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All right. Back to the original question. I'd say the best tips are to be submissive to him (cook, clean, and let him to have the freedom to do as he chooses inside and out of the bedroom). If i had to look at all the women in my life and ask which one was the best wife, it would be my Colombian grandmother. Every time I visited her, she had dinner cooking or ready on the table and would clean up afterwards if I ever made the slightest move to get up and clean my dishes. The house was always tid…
/r/askTRP18/06/16 12:05 PM
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As joking as the original comment was, you tell me a guy that would turn down a foursome with three hot girls and I'll tell you he's either lying or gay.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 11:07 AM
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This sounds like the start of a joke
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 10:47 PM
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Interesting that you mention that playing video games isn't appropriate socially because it doesn't include most women. But that comment is only relevant if you are actively pursuing a woman. There was one occasion before I was unplugged that I got laid by a girl by playing video games all night when my roommates were having friends over, heading to a party, and then heading back to play video games. In the situation, I completely ignored the girl I ended up sleeping with because I was too immer…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 09:57 PM
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By nature a scarcity mentality is correlated to a desperation mentality. If OP thinks that this is one of the very few girls he can get with, he's going to try harder and over-invest in this girl because she is willing to spend time with him. He views attention as sign of attraction when it is simply not the case. As such, he suffers a poor return on investment.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:21 PM
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Not necessarily, but it is definitely possible. Any area that someone is insecure in can project into their actions. I, for instance, don't feel comfortable dancing in public. Others can sense this in my mentality. They know that I don't do it with others (scarcity) often because of how I am. I think someone that would be financially insecure would show it too. They would be less hesitant to spend money on frivolous things where others would perceive them as cheap, which may carry over into othe…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 07:54 AM
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It's all sunshine and rainbows in Betaville, a land full of unicorns who love guys just the way they are.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 03:03 AM
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What a loser. If this guy had any self-respect he would cut her off after that incident. None of my friends would ever let someone disrespect them like that, but if they did and I found out about it, I would tear them a new one. This guy screams a scarcity mentality.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:26 AM
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Yeah I'm not going to go into detail, because you already have seen enough red flags to know how much of a slut she is. Just dump her and move on. You've got a professional carousel rider and you're just the idiot that's working the ride. Leave it to some other chump.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 07:43 PM
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I remind myself that I can do better than my ex and that every extra rep is making me a stronger person inside. And I more importantly do it for my kids. No, I don't have any kids yet, but I want to be the best father that I can be and I would be cheating them out of the best mentor they deserve if I didn't give 100%.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 03:29 PM
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Your only motivation should be creating a better version of yourself. If you're doing it for other people, you will never find the validation in life that you want. You'll always be chasing it.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 03:19 PM
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That's just your perception that it's a dumb answer. For someone else it could be enlightening. You're giving excuses as why it's harder for your to do something when life throws you a curveball, which is beta behavior. A stoic man follows the curve and hits it out of the park. There is always going to be someone or something working against you in life. It's up to you to overcome that obstacle. No one else can do that for you.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 03:17 PM
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In all honesty /u/LemonGranade is right. You just get back on the horse. If you can't be non-reactive against someone giving you advice, which you clearly displayed, how do you expect to hold frame with women? There is no secret formula to getting back in the game, if you're motivated enough, you'll just do it.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 03:08 PM
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No, saying that your disappointed is beta. Simply go radio silent, wait a few weeks and try to re-ignite something if you choose to do so. Don't bring up what happened, be unaffected by it. It's likely that she'll bring it up and ask where you were. Just be nonchalant and game her as you normally would.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 04:33 PM
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Lead by action. It doesn't matter what you say or do as long as it isn't as blatantly obvious as "Hey, wanna fuck?" Girls covertly communicate and saying come sit on my bed or aggressively kissing both lead her to the same conclusion which is that you're trying to have sex. Just be confident in what you're doing, hold frame, and avoid the shit tests. Trust your gut. If you think what you're doing is beta it probably is. Ask yourself what an Alpha would do in that situation and do it.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 06:36 PM
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As someone who went to spring break in PCB about a week ago, it was honestly one of the most awesome and craziest experiences I've ever had as a single guy. It was relatively easy to bring girls back to the room and girls will go a long way for beads. The word boyfriend simply doesn't exist with girls on vacation. One of my friends who's gay stayed with a group of 5 girls. Not only did the 3 singles girls hookup with guys, but the 2 girls in relationships also brought guys back. Don't listen to …
/r/askTRP26/03/15 04:57 PM
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You've done well, but you've made some mistakes too. As soon as she came back to your dorm, you should have put the moves on her. Before you say she isn't like that, she isn't that type of girl, you're wrong. AWALT. Kissing a girl isn't going to get her invested in you, but having sex with her will. Furthermore, stop trying to escalate with her over text. It's not going to work; texting is for logistics only. And stop using your limiting belief of being in LTR's stop you from becoming better at …
/r/askTRP26/03/15 04:53 PM
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Interestingly enough my first girlfriend said this to me either when we were dating or when I was breaking up with her. Her words verbatim were "I love you and I need you." To me that implies that they are jointly linked as you mentioned.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 07:46 PM
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Thanks! I'm stuck in the number closing stage. Dates are far and few in between, but I generally come off as a little too cocky/funny at first. Do you think I need more rapport/comfort before I joke around with them?
/r/askTRP11/03/15 07:15 PM
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I disagree with the statement. I am going to keep improving, but it would be nice to know how to judge the progress I'm making.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 04:54 PM
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As someone who has ex-girlfriends and doesn't have a large social circle full of girls, you're using your lack of interactions with women as a justification of why you're failing. Don't go to the crutch (your ex), because she'll know she owns you. If your city has slim pickings, go somewhere that has more opportunities. And for the love of whatever deity you believe in, don't bother your friends with your problems. Guys don't want to hear about other guys problems and your female friends will lo…
/r/askTRP10/03/15 06:33 PM
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The two decisions, ignoring her and fucking her are not mutually exclusive. First of all you have oneitis and what you're doing is coming from the scarcity mentality. If you respond to her, you're already beginning to chase her. Don't say anything and if she's interested in you, she'll move heaven and hell to get into contact with you at which point you can then send the message to invite her to a martini bar, even though I'd just pick a regular bar because a martini bar seems like you're too in…
/r/askTRP10/03/15 06:09 PM
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Wow, thanks for the valuable insight! Were the only mistakes I made punishing her for being compliant and digging myself into a hole early?
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:46 PM
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I appreciate the advice. Next time I'll condense it.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:12 PM
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Thanks. My only regret is not closing her a little bit sooner, but I'm a a fan of building a little rapport with girls on Tinder because you don't have the same first impression you make in person.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:10 PM
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Most people generally begin singing with the intent to become famous and make money. I doubt it's any different for Ed Sheeran.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 05:46 PM
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His lyrics are as blue pill as they come, but that's how he makes money. Actions speak louder than words and you only see the face that he's putting on. If I could get a fuck ton of money singing about shit that women eat up, I'd do it in a heartbeat, whether I actually believe it or not.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:08 PM
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I figured that there would be a post on this somewhere, but I couldn't find it. Thanks for the link. Yesterday I made my first cold day approach in public and wound up scoring a number out of it. I definitely had more anxiety doing the approach that actually conversing, but I found it difficult being able to connect to her at times. I'm just proud of myself for doing it and I know I will get better.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 09:22 PM
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That's not our decision to make for you. It's up to your ethical perception. Some people in this sub-reddit would have no problem doing it and others wouldn't. I consciously know what decision I would make, but when put in the situation, I would know how I would truly respond. As with other trp tips, look within yourself to find the answer.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 08:41 PM
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It was one of my fraternity brothers that was mentioning it to me, but I've already established my frame in the fraternity. They accept that I'm not going to back down on my standpoint and that their views are irrelevant to me when it comes to game, at least with respect to being nice to women. Again, I understand that there is a difference between nice and beta, but I use them interchangeably.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 08:12 PM
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I'm not sure what point you're trying to communicate, but no I don't exude negativity. I'm a positive, moderately energetic person.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 04:43 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I've just been adding a little more touch in lately, leading, and approaching more. Other than that I haven't really changed much as I've always been cocky & funny. I'm seeing this girl Thursday at a party that we were both invited to, so if things go well I'll post a FR.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 03:29 AM
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One of my RP inspirations is my roommate. The dude is shorter than me, maybe 5'3" and is one of the most suave motherfuckers out there. He plated a 6'0" girl and smashed a different 6'0" girl last night. His game is through the roof and he knows it. The kid has been teaching me a lot of tips & tricks lately and wouldn't you know it, I banged the 6 foot girl's friend back at our place too. By his attitude you'd think that he's at least 7 feet tall and god damn do I respect him for it.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 07:41 PM
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Essentially that's the way I saw it too. She is used to everyone catering to her.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:15 PM
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Thanks for the support TRP bro.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:14 PM
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I didn't really think I was being an asshole in particular to her, but I guess I gave off that vibe. I'm a work in progress and I appreciate the advice. And trust me, she thinks she's hot shit, claiming she's different from other girls, but AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:01 PM
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Nope, not bitter at all. While you may perceive it that way, I perceive it as holding my ground. She tried friendzoning me and I said no thanks, as this sub advises. When she tried challenging my frame of not being friends, I wouldn't let her break it. I have more important things to do and she knows this.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:58 PM
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No, sorry for the confusion. Just making out because she's a virgin.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 08:49 PM
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Thanks. I know I made the right decision now.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 08:08 PM
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I just learned my mistake. I had to make it first to understand why other people don't do it. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 08:08 PM
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Thanks man. I appreciate the advice. I've been going hard at the gym and my friends have started to notice. I've gained some muscle weight, recently got a tattoo, and have been getting more RP. I don't give a shit what I say to women and I'm damn proud of it. And Monday I'm starting to take Salsa classes so I can hone in on my dancing skills.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 07:58 PM
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Thanks for responding. That's the way I saw it to. I saw it as her attempt to friendzone me and I'm don't have enough time for her bullshit. Moving on.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 07:52 PM
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I know I'm late on this one, but I read this and thought of the perfect amused mastery response: "I'll remember that when we're in the bedroom, if we even make it there".
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 08:48 PM
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I definitely think that it was probably my eagerness, so I've scaled back my efforts and haven't brought up the rejection, although it wasn't a rejection, but a wishy washy answer, but let me stop my hamstering. Unfortunately I work with her, albeit we are on different floors. I used to sit with her, but today I started sitting with a different group of people and she approached me and sat with us. She's definitely playing hard to get, but I really don't care at this point.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 08:01 PM
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As a younger guy on this forum that is 21 years old and just beginning the transition, I love this comment and your post. Everything in life that I've gotten, I've waited to happen. Now that I'm approaching random people, working out, and changing my lifestyle from moderately outgoing to extremely outgoing, I'm improving my SMV. I had a date with a girl and I thought it went well, but she rejected my second date offer. Old me would have moped and bitched about it for days. New me got over it in …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 05:31 PM
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Holy Shit. If I could upvote this post a million times I would. When my ex broke up with me 2 months ago for the first two weeks I didn't beg or plead, but I did pursue at the urging of a few women. I think that pushed my ex further away. Since the last time I talked to my ex I have gone no contact about 40 days. While I have yet to hear from her and I don't really care if I do, I noticed how beta my actions seemed even though I just wanted to show I cared in general.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 11:50 PM
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