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They usually just find whichever ones they can say ‘don’t count’ for whatever reason and remove them from their mental list I. My experience . It was only head/it was with another girl/I was on vacation/trains only count as one. You know, that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:59 PM
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Be honest with yourself: is working yourself into a weird rage post about this scenario you made up in your head really productive or helpful in any way, for you or anyone else? You’re never going to be an attractive woman, stop worrying about their life, do the best you can do with your own
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:52 PM
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I was just going to make a post about this, agree completely. Whenever I see people who think single women are happier, they’re always comparing the best case scenario of a single women (high income doctor/model/CEO with no kids, tons of friends, cool hobbies) wit the worst case scenario for married women (working full time and taking care of young kids with a husband who varies between neglectful man child and abusive sociopath). I think people forget that the average married couple actually li…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:08 PM
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Both of the articles in OP cite the same guys opinion, not a study. His interpretation has also been debunked repeatedly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:19 PM
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I’m bringing wench back 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:27 PM
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If slut shaming promiscuous women is bad, how come they made all the words used for it so fun? I can’t just remove words like skank, hoebag and wench from my vocabulary
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:20 PM
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Actually, Kiera Knightley is slurping me off on my megayacht right now. Sorry you can’t relate!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:09 PM
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It always does seem the least bit suspicious that the average woman is 5’4, 170 lbs, earning like $20 per hour with an associates and facially average, yet somehow every woman on PPD not only describes herself as an unspeakably gorgeous CEO/supermodel, but also somehow manages to exclusively interact with other equally beautiful and successful women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:03 PM
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Re: #2 I think a lot of the confusion on the personality vs dating success comes from people who conflate ‘personality’ with being a good person or a radical feminist. You’ll usually see the ‘maybe it’s your personality!!!’ crowd say that whoever they’re talking to should go to therapy or learn to respect women when those aren’t really the aspects of personality that matter much in being attractive, since we all know some misogynist men and men who are all around bad people can still do well wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:48 PM
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Nothing I love more than waking up with a steak knife artfully placed next to my head and a handwritten note saying she had to cheat on me all those times because her Capricorn was in retrograde 😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:45 PM
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Biggest red flag out of: 1) Really into astrology - like bases serious life decisions off of their horoscope 2) Crystals and energy healing 3) True crime fanatic Go!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:38 PM
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Q4All: if men could get the same sex they get in a LTR with different women while being single, same frequency/quality/attractiveness of partner, how many do you think would choose to be in committed relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:36 PM
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If Abby was having sex with both Jack and the other guy, or if she wanted to have sex with Jack and he wanted to wait, then it would be okay But realistically no, she’s probably stringing Jack along in the scenario presented. If she likes Jack, wants to have sex, and is okay with casual sex why is she making him wait? Whenever I see the scenario play out irl the answer is that she’s just not that into him. And if she actually likes the guy, she should understand that no one wants to be the guy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:54 PM
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Yeah man I feel the same way (also 6’5”). So many women I meet are intimidated by my 8 figure salary and massive cock. They always think they can’t manage to keep up with my high flying, big dick having, extremely tall lifestyle. I’m so jealous of all the short poor guys out there who don’t have to deal with this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:02 PM
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Well shit if your dad says so, that’s all the proof I need! Thanks for clearing that up!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:20 AM
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Tell me you’ve never worked in a nursing home without telling me you’ve never worked in a nursing home
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:15 AM
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I feel like if you searched for it, you could find some reason why most relationships are uneven. Is it uneven for a white woman to date a black man? What about a neurotypical and an autistic person?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:50 PM
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I think no matter what your definition is, there’s always going to be some arbitrary line where it crosses into. Like is holding hands with someone else cheating? Or sexting? What about emotional cheating? That’s why I think most of these conversations about what boundaries are and aren’t okay are a little pointless, ultimately there’s going to be some arbitrary line somewhere and that’s going to change from person to person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:47 PM
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When these discussions come up on of the more common things I see from the anti-age gap crowd is that someone’s brain doesn’t fully develop until 25, so they can’t make the rational decisions or realize if they’re being used. Which makes sense to some extent But why does that only apply to young woman dating old men? I never see these people campaigning to raise the voting age to 25, to give parents control over the childrens finances until that age, to ban joining the military before 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:36 PM
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It’s cheating if it violates boundaries agreed on by both people in the relationship I think it’s a reasonable boundary for people to set if that’s something that bothers them, they just have to accept that they’re eliminating a big portion of the dating pool. In my experience most women either don’t care or just don’t want to know about it. Also just curious: would you also consider reading a fanfic/erotic novel where the narrator acts as a reader stand in to be cheating? Why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:49 PM
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I forgot to write ‘and they can’t change it’ in my comment, my mistake. I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:10 PM
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Not in and of itself. If someone’s sex drive does decline drastically or disappear for whatever reason and they can’t change it it’s a shitty situation for both but not their fault. Doesn’t mean it’s not a reason to leave if it’s mismatched enough/can’t be resolved but it’s not anyones fault either The only time I would really see it as their fault would be a scenario where the woman/person always had a low sex drive/attraction to the other person but misrepresented it in the beginning with freq…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:26 PM
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I’m really sorry to hear that, kidney disease is terrible Have you ever looked into home hemo at all? It’s becoming a lot more accessible the last few years and some people prefer it over the PD clinic/maintenance they have to keep up with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:23 PM
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In the grand of scheme of things, there’s like a billion grandpas out there, but only so many great asses Sorry gramps, that’s the way the game goes. Rest easy big guy 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:58 PM
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Eh, I’m in a relationship with my partner for a lot of reasons including her being a good and empathetic person , but to me I’m not necessarily attracted to her, physically, for those reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:56 PM
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I get a lot of Tik Toks talking about how men/women are so shallow because they only care about xyz But what does shallow even mean? And what makes caring about ‘shallow things’ inherently bad? Unless you’re talking about being attracted to someone for their morals/ethics, what makes being attracted to someone because they’re funny or confident ‘deeper’ then being attracted to someone because they have a fat ass or they’re a squirter or whatever?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:28 PM
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Nah not really A woman who’s about equivalent to a man in terms of attractiveness and lifestyle before their 20s is still going to have more options in her 30s Obviously if she gains 50 lbs and has a platoon of baby daddies or whatever she’s not going to have as many options, but you could say the same thing about her male equivalent
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:32 PM
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I guess I’ve always found that people who follow/support rigid gender roles because ‘that’s just how things are’ still have sexist attitudes to some extent, but your experience may vary. I think I’d group your example, cooking because men like women who cook for them in a separate category. I see benevolent sexism as more moral statements on how gender relations should be. If the sexism inventory they’re using in that study is this one, a lot of the questions are worded more like that, like ‘Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:56 PM
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I never thought about that, thanks! I still like my GoPro idea better though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:34 PM
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I mean what’s really the alternative for studies about relationships/dating? Unless you want to hookup a bunch of GoPros to teenage virgins to get the real story we can pretty much only rely on survey studies or anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:25 PM
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I think the problem here is that benevolent sexist attitudes/actions are often paired with or exist because of hostile sexist beliefs. They talk about this a little in the intro section of the first study. Ex: Men should provide for and protect women (benevolent) because women are weaker and not capable of providing for a family (hostile), or men should plan dates and activities for women because they’re too dumb to do it themselves Don’t get me wrong, I think ideally most women would prefer a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:16 PM
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Always thought it was odd how women on this subreddit describe sex, especially PIV sex, like some lifeless, boring act they despise doing and assume most other women feel the same. Never matched up with my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:58 PM
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Dating over a certain age comes with a lot of problems for women specifically, especially if they're single parents or something along those lines. I would assume r/dating is mostly male because it's a more generalized subreddit and therefore more closely represents the average Reddit users, who are mostly boys/men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:31 PM
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Uhh yeah I think you may have been reading a lil too much Hemingway dude Women mostly just don't really think about men they consider weak or pity them, they don't actively want them to die lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 06:58 PM
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Very effective imo Volunteering especially puts you in social situations with the kind of women you generally won't find on OLD, and more relationship-oriented women, IME. Especially if it's something that involves kids or people with special needs, shows a little of that nurturing/provider aspect of yourself. Obviously don't go with the sole intent of meeting women, volunteer is great to do on its own, though, but it's definitely something that can happen. I met almost all my college gfs/dates …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 07:57 PM
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In women, increased physical attractiveness decreased their mean sexual partner count. A decreasing BMI decreased mean sexual partner count. Thinness is a dimension of attractiveness in women so this pattern was consistent with the pattern seen in physical attractiveness. The wealthier their parents, the more sexual partners they had. Having known a fair number of chunky sorority girls with rich parents in my time, this all checks out pretty well with my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 07:30 PM
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Men, especially Gen Z/younger Millenial men, usually aren't socially connected to other men in the way that women often are. They tend to only have a few friends, who tend to be at a similar social status/attractiveness level as them. So, if all your friends have no idea how to date, and especially if you don't have a father or other male family figures in your life, the only person you know that probably has your best interest at heart is your mom, who probably gives terrible dating advice. Bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:50 PM
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has a career/in school/hobby related interest that brings in money This is worldwide, but only 13% of people are actually emotionally invested in their work has a moderate to large social circle Eh, depends on your definition. The average person probably has 5-10 people they regularly hang out with outside of work, decreasing with age. has a social life True goes on at least score 3-8 dates a year With the same person or multiple? has 4+ sexual partners a year (depending on ideologies etc. of co…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:58 PM
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I think some men just don't really know what most attractive women look like without makeup lmao Usually when men say they don't like makeup, they're talking about like neon eyeshadow and clown blush, not what most women generally wear on a regular basis
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:06 PM
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A) Have you experienced any of the following during childhood?; My mom was an alcoholic B) Have you experienced any of the following in adulthood?; Also an alcoholic, but I'm 1 year sober now! C) Do you currently experience low mood, feelings of worthlessness, (social) anxiety or depression? Yes for all four D) Do you feel socially isolated/ unable to connect with others? Do you have a supportive social group? Yes, but I didn't until relatively recently in my life. I've never really been able to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 09:22 PM
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Almost all the things you listed only become relevant after meeting a certain baseline standard for attractiveness. But the attractiveness comes first, for both men and women in most cases And while most of the physical characteristics men select for can be achieved by most women fairly easily with a little effort (gym/don't eat like a pig, makeup, etc.), the ones women select for are often more innate (height, facial structure, ethnicity).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:48 PM
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Because women's dating advice given to men is largely meant to solve the problems in dating that women experience, not men. The dating advice women generally give is to do things they would want out of a dude they're already seeing casually to turn it into something more serious (treat her well, spend lots of time with her, get along with her friends, etc.). The dating advice men are generally looking for is how to get their foot in the door and even get into that casual dating phase, which isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 03:58 PM
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Virtually all women are, yeah When women say they want you to be 'open', they usually mean you can be sad your gram-gram died for a couple of minutes or so, but then it's right back to the stoicism, because women largely hate being in the position of providing, whether that be comfort or financial It sucks, but I've had way more success dating when I hide those 'unmasculine' parts of myself than otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:45 PM
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Male INFP Extroversion: 33 Emotional Stability: 4 Agreeableness: 76 Conscientiousness: 76 Imagination: 76 About what I expected, although my extroversion/introversion varies a lot day by day. I do think the MBTI is more interesting, although less scientifically validated than the Big 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 04:32 AM
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that's what I'm saying lol But when that's all you see in front of you, that's what people's perception is going to be A lot of the problems men have dating in the 21st century isn't just about online becoming a way to meet people, it's about community and social engagement falling off drastically
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 01:09 AM
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Because while a majority of women might not be shallow and shitty, the majority of women that are perpetually on dating apps or getting white girl wasted at the bar on a Wednesday probably are Most people on reddit likely don't even have a real avenue to meet good women, since most people on Reddit in my experience aren't religious or involved in community/social groups
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:02 PM
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I think if you can't find something to talk about with your SO each day, even if it's for a short time, you probably don't have many shared interests and should either work on that or split Literal constant communication can be very exhausting though. I had an ex who wanted to be on Facetime pretty much all day (8+ hours), which is just too much time to spend with anyone, for me. I don't think it's a majority of women that want this, but there's definitely some out there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 12:15 AM
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Often a hard balance between texting too much and coming off as clingy and not texting and coming off as completely uninterested. Or he could have lost interest or figured you weren't really interested, could go either way really
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:59 PM
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I’m not saying it’s right, but how much can you really blame a man for taking a (rare) opportunity to get his dick wet? Uhh... a lot? You're really stretching this 'men are adult babies' trope to a crazy degree here And there's at least some possibility that the other woman doesn't even know the man has a partner, or thinks they have an arrangement etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 05:21 PM
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There's good and bad with it, really. I'm not sure how directly declining marriage rates are correlating to declining birth rates, it seems to be more linked to economic circumstances and the availability of contraceptives, while a lot of the drop in marriage rates is because people don't feel obligated to marry once they get pregnant anymore (see the shotgun wedding percentage going down in the above link). So maybe the prevalence of broken homes is staying the same or increasing, while the abs…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 05:17 PM
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The lowest rates of divorce for married couples is for couples who married 30-35 And I don't think there's really any data to support the idea that the majority of Western women ride the CC between 17-30, maybe a large minority at best. Ultimately, you're talking about a scenario that happens to some degree, but definitely doesn't represent the average relationship at that or any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 10:21 PM
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