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Who is punishing you? Explain how you are personally being punished. I don't want to hear some vague secondhand shit you heard from a podcaster. Give real examples from your own life and experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:24 AM
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You didn't do any of that shit so why are you trying take credit for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:18 AM
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What are you even trying to say here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:15 AM
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This is exactly how I live as well. It's the dynamic in my friend group and in my relationship. If I make the invite, I pay. If they make the invite, they pay. It all balances out, and if it ever starts to feel unequal, I simply remove that person from my life. Easy peasy. I don't understand why people make this shit so hard for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:48 PM
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We don't care. If a man wants kids and I don't, then we're not compatible. End of story. No one on this earth is "high value" enough to make me consider bringing a child into this place, which I'm more and more certain each day is a literal hell dimension. What were you trying to accomplish here? Just looking for attention or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:49 PM
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Love that for you. Hope you laugh about it with all your girlfriend and all your friends. Oh wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:51 PM
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Son, your feelings are not a coherent argument, especially when they are so adrift from reality as the ones you have expressed in this thread. Whatever you're going through is a you problem. Grow up and stop trying to make other people hold responsibility for your failure to develop mentally healthy coping mechanisms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:50 PM
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Same. I only come in here because it's amusing to me to try to tell who is a bot and who is a human. It's an extra tricky game to play in this sub though since many of the people responding are so programmed by the content they consume that they're basically indistinguishable from bots. What a time to be alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:21 PM
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How embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:11 PM
7

I open doors for everyone. I give up seats for pregnant women and the elderly. I complement strangers. This shit just sounds like you don't have any manners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:07 PM
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He thinks that his fragile masculinity is transferrable to others. I don't care what he calls me. This is grade school level trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:05 PM
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You didn't make a coherent argument. You just whined about how awful and lazy women are without bothering to consider that women don't need to approach men they aren't interested in and nothing you say is ever going to change that. So you're bitching about something that's YOUR problem, but not something women consider a problem. "Tyrannical rant" is utterly hilarious. Pot, meet kettle. And if you think misgendering me bothers me, it doesn't. I can hardly be insulted by someone that has given me…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:03 PM
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Bro. Women DO NOT want to approach you. They approach men they are interested in. You have been told this. No amount of whatever this is will make women that aren't interested in you approach you. Calling them all lazy liars on the internet says a lot more about you than it does about the women minding their own business and avoiding toxic shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:59 PM
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Why do you think anyone gives a fuck about your personal preferences when they get ready in the morning? Dude sort yourself out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 09:12 PM
1

Where do y'all come up with this shit? I've never in my life heard a woman say men in shorts are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:37 AM
1

Both the ability to understand and communicate your own emotions without blame or overreaction and the ability to hear others do the same without taking it as an attack or projecting your own shit on that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:34 PM
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No. I'm neurodivergent and have zero issues with EQ. It's a skill that can be developed like any other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:32 PM
1

The appropriate person to ask is the one you are confused about. How the fuck do you expect us to know what is driving a perfect stranger's behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:31 PM
3

And frequently at lunch if we're both working from home
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 10:25 PM
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It's a super weird argument and I don't know why men keep making it. Why on earth should any of us give a shit about keeping up cheap labor supply for the ruling elite?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:36 PM
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It's a super weird argument and I don't know why men keep making it. Why on earth should any of us give a shit about keeping up cheap labor supply for the ruling elite?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:36 PM
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Find a Therapist Near You
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 11:50 AM
10

No it's not the wording. I feel the same about my partner. I don't need him. I can survive just fine without him. I want him. I want to enjoy every moment of our lives together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:22 PM
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If you don't need a man to survive, then the goal shifts to finding a man that you actually want to spend the rest of your life with. It's a much higher bar. That's why lame men are struggling. You actually have to add to her enjoyment and quality of life, because you are not competing with other men. You are competing with the life she is able to provide for herself and enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:19 PM
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Agreed. No notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:27 AM
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Please read the comment I directly responded to <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:12 AM
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I never argued that they didn't so it's a weird way to respond
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:59 PM
2

I'm reasonably certain my dad threw him a beating but that was after he drug him out of my room and I didn't follow to find out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:41 PM
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Are you ok? That's not a sub for support. Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:38 PM
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What women?! Do you have any concept of how judgemental most women are? A grown woman sleeping with a teen boy would either be a criminal if he's underage or immediately become a pariah if the law wasn't technically broken. What do you gain by making shit like this up?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:48 PM
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I've only seen people care about an age gap one time in my life when a family friend in his late 30s married a girl that had graduated high school six months prior. Most people distanced themselves pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:34 PM
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Doesn't stop them from trying though. I can viscerally remember the disgust and fear when my dad's friends hit on me when I was in high school and then after I turned 18 started actively trying to fuck me. One cornered me in my bedroom and kissed me. I screamed and my dad threw him out. This shit happens so much more than y'all realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:31 PM
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You're just talking to yourself at this point, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:48 AM
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You are in the AUTOMOD section. I replied here because the bullshit you posted was of so little value it didn't warrant direct interaction. I'll be real with you, the only thing that even sparked a hint of my interest was curiousity about the level of mental illness required to talk circles around an ai in order to produce this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:32 AM
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Did your GPT write this for you as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:30 AM
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I cannot imagine where anything in my reply in the AUTOMOD section made you believe I had any interest in interacting with you or your nonsensical post. Nothing you wrote was deep, well reasoned or worth engaging with. I'll be real with you, the only thing that even sparked a hint of my interest was curiousity about the level of mental illness required to talk circles around an ai in order to produce this post. Also, absolutely HILARIOUS that you're using it to write all your replies. This shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:28 AM
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Fucking make me 🤣 Like I'm going to listen to anything a person (meh maybe) that's too lazy to craft their own thoughts has to say
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:19 AM
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"I will start by pushing back" is peak GPT. Nothing about your response reads human and the nearly instant reply to my comment screams bot. However, I will grant that it's equally likely that this is just the same dude that posted this nonsense on an alt private account trying to generate engagement. Weird all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:56 AM
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What the fuck is going on in here? Do we have a bot replying to a bot? 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:50 AM
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I thought we were anti ai slop these days in this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:49 AM
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I have to assume no one else commented because the only interesting thing about this post is that someone had enough time on their hands to talk an AI in circles until it output this slop
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:46 AM
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Humans lie. Water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:48 PM
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Dude... this really makes me sad. I wish you had that in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:00 PM
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People leave shit behind. Pretty much everywhere. They're not "failing at adulting" which you'll probably realize when you grow up enough to earn the title of adult 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:55 PM
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I can't imagine why you think your point is layered or deserves further consideration. It isn't layered. There's nothing further to consider. You put it all out there upfront, including rather a lot about yourself and your own character that you likely had no idea you were clearly communicating. No amount of acting like other people are too unintelligent to understand your needless bitching makes that true. Trust me kid, we all understand your point. We all understand who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:25 PM
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Yeah this whole post just reads as sour grapes from a bitter person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:12 PM
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What point? That you don't have the sense to understand your own job and want to blame men for it? Get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:11 PM
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Your job is customer service. You answer dumb questions. That's the whole gig. The description of what you are expected to do is in the job title. Get a new job dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:32 PM
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I can't think of many things I care less about. If you want to get your rocks off with a cartoon, love that for you. The person running that account looks absolutely nothing like that avatar though, guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:21 PM
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This was my first thought as well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:20 PM
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Say what now? These types of questions are the entire reason you have a job... This just sounds like you wanted a platform to bitch about your (perfectly normal) job and men as a whole without any substance to back it up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:17 PM
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Everyone complains. I don't think much of it until I have to listen to the same tired shit out of someone's mouth for the thousandth time without even the slightest attempt to change their circumstances. Gtfo with "women are better at campaigning and could do more" because that just sounds like you admitting that men are aware a gap exists and are unwilling to close it. See statement above.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:52 AM
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Exaggerating to make a story more entertaining is encouraged if done without malice. I don't have any use for lies, otherwise. Much like I've never had a use for people that pry into shit that's none of their business. Do you need to know someone's weight or the details of their sex life, or are you just so self-centered that you think these things require your judgement? If I don't want to answer a question, I won't, and I'll likely tell you exactly why I found it rude and invasive before endin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:15 PM
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Can't argue with that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:12 AM
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I mean... this might be the safest way possible for humans to build social skills and healthy coping mechanisms. I feel a bit weird thinking your "dystopian hypothetical" is better for society than the current system, but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:40 PM
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What's the point of this hypothetical? Did you just want to daydream about a world where you can strip agency from women and force them to service men they aren't interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:01 PM
2

Pretty much exactly the reaction I had to your post
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:59 PM
2

I cannot overstate how much I do not give a shit about passport bros or their incentives. You are a fucking adult and make your own decisions. Stop begging for us to validate shit we don't care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:15 PM
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He takes it out when it's full. Just like I do. We don't have to ask each other to do things that need doing unless it's a "shit it's trash day, grab everything NOW" panic situation and in those cases we both spring into action.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:12 PM
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The fuck are you talking about? If you can't map your mom telling you as a 13 year old boy that you're going to find a great girl and settle down one day against the reality of your actual dating life as an adult male, that's on you. Maybe you should have asked yourself why that person deleted their comment rather than attacking mine 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:55 PM
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I am not going to argue for a position I never took. You can address the statements I made or admit you're fighting windmills here, but I won't be offering justification for actions taken or words spoken by others, so if that's what you're here for, clear off. And yeah, regarding your statement about poverty, you either learn to live with it or you do something about it, but if you take action, you damn well better understand that the other side will take action to maintain their own position an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:27 AM
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Fuck no that doesn't only apply to romance. It applies to your friends, your family, your job. To every one of those people you just listed. The second you require the validation of others to maintain your mental stability, you are knowingly giving that stability away. Y'all have to learn to differentiate what is controllable and what is not. The way you maintain the model of your own self-worth is fully within your control and should not be given to anything outside of yourself. Systemic factor…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:05 AM
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Then why are you so upset about something you claim to not even want? This is an illogical posture to hold
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:51 AM
1

How about I chip away at it for you? Social skills are not an indication of your morality. They are a skill, and skills can be trained. The vast majority of the world can't pick up a guitar for the first time and play like Jeff Beck, but they can put in the hours of practice to develop that skill to the height of their capacity. You have to suck at something, learn why you suck, then learn how not to suck, before you operate with mastery. This is true for every skill on earth. Some people are in…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:47 AM
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Whatever you need to tell yourself to sleep at night. Just know that there are a whole lot of men in the world that don't spend their time writing sad shit like this on Reddit that have no trouble seducing women. Stop pretending that your inability to get laid is a problem for everyone. It's not. It's absolutely you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:00 AM
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Go ahead and add that to the list of narratives you tell yourself to feel better. I see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:56 AM
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Men that can't pull type shit right here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:43 AM
0

Congrats on getting picked?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:40 AM
-1

Ok? I'm sorry you had that experience but it has nothing to do with what I've written and bringing politics into it is deeply odd. What are you looking for here with this comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:27 PM
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Dating has always required social skills. ALWAYS. Positive human interaction requires social skills. Saying otherwise it's nothing more than a narrative you tell yourself to self-soothe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:25 PM
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Umm... I'm sorry that you never learned to distinguish platitudes people use to placate you from reality. That's got to be a rough way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:52 PM
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Then go ahead and come to terms with spending every second of the rest of your life unhappy. You're tying your own happiness to something external to yourself that you have absolutely no control over. This is YOUR choice and no one on this earth is going to ever hold responsibility for a decision you are knowingly making.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:51 PM
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It is better than doing anything else. Understanding that you may well be alone for the rest of your life leaves you with the understanding that the person you need to figure out how to make happy is you because a life with yourself is all you're guaranteed to have. *Corrected spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:48 PM
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Correct. That's why I have never allowed men that aren't capable of maintaining the level of cleanliness I require to remain in my life. Get the fuck out and live in squalor elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:40 PM
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Yet another example of someone hearing what they want. No one ever told you that living your life the way you wanted would guarantee you a partner. They told you that you aren’t guaranteed to partner so you should go ahead and live your life in a way that makes you happy and fulfulled, and maybe, just maybe, you find a partner that fits with that life one day. Why is this so fucking hard for you guys to understand? Are you being intentionally obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:38 PM
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It never stops being amusing watching men that hate themselves trying to convince women to do the same. It's not going to work dude. She doesn't have to choose one. Your opinion is just that and has zero bearing on how someone feels about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:51 AM
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I have no interest in marriage and do not require a legal contract to maintain a healthy, stable relationship. If you do, I fully support that, but I think it's important to know exactly the type of person you will be legally tying yourself to before doing so. You may think you know a person well, but really you only know the mask they present to the outside world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:41 PM
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Yeah no shit. They do those jobs for other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:22 PM
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Do you think there aren't male prostitutes or strippers? Fitness influencers? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:21 AM
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I actually don't understand why it's important to you to clarify that one is worse than the other this way. Both suck. Food poisoning doesn't have the long-term impact of cancer on your life, but I'm still going to do everything I can to avoid food poisoning. What's your point here dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:10 PM
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No amount of bitching and moaning is ever going to make women want to fuck men they are not attracted to. I do not know why this concept is so difficult to understand. Jfc deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:42 PM
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"Women get more leeway" Ok then stop giving it to them. I don't give men leeway with shit that you've listed because I would not expect a man to give me leeway if it were me doing these things. Don't bitch about a problem if you actively take part in perpetuating it. If someone's behavior doesn't align with your values, show them the door. It really is that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:37 PM
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I think the internet just counts as evidence that people in echo chambers spiral into stupidity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:43 AM
2

Bro do what you want and stop seeking validation. You are perfectly capable of making decisions about your own live without desperately needing the approval of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:19 AM
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I'd love to know how you came to such an odd conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:44 PM
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Hey so sweeping generalizations about an entire population are just as stupid coming from women as they are from men. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:01 PM
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This made my day. 🥰 I hear what you're saying about prioritizing yourself last. That was a hard lesson for me to unlearn. Had to keep reminding myself over and over that I had to put on my own oxygen mask first before I could help anyone else with theirs. We're no good to anyone when we're burned out and resentful, but when we're balanced and stable, we can see clearly enough to offer the help people actually need, not just give them what they think they want. And yeah, the universe has the subt…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:52 AM
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Already reported it. Don't fucking come in here talking about children and sex in the same sentence. Absolutely repulsive behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:59 PM
3

Motherfucker, KIDS LIBIDOS?! Gross. You're disgusting. This shit needs to be taken down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:54 PM
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Then put your research up and prove to us that you have enough sense to read it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:58 PM
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Y'all just make shit up to get upset about. It's baffling, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:54 PM
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I haven't really noticed it more with women, but I have noticed it's a lot more common with my friends that have anxiety or that are just naturally introverted. When it starts happening with people that don't normally behave that way, I take that as a signal that something is probably going on and they may be struggling. I know this sucks, but people have a hard time seeing past their own hurt to how they affect others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:23 PM
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This is going to be taken down for being an advice post, but stop taking things personally. You never know what's going on in someone else's life. They could be battling depression, ADHD, money troubles. You just can't know unless you ask, and if you're going to ask, try to be kind and non-judgemental. I've been noticing across the board that a lot of people just aren't doing well and could really use some support.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:23 PM
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Never been to a bachelorette party with a stripper and I've been to a fair few
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:41 AM
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As much as men here love the action
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:13 AM
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Whataboutisms really are all y'all know how to reach for
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:39 PM
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Oh really? Mutual understanding is always my goal, though rarely the result. I actually loved old school red pill mentality. They told you to FAFO until you figured it out. Fail fast, fail often. Get better every time you do it. That's how you build literally any skill on earth. Practice and iterative improvement. And fake it till you make it combined with learning how to not take things personally as you learn is legit the only thing that works when building social skills. The tinder swindler s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:05 PM
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Stop it. Stop your bullshit right there. You are hyerfocusing on the outliers to justify hatred of the whole. Why do you need to do that? What are you trying to protect inside yourself by narrowing your lens to only the things that benefit your internal narratives? If you want to lie to yourself, that's one thing. Know that I see you for exactly what you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:48 PM
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Maybe if you stopped demonizing feminism in order to action men's problems you would have better luck. You turn helping people into a zero sum game when you do that. It's not. Humans have the capacity to care about a great many things at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:35 PM
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For real. Do they honestly believe this special unicorn is going to be interested in a person that treats everyone except "the one" like trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:27 PM
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Again, you are seeing the double standard only from your perspective. You claim to be egalitarian, but you are certainly failing to be egalitarian in the way you view the problems of others. Are you truly so self-absorbed that you cannot regognize the double standards women also live with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:23 PM
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Aaaaand you lost me. How are you not seeing the disconnect between using manipulative lies to get sex and a genuine connection born from authentic interaction? When people say be authentic, they mean not lying about who you are for personal gain. It's dishonest and manipulative to mislead others this way and we do it in every aspect of our society, to our own detriment. Dating, work. Doesn't matter. The inauthenticity is what's making everything feel like the deck is stacked against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:18 PM
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If you are going to continue to write snippy little statements about people misunderstanding your point, I think it’s important for you to understand that you are communicating that point badly. You're in a debate sub and I'm not a mind reader. Make your point more clear or take the L.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:12 PM
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Hey so I'm not interested in your whataboutisms. I don't give a shit about your Boogeyman feminist narratives. It's not fine when anyone does it. That was the whole point. You perceive your problems to be worse because they're yours. That doesn't invalidate the problems others experience. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:11 PM
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I agree with what you've written in this comment. These men are shifting the locus of control to the things outside of their personal control, while often failing to even consider the importance of the things that are within their power to change. I'm not saying dating isn't harder now. It is for everyone. But I am saying that it's impossible if you preemptively give up before expending even the smallest amount of effort while blaming those that only want a partner that matches the effort they t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:13 PM
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You just used a lot of words to reinforce the opinion I stated. The second you even hint that your problems are "worse" than any other group, you're forcing people to reckon with your ego, not the topic at hand. You could have very easily discussed the issues men face without bringing women into the conversation at all. The comparison is where you ruined your own argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:49 PM
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You still have a shot at a relationship. Just because men are not taking the opportunities that are available to them does not mean those opportunities do not exist. We are not going to love you just because you want to be loved. Do everything in your power to be a person worthy of love before you stick your hand out and maybe, just maybe, you'll have different results. The lack of personal accountability in this sub is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:46 PM
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You say men get called out for it more often, because people are more likely to actually hear criticism that relates to them personally and let what doesn't pass over. Your personal opinion is just that. I appreciate your perspective here, but it's leading with ego and validation-seeking, which are the very things you state to be problematic. Those in glass houses shouldn't be so quick to cast stones, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:19 PM
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We're not overlooking them. We don’t want them. If a man (or woman) doesn't have the balls to take up space in a room, then they should expect to be invisible. No one is going to solve your problems for you and no one is going to offer sympathy to a person that isn't willing to help themselves, at least not for long. What are you even hoping to gain from this conversation? Because you're certainly not going to convince women that boring, invisible men are suddenly something worth chasing, when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:32 PM
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That last line was a bar 😆 I don't get the mentality that's so prevalent in here. It's like refusing to apply for jobs and then getting pissed that they're not getting hired.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:04 PM
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I'm actually not surprised at all that a bunch of coddled children think everything should just be handed to them with no effort on their part. I do wonder what you think these men are being "radicalized" to do though when they're so lazy and self-absorbed they can't even be bothered to improve their social skills and learn to meet others where they're at instead of where y'all want them to be. Are we radicalizing y'all to bitch on the internet more and to remain a drain on your mother for the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:26 PM
3

that’s quite a fairytale you’re telling yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:27 PM
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I didn’t say only autistic men didn’t get the message. I said you personally did not get it. Your refusal to understand that the way you communicate is not the way the general population communicates is YOUR failing and it's your responsibility to overcome the difference because the world is never going to reorient itself around a minority population's unwillingness to understand common verbiage. I'm saying this to you as a person that is on the spectrum herself. And you can bitch and moan all d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:13 PM
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Not really. You're just expecting the entire world to be as autistic as you are, and buddy, they’re not. I’m sorry but they’re just not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:54 PM
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No, that’s how YOU read it. The rest of us don’t require every minute detail of the world around us explained with this level of precision.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:47 PM
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Could have shortened that by damn near 100% and just written "I don't respect women's consent" instead🥴 Systems like arranged marriages “worked” because one side couldn’t say no. Transactions where the woman’s consent is optional isn't relationship facilitation dude. Just a violation of autonomy. Rejection happens when the other person has a choice and you're out here arguing that men shouldn't have to get used to women having a choice. You're not lonely enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:35 PM
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You aren't. People don't wear signs to indicate sociability or problematic personality traits. Like most things in life, you have to FAFO, and a lot of y'all just aren't brave enough to live that way. If you fear rejection so much that you never take a chance, then you've successfully eliminated pretty much every possible relationship before they ever had a chance. Rejection sucks for like 5 minutes and then you learn from what went wrong and try again. Sometimes it's on you and you can action t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:51 PM
2

The best thing about advice is that you're not required to take it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:15 PM
2

Protect me from what? I'm seriously asking. I've never once in my adult life needed a man to protect me. My partner isn't dominant. I'm not either. Regarding chores and cooking, we both just do what needs to be done when we see it needs to be done. He dresses well. He takes care of his skin, at least he does now that he lives with me. We had a few drinks last weekend and he let me put a full face of makeup on him, though I doubt he'd leave the house that way. Bills are split, we take turns payin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:43 AM
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Bro really never tires of getting told his opinion is not fact on this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:20 AM
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"Look at meeeeee. I'm the winner of the Struggle Olympics and my personal feelings are the ONLY thing that matters in the entire world." Do you even hear yourself? The most beautiful person on earth can still feel loneliness. The most privileged person can still experience hardship. I'm sorry you're having a hard time, but that doesn't mean other people don't also have problems. Stop being such a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:46 AM
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This is one of the funnier comment threads I've ever read on here so cheers. The agreed-upon definition bit was 10/10. Fully agreed here. Some thought time with a dictionary beforehand could have prevented the whole conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:45 PM
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Man. This comment made me realize how much I enjoyed the old school RP mentality. I miss the days of "work on yourself, optimize where possible, stop being bitter/desperate and start being proactive." There was so much personal accountability baked into the ethos.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:38 PM
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Teenage girls are mean af. Most of them grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:57 PM
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The point of this hypothetical is to put the onus of fixing men onto women instead of you taking this opportunity to highlight the myriad options available to men currently to help with their mental health and how they could be improved. I'm not a charitable organization. I will not even entertain this "hypothetical" because no one‘s life is worth more than my own, and you are asking us to value another person‘s life and mental health over our own with this bullshit scenario. I would let the ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:18 PM
2

Here's one that works for both sides: stop letting manufactured outrage and engagement metrics shape your worldview. It's baffling how many people have formed their entire belief structures around whatever bullshit an algorithm has calculated to be most likely to grab their attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:11 PM
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Would I fuck miserable, depressed men so they wouldn't commit suicide? No, no I wouldn't. Go to therapy. Are you serious with this shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:01 PM
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And maybe try a normal conversation first instead of leading with that 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:57 PM
1

Heard. I'll give you the realist advice I can give any person ever. Learn to recognize the loudest, dumbest voices as just that. Those perspectives should be heard only so you can compare them to your own values and belief structures. If they're more coherent than whatever you're working with, awesome you found a unicorn, sub it into your worldview. Mostly they're just loud and dumb though so figure out the most amusing way to combat it and challenge yourself enough that you don't become one of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:58 AM
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Fair. Not sure why you're letting people that take things to the extreme flavor your overall opinion on any given topic though. I'm racking my brain for any situation where amplifying the loudest, least informed opinions ever served as a benefit and coming up short.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:49 PM
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I want time to myself to focus solely on myself or my own friendships. To pursue my own interests and hobbies without having to manage another person. Just like my partner does. That in no way means we don't love each other. It just means we're fully formed adults with separate interests and friend groups. If you're comfortable with fully losing your own life for the sake of another person, I love that for you and your future therapist, but nothing and no one has the right to monopolize more of …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:43 PM
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Agreed! I love watching people enjoy themselves on a dancefloor. The confidence and joy always shine through, even if the rhythm isn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:00 PM
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Happy you got that off your chest. Did you have an actual topic to discuss here or did you just want to share your personal list of grievances? Kinda hard to tell
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:35 AM
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Talk to the person that hurt your feelings directly and stop expecting an entire gender to answer for it. Damn y'all act like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:22 AM
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I'd rather fucking die
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:09 PM
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This is just black pill whining and in no way represents average men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:08 PM
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Agreed. It's really lovely when people appreciate your effort. Commenting on a person's body in a sexual manner is pretty much always crass (n/a if you're actually having sex with that person) but I've always appreciated a complement about my non-sexual features, i.e. smile, eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:05 PM
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Thanks for stopping by and sharing this comment 53 days later that had absolutely nothing to do with what I said. I think maybe you should look into a hobby because this is weird behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:49 PM
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And sharing weird fantasies on Reddit is going to fix that how? Walk me through the logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:47 PM
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I think you nailed this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:24 PM
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This isn't a better alternative though. I'm neurodivergent. I had to learn how to operate in the world around me, compensate for my weaknesses and play to my strengths. If a person isn't willing to do the work to change things, then they stay exactly the same. Sad loser fantasies about a world where everything is simply handed to them are just that and in no way help anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:17 PM
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Really no other explanation needed than crazy people are crazy and to be avoided
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:33 AM
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Why would anyone want to piss their time away imagining this? Those things aren't attractive and no amount of imagination is going to make them so. I think your time would be better spent figuring out how to be active and social rather than daydreaming about a world where you’re rewarded for being withdrawn and weird. Wtf even is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:57 PM
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I never have and never will. Why do you believe this is common? It's not. At all. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but I am saying those women are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:49 PM
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There was always a house party. Bars were packed. Even outside of the partying aspect, I can distinctly remember the school clubs in college having socials and alcohol-free mixers. It felt like there was a push from every societal direction to get us out of our houses, and now that I'm older and understand corporate decisioning from the consultant perspective, I think that's because getting us physically out into the world was the only way for businesses and companies to extract from us. Now the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:45 PM
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It's a weird time to be alive dude. I had to grow up in a world that was falling apart as a millennial but your generation never even got to experience the before times. I don't disagree with what you wrote. I also think gen z has additional social challenges because you grew up in a world that always had mobile phones and social media. I've noticed your generation isn't as... free, maybe? I don't really know how to word it. There just seems to be a deeper fear of being perceived by others in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:08 PM
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Whatever you need to tell yourself to sleep at night 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:31 AM
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I'm done here. You're either a bot or a human with so little to offer that you're indistinguishable from a bot. I never asserted that more republicans were gay than democrats so I will not debate that statement, nor will I continue to talk about it. You have some sort of issue with the thought that a republican could be secretly gay and that's a YOU problem. I care about this topic, your opinion of it and you exactly as much as I care about DL Republicans.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:58 AM
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I don't particularly care. I made an offhand comment to a person that wasn't you. You inserted yourself just long enough to let me know that you are incapable of handling any amount of cognitive dissonance. And frankly I don't give a shit if more republicans are gay than democrats, because it's not a fucking competition and there's nothing wrong with being gay. There's a whole lot wrong with politicians villainizing a community they're secretly a part of. Or is hypocrisy only a problem when it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:52 AM
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I'd imagine they're not commenting on it because Democrats haven't made it their personal mission to demonize the LGBTQ community. Why don't you ask them? Why does this bother you so much? Your reaction is pretty fucking weird for a person that's not a republican politician.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:33 AM
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Bro this was widely reported. I'm sorry that you have tied your identity to politics and are unable to hear anything that gives you uncomfy feelings, but take that shit up with the data. 🥴 Example 1 Example 2 Why don't you try a quick Google search before getting your panties in such a twist next time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:26 AM
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I actually asked once. He said the traffic remained exactly as expected during that time. Slightly up due to an increase of people being there for the event, but absolutely nothing like the insane spikes seen during the RNC.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:08 AM
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Disagree. There are a lot of people that just quietly decenter others without making a show of it. Announcing that you're decentering others is performative and ridiculous. Just do it. Every person on earth needs to figure out what it means to live life for themselves in a way they personally find fulfilling. Attaching your identity and self-esteem to another person is just setting yourself up to fail. I think it's important to know how to make yourself happy and how to live in a way that's true…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:25 PM
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Republican National Convention 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:09 PM
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I'm friends with a guy that used to work for Grindr. He said they called the RNC their Super Bowl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:45 PM
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Being a progressive politically doesn't make you a decent individual, as evidenced by every self-serving Democratic politician the US has to offer. There will always be people that act in direct opposition to their stated beliefs. I can't say if that's due to deception or a lack of self-awareness, since it really comes down to the individual. 🤷‍♀️ What are you after here? Meaning your post and the responses you expect to receive. What do you want people to do or say? Are you looking for people t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:41 PM
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I don't think this is a gender difference so much as covid really changed the way we socialize in general. I've noticed a distinct change since the pandemic and I'm really not sure what the fix is, or if there even is one. People got used to their own company and/or very small social circles during that time, and it just seems to be the new norm now. Edited for grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:33 PM
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I don't think abusive men have exceptional personalities. Wtf? Where did you get this? Having an exceptional personality would include not harming others because you don't know how to deal with your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:27 PM
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I don't know dude. You can debate pretty much anything if you're enough of an asshole to argue a morally reprehensible position. That being said, I'm of the opinion that anyone arguing against consent and bodily autonomy needs to be put down for the betterment of society. There's not much to discuss past that point and I'll walk away from the conversation hoping they don't cause someone irreparable damage one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:04 AM
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Did you... did you just have to explain to someone on Reddit what lol means?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:57 AM
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🤣 legit the funniest response I've ever seen on this sub. I'm proud of you, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:31 AM
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Provider just means keeping the bank account full enough to let another person manage your life. Being a teammate means being an active participant in the day to day tasks required to manage life, home and family successfully. Provider sure sounds like a lot less work and responsibility lol. I can do all of that for myself though, so for me, it's teammate or gtfo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:34 PM
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This is such a good response and shows what a thoughtful partner you are. It may have been low effort for you, but it obviously meant the world to her and I understand why. Some days/weeks are so full and stressful that someone taking even one small decision off your plate offers visceral relief. I'm one of those people that believes that consideration is the highest form of love. Looks life your wife is too. She's lucky to have you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:24 PM
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Are you under the impression that feminism exists to counter RP? How did you come to this conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:20 AM
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I appreciate your willingness to tell us you're terrible at sex and don't know how to use Google tips to improve, OP. Takes a lot of honesty or a total lack of self-awareness to type this out for the world. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:18 AM
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Violence certainly does communicate something. It tells me pretty quickly that you don't have the intelligence to think of alternative solutions and that your emotions control you. Not the best look.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:12 AM
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Oh look a personal attack from a guy that realized he cannot adequately defend his own statements. How novel for PPD 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:59 AM
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You could have just asked the question and left it at that if you were seeking to learn. Dumping your ill-formed opinions of women into this "question" demonstrates that you are asking ENTIRELY in bad faith. Take this bullshit elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:27 AM
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Brio what? Why don't you try to track THIS conversation instead of whatever windmills you're fighting in your head because this shit is incoherent. Thanks for the laugh at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:00 PM
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Actually yes. Men modify behavior around other men constantly. You don’t walk up behind a strange man at an ATM at night. You don’t get in an elevator alone with a visibly raging man. You size men up physically when you feel threatened. The difference is women have to do it with the people they’re also expected to date and be receptive to simultaneously, which is a uniquely exhausting position that has nothing to do with ruining cold approaching. So again, what fucking point are you trying to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:18 PM
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I didn't pull it out of my ass. You're arguing with a woman about her concern for her own safety and using the fact that men get killed BY MEN as what? Proof that you shouldn't fear men, who are the greatest predator of both men and women? Trying to understand how you thought this helped your argument (it doesn't btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:59 PM
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You're saying that like women are killing them. What's your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:51 AM
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My immediate thought when reading this was "what money?" so happy to see I wasn't alone in that thought. Always a dude with a double digit bank account writing some nonsense like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:35 AM
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Observation. Books. Studies. Science. Education. Data. If I cannot defend an opinion with data, with fact, and without seeking to satisfy my own confirmation bias, then I won't hold that opinion any longer. Why are you taking your talking points from manosphere influencers when you can find the data and form opinions for yourself? Asking genuinely. I'm always really curious about how people form these belief structures.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:04 AM
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All the yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:41 PM
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Radicalization to do what exactly? Fill in the blanks for us here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:41 AM
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Couldn't agree more. It's hard for a lot of people to conceptualize how vast and varied the world is until they are exposed to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:26 PM
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Women don't automatically want relationships with the men they sleep with. Where did you get this idea from? What's led you to this misplaced belief?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:43 PM
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Your response is dismissive and rude. Nothing she said implied she wasn't calm. Don't project your feelings onto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:39 PM
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Man this is the entire point. I wish more people understood that you can like what you like. Just treat the people you don't like with basic decency. Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:15 AM
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Your opinion means fuckall to any woman on earth making a decision about their medical health. Thanks for sharing 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:10 PM
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It's not a failure at all for either gender. Your value as a person isn't defined by other people's relation to you. This is a weird mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:23 AM
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I can tell that assumptions are your default. Lazy heuristics instead of critical thought are to be expected after you shared a paper that countered the bullshit you're spewing. It doesn't matter how much you tell me I'm wrong, because unlike you, I know how to read what's actually written in studies without attaching narrative to it, so I'm going to walk away from this conversation laughing. Whatever you hoped to accomplish here, I can promise you failed. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:19 PM
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Son, this isn’t an argument. This is you misrepresenting data.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 10:37 PM
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This is a truly inspiring level of delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 10:34 PM
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Fully support this. An echo chamber of like-minded men who want to lie to themselves in order to feel like everything in the world is someone else’s fault is a really good idea. Sounds really mentally healthy. 🥴 Here's some free life advice. If your beliefs are so fragile that they cannot be challenged by the very data being used to spin the narratives you proclaim, then your identity is far too precarious to ever succeed in interpersonal relationships. Go hide. The world is being wasted on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:35 PM
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No, I understood it perfectly. You on the other hand are twisting it to fit your narratives. Saying I don’t understand the paper when you are blatantly misrepresenting the data to satisfy your confirmation bias is truly hysterical and is a testament to how very fragile this identity you have built around this ideology is. If you have to twist the truth to to maintain your beliefs, that is a really good sign that you should spend some time questioning your own beliefs. You've destroyed your credi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:26 PM
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Oh this is fun. The paper says assortative mating/homogamy is quantitatively important and that hypergamy coexists with it. People overwhelmingly partner with others of similar social and economic rank. The authors explicitly describe homogamy as the stronger overall force. The preference effect in the vignette study: women rate a high-earning hypothetical partner higher than men do but BOTH rated them higher. The difference-in-difference is 0.206 on a 10-point scale. Statistically meaningful bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:05 AM
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You're the one making egregious claims, son. The burden of evidence falls on you. Go on. I'm waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:38 AM
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Lol at you thinking any of the nonsense you just wrote is backed up by evidence. Every time y'all post "evidence" the only thing you accomplish is letting us know you're haven't the smallest understanding of statistics and research. Do go on though. Be sure to show me every peer reviewed study you can find that says a single thing about "Chad" and "betabux" 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:34 AM
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Is this the fairytale you tell yourself to self-soothe when you realize that a bunch of perfectly average men are partnered and you aren't? Or are you just a bot that can only shove the same tired talking points into your replies, regardless of how divorced from reality they are? I'm genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:10 AM
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My feed is business news, recipes and animals. You're responsible for your own algorithm dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:20 PM
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Why don't you send this post to your mom, OP? I'd love to hear her opinion on your low effort troll
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:00 PM
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This is the mentally healthy option for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:58 PM
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My thought when I hear things like that is "Yeah, women are probably too much work for you. Leave them alone." 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:56 PM
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Y'all get more ridiculous every day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:53 PM
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I'm not in here asking men to be allies so that's not really relevant to the conversation. You specifically said feminists aren't helping men, so how would you like feminists to help?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:12 PM
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How would you like feminists to help?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:05 PM
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He's not pointing out the lack of empathy. He's arguing for women's issues to be given less focus in favor of men's issues, as if they matter less than women. He could have advocated for men without ever mentioning women. Refusing to admit to the bad faith framing doesn't remove it. It's still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:55 PM
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The gender gap data is real and worth discussing. But a gap existing after a policy was passed doesn’t demonstrate the policy caused it, let alone that it was designed to discriminate against men. Correlation across decades of massive social change isn’t a mechanism. The disparate impact point is more interesting. If you have evidence that Title IX administrators are formally applying a double standard in adjudication, that’s a specific and addressable claim. But "outcomes are unequal therefore …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:52 PM
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But he did. Why else would a person need to tell you to care about women less in order to care about men more? Pretty sure we're all capable of caring about more than one thing at a time. You don't have to devalue another to value yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:36 PM
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I disagree. Think about it this way. I come to you and say "Hey Skinny Tyrone, I really care about this issue that affects a lot of men and we need more community involvement to make a difference. Since you're a man, I thought you could help." Then I tell you all about the initiative and what we hope to do. And I never once mention women. I don't tell you that you need to stop helping a feminist cause in order to help this men's cause. Because you don't need to care about women less in order to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:30 PM
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Lol what. Title IX was created to prevent sex-based discrimination in education. If you believe a specific policy or implementation was unfair, I'll need you to explain your criticism specifically before I can respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:23 PM
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I couldn't agree more. Helping people isn't a zero sum game. We help men with their mental health, we improve domestic violence numbers. No one group is more deserving than the other and manufacturing scarcity around who we can give care and aid is psychotic ruling class shit. A rising tide lifts all boats.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:11 PM
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I'll say upfront, I'm all for truly fair, merit-based systems. A fair system doesn’t guarantee identical outcomes between groups. If women outperform men academically in a genuinely merit-based environment, would that automatically mean the system is biased against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:07 PM
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That research has nothing to do with feminism. So why bring it up to make your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:57 PM
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Yet he didn't make that point in the OP. He said men need to stop catering to feminism. Everything you just said could be discussed and advocated for without ever mentioning feminism, but by pulling it into the discussion of men's issues, OP let every one of us know that he finds women to be less deserving. This was pointlessly hostile and counterproductive if the goal was to advocate for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:41 PM
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Son, you haven't debated a single thing. You've just projected your messy emotions while saying absolutely nothing. If you want to demonize feminism, then tell us right here, right now how feminism is the reason men are failing to thrive. Tell us how how it is personally affecting you. Use facts and studies.. I'm not going to debate your identity crisis, bro. Make a fucking point and back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:38 PM
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Again, you're projecting hostility because you don't have a solid defense against a perfectly reasonable request. You are looking for someone to blame instead of advocating for men's issues. You could have approached this topic in a million different ways that never mentioned feminism and had a pretty reasonable discussion about how to best advocate for men's issues, but instead you chose to play petty gender war bullshit. You don't give a fuck about men's issues, you only wanted a platform to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:31 PM
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So you can't actually name anything feminism has taken from you. You'd rather point the finger at an ideology that has taken absolutely nothing from you or harmed you in any way. Neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:25 PM
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What does feminism has to do with that? What's stopping you from advocating for men's issues? What's stopping you from volunteering at a men's shelter like I was at 6am today? What is the point of blaming feminism when you are perfectly capable of bettering your community yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:23 PM
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You do realize that tone is always the reader's, yes? This is projection and I can say that confidently because anger was your goal when you posted this poorly researched cry for attention. Sorry to disappoint you, but I think this is just sad, dude. Again, please tell us one thing feminism has personally taken from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:20 PM
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OR you could just treat people of all genders with basic respect and stop blasting this kind of miserable shit all over Reddit. Why don't you tell us one thing that feminism has personally taken away from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:13 PM
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Perfectly explained
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:29 PM
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I'm saying you could have made your point without it reading like erotica. The embarrassing part isn't even your cuck fantasy. It's that you hate yourself for it and are doing everything in your power to project it onto an entire gender. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:29 AM
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No I just think it's weird to share your cuck fantasies with the world this way. If you're not embarrassed, you really should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:54 AM
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I do not give an actual fuck about the birth rate. If countries and corporations want to keep population density up, then they need to make life more livable for the masses. Maybe men should influence other men to mind their own fucking business 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:57 PM
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Yeah that's pretty much the entire point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:54 PM
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Why are you sitting around imagining shit like this? Get a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:38 PM
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Sir please, this is PPD. Your response is entirely too adult and reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:35 PM
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I'll agree here. Ever seen the opening to Idiocracy? That's what it feels like these days. The smartest people I know are mostly childfree and if they do have kids, it's just one. The dumbest? Their children are legion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:27 PM
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Game over. No second chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:10 AM
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Classic PPD <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:31 AM
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Aww you can't come up with your own thoughts so you're just repeating mine. Good bot!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:15 PM
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Your reading comprehension could use improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:53 PM
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Show me where I asked him to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:47 PM
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That makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:04 PM
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You have no way of knowing anything about me so really this is just projection on your part. I really don’t give a shit what you think about me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:58 PM
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Was there a point you wished to make here or what? If you don’t like my contribution, feel free to fuck off. I don’t want or need your support. Thanks for stopping by.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:48 PM
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What discussion? This is a debate sub. We’re not here to pander to this guy's feelings. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:44 PM
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This sub isn't your fucking diary dude
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:40 PM
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Why do you need strangers to tell you that you’re ugly? Do you not own a mirror?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:21 PM
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Insecure assholes that need others to validate them cheat. Sadly, rather a lot of those people exist in both genders. I don't think it's most women though, just like I don't think it's most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:38 AM
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No government has any business legislating people's dating lives. The fuck even is this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:32 AM
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For funsies, I put your cry for help into Claude and asked how an AI would need to be prompted to come up with such a post. Here's the response: Oh good, a manifesto. Those always end well. Let me tell you what kind of AI writes this, because it’s a recognizable fingerprint. The rhetoric is doing a lot of heavy lifting for a thin idea. This post is structurally identical to MLM recruitment copy and diet supplement ads. It opens with manufactured urgency, pivots to a villain (Hollywood, women, “w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:37 PM
1

My favorite part of this is that you couldn't even be bothered to remove the markdown from the AI generation 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:07 AM
1

Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:57 PM
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Fyi that statement doesn't get less ridiculous because you repeated it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:50 PM
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Are you really using a "not all men" argument at the same time you're accusing women of acting as an organized hivemind? You don't see how ridiculous that is, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:38 PM
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Cutting off your own nose to spite your face 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:47 AM
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Lol bro I don’t think you’re wrong about some of your points, but I think you’re filtering them through an idealogy that takes a cohesive starting argument and renders it nonsensical, parroted using the same phrases I see repeated ad nauseam in this sub. There’s no depth to what you’re saying. You're not arguing from a belief system you evolved yourself from lived experience. You're just repeating what gets said hundreds of times in here each day in exactly the same way it was said before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 01:55 AM
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Yeah that's the way I'm leaning. You failing to answer the question about the most stable, genuine things you've ever done for a woman that got punished is what's tipping it in bot territory, but I'll be serious, a person that's so radicalized in an online community without the lived experience to back up their views would also answer the same way. Like I said, fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 01:20 AM
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Bro I'll be real with you here. I don’t give a fuck about your opinion, I’m just trying to figure out if you’re a bot or a human without their own experiences clinging to the phrases used by others like a lifeline. It's genuinely impossible to tell and I am fascinated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 01:08 AM
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Do you think gay men have the same problem? Same incentive structure, no women involved. Does the stable guy still lose early?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 01:02 AM
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So your complaint is that women develop preferences on their own timeline instead of yours? Men do the same thing. You literally just described it. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:46 AM
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Patterns forming without awareness applies to men adjusting their behavior based on anecdotes and redpill forums too. Do stable men universally have bad dating outcomes or is your sample size just the bitter guys who found the same corners of the internet you did?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:28 AM
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Nah that just sounds like a whole lot of you trying to medal in the Victim Olympics. Young people have no idea who they are, what their values are, or who is good for them. You figure that shit out as you grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:14 AM
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Bro nobody knows "full well what they're doing" when they're young 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:58 PM
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Yeah this one is a no brainer. If you want to be liked, work at being likeable and accept that no matter what you do, some people still won't like you. That's not a reason to stop being a pleasant person, but rather a reason to avoid those particular people. I don't get this whole mentality of not even trying because of a misplaced perception that hot men don't have to. They do though. The most attractive men I know are also some of the kindest, most generous men I know. Stop making excuses for …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:53 PM
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I can get behind this. Anyone openly supporting war on social media should be automatically drafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:10 PM
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You are in a thread on a post about slut shaming... Did you think you were doing something profound here or are you just now realizing that your response was ridiculous, given the context? Food for thought
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:15 PM
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Suuuure bud. You were slut shaming people for their health. Totally believable. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:36 AM
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Racist? French isn't a race, chief. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:21 AM
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You’re in a debate sub. Burden of proof belongs to the person making the claim. That's not a high bar, though I'll concede it's a mountain for a bot to surmount. For the actual humans in here, that's the minimum. If you lead with feelings and then act surprised when someone asks for evidence, the problem isn’t the standard. And the “unreasonable standard” framing would be more persuasive coming from an account that has ever directly engaged with the actual topic at hand. You haven’t. Not once th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:22 PM
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Hey look it's the chief bot coming in with a whataboutism because it can't make a relevant point about the topic at hand. I was worried we wouldn't see you contribute absolutely nothing to this topic but thankfully here you are!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:15 PM
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You didn't read those did you? 🥴🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:13 PM
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Again, cite examples. Your feelings don't count. Google this shit and provide links or admit that you've formed unjustified opinions and are only looking for the equally ignorant to validate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:28 PM
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Cite specific examples where the same person is making these hypocritical claims since the burden of proof falls on the one making the claim (that's you, OP) OR admit that you're fictionalizing this shit to perpetuate a narrative that allows you to hate women that don't want you. God y'all are so repetitive that I can't tell if you're bots or such one dimensional humans that there's no difference between you and propaganda code. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 01:56 PM
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Yet another man throwing out a whataboutism like he's doing something brave instead of putting in the seconds of effort required to scroll down and see how I'd already answered this type of question. This is just lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 01:45 PM
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I never cared. It was pretty obvious that the men doing it were jealous because those women were having the casual sex they wanted and couldn't get, and the women that did it felt threatened in a space they were not confident competing in. Other people's insecurities never did and never will affect the choices I make for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:11 PM
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It's not "be yourself" so much as "figure out who you are at your core, what values are immutable, and then optimize the other parts of yourself while remaining authentic to your core beliefs"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:25 PM
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Bro get the fuck out of here acting like this is a woman problem when my country is being run by a bunch of emotional old men that fly into hysteria at the drop of the hat. As long as Donald Trump is out there running his cult and proving to us how very easy it is to emotionally manipulate men into defending him from being investigated for being a fucking child rapist, this is an argument I just can't take seriously. I don't want to hear one more fucking word about men being less emotional when …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 02:38 AM
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The appropriate person to give this feedback to is the one that's bad in bed. The fuck do you expect us to do about your mediocre sex life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:44 PM
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You're refusing to consider any perspective but your own, which is as expected in this sub. Your stated attraction does not align with your expressed contempt. You're conflating sexual objectification with genuine attraction to dodge my observation. That should prompt further reflection on your end. You're essentially arguing that because some people use “maybe you’re gay” as an insult, my version must also be one. Motive attribution by category, not by content. Just because you're an emotional,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 12:40 PM
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I have never once used that as an insult because there is nothing wrong with being gay. Asking a man that openly despises women and states that men have more value if he has thought long and hard about where his attraction actually lies is a genuine question because his professed desire for a woman does not align with the way he speaks about them. If you feel insulted by that, the homophobia is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:51 AM
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He does small annoying things just like I do small annoying things. I don't think either of us find them worth discussing though because they aren't real issues in our relationship. Leaving socks by the hamper instead of in them, for example. I put them in and don't worry about it, because I recognize this is something that he doesn't even register that he's doing and it isn't that big of a deal. Just one of his quirks. Same as him closing cabinet doors behind me when I regularly forget to close…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 12:35 PM
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Bro. If people are telling you to see a therapist, it's because you are unbearable to interact with and are quite obviously not dealing with your life well and making it everyone's problem but your own. You're not getting a girlfriend just because you go to therapy, but you may well learn the healthy coping mechanisms you need to get through life without making everyone hate you along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:01 PM
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You just said Jonah Hill and michael cera aren't lookers so which is it bro? Is your short term memory this bad or did you just want to argue with yourself publicly while never defining your position?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:02 PM
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They're also not bitter and miserable. They're both incredibly funny and have inviting personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:21 PM
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You're not responding to OP so why are you asking this person to defend what they wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:30 PM
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Based. No war but class war.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:15 PM
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Is this mf defending Bill Cosby and Weinstein for real? You specifically, OP, aren't lonely enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:13 PM
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Not everything is about you, as hard as it is for y'all to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:07 PM
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OR they are proud of their body and feel good when they dress like that. Y'all need to learn to keep your eyes on your own work and stop worrying about what other people are doing. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:03 PM
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RP used to understand that a whiny man that lacks personal accountability is the least fuckable thing on this planet. It's a shame y'all lost touch with that. Welp anyway enjoy being miserable!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:43 AM
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Boohoo. You can choose to not be a victim your entire life. Y'all spend so much time on here being crybabies about things you can't change while doing absolutely nothing about the things you can. Edited to point out that what I just said is literally the entire red pill ethos so take your complaints up with them. Bet they tell you to stop whining as well though. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:01 PM
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That's so true! I definitely used to be one of those people would dominate a conversation, but when I started consulting, I learned that while those companies were paying for my insights, the people working there had been living the issues for years and already had the solutions at the ready. I just had to shut up and give them space to tell me. Works in every conversation. Small talk with a stranger, job interview, dates. Whatever. I've had people tell me at the end of conversations that it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:50 PM
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Atlanta. I'm friends with quite a few doctors and nurses in this area. My nurse friends, as well as the doctors I'm friends with, have all confirmed that RNs are making bank around here. I couldn't tell you the specifics of how much of that is base pay and how much is OT. Only that they're doing well for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:06 PM
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Rather a lot of us are neurodiverse ourselves. We just learned how to socialize around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:01 PM
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You're dropping truth all over this post! YES! Most people really want to just talk about themselves. Being good at socal interaction in it's easiest form is actively listening to what that person is saying and then asking them questions that allow them to expand on their answer. Humans love an attentive audience as much as they love talking about themselves, so as long as you keep prompting them to continue talking, they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:59 PM
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Facts. Fail fast. Fail often. But never fail the same way twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:53 PM
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Social skills are quite easy to learn if you are willing to accept that embarrassing yourself is part of the learning process. If you can take that embarrassment, use it to help craft future interactions, then leave that embarrassment in the past, you'll iteratively improve. If you shame yourself for every misstep though and allow negative self-talk to take point, you'll turn every social interaction into something so stressful that you'll eventually stop trying all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:15 PM
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I don't know a single RN making less than $100k a year right now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:13 AM
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"Fuck you" as a response let's me know that you are fully in your ego and responding from emotion. You wrote a bunch of incomprehensible bullshit, were told so, and instead taking this opportunity to shore up the gaps in your knowledge, you used the most classic of low-IQ responses. Also, I don't know (and still don't since you also failed to effectively communicate that) or care what field you've been in for 10 years. And your age has nothing to do with the conversation, other than to deepen th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:18 PM
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Face what? Your refusal to learn about topics, or even the definitions of the words you are using, before you confidently spewed this trash out into the world? We all had to face that after reading this, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:01 PM
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For me personally, it's better to not be a piece of shit, but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:55 PM
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What is this post? Why are you expecting us to know who you're talking about when you cite random people from the internet? Do you realize that blue pill, like feminism, is an ideology, and as such doesn't have a rule book? Do you even know what an ideology is? Go touch some grass dude. This is hilariously out of touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:46 PM
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Yet again, another man that thinks every woman has the same experience. It's amusing how the men in this sub want to be treated as special little snowflakes competing for gold in the Victim Olympics, yet never bother to consider the hypocrisy of their own generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:56 PM
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Why do you think there's a way for any human on earth to predict another person's behavior with 100% accuracy? That's not a real thing dude. The only thing you can do is to know yourself well enough to walk away from anything and anyone that does not align with your own values and how you need to be lived in order to feel loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:53 PM
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Then what's the point of your post? Just looking for things to get mad about or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:16 PM
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I do not give a shit about how he acted in his previous relationship as long as he is giving me what I need in our relationship. Comparison is the thief of joy y'all. Edited bc I can't spell
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:14 PM
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Are you just interacting with these women for sport if you don't want to date them? Why are you even wasting time on something you don't care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:12 PM
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Agreed. Before I met my partner, this was the fastest way to eliminate those that lack social awareness or manners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:41 PM
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It sure would be a much more mentally healthy world if people recognized when they were being manipulated for profit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:46 AM
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He did not exude confidence. His body language read as threatened and insecure every time he had to interact with Theroux, and the rants he posted afterward confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:53 PM
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This sub is way too autistic for comments like this unless they have a flashing "SARCASM" sign out front but I appreciate the hell out of this response
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:42 PM
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You're not entitled to another human. How many times do you need to hear it to finally understand? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:40 PM
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Politics these days are a pretty solid benchmark to tell if another person's morality aligns with my own
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:32 PM
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You are projecting your personal feelings on people you do not know a goddamn thing about. This is YOUR problem and it has nothing to do with me. Frankly, you're not worth addressing thoughtfully or respectfully any longer. Enjoy being miserable ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:07 PM
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Why don't you ask those women instead of expecting people that have never met them to explain their behavor? This shit is nonsensical
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:04 PM
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I thought you were implying I only said that after your little whataboutism. I replied to the original poster's statements, as he was the one saying outlandish shit about being jealous of a woman's medical team. I didn't address faceless women because I have NEVER heard a woman say such a thing. I don't need to address "both sides" when only ONE is acting insane. Had a woman made the claim, the response would have been the same. Edited for grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:25 AM
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Are you dumb? I'm genuinely asking because my responses are timestamped 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:12 PM
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You're embarrassing yourself. Just take the L.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:41 AM
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I can see it was too much trouble for you to stop painting women as your enemy for long enough to scroll down so let me help you out <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:42 AM
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If a woman is trying to coerce a man's behavior to satisfy her own insecurity, that man should run in the other direction. Did you think I was here to cheerlead shithead women? Always a whataboutism at the ready in this place 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:50 PM
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Because you are using your insecurity to try to police the behavior of another human being instead of trying to take accountability for your own. Women need to run far and fast from men like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:44 PM
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It really is this easy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:46 PM
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You don't know what status quo means, do you? I think we're done here 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:43 PM
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YOU have to give notice because you are the person that doesn't like the status quo. It's YOUR responsibility to communicate your needs to others. Grow up, dude. No one can read your mind and they're not going to try to. You're just throwing a tantrum into the void over an issue it is fully within your power to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:38 PM
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Did you have a point to make here? I'm not going to pander to your victim mindset so either say something productive regarding the conversation you started or fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:24 PM
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You literally do not have to pay on a first date. Why are you acting like this is something you are forced to do? Use your words before the date like an adult and say "I don't agree in men paying for dates and would like to split. Are you ok with that?" If she says no, great. You just filtered out a person whose values do not align with your own. Y'all spend so much time figuring out how to make yourself a victim that you fail to consider the myriad ways that you can take control of your own lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:07 PM
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This isn't a real thing. Why do y'all make shit up like we're not going to immediately insist you show sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:07 PM
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I'm sure even without the word salad that would have been incomprehensible so 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:32 PM
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I don’t need to report you when I can tell you to your face that you’re being an inappropriate asshole. Also, you have no way of knowing whether or not that person spoke out of hypocrisy so this is just you projecting your own feelings onto this person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:26 PM
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Who asked you? A question was asked, she answered. Nowhere in that was your opinion asked for or wanted. You're just inserting yourself in places where you don't know if there's truth to the person's answer or not and it makes you look like a dick. Your response here is unwarranted and fucking rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:36 PM
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You think it's mainstream thought to support sex work? Bro...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 05:42 PM
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Realest thing ever written in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:58 AM
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Then don't fucking do it. You're not being held at gunpoint and forced to date single moms. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:56 AM
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You've never worked in consulting or operations then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:23 PM
1

Literally everyone changes their standards as they get older
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:18 PM
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Do you even know what"projection" means? What, pray tell, do you think I'm projecting here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:18 PM
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I don't know any women that say things like this either. Some will say they have terrible luck, but I don't know a single woman that hates all men irl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:53 PM
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It's a problem for men, not me. My standards have worked out just fine for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:45 PM
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Hahaha we aren't accountable to you so why are you under the impression we owe you accountability. Why don't you go ahead and tell us what accountability from women looks like to you, and then I'll take the time to remind you that women at large do not give a single gram of fuck about you personally and it is odd that you expect them to you. I'm sorry that you are having trouble dating, but that's not anyone's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:39 PM
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It doesn’t matter how many different times you say it or how many different ways, you are still saying the same self-pitying bullshit. Boohoo humans are inconsistent and irrational. Not just women, as evidenced by this miserable, whining excuse for a "debate." We can't debate your feelings. Only shake our heads and say "yeah, this is exactly why women avoid him"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:05 PM
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I can assure you I read exactly what you wrote. Were you under the impression that this was some sort of deep think piece that requires special intelligence to understand? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:28 AM
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Then stop doing it. You don't have to take anyone's advice. You don't even have to listen to them give advice. This is just needless bitching. Take accountability for your own life and your own decisions and stop looking for someone to scapegoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:11 AM
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What does her age have to do with not being attracted to you? Are you under the impression that women should give up their standards when they enter their 30s? And nothing will make a man less attractive than a shitty personality. We’ve been trying to tell y’all this and you don’t want to hear us. It doesn't matter how attractive you are. If you are an awful person, the only people you will ever attract long-term are equally awful people. Have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:52 PM
1

Every time I just stopped speaking to a man he said or did something super fucked up and was not worth the respect of an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:21 PM
2

400 million? On earth? Are you sure? I mean... I guess there are at least that many
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:19 PM
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You should report me. You seem like the type to narc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:42 PM
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Son, don't tell people to be "rational" after you bled your goddamn feelings all over us like we fucking care about them or you. You used this sub in an attempt to externally stabilize your own emotions, and when we don't agree with you, you attack. Also, I don't look at that shit like you do, so clean up your own algorithm. Imagine SEEKING OUT this shit and then crying about it. Are you 14?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:37 PM
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Yep. OP doesn't seem to understand that HIS problems are his, and no amount of acting like a crybaby bitch on reddit is ever going to change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:34 PM
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Men that call themselves or any other man "alpha" or "beta" are truly pathetic. I can't overstate what a joke you immediately make yourself when you use this terminology. Nothing "alpha" about constantly comparing yourself to others. Nothing "alpha" about being a human. Stop doing this shit. It's embarrassing for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:31 PM
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Thank you for sharing the narratives you tell yourself to self-soothe, but your feelings aren't facts. This post, and your need to create it, are fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:11 PM
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Y'all spend way too much time telling other people what they need to be doing instead of looking at yourself and considering what you need to be doing to improve your own circumstances. Grow the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 12:44 PM
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An important distinction that is often missed in here. I always appreciate your grounded takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:48 PM
1

Aren't you a little old to be scared of the Boogeyman, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:32 PM
2

Are other men telling you this or what? You should always be free to disagree. I think when you hit argument territory, it’s time for both people to take a break though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:09 PM
2

What's outlandish is your lack of self-awareness. Keep trolling dude. Keep showing the world how miserable you are. We see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:55 AM
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No, you're arguing with feelings and a refusal to consider another perspective as being equal to your own. Attacking instead of seeking to understand why someone feels this way. If you don't want to be treated like a predator, why don't you stop acting like the type of idiot that throws a punch or attacks someone's character when they feel insecure? Like I said, this is embarrassing for you. Again, this is so embarrassing for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:42 AM
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Oh look! DARVO tactic! If you don't want to be treated like a predator, why are you taking comms notes from the abuser playbook? You can't argue her point so you're implying she's emotional when really YOU are the one telling us that you are too emotional to debate and leave your feelings out of it. How embarrassing for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:14 AM
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Man, that's rough to not be able to read the structure underneath your own words. Your personal motivations and comprehension of the world around you come through in the words you've written, as a targeted algorithm only ever says who YOU are. Algorithms aren't ever going to give you an objective view of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:39 PM
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"My algorithm is showing me nothing but rage bait because that is what I have trained it to show me with my engagement. This is EVERYWHERE, y'all. Every woman on earth feels this way. The issue is certainly not an algorithm that's PERSONALLY TAILORED to show me what I react to." This is what you sound like bro 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:12 PM
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In life. One of my most valuable skills at work tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:09 PM
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Man I was ready to throw hands before my brain registered that "a"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:03 PM
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the tism is strong with this one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:41 AM
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Everyone has to live or die on their own merit. Everyone. And if you're letting women have different standards than you are held to, STOP.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:41 PM
1

I don’t have a lack of appreciation for male beauty when the men are actually beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:20 PM
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Why is it so hard for you to understand that I don't believe anyone deserves to be liked or disliked based on immutable characteristics or for belonging to a certain group, but rather SOLELY on their own merit? Is it because that means you have to take accountability for yourself or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:18 PM
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Watching y'all make shit up to feel better about lack within yourself and then getting pissed when people ask you to follow your own logic to its natural conclusion never stops being hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:12 PM
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Bro seriously take a moment and consider where you are asking this. No one in this sub is going to be able to give you the model or the celebrity perspective lol. Common sense can tell you that humans have been fucking/marrying people they aren't attracted to for as long as they've been pretending to be something they're not though. Idk. I've never experienced this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:15 AM
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I can only explain it to you dude. I can't understand it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:09 AM
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Is that what you read? I said I'm not going to speak as if a general statement applies to all men. I'd unplug about half of your life support to charge my phone. Same goes for women. If you want to be liked, then be likeable as an individual with good character.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:54 AM
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Ok I don't know a single woman that just loves "men" as a large sweeping statement. Rather, they are attracted to specific men. Sorry that isn't what you're after but I don't like anything about men as a gender that I don't also like about women, and those things still only apply to the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:52 AM
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Common theme is that they're respectful of everyone they encounter and display uncommon kindness for the people in their lives. For the ones I enjoy the most, they regularly display a sense of curiosity with little to no judgement, which makes them well-rounded and fun to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:59 PM
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I have never once liked a person just because they are a man. I know plenty of men that I like individually because they're awesome though 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:53 PM
2

I don't trust you. You made a claim no one can verify and are asking us to comment on the behavior of strangers based on your word. Also, why do you need to ask ANYONE why some people are shitty for no reason? They just are. It's a fact of life. Learn to identify and avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:36 PM
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Why don't y'all ask the women that are actually doing this shit in the threads where you are seeing it happen instead of expecting women in this sub that don't know what you're talking about (and can't find out since you didn't bother to provide a link) to comment on your perception of their behavior? This shit is deeply irrational
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:27 PM
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Yes but that doesn't mean they experience attraction in the same way or at the same stages
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:08 AM
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Not one person asked you to that. You're making shit up in order to maintain this illogical anger, and frankly, that's unstable behavior. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:27 PM
2

Ah, I see I was mistaken. You are indeed committed to misunderstanding another person's perspective. Thanks for the clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:54 PM
4

Well if you need it spelled out, I am happy to help. u/TermAggravating8043 was explaining to you that systemic enablement, or when "good" men refuse to hold "bad" men accountable, creates permission structures that allow the bad behavior to continue. This is more along the lines of people enabling addicts instead of helping them, if another frame of reference would help. You aren't the one pissing their life away with drugs, but if you're hanging out with the other person while they do the drugs…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:46 PM
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I agree with all of it other than the cringe "alpha" verbiage. OG red pill was all about personal accountability and I'm a big fan of anything that helps people take responsibility for the things they can and better understand the things they can't. Edited to add, today's RP is allergic to accountability. It's just moaning about how unfair life is and hating people that don't know they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:17 PM
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I honestly don't know how you're reading that because at no point is that what was being said. Goddamn dude. Work on your reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:03 PM
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You are making her point for her and you refuse to see it. It's almost sad how committed you are to misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 12:50 PM
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Ok. My point is to enforce the same rules, not everyone act like their worst selves. What's high school like these days? It's been a while since I've been this young
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:10 AM
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Not for me. Being alone with the person I enjoy most in the world will always be preferable to a relationship with the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:02 PM
1

What an odd response to what I stated. Bot type shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:38 PM
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Idk who/what you're referring to but I assume it's a person, so my answer will reflect that: The fuck it should. "I am going to be an idiot because this one person is" might be just about the most irrational position a person could take. You're acting like not allowing this other person to be an idiot isn't an option wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:19 PM
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what are you trying to say here because it is not coming out well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:11 PM
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I think it goes down considerably when you lower your standards. Pretty much a guarantee that you'll always be on the hunt for a better option that actually meets your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:37 PM
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I can't even imagine how you made this leap since it didn't follow any sort of logic. Care to explain yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:11 PM
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Are we cool with just posting emotional rants in this sub now?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:10 PM
1

Real. I've lowered my standards plenty of times in the past and that person still couldn't meet them. Best to keep them exactly where they are, because that feeling of never getting what you need to feel fulfilled in your relationship will only lead to resentment. This goes for everyone, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:41 PM
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That sounds like something a child that's never been taught about personal accountability or decency would say. If your world is this difficult, let me assure you that you are getting out of it exactly what you're putting in. Stop bitching and moaning, grow the FUCK up, and take responsibility for yourself because you don't have the authority to live other people's lives for them. I'm not going to respond again. You are committed to being unhappy, so that's exactly what you'll be. Best of luck w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:36 PM
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this is really embarrassing for you. I think it would’ve helped your point a lot if you actually knew what you were trying to quote. It's a command to YOU to treat others as you wish to be treated. You can't really be this dumb 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:01 AM
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No, people really shouldn’t have to earn basic decency and the fact that you think so tells me everything I need to know about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:01 PM
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It's not a virtuous high horse, ya muppet, it's a statement so goddamn obvious I can't believe women even have to tell y'all shit like this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:06 AM
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Makes sense that a bunch of dudes allergic to accountability would be downvoting me taking accountability for my mistake lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:25 PM
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Misunderstanding of science maybe. Men in here regularly post data they don't understand that actually counters the claim they are making. Science is only useful to an argument if you understand it 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:01 PM
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Blue pill isn't an ideology and it's weird that you keep trying to force it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:55 PM
1

Boohoo. Do you ever get sick of listening to yourself whine like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:52 PM
1

That's great. You still don't get to decide for other people. You are NEVER going to be personally considered by all women when making decisions about their life and needlessly bitching about it isn't good to move the needle one bit. You're pissing your time away being a crybaby instead of proactively working to improve your circumstances and frankly, I don't have a gram of sympathy to spare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:47 PM
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You don't get to decide for another if their lens is too rigid. Keep your eyes on your own own. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:35 PM
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Nah commented in the wrong spot. Thought it was a general comment and not a reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:34 PM
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Women shame men that denigrate women they are not sexually interested in. You can just not be attracted to a person, keep that shit to yourself, and continue to treat the person you're not attracted to with basic human decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:09 PM
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I wear one myself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:06 PM
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You have the ability to do whatever the fuck you want. Want to objectify women? Go for it. No one will stop you. They'll just remove you from their life. Have fun. Edit: this was meant to be a general comment to the post and not a reply to the person above
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:00 PM
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I mean, for me personally, never 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:18 AM
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No. You are constantly evolving. That's why what you find appropriate at 15 looks nothing like what you find appropriate at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:25 AM
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You are hijacking my point to try to shoehorn in one that has nothing to do with what I'm discussing, and it really only leaves us with the fact that you are shallow and only match for superficial, so you are not able to continue this discussion at the level I am trying to have it. As such, continuing this discussion is as useless as talking to a bot. You cannot hear what is being said to you, only repackage the same point over and over. You have a very minimal understanding of what I am trying …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:28 PM
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Yes. The point is to be single instead of being with someone that is not appropriate for you. You got it! Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:48 PM
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It's actually so weird that you read that and thought I was only discussing looks and money. Y'all are really never going to get it, are you? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:47 PM
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For me as well. I wish more people would set the highest possible standards for themselves then focus on ensuring they can meet their own standards as they search.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:25 PM
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WHAT?! They did a LEEP with no painkillers? I am so sorry. That should have never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:01 PM
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Why is this so true?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:42 AM
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This is insane. I am so sorry. My doctor had me high as a kite and it was still excruciating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:39 AM
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Literally no one thinks or says a dad bod is Chris Hemsworth with a few extra pounds except men, so it's pretty obvious you're either biologically male (one assumes from the username) or a man pretending to be woman saying shit like this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:13 PM
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I've never gotten hurt from one, but I've noted throughout my life that symptoms/pain are very often dismissed out of hand. Interestingly enough, those same complaints are miraculously investigated if a man is in the room to corroborate what I'm saying. I had a kidney stone a few years ago that I couldn't pass. ER doc wouldn't give me a CT and wrote me off as "drug seeking." Of course I was seeking drugs. It was a kidney stone. I had to call my father to come up there because they tried to disch…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:24 PM
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Ok and? Other people having it easier in life has fuckall to do with how you live YOUR life or the action you should take to improve your circumstances. Missed the entire point of this post, huh? Comparison really is a thief of joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:37 PM
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Your argument is asinine when the entire bottom floor of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs is taken into the argument. Dating is a second tier need. It is in NO way the most important thing in your life, and if you really believe this, go outside and spend the next three days without food, water or shelter, then come back and tell how dating is soooooo important. I'll go through your argument as well, since it is riddled with fallacies and illogical leaps. Historically been the greatest source of mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:05 PM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:54 PM
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This will be just as entertaining as it was a couple of days ago
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:17 PM
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Word. I'll never understand the need to wallow around in things that make one so very unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:16 PM
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Are you saying you are uncomfortable with established medical terminology because it's not masculine? Am I reading this correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:12 PM
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Nah that's a woman that was WILD about you to put up with stinky you for that long 🤣 I'm happy to hear you took that constructively! I bet it took her a minute to work up the courage to say it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:37 PM
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Imagine thinking dating is the most important thing in life 🤣🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:33 PM
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This is the dumbest fucking thing I have ever read here and goddamn that is the steepest competition on the planet. That man was executed by the US government in broad daylight and you want to put the blame for edited photos on women? For what? What does pinning blame on women in this situation do? How does it help the larger view of the situation? How does it help you personally? It doesn't. You're a fucking embarrassment. Congratulations, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:18 PM
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I think the choice to work on your own physical and mental health will pay huge dividends. Since you gave such a thoughtful response, I'm going to give equal thought to connecting every dot on why I think what you have chosen to do with your life is so, so very important. This isn't me being condescending or argumentative. Something about the way you worded your response just brought this to mind for me, so I hope you take this in the way it's offered: sincerely. I didn't love, or even like, mys…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:27 PM
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"I don't view sex as transactional." You should probably check in on this belief then considering you wrote an entire post about you view sex transactionally 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:49 AM
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Yes. I say this to pretty much anyone bitching about an unfair world while refusing to do something productive about it, regardless of gender. I realize you wouldn't understand anything about this, but some of us actually live the ideals we espouse. Maybe you'll get there one day. Or maybe you'll still be here in ten years, bitching about the same shit. It's your CHOICE either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:44 AM
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There's nothing to debate here. You refuse to take accountability for what you can control in your life and would rather bitch on Reddit about how hard your life is. That's your CHOICE. You decided to be miserable then point your finger at others because you are miserable. Sounds to me like you got exactly what you were after. Mission accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:54 AM
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You are making the CHOICE to be on the apps. You chose that. You could have just as easily said "I refuse to take part this bullshit" and focused on yourself, yet you chose not to do that. Stop pretending like you do not have control over your own life and your own actions. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:51 PM
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Literally nothing you have said is correct. Just demonstrating more cope you tell yourself to self-soothe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:11 PM
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Don't sweat this dude. He’s like the chief resident of the autistic trolls in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:10 PM
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You just got a very clear explanation and refused to hear it 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:09 PM
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That is a fairytale you tell yourself to feel better about whatever position you are in in this life. Just because you tell yourself this kind of shit to self-soothe doesn’t make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:18 PM
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They'll just be alone. I see men mad about it here every day. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:59 AM
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It certainly does. Self-respecting women don't feel "special" when men do shit like this. None of us are "different from other women" to a degree that it would remove us from being lumped in with the rest so it's pretty easy to spot the manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:07 PM
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you literally just answered your own question
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:49 PM
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I didn't say or imply any of that shit. You know you can read what someone said without assigning your feelings and personal motivations to it, right? 🙄 I said that mutual tolerance of contempt is a selection filter. It correlates with instability and/or transactional dynamics, not healthy attachment. If your goal is simply to get laid, that may not matter. If your goal is anything else, it absolutely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:52 PM
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Son, that is irrational and you know it. Reveling in hatred isn't "weaning" you off women. It's making you look sad, desperate and obsessed. If you want to actually make significant progress you need to stop the rumination, and people rarely are able to do that without external help. Even something as simple as opening an AI and getting an external perspective that isn't mired in your personal feelings can help provide clarity. I'm dead serious here, if you're willing to try it, DM and I'll drop…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:47 PM
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Weird. I don't think about people I'm not interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:27 AM
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They think it gives them a pass and makes their position more reasonable. It's "logic" along the lines of "I can't be racist because I'm friendly with one single person from the race I just disparaged"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:51 AM
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Yet they post under red pill flare every day. I just posted on the comment above about how the members of any given group with the most visibility are the ones that set the public's perception of it. Red Pill IS black pill now in the public eye. I won't repeat all of that, but they fundamentally altered what RP stood for when they became the loudest voices in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:53 AM
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And you shouldn't. This ideology impacted you in a positive way. How others use that same ideology shouldn't alter how you do. I'm not going to stop taking Sudafed when I have a cold because people misuse it to make meth, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:45 AM
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I'm aware they're black pill, but are they? I want to be clear before you read further: I'm NOT disagreeing with you. At all. I'm not trying to argue here, simply discuss. They are black pill. HOWEVER most use red pill flair. They are the ones posting in this and in other subs, creating content for other social media, and successfully associating their particular brand of failed parenting and identity crises so firmly with RP that I don't think you'll ever be able to create the dichotomy in most…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:32 AM
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New RP is right here in this sub writing posts about how they're giving up on life because all women are whores that only sleep with Chad so why should they bother with manners or basic human decency. Old RP is here as well, though. Look for the responses from RP men that focus on self-improvement and optimizing your own life with no hint of self-pity and you'll find them!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:48 PM
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Sure bud. Let me know how the next psycho, gold digger, or gold digging psycho you date treats you, yeah? Mentally healthy people don't fuck with blatant disrespect in their day to day. The only women willing to insert that kind of misogyny in their life are either so desperate for love and affection they'll take anything or their motivation for being with you is personal gain and your behavior isn't a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:44 PM
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I think the way he specifically discusses women affects his chances because only the saddest and most desperate amongst us women would willingly consider a man that says "women do not deserve goodwill" as a viable partner. His target audience is seeing this kind of attitude and running in the other direction. See his response to my comment below for source of quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:02 PM
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Confirmation bias exists within the scientific community just like anywhere else, but being able to understand the data, research/test methods, and results is what allows you to spot the bullshit in the methods and interpretations. It's knowledge worth considering.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:58 PM
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Oh, were we commenting on a post where a woman wrote those things then? Or did you just want to bring up a point that has fuckall to do with THIS post and my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:55 PM
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For real. I'm not one to recommend TRP (in today's form, y'all were cool way back) but even I can recognize it as a better alternative than giving up and waiting to die. I know men in here roll their eyes at the suggestion of therapy, but might be worth considering that medical intervention might be necessary. I couldn't imagine looking at my own potential and what I'll to with the years ahead only to determine that I'll just be miserable until I die.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:54 PM
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Gotta make your own fun in this world.. Enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:33 AM
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Idk. Watching these guys use data that disproves the point they are making is usually pretty good for a laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:33 AM
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Brother, it sounds like the only thing stopping you from being and feeling masculine is yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:20 AM
1

Hahaha gotta agree here. Name will get a pass if both names are one-syllable but I won't enjoy using it🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:51 AM
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Why are you bothering us to ask us this question when you’ve already provided the answers you’ve been previously given in the post? I have a couple of question for you now: how will obsessing about a woman’s prior partners in any way help you succeed with women? Do you think women are frequently overcome with sexual desire at the sight of men’s insecurity in a whiny Reddit post? What are you after here? If you were in here seeking to learn, you would’ve asked the question and left all of your pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:38 AM
5

based take. most metal last name should always be the winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:31 PM
1

It would be really, really great if people took the time to understand the data and research they cite. It's hard to take people seriously after they have proven to me that they are either too uneducated to understand the concepts or too willing to make shit up to satisfy their confirmation bias instead of seeking to actually understand and learn from the information they're presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:22 PM
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you’re not curing herpes with antibiotics, boss
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:14 PM
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Women don't chase you. Most women are willing to chase men they're interested in. Are we just avoiding the logical conclusion to spare your feelings here or what, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:11 PM
1

not that it matters since you’ve deleted your post ya fucking pussy 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:24 PM
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What question? The fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:24 PM
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No thanks. I can just watch CSPAN if I want to see people lie to themselves and everyone around them in order to control a narrative no one asked them for. If misinterpreting data, confidently telling the world your misinterpretation, and then refusing to listen to people when they tell you that you are 100% absolutely dead fucking wrong about how you are reading that data, then by all means, best of luck with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:23 PM
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Uh, ok? Bro my response was using "you" generally to answer the posted topic, not to talk to you as an individual about your personal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:20 PM
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When people say "be yourself" they mean "continue showing passion about your interests but maybe make an effort improve your manners and delivery when on a date." I don't really understand the disconnect here. Who else are you trying to be? Lying about your interests and values only serves to pollute every action and conversation within the relationship when the other person realizes that if you'll lie about something as silly as your hobbies, you're comfortable lying about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:00 PM
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Hahahahaha are you fucking kidding? This is what you offer in response? Try for some peer reviewed data because bullshit manipulated by podcast bros to satisfy the confirmation bias of their much stupider audience ain't it, chief. I'll never stop laughing at this. Cheers 🤣 Edit: Oh sorry, I just realized you need this spelled out for you and I neglected to do that. What you just wrote does not equal the graph you shared and if you can't figure out the difference, then you really have no goddamn …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:42 AM
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Getting a gun won't make a difference in most situations unless that person has the temperament or training to keep a cool head in distinctly uncool situations. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:58 AM
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I think it's whiny when individual adults bitch and moan about the parts of their lives that are fully within their own control. I don't bitch about my man not doing chores because I wouldn't date a man like that. Refusing to tolerate bum behavior from capable adults is a CHOICE I routinely make. Refusing to mommy useless men could have meant that I was going to spend my entire life alone, yet I still made that choice every time because being with a useless man, to me, is more of a punishment th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:51 AM
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I'd assume because guns are expensive and getting a license is a raging pain in the ass. Beyond that, if you didn't grow up around guns or aren't currently friends with someone that will take you to a range, there's a barrier to entry. Most people won't even go to dinner by themselves, much less check out a dangerous hobby without any sort social incentive involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:34 AM
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Not one piece of this whiny, life-is-so-unfair rant disproves that you are still making the CHOICE to do these things. You go an a date, tell the waitress to split the checks, pay yours, and leave. If the woman doesn't want to speak to you again after that, you still made the CHOICE that led you there. The only person out of touch with anything here is you with personal accountability. No one is responsible for your personal issues and it's outrageous to expect that when you refuse to take accou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:29 AM
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All of that falls down when one considers that men have the option to simply not date women that do not go 50/50. This is a problem entirely of your own making. Are you saying you're not responsible for your own choices and actions because you perceive women to not be responsible for theirs? Is that what you're saying here? You do need a mommy. Grow up, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:11 AM
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"Why doesn't my mommy draw me up a list of chores if she wants help?" Oh yeah! Because she's not your fucking mom. I love that your solution to men not doing more in the home is to ask for women to give them a list of chores. Jfc do y'all want an allowance as well? This shit is why you're single
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:50 AM
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I have guns. The fuck is this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:47 AM
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You're always so overconfident when you're spewing utter shit. You’re looking at a 23-point divergence between genders* and asking which group radicalized as if movement from that specific midpoint proves anything. That’s like watching two people walk away from each other and declaring whoever took more steps the problem. You’re both moving, genius. What the data actually shows: men's and women’s political preferences are diverging. Both groups moved. Declaring the group that moved more is “obje…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:24 AM
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You do realize that when you respond to a person in a debate sub that means you are responding to their point? Did you just decide to make this random announcement in a reply to me and expect no response? Whatever your reasoning, I'm confident it is not sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:53 AM
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You will not assign the actions of others or your feelings about them to me. Talk TO ME or fuck off because I don't give a good goddamn about your bitterness about the women that hurt you. You're not debating faceless women. You are talking to me personally. So do you have anything to contribute or did you just want to be a fucking crybaby?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:35 AM
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^ case in point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:53 PM
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I wish they understood how obvious their insecurities and motivations are when they write things like this. The secondhand embarrassment I feel for them is visceral.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:48 PM
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I see. You can't defend this. You just wanted a circle jerk but the sub rules wouldn't let you post this to the other woman haters in here. 🤣 Well that's me done arguing with bots (or humans that are so one-dimensional the difference is negligible) for the day. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:45 PM
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You're in a debate sub I frequent. If I've interacted with you, it's not surprising I don't remember if this is the type of bullshit you regularly post. I don't reserve active memory for bots and desperate men that spend their time hating the women that don't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:39 PM
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You presented a moral sentencing and called it a question, got pushback about your bad faith post, then tried some of the most hilariously clumsy manipulation tactics I've ever seen in response. Your post already decided that single mothers are failures, selfish, and stupid. At that point, disagreement with you isn't lashing out so much as letting you know that I'm aware that you asked this in bad faith and shouldn't be given anything but disdain and vitriol in the responses you receive. And now…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:34 PM
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She didn't holler. She's laughing at your plea for someone, anyone, to give you a modicum of attention, since the single moms won't give it to you 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:17 PM
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Y'all are so funny with this "hurt you" shit. You didn't. I don't have children. I'm just sick of y'all coming in here looking to write terrible things about women to women. If you don't like single moms then leave them the fuck alone. It is exactly that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:14 PM
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It's always hilarious. Imagine spending this much time worried about people that don't know you exist and wouldn't care if they found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:12 PM
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This isn't a question you actually want an answer to bffr. You just wanted a platform to be a shitbag about single moms. If you want to know the answers to those questions, ask an actual single mom and lose the fucking judgement when you do it. I'm willing to bet that you're in NO position to be judging others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:11 PM
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Like I give a fuck. Worth it to tell you to stop acting like a dick as if you have the right to tell others that to say and how to be. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:50 PM
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And I’m telling you you’re on a public forum and you aren't in charge, so why don’t you stop policing people‘s behavior and just shut the fuck up yourself since you do not have anything valuable to add. We've already seen your needless bitching, woe-is-me attitude, and lack of social skills so there's nothing further you need to share that we don't already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:58 PM
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Strangers don't want to hear about your sex life. Not talking to them about it is simply using basic manners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 11:19 PM
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Got a real bad habit of telling people to stop talking. You really should take your own advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 11:15 PM
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You're on a public forum dude. The whole point is for people to talk to you. if you don’t like that, fuck off out of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:02 PM
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Hahaha you certainly didn't hurt me. You don't even hurt the women you're trying to insult. That's the entire point. No one is hurt by this. You're just communicating to the world that women would rather live alone with pets than with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:20 AM
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That sounds like a whole bunch of shit you tell yourself as cope. Whatever helps you sleep at night dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 07:22 PM
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Wow. You managed to fit an impressive amount of misunderstanding into that short statement. Your appetite argument assumes hunger scales linearly with body size. It doesn’t. Appetite is regulated by ghrelin, leptin, insulin, and gut peptides, not just body size. A 5’2 woman doesn’t automatically have proportionally smaller hunger signals than a 6’2 man. Metabolic rate scales with body mass. Appetite regulation doesn’t scale cleanly. Estrogen directly affects insulin sensitivity (fat storage effi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 12:05 AM
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Are you sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:41 PM
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I always genuinely liked the old red pill guys, even if I considered most of them wannabe players, or actual players for the ones that were successful. I was a big fan of the messaging around personal accountability that was so common and I really miss it. New RP is nothing but identity crises, blaming others for their problems, going out of their way to be miserable and unpleasant, and then raging that women don’t like miserable, unpleasant men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:20 PM
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maybe you should read the rules before you post in a new sub you found
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:10 PM
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Oh, then why do you care? Is there a reason other than you just wanted to insult women that don’t like you? I worded my comment that way because your "insult" implies that a life with you would be preferable to a life of cats, and well... those women certainly don’t seem to feel that way, now do they? You’re trying to insult people with something they do not see as an insult. The greater insult would be having you in their life as opposed to their cats. How are you not grasping this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:58 PM
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Bitching about "crazy cat ladies" is such an own goal. You get that you're trying to insult someone because they'd rather live alone with a pet for the rest of their lives than have anything to do with you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:23 PM
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Why are you asking us to explain why strangers find certain things attractive and not others? How in the actual fuck do you expect us to be able to provide you this answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:14 PM
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Big yikes to you being this shitty while also being this ignorant. Cluster analysis is a statistical method that finds groups, or CLUSTERS, of people who give similar answers on surveys. If you measure dozens of personality traits, interests, and values, you find that people naturally group together. The "normative" part means this cluster's traits align with traditional social norms. The "natural" part refers to the statistical clustering, not a value judgment. The comment you're mocking is acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:12 AM
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This is how every single social interaction works, and it's not just men that need to me aware of social norms and the rules of the game. It IS intricate because humans are intricate and diverse. You need social skills to make friends, date, succeed at work, feel connected to your community, etc.. They're also not that hard to form if you're willing to fail while you learn to succeed, so stop bitching and just go fucking so it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:12 AM
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But blue pill does thought. What an outstanding typo lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:01 AM
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I would for sure brush everything you just described off as insecurity because that's exactly what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:55 PM
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Yikes. Sir... it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:53 PM
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Love encountering such unexpectedly based threads in the wilds of PPD. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:44 AM
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Keep your eyes on your own work. Your desire to shame others for not living as you do suggests you do not have the ability to defend your position logically and calmly. If you could, you'd, ya know, just do that, instead of this public display of jealousy at the women that dare to enjoy their lives when you don't. You have not offered a single benefit that comes from shaming others for their sex lives, other than letting other people know up front that you're small minded and probably not much f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:35 AM
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I'm sure I would certainly elaborate with someone that needs a pep talk. What in the actual fuck are you trying to argue here? Or are you just embarrassed that you misread and are now just spouting shit because it's easier than admitting you misinterpreted my words?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:58 AM
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Imagine telling gay people that being judged is a fact of life? I have. It is. Other people judging you is none of your business. Keep your eyes on your own work and let the ones judging you stay miserable. Much like I'm doing right now with you. Untwist your panties and improve your reading comprehension or die mad. Doesn't affect me either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:44 AM
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Same. I don't consider myself arguing in here since I have zero emotional investment in anything debated. I just like watching how people's brains work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:48 PM
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Consideration is the highest form of love for me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:55 PM
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Why is it a contradiction to point out how often a topic is brought up? Here's a better question: Does any of this shit personally affect your life? Are you actually dating someone this young or are you just in here making up shit to be mad about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:33 PM
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I asked the person I was specifically responded to why they seemed invested in victimhood framing. It was a response to his comment about how men can't be victims, which I did not say and do not agree with. They certainly can be victims, but they're not victims just because they're men, any more than women are just for being women. That’s not dismissing men’s issues, rather asking why they need to frame legitimate problems through a personal grievance lens instead of systemic analysis. You can d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:25 PM
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You are an adult. Date other adults and stop asking for permission from strangers to do it. If you don't want to be judged, tough. Humans are judgemental. Do what you want and stop insisting we give a shit about this topic, because we don't. If you can't find people your own age to date you, trust that people already know the reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:16 PM
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Preach. They ask the same tired shit over and over. They get the same answers in return. If you, a grown man, want to date a barely legal adult, go for it. Nothing is stopping you but your ability to get someone that age to talk to you. I won't be putting such a person and their high schooler on any dinner party invites, but let's be serious, if anyone is dating someone that young, they wouldn't have fit in with the rest of the group anyway, so no harm, no foul.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:14 PM
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You're reading what you want, not what I wrote. Point to where I said what you're implying. Go on. I'll fucking wait. It's one thing to discuss the issues men face. It's an entirely different one to get on Reddit pointing fingers and blaming women for your issues. We can easily discuss systemic issues without casting blame, but no one can debate feelings and personal issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:02 PM
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Do I need to call emergency services?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 11:04 PM
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Are you sure you know what irony is? You're not demonstrating a great track record with definitions in this thread...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 09:03 PM
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Giving you the definition of a word isn't gaslighting 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:56 PM
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Hahahaha what a novel way to tell the world you don't understand what an ad hominem attack is. Let me help you out here dude. Ad hominem is dismissing an argument by attacking the person making it, i.e. you’re wrong because you’re stupid. I critiqued your METHOD, not your person. You keep strawmanning by assigning me motivations I never expressed, then arguing against that instead of what I actually said. If anything, you opened with ad hominem by dismissing my stated experiences as hypergamy in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:34 PM
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My argument was stop putting words in my mouth and assigning emotions and experiences that do not belong to me. Are you slow or just being willfully obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:07 PM
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Again, you're making assumptions, not basing your statements in facts. This makes you look ignorant and pathetic. You're clearly grasping at any narrative you can to continue avoiding the cognitive dissonance of admitting you made shit up and got called on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:04 PM
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DARVO. Stop doing abuser shit in this sub. Y'all provoke a reaction then attack people for having the reaction. Are you an abuser? Is that why you're so comfortable with this behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:54 PM
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Y'all just force your own views and opinions onto every situation and other people instead of seeking to understand what they are actually saying to you. It is the single most detrimental thing you could be doing in your life. You're forcing emotion and context on people that did not give you consent to do so, proving that you don't respect consent at all. Understand that this bullshit effectively cuts people out of your life because no one wants to be around someone that tries to force them int…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:51 PM
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Learning who you are, what you value and what you require in a relationship to actually feel loved is literally everyone's personal challenge and is a key part of growing as an adult. Maybe you'll get there one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:13 PM
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Your reading comprehension could use improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:09 AM
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Stop reading what you want and read what I fucking wrote. I have fucked up in relationships. I have grown and learned until I was the type of person I wanted to be in a relationship with and when I did that, I found that person pretty easily. Stop looking any further than yourself if you want someone to blame. Yes, society sucks. Yes, you have your own unique set of challenges. They may even be worse than the challenges others have, but that does not mean other people don't face their own. Your …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:18 AM
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I've failed a lot in relationships. It's how I learned what I needed to not to settle for someone that isn't right for me. Again, get a fucking grip. This fairy tale you're telling yourself benefits you not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:12 AM
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This shit is silly. I fail all the time. It's how I learn how not to fail in the future. The fuck even is this post? Root yourself in reality, not identity crisis and externalized blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:09 AM
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What's your point? How does your whataboutism here inform anything I said? Explain yourself with actual logic or take your unstable, bad-faith contributions elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:35 AM
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Ok and? What solutions are you proposing? Or are you just here to bitch about how much harder you think your life is in comparison to the lives of people you know nothing about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:13 PM
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If you're not embarrassed, you sure as fuck should be. Good luck with your life. I feel like you're going to need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:17 PM
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Neat. Is that the story you're telling yourself as comfort after getting called out for being an idiot? How interesting to observe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:17 PM
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Nice try, but I'm not the correct person to test out your shitty DARVO tactics with. You started by accusing me of using AI instead of engaging with what I wrote. Now that the discussion isn’t going your way, you’re switching to “well I didn’t disagree with you at all” and painting my replies as defensive. That’s a classic reversal. You're trying to make me look like the problem when you were the one who came in with accusations. If you had nothing to refute, why comment at all? If you want to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:30 PM
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You made me curious enough to actually consult an AI. A fresh instance in ChatGPT can also spot that you're behaving like an insecure asshole, so the real question here is why can't you? https://chatgpt.com/share/6939b92f-2e94-8000-a883-8a69bcb4e04a
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:19 PM
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Ok? This is how I write, especially during working hours when my business voice bleeds through, and I was at work when I made that comment. If it makes you feel superior to tell yourself whatever it is you're telling yourself here, then I hope you get whatever you need out of this, but it doesn't change reality. It also doesn't negate anything I've written. It just makes you look insecure, so maybe your time would be better spent figuring out why what I wrote made you feel as if you needed deval…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:59 PM
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It's also a marker of trying to explain things to people who do not see the world in the same way you do. You realize that AI was trained on human data and not vice versa, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:33 PM
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It makes no sense to post the same shit over and over and over. It's the same conversation. The answers don't change. More, the people posting the same tired things about passport bros aren't even passport bros themselves, so what purpose does it serve here other than fishing for new ways to hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:31 PM
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Aww. Did you not get immediate validation for posting the same tired shit we see over and over? That must be devastating for you to not get an outsized reward for this lazy copy/paste job. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:47 PM
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Hahahaha bold of you to tell someone to touch grass after posting this insecure, terminally-online bullshit. If you want to go to another country to find a partner, do it. You don't need to run it by reddit first. What's the point of all this? Why was your post targeted to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:58 PM
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There's a search function. It's super helpful when one wants to check if the bad faith bullshit they're about to post has been covered ad nauseam before.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:42 PM
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I find it crazy how men in this sub never tire of this topic. You get the same answers over and over and over, and here you fucking go, posting the millionth iteration of this silly shit. 🙄 Mods need to ban this topic. I'm sick of seeing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:11 PM
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Except we women don't have to "sacrifice" in this way and no amount of weird bitching on a Reddit thread is going to change that. The choices are to either subdue women by force or to adapt yourself to live in the world you find yourself in. I think you should figure out how to adapt, because while you may enjoy weird fantasies about subjugating women, the majority of people in the west, men included, don't share your views.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:59 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2025/10/16/8-facts-about-divorce-in-the-united-states/ https://preview.redd.it/q2ye8rs2n86g1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3ca95772c5b39ef4fb99d1fc9d46017883d0a518
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:27 PM
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I don’t see it that way. By most metrics (violent crime, extreme poverty, literacy, life expectancy) we’re doing better than 20 or 50 years ago. Mass shootings are horrific but they’re not evidence of societal collapse any more than serial killers were in the 70s. The nobody wants marriage or kids thing also doesn’t match data. Marriage rates are down, but relationship satisfaction among people who do marry is up. Birth rates are falling in wealthy countries globally, including ones where women …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:34 PM
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In my past experience, it only felt like betrayal if I passed when a guy friend took his shot and he dropped the entire friendship as a result when he didn't get his way. I'm not speaking on the guy's motivations because I'm not in his head, but for my part, it made every bit of friendship that came before that point feel false. Edited to fix an extraordinarily unclear sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:15 PM
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I get that the pace of change feels destabilizing. But “regress to the mean” assumes there was ever a stable mean. Your grandfather probably thought women working outside the home was too fast. His grandfather thought letting them own property was radical. Every generation thinks their version is natural and anything different is chaos. We’ve never agreed on fundamentals. The difference now is more people have voices in the argument, so the debate is louder and messier, but it’s not really new. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:10 PM
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Neat. It was written by me. When people respond to me in good faith here, I take the time to respond thoughtfully and thoroughly. Anything you want to refute with the actual content of what I wrote, or did you just want to attempt to invalidate me because you don't like the way I write? It's it's the former, please make your case. If it's the latter, your opinion of my writing style contributes absolutely nothing to this discussion, so why the fuck are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:01 PM
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On selective service: You’re right that it’s a double standard. Men must register for the draft at 18, while women don’t, yet both can vote to send those men to war. That’s inherently unfair. It’s worth noting that legislation to include women in Selective Service has been introduced multiple times, but keeps getting blocked. So it’s not that no one has tried to fix it so much as there’s no political consensus. At this point, it makes more sense to question the motives of those in office who vot…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:48 PM
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I wasn’t defining what liberalism is. I was describing what risk feels more urgent to liberals when making decisions. Those are different levels of analysis. You can have personal desire as your foundation and still operationally worry about adaptation/stagnation risk when it comes to policy. The worry doesn’t define the ideology, it’s just what makes certain changes feel necessary or dangerous. But yeah, if you’re talking about foundational philosophy, then for the purposes of what you're discu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:40 PM
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That’s a real pattern but I don’t think it’s gender-specific. Same dynamic exists with anyone who has protection buffers. Wealthy heirs, connected executives, politicians with donors. Protection creates accountability gaps regardless of source. Upper-class women got massive coddling historically. Working-class women got brutal accountability constantly. So it’s not “women are protected” so much as it’s “economic/social buffers prevent consequences, and gender sometimes determines who gets those …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:26 PM
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Yeah you got me on the Hawking thing, that didn’t work the way I set it up. Better version would be something like aging generals who can’t physically fight anymore still run wars because strategic thinking isn’t the same as combat ability. The domain matters. You’ve actually moved this to something worth discussing though. The real question isn’t “can women accept reality” but rather whether anyone who’s ideologically committed to something can see past it. That applies to everyone. On the data…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:21 PM
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This is a kafkatrap disguised as geopolitical analysis. I'll break down why the reasoning fails. The premise creates a no-win scenario: women who acknowledge needing protection are admitting weakness,, women who don’t are denying reality. That’s rigged framing. Men also need protection (police, military, legal infrastructure), but we don’t conclude their political reasoning is invalid because of it. The actual fallacy is conflating physical vulnerability with reasoning capacity. By that logic, S…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:33 PM
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Bro nobody is interested in that shit here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:59 AM
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That's quite a fantasy you're building up in your head instead of dealing with the truth of what I'm saying. It doesn't have to be this hard dude. Sort your shit out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:46 PM
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I actually think both sexes have a hard time grasping this one, but it certainly skews heavier on the male* side here: everyone is fundamentally looking for the same thing. Everyone wants to feel safe and special and loved. Everyone wants a partner that loves and respects them and that they return those feelings to. someone to build a life with, to share the hard parts and celebrate the good ones, to work through problems with and figure out how to succeed together. Y'all spend so much time in h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:19 AM
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Hey just so we're clear, the only thing you are accomplishing with your personal attacks and hilariously poor arguments is giving me something to laugh about on the way to dinner, because you're sure not debating here. You're just throwing a tantrum because you said something stupid and a woman called you on it. Take your weak ass DARVO bullshit back where it came from and hear me when I say this: I do not give a fuck about you, your opinion, your views on my life, or really anything in the worl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:51 PM
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Bro making shit up just makes you look ignorant. The majority of women aren't single mothers. Stop fucking lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:45 PM
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Ok? Not really sure where you're going with this since it's a good thing. Everyone should be equal under the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:42 AM
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Ok but you’re talking like women owe you empathy before you do any work yourself. Recognition is step 1. Actually participating in the change you want is step 2. Right now you’re asking for treatment you’re not willing to model. If your goal is women being less sexist maybe stop reinforcing every stereotype they already have about guys who talk like this. Posting blame monologues isn’t activism. If you want people to take men’s issues seriously, show the behavior you’re demanding. Otherwise you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:07 PM
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Cool. Shouldn't he be willing to do the same as what he's asking for? Also, how does posting diatribes blaming women for your problems here on Reddit help to accomplish the goal of women being less sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:10 PM
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I mean, you could just share your perspective without fighting an invisible enemy from the rip. Most people will listen to your problems right up until you try to make them anyone's responsibility but your own. So why are you framing this like you're being attacked?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:29 AM
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I'm asking because I see women try to offer understanding or ask about men's experience in here all the time but it gets ignored or it's implied that the person wasn't being genuine. I'm asking what you need to hear from people to believe they're genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:07 AM
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I'm in no way disagreeing that men have issues, but why do you personally want to be a victim so much? I feel like you're demanding people care about your problems as much as you do, which means nothing they ever do and no amount of understanding is ever going to be enough to satisfy you, so I'm genuinely asking what you're trying to get out of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:07 PM
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Stop building your entire worldview around how you imagine women see you. The only thing you're going to accomplish with this strategy is ensuring that happiness, relationships, and self-respect forever elude you. Nobody is sitting around thinking about you. Nobody is tracking your moral progress. Nobody is waiting to punish you for existing. People are busy living their own lives and don't think about you half as much as you think they do and/or wish they would. This post is such an odd a mix o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:36 AM
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Do you not think your own claim is hyperbolic? I'm genuinely asking. Are you able to apply the same level of analysis you apply to women's words and actions to your own? If so, do you regularly do so to ensure that you aren't guilty of the very things you take issue with in others? Food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:40 AM
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Idk dude. I'm not a giant pussy and have no issue being honest and upfront about who I am and what my intentions are, so when I read things like what you just posted, it sounds a whole lot like you're trying to make your own weaknesses other people's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:11 PM
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Who gives a shit if it's mental illness or immaturity? She's got issues whatever the cause. Leave that girl to her own devices.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:22 PM
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Stop shifting goalposts. You asked if the 80/20 rule exists. I answered It's great that the men in your self-admitted small circle are well groomed, but why do you assume that everyone shares your experience in this world? You're dismissing what women are saying out of hand because you don't see it personally in your own life, yet you want people to give your opinions consideration you're not willing to return to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:10 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:26 AM
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Brother, people with lived experience can give examples from their own perspective. They can explain why they formed the beliefs they have. You have parroted the same tired bullshit we read in here every day with all the finesse of a B-grade bot meaning you are, in fact, a B-grade bot, or you're a man radicalizing yourself against an entire gender because you're too much of a coward to figure out why you hold the beliefs you do. That's why I'm demanding you speak like a person with actual experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:38 AM
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If 90% of men were universally unattractive, every woman would be dating the same guy. Clearly that isn’t happening. You only have to go outside and use your own eyes to observe couples around you to see the truth of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:30 AM
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Metaphors are fine. Treating a metaphor like scientific law is where you lose the plot. You understand that mathematics and vibes are not the same thing, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:41 AM
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Solid rebuttal. Seems like you put a lot of thought and effort into that. 🥴🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:38 AM
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Pareto principle is solid for figuring out where to put your resources to solve issues in manufacturing, but pretty shit on live systems, as it grossly oversimplifies and is a known limitation. It's weird how attached some of y'all are to using management consultant math to explain dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:26 AM
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I hear what you're saying and I’m always willing to hear someone’s actual experience, even if I interpret the causes differently from the outside. Real experiences are always worth talking about. If you want to go into the finer points of yours, I'm all ears. What I take issue with in this sub is how often the posts aren’t rooted in someone’s lived reality. They’re recycled talking points from podcasts and ragebait accounts designed to stir up anger for clicks. If someone is forming their entire…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:41 PM
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I want to be very clear here. I'm not defending shitty women. There are just as many shitty, useless women as there are shitty, useless men. Bad actors are a fact of life. At a certain point though, if those are the only types of people you are interacting with, it becomes solely your responsibility to figure out what about those people makes you attracted to them and why. I see men in here complain about paying for dates with a comment history full of statements about wanting a traditional woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:42 PM
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Exactly. No one cares about your preferences until you try to frame it as some sort of moral failing on the other person's part. Everyone is entitled to like what they like. People really only get pushback on their preferences when they are stated in a judgemental way. There's a world of difference between "I am a virgin and saving sex for marriage is important to me so I'm looking for a partner with the same values" and "you're a whore for having a high n-count"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:50 PM
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No, you misunderstood. I said you see dating as punishment. Observations from others only feel like insults when they hit too close to home for comfort. Nothing you’ve written suggests you’re describing your own experiences. It reads like something you were told to believe rather than something you lived. That’s why I asked those questions. I was trying to understand whether this perspective comes from actual interactions with women or from online spaces that frame women as transactional by defa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:21 PM
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You didn't answer a single question. I'm going to take that to mean that this is, indeed, a rage fantasy, and that you have little to no actual experience with women. You're right. They don't expect it because the men I date aren't looking for a reason to punish women. They actually enjoy going on dates. When I've encountered a man that thinks as you do, I pay the bill in full and let them know I did it because i wanted them to know it was done so they could walk out of there knowing I didn't ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:51 PM
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I have a few questions. How often are you personally being expected expected to pay for things? How many dates have you been on recently? Does any of what you just said actually apply to your life or is this some rage fantasy from a man that gets absolutely no attention from women and is looking for reasons to hate them? I think context is important here because it is actually the easiest thing on the planet to not pay for dates if you are upfront about your intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:57 PM
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Thanks for absolutely doing nothing to contribute to this discussion. So happy you were here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:25 AM
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Congrats on typing all those words without making a single point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:03 PM
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Boohoo. Y'all wish women were as bad as you claim they are in this sub because it helps you deal with the crippling reality that they don't want anything to do with you. Look, I get how hard that is, but making the thing you most desire into your enemy only serves to further divide you from it. Stop casting blame and start learning to deal with this in a healthy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:48 PM
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I see men complaining about this one million times more here than I see women complaining about it anywhere. Why don't you at least be honest with your intent here and just admit that you personally have a problem with this and state that you wish women would approach you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:45 PM
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I think we should always be authentic and transparent about who we are and our intentions in every area of our lives. You're destroying any potential relationship and your own reputation off the jump by misrepresenting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:19 PM
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I can't imagine how you took that from anything I have said. If you can't argue your own point, I'm not going to do it for you. I think we're done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:28 AM
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Ok so that's a no to explaining how biology is causing the "gender war" or providing data to back it up. Thanks for stopping by.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:13 AM
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If this was truly hardwired biology, we'd see the same patterns repeated everywhere. We don't. We see hostility spike where algorithms profit from outrage and feeding us weaponized stereotypes. You just listed modern dating complaints and called them evolutionary biology, but real talk your claims are more grounded in TikTok discourse than science and are kinda proving my point. You're parroting the exact content designed to keep you scrolling, arguing, and buying stuff. You've internalized the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:20 PM
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What does that have to do with the point you were trying to make? I never said there isn't hostility. Look where we’re posting, after all. I’m just saying your explanation for why it exists is off. You’re pointing at biology when the far cleaner explanation is behavioral manipulation through marketing, social media, and engagement farming. The anger is real. The cause you named isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:45 PM
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You’ve listed some basic biological averages. Neat. Now do the actual work I asked for and explain the logic. How does "men are hornier" logically necessitate a culture war on X? How does physical strength create online arguments about who should pay for dates? You made a sweeping claim about causality. Connect the dots. I’m waiting for the actual argument, but if you'd rather discuss how a woman winds up making weak biological arguments excusing men from accountability on Reddit instead of exam…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:06 PM
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They really don't
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:43 PM
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Oh yeah? Why don't you go ahead and walk the class through that logic. Go on. Edited to add, I expect you to be able to argue this clearly. If you are going to do this with me using vibes and feelings, understand that I am going to tear into every half-formed idea you copied from a podcast bro and instead focus on how your insecurities have led you to being exactly the market these men are targeting. Ready when you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:26 PM
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The gender war is nothing but a tool for corporations to keep you engaged and sell you shit you don't want or need. Every ragebait social media post you interact with has been specifically manufactured to piss you off enough to drive engagement and ad sales. Learn to recognized when your behavior and emotions are being engineered and stop giving them what they want. That being said, I oppose anyone of any gender or ideology that blames others for their problems while taking zero accountability f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:38 PM
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This entire post reads like you’re begging strangers to reassure you that women secretly want the men they openly avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:28 PM
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I've never been so embarrassed for another human as I am for you in this moment. You're acting like I haven’t done basic arithmetic when the researchers already did it FOR us and put it in easy-to-read charts. Well, easy for everyone but you. Son, I mean this genuinely: you need to get a fucking grip on your own sanity right now. If you need to put this much effort into twisting data to suit your narrative, than that's a narrative you should no longer perpetuate. I'm not going to answer you agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:41 AM
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Bro can you fucking read? 🤣 You're constructing a hypothetical that is DIRECTLY CONTRADICTED BY THE SOURCE YOU POSTED. Education didn't fail you. You failed your education
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:38 PM
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Yes, 55% is more than 45%. You finally got a number right. Now try reading the part of your own link that explains that in those same relationships, wives still do more overall labor. Percentages don’t save you from literacy. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:25 PM
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"No wait don't look at the parts that are so prevalent in the data they made it the subheadline when presenting it!" 🥴 You’re bitching at me to “look at the data” while ignoring the part Pew thought was important enough to put AT THE VERY TOP SO YOU WOULDN'T MISS IT. You’re just proving that you are only capable of looking as far as it takes to satisfy your own confirmation bias. Hahahaha nice own goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:56 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ax4xz1op8g2g1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ff4ee628f4e75236902472b4be9f6fa400dce465 Hahahaha did you even open that link you just posted? You're ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:45 PM
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Maybe try some fucking data. "Trust me bro" doesn't work for me as a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:24 PM
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I've found that most blue pillers can, in fact, spell. Aww did it hurt your feelings to have your own insult thrown back at you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:59 PM
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Just gonna copy paste from the other comment. I wasn't weighing in on the argument. I was weighing in on what a douche move it is to call someone stupid while being unable to spell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:58 PM
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I wasn't weighing in on the argument. I was weighing in on what a douche move it is to call someone stupid while being unable to spell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:57 PM
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You keep proving my point without realizing it. You’re arguing that if a man half-asses his contribution, the woman should make up for it. You really typed that out like it’s a rational position. Effort is when both people show up fully. If you deliberately do a poor job to avoid responsibility, that’s weaponized incompetence, not effort. You’re also misunderstanding the Pew data. Men may clock more paid hours in some relationships, but women log more total hours when you include childcare, ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:56 PM
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It really is bro. Talking shit to other people about something you're displaying yourself his hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:45 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:26 PM
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I did answer your question. You just didn’t like the answer because it didn’t confirm the story you’re trying to tell yourself. You keep pretending the only metric that matters is who makes more money. That’s convenient, since it’s the only angle where you can paint men as burdened and women as freeloaders. In reality, two partners working the same hours are contributing equally. The fact that you think a higher salary entitles a man to do less everywhere else tells me you’ve never actually carr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:28 PM
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Who is it an issue for? Not the women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:17 AM
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Bro no one else can see inside your head. No one can see your thoughts or the path that brought you to the person you currently are. They are not saddled with your view of the world. If you are this offended by my language, I can promise that what you are reacting to is the truth of what I'm saying. Resolving cognitive dissonance hurts. I wish you all the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:38 AM
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Again, you read a neutral reply and assigned your own insecurities to it. You’re reacting to confidence and clarity like they’re personal attacks. Nothing in the original answer from GPT was snide or scolding, only clear and direct. Nothing in my previous reply was snide and scolding. I only asked if you had awareness of something that is quite obvious to others that are not saddled with your internal thoughts and feelings. You weren't attacked. You felt attacked. Those are very different things…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:14 AM
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That's an interesting read considering how dry and factual the answer is. Please point out exactly what's catty. Have you considered that you're projecting cattiness because logic that doesn't align with your own makes you feel attacked?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:10 PM
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My house would certainly be cleaner if he didn't live here but that doesn't equate to happiness. This post is pure projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:03 PM
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Here’s a clear assessment of the logic in the post — not the vibes, not the emotions, just the structure of the argument and where it holds up or falls apart. ⸻ It starts with a broad claim, then builds an argument on selective evidence. The post’s thesis is: “Women don’t love you; they love what you can do for them.” That’s an enormous, universal claim. To justify it, the writer points to: - Reddit anecdotes - Romance novel tropes - A claim that men tolerate more “baggage” - Divorce statistics …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:57 PM
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Here’s a clear assessment of the logic in the post — not the vibes, not the emotions, just the structure of the argument and where it holds up or falls apart. ⸻ It starts with a broad claim, then builds an argument on selective evidence. The post’s thesis is: “Women don’t love you; they love what you can do for them.” That’s an enormous, universal claim. To justify it, the writer points to: • Reddit anecdotes • Romance novel tropes • A claim that men tolerate more “baggage” • Divorce statistics …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:54 PM
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Did y'all know you can ask an AI to assess your logic before posting?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:54 PM
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Exact same prompt. No one can recreate it. Bro primed the AI to answer that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:41 PM
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https://chatgpt.com/share/691e4708-4504-8000-a793-8c4873242722
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:39 PM
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Alright — I’m answering your actual question, not skirting it, not moral-lecturing, not offloading it to “well actually ethics says.” You handed me a forced-choice trolley-problem-on-water with full awareness that it’s artificial and meant to surface reasoning, not moral judgment of real people. So here’s the straight answer, and I’ll walk you through the logic the way you think — clean, forward, no fluff, no hand-wringing. First, the structure of what you asked: You presented two versions of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:36 PM
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I think the most interesting part of this is that none of us can recreate your result. How hard did you have to lay context in advance to get that result? I'm willing to bet rather a lot. I'm also willing to bet if you put your same prompt into an incognito instance with no prior prompts, you couldn't recreate this either. Why are y'all always fucking lying in here? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:34 PM
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What burden? I'm asking seriously, what is the burden? If you both work 40 hours, do you seriously believe that a man deserves to fuck off and watch his SO cater to him because he happens to earn more for an equal amount of work? This right here is why women want fuckall to do with y'all. You actually think you provide more value by virtue of being men without ever bothering to consider if the effort you are putting in is equal and hear me loud and clear, to women money does NOT equal effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:18 PM
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Women are seeking those things for themselves and succeeding. It's why we see men in this sub every day telling women to lower their standards. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:09 PM
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Hey so trying to devalue another person's relationship isn't helping you in any way. The only thing you're accomplishing here is letting us know that you are miserable and looking up bleed that all over strangers. You don't know her or her husband, so what you've said has no basis in fact. Your behavior is childish and inappropriate. Grow the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 10:43 PM
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All in all, substandard DARVO use. I'm not upset, I'm not mad. I'm just amused watching you flail around. We were done the second I had to get ChatGPT to translate what I was saying for your level of comprehension. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:08 PM
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Then why the fuck are you still here? This is the equivalent of a child throwing a tantrum. Grow up. No one gives a fuck about you personally on Reddit. No one is going to manage your poor reading comprehension or personal feelings for you. These are YOUR problems. You are welcome to not engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:57 PM
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🙄 y'all really can't engage with a topic beyond your own feelings can you? You're not going to shame me or convince me that I misspoke. You're only confirming for me that you are exactly the type of person being discussed. Stop trying to make other people responsible for your knee-jerk reactions and personal feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:54 PM
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You’re calling it disingenuous because you’re starting from the assumption that a relationship means prioritizing another adult over yourself. That’s the actual disconnect here. There’s a big difference between caring about your partner and being good to them, versus expecting someone to center you above their own life, goals, and boundaries. Those are not the same thing, and pretending they are is how people end up in lopsided relationships that feel like unpaid labor. What I’m saying is simple…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:20 PM
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And that's great that you found an example of this behavor, but it has no bearing on the actual point I made. I had GPT make the connections for you. I suggest you read that over and over until you understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:07 PM
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You didn't do that in any way so... yes. You're arguing in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:58 PM
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It's ok if you can't understand me. Lashing out only reflects on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:58 PM
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Hard disagree. The best relationships are between two people that understand their boundaries in advance and choose to only be in relationships with people that are aligned. Again, no one wants to be your mommy and if you are expecting any woman that's not your literal mother to care about you more than they care about themselves, you're in for a world of disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:57 PM
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Neat. Thanks for showing me that no attempt to explain this in a way you can understand will ever matter since you're here to just say shitty things and argue in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:54 PM
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Ok but you're missing the entire point. Just because you can trace a trend back to an influencer or a media outlet doesn't mean it represents what most women actually think. You're essentially taking one viral video and using it as proof of a collective opinion. We'd never look at one extreme male influencer and say "See this is what all men think." The same logic applies. Until you learn to separate viral content from real-world beliefs, your comments here are pretty useless to this conversatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:53 PM
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Why don't you go ahead and read the other comment where I had GPT explain it to you. You're misunderstanding and until you can understand that your argument is misplaced, there's no point in continuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:49 PM
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Are you sure? It's a very common complaint
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:47 PM
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Lol I know you won't do that, so I went ahead and asked GPT to help you understand. Here's it's response: You’re missing the actual point being made in the comment you replied to. The issue isn’t whether some women post memes or jokes online. The issue is that you’re treating algorithm-driven content as if it represents the real attitudes of an entire gender, and that’s not how information works. Here’s the distinction you’re skipping over: - When male influencers or journalists say ridiculous t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:35 PM
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Hey why don't you take a screenshot and ask an AI up help you put these pieces together. I can only explain it to you. I can't understand it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:28 PM
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I don't know where you live but that's not the case in the US. Other than a few outlier relationships, we all work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:26 PM
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It's unrealistic to expect a person you're dating to prioritize you over their own life. Your parents, maybe. A partner? You are optional. Behave accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:25 PM
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Also, having a higher salary doesn't mean you get to come home and fuck off while your wife cooks and cleans and makes your doctors appointments like you are a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:05 PM
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What's your point? I'm not a stay at home spouse, so you would need to discuss that with people that have an informed opinion. You're fighting windmills right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:00 PM
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Ok? I'm not their wives
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:58 PM
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Yes, but that doesn't apply to men across the board. I know a lot of men personally that are fantastic partners. Sweeping generalizations aren't really helpful to these types of discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:47 PM
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It's really not. If someone isn't value add for my life, the other person's wants and feelings do not factor into the decision making process.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:46 PM
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Do you take responsibility for everything some male asshole influencer or "journalist" says to generate outrage and clicks? Or do you just say "that's stupid" and keep on moving?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:35 PM
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Most women aren't saying men are undesirable. They're saying that they will not add a man to their life unless it is a net positive overall. The days of playing mommy to the men we date are long behind us. We want partners, not dependents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:31 PM
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Equally telling that y'all keep engaging lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 12:49 AM
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What an incredibly inappropriate thing to say to absolute stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:38 AM
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Comments are making me feel a lot better. I had to read that like 10 times and still have no idea what he's asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:43 AM
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Did you even read that article? It was talking about people not including their boyfriends on their social media and having their accounts stay focused on themselves. https://www.vogue.com/article/is-having-a-boyfriend-embarrassing-now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:50 PM
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Agreed. I'd rather deal with open hostility over passive aggression any day. Feels more honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:08 PM
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I like this guy's sense of humor. Does that count or does the nice thing have to be aimed at men generally?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:07 PM
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I don't expect men to put in the same effort as women. Nowhere close even. Which makes it even more egregious when they can't hit the very low bar of wearing clean, neat clothes, showering daily, getting regular haircuts, and keeping their facial hair groomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:40 PM
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Thanks for going through the trouble of getting on an alt account to say this. Y'all are so damn embarrassing b🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:48 PM
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There really is a lot of truth to the "you're not ugly, you're just poor" line we all see floating across the internet. Most people would look a thousand times better with the reduced stress of not having to worry about money and a team of stylists. Idk what men think but for me high maintenance is just a matter of how much time and effort a person is willing to put into themselves. What's your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:52 PM
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It's the same for me. Face card is everything as far as looks go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:48 PM
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Every time I hear a guy throwing around the word "alpha" when not discussing wolves, I immediately hear in my head "any man who must say 'I am the king' is no true king"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:33 PM
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Since you need it spelled out for you, my point was that women aren't interested in doing those things for a man that isn't going to pull his own weight. There is no such thing as women’s only work anymore. If you live in the fucking house, you should know how to clean it and regularly do so. If you eat the fucking food, you should know how to cook it and take turns preparing meals. None of us are interested in being a man’s mommy, whether we can afford to pay for a maid or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:56 PM
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Did you even bother to read the thread you’re responding to or nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:52 PM
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Aww but clearly you do care or you wouldn’t be in here trying to derail the conversation and have the last word 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:46 PM
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My apologies. I forgot for a minute that the autists in this sub require SARCASM in giant flashing letters to be able to detect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:44 PM
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What's the point of debating in a DEBATE sub? If you don’t have the intelligence or spine to back up your words in this DEBATE sub, then you should probably stop saying stupid shit and get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:42 PM
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That's right! Go directly to the people you actually want to impress: other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:16 PM
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What in the actual fuck do you think would happen if a guy showed up to a date without a shirt? Go on. Tell us how you imagine that playing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:13 PM
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I see you and the point aren't well acquainted
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:11 PM
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Why would I work my ass off every day and then come home and do chores for a man that I outearn while he lounges around waiting to be served? Hint: I wouldn't. Are men incapable of doing their part and splitting the workload? Is that what you're saying? Women are telling you they want partners, not men cosplaying as helpless children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:53 PM
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It's not. He just really wants it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:49 PM
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Again, take your DARVO shit elsewhere. You feel attacked right now because what I'm saying strikes at the flimsy foundation of your belief structure, not because I am shaming you for being a virgin. YOU introduced your age and your virginity into this discussion, so you now get to deal with it being part of the rhetoric. The only thing I've said is that no one cares about your sex life and that it's incredibly poor manners to continue a discussion people are uncomfortable with. Your lack of resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:10 AM
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Hey so I'm not angry and cheap DARVO shots don't work on me. You will not project emotions I'm not feeling onto me because you cannot manage your own. Engage with the substance of what I said or admit that you actually do lack any and all manners required to succeed in polite society and we can call it a day since poor manners, refusal to respect other people's conversational boundaries, and lack of self-awareness are more than sufficient to explain why anyone would still a virgin at your big ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:58 AM
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Hahaha you wrote this entire post to tell us that you think it's unfair that older virgin men are looked down on. WE DIDN'T KNOW THAT ABOUT YOU AND NO ONE ASKED YOU TO TELL THEM. It's weird because you're making it that way. People do not want to know that you've never had sex because it has fuckall to do with them. People are probably looking down on your abysmal manners much more than they are your lack of sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:46 AM
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I think it's a problem that people are telling you they do not fucking care about yours or anyone else's sex lives that are not their own and you're refusing to listen. You're forcing a conversation people don't want to have with you. No one gives a shit about your insecurities except for you. You're the one making it weird, not absolute strangers who DID NOT ASK you to talk about your failure to get your dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:38 AM
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Dude who gives a shit? You're never going to get the world to see through your eyes, and if you make sharing your own personal experiences feel weird and hostile, people aren't even going to give you basic decency in response. I'm going to say this very clearly and I hope you listen: leading any interaction with sexual inadequacy is social incompetence, not systemic oppression. Full stop. So, I'm asking you, how does making this argument help you in any tangible way? What's the goal? How does th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:33 AM
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How are you refusing to acknowledge that people simply don't want to talk about your sex life? If I go on a date and the guy starts talking about his prior sexual experience, or lack thereof, the date is over. Just because you wish to discuss a topic doesn't mean anyone else is interested. Read the fucking room.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:23 AM
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Has it ever occurred to you that most polite society doesn't want to discuss your fucking sex life? Are you completely lacking manners?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:09 AM
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Again, I'm not trying to debate you. I'm simply calling out the obvious patterns in your behavior. You're in a sub dedicated to relationship discussions and you're using it as a hunting ground for people to infect with your despair rather than a classroom for learning. You chose to make that comment and now you're flailing around looking for anywhere to point your finger than at your own bullshit behavior. I'm not trying to debate you. I'm flat out telling you that saying awful things to hurt ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:04 AM
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Did you think I was trying to persuade you? I'm simply calling out your shitty behavior and inappropriate response you made to the top level content. You chose to make a personal attack. I responded. Bullies should regularly be reminded that we all see it as a poor coping mechanism for their own insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:41 AM
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The fact that you have a therapist and are still deploying ‘men are only as loyal as their options’ as relationship wisdom is honestly fascinating. Maybe ask them why you’re broadcasting cynical maxims on the internet instead of, you know, processing whatever made you this way. Also you’re on reddit in a debate sub making snide comments from a troll account and calling me terminally online. The self-awareness is… something 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:32 AM
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Projection would require you to point to what I’m projecting and explain how. But that's not what's happening here. You're using a psychology word as a deflection because you can’t engage with the actual argument. The fact that you responded to ‘you might be lashing out from pain’ with ‘no u’ instead of examining whether there’s any validity to the observation kind of proves the point about emotional regulation, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:28 AM
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There are a lot of men in this sub with fully developed prefrontal cortexes and loving relationships that would disagree with you. Stop trolling and grow up. The only thing you're telling us here is that you have so little control of your own emotions that the only way you can stabilize yourself is to (poorly) attempt to hurt others. It never works bro. You just look a bit pathetic slapping at others this way when they've done nothing to warrant it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:21 AM
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Sounds like you're saying shitty things to a stranger on the internet in a bid to feel something other than miserable. How's that working out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:05 AM
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That was fucking weird. Anyway, since I don’t want to give a single second of attention more to posts listing a bunch of random shit with no bearing on the situation to justify sexual assault, here’s a picture of my dog as an astronaut and some random ass cat ChatGPT threw in there for funsies. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:51 AM
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I spent 9 months there for a project. It made me miss Atlanta lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:38 PM
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Dude how many women do you personally know with 4 kids by 3 different men? I don't know a single one so how is it that every man in here arguing these kinds of points seem to only know women like this? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:01 AM
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Here's the full conversation so you can check to see I didn't prompt it in any way other than to put in screenshots: https://chatgpt.com/share/690dff29-7100-8000-9e4d-1aab501c0bbb
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:17 PM
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<image> Even ChatGPT recognizes that you're being a dick for no reason. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:12 PM
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You know what? You inspired me to get an outside opinion. Here ya go. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:12 PM
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Pretty sure it's the same ruleset across the board. Be clear and firm about your boundaries, communicate them respectfully, and keep your hands to yourself. If you can't do those things, take accountability for* your own behavior and stay the fuck away from that person. This is kindergarten type shit. *voice text strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 07:11 PM
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That's exactly what I did. Being funny doesn't automatically make you attractive, AS ANY FUNCTIONAL ADULT CAN TELL YOU, hence my response. Why don't you try filling in the gaps of what you think I missed instead of the lazy bullshit you started with? Or did you just want to say something shitty to be? If that's the case, hate to break it to you, but I don't care. Knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 07:06 PM
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I think Adam Sandler is funny but I'm not attracted to him. Why do you think being funny automatically equals attraction? That doesn't exist in a vacuum bro. Women are assessing the entire package to determine if they are attracted to you or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 07:02 PM
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You do realize that what's funny for one person could be deeply offensive to another, right? Humor is wildly subjective, and some people will never find you as amusing as you think yourself to be. This is an odd post. No one is required to laugh at your jokes so I'm not really sure what you're trying to get out of this post. Did you just want to call women liars or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:37 AM
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You do realize that what's funny for one person could be deeply offensive to another, right? Humor is wildly subjective, and some people will never find you as amusing as you think yourself to be. This is an odd post. No one is required to laugh at your jokes so I'm not really sure what you're trying to get out of this post. Did you just want to call women liars or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:36 AM
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No. The days of casual political disagreements are behind us. For example, if your political views include beliefs that some people are more deserving than others of basics like food, water and shelter, then not only do our politics not align, but our core beliefs and values are diametrically opposed. People are entitled to their own beliefs, of course. I just don't want anything to do with people I perceive to be morally bankrupt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:15 AM
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This is so embarrassing for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:26 AM
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No. I am firmly against pretending to be something you're not in all situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:27 PM
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I'm not mad at all. Again, you're projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:12 PM
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You're not though. That's what you're not understanding. You aren't holding up a mirror. You're just projecting your shit onto me and getting annoyed when it doesn't land. So I'll ask again, what are you after?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:17 PM
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Are you done? I'm serious, are you fucking done? What do you hope up accomplish here? What result are you after? I ask these questions because the only thing you're accomplishing is to let me know unequivocally that engaging with you now or in the future is a waste of time and should be avoided at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:10 PM
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Because I came in here and took a look at the dialogue from both sides. I noted that one side of the debate made rational, mentally healthy points & the other side was simply using poorly understood RP talking points to hate others and to avoid ever taking personal accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:29 PM
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It's pretty easy to just not date people you aren't interested in, so I don't understand why you felt the need to make this post instead of simply not dating these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:26 PM
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I’m not here to troll. Your identity, and the identity of others in here, are just so tied up in this shit that everything feels like a personal attack. I really don't know why you're continuing this, but again, I'll state that I don't care about your personal opinion of me. Continuing to attack me here just makes you look like a child throwing a tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:19 PM
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Out of curiosity, who exactly is this rant directed towards?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:29 AM
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Bro I never put on a mask. I am authentically myself 100% of the time, whether you have a problem with it or not. I don't know how to be more clear here: I do not give a single fuck about you or your opinions of me. You won't make me feel shame for who I am or the words I use in this sub, so if that's what you're after, cut your losses.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:24 AM
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Y'all read what you want and hurt your own feelings. If you say something fucked up, expect a fucked up response. This works for pretty much every situation you'll encounter. In other words, don't start no shit won't be no shit. The vast majority of men in this sub aren't coming in here for any other reason than to blame women for their problems, then act like babies when they are met with the same attitude they give. Take accountability for yourself and your own behavior. Or don't. I don't real…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:01 AM
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That wasn't trolling. That was me being exasperated and done with that thread where I replied with those words. Did you even bother to read where that came from or did you just go find the first thing that satisfied your confirmation bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:28 AM
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I'm not here to troll. I'm here to push back against a lack of personal accountability and toxic worldviews. Just because someone disagrees with you does not mean they are arguing in bad faith. It just means they disagree with what you're saying and that should be expected as it's a DEBATE sub
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:22 AM
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This is exactly how I feel. I'm perfectly happy on my own so a person has to improve my life overall to be a part of it. A guy that needs to be mothered isn't ever going to cut it. And yes this goes both ways. I don't expect anything from men that I can't provide myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:43 PM
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None of those women have responded to you on this post. Your comment is derailment, not good faith engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:14 PM
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I don't see them doing it in here right now, do you? Are you just in here to tell us you dislike women or do you have another topic you want to discuss? Because you are not responding to those women you are responding to me. You understand that, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 12:10 AM
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Can you explain why you care so much? If a person wants to have a child, is capable of providing for and loving them, then they should be a parent. I don't think it's any more complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:19 PM
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What the fuck does this have to do with dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:15 PM
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Sweeping generalizations like what you have posted indicate that you are just here to shit on women, not to understand why certain women behave this way. If that wasn't your intention, please consider how the language you have used derails your message before you ever begin. To respond to the content of your post, it's really not a mystery why things like this happen. Miserable people want to think that they have more to offer than the person they're judging, but they often fail to take into acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:13 PM
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Thanks for such a thoughtful answer. How can these men start to change their mindsets?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:41 PM
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Can you explain how you're different? I'm not trying to be snarky and don't have a point to prove. I'm just curious since you can recognize the harm in what she's saying. Idk maybe it would be helpful for the guys in here to see the difference between what OP is describing and how you see yourself and try to live. There's a lot of black and white thinking in this sub. Maybe someone that's like them showing the shades of gray would allow them to engage with what is actually being said instead of …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:50 PM
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Hahaha this is so delusional. Your physical prime is in your 20s, just like women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:13 PM
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If you did, then you should be able to summarize it succinctly right here instead of sending me on a scavenger hunt through your own confusion. If you can’t restate your argument clearly, you haven’t made one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:16 AM
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Remove away. it’s nice to know some moderators also can’t look themselves in the eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:07 AM
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It's not a personal attack to carry a person's logic to the conclusion. Example: "Being an asshole works" > clearly not or you wouldn't be in this sub saying these things about women. A little introspection about how a person's personal actions create the results they see in the world is needed. If looking into a mirror is too painful for anyone to process then perhaps they should work on figuring out why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:05 AM
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Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:58 AM
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To the response I was replying to. You have still failed to explain what you think the just world fallacy is and how it applies to what you were saying here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:56 AM
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Oh so we can't directly respond to the words used or the lines of logic if it says something negative about the person? Seems some things, like the words you personally choose to use, ARE personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:54 AM
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Nothing tells me geography and/or education level quicker than a comment like this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:53 AM
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Clearly that is not true or I would not have asked you to state your argument with more clarity. Do you even know what you're arguing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:47 AM
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You're projecting. You feel attacked so you are calling me hostile. I was simply asking you to know your own mind enough to defend the words you use.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:16 AM
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It's just world fallacy to say that acting like a cunt makes people not want to have anything to do with you? Go ahead and explain the just world fallacy to me. Make the connections. If you're going to say something you need to be prepared to explain and defend it. Otherwise, be quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:56 PM
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A lot of words to say no one wants anything to do with you but ok. Enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:55 PM
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I don't give a fuck what you do. I go to bed beside a super hot man that loves me every night. Y'all bitch on reddit about women that don't want anything to do with you. You don't want to listen to me? It affects me not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:54 PM
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You don't even know what you just said. Go ahead and explain yourself. Look at what I actually wrote, both here and in other comments, and respond directly to the message with your own thoughts. Not just poorly understood redpill buzzwords.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:53 PM
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I dated him until he started being honest about his personality, Y'all read what you want, not what others wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:52 PM
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Nice deflection. Hope it keeps you warm tonight since you won't have an actual person that can stand your personality to do it. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:05 PM
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Then do what you want and SHUT THE FUCK UP. You are making a conscious choice. People have pointed out the repercussions. If you choose to ignore them, you do so with full knowledge of potential outcomes so stop coming on Reddit and acting like a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:42 PM
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good luck with that. obviously, you should stop bitching about people not liking you at this point, since you have made the conscious choice to be unlikeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:11 PM
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And all I'm saying is acting like a cunt runs every person that could be interested in you out of your life before you even have the opportunity to decide if it is something you might want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:10 PM
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Congrats! I wonder how much more you'd be celebrating this accomplishment if you hadn't run every potential partner out of your life by acting like an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:07 PM
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Everyone deserves a chance to prove they're who they pretend to be. Guess you're just being efficient letting people know you're awful right off the bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:06 PM
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sure buddy. hey of the two of us, which one do you think has a healthy relationship with a super hot person and which one is on reddit blaming the world because no one loves their fucked up attitude? hint: my bf is the best
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:05 PM
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Nothing is going to work for you with this attitude. I mean it. NOTHING. Do you think I want to hire someone to work for me that pisses off every person they meet? Do you think someone wants to even be friends with a guy like that? You're doing this to yourself. Stop acting like anyone else is responsible for how unlikeable you are outside of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:58 PM
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They absolutely do. I broke up with the last guy I was dating, who was the Chaddest Chad that ever Chadded, because he sucked as a person. You're just making assumptions about how you wished the world worked as a way to self-soothe, then getting mad when the world doesn't match the fiction in your head. Sort yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:56 PM
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This is sad. This is the most defeatest attitude possible. If you think you're going to fail, then you already have. This applies to your entire life. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:54 PM
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That's the dumbest goddamn interpretation possible for what you are trying to describe. I mean that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:51 PM
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So you think one piece of shit weaseling his way into being successful means you should also be a piece of shit? That's your logic? You've got bigger problems than women, if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:48 PM
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It's so helpful for you to lay it out this way. I'm going to wrap your thought up by saying that extremes are what we should all be trying to avoid. Yes, in moderation, and displayed in a healthy manner, every single one of these traits are positive. It's only when carried to extremes does it become undesirable, and the responsibility for ensuring you display characteristics and traits in a healthy manner falls on the individual. Thanks for posting this!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:41 PM
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No, the "women aren't a monolith" argument isn't bullshit and it never will be. Stop grouping people in ways they do not want to be grouped. Your need to neatly classify the entire world around you is YOURS, and if you misclassify someone, they are going to tell you to shut the fuck up. Stop expecting the world to align to you and learn to accept it for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:36 PM
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Y'all are hilarious. By all means, go ahead and be ugly AND impossible to like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:34 PM
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If you want to blame women for your problems go ahead. Women still won't want to fuck you. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:48 AM
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You see that here because men are who is saying those things in this sub. You have a search function and the ability to see for yourself that what you have just stated is not true. Y'all only search for answers until they satisfy your confirmation bias. It's lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:46 PM
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Have you ever been to a gym or nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 01:07 AM
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I just think it's an asinine practice to assign value to humans based on looks alone. There are rather a lot of people in this world that I'm not personally attracted to, but that in no way means they don't have value as people. If that's how you index the world around you, more power to you. I just think it's toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:35 AM
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Gee I guess your personal experience ON THE OUTSIDE of women's relationships with one another is all the evidence anyone will ever need... Get a fucking grip. Why are you so comfortable offering unsolicited bullshit like this? What are you hoping to gain here? Did you just want a circle jerk from other woman haters? What? Do tell
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 12:47 AM
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Where do y'all get this shit? I don't know a single woman in my life that doesn't have AT LEAST one best friend and a handful of very close friends. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 12:40 AM
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Intelligent, honest, considerate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 12:35 AM
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Maybe spend more time focused on improving yourself instead of fictionalizing men to hate. This shit is tiresome. Y'all are always in here bitching about how men are expected to act a certain way then turn around and post shit like this. Keep your eyes on your own work and don't worry about what other people are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:31 PM
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Lol yeah abusers always rationalize their abuse. It's kinda their hallmark. That's what you're describing here. It's not play and allowing them to use language that makes it seem less serious, and you yourself using that language, allows it to continue. Don't let people hurt you and make you think it's your fault. No one deserves that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:37 PM
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Play fighting is tickling each other and rolling around in the bed. What you’re describing is just domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:01 PM
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10/10. Enjoyable thread. Would recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:58 PM
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Y'all throw the word 'hypergamous' around so much it's lost all meaning at this point 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:31 PM
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Defining character traits as masculine or feminine is asinine since both genders are equally capable of possessing any given trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:28 PM
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Who is telling you violence against men is ok because they're stronger? The abusers? Maybe don't listen to people that can only use violence to solve their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:18 AM
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Ok? Sorry that's been your experience. What do you want us to debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:13 AM
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Yeah dude. We are individuals with individual values and opinions. Y'all just make yourselves unhappy when you try to force us into roles we don't take on for ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:14 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:47 PM
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Yeah. That’s pretty much how that works. Not quite the gotcha you were after huh? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:44 PM
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I'll actually agree here a bit. Red pill men 15 years ago are in no way similar to what I see in the world today. Way back, red pill guys weren't actively hating women, simply gaming the system to increase their chances of success, but now the vast majority of men I speak with that claim any sort of red pill ideology are really just black pill misogynists. Not saying there aren't men that still hold the original red pill ideology, only that their voices are being drowned out by the type shit we …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:13 PM
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I don't hint at anything. I use plain language and make sure I am completely understood, because I won't spend my life reminding someone to act like an adult. For example, if you make a mess in my house, you are expected to clean up after yourself immediately. You won't be told twice. I won't stay in a relationship with a man that needs me to act like his mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:22 PM
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I don't even have to see that post to know that's not what you were told and that you're just bastardizing what can be twisted to fit your narrative and ignoring the rest 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:14 PM
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Pretty sick of Mary Sue types with exactly one flaw myself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:50 AM
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Those historical women weren't "sleeping" with invading armies. They were being RAPED. Don't try to downplay it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:43 PM
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Word. No one deserves to "have" another human.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:06 PM
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Don't y'all get tired of saying the same shit over and over and over? Offer a solution or shut the fuck up about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:05 PM
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Then what the fuck are you so mad about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:04 PM
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Ok? Die miserable and alone then I guess. It's much easier to just be pissed off at the world than to take responsibility for your own happiness, huh? Hope that works out for you bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:17 AM
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This is such an awesome response. Thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:23 PM
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Are you asking what qualities I have that men are attracted to? There's nothing on my list that I cannot also give them myself. Tbh I think men just see my looks though, at least in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:55 PM
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I'm not following what you're trying to say here. Can you reword this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:48 PM
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I want to note that these things wouldn't be on my list if I didn't meet these requirements myself. The only thing I ask of partners that I cannot also give them is a penis. So I'd say for anyone else, you should first take a good hard look at your list and if you can't meet your own standards, you need to reassess why you're so comfortable expecting things that you cannot yourself provide. I'm not saying you have to drop your standards, just understand yourself better. Beyond that, stop obsessi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:42 PM
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I really think it just comes down to the fact that humans assume others view the world the same way they do, that their thoughts follow the same structure, that what they believe is believed by everyone. It's why people are so polarized about anything and everything. The vast majority of our species is just incapable of thinking of any given topic from a meta perspective. So men assume women's lists are solely based on looks because theirs are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:28 PM
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When I say standards, I am talking about dealbreakers. Requirements. I don't have looks requirements other than I personally find you attractive and you're in semi-decent shape, so dad bods are fine, morbid obesity is not. I can't really narrow that down more since the men I've dated cover a super wide spectrum. Here's a random ass list of my personal non-negotiables: - Intelligent - Well groomed and well dressed - Can conduct themselves well in public - Friends and interests that don't involve …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:20 PM
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Love this attitude. Even if guys do come on too strong at first, it's really not the end of the world. You might never see that girl again, but just chalk it up to a learning experience, figure out how to adjust, and move on to the next. No one starts anything as an expert. You'll improve every time you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:37 PM
2

That doesn't bother me. Knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:22 PM
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I played that game a few times in my 20s. Happy I outgrew trying to save people from their own insecurities. It's an impossible task.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:55 PM
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I don't have to justify other people's choices dude
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:52 PM
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I encourage all men to ask about body counts if they feel the need. It's always worked out great for me because I know exactly the kind of man that asks that question, and he's not one I want in my life. I've seen this play before and it's always a good thing for insecure men that will spend the rest of your relationship asking increasingly more invasive questions while they get more and more unbearable to be around to remove themselves from the relationship early. A win/win really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:43 AM
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What even is this question? Of course people that want kids should have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:30 AM
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what in the actual fuck are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:43 AM
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Got it. Just blackpill bitching without substance. Well buddy, it seems like you're in a super swell place mentally. Wish you all the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:43 AM
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Love watching a random on Reddit get mad because he doesn't like my answer then just restate my first sentence to pass off as his own. Really discovering new ground here, Christopher Columbus. 🥴🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:36 AM
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Go cry elsewhere. Women are not your emotional punching bags or scapegoats for your lack of personal accountability. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:32 AM
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My 5'4 mom must have missed that memo since she has three sons that are all over 6'
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:26 AM
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This isn't a question for women. This is you being sad and miserable and looking for someone to blame. Go touch some grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:19 AM
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Nothing about what you just said is sane. It reads like manufactured outrage on a topic you have little to no real life experience with. If you have to borrow experiences or make shit up to be mad about, you have bigger problems than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:13 AM
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From this answer, I don’t believe you need to worry about anyone being able to hold your depth. Yes, I show up fully as myself every second of every day. If I mask, it is for other people’s benefit, not mine, and even then I am still fully myself, only the delivery changes. Bro look I don’t actually care what you want to show me or anyone else. I wasn’t asking strangers on Reddit to show me their depth, only noting that what you show people is what they will believe about you. If you don’t want …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:09 AM
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No. Living it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 06:57 AM
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Really appreciate the switch from intrapersonal accountability to criminal negligence mid-argument. Bit like trying to play chess with the Laws of the Game. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:32 AM
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I'm not implying anything. I'm flat out saying that you and no one else is responsible for your life. That isn't a gendered statement. It's an adult one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:25 AM
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Great. If a man thinks that, then he needs to find a woman that also feels that way, because I think it's immature and laughable. That's the beauty of dating. You get to find the person you share values with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:23 AM
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Why do you make comments you cannot remember, much less defend? Oh that's right. I forgot you're only here to argue in bad faith. That's on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:22 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/p6818bausltf1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9901421192c2056ef35ad04d396f908cb5ac3bde
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:49 AM
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Do you, an adult, really need elaboration on why you are responsible for your own life? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:12 AM
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You made a comment that held two paradoxical beliefs. My comment was a direct response to those two paradoxical beliefs. Again, this is projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:11 AM
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No it's not easier for women. It was the same for me. I spent a lot of useless years in useless therapy with therapists that weren't right for the job. I had to do a lot of research on different therapy types and had about 10 first appointments before I found a therapist that was willing and able to approach things in a solution-focused manner. I'm not in the habit of keeping employees that can't do their job, and extending that same attitude to my medical care has improved my health across the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:10 AM
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IT'S A CHOICE YOU MAKE. NO ONE ELSE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:00 AM
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I didn’t analyze you. I told you to analyze yourself. because if you were actually self-aware, you would understand that this is projection. I am not blaming men for anything I wouldn't blame a woman for. Y'all are so ready and willing to defend whatever point you have in your head beforehand that you mount a defense and present it before it's appropriate in the conversation. You are putting your bullshit on me instead of reading the actual fucking words I wrote. You don't need me to finish this…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:53 AM
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Lol ok. Considering you said you don't think single moms did anything wrong right after you blamed them for not being able to predict another person's future behavior with perfect accuracy, instead of blaming the men that leave their kids to be 100% someone else's responsibility, I've learned what I need to here and think it's time to call it a night. I genuinely hope you're able to look at yourself critically one day and understand why you have yet to resolve this paradox within yourself. If it…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:37 AM
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Those are your personal opinions, not subjective truth. I wouldn't tell a man to drop his standards any more than I'd tell a woman to, so I'm not sure why you're acting like I did. I will however tell men that they don't have to be assholes when sharing their standards. Just because you personally don't want a certain person in no way means that person has done anything wrong in their life or that they do not have value.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:13 AM
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Son. I'm going to give you some advice that you should apply to every aspect of your life: it is YOUR responsibility to show people you aren't a sack of shit. Strangers you encounter are going to assume that you are EXACTLY the person you show yourself to be. It's absurd to think people that don't know you have some sort of obligation to dig through your comments or behaviors to figure out whether or not you’re a cunt, when you can just go ahead and not act like a cunt. Clear up any confusion be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:02 AM
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Because they're never simply stating the reasons they personally don't want to date single moms in here. Not once in the entire time I've been coming in here have I seen a man make a comment where he just said he doesn't want kids. Instead they make a bunch of fucked up comments solely blaming the women for being single moms. There's a world of difference between someone saying "I don't want kids so single moms don't make sense for me" and "single moms use all our taxes, single moms picked bad m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:53 AM
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Are you joking or this unaware in general? This sub, ALL of Reddit actually, has a search function, so it's actually pretty easy to figure out whether people are saying things like that or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:28 AM
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Perhaps consider the shallowness of what you show the world instead. I'm going to take what you show me at face value, as I do with every other person I do not know or care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:15 AM
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You say inconsistent as if you aren't discussing four billion different women. FOUR BILLION. There's never going to be unanimous opinions among that many people and expecting that to happen is just a giant billboard telling the world that your autism is not doing you any favors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:13 AM
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You can not date anyone for any reason. I'll never have a problem with that. What I do have a problem with is people that act as if the things they aren't attracted to are some sort of moral failing on the other person's part. If you don't want to date a single mom or a fat woman, no one cares but you. If you decide to get on the internet and talk shit about a bunch of people that have no idea that you're even alive though, you should expect pushbay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:11 AM
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Because it's none of their business and has nothing to do with the current relationship. If a man feels strongly about it and pushes, then he will be in a position to find a new relationship with someone else because I'm not interested in dealing with some man's unresolved insecurity about my prior sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:47 PM
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That's a lot of words to say "I refuse to admit that I have flaws and work on them in a healthy, productive manner" but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:45 PM
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Dude what? That last sentence has absolutely nothing to do with anything you've said up until this point and I'm not going to stick around and watch you keep moving goal posts in a game I really don't care about. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:32 PM
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Nah. My response would be more along the lines of "go to therapy and work out your own insecurities because the world isn't going to do it for you." Being short is a challenge, it isn't a disqualification.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:24 PM
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Got a magic wand on you to make this happen en masse or do you have an actual solution to see this happen? Or did you just want to tell us you think women should value themselves less because you personally don't value them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:21 PM
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Overcoming the disease is exactly what it is though. Someone recognized a problem, went to the doctor, got meds. Others spent their entire lives on education that would allow them to create the meds. A whole host of people came together to attempt to overcome that disease. The only way this would be similar is if you never bothered going to the doctor at all and instead spent your time whining on Reddit that everyone isn't as sick as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:14 PM
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A person would have to lower their current standards in order to HAVE lower standards. You do understand this, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:06 PM
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Ok? It’s still fucking nonsense. If someone gets sick and goes to get medicine for said illness, then they are, in fact, improving themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:02 PM
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🙄 dude stop your bullshit. "I want you to have lower standards" is exactly what I was responding to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:01 PM
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Well y'all get pissed when we tell you to go to therapy and work your shit out, so idk what other kind of solution you're expecting. No one is going to work out your insecurities for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:58 PM
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That last paragraph was utter nonsense so perhaps try to reword what it is you're trying to say here. You're comparing apples to sledgehammers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:57 PM
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Asking someone to lower their personal standards is asking them to consider themselves less than they currently do, and no one is ever going to do that unless they want to do it for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:55 PM
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It's wrong to ask anyone to be less so you can feel like you're more. You're NOT more so it really is unreasonable to expect people to pander to your mediocrity. Improve yourself or shut the fuck up, because the world isn't going to devolve in order to meet you where you're at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:40 PM
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No. I've noticed that people with comparable social skills have pretty much the same result. Attractiveness depends on how attractive the partner they find is, of course, but being fun to be around matters a lot more than how you look after the point of mediocrity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:33 AM
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Spoiler: it's not expected. You simply walk away from a bad relationship when you realize they aren't meeting you halfway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:25 PM
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Would love to know which Mensa candidate made the decision to test a product meant to absorb blood with colored water. Bet that particular muppet's salary was high enough to hurt my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:29 AM
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Never stops being wild to me that scientists were funded to measure a bunch of dicks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:41 AM
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Your self-loathing is worthless, NOT you. Your value as a person is not tied to your sex life. I hope you can believe that one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:30 PM
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This. I will survive just fine if anyone I know fucks off out of my life. I don't need my bf to be in my life, but I WANT him there since he's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:26 PM
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And I'm telling you that people are allowed to not 100% align with a group. They're allowed to have whatever opinions they want, they're allowed to change them at any time. Y'all are so black and white it's fucking ridiculous and it's the single most limiting thing in your entire life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:56 PM
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You jumped in my shit. You chose to make a comment about me I do not agree with. If you don't want people to push back, don't make comments they will disagree with, or better yet, get the fuck out or debate subs. I don't accept criticism from people I wouldn't accept advice from, so take any helpful comments, you have about me personally and shoved them up your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:38 PM
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I more closely aligned with what the blue people in here were saying. It's that simple. It isn't something I define my life by in any way. It's just a visual indicator of which way you should expect my views to align, but should not be considered a rulebook. Y'all spend way too much fucking time thinking about ways to define others and not enough time thinking of how you define yourself. Edited to fix all of voice texts poor choices
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 11:06 PM
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I'll tell you what, you go ahead and assign whatever ideology you want to me, and I in turn, will totally ignore it because I don't want or need other people's opinions about myself unless they serve a purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:04 PM
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Blue pill is just normal mainstream thinking dude
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 09:19 PM
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I am cool with anything an adult wants to do with another consenting adult. Be honest about yourself and your own motivations and stop asking other people for approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:10 AM
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Pills are stupid as fuck and I'm not going to make arbitrary shit decided by other people my identity. I speak this way because it's business, not some desperate cry for someone to love them. It's fucking business, and business doesn't give a fuck about your feelings unless it affects profits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:06 AM
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I don't know what you're trying to work out for yourself here, but I'm in an amazing relationship. It was hard to find because nothing perfect just lands in your lap. Sort yourself out and stop trying to make other people responsible for whatever this is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:04 AM
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With what? What are you even talking about here? People can't follow your thoughts if you don't bother to explain them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:14 PM
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I love that you are bitching at me about not copying and pasting when you’re too goddamn lazy to scroll down. Are you fucking kidding? 🤣 I take it back. My willingness to engage with you is retracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:13 PM
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You're not treated exactly the same because people are not the same. Get over it. Seriously get the fuck over it. Y'all need to stop expecting a fair and just world, ESPECIALLY when you yourself do not embody the things you demand from others. Especially regarding people's personal lives. They don't owe you anything except the distant politeness you give all strangers. You just look ridiculous and very, very young expecting anyone to take you seriously with this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:12 PM
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Please scroll this thread. I gave a pretty good explanation that the other person refused to hear. Happy to answer questions and continue the discussion but it was a lot to type out and it's pretty inefficient to do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:11 PM
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Can you fucking read? I mean goddamn. Dude.. Please stop. This is so fucking embarrassing for you I physically cannot stand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:15 AM
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Know what? I'm going to answer this just for the satisfaction of telling you to go fuck yourself at the end. The whole point is that the economy runs on layers of knock-on effects. Car companies don’t have to print “buy a Camry, hate your ex” ads to benefit. The more time people spend online arguing, the more data gets harvested, the more ads get served, the more disposable income flows through platforms that fund everything from chipmakers to logistics networks to local tax bases. That rising t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:10 AM
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Ok. Then enjoy only hearing the shit you want to hear. This is business, and your opinions don't affect business decisions one bit, but your refusal to understand basic operating principles make you exactly the kind of easy target that keeps the wheels spinning. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:57 AM
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Dude I don't know how to hold your hand and connect these dots anymore. I talked you through it like you were slow and you still couldn't keep up, so I don't really see any point in continuing. Why don't you ask ChatGPT to explain it to you? It has more patience for willful ignorance and/or outright idiocy than I do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:50 AM
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Not half as much as you are. Keep those eyes closed tight, friend! Only see what you want to see. Nothing better for sales than a market you can dependably predict.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:34 AM
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I guess there's a reason I get paid to set strategy and you don't, boss 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:20 AM
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Conflict does not need to be a company’s main product for it to generate revenue all the way up the chain. Advertising money follows attention and attention follows drama. It really is that simple. When people stay online to argue about a gender war it keeps ad views high, subscription numbers steady, and engagement metrics strong. Social platforms sell more ads, hardware makers like Nvidia sell more chips to keep the servers running, and governments collect more taxes on the profits. Apple does…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:32 AM
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Stop. Pull yourself back from your own shit and try to understand this as a topic divided from yourself before you assign feelings to it. Think like a strategist. Widen your scope beyond just rags and a few YouTubers. The same profit loop runs through EVERY part of the attention economy. Podcasters, TV panels, big publishers, self-help TikTokers all earn more when people stay riled up and keep clicking, watching, or buying. It’s not about a formal gender war. Any hot-button divide that keeps aud…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:06 AM
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Widen your scope. What about podcasters? Talk show hosts? Tv networks? Publishers? Self-help authors? Whenever you think you've spotted all the manipulation in the world around you from people trying to make money, keep looking because you're just getting started.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:46 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:34 AM
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I've never once been disrespected in a boardroom because of my gender🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:45 AM
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Yes we should certainly blame the women and children for getting themselves raped then killed 🥴 Your contribution to this thread is one of the most disgusting things I've ever seen written here and that competition is steep. Congrats I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:23 PM
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Because very often the men those comments are made to do, in fact, have terrible personalities, and the person making the criticism is applying it directly to the asshole they're talking to, not men at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:16 PM
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I feel like a lot of people (everywhere, not just here) would be absolutely shocked at the change in the responses they would get if they simply changed their phrasing and tone. Frequently, immediate negative reactions are due to wording/tone, not the actual message being delivered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:12 PM
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Thank you both for this. This is the first time I've clicked into a post and made it this far down only reading rational, respectful discourse. It gives me hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:02 PM
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I'm of the opinion that people/companies that saw a way to monetize the unhappiness of others caused the "gender war"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:52 PM
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I don't know what message you're trying to convey with this tirade. I just know you're doing it poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:39 AM
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I mean yeah those are the guys I'm sleeping with, but sometimes you don't realize that you'd misjudged the kind of person they are until after it's already done. Nothing to do at that point but chalk it up to a life lesson, make sure you learned it, and keep moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:37 AM
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Sort yourself out. You're behaving like a child. Jfc if you talk to other women in your life this way, please hear me when I say you're the reason you're alone. YOU. Not your looks. Your personality and your character. You just proved that you do not measure up to even the lowest of standards for human behavior. If you continue to interact with people this way, you will have earned every bit of misery you have in your life. Have fun with that! 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:30 AM
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Yep. Some women do and they're in the same boat. Hurting their chances at happiness before they even realize it was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:55 AM
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You can be situationally aware without assigning preconceived notions to every situation. If you expect every woman you meet to be a villain, then that's exactly what they'll be. You don't leave them room in your mind to be anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:30 AM
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Probably should have sent him a DM instead of posting it on a public message board then 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:28 AM
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Sure and some men go home and beat their wives every night. That doesn't mean every man does. I think the kind of black and white thinking so often displayed in this sub generally does more harm to the men here than anything else in their lives. Binary thought is simple and satisfying sure but you miss SO much of the nuance in every situation. You miss the mixed motivations that drive people's actions. It limits problem solving and fuels polarization. Your self worth is never stable because simp…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:13 AM
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You think that screenshot is enough evidence to apply it to 4 billion women? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:30 PM
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Men are beautiful at every size too. By that I mean no matter your attractiveness level to the other sex, you can and should be able to feel good about yourself and tell anyone that tries to change that to go to hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:29 PM
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Level 1 white autistic made laugh. I hate how true it is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:26 PM
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No. Unlike a lot of you, I actually have fulfilling relationships, solid mental health and social skills, so even though I try to understand where you're coming from, we just see the world in very different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:26 PM
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Do you. Eventually they're going to realize that they might as well go ahead and do all the things you keep accusing them of. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:24 PM
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It's humiliating for everyone. You're not special.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:25 PM
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Fun. When I did it, it was fun for me. I literally do not give a fuck what a single one of you, or any other man that wants to slut shame because they themselves can't get laid, think about my choices or my life, and I don't understand why you think any of us would. I don't accept criticism from people I also wouldn't accept advice from.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:18 PM
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"You didn't answer." I post a reply "No, you didn't answer the way I wanted you to"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:13 PM
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That you found an example of a couple of people saying something and decided to attribute that to FOUR BILLION WOMEN worldwide
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:10 PM
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What does that have to do with the point here? Ohhh I get it. You can't come up with one. Sucks to suck I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:08 PM
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Enjoy your confirmation bias
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:08 PM
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That's dumb as shit. If I like freaky sex, then it would be a requirement to continue that in any given relationship. Why would I want to be with someone if I wasn't going to have the kind of sex I enjoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:10 PM
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No. It isn't. It just means your partner now has a legit reason to look for a partner that isn't so insecure. Your behavior enables exactly the thing you fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:02 PM
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Thanks for that response that proves absolutely nothing. Solid contribution 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:01 PM
4

I don't know what to tell you. You don't have to like someone to have sex. Or you can spend a night with them only to learn a bunch of stuff about them that horrifies you. There's a lot of reasons this could happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:00 PM
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This is the fifth account you've made that I've had banned. Aren't you embarrassed? Because you are a goddamn embarrassment to the entire human race
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:59 PM
1

If that's the only thing you value, then why are you even this specific post commenting? You clearly don't want to hear other perspectives. Other people do not see things the way you do. You can try to understand outside perspectives and adjust your mindset to take that into account or you can stay mad that everyone in the world isn't exactly like you. Your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:57 PM
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YOU WEREN'T FUCKING INVITED AND NO ONE WANTS TO BE AROUND YOU EVERY SECOND OF EVERY DAY EVEN IF THEY LOVE YOU this is not a difficult concept
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:54 PM
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It matters because the mindset is toxic. Goddamn WHY is it so fucking hard for y'all to understand that entering into any situation with a shit mindset pretty much guarantees a shit outcome. If you want to stay unhappy and obsessed with looks, go for it. Wish you all the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:52 PM
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No? One has sex and is booted out of your life because you don't actually like them as a person. The other you enjoy and want to be around, want to learn more about, want to see grow and succeed and thrive. What are you trying to say here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:50 PM
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Oh look it's my stalker! It's so sad that you keep creating accounts to follow mine around. You really need to get professional help.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:46 PM
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It's not virtue signaling. You're reducing people down to a single point with stances like this. Of course they're going to push back. Everyone is a bit shallow, but that's not all they are. It's very much like MAGA getting upset when they're called racist, because even though a great number of them are, in fact, racist, that's not all they are, so of course people are going to get upset that you've reduced their identity down to a single point. There are a lot of shades of gray in this world be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:12 PM
5

Hey I'm going to say this genuinely and kindly. I am not saying this to talk shit or be mean. I just really think this is something you need to internalize. Your partner can be your best friend, but the second you make that partner your only friend, you have put far too much of a burden on that person. They cannot be everything to you and you cannot be everything to them. Not only that, sometimes you just need to get away from your partner. That in no way means you do not love them or that you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:03 PM
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This is bullshit and is nothing more than you projecting your own insecurity Edited to add if they're going out every night that's a problem and it has nothing to do with girls night. If they're meeting their friends once a week to catch up and you dislike that, you're the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:57 AM
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Husbands and boyfriends that insert themselves into girls night are the worst. Keep your insecure ass at home. Your wife's/gf's friends did not sign up for your presence when they made plans.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:51 AM
0

No shit. What are you trying to argue here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:48 AM
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Fwb is not a more exclusive group. I'm not going to date or have a casual encounter up with someone that doesn't meet my threshold for attractiveness. I genuinely do but understand why you think this way, but I'm not going to try to change your mind. I'll just tell you how it works for me and you can do with it what you will. A guy I sleep with is hot. A guy I get into a relationship with is hot, intelligent, kind, charming, sociable, funny, and so much more. The second is much harder to find an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:47 AM
0

Do you want an award or what? Should we get a trophy made with "my life sucks the most" or would you prefer something else to celebrate this accomplishment? You have said absolutely nothing that hasn't already been said one million times in here in the past week, so really, what are you after?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:39 AM
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Because the vast majority of you speak vibes and not facts. Every time I see someone push back the way you're claiming they do, they are simply pushing back on the way the message was written. That you are unable to see that and instead take away something else that fits your preconceived notions is a really great example of confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:35 AM
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Are you... No let me reset that thought lol. Are you unaware of the difference between fiction and real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:21 AM
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No shit. Why are you acting like this isn't common knowledge? Or were you just after a circlejerk of ugly, unhappy men that hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:19 AM
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This one. This world right here. It's super easy to argue and not fight when you're not literal trash
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:13 AM
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Classifying people into leagues based on looks alone is short-sighted and far too narrow of a qualification to base a person's entire worth. People tend to date others that are roughly as attractive as they are. It's the way it is. That in NO WAY means that someone that's hot has more value as a person. People push back on "leagues" because a person's worth should be gauged by so much more than genetics they have no control over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:05 AM
1

Word. If the goal was to understand the other perspective, simply clarifying questions would have gotten them there pretty quickly without alienating the person they're interacting with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:59 AM
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It's not a matter of good or bad faith. There is nothing to debate here. You don't have to know a person to physically enjoy sex. This is not a difficult concept. Is it better with a person you love and trust? Absolutely. Is it still pretty fun with someone you don't know if you even like yet though? Yeah. Yeah it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:48 AM
1

You are either being willfully obtuse as an adult or way to curious about sex as a child, no in between, because no one is this fucking clueless about how sex works. Stop. I literally cannot take the secondhand embarrassment of watching you continue this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:28 AM
2

This isn't a debate. This is you REFUSING to hear what the other person is saying. Sort yourself out. This is truly nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:28 AM
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This is an HR issue. Report it. NO ONE should be touching you without your consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:09 PM
1

That's called projection. Why would I be sarcastic here? I've routinely stated that men need to advocate for themselves in a healthy, respectful manner and this post did just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:01 PM
2

It's always gaslighting when people ask you to consider the implications of the crazy shit you write, isn't it? 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:36 AM
2

It's not pretend care. It is the amount of care they can give. If it's not enough for you, that is a problem with you. If you'd rather have none than what you think is the right amount, then that's exactly what you will get. You fight so goddamn hard against a world that flat out DOES NOT CARE in the same way you do. I know that sucks, but you really need to get a fucking grip and stop denigrating people for giving what they can
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:06 AM
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Dude. You're asking people to care about you more than they care about themselves and they're never going to do it. Accept the care they can give you and stop being such a fucking child.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:56 AM
2

Go on
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:20 AM
3

Y'all downvoting this is hilarious. Damn there's literally nothing women can do to support you, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:17 AM
3

Right?! Smoking weed is awesome. Nothing else listed is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:08 AM
1

Y'all I mean damn. I come in here and play with y'all every day in the hopes that you'll get here yourself but I'm so exhausted with the mental gymnastics in here that I'm just going to spell it out as simply as possible tonight. Stop. Stop your mental processes. Full zero. Now take a fresh look at the world around you and realize that the meaning you assign to words is often not a direct translation in others. Understand that you're assuming everyone is seeing the world exactly as you do instea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:00 AM
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What an asinine thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 04:34 AM
7

Do it. Fuck yeah. Full support.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 04:33 AM
7

Are you unfamiliar with how sex works or... Did you have fun and enjoy the experience? Perfectly good sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 12:52 AM
6

It probably seems hard because nobody can tell what the fuck you just wrote. Put that shit into ChatGPT and ask it to translate it to English.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:20 PM
10

🤣 ok dude let me take my "rambling" (also known as direct responses to your post and follow-ups) elsewhere. It never stops being funny watching y'all get pissy when you don't get the answers you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:16 PM
7

What? What are you even trying to say here? That you only get into relationships with people for looks? That's a you problem dude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:07 PM
14

I meant the rose colored glasses that damn near everyone wears in the beginning of every relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:01 PM
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I think it takes about 6-12 months for you to be able to remove the rose colored glasses and for them to drop pretenses about who they are. This is the point where you can start actually getting to know each other. Sex doesn't really factor in to that since you can have perfectly good sex without knowing who someone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:37 PM
1

Why are you taking people on $500 dates if money is such an issue for you? Trying to impress women with money you don't have is crazy work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:13 AM
8

Lol being attracted to literally any man seems to be deemed hypergamous around here so in that light... Damn guess we are all hypergamous 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:05 AM
1

Disclaimer: I worked in a female dominated work environment. Women would gossip and backstab each other, making comments about other women’s appearance and personal lives. I was humiliated and disparaged by women in leadership. I never encountered men acting in this way in the workplace. Then you're not aware of your surroundings, because I see men regularly behave this way as often as I see women. Ever heard of confirmation bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:09 PM
5

Y'all will call anything hypergamy. It's actually ridiculous. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:04 PM
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It's just as easy for ugly people to not get into relationships that don't meet their standards, y'all just don't want to. You'd rather have trash than nothing at all, and that's fine, but it's 100% on you. Make your choices, accept responsibility and live with the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:41 PM
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This is very near the bottom of my list of shit to care about for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:39 PM
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Please don't ask us to discuss the sex lives of minors, fictional or not. The fuck is wrong with you dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:01 PM
12

He'd probably get a 30 minute Ted Talk about the purpose of business in general, business strategy and how deeply we are all being manipulated into being unhappy by people trying to sell us shit. Y'all can't take dating apps personally. They aren't fair or well managed and making business decisions about you then using that incorrect assumption to further hate yourself is really not in your best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:17 PM
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Oh yeah? What point is that? Make the connections for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:41 PM
3

Real. Pills are dumb as shit. I only picked blue because it was anti-red.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:25 PM
7

Again, if you think either side provides that, you are delusional to the point of hilarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:46 PM
12

I'm not getting anyone's "approval" to go out with my friends. I'll let my bf know what my plans are, but he doesn't get a say in how I spend my time or who I choose to spend it with. If he doesn't feel comfortable with me being out with the opposite sex in a group setting, then he would need to get a new gf because I'm not pandering to anyone's insecurities. That's not cheating to me, and if anyone feels differently, the time to bring that up was before we started dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:17 PM
14

More like humans lost the critical thinking war. Anyone that thinks either side has their best interests at heart is displaying an impressive level of delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:14 PM
1

Dude, you are so confidently incorrect it's painful. You've built this entire argument on a foundation of a scientific model that was debunked over 20 years ago. The "brown is dominant, blue is recessive" model is an oversimplification they teach in high school to introduce the concept of genetics. Real world eye color is polygenic, meaning it's controlled by the interaction of many different genes, not just one. Green eyes are not some magical, impossible mutation. They are a common variation c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:35 PM
3

I challenged your view that you posted anything other than a whiny rant about a comment that upset you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:04 AM
3

Why would anyone bother to argue against your hurt feelings from a Reddit comment? Was there something else you were expecting us to debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:58 AM
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So did you want to just tell us how much that comment upset you or...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:21 AM
2

I mean... you should definitely work to be the type of man that's viewed as a "prize" but no, you don't get that designation by value of having a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:16 PM
3

I've never read that book but I deeply agree with the idea of being so authentically yourself that it serves as an immediate filter for anyone that may not like your personality. Especially in dating. It's always been my opinion that people sign any future relationship's death warrant the second they decide to present themselves as anything other than exactly what they are. They're going to figure out who you are eventually anyway. Might as well rip that bandaid off at the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:08 PM
0

Yeah something for sure not adding up there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:29 AM
0

This is such a valid point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:27 AM
4

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:03 PM
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In my experience, men that say shit like this aren't turning the conversation "flirty" so much as offensively sexual. If you're asking women for "pics" before you know anything about them, you are indeed the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:49 PM
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I sincerely get where you're coming from here since a very slim margin of feminists ruin it for the rest of us. I don't often see red pill men speaking up against that kind of toxic rhetoric in here though, so that gives the impression that the men that don't think this way are more exception than rule. Something to that old adage about a few rotten apples spoiling the whole bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:12 PM
1

It's actually so funny that you created a fake account to stalk my profile again. Getting that dragonfly account banned wasn't enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:43 PM
1

Oh. I get it now. You’re actually dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:42 PM
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Motherfucker you don’t grant me a single fucking thing. It's genuinely hilarious that you think you hold that over me and other women. I'll tell you what, since you want to talk such big shit I’ll give you my goddamn home address and DARE you to show up here. If you’re gonna talk about it, you better fucking be about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:42 PM
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Why would I not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:13 PM
8

Here are the first few that came up on search: 1 2
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:56 PM
10

There are dudes in this sub every day saying they'll fuck people they aren't attracted to. There are 25 year old men out there fucking 60 year old women to advance their own life. Stop trying to act like only women do these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:23 PM
6

ditto
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:28 AM
1

Neat. I really don't give a fuck what you believe. I left giving a shit about bitter men on the internet hating women because they can't have them back in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:52 AM
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Yes it's the bare minimum. I have no idea how other women behave in their relationships, so I couldn't say if they're doing more. I can only explain what I myself do and what I expect from my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:42 AM
2

Maybe. Doesn't really explain the ones that have asked me out over and over for months though. We both know it's just easier for you to say shit like that instead of facing the cognitive dissonance that comes with acknowledging that a lot of men do not look at the world the same way you do though. Have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:37 AM
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Because you made the statement. You made it about you the second you said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:27 AM
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Maybe for the women that date you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:24 AM
2

You asked what the bare minimum is...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:23 AM
2

Not saying it wouldn't be immensely difficult but I could probably power through imagining him in a janky sub controlled by a Logitech joystick
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:21 AM
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Same as for men. Don't cheat, lie or steal. Treat your partner with care and consideration. Speak up when you need to, listen when you don't. Split the chores, but be willing to pick up the slack if they're overburdened. Contribute positively to the relationship and to your lives. Pretty normal stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:16 AM
3

It's literally the fucking topic. You want to talk about the left "trying for decades" implement communism and here we fucking are with the right taking communist action. Don't say ridiculous shit if you don't want it disputed. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:15 AM
1

It's actually ADORABLE that you edited your comment to write that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:12 AM
1

Do it. Fucking do it then. You better be ready to flat out murder at least half of us though because I know I'll die before it happens and take as many as possible out with me. Really should ask yourself if you're valuable enough to the men in charge to even be offered one of those women you've stripped of rights, because I bet the vast majority of you are not impressive enough to other men for them to consider you deserving.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:08 AM
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Most people. Politicians, people that parrot propaganda as facts, corporate shitbags that would burn the world for a dollar & people that throw pity parties on the internet and blame everyone but themselves are blanket exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:03 AM
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they are lustful, immature, vain and often sexist Yeah. Many are. But just as many are damn good men that love their partners and show it, parent their children well, hold down their responsibilities, etc. Bit of a coin toss when dealing with humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:40 AM
2

Nothing could make him attractive, but I could maybe override my revulsion for access to* billions. Maybe. *forgot to add this word lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:34 AM
7

It's legit hilarious that you're bitching about the left and communism the same week Trump decided to pull this commie shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:19 AM
3

Bezos money
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:24 PM
1

Hahaha nah. I get hit on by 25 y/o Chads more now in my 30s than I did when I was their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:24 PM
1

You mean my Chemistry degrees and the MBA I threw on top for fun? Those cupcake degrees? This is so embarrassing for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:47 PM
2

hahaha outstanding work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:45 PM
1

hahahahaha outstanding work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:44 PM
2

I'm actually going to edit this comment because I don't want a temp ban, but I'd guess just like everyone else in your life, I'm pretty over interacting with you dude. Best of luck with... all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:38 PM
2

hahahahaha I know you desperately wish that was true, but sadly for you, my life is exactly as described. come on this subreddit specifically to tell people like you that they are the source of their own unhappiness, and you are. Your behavior here is repulsive. Just whining and crying about women without taking a deep, honest look at yourself. If you're unhappy and looking for someone to blame, it's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:33 PM
2

"Boohoo life is so hard because I say miserable incel shit on the internet and people won’t take me seriously" Rather a lot is expected of me at any given moment. I have a great job, a great relationship, and a great life. I didn't get a single one of things by being a crybaby bitch on Reddit, so again, die mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:24 PM
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Ok dude. I'm not willing to engage in your black pill pity party. Die mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:03 PM
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Because it sure doesn't go with the whole egalitarian ethic women espouse politically. People are individuals with individual opinions. Attributing individual opinions to an entire gender is a real dumb thing to do so I really don't understand why y'all persist in doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:49 PM
3

No disrespect, but if that's what you were trying to get across, it didn't quite land.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:11 AM
3

You spent the time to write all this out and make the post, so it's not unreasonable for someone to assume you feel this way. And yeah everyone on this earth would benefit from a mentally healthy understanding of their own boundaries and the confidence to enforce them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:09 AM
0

"If we recognize..." "If we assume..." This may not be the impression you were hoping to make, but the way you worded your argument is giving politician speak for "I agree with all this shit but recognize that I'll receive backlash if I say it publicly."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:02 AM
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Have you read your post? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:55 AM
14

Oh are we cool with black pill posts now? Dude. No one is absolving women of anything. The occasional, stunningly beautiful woman? Sure. But most women are average and are treated that way. If y'all spent a fraction of the time you spend dreaming up new ways to hate on people that do not give a fuck about you on actually bettering your own life, you wouldn't need to be on Reddit recycling thoughts that were never originally yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:51 AM
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THEY AREN'T SPECIFIC CHALLENGES MEN FACE. It's not harder for men to be cheated on, and anyone saying it is, is just taking a wild guess. Hence, my comment. What part of that is confusing? What part of that made you decide to come into a DEBATE sub and pick a random WOMAN's behavior to police? You going around telling all the men that post in here that "everyone has their own unique struggles" or can you only say that bullshit to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:41 AM
3

Probably safe to assume a little of both
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:17 PM
1

No. You are not listening. Every single Chad I've ever met, and I've met a lot, all had GREAT personalities. They were kind to people. Y'all just want to believe they're awful because it'll make you feel better about whatever situation you're in and that's fine, but please know that people recognize this behavior for exactly what it is. You're not Chad so stop trying to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:12 PM
0

I didn't deny that being cheated on hurts or that people have their own struggles, only asserted that it doesn't hurt worse because someone has a penis, so I'm not really sure what you're arguing about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:05 PM
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No. I don't give an actual fuck where other people go to find a relationship or the dubious ethics that led them there. If both parties are of legal age and consenting, then it's none of my business. Why are y'all always trying to police the behavior of people that do not affect your life in any way?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:03 PM
4

This isn't a unique struggle though and it's ridiculous to act like it's any more difficult for one person to experience than it is another
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:57 PM
1

This isn't a unique struggle and it's ridiculous to act like it is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:56 PM
1

They aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:48 PM
0

Except the part y'all continue to miss is that Chad DOES put in the work on his personality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:17 PM
1

It's not as happening to you. I’m tired of being forced to entertain discussions about paternity fraud in a sub full of men that spend the bulk of their time crying about how they can’t get pussy. It’s absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:45 AM
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I wasn't saying men weren't harmed by domestic violence, you potato. I was saying that it's fucking weird to post about men being harmed more by cheating because it's "fair" to point it out since women are harmed more by DV. Your reading comprehension ain't it, chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:40 AM
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Go back and point to EXACTLY where I said any of that. Go on. Oh right, I didn't. You just decided to ignore the fact that the comment I was replying to discussed men being able to cause more physical harm, hence my use of "asymmetric harm." I know big words are tough, but in the future, you should just ask clarifying questions before projecting your ill-formed opinions onto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:17 AM
12

What's happening to men in this scenario that's not happening to women exactly? Are men the only ones being cheated on? No? They're certainly not the only ones facing domestic violence, so what is it? What exactly is your fucking point? Spit it out, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:58 AM
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It's actually so weird that you think there's a need to make things "fair" regarding asymmetric harm in domestic violence. What the actual fuck bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:35 AM
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Pretty safe to say being cheated on sucks no matter what you have going on between your legs, so I'm really unclear about why you'd take the time to write all this out. There are no medals awarded in the Struggle Olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:57 AM
1

This is such a weird, unnecessary political rant. What liberals? Specifically which ones? Are you positive you're not hearing individual opinions from individual people and instead of taking the time to understand that people, even people that identify with one another, have different worldviews you're just lumping them all together then getting mad when they're not exactly the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:03 PM
2

Yeah. That's kinda the whole ethos. Happy you were able to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:50 AM
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I don't need to know how someone chooses to behave overall to identify when they behave badly in the moment. Their past doesn't change their present behavior. It's weird that you're arguing like it does. That victim mentality is going to be one of the greatest limiting factors in your life. Maybe you should just restate what you're trying to say because it's a bit convoluted and the entire argument is coming across a bit odd
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:30 AM
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I mean recognizing when your worldview is harming others and doing something about it. Not because someone told you to or to get laid. Because you finally clocked that clinging to a broken belief system just so you don’t have to feel wrong is pathetic. That's what I mean by growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:25 AM
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Yeah but I only get to interact with the you on Reddit, so if you choose to show me that you hate women because of your own insecurities and that you're comfortable saying unhinged opinions and trying to pass them off as fact, I'm going to go ahead and treat you like that is exactly the person you are. I don't need to account for who you are anywhere else. I only need to know who you are right here, right now because that is who you are choosing to be. Everyone needs to get a lot more comfortabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:00 PM
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It makes me feel bad that anyone anywhere feels displaced from society this way. That anyone was put in the position to build up this kind of bitterness and hatred without any avenues available to help them work through it in a way that allows them to remain stable throughout the learning/growth process. It makes me feel bad that we, society, spend more time judging and shaming others than we do helping each other grow into better people. So yeah, I can and do feel bad for every man that goes th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:51 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:21 PM
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Hey look I'm sorry that this hit so close to home but every day I come in here and watch men whine and cry about Chad and how they're not good-looking. People in your lives need to be more honest with you. If you're already ugly, then also being an asshole eliminates the already small odds your looks have afforded you. Thems the breaks. Life is shitty for all of us in our own special, unique way. Comparing yourself and your life up others will only ever make you miserable. Sitting in an echo cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:57 PM
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Oh no! Whatever will I do without your good opinion?! Dude. I don't care what you think of me. I'm sorry if this hurts your feelings but it doesn't hurt mine so good luck with everything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:47 PM
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Dude this is embarrassing for you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:06 AM
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It's not virtue signaling for someone to tell you to stop acting like such a little bitch, to stop whining about your looks, to stop crying about the world being unfair, and to just grow the actual fuck up. No one gives a gram of fuck about this display of teen angst. If you want people to discuss a systemic issue, then you actually need to bring more to the conversation than "nuh uh you're wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:16 AM
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You're literally proving the truth of my statement with every irrational response. Bit overkill really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:08 AM
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Dude you're not making half the argument you think you are. I want to be very clear here: at no point have you made an argument that was anything more than you fighting windmills. I'd tell you to stop, but I'd hate to deprive the next person of the opportunity to laugh at all this unearned confidence in your own abilities. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:55 PM
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It's 100% true for you. Promise. No they don't equal. I didn't say they did. I said don't be ugly AND unlikeable. Most of you can only control one of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:52 PM
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This is the most rational, reasonable thing that's ever been written in this sub. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:53 PM
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Idk if I can agree here. I've found that dating has actually gotten easier as I've gotten older. I attribute this to knowing what I will accept in a relationship and learning to be comfortable cutting things off before too much time has been wasted on either side. It's been my experience that both men and women are more comfortable in their own skin and confident about going after what they want the further they get from their 20s and it shows in how most approach dating. Awful people are always…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:47 PM
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Exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:37 PM
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Thanks for letting us know you have no goddamn idea what the just world fallacy is!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:21 PM
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I never said being likeable equates to sexual attraction. If that's what you read, then the real issue here is your reading comprehension. If you're already ugly, you need to give people a reason to engage with you. Bitching to the world at large incessantly about your dating struggles ain't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:20 PM
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You keep repeating the same line without engaging with what I am actually saying. Are you rehearsing your bit or what? There are plenty of people who are not conventionally attractive, not wealthy, and not high status who are still in relationships. That fact alone disproves your claim that looks and status are the only variables. What changes the outcome is how people experience you as a person. If your argument were correct, exceptions would not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:00 PM
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It's cute that you think you proved me wrong about anything. The only thing you proved to me is that the male loneliness epidemic is made 1000x worse by people like you that refuse to take accountability for your own lives and your own behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:03 PM
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It's absolutely whining. None of us are God so we don't have the ability to do anything about your genetics. No, it is exactly for this reason. most people are willing to give you sympathy to a certain extent, but at some point, you have to understand they are literally never going to fucking care as much as you do. Get over yourself. Stop trying to make your issues everyone else's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:55 PM
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Ok? And constantly whining about it helps you how?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:48 PM
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"Women struggle to explain it" Bold of you to cast this stone when you don't even know what you're trying to say with this post. The body has nothing to do with the title. I'm tired so I'm just going to say this bluntly: You are unattractive to people. Not because of your looks. Plenty of ugly people are in relationships. You are unattractive because you'd rather spend your time blaming the world for your bullshit and inability to find healthy coping mechanisms than finding a better way. You don…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:38 PM
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I think it's super easy and wildly helpful to the overall conversation when someone respectfully brings up outside issues in ways that allow me to see how they intersect. Those are some of the most interesting conversations I've ever had. Outside perspective is deeply illuminating if you go into these conversations willing to have your mind changed. That's rarely how it goes down irl though. Usually just something along the same lines as a guy hears women discussing [insert whatever here] and in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:40 PM
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