Royal-Chipmunk-3380 Archive

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3	Emotional detachment yes. but in case of a divorce, please don`t go without an attorney. cut your looses loose, if you have to loose everything to not have to pay alimony(unless you have over 1M in assets, dont give everything hahaha, just be generous... alimony over 5 years is hell - im stuck with 15 years), so be it ; and go find how good the life is. It is worthless to be miserable for long(i wouldn`t say miserable, more like "living in nothiness"). from experience I`ve waisted over 25 years hoping things would g…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/26 06:34 AM
1	Wife is thinking of leaving. How do I avoid alimony? if you are in the us, depending on the state and how reasonable she is, you could do a short term lump sum (<5 years is the best in my opinion), I would giver her 100% of the equity of the house. divorce is negociable, if you can negociate w her, if you can`t.. it is from the judge to decide. and of course get an attorney, it is cheaper than not having one.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/26 06:24 AM