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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Wow. Again, what? I answered your serious question.	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 07:18 PM
-1	Wow. ...what?	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 07:08 PM
-1	Wow. What's that screenshot supposed to prove? She's right. Anti-choice men don't have a place in gender equality discussions. And anyway someone's voicing an opinion in a disrespectful way doesn't make it okay for you to do the same. I never said Becca was a saint, we're all imperfect, but this isn't a very good way of dealing with your feelings towards her. You can't claim to know any of the contributing factors that have led to Becca's feminism being perceived as misandrous. Unless you are actuall…	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 05:35 PM
-4	Wow. Do you not think it an invasion of privacy to post things from her facebook, things she shared with her friends not the world at large (regardless of privacy settings that is the audience most people intend), on a different forum without informing her? A forum which was set up specifically to vilify her? I think it's a bit underhand tbh. Especially as you're supposedly friends with her... I mean hold whatever grudges you want but if you really find her feminism so offensive then call her out on …	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 04:46 PM
-1	Wow. No, a dad walking out on you wouldn't do that to a woman. Also Becca's parents got divorced it's hardly an abandonment issue.	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 04:35 PM
0	Wow. Wow. I sincerely hope no one you know is ever put in a situation where their ability to consent is questionable. Your logic is so cruel. You don't get to decide what does and doesn't constitute sexual assault/rape. People who experience it do.	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 10:57 AM
1	Wow. I'm aware that they're not nice. But my point is they are perceived that way most of the time by most people. Touching without consent is in theory agreed to be wrong but a lot of the time in practise the same people who say that will do it. They often don't even realise. I used the club example because it's what was already being used in the thread but this happens everywhere. I've had men chat me up at bus stops and get on my bus with me even after I'd told them I wasn't interested multiple ti…	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 10:41 AM
-1	Wow. Did you ever think though that with the argument came the threat of violent rape? Physical force isn't the only kind of force that there is, it's not the only kind of abuse that there is. She'd had the argument many times, and clearly it ended in him getting his way regardless. She surrendered rather than having to go through all of that and end up surrendering anyway. He was emotionally abusive and manipulative and it doesn't matter what gender you are. That isn't okay. That doesn't make the se…	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 10:34 AM
2	Wow. Most of the time as it's happening you're either too shocked to do anything or you're busy trying to get the guy off you and the fuck away from you. If a guy's forcing himself on me and there's a friend I can ask to help me extricate myself the first thing I think isn't "we should film this so the internet believes that it happens" it's "I don't want this please help this guy won't leave me alone"	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 10:20 AM
-2	Wow. Where are you getting this from? She did enforce boundaries, she told him she didn't want to have sex. He continued to pressure her. By your own definition what happened to her was rape.	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 10:17 AM
0	Wow. Telling him she wasn't in the mood to have sex IS saying no. He ignored this and bullied her into consenting. Coerced consent isn't consent.	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 10:12 AM
1	Wow. I think you and I have different definitions of "socially acceptable". Well done on not being a totally shit person, but there aren't enough people who would stand up to their friends like that. The point is not everyone who acts like that is a douche in other respects. Totally normal and nice guys will force themselves on women because they think that our no is just a maybe or a "convince me" which it very rarely is. Most women who attempt to report these things to he appropriate authorities ar…	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 09:59 AM
1	Wow. It's safer to act like they are because you see you can't tell which of the many wonderful men in your life will turn out to be abusive and/or rapists. If someone had been savagely attacked by a dog when they were young would you tell them they were stupid if they avoided dogs after that?	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 09:49 AM
0	Wow. It's socially acceptable because it happens all the time and no one steps in to help you when you're being felt up against your will unless you have friends nearby who can force a guy to back off. It's shitty that it happens but it DOES happen. It's true that only a minority of men do it, but a majority of women are affected by it. Do you tell your friends to back off if they touch a woman in a club when she doesn't want them to? Do you stop them making sexist jokes? If not then you are tacitly …	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 09:26 AM
1	Wow. She's Irish, pants are underwear not trousers.	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 09:16 AM