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| 11 | Look at this incel bullshit, they've put "sex" under basic physiological needs. Normalizing rape logic as "education" 🙄🤮emotional intimacy/vulnerability would be a better fit for love/belonging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 11:01 AM |
| 3 | Ran into a guy I’ve been seeing while he was on a date with another girlI'd expect a man to not want to see me again if he saw me out on a dinner date in the middle of a pandemic. Remember the times we're living in here. I'm talking to men for several weeks before going on a first date now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:41 PM |
| 10 | Ran into a guy I’ve been seeing while he was on a date with another girlI keep hearing this being said but it never really seems to work out that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.I’ve had one with an open phone cheat. I used his phone all the time unattended without delving into his messages/emails. He just assumed he had the wool completely over my eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 05:12 AM |
| 8 | breaking up with my bf for texting his exYeah it definitely sounded flirty and out of line as an ex. My ex cheated on me a ton. He almost exclusively had female friends. It was painfully obvious to me which ones were honestly platonic and which ones weren’t. It gave me a lot of confidence to trust my gut reactions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:32 AM |
| 15 | OBESE PRE DIABETIC SCROTE WITH ED DEMANDS QWEEN GET BUTT LIFT SURGERYIt felt pretty nice reading that she broke up with him. She has the right mindset. :) I hope they don’t talk her out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 10:47 PM |
| 3 | How fast we went from "dump the racist perv" to "I'm going to set myself on fire so he can stay warm"She doesn’t quite feel like an object to him yet and thinks they’re viewing each other from the same level. We may be watching her learn an unfortunate lesson. 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 10:58 PM |
| 51 | Are you sureee you’re looking for someone smart? Are you positiveeee you’re only 27?Profile says 27 and the neck says 44. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Keeping the Good Memories From a Trip & Taking the Trash Out of Frame- Bye-bye Abusive Ex!I would not have my face on this subreddit. Keep safe!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 06:11 PM |
| 21 | Military scrote cheap af and looking to fuck. Also might have an Asian fetish 🤮🤮🤮Well it’s all likely job related if he’s enrolled so I wouldn’t jump towards Asian fetish. I’d be more curious as to why he enjoyed that end of the world. Is it for the sex work or does he just enjoy travel? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 02:22 AM |
| 5 | I love men who put their red flags in their dating profile biosIt’s a copy paste sorta deal. They don’t wanna put together a profile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 05:47 PM |
| 25 | I am so damn tired of LVM quarantaine thirstinessI got rid of my orbiter LVM around a month ago. From “friends” to workmates alike. No texts or thirst here which is nice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 11:22 PM |
| 125 | Don’t tell the men you know about FDSSame here! Hii internet besties. The only discussions surrounding FDS that I have are with a few close IRL female friends that I've linked. Funnily enough I found FDS because one of these LV creatures that lurk linked it in an askreddit topic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 08:17 PM |
| 21 | “Touring Musician” ran away after I listed that I sang back in the day and had a few hobby instruments 🤡😂No. He doesn’t know how is more likely. She called his bluff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:40 AM |
| 58 | This sub has made me cry. I've wasted so much time and love. Did I (29F) lose a cheating (with 18F) narcissistic LVM (30M) or a HVM that met me as a Becky, treated me as a Dreamgirl but wanted to get rid of me due to my Beckiness again?A high value man will just leave. I had to stop reading midway. You will read this later on and cringe at how much of a slime ball he is. I understand breaking up over snooping but no normal healthy person goes nuclear like that. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Times Up Joe BidenHe was kissing his granddaughter full on the lips during his rallies earlier this year!! It’s easy to find on YouTube. Super creepy but everyone seems to just accept it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 10:47 PM |
| 39 | "I am mid 50ties, but my gf cannot be older than 25. Oh, and I am also married."“Comfortable with unprotected sex and and consequences.” Aka I have every strain of HPV and HSV and don’t care that I’m exposing you to it. 🤮 Fuck ya future reproductive health! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 06:33 PM |
| 66 | I dumped him because he wouldn’t add me on facebook.No there’s no valid reason unless he literally has a dead profile he doesn’t use. I’ve made the same mistake in the past. It lasted a couple of months but it bugged the shit out of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 05:11 PM |
| 8 | Please change some details about your personal storiesWhen you're posting in controversial subs that attract nutjobs like FDS does then it's best to keep that stuff hidden. :) When you view my IG you only see me/my animals/hobbies. Very neutral. And even then it's pretty well closed off to friends/family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Women’s coworker always has visible penis - bunch of males comment saying she’s being ridiculous.Light colored tight pants make it a focal point. 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 04:57 AM |
| 8 | Man wants to know how to teach his daughter how to masturbateThe best and sensible answer is to buy her books aimed at preteen sexuality. There are an absolute wealth of resources for this. This conversation should absolutely never happen. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 01:31 AM |
| 3 | I have a question for former pick me or cool girls. How do you come to terms with the things you used to do?If you can forgive yourself for all of the silly things you did growing up then you can forgive yourself for this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 04:04 AM |
| 37 | At least she sees his true coloursWtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 02:02 AM |
| 10 | WhAt ShOuLd I dO?I wouldn’t marry a man who I haven’t seen tipsy or drunk at least once. Violent/asshole behavior seeps to the surface very quickly with alcohol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 09:48 PM |
| 22 | HVM adapt in these tough timesSounds like he’s going as well to his. It’s not like there’s any date locations open? It’d be inappropriate for him to show up to hers with a bottle of wine for a first date. Only fast food/grocery stores/gas stations are open here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 05:26 AM |
| 3 | When she doesn't immediately have sex with you after your reddit pick-up lineI don’t care if my account is shut down. 😅 It takes next to nothing to create a new account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 03:53 PM |
| 4 | On Monday I had a great second date with a guy who lives 20 minutes away. Today he cancelled our plans he claims because of the virus? I call bullshit.Well he might have a vulnerable person that he is around regularly. I don’t blame anyone for self isolating. I’d hate to get it and infect someone who is at risk of dying from complications. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 03:43 AM |
| 16 | Anxiety caused by seeing ex in public?I’d change jobs if possible. It’ll give you a new distraction with the benefit of not seeing him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 07:08 PM |
| 2 | FDS is NOT and will NEVER BE anything like The RedPill or MGTOW, and we are NOT incels. They’re playing tiddly-winks and we’re playing expert level chess.I don't foresee FDS members going out and performing acts of terrorism in the same way that the incels have. :I | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 06:00 PM |
| 21 | Last week I went on a date with a 26 y/o man who said he never wants to get married so that other married men will be jealous of him 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️Did you get up and leave? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Her Baby Daddy Wants her to pay halfsies on a house but refuses to put her name on the deed. He’s a lawyer. 🤦♀️Because LVM don’t think of any woman being their equal match. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 04:19 PM |
| 43 | Vet your partners not only for your safety but also for your pets safety....men poison their wives horses due to “jealousy” smh...I own a horse and have been around them most of my life. These types are easy to weed out. Whenever I hear of stuff like this happening it’s almost always with the girls who gravitate towards men that beat them. It’s never just out of the blue. There’s almost always a long paper trail of domestic violence/sexual assault with these guys. I took my mare camping last summer and while I was gone one of the boarders ex-boyfriend came out and mixed furniture nails into all of the horses evening feed. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 05:14 AM |
| 18 | A Security PSA - How to not get DoxxedThey're never able to convincingly sound like a woman. They cannot relate or connect with women and cannot fake their way into sounding genuine. I've noticed a lot of baited content posted as well as a few regular commentators that have questionable activity on their accounts. (eg they participate in FDS/porn free relationships but still post lewd comments in porn subs.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 11:47 PM |
| 12 | Did I do the right thing?Yeah... I think you cut it at the right time. Spare yourself the pain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 03:50 AM |
| 8 | Men act single even if they have a gf or are marriedThis is my favorite way to weed out LVM in my personal life. If you treat your SO/GF poorly we can’t be friends or friendly acquaintances. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | I(25F) just want to know why he(29M) lost interest in me after a couple of monthsThe best thing you can do for yourself right now is to step away completely. Mute/unfollow his social media accounts if you can't bring yourself to outright block him yet. Make it to where you can't just stumble upon new information/social media posts. It's hard at first but you'll thank yourself later on. Even if he changes his mind it will never be the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 09:10 PM |
| 8 | No means noSure it could but if she wasn’t going to the police he would have been opening a much larger can of worms for himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 04:18 AM |
| 10 | "Trad" pickme says she'd even accept a silicone engagement ring and that OP oughtn't expect to have a say in her ring. Turns out she's a forever girlfriend!I learned this the hard way with one of my grandmothers opal rings. It was of similar size and it shattered over an abrupt temperature change one day. They're more fragile than fine porcelain. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:52 PM |
| 3 | What is a random red flag that holds true? Let’s discuss patterns we’ve observed 👑👇🏽Their best friend is another woman. I'm not dealing with that again. :) I would sooner pull one of my teeth out with a rusty pair of pliers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | I kind of exposed this guy to all the women who could be his fiancé... long story how I found out. My heart was racing! I know it’s the right thing to do but I’m a quiet girl I normally don’t do this stuff but I felt so bad for his fiancé about to marry a cheaterBeing married to a LVM? nah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with gay PickMe friends.I would distance myself from him as a friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:27 PM |
| 20 | The audacityI'm just happy you can't send pics on tinder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:25 PM |
| 6 | Woman breaks up with man because he wore jeans to a date - That's the spirit ladies, lmaoHuh it’s almost like he needs to acknowledge the “putting no effort in” line and realize he’s living the consequences of his own actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 05:02 PM |
| 6 | I want to get sterilized. Advice?You might be better off going with a long term BC option like an implant. Surgical sterilization is significantly less effective than hormonal BC. Many women in my family have had oops babies and ectopic pregnancies (my mother having two at 42 and 46!) from otherwise successful sterilization operations. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 04:59 PM |
| 3 | I want to get sterilized. Advice?I think you may have it confused with a hysterectomy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 04:54 PM |
| 12 | All the men coming out of the woodworkCrickets here but that’s not a bad thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 03:52 PM |
| 26 | Newly trying out OLD again and I already feel regret deep in my bonesIt reads like the MSN messenger profile of a 12 year old with adhd. “Sooo randooom xD xD xD” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Do you consider personal improvements like improved mental health leveling up?Well... yes... It's damn near impossible to take care of your life if your mental health is sitting on you like a hippo with a sugar crash. :P And people treat me so so so much better now that I taught myself how to do gel extensions. So my nails always look nice and I feel much better about myself even if it's just going to the post office in leggings and a sweatshirt. haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 11:30 PM |
| 22 | Men should be more worried about sexdolls than women....While it’s unlikely under normal circumstances. Repeatedly using a crusty cesspool silicone hole would definitely increase their chance of getting sick... I had an ex who would get them repeatedly whenever I was gone for more than a week. It was gross to find out it was self inflicted from his sex toy hygiene. So gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:51 PM |
| 26 | Men should be more worried about sexdolls than women....it'll change when they experience their first UTI. lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:28 PM |
| 11 | The bar is SO LOW. Literally it’s national news that a guy was honest with a woman he was dating by telling her he wasn’t ready to be exclusive. Do you want a f@cking medal?Like... isn’t he married to this gal? So he married her but it doesn’t make them exclusive since he’s not ready? Lol wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:13 AM |
| 19 | Wife permanently alters appearance for husband, he hates it and she thinks she should now apologise??? Wtf.Because it’s obviously fake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 04:51 PM |
| 50 | Wife permanently alters appearance for husband, he hates it and she thinks she should now apologise??? Wtf.This has to be fake. Two good sized tattoos and a piercing in the same day? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 04:50 PM |
| 2 | someone we can help over at relationships subredditIt’s been removed. Do you by chance have a screen cap of it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:08 AM |
| 7 | For Valentine's Day I found out I was the side chickI got a “Happy Valentines Em!” at 11:52 last night. 😒At least I hadn’t slept with him yet. Good riddance for the two of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 07:52 PM |
| 5 | P-E-T-T-YI love it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:42 PM |
| 12 | Pickmeisha’s Valentines DayA very crooked half assed hanging of lights. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Advice please! Second dateNo the trash becomes more determined to stick until goal day. 😬 Don’t give your deadline away! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 01:05 AM |
| 10 | Friendly reminder that some women CAN have a FWB and never get emotionally attachedOk good for you? Lol I don’t see the point in training a fwb to meet my needs in bed. Seems like a huge waste of time and a risk to my health. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 12:26 PM |
| 8 | Kyle has poor spelling and grammar. He also has no idea how to be attractive to a woman. Uber driver fending off gold diggers 😂🤡🤷♀️"Transportation at my own" Aka he works as an Uber driver? haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 09:03 PM |
| 31 | Might be a repost, but just in case it hasn’t been here before:Looking deeper into it. You’re a spinster from 23-26 then become a “thorn back” from 26+ 🤣 It makes sense. I feel pretty damn thorny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 06:43 PM |
| 16 | V-Day PlansI’m single and I’ll be watching my siblings while my parents go out. (Autistic adult siblings.) Not a bad way to spend the evening IMO. We’re going to get pizza, paint sugar cookies and hang out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 04:21 PM |
| 5 | been there and trying not to do thatHow are they supposed to know to pick up their feet if it’s so low. 😂 My beloved horse trips over poles and small jumps but can clear a 4 foot jump with grace. 😂 You have to give them a little challenge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:54 AM |
| 6 | Forever girlfriend supports her LVM financially for years then is asked for a "break" so he can date her roommateOh I hope she takes the advice and runs. Even if it’s super expensive to break the lease and she has to sleep on a friends couch it’s worth it. My last relationship ended with him trying to move in the girl he was cheating on me with. This post brought back a lot of painful memories and I’ve been in the ugliest funk today. I spent 2 months on a couch in order to get away ASAP and it saved me from so much damaging bullshit. I would have gone and lived in my car before coming back home to that BS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:27 AM |
| 6 | Stumbled upon this post in my feed. Has anyone heard of this? The rape sympathizers are strong hereI believe it’s supposed to be barbed so they have to go to the hospital to have it removed without causing great damage. Yeah it could be pulled out but that’s relying on the rapist to have that foresight in the moment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:15 AM |
| 1 | No words.Not any worse than pickmeisha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 05:14 PM |
| 19 | No words.FDS isn’t supportive of sex work and the porn industry. It’s explained in depth with many sticky posts and sidebar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 01:08 AM |
| 3 | My friend sent me this lol, men are fully aware they want us to settleI appreciate it. It just helps me weed them out quicker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:17 PM |
| 7 | She waited 9 years for this... it’s not so much the diamond size, it’s more the fact that it obviously doesn’t even fit properly!Like... a simple gold band would last would cost $300 tops...I wonder if she had to grease her finger up to get it on. Even comparing one of his fingers to hers before going shopping would have resulted in a better fit. 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 06:59 PM |
| 43 | Tinder Lets Known Sex Offenders Use the App. It’s Not the Only One. STAY WOKEIt's just another reason to ask for the persons full name. My bestie was able to save herself recently from a very deceptively charming man who previously went to jail for setting his ex girlfriends house on fire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 12:35 PM |
| 9 | Last text was a week ago, don't buy their excuses lady, even if they're hot afEven if he was going to be legit off the grid he would have said something if he cared. haha I tell my conversation partners if I'm not going to be in cell service for more than a day. Which does happen where I live if you have family that lives up in the mountains that might if you're lucky have a dial up connection for internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 08:51 PM |
| 5 | I think reddit may be affecting my mental healthI made an agreement with myself a few years ago that I wouldn't lurk those subs as well as the relationship advice subs. They're toxic as hell and I don't see any benefit to reading them. So my only interaction was occasionally seeing screencaps of their more ridiculous posts in other subs. I find myself much happier now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 07:08 PM |
| 8 | Who ages like milk, again? Gwen Stefani vs Blake SheltonI'm feeling this getting back into OLD at 26. :I | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 10:00 PM |
| 18 | Pickmeisha's musical anthem.I used to sing it to my kitty growing up. I can handle being a pickmeisha for my pets. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Best and Worst Cities for HVMI was gonna write about Portland but you have it covered. It's "adventures!" all summer and ski/snowboard culture all winter. Not to mention using pot as a placeholder for personality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 04:58 PM |
| 25 | Dads Spend Seven Hours a Year Hiding from Their Families — in the Bathroom: Study Finds.Only -7- hours per year? I've spent more time in the bathroom at work! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 12:13 AM |
| 45 | Guy repeatedly ghosts my friend, goes to dinner with another girl when she calls him outHow many times did she cancel on him? I don’t really blame him for losing interest if she’s constantly flaking. She sounds disorganized. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 03:58 PM |
| 6 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”Yikes so he’s in my area and sounds like a guy I had a very very short fling with a few years ago. Late life circumcision, anger issues and zero respect for women. It isn’t likely to be him. But that is quite a list of similarities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 07:45 AM |
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