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Counterpoint: most women are over-socialized. Spending every second of your day talking to people It is healthy to spend time alone and not being able to spend any time alone is much worse than being awkward socially. It's silly to expect men to magically know all of women's unspoken laws on social interaction. As long as he's polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:46 PM
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We do it more often than women do, lol https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15491274/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:27 PM
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You guys are pretty much openly admitting that women will use sex to get men to vote they way they want
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:13 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:08 PM
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The brutal blackpill of the matter is that women hit the wall at 45, and men hit the wall as soon as they are born Yeah this is pretty realistic. At least for us guys that means things can't get any worse for us as we age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:43 PM
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Because women routinely go for "bad boys" and are completely blind to warning signs of an abuser even when they're explicitly pointed out to them. Women have way too high of physical standards but incredibly poor standards when it comes to personality. Men's standards are practically nonexistent. The few standards we occasionally have usually have to do with whether or not she'd treat us right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:02 PM
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The "alpha" and "beta" behavior was observed only in domesticated wolves. Wolves in the wild are strictly monogamous. So I do think that there are "alpha" and "beta" males but that only happens when men have effectively been domesticated. And I do believe most men have been domesticated by society. And you say that "we're people not animals" after admitting to hooking up and not being in a real relationship. That is the most classic example of animal behavior, seeking a large amount of mates wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:41 PM
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Men share their feelings and emotions with other men all the time, we have just been conditioned to hide it from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:12 PM
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Men often open up about emotional issues with each other, we just don't want women to know about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:25 AM
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Not necessarily. I just wish that as a society we could advise people on how to avoid certain crimes without being accused of "victim blaming". Like, you're not to blame for not locking your door if a burglar just walks in and steals your shit. But you are a dumbass for not locking your door. The blame still lies 100% on the burglar but the victim still could have avoided that crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:52 PM
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I genuinely can't imagine being this upset over having a body part. It just is what it is. It's part of our biology. The DNA that gives your body the genetic code to make breasts is the same stuff that gives your body the genetic code to make the hands you use to post this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 06:56 PM
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Well, it's much easier to put out than it is to get resources. Plenty of men would be down to have sex rather than do a full days work, even if they were tired of sex or weren't attracted to the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:45 PM
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Just world theory is a helluva drug
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:42 PM
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Absolutely. It wouldn't be hard either. Confidence is one of the biggest traits women look for, whether consciously or not, and as soon as you tune that out, you get a lot better at picking people. I'd go as far as to say that vetting for less confident men would yield better results. Not all confident people are assholes, but all assholes are confident. You need loads of confidence to be always assuring yourself that your bad deeds won't go unpunished or unnoticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:27 PM
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You're right that it's not rooted in morality. It's rooted in data. People who have had more premarital sex partners tend to be more likely to divorce or break up and are just more unhappy in general. It goes for both men and women. Women just don't ask for it because they know the guy who checks their hundreds of boxes is never going to be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:09 PM
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Men have been told over and over to treat women the same way as men. It's one of the biggest pieces of advice offered by the bluepill. "Just treat women like another human being!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:02 PM
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Women are more liberal and men are more conservative. That's all there is to it. Conservative women get picked up quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:59 PM
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Lmao is this actually being posted by a dude trying to get women to look bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:58 PM
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Women are just trying to be safe. Lmao even the women on this subreddit admit to using it just to see drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:28 PM
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But that's that's worse. You do realize why that's worse, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:27 PM
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Closer to being a monolith than men are, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:26 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex. They have way more options for sex partners than men do, and have to do way less work to get them. Men want kids just as much as women do, the problem is that women are specifically seeking out the men who don't want kids and/or would be a terrible father. A father abandoning his children is an almost universally reviled action among other men, personally I am constantly telling other men to take responsibility for their actions and to only sleep with women they…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:27 PM
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Successful women do not have a lonliness epidemic. Plenty of men are willing to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:41 AM
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Women are only non violent because they have an outlet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:51 PM
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Testosterone is a hell of a drug
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:50 PM
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A lot of women who've had bad experiences romantically/sexually, who are used to having to beg for any sort of positive interactions w them, are WAY more likely to appreciate and love a good partner who treats them like a person. In my experience, the exact opposite is true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:33 PM
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Newsflash, like 97% of the women who shouldn't be dating are able to get dates consistently
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:33 PM
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Bonus points if she transfers her resentment for her past partners to her present one, using him as her surrogate emotional punching bag. This is why I'm extremely hesitant to date, as a guy. Once mention of a "toxic ex" and I'm gone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:32 PM
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If you reject 50 potential partners and still pick the wrong one, you shouldn't be allowed to vote or breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:14 PM
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Not at all. I'm maybe a little jealous but I don't resent either sides of that kind of relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:11 PM
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A lot of women who are used to easy access to sex would go on a rampage. Femcels would make Eliot Rodger look like a federal agent
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:08 PM
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Lots of people bitch online about something. Women who want to stay single do this at least as much as the MGTOW guys. Unless they're harassing people IRL or pushing for real changes, it's a non-issue
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:35 PM
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How so exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:50 PM
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If your baby didn't look like you, and you're worried the hospital could have mixed up babies in the nursery, would you want to do an easy and painless test to make sure your baby is actually the one you made?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:56 PM
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Whenever a woman is upset about paternity tests I pose this question: If your baby didn't look like you, and you're worried the hospital could have mixed up babies in the nursery, would you want to do an easy and painless test to make sure your baby is actually the one you made? All women who get upset at the idea of paternity tests lack empathy. They literally can't imagine what it would be like to get tricked into raising a child that isn't theirs. At this point I'm fairly certain I won't want…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:15 PM
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Women's reliance on a massive gossip group to choose partners hasn't done them any good. Furthermore, it's weird that women do this. It's like the potential guys are dating the woman hivemind instead of the individual woman. I understand wanting opinions from a trusted source about concerning behavior, but relying on strangers for their opinion of another stranger makes no sense, especially for a first date. I'm not gonna lie, learning that this app exists has shoved me way further towards the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:40 PM
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Go on Tumblr lmao the amount of young women who are explicitly looking for guys old enough to be their father is alarming
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:28 PM
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Now a guy she’s not interested in, much much easier. That makes sense, but I don't think most men find themselves in the same situation. I can't speak for all guys but for me and most guys I've met, we've never had a situation where we really liked a girl as a friend but didn't want it to be romantic. It's like women have separate standards for "ideal male friend" and "ideal male partner" but men don't have separate standards for female friends and female partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:58 AM
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The "promiscuous woman" flair is a dead giveaway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:54 AM
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Men do value community and connection with other men. Maybe you don't offer any sort of connection so that's why men only use you for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:51 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:50 PM
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That's because bluepill dating advice is borderline gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:11 PM
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At this point I think men are biologically hardwired for a relationship more than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:10 PM
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Nah there's plenty of men who are looking for genuine, deep romantic relationships with women. But when they find out that most women don't offer genuine connection, they settle for just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 10:22 PM
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Because these high standards are almost always physical, or some irrelevant BS like an "ick" because he wore green on the first date or because he has a mom who is still alive or because he owns a cat. When we say "choose better" we are talking about personality traits or signifiers of personality traits. Women shouldn't choose: men who are unemployed men who are alcoholics men with a high body count men with anger issues If women filtered men for these 4 things, domestic violence would drop lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 10:14 PM
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What makes you think women would want to date a guy who is less wealthy/ambitious/charismatic than she is? Dating as a guy is hard enough as it is, trying to date upward is basically impossible. I'd sooner try to win the lottery, my chances would be much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:59 PM
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They do exist, but not in the sense that you might think. IIRC the person who observed wolves' behaviors found out that they only get to an alpha/beta hierarchy in captivity. In the wild, there is no "alpha" or leader. Each male wolf pairs with 1 other female wolf. They're basically monogamous. In human society, it's just getting harder to live, and wages are not catching up to the cost of living, and there's an ever increasing list of rules and laws we have to follow. We are essentially sinking…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:39 PM
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"Men just need to do X" stands for "I wish the men I were attracted to did X" I feel like I've known this for a while but haven't been able to put it into words, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:22 PM
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Yeah I remember seeing a statistic that showed that women react more positive to dating profies where the man is stone-faced as opposed to smiling, and shortly after I saw a post on here saying that men should smile more in their tinder profile pictures. I also remember seeing a statistic that said that men with their cat in their profile picture is generally seen as a turn off, but women on social media generally say they like men with cats I don't remember either source so this is basically an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:29 PM
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Women want men to perform traditional gender roles but are unwilling to perform their own traditional gender roles. Yeah this is pretty much it. Sums up most gender relations
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:01 PM
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There isn't really a male equivalent because men generally don't care about a woman's status or wealth. In most men's romance fantasies, the man is getting recognized for a great deed (slaying a dragon, rescuing a princess, defeating a villain, fighting in a war, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:16 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:08 PM
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Personally it depends entirely on why she's broke and if she expects you to pay for her stuff. Broke because she doesn't have a high paying job or she hit financial harshsips that aren't her fault? Absolutely fine. Would be willing to live with her and not expect her to pay rent. Broke because she refuses to work at all and/or spends a lot of money on weed, alcohol, or restaurant food? She's for the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:39 PM
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Thanks. As a guy, it's so relieving to see women acknowledge this. My life would have turned out to be much worse if it wasn't for my swim coach and my stepdad being good role models for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:03 PM
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It depends on what category we are talking about. For looks and charisma the bar is on the ceiling, actually it's above the entire building. For wealth the bar is pretty high. So is having interests that are attractive to women. For not being a violent criminal the bar is basically underground. So is giving your potential GF attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:34 PM
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I never said anything about #2
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:19 AM
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Nah, from having lived with my mom, my sister, and female roommates, it's really not a lot of work for them. (Women also work, develop hobbies, engage in self-improvement.) If they want to, sure. They don't have to if they want dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:45 PM
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Personally, I continued working out (for my health) and having certain hobbies (because I enjoy them) but I dropped the rest. Dressing nice and getting monthly haircuts is something that I have zero interest in since I quit dating. I keep myself clean of course, but trying to be immaculately groomed and dressed is a huge waste of time and money to me. Being a social butterfly is also something I quit caring about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:35 PM
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I shave my legs partially to appeal to men. I asked myself if men would go that to attract women. Most single guys actually would do this if it was something that the majority of women found attractive. It would be a drop in the bucket compared to the weekly excersizing, working, and hobbies he'd have to do in order to gain attraction from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:20 PM
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the guys keep insisting that there are studies proving that 30+ childless women are the most depressed group in existence. Here's one of them: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db377.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:41 PM
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It's silly that you automatically assume my age, that I want a tradwife, and that I'm getting "monetized". All I implied is that modern relationships aren't healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:16 PM
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Because bluepill is just men and women being normal No one is arguing against this. The question is whether or not "normal" is good. For example, it's normal for the average person to not get enough exercise and not eat healthy. We need to change what "normal" is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:43 PM
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This is a scientifically documented fact. Women's in group bias is over four times stronger than men's. (In other words, women defend other women more often than men defend other men) https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect#:~:text=In%2Dgroup%20bias,-Rudman%20and%20Goodwin&text=This%20research%20found%20that%20while,stronger%20than%20those%20of%20men. (I know it's Wikipedia but it cites several academic sources)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:41 PM
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You owe your spouse or BF/GF if they're giving affection to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:44 PM
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It cites studies regarding agreeableness from 1994 and 2001 and a lot has changed since then, societally. Also, I couldn't get access to the research papers that this source cited, and I was really curious as to how the measure agreeableness and what kind of survey questions they asked. It wouldn't surprise me if women are more agreeable with other women than men are with other men, but what I'm talking about is men and women's agreeableness with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:34 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:14 AM
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Men are less agreeable than women. Let's start addressing that behavior first. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:16 AM
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Compatibility is obviously essential, but there are also ideologies that are actively trying to make people less compatible with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:09 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:02 AM
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Because a lot of people confuse the two
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:18 PM
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Nope. When feminists "warn" women about men, they're warning them about men who have boundaries, like not wanting their GF texting her ex, or having an Onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:58 PM
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But phrases like "I'm a strong independent woman" strongly suggest that a woman's views on relationships are casual. Even if that's not the intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:41 PM
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There is a small subset of men who genuinely want a submissive woman, and then there is a larger portion of men who say they want a submissive woman simply because they're tired of all the "girlbosses" and can't imagine a middle ground because they haven't met a woman like that yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:28 PM
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Saying that you simply would like a partner sounds really casual, and there are people who view relationships as a much more passionate thing. There are people who feel that without a relationship, a piece of themselves is missing, and they shouldn't settle for someone who wants a relationship as an add-on to their life. There ARE men out there who appreciate a woman with a sense of humor and an actual personality. Yes, there are, and they avoid women who tout "independence" as a personality tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:26 PM
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