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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How do I find the right time to ask out a girl?How do I generate that interest outside being classmates? What if it’s a hobby she isn’t into? | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 04:10 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceI've been in college for 4 years now and honestly still don't know what I'm doing. I'm in an organization on campus, so I know a decent amount of people (most of my friends graduated). I don't get invited to parties, try to be social (which is hard sometimes because I lean more towards introverted than extroverted), and make an impression on people. However, aside from those I already know from my org, I have no clue how to meet new people. Hell, even within the org I have trouble figuring out h… | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 07:19 PM |
| 2 | How do I learn to flirt with girls?I tend to get a bit too aggressive at times | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Meeting women at a dance classI asked them if they had Instagrams, and they gave it to me. But I forgot to follow up with them afterwards It is a try out. I went to the tryout but didn’t get to join the dance team. That’s what I meant | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 01:31 AM |
| 1 | I’m a virgin, what do I do to change?For the pool party, I went to one and met someone there. But I was too slow to ask her out, and she started dating someone else. She’s still with him. As for the anime club, it’s ok, but it’s very male dominated, and the few women there are usually with their boyfriends, or have boyfriends in other schools/countries/deployed/etc. same thing I noticed with a gaming club. Yeah, bars weren’t that easy for me. I just felt that people went here to meet new people. Guess not. What exactly is wrong wit… | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | I’m a virgin, what do I do to change?It’s not anxiety, but not knowing what to say. Or knowing the right time to make a move. Too soon - I end up scaring her away, or if I wait too long, she gets bored and moves on. I’ve approached before. It’s just that nothing came from them. Not even friendship. Most social events are at the start of college, and later on, people enter cliques and aren’t as willing to befriend new people. | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 04:40 AM |
| 1 | I’m a virgin, what do I do to change?It isn’t about lays, but I can’t seem to succeed with women at all. I never got laid once in 4 years of college. I don’t want to be a virgin but never seem to succeed, no matter what | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 04:37 AM |
| 1 | I’m a virgin, what do I do to change?I went to some events. Pool parties, anime club meetings, bars, speed dating. I even approached in classes. I understand that there isn’t a “get” mentality. But I did notice that if I don’t act, she loses interest or ends up dating someone else. This has happened many times. That’s why I tried to be more upfront and aggressive, which scares them off. How do I “pay attention”? I have had some girls admit to me that they were attracted to me, but didn’t show any signs (winking, touching my hand) i… | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Able to talk to women but can’t seem to seal the deal.I knew it was a bad idea. I just wanted to try something new which didn’t end up in me getting friend zoned | /r/seduction | 19/03/19 05:21 PM |
| 1 | I decided to approachShe laughed and said that she wasn’t ready either. Oh, she didn’t volunteer that. Sorry for the miscommunication. I meant that I didn’t get to ask her about anything non class related (hobbies, interests), etc? She didn’t volunteer that. She just asked me what time I took the other class and I told her the time, and noted that we are in the same class. Sorry about that. And for the name, she said good bye to me and I had to say “Wait, I never got your name. I’m (name). What’s yours?” Don’t know … | /r/seduction | 12/02/19 01:42 AM |
| 1 | I decided to approachI asked her a question in class regarding the date of an exam. I formally opened after class by saying “Man, I’m not ready for the midterm!” (Weak, but couldn’t think of anything else). There was some eye contact, and smiles. We were discussing how we hated how our class was hard. She also told me that she saw me in another class that we shared. By receptive, I meant that she answered in full depth about how she hated the class after I asked her how she liked it. I didn’t get time for that exact… | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 05:11 AM |
| 2 | I decided to approach/u/RecyclableBanthas | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 04:46 AM |
| 1 | What to do if a girl blocks you?/u/recyclablebanthas | /r/seduction | 17/10/18 04:45 AM |
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