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Royal_W/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 01:09 PM
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Documenting all communication is key. If both parties know what they're saying will be read verbatim by a judge, they'll probably stick to the point and at least try to be polite.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 08:12 PM
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Real talk that sucks, but consider that her leaving now and making a clean break could be a better option than working on something she just doesn't want to fix and building more years of resentment. Honestly it sounds like you have an opportunity to tell her "thanks for all the good times, sorry it didn't work out. Go and be well." And wash your hands of it. If you aren't in therapy, give it a try. They're usually pretty good at leading you to the answers you didn't even know you were looking f…
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 04:53 PM
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The good thing about narcissists is the more of their bullshit you no-sell the harder they flail and the easier it is to see it so it's easier to ignore.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 04:38 PM
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The first thing I asked her was "but why were you looking?" Then she came back like 2 hours later and said "yeah I picked up your phone and snooped through it. But it was about me so I had to. And either way what you wrote down hurt me so explain yourself."
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 04:22 PM
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Idk I tuned it out. Dissociation can be a powerful tool.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 04:21 PM
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That was the first time she came unglued on me and I was like "but you snooped. You found something you weren't supposed to but now it's my fault for writing it down so I could process it in my own time"
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 02:11 PM
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When I realized that I was a victim and my kids were on the menu, it wasn't really a choice.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 01:02 AM
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slapping them upside their head Did you miss the fucking domestic violence part, ding dong? Not all divorces are the same, even if a thousand men walk through here with the same story. I am a man. I am getting divorced. Is this a safe place for me or not?
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 10:15 PM
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🙄 some real solidarity here.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 08:35 PM
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I have a mountain of dv evidence, if I wanted to burn her i could but I'm not trying to fuck up my kids while I'm trying to escape fucking them up worse. You boys got any more nuggets?
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 07:32 PM
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I mean I guess it's good that all I have written down was how horrible being abused every day is. If she wants that read into the record it's no skin off my nose; she's the narcissist with the flawless reputation to protect.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 07:30 PM
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Ironically getting my diary snooped on kind of kicked this whole thing into high gear
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 04:50 PM
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The only time you have is the time you have left. Make it count!
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 03:37 PM
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Thanks for the advice, but I can't find where I asked for any. I love you but you don't know my story.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 03:37 PM
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I can't describe how much weight was lifted once I gave myself time and permission to just fall the fuck apart. Take the time you need now to learn who you are so you can see the path to the life you were meant to live.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 12:55 PM
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Important follow up: if you don't make it this time, don't give up! Knowing you need out is so hard to just admit. You are a survivor of emotional abuse. Survive this and try again.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 12:47 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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