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Sounds like Cluster B Personality Traits, or Borderline Personality Disorder. If that's remotely true than you're being manipulated and there's some gaslighting. That's why the marriage has been so frustrating. Some days, she's happy. Other days, she's so far down that the suicide threats fly. She's up and down constantly. ​ I am not in a sexless marriage. I am definitely in a sexless marriage. There have been multiple 12+ month periods of zero sex. Even when I try to initiate, I'm shot down, so…
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/23 07:22 PM
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if its been onging forever with constant relapses, the odds of the problem being solved is basically zero in my opinion. every 3 to 6 months you will have a relapse with a new drama. I asked her yesterday, "How do I know you'll never overdose again?" Her response, "I won't." I asked her yesterday, "How do I know you'll never go on a spending spree again?" Her response, "I won't." I asked her yesterday, "How do I know you'll never quit a job in anger again?" Her response, "I won't. All of my prev…
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/23 11:13 AM
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Divorce her. You can’t save her. It’s just a matter of if she goes down solo or takes you with her. I saw this article, and it scared me. It made me think of my wife. https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2023/01/17/mom-sons-found-frozen-michigan-field/11066997002/
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 02:09 PM
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It’s a little scary that she’s made a serious attempt, though. Her last attempt was the worst. She aspirated into her lungs, was put on a vent, and put on antibiotics for possible pneumonia. She was unconscious for days in the ICU. She could have caused permanent brain damage or death.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 02:08 PM
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The dead bedroom is not the #1 reason why I'm considering divorce, but it's been a problem for a long time. There have been multiple 12-month periods of zero sex. She's not interested in me. She never initiates. Most of the time, I was shot down, so I stopped initiating too. She didn't care.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 02:05 PM
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The point of marriage isn’t to endure it. There is no prize for making a miserable marriage last a long time. Marriage is supposed to be a partnership cemented by attraction, affection, respect and love that you enter into to make it easier for both of you get through life together. Very good points. ​ With all due respect, you don't ever listen to what women say. You watch what they do. They will say one thing and do something completely different. A woman's word is not the same thing as a man'…
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 02:03 PM
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With both of us (you/ I) we keep putting it off. It won’t get better though. I would file if I was a you. I know this is awful and miserable. God bles man. My lawyer also mentioned, "It's never going to get better financially, only worse." More and more, I've been thinking about filing. At this point, I don't see any other option. I don't see any other way forward. I don't envision a future with her any longer. Good luck to you too.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 01:56 PM
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You might have days, weeks or months (if you're lucky) where things seem to be ok, but you know that it won't last as you have already experienced. Yep. She overdosed twice, seemed okay for awhile, then got angry and overdosed again. What the hell? ​ She is not your kid. She's not your responsibility. She's an adult and she needs to figure out life on her own. I have to keep reminding myself that she's an adult. Our relationship went from a partnership, to roommates, to an odd parent/child relat…
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 01:54 PM
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A person who quits their job in anger is immature and selfish. I agree. ​ She's deliberately doing this because she knows you are there waiting to baby her and take the fall for her. Yep. We can survive off of a single income, but things would be a lot nicer if we were both working. Unfortunately, that's never happened.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 01:50 PM
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38M. Together 18 years. Married 14 years. 2 kids. My lazy SAHM earned an associate's degree in nursing 10 years ago, and a bachelor's degree in nursing 5 years ago. For the last 10 years, she's had an active nursing license, active liability insurance, a working car, and a driver's license. But, she's barely worked. A few months after earning her bachelor's degree, she found a job, worked for two months, then quit. She never went back to work. She claims that I "prevented" her from working. She …
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/22 06:49 PM
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