Royal-Heron-11 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	The Best Advice I’ve Ever Received About Women… Yikes dude. Big yikes.	/r/seduction	18/11/25 01:08 AM
17	The Best Advice I’ve Ever Received About Women… Not to be rude, but this advice sounds nonsensical. Knowing yourself, a man, doesn't teach your shit about women. Learning yourself helps women be able to understand you better, which makes things easier. But plenty of people know themselves very deeply and can carefully say hi to a random woman.	/r/seduction	17/11/25 10:18 PM
1	How do you actually flirt sexually without coming off creepy or too aggressive? I don't know how to flirt in a way that feels natural and not forced. You'll hate this answer, but flirting will never feel natural if you aren't confident. You could have a professional in your ear guiding your every word and it would still come out forced because your delivery would be the issue. Obviously word choice matters a lot, but when it comes to women? The energy behind your words holds way more meaning than your words. You could take an attractive guy and give him the perfect flirt sc…	/r/seduction	17/11/25 10:14 PM
1	Female Boobs or Ass for clothing? Both. The answer is both.	/r/seduction	17/11/25 04:54 PM
-2	What do you guys think about the nicegirls sub. Is that sub in the room with us right now?	/r/seduction	16/11/25 03:21 AM
0	Approach Journey: Logging Every Interaction - Day 2 Eh nah, as long as you don't genuinely look like a creep there's no harm in saying hi or even just not introducing yourself and going with a softer approach of simply pointing out something. If she's interested, she will continue the conversation. If she's not you'll get a nervous "thanks" and then nothing more. As long as you aren't creepy and sit there staring at her it's fine. All I'm saying is, women keep getting stabbed and attacked on trains all over the world. Seems like a daily occurrenc…	/r/seduction	14/11/25 09:47 PM
4	Approach Journey: Logging Every Interaction - Day 2 You fucked up by not striking a conversation when you guys locked eyes. First impression is everything. Chasing after her as she gets off the tram comes off creepy. The right time, the only time, to strike up that type of conversation is in that 10-15 second window, once that's passed? You're done. Lock eyes, quiet smile... "Hey, Josh, I like your literally ANYTHING about her besides a physical attribute"	/r/seduction	14/11/25 07:53 PM
2	How was your progress? I was a 5'4" Asian virgin in my 20s Ngl, was waiting to find out you were now a 6' tall white boy in your 30s	/r/seduction	11/11/25 10:50 PM
1	My initiation and escalation worked against me Lmao GTFO with this nonsense. Homie Bear pawed both ass cheeks on the second date. Dating isn't the same as hookups at a club. There's usually the assumption of certain levels of trust being gained before jumping to more things. This guy will never know if she was really into him or not. But regardless, ass grab one date 2 was way too much for a goodbye kiss. You need to read her body language at the very least before that stuff. Unless the goodbye kiss turns into passionate making out, it's pro…	/r/seduction	11/11/25 10:42 PM
2	Had it, then lost it What is your goal exactly? Hooking up with random people all the time? Or trying to actually be in something serious? Because there's different paths depending on the goal.	/r/seduction	11/11/25 02:05 PM
7	How I stopped getting friendzoned instantly > Doesn’t sound like a woman's opinion matter to him Ahhh, that makes sense, so he's here to learn how to seduce other men?	/r/seduction	11/11/25 01:46 PM
5	How I stopped getting friendzoned instantly Luckily, most women will run to "the bathroom" as soon as a guy refers to women as females. Best part of guys like this is they're so toxic that it's hard for them to hide it. But they'll keep crying about why nothing in these shitty game books works lol	/r/seduction	11/11/25 12:09 PM
3	How I stopped getting friendzoned instantly Calling women "females" is the most cringe incel bullshit ever. Stop doing it. It's disgusting. One would think if your goal is to have sex with women? That you would think their opinion matters because you know, they probably know what matters to them?	/r/seduction	11/11/25 12:02 PM
1	Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kind Yup. I've been with my wife for awhile now, I've gotten used to the comments we get when we're out. I have been assumed to be her father and brother on many occasions, mind you, she is Hispanic and I am most definitely white. I have also been actively sitting at bars with her where there's a lul in conversation and some dude will just lean in and start trying to chat with her assuming they have the game to get her attention. It's actually something we have fun with now. On multiple occasions we'…	/r/seduction	11/11/25 03:57 AM
1	how often does outergame fail for you? You're trying to approach women like they're a fucking recipe for banana bread. Stop reading stupid pickup culture bullshit. Stop using dumbass pick up game language and tactics. You're failing because you're pretending to be a person you aren't and she picks up in it every time. It is so obvious to a woman when you're following a script and it's also pathetic to them once they realize it. If all you care about is getting random hookups? Do whatever you want that you think helps. But if you care…	/r/seduction	10/11/25 08:15 PM
1	How To Get Good At Sex (Aside From Having It)? First girl I ever slept with had a decent amount of experience and gave me some of the best advice ever when she could tell how nervous I was... "I would say just relax and be confident and you'll be fine. But clearly you're nervous right now, not confident and relaxed. Instead of trying to relax and be confident, let your arousal guide you. Just be enthusiastic and act like you know what you want, then take it. It's basically what people mean when they say "be confident". Be confident is shit a…	/r/seduction	10/11/25 08:07 PM
3	Does it feel like a loss when you’re dating a woman and she wants to break up with you and you never had sex with her? Yeah, 2 weeks? Sure, some people take a bit to warm up. But if you're out of the first month and still "taking it slow" just realize she just likes the company and free food.	/r/seduction	10/11/25 07:47 PM
-1	I slowly give it up with women Contrary to popular belief, It actually takes a lot of intelligence getting a good physique; this is precisely why so few people have it, and why 70% of Americans are overweight. Lmao, no it doesn't, what? It actually takes little to no intelligence to get a good physique. Which is precisely why body builders tend to be pretty fucking dumb and many professional athletes can barely spell their own names. It requires you to track macros, learn different muscles and their respective exercises, trai…	/r/seduction	10/11/25 06:43 PM
0	I slowly give it up with women Getting in shape is not only an external thing. It is a solid “badge” that shows you are a dude that has the work ethic, discipline, and intelligence to gain something that 99% of the general population does not have, a solid physique. It actually conveys none of this, all it conveys is that you spend way too much time at the gym to still have time to work and show up as a quality companion. You can convey work ethic and discipline without being shredded. It doesn't take going to the gym to conv…	/r/seduction	10/11/25 06:22 PM
1	Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kind Lol... you never seemed to hanged out with convenionally unattractive dudes and highly attractive ones. You ll see how differently they get treated regardless if they are nice, not nice or just minding their own business. You're still wrong. I have in fact hung out with friends ranging from incredibly attractive to incredibly unattractive. In fact, one of the defining life moments that showed me how untrue this was is when I was 19. Myself and 4 buddies rented a house for a year together. They w…	/r/seduction	10/11/25 06:13 PM
1	Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kind Nobody said worship you. You seem to be speaking in a lot of generalities so I'm going to assume your words have a more specific meaning you're intentionally avoiding. You don't expect them to worship you, but you expect to not be treated like cat piss... What does being treated like cat piss mean? And thats what happens to men, you think those guys think helping and being nice will lead them get brownie points? of course not. Should it lead to brownie points? No. Does it when you aren't expecti…	/r/seduction	10/11/25 05:43 PM
0	How stupid is this statement:"Stop Thinking About it, Focus on yourself, and it will happen". Because you misunderstood the advice. Stop thinking about it and trying to obtain it, focus on yourself and it will happen. It's low key the only advice you'll ever need if you understand it's meaning. "Stop thinking and trying to obtain it" does NOT mean focus on everything else but that. It means when you get so obsessed with finding someone that it becomes all encompassing and the only thing you spend energy on at all, you look begin to lose sight of who you are and what you want. When you lo…	/r/seduction	10/11/25 05:31 PM
6	I slowly give it up with women I believe that no man has the right to complain until they have accomplished this: a decently muscular physique with a 10-12 percent body fat. Sigh, no, just no. Just trust me, as a totally average looking dude who has hooked up with more attractive women and is married to a more attractive woman than many of my more attractive male friends? Getting the girl has zero to do with your physical shape, dick size or amount of money in your wallet and everything to do with the energy you give off in p…	/r/seduction	10/11/25 05:05 PM
3	Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kind Because it's not a conscious transaction, it's a covert one , to both of you. You are only doing the nice thing in hopes it leads to reciprocation your way. You even said it in your own post. Someone being kind and nice should be appreciated and in ideal world one way or another returned. This right here is what you are missing. You EXPECT that when you do nice and kind things, those gestures will be in some way returned in kind. So yes, you may not literally be saying "I'll move her fridge and …	/r/seduction	10/11/25 04:00 PM
1	Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kind This is just simply not true, really at all. You're assigning value to all the wrong things and resenting women for it in the process. Being the tall swedish hunk will get you in the front door, might even get you a one night stand but it won't get you into her heart if you're still a "nice guy". It doesn't matter if you're Pedro Pascal, if you have this nice guy attitude you clearly display here, it'll never work out how you want it to work out. I'm not conventionally attractive, never have bee…	/r/seduction	10/11/25 03:47 PM
1	Does anyone think the "nice guy syndrome" thing is total bs Being yourself, genuinely. I know so many people say this but it is true. When you're trying to be someone else to get past the talking stage, it will always give off some form of distrusting vibe to every woman you talk too. If your response to that is "but people don't like me when I act like myself"? Then either you aren't really acting like yourself, you're acting like the version of you that you've created OR you need to find better people that fit who you are to be around. I lacked confide…	/r/seduction	10/11/25 03:23 PM
1	There Are Guys In This Sub Who Don’t Know The Difference Between “Sexual Attraction” and “Physical Attraction “😳 Believe it or not, attraction can be built, it isn't always a binary on/off experience. I almost ghosted my first date with my now wife because despite talking for like 1-2 weeks before our first in person date, I wasn't sure if I thought she was attractive in photos/video calls. My type back then was basically the complete opposite of her. I was into skinny pale girls with small perky boobs. She was/is a small thicker latina. Big ass, thick thighs, flat stomach, big boobs, coffee skin. Not fat …	/r/seduction	10/11/25 02:46 PM
1	Does anyone think the "nice guy syndrome" thing is total bs Confidence is about acting in a way that is true to you and knowing that you're a good man at heart. Confidence is knowing that even the greatest men make mistakes where they make people feel bad or upset. I unintentionally hurt my wife sometimes. The reason it's never an issue for us is because I show up confident and regulated in those moments. I don't go "I didn't do anything to you, stop being so sensitive", that is dismissive. I also don't say "Oh no, I'm sorry that what I did made you feel…	/r/seduction	10/11/25 02:30 PM
6	Does anyone think the "nice guy syndrome" thing is total bs This right here hit the nail on the head. Anyone confused by the nice guy stuff, needs to read this post. A "nice guy" as you said, will get upset at being turned down, sulk, argue, try to convince etc. They express some sense of entitlement to sex, like they did XYZ for you, now it's time for you to reciprocate. They are trying to build enough sexual currency through covert contracts (aka people pleasing). He will try to convince her why her no should be a yes or ask if he can do things to make…	/r/seduction	10/11/25 02:20 PM