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It all comes down to your budget/monthly expenses. You need to look at the overall settlement numbers - how much you are getting, how much is the house really worth, if nesting - what's your new housing cost; if keeping the house, would you have enough to pay for her equity, if selling the house, are you going to rent or buy and what your budge is. Is that better to keep the current monthly payment or is it going to be higher with the rest of the settlement package - child support/alimony if any…
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/23 05:18 PM
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Try not to get financially robbed. When I was going through my divorce, my ex asked for everything - the house, the savings, alimony, attorney's fees - everything he could think of. AND for a short marriage of 20 months. It was ridiculous. My sugggestion is handling the emotions later and slowly, but be sharp and smart about the money - after all, divorce is a transaction to complete. If you need any help, there's a tool that can get you started with the financial matters. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/23 05:05 PM
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Every asset/debt/payment in divorce is fluid. Is she asking for assets split? If yes, you can negotiate everything as a whole. Thistool may help with that.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 11:15 PM
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There's a tool to speed up financial discovery and save you time. Using that would instantly give you 24 months of financial history & expense tracking.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 11:09 PM
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There's a tool that you can track all expenses in the last 24 months. If she made any purchases that are considered wasteful dissipation of marital assets, you can get credits back in your settlement.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 11:04 PM
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I don't think it's a tactic. She probably took a look at the real estate market and realized it's a better deal to stay in the current house and buy you out. The current interest rate is crazy and the market price is not coming. What you need to do is do the math thoroughly to make sure you maximized your outcome. There's a tool for that. Check i tou.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 08:54 PM
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No, but really do the math right about your equity. If you need help, there's a calculator tool for that.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 08:46 PM
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There's no need to hide in financial discovery. The real deal is about how you negotiate your settlement. There's a tool for financial discovery - automating a lot of the time-consuming, confusing tasks. Hope that helps!
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 08:45 PM
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There's a tool to help you figure out how much you are owed in the equity exactly. If you are on the mortgage, they can't refinance without your signature. Make your you get the new market value appraised by a professional (don't use Zillow estimate).
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 02:36 PM
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The most important thing is to get a thorough understanding of your marital assets/debts, income & expenses, home equity, etc. This tool may be helpful Don't trust everything the divorce attorney says and watch the legal fees. See this post. https://www.reddit.com/r/divorcefinance/comments/18cdmjv/divorce\_attorneys\_are\_they\_worth\_it/
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 09:49 PM
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The most important thing is to get a thorough understanding of your marital assets/debts, income & expenses. This tool can help Don't trust everything the divorce attorney says. See this post. https://www.reddit.com/r/divorcefinance/comments/18cdmjv/divorce\_attorneys\_are\_they\_worth\_it/
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 09:43 PM
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Open a new bank account to receive all the paychecks/deposits from your income. That's considered asset you separately accumulated after "stopping the clock"(filing). There's a tool that you can do financial discovery and monitor expenses in joint account (aka detect if there's any wasteful spending).
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 09:19 PM
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There's a tool to handle the financial disclosure in a divorce. RSUs is about calculating the timing of granted vs. vested.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 09:16 PM
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There's a toolto help with sorting out the financial matters as you discuss prenup. If you have a house, you can also run different scenarios in case of a split. A prenup has to have fair terms in order to be enforceable. So if you say you don't want to support your wife and kid in the case of divorce when the mother has been staying at home to take care of the baby, it's likely going to be fought against. Same with child support. You cannot determine child support before the child is born.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 09:12 PM
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How wonderful that you guys are not fighting over money! That's certainly not the case in most divorces. You can definitely deviate from court guidelines and draft an agreement yourself. Some states would still require you to do the full financial disclosure and lay out the math. For example, in New York, if someone's waiving alimony, the math would still have to be performed in the divorce packet, so the court knows that the parties are aware of the amount of alimony but decided to forgo volunt…
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 08:40 PM
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There's a personal finance tool for divorcing people. Not sure if applies to your case. Maybe the home equity calculator & expense tracking could help. Good luck!!
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 08:30 PM
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