Rswany Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit it Respectfully, your phrasing did not reflect that. For what it's worth I'm not red pill, I'm a progressive but it's definitely an issue. I've personally met people who it has happened to. And it is an issue that is really hard to quantify. There are unfortunately evil people from all walks of life, genders, etc...	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 05:36 PM
8	Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit it If you're genuinely asking, there's an entire subreddit for it /r/supportforthesccused Some may actually be guilty, some may be trolls writing fanfiction but it definitely is a thing. The problem is if it happens to someone you probably aren't going to hear about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 08:30 AM
1	Men attach their worth to sex-having becasue sex-having as a man is attached to your worth. While thats certainly true for some women, Respectfully, this is about broader toxic gender norms and pressures of toxic masculinity. And this is a pretty recognized one, and one that gets reinforced by all genders. Admitting it exists it doesn't take away from any of the issues facing women, it's not a zero sum game. I say this as a progressive dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 09:42 AM
4	More women need to practice what they preach when it comes to sex and dating My lesbian friends are awesome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 07:42 AM
6	People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naive The loud incels are a loud minority. I think you're underestimating how hard dating can be for the average dude. Guy who has a normal friend group, normal hobbies, and starts off with good intentions but still struggles getting dates OLD. There wouldn't be as big of a loneliness epidemic in young men if it was ONLY the red pill social outcasts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 01:14 AM
8	Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf ears Most average dudes don't start out jaded tho. I think in online spaces it's easy to think every lonely, frustrated, dude is someone redpill weirdo but they are the loud minority. In reality the majority are just regular, well-meaning dudes who take the normal advice of "be yourself, don't be a jerk, and you'll find someone!". And then when that doesn't happen, they end up confused and lonely and then they're told "the bar is in hell" and there must be something wrong with you, you're probably a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 07:32 AM
2	The "nice guy" trope is a defense mechanism which women deploy to divert attention from the fact that they are rejecting a guy based on a lack of physical attraction But no one is saying physical attraction should play no role courtship, just that rejecting someone based solely on looks is—by definition—shallow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 06:15 AM
7	The "nice guy" trope is a defense mechanism which women deploy to divert attention from the fact that they are rejecting a guy based on a lack of physical attraction To be fair that's literally the definition of that. Rejecting someone based on something that is skin-deep (their looks) instead of more substantial things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 10:31 PM
2	The "women want..." / "men want..." / "women think..." / "men think..." nonsense is out of control. Genders are not hivemind collectives. Neither gender is collectively conspiring together to create some kind of social outcome, everyone is just trying to deal with their own lives the best they can. so we'll just argue on personal experiences and that's kinda useless lol. A bit presumptuous that that's my experience lol I do okay for myself OLD. But the fact of the matter is the average male experience OLD results in few matches and fewer dates. Redpill sells an alternative dream. For most young men the initial dream is still just 'be yourself, don't be a jerk, and you will find a girl who appreciates you'. It's only after the reality of that dream dissipates when they look for the alternat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 05:04 PM
6	The "women want..." / "men want..." / "women think..." / "men think..." nonsense is out of control. Genders are not hivemind collectives. Neither gender is collectively conspiring together to create some kind of social outcome, everyone is just trying to deal with their own lives the best they can. but being nice and average looking but taking care of yourself will. Respectfully, this unfortunately isn't true, especially OLD. And I think that's why a lot of well-meaning average men fall into bitter red pill/incel idealogies because they start off "doing everything right" and still end up alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 07:56 AM
2	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. That's not what they said lol read it again	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 07:37 PM
1	Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection? Yeah but no one's advocating for repression or stoicism. They were pointing out that it's gender trait perpetuated from toxic masculinity which gets reinforced by men & women alike. One that is often overlooked by even the most progressively minded people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 06:06 AM
1	Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection? lol for what it's worth I'm a progressive dude and I generally consider myself a feminist. And not that it matters but I'm in shape, go to therapy, and don't generally have trouble getting dates. I just also happened to be concerned with the current issues facing young men and how they increasingly so easily fall into redpill/incel and fascist ideologies. And I don't really think dismissing male emotional labor is the right way to go about empathetically guiding men toward more constructive ideo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 03:37 AM
3	Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection? Men identify their emotions, but don't show them because they are forced to be stoic. Thus emotional labor. I suggest you be more empathetic instead of arguing semantics of a psychology textbook.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 06:27 AM
3	Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection? once again, not mutually exclusive. What is your point? That men are unable to perform emotional labor?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 03:08 AM
6	Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection? Acting stoic even when you're sad, stressed, upset, absolutely takes emotional labor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 05:58 PM
7	Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection? Not mutually exclusive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 08:48 AM
1	If love, relationships, companionship, attention and affection of women isnt a reward for men's good behavior, then how come the deprivation of all of those things is some sort of punishment for morally broken behavior? While not irrelevant, I think you're focusing too much on your specific anecdotal experience. People overwhelming live in urban areas (80%).	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 09:10 PM
2	If love, relationships, companionship, attention and affection of women isnt a reward for men's good behavior, then how come the deprivation of all of those things is some sort of punishment for morally broken behavior? I mean, that's my point. And it's even worse these days. I just mean most people who express frustration aren't as lazy or entitled as you implied in your first comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 06:42 PM
0	If love, relationships, companionship, attention and affection of women isnt a reward for men's good behavior, then how come the deprivation of all of those things is some sort of punishment for morally broken behavior? I think the issue arises from the fact that the average guy probably gets like 2-3 matches a week (if they're lucky). So they don't even have the chance to put in the effort to weed out all the incompatible people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 06:31 PM
8	If love, relationships, companionship, attention and affection of women isnt a reward for men's good behavior, then how come the deprivation of all of those things is some sort of punishment for morally broken behavior? This is generally not true in almost every online space.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 06:26 PM
7	If love, relationships, companionship, attention and affection of women isnt a reward for men's good behavior, then how come the deprivation of all of those things is some sort of punishment for morally broken behavior? If that were true, it would be a much smaller, niche issue since most people live in cities. For example, a guy takes a new job in a new city, makes friends with a couple coworkers but struggles to find a real social circle, gets lonely and tries meeting someone on dating apps, but like most average dudes, struggles to have much success. It's not like big cities like LA and NYC have a reputation of dating being easy there. I don't want to be too negative though, just pointing out that most guys …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 06:19 PM
35	If love, relationships, companionship, attention and affection of women isnt a reward for men's good behavior, then how come the deprivation of all of those things is some sort of punishment for morally broken behavior? I think people on this sub (and in general) underestimate how easy it is for a completely normal, well-intentioned guy to struggle with dating and loneliness. That's also partly why they fall into toxic red pill groups because the the red pill groups are the only groups that acknowledge them whereas healthier, more constructive circles tend to overlook.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 07:44 AM
3	Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2) Not to completely excuse it, but a lot of masculinity teaches boys that an alarming amount of basic hygiene & grooming are "gay" or "unmanly" with even women sometimes reenforcing that idea. So it's not completely 'men choose to be gross because they're lazy and entitled"	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 08:48 AM
6	Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2) Yeah if men had hundreds of average matches throwing themselves at them on dating apps their standards would naturally inflate, too. It's not gender, moreso it's numbers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 08:42 AM
4	Society and women definitely equate being unable to attract a woman with being a loser People will essentially assume there's something wrong with you. Must be a creep in private, or have other issues, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 08:30 AM
1	Society and women definitely equate being unable to attract a woman with being a loser It's definitely a bigger issue of societal pressure. You don't need people explicitly telling you you're a loser to feel it. It's the toxic masculinity that gets reenforced by both men & women tying sexual success to masculine worth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 07:58 PM
3	This whole idea of "get with someone you're not attracted to because it's your duty as a citizen" I don't think anyone is saying you should get with someone you have ZERO attraction to lol, just that good relationships are usually built on more than just superficial attraction. My previous ex was not a "love at first sight" situation, if I had seen her at the bar I probably would have thought she was not my type, but she had a good personality and we had a good connection and I ended up dating her for 2 great years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 10:23 PM
3	Most ppl want to be the Adorers They never said that doesn't mean they wont leave haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 12:07 AM
1	Women would finally understand why dating is unfair for many men if job hunting process was similar to men's modern dating experience They’re sure as fuck trying Eh, aside form the weirdos who comment creepy things on their Instagram posts—which I wouldn't even consider realistically trying—this isn't true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 06:35 PM
-1	Women would finally understand why dating is unfair for many men if job hunting process was similar to men's modern dating experience I don't have much of a horse in this race but average dudes are not matching with IG models.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 08:31 AM
2	Why don’t men value friendships with each other? ? I don't think it's controversial to acknowledge that societal gender norms discourage men from being emotionally open, or vulnerable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 08:32 PM
6	Start raising "normie" sons 100% A "loneliness epidemic" wouldn't be a an epidemic if it only affected outcasts and weirdos. I think a huge reason so many men fall into the red pill stuff is because they do all the normal, "right" stuff in life and still end up lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 08:50 AM