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And frequently at lunch if we're both working from home
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 10:25 PM
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It's a super weird argument and I don't know why men keep making it. Why on earth should any of us give a shit about keeping up cheap labor supply for the ruling elite?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:36 PM
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Find a Therapist Near You
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 11:50 AM
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No it's not the wording. I feel the same about my partner. I don't need him. I can survive just fine without him. I want him. I want to enjoy every moment of our lives together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:22 PM
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If you don't need a man to survive, then the goal shifts to finding a man that you actually want to spend the rest of your life with. It's a much higher bar. That's why lame men are struggling. You actually have to add to her enjoyment and quality of life, because you are not competing with other men. You are competing with the life she is able to provide for herself and enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:19 PM
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Agreed. No notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:27 AM
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Please read the comment I directly responded to <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:12 AM
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I never argued that they didn't so it's a weird way to respond
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:59 PM
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I'm reasonably certain my dad threw him a beating but that was after he drug him out of my room and I didn't follow to find out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:41 PM
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Are you ok? That's not a sub for support. Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:38 PM
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What women?! Do you have any concept of how judgemental most women are? A grown woman sleeping with a teen boy would either be a criminal if he's underage or immediately become a pariah if the law wasn't technically broken. What do you gain by making shit like this up?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:48 PM
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I've only seen people care about an age gap one time in my life when a family friend in his late 30s married a girl that had graduated high school six months prior. Most people distanced themselves pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:34 PM
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Doesn't stop them from trying though. I can viscerally remember the disgust and fear when my dad's friends hit on me when I was in high school and then after I turned 18 started actively trying to fuck me. One cornered me in my bedroom and kissed me. I screamed and my dad threw him out. This shit happens so much more than y'all realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:31 PM
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You're just talking to yourself at this point, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:48 AM
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You are in the AUTOMOD section. I replied here because the bullshit you posted was of so little value it didn't warrant direct interaction. I'll be real with you, the only thing that even sparked a hint of my interest was curiousity about the level of mental illness required to talk circles around an ai in order to produce this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:32 AM
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Did your GPT write this for you as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:30 AM
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Fucking make me 🤣 Like I'm going to listen to anything a person (meh maybe) that's too lazy to craft their own thoughts has to say
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:19 AM
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"I will start by pushing back" is peak GPT. Nothing about your response reads human and the nearly instant reply to my comment screams bot. However, I will grant that it's equally likely that this is just the same dude that posted this nonsense on an alt private account trying to generate engagement. Weird all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:56 AM
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What the fuck is going on in here? Do we have a bot replying to a bot? 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:50 AM
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I thought we were anti ai slop these days in this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:49 AM
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Dude... this really makes me sad. I wish you had that in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:00 PM
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People leave shit behind. Pretty much everywhere. They're not "failing at adulting" which you'll probably realize when you grow up enough to earn the title of adult 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:55 PM
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I can't imagine why you think your point is layered or deserves further consideration. It isn't layered. There's nothing further to consider. You put it all out there upfront, including rather a lot about yourself and your own character that you likely had no idea you were clearly communicating. No amount of acting like other people are too unintelligent to understand your needless bitching makes that true. Trust me kid, we all understand your point. We all understand who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:25 PM
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Yeah this whole post just reads as sour grapes from a bitter person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:12 PM
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What point? That you don't have the sense to understand your own job and want to blame men for it? Get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:11 PM
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Your job is customer service. You answer dumb questions. That's the whole gig. The description of what you are expected to do is in the job title. Get a new job dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:32 PM
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I can't think of many things I care less about. If you want to get your rocks off with a cartoon, love that for you. The person running that account looks absolutely nothing like that avatar though, guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:21 PM
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This was my first thought as well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:20 PM
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Say what now? These types of questions are the entire reason you have a job... This just sounds like you wanted a platform to bitch about your (perfectly normal) job and men as a whole without any substance to back it up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:17 PM
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Everyone complains. I don't think much of it until I have to listen to the same tired shit out of someone's mouth for the thousandth time without even the slightest attempt to change their circumstances. Gtfo with "women are better at campaigning and could do more" because that just sounds like you admitting that men are aware a gap exists and are unwilling to close it. See statement above.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:52 AM
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Exaggerating to make a story more entertaining is encouraged if done without malice. I don't have any use for lies, otherwise. Much like I've never had a use for people that pry into shit that's none of their business. Do you need to know someone's weight or the details of their sex life, or are you just so self-centered that you think these things require your judgement? If I don't want to answer a question, I won't, and I'll likely tell you exactly why I found it rude and invasive before endin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:15 PM
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Can't argue with that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:12 AM
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I mean... this might be the safest way possible for humans to build social skills and healthy coping mechanisms. I feel a bit weird thinking your "dystopian hypothetical" is better for society than the current system, but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:40 PM
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What's the point of this hypothetical? Did you just want to daydream about a world where you can strip agency from women and force them to service men they aren't interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:01 PM
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Pretty much exactly the reaction I had to your post
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:59 PM
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I cannot overstate how much I do not give a shit about passport bros or their incentives. You are a fucking adult and make your own decisions. Stop begging for us to validate shit we don't care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:15 PM
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He takes it out when it's full. Just like I do. We don't have to ask each other to do things that need doing unless it's a "shit it's trash day, grab everything NOW" panic situation and in those cases we both spring into action.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:12 PM
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The fuck are you talking about? If you can't map your mom telling you as a 13 year old boy that you're going to find a great girl and settle down one day against the reality of your actual dating life as an adult male, that's on you. Maybe you should have asked yourself why that person deleted their comment rather than attacking mine 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:55 PM
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I am not going to argue for a position I never took. You can address the statements I made or admit you're fighting windmills here, but I won't be offering justification for actions taken or words spoken by others, so if that's what you're here for, clear off. And yeah, regarding your statement about poverty, you either learn to live with it or you do something about it, but if you take action, you damn well better understand that the other side will take action to maintain their own position an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:27 AM
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Fuck no that doesn't only apply to romance. It applies to your friends, your family, your job. To every one of those people you just listed. The second you require the validation of others to maintain your mental stability, you are knowingly giving that stability away. Y'all have to learn to differentiate what is controllable and what is not. The way you maintain the model of your own self-worth is fully within your control and should not be given to anything outside of yourself. Systemic factor…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:05 AM
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Then why are you so upset about something you claim to not even want? This is an illogical posture to hold
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:51 AM
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How about I chip away at it for you? Social skills are not an indication of your morality. They are a skill, and skills can be trained. The vast majority of the world can't pick up a guitar for the first time and play like Jeff Beck, but they can put in the hours of practice to develop that skill to the height of their capacity. You have to suck at something, learn why you suck, then learn how not to suck, before you operate with mastery. This is true for every skill on earth. Some people are in…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:47 AM
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Whatever you need to tell yourself to sleep at night. Just know that there are a whole lot of men in the world that don't spend their time writing sad shit like this on Reddit that have no trouble seducing women. Stop pretending that your inability to get laid is a problem for everyone. It's not. It's absolutely you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:00 AM
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Go ahead and add that to the list of narratives you tell yourself to feel better. I see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:56 AM
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Men that can't pull type shit right here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:43 AM
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Congrats on getting picked?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:40 AM
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Ok? I'm sorry you had that experience but it has nothing to do with what I've written and bringing politics into it is deeply odd. What are you looking for here with this comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:27 PM
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Dating has always required social skills. ALWAYS. Positive human interaction requires social skills. Saying otherwise it's nothing more than a narrative you tell yourself to self-soothe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:25 PM
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Umm... I'm sorry that you never learned to distinguish platitudes people use to placate you from reality. That's got to be a rough way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:52 PM
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Then go ahead and come to terms with spending every second of the rest of your life unhappy. You're tying your own happiness to something external to yourself that you have absolutely no control over. This is YOUR choice and no one on this earth is going to ever hold responsibility for a decision you are knowingly making.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:51 PM
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It is better than doing anything else. Understanding that you may well be alone for the rest of your life leaves you with the understanding that the person you need to figure out how to make happy is you because a life with yourself is all you're guaranteed to have. *Corrected spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:48 PM
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Correct. That's why I have never allowed men that aren't capable of maintaining the level of cleanliness I require to remain in my life. Get the fuck out and live in squalor elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:40 PM
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Yet another example of someone hearing what they want. No one ever told you that living your life the way you wanted would guarantee you a partner. They told you that you aren’t guaranteed to partner so you should go ahead and live your life in a way that makes you happy and fulfulled, and maybe, just maybe, you find a partner that fits with that life one day. Why is this so fucking hard for you guys to understand? Are you being intentionally obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:38 PM
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It never stops being amusing watching men that hate themselves trying to convince women to do the same. It's not going to work dude. She doesn't have to choose one. Your opinion is just that and has zero bearing on how someone feels about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:51 AM
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I have no interest in marriage and do not require a legal contract to maintain a healthy, stable relationship. If you do, I fully support that, but I think it's important to know exactly the type of person you will be legally tying yourself to before doing so. You may think you know a person well, but really you only know the mask they present to the outside world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:41 PM
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Yeah no shit. They do those jobs for other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:22 PM
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Do you think there aren't male prostitutes or strippers? Fitness influencers? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:21 AM
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I actually don't understand why it's important to you to clarify that one is worse than the other this way. Both suck. Food poisoning doesn't have the long-term impact of cancer on your life, but I'm still going to do everything I can to avoid food poisoning. What's your point here dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:10 PM
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No amount of bitching and moaning is ever going to make women want to fuck men they are not attracted to. I do not know why this concept is so difficult to understand. Jfc deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:42 PM
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"Women get more leeway" Ok then stop giving it to them. I don't give men leeway with shit that you've listed because I would not expect a man to give me leeway if it were me doing these things. Don't bitch about a problem if you actively take part in perpetuating it. If someone's behavior doesn't align with your values, show them the door. It really is that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:37 PM
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I think the internet just counts as evidence that people in echo chambers spiral into stupidity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:43 AM
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Bro do what you want and stop seeking validation. You are perfectly capable of making decisions about your own live without desperately needing the approval of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:19 AM
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I'd love to know how you came to such an odd conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:44 PM
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Hey so sweeping generalizations about an entire population are just as stupid coming from women as they are from men. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:01 PM
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Then put your research up and prove to us that you have enough sense to read it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:58 PM
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Y'all just make shit up to get upset about. It's baffling, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:54 PM
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I haven't really noticed it more with women, but I have noticed it's a lot more common with my friends that have anxiety or that are just naturally introverted. When it starts happening with people that don't normally behave that way, I take that as a signal that something is probably going on and they may be struggling. I know this sucks, but people have a hard time seeing past their own hurt to how they affect others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:23 PM
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This is going to be taken down for being an advice post, but stop taking things personally. You never know what's going on in someone else's life. They could be battling depression, ADHD, money troubles. You just can't know unless you ask, and if you're going to ask, try to be kind and non-judgemental. I've been noticing across the board that a lot of people just aren't doing well and could really use some support.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:23 PM
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Never been to a bachelorette party with a stripper and I've been to a fair few
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:41 AM
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As much as men here love the action
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:13 AM
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Maybe if you stopped demonizing feminism in order to action men's problems you would have better luck. You turn helping people into a zero sum game when you do that. It's not. Humans have the capacity to care about a great many things at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:35 PM
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For real. Do they honestly believe this special unicorn is going to be interested in a person that treats everyone except "the one" like trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:27 PM
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Again, you are seeing the double standard only from your perspective. You claim to be egalitarian, but you are certainly failing to be egalitarian in the way you view the problems of others. Are you truly so self-absorbed that you cannot regognize the double standards women also live with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:23 PM
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If you are going to continue to write snippy little statements about people misunderstanding your point, I think it’s important for you to understand that you are communicating that point badly. You're in a debate sub and I'm not a mind reader. Make your point more clear or take the L.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:12 PM
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Hey so I'm not interested in your whataboutisms. I don't give a shit about your Boogeyman feminist narratives. It's not fine when anyone does it. That was the whole point. You perceive your problems to be worse because they're yours. That doesn't invalidate the problems others experience. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:11 PM
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You just used a lot of words to reinforce the opinion I stated. The second you even hint that your problems are "worse" than any other group, you're forcing people to reckon with your ego, not the topic at hand. You could have very easily discussed the issues men face without bringing women into the conversation at all. The comparison is where you ruined your own argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:49 PM
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You say men get called out for it more often, because people are more likely to actually hear criticism that relates to them personally and let what doesn't pass over. Your personal opinion is just that. I appreciate your perspective here, but it's leading with ego and validation-seeking, which are the very things you state to be problematic. Those in glass houses shouldn't be so quick to cast stones, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:19 PM
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We're not overlooking them. We don’t want them. If a man (or woman) doesn't have the balls to take up space in a room, then they should expect to be invisible. No one is going to solve your problems for you and no one is going to offer sympathy to a person that isn't willing to help themselves, at least not for long. What are you even hoping to gain from this conversation? Because you're certainly not going to convince women that boring, invisible men are suddenly something worth chasing, when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:32 PM
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I didn’t say only autistic men didn’t get the message. I said you personally did not get it. Your refusal to understand that the way you communicate is not the way the general population communicates is YOUR failing and it's your responsibility to overcome the difference because the world is never going to reorient itself around a minority population's unwillingness to understand common verbiage. I'm saying this to you as a person that is on the spectrum herself. And you can bitch and moan all d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:13 PM
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Not really. You're just expecting the entire world to be as autistic as you are, and buddy, they’re not. I’m sorry but they’re just not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:54 PM
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No, that’s how YOU read it. The rest of us don’t require every minute detail of the world around us explained with this level of precision.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:47 PM
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Could have shortened that by damn near 100% and just written "I don't respect women's consent" instead🥴 Systems like arranged marriages “worked” because one side couldn’t say no. Transactions where the woman’s consent is optional isn't relationship facilitation dude. Just a violation of autonomy. Rejection happens when the other person has a choice and you're out here arguing that men shouldn't have to get used to women having a choice. You're not lonely enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:35 PM
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You aren't. People don't wear signs to indicate sociability or problematic personality traits. Like most things in life, you have to FAFO, and a lot of y'all just aren't brave enough to live that way. If you fear rejection so much that you never take a chance, then you've successfully eliminated pretty much every possible relationship before they ever had a chance. Rejection sucks for like 5 minutes and then you learn from what went wrong and try again. Sometimes it's on you and you can action t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:51 PM
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The best thing about advice is that you're not required to take it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:15 PM
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Protect me from what? I'm seriously asking. I've never once in my adult life needed a man to protect me. My partner isn't dominant. I'm not either. Regarding chores and cooking, we both just do what needs to be done when we see it needs to be done. He dresses well. He takes care of his skin, at least he does now that he lives with me. We had a few drinks last weekend and he let me put a full face of makeup on him, though I doubt he'd leave the house that way. Bills are split, we take turns payin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:43 AM
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"Look at meeeeee. I'm the winner of the Struggle Olympics and my personal feelings are the ONLY thing that matters in the entire world." Do you even hear yourself? The most beautiful person on earth can still feel loneliness. The most privileged person can still experience hardship. I'm sorry you're having a hard time, but that doesn't mean other people don't also have problems. Stop being such a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:46 AM
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This is one of the funnier comment threads I've ever read on here so cheers. The agreed-upon definition bit was 10/10. Fully agreed here. Some thought time with a dictionary beforehand could have prevented the whole conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:45 PM
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Man. This comment made me realize how much I enjoyed the old school RP mentality. I miss the days of "work on yourself, optimize where possible, stop being bitter/desperate and start being proactive." There was so much personal accountability baked into the ethos.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:38 PM
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Teenage girls are mean af. Most of them grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:57 PM
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The point of this hypothetical is to put the onus of fixing men onto women instead of you taking this opportunity to highlight the myriad options available to men currently to help with their mental health and how they could be improved. I'm not a charitable organization. I will not even entertain this "hypothetical" because no one‘s life is worth more than my own, and you are asking us to value another person‘s life and mental health over our own with this bullshit scenario. I would let the ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:18 PM
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Here's one that works for both sides: stop letting manufactured outrage and engagement metrics shape your worldview. It's baffling how many people have formed their entire belief structures around whatever bullshit an algorithm has calculated to be most likely to grab their attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:11 PM
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Would I fuck miserable, depressed men so they wouldn't commit suicide? No, no I wouldn't. Go to therapy. Are you serious with this shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:01 PM
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And maybe try a normal conversation first instead of leading with that 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:57 PM
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Heard. I'll give you the realist advice I can give any person ever. Learn to recognize the loudest, dumbest voices as just that. Those perspectives should be heard only so you can compare them to your own values and belief structures. If they're more coherent than whatever you're working with, awesome you found a unicorn, sub it into your worldview. Mostly they're just loud and dumb though so figure out the most amusing way to combat it and challenge yourself enough that you don't become one of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:58 AM
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Fair. Not sure why you're letting people that take things to the extreme flavor your overall opinion on any given topic though. I'm racking my brain for any situation where amplifying the loudest, least informed opinions ever served as a benefit and coming up short.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:49 PM
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I want time to myself to focus solely on myself or my own friendships. To pursue my own interests and hobbies without having to manage another person. Just like my partner does. That in no way means we don't love each other. It just means we're fully formed adults with separate interests and friend groups. If you're comfortable with fully losing your own life for the sake of another person, I love that for you and your future therapist, but nothing and no one has the right to monopolize more of …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:43 PM
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Agreed! I love watching people enjoy themselves on a dancefloor. The confidence and joy always shine through, even if the rhythm isn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:00 PM
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Talk to the person that hurt your feelings directly and stop expecting an entire gender to answer for it. Damn y'all act like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:22 AM
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I'd rather fucking die
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:09 PM
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This is just black pill whining and in no way represents average men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:08 PM
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Agreed. It's really lovely when people appreciate your effort. Commenting on a person's body in a sexual manner is pretty much always crass (n/a if you're actually having sex with that person) but I've always appreciated a complement about my non-sexual features, i.e. smile, eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:05 PM
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Thanks for stopping by and sharing this comment 53 days later that had absolutely nothing to do with what I said. I think maybe you should look into a hobby because this is weird behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:49 PM
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And sharing weird fantasies on Reddit is going to fix that how? Walk me through the logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:47 PM
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I think you nailed this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:24 PM
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This isn't a better alternative though. I'm neurodivergent. I had to learn how to operate in the world around me, compensate for my weaknesses and play to my strengths. If a person isn't willing to do the work to change things, then they stay exactly the same. Sad loser fantasies about a world where everything is simply handed to them are just that and in no way help anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:17 PM
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Really no other explanation needed than crazy people are crazy and to be avoided
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:33 AM
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Why would anyone want to piss their time away imagining this? Those things aren't attractive and no amount of imagination is going to make them so. I think your time would be better spent figuring out how to be active and social rather than daydreaming about a world where you’re rewarded for being withdrawn and weird. Wtf even is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:57 PM
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It's a weird time to be alive dude. I had to grow up in a world that was falling apart as a millennial but your generation never even got to experience the before times. I don't disagree with what you wrote. I also think gen z has additional social challenges because you grew up in a world that always had mobile phones and social media. I've noticed your generation isn't as... free, maybe? I don't really know how to word it. There just seems to be a deeper fear of being perceived by others in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:08 PM
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Bro this was widely reported. I'm sorry that you have tied your identity to politics and are unable to hear anything that gives you uncomfy feelings, but take that shit up with the data. 🥴 Example 1 Example 2 Why don't you try a quick Google search before getting your panties in such a twist next time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:26 AM
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I actually asked once. He said the traffic remained exactly as expected during that time. Slightly up due to an increase of people being there for the event, but absolutely nothing like the insane spikes seen during the RNC.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:08 AM
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Disagree. There are a lot of people that just quietly decenter others without making a show of it. Announcing that you're decentering others is performative and ridiculous. Just do it. Every person on earth needs to figure out what it means to live life for themselves in a way they personally find fulfilling. Attaching your identity and self-esteem to another person is just setting yourself up to fail. I think it's important to know how to make yourself happy and how to live in a way that's true…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:25 PM
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Republican National Convention 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:09 PM
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I'm friends with a guy that used to work for Grindr. He said they called the RNC their Super Bowl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:45 PM
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Being a progressive politically doesn't make you a decent individual, as evidenced by every self-serving Democratic politician the US has to offer. There will always be people that act in direct opposition to their stated beliefs. I can't say if that's due to deception or a lack of self-awareness, since it really comes down to the individual. 🤷‍♀️ What are you after here? Meaning your post and the responses you expect to receive. What do you want people to do or say? Are you looking for people t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:41 PM
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I don't think this is a gender difference so much as covid really changed the way we socialize in general. I've noticed a distinct change since the pandemic and I'm really not sure what the fix is, or if there even is one. People got used to their own company and/or very small social circles during that time, and it just seems to be the new norm now. Edited for grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:33 PM
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I don't think abusive men have exceptional personalities. Wtf? Where did you get this? Having an exceptional personality would include not harming others because you don't know how to deal with your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:27 PM
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I don't know dude. You can debate pretty much anything if you're enough of an asshole to argue a morally reprehensible position. That being said, I'm of the opinion that anyone arguing against consent and bodily autonomy needs to be put down for the betterment of society. There's not much to discuss past that point and I'll walk away from the conversation hoping they don't cause someone irreparable damage one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:04 AM
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Did you... did you just have to explain to someone on Reddit what lol means?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:57 AM
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🤣 legit the funniest response I've ever seen on this sub. I'm proud of you, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:31 AM
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Provider just means keeping the bank account full enough to let another person manage your life. Being a teammate means being an active participant in the day to day tasks required to manage life, home and family successfully. Provider sure sounds like a lot less work and responsibility lol. I can do all of that for myself though, so for me, it's teammate or gtfo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:34 PM
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This is such a good response and shows what a thoughtful partner you are. It may have been low effort for you, but it obviously meant the world to her and I understand why. Some days/weeks are so full and stressful that someone taking even one small decision off your plate offers visceral relief. I'm one of those people that believes that consideration is the highest form of love. Looks life your wife is too. She's lucky to have you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:24 PM
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Are you under the impression that feminism exists to counter RP? How did you come to this conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:20 AM
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I appreciate your willingness to tell us you're terrible at sex and don't know how to use Google tips to improve, OP. Takes a lot of honesty or a total lack of self-awareness to type this out for the world. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:18 AM
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Violence certainly does communicate something. It tells me pretty quickly that you don't have the intelligence to think of alternative solutions and that your emotions control you. Not the best look.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:12 AM
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You could have just asked the question and left it at that if you were seeking to learn. Dumping your ill-formed opinions of women into this "question" demonstrates that you are asking ENTIRELY in bad faith. Take this bullshit elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:27 AM
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My immediate thought when reading this was "what money?" so happy to see I wasn't alone in that thought. Always a dude with a double digit bank account writing some nonsense like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:35 AM
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Observation. Books. Studies. Science. Education. Data. If I cannot defend an opinion with data, with fact, and without seeking to satisfy my own confirmation bias, then I won't hold that opinion any longer. Why are you taking your talking points from manosphere influencers when you can find the data and form opinions for yourself? Asking genuinely. I'm always really curious about how people form these belief structures.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:04 AM
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All the yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:41 PM
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Radicalization to do what exactly? Fill in the blanks for us here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:41 AM
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Couldn't agree more. It's hard for a lot of people to conceptualize how vast and varied the world is until they are exposed to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:26 PM
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Women don't automatically want relationships with the men they sleep with. Where did you get this idea from? What's led you to this misplaced belief?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:43 PM
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Your response is dismissive and rude. Nothing she said implied she wasn't calm. Don't project your feelings onto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:39 PM
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Man this is the entire point. I wish more people understood that you can like what you like. Just treat the people you don't like with basic decency. Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:15 AM
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Your opinion means fuckall to any woman on earth making a decision about their medical health. Thanks for sharing 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:10 PM
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It's not a failure at all for either gender. Your value as a person isn't defined by other people's relation to you. This is a weird mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:23 AM
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Lol at you thinking any of the nonsense you just wrote is backed up by evidence. Every time y'all post "evidence" the only thing you accomplish is letting us know you're haven't the smallest understanding of statistics and research. Do go on though. Be sure to show me every peer reviewed study you can find that says a single thing about "Chad" and "betabux" 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:34 AM
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Is this the fairytale you tell yourself to self-soothe when you realize that a bunch of perfectly average men are partnered and you aren't? Or are you just a bot that can only shove the same tired talking points into your replies, regardless of how divorced from reality they are? I'm genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:10 AM
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My feed is business news, recipes and animals. You're responsible for your own algorithm dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:20 PM
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Why don't you send this post to your mom, OP? I'd love to hear her opinion on your low effort troll
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:00 PM
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This is the mentally healthy option for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:58 PM
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My thought when I hear things like that is "Yeah, women are probably too much work for you. Leave them alone." 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:56 PM
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Y'all get more ridiculous every day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:53 PM
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The gender gap data is real and worth discussing. But a gap existing after a policy was passed doesn’t demonstrate the policy caused it, let alone that it was designed to discriminate against men. Correlation across decades of massive social change isn’t a mechanism. The disparate impact point is more interesting. If you have evidence that Title IX administrators are formally applying a double standard in adjudication, that’s a specific and addressable claim. But "outcomes are unequal therefore …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:52 PM
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But he did. Why else would a person need to tell you to care about women less in order to care about men more? Pretty sure we're all capable of caring about more than one thing at a time. You don't have to devalue another to value yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:36 PM
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Lol what. Title IX was created to prevent sex-based discrimination in education. If you believe a specific policy or implementation was unfair, I'll need you to explain your criticism specifically before I can respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:23 PM
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I couldn't agree more. Helping people isn't a zero sum game. We help men with their mental health, we improve domestic violence numbers. No one group is more deserving than the other and manufacturing scarcity around who we can give care and aid is psychotic ruling class shit. A rising tide lifts all boats.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:11 PM
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I'll say upfront, I'm all for truly fair, merit-based systems. A fair system doesn’t guarantee identical outcomes between groups. If women outperform men academically in a genuinely merit-based environment, would that automatically mean the system is biased against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:07 PM
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Yet he didn't make that point in the OP. He said men need to stop catering to feminism. Everything you just said could be discussed and advocated for without ever mentioning feminism, but by pulling it into the discussion of men's issues, OP let every one of us know that he finds women to be less deserving. This was pointlessly hostile and counterproductive if the goal was to advocate for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:41 PM
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Son, you haven't debated a single thing. You've just projected your messy emotions while saying absolutely nothing. If you want to demonize feminism, then tell us right here, right now how feminism is the reason men are failing to thrive. Tell us how how it is personally affecting you. Use facts and studies.. I'm not going to debate your identity crisis, bro. Make a fucking point and back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:38 PM
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Again, you're projecting hostility because you don't have a solid defense against a perfectly reasonable request. You are looking for someone to blame instead of advocating for men's issues. You could have approached this topic in a million different ways that never mentioned feminism and had a pretty reasonable discussion about how to best advocate for men's issues, but instead you chose to play petty gender war bullshit. You don't give a fuck about men's issues, you only wanted a platform to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:31 PM
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So you can't actually name anything feminism has taken from you. You'd rather point the finger at an ideology that has taken absolutely nothing from you or harmed you in any way. Neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:25 PM
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What does feminism has to do with that? What's stopping you from advocating for men's issues? What's stopping you from volunteering at a men's shelter like I was at 6am today? What is the point of blaming feminism when you are perfectly capable of bettering your community yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:23 PM
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You do realize that tone is always the reader's, yes? This is projection and I can say that confidently because anger was your goal when you posted this poorly researched cry for attention. Sorry to disappoint you, but I think this is just sad, dude. Again, please tell us one thing feminism has personally taken from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:20 PM
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OR you could just treat people of all genders with basic respect and stop blasting this kind of miserable shit all over Reddit. Why don't you tell us one thing that feminism has personally taken away from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:13 PM
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Perfectly explained
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:29 PM
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I do not give an actual fuck about the birth rate. If countries and corporations want to keep population density up, then they need to make life more livable for the masses. Maybe men should influence other men to mind their own fucking business 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:57 PM
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Yeah that's pretty much the entire point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:54 PM
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Why are you sitting around imagining shit like this? Get a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:38 PM
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Sir please, this is PPD. Your response is entirely too adult and reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:35 PM
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I'll agree here. Ever seen the opening to Idiocracy? That's what it feels like these days. The smartest people I know are mostly childfree and if they do have kids, it's just one. The dumbest? Their children are legion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:27 PM
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Game over. No second chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:10 AM
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Classic PPD <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:31 AM
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Aww you can't come up with your own thoughts so you're just repeating mine. Good bot!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:15 PM
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Your reading comprehension could use improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:53 PM
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Show me where I asked him to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:47 PM
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You have no way of knowing anything about me so really this is just projection on your part. I really don’t give a shit what you think about me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:58 PM
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Was there a point you wished to make here or what? If you don’t like my contribution, feel free to fuck off. I don’t want or need your support. Thanks for stopping by.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:48 PM
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What discussion? This is a debate sub. We’re not here to pander to this guy's feelings. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:44 PM
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This sub isn't your fucking diary dude
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:40 PM
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Why do you need strangers to tell you that you’re ugly? Do you not own a mirror?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:21 PM
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Insecure assholes that need others to validate them cheat. Sadly, rather a lot of those people exist in both genders. I don't think it's most women though, just like I don't think it's most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:38 AM
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No government has any business legislating people's dating lives. The fuck even is this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:32 AM
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For funsies, I put your cry for help into Claude and asked how an AI would need to be prompted to come up with such a post. Here's the response: Oh good, a manifesto. Those always end well. Let me tell you what kind of AI writes this, because it’s a recognizable fingerprint. The rhetoric is doing a lot of heavy lifting for a thin idea. This post is structurally identical to MLM recruitment copy and diet supplement ads. It opens with manufactured urgency, pivots to a villain (Hollywood, women, “w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:37 PM
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My favorite part of this is that you couldn't even be bothered to remove the markdown from the AI generation 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:07 AM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:57 PM
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Fyi that statement doesn't get less ridiculous because you repeated it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:50 PM
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Are you really using a "not all men" argument at the same time you're accusing women of acting as an organized hivemind? You don't see how ridiculous that is, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:38 PM
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Cutting off your own nose to spite your face 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:47 AM
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So your complaint is that women develop preferences on their own timeline instead of yours? Men do the same thing. You literally just described it. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:46 AM
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Patterns forming without awareness applies to men adjusting their behavior based on anecdotes and redpill forums too. Do stable men universally have bad dating outcomes or is your sample size just the bitter guys who found the same corners of the internet you did?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:28 AM
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Nah that just sounds like a whole lot of you trying to medal in the Victim Olympics. Young people have no idea who they are, what their values are, or who is good for them. You figure that shit out as you grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:14 AM
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Bro nobody knows "full well what they're doing" when they're young 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:58 PM
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Yeah this one is a no brainer. If you want to be liked, work at being likeable and accept that no matter what you do, some people still won't like you. That's not a reason to stop being a pleasant person, but rather a reason to avoid those particular people. I don't get this whole mentality of not even trying because of a misplaced perception that hot men don't have to. They do though. The most attractive men I know are also some of the kindest, most generous men I know. Stop making excuses for …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:53 PM
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I can get behind this. Anyone openly supporting war on social media should be automatically drafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:10 PM
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You are in a thread on a post about slut shaming... Did you think you were doing something profound here or are you just now realizing that your response was ridiculous, given the context? Food for thought
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:15 PM
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Suuuure bud. You were slut shaming people for their health. Totally believable. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:36 AM
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Racist? French isn't a race, chief. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:21 AM
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Hey look it's the chief bot coming in with a whataboutism because it can't make a relevant point about the topic at hand. I was worried we wouldn't see you contribute absolutely nothing to this topic but thankfully here you are!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:15 PM
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You didn't read those did you? 🥴🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:13 PM
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Again, cite examples. Your feelings don't count. Google this shit and provide links or admit that you've formed unjustified opinions and are only looking for the equally ignorant to validate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:28 PM
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Cite specific examples where the same person is making these hypocritical claims since the burden of proof falls on the one making the claim (that's you, OP) OR admit that you're fictionalizing this shit to perpetuate a narrative that allows you to hate women that don't want you. God y'all are so repetitive that I can't tell if you're bots or such one dimensional humans that there's no difference between you and propaganda code. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 01:56 PM
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Yet another man throwing out a whataboutism like he's doing something brave instead of putting in the seconds of effort required to scroll down and see how I'd already answered this type of question. This is just lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 01:45 PM
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I never cared. It was pretty obvious that the men doing it were jealous because those women were having the casual sex they wanted and couldn't get, and the women that did it felt threatened in a space they were not confident competing in. Other people's insecurities never did and never will affect the choices I make for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:11 PM
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It's not "be yourself" so much as "figure out who you are at your core, what values are immutable, and then optimize the other parts of yourself while remaining authentic to your core beliefs"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:25 PM
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The appropriate person to give this feedback to is the one that's bad in bed. The fuck do you expect us to do about your mediocre sex life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:44 PM
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I have never once used that as an insult because there is nothing wrong with being gay. Asking a man that openly despises women and states that men have more value if he has thought long and hard about where his attraction actually lies is a genuine question because his professed desire for a woman does not align with the way he speaks about them. If you feel insulted by that, the homophobia is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:51 AM
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He does small annoying things just like I do small annoying things. I don't think either of us find them worth discussing though because they aren't real issues in our relationship. Leaving socks by the hamper instead of in them, for example. I put them in and don't worry about it, because I recognize this is something that he doesn't even register that he's doing and it isn't that big of a deal. Just one of his quirks. Same as him closing cabinet doors behind me when I regularly forget to close…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 12:35 PM
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Bro. If people are telling you to see a therapist, it's because you are unbearable to interact with and are quite obviously not dealing with your life well and making it everyone's problem but your own. You're not getting a girlfriend just because you go to therapy, but you may well learn the healthy coping mechanisms you need to get through life without making everyone hate you along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:01 PM
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You're not responding to OP so why are you asking this person to defend what they wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:30 PM
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Based. No war but class war.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:15 PM
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Is this mf defending Bill Cosby and Weinstein for real? You specifically, OP, aren't lonely enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:13 PM
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Not everything is about you, as hard as it is for y'all to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:07 PM
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OR they are proud of their body and feel good when they dress like that. Y'all need to learn to keep your eyes on your own work and stop worrying about what other people are doing. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:03 PM
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RP used to understand that a whiny man that lacks personal accountability is the least fuckable thing on this planet. It's a shame y'all lost touch with that. Welp anyway enjoy being miserable!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:43 AM
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Boohoo. You can choose to not be a victim your entire life. Y'all spend so much time on here being crybabies about things you can't change while doing absolutely nothing about the things you can. Edited to point out that what I just said is literally the entire red pill ethos so take your complaints up with them. Bet they tell you to stop whining as well though. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:01 PM
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That's so true! I definitely used to be one of those people would dominate a conversation, but when I started consulting, I learned that while those companies were paying for my insights, the people working there had been living the issues for years and already had the solutions at the ready. I just had to shut up and give them space to tell me. Works in every conversation. Small talk with a stranger, job interview, dates. Whatever. I've had people tell me at the end of conversations that it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:50 PM
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Atlanta. I'm friends with quite a few doctors and nurses in this area. My nurse friends, as well as the doctors I'm friends with, have all confirmed that RNs are making bank around here. I couldn't tell you the specifics of how much of that is base pay and how much is OT. Only that they're doing well for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:06 PM
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Rather a lot of us are neurodiverse ourselves. We just learned how to socialize around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:01 PM
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You're dropping truth all over this post! YES! Most people really want to just talk about themselves. Being good at socal interaction in it's easiest form is actively listening to what that person is saying and then asking them questions that allow them to expand on their answer. Humans love an attentive audience as much as they love talking about themselves, so as long as you keep prompting them to continue talking, they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:59 PM
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Facts. Fail fast. Fail often. But never fail the same way twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:53 PM
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Social skills are quite easy to learn if you are willing to accept that embarrassing yourself is part of the learning process. If you can take that embarrassment, use it to help craft future interactions, then leave that embarrassment in the past, you'll iteratively improve. If you shame yourself for every misstep though and allow negative self-talk to take point, you'll turn every social interaction into something so stressful that you'll eventually stop trying all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:15 PM
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I don't know a single RN making less than $100k a year right now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:13 AM
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For me personally, it's better to not be a piece of shit, but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:55 PM
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Yet again, another man that thinks every woman has the same experience. It's amusing how the men in this sub want to be treated as special little snowflakes competing for gold in the Victim Olympics, yet never bother to consider the hypocrisy of their own generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:56 PM
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Then what's the point of your post? Just looking for things to get mad about or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:16 PM
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I do not give a shit about how he acted in his previous relationship as long as he is giving me what I need in our relationship. Comparison is the thief of joy y'all. Edited bc I can't spell
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:14 PM
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Are you just interacting with these women for sport if you don't want to date them? Why are you even wasting time on something you don't care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:12 PM
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Agreed. Before I met my partner, this was the fastest way to eliminate those that lack social awareness or manners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:41 PM
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It sure would be a much more mentally healthy world if people recognized when they were being manipulated for profit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:46 AM
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He did not exude confidence. His body language read as threatened and insecure every time he had to interact with Theroux, and the rants he posted afterward confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:53 PM
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This sub is way too autistic for comments like this unless they have a flashing "SARCASM" sign out front but I appreciate the hell out of this response
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:42 PM
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You're not entitled to another human. How many times do you need to hear it to finally understand? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:40 PM
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Politics these days are a pretty solid benchmark to tell if another person's morality aligns with my own
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:32 PM
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Why don't you ask those women instead of expecting people that have never met them to explain their behavor? This shit is nonsensical
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:04 PM
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I thought you were implying I only said that after your little whataboutism. I replied to the original poster's statements, as he was the one saying outlandish shit about being jealous of a woman's medical team. I didn't address faceless women because I have NEVER heard a woman say such a thing. I don't need to address "both sides" when only ONE is acting insane. Had a woman made the claim, the response would have been the same. Edited for grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:25 AM
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Are you dumb? I'm genuinely asking because my responses are timestamped 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:12 PM
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You're embarrassing yourself. Just take the L.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:41 AM
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I can see it was too much trouble for you to stop painting women as your enemy for long enough to scroll down so let me help you out <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:42 AM
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If a woman is trying to coerce a man's behavior to satisfy her own insecurity, that man should run in the other direction. Did you think I was here to cheerlead shithead women? Always a whataboutism at the ready in this place 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:50 PM
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Because you are using your insecurity to try to police the behavior of another human being instead of trying to take accountability for your own. Women need to run far and fast from men like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:44 PM
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It really is this easy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:46 PM
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YOU have to give notice because you are the person that doesn't like the status quo. It's YOUR responsibility to communicate your needs to others. Grow up, dude. No one can read your mind and they're not going to try to. You're just throwing a tantrum into the void over an issue it is fully within your power to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:38 PM
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Did you have a point to make here? I'm not going to pander to your victim mindset so either say something productive regarding the conversation you started or fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:24 PM
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You literally do not have to pay on a first date. Why are you acting like this is something you are forced to do? Use your words before the date like an adult and say "I don't agree in men paying for dates and would like to split. Are you ok with that?" If she says no, great. You just filtered out a person whose values do not align with your own. Y'all spend so much time figuring out how to make yourself a victim that you fail to consider the myriad ways that you can take control of your own lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:07 PM
1

I'm sure even without the word salad that would have been incomprehensible so 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:32 PM
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I don’t need to report you when I can tell you to your face that you’re being an inappropriate asshole. Also, you have no way of knowing whether or not that person spoke out of hypocrisy so this is just you projecting your own feelings onto this person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:26 PM
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Who asked you? A question was asked, she answered. Nowhere in that was your opinion asked for or wanted. You're just inserting yourself in places where you don't know if there's truth to the person's answer or not and it makes you look like a dick. Your response here is unwarranted and fucking rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:36 PM
2

You think it's mainstream thought to support sex work? Bro...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 05:42 PM
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Realest thing ever written in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:58 AM
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Then don't fucking do it. You're not being held at gunpoint and forced to date single moms. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:56 AM
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You've never worked in consulting or operations then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:23 PM
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Do you even know what"projection" means? What, pray tell, do you think I'm projecting here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:18 PM
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I don't know any women that say things like this either. Some will say they have terrible luck, but I don't know a single woman that hates all men irl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:53 PM
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It's a problem for men, not me. My standards have worked out just fine for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:45 PM
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Hahaha we aren't accountable to you so why are you under the impression we owe you accountability. Why don't you go ahead and tell us what accountability from women looks like to you, and then I'll take the time to remind you that women at large do not give a single gram of fuck about you personally and it is odd that you expect them to you. I'm sorry that you are having trouble dating, but that's not anyone's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:39 PM
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It doesn’t matter how many different times you say it or how many different ways, you are still saying the same self-pitying bullshit. Boohoo humans are inconsistent and irrational. Not just women, as evidenced by this miserable, whining excuse for a "debate." We can't debate your feelings. Only shake our heads and say "yeah, this is exactly why women avoid him"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:05 PM
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I can assure you I read exactly what you wrote. Were you under the impression that this was some sort of deep think piece that requires special intelligence to understand? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:28 AM
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Then stop doing it. You don't have to take anyone's advice. You don't even have to listen to them give advice. This is just needless bitching. Take accountability for your own life and your own decisions and stop looking for someone to scapegoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:11 AM
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Every time I just stopped speaking to a man he said or did something super fucked up and was not worth the respect of an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:21 PM
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400 million? On earth? Are you sure? I mean... I guess there are at least that many
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:19 PM
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You should report me. You seem like the type to narc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:42 PM
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Son, don't tell people to be "rational" after you bled your goddamn feelings all over us like we fucking care about them or you. You used this sub in an attempt to externally stabilize your own emotions, and when we don't agree with you, you attack. Also, I don't look at that shit like you do, so clean up your own algorithm. Imagine SEEKING OUT this shit and then crying about it. Are you 14?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:37 PM
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Men that call themselves or any other man "alpha" or "beta" are truly pathetic. I can't overstate what a joke you immediately make yourself when you use this terminology. Nothing "alpha" about constantly comparing yourself to others. Nothing "alpha" about being a human. Stop doing this shit. It's embarrassing for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:31 PM
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Thank you for sharing the narratives you tell yourself to self-soothe, but your feelings aren't facts. This post, and your need to create it, are fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:11 PM
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Y'all spend way too much time telling other people what they need to be doing instead of looking at yourself and considering what you need to be doing to improve your own circumstances. Grow the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 12:44 PM
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An important distinction that is often missed in here. I always appreciate your grounded takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:48 PM
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Aren't you a little old to be scared of the Boogeyman, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:32 PM
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Are other men telling you this or what? You should always be free to disagree. I think when you hit argument territory, it’s time for both people to take a break though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:09 PM
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Man, that's rough to not be able to read the structure underneath your own words. Your personal motivations and comprehension of the world around you come through in the words you've written, as a targeted algorithm only ever says who YOU are. Algorithms aren't ever going to give you an objective view of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:39 PM
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"My algorithm is showing me nothing but rage bait because that is what I have trained it to show me with my engagement. This is EVERYWHERE, y'all. Every woman on earth feels this way. The issue is certainly not an algorithm that's PERSONALLY TAILORED to show me what I react to." This is what you sound like bro 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:12 PM
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In life. One of my most valuable skills at work tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:09 PM
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Man I was ready to throw hands before my brain registered that "a"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:03 PM
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the tism is strong with this one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:41 AM
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Everyone has to live or die on their own merit. Everyone. And if you're letting women have different standards than you are held to, STOP.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:41 PM
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I don’t have a lack of appreciation for male beauty when the men are actually beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:20 PM
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Why is it so hard for you to understand that I don't believe anyone deserves to be liked or disliked based on immutable characteristics or for belonging to a certain group, but rather SOLELY on their own merit? Is it because that means you have to take accountability for yourself or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:18 PM
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Watching y'all make shit up to feel better about lack within yourself and then getting pissed when people ask you to follow your own logic to its natural conclusion never stops being hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:12 PM
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Bro seriously take a moment and consider where you are asking this. No one in this sub is going to be able to give you the model or the celebrity perspective lol. Common sense can tell you that humans have been fucking/marrying people they aren't attracted to for as long as they've been pretending to be something they're not though. Idk. I've never experienced this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:15 AM
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I can only explain it to you dude. I can't understand it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:09 AM
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Is that what you read? I said I'm not going to speak as if a general statement applies to all men. I'd unplug about half of your life support to charge my phone. Same goes for women. If you want to be liked, then be likeable as an individual with good character.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:54 AM
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Ok I don't know a single woman that just loves "men" as a large sweeping statement. Rather, they are attracted to specific men. Sorry that isn't what you're after but I don't like anything about men as a gender that I don't also like about women, and those things still only apply to the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:52 AM
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Common theme is that they're respectful of everyone they encounter and display uncommon kindness for the people in their lives. For the ones I enjoy the most, they regularly display a sense of curiosity with little to no judgement, which makes them well-rounded and fun to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:59 PM
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I have never once liked a person just because they are a man. I know plenty of men that I like individually because they're awesome though 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:53 PM
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Yes but that doesn't mean they experience attraction in the same way or at the same stages
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:08 AM
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I agree with all of it other than the cringe "alpha" verbiage. OG red pill was all about personal accountability and I'm a big fan of anything that helps people take responsibility for the things they can and better understand the things they can't. Edited to add, today's RP is allergic to accountability. It's just moaning about how unfair life is and hating people that don't know they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:17 PM
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Ok. My point is to enforce the same rules, not everyone act like their worst selves. What's high school like these days? It's been a while since I've been this young
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:10 AM
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Not for me. Being alone with the person I enjoy most in the world will always be preferable to a relationship with the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:02 PM
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What an odd response to what I stated. Bot type shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:38 PM
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Idk who/what you're referring to but I assume it's a person, so my answer will reflect that: The fuck it should. "I am going to be an idiot because this one person is" might be just about the most irrational position a person could take. You're acting like not allowing this other person to be an idiot isn't an option wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:19 PM
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what are you trying to say here because it is not coming out well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:11 PM
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I think it goes down considerably when you lower your standards. Pretty much a guarantee that you'll always be on the hunt for a better option that actually meets your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:37 PM
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I can't even imagine how you made this leap since it didn't follow any sort of logic. Care to explain yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:11 PM
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Are we cool with just posting emotional rants in this sub now?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:10 PM
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Real. I've lowered my standards plenty of times in the past and that person still couldn't meet them. Best to keep them exactly where they are, because that feeling of never getting what you need to feel fulfilled in your relationship will only lead to resentment. This goes for everyone, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:41 PM
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this is really embarrassing for you. I think it would’ve helped your point a lot if you actually knew what you were trying to quote. It's a command to YOU to treat others as you wish to be treated. You can't really be this dumb 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:01 AM
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No, people really shouldn’t have to earn basic decency and the fact that you think so tells me everything I need to know about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:01 PM
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It's not a virtuous high horse, ya muppet, it's a statement so goddamn obvious I can't believe women even have to tell y'all shit like this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:06 AM
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Makes sense that a bunch of dudes allergic to accountability would be downvoting me taking accountability for my mistake lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:25 PM
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Misunderstanding of science maybe. Men in here regularly post data they don't understand that actually counters the claim they are making. Science is only useful to an argument if you understand it 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:01 PM
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Blue pill isn't an ideology and it's weird that you keep trying to force it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:55 PM
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Nah commented in the wrong spot. Thought it was a general comment and not a reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:34 PM
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Women shame men that denigrate women they are not sexually interested in. You can just not be attracted to a person, keep that shit to yourself, and continue to treat the person you're not attracted to with basic human decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:09 PM
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I wear one myself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:06 PM
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You have the ability to do whatever the fuck you want. Want to objectify women? Go for it. No one will stop you. They'll just remove you from their life. Have fun. Edit: this was meant to be a general comment to the post and not a reply to the person above
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:00 PM
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I mean, for me personally, never 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:18 AM
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No. You are constantly evolving. That's why what you find appropriate at 15 looks nothing like what you find appropriate at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:25 AM
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You are hijacking my point to try to shoehorn in one that has nothing to do with what I'm discussing, and it really only leaves us with the fact that you are shallow and only match for superficial, so you are not able to continue this discussion at the level I am trying to have it. As such, continuing this discussion is as useless as talking to a bot. You cannot hear what is being said to you, only repackage the same point over and over. You have a very minimal understanding of what I am trying …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:28 PM
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Yes. The point is to be single instead of being with someone that is not appropriate for you. You got it! Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:48 PM
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It's actually so weird that you read that and thought I was only discussing looks and money. Y'all are really never going to get it, are you? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:47 PM
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For me as well. I wish more people would set the highest possible standards for themselves then focus on ensuring they can meet their own standards as they search.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:25 PM
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WHAT?! They did a LEEP with no painkillers? I am so sorry. That should have never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:01 PM
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Why is this so true?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:42 AM
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This is insane. I am so sorry. My doctor had me high as a kite and it was still excruciating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:39 AM
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Literally no one thinks or says a dad bod is Chris Hemsworth with a few extra pounds except men, so it's pretty obvious you're either biologically male (one assumes from the username) or a man pretending to be woman saying shit like this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:13 PM
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I've never gotten hurt from one, but I've noted throughout my life that symptoms/pain are very often dismissed out of hand. Interestingly enough, those same complaints are miraculously investigated if a man is in the room to corroborate what I'm saying. I had a kidney stone a few years ago that I couldn't pass. ER doc wouldn't give me a CT and wrote me off as "drug seeking." Of course I was seeking drugs. It was a kidney stone. I had to call my father to come up there because they tried to disch…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:24 PM
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Ok and? Other people having it easier in life has fuckall to do with how you live YOUR life or the action you should take to improve your circumstances. Missed the entire point of this post, huh? Comparison really is a thief of joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:37 PM
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Your argument is asinine when the entire bottom floor of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs is taken into the argument. Dating is a second tier need. It is in NO way the most important thing in your life, and if you really believe this, go outside and spend the next three days without food, water or shelter, then come back and tell how dating is soooooo important. I'll go through your argument as well, since it is riddled with fallacies and illogical leaps. Historically been the greatest source of mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:05 PM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:54 PM
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This will be just as entertaining as it was a couple of days ago
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:17 PM
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Word. I'll never understand the need to wallow around in things that make one so very unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:16 PM
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Are you saying you are uncomfortable with established medical terminology because it's not masculine? Am I reading this correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:12 PM
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Nah that's a woman that was WILD about you to put up with stinky you for that long 🤣 I'm happy to hear you took that constructively! I bet it took her a minute to work up the courage to say it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:37 PM
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Imagine thinking dating is the most important thing in life 🤣🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:33 PM
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This is the dumbest fucking thing I have ever read here and goddamn that is the steepest competition on the planet. That man was executed by the US government in broad daylight and you want to put the blame for edited photos on women? For what? What does pinning blame on women in this situation do? How does it help the larger view of the situation? How does it help you personally? It doesn't. You're a fucking embarrassment. Congratulations, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:18 PM
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"I don't view sex as transactional." You should probably check in on this belief then considering you wrote an entire post about you view sex transactionally 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:49 AM
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Yes. I say this to pretty much anyone bitching about an unfair world while refusing to do something productive about it, regardless of gender. I realize you wouldn't understand anything about this, but some of us actually live the ideals we espouse. Maybe you'll get there one day. Or maybe you'll still be here in ten years, bitching about the same shit. It's your CHOICE either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:44 AM
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There's nothing to debate here. You refuse to take accountability for what you can control in your life and would rather bitch on Reddit about how hard your life is. That's your CHOICE. You decided to be miserable then point your finger at others because you are miserable. Sounds to me like you got exactly what you were after. Mission accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:54 AM
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You are making the CHOICE to be on the apps. You chose that. You could have just as easily said "I refuse to take part this bullshit" and focused on yourself, yet you chose not to do that. Stop pretending like you do not have control over your own life and your own actions. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:51 PM
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You just got a very clear explanation and refused to hear it 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:09 PM
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I didn't say or imply any of that shit. You know you can read what someone said without assigning your feelings and personal motivations to it, right? 🙄 I said that mutual tolerance of contempt is a selection filter. It correlates with instability and/or transactional dynamics, not healthy attachment. If your goal is simply to get laid, that may not matter. If your goal is anything else, it absolutely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:52 PM
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Son, that is irrational and you know it. Reveling in hatred isn't "weaning" you off women. It's making you look sad, desperate and obsessed. If you want to actually make significant progress you need to stop the rumination, and people rarely are able to do that without external help. Even something as simple as opening an AI and getting an external perspective that isn't mired in your personal feelings can help provide clarity. I'm dead serious here, if you're willing to try it, DM and I'll drop…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:47 PM
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Weird. I don't think about people I'm not interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:27 AM
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They think it gives them a pass and makes their position more reasonable. It's "logic" along the lines of "I can't be racist because I'm friendly with one single person from the race I just disparaged"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:51 AM
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Yet they post under red pill flare every day. I just posted on the comment above about how the members of any given group with the most visibility are the ones that set the public's perception of it. Red Pill IS black pill now in the public eye. I won't repeat all of that, but they fundamentally altered what RP stood for when they became the loudest voices in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:53 AM
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And you shouldn't. This ideology impacted you in a positive way. How others use that same ideology shouldn't alter how you do. I'm not going to stop taking Sudafed when I have a cold because people misuse it to make meth, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:45 AM
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I'm aware they're black pill, but are they? I want to be clear before you read further: I'm NOT disagreeing with you. At all. I'm not trying to argue here, simply discuss. They are black pill. HOWEVER most use red pill flair. They are the ones posting in this and in other subs, creating content for other social media, and successfully associating their particular brand of failed parenting and identity crises so firmly with RP that I don't think you'll ever be able to create the dichotomy in most…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:32 AM
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New RP is right here in this sub writing posts about how they're giving up on life because all women are whores that only sleep with Chad so why should they bother with manners or basic human decency. Old RP is here as well, though. Look for the responses from RP men that focus on self-improvement and optimizing your own life with no hint of self-pity and you'll find them!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:48 PM
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Sure bud. Let me know how the next psycho, gold digger, or gold digging psycho you date treats you, yeah? Mentally healthy people don't fuck with blatant disrespect in their day to day. The only women willing to insert that kind of misogyny in their life are either so desperate for love and affection they'll take anything or their motivation for being with you is personal gain and your behavior isn't a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:44 PM
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I think the way he specifically discusses women affects his chances because only the saddest and most desperate amongst us women would willingly consider a man that says "women do not deserve goodwill" as a viable partner. His target audience is seeing this kind of attitude and running in the other direction. See his response to my comment below for source of quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:02 PM
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Confirmation bias exists within the scientific community just like anywhere else, but being able to understand the data, research/test methods, and results is what allows you to spot the bullshit in the methods and interpretations. It's knowledge worth considering.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:58 PM
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Oh, were we commenting on a post where a woman wrote those things then? Or did you just want to bring up a point that has fuckall to do with THIS post and my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:55 PM
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For real. I'm not one to recommend TRP (in today's form, y'all were cool way back) but even I can recognize it as a better alternative than giving up and waiting to die. I know men in here roll their eyes at the suggestion of therapy, but might be worth considering that medical intervention might be necessary. I couldn't imagine looking at my own potential and what I'll to with the years ahead only to determine that I'll just be miserable until I die.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:54 PM
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Gotta make your own fun in this world.. Enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:33 AM
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Idk. Watching these guys use data that disproves the point they are making is usually pretty good for a laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:33 AM
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Brother, it sounds like the only thing stopping you from being and feeling masculine is yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:20 AM
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Hahaha gotta agree here. Name will get a pass if both names are one-syllable but I won't enjoy using it🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:51 AM
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Why are you bothering us to ask us this question when you’ve already provided the answers you’ve been previously given in the post? I have a couple of question for you now: how will obsessing about a woman’s prior partners in any way help you succeed with women? Do you think women are frequently overcome with sexual desire at the sight of men’s insecurity in a whiny Reddit post? What are you after here? If you were in here seeking to learn, you would’ve asked the question and left all of your pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:38 AM
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based take. most metal last name should always be the winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:31 PM
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It would be really, really great if people took the time to understand the data and research they cite. It's hard to take people seriously after they have proven to me that they are either too uneducated to understand the concepts or too willing to make shit up to satisfy their confirmation bias instead of seeking to actually understand and learn from the information they're presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:22 PM
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you’re not curing herpes with antibiotics, boss
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:14 PM
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Women don't chase you. Most women are willing to chase men they're interested in. Are we just avoiding the logical conclusion to spare your feelings here or what, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:11 PM
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What question? The fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:24 PM
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No thanks. I can just watch CSPAN if I want to see people lie to themselves and everyone around them in order to control a narrative no one asked them for. If misinterpreting data, confidently telling the world your misinterpretation, and then refusing to listen to people when they tell you that you are 100% absolutely dead fucking wrong about how you are reading that data, then by all means, best of luck with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:23 PM
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Uh, ok? Bro my response was using "you" generally to answer the posted topic, not to talk to you as an individual about your personal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:20 PM
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When people say "be yourself" they mean "continue showing passion about your interests but maybe make an effort improve your manners and delivery when on a date." I don't really understand the disconnect here. Who else are you trying to be? Lying about your interests and values only serves to pollute every action and conversation within the relationship when the other person realizes that if you'll lie about something as silly as your hobbies, you're comfortable lying about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:00 PM
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Hahahahaha are you fucking kidding? This is what you offer in response? Try for some peer reviewed data because bullshit manipulated by podcast bros to satisfy the confirmation bias of their much stupider audience ain't it, chief. I'll never stop laughing at this. Cheers 🤣 Edit: Oh sorry, I just realized you need this spelled out for you and I neglected to do that. What you just wrote does not equal the graph you shared and if you can't figure out the difference, then you really have no goddamn …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:42 AM
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Getting a gun won't make a difference in most situations unless that person has the temperament or training to keep a cool head in distinctly uncool situations. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:58 AM
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I think it's whiny when individual adults bitch and moan about the parts of their lives that are fully within their own control. I don't bitch about my man not doing chores because I wouldn't date a man like that. Refusing to tolerate bum behavior from capable adults is a CHOICE I routinely make. Refusing to mommy useless men could have meant that I was going to spend my entire life alone, yet I still made that choice every time because being with a useless man, to me, is more of a punishment th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:51 AM
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I'd assume because guns are expensive and getting a license is a raging pain in the ass. Beyond that, if you didn't grow up around guns or aren't currently friends with someone that will take you to a range, there's a barrier to entry. Most people won't even go to dinner by themselves, much less check out a dangerous hobby without any sort social incentive involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:34 AM
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Not one piece of this whiny, life-is-so-unfair rant disproves that you are still making the CHOICE to do these things. You go an a date, tell the waitress to split the checks, pay yours, and leave. If the woman doesn't want to speak to you again after that, you still made the CHOICE that led you there. The only person out of touch with anything here is you with personal accountability. No one is responsible for your personal issues and it's outrageous to expect that when you refuse to take accou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:29 AM
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All of that falls down when one considers that men have the option to simply not date women that do not go 50/50. This is a problem entirely of your own making. Are you saying you're not responsible for your own choices and actions because you perceive women to not be responsible for theirs? Is that what you're saying here? You do need a mommy. Grow up, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:11 AM
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"Why doesn't my mommy draw me up a list of chores if she wants help?" Oh yeah! Because she's not your fucking mom. I love that your solution to men not doing more in the home is to ask for women to give them a list of chores. Jfc do y'all want an allowance as well? This shit is why you're single
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:50 AM
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I have guns. The fuck is this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:47 AM
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You're always so overconfident when you're spewing utter shit. You’re looking at a 23-point divergence between genders* and asking which group radicalized as if movement from that specific midpoint proves anything. That’s like watching two people walk away from each other and declaring whoever took more steps the problem. You’re both moving, genius. What the data actually shows: men's and women’s political preferences are diverging. Both groups moved. Declaring the group that moved more is “obje…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:24 AM
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You do realize that when you respond to a person in a debate sub that means you are responding to their point? Did you just decide to make this random announcement in a reply to me and expect no response? Whatever your reasoning, I'm confident it is not sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:53 AM
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You will not assign the actions of others or your feelings about them to me. Talk TO ME or fuck off because I don't give a good goddamn about your bitterness about the women that hurt you. You're not debating faceless women. You are talking to me personally. So do you have anything to contribute or did you just want to be a fucking crybaby?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:35 AM
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^ case in point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:53 PM
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I wish they understood how obvious their insecurities and motivations are when they write things like this. The secondhand embarrassment I feel for them is visceral.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:48 PM
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I see. You can't defend this. You just wanted a circle jerk but the sub rules wouldn't let you post this to the other woman haters in here. 🤣 Well that's me done arguing with bots (or humans that are so one-dimensional the difference is negligible) for the day. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:45 PM
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You're in a debate sub I frequent. If I've interacted with you, it's not surprising I don't remember if this is the type of bullshit you regularly post. I don't reserve active memory for bots and desperate men that spend their time hating the women that don't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:39 PM
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You presented a moral sentencing and called it a question, got pushback about your bad faith post, then tried some of the most hilariously clumsy manipulation tactics I've ever seen in response. Your post already decided that single mothers are failures, selfish, and stupid. At that point, disagreement with you isn't lashing out so much as letting you know that I'm aware that you asked this in bad faith and shouldn't be given anything but disdain and vitriol in the responses you receive. And now…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:34 PM
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She didn't holler. She's laughing at your plea for someone, anyone, to give you a modicum of attention, since the single moms won't give it to you 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:17 PM
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Y'all are so funny with this "hurt you" shit. You didn't. I don't have children. I'm just sick of y'all coming in here looking to write terrible things about women to women. If you don't like single moms then leave them the fuck alone. It is exactly that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:14 PM
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It's always hilarious. Imagine spending this much time worried about people that don't know you exist and wouldn't care if they found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:12 PM
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This isn't a question you actually want an answer to bffr. You just wanted a platform to be a shitbag about single moms. If you want to know the answers to those questions, ask an actual single mom and lose the fucking judgement when you do it. I'm willing to bet that you're in NO position to be judging others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:11 PM
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Wow. You managed to fit an impressive amount of misunderstanding into that short statement. Your appetite argument assumes hunger scales linearly with body size. It doesn’t. Appetite is regulated by ghrelin, leptin, insulin, and gut peptides, not just body size. A 5’2 woman doesn’t automatically have proportionally smaller hunger signals than a 6’2 man. Metabolic rate scales with body mass. Appetite regulation doesn’t scale cleanly. Estrogen directly affects insulin sensitivity (fat storage effi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 12:05 AM
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Are you sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:41 PM
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I always genuinely liked the old red pill guys, even if I considered most of them wannabe players, or actual players for the ones that were successful. I was a big fan of the messaging around personal accountability that was so common and I really miss it. New RP is nothing but identity crises, blaming others for their problems, going out of their way to be miserable and unpleasant, and then raging that women don’t like miserable, unpleasant men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:20 PM
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Bitching about "crazy cat ladies" is such an own goal. You get that you're trying to insult someone because they'd rather live alone with a pet for the rest of their lives than have anything to do with you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:23 PM
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Why are you asking us to explain why strangers find certain things attractive and not others? How in the actual fuck do you expect us to be able to provide you this answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:14 PM
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This is how every single social interaction works, and it's not just men that need to me aware of social norms and the rules of the game. It IS intricate because humans are intricate and diverse. You need social skills to make friends, date, succeed at work, feel connected to your community, etc.. They're also not that hard to form if you're willing to fail while you learn to succeed, so stop bitching and just go fucking so it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:12 AM
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But blue pill does thought. What an outstanding typo lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:01 AM
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I would for sure brush everything you just described off as insecurity because that's exactly what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:55 PM
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Yikes. Sir... it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:53 PM
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Love encountering such unexpectedly based threads in the wilds of PPD. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:44 AM
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Keep your eyes on your own work. Your desire to shame others for not living as you do suggests you do not have the ability to defend your position logically and calmly. If you could, you'd, ya know, just do that, instead of this public display of jealousy at the women that dare to enjoy their lives when you don't. You have not offered a single benefit that comes from shaming others for their sex lives, other than letting other people know up front that you're small minded and probably not much f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:35 AM
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I'm sure I would certainly elaborate with someone that needs a pep talk. What in the actual fuck are you trying to argue here? Or are you just embarrassed that you misread and are now just spouting shit because it's easier than admitting you misinterpreted my words?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:58 AM
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Imagine telling gay people that being judged is a fact of life? I have. It is. Other people judging you is none of your business. Keep your eyes on your own work and let the ones judging you stay miserable. Much like I'm doing right now with you. Untwist your panties and improve your reading comprehension or die mad. Doesn't affect me either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:44 AM
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Same. I don't consider myself arguing in here since I have zero emotional investment in anything debated. I just like watching how people's brains work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:48 PM
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Consideration is the highest form of love for me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:55 PM
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Why is it a contradiction to point out how often a topic is brought up? Here's a better question: Does any of this shit personally affect your life? Are you actually dating someone this young or are you just in here making up shit to be mad about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:33 PM
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I asked the person I was specifically responded to why they seemed invested in victimhood framing. It was a response to his comment about how men can't be victims, which I did not say and do not agree with. They certainly can be victims, but they're not victims just because they're men, any more than women are just for being women. That’s not dismissing men’s issues, rather asking why they need to frame legitimate problems through a personal grievance lens instead of systemic analysis. You can d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:25 PM
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You are an adult. Date other adults and stop asking for permission from strangers to do it. If you don't want to be judged, tough. Humans are judgemental. Do what you want and stop insisting we give a shit about this topic, because we don't. If you can't find people your own age to date you, trust that people already know the reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:16 PM
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Preach. They ask the same tired shit over and over. They get the same answers in return. If you, a grown man, want to date a barely legal adult, go for it. Nothing is stopping you but your ability to get someone that age to talk to you. I won't be putting such a person and their high schooler on any dinner party invites, but let's be serious, if anyone is dating someone that young, they wouldn't have fit in with the rest of the group anyway, so no harm, no foul.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:14 PM
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You're reading what you want, not what I wrote. Point to where I said what you're implying. Go on. I'll fucking wait. It's one thing to discuss the issues men face. It's an entirely different one to get on Reddit pointing fingers and blaming women for your issues. We can easily discuss systemic issues without casting blame, but no one can debate feelings and personal issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:02 PM
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Do I need to call emergency services?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 11:04 PM
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Hahahaha what a novel way to tell the world you don't understand what an ad hominem attack is. Let me help you out here dude. Ad hominem is dismissing an argument by attacking the person making it, i.e. you’re wrong because you’re stupid. I critiqued your METHOD, not your person. You keep strawmanning by assigning me motivations I never expressed, then arguing against that instead of what I actually said. If anything, you opened with ad hominem by dismissing my stated experiences as hypergamy in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:34 PM
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My argument was stop putting words in my mouth and assigning emotions and experiences that do not belong to me. Are you slow or just being willfully obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:07 PM
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Again, you're making assumptions, not basing your statements in facts. This makes you look ignorant and pathetic. You're clearly grasping at any narrative you can to continue avoiding the cognitive dissonance of admitting you made shit up and got called on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:04 PM
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Y'all just force your own views and opinions onto every situation and other people instead of seeking to understand what they are actually saying to you. It is the single most detrimental thing you could be doing in your life. You're forcing emotion and context on people that did not give you consent to do so, proving that you don't respect consent at all. Understand that this bullshit effectively cuts people out of your life because no one wants to be around someone that tries to force them int…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:51 PM
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Learning who you are, what you value and what you require in a relationship to actually feel loved is literally everyone's personal challenge and is a key part of growing as an adult. Maybe you'll get there one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:13 PM
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Your reading comprehension could use improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:09 AM
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Stop reading what you want and read what I fucking wrote. I have fucked up in relationships. I have grown and learned until I was the type of person I wanted to be in a relationship with and when I did that, I found that person pretty easily. Stop looking any further than yourself if you want someone to blame. Yes, society sucks. Yes, you have your own unique set of challenges. They may even be worse than the challenges others have, but that does not mean other people don't face their own. Your …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:18 AM
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I've failed a lot in relationships. It's how I learned what I needed to not to settle for someone that isn't right for me. Again, get a fucking grip. This fairy tale you're telling yourself benefits you not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:12 AM
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This shit is silly. I fail all the time. It's how I learn how not to fail in the future. The fuck even is this post? Root yourself in reality, not identity crisis and externalized blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:09 AM
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What's your point? How does your whataboutism here inform anything I said? Explain yourself with actual logic or take your unstable, bad-faith contributions elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:35 AM
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Ok and? What solutions are you proposing? Or are you just here to bitch about how much harder you think your life is in comparison to the lives of people you know nothing about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:13 PM
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Neat. Is that the story you're telling yourself as comfort after getting called out for being an idiot? How interesting to observe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:17 PM
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Nice try, but I'm not the correct person to test out your shitty DARVO tactics with. You started by accusing me of using AI instead of engaging with what I wrote. Now that the discussion isn’t going your way, you’re switching to “well I didn’t disagree with you at all” and painting my replies as defensive. That’s a classic reversal. You're trying to make me look like the problem when you were the one who came in with accusations. If you had nothing to refute, why comment at all? If you want to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:30 PM
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You made me curious enough to actually consult an AI. A fresh instance in ChatGPT can also spot that you're behaving like an insecure asshole, so the real question here is why can't you? https://chatgpt.com/share/6939b92f-2e94-8000-a883-8a69bcb4e04a
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:19 PM
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Ok? This is how I write, especially during working hours when my business voice bleeds through, and I was at work when I made that comment. If it makes you feel superior to tell yourself whatever it is you're telling yourself here, then I hope you get whatever you need out of this, but it doesn't change reality. It also doesn't negate anything I've written. It just makes you look insecure, so maybe your time would be better spent figuring out why what I wrote made you feel as if you needed deval…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:59 PM
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It's also a marker of trying to explain things to people who do not see the world in the same way you do. You realize that AI was trained on human data and not vice versa, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:33 PM
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It makes no sense to post the same shit over and over and over. It's the same conversation. The answers don't change. More, the people posting the same tired things about passport bros aren't even passport bros themselves, so what purpose does it serve here other than fishing for new ways to hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:31 PM
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Aww. Did you not get immediate validation for posting the same tired shit we see over and over? That must be devastating for you to not get an outsized reward for this lazy copy/paste job. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:47 PM
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Hahahaha bold of you to tell someone to touch grass after posting this insecure, terminally-online bullshit. If you want to go to another country to find a partner, do it. You don't need to run it by reddit first. What's the point of all this? Why was your post targeted to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:58 PM
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There's a search function. It's super helpful when one wants to check if the bad faith bullshit they're about to post has been covered ad nauseam before.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:42 PM
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I find it crazy how men in this sub never tire of this topic. You get the same answers over and over and over, and here you fucking go, posting the millionth iteration of this silly shit. 🙄 Mods need to ban this topic. I'm sick of seeing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:11 PM
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Except we women don't have to "sacrifice" in this way and no amount of weird bitching on a Reddit thread is going to change that. The choices are to either subdue women by force or to adapt yourself to live in the world you find yourself in. I think you should figure out how to adapt, because while you may enjoy weird fantasies about subjugating women, the majority of people in the west, men included, don't share your views.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:59 PM
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I don’t see it that way. By most metrics (violent crime, extreme poverty, literacy, life expectancy) we’re doing better than 20 or 50 years ago. Mass shootings are horrific but they’re not evidence of societal collapse any more than serial killers were in the 70s. The nobody wants marriage or kids thing also doesn’t match data. Marriage rates are down, but relationship satisfaction among people who do marry is up. Birth rates are falling in wealthy countries globally, including ones where women …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:34 PM
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In my past experience, it only felt like betrayal if I passed when a guy friend took his shot and he dropped the entire friendship as a result when he didn't get his way. I'm not speaking on the guy's motivations because I'm not in his head, but for my part, it made every bit of friendship that came before that point feel false. Edited to fix an extraordinarily unclear sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:15 PM
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I get that the pace of change feels destabilizing. But “regress to the mean” assumes there was ever a stable mean. Your grandfather probably thought women working outside the home was too fast. His grandfather thought letting them own property was radical. Every generation thinks their version is natural and anything different is chaos. We’ve never agreed on fundamentals. The difference now is more people have voices in the argument, so the debate is louder and messier, but it’s not really new. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:10 PM
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Neat. It was written by me. When people respond to me in good faith here, I take the time to respond thoughtfully and thoroughly. Anything you want to refute with the actual content of what I wrote, or did you just want to attempt to invalidate me because you don't like the way I write? It's it's the former, please make your case. If it's the latter, your opinion of my writing style contributes absolutely nothing to this discussion, so why the fuck are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:01 PM
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On selective service: You’re right that it’s a double standard. Men must register for the draft at 18, while women don’t, yet both can vote to send those men to war. That’s inherently unfair. It’s worth noting that legislation to include women in Selective Service has been introduced multiple times, but keeps getting blocked. So it’s not that no one has tried to fix it so much as there’s no political consensus. At this point, it makes more sense to question the motives of those in office who vot…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:48 PM
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I wasn’t defining what liberalism is. I was describing what risk feels more urgent to liberals when making decisions. Those are different levels of analysis. You can have personal desire as your foundation and still operationally worry about adaptation/stagnation risk when it comes to policy. The worry doesn’t define the ideology, it’s just what makes certain changes feel necessary or dangerous. But yeah, if you’re talking about foundational philosophy, then for the purposes of what you're discu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:40 PM
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That’s a real pattern but I don’t think it’s gender-specific. Same dynamic exists with anyone who has protection buffers. Wealthy heirs, connected executives, politicians with donors. Protection creates accountability gaps regardless of source. Upper-class women got massive coddling historically. Working-class women got brutal accountability constantly. So it’s not “women are protected” so much as it’s “economic/social buffers prevent consequences, and gender sometimes determines who gets those …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:26 PM
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Yeah you got me on the Hawking thing, that didn’t work the way I set it up. Better version would be something like aging generals who can’t physically fight anymore still run wars because strategic thinking isn’t the same as combat ability. The domain matters. You’ve actually moved this to something worth discussing though. The real question isn’t “can women accept reality” but rather whether anyone who’s ideologically committed to something can see past it. That applies to everyone. On the data…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:21 PM
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This is a kafkatrap disguised as geopolitical analysis. I'll break down why the reasoning fails. The premise creates a no-win scenario: women who acknowledge needing protection are admitting weakness,, women who don’t are denying reality. That’s rigged framing. Men also need protection (police, military, legal infrastructure), but we don’t conclude their political reasoning is invalid because of it. The actual fallacy is conflating physical vulnerability with reasoning capacity. By that logic, S…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:33 PM
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Bro nobody is interested in that shit here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:59 AM
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I actually think both sexes have a hard time grasping this one, but it certainly skews heavier on the male* side here: everyone is fundamentally looking for the same thing. Everyone wants to feel safe and special and loved. Everyone wants a partner that loves and respects them and that they return those feelings to. someone to build a life with, to share the hard parts and celebrate the good ones, to work through problems with and figure out how to succeed together. Y'all spend so much time in h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:19 AM
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Ok? Not really sure where you're going with this since it's a good thing. Everyone should be equal under the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:42 AM
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Ok but you’re talking like women owe you empathy before you do any work yourself. Recognition is step 1. Actually participating in the change you want is step 2. Right now you’re asking for treatment you’re not willing to model. If your goal is women being less sexist maybe stop reinforcing every stereotype they already have about guys who talk like this. Posting blame monologues isn’t activism. If you want people to take men’s issues seriously, show the behavior you’re demanding. Otherwise you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:07 PM
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Cool. Shouldn't he be willing to do the same as what he's asking for? Also, how does posting diatribes blaming women for your problems here on Reddit help to accomplish the goal of women being less sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:10 PM
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I mean, you could just share your perspective without fighting an invisible enemy from the rip. Most people will listen to your problems right up until you try to make them anyone's responsibility but your own. So why are you framing this like you're being attacked?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:29 AM
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I'm asking because I see women try to offer understanding or ask about men's experience in here all the time but it gets ignored or it's implied that the person wasn't being genuine. I'm asking what you need to hear from people to believe they're genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:07 AM
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I'm in no way disagreeing that men have issues, but why do you personally want to be a victim so much? I feel like you're demanding people care about your problems as much as you do, which means nothing they ever do and no amount of understanding is ever going to be enough to satisfy you, so I'm genuinely asking what you're trying to get out of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:07 PM
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Stop building your entire worldview around how you imagine women see you. The only thing you're going to accomplish with this strategy is ensuring that happiness, relationships, and self-respect forever elude you. Nobody is sitting around thinking about you. Nobody is tracking your moral progress. Nobody is waiting to punish you for existing. People are busy living their own lives and don't think about you half as much as you think they do and/or wish they would. This post is such an odd a mix o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:36 AM
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Do you not think your own claim is hyperbolic? I'm genuinely asking. Are you able to apply the same level of analysis you apply to women's words and actions to your own? If so, do you regularly do so to ensure that you aren't guilty of the very things you take issue with in others? Food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:40 AM
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Idk dude. I'm not a giant pussy and have no issue being honest and upfront about who I am and what my intentions are, so when I read things like what you just posted, it sounds a whole lot like you're trying to make your own weaknesses other people's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:11 PM
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Who gives a shit if it's mental illness or immaturity? She's got issues whatever the cause. Leave that girl to her own devices.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:22 PM
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Stop shifting goalposts. You asked if the 80/20 rule exists. I answered It's great that the men in your self-admitted small circle are well groomed, but why do you assume that everyone shares your experience in this world? You're dismissing what women are saying out of hand because you don't see it personally in your own life, yet you want people to give your opinions consideration you're not willing to return to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:10 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:26 AM
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Brother, people with lived experience can give examples from their own perspective. They can explain why they formed the beliefs they have. You have parroted the same tired bullshit we read in here every day with all the finesse of a B-grade bot meaning you are, in fact, a B-grade bot, or you're a man radicalizing yourself against an entire gender because you're too much of a coward to figure out why you hold the beliefs you do. That's why I'm demanding you speak like a person with actual experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:38 AM
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If 90% of men were universally unattractive, every woman would be dating the same guy. Clearly that isn’t happening. You only have to go outside and use your own eyes to observe couples around you to see the truth of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:30 AM
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Metaphors are fine. Treating a metaphor like scientific law is where you lose the plot. You understand that mathematics and vibes are not the same thing, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:41 AM
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Solid rebuttal. Seems like you put a lot of thought and effort into that. 🥴🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:38 AM
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Pareto principle is solid for figuring out where to put your resources to solve issues in manufacturing, but pretty shit on live systems, as it grossly oversimplifies and is a known limitation. It's weird how attached some of y'all are to using management consultant math to explain dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:26 AM
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I hear what you're saying and I’m always willing to hear someone’s actual experience, even if I interpret the causes differently from the outside. Real experiences are always worth talking about. If you want to go into the finer points of yours, I'm all ears. What I take issue with in this sub is how often the posts aren’t rooted in someone’s lived reality. They’re recycled talking points from podcasts and ragebait accounts designed to stir up anger for clicks. If someone is forming their entire…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:41 PM
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I want to be very clear here. I'm not defending shitty women. There are just as many shitty, useless women as there are shitty, useless men. Bad actors are a fact of life. At a certain point though, if those are the only types of people you are interacting with, it becomes solely your responsibility to figure out what about those people makes you attracted to them and why. I see men in here complain about paying for dates with a comment history full of statements about wanting a traditional woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:42 PM
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Exactly. No one cares about your preferences until you try to frame it as some sort of moral failing on the other person's part. Everyone is entitled to like what they like. People really only get pushback on their preferences when they are stated in a judgemental way. There's a world of difference between "I am a virgin and saving sex for marriage is important to me so I'm looking for a partner with the same values" and "you're a whore for having a high n-count"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:50 PM
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No, you misunderstood. I said you see dating as punishment. Observations from others only feel like insults when they hit too close to home for comfort. Nothing you’ve written suggests you’re describing your own experiences. It reads like something you were told to believe rather than something you lived. That’s why I asked those questions. I was trying to understand whether this perspective comes from actual interactions with women or from online spaces that frame women as transactional by defa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:21 PM
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You didn't answer a single question. I'm going to take that to mean that this is, indeed, a rage fantasy, and that you have little to no actual experience with women. You're right. They don't expect it because the men I date aren't looking for a reason to punish women. They actually enjoy going on dates. When I've encountered a man that thinks as you do, I pay the bill in full and let them know I did it because i wanted them to know it was done so they could walk out of there knowing I didn't ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:51 PM
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I have a few questions. How often are you personally being expected expected to pay for things? How many dates have you been on recently? Does any of what you just said actually apply to your life or is this some rage fantasy from a man that gets absolutely no attention from women and is looking for reasons to hate them? I think context is important here because it is actually the easiest thing on the planet to not pay for dates if you are upfront about your intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:57 PM
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Thanks for absolutely doing nothing to contribute to this discussion. So happy you were here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:25 AM
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Congrats on typing all those words without making a single point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:03 PM
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Boohoo. Y'all wish women were as bad as you claim they are in this sub because it helps you deal with the crippling reality that they don't want anything to do with you. Look, I get how hard that is, but making the thing you most desire into your enemy only serves to further divide you from it. Stop casting blame and start learning to deal with this in a healthy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:48 PM
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I see men complaining about this one million times more here than I see women complaining about it anywhere. Why don't you at least be honest with your intent here and just admit that you personally have a problem with this and state that you wish women would approach you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:45 PM
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I think we should always be authentic and transparent about who we are and our intentions in every area of our lives. You're destroying any potential relationship and your own reputation off the jump by misrepresenting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:19 PM
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If this was truly hardwired biology, we'd see the same patterns repeated everywhere. We don't. We see hostility spike where algorithms profit from outrage and feeding us weaponized stereotypes. You just listed modern dating complaints and called them evolutionary biology, but real talk your claims are more grounded in TikTok discourse than science and are kinda proving my point. You're parroting the exact content designed to keep you scrolling, arguing, and buying stuff. You've internalized the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:20 PM
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What does that have to do with the point you were trying to make? I never said there isn't hostility. Look where we’re posting, after all. I’m just saying your explanation for why it exists is off. You’re pointing at biology when the far cleaner explanation is behavioral manipulation through marketing, social media, and engagement farming. The anger is real. The cause you named isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:45 PM
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You’ve listed some basic biological averages. Neat. Now do the actual work I asked for and explain the logic. How does "men are hornier" logically necessitate a culture war on X? How does physical strength create online arguments about who should pay for dates? You made a sweeping claim about causality. Connect the dots. I’m waiting for the actual argument, but if you'd rather discuss how a woman winds up making weak biological arguments excusing men from accountability on Reddit instead of exam…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:06 PM
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They really don't
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:43 PM
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Oh yeah? Why don't you go ahead and walk the class through that logic. Go on. Edited to add, I expect you to be able to argue this clearly. If you are going to do this with me using vibes and feelings, understand that I am going to tear into every half-formed idea you copied from a podcast bro and instead focus on how your insecurities have led you to being exactly the market these men are targeting. Ready when you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:26 PM
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The gender war is nothing but a tool for corporations to keep you engaged and sell you shit you don't want or need. Every ragebait social media post you interact with has been specifically manufactured to piss you off enough to drive engagement and ad sales. Learn to recognized when your behavior and emotions are being engineered and stop giving them what they want. That being said, I oppose anyone of any gender or ideology that blames others for their problems while taking zero accountability f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:38 PM
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This entire post reads like you’re begging strangers to reassure you that women secretly want the men they openly avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:28 PM
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I've found that most blue pillers can, in fact, spell. Aww did it hurt your feelings to have your own insult thrown back at you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:59 PM
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It really is bro. Talking shit to other people about something you're displaying yourself his hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:45 PM
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Bold of you to call someone stupid in the same sentence where you misspelled "applying." Screenshot for posterity. 🥴 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:26 PM
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Bro no one else can see inside your head. No one can see your thoughts or the path that brought you to the person you currently are. They are not saddled with your view of the world. If you are this offended by my language, I can promise that what you are reacting to is the truth of what I'm saying. Resolving cognitive dissonance hurts. I wish you all the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:38 AM
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Again, you read a neutral reply and assigned your own insecurities to it. You’re reacting to confidence and clarity like they’re personal attacks. Nothing in the original answer from GPT was snide or scolding, only clear and direct. Nothing in my previous reply was snide and scolding. I only asked if you had awareness of something that is quite obvious to others that are not saddled with your internal thoughts and feelings. You weren't attacked. You felt attacked. Those are very different things…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:14 AM
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That's an interesting read considering how dry and factual the answer is. Please point out exactly what's catty. Have you considered that you're projecting cattiness because logic that doesn't align with your own makes you feel attacked?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:10 PM
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My house would certainly be cleaner if he didn't live here but that doesn't equate to happiness. This post is pure projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:03 PM
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Here’s a clear assessment of the logic in the post — not the vibes, not the emotions, just the structure of the argument and where it holds up or falls apart. ⸻ It starts with a broad claim, then builds an argument on selective evidence. The post’s thesis is: “Women don’t love you; they love what you can do for them.” That’s an enormous, universal claim. To justify it, the writer points to: - Reddit anecdotes - Romance novel tropes - A claim that men tolerate more “baggage” - Divorce statistics …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:57 PM
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Did y'all know you can ask an AI to assess your logic before posting?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:54 PM
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Exact same prompt. No one can recreate it. Bro primed the AI to answer that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:41 PM
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https://chatgpt.com/share/691e4708-4504-8000-a793-8c4873242722
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:39 PM
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Alright — I’m answering your actual question, not skirting it, not moral-lecturing, not offloading it to “well actually ethics says.” You handed me a forced-choice trolley-problem-on-water with full awareness that it’s artificial and meant to surface reasoning, not moral judgment of real people. So here’s the straight answer, and I’ll walk you through the logic the way you think — clean, forward, no fluff, no hand-wringing. First, the structure of what you asked: You presented two versions of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:36 PM
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I think the most interesting part of this is that none of us can recreate your result. How hard did you have to lay context in advance to get that result? I'm willing to bet rather a lot. I'm also willing to bet if you put your same prompt into an incognito instance with no prior prompts, you couldn't recreate this either. Why are y'all always fucking lying in here? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:34 PM
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You’re calling it disingenuous because you’re starting from the assumption that a relationship means prioritizing another adult over yourself. That’s the actual disconnect here. There’s a big difference between caring about your partner and being good to them, versus expecting someone to center you above their own life, goals, and boundaries. Those are not the same thing, and pretending they are is how people end up in lopsided relationships that feel like unpaid labor. What I’m saying is simple…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:20 PM
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It's ok if you can't understand me. Lashing out only reflects on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:58 PM
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Hard disagree. The best relationships are between two people that understand their boundaries in advance and choose to only be in relationships with people that are aligned. Again, no one wants to be your mommy and if you are expecting any woman that's not your literal mother to care about you more than they care about themselves, you're in for a world of disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:57 PM
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Neat. Thanks for showing me that no attempt to explain this in a way you can understand will ever matter since you're here to just say shitty things and argue in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:54 PM
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Ok but you're missing the entire point. Just because you can trace a trend back to an influencer or a media outlet doesn't mean it represents what most women actually think. You're essentially taking one viral video and using it as proof of a collective opinion. We'd never look at one extreme male influencer and say "See this is what all men think." The same logic applies. Until you learn to separate viral content from real-world beliefs, your comments here are pretty useless to this conversatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:53 PM
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Why don't you go ahead and read the other comment where I had GPT explain it to you. You're misunderstanding and until you can understand that your argument is misplaced, there's no point in continuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:49 PM
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Are you sure? It's a very common complaint
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:47 PM
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Lol I know you won't do that, so I went ahead and asked GPT to help you understand. Here's it's response: You’re missing the actual point being made in the comment you replied to. The issue isn’t whether some women post memes or jokes online. The issue is that you’re treating algorithm-driven content as if it represents the real attitudes of an entire gender, and that’s not how information works. Here’s the distinction you’re skipping over: - When male influencers or journalists say ridiculous t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:35 PM
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Hey why don't you take a screenshot and ask an AI up help you put these pieces together. I can only explain it to you. I can't understand it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:28 PM
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I don't know where you live but that's not the case in the US. Other than a few outlier relationships, we all work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:26 PM
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It's unrealistic to expect a person you're dating to prioritize you over their own life. Your parents, maybe. A partner? You are optional. Behave accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:25 PM
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Also, having a higher salary doesn't mean you get to come home and fuck off while your wife cooks and cleans and makes your doctors appointments like you are a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:05 PM
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What's your point? I'm not a stay at home spouse, so you would need to discuss that with people that have an informed opinion. You're fighting windmills right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:00 PM
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Ok? I'm not their wives
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:58 PM
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Yes, but that doesn't apply to men across the board. I know a lot of men personally that are fantastic partners. Sweeping generalizations aren't really helpful to these types of discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:47 PM
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It's really not. If someone isn't value add for my life, the other person's wants and feelings do not factor into the decision making process.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:46 PM
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Do you take responsibility for everything some male asshole influencer or "journalist" says to generate outrage and clicks? Or do you just say "that's stupid" and keep on moving?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:35 PM
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Most women aren't saying men are undesirable. They're saying that they will not add a man to their life unless it is a net positive overall. The days of playing mommy to the men we date are long behind us. We want partners, not dependents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:31 PM
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Equally telling that y'all keep engaging lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 12:49 AM
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What an incredibly inappropriate thing to say to absolute stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:38 AM
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Comments are making me feel a lot better. I had to read that like 10 times and still have no idea what he's asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:43 AM
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Agreed. I'd rather deal with open hostility over passive aggression any day. Feels more honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:08 PM
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I like this guy's sense of humor. Does that count or does the nice thing have to be aimed at men generally?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:07 PM
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I don't expect men to put in the same effort as women. Nowhere close even. Which makes it even more egregious when they can't hit the very low bar of wearing clean, neat clothes, showering daily, getting regular haircuts, and keeping their facial hair groomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:40 PM
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Thanks for going through the trouble of getting on an alt account to say this. Y'all are so damn embarrassing b🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:48 PM
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There really is a lot of truth to the "you're not ugly, you're just poor" line we all see floating across the internet. Most people would look a thousand times better with the reduced stress of not having to worry about money and a team of stylists. Idk what men think but for me high maintenance is just a matter of how much time and effort a person is willing to put into themselves. What's your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:52 PM
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It's the same for me. Face card is everything as far as looks go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:48 PM
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Every time I hear a guy throwing around the word "alpha" when not discussing wolves, I immediately hear in my head "any man who must say 'I am the king' is no true king"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:33 PM
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My apologies. I forgot for a minute that the autists in this sub require SARCASM in giant flashing letters to be able to detect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:44 PM
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What's the point of debating in a DEBATE sub? If you don’t have the intelligence or spine to back up your words in this DEBATE sub, then you should probably stop saying stupid shit and get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:42 PM
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That's right! Go directly to the people you actually want to impress: other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:16 PM
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What in the actual fuck do you think would happen if a guy showed up to a date without a shirt? Go on. Tell us how you imagine that playing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:13 PM
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I see you and the point aren't well acquainted
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:11 PM
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Why would I work my ass off every day and then come home and do chores for a man that I outearn while he lounges around waiting to be served? Hint: I wouldn't. Are men incapable of doing their part and splitting the workload? Is that what you're saying? Women are telling you they want partners, not men cosplaying as helpless children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:53 PM
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It's not. He just really wants it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:49 PM
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Hahaha you wrote this entire post to tell us that you think it's unfair that older virgin men are looked down on. WE DIDN'T KNOW THAT ABOUT YOU AND NO ONE ASKED YOU TO TELL THEM. It's weird because you're making it that way. People do not want to know that you've never had sex because it has fuckall to do with them. People are probably looking down on your abysmal manners much more than they are your lack of sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:46 AM
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I think it's a problem that people are telling you they do not fucking care about yours or anyone else's sex lives that are not their own and you're refusing to listen. You're forcing a conversation people don't want to have with you. No one gives a shit about your insecurities except for you. You're the one making it weird, not absolute strangers who DID NOT ASK you to talk about your failure to get your dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:38 AM
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Dude who gives a shit? You're never going to get the world to see through your eyes, and if you make sharing your own personal experiences feel weird and hostile, people aren't even going to give you basic decency in response. I'm going to say this very clearly and I hope you listen: leading any interaction with sexual inadequacy is social incompetence, not systemic oppression. Full stop. So, I'm asking you, how does making this argument help you in any tangible way? What's the goal? How does th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:33 AM
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How are you refusing to acknowledge that people simply don't want to talk about your sex life? If I go on a date and the guy starts talking about his prior sexual experience, or lack thereof, the date is over. Just because you wish to discuss a topic doesn't mean anyone else is interested. Read the fucking room.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:23 AM
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Has it ever occurred to you that most polite society doesn't want to discuss your fucking sex life? Are you completely lacking manners?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:09 AM
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The fact that you have a therapist and are still deploying ‘men are only as loyal as their options’ as relationship wisdom is honestly fascinating. Maybe ask them why you’re broadcasting cynical maxims on the internet instead of, you know, processing whatever made you this way. Also you’re on reddit in a debate sub making snide comments from a troll account and calling me terminally online. The self-awareness is… something 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:32 AM
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Projection would require you to point to what I’m projecting and explain how. But that's not what's happening here. You're using a psychology word as a deflection because you can’t engage with the actual argument. The fact that you responded to ‘you might be lashing out from pain’ with ‘no u’ instead of examining whether there’s any validity to the observation kind of proves the point about emotional regulation, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:28 AM
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There are a lot of men in this sub with fully developed prefrontal cortexes and loving relationships that would disagree with you. Stop trolling and grow up. The only thing you're telling us here is that you have so little control of your own emotions that the only way you can stabilize yourself is to (poorly) attempt to hurt others. It never works bro. You just look a bit pathetic slapping at others this way when they've done nothing to warrant it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:21 AM
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Sounds like you're saying shitty things to a stranger on the internet in a bid to feel something other than miserable. How's that working out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:05 AM
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That was fucking weird. Anyway, since I don’t want to give a single second of attention more to posts listing a bunch of random shit with no bearing on the situation to justify sexual assault, here’s a picture of my dog as an astronaut and some random ass cat ChatGPT threw in there for funsies. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:51 AM
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I spent 9 months there for a project. It made me miss Atlanta lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:38 PM
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Dude how many women do you personally know with 4 kids by 3 different men? I don't know a single one so how is it that every man in here arguing these kinds of points seem to only know women like this? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:01 AM
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Here's the full conversation so you can check to see I didn't prompt it in any way other than to put in screenshots: https://chatgpt.com/share/690dff29-7100-8000-9e4d-1aab501c0bbb
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:17 PM
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<image> Even ChatGPT recognizes that you're being a dick for no reason. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:12 PM
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You know what? You inspired me to get an outside opinion. Here ya go. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:12 PM
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Pretty sure it's the same ruleset across the board. Be clear and firm about your boundaries, communicate them respectfully, and keep your hands to yourself. If you can't do those things, take accountability for* your own behavior and stay the fuck away from that person. This is kindergarten type shit. *voice text strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 07:11 PM
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That's exactly what I did. Being funny doesn't automatically make you attractive, AS ANY FUNCTIONAL ADULT CAN TELL YOU, hence my response. Why don't you try filling in the gaps of what you think I missed instead of the lazy bullshit you started with? Or did you just want to say something shitty to be? If that's the case, hate to break it to you, but I don't care. Knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 07:06 PM
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I think Adam Sandler is funny but I'm not attracted to him. Why do you think being funny automatically equals attraction? That doesn't exist in a vacuum bro. Women are assessing the entire package to determine if they are attracted to you or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 07:02 PM
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You do realize that what's funny for one person could be deeply offensive to another, right? Humor is wildly subjective, and some people will never find you as amusing as you think yourself to be. This is an odd post. No one is required to laugh at your jokes so I'm not really sure what you're trying to get out of this post. Did you just want to call women liars or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:37 AM
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No. The days of casual political disagreements are behind us. For example, if your political views include beliefs that some people are more deserving than others of basics like food, water and shelter, then not only do our politics not align, but our core beliefs and values are diametrically opposed. People are entitled to their own beliefs, of course. I just don't want anything to do with people I perceive to be morally bankrupt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:15 AM
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No. I am firmly against pretending to be something you're not in all situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:27 PM
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Because I came in here and took a look at the dialogue from both sides. I noted that one side of the debate made rational, mentally healthy points & the other side was simply using poorly understood RP talking points to hate others and to avoid ever taking personal accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:29 PM
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It's pretty easy to just not date people you aren't interested in, so I don't understand why you felt the need to make this post instead of simply not dating these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:26 PM
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Y'all read what you want and hurt your own feelings. If you say something fucked up, expect a fucked up response. This works for pretty much every situation you'll encounter. In other words, don't start no shit won't be no shit. The vast majority of men in this sub aren't coming in here for any other reason than to blame women for their problems, then act like babies when they are met with the same attitude they give. Take accountability for yourself and your own behavior. Or don't. I don't real…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:01 AM
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That wasn't trolling. That was me being exasperated and done with that thread where I replied with those words. Did you even bother to read where that came from or did you just go find the first thing that satisfied your confirmation bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:28 AM
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I'm not here to troll. I'm here to push back against a lack of personal accountability and toxic worldviews. Just because someone disagrees with you does not mean they are arguing in bad faith. It just means they disagree with what you're saying and that should be expected as it's a DEBATE sub
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:22 AM
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This is exactly how I feel. I'm perfectly happy on my own so a person has to improve my life overall to be a part of it. A guy that needs to be mothered isn't ever going to cut it. And yes this goes both ways. I don't expect anything from men that I can't provide myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:43 PM
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None of those women have responded to you on this post. Your comment is derailment, not good faith engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:14 PM
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I don't see them doing it in here right now, do you? Are you just in here to tell us you dislike women or do you have another topic you want to discuss? Because you are not responding to those women you are responding to me. You understand that, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 12:10 AM
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Can you explain why you care so much? If a person wants to have a child, is capable of providing for and loving them, then they should be a parent. I don't think it's any more complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:19 PM
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Sweeping generalizations like what you have posted indicate that you are just here to shit on women, not to understand why certain women behave this way. If that wasn't your intention, please consider how the language you have used derails your message before you ever begin. To respond to the content of your post, it's really not a mystery why things like this happen. Miserable people want to think that they have more to offer than the person they're judging, but they often fail to take into acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:13 PM
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Thanks for such a thoughtful answer. How can these men start to change their mindsets?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:41 PM
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Can you explain how you're different? I'm not trying to be snarky and don't have a point to prove. I'm just curious since you can recognize the harm in what she's saying. Idk maybe it would be helpful for the guys in here to see the difference between what OP is describing and how you see yourself and try to live. There's a lot of black and white thinking in this sub. Maybe someone that's like them showing the shades of gray would allow them to engage with what is actually being said instead of …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:50 PM
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Hahaha this is so delusional. Your physical prime is in your 20s, just like women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:13 PM
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Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:58 AM
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Oh so we can't directly respond to the words used or the lines of logic if it says something negative about the person? Seems some things, like the words you personally choose to use, ARE personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:54 AM
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Nothing tells me geography and/or education level quicker than a comment like this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:53 AM
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You're projecting. You feel attacked so you are calling me hostile. I was simply asking you to know your own mind enough to defend the words you use.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:16 AM
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It's just world fallacy to say that acting like a cunt makes people not want to have anything to do with you? Go ahead and explain the just world fallacy to me. Make the connections. If you're going to say something you need to be prepared to explain and defend it. Otherwise, be quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:56 PM
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I don't give a fuck what you do. I go to bed beside a super hot man that loves me every night. Y'all bitch on reddit about women that don't want anything to do with you. You don't want to listen to me? It affects me not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:54 PM
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You don't even know what you just said. Go ahead and explain yourself. Look at what I actually wrote, both here and in other comments, and respond directly to the message with your own thoughts. Not just poorly understood redpill buzzwords.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:53 PM
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I dated him until he started being honest about his personality, Y'all read what you want, not what others wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:52 PM
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Nice deflection. Hope it keeps you warm tonight since you won't have an actual person that can stand your personality to do it. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:05 PM
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Then do what you want and SHUT THE FUCK UP. You are making a conscious choice. People have pointed out the repercussions. If you choose to ignore them, you do so with full knowledge of potential outcomes so stop coming on Reddit and acting like a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:42 PM
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good luck with that. obviously, you should stop bitching about people not liking you at this point, since you have made the conscious choice to be unlikeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:11 PM
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And all I'm saying is acting like a cunt runs every person that could be interested in you out of your life before you even have the opportunity to decide if it is something you might want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:10 PM
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Congrats! I wonder how much more you'd be celebrating this accomplishment if you hadn't run every potential partner out of your life by acting like an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:07 PM
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Everyone deserves a chance to prove they're who they pretend to be. Guess you're just being efficient letting people know you're awful right off the bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:06 PM
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sure buddy. hey of the two of us, which one do you think has a healthy relationship with a super hot person and which one is on reddit blaming the world because no one loves their fucked up attitude? hint: my bf is the best
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:05 PM
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Nothing is going to work for you with this attitude. I mean it. NOTHING. Do you think I want to hire someone to work for me that pisses off every person they meet? Do you think someone wants to even be friends with a guy like that? You're doing this to yourself. Stop acting like anyone else is responsible for how unlikeable you are outside of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:58 PM
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They absolutely do. I broke up with the last guy I was dating, who was the Chaddest Chad that ever Chadded, because he sucked as a person. You're just making assumptions about how you wished the world worked as a way to self-soothe, then getting mad when the world doesn't match the fiction in your head. Sort yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:56 PM
2

This is sad. This is the most defeatest attitude possible. If you think you're going to fail, then you already have. This applies to your entire life. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:54 PM
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That's the dumbest goddamn interpretation possible for what you are trying to describe. I mean that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:51 PM
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So you think one piece of shit weaseling his way into being successful means you should also be a piece of shit? That's your logic? You've got bigger problems than women, if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:48 PM
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It's so helpful for you to lay it out this way. I'm going to wrap your thought up by saying that extremes are what we should all be trying to avoid. Yes, in moderation, and displayed in a healthy manner, every single one of these traits are positive. It's only when carried to extremes does it become undesirable, and the responsibility for ensuring you display characteristics and traits in a healthy manner falls on the individual. Thanks for posting this!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:41 PM
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No, the "women aren't a monolith" argument isn't bullshit and it never will be. Stop grouping people in ways they do not want to be grouped. Your need to neatly classify the entire world around you is YOURS, and if you misclassify someone, they are going to tell you to shut the fuck up. Stop expecting the world to align to you and learn to accept it for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:36 PM
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Y'all are hilarious. By all means, go ahead and be ugly AND impossible to like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:34 PM
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If you want to blame women for your problems go ahead. Women still won't want to fuck you. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:48 AM
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You see that here because men are who is saying those things in this sub. You have a search function and the ability to see for yourself that what you have just stated is not true. Y'all only search for answers until they satisfy your confirmation bias. It's lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:46 PM
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Have you ever been to a gym or nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 01:07 AM
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I just think it's an asinine practice to assign value to humans based on looks alone. There are rather a lot of people in this world that I'm not personally attracted to, but that in no way means they don't have value as people. If that's how you index the world around you, more power to you. I just think it's toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:35 AM
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Gee I guess your personal experience ON THE OUTSIDE of women's relationships with one another is all the evidence anyone will ever need... Get a fucking grip. Why are you so comfortable offering unsolicited bullshit like this? What are you hoping to gain here? Did you just want a circle jerk from other woman haters? What? Do tell
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 12:47 AM
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Where do y'all get this shit? I don't know a single woman in my life that doesn't have AT LEAST one best friend and a handful of very close friends. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 12:40 AM
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Intelligent, honest, considerate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 12:35 AM
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Maybe spend more time focused on improving yourself instead of fictionalizing men to hate. This shit is tiresome. Y'all are always in here bitching about how men are expected to act a certain way then turn around and post shit like this. Keep your eyes on your own work and don't worry about what other people are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:31 PM
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Lol yeah abusers always rationalize their abuse. It's kinda their hallmark. That's what you're describing here. It's not play and allowing them to use language that makes it seem less serious, and you yourself using that language, allows it to continue. Don't let people hurt you and make you think it's your fault. No one deserves that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:37 PM
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Play fighting is tickling each other and rolling around in the bed. What you’re describing is just domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:01 PM
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10/10. Enjoyable thread. Would recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:58 PM
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Y'all throw the word 'hypergamous' around so much it's lost all meaning at this point 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:31 PM
1

Defining character traits as masculine or feminine is asinine since both genders are equally capable of possessing any given trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:28 PM
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Ok? Sorry that's been your experience. What do you want us to debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:13 AM
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Yeah dude. We are individuals with individual values and opinions. Y'all just make yourselves unhappy when you try to force us into roles we don't take on for ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:14 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:47 PM
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Yeah. That’s pretty much how that works. Not quite the gotcha you were after huh? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:44 PM
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I'll actually agree here a bit. Red pill men 15 years ago are in no way similar to what I see in the world today. Way back, red pill guys weren't actively hating women, simply gaming the system to increase their chances of success, but now the vast majority of men I speak with that claim any sort of red pill ideology are really just black pill misogynists. Not saying there aren't men that still hold the original red pill ideology, only that their voices are being drowned out by the type shit we …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:13 PM
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I don't hint at anything. I use plain language and make sure I am completely understood, because I won't spend my life reminding someone to act like an adult. For example, if you make a mess in my house, you are expected to clean up after yourself immediately. You won't be told twice. I won't stay in a relationship with a man that needs me to act like his mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:22 PM
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I don't even have to see that post to know that's not what you were told and that you're just bastardizing what can be twisted to fit your narrative and ignoring the rest 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:14 PM
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Pretty sick of Mary Sue types with exactly one flaw myself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:50 AM
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Those historical women weren't "sleeping" with invading armies. They were being RAPED. Don't try to downplay it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:43 PM
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Word. No one deserves to "have" another human.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:06 PM
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Don't y'all get tired of saying the same shit over and over and over? Offer a solution or shut the fuck up about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:05 PM
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Then what the fuck are you so mad about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:04 PM
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Ok? Die miserable and alone then I guess. It's much easier to just be pissed off at the world than to take responsibility for your own happiness, huh? Hope that works out for you bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:17 AM
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This is such an awesome response. Thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:23 PM
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Are you asking what qualities I have that men are attracted to? There's nothing on my list that I cannot also give them myself. Tbh I think men just see my looks though, at least in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:55 PM
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I'm not following what you're trying to say here. Can you reword this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:48 PM
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I want to note that these things wouldn't be on my list if I didn't meet these requirements myself. The only thing I ask of partners that I cannot also give them is a penis. So I'd say for anyone else, you should first take a good hard look at your list and if you can't meet your own standards, you need to reassess why you're so comfortable expecting things that you cannot yourself provide. I'm not saying you have to drop your standards, just understand yourself better. Beyond that, stop obsessi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:42 PM
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I really think it just comes down to the fact that humans assume others view the world the same way they do, that their thoughts follow the same structure, that what they believe is believed by everyone. It's why people are so polarized about anything and everything. The vast majority of our species is just incapable of thinking of any given topic from a meta perspective. So men assume women's lists are solely based on looks because theirs are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:28 PM
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When I say standards, I am talking about dealbreakers. Requirements. I don't have looks requirements other than I personally find you attractive and you're in semi-decent shape, so dad bods are fine, morbid obesity is not. I can't really narrow that down more since the men I've dated cover a super wide spectrum. Here's a random ass list of my personal non-negotiables: - Intelligent - Well groomed and well dressed - Can conduct themselves well in public - Friends and interests that don't involve …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:20 PM
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Love this attitude. Even if guys do come on too strong at first, it's really not the end of the world. You might never see that girl again, but just chalk it up to a learning experience, figure out how to adjust, and move on to the next. No one starts anything as an expert. You'll improve every time you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:37 PM
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That doesn't bother me. Knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:22 PM
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I played that game a few times in my 20s. Happy I outgrew trying to save people from their own insecurities. It's an impossible task.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:55 PM
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I don't have to justify other people's choices dude
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:52 PM
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I encourage all men to ask about body counts if they feel the need. It's always worked out great for me because I know exactly the kind of man that asks that question, and he's not one I want in my life. I've seen this play before and it's always a good thing for insecure men that will spend the rest of your relationship asking increasingly more invasive questions while they get more and more unbearable to be around to remove themselves from the relationship early. A win/win really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:43 AM
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What even is this question? Of course people that want kids should have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:30 AM
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Love watching a random on Reddit get mad because he doesn't like my answer then just restate my first sentence to pass off as his own. Really discovering new ground here, Christopher Columbus. 🥴🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:36 AM
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My 5'4 mom must have missed that memo since she has three sons that are all over 6'
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:26 AM
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This isn't a question for women. This is you being sad and miserable and looking for someone to blame. Go touch some grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:19 AM
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Nothing about what you just said is sane. It reads like manufactured outrage on a topic you have little to no real life experience with. If you have to borrow experiences or make shit up to be mad about, you have bigger problems than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:13 AM
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From this answer, I don’t believe you need to worry about anyone being able to hold your depth. Yes, I show up fully as myself every second of every day. If I mask, it is for other people’s benefit, not mine, and even then I am still fully myself, only the delivery changes. Bro look I don’t actually care what you want to show me or anyone else. I wasn’t asking strangers on Reddit to show me their depth, only noting that what you show people is what they will believe about you. If you don’t want …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:09 AM
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I'm not implying anything. I'm flat out saying that you and no one else is responsible for your life. That isn't a gendered statement. It's an adult one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:25 AM
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Great. If a man thinks that, then he needs to find a woman that also feels that way, because I think it's immature and laughable. That's the beauty of dating. You get to find the person you share values with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:23 AM
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Do you, an adult, really need elaboration on why you are responsible for your own life? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:12 AM
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No it's not easier for women. It was the same for me. I spent a lot of useless years in useless therapy with therapists that weren't right for the job. I had to do a lot of research on different therapy types and had about 10 first appointments before I found a therapist that was willing and able to approach things in a solution-focused manner. I'm not in the habit of keeping employees that can't do their job, and extending that same attitude to my medical care has improved my health across the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:10 AM
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IT'S A CHOICE YOU MAKE. NO ONE ELSE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:00 AM
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Son. I'm going to give you some advice that you should apply to every aspect of your life: it is YOUR responsibility to show people you aren't a sack of shit. Strangers you encounter are going to assume that you are EXACTLY the person you show yourself to be. It's absurd to think people that don't know you have some sort of obligation to dig through your comments or behaviors to figure out whether or not you’re a cunt, when you can just go ahead and not act like a cunt. Clear up any confusion be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:02 AM
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Perhaps consider the shallowness of what you show the world instead. I'm going to take what you show me at face value, as I do with every other person I do not know or care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:15 AM
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Because it's none of their business and has nothing to do with the current relationship. If a man feels strongly about it and pushes, then he will be in a position to find a new relationship with someone else because I'm not interested in dealing with some man's unresolved insecurity about my prior sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:47 PM
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That's a lot of words to say "I refuse to admit that I have flaws and work on them in a healthy, productive manner" but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:45 PM
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Overcoming the disease is exactly what it is though. Someone recognized a problem, went to the doctor, got meds. Others spent their entire lives on education that would allow them to create the meds. A whole host of people came together to attempt to overcome that disease. The only way this would be similar is if you never bothered going to the doctor at all and instead spent your time whining on Reddit that everyone isn't as sick as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:14 PM
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A person would have to lower their current standards in order to HAVE lower standards. You do understand this, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:06 PM
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Ok? It’s still fucking nonsense. If someone gets sick and goes to get medicine for said illness, then they are, in fact, improving themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:02 PM
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🙄 dude stop your bullshit. "I want you to have lower standards" is exactly what I was responding to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:01 PM
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Well y'all get pissed when we tell you to go to therapy and work your shit out, so idk what other kind of solution you're expecting. No one is going to work out your insecurities for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:58 PM
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That last paragraph was utter nonsense so perhaps try to reword what it is you're trying to say here. You're comparing apples to sledgehammers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:57 PM
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Asking someone to lower their personal standards is asking them to consider themselves less than they currently do, and no one is ever going to do that unless they want to do it for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:55 PM
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It's wrong to ask anyone to be less so you can feel like you're more. You're NOT more so it really is unreasonable to expect people to pander to your mediocrity. Improve yourself or shut the fuck up, because the world isn't going to devolve in order to meet you where you're at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:40 PM
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No. I've noticed that people with comparable social skills have pretty much the same result. Attractiveness depends on how attractive the partner they find is, of course, but being fun to be around matters a lot more than how you look after the point of mediocrity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:33 AM
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Spoiler: it's not expected. You simply walk away from a bad relationship when you realize they aren't meeting you halfway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:25 PM
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Would love to know which Mensa candidate made the decision to test a product meant to absorb blood with colored water. Bet that particular muppet's salary was high enough to hurt my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:29 AM
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Never stops being wild to me that scientists were funded to measure a bunch of dicks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:41 AM
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This. I will survive just fine if anyone I know fucks off out of my life. I don't need my bf to be in my life, but I WANT him there since he's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:26 PM
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I more closely aligned with what the blue people in here were saying. It's that simple. It isn't something I define my life by in any way. It's just a visual indicator of which way you should expect my views to align, but should not be considered a rulebook. Y'all spend way too much fucking time thinking about ways to define others and not enough time thinking of how you define yourself. Edited to fix all of voice texts poor choices
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 11:06 PM
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I'll tell you what, you go ahead and assign whatever ideology you want to me, and I in turn, will totally ignore it because I don't want or need other people's opinions about myself unless they serve a purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:04 PM
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Blue pill is just normal mainstream thinking dude
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 09:19 PM
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Pills are stupid as fuck and I'm not going to make arbitrary shit decided by other people my identity. I speak this way because it's business, not some desperate cry for someone to love them. It's fucking business, and business doesn't give a fuck about your feelings unless it affects profits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:06 AM
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With what? What are you even talking about here? People can't follow your thoughts if you don't bother to explain them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:14 PM
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I love that you are bitching at me about not copying and pasting when you’re too goddamn lazy to scroll down. Are you fucking kidding? 🤣 I take it back. My willingness to engage with you is retracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:13 PM
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Please scroll this thread. I gave a pretty good explanation that the other person refused to hear. Happy to answer questions and continue the discussion but it was a lot to type out and it's pretty inefficient to do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:11 PM
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I guess there's a reason I get paid to set strategy and you don't, boss 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:20 AM
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Conflict does not need to be a company’s main product for it to generate revenue all the way up the chain. Advertising money follows attention and attention follows drama. It really is that simple. When people stay online to argue about a gender war it keeps ad views high, subscription numbers steady, and engagement metrics strong. Social platforms sell more ads, hardware makers like Nvidia sell more chips to keep the servers running, and governments collect more taxes on the profits. Apple does…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:32 AM
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Stop. Pull yourself back from your own shit and try to understand this as a topic divided from yourself before you assign feelings to it. Think like a strategist. Widen your scope beyond just rags and a few YouTubers. The same profit loop runs through EVERY part of the attention economy. Podcasters, TV panels, big publishers, self-help TikTokers all earn more when people stay riled up and keep clicking, watching, or buying. It’s not about a formal gender war. Any hot-button divide that keeps aud…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:06 AM
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Widen your scope. What about podcasters? Talk show hosts? Tv networks? Publishers? Self-help authors? Whenever you think you've spotted all the manipulation in the world around you from people trying to make money, keep looking because you're just getting started.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:46 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:34 AM
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I've never once been disrespected in a boardroom because of my gender🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:45 AM
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Thank you both for this. This is the first time I've clicked into a post and made it this far down only reading rational, respectful discourse. It gives me hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:02 PM
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I'm of the opinion that people/companies that saw a way to monetize the unhappiness of others caused the "gender war"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:52 PM
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I mean yeah those are the guys I'm sleeping with, but sometimes you don't realize that you'd misjudged the kind of person they are until after it's already done. Nothing to do at that point but chalk it up to a life lesson, make sure you learned it, and keep moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:37 AM
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Probably should have sent him a DM instead of posting it on a public message board then 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:28 AM
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Sure and some men go home and beat their wives every night. That doesn't mean every man does. I think the kind of black and white thinking so often displayed in this sub generally does more harm to the men here than anything else in their lives. Binary thought is simple and satisfying sure but you miss SO much of the nuance in every situation. You miss the mixed motivations that drive people's actions. It limits problem solving and fuels polarization. Your self worth is never stable because simp…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:13 AM
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You think that screenshot is enough evidence to apply it to 4 billion women? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:30 PM
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Men are beautiful at every size too. By that I mean no matter your attractiveness level to the other sex, you can and should be able to feel good about yourself and tell anyone that tries to change that to go to hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:29 PM
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Level 1 white autistic made laugh. I hate how true it is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:26 PM
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No. Unlike a lot of you, I actually have fulfilling relationships, solid mental health and social skills, so even though I try to understand where you're coming from, we just see the world in very different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:26 PM
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It's humiliating for everyone. You're not special.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:25 PM
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Fun. When I did it, it was fun for me. I literally do not give a fuck what a single one of you, or any other man that wants to slut shame because they themselves can't get laid, think about my choices or my life, and I don't understand why you think any of us would. I don't accept criticism from people I also wouldn't accept advice from.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:18 PM
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"You didn't answer." I post a reply "No, you didn't answer the way I wanted you to"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:13 PM
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That you found an example of a couple of people saying something and decided to attribute that to FOUR BILLION WOMEN worldwide
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:10 PM
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Enjoy your confirmation bias
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:08 PM
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Thanks for that response that proves absolutely nothing. Solid contribution 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:01 PM
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I don't know what to tell you. You don't have to like someone to have sex. Or you can spend a night with them only to learn a bunch of stuff about them that horrifies you. There's a lot of reasons this could happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:00 PM
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This is the fifth account you've made that I've had banned. Aren't you embarrassed? Because you are a goddamn embarrassment to the entire human race
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:59 PM
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If that's the only thing you value, then why are you even this specific post commenting? You clearly don't want to hear other perspectives. Other people do not see things the way you do. You can try to understand outside perspectives and adjust your mindset to take that into account or you can stay mad that everyone in the world isn't exactly like you. Your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:57 PM
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YOU WEREN'T FUCKING INVITED AND NO ONE WANTS TO BE AROUND YOU EVERY SECOND OF EVERY DAY EVEN IF THEY LOVE YOU this is not a difficult concept
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:54 PM
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It matters because the mindset is toxic. Goddamn WHY is it so fucking hard for y'all to understand that entering into any situation with a shit mindset pretty much guarantees a shit outcome. If you want to stay unhappy and obsessed with looks, go for it. Wish you all the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:52 PM
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No? One has sex and is booted out of your life because you don't actually like them as a person. The other you enjoy and want to be around, want to learn more about, want to see grow and succeed and thrive. What are you trying to say here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:50 PM
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Oh look it's my stalker! It's so sad that you keep creating accounts to follow mine around. You really need to get professional help.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:46 PM
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It's not virtue signaling. You're reducing people down to a single point with stances like this. Of course they're going to push back. Everyone is a bit shallow, but that's not all they are. It's very much like MAGA getting upset when they're called racist, because even though a great number of them are, in fact, racist, that's not all they are, so of course people are going to get upset that you've reduced their identity down to a single point. There are a lot of shades of gray in this world be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:12 PM
5

Hey I'm going to say this genuinely and kindly. I am not saying this to talk shit or be mean. I just really think this is something you need to internalize. Your partner can be your best friend, but the second you make that partner your only friend, you have put far too much of a burden on that person. They cannot be everything to you and you cannot be everything to them. Not only that, sometimes you just need to get away from your partner. That in no way means you do not love them or that you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:03 PM
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This is bullshit and is nothing more than you projecting your own insecurity Edited to add if they're going out every night that's a problem and it has nothing to do with girls night. If they're meeting their friends once a week to catch up and you dislike that, you're the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:57 AM
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Husbands and boyfriends that insert themselves into girls night are the worst. Keep your insecure ass at home. Your wife's/gf's friends did not sign up for your presence when they made plans.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:51 AM
0

No shit. What are you trying to argue here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:48 AM
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Fwb is not a more exclusive group. I'm not going to date or have a casual encounter up with someone that doesn't meet my threshold for attractiveness. I genuinely do but understand why you think this way, but I'm not going to try to change your mind. I'll just tell you how it works for me and you can do with it what you will. A guy I sleep with is hot. A guy I get into a relationship with is hot, intelligent, kind, charming, sociable, funny, and so much more. The second is much harder to find an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:47 AM
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Do you want an award or what? Should we get a trophy made with "my life sucks the most" or would you prefer something else to celebrate this accomplishment? You have said absolutely nothing that hasn't already been said one million times in here in the past week, so really, what are you after?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:39 AM
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Because the vast majority of you speak vibes and not facts. Every time I see someone push back the way you're claiming they do, they are simply pushing back on the way the message was written. That you are unable to see that and instead take away something else that fits your preconceived notions is a really great example of confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:35 AM
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Are you... No let me reset that thought lol. Are you unaware of the difference between fiction and real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:21 AM
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No shit. Why are you acting like this isn't common knowledge? Or were you just after a circlejerk of ugly, unhappy men that hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:19 AM
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This one. This world right here. It's super easy to argue and not fight when you're not literal trash
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:13 AM
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Classifying people into leagues based on looks alone is short-sighted and far too narrow of a qualification to base a person's entire worth. People tend to date others that are roughly as attractive as they are. It's the way it is. That in NO WAY means that someone that's hot has more value as a person. People push back on "leagues" because a person's worth should be gauged by so much more than genetics they have no control over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:05 AM
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This is an HR issue. Report it. NO ONE should be touching you without your consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:09 PM
1

That's called projection. Why would I be sarcastic here? I've routinely stated that men need to advocate for themselves in a healthy, respectful manner and this post did just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:01 PM
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It's not pretend care. It is the amount of care they can give. If it's not enough for you, that is a problem with you. If you'd rather have none than what you think is the right amount, then that's exactly what you will get. You fight so goddamn hard against a world that flat out DOES NOT CARE in the same way you do. I know that sucks, but you really need to get a fucking grip and stop denigrating people for giving what they can
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:06 AM
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Dude. You're asking people to care about you more than they care about themselves and they're never going to do it. Accept the care they can give you and stop being such a fucking child.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:56 AM
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Y'all downvoting this is hilarious. Damn there's literally nothing women can do to support you, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:17 AM
3

Right?! Smoking weed is awesome. Nothing else listed is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:08 AM
1

Y'all I mean damn. I come in here and play with y'all every day in the hopes that you'll get here yourself but I'm so exhausted with the mental gymnastics in here that I'm just going to spell it out as simply as possible tonight. Stop. Stop your mental processes. Full zero. Now take a fresh look at the world around you and realize that the meaning you assign to words is often not a direct translation in others. Understand that you're assuming everyone is seeing the world exactly as you do instea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:00 AM
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What an asinine thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 04:34 AM
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Do it. Fuck yeah. Full support.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 04:33 AM
7

Are you unfamiliar with how sex works or... Did you have fun and enjoy the experience? Perfectly good sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 12:52 AM
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It probably seems hard because nobody can tell what the fuck you just wrote. Put that shit into ChatGPT and ask it to translate it to English.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:20 PM
10

🤣 ok dude let me take my "rambling" (also known as direct responses to your post and follow-ups) elsewhere. It never stops being funny watching y'all get pissy when you don't get the answers you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:16 PM
7

What? What are you even trying to say here? That you only get into relationships with people for looks? That's a you problem dude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:07 PM
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I meant the rose colored glasses that damn near everyone wears in the beginning of every relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:01 PM
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I think it takes about 6-12 months for you to be able to remove the rose colored glasses and for them to drop pretenses about who they are. This is the point where you can start actually getting to know each other. Sex doesn't really factor in to that since you can have perfectly good sex without knowing who someone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:37 PM
1

Why are you taking people on $500 dates if money is such an issue for you? Trying to impress women with money you don't have is crazy work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:13 AM
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Lol being attracted to literally any man seems to be deemed hypergamous around here so in that light... Damn guess we are all hypergamous 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:05 AM
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Disclaimer: I worked in a female dominated work environment. Women would gossip and backstab each other, making comments about other women’s appearance and personal lives. I was humiliated and disparaged by women in leadership. I never encountered men acting in this way in the workplace. Then you're not aware of your surroundings, because I see men regularly behave this way as often as I see women. Ever heard of confirmation bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:09 PM
5

Y'all will call anything hypergamy. It's actually ridiculous. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:04 PM
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It's just as easy for ugly people to not get into relationships that don't meet their standards, y'all just don't want to. You'd rather have trash than nothing at all, and that's fine, but it's 100% on you. Make your choices, accept responsibility and live with the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:41 PM
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This is very near the bottom of my list of shit to care about for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:39 PM
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Please don't ask us to discuss the sex lives of minors, fictional or not. The fuck is wrong with you dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:01 PM
12

He'd probably get a 30 minute Ted Talk about the purpose of business in general, business strategy and how deeply we are all being manipulated into being unhappy by people trying to sell us shit. Y'all can't take dating apps personally. They aren't fair or well managed and making business decisions about you then using that incorrect assumption to further hate yourself is really not in your best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:17 PM
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Oh yeah? What point is that? Make the connections for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:41 PM
3

Real. Pills are dumb as shit. I only picked blue because it was anti-red.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:25 PM
5

Again, if you think either side provides that, you are delusional to the point of hilarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:46 PM
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I'm not getting anyone's "approval" to go out with my friends. I'll let my bf know what my plans are, but he doesn't get a say in how I spend my time or who I choose to spend it with. If he doesn't feel comfortable with me being out with the opposite sex in a group setting, then he would need to get a new gf because I'm not pandering to anyone's insecurities. That's not cheating to me, and if anyone feels differently, the time to bring that up was before we started dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:17 PM
10

More like humans lost the critical thinking war. Anyone that thinks either side has their best interests at heart is displaying an impressive level of delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:14 PM
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Dude, you are so confidently incorrect it's painful. You've built this entire argument on a foundation of a scientific model that was debunked over 20 years ago. The "brown is dominant, blue is recessive" model is an oversimplification they teach in high school to introduce the concept of genetics. Real world eye color is polygenic, meaning it's controlled by the interaction of many different genes, not just one. Green eyes are not some magical, impossible mutation. They are a common variation c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:35 PM
3

I challenged your view that you posted anything other than a whiny rant about a comment that upset you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:04 AM
3

Why would anyone bother to argue against your hurt feelings from a Reddit comment? Was there something else you were expecting us to debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:58 AM
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So did you want to just tell us how much that comment upset you or...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:21 AM
2

I mean... you should definitely work to be the type of man that's viewed as a "prize" but no, you don't get that designation by value of having a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:16 PM
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I've never read that book but I deeply agree with the idea of being so authentically yourself that it serves as an immediate filter for anyone that may not like your personality. Especially in dating. It's always been my opinion that people sign any future relationship's death warrant the second they decide to present themselves as anything other than exactly what they are. They're going to figure out who you are eventually anyway. Might as well rip that bandaid off at the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:08 PM
0

Yeah something for sure not adding up there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:29 AM
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This is such a valid point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:27 AM
4

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:03 PM
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In my experience, men that say shit like this aren't turning the conversation "flirty" so much as offensively sexual. If you're asking women for "pics" before you know anything about them, you are indeed the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:49 PM
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I sincerely get where you're coming from here since a very slim margin of feminists ruin it for the rest of us. I don't often see red pill men speaking up against that kind of toxic rhetoric in here though, so that gives the impression that the men that don't think this way are more exception than rule. Something to that old adage about a few rotten apples spoiling the whole bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:12 PM
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Motherfucker you don’t grant me a single fucking thing. It's genuinely hilarious that you think you hold that over me and other women. I'll tell you what, since you want to talk such big shit I’ll give you my goddamn home address and DARE you to show up here. If you’re gonna talk about it, you better fucking be about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:42 PM
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Why would I not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:13 PM
8

Here are the first few that came up on search: 1 2
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:56 PM
10

There are dudes in this sub every day saying they'll fuck people they aren't attracted to. There are 25 year old men out there fucking 60 year old women to advance their own life. Stop trying to act like only women do these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:23 PM
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ditto
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:28 AM
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Yes it's the bare minimum. I have no idea how other women behave in their relationships, so I couldn't say if they're doing more. I can only explain what I myself do and what I expect from my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:42 AM
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Because you made the statement. You made it about you the second you said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:27 AM
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Maybe for the women that date you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:24 AM
2

Not saying it wouldn't be immensely difficult but I could probably power through imagining him in a janky sub controlled by a Logitech joystick
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:21 AM
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Same as for men. Don't cheat, lie or steal. Treat your partner with care and consideration. Speak up when you need to, listen when you don't. Split the chores, but be willing to pick up the slack if they're overburdened. Contribute positively to the relationship and to your lives. Pretty normal stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:16 AM
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It's literally the fucking topic. You want to talk about the left "trying for decades" implement communism and here we fucking are with the right taking communist action. Don't say ridiculous shit if you don't want it disputed. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:15 AM
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Do it. Fucking do it then. You better be ready to flat out murder at least half of us though because I know I'll die before it happens and take as many as possible out with me. Really should ask yourself if you're valuable enough to the men in charge to even be offered one of those women you've stripped of rights, because I bet the vast majority of you are not impressive enough to other men for them to consider you deserving.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:08 AM
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Most people. Politicians, people that parrot propaganda as facts, corporate shitbags that would burn the world for a dollar & people that throw pity parties on the internet and blame everyone but themselves are blanket exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:03 AM
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they are lustful, immature, vain and often sexist Yeah. Many are. But just as many are damn good men that love their partners and show it, parent their children well, hold down their responsibilities, etc. Bit of a coin toss when dealing with humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:40 AM
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Nothing could make him attractive, but I could maybe override my revulsion for access to* billions. Maybe. *forgot to add this word lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:34 AM
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It's legit hilarious that you're bitching about the left and communism the same week Trump decided to pull this commie shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:19 AM
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Bezos money
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:24 PM
2

I'm actually going to edit this comment because I don't want a temp ban, but I'd guess just like everyone else in your life, I'm pretty over interacting with you dude. Best of luck with... all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:38 PM
2

hahahahaha I know you desperately wish that was true, but sadly for you, my life is exactly as described. come on this subreddit specifically to tell people like you that they are the source of their own unhappiness, and you are. Your behavior here is repulsive. Just whining and crying about women without taking a deep, honest look at yourself. If you're unhappy and looking for someone to blame, it's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:33 PM
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"Boohoo life is so hard because I say miserable incel shit on the internet and people won’t take me seriously" Rather a lot is expected of me at any given moment. I have a great job, a great relationship, and a great life. I didn't get a single one of things by being a crybaby bitch on Reddit, so again, die mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:24 PM
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Because it sure doesn't go with the whole egalitarian ethic women espouse politically. People are individuals with individual opinions. Attributing individual opinions to an entire gender is a real dumb thing to do so I really don't understand why y'all persist in doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:49 PM
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No disrespect, but if that's what you were trying to get across, it didn't quite land.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:11 AM
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You spent the time to write all this out and make the post, so it's not unreasonable for someone to assume you feel this way. And yeah everyone on this earth would benefit from a mentally healthy understanding of their own boundaries and the confidence to enforce them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:09 AM
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"If we recognize..." "If we assume..." This may not be the impression you were hoping to make, but the way you worded your argument is giving politician speak for "I agree with all this shit but recognize that I'll receive backlash if I say it publicly."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:02 AM
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Have you read your post? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:55 AM
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Oh are we cool with black pill posts now? Dude. No one is absolving women of anything. The occasional, stunningly beautiful woman? Sure. But most women are average and are treated that way. If y'all spent a fraction of the time you spend dreaming up new ways to hate on people that do not give a fuck about you on actually bettering your own life, you wouldn't need to be on Reddit recycling thoughts that were never originally yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:51 AM
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THEY AREN'T SPECIFIC CHALLENGES MEN FACE. It's not harder for men to be cheated on, and anyone saying it is, is just taking a wild guess. Hence, my comment. What part of that is confusing? What part of that made you decide to come into a DEBATE sub and pick a random WOMAN's behavior to police? You going around telling all the men that post in here that "everyone has their own unique struggles" or can you only say that bullshit to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:41 AM
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Probably safe to assume a little of both
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:17 PM
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No. You are not listening. Every single Chad I've ever met, and I've met a lot, all had GREAT personalities. They were kind to people. Y'all just want to believe they're awful because it'll make you feel better about whatever situation you're in and that's fine, but please know that people recognize this behavior for exactly what it is. You're not Chad so stop trying to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:12 PM
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I didn't deny that being cheated on hurts or that people have their own struggles, only asserted that it doesn't hurt worse because someone has a penis, so I'm not really sure what you're arguing about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:05 PM
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No. I don't give an actual fuck where other people go to find a relationship or the dubious ethics that led them there. If both parties are of legal age and consenting, then it's none of my business. Why are y'all always trying to police the behavior of people that do not affect your life in any way?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:03 PM
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This isn't a unique struggle though and it's ridiculous to act like it's any more difficult for one person to experience than it is another
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:57 PM
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Except the part y'all continue to miss is that Chad DOES put in the work on his personality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:17 PM
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I wasn't saying men weren't harmed by domestic violence, you potato. I was saying that it's fucking weird to post about men being harmed more by cheating because it's "fair" to point it out since women are harmed more by DV. Your reading comprehension ain't it, chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:40 AM
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Go back and point to EXACTLY where I said any of that. Go on. Oh right, I didn't. You just decided to ignore the fact that the comment I was replying to discussed men being able to cause more physical harm, hence my use of "asymmetric harm." I know big words are tough, but in the future, you should just ask clarifying questions before projecting your ill-formed opinions onto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:17 AM
12

What's happening to men in this scenario that's not happening to women exactly? Are men the only ones being cheated on? No? They're certainly not the only ones facing domestic violence, so what is it? What exactly is your fucking point? Spit it out, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:58 AM
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It's actually so weird that you think there's a need to make things "fair" regarding asymmetric harm in domestic violence. What the actual fuck bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:35 AM
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Pretty safe to say being cheated on sucks no matter what you have going on between your legs, so I'm really unclear about why you'd take the time to write all this out. There are no medals awarded in the Struggle Olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:57 AM
1

This is such a weird, unnecessary political rant. What liberals? Specifically which ones? Are you positive you're not hearing individual opinions from individual people and instead of taking the time to understand that people, even people that identify with one another, have different worldviews you're just lumping them all together then getting mad when they're not exactly the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:03 PM
2

Yeah. That's kinda the whole ethos. Happy you were able to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:50 AM
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I don't need to know how someone chooses to behave overall to identify when they behave badly in the moment. Their past doesn't change their present behavior. It's weird that you're arguing like it does. That victim mentality is going to be one of the greatest limiting factors in your life. Maybe you should just restate what you're trying to say because it's a bit convoluted and the entire argument is coming across a bit odd
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:30 AM
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I mean recognizing when your worldview is harming others and doing something about it. Not because someone told you to or to get laid. Because you finally clocked that clinging to a broken belief system just so you don’t have to feel wrong is pathetic. That's what I mean by growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:25 AM
2

Yeah but I only get to interact with the you on Reddit, so if you choose to show me that you hate women because of your own insecurities and that you're comfortable saying unhinged opinions and trying to pass them off as fact, I'm going to go ahead and treat you like that is exactly the person you are. I don't need to account for who you are anywhere else. I only need to know who you are right here, right now because that is who you are choosing to be. Everyone needs to get a lot more comfortabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:00 PM
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It makes me feel bad that anyone anywhere feels displaced from society this way. That anyone was put in the position to build up this kind of bitterness and hatred without any avenues available to help them work through it in a way that allows them to remain stable throughout the learning/growth process. It makes me feel bad that we, society, spend more time judging and shaming others than we do helping each other grow into better people. So yeah, I can and do feel bad for every man that goes th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:51 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:21 PM
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This is the most rational, reasonable thing that's ever been written in this sub. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:53 PM
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Idk if I can agree here. I've found that dating has actually gotten easier as I've gotten older. I attribute this to knowing what I will accept in a relationship and learning to be comfortable cutting things off before too much time has been wasted on either side. It's been my experience that both men and women are more comfortable in their own skin and confident about going after what they want the further they get from their 20s and it shows in how most approach dating. Awful people are always…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:47 PM
10

Exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:37 PM
-4

Thanks for letting us know you have no goddamn idea what the just world fallacy is!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:21 PM
0

You keep repeating the same line without engaging with what I am actually saying. Are you rehearsing your bit or what? There are plenty of people who are not conventionally attractive, not wealthy, and not high status who are still in relationships. That fact alone disproves your claim that looks and status are the only variables. What changes the outcome is how people experience you as a person. If your argument were correct, exceptions would not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:00 PM
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It's cute that you think you proved me wrong about anything. The only thing you proved to me is that the male loneliness epidemic is made 1000x worse by people like you that refuse to take accountability for your own lives and your own behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:03 PM
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It's absolutely whining. None of us are God so we don't have the ability to do anything about your genetics. No, it is exactly for this reason. most people are willing to give you sympathy to a certain extent, but at some point, you have to understand they are literally never going to fucking care as much as you do. Get over yourself. Stop trying to make your issues everyone else's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:55 PM
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Ok? And constantly whining about it helps you how?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:48 PM
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"Women struggle to explain it" Bold of you to cast this stone when you don't even know what you're trying to say with this post. The body has nothing to do with the title. I'm tired so I'm just going to say this bluntly: You are unattractive to people. Not because of your looks. Plenty of ugly people are in relationships. You are unattractive because you'd rather spend your time blaming the world for your bullshit and inability to find healthy coping mechanisms than finding a better way. You don…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:38 PM
1

I think it's super easy and wildly helpful to the overall conversation when someone respectfully brings up outside issues in ways that allow me to see how they intersect. Those are some of the most interesting conversations I've ever had. Outside perspective is deeply illuminating if you go into these conversations willing to have your mind changed. That's rarely how it goes down irl though. Usually just something along the same lines as a guy hears women discussing [insert whatever here] and in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:40 PM
1

Do you disagree with the last part because you yourself wait until women's issues are being discussed to bring up men's issues and invalidate what women are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:03 PM
1

Agreed. Men's issues are important and should be treated with the seriousness they deserve. Unless you exclusively wait until women's issues are being discussed before bringing up men's issues, in which case, you're just a garden variety asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:09 PM
4

"the problem with this is that it is inconvenient for me" FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:02 PM
19

FOR WHAT REASON? If not to prove a point, why on earth should women expose their children to that? This is a ridiculous suggestion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:00 PM
4

No it's not. What's hard is expecting them to care about every single aspect of it at all times. I don't give a shit about passport bros because a) I don't know any and b) they're not doing anything illegal. Nothing about this is worth a second of mental processing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:59 PM
1

Nah it's just reserving cognitive load for shit that actually matters to you. Not everyone cares about the things you care about. It's a super simple concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:14 PM
5

Yep. Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:43 PM
1

ngl i'm still trying to puzzle out exactly what they're trying to say here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:26 PM
7

What a disgusting thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:40 PM
0

Oh yeah? Explain how their ethnicity matters here. I'll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:39 PM
1

I encounter this rather a lot in the US. Pretty much everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:34 PM
3

It's alarming how often I am able to tell that people don't floss 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:33 PM
11

A couple of chads helped me move a couple of years ago. I didn't even ask them to. They just showed up and helped me pack because they're my friends and they knew I didn't have any help. I've never slept with or dated either of them. I know most of these guys want to believe that handsome, popular men are monsters, but for the most part, they're just really decent men that lucked out and won the genetic lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:02 AM
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very British somehow Why is this so true?!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:31 PM
4

This comment sparked so much joy. Also, fully agree. My love affair with romance novels (which are always based in scientific fact) can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:16 PM
4

The "feminist definition" you made up right now because it's convenient to the point you're failing to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:03 AM
25

She literally said it benefits men in power. Meaning it doesn't benefit men that aren't in power.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:43 AM
2

Grew up in rural GA. Can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:17 PM
1

Hahahaha damn but I love watching women succeed in male-dominated fields like you just did with this ragebait
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:58 PM
1

Which is all you can see. None of the context. Her brother could have been making an inappropriate joke off camera. Her mom could have made a comment about her lipstick. Point is, you have no idea, so when you make definitive statements based on nothing but vibes and an incomplete understanding of what's actually happening, it demonstrates a lot more about YOU in this situation than anything you made up to explain that picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:50 PM
3

You are projecting. There's no way for you to know that what you're saying is truth. Assigning your feelings to others without being able to verify accuracy is ALWAYS a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:46 PM
2

"People seek out sweatshops because it’s better than subsistence farming" isn’t the defense you think it is. Goddamn just out here just admitting exploitation thrives on desperation. By your logic feudal serfs "agreed" to work for lords because starvation was the alternative. Child miners in the 1800s "chose" their wages. Congratulating capitalism for being less murderous than subsistence farming is like praising a wolf for only mauling you instead of eating you whole. Labor isn’t "worth" starva…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:34 PM
2

Your labor is worth what the market pays for it" is the same logic used to justify sweatshops. If you genuinely believe power imbalances, monopolies, and regulatory capture don’t distort "market value," then you’re either naive or arguing in bad faith. No one’s labor is "worth" starvation wages. You see how you're dressing up exploitation as economics, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:21 PM
3

If you think there's a single billionaire in the entire world that became that way ethically instead of by coercing employees to accept less than their value and buying governments to allow it, then I have several bridges I would like to sell you. Great prices.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:48 PM
2

The majority of male posts in this sub whine about unrealistic beauty standards. Why is it acceptable to you for men to air their grievances but not women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:45 PM
2

Omg that's so crazy! You mean women as a collective contains their wide and varied individual opinions?! 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:43 PM
4

Show it then. Put up or shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:42 PM
36

About pretty much everything. Your take is just a mess of false equivalencies and incel logic. Dating isn’t a free market. It's not an economic system. People are entitled to personal preferences, and you may be willing to fuck anything that moves, but most people aren't. No one owes you attraction, just like no one owes billionaires tax breaks. Equating women’s autonomy in dating to wealth inequality is laughably unserious. Stay mad. Edited because I can't spell for shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:29 AM
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Did you stretch before this leap?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:23 AM
13

I get approached at the grocery store a weird amount now that I think about it. More than anywhere else. I've gone out with guys that have approached. Every one of the men I went out with just started a casual conversation and tried to get to know me before asking for my number. The ones that immediately asked for my number or ask me out without trying to find out a single thing about me are an immediate no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:04 AM
0

You tagged another sub completely. Really had to go hunting for that, huh? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:30 AM
5

Not if you have the ability to differentiate individual behavior from the average in any given demographic. Kinda like how I am able to easily understand that most men in the wild are reasonably well-adjusted, functional adults even though the majority of the comments in here would indicate otherwise. If you are looking for a reason to hate one individual person, you can always find one, but that logic breaks down when you try to apply it at scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:50 PM
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Link to where they say looks do not matter one bit. Go ahead. I'll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:43 PM
-2

NO ONE says looks don't matter. I hear women say all the time that they're not the only thing that matters, but I've never heard a woman claim that looks don't matter at all. Stop hearing what you want and work on hearing what is actually being said. Y'all are exhausting saying the same shit over and over without ever pulling back and evaluating what you've learned against your current beliefs. It's why none of you grow anything but your own resentment and bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:02 PM
-2

People can complain about anything for any reason at any time. Trying to police their behavior this way just makes you look like the asshole, not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:57 PM
16

I love that you felt comfortable telling us that you think caring for your children is "unnecessary friction" 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:51 PM
5

The claim that women only have interest in one man at a time is not biologically supported. Historically, women’s mating strategies have been diverse, ranging from monogamy to polyandry to strategic infidelity. I can't find any data to support what you said, but I found a fair bit saying what I did above. I think you're confusing socialized behavior with innate wiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:46 PM
4

Men on average are taller than women globally. Of course there's a height differential. What the fuck else would you expect to see in the average couple than a woman and a taller man. The math only allows for that to be the mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:26 PM
2

Proving her point with this response
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:24 PM
2

This is the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:22 PM
1

Writing "Care to list them?" in response to a literal LIST of reasons is a pretty solid indication that you're just here to engage in bad faith, so thanks for letting me know that upfront. Don't ask questions if you aren't willing to listen to the answers that are given. You can scream "murder" every time abortion is mentioned, but your ignorant opinions are not shared by the majority of the world that has the ability to critically think outside of your messy religious framing of issues, and sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:12 PM
-2

No country has free healthcare but damn near all of them have systems in place that don't regularly put their citizens in the position to choose between dying or bankruptcy. Being against abortion is against men's self-interest in many ways. Especially men that want sex or to start a family. Here's a couple of big ones: By not supporting a woman's right to make decision about her own body, you are showing that you do not respect her as an autonomous adult. The implication is that you believe you…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:31 AM
-1

Are you appealing to our patriotism in order to sell us on sex with men we didn't want? Jk I know wasn't your intent, but real talk if these red pill muppets had any sort of sense for strategy and even a semblance of subtlety, they'd start introducing this topic on social media. It would be critical to presentation to never once frame it as a strategy to get laid, but if the messaging is crafted well and presented in a way that shows it as short term discomfort for long term gain for women, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:00 AM
2

I have a corgi
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:16 AM
3

Wow. Your entire rebuttal is like watching someone argue that seatbelts are oppressive because real drivers just "believe in themselves" so... congrats on being the living embodiment of "weLL, aCtUaLLy" I guess? You really took "don’t hinge your self-worth on strangers’ opinions" and turned it into a TED Talk on why people should, in fact, hinge their self-worth on strangers’ opinions. Bravo. Gold medal in missing the fucking point. If you’re drowning in despair and feeling unseen, then waiting …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:42 PM
5

You'll be a lot happier if you figure out how to validate yourself instead of looking to others to do it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:55 PM
6

It's more disingenuous for you to act like someone saying "prioritize and invest in your friendships" is somehow confusing or offensive 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:53 PM
2

It is a safety app. My point was that you don’t have to be an attractive Chad to be a cheater or an abusive piece of shit. That kind of behavior will never be exclusive to any given demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:08 PM
1

It also offers the possibility that ugly men can be creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:22 AM
16

I have seen zero evidence of men "going away" in my life. The men that say things like that sure seem to enjoy announcing their departure, but fail to realize that they actually have to leave for anyone to take them seriously. I can't imagine many women are upset at the thought of a bunch of overly dramatic gate agents no longer being present in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:12 AM
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Bro. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:19 AM
1

If only your lazy ass could use a search engine, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:13 PM
0

K. Thanks for stopping by and making your bad faith arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:13 PM
1

you’re out here acting like a single article was written. Do you not have fucking Google? 1 - 2 - 3 - 4
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:06 PM
0

I have to assume you can read because you are using Reddit but I’m really starting to question that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:01 PM
3

So in other words: "I didn’t bother to read the article. I just want to come on Reddit and bitch about how mean women are to me. These feminists are ruining my life 😭" <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:00 PM
0

I literally put a link in my comment and it's none of the shit you make up in order to create this post
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:44 PM
1

Do you think it would have helped your understanding of this topic if you'd bothered to find how toxic masculinity is actually defined outside of Reddit posts or nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:41 PM
1

I don't have to. I've used them and they fucking suck. Everything about it is dehumanizing and I don't see the need to subject myself to that ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:18 PM
-1

Dude believe what you want. Y'all just refuse to hear anything that doesn't support your own confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:47 PM
0

I mean they are up in arms over nothing. Years ago when those Facebook groups started, we all heard the same types of comments and yet here we are with people still dating. That app has been available for over a year now. The only reason we're seeing this performative outrage now is because it went viral.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:00 PM
-1

The app wasn’t made to benefit men so...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:28 PM
2

I see people give advice to work on yourself all the time, which is valid advice every time, not because you need to improve but because when you are happy and confident with who you are as a person, it's easier to find people that are also happy and confident with themselves. There's a world of difference between that and telling some guy on Reddit that's just called all women gold-digging whores that they are 100% to blame for the fact that no woman wants anything to do with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:26 PM
1

Oh yeah? Did they say it just like that, meaning they calmly made their point and just stated the difficulty? Or did they say something super shitty and/or offensive first?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:22 PM
0

If 80ish% of OLD users are men, that tells me it is NOT the norm for women since the number of female users is much lower than male users. Women aren't using dating apps at the same rate men are. OF FUCKING COURSE men aren't getting the same number of matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:19 PM
2

Exactly that. You control what you can. Being bitter with the entire world for your lack of success has never helped anyone succeed at anything. So what was the point of this post? The only times I see women say things like that are to individual men that do, in fact, fucking suck and should do some self-reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:13 PM
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Hey so I'm not on the tea app, but if Atlanta's Are We Dating the Same Guy FB page is anything to go by, y'all are wayyyyyyyy off base about it only being hot guys women have this problem with. There are more unattractive than attractive men posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:09 PM
1

Since personal accountability is not in your wheelhouse, whose fault would you like for this to be exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:05 PM
2

Did you really? I was totally unprepared
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:08 AM
7

Defamation. That's the word you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:01 PM
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and i’m not going to. i’m not going to discuss my previous partners because some reddit creep feels like he has the right to ask invasive personal questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:19 PM
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grow up peter pan
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:16 PM
8

that’s not really how it works for the average adult woman dude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:07 PM
5

bro what. finding out that a man is cheating on you does not increase his status. are you out of your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:05 PM
1

That's not what's happening though. I just looked at the are we dating the same guy group for my city and I didn't see a single post where someone was talking shit just for funsies. It's literally just posts asking if anyone else is dating a guy, asking if the person is a catfish, and a handful of posts actually recommending men for women to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:01 PM
2

Telling a man point blank to his face that you feel uneasy around him is fucking dangerous. No. Until we live in a world where all men control their violence towards women, it's not a risk worth taking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:47 PM
2

It's actually so weird to me. The first time a guy interrogated me about my past sex life would be our last conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:33 AM
2

Filter them out. Always filter them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:32 AM
5

How would that contradict what I said? If women wanted to approach a man then they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:34 AM
6

I've approached every guy I was ever interested in that didn't approach me first. Which is why I'm telling you that if a woman wanted to approach you she would.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:45 AM
8

Hey so if they wanted to they would
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:38 PM
1

There's people that are dying Kim
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:32 PM
2

Lol what do you want to know? My dad and brothers all farm and my mom worked with farmers at NRCS for 25 years. If I don't have an answer I'll text my family and get it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:29 PM
2

My family operates a "large-scale family farm" growing cotton, corn, peanuts, hay and cattle. My dad has 8 full-time employees total, I believe. USDA puts out a lot of reports on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:18 PM
1

Family owned farms account for 96% of US farms
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:03 PM
1

I've worked as a consultant in a lot of different industries and the only place I ever encountered prison labor was on packaging lines in the meat processing industry, which could perhaps explain these numbers. I'd have to look into those numbers more, but I can tell you with absolutely certainty that no independent farmer on earth is putting untrained prison labor on their $250k+ combine. I have a hard time believing independent farmers would even bother with prison labor at all considering how…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 01:41 PM
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Bro I literally grew up on on a cotton farm in south GA. In a community that was fully ag based. Prisoners are not picking fucking cotton. Cotton picking is not a manual process any longer. If you need to lie to make your point, then it's probably not a point worth making.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 01:06 PM
1

Yeah that's not for me. I believe you can set a baseline standard for taking care of people. Of every person. And then let capitalism thrive from there. We currently assign more value to companies than we do to actual human lives and it is starting to show in every aspect of our lives. Edited to add that the world is $300 trillion dollars in debt. To fucking whom? At what point do we admit money is made up and since it is entirely made up, we should probably take a mulligan and find something th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:08 PM
1

Whatever makes you feel better about yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 11:31 AM
1

You can suspect whatever you want. A more rational approach would be to just fucking ask me though. I made that statement because I learned this lesson the hard way in my early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:37 AM
7

Hell yes! This is perfectly reasonable attitude. Basic social decency is on us all, but beyond that, anyone that has a problem being respectfully approached for a conversation is the entire problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:01 PM
3

Why would it? You wouldn't just tell a partner you love them and expect that happiness to continue without putting in some effort to maintain the relationship. Why would loving yourself be any different? Most of us go out of our way to take care of the people and things we love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:56 PM
2

Bro. You have to realize that when a woman says she doesn't want to be valued for sex, that means she wants to valued as an actual person but that isn't mutually exclusive from a healthy sex life, right? Right?! I can't decide if y'all are willfully misunderstanding or if you're actually this clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:07 PM
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I'm sure cheating on them will get you exactly the result you're looking for 🥴 If your wife isn't fucking you, get a divorce. You don't need to be in MENSA to work that out as the most efficient path forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:18 AM
5

I really love seeing comments like this! Respect
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:04 AM
9

Hope Melissa makes him happy forever then. If you're unhappy, use your words like an adult and have a conversation. Cheating just proves that you were never worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:01 AM
4

Don't do this, kids. Even the dumbest animals have enough sense to not shit where they eat. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:49 PM
0

One of my favorite pastimes tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:47 PM
0

Can confirm. I don't care one bit what consenting adults do with each other. If people don't want to be judged for what they get up to in their free time, then don't broadcast it around. Easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:45 PM
1

K. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:44 PM
1

I'm not saying to work it out with discipline. I'm saying to work it out without letting the entire world know that you act like a whiny little bitch when things don't go your way. You're making yourself as unattractive as possible off the jump with this attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:07 PM
1

Exactly! Well stated
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:42 PM
2

I've approached plenty of men in my life and had my fair share of rejection. Attraction and relationships aren't a guarantee. You can't check off boxes and be guaranteed your heart's desire. Hey look if you want to be a victim for the rest of your life, then no one is going to stop you, but if you actually want a different result, this defeatist attitude is going to lose you the game before you ever step on the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:41 PM
3

Pretty much. It takes work on both sides. If the other person isn't willing to match your effort, that's your cue to find someone that will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:35 PM
0

I'm so tired of men in here openly stating that they're putting in zero effort then whining about receiving exactly what they put in. Y'all are the source of your own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:14 PM
5

Ok. Thanks for letting me know that can't contribute to this discussion meaningfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:01 PM
4

Agree with your points, but I think the actual root cause, especially in the US, is this trickle down fairy tale they continue to try to sell us, even when we can see with our own eyes that it's absolutely not trickling down. We're giving corporations the respect and protections that should be given to the actual people that buy the products and work the hours. It created a system that aims to extract value at all cost, and that cost was the people within the system. We sold ourselves a dream th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 05:58 PM
5

You're just spitting out the talking points of men that realized they get followers when they say shit like this. If you want to make this point and have this discussion, then say exactly what you mean and exactly how this affects you personally. Don't just say shit you heard in an echo chamber without connecting it to yourself and how you live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 05:47 PM
5

You get to live in a better world where people work to solve problems instead of refusing to admit the ones that don't affect them exist, but it seems that's not of interest to you. And no, I think it's fucked up to automatically expect a return on your investment where people are involved. Sometimes you should do the right thing because it's the right thing, not because you personally stand to gain. This is classic "nice guy" bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 05:45 PM
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Then we stay in exactly the same place as a society. If you can only contribute to things that directly affect you, then you can't really be surprised when people don't give a shit about the things you care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 05:30 PM
9

Bro you can either continue to be the world's victim or you can join the discussion and figure out how we can eliminate some of the problems. The choice is yours. It always was.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 05:27 PM
3

Well stated. Couldn't agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 05:25 PM
7

The whole system we operate within is hairy. We've made it complicated in a way that makes no long-term sense. Living this way is unsustainable and the cracks clearly show when we talk about issues like this, where the answer doesn't come down to individual choice, but rather systemic constraints
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:21 PM
1

Why do you think people need to have more than two kids? I'm asking sincerely. 100 years ago your kids were part of the household workforce, but that's not really the case these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:18 PM
8

I fully agree with every point you just made. Our society has made it hostile simply to be alive. It's really not a gendered issue at all, and while it's always interesting to see how these same issues are viewed under different lenses, they're still the same issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:16 PM
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Outside of that, look at the cost of daycare, health insurance. Hell you have to take unpaid FMLA in the US to even have the kid in the first place. It's just a crazy system.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:52 PM
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I meant that in a career sense. Mommy tracking is still a very real thing. Speaking for myself, it became pretty obvious early on that I could have a family or I could be successful, but that I couldn't do both. Sure I could be successful to a certain point, but that ended at a middle management level. If companies demand that we value our jobs over valuing family, then it's not surprising that many women are opting out of family. As long as we keep viewing parenting as not being committed to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:50 PM
6

That's exactly the paradox that makes it so difficult for many to resolve the best path forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:25 PM
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Society's fertility is bottlenecked by a poor job market that gets poorer every year, rising costs in every direction, and a system that punishes women for getting pregnant instead of doing everything it can to ensure that women feel safe starting families.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:22 PM
4

Marriage is completely voluntary so if you don't want to do these things, don't. It's exactly that simple. Y'all need to let go of this protector/provider/leader narrative. The majority of women are not asking or looking for that, only for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:49 PM
1

I'm going to copy/paste one of my old comments here: I really wish y'all would stop trying to apply the Pareto Principle (80/20 rule) to human behavior. Pareto is descriptive, NOT predictive. It can highlight past patterns where data already exists, but it's dogshit at forecasting future human behavior, since human actions tend to be context-driven, nonlinear, and wildly unpredictable. It's a useful heuristic for things like manufacturing defects and resource allocation where there's a relativel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:23 PM
1

You can generate all sorts of ideas when you've done enough blow to kill a horse. Crazy how many of Freud's ideas were taken seriously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:20 PM
6

This. Men love hierarchy for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:11 PM
0

It's actually so weird to scroll back 119 days to find something to talk shit about
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:23 PM
3

Oof this sub would be my last choice if I were searching for dating advice on Reddit. Thinking women are in here for advice is crazy work. I personally believe that if I cannot defend my opinions against opposition, then I shouldn't hold those opinions, and that friction refines my thoughts more effectively than an echo chamber ever will. I use this sub as a sandbox environment to test the views I hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:51 PM
1

I don't know if it would fix it overnight, but it would certainly force people that wish to date to improve their social skills. Shutting down the apps would definitely have a net positive effect in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:42 PM
2

Hahahaha aww this must be devastating for you. Grow up dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:30 PM
0

Why would she bring science into this?!? It's a real mystery You realize you can just Google questions yourself, yeah?🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:36 PM
1

Sure dude. Science totally never evolved past Victorian era binaries. There's for sure a global cabal of psychologists and endocrinologists working overtime to confuse you personally. Totally rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:10 PM
2

In our hearts, we both know they don't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:57 PM
-3

You live in 2025. Deal with it. Language evolves, even when you refuse to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:54 PM
1

Agreed. I'm perfectly happy not being in a relationship until I meet a person that makes me want to be in a relationship with them specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:33 PM
1

Look we both know you're not here to actually understand a different perspective, but I'm going to answer all the same. “Woman” is a social identity. Identities are defined by how people relate to roles. A teacher teaches. A consultant consults. A woman identifies as a woman. That’s how language works. Gender isn’t decided by your personal approval or your incompetent logic games.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:28 PM
0

I literally gave you that answer when you asked me what a woman is. You can scroll slightly up to refresh your memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:18 PM
-3

Unless they grew up in a vacuum, then they have been exposed to the world enough to understand the binary aspect of our society. If you had respectfully asked if a person that had never met anyone of the opposite gender nor knew that they existed could still be trans, that would be an entirely different line of speculation and would have been much more interesting. You didn't do that though, did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:09 PM
-10

A woman is a person that identifies as as woman, i.e. gender. Biologically female is a classification based on anatomy or chromosomes at birth, i.e. sex. These two things are not the same. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:02 PM
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Not the online world, you specifically. The shit you say is hostile in a way no one else in this sub even comes close to. Perhaps you should examine this a little closer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:56 PM
-5

Count me out of this sweeping generalization. Trans women are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:53 PM
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It's wild to watch someone refuse to accept their own sexuality this way. Do you think you're going to realize that you're simply not attracted to women soon or nah? I'm not saying this to fuck with you. I am genuinely asking because the way you respond is highly abnormal. HATING women the way you do should be a very clear indicator to you that you just are not attracted to them, and you might find it a lot easier to get along with them if you stopped forcing yourself into this role that clearly…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:50 PM
1

Agree about your first point. I'm not willing to be in a relationship with a person that isn't a close-ish intellectual match. Maybe that's just not important to other people though. Your second point though, nah. I speak up when I need to, but I go out of my way to not start fights with my partner. That in no way means I don't speak up for myself or have conversations when things bother me, because I certainly do, but if I know a particular statement is going to trigger him, I'm either going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:26 PM
1

i agree with most but these two are mostly reasonable: One partner is not the intellectual equal of the other partner, and dumbs things down for them. this is the kind thing to do for people you love. you meet people where they're at, not demand they perform beyond their capability. One partner tries to avoid saying things which might upset the other's ego, because it might start a fight. absolutely applies to terminal people pleasers but otherwise this is just strategically picking your battles
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:05 AM
9

No thank God. If men really acted like rather a lot of the men in this sub, I'd never leave my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:57 AM
-2

Are you actually a 30 year old man being judged in real life because you're dating "girls" that aren't old enough to go to the bar with you or is this just you borrowing manufactured outrage from the other 8 posts a week on this topic? If this shit doesn't actually affect you, you're doing too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:54 PM
3

Wtf? Why would I want to continue a relationship with a man that acts like this? This is insane advice. No one is special enough for me to pretend like I am less successful so they can feel good about themselves. I broke up with them when it happened. Easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:43 PM
6

Yeah I'm paying too much in taxes already so it's gonna be a no from me dawg. If you want to use sex workers, then do it. If you don't want to be judged for it, then just don't talk about it publicly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:04 PM
5

The only times I've ever been rude to anyone that approached me was when they immediately said something out of pocket about my body or propositioned me for sex. Really getting the feeling that these guys are saying disgusting things to these women and are getting exactly the response they deserve in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:56 PM
1

No. This has happened to me three times. Relationship is going incredibly well. At some point they'll ask what I make every year, I'll tell them, that'll be the end of the conversation, but without fail, a week or so after that the attitude shifts. Where they were fun and loving before, suddenly they're throwing digs at me and finding ways to criticize me that they never would have before. There's never a fight, and we never even discuss my income after that initial convo, but the way they treat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:43 PM
1

Thanks for answering! Pretty privilege definitely makes every aspect of life easier, no question. If you don't have that to fall back on though, just being the type of person others actually enjoy talking to helps a lot. Not saying women will be throwing themselves at you, but they'll at least be more likely to not bolt at the first opportunity. You are 100% correct that learning to be a good conversationalist is not an easy thing to do. I'm super extraverted and it's something I still have to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:46 PM
2

Genuine question: what does it mean to you when you hear people suggest others work on their personality? I'm only asking because I've just realized that when I hear people say that, I've always understood it to mean work on the way you communicate with others, not to alter who you are as a person, but after reading some of these comments, I think others might be hearing something completely different. Being able to hold an easy conversation with everyone you meet is a skill that can be learned …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:32 PM
3

Hey I just want you to know that my entire group chat has really enjoyed your commitment to willfully misunderstanding this conversation. The hard work you've put in here to convince me that you're a real life Forrest Gump (without the money obvs) is inspiring really. Anyway, it seems like you're in a super healthy place mentally, so keep up the good work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:38 PM
3

Ok, I'm going to try to explain this with small words so you can understand. Someone posted a question in this sub. I answered the question from my own experience. That's the standard operating procedure when dealing with questions. You can dislike my answer, but your feelings have no effect on my personal experience. I do not care about you as a person. I do not care how my words, that were not directed at you, made you feel. You seem pretty entitled, so this might be hard to hear, but you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:09 PM
5

At no point did I say I couldn’t find a good person. Since I'm in a very happy relationship, maybe you'd be better served asking yourself why you're so comfortable making these kinds of assumptions and learn how to stop projecting your bullshit onto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:50 PM
4

Always blame the woman, amirite? Dude get fucked. I am NEVER going to take responsibly for someone else's bad attitude and behavior, and lucky for me, I don't have to. I hope you realize that for every bitter, miserable man in this world that would rather blame women for his own insecurities than work to improve himself, there's five that are well-adjusted and likeable. No question which camp you fall into.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:19 PM
7

You get that it's a giant waste of money and resources to criminalize something you have no intention of prosecuting, right? Real talk, I wouldn't trust you to be fiscally responsible enough to manage a lemonade stand at this point, but you can for sure be President of the United States with a platform this petty and nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:56 PM
12

No one is trying to clog up our jails at the taxpayers expense because someone's spouse is a cheater. Did you even think that through or nah? 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:38 PM
4

I'm just not going to allow some guy to take his insecurities out on me after he finds out my income ever again. It's happened enough times that there's a very obvious pattern. I'm not running a charitable organization for broke assholes that want to make women feel like they're less so they can feel like they're more. It's just as easy to date men in my own tax bracket as men that aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:26 PM
10

Sadly I was guilty of this until I was about 22. I think if I'd had any concept of what good sex was actually like I wouldn't have hesitated to ask for what I needed, but I had just never been with a partner that cared if I got off and/or was willing to help me figure out what I liked before then. Also living in a sorority house did not afford me the alone time to figure it out myself lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:54 PM
5

This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:39 PM
1

First, that's not what hypersexual means. Second, people don't have to pick anything. None of us are required to be the same person we were yesterday. People are supposed to grow and change. It's fucking weird that y'all refuse to understand that concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:39 PM
33

Are you sure? It sounds like they just don't want to fuck you specifically...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:26 PM
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Quit rating other people. It's fucking childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:57 PM
2

Dude what? Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 04:02 AM
2

I would expect anyone throwing around "anyone intelligent" to pull their head out of their ass and realize when someone was trying to politely say "bro I didn't say any of that shit and I'm not going to be responsible for your poor mental health. sort yourself out." 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:18 AM
2

I really don't care as long as the people, both buying and selling, are consenting adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:03 AM
2

You're sure inferring a whole lot from the words I said. Are you familiar with the concept of projection?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 01:24 AM
1

Being a bitter asshole has never once made people like an ugly guy more
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:49 PM
3

I never said it was
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:48 PM
3

Being a bitter asshole is never attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:37 PM
12

You're awful quick to call things dumb considering this drivel you just confidently posted. Nothing you said has any grounding in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:02 PM
12

Of course there are different ways, but no one is obligated to only talk to you in the ways you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:59 PM
32

You are in a debate sub, son. People are going to push back on your opinions in here. It's kinda the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:54 PM
1

ENFP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:46 PM
29

Then stop using analogies with her. I don't understand why you're on Reddit bitching about your girlfriend like it has anything to do with the rest of us. If your communication is failing, then try a different tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:47 PM
2

Y'all ask the DUMBEST shit in here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:18 PM
7

Are you sure you're not projecting your own insecurities onto strangers on Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:17 PM
2

If this is what y'all think it means to be vulnerable, no wonder women are breaking up with you. What is wrong with y'all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:30 PM
1

There's a world of difference between rubbing one out to a porn created for just that reason and someone's LinkedIn profile. You see how that's different, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:42 AM
74

Seems like great information to keep to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:55 AM
7

I have an awesome life. So you have all of these great things in your own life, and you think what you're saying is helpful for all the men in this sub that don't? You think that what you're saying is going to get them closer to a healthy relationship? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:40 PM
8

Better served to not be absolutely miserable. Better served to meet people where they're at instead of where you think they should be. Y'all are too quick to blame the world for you problems in here. You're throwing this kind of shit into in an echo chamber, feeling validated, which steadily increases the amount of hatred you feel for this group you think has wronged you. It's an insanity loop, and it gets you further from the attitude required for a healthy relationship with every revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:33 PM
4

It's irrational when they do it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:20 PM
15

We can't argue that you think all women suck. It's irrational and not based in reality. The most anyone will be able to debate is to tell you exactly that and to suggest that you would be better served in your life by working to improve your own openness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:19 PM
30

If you believe that, then what's the point of us debating it? You're not asking us to change your mind. Only telling us definitively that you're way too comfortable using overly-simplistic frameworks created by people you don't know instead of your own lived experience to set your worldview. Hope that works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:10 PM
1

Dude I haven't thought about your words once after you wrote them. I'm certainly not "seething" 19 days later. I understand this might be difficult for you to hear, but I do not care about you as a person. You are not half as important as you think you are. Good luck with whatever you have going on though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 01:20 AM
9

I thought y'all didn't allow rants in this sub 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:29 PM
0

Which women? Did they actually say this to you? How many said it to make you comfortable using "most"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:54 PM
4

I think theoretically they're good ideas. If you find yourself so wrapped up in needing someone in your life that it starts to deeply affect you, taking some time to learn to love yourself seems like a mentally healthy thing to do. Both groups are actual trash at executing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:38 PM
1

Of course I have
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:19 PM
2

The audacity of you bitching at a woman that says she approaches men? That what you're upset about? The more I watch men in here interact, the more confident I am in thinking y'all are responsible for 100% of your own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:18 PM
8

I'd bet my immortal soul that you can't do any of that shit for yourself 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:59 PM
7

Hey not sure if you know this but women are allowed to work as roofers, plumbers and mechanics now. Welcome to the new world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:57 PM
1

For me, the guys that come in aggressively hitting on me are only looking for sex and that's not something I'm interested in, no matter how good looking or tall or whatever bullshit dudes in here are always saying changes the equation. There's a difference between showing interest and showing that you just want to fuck someone, and it's important to know which impression you're giving when you're trying to talk to someone new.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:50 PM
0

I've always taken it as hyperbole when people say that. I'm sure there are people with that actual goal, but I'd think those are the people that are just trying to use you for something and you being more in love allows them to do that more easily. Can't say for certain though as I don't hang with people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:47 PM
1

Where did I say hit on them? I said have a low stakes conversation. For a lot of us, it doesn't matter where you approach, I'm not going to be interested in some dude invading my personal space, staring at my tits and making comments about my body. so if you’re approaching and acting like a creep, maybe don’t. Someone that just wants to talk though? Always happy to chat, even if I'm not romantically interested. If I am romantically interested, you earned major points by just trying to get to kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:36 PM
2

BREAKING NEWS: All women are not the same. More at 11. Edited to ask where you're trying to approach them? I mean yeah if I'm on a stairmaster just trying to hang on for dear life or at my job, it's not the appropriate place, but just out in the wild, I'm fine with it. Again, everyone is different though and some people are just assholes. Don't take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:30 PM
-1

I approach all the time. Did you read what I wrote or just get mad on vibes alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:29 PM
0

The way men in here obsess about "approaching" women is so funny to me. Are y'all really this terrified to strike up a conversation with a stranger? To answer your question, OP, of course I would, but probably not in the way you frame it. Y'all approach women with one goal in mind and then consider yourself failures when you don't reach that goal. I never approach people just because I want something from them unless I'm at work. I do talk to everyone I can though. If it's a man I'm potentially …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:11 PM
2

That's true. The second you realize that, move on. They're not your target audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:03 PM
5

It's about as stupid as someone telling me I should drop my director level career to take an entry level position, so it's easy to ignore. Some people just want you to be less so they can feel like they're more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:40 PM
3

All of that is true, but why do you assume it is their responsibility to listen to you in the way you wish to present the information? I'm not saying we shouldn't all be better listeners, because we absolutely should, but if something is important to you, or if it is critical that the other person receive your message, the responsibility for crafting a message that the other person will be able to and will be willing to receive is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:35 PM
5

I will sympathize with pretty much any issue brought to me, even if I disagree with the position, if it's not presented in a hostile manner. It's always baffling in this sub how many men come out swinging then want to act shocked when the responses from women match their energy. You're justified in bringing awareness for literally anything that is important to you on a personal level. Full stop. If people aren't listening, change your messaging and delivery.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:31 AM
28

I use condoms without fail until monogamy is established and both parties have produced a clean STD test. I have hella antibiotic allergies and do not fuck around with my health.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:24 AM
2

Do you interrogate your first dates about their plastic surgery history? Must be putting up crazy numbers with that approach
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:21 AM
1

carnal asada?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:02 PM
1

beef tendergroin
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:53 PM
2

Ok sure. Your "logic" starts with a shaky premise, strips out all nuance, then pretends what’s left is airtight deduction. “She did [insert sexual proclivity here] with someone before me but she won't do it with me so she's just not attracted.” Your entire framework hinges on pretending that attraction is the sole variable in sexual behavior. You ignore consent, trauma, context, changing preferences, or the radical concept that people are allowed to grow. You treat a past yes as a binding contra…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:43 PM
2

Bro you're in here bitching that you think what a person does to their own body is somehow betraying you so you obviously think that. If you need people to speak to you gently, then get the fuck off Reddit. I'm not your mom and I don't care about your feelings. Edited to add I've never had plastic surgery but that was an adorable attempt to shame me. More effective if you use things that are true though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:49 PM
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Mostly showed us that you can't clearly articulate an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:59 PM
1

I think you have a very incomplete understanding of what logic actually is. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:47 PM
5

Why do you assume those women give an actual fuck what you think? Seriously, what do you offer the world that is so impressive that it would make an absolute stranger consider your likes and dislikes before doing something that makes them happy. Damn just let people do what they want and accept that it's none of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:18 PM
2

That's ridiculous and super fucked up that you would expect your partner to do something sexually that THEY TOLD YOU THEY DO NOT WANT TO DO. I'm done with this conversation. What you are saying is genuinely repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:15 PM
6

I can't overstate how much I do not care. If a man wants to chase women over 18, and they are consenting, then I love that for them. You act like we're chasing these men and are desperate for their attention, instead of realizing we don't even know these men exist unless someone like you specifically points them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:09 PM
1

Well* consent changes rather a lot. What the fuck kind of point are you even trying to make here? *can't spell for shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:51 AM
1

Boohoo. People refuse to read my mind and take responsibility for my feelings. Life is so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:55 PM
0

Grow up y'all. No one is responsible for your feelings except you. If you don't care enough to have the conversation then don’t act surprised when they don’t care enough to commit themselves to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:50 PM
2

if only there were some mechanism that allowed you to think through things before you write them out to consider if they’re ridiculous or not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:47 PM
4

You make logical points so of course they're downvoting you. There's no room for logic in fairytales! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:02 PM
4

They've been dating for a few months according to the post. Why are you assuming that girl would love that person? STOP MAKING ASSUMPTIONS ABOUT PEOPLE
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:55 PM
1

I think it's always going to be risky and potentially painful to assume literally anything about another person's behavior. This is especially true if you've only known them for a few months and don't have historical context to base your assumptions on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:53 PM
2

Hurt feelings can be easily avoided by having a conversation about your expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:48 PM
17

I think his mistake was making assumptions. Hurt his own feelings tbh. It's not difficult to have an adult conversation and set expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:08 PM
10

bro what the fuck <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:53 PM
-2

based. expecting society at large to care about you is just as weird as expecting ai to care about you. they're both impersonal systems with base programming they won't deviate from, no matter the impression they give.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:35 PM
5

You're arguing semantics here instead of considering the history that led to this phrase being adopted. I understand that you feel vilified by this discussion, but you're doing yourself a disservice by taking personal offense at a systemic concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:35 PM
3

Anything is possible when you make shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:22 PM
6

There are a lot of shitty people on this planet, and I would put any person that considers vulnerability to be a deal breaker in that camp. You never know how a person will react to vulnerability until you open up to them, and I have a lot of sympathy for men that have opened up to the wrong person. It really sucks to open yourself up that way only to find out that a person you care about has the emotional depth of a teaspoon. Every man I have ever been in a relationship with has been vulnerable…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:35 PM
3

"She liked rough, kinky, adventurous sex with her hot exes and FWBs. She only wants vanilla sex with me — that means she's not attracted to me." Has it ever occurred to y'all that maybe she didn't actually enjoy that kind of sex at all and has decided that she won't ever feel pressured into it again? Sometimes these things you are hellbent on being personally offended about have absolutely nothing to do with you. Tbh the majority of the bullet points in your post just sound like things young, im…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:43 PM
1

Same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:40 AM
7

What kind of scrub shit is this? It's one thing if your partner loses their job and you help them out while they're looking for a new one, but a grown man thinking they're going to fuck off in MY home all day while I'm working my ass off is laughable. Love is conditional. Y'all need to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:09 PM
5

wtf never. anyone that has time to complain about the way I'm cleaning has time to do it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:04 PM
9

Hahahaha if women aren't interested in relationships, why in the actual fuck would they be interested in putting themselves up for sale sexually? Did you think this through before posting?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:31 PM
3

I think most reasonable ones do. I think there are a couple of issues to unpack here. One issue I've seen is that often men will try to derail any discussion of male privilege by pointing out women also have privilege, and while that's certainly true, it comes across as men trying to speak over women and make their issues more important. The reverse is also true for men speaking of women's privilege. The other is that the person discussing the privilege is using language that puts the other pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:57 PM
1

Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:19 PM
11

I don't understand people that feel personally attacked when discussions of privilege arise. It's just a statement on how the system has been set up, and these discussions are often to simply ask you to see a perspective outside of your own. When a black female friend discusses the privilege I hold as a white woman, I don't feel as if she's asking me to bear responsibility for every other white woman on the planet, only that she's asking me to be aware of the system, be aware of my own actions, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:17 PM
2

I can see it did not. Do you think a woman enjoying sex but needing different stimulation to orgasm fits that definition or are you just using that word incorrectly?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:05 PM
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