reverse view. This place used to be made of men against the idiotic feminist narrative. Now it looks like your average leftist activist group with "victims" and "safe spaces" everywhere. And for th…
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:08 AM
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Imperfect victim is shitting on the bed?
/r/MensRights23/05/22 09:24 AM
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