| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I have a fear of being settled for or being the “safe” choicegold afterthought obtainable engine live hunt cautious continue historical bear This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/25 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Nun Mode?100% | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/25 11:25 AM |
| 2 | What are reasonable expectations on parenting and chores with a baby?you’re right it’s not the same as baby motzart but it’s 2 hours? you never not once put the baby in front of the tv ? it’s not ideal but it’s totally fine for now to ease him into more responsibility don’t reward bad work with less work? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/25 01:52 PM |
| 2 | What are reasonable expectations on parenting and chores with a baby?do not beg. you do have negotiating power- you can LEAVE you don’t have to but the fact you could is still leverage the fact you could just stop cleaning is leverage you may have invested more by virtue of birth but he’s not uninvested either go read why men love bitches on why nagging and begging doesn’t work tbh if a guy doesn’t care- he doesn’t care there’s basically nothing you can do to explain* to him why he should care him caring about you and your wellbeing is basically one of those immu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/25 01:49 PM |
| 2 | He deleted his dating profile in front of me then redownloaded it behind my backyea i would just test the waters and see if he comes clean like isn’t it so nice not having to do hinge chit chat anymore | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/25 04:54 PM |
| 0 | Don't think I'm ever going to get married or have childrenhonestly your past is no one’s business. they are dating you as you are today not who you were then and they do not need to know and they don’t want to know i doubt it even comes up unless you bring it up - no one’s going to be like btw have you ever had psychosis he’s not going to tell you every wretched thing he’s ever done that he knows will turn you off - i’m sure he’s got plenty too just learn to forget, move on, what someone else did to you is not who you are, it doesn’t define you | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/25 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Should I pay for myself?ok you guys are contradicting yourselves tbh bc the mod said it could be any form just lasting not even marriage that it could be bdsm!!! sorry that threw me for a loop from what i originally understood which was apparently correct from the get go it’s just a misunderstanding jfc | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/25 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Should I pay for myself?you’re misunderstanding me i don’t think red pill is bad or that this sub isn’t red pill bc if i understand it correctly it is basically aligned with that stance lmao but i don’t want to go back and forth i don’t think my comment was worth all this i just think we’re speaking past each other but saying virtually the same things in different ways | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/25 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Should I pay for myself?i mean it’s reddit lol 90% of this site is that and having spent more time exploring the side bar links a lot of this sub IS religiously centered from what i read (which i have no issue with) and is about male leading and being submissive and that’s not “lasting marriage any form” that’s a very specific form — which my comment about provider (or protector same thing) mentality was completely consistent with | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/25 10:20 PM |
| – | Should I pay for myself?yea i know but it’s been co-opted since then heavily so much so the adl has an entire article about it go google red pill republican like im not making this up lmao my inference came from how i exclusively have seen it used today to mean trad | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/25 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Should I pay for myself?red pill is widely referred to mean conservative or republican like evangelical- in the united states at least that is the short hand for it….and from many of the posts and comments i’ve seen- i’d wager there is a sizable portion of people on this sub who had the same takeaway … the ADL has a whole article about it i’m not expecting the internet to spoon feed me anything but you can see the confusion bc different definitions of happy - would usually entail wildly different strategies and advice … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/25 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Should I pay for myself?what i am getting from this is it’s dating strategy for a lasting marriage - and the kind of marriage is entirely undefined - it’s any kind of marriage just one that technically lasts ? is that right? what does red pill have to do with that? what is the red pill component here? is it just a like misnomer if you will? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/25 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Should I pay for myself?yes that’s def true i just didn’t get that sense from her post that it was her idea | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/25 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Should I pay for myself?ok i’m genuinely completely confused on what this sub is promoting then i looked around the pinned posts and there’s a lot of guides even the one titled “what is a rpw” can you please elucidate for me what the goal is (since all i see are strategies - and im now unsure what the strategies are angling towards) and how it’s different from trad (in full good faith i’ve been reading for an hour and i genuinely cannot parse out what the end goal here is) | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/25 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Should I pay for myself?he is not a provider or he is and is saving his money for his actual future wife (which he’s saying with his actions is not you) and i can’t fathom anyone on this sub saying otherwise tbh | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/25 11:35 PM |
| – | Jealousy and femininityi think you need to read why men love bitches they have a chapter on jealousy in front of men | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/25 01:22 PM |
| 4 | Is it worth dating a guy who is nice and wealthy but not attractive?i mean everyone’s different personally the guy i had a crush on the first day of school was never the guy i had a crush on by the last day of school, id eventually find some of the less cute guys incredible funny and smart and charming | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/25 10:38 PM |
| 9 | Is it worth dating a guy who is nice and wealthy but not attractive?attraction grows imo … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/25 10:02 PM |
| 22 | How to behave during longer staypersonally since it’s ldr and you’re functionally a house guest: i don’t see an issue with going full on playing house if that’s something you enjoy and he appreciates i def wouldn’t go out of my way to only make food for yourself | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/25 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Dating a millionnairei’ve been on this merry go round a hundred times. it’s not happening because it never does don’t waste your time | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/25 11:39 AM |
| 18 | Why would they friend request me 5 years later?i’ve found that to be a product of boredom and curiosity unfortunately | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/25 04:10 AM |
| 3 | Always meeting men who only want me for sexyea i mean that’s kind of the thing though is they’re all going to fail until the one time it doesn’t right like every relationship before marriage ends in some version of this so it’s kind of expected it’s just hard experiencing it for so long… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/25 11:05 PM |
| 8 | Always meeting men who only want me for sexyea i dont think its you its been my experience too i think these guys are just over represented in the dating market and on apps men seem overall very uninterested in actually committing despite all this trad wife discourse (exception being people who married hs / college sweet hearts they never did adult dating and aren’t in the pool) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/25 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Need help with self-esteemyou’re so real for this i’ve had many of these thoughts as well and the only secret is it is hard and you need to extricate yourself self worth from male approval your life can’t hinge on when a man will rescue you because exactly what if it never happens | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/25 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Am i wrong for wanted to support my boyfriend instead of starting my own business?mm depends what the business is tbh you should take the opportunity this is a boyfriend not a husband sounds like he’s subconsciously warning you you’re over invested… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/25 11:27 AM |
| 6 | Is it cringe or unfeminine to ask a man out, and when you do, what should your expectations be?ad hoc shy elastic pet school plough quicksand bear racial angle This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/08/25 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it cringe or unfeminine to ask a man out, and when you do, what should your expectations be?alive knee plant vanish strong apparatus arrest languid cows lush This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/08/25 11:42 PM |
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