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26 year olds do get into serious long term relationships at that age and begin the process of settling down. The kids in their 30's thing? Refer back to my comment about the settling in period of the relationship. The 26 y/o is on track to have kids then but the 36y/o ain't. The former is in a better place biologically to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:30 PM
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I agree with DumbWordsmith. With the 26 y/o, he has time to vet the relationship and with kids in mind, the 26 y/o is more likely to have better fertility. Let's say in both relationships they take a few years before having kids; the 26 y/o is pushing 30, while the 36 y/o is nearly 40. No comparison in terms of who has the more optimal fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:07 PM
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25? Not everyone goes to college. Some people start work full time work straight out of high school. Even most bachelor's degree graduates will be done and in full time work by 21/22.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:39 PM
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Those women from 1st world, Western countries, who visit the likes of Gambia, go there because they can exploit the economic power that they have over poor, young African man. The men sell themselves to these middle-aged Western women because they can make money that they could only dream of in their native countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:44 PM
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It's something that is very low effort to do. As I explained earlier, women, on average, can expect a lot of matches and messages. Sitting back and responding to dating app messages is a passive role in comparison to those who generally have to initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:52 PM
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It is passive. Women can expect to be messaged a lot by men on these apps. That's men taking the lead and women still playing a passive role. Even if women still message first, I don't think it's in any way comparable to physically approaching a stranger in real life. And by and large, women have the options on these apps not to have to do this anyway. That's why it was quite amusing to see Bumble change their model of women having to message first to giving them the option of setting a question…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:20 PM
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Don't agree, not in modern times anyway. Such women can go on dating apps and still have plenty of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 04:02 PM
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You can only swipe on five people a day on Hinge (with the free version). I think by design that encourages more pickiness. Data from other apps has shown that women swipe right significantly less than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:38 PM
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Would suggest watching Dr. Mike Israetel's content on YouTube. He knows this stuff inside out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:13 PM
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I'm Irish and that salary would be 46k euro here. That'd be considered a pretty good salary for a 24 year old. It's above the median for workers of all ages. So you are right about the mentality thing. I can't comprehend being insecure about that salary at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:35 PM
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The point of self-improvement is to hit your attractiveness ceiling, as much as is reasonably possible. Then it's a matter of coming to terms with the looks level of who you can attract. I daresay some on this sub haven't come to terms with their true level on the dating market and rehash thread after thread about how women should change their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:15 PM
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Men do look for casual sex more often but the preference for younger women still boils down to reproduction at the end of the day. Younger women = more fertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:37 PM
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Yeah, I see the OP's example catching less heat because partnering up with a man in his 40's suits the general sexual strategy of a 30 year old woman. He's probably well established and financially secure. But women in the age range you mention; older women get pissed from an intrasexual competition perspective because they know that looks-wise, they can't compete with women of that age. Perhaps some single women in their forties will lash out at men their age going for women in their thirties. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:47 PM
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You wouldn't otherwise have gone on the date if he didn't send a car. So it clearly was a standard of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:38 PM
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This is eerily similar to what Ireland is facing at the moment too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:12 AM
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Why would finances peak then? This article says salaries peak at 49 for college educated men and it logically makes more sense than late 20's/30's. https://www.cnbc.com/2017/08/17/when-youll-earn-the-most-in-your-career.html More time for career progression/promotions etc. Late 20's-early 30's men have only had around half a decade to a decade since college graduation to grow their careers. What people like Rollo Tomassi do say is that around that age is when men can peak in terms of overall pac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:35 PM
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Most of what you wrote about introverts and filtering in the first few paragraphs are fair points. The rest is very naive about the experience of others (particularly most men), however. You are projecting your own experience of dating apps and think its the universal experience. Only a small percentage of men can access casual sex on the apps. Putting aside the casual sex and addressing your last point about meeting a partner, again I think your overall perception is skewed by your own experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:16 PM
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Women don't tend to be as overt where I am. They will mention something like "I'm a BBW/curvy/big girl, swipe left if that's not your thing", but don't outright say "I'm not into fat dudes". I feel like "looking for someone who is active" is code for not wanting a fat partner, the same way 'ambition' seems to be code for having a good job/making good money. It's probably the non-overweight women who mention the active thing the most though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:38 PM
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What age range are the girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 09:08 PM
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Yeah, I imagine demographics/geographic location also play a role too. I'm in a European country so it's quite likely we're in separate nations and comparing different sociocultural demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:51 PM
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Have to agree with you. Even college aged girls are still gettable at that age. If anything, a mid 20's guy has an edge over the male peers of those girls. Probably has a full time (and better) job, superior finances, nicer car, better accommodation etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:21 PM
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I'm early 30's and there is absolutely no shortage of women without kids still available. From what I see on dating apps, single mothers are still the minority if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:11 PM
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Nah, I think it is the fitness industry (via Instagram) and certain action/superhero etc films setting that "standard", not women. Most of these movie stars are on gear to get those physiques in the timespan they do. With the male fitness influencers on Instagram, if their career depends on looking big and shredded, you can guarantee most of them are on steroids to achieve that. Instagram is promoting a lot of unrealistic physiques to nattys who won't get those looks without drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:22 PM
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Definitely prefer Bumble to Tinder as a guy. The concept behind it is a good one because generally women who choose to message first show themselves to have higher interest than the average match. This is not to say that there aren't conversations that don't go beyond a few messages, or that a large portion of matches still don't message at all, but having that contingent of women who do message is preferable to Tinder which has a worse female to male ratio and seems to place all the onus on a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:43 PM
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I think you're neglecting the work that a subset of the so called 'hookup material' guys will have put in. A lot of these guys will have entered this category through years of hard work at the gym, strict diet etc. Some of these will have been 'boyfriend material' in the past but worked their way into getting more genuine desire from women. My point is this; you're talking about 'boyfriend material' guys having to work harder for sex, without mentioning the effort that comes with improving attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:56 PM
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Things don't work like that, and would just be a recipe for unhappy and short lived relationships at absolute best. I don't think the app would be a success. People would quickly revert to the established apps or just try meet people in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:23 PM
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You can't force people to match with people they have no interest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:51 PM
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I'm Irish and we seem to be very much an outlier with our high percentage of single-sex schools (strong hangover from when the Catholic church had a lot of political power over the state). I think mixed-sex is the norm pretty much everywhere else in the West. I don't agree with the concept at all; if you aren't sociable outside of school you could quite easily have limited contact with the opposite sex. Just not good at that important developmental stage to segregate the genders when it doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:59 PM
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Not my school, but one nearby. Immediately after graduating high school, a girl got into a relationship with one of her teachers. I reckon the teacher was early thirties at the youngest, possibly mid-thirties. No idea if anything happened before she left school (I didn't attend there), but obviously things were brewing between the pair at that point. I'd imagine it only became official after her leaving school in order to give it that air of moral legitimacy and not get the male teacher in troub…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:26 PM
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Well done on all that progress. How did the attention from women differ when you were in a bulking phase at higher bodyfat (but still muscular) compared to having visible abs? Are you natty?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:58 PM
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Granted I'm in a European country, but from being around college campuses in the last few years I would definitely say you see more overweight young women than you do young men. A more normal, regular weight was still the norm for both genders though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:49 PM
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The apps themselves don't filter those women out through algorithms. It depends on each users age filter and this is totally dependent on their individual preference. For example, some 21 year old women might be ok with having an upper limit of early 30's men, but others may not want to see any beyond mid-20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:40 PM
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I take your point, but in fairness to him, Cooper also stresses lifting weights and eating well on his channel. So if young men follow that advice, they are on the right track to more immediate success and don't have to focus entirely on making six figures in the probably vain hope that they might get college girls in their 40's. And getting a good career together is just good general advice that you can do alongside taking care of your appearance in the short-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:33 PM
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I think a reason men don't buy into body positivity like women do is because they innately know they can't get away with letting themselves go as much as women can in the dating market. Not saying women won't be perceived as less attractive, but there's definitely a bigger market for overweight women than there is for overweight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:57 PM
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The incel term was coined by a woman in the 90's. https://www.theguardian.com/world/2018/apr/25/woman-who-invented-incel-movement-interview-toronto-attack
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:49 PM
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"As RP men like to say, men reach their peak at 50" No, they don't. When a mans peak is discussed, most say it's a trade off between youth and financial stability. Usually around 35. And I'd argue that if a man already had a good salary in his late 20's, is on more money in his mid-30's but not substantially so, he peaked in his late 20's rather than mid-30's. All other things being equal, fitness etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:01 PM
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Not sure what your point is, professional athletes have always had access to beautiful women, and way before dating apps/instagram existed. They could meet these girls at nightclubs/events, Tinder wasn't necessary. So what's changed? Technology has advanced but the same trend remains. It's merely being reflected in a new format.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:44 PM
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He still has a considerable amount of muscle mass. He has a well developed chest, traps, shoulders etc. I wouldn't consider that a dad bod at all. Just a well built, muscular guy that isn't at his absolute leanest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:31 PM
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This is consistent with a good bit of what I've seen too, across generations even. My parents, and their friends in college etc. Can think of a good few people from college 8-9 years ago who either met there and are still together, or are still with the girlfriend/boyfriend they were with at the time (who wasn't in the same college). Some are married and/or have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 02:36 PM
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You don't seem to be aware of Rollo's history. Yes, he's been married for years, but if you've read his books you'll see him talk about his "rock star 20's" where he was part of a band on the LA metal scene during the late 80's/early 90's. This is the period of his life where he was spinning plates. The band gave him the kind of status that allowed him to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:52 PM
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