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lol this is a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:38 PM
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We understand truly but I genuinely don’t understand what men expect US to do abt it ? Like realistically if men are lonely isn’t it up to them to build the relationships if not with women than with eachother ? Why aren’t men supporting eachother ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:31 AM
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Most of the people producing red pill or feminist content ARE grifters tho lol that’s why it’s so easy for ppl to get lost in the sauce . You have to take all advice from people who make money off your views & engagement with a grain of salt bc they’re not out to help you they’re literally doing what they need to do to get paid .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:52 PM
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This is my take on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:20 PM
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It’s probably bc men are willing to tolerate more if it means access to sex .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:48 PM
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I see ugly men , fat men ,short men, broke men , literally every type of man being picked every day . I wish some men would just say they’re not willing to do what it takes for them to be likeable .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:50 PM
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Whew I think it’s insane the amount of responsibility men put on women in regards to their feelings of value when it comes to relationships. Women not automatically wanting to lay them sends them off the deep end and I don’t think that’s addressed enough bc it CANT be healthy . The way men describe it I don’t see a solution other than women choosing them even though they don’t actually want to .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:36 PM
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No it’s that most “nice guys” are actually lowkey insane . There are men that are truly nice but that doesn’t mean we are automatically compatible just bc he’s “nice”. So in the event that he isn’t deranged and he’s just a normal good person that doesn’t mean we will click just off the strength that he’s a good guy. The same way that men don’t typically go after women they’re not attracted to just bc she’s “a good girl”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:09 PM
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If a man gets a woman pregnant and doesn’t want the child the least he could do is help pay for it since he was irresponsible along with the mother (unless he was ACTUALLY raped or babytrapped. Some of y’all say you don’t want a baby but stick your dick in anything Willy nilly and that’s stupid as shit) . However I really believe those women should go to the clinic . Children are too difficult expensive and time consuming to have knowing you’re going to be alone in things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:36 PM
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Do you think that the heavy European colonization of certain Muslim countries has a big effect on their mass immigration today ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:42 PM
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Because most of social media isn’t real . And most men on dating apps are looking for fast pace hookup situations not the responsibility of taking someone’s virginity. What exactly are you looking for here though? Do you want a serious relationship or do you want casual sex ? Bc the places you’d look for those things is totally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:41 AM
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I actually agree . But typically we’d like men to leave us alone in the first place if you’re just going to start being weird later bc we won’t have sex with you. I think it’s pretty fair for us to prefer you express your interest upfront so we can get that all out the way instead of building a friendship under false pretenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:14 AM
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Of course . But I still don’t understand why you guys have to fuck your friends and why you guys don’t care that it’s more creepy than effective at getting you guys laid ? You don’t think that it’s also a bit entitled to think friendship means eventually she needs to like you back ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:59 PM
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Men do it continuously. There’s a ton of men I’ve started off as friends with that not long after things got weird bc all of a sudden they wanted to be more . Something’s not aligning if you’re saying that for men it’s rare but for women to experience this commonly .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:58 PM
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If a woman is repeatedly being “fuck zoned “ she has some serious going on with herself and look inwards to see what that is . Instead of blaming all the men who just want sex she should see why that keeps happening and what she can do to avoid it realistically. And yes you guys are allowed to be friends with or not be friends with whoever you want but it’s definitely weird to continuously put ppl that are your “friends” in an uncomfortable situation where they have to reject you sexually . I’d …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:09 PM
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I’m confused as to why men would be upset at being friend zoned in the first place. Women are allowed to not like you guys romantically . Rejection doesn’t feel good but I think it’s so weird that you guys are always wanting to fuck your friends & get upset when it’s not a possibility . It’s sad when ppl can’t have normal platonic relationships with the opposite sex bc of the weird hang ups .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:16 PM
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I’ve never thought that way once when I’ve paid for a date (as a woman) I only thought I was doing something nice for the person I was interested in .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:40 PM
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Both parties contributing is fine , but being treated to things by your (male) partner absolutely doesn’t mean you should or will be treated as less than . I agree that we shouldn’t expect things simply for being a woman that doesn’t equate to the nice things someone you’re dating or in a relationship does for you . Reciprocity is 🔑 here though bc it’s definitely a bad situation if the man is doing all the work but the woman brings nothing to the situation. I’ve found that most men I’ve interact…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:20 AM
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Why does a man paying for your meal mean you’re not an equal 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:13 AM
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You aren’t the dictator of love . You can’t decide that for others just bc that’s your perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:38 PM
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But relationships needing a level of transaction doesn’t erase the love that’s shared . Love will run out if both people aren’t actively making an effort towards eachother .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:20 PM
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You’re insane if you think that love negates the responsibilities we have in life and towards eachother . Love doesn’t mean that I should be with someone who will not or cannot contribute in the relationship. That’s crazy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:18 PM
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Love should be conditional tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:15 PM
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All relationships are transactional even those with love . It’s ridiculous for them not to be . Both ppl in the relationship should be making transactions that keep their relationship strong .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:14 PM
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Exactly lol if men “need” it so do women .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:23 AM
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They’ll even pursue you in a burqa I’ve seen it in real time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:39 PM
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Nothing lol men will pursue literally anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:56 PM
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I know men in therapy that swear by therapy . They don’t have issues with women though. So maybe that’s why they see it as something beneficial .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:18 PM
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Women don’t date based on personality? lolololololol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:17 PM
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Exactly . Every single red pill leaning man has made extremely poor choices in women and it’s ironic bc they ignore the type of red flags they claim we ignore in men bad guys & get frustrated when we won’t ignore the red flags in THEM lolololol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:27 PM
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Bc they want to be the ones being picked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:18 PM
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I got married very very young and I realized while married he wasn’t my type but I’d already had kids so tried to make it work. Divorced for other reasons and I strictly deal with my type . Are there women who settle ? Probably . Are they the majority ? Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:10 AM
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lol it’s not that they can’t it’s that they’re now using their spouse to get out of having to do stuff lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:15 PM
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Bc they would love to take us back to a time where they can MAKE women do the things they want instead of being a decent enough person women will do it willingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:17 PM
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I guess? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:56 PM
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Sex was just an example of one of the many expectations that are imposed in adult relationships. And I am currently footing the bill for my adult life . That doesn’t mean that men I engage with don’t do things like treat me to dinner or something. The same way I go out of my way to do things for them. My point was that in every relationship there is a cost by both ppl , regardless of how it’s phrased or made to appear by one party. If you aren’t getting what you need then it’s up to you to decid…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:20 AM
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It’s true to a degree but untrue on the part abt women not being able to love men for who they are because there’s broke men getting laid and even more than that from women daily . There’s also costs to women for being in relationships with men so I don’t see an issue with this. I’ve never been with a man who’d tolerate never having sex with me again in our relationship if there wasn’t an extreme reason like me being ill, why should I have to give up being treated to things? It’s as simple as no…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:04 AM
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The level of emotional and mental support they offer is wildly different. The way they treat you is differently because of the generation gap ( holding doors making sure I’m on the inside of the sidewalk more interested in my overall well being & safety) . More time to focus on the relationship because nobody’s asking abt my ability to contribute to bills etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:21 PM
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Whew where do I start lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:11 PM
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Whew lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:09 PM
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Very very true . And then there’s the men who SAY they want a woman who’s sex drive is high but can’t keep up with her 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:35 PM
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Let me ask you … WHAT women are calling this dad bod or skinny fat? Which ones ? Where ? How? Cause this isn’t computing for me …. These are thin/ in shape men…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:18 AM
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lol quickest way to end up nowhere with women I promise
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:45 AM
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Nope . We don’t . Pretty privilege applies to men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:00 PM
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It’s already and has been normal for quite some time . Paying to play has been a thing for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:09 PM
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Preference . Even within the lgbtq community they have preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:14 AM
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I’ve always had a preference for at least 7 yrs difference . As I’ve gotten older that age has gotten older . I’m late 20’s & my current situationship is with a 43 yr old .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:31 PM
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I used to but I was naive . There are literally only a few men that I know of who wouldn’t have sex with me even if I offered .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:28 AM
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It’s an unnecessary need. Like I definitely need it but can go without it at the same time .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:15 PM
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Absolutely. I have to if I want to protect myself from pregnancy . I already barely do as it is but I don’t know if I wanna risk it .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:54 PM
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lol huh? The marriage factor has nothing to do with looks lmao it’s all mind games .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:59 PM
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I think your idea of sexual compatibility and what it really is may not be connecting . People don’t HAVE to enjoy all the same things to be compatible but the incompatibility part comes in where the differences are so big it’s an issue . Has nothing to do directly with sleeping with lots of people or promiscuity. A person can be celibate until they feel like they’ve found someone who’s compatible with what they desire .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:48 PM
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Agreed . This is absolutely a him problem. Women flock to good looking men . Extra points if he’s as charming as he looks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:33 PM
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Actually it’s not lol idk who told you that .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:32 AM
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Women shouldnt go half with finances . I’m sure for some it’s what they prefer but for a lot of us we see the men who take care of us vs the ones we have to split bills with differently even if they’re both truly good guys . Doesn’t mean finance splitters are wrong though either . It’s just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:58 PM
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Yes , it’s my only choice as of now since I have children already and am not comfortable pursuing men without kids .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:55 PM
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lol huh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:37 PM
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I’ve gone from being thin and in shape to overweight ( by like 50 pounds ish ) . The answer is no . Never struggled getting into a relationship because of it , even by men who prefer skinnier normally .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:06 PM
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I don’t mind as long as it’s not creepily done . I know alot of women don’t like it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:50 AM
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Agreed . Women prioritize security emotional financial or otherwise .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:57 PM
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Why does cooperative equal subordinate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:34 AM
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There should always be balance , it’s key. Being agreeable or “cooperative” shouldn’t be naturally equated with being a doormat type . It’s possible to work toward a mutual goal AND hold eachother accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:31 AM
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Men and women are different and by extension so are their needs . Traditionally men took care of women and women were supposed to shut up essentially . The dynamics were definitely toxic , but unnecessarily. I understand it when it’s balanced . Most men don’t want to come home to someone who’s a headache ( argumentative or oppositional basically ) just like most women wouldn’t like a man that isn’t willing to work hard to make sure they’re stable . If it works who am I to judge ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:15 PM
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Because women who give too much pushback are a headache . Some of it is valid and some of it is controlling bullshit . Take it case by case . The more common word I’ve heard is “cooperative” .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:09 PM
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Honestly men are easier to be friends with (when they’re not attracted to you). I’m traumatized by the way a lot of my female friendships have ended .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:31 PM
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Actually it’s personality that carry’s people with average looks and money
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:38 PM
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